ADVICE Sick mom doesn’t need protecting wife. Although your inDEAR ABBY: My stinct is to protect her, I wife has stage 4 breast don't think you can. Sadcancer. She is only 51, ness in her situation is and our most optimistic prognosis is three to four normal. I'm sure if you were to ask her if she'd more years. Our chilprefer the kids censor dren, 15 and 16, undertheir remarks stand her disease, in front of her, but don't really she would tell have a sense of you she wants how much longer to hear everywe all have tothing she can gether. about what Recently we they are thinkwent out to dining. ner, and the kids ©2013 Newspaper Enterprise Association When peostarted talking ple have a terabout my retireminal illness, ment plans and their college plans. Later they have a right to be sad when contemplating that night, my wife told the things they will be me how sad it was hearmissing -- in your wife's ing the kids talk about case it will be seeing her things she knows she children get married, her will never see. grandchildren and more. I have been debating Let your children exwhether I should have a press themselves fully talk with the kids and with their mother, and if perhaps suggest they avoid subjects that make she's having a bad/sad day, listen and let her their mother sad. What unburden herself. A joy do you think? -- NOT shared is twice a joy, and TALKING ABOUT THE a burden shared is half a FUTURE burden. DEAR NOT TALKDEAR ABBY: As a ING: Before talking to gift, my boyfriend, your children, I think "Seth," gave me a Chiyou should talk to your huahua puppy. I like dogs, but have never expressed a desire to have one. In fact, I have repeatedly mentioned my dislike for small dogs and that I wouldn't have a dog due to my travel schedule for work. I'd have to pay for food, veterinary care, toys, boarding, etc., and the dog would be alone in my apartment all day while I'm at the office. Seth still chose to give me one. When I refused his gift, he yelled and left. My friends think I was rude, and that Seth was sweet for buying me a puppy. I tried explaining to them, but they were sarcastic and mean about my decision not to accept the dog. This isn't the first time something like this has happened with Seth. For my birthday he bought me a smartphone, signed me up for a two-year contract and expected me to pay the monthly bill. I refused that, too. Am I wrong? -- SIMPLE GIRL IN SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA DEAR SIMPLE GIRL: You and Seth appear to have a serious disconnect when it comes to communication. Is this the only area of your relationship in which he is tone-deaf? Your boyfriend seems to be the master of the "grand gesture," with no thought about the responsibilities his generous gifts will impose on the recipient. Because you told him clearly that you dislike small dogs, he should not have forced one on you. In fact, he shouldn't have given you any living, breathing dependent creature without first having made sure it would be welcomed. You did the right thing -- the humane thing -- in not accepting the animal. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069. ‘Good’ bacteria delivered to gut in new form DEAR DOCTOR K: I overinfections also kill bacteria in the heard a colleague talking about gut that compete with C. diff. "poop pills" used to treat diarrhea. However, they often don't kill C. That can't be right. Can diff. This leaves a void that it? allows C. diff to multiply. DEAR READER: Once it takes hold in the Yes, "poop" means what gut, C. diff creates toxins you think it means. that cause diarrhea, fever, Same thing as "dooabdominal pain and indoo." It's gross, but it's flammation that can be true. So-called "poop life-threatening. pills" are being used to Treatment of C. diff beASK DR. K ANTHONY L. treat diarrhea caused by gins by stopping the antibiKOMAROFF, M.D. bacteria called Clostridotic that triggered it in the ©2013 The President and Fellows of Harvard College ium difficile, or "C. diff." first place. If that doesn't Let me explain. work, the doctor prescribes Our intestines are one of a handful of antibifilled with many different kinds of otics that specifically kill C. diff. bacteria. Most live happily there; But C. diff is becoming increasthey don't invade or attack the iningly resistant to antibiotics. testine that is their home. C. diff Ever since the discovery of bacteria live in our guts, but in penicillin, the obvious treatment low numbers -- low because other for bacterial infections has been bacteria in the intestine out-comantibiotics. But as the problem of pete them for nutrients. antibiotic resistance has grown, So far, so good. The problem doctors have been experimenting starts with antibiotic treatment. with another approach. They are Every antibiotic is good at killing filling the gut with the bacteria some types of bacteria, while havthat are C. diff's normal competiing no effect on other types. A tors. They're treating bad bacteria doctor chooses a particular antibi- with large numbers of good bacteotic based on the type of bacterial ria. infection that is being treated. The good bacteria are abundant Many people are hospitalized in feces. Transplants of fecal mafor infections, such as pneumonia terial (poop) from a healthy donor or urinary tract infections. Most of are placed into the intestine of the the antibiotics used to kill these person who is ill. As originally used, fecal transplants have been, frankly, rather unpleasant. Fresh stool from a healthy donor has been thinned, and then either pumped into a tube threaded through a patient's nose and into their intestine, or given in the form of an enema (a liquid injected into the rectum). Now there's an easier way to deliver the dose: poop pills. Researchers at Harvard-affiliated Massachusetts General Hospital have used capsules containing frozen fecal extracts from healthy people to successfully treat diarrhea caused by C. diff. Disgusting as it sounds, the donor feces are processed so only bacteria remains in the pill. The pill that is swallowed is clean and odorless. It is, essentially, a probiotic pill. And its protective gel cover does not dissolve until it is deep in the digestive tract. Hopefully, the clean and odorless poop pill will prove as effective as the original ways of delivering good bacteria into the gut. They weren't pretty, but they worked. (Dr. Komaroff is a physician and professor at Harvard Medical School. To send questions, go to AskDoctorK.com, or write: Ask Doctor K, 10 Shattuck St., Second Floor, Boston, MA 02115.) As patients face death, doctors push straight talk on care LAURAN NEERGAARD AP MEDICAL WRITER WASHINGTON (AP) — Dr. Angelo Volandes remembers performing rib-cracking CPR on a frail elderly man dying of lung cancer, a vivid example of an end-of-life dilemma: Because his patient never said if he wanted aggressive care as his body shut down, the hospital had to try. He died days later. Years later, the Harvard Medical School researcher now tries to spur conversations about what care patients want during life's final chapter through videos that illustrate different options. "This is about patient empowerment," said Volandes, who describes his program in a new book aptly titled "The Conversation." Most Americans say they'd prefer to die at home, with treatment to free them from pain, but the prestigious Institute of Medicine says the reality too often is unwanted care and not enough comfort. One main reason: Doctors have a hard time discussing dying and pa- tients don't know what to ask. Now the institute is recommending changes in the health system to help patients — not doctors or circumstances — dictate their care, and it all starts with some straight talk. "These conversations should be part of a life cycle, not just at the end of life," said Dr. Philip Pizzo of Stanford University, who co-chaired the institute's panel that is holding meetings on how to implement the recommendations. "Regardless of whether an individual is choosing more or less, both ends of that spectrum are important and we should honor preferences." Already some programs are under way to jumpstart the discussions. VitalTalk trains doctors for emotional conversations such as whether it's time to stop cancer chemotherapy, and how to ask what patients value most for their remaining time. "Doctors know what they should do, they just don't know how to do it effectively," said VitalTalk co-developer Dr. Anthony Back, a Univer- sity of Washington oncologist. And health facilities can license Volandes' videos to show families what options ranging from CPR to feeding tubes to hospice involve, before they talk with the doctor. For example, one video explains that if CPR is attempted, you also may be put on a ventilator — a tube down your throat that pushes air into your lungs, preventing eating or talking. In a matter-of-fact manner, it shows health workers inserting that tube in a mannequin and, briefly, a real patient lying sedated and intubated. In carefully controlled studies, Volandes found patients were less likely to opt for aggressive end-of-life care after seeing the videos than if someone just described their choices. About 200 hospitals and other health facilities around the country use the videos. The biggest real-world test is going on now in Hawaii: The state's largest insurer has licensed the videos for use in every hospital, and in other health facilities including primary care offices. Researchers are tracking the impact. "If one of our members makes a conscious decision that, 'I want to fight until my last dying breath,' we're supportive of that," said Hilton Raethel, chief health officer of HMSA, the notfor-profit Hawaii Medical Service Association. "But we want that to be a choice you make as opposed to, it's something that's imposed on you." These decisions are much more complicated than a checklist, said Dr. Diane Meier, an Institute of Medicine panelist and director of the Center to Advance Palliative Care at New York's Mount Sinai Medical Center. Conversations are critical because of the "it depends" factor. Maybe you're sure you won't want to be on a ventilator once your cancer becomes advanced. But say you catch a treatable pneumonia in the meantime. Would a few days on a ventilator be worth it then? These are things we need to think about. Tuesday Mar. 24, 2015 - 3 You Can Add A Picture To Your Classified For $10.00! Your Picture Here! 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