St. John of the Cross Parish 5005 South Wolf Road ~ Western Springs ~ 708-246-4404 ~ www.stjohnofthecross.org This is my commandment: love one another as I love you. 6th Sunday of Easter May 10, 2015 From the Desk of Fr. David Dear Parishioners, Happy Mother’s Day! It is a great day to celebrate those women who have given us life in all its forms. Biological life, certainly. There is an unbreakable bond between parent and child even when love is imperfect. Grandmothers are living examples that before your parents were born there was life! Godmothers give spiritual life as women of faith who inspire and guide us throughout our lives. Adoptive mother’s give life by risking to open their hearts when something or someone else failed to do that, or when an other mother did it most generously by giving up what she loved most. We honor all women who transmit life by nurturing others. I ask your prayers today for women struggling with infertility and for expectant women. Pray for mothers who have lost their child through illness or violence. Pray for those mothers who are estranged from children or from the fathers of their children. Women living with the after effects of having had an abortion truly need our prayerful support. Pray those who have found healing through Project Rachel. As part of our parish observance of Mother’s Day we have asked a number of women, some mothers some not, different ages and stages of life, to share reflections with us at Mass. I hope hearing a woman’s voice on this day is both prayerful and powerful for everyone who gathers with us at the Table. Last week’s celebration of Fr. Joe’s 60th anniversary was wonderful. As limited as his contact had to be with individuals, he certainly appreciated everyone’s presence. Thanks to those who sent pages that were included in the binder that we presented to him. I’m sure he will enjoy reading it all for many hours to come. The Parish Advisory Council (PAC) meets this week to review the priorities from the listening sessions in April for the To Teach Who Christ Is Campaign (TTWCI). Over two hundred suggestions were made, many of which clustered around common issues. Once the PAC signs off on the priorities we hand over our data to the consultants for the archdiocese who will help prepare the case to be presented to you at the end of summer. I think it is going to be exciting. First Communions, Mother’s Day, anniversaries, parish elections, graduations from many different schools and many more activities make May a busy month. Take time to notice the new life all around you. Pentecost is only two weeks away. Peace, Fr. David I thank you, Creator of us all, for my mother. I thank you that she gave me life and nurtured me all those years. She gave me my faith, helping me to know you and to know Jesus and his ways. She taught me how to love and how to sacrifice for others. She taught me that it was okay to cry and that I should always tell the truth. Bless her with the graces she needs and which you want to give her today. Help her to feel precious in your eyes today and to know that I love her. Give her strength and courage, compassion and peace. Bless her this day with your love. Creighton Online Ministries St. John of the Cross Parish www.stjohnofthecross.org May 10, 2015 Page 2 God Bless our First Communicants St. John of the Cross Parish www.stjohnofthecross.org May 10, 2015 Page 3 Lifelong Learning May our Easter joy be complete and our love be sure . May we grow in our faithfulness to the Father ’s will and share more perfectly in Jesus’ risen Life . Background on the Gospel In John's Gospel, we hear Jesus affirm that he is known by the Father and that his disciples will know the Father by knowing Jesus. In this passage, however, Jesus reminds his disciples that this knowledge is to be expressed in love. Those who know Jesus well—and Jesus says that his disciples do know him—will love one another. Knowledge leads to love, which leads to action. John reminds his community that Jesus taught that love is the sign of a true disciple and, thus, a true Christian. Even more, a true disciple shows a particular kind of love, sacrificial love. In the Greek, there are two words for love that are used in this passage. The first is agape. The second is philia. The first word is most often used to describe love for other persons and for God. It is understood as the highest and most perfect kind of love. The second word is used to describe the affection of friendship. In this context, John appears to use these words as synonyms. The root of the Greek word for friend comes from this second term for love, philia. By using this word, Jesus transforms the terms of his relationship with his disciples and redefines for them their relationship with God. In the Hebrew Scriptures, faith in God made one a servant of God. Here Jesus teaches that his relationship to his disciples is based on friendship, not servitude. John reminds his community that Jesus also taught that a disciple is one who had been chosen—one who had been chosen by Jesus. To be chosen by Jesus, however, is not to be set apart from the world. Instead, to be chosen by Jesus is to be sent to serve the world as he did. The disciples of Jesus were chosen and were sent into the world to bear fruit by serving others, by sacrificing for others, in love. This reading, like last week's, is part of Jesus' Last Supper discourse. In the context of John's Gospel, these words are spoken before Jesus' Crucifixion. We read his instruction to the disciples in light of his death and Resurrection. We know that Jesus himself gives us the greatest example of the kind of love and service that he teaches to his disciples. He has, in fact, laid down his life for his friends, for his disciples, and for us. Through his death and Resurrection, we have received the grace to love others as Jesus has commanded. Excerpts from Loyola Press. Living the Gospel Immediately after Jesus expresses the desire that his joy become complete in us, he commands us to “love one another.” What is his joy? The deep resonance of risen Life that arises from being faithful to the Father’s will. What is the love he commands? Laying “down one’s life.” Joy and love are the Easter mystery made visible. Love always brings us to Good Friday, because then we gaze upon the Jesus who lays down his life. This Jesus calls us to lay down our own life, to give ourselves over to the kind of self-giving life that brings Life to others. Joy always proclaims Easter Sunday, that day when Life burst forth from death. We who remain in Jesus’ love and welcome his joy in us embody the Easter mystery, make visible God’s saving events, witness to bearing the fruit of the Father’s gift of Life. Our love for one another is to emulate Jesus’ love—a love that is total, demanding, self-emptying, self-giving. Jesus doesn’t ask us to do anything that he hasn’t done first. Yes, the command is simple: “love one another.” The demand is imposing: lay down our lives. Keeping God’s commandments is laying down our lives—we surrender our will to doing God’s will and in this is the dying. Caring for and reaching out to others is laying down our lives—also a dying. Doing the little things every day not because we have to but because we see the other as the beloved of God is dying. We choose all these and other ways of dying because we know this is love and love is risen Life rising to kiss us with a share in divinity. And our joy is complete when we love in this way—as Jesus loves us. ©Living Liturgy The Solemnity of the Ascension of the Lord is celebrated next weekend on Sunday, May 17th in our diocese. Monday Acts 16:11-15 Ps 149:1b-2, 3-4, 5 -6a and 9b John 15:26–16:4a Tuesday Acts 16:22-34 Ps 138:1-2ab, 2cde-3, 7c-8 John 16:5-11 Wednesday Acts 17:15, 22–18:1 Ps 148:1-2, 11-12, 13, 14 John 16:12-15 Thursday St. Matthias Acts 1:15-17, 20-26 Ps 113:1-2, 3-4, 5-6, 7-8 John 15:9-17 Friday Acts 18:9-18 Ps 47:2-3, 4-5, 6-7 John 16:20-23 St. John of the Cross Parish www.stjohnofthecross.org May 10, 2015 Saturday Acts 18:23-28 Ps 47:2-3, 8-9, 10 John 16:23b-28 Page 4 Sunday Ascension Acts 1:1-11 Ps 47:2-3, 6-7, 8-9 Eph 1:17-23 or 4:1-13 Mark 16:15-20 Prayer What if God’s answer to one of our prayers is “no”? We are given this answer at times. Sometimes when we are told “no” we easily accept the answer we are given, because what we are asking for is something that really did not matter that much. Occasionally, though, we find ourselves being told “no” when every part of our being wants the answer to be “yes.” What happens to our relationship with God then? Does our relationship with God completely fall apart? Does our entirerelationship with God depend on God answering our prayers? Jesus did not get the “yes” he begged for with every part of his being: “Let this cup pass away from me” (Matthew 26:39). Jesus knew, though, that his prayer was heard, he knew God could answer his prayer, and he knew his Father would be there with him no matter what. Jesus’ relationship with God the Father did not fall apart when his prayer was not answered, because his relationship with God did not depend on answered prayers. We are invited into a similar relationship—a relationship with God that trusts that our prayers are heard yet does not demand our prayers be answered. We are invited into a relationship of confidence that God can answer our prayers, yet at the same time, we are invited into a relationship that asks us for complete surrender to God’s way. The relationship we are invited into with God is not an insurance policy that guarantees we get what we want. However, we are promised that God hears us and will be with us every step of the way. I know many of us seek certain things “to pass away from us” in our own lives or in the lives of those we love. When we get an answer of “no” to a prayer we fervently prayed, may we continue to turn to Jesus to help us surrender to God’s will, and may we have the courage to let God take us deeper. Christian love always possesses one quality: concreteness. Jesus himself, when he speaks of love, tells us concrete things: feed the hungry, visit the sick. They are all “concrete things” for indeed “love is concrete. There is a basic criteria for truly living in love. The criteria is to abide in the Lord and the Lord in us, and the criteria of Christian concreteness is the same, always: The Word came in the flesh. The criteria is“ the Incarnation of the Word, God made Man” and “Christianity without this foundation is Remain not true Christianity. The key to Christian life is faith in Jesus in my Christ, the Word of God made Man. “Love is found more in deeds than words. Jesus himself said: it Love is not those who call me ‘Lord, Lord, who talk much, who shall enter the Kingdom of heaven; but those who do the will of God. The invitation set before us, then, is to be “concrete” by doing the deeds of God. There is a question we must each ask ourselves: “If I abide in in Jesus, if I abide in the Lord, if I abide in love, what do I do for God not what do I think or what do I say and what do I do for others?” Therefore, the first criteria is to love with deeds, not with words. The wind carries away our words: today they are here and tomorrow they are gone. The “second criteria for concreteness is that “in love it is more important to give than to receive. The person “who loves, gives, gives things, gives life, gives himself to God and to others. Instead, the person “who does not love and who is selfish always seeks to receive. He seeks always to have things, to have the advantage. It is a matter of abiding in God” and of “God abiding in us. It is a matter of abiding in love. Excerpts from Pope Francis Homily 1.9.14 Richard Rohr Meditation I have heard it said that the gaze of delight between a mother and the baby at her breast is the beginning of the capacity for intimate relationship. We spend the rest of our lives hoping for that moment again: that kind of safety; that kind of security; that kind of feeding; that kind of living inside of one world, where we are delighted in and loved. That is the True Self. Perhaps the most perfect image of this we can find is the Madonna with the Baby Jesus. This is the most common painting in Western art museums, I am told, probably because there is absolute wholeness mirrored in the gaze of love between mother and child. As Jung said, we paint the images our soul needs to see. We also become the God we connect with. That’s why it’s so important to know the true God, and not some little, punitive, toxic god, because then you don’t grow up, but live in fear and pretense. Contemplation, as Thomas Keating says, is the divine therapy. We know God and we know ourselves by inner prayer journeys and not by merely believing in doctrines or living inside of church structures. God’s way of dealing with us becomes our way of dealing with life and others. We eventually love others, quite simply, as we have allowed God to love us, which should create quite a loving world. Becoming who I am Becky Eldridge. Ignatian Spirituality St. John of the Cross Parish www.stjohnofthecross.org May 10, 2015 Page 5 School Crossroads Calendar of Events May 17 End of Year Event Students, faculty, staff, and administration celebrated, “Spotlight on SJC,” this week. The annual event allows parents to have the opportunity to visit school and learn what activities the children participated throughout the year. The classrooms are filled with many projects for all to enjoy. This year students had the opportunity to visit the science lab to work on STEM projects. Many thanks to the Parent Association for providing the children with ice cream as they left. This Week at SJC Monday, May 11 May Crowning and Ribbon Ceremony 11:00am 8th Grade Luncheon 1:00pm Athletic Board Meeting 7:00pm Tuesday, May 12 Baton Show 2:00pm Friday, May 15 Memorial Games Co-Ed Summer Softball Summer softball teams are now forming! We’ll play on Sunday evenings beginning June 7. Register on our website www.stjohnofthecross.org/crossroads/sports/ by May 16. End of Year Event We will gather for a year-end social and trivia fun on May 17 at 6:00 p.m. in the Parish Center. NCYC Registration Deadline Next Sunday The National Catholic Youth Conference will be held in Indianapolis, November 19-21. It is a powerful, three-day experience of prayer, community, and empowerment for Catholic teenagers. Registration forms can be found on our website, www.stjohnofthecross.org/ crossroads. Work Tours for Teens and Adults Help build homes, communities and hope at Habitat for Humanity in WV, July 12-18. We need 5 more teens and two adults to join us! Two more adults are needed for our trip to our sharing parish, OLPH in KY August 1-8. Read more and get registration forms at www.stjohnofthecross.org/crossroads/work-tours/ Kairos 20 registration is open! See our website, http://www.stjohnofthecross.org/crossroads/ retreats/ to register. St. John of the Cross Parish www.stjohnofthecross.org May 10, 2015 Page 6 Parish News Summer Mass Schedule From Memorial Day weekend to Labor Day (inclusive) there will be no 12:15pm Mass. This year there will be no 12:15pm Mass beginning Sunday May 24, 2015. Please mark your calendar. Help Those in Nepal Catholic Relief Services is hard at work in Nepal helping those affected by the recent earthquake. Donations may be sent to Nepal Emergency Appeal, Catholic Relief Services, 3525 S. Lake Park Avenue, Chicago 60653 or donate online at chicagopeaceandjustice.org/nepalemergencyappeal Mass at Holy Name for Archbishop Romero Archbishop Cupich will celebrate a Mass in honor of the beatification of Archbishop Oscar Romero on May 23 at 10am. All are welcome. Prayer Shawl Ministry Knitters and crocheters will meet on Wednesday, May 13th from 1-2:30pm in the Parish Center to make prayer shawls for those who are ill or going through life difficulties. If you know someone who would like a prayer shawl or for more information about this ministry, call Sheila 708-246-7836 or Mary 708-246-5108. Tower Chorale Next Weekend The Tower Chorale, directed by Patrick Godon, will be performing famous folk melodies on Friday and Saturday May 15 and 16 at 7:30pm at Nazareth Academy. Parishioners, Kathy Daley, Tom Licar, and Betsy Spiering will be singing in this concert. Tickets are $20 Adult, $17 Senior/ Students, Children 10 and under free. Tickets are available from singers, at the door, or call 708-509 -0997 or visit us at: www.towerchorale.org. Be a Part of our Parish Directory Thank you to our parishioners who have had their pictures taken and for those who have made appointments for upcoming portraits. We still have a few openings on the following dates if you would like to be a part of our Directory. May 17, 18, 19, 20 21, 22, 31 and June 2 If you have any questions or concerns about your photo that was taken, call Lifetouch Customer Service at 888-313-1746. To schedule a photo appointment, call the Parish Center or visit our parish website. St. John of the Cross Parish May 10, 2015 Page 7 SAM will meet next Saturday, May 16 at 9am in the Parish Center “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have.” Peter 3:15 Can you give a reason for your hope? Do you have sufficient hope in your life? If the answer is NO to either question, then perhaps you may find the fix at the next SJC Men's Club SAM gathering where we will focus on “Finding and Delivering Hope When All Seems Hopeless” on Saturday, May 16th at 9am in the Parish Center. If the answer is YES to those questions, then please come and share your experiences to help your fellow parishioners learn from you. We hope to see you there. SAM (Sharing Among Men) is a unique forum for men to learn about and discuss topics related to our Catholic faith. Gatherings begin with fellowship accompanied by fresh bagels, juice and coffee. Everyone finds a seat by 9am when the content portion of the meeting begins with a content leader offering an opening reflection to introduce the discussion topic. Men’s Club Golf Outing The SJC Men’s Club invites all men to a golf outing on Friday June 5 at Flagg Creek. Cost: $27 includes golf, cart, 2 beverage tickets and entry into contests. Contests: Low score, long drive, closest to the pin. Tee Times: 1:00 to 2:17pm Sign-up: Forms can be found on the Parish Men’s Club Web Site. Please drop off the form or a note with your name and/or name of the foursome, contact information, and a check(s) made payable to the SJC Men’s Club to the Parish Center. Questions: Contact Dan Montgomery (312.952.1435) or John Cisek (708-784-1998). Parish News Catholic Charities Mother’s Day Appeal This weekend there is a second collection to support Catholic Charities. With 153 programs at over 161 locations throughout Cook and Lake Counties, our donations help Catholic Charities serve poor and vulnerable people of all ages, races, religions and economic backgrounds. Thank you for your generosity. Upcoming Interfaith Career Network Programs Everyone is welcome. There is no charge to attend. For more information, please visit our website: www.interfaithcareernetwork.org Career Transition Boot Camp: For our final workshop on Tuesday, May 12, 7-9 pm, a panel of HR professionals will coach you on the “Art of Interviewing” and answer all your questions about successful phone and in- person interview strategies and techniques as well as providing tips on how to recover from interviewing blunders. First Presbyterian Church of La Grange. LinkedIn for Beginners - New Ideas for Everyone Join us on Tuesday, May 19, 7-9 pm and learn why your LinkedIn profile is the second most important job hunting tool, next to your resume. Our speaker, Kevin Loughney, will focus on different ways to use this free tool to improve your job search and will present ways to set up and utilize LinkedIn for job searches. SJC Parish Center Using the Internet for Your Job Search: Tools, Tips and Techniques Your Competition Isn't Using Join us on Thursday, May 21, 7-9 pm and learn the secrets of effectively getting your resume noticed. Learn search engine tips so that you can effectively find and network with potential recruiters, hiring managers and companies. Our speaker, Kevin Crews, is a highly respected recruiter and trainer with over 20 years of experience. SJC Parish Center. Gardening Angels It’s time to pick up the flowers and begin planting at SJC! If you would like to join our group of dedicated gardeners please contact Jan Grabacki at 708-2464610. Register for VBS!! All parish children entering kindergarten through 5th grade in the fall are invited to attend our parish Vacation Bible School from 9am-Noon on June 29—July 2. We will LEARN what’s so great about God, EXPLORE the nature of God, and SERVE God in practical ways through interactive games, skits, songs, and crafts. The cost is $35 which covers the program, t shirt and snacks. You can register at the YC Office or website. Space is limited. High school and adult crew leaders needed and appreciated. Register by June 1. Jack Shea Program Rescheduled A perhaps too facile evaluation is that we spend most of our lives getting through to Friday and, hopefully, resting on the weekend, only to begin the process again. However, “things happen.” We find ourselves in experiences that shift our awareness, support the best in us, and suggest new behaviors. Spiritual traditions greatly prize the consciousness that these experiences initiate. Much to our surprise, we become accidental mystics. We will spend time describing these types of “spiritually significant” experiences and charting their impact on our development. Saturday, May 30, 2015 9 - Noon Facilitator, Jack Shea, is a theologian and storyteller who lectures nationally and internationally on storytelling in world religions, faith-based health care and contemporary spirituality. Free to St. John of the Cross Parishioners. Call the Parish Center office to register. The Well Spirituality Center is located at 1515 W. Ogden Ave. in LaGrange Park. May 10, 2015 Page 8 It’s Time to Register for YC Youth Catechesis is SJC’s religious education program for all parish children from kindergarten through 8th grade. Registration is underway for the next school year. Visit our office to register your children. The YC office is located in the southeast corner of the school building at 708 51st Street. Call us with questions at 708-246-6760. New families are asked to bring a copy of each child’s baptismal certificate if not baptized at our parish. Office Hours: Monday—Thursday 8:30am-4pm. During the month of May we will also have extended hours from 8:30am-6:30pm on May 12, 14, 18, 20 and 27 for your convenience. We encourage all parishioners to become involved as a Catechist or Aide next year. We have volunteers who have children in the program, parishioners who do not have a YC student, and high school teens. All are welcome to share their faith with our parish children! Join us!! Infant Baptisms St. John of the Cross Parish congratulates the following families who had their infant baptized last Sunday. Pictured with Deacon John Schopp and their godparents are from the left Bridget and Juan Giraldo with infant, Evan Ernesto, Lauren and Brian Vaupell with infant, Jack Wilkin, and Renee and Mark Bagdon with infant, Leo Benjamin. (The godfathers are holding the baptismal candles.) St. John of the Cross Parish also congratulates Daniel and Amanda Donovan holding infant, Brian Daniel, who was baptized by Fr. Bill at the end of April. Pictured with them are Brian’s godparents. Have a New Baby? Ready for Baptism? Learn about infant baptism at our parish. Call the Parish Center and ask for Theresa or Mary Beth weekdays between 9am and 4pm. Or go to our parish website under Sacraments. St. John of the Cross Parish www.stjohnofthecross.org May 10, 2015 Page 9 Parish News May is Mental Health Awareness Month Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults RCIA or the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults is the way that those interested in the Catholic Church learn about the faith and join our community. The process traces its roots back to the earliest days of Christian communities. The process is for . . . · Those never baptized who would like to become a Catholic, · Those baptized in another Christian Church who would like to become Catholic, or · Those already baptized as a Catholic but who have not received the Sacraments of Eucharist or Confirmation. The RCIA gives people on a faith journey an opportunity to discover not only what the Catholic Church and a life of faith in it is all about, but also an opportunity to explore how Jesus Christ may be calling them into his life in a deeper way. If you or someone you know is interested in learning more about becoming Catholic invite them to contact Fr. Bill at 708-246-4404. 42nd Annual Garage Sale Saturday, June 20 9am-2pm Half Price Bag Sale: Monday, June 22 9am-1pm Donations Accepted at School on Saturday, June 13 from 9am2pm, Monday-Thursday, June 15-18 from 10am-8pm and Friday, June 19 from 10am-Noon. Go to our parish website to learn about items accepted for donation and how to volunteer. The mission of the Garage Sale means giving to those in need, respecting others less fortunate, bringing together volunteers in a Christian spirit, raising funds to support local charities within our community, supporting the parish as a whole, and making a difference in the lives of others. The success of the Garage Sale relies on your support—your generous donations and volunteer support! Month’s Mind Mass for Cardinal George and Galero Raising All are invited to a Mass on the one-month anniversary of the death of Francis Cardinal George, OMI, Archbishop Emeritus of Chicago. This Mass will be celebrated on Sunday, May 17, at 5:15 p.m., at Holy Name Cathedral, State and Superior Streets in Chicago. No tickets are required for this Mass. Rev. Msgr. Daniel Mayall, Rector of Holy Name Cathedral, will be the main celebrant and homilist. During this Mass, Cardinal George’s galero, the wide-brimmed, tasseled red hat, will be raised to the Cathedral ceiling, joining the galeri of the other Cardinals of the Archdiocese of Chicago. We all have mental health. Along the mental health continuum are three major mental health states in which individuals can be located at various times in their lives. At the “healthy” end of the continuum are individuals experiencing well-being, a state of good mental and emotional health. These individuals may experience stress and discomfort resulting from occasional problems of everyday life, but they experience no impairment to daily functioning. All other individuals, for whom problems are more serious or prolonged, and for whom coping becomes progressively more difficult, are described as having “mental health problems.” People experiencing emotional problems have mild to moderate distress, and mild to temporary impairment in functioning (insomnia, lack of concentration, or loss of appetite). This may include people with situational depression, general anxiety, or mild attention deficit disorder (ADD). People having emotional problems that rise to the level of mental illness experience marked distress, and moderate to disabling or chronic impairment. It may include relatively common disorders such as depression and anxiety as well as major disorders such as schizophrenia. The distinguishing factor in mental illness is typically chronic or long-term impairments that range from moderate to disabling in nature. As a faith community, we can offer spiritual comfort through our prayerful presence in people’s lives by acknowledging their pain and supporting them through the healing and recovery process. For more information, visit the National Catholic Partnership on Disability at http://www.ncpd.org/ministries programs/specific/mentalillness Today we pray for all men, women, and children -- and on this day especially mothers -- who themselves or within their families deal with mental and emotional crises, that the joy and love of Jesus may bring them comfort. Amen. May 10, 2015 Page 10 Outreach Sharing Parish Update St. John of the Cross has been reaching out with support to our Sharing Parishes for well over ten years. The current list of Sharing Parishes includes: St. Thaddeus, Chicago, St. Mark, Chicago, Our Lady of Charity, Cicero, Kolbe House & Precious Blood, Chicago, Our Lady of Perpetual Help, Kentucky, and Holy Family, Jinga, Uganda. We connect with each parish in prayer, fellowship, operational and financial support. The Outreach Advisory Committee is saddened to report that our work with two of our Sharing Parishes will be coming to a close at the end of June, 2015. Both the Holy Cross Mission in Jinga, Uganda and St. Mark Parish in Chicago will no longer receive monthly support from our parish. St. John of the Cross parishioners have been supporting Holy Cross Mission in Uganda, starting with a trip to the Mission by twelve members of our Parish in 2006. After visiting Holy Cross School, our parish has been sending monthly checks to support numerous children in pursuit of a high school education. In addition, we have sponsored the “Livestock for Life” program which provides a goat, chicken or pig to selected families each Christmas thanks to the efforts of Parishioner, Maureen Boor. A key component of our sharing partnerships is communication that helps us build a relationship with each parish or group. After repeated requests asking the Mission staff for more information about their work at Holy Cross and the progress of the students we have been supporting, we have unfortunately not been able to connect and will discontinue our monthly support at the end of this fiscal year. However, Livestock for Life will still be available at Christmas. Our parish also had an active sharing relationship with St. Mark Parish in Chicago for over 8 years. Working with Pastor Fr. Elmer Romero and his staff, our parish was able to assist in many areas of their parish life in addition to our monthly financial support. In 2012, Fr. Elmer was assigned to the staff of St. Mary of the Lake Seminary. Since then the parish has not had a permanent pastor. In addition to their leadership challenges, St. Mark Parish also faces a changing demographic where parishioners do not live in or near the parish boundaries. Taken together, the Outreach Advisory Council has decided that since we have fulfilled our promise of financial support to St. Mark Parish it makes most sense to direct our sharing parish support to other parishes. We will, however, continue to provide food to the St. Mark Food Pantry on our regularly scheduled basis. We will keep you informed of future decisions of the Outreach Advisory Committee. Pictured above are Kathy and Chris Comperchio with Bill Bright with Ronald McDonald. Volunteer opportunities to assist with unpacking donations and cooking will be available at the Ronald McDonald House in Maywood. Call Bill Bright for more details. Help alleviate hunger by contributing nonperishable healthy food to our Food Pantry Collection each time you come to church. The food gathered in our church narthex during the month of May will be donated to Mary Queen of Heaven in Chicago. Thank you for your generosity. Practice & Love 1. We learn anything by practicing: the piano, soccer, algebra. 2. Jesus calls us to love one another as the Father has loved Jesus. 3. How do you practice love? Notice that embedded in observation #1 is the basic idea that practice itself isn’t always fun or instantly gratifying. In fact, it can be tedious. But what makes us do in the tedious times is the hope that it will bring forth some fruit in our lives. To practice love like Jesus–to work at it day after day–what might that mean for you? What are the many practices which, when added up, help you develop into a virtuoso, a poet of love? Tim Muldoon Ignatian Spirituality St. John of the Cross Parish www.stjohnofthecross.org May 10, 2015 Page 11 St. John of the Cross Parish www.stjohnofthecross.org May 10, 2015 Page 12 St. John of the Cross Parish www.stjohnofthecross.org May 10, 2015 Page 13 Making Room for Compassion This column is a response to two letters I received recently: The first came from a lady whom I do not know. Among other things, she writes: “I appreciate your column, especially its title, In Exile. You see, Father, I suffer from emotional and mental illness and, in a society like ours, that puts me outside of life. “I always feel like I am in exile. Everyone keeps their distance from me, and they seem to actually blame me for being ill, as if I could make myself well just by wishing it.” Then, last week, I received a letter from a friend who has just been asked to leave religious life because she, too, struggles emotionally. She comments: “I am becoming more realistic about the attitudes that exist both inside of religious community and in the world outside, namely, that any person who has required any kind of psychiatric care is considered forever unstable, unproductive and unsuitable for a life of normal relationships and service.” Both of these letter, however gentle their language, contain harsh prophetic messages. Their words are the words of Christ who warns us that health and strength are gifts given from beyond and that when we become complacent, smug and self-sufficient about them, we risk missing the kingdom. The truth is that we, the healthy and strong, are too smug and complacent, and that we are too unfeeling and too judgmental toward those who struggle. In the end, we are too calloused. We are too full of ourselves, our health and strengths are blinding us to what is gift. We are self-preoccupied, adolescent and narcissistic. In that, there is no place for compassion. Our respect is only for those who, like ourselves, are strong, healthy and successful. But that excludes the sick, the emotionally and mentally handicapped, the aging, the dying, the poor, the unborn and unattractive. Not only do we lack compassion and understanding toward these people, worse still, we blame them for their poverties, as if, as the lady comments, they could get strong and well simply by their own efforts. Moreover, we act as if our own strengths and health are the products of our efforts. Consciously and unconsciously, we have the attitude: “It’s their own fault! Anyone who is sick is sick because somehow they want to be sick or because they are not taking care of themselves properly. Anyone can help themselves!” This insensitivity is, in the end, an anomaly — for we are compassionate by nature. Compassion is an irrepressible instinct inside of us. Thus, it is not surprising that certain things (for example, Steve Fonyo’s Journey for Lives) draw such an enormous outburst of compassionate sentiment. Our underused instinct is taking its revenge. Such things as Fonyo’s run are very good, but for too many of us they can also be an opportunity to vent our moral spleens in such a way that we can then, without guilt, be insensitive and judgmental toward the sick and unattractive with whom we really deal. There is compassion for an attractive personality with cancer, but a judgmental attitude toward someone we live with who struggles with emotional cancer. Compassion for helpless seal pups, but callousness toward the unwanted unborn within our own wombs. Four years ago, I was handed a mixed grace. I got sick. The illness could not have caught me at a better time. I was on a high – healthy, strong, successful enough, never lacking in friends, full of myself. During the months that I was struggling to regain some lost physical and emotional health, I was given the opportunity to see things from the other side. From the perspective of vulnerability and weakness, my own smugness and complacency was ever so evident. How quickly I judged others. How quickly I disdain weakness. How quickly I assume that others’ problems are their own fault. How utterly unprepared I am to die. How unchildlike I have become. How smug and devoid of compassion I am I doubt that, despite my fault, I am atypical here. I suspect that I am, on this score, more of a microcosm of than an exception in our culture. So that leaves the question: How can we have become so unfeeling, so smug, so adolescent, so narcissistic, so full of ourselves to have lost our childlike-ness? Prophecy. We badly need it. So I share with you these two letters. They point out that only persons serving a pagan god, one absolutely antithetical to the God of Jesus, could so adolescentize the dictum: “God blesses those whom he loves!” to make it mean: “God loves the strong and attractive!” Thank God for the prophetic challenge of those who struggle. Perhaps they can help us reverse things before death. Oblate Father Ron Rolheiser, theologian, teacher, and award-winning author, is President of the Oblate School of Theology in San Antonio, TX. St. John of the Cross Parish www.stjohnofthecross.org May 10, 2015 Page 14 Monday, May 11 9:30am Spiritual Journaling 10:30am Step 11 Christian Meditation 11:00am School 8th Grade Ribbon Ceremony & Lunch 2:30pm Adoration 7:00pm Boy Scouts 7:00pm Monday Eucharist Book Study Tuesday, May 12 9:05am Tuesdays with Mary Rosary 6:30pm PAC Meeting 7:00pm Boy Scouts Parent Pack Committee 7:00pm Spotlight on SJC School 7:00pm RCIA 7:00pm Teacher Recognition Trust Wednesday, May 13 Parish Directory Photos Today 9:00am Broderick Bridges Group 9:30am Bible Study 1:00pm Prayer Shawl Ministry 1:00pm Contemplative Outreach 2:00pm Christian Meditation 3:00pm Spirituality of John of the Cross Group 7:00pm Chicago Catholic Scripture School 7:30pm SAM Planning Meeting Thursday, May 14, Parish Directory Photos Today 9:00am Women's Club Flourish 1:30pm Monday Eucharist Book Study 7:00pm Women's Club Board Meeting Friday, May 15 Parish Directory Photos Today 3:30pm Memorial Games 6:00pm Beloved Gathering Saturday, May 16 Parish Directory Photos Today 7:00am Christian Meditation 9:00am Men's Club SAM Gathering Parish Elections after 5pm Mass Sunday, May 17 Parish Directory Photos Today Parish Elections after all Masses 1:30pm Baptisms 6:00pm Crossroads End of the Year Party It is good for us to spend time before the Tabernacle, to feel the gaze of Jesus upon us. Pope Francis @Pontifex · May 5 Mass Intentions Monday, May 11 Easter Weekday 7:45am Muriel Albertson; Our Beloved Dead Tuesday, May 12 Sts. Nereus and Achilleus; St. Pancras 7:45am William J. Rooney, Jr. Helen Grigas Wednesday, 13 Our Lady of Fatima 7:45am Dolores Rotolo; P.J. Cavalieri Thursday, May 14 St. Matthias 7:45am Thomas Hawkins; Carole Turlek Friday, May 15 St. Isidore 7:45am Larry Dougherty; Jack Scriba Saturday, May 16 Easter Weekday 8:00am Kevin McGuire; Evelyn Spitkovsky 5:00pm Joseph Koucky; John Hogan Sunday, May 17 Solemnity of the Ascension of the Lord 7:30am Jeanne Abiog; Raymond Fatter 9:00am John Hogan; Anthony Hlinka 10:45am John Berkovsky; Janis Comer 12:15pm Steve Ryan; Charles Tracy 5:00pm Bruno Krause; Cooper Heinz Italics: Living Intention Pray for Our Sick Karen Bernardino Lori Cook Marie Coyne Don King Norb Koziol Marion Pascale Patricia Shannon Mary Ann Siragusa Pray for Our Beloved Dead Edward Reilly, brother of Michael, Paul, Florence and Stuart Nancy O’Connell-Stone, sister of Jane Delaney Rick Zech, husband of Kelly, father of Caitlin, John Francis, and Conor Wedding Banns The month of May, dedicated to Mary, is a fitting time to begin to recite the rosary daily. Pope Francis @Pontifex · May 17 Gracious God, hear the prayers of your people your Son has gathered before you. May every prayer we utter and every work we undertake be to your glory as we await the fulfillment of your promise of eternal life in you and whom you have sent, Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you forever and ever. Amen. Elizabeth Hussey & Alexander Garreau Rev. David P. Dowdle, Pastor [email protected] 708-246-4404 x135 Rev. Joseph F. McDonnell, Pastor Emeritus Rev. William J. Vollmer, Assoc.Pastor [email protected] 708-246-4404 x120 For a full staff listing go to our website home page. St. John of the Cross Parish www.stjohnofthecross.org May 10, 2015 Page 15 God Bless Our First Communicants Cole Alessi Jake Alessi Rocco Alessi Riley Andel Margaret Anderson Aidan Babaran Kenneth Bach Andrew Bjorson Kylie Blake Avery Bolick Brooke Boshardt Taylor Branch Grace Broderick Lucy Bruns Robert Bucko Anna Bukovac Joseph Buralli Rocco Buralli Mia Burk Harrison Burke Maxwell Cabana Daniel Carroll Harper Carroll Mia Cassaro Tyler Chambers Charles Ciesla Jane Cipra Quinn Clarke Kathryn Clopton James Conkin Hailey Conroy John Conroy, III Brian Cronin Ella Cuttica Brooke D'Aprile Hannah Davidson Connor Davis Ronan Dowd Liam Doyle Colin Dunneback Grace Enderle Dylan Eulgen Norachi Ezike Leigh Ferrell Jake Forrest Joshua Furey Antonino Gentile Estelle Giustini Sophia Giustini Mia Maria Graziano John Grier Ciara Griffin William Griswold Alexander Guercio Samuel Guercio John Hardy Luke Harrigan William Heckman Daniel Heidkamp Madeline Hemmesch Ava Hepokoski Erin Higney Gabriella Hinsdale Karlie Hollinger Luke Hudetz Henry Hughes Emmet Hynes Mary Rita Hynes Makenna Jachim Jacob Jessup Benjamin Johnson Hailey Johnson Brett Kasper Edward Kasper Ella Kelly Maximus Kenny Dominic Kent Cooper Kosanovich Jack Kraus Grainne Kristufek Sean Kristufek Anka Lampe Kara LaRocco Brady Lee Bruno Ligammari Ruben Linares, Jr. Addison Linn Sofia LoSavio Stella Luna William Madigan Joaquin Magpayo Sarah Mahler Nicholas Marino Santino Marino Colin Massey Emily Masters Declan McBride Ella McCann Kathleen McCarthy Madeline McClure Ryan McGarry Daniel McGill Clare McNamara Catherine McVady Mia Menendez Sydney Michalak Patrick Miller Madison Milne Nina Mini Sophia Mistretta Corinna Morrissey Hugo Mortimer Caroline Mortonson Kiera Mullarkey Dominic Munaretto Weller Murphy Benjamin Neville Daniel Nikolic John Nikolic Finnegan Nolan Thomas Norgle Aaron Obert Rebeka O'Connell Liam O'Malley Evelyn Ormsby Diego Osorio Nicolas Osorio Erin Pabst William Pabst Sienna Pierce Adeline Proctor Kyle Pusatera Catherine Quinn Madeline Reepmeyer Kerregan Reilly Ricardo Rivera Eric Roemer Thomas Rokicki Amelia Romano Eve Rosenberg Brady Ryan Elizabeth Ryan Liam Ryan Evan Salerno Anne Sarno Meghan Sarros Alexander Schaller Nicholas Schaller Aidan Schell Margaret Schimmel Mary Kathleen Schimmel Julia Schumm Megan Sennett Clare Sheehan Charles Shishman Allison Short Natalie Short Brooke Shurhay Jack Spears Matthew Sperry Mirielle St. Arnaud Kelly Stark Lucinda Stocco Kyler Stoiber Isabel Strnic Charlotte Sullivan Moira Swick Jedrek Szot Daniel Taylor Gabriella Thanos John Threlkeld Brennan Timmel Neve Timmel William Tobin Megan Trifilio Matthew Tristano Julia Truesdale Joseph Tumolo Esmeralda Valenzuela Julia Van Wyck Robert Vespa Addison Vincent Michael Walsh Liam Watson Kendall Wendt Grace Whittingham Dario Williams Kate Williams Griffin Wood Olivia Yates Logan Young Hogan Zator DUPLEX ELECTRIC PC MD [email protected] www.pcmd.com WE STILL MAKE HOUSE CALLS! 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