Stephanie Legg England Registered Marriage Celebrant and Independent Chaplain “Steph the Indie Chaplain” [email protected] Mobile: 0439070593 Stephanie’s Background My philosophy My story Positions held Qualifications Writing Public Speaking Page 1 Page 2 Page 5 Page 6 Page 7 Page 8 My philosophy My philosophy is simple. Seek stillness and open yourself to inspiration, both when you are alone and with others, because this is enough to help you solve all problems practical problems, interpersonal problems and community problems, and sooner or later it will also help you to decide whether there is a God without the slightest need for peer pressure or violence. BACKGROUND OF STEPH THE INDIE CHAPLAIN My story I was born in Beaconsfield, Tasmania, in Australia in 1966, not long after my parents migrated from England. My father, John Legg, was a Methodist church minister. My mother, Ruth Legg, was a qualified lay preacher and social worker. Much of my childhood was in Penguin, north-west Tasmania, where my father became the Methodist (and then Uniting) Church minister. I enjoyed the community there and I still draw inspiration from the model of spiritual leadership which my father provided in the church. My work today as an independent chaplain is based on the range of work which may be done by such a traditional religious leader (including group leadership, counselling, helping people to pray and reflect, fostering community, and leading ceremonies). In the 1970s, my parents founded the Spectrum Fellowship to help promote spiritual development and to give people a safe place to discuss their mystical experiences. One of their main goals was to help people overcome generalised fears of paranormal experience and to teach the difference between fruitful experiences (full of love, light and closeness to God) and darker experiences, for which they advocated caution and healing. Their approach appealed to people from many backgrounds, including traditional Christian backgrounds, other religions, New Age and agnostics. My parents appeared on national television, in the press and in books because of their extensive interest in ghosts and exorcisms. Conversations in the Legg household while I was growing up were very open-minded and inclusive while having high standards of love and ethics. Being quite academically gifted, I moved to Canberra at the age of sixteen to study science at the Australian National University. At this stage I put aside my parents’ beliefs in Christ and the paranormal in order to explore other ways of thinking about life. After four years of study, I was awarded First Class Honours in Psychology, a University Medal and the Australian Psychological Society Prize for a thesis on intrusive (obsessive) thoughts. I became a tutor in psychology and a research assistant studying compulsive gambling. Interested in holistic health care, I then completed a Masters degree in Human Sciences, consisting of a thesis on the value of patient participation in health treatment decisions. Married at age eighteen, I moved to Norway with my husband in 1989 for postgraduate research experience. I was awarded the Audry Jorss, Freda Freeman award for overseas 2 BACKGROUND OF STEPH THE INDIE CHAPLAIN travel, and became a research associate at the Department of Behavioural Medicine in Trondheim, Norway. There I completed literature studies of emotional disorders. Returning to Canberra in 1991, I worked as an archivist at the Social Science Data Archives at the Australian National University. I was responsible for detailed scrutiny of major social science data sets, and compiling accurate documentation. I gained valuable experience in writing manuals and editing catalogues and newsletters. My next employment was as a Health Officer at the Department of Veterans Affairs, where I was responsible for research and policy advice concerning the health of elderly veterans. Feeling that this was not my “dream” career, I left this position to try my hand at a career in creative writing. I won several awards and commendations for poetry and short stories. I also became an active member of Toastmasters and was awarded the Competent Toastmaster Award and various competition awards. I returned to the Department of Veterans Affairs briefly as a consultant, and also worked as consultant for a management psychology business. My first child arrived in 1997 and my second arrived in 1998. During my second pregnancy, I completed a book on setting and pursuing goals, for use by a goals-coaching business. My second child was diagnosed with a chromosome disorder and I became involved in early intervention programs and frequent medical appointments. When my children were aged two and three, my husband passed away with cancer of the pancreas. Raising the children alone, I developed two new strong interests – meditation, to help me cope and as a way to explore a deeper meaning to my hardships, and community work, motivated by my concern that many people can become isolated within our society. I learnt to completely silence my mind in meditation and I began to have regular mystical experiences including visions of light, an overwhelming presence of love, and long streams of inner verbal advice. I found parallels between my experiences and literature from seekers from all spiritual backgrounds including – but not limited to - Christian mystics. I became convinced that God exists and, no matter how harsh the natural and human world happens to be, God is evident in his attempts to guide and comfort those who have learnt to open their channel to him. I concluded that an inner journey, seeking stillness and inspiration, is the necessary and sufficient way to find God. Moreover, it seemed to me, that even without faith in God, seeking stillness and inspiration is the best way to go about solving any problem. Seeking stillness and inspiration is a winwin formula for atheists and seekers alike. I became involved in teaching meditation and giving talks on stress management. To explore my interest in mystical experiences further, I completed some courses with the Clairvision School of Meditation, including regression therapy. I also served as a part-time 3 BACKGROUND OF STEPH THE INDIE CHAPLAIN chaplain at a multi-faith chaplaincy centre and led a children’s group at a local church, served on the board of the ACT Disability and Aged Care Advocacy Service, served on a Body Corporate committee, and performed some research about purpose-built villages for people with disabilities for the Community Living Project. Due to her chromosome disorder, my second child has several disabilities, including a severe intellectual disability, hearing impairment, motor disorders, and foot deformities. During high school, my other child began to have learning difficulties and I home-schooled her for four years. At age fourteen, this child was diagnosed with a life-threatening brain disorder (AVM). She had brain surgery at age fifteen, resulting in permanent paralysis in her right hand and cognitive deficits. I now consider myself to be an expert at raising children with disabilities! Keeping in mind the ongoing needs of my children, I decided to begin a home-based business which would enable me to pursue my passions for spirituality, meditation and community. I registered my business, Grace Junction, in 2013 and began to offer my services as an independent chaplain. I am available for counselling and general spiritual support, group leadership, and freelance writing on spiritual topics. In 2014, I completed a Certifcate IV in Celebrancy, including funeral celebrancy, and became a registered marriage celebrant. This fulfilled my desire to be able to offer the full range of services which might be offered by other spiritual leaders, including weddings, namings and other ceremonies. My goal when conducting a ceremony is to help the client(s) to celebrate the occasion, help them process the event on an emotional level, help to consolidate the support of the people gathered, and to capture the full spiritual depth of the event, as seen by the client. For some clients, the ceremony is about observing the obvious natural beauty of life, whilst for others it includes some vision of a soul or a magical side to life, while to others, a ceremony is an opportunity to openly interact with God. Since the beginning of 2015, I have able to provide a permanent meeting room for spiritual and community events. I am delighted to host or MC events which promote connections between people and/or which help people to experience stillness and inspiration. I am currently involved in running three groups, each which aim to foster personal and community development in different ways – through motivation, meditation skills, and spiritual guidance respectively. It is with great joy that I look forward to continuing my work with spiritual and community development. 4 BACKGROUND OF STEPH THE INDIE CHAPLAIN Positions Held Current Independent Chaplain and Manager of Grace Junction (self-employment), 2013Registered Marriage Celebrant, 2014Co-organiser, Free Form Meditation Group, Canberra, 2014Organiser, Spiritual Guidance Group, Canberra, 2015Organiser, Living your Life on Purpose, Canberra, 2015Previous Paid Employment Archive Officer, Australian Data Archive, ANU, 2009-2011 Consultant in management psychology, Durham Smith & Associates, 1996 Senior Officer in the Health Program of Department of Veterans Affairs, 1993-1994 Research Assistant, Social Science Data Archives, Australian National University, 1991-1993 Research Associate, Dept of Psychiatry and Behavioural Medicine, Uni of Trondheim, 1990-1991 Research Assistant, Psychology Department, Australian National University, 1987-1988 Tutor, Psychology Department, Australian National University, 1987-1988 Previous Voluntary Positions Member of Mensa, 2009-2011 Research consultant, Community Living Project Inc, 2009 Committee member, Body Corporate Management Committee, True North, 2009 Board member, ACT Disability Aged and Carer Advocacy Service, 2005-2007 Chaplain, Australian National University, 2005-2006 Leader of Kids’ Club, Kippax Uniting Care, 2005-2006 Vice-President of Education, Uni II Toastmasters, 2005-2006 Meditation teacher, Burton & Garran Hall, ANU, 2005-2006 Guest speaker, various stress management and meditation workshops, 2001-2006 Volunteer supervisor at the Crisis Detoxification Centre, ACT, 1991 Lifeline Counsellor, 1988 Youth leader at outreach holiday camps for school children, 1980-1982 5 BACKGROUND OF STEPH THE INDIE CHAPLAIN Qualifications Academic Qualifications Certificate IV in Celebrancy, Australian Celebrations Training, 2014. MSc, Human Sciences Program, Australian National University, 1988-1989 BSc (Hons & University Medal), Psychology Department, Australian National University, 1983-1986 Academic Awards Australian National University Overseas Experience Award for General Staff, 1992 Audrey Jorss – Freda Freeman Award for overseas study, 1989 University Medal, Australian National University, 1986 Australian Psychological Society Prize, 1986 National Undergraduate Scholarship, 1983-1986 Tasmanian University Regional Scholarship, 1982 Dux of Parklands High School ,1981 Other Courses Completed Massage Skills for Carers, Canberra Institute for Technology, 2009 Godly Play, Jeanette Ackland, 2006 Inner Space Interactive Sourcing (Regression Therapy), Clairvision School, 2004 Awakening the Third Eye, Clairvision School, 2003 Health Program Evaluation Workshop, National Centre for Health Program Evaluation, Fairfield, 1993 Postgraduate Research Course in Behavioural Medicine, University of Trondheim, 1990 Norwegian Language Course, Trondheim, 1990 Lifeline Course for Telephone Counselling, Canberra, 1988 6 BACKGROUND OF STEPH THE INDIE CHAPLAIN Writing Published work – Scientific and Technical Suicide Risk in the Elderly. In: Veterans’ Health. Department of Veterans Affairs, Canberra, 1994. Australian Veterans and War Widows: Their Lives, Their Needs. AGPS, Canberra 1994. Australian Election Study, 1993: User’s Guide. Social Science Data Archives, Canberra, 1993. Editor of ACSPRI Newsletter, 1993 Editor of SSDA Catalogue, 1993 Patients’ Choices and Perceptions After an Invitation to Participate in Treatment Decisions. In Social Science and Medicine, Great Britain, 1992. The Nature and Treatment of Excessive Gambling. In: Acta Psychiatrica Scandinavica, Sweden, 1991. Intrusive Thoughts: Unpleasantness Not the Major Cause of Uncontrollability. In: Behaviour Research and Therapy, Great Britain, 1988. Assistant author for several other international journal articles on compulsive gambling. Published work – Creative Is God more Accessible to Mensans? – article published in TableAus, No 386, 2009 Cake and Make-up – article published in Canberra’s Child, 2011 Migraine – short story published in Siblings, Fremantle Arts Press, 1997 Awards - Poetry Indulgence – highly commended in the Obscure Realms poetry competition, 1997 The Conception – short-listed for the Eaglehawk Dahlia & Arts Festival Literary Competition, 1997 Cleaning Lady – merit award in the Making Friends Writing Competition, 1996 Precipitation – short-listed in the FAW ACT Literary Competition, 1996 Heels While-U-Wait – merit award in the Writers World Golden Opportunity Contest, 1996 Wild Wondering - third place in Clarissa Stein Multicultural Poetry Prize (Rhyming), 1996 Awards – Short Stories Living with Dazzle – Winner of the FAW Jennifer Burbidge Short Story Award, 2011 Inspector Clipboard and the Chaos of Mistaken Identity – Certificate of Commendation in the Todhunter Literary Award, 1997 7 BACKGROUND OF STEPH THE INDIE CHAPLAIN Public Speaking Public Speaking Engagements Spiritual and Psychic Development Seminar, guest speaker, Devonport, 2010 Spiritual and Psychic Development Seminar, guest speaker, Hobart, 2009 St Matthews Catholic Church Meditation Group, guest leader, 2006 Kippax Uniting Church Meditation Group, guest leader, 2006 Stress management workshop, Chromosome 18q deletion national conference, Canberra, 2002 Stress management workshop, Playgroup, Kippax Uniting Care, 2002 Stress management workshop, Mothers Group, Child Health Clinic, Florey, 2001 Stress management workshop, Centre for Infant Sensory Impairment, Canberra, 2001 Meditation – a ten week course for beginners and a ten week continuing course, Canberra, 2001 Public Speaking Awards Toastmasters International: Region Awards Second place, Canberra and Region, Speech Contest 2005 Toastmasters International: Area Awards – Second place, Area Speech Evaluation Contest, 2006 Second place, Area Speech Contest, 2006 Second place, Area Table Topics Contest, 2005 First place, Area Speech Contest, 2005 Second place, Area Speech Contest, 1996 Toastmasters International: Club awards First place, Club Speech Evaluation Contest, 2006 First place, Club Speech Contest, 2006 Member of the Year, 2005 First place, Table Topics Contest, 2005 First Place, Club Speech Contest, 2005 Competent Toastmaster Award, 2005 First place, Club Speech Contest 1995 Member of the Year, 1995 First place, Club Speech Contest, 1994 First place, Club Impromptu Speaking Contest, 1994. Public Speaking Prize, Parklands High School, 1981 Tasmanian third place winner in Jaycees Youth Speaks for Australia Contest, 1980 8
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