Bar None Newsletter Restorative Justice Ministries - Mennonite Central Committee Alberta (MCCA) M2 DRUMHELLE R by Gord Hutc hi ns on The Memorial Service at the Drumheller Penitentiary is being held in the chapel, and the room is packed with those serving time. The chaplains have decided that along with several hymns and scripture readings, the service will include an open mike. A few of these men will try to share their thoughts and feelings. It is not easy. Vulnerability is protected in here, and nobody bares their heart. Yet a few stand up to try. They are shaking with nervousness. And one looks at a side wall completely unable to face the crowd. Yet the words expressed are arresting in their realism and felt pain. The two men we are remembering were found unresponsive in their cells. One of them was known to the M2W2 Program. And an M2 Sponsor is the only ‘outsider’ here. He stands to read a letter that expresses the importance of the many years he visited the deceased. He would drive from Edmonton, and follow up with letters. This relationship mattered to him. And it mattered to the man now gone. M2W2 Drumheller has thirty volunteers visiting inmates – not much in a population of 600. Yet it is a connection that matters when trouble rears its unhappy head. A company of thirty offering that most precious vehicle of hope: friendship. Like a flower at a memorial, it is a ‘bloom’ that springs to life where there is nothing left. Gord and Nicholas at the CoSA Halloween Party Spring 2015 EDMONTON M2 by Janet Anderson The Edmonton institutions have had some changes. There is so much to celebrate. At EIFW (Edmonton Institution for Women), the new minimum unit opened this fall – outside the fences! It is very refreshing to visit with the women in this space – they having taken responsibility for setting up the room, arranging the visiting areas and getting the kettles ready for tea. The small group gatherings encourage many conversations and relationships are developed from the consistent attendance of both the volunteers and women. Kudos to the volunteers. Summer difficulties in getting into the Secure Unit corrected themselves this fall and we have had some wonderful visits. In addition, the summer brought new volunteers into EIFW to connect with the women through Pilates classes. In the fall, this group connected with women in the chapel with an evening hymn sing. Their last event for 2014 was carolling with a large group of women. Consistency of visitors is so important at Edmonton Institution. Our visits with C and D Unit are really important to the guys. They support each other in coming to the visits and we support them with our visiting. We are blessed in getting to know the guys for who they are. Several individual matches have continued to develop this past year with the support of the chaplains at EI. Great news! This fall, we started the M2 program at Grierson Institution. An inmate who was transferred to Grierson requested the M2 program. It’s amazing how the influence of the program at another institution comes with the fellow when he is transferred. It’s a true testament of the success of the program. There are now 3 guys interested in one-to-one sponsorships. If you are interested in becoming a sponsor – please call Janet Anderson at 780-995-3503 M2 BOWDEN Quilt presented to Moira Brownlee, CoSA Coordinator by the Pathways Unit at Bowden Penitentiary for all her work in that institution. FAITH BASED REINTEGRATION by Laurie Bennie Our M2 continues to make a difference for both the inmates and the 29 sponsors. There will always be more names on the waiting list than sponsors, but the volunteers continue so faithfully, and by their word-ofmouth I am able to bring in new volunteers. At the M2 Christmas event, we were able to have more pie and ice cream than the 40 of us could finish. Woody was allowed to bring in his guitar, and we sang Christmas songs. The photographer took pictures of each pair, and there was some time for individual conversations. Then we formed a large group and each person spoke up. The sponsors said: “This is my favourite Christmas event.” “I become more blessed than the men here.” “I have really enjoyed spending time with my friend inside.” “No matter how tired I am, I always get blessed when I come in to visit.” Every one of the inmates also had something to say. One said it was the first time in his life he had ever celebrated Christmas. Another said it was very touching that we would give up a night to come and visit them. Another: "We can't thank you volunteers enough! We don't have anyone on the outside. What you do is so powerful to us on the inside! By your commitment and sacrifice, you touch people in deep and profound ways!" The men are so grateful for all we do, we cannot help but be touched and changed ourselves! by Peter Worsley A prisoner I will call Al, who I had visited for several years in prison, had become eligible for escorted temporary absences (ETAs). He hoped to connect with his young-adult son, whom he had seldom seen since being incarcerated, by meeting him in Calgary. It was arranged that a Chaplain from the prison would bring Al to Calgary for the day and we set a time for him and his son to meet at our office. When Al and the Chaplain arrived in Calgary the three of us went to Timmy’s for lunch. As it was near his son’s birthday Al bought a cupcake from Timmy’s to put a candle in. Back at the office his son arrived, we lit the candle in the cupcake and celebrated by singing him happy birthday. We then gave Al and his son some time to spend alone and talk. Afterwards the Chaplain took Al back to the prison. It was a simple but meaningful occasion for all of us. Al later wrote to me from prison saying, “I would like to again thank you for lunch and accommodating my son and I. I appreciate all you’ve done more than I can say”. … “It’s because of people like you that my faith has been restored and I have the desire to give back. Thank you again!” I’m privileged to assist in the process of helping ‘normalize’ life for prisoners and their family members and to contribute to restoring the faith of offenders in God. I’m thankful to those involved in providing this opportunity, MCCA, Catholic Charities and individual donors, and to volunteers and colleagues who support this work. Thank you all! An Experience in Reconciliation Tom Brownlee I recently was invited to be present at the Muslim “Festival of the Sacrifice” – Eid al-Adha. There were about fifty people in attendance, Muslims and guests. The story of the festival was explained and we feasted well! I was at a table reserved for guests. Two Muslims were with us as well to answer any questions we might have and to serve as hosts. When we finished eating, various people were thanked for what they had contributed to the meal. More speeches followed. Afterwards preparations were made for afternoon prayers. One of the men who had sat at our table went to two other men seated at another table and specifically asked them to come to the prayers. They thanked him and good-naturedly declined the offer. The man who had invited them said with a smile, “We’ll convert you yet.” One of the men replied jovially, “No, we’ll convert you.” I asked one of the men invited to the Muslim prayers: “What religion are you?” He replied, “Jewish.” While the Muslims engaged in their prayers, led by the Imam, the Jewish men also prayed in their own way. As a Christian, I spent the time reflecting on a couple of passages of scripture. After the Muslims had finished their prayers, the young man who had invited the Jewish men to prayers came back, shook hands with them, and sat down to chat with them. They were smiling and laughing. I learned later that one of the Jewish men had been born in Israel, but had come to Canada at an early age because both his parents had been killed in conflict. Muslim radicals had killed them. I also discovered that the Muslim man who was chatted with them had been a Muslim radical earlier in his life. Here they were, able to move beyond their past history and experience a good degree of reconciliation. What made this experience in reconciliation surprising for me is that it took place in prison. The event itself took place in the prison chapel with a number of Christians present. For this particular prison, for any group to hold an event, ten prisoners need to attend. Since there are less than ten Jewish men in this prison, they should be unable to hold one of their festivals. However, the astonishing part of this whole story is that the Muslim group in this prison always signs up enough of its members for the Jewish events that the Jewish group can celebrate their festivals. In return, the Jewish prisoners are invited to the Muslim events. This discovery is what made the experience of this day truly extraordinary for me. It speaks to me of God’s grace at work in the most amazing way. COSA UPDATE by Laurie Bennie CoSA continues to have successful weekly and monthly gatherings, as well as individual circle meetings with Core Members (CMs). Last summer we hiked from Beynon to Wayne, Alberta, near Drumheller, along an abandoned railway track. We also rafted down the Bow River in Calgary (see photo). Our 3-day camp was thoroughly enjoyed, including by a Bowden inmate and 2 Parole Officers from Bowden. We continue to celebrate the small progresses and victories we see, including a CM who can now keep money in his pocket and get all his bills paid. Another has impressed his new boss with his small machine repair skills. One of our CMs in his 30s is taking High School courses, and his marks have been so high, he has received the huge honour of being one of 2 students invited to attend the prestigious Aboriginal Achievement Awards. Government funding losses this year have concerned us, and the CoSAs across Canada have created a National entity to lobby on our behalf. We are hopeful for success. Meanwhile we continue to our fellowship together! M2 TESTIMONIAL by Terry Marcinkoski, Grierson Centre Inmate, Edmonton My name is Terry Marcinkoski. Janet Anderson of M2W2 came to me and asked me if I would write a few words of my impression and involvement with M2W2. Of course without hesitation I said yes. New CoSA brochure for Core Members. We also have new ones for Volunteers and Stakeholders. I am a first-time Federal Inmate and in the past I’ve had no experience with the justice system or what to expect from it. When I was arrested, incarcerated, and sentenced, I was unfamiliar on what to expect and how fast you lose your sense of persona. Once sentenced, I was admitted to the federal prison of Drumheller Institution in Drumheller Alberta, away from family, children, friends and the surroundings I was used to. If anyone knows the history of Drumheller to put it candidly, it’s a Gladiator school - it’s all about punishment not correction. Prior to arriving at Drumheller Institution, I came from Calgary Remand Centre where I sat two years waiting on sentencing. To say the least this is where you see a failing justice system around you and the start of where you become embittered and rancorous. The negativity all around you from inmates, correctional staff, lawyers, authority - you feel defeatist. In a failing prison system - budget cuts, tough on crime bill pushed through, programs depleted, schooling budgets diminished there’s a need for something or someone to give relief to prison and inmates. M2W2 is that organization in my notion, I have become a life member without knowing it. My first engagement with Gord Hutchinson and Dave Hendricks was enlightening to say the least; there was an instant sense of emancipation. I was introduced to Dave and Gord by another inmate that was involved in M2W2 for some time now, and was doing the cooking for some of the special events for M2W2 and sponsors. I was asked to fill that void as he was to move to another Institution. I was clasped by their altruistic public spirited souls; I was captured by their non-judgmental and merciful personalities. It was hard to believe there are persons out there that care and want to see second chances, a better inmate, and friend. In developing my relationship with Gord and Dave of M2W2, I met with them weekly until they were able to get a sponsor to match with me, which was James Schnell. Our meetings were monthly at the Institution where all members and sponsors would gather in the chapel. There was an instant sense of disengagement from the Institution temporarily - I had felt, this was all ‘GOOD.” Dave myself and Gord decided we would continue meeting weekly, our friendships grew and I was in awe with what was developing among all of us and how it brought me back to see how such good Humanitarians exist for prison and inmates. I was feeling good about myself again, letting go of bitterness, resentment, feeling confident about my progression forward, all due to my friendships with sponsors and M2W2 coordinators, thanking them all! I faithfully believe there is a real need for their presence in a prison system, so much that I have now become an advocate for M2W2 by bringing and signing many inmates, bringing M2W2 to other Institutions: Drumheller Annex, and Edmonton Grierson Centre. I have gained an enduring relationship with my sponsor James Schnell, and M2W2 coordinators Gord Hutchinson, Dave Hendricks and Janet Anderson. As time progresses for me, I see my future as an ear for inmates a sponsor and coordinator for M2W2 in a prison system that’s depleting in so many areas, we need to find ways of instilling confidence in men who are still human beings, and that’s M2W2!
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