ISSUE 2 APRIL 2015 KDN PP 10647/04/2013 (032074) At 33, Vincent Chan values his ability to cope independently following two debilitating strokes. STROKE is the 2nd major cause of death in Malaysia! Founder Chairman’s Message Stroke can happen to anyone, even the young, and at any time. I had my stroke at the age of 44. Everyone - my relatives, friends, business associates - was surprised that I had it at such a young age. Is 44 a young age? I guess it is in the context of stroke. For the longest time stroke has been regarded as a health issue you may get as you grow older, like above 70. In fact when we first started NASAM in 1996, people were reluctant to volunteer at our centre. In their minds stroke survivors were old, sickly, frail and had little hope of recovery. We had to convince them (and are still doing so today) that it is a myth to think that stroke only affects the aged. These days, stroke survivors are getting younger. At NASAM we have seen children, from as young as the age of 1, with stroke. According to studies, the risk of stroke in children is greatest in the first year of life and during the period right before birth to immediately after birth. Stroke is a brain attack. When someone has stroke, he or she either dies or lives with disabilities for the rest of his or her life. And as the stroke survivor copes with tough challenges, the family too is forced to make changes, especially the carer. Many families unable to cope with this dramatic change have fallen apart. In young adults, what follows after a stroke can be extremely damaging, as careers or education comes to a standstill. There are also frustrations due to isolation from peer groups. It’s critical that these young adults receive the right support and expert advice fast to help get them back on track. At NASAM we advocate prompt rehabilitation for the stroke survivor and counselling for the carer. Over the years we have encouraged and guided thousands of stroke survivors and their families to begin a new journey and to celebrate life after stroke. YES! THERE IS LIFE AFTER STROKE. Janet Yeo Founder Chairman Inspiration LIFE AFTER STROKE It was just like any other night… mechanical engineer Vincent Chan Voon Shen, a 32-year old bachelor had returned home after dinner with friends, which was almost a daily ritual since he did not want to eat alone. A Malaysian, Vincent was educated and working in Singapore while his parents and other family members lived in Kuala Lumpur. On arriving home Vincent got ready for bed. After only a couple of hours of sleep he woke up. “I felt numb on my left arm and leg. It was very irritating,” recalled Vincent when Stroke news met up with him in NASAM PJ, in January this year. When asked to describe the irritation, he said: “It is like getting a jab in your gum at the dentist. The feeling is exactly the same. I tried to ignore it and continued to lie down hoping that I would fall asleep. After about two hours I was so irritated by the numbness that I had to do something.” Vincent decided to call a friend, who accompanied him to the A&E section of NUH (National University Hospital). This was on October 19, 2013. Up until then his major health issues were hypertension and diabetes for which he was on medication, and ankylosing spondylitis*, which had caused a backache some years back. After a battery of tests and a CT scan Vincent was informed that he had suffered a stroke. The scan showed that a nerve towards the left side of the brain was swollen. “It was baffling, because in stroke this would cause my right side to be affected and not the left as was in my case,” explained Vincent. “I spent two days in hospital, and with medication the numbness eased and I felt better. I returned for a review every three months, and after a year, in November 2014, my doctor declared I had fully recovered.” near home for two to three hours. His new health regime also meant he had to watch what he ate and drank. His weight at the time he had his first stroke was 105 kg. Two months after his first stroke, on November 20, 2013, Vincent was at work when his speech started to slur and he could not move his lower jaw. “It felt strange. I could move, there was nothing wrong with my limbs, but my jaws and vocal chords were not cooperating. I went back to NUH suspecting I had suffered a stroke.” This time he stayed in hospital for nine days. “On the first day I panicked and was actually afraid. Nobody seemed to know what was happening to me. My basic test results were all normal so I was not put on any medication. For the next four or five days more and more tests were done.” Eventually, the results of an MRI (Magnetic Resonance Imaging) procedure showed that the seventh facial or cranial nerve was infected. It was confirmed he was not suffering from a stroke but from a type of bacterial infection known as Group B Streptococcus or GBS. With medication he By now Vincent was on a keep-fit programme and fully recovered in about three weeks but still had some together with friends jogged and exercised in a Park speech difficulty. *ANKYLOSING SPONDYLITIS is an inflammatory disease that can cause some of the vertebrae in the spine to fuse together. This fusing makes the spine less flexible and can result in a hunched-forward posture. If ribs are affected, it may be difficult to breathe deeply. This condition affects men more often than women and typically begins in early adulthood. Treatment can decrease pain and lessen symptoms – Mayo Clinic 3 Re-assured by the fact that chances of a recurrence of GBS are low, Vincent resumed work and his proactive lifestyle. In addition to jogging and exercising at the Park, he passionately resumed his interest in motorsports. Along with a group of friends, he would travel to Sepang, near KLIA or Pasir Gudang in Johor, once every two months and spend about three hours on the track, “not racing’’ he clarifies, but sharpening his motoring skills. “Motor racing allows me to improve my driving skills and style of driving,” explained Vincent. “It’s safer to experiment at high speeds on the track than on the road. I feel like I am not only testing the car’s performance but also my limits. It’s a moment of reckoning, a moment when I understand my own limits.” The road to recovery depends on willpower, says Vincent. 24, 2014, he was wheeled into NASAM PJ for While some people, including his parents, consider rehabilitation. His balance and gait were poor. He motor sports dangerous, Vincent is quick to add that could not walk independently – he needed an aid and it is a safe sport because you are driving within a was put under supervision. After his assessment, it was recommended that he undergo one-on-one as controlled environment. well as group therapy. As time went by, Vincent once again was enjoying life full throttle. He worked hard, enjoyed the Driven by sheer determination, Vincent discarded camaraderie of friends and, like most in their 30s, he his wheelchair after one week. He shares: “I felt totally inadequate being confined to a wheelchair and continued to make plans for his future. needing help for everything, from wearing clothes, to eating and going to the toilet. I was frustrated. From being totally independent, from a young age, to being totally dependent at 33 was something I could not accept. Initially, I was disheartened, because after the first stroke I had made an effort to change my lifestyle and yet it had happened again, this time so bad that I was confined to a wheelchair. It’s like studying hard in school and preparing for exams, yet getting poor results.” Enjoying life full throttle. About 18 months following his first stroke, on December 10, 2014, he woke up with the same good intentions of getting ready for work. However, when he tried to walk, he found both his legs wobbly. Somehow he persevered and managed to wash up and get ready. Then his speech started to slur. At that time his brother, who was visiting and staying with him, managed to get him to the hospital. Once again he was put through all the tests. An MRI showed a blood clot in his mid-brain, towards the back of his head. He was having his second stroke. This time Vincent was admitted for 10 days. Once his condition stabilised, the doctors advocated rehabilitation therapy. Since family support was in KL, he was brought to Malaysia. On December 4 But with good family support and the ideal environment and motivation at NASAM PJ, Vincent was able to convince himself that this was only a temporary setback. He worked hard at rehabilitation. He was at NASAM every day, accompanied by his 69-year old father Chan Yop Liong and 67-year old mother Ong Kim Kat. His recovery was so good that after four sessions he did not need private rehab; and in group therapy he was soon elevated to the intermediate session. At the end of January, about six weeks after his second stroke, Vincent Chan was ready to leave NASAM and consider heading back to his job in Singapore. The results of his dedication and commitment to living a normal life after stroke was evident, not only in his confident gait but also in a much trimmer physique at 95 kg - 10 kg lighter than when he had his first stroke. Mr Chan Yop Liong and his wife Ong Kim Kat, parents of stroke survivor Vincent Chan, shared their : sentiments with Lessons from stroke shared by Vincent Chan: “We were scared and very upset when we heard our ■ The road to recovery can be fast or slow. It really depends on your willpower to get back on track. son had a stroke. How could it be? He is so young. We didn’t know what to do and we worried about his future. We live in KL and he lives in Singapore, we ■ Be positive. Don’t feel sorry and keep dwelling on why it happened to you. Instead plan how to live are not there with him every day… anything could with it. happen. “When he suffered his second stroke, we were even ■ If you think you cannot recover, you will never get back to leading a normal life. more afraid because it was worse. But we are very happy to see him show such great determination and recover so fast. We pray hard that we don’t have to ■ Life is tough, but would you rather be without life? So live LIFE to the fullest. go through this again.” While Mr Chan has no health issues and walks ■ Be grateful for family support. Family and friends are always important, you don’t have to be sick to 45 minutes every morning, his wife discovered realise or appreciate their value. she had diabetes when she was in her 50s and is on medication. The couple advocate eating three healthy meals a day. Breakfast is a must and meals must be had punctually, in controlled amounts. Stroke Risk Score Card Risk of stroke increases as you get older. After the age of 55, the risk of having a stroke doubles for every decade you are alive. The best way to prevent stroke is to reduce the risk factors associated with stroke. Risk factors include high blood pressure, diabetes, high cholesterol, obesity, smoking, alcohol and lack of exercise. Consult your doctor if you have any risk factor. Risk Factors Readings High Risks Caution Low Risk Blood Pressure (mm/Hg)* h 140/90 or unknown h 120-139/80-89 i 120/80 Cholesterol (mmol/l)* h 6.2 5.2-6.2 i 5.2 Diabetes Yes Borderline No Atrial Fibrillation Irregular heartbeat I don’t know Regular heartbeat Smoking Current smoker, 20 cigarettes/day Trying to quit or has quit for less than 5 years Non-smoker or has quit for more than 5 years ago Exercise Sedentary lifestyle, very little or no physical activities Some exercise, moderately active once or twice a week Regular exercise, 30 minutes a day for 5 times a week Diet (BM) = Weight (kg)/ Height (m) x Height (m) Overweight (BMI = 27.5 to 29.9) Slightly overweight (BMI = 25 to 27.4) Healthy weight (BMI = 18.5 to 24.9) Family history of stroke/TIA Yes Not sure No TOTAL SCORE (each box = 1) High Risk Caution Low Risk 1. Check each box that applies to you. 2. *Consult your doctor if you do not know your blood pressure or cholesterol reading. This stroke risk card is adapted from the National Stroke Association (USA) and modified by NASAM. 5 Health STROKE IN THE YOUNG Contributed by Abdullah Asad Siddiqui, Emergency Physician and Occupational Health Doctor, Ara Damansara Medical Centre. - BELOW 45 YEARS There is no such thing as being too young for Stroke. Agreed that the chances of stroke risk increases with age, however, these days there is growing concern that stroke is increasingly affecting all age groups. It is becoming more common in infants, children, adolescents and young adults. If I had to define what I consider as young age, I would say below 45. Here are some prevention strategies for stroke at any age: ■ Work with your doctor to identify underlying diseases ■ Eat a diet low in saturated fats and high in fruits, vegetables and whole grains Stroke in this younger age group requires a different ■ Control high blood pressure and high cholesterol at an early age approach and management because we are looking at different causes. ■ Recognise and control diabetes All stroke is caused by decreased blood supply to the ■ Avoid alcohol, drugs and smoking brain. In children, common causes include infections, trauma, heart disorders, sickle cell disease and ■ Avoid sedentary lifestyles dehydration. One of the biggest differences between stroke in the Cardiogenic or heart-related cases account for most aged and in the young is in the recovery. Due to better strokes in young adults, followed by drug abuse, brain plasticity (or the brain’s ability to cope), the particularly intravenous drugs. Cardiogenic causes younger age group tends to recover better. may include rheumatic heart disease, heart valve abnormalities and being born with a hole between the right and left side of the heart. Other causes of stroke Read more: include an accumulation of blood or clots in blood NEW RESEARCH INTO TREATMENT OF vessels in the neck, birth control pills and of course COMMON CAUSE OF STROKE IN YOUNG smoking. PEOPLE www.stroke.org.uk WHY YOUNG PEOPLE HAVE STROKES www.webmd.com/stroke/news 6 Partnering NASAM In Stroke Education Health MALAYSIA HAS A ‘SICK’ POPULATION 63% of adults, ag ed 18 years and above, h ave at least one of these risk fa ct o rs – obesity, high blood p high blood su ressure, g high blood ch ar or olesterol. In this article Stroke News has used excerpts of a letter by Datuk Dr Lokman Hakim Sulaiman, Deputy Director General of Health (Public Health) and Dr Feisul Idzwan Mustapha, Public Health Physician (NCD), Ministry of Health, Malaysia that appeared in The Star on March 2, 2015. According to the doctors the Ministry of Health (MOH) is extremely concerned with the increasing burden of Non-Communicable Diseases (NCDs) in Malaysia, not only among the working population but also the population at large. “Data from our National and Health Morbidity Survey (NHMS) demonstrates that at least 63% of adults, aged 18 years and above, have at least one NCD risk factor namely overweight/obesity, high blood pressure, high blood sugar or high blood cholesterol. A report from SOCSO (Social Security Organisation) provides further evidence to this fact.” The SOCSO report shows that only about 16% or 308,039 out of 1.9 million of its members have used their vouchers. So the question asked is why are more Malaysians not getting themselves screened when availability and accessibility of screening facilities is not an issue. After all, there are many private clinics throughout Malaysia, and most have extended working hours. The doctors also reminded organisations that employees are human capital. “Employers must invest to get the best value from their human capital. Without this investment in health, employers will continue to face the double burden of loss of productivity and increased medical costs. “Even SOCSO we believe will soon reach a point where current premium rates will not be able to sustain the claims made due to NCD-related complications,” they warn. “Changing human behaviour and organisational behaviour is not easy and that is why we need everyone on board. As we head towards a developed-nation status by 2020 – unless we address this dichotomy of Over the years the MOH has continuously promoted the how low Malaysians value health – that achievement importance of annual health screening. NCD is a silent will ring hollow. NCD is one of the most important disease and the MOH has continuously advocated this challenges that must be tackled collectively by all message as well. However, NHMS shows that a large Malaysians,” they concluded. number of Malaysians remain undiagnosed with NCD risk factors because they do not undergo regular health screenings. When symptoms develop, they are likely to be in an advanced stage of the disease, which means they are more difficult and more costly to manage, and have irreversible health consequences. 7 Health EASY TIPS TO AVOID DEPRESSION Make Your Today A Great One! We all have days where we feel a little low or out of sorts. But the good news is that once you know a few simple tricks, it’s easy to shift your mood from dull to deliciously inspired in just a few minutes. Here are some simple things you can do to lift your spirits anytime, anyplace, anywhere: Feed Your Ears With Inspiration It’s not hard to believe. Most people have a positive Listening to energising music is one of the fastest, reaction to flowers. So why not exercise a little selflove and treat yourself to a nice bouquet or take a easiest ways to elevate your mood. Put on one or two of your favourite songs and you’ll leisurely walk in a garden? If you get some flowers be surprised how quickly you start to feel more put them in an area of your home or office where you can see them, and you’ll be surprised how a few positive about yourself and your day! delicate buds can lift your spirits. Invite Positive People Into Your Space One of the best ways to pull yourself out of the doldrums is to spend a little time with someone who has an abundance of positive energy. But if a close friend or family member isn’t nearby, here’s the next best thing…listen to an “inspirational video or CD” where motivational people share inspiring things that’ll uplift your mind and spirit. As the learning centers of your brain are activated, you’ll quickly experience a nice jolt of positivity. Do Not Dwell On Unhappiness If you’re feeling a bit down, it’s important to be gentle with yourself. A lot of people who feel unhappy further reinforce this emotional state by dwelling on their unhappiness. Try and remember that it’s natural for human emotions to go up and down. Take a deep breath and tell yourself that this emotion too will pass. Source: www.abundantentrepreneurmail.com Laugh It Off Laughter is one of the most effective antidotes for a heavy mood. Laughing and smiling releases endorphins…the “happy hormones” produced in the brain that are widely regarded as nature’s cure for the blues. EMOTIONAL SUPPORT Beautify Your Space Eckhart Tolle, widely recognised as one of the most inspiring and original spiritual teachers of our time, writes that gazing at flowers instils peace within us. Volunteer and stroke survivor Alvin Lau offering peer support to Jason Chan (left), a 40-year old who suffered a stroke last year. NASAM offers counselling for stroke survivors and caregivers. There are group and one-on-one sessions. Stroke survivors volunteer by sharing their personal experiences of coping with the stroke and their journey to a functional life. This peer support empowers and inspires new members throughout their time at NASAM. 8 Caregiving Insights Qamer Iqbal Khan NASAM’s Rehabilitation Training & Development Head (BPTh,MPTh) SITTING OR LYING IN BED AFTER STROKE It is best for caregivers to seek professional help to understand how to position a stroke survivor in a safe and comfortable way when lying or sitting in bed. Due to stroke the muscles and joints can be affected in many ways causing muscle shortening, pain and stiffness. There can also be difficulty with speed and the full movement of a joint. By properly supporting the body and aligning it, you, as a caregiver, can prevent the condition from worsening. (Only try these positions if the survivor is comfortable and take into consideration other issues such as bed sores and fractures.) By positioning the body the right way you can: 1 • Avoid shoulder pain • Improve movement of joints • Stretch muscles • Have more independence • Prevent and reduce partial • Increase awareness of the affected limbs dislocation of shoulder 2 LYING ON THE STROKE SIDE LYING ON THE UNAFFECTED SIDE ■Use ■Use one or two pillows as head rest ■Position the affected shoulder comfortably ■Make sure the body weight is on the shoulder blade and not on the tip of the shoulder ■Ensure the trunk is stretched and the good hand can be placed towards the pillow at the back ■Place the unaffected leg forward on one or two pillows ■Place additional pillows behind the body ■Change the position after two hours one or two pillows as head rest ■Support affected arm on additional pillow ■Place affected leg on one or two pillows and allow body to lean slightly on the pillow in front ■Change the position after two hours n Sa n o Bo ith g w On sted r i o viv y ass r u l s e . ke gam bove o r a st o to , wh otos s nk ng ph tha le O the l c a 9 eci r Un p S o Caregiving Insights 3 4 LYING ON THE BACK SITTING ON THE BED ■Place pillows ■When sitting upright make sure the body is well to support head ■Place small pillow or rolled towel to support shoulder and shoulder blades ■Support both arms with pillows ■Use pillow to support the affected leg ■Feet should be in neutral position (toes facing upwards) ■Change position after 30-45 minutes supported by pillows ■Place affected arm on pillows ■Feet should be in neutral position (toes facing upwards) ■Sit for as long as is comfortable NOTE: From the early stages of post stroke it is important to pay attention to the positioning of a stroke survivor. A good posture: • Normalises muscle tone and encourages greater flexibility of the joints • Promotes faster recovery • Increases ability to interact with the environment • Supports paralysed limbs • Prevents pain If you have any questions related to caring for a stroke survivor contact Qamer at [email protected] / 014-3239843 or 03-79561876 ext. 103. STROKE Know The Signs – Act Fast! Two million brain cells die every minute during a stroke, increasing the risk of permanent brain damage, disability or death. Recognising symptoms and acting FAST to get medical attention can save a life and limit disabilities. The sooner you notice the signs of stroke and call 999, the better the recovery. Take a minute to learn how to act F.A.S.T. It’s an easy way to remember the signs of stroke! 10 F A S T Facial Drooping: Ask the person to smile. Does one side of the face droop? Arms Weakness: Ask the person to raise both arms. Is one arm weak and drifting downwards? Speech Difficulty: Ask the person to repeat a simple phrase. Is their speech slurred or strange? Time To Call If you observe any of these signs, call 999 immediately! NASAM News FOOD AND FUN FAIR - TAMAN JAYA SUNDAY, JUNE 14, 2015 NASAM‘s annual fund raising event ‘Fun Fair At The Park’ will soon be upon us. Mark your calendars for this day of family fun … from alfresco dining Malaysian-style to exciting games and stalls selling crafts and various other products. This year’s event promises to be even bigger with more than 60 stalls. All funds raised will be channelled into the ongoing operations of our Centres where members enjoy a range of affordable rehab services. NASAM looks forward to your kind support and highly valued contributions. So do come and join us at Taman Jaya, on Sunday, June 14, 2015 from 8am to 2pm. You Can Also Help By: • Making a donation – online through www.nasam. org /our account Maybank 5122 3152 0534 and fax/ scan your bank-in-slip to 03-79310087 or email to [email protected]. • Buying coupons – each booklet costs RM10 and is available from NASAM • Sponsoring a stall for RM3,000 • Donating or sponsoring products/items for sale at our stalls Please contact Nancy Yap at 03-79561876 or email [email protected] 11 NASAM News SKILLS UPGRADING FOR NASAM THERAPISTS For the first time in its 19-year history an intensive in-house training programme, that was specially developed for NASAM, kicked off at the PJ Centre on March 8. The 12-month programme has been put together by Lim Yi Lin, a member of the NASAM Board, who is a very experienced physiotherapist and owns a successful physiotherapy clinic in Petaling Jaya. The training will be held in four key centres – PJ, Penang, Johor and Kuantan. Yi Lin believes in the mentor and mentoring concept and it is her desire to help upgrade the level of physiotherapists in Malaysia, not only in the area of skills and knowledge but also in confidence, management and leadership. NASAM, according to founder and chairman Janet Yeo, embraces the same vision. Raising physiotherapists’ standards through intensive training. “It is our hope that through this training programme we will see the emergence of a special group of NASAM Rehab Therapists who are knowledgeable, skillful in areas of Stroke Rehabilitation and confident in managing our NASAM centres,” added Janet. “We are offering our therapists an opportunity to grow their chosen careers. It has taken many, many months for the NASAM management and our trainer to prepare a conducive programme. The ultimate objective is to raise our physiotherapy standards to a higher level.” The programme takes therapists through theory and practicals. It focuses on skills as well as leadership and teamwork. This training programme, to help NASAM raise its physiotherapy standards to a higher level, was made possible by a stroke survivor who sponsored the entire cost of the project. Trainer Yi Lin is a member of the Malaysian Physiotherapy Association (MPA) and of the World Confederation for Physical Therapy (WCPT). She has been in the industry since 1998. 12 Events FESTIVITY: THE GOAT STRIDES IN WITH POMP AND CEREMONY A burst of traditional red decorations lent a festive air at all NASAM clubs in mid-February. During rehab sessions in the weeks before the auspicious day, members painstakingly crafted decorative trimmings, which then graced rooms and hallways. On selected dates, after CNY, Clubs hosted sumptuous lunches for members, caregivers and friends. Dressed in red finery, everyone joined the revelry and tossed yee sang for good health and prosperity. Our heartfelt Thank You to all sponsors who made the celebration possible at the various Clubs. NASAM wishes you a healthy and prosperous year! NASAM PJ The God of Prosperity ushered in the spirit of Chinese New Year, followed closely behind by members of the Sheng Wai Lion Dance troop. The young, agile and energetic adults put on a spectacular lion dance display that members found engaging. After their show they sportingly posed for the cameras, and before leaving for their next venue they shared their goodwill by donating their ang pow collection to NASAM – for which NASAM is very thankful. A big thank you also to Sin Chua Kee restaurant, off Old Klang Road, for generously sponsoring the yee sang. NASAM Kuantan NASAM Johor 13 Spotlight - Other Events NASAM PJ - FEBRUARY 12, 2015 A Morning With Nurses… A group of post-rehab nurses from Kuala Pilah Nursing College, led by lecturer Puan Norlina, observed club members going through their exercise regime and also participated in various activities. The group of 15 postrehab nurses gained a better perspective of NASAM’s services and stroke rehabilitation programme during a presentation by Therapist-In-Charge, Devi Silvadorai. She also briefed them about caring and how to position stroke survivors in bed. …And Burger Making Afternoon tea offered some respite from routine therapy – members exercised as they buttered buns, cut fillings such as onions, tomatoes, cucumbers, to create their own Ramly burgers. After their hard work they were more than happy to savour their creations. A Musical Interlude - MPO Brings A Harp Members at NASAM PJ were treated to a musical journey when harpist Tan Keng Hong, of the Malaysian Philharmonic Orchestra (MPO), visited with his “golden” harp. Following the opening number, a harp concerto by George Handel, Keng Hong continued to enthral his audience with music from selected countries around the world. Some popular numbers included Here Comes The Sun by the Beatles and Sheila Majid’s Lagenda. Members also had an opportunity to get a feel of the Italian-made harp that weighed about 50 kg and cost over RM100,000. 14 Spotlight - Other Regional Events NASAM Perak… … Participated in a health awareness event called “Young at Heart”, organised by Urban Health magazine at KPJ hospital in Ipoh. During the interactive session some members shared their journey of recovery from stroke. NASAM Johor... … organized a three-day trip to Penang. Members and friends took in famous sights such as the Snake Temple and Reclining Buddha and Kek Lok Si Temples, Fort Cornwalis, the state museum and street art at Armenian Street. NASAM Kuantan... … was given complimentary use of Hyatt Regency Resort’s poolside. During the fun outing, members celebrated the 79th birthday of Lim Hong Kwang. 15 Spotlight - Volunteer YOUNG & CARING Pint-sized Jean Ng Ai Deen stands tall on the exercise floor at NASAM PJ. With a quick smile she reaches out and helps a stroke survivor stretch a little further; and as she connects with a gentle, firm touch, her charge gives a knowing look… even attempts to try a little harder. This 19-year old volunteer, who has been with NASAM since June 2014, is clearly a favourite among the Club members, most of whom regard her as a grand-daughter. Jean guiding a stroke survivor doing rehab. Jean a high achiever, scored 9As in her SPM, before pursuing her college education. Academia aside, Jean is a Taekwondo exponent, holding a black belt; she also enjoys playing the piano. Towards the end of February 2015 she began her medical studies at IMU University in Bukit Jalil. Before her departure, she spoke to Stroke news about her decision to volunteer at NASAM, her first day, and lessons learned as she celebrated life with stroke survivors: “I became a volunteer because I wanted to contribute to society. I have always admired volunteers who selflessly help others. They are my heroes. They make the world a better place. I wish more young people would volunteer and realise that there are many invaluable experiences to be gained. You won’t know until you try it. We, the young, are the key to the future. While we may be driven by ambition, success and wealth, we must also realise that money is not everything. It does not matter how much time you can give. Whatever you give goes a long way. “I chose NASAM because stroke is becoming so common, not only among Malaysians but also around the world. I wanted to know more about this disease, what causes it and how to care for a stroke survivor. Plus my late grandfather had a stroke too, so it gave me more reason to help out at An endearing moment between Volunteer Jean and NASAM. Chan Woon Yong “On my first day I was a nervous wreck. I had not done any volunteering work before. I worried and was crippled with fear that someone might fall when under my care. But everyone at NASAM was kind to me, guided me and made me feel comfortable. “Initially, I was shocked to see so many survivors attending rehabilitation. Soon I got into a routine, learned more about stroke and how to care for survivors. My daily schedule at NASAM began at 9am and finished at 1pm. I walked with survivors, helped them with their exercises, chatted and listened to their worries and tried to find solutions to their problems. Most of them love it when young people take the time and effort to be with them. Sometimes, I even cheer them up with jokes when they are feeling low. “Volunteering at NASAM has certainly helped me. I used to be a shy person, unable to interact much with others. My time at NASAM has helped improve my communication skills and made me a more confident person. “The lessons I take away with me revolve around belief, determination and being positive. I have seen these qualities 16 in the stroke survivors who are able to recover fast because they believe they can, they continue to think positive and are determined to move on with their lives. I also learned about remaining calm when faced with a challenge, and to be more observant about life around me. NASAM welcomes volunteers. If you have time to spare, are in good health, friendly, compassionate and love interacting with people or have some special skills, join our team. Call any of our Clubs for a chat. All we need from you is commitment and a strong desire to help others! NASAM wishes Jean Ng the very best as she embarks on her next journey. Thank you for sharing your time with us. Spotlight - Caregivers A CARER’S JOURNEY The oft-heard adage at NASAM is ‘stroke strikes not one member but the entire family’. Families go through trying times as they attempt to cope with many unknown factors that come hurtling towards them at a frightening pace. Some families fall apart, others persevere and manage to become more united. After the initial shock and setback, one person in the family usually assumes the role of caregiving – a role that is fraught with challenges. Stroke news caught up with two caregivers whose lives have not been the same since their spouses suffered a stroke. You can almost hear the fear and near hysteria in Lily Peris’ voice as she recalls the early days when her husband of 41 years, Richard Yeong, suffered a stroke: “I felt very terrible…I felt like committing suicide. I didn’t know a thing about stroke.” Richard was alone at home on July 12, 2010 when he had the stroke. It affected his spine (he couldn’t walk or sit), speech and the right side of his face. After 11 days in hospital he was discharged. He was on a feeding tube, and his condition had not changed much – he still could not walk, sit or speak well. Lily, who was working in a school canteen from 5am to 6pm on weekdays, gave up her job on the day Richard was admitted into hospital. However, she was fearful of taking Richard home and caring for him. She was also alone at home, as her only child, a son was living away. Fear and ignorance forced her to put her husband in a nursing home. Richard began his rehab programme at NASAM PJ on August 8, 2010, about a week after he was discharged from hospital. Every day she would take Richard from the home to NASAM for therapy. Four months later an incident in the home saw Richard struggling for his life in hospital. Not wanting to risk another episode she decided to move him back to their home and be a full-time caregiver. “It was a very stressful time,” recalls Lily. “He would fall, he would cry, get angry, mess himself up… I was alone struggling to cope with him. I could not afford to get any help. If he fell, I had to call for help and sometimes struggled for about an hour trying to get him up from the floor. It was very hard. When you are alone and caregiving you don’t sleep or eat properly… you panic because you are not sure how to manage, you are angry and unhappy because you don’t have a life anymore. Your entire focus is on giving care.” But Lily remained stoic. Her love for her husband kept her going. She also found solace in religion. “I prayed to God for strength,” she kept repeating. In time Lily learned more about caregiving and got a better grip on how to cope. Caregiver Lily Peris has been caring for her husband Richard Yeong for 5 years. “I received help and support at NASAM, not only on matters related to better managing Richard but also with other issues such as registering him as an OKU* and receiving government aid,” she said. “Even now, so many years later, I look forward to my daily trips to meet my extended family with whom I exchange and share joys and sorrows. “When I first started bringing Richard here everyone encouraged me to keep moving ahead. We talked about everything in our lives, especially what we went through during those initial days and months following the stroke. I learned so much and gained confidence to keep living.” Today Lily is so thankful that she has taken it upon herself to spread the good word about NASAM, and how to apply for an OKU status. She also reaches out to new arrivals at NASAM as well as families with a stroke survivor that she meets at other places. Now five years on Richard, though still weak on his right side, is able to walk short distances under supervision with a walking aid and is improving in speech. These days when he takes to resting at home Lily is able to get a bit of a break and even go out for a couple of hours. Looking back, she is thankful that her health withstood the trials of those early days. Her final words to caregivers is: “Don’t be angry all the time!” 17 Kamalluddin Bin Omar’s job constantly took him away from home. His wife Alimaton Sadiah Bte Mahmood, a civil servant, managed their household and raised their son and daughter. Life was good. The children grew up, b e c a m e successful professionals, got married and bore grandchildren. While Kamalluddin kept up with the demands of Caregiver Kamalluddin Bin Omar. being a railway contractor, his wife retired from civil service. She kept herself physically active – exercising and walking regularly in a Park. But despite her efforts her health was not the best; she was on medication for diabetes, cholesterol and hypertension. And in 2011, she started finding it difficult to keep her balance and relied on a cane when walking. In their golden years the couple chose to live with their daughter and her family in Puchong, Selangor. When time permitted they indulged in their favourite past time, travelling. By then Kamalluddin had also developed a penchant for golf. An avid golfer, he kept a regular golfing schedule, developing a competitive handicap of below 20. up.I cannot expect our children to take on the role, they have their own lives. They help when they can. I simply had to do it… if I don’t who else will?” His day revolves completely around her needs – everything from the call of nature and bathing to dressing, feeding and daily therapy at NASAM. In the evenings, sometimes, he is able to “steal” away to the mosque while his daughter, a mother of young children, minds Alimaton. His golf is nonexistent these days, and as most of his friends were from the golfing fraternity he has also lost communication with them. “She is totally dependent on me for all her needs,” he adds. “She is trying very hard and is improving. For the first two years at NASAM she was confined to the wheelchair during her therapy sessions. Since July 2014, she walks with an aid, under supervision, for a short distance. I just wish for her to recover fully soon as there are still so many things for her to do, like putting to good use her law degree.” Although his life seems to have taken a backseat, Kamalluddin remains optimistic. “Stroke is not the end of everything. I see her as my wife, not a stroke patient. Our lives have changed now, but not our love.” In early 2011, he returned from Sabah, ready to indulge in his wife and family, golf and travel. He was calling it a day, having completed his final project for his employers. However, his good intentions were short-lived. In June, barely four months after his return, he was relaxing at home with his wife, when she was crippled by a stroke. When it happened she was in the bathroom and had to crawl to the door to call out to Kamalluddin for help. Alimaton was Kamalluddin giving Alimaton a helping hand during therapy at NASAM. taken to hospital where it was confirmed she had suffered a stroke that affected mobility on her right side. From that fateful day Kamalluddin’s life has never been the same. He became a fulltime carer, a commitment he explains as follows: “I had to adjust to the circumstances. All our lives she has been taking care of everything. From the time our children were babies, she single-handedly brought them *Kad OKU is a card issued to Malaysian citizens who have long-term disability that creates challenges or obstacles for them when participating fully within society. There are seven categories, namely hearing, vision, speech, physical, learning, mental and multiple disabilities. The OKU applications, registration and approval are handled for free by the Department of Social Welfare. However, all applications have to be verified by a certified medical officer. Applications can be made online at http://spmoku.jkm.gov.my/smoku. For more information, please log on to www.jkm.gov.my 18 NASAM Needs Your Help We are a non-profit organisation depending solely on public goodwill and generosity to give LIFE to stroke survivors. Many of those who come to NASAM are not able to afford post-stroke rehabilitation which is critical to every survivor’s recovery. Partner us and share a journey of a second chance. How You Can Help By donating (one-off or monthly contributions) By sponsoring a therapist or a stroke centre By volunteering ✂ Donation Form DONOR PARTICULARS (PLEASE USE CAPITAL LETTERS) ONLINE DONATIONS Name/Company : You can also donate through our website at www.nasam.org I.C. No. : Address : City : HP : Home : State : Postcode : Office : Fax : Email : OR Donations can be made directly to our account (Maybank 5122 3152 0534). Please fax/scan your bank-in-slip to 03-7931 0087 or email to [email protected]. Please provide your name as per your MyKad so that tax exempt receipts can be issued. National Stroke Association of Malaysia | No. 12, Jalan Bukit Menteri Selatan (7/2), 46050 Petaling Jaya. Tel: +603 7956 1876 | Fax: +603 7931 0087 | Email: [email protected] | Website: www.nasam.org ✂ Stroke rehabilitation is a crucial part of stroke recovery. NASAM’s stroke rehabilitation programme focuses on the physical, emotional and social wellbeing of stroke survivors and offers physiotherapy, speech therapy, recreational activities, alternative therapy and counselling services. Contact your nearest NASAM Centre for more details. AGAINST THE WIND THE SPIRIT OF NASAM AS SEEN THROUGH THE LIVES OF STROKE SURVIVORS A copy of this documentary is available on DVD for a donation of RM30. NASAM also welcomes requests for corporate screenings. Please contact Nancy Yap at 03-7956 1876 or email [email protected] for more details.
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