Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC Who wants to be a porn star? Sex and violence in today’s pornography industry A slide show written and produced by Gail Dines (American Studies, Wheelock College), Rebecca Whisnant (Philosophy, University of Dayton), and Robert Jensen (Journalism, University of Texas at Austin) for Feminists Against Pornography. INTRODUCTION: This presentation includes graphic, sexually explicit images, including some commonly referred to as hardcore pornography. No one under the age of 18 should be in the audience. Many people find these images arousing or disturbing, or both. Remember, most of us who have grown up in this hypersexualized culture—especially men, but women, too—are socialized to find these images pleasurable. So, it’s not surprising that we have complex reactions to them, including arousal. If during the show people feel they can’t continue to watch, there are a variety of ways to deal with that. If an image is too intense, it can help to just look away until you feel ready. Sometimes people prefer to put their heads down and just listen. Or if things start to feel too overwhelming, it can be best to leave the room. These images also have the potential to trigger memories and feelings connected to sexual assault and other kinds of violence. If during the presentation you feel you need help, please signal the presenter or one of the organizers. And if later you have reactions that are difficult to sort out, it can be useful to talk them over with someone you trust. If you are in real distress, you may want to contact the local rape-crisis hotline at _______________. Slide 1: Title This slide show presents a feminist analysis of pornography and of the increasingly pornographic culture in which we live. The feminist critique of pornography is rooted not in a reactionary sexual morality, but in concerns about this material’s consequences. How does pornography affect the women in the industry, the men who use pornography, and the women and children who share their lives with those men? What kinds of images are most prevalent and what messages about gender, sex, and power do they convey? 1 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC For many, this show is an introduction to a feminist understanding of the pornographic culture, and some of the slides may be hard to look at. We have included these harsh images not to shock but to help us understand porn culture so that we can organize against it. Our world has become what one writer has called “pornified.” Slide 2: Pornified book cover A pornified culture is one in which raunchy, sexually explicit, and often sexist and racist themes and images pervade our daily lives. Mainstream media outlets … Slide 3: MTV such as MTV and … Slide 4: Man Show other cable TV networks push the envelope with increasingly explicit and shocking content. Slide 5: fashion spreads The pattern is evident everywhere, from fashion magazines … Slide 6: children’s toys and clothing to clothing and toys for children … Slide 7: professional wrestling to professional wrestling … Slide 8: Sports Illustrated to sports magazines … Slide 9: Grand Theft Auto to computer games such as Grand Theft Auto … Slide 10: hip hop photo and many genres of popular music. Slide 11: collage of men’s and women’s magazines 2 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC As we’ve just seen, highly sexualized images of the female body predominate in all media. These women are mostly white, young, thin, and conventionally attractive. Above all, they are presented as sexually available and willing. Slide 12: Britney Spears Consider Britney Spears, whose catchy tunes and highly sexualized dance moves became a favorite of young girls. At one time, Spears’ video director was Gregory Dark, who directed such porn movies as “New Wave Hookers,” “Between the Cheeks” and sequels to “The Devil in Miss Jones.” Slide 13: Paris Hilton Paris Hilton is famous for two things: being rich and having sex on camera. When Hilton first emerged on the pop culture scene, her family money made her a minor celebrity. Slide 14: One Night in Paris But when the tape of her having sex with her boyfriend hit the internet, she became a star overnight. Porn websites are full of discussion about the Paris Hilton sex tape. One user says that it is “entertaining because of her pouting and whining,” although, he adds, “I've seen a 14-year-old fuck better than her.” Another comments that “it was fun to watch that stupid bitch demean herself like a little whore.” While Paris Hilton may be richer than any of us can dream of, no woman can buy her way out of a porn culture that reduces all women to bitches and whores. Slide 15: Girls Gone Wild Ordinary women can be exposed in videos like “Girls Gone Wild,” in which intoxicated female students, almost all white, are coaxed into taking off their tops—and more—in return for a Tshirt and 30 seconds of pseudo-fame. Why these young women agree to do this on camera is no doubt complex, but their decision illustrates the trap women face: If they don’t perform they are prudes, and if they do participate they can be ridiculed as stupid sluts. Consider the pseudo-adoration that women get for total conformity . . . Slide 16: Pamela Anderson as in the case of Pamela Anderson, who is celebrated as a sex goddess while simultaneously being derided as a stupid blonde slut. Jokes about her breasts, sexual behavior, and presumed lack of intelligence are common. Anderson’s journey to stardom was propelled partly by the man who did more than any other entertainer to popularize porn—Howard Stern. 3 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC Slide 17: Howard Stern Stern was elevated to stardom by mainstream media corporations, many of which have financial stakes in the porn world. His shows, saturated with the misogyny of the culture, have made him one of the highest paid entertainers in the world. Stern has helped legitimize pornography as a “boys will be boys” activity, serving as a kind of pimp who promotes aspiring porn star wannabes. And who is it that these young women “wanna be”? … Slide 18: Jenna Jameson book Jenna Jameson—the world’s first true “porn star.” While there have been other famous pornography performers, Jameson broke into the mainstream in a way never seen before—with a best-selling book, exposure on television and throughout pop culture, and a huge following inside and outside the porn world. Slide 19: “glamorous” Jameson images Jenna Jameson is a perfect example of the relationship between a porn culture and the actual pornography industry. In the pornified world of pop culture—for instance, documentaries on the E!Entertainment channel and HBO—Jameson is shown living a wealthy, glamorous life with expensive clothes and a big house. Slide 20: real Jenna However, much of her real life has been anything but glamorous. Gang-raped and left for dead as a teenager, raped again by her abusive boyfriend’s uncle, stripping at 16, and almost dead at 20 from drugs, Jameson’s life differs from that of many women in pornography only in that she made it to her 30th birthday not only alive, but rich and famous. The real world of pornography looks nothing like the chic world that E-entertainment network sells. It is a world of harsh, often body-punishing sex, boasting such titles as . . . Slide 21: Round Butt Sluts [Read this title and the following titles.] Slide 22: 10 Man Cum Slam Slide 23: Double Fucks Slide 24: Exploited Babysitters Slide 25: White Wife Black Cock Slide 26: Brutal Blow Jobs, and Slide 27: Jampacked Assholes. 4 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC These images, and many more like them, are widely available on DVD and the web. The examples of pornography in this presentation were obtained easily and for free through internet searches. The images we show are from the mainstream of the pornography industry, and it’s easy to find far more extreme material than we will examine. Our focus is on the most widely viewed materials that the average pornography consumer uses. Slide 28: Looking back: Porn industry history The mainstreaming of pornography is a relatively new phenomenon. While sexual images are a part of human history, it is only in the last half-century that commercial pornography has been widely circulated through mainstream channels. The porn industry’s legal, cultural, and economic roots can be traced back to 1953 . . . Slide 29: First issue of Playboy, and a young Hefner with the first issue of Playboy magazine. Playboy was an overnight success, making Hugh Hefner a millionaire and establishing pornography as a legitimate business. Hefner’s willingness to take legal and financial risks helped pave the way for porn’s next big success story, Bob Guccione, who published the first American issue of Penthouse in 1969. Slide 30: Penthouse covers But it was a strip-club owner in Ohio who opened up the mainstream hardcore market by seasoning American consumers to accept the circulation of a harsher kind of pornography. Slide 31: Larry Flynt Larry Flynt’s sophisticated grasp of the sex business, together with his willingness to push the law, opened up the cultural space for mainstream hardcore pornography. Slide 32: Hustler, meat grinder and woman as hamburger When this cover appeared in 1978, many felt that porn had reached an unacceptable level of violence against women, and the cover sparked demonstrations by feminists across the country. In fact, this was Hustler’s response to early feminist protests of pornography: “We will no longer hang women up like pieces of meat.” He was just kidding, of course—throughout the issue women are depicted as various kinds of food, such as pepperoni on a pizza, one of the many ways Hustler sexualized the degradation of women month after month. Flynt weathered the feminist criticism, and Hustler continued to be the most widely circulated hardcore porn magazine in the world. Flynt packaged himself as a First Amendment hero . . . Slide 33: People v. Larry Flynt 5 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC an image that director Milos Foreman later sold to the American public in “The People v. Larry Flynt.” Partly as a result of such media industry spin, pornography is seen by many as the price we pay for freedom of speech, with little discussion of whose freedom is being celebrated, who pays the price, and who profits. Slide 34: The pornography industry’s revenue In the past quarter century, the low-tech holy trinity of Playboy, Penthouse and Hustler has evolved into a complex, high-tech industry with estimated annual revenues of $12 billon in the U.S. and $57 billion globally. Compare the pornography industry’s revenue with the Hollywood box office—the amount spent on going to movies in theaters—and you can understand the financial success of the industry. OPTIONAL stat to mention (from Top Ten Reviews): The pornography industry is larger than the revenues of the top technology companies combined: Microsoft, Google, Amazon, eBay, Yahoo!, Apple, Netflix and EarthLink. Slide 35: AVN chart: number of hardcore titles released This was made possible by the way in which the economic, technological, and social factors came together. The profit motive led pornographers to exploit the opportunities created by new communication technologies, and more expansive marketing was made possible because of the changes in society’s norms. This graph from the pornography industry’s trade magazine charts the incredible growth in the number of hardcore pornographic films released over the past two decades. Slide 36: Internet porn stats Not surprisingly, internet pornography is most popular of all—especially with very young people who have grown up in a wired world. Slide 37: young boy at computer This is a generation with unprecedented access to unprecedented quantities of hardcore pornography beginning, on average, at age 11, delivered on DVD, the internet, and mobile devices. Together, these technologies—home video recorders, digital cameras, and the internet—have made it possible for anyone to become an amateur pornographer (with or without his partner’s knowledge) and to share pornographic trophies with others across the world. Slide 38: The content of contemporary pornography 6 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC As technology has expanded the means of delivery, the content being delivered also has changed. Playboy may have been the norm 25 years ago, but today a much harsher hardcore sex dominates the market. What follows is a look at the content of contemporary pornography, some of which may be difficult to view. Again, these images were not chosen to shock or upset, but because we need to face the reality of “adult product,” as the pornographers refer to their material. In what follows, the women’s faces are not blurred and are often recognizable. We cannot know how these women would feel about having their images used in this presentation. We have made the difficult decision to show them, because the women’s facial expressions are crucial to understanding these images. We ask you to recognize with us the moral complexity of this decision, keeping in mind that these women are human beings with dignity. The pornography industry produces two main types of films, features … Slide 39: Forever Devinn and gonzo. Slide 40: Don’t Tell Daddy Features such as “20 Candles” … Slide 41: 20 Candles mimic aspects of Hollywood movies, with some minimal plot, character development, and dialogue, all in the service of presenting the sex scenes. The vast majority of the stars, just as in Hollywood, are young white women who meet conventional beauty standards. Slide 42: Virtually Jenna and How to Have an XXX Sex Life book cover With their chic images and sophisticated production values, these movies seem more respectable than gonzo. But this pornography teaches a man that sex means using and penetrating a woman’s body however he likes, all the while assuming that she will love it as much as he does. It teaches a woman that sex means performance, doing whatever pleases a partner, acting like she loves it, and—above all—looking good while doing it. Slide 43: Vivid “girls” Women at top feature companies, such as Vivid, often command relatively high salaries and can make additional money on the strip-bar circuit. These are the women we see on the Howard Stern show, in men’s magazines such as Maxim, and in other mainstream media outlets. Slide 44: Wicked “girls” 7 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC Wicked Pictures is another popular producer of feature pornography. While striving for respectability and marketing itself as “couples-friendly”—the kind of pornography a man can watch with his wife or girlfriend—features increasingly adopt the harsher conventions of gonzo. For example … Slide 45: Jenna Loves Pain in feature films such as “Jenna Loves Pain,” there is an explicit focus on domination, pain, and violence. In typical porn fashion, the violence is presented as what she wants; the promotional text claims that Jenna is taking “a punishing look back at some of her most extreme fantasies.” Slide 46: Girls Eat Girl A mainstay of both feature and gonzo porn is the “girl-girl” scene, in which women have sex with each other as a performance for men. Slide 47: Bella Loves Jenna Pornography users are thus reassured that lesbian sexuality is really for men after all. Slide 48: Screw My Sexy Wife Unlike features, gonzo films have no pretensions of plot or character; they are staged and recorded sex, often in a private home or on some minimal set. Gonzo is extremely profitable and the fastest growing porn genre. These films often start with an interview with the woman about her putative sexual desires before the man, or men, enter the scene. Slide 49: M.I.L.F. Hunter A standard series of sex acts follows, including oral, vaginal, and anal penetration, often performed while the men call the women names such as “bitch,” “cunt,” “whore.” As they are being verbally abused and often aggressively penetrated, the women are expected to say over and over how much they like it. Virtually every scene ends with the so-called “money shot” of male ejaculation, usually in the woman’s mouth or on her face or body. By the way, if you are wondering what “MILF” means, it’s an acronym for “Mothers I’d Like to Fuck.” The MILF genre has become increasingly popular in recent years. Slide 50: Anal Suffering Anal sex is now a standard feature in pornography, and is often presented as being exciting for men because they see it as hurting or humiliating women. As one web site proudly advertises… 8 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC Slide 51: “We at Pure Filth know exactly what you want, and we’re giving it to you. Chicks being ass-fucked till their sphincters are pink, puffy and totally blown out. Adult diapers just might be in store for these whores when their work is done.” [Read this slide.] Slide 52: Altered Assholes Women are often shown begging for acts that they know will be painful or harmful to their bodies, with the results prominently displayed for the camera. Slide 53: Suckmebitch.com In scenes with oral penetration, the man’s control, debasement, and humiliation of the woman are central to the appeal. He may yank her head back by her hair, thrust violently into her mouth, slap her face with his penis, and call her abusive names. Slide 54: This week’s fresh gag victims In some scenes the man holds the woman’s neck in a choke-hold, or pinches her nose shut while she fellates him. At the scene’s end, she is often made to demonstrate for the camera that she has swallowed the ejaculate. Slide 55: Gag Factor Causing women to gag on men’s penises is an increasingly prominent theme. JM Productions, the producer of the “Gag Factor” series, brags on its website that the series—numbering 23 films and counting as of March 2007—offers “the best throatfucking ever lensed.” Many of the images depict women grimacing or crying. The same company has a newer line, “Throat Fuck Gangbang,” which is on film #6 and counting. [Periodically update the number in each series.] Slide 56: Gag on my Cock On these sites, such as gagonmycock.com, the women are mocked for the very submission that men demand of them. “Can these fucktoys be any dumber? They think the t-shirts are a fucking joke . . . the joke’s on them!” Slide 57: Her First DP, etc. An increasingly common type of sex in gonzo is the double penetration or “DP,” in which a woman is penetrated anally and vaginally by two men at the same time. Sometimes a third is thrusting his penis down her throat. In industry slang, this is called “airtight”—every hole is plugged. As one company’s promotional copy puts it: Slide 58: “Women were born with three holes for one purpose: To cram a cock deep inside every cuddly cavity! Like true cock sockets, our whores 9 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC subject their beautiful bodies to the nastiest 4-way debauchery ever lensed.” [Read this slide.] The women in these movies often seem focused on simply enduring the sexual activity. Some forget to moan and are reminded by an off-camera voice to look like they enjoy it. Slide 59: DP women’s faces And in some DP films, the woman is shown grimacing, or saying things like “that hurts” or “please make it stop”; her apparent pain is part of the appeal. Slide 60: ATM box covers Some gonzo tapes advertise “ATM,” or “ass-to-mouth,” in which a man removes his penis from a woman’s anus and puts it directly into her mouth or the mouth of another woman. There is no increased sexual pleasure for the man here, outside of the woman’s debasement and humiliation. Slide 61: Fuck the Nanny No matter what the specific sexual acts, a central theme of pornography is that in every possible interaction, women are sexually available to men, things to be fucked, as in “Fuck the Nanny”. . . Slide 62: Secretary Porn Or the secretary … Slide 63: Maid Bangers Or the maid … Slide 64: Doctor Adventures Or the doctor …. Slide 65: Nurse Hardcore Or the nurse … Slide 66: Teacher Galleries Or the teacher … Slide 67: Naughty Bookworms Or the student. 10 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC Of course no one can predict the specific effects of pornography’s reduction of women to fuckobjects on any one man at any single moment. But ask yourself, would you like to be a female student in the office of a male teacher who had just masturbated to “Naughty Bookworms”? Slide 68: Pornography and race Contemporary mainstream pornography is not only deeply misogynist but also consistently racist, in a variety of ways. Look back for a moment at the “Vivid Girls” … Slide 69: Vivid “girls” collage and this time, pay attention to their color. Although a few Hispanic and Asian American women appear, the women are disproportionately white, and the online “bios” of the women of color often mention that they are mixed race. Conspicuously missing from this lineup of “sex goddesses” are African American women, who in the porn industry... Slide 70: Hoodhunters typically are relegated to the bottom. Pornography portrays black women as dirtier, more whorish, and even more worthy of abuse than white women. This racist sexual ideology dates back to efforts to define Africans as subhuman, with a raw and animalistic sexuality. According to this ideology, black women are natural whores, and black men are not only natural pimps … Slide 71: Black Cocks, White Sluts and Black Gangbangers but also sexually savage and debased, with massive, animal-like penises. Slide 72: Me Luv U Long Time Racism also emerges in images of Asian women, who are depicted as slavishly obedient, with exotic man-pleasing skills. Slide 73: Bangkok Suckee Fuckee #2 Sometimes the industries of trafficking and sex tourism, which supply western men with cut-rate women and girls, are referenced for an extra thrill. Slide 74: Asian Street Hookers 40 The text promoting this film advertises “real Asian freaks from southeast Asia,” while the promotional copy for “Burma Road” reads: Slide 75: “The orient has always been the site of sexual fantasy for western men. The very thought of . . . tiny oriental girls, who open all portals to love is enough to send most occidental men packing and jumping on an early flight to the Far East!” [Read this slide.] 11 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC Slide 76: 8th Street Latinas Hispanic women are typically presented as naturally hot-blooded. At some sites, like “8th Street Latinas,” this stereotype is combined with the common pornographic theme of sexualizing women’s economic desperation: “I go in search of desperate Latina babes who are trying to get their citizenship and trick them into thinking I can help them out.” Slide 77: Pimp My Black Teen This site, “Pimp my black teen,” boasts that “We find ordinary looking black teens from the ghetto and pimp them out extreme-makeover style!” Teenaged black women are shown in sweatpants and jeans for the “before” pictures—and in full hooker get-up for the “after.” The text reads: “Kianna was in some serious need of some serious pimpin! This girl was just too ghetto, baggy jeans, flannel and nappy hair. After we done her up, she was bad ass and ready to get on camera with a big black cock inside of her. Kianna just took control with our man and showed her thanks.” This site exemplifies not only racism … Slide 78: Sexualizing children and teenagers but also the idea that children and adolescents are appropriate sexual partners for adult men. This idea is not new, and the amount of child pornography on the internet and elsewhere testifies to its continuing appeal. While most people condemn child pornography, less often discussed are the ways in which mainstream pornography legitimizes and incites adult sexual desire for, and sexual use of, children. Slide 79: Barely Legal Consider Hustler’s “Barely Legal” series, which advertises “from the homeroom to the bedroom, these young cuties are eager to please and try everything.” This wildly popular series recently celebrated the release of its 75th film. Slide 80: more Barely Legal, Playboy, etc. This material is indeed legal because the women are 18 or older, but they are presented in childlike ways: petite, with small breasts, childish expressions, and hair in braids or pony tails. At these sites, men can find images of young vulnerable girls who look “eager to please” without the legal risk of accessing real child pornography. As pedophiles know, young girls often are eager to please—because they are terrified by adult abusers and try to minimize the harm by cooperating. Too often, they are then accused of liking the abuse because they cooperated. 12 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC Slide 81: Little April, Squirteen, Tiny Titty Teens Typing “schoolgirls” or “teens” into any search engine reveals the enormous popularity of this genre of pornography—sometimes called “pseudo-child”—where men can revel in fantasies of violated innocence without having to see themselves as “real” pedophiles. Slide 82: Daddy’s Whore Many films and websites explicitly sexualize incest, featuring men having sex with girls who are portrayed as their daughters, stepdaughters, or nieces. Often the girls are portrayed as the seductresses. Slide 83: Use My Daughter On this site, a man brags about pimping out his daughter to other men: “I love the extra spending cash I generate from letting these guys fuck the shit out of my daughter.” The incessant sexualizing of childhood and youth casts another pornographic convention in a different light. Slide 84: Playboy shave collage Popularized by Playboy, Penthouse and Hustler, and now standard in the porn industry, the shaving of women’s genitals blurs the line between adult woman and child. Slide 85: Shaved Angels This pornographic fetish now extends not only to the result, but to the process of shaving itself. Slide 86: Pornography’s messages and women’s lives Far from expanding our imaginations and visions of human sexuality, pornography endlessly recycles a set of ugly and damaging messages: that women are stupid bitches, dirty whores, worthless cunts; that women not only deserve to be used and abused, but like it and crave it; that whether or not she wants it at first, aggressive and hostile sex fulfils every woman’s true nature. Slide 87: AVN covers And at every opportunity, the pornographers suggest that what is being delivered is a slice of reality, rather than a set of carefully constructed images choreographed for maximal male arousal—and maximal profit. Slide 88: list of terms for women in porn 13 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC In the world of pornography, women do not exist as human beings with a sense of privacy, boundaries, or authentic desire. No part of any female body is off limits to male inspection, evaluation, use, and abuse. In this world, women are fuck objects. They have no history, biography, needs, or dreams of their own. Women exist for one reason: to be penetrated by any available man. All women are ready and willing to be fucked anywhere, anytime, in any way that he wants. Whatever “it” is, every girl either wants it or has her price. Slide 89: Real women collage Meanwhile, here in the real world, women struggle for dignity and equality—for equal pay, access to health care, safe housing, secure employment, good day care, and reproductive control over our bodies. Women don’t need “monster cocks” and “hot loads of jizz”. Women do need bodily integrity and meaningful, respectful relationships with the men in our lives, whether they be husbands, boyfriends, co-workers, employers, or the men we encounter on the street or in the grocery store. Slide 90: Real women and porn collage But why listen to a bunch of whores, cunts, and cum-buckets, when all they really need is to be fucked? You don’t give a fuck-object equal rights—you fuck her. You don’t worry too much about how a fuck-object feels or what she wants—you fuck her. Thus women are left fighting for equality and respect in a world where the average man is bombarded with, and masturbating to, images of women as degraded, debased, sub-human fuckobjects. Slide 91: Porn and us: Effects Many people will agree that the images we’ve seen here are disturbing but argue that all judgments are subjective, there’s no accounting for taste, and besides, it’s just fantasy. As long as people are using pornography in the privacy of their own homes, it’s their business, right? Unfortunately, pornography has significant effects on attitudes and behavior in the real world. To argue otherwise requires us to ignore everything we know about how people develop and function in a cultural context. Slide 92: Advertising collage American businesses spend about $400 billion a year on mass-mediated advertising, precisely because those images can have an effect on attitudes and behavior in the real world. Why assume that pornography is the one mass-media genre that has no effects on people? The discussion of pornography’s effects typically goes on in scientific terms, which is important. 14 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC Slide 93: Collage of porn images so far But let’s start with our own reaction to the images in this presentation. Each of us can ask: How did this make us feel? That reaction is one of pornography’s effects. Slide 94: Men buying porn Although pornography is often discussed as a women’s issue, pornography is largely about men. It’s made primarily by men for men. Men profit from selling it to the men who masturbate to it. Pornography is, at its core, an issue for men. So, what are the potential effects of pornography on men? One obvious effect is the way it intensifies the cultural training to objectify women. Slide 95: “Literally—and I’m not exaggerating—any woman I would meet in the course of the day, I would first evaluate on the basis of her breasts. That didn’t happen before porn. . . . But I became that kind of guy.” “I was just masturbating [with my wife]. All the while I was thinking either about porn or trying to make her say things she didn’t want to say. I was really just using her—she was like a masturbatory accessory.” [Read this slide.] Slide 96: Collage of women’s fragmented body parts Most men can recognize the way this process of objectifying and sexualizing women works in their daily lives. Pornography helps teach men to take a human being and reduce her to a collection of body parts—breasts, legs, buttocks, mouth. The integrity and complexity of the whole person is lost. But pornography also can profoundly affect a man’s relationship to his own body and sexuality. Men speak of their insecurity and inadequacy around the size of their penis, the capacity to maintain an erection without ejaculating too early, and their ability to satisfy a woman sexually. Slide 97: Penis spam Email spam and other advertising then plays on the very insecurities that men’s porn consumption fuels. When a man doesn’t experience women, sex, or his own body in the way that pornography leads him to expect, his disappointment can quickly turn into anxiety and shame over not being able to meet the porn standard. This leads to a profound loneliness that men experience not only while masturbating to pornography but also when with a sexual partner. Slide 98: “A friend has the expression of ‘masturbating into a woman.’” 15 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC Pornography conditions men for a sexuality that is isolated and disconnected—that feels, as one young man puts it, like “masturbating into a woman.” Some men even report having to replay the pornographic images in their head while having sex with a real woman. These feelings of loneliness and shame easily turn into anger that is often directed at their female partners. Indeed, men should be angry—not at women, but at the porn industry for manipulating their fantasies and desires, for taking their sexuality and selling it back to them in a scripted, plasticized form that robs all of us of our humanity. Slide 99: Slide of “perfect” women’s bodies Pornography also affects women’s sense of self. Given the onslaught of images that women see—including women’s magazines such as Cosmopolitan, television shows such as “Desperate Housewives,” men’s magazines such as FHM, and pornography itself—it’s not surprising that women report dissatisfaction with their bodies. Women often feel like they don’t measure up to the writhing, oiled, voluptuous female bodies in this pornified culture. Some women report that this self-objectification goes so deep that during sex they are less concerned with what they feel than with how their bodies look. Many women are nagged or guilt-tripped by their male partners to act more like the women in porn—to shave their genitals, to strip, to have anal sex or threesomes, to be tied up or spanked, to be filmed having sex—in general, to act in ways that feel demeaning, inauthentic, and uncomfortable. One woman reports … Slide 100: “I wanted to be the cool girlfriend. Like, I’ll be cool and watch porn and fuck you. I didn’t want to come across as Pollyanna-ish. … [But] there was something about him needing the objectification of another woman to turn him on. Then he could transfer that excitement to my body. … I began feeling very insecure about my body image and I had never been self-conscious before in my life. I started feeling like I was fat. Like I wasn’t sexy enough.” [Read this slide.] And if pressure from our partners isn’t enough, we can always get helpful advice from women’s magazines, where they’re always ready to assure us that pornography is normal and healthy and that we should relax and join in on the fun: Slide 101: Marie Claire porn promotion Here Marie Claire promotes internet porn to women as our “hottest new sex toy.” From blow jobs on the school bus to strip aerobics classes at the local gym, our pornographic culture is training girls and young women to provide unconditional sexual service to boys and men on demand. The price women and men are paying for this is a high level of dissatisfaction in intimate relationships. 16 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC Slide 102: “We’ve been together five years. … Recently, I discovered through the computer that he’s fascinated by hardcore pornography. When confronted, he said I have no right to be upset. … I feel I’m not going to be able to satisfy his urges because I’m unwilling to do what really turns him on … it’s making me question whether I’m willing to continue a relationship with someone who can disregard my feelings so easily.” [Read this slide.] Researchers have also long investigated the relationship between pornography use and sexual violence. The question isn’t whether pornography causes rape in a simplistic way, but rather how we can understand the complex role of pornography and media in sustaining a rape culture. Slide 103: Rape in the U.S. This is a crucial question in light of the epidemic levels of sexual assault in this society. The research to date has demonstrated some connections. Slide 104: Research effects For instance, after viewing pornography, men are more likely to report decreased empathy for rape victims, decreased sexual interest in their girlfriends or wives, and increased interest in coercing partners into unwanted sex acts. As you can see from this summary, there are ample reasons to believe that regular pornography use affects attitudes and behaviors in some of the men who use it. These effects are even more troubling in light of pornography’s articulation of the myths about rape that men learn in many other ways. Slide 105: Rape Myth: Women don’t know their own minds; men know better what women really want and need sexually. “Lystra is homesick and wants to move back to Korea. Professor Lawrence …knows what’s best for his best students – like his cock inside her moist, little hole” Slide 106: Rape Myth: A woman might not want it at first, but once she gets a taste of hot sex, she can’t get enough. “Katie was a bit reluctant at first but after two hard cocks stretched her tight ass wide open she screamed with joy.” Slide 107: Rape Myth: Women are sexually manipulative. “Jaclyn Case is pretty smart about how she tricks boys into coming over and giving IT to her.” 17 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC Slide 108: Rape Myth: Women are sluts who get what they deserve. “Gia is a nasty little whore that can't seem to get enough cock. We make sure this slut gets what she deserves and more!” Slide 109: Rape Myth: Getting her drunk is a way to get her in the mood. “You know how girls act after a couple shots right!!?! They lose their inhibitions and start sucking and fucking like their life depends on it!!! … watch alcohol bring the freak out!!!” Slide 110: Rape Myth: All women are whores at heart and want to be fucked by any available man. “Vanessa might seem like a sweet girl, but deep inside, she’s a whore wanting big white dick.” Given the near-total convergence of pornography’s messages with the ideology of rape, it is hard to take seriously the idea that using pornography makes men less likely to rape by giving them a harmless sexual “outlet,” especially when no research supports the claim. Pornography reinforces pro-rape messages, teaching men to respond both physically and emotionally to thoughts and images of abusive and forceful sex. Slide 111: Clothesline Project Rape hurts . . . [pause as long as necessary to allow the audience to process] Slide 112: “rape porn” search results And pornography presents the sexual abuse of women as masturbation material. No one claims that all men who use pornography become rapists, or that rape would disappear if there were no pornography. But being exposed to powerful and sexually stimulating messages on a regular basis affects people. As the feminist theorist Catharine MacKinnon has put it … Slide 113: “Pornography codes how to look at women, so you know what you can do with one when you see one.” [Read this slide and pause.] Slide 114: Women in the pornography industry What about the real women behind the images? For many people, it’s tempting to evade criticism of the porn industry by asserting that because these women choose to participate, the industry can’t be criticized. To focus on women’s complex choice to participate, while portraying anti-pornography feminists as judgmental and critical of the women in pornography, has been a powerful way to erase and undermine critique of the industry itself and of those who most benefit from it—the producers, pimps, and consumers. 18 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC It’s true, however, that many young women eagerly seek “careers” in the porn industry, and we should ask why. Slide 115: Pretty Woman and stripper poles From hit films like “Pretty Woman” to stories in women’s magazines about pole dancing, girls and women are encouraged to see being a call girl, stripper, or porn star as glamorous, lucrative, and exciting. If the most important thing in a woman’s life is to be hot, sexy, and desired by as many men as possible—who fits that description more than a porn star? So it is not surprising (especially in recent years as glamorizing portrayals of the industry increase in mainstream media) that many women see it that way. In her book, Jenna Jameson provides a useful corrective to this glamorized image: Slide 116: “Most girls get their first experience in gonzo films—in which they’re taken to a crappy studio apartment in Mission Hills and penetrated in every hole possible by some abusive asshole who thinks her name is Bitch. And these girls . . . go home afterward and pledge never to do it again because it was such a terrible experience. But, unfortunately, they can’t take that experience back, so they live the rest of their days in fear that their relatives, their co-workers, or their children will find out, which they inevitably do.” [Read this slide.] For many of these women, the abuse that they suffer in the industry is all too familiar, as they are survivors of child molestation and/or rape. While there is little research on pornography performers, a variety of studies over the years have indicated that up to 85 percent of women in prostitution were sexually abused as children or teenagers. When children are sexually exploited, especially by people whom they love and depend upon, they come to believe that their purpose in life is to be sexually used by the people around them. As Andrea Dworkin said, child sexual abuse is the boot camp training program for pornography and prostitution. One former porn actress, herself a survivor of child molestation, estimates that 80 percent of the women she worked with in the industry were similarly abused: Slide 117: “I saw them re-living their childhood experiences by getting into that industry. They were looking for attention, pleasing men, and being abused. And that’s all they know … a lot of these women are re-living what they know how to feel.” [Read this slide.] Pornography performers interviewed on TV pseudo-documentaries typically say they do it because they just love sex, because they feel good about their bodies, because it makes them feel powerful and liberated. No one can know for sure what any other person feels, but it’s important to remember that these women are “on the job,” an essential part of the industry’s marketing scheme. 19 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC Not featured in glamorized mainstream media portrayals is the bodily damage women risk in the industry. Many women suffer from botched breast implants and other surgeries, and condom use is still the exception, not the norm. Slide 118: http://www.aim-med.org/Risk-10-28-05.pdf The website of the nonprofit Adult Industry Medical Health Care Foundation lists some of the health risks of standard porn sex acts—from HIV and hepatitis to rectal chlamydia, gonorrhea of the throat, and damage to the vagina, throat, and anus. Scenes in which numerous men ejaculate in a woman’s face are extremely risky, the site notes, since “the eye is a direct conduit into the bloodstream.” Slide 119: http://www.aim-med.org/recovery.html, first page The site also lists numerous recovery and support groups for drug and alcohol addiction, as well as for incest survivors . . . Slide 120: http://www.aim-med.org/recovery.html, second page . . . suggesting that—as many present and past participants have testified—these mental health problems are rampant in the industry. The idea that women in porn make a lot of money is itself a distortion, fueled by intense media focus on the few Jenna Jamesons of the world. Most women in porn do not get rich, particularly since they have a very brief “shelf life”—so even if they initially command a high rate per scene or per movie, their market value as “fresh meat” declines rapidly. It can be a very fast trip from here … Slide 121: Sophia Syndrome to here. Slide 122: Brooke, sperm catcher Pop culture tells us that pornography is a form of empowerment for women, a way to take charge of our sexuality and make money. Slide 123: Recruitment sites In the last few years, there are many new agencies that specialize in recruiting young women to the porn industry with the promise of making big money and becoming a star. Indeed, the money is an attraction for mostly young, working-class women who face limited choices in a harsh economy. Given those economic realities and the glamorization of pornography, it’s not surprising that some young women will see this as a viable career option. 20 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC Our goal is not to condemn, but to understand, to empathize, and to create a different world. Slide 124: Fighting the porn culture A first step to that different world is honestly facing what pornography is and what kind of culture it has helped create, however painful that might be. That was the goal of this presentation. Slide 125: Protest march, books Thirty years ago, many brave women—and a few brave men—began the work of challenging the pornographers. Today, we have much work ahead of us as we begin the next phase of a movement against pornography based in our shared humanity and commitment to social justice. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed, but like in all important struggles there are many ways we can contribute, both at the personal and the collective level. Slide 126: What can I do? … Plenty, sister! Women must insist that the men in our lives stop using porn. It’s understandable that most men will have done so; they can’t be blamed for having followed the pack. But once they know better, there is no excuse: it has to stop and it has to stop now. Men who use pornography must quit. Don’t collaborate with the porn industry and allow them to manipulate you into buying their products—or buying their lies about women, men, and sex. You have to take a stand against an industry that is out to bankrupt you both financially and personally. Slide 127: No porn pledge Many people have already decided not to use pornography, and not to have relationships with those who do. Slide 128: One angry girl Women and men are starting, once again, to speak out against porn in books, blogs, websites, and other venues. The resource sheet we’ll be handing out lists many sources of information and analysis, and gives you some ideas for getting involved. Training is available for those who want to take this presentation into their communities, schools, and religious organizations. Slide 129: Kiss the pimp goodbye The pornographers have hijacked this culture and have met little resistance. While they get rich, we get poorer in so many ways, and all of us suffer as we sink deeper into a porn culture that robs us of our humanity, dignity and self-respect. Slide 130: NFAM 21 Who Wants To Be A Porn Star - SPC It is now time to put up a fight and take back not only the night, but the day, the society and ultimately our lives. Thank you. 22
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