FrameChanges: How to Be Effective. Keynote at Indiana Library Federation, Nov 14, 2012 In 2007, I was selected along with 9 other librarians to receive training in the discipline of executive coaching (not sports coaching—personal/executive coaching.) This was a grant-funded program of the now-defunct Central Jersey Regional Library Cooperative and the ultimate goal was to help increase the general effectiveness of librarians by training a small cadre in the principles of coaching. We would then turn around and offer pro bono coaching sessions to our peers and colleagues. I received my coaching training over a period of six months in 2008 from Sandy Newman, Past president of the NJ Professional Coaches Association, and have been offering coaching, both formally and informally, to librarians ever since. Why am I telling you this? Because I think of my time here with you today as a sort of extension of that investment that was made in me because much of what I have to share has been shape by what I learned in my coaching training, as well as what I’ve learned by doing coaching and receiving coaching. [slide – how to be effective] This morning I’m going to be talking about effectiveness. What it means to be effective, and how we – whether as individuals or as organizations – can increasingly make choices that enrich our lives, and enrich the lives of others. How we can make choices that build on our strengths and position us for continued success. [slide-stimulus/response] -Viktor E. Frankl, a holocaust survivor and respected neurologist/psychiatrist said, “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” To me, the answer to the question of how to be effective is to be found in that space. And to me, a library conference IS that space. It’s a chance for us get some distance from our everyday habits and routines, and come together, to reflect, to share, and to open ourselves up to new ideas and new ways of seeing. My goal today as we discuss effectiveness is to help you hang out in that space and have a shift in perspective. One of the most effective ways to help achieve a shift in perspective is to ask a provocative question. So I’d like to shift our perspective a little bit and create some context by asking you a question: [slide: why are we here today] It’s a seemingly simple question -- and one I try to remember to ask and answer for myself every day. Take a moment, and think about the question. Why are we here today at the Indiana Library Federation Conference? Why are YOU here? [RUN THROUGH ALL SLIDES until “ Joe Blow” slide] So I will ask again: Why are we here today? Because: • Life is short • Our time together is precious • I want to use my time here to make a difference • I want to be awake and fully present • Enrich my life and the lives of those around me. • And like you, I choose to do that through library service. Slidedeck at: http://www.slideshare.net/pbromberg/framechanges-how-to-be-effective Peter Bromberg | Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike CC BY-NC-SA FrameChanges: How to Be Effective. Keynote at Indiana Library Federation, Nov 14, 2012 Thank you for your indulgence as we took some time to set a little context—to place a frame our conversation for the next hour. [click to “what is effectiveness”] For the purposes of our discussion today, let’s just take a moment to define effectiveness. I propose that our working definition is [click to “Kennedy” slide] “Effectiveness is the ability to bring about the results you desire” OK, so how exactly does one do this—How does one bring about desired results? Are there specific choices or strategies we can use? The answer is yes. And I’d like to break this down into two categories: 1. One: There are time-tested, and timeless strategies you can use to increase your effectiveness. They work because there are elements of human experience that remain fairly consistent across time, geography, and culture. 2. Two: There are strategies that can make you more effective that are more specific to the relatively recent and historic shift in the exponential pace of change in the world. Let’s start there. Let’s talk a bit about change [slide—change] I think one of the first things we have to acknowledge is that there has been a fundamental shift in reality due to the rapid pace of change. There has never been a time in human history where there has been so much disruptive change in so short a time— and in fact the pace of change continues to accelerate. Why is this important? Because, in a nutshell, it is increasingly true that “What got us here won’t get us there.” Reality is fundamentally changing, and that requires some fundamental changes in the choices we need to make to be effective.. Let’s look a little bit more at what’s happening with the pace of change. [slide – Pace of Change] Here is a chart that illustrates the pace of change– specifically change brought about by disruptive technologies. What we see is that the amount of time between disruptive technologies and the major shifts that they bring about has continually compacted. It means that for millions of years, hundreds of thousands of years, tens of thousands of years, generation after generation of human basically lived the same lives with very little variation. But those periods of time where experience remains stable has gotten smaller and smaller. Think about how much your own life has changed since you were a kid. Or since you entered the profession. Or since you started using an iPhone or Facebook. We tend to take these changes for granted. Let’s look quickly at a few key indicators. [slide: key trends-overview] (Run through them and then also note) In addition, according a March 2012: Pew report, • Smartphone owners are now more prevalent within the overall population than owners of more basic mobile phones. Slidedeck at: http://www.slideshare.net/pbromberg/framechanges-how-to-be-effective Peter Bromberg | Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike CC BY-NC-SA FrameChanges: How to Be Effective. Keynote at Indiana Library Federation, Nov 14, 2012 • Tablet and ereader ownership more than doubled over the holiday season last year and could well do the same this year. Things that have been novel, are now becoming part of the infrastructure at a dizzy pace. As these new, cutting edge technologies shift from being “nice-to-haves” to “need to haves” we need to be ready to make new choices in service delivery to meet the rapidly shifting expectations of our users. In October 2008, the comedian Louis CK was on the Conan O’Brien Show and he shared some observations about the pace of change and how our expectations rapidly shift in light of new technologies. Lets watch. [slide: Louis CK Video] (http://vimeo.com/14975413 OR http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x8m5d0_everything-is-amazing-and-nobodyi_fun#.UKVXnGcxgrw) Funny right, but he captures something there, about how customers’ expectations shift very quickly when they are exposed to new technologies. You know, back when we started QandANJ.org (NJ’s virtual reference service) in late 2001 I started doing quarterly lectures for the Rutgers library school students and I would ask them, “how many of you have been on the internet in the last 24 hours.” In 2001-2002 I’d see 10-25% of hands go up. But each year, I’d see more and more hands go up. And by 2008 I’d inevitably see 100% So let’s try it now: • • • • How many of you have been on the internet w/in the last 24 hours? How many of you are on it right now? How many of you have texted w/I the last 24 hours? Been on a social network? In a few years, how many hands will we see? So the fact is, that technology doesn’t just expand what’s possible, it shifts our expectations and the expectations of our customers. Which means we have to be continually evaluating the choices we’ve made, assessing what’s working, what’s not, and making new choices to meet the rapidly changing needs of our customers. We need to build that continual assessment into our weekly or monthly workflows. OK, let’s talk just a little bit more about the pace of change. [slide: Exponential pace of change] Looking back at the chart: What we see is that for long periods of time, things remained the same. Then a disruptive technology was introduced which had a major ramifications and led to major changes in the day-to-day lives of humans. And then for another long period of time nothing happened. [slide: Unfreeze, change refreeze model] In Change Management, this was referred to as the Unfreeze, Change, Re-freeze model – (Kurt Lewin, 1947) Up until recently, this was an accepted model of how change happens in society and organizations: This model suggests that: Slidedeck at: http://www.slideshare.net/pbromberg/framechanges-how-to-be-effective Peter Bromberg | Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike CC BY-NC-SA FrameChanges: How to Be Effective. Keynote at Indiana Library Federation, Nov 14, 2012 • Our structures, our organizations, and therefore our experiences remain fairly stable (or frozen) for long periods of time. • This also means that our strategies and choices continue to be effective as the world remains fundamentally the same • Then fundamental change occurs due to some disruptive technology,, and for a period of time, things unfreeze and change. • We all get used to the change, it’s ramifications play out, and we settle into the new normal. We refreeze. This model made sense in 1947 and was highly valid when applied historically, but over the last 100 years, the periods between each change have continually gotten smaller and smaller, to the point where we no longer get to the refreeze point. With regard to change we are now more in a state of continual fluidity. It starts to feel like this… [slide: Mad Men] This image captures that feeling of everything changing at once. Sing: “Something is happening but you don’t know what it is…do you Mr. Jones?” (coincidence that Dylan’s Ballad of a Thin Man was released in 1965?) Back in 1996, Peter Vaill, a Professor of Mgmt at Antioch Univ. observed this phenomena and suggested a new model for understanding the pace of change. [slide: Permanent Whitewater] I think we are now in a state of Permanent “Permanent Whitewater.” Whitewater suggests a number of things: 1. It suggests a fast-pace 2. It suggests that the situation changes by the second 3. It suggests that we need to vigilant, aware and responsive moment by moment 4. It also suggests that we can have a general sense of shape of the river—the direction of current—4. Maybe know where the really big rocks are. We can’t control the ride, but we can influence it. So, what can we do to be effective in this new reality? [slide: Flatten the org] We need to flatten the hierarchy of our organizational structures, and distribute power and decision-making downward. Why? Simple: Because flatter organizations – organizations with less hierarchy and bureaucracy– have characteristics which better position them to succeed in a climate of rapid change. What are the characteristics of a flattened org? • • • • • Agile Flexible Adaptable Innovative Responsive [slide: Valve] Slidedeck at: http://www.slideshare.net/pbromberg/framechanges-how-to-be-effective Peter Bromberg | Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike CC BY-NC-SA FrameChanges: How to Be Effective. Keynote at Indiana Library Federation, Nov 14, 2012 Valve is an extreme example of a flattened organization… Like runway fashion—it’s a bit extreme for us, but we can take some inspiration from their far out model. (see: http://newcdn.flamehaus.com/Valve_Handbook_LowRes.pdf) [slide: Flatten the org2] [Review the rest…] • • • • • • Strong shared Vision Less Hierarchy Bias for action Bias for risk-taking Employee empowerment to act Encourage Emergent Leadership One key to successfully flattening an organization is to have a strong clear vision. [slide: Power of a strong vision] When your org has a strong vision, it becomes easy to extend creative control to employees to make decisions on the fly because they know the direction—they know the goal. Nordstrom is a great example of a company with a strong clear vision, and a company that absolutely empowers its employees to use their good judgment in all situations. (I know, I used to work there.) Here’s my favorite story about employee empowerment: When asked how you empower employees, Bruce Nordstrom, paused and responded, “You give them power” [Riff some more on Nordstrom: Employee manual; no training, total empowerment.] Zappos operates the same way. Any Zappos fans? What’s your experience like with them? Right, so you can see the results of this kind of empowerment. (mention that Zappos employees helped build the culture based on shared values.) So if you are a Director or a Dept Head or have some other positional authority, I say to you: Shine up that vision, and trust your employees to exercise their good judgment in service of the Vision. If you do not have positional power in your organization I encourage you to become what Peter Northouse calls and “Emergent Leader” [slide: Emergent Leader] Emergent Leaders: (Peter Northouse) • • • • • No formal authority Motivate others Initiate new ideas Seek others’ opinions Are passionate and involved [slide: Emergent Leader quote] This is a quote from Lindsey, who was Development Director at PPL, and I think a great example of an Emergent Leader. Slidedeck at: http://www.slideshare.net/pbromberg/framechanges-how-to-be-effective Peter Bromberg | Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike CC BY-NC-SA FrameChanges: How to Be Effective. Keynote at Indiana Library Federation, Nov 14, 2012 She brought great value to the organization by “working outside of her title”, offering her perspective, intelligence and energy on multiple projects and initiatives that were not in her “job description”, much to the benefit of the library. Emergent Leaders may not have positional power, but all of us always have influence. Anyone, at any time, regardless of where we fall on the organizational chart can identify what we are wanting and get into action to start influencing and moving things in the direction we desire. OK, we’ve discussed some strategies and choices that are specifically tailored for our changing times. Let’s look at some more universal and timeless strategies. [slide – Creative Resourceful and Whole] One of the key concepts in coaching—a working assumption really, is that the coachee is Creative, Resourceful, and Whole. Now all of us are resourceful, but it’s also true that day to day, and moment by moment we move between greater and lesser states of resourcefulness. But there are a number of things we can do that will correlate with greater levels of resourcefulness, and one of the key aims of coaching is to help us choose thoughts and our behaviors that will put them in a state of increased resourcefulness. I’m sure each of you can reflect on your own experiences and see that there are times when you have been more resourceful or creative, or able to solve or mitigate problems, or innovate new solutions—and there have been times when you’ve been stuck, unable to see a path forward. Those times when we’re stuck kind of feel like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oRBchZLkQR0 [slide – Broken Escalator] [comment on how when others are stuck, the way forward can be very clear to us…] [slide – Increasing States of Resourcefulness] We can’t avoid getting stuck now and then, but we can learn how to get unstuck relatively quickly. [slide – Power of Questions] One of the most effective ways to shift perspective and open our field of vision is to regularly ask ourselves provocative questions. Questions are wonderful tools for focusing our attention, and our energy—our choices and actions—follow our attention. So it’s useful to know how to refocus attention. I believe that “time management” is really about energy management, which is really about attention management. Questions help us clarify what we want, explore strategies and potential resources, assess what’s working and what isn’t, and help get us unstuck by looking at the same data or situations in new and different ways. There are hundreds of provocative questions, I’m sharing just a small sample of key questions that, when used, consistently help generate good results. Slidedeck at: http://www.slideshare.net/pbromberg/framechanges-how-to-be-effective Peter Bromberg | Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike CC BY-NC-SA FrameChanges: How to Be Effective. Keynote at Indiana Library Federation, Nov 14, 2012 You’ll notice I’ve highlighted the last two in particular which are KEY. These are the questions that lead to action and result in forward motion and continual growth and learning. Because at the end of the day, no matter how resourceful you are, no matter how many ideas you generate, the only way to be effective is to actually take action. [slide – Model for action] TAKE ACTION This is a pretty basic, but extremely useful model for effective action. Step one is simply to get clear about what you want. It’s worth spending time exploring this question because often times we are only operating on the surface and when we dig a little deeper we discover that what we thought we wanted was in fact just a strategy – a possibly not a good one – for getting what we really want. Here’s a simple example: [give example of customer who wanted phonebook for Whitefish, Montana]. [Talk about ebooks/Douglas county library]. Moving on to the next steps… The next steps involve: 2. Reflecting on what you’ve already tried; 3. Assessing whether those choices moved you in the right direction 4. Generating options for next steps, 5. Make a commitment to take action. This is a simple, but highly effective model for action. It works extremely well, especially when we throw in one last piece, Accountability. [slide – Accountability] Accountability simply means telling a 3rd party – a coach, a friend, a colleague or mentor—about what action you are committing to, and having them follow up with you to ask if you did it. The accountability piece is, in and of itself, very powerful and I highly encourage everyone to try it. Having someone follow up and ask you, “what did you do you do”, keeps you moving forward with your own agenda, and helps you remain in action, and focused on your goals in a way that you are also learning from each choice. [slide – Human Beings, a manual] At this point, I’d like to pause and share two working assumptions. ONE, that everyone I’m speaking with today is human. Show of hands, anyone not human? Cyborg? Cylon? Alien race infiltrating us to steal our advanced library science knowledge? Ok, mostly humans. And as a human, you need to take care of yourself so that you be able to see and think clearly, and have energy to “DO STUFF.” And the second working assumption I’d like to share is my assumption that as you move through the world trying to make a difference and have an impact, you will at times need to rely on the understanding, cooperation, and energy of others. It is therefore helpful to have a basic understanding of the variety of personality styles, Slidedeck at: http://www.slideshare.net/pbromberg/framechanges-how-to-be-effective Peter Bromberg | Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike CC BY-NC-SA FrameChanges: How to Be Effective. Keynote at Indiana Library Federation, Nov 14, 2012 communication styles, and some basic understanding of human motivation. But let’s start by discussing Self-Care. [slide –Extreme Self Care] When we are healthy in body and mind, we are inevitably, happier, more creative, more energized, and hence more effective. There are many things you can do to promote your own health and vitality, I’m going to hit on a few big ones. [slide –Cleaning up Tolerations] To both maximize our resourcefulness and ensure that we have energy for action, it is imperative that we learn to practice self-care of both the body and the mind. The Body and mind are irrevocably intertwined—they are a system, so taking care of one generally helps take care of the other, and increases your available energy level. One sure-fire way you can free up energy is to do the simple exercise of “cleaning up tolerations.” In short, you sit down and make a list of the many small things in your life that are sucking little bits of energy—they’re small enough that you’ve tolerated them, but big enough that collectively they sap your energy. Then go through this list and identify 3 tolerations that you will eliminate in one week. Maybe it’s making that doctor’s appointment, or doing a small repair, or buying an extra pack of socks, or cleaning out the yard. Whatever your tolerations, (whether at work or home), identify 3 and commit to eliminating them. When you eliminate it, immediately notice and record how you feel. Do this for four weeks and you’ll find that you’ve reclaimed a lot of energy. [slide –eat well] 1. Eat Well and often. I’m not going to preach, but if you’re not eating a healthy balance diet it’s like you’re coming up to bat with 1 strike on you. Research shows that breakfast is super important. Roy Baumeister, in his book, “Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength” reports on a studies that show that the children who got breakfast learned more and misbehaved less (as judged by monitors who didn't know which children had eaten). And it is better to nibble on small snacks between meals (especially protein like nuts, cheese), then to go long periods without food. [slide –exercise] 2. Exercise: Again, no preaching. There are reams of data that extol the benefits of exercise. The good news is you don’t need to be a gym rat to reap the benefits. Gretchen Reynolds, who has written on science, health and fitness for 20 years report in her new book that, “The first 20 minutes of moving around provide most of the health benefits.” Take the stairs a little more often, park far away from the entrance, take a walk. Use that pedometer! You will find yourself with more mental, as well as physical energy. [slide –power of posture] Slidedeck at: http://www.slideshare.net/pbromberg/framechanges-how-to-be-effective Peter Bromberg | Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike CC BY-NC-SA FrameChanges: How to Be Effective. Keynote at Indiana Library Federation, Nov 14, 2012 3. Power of Posture: Body language affects how others see us, but it may also change how we see ourselves. Social psychologist Amy Cuddy shows how “power posing” -- standing in a posture of confidence, even when we don’t feel confident -- can affect testosterone and cortisol levels in the brain, and impacts our chances for success. “Her research also reveals that we can change other people’s perceptions — and even our own body chemistry — simply by changing body positions.” I highly recommend her TED Talk (see also research at: http://www.people.hbs.edu/acuddy/in%20press,%20carney,%20cuddy,%20&%20yap,% 20psych%20science.pdf [slide –sleep] 4. Sleep: There is so much data on the value of sleep the benefits of napping. For instance, a 2007 study led by researchers at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center and Brigham and Women's Hospital found that “relational memory -- the ability to make logical "big picture" inferences from disparate pieces of information -- is dependent on taking a break from studies and learning, and even more important, getting a good night's sleep.” James B. Maas, a Cornell University sleep expert, says napping “should have the status of daily exercise.” Can we get some nap rooms in the house?? [slide – take breaks] 5. Take Breaks: Again, research shows that even a short 10 minute break away from our desks can rejuvenate us and lead to better engagement and creative problem-solving. A 2010 study at the University of California “found that when rats have a new experience, like exploring an unfamiliar area, their brains show new patterns of activity. But only when the rats take a break from their exploration do they process those patterns in a way that seems to create a persistent memory of the experience. The researchers suspect that the findings also apply to how humans learn.” There’s also a good deal of research and history that shows that creativity an innovative thinking happen when we step away from work and take a short break. This happens for many people too in the shower, so ah, take showers. OK, so that’s the 411 on basic self-care. I want to turn now to the benefit of having a basic understanding of the variety of personality styles, communication styles, and some basic understanding of human motivation. This basic understanding of self and others is called Emotional Intelligence, often abbreviated EQ [slide EQ] Here’s a basic working definition of Emotional Intelligence (EQ) • • Self-Knowledge Regulate emotions Slidedeck at: http://www.slideshare.net/pbromberg/framechanges-how-to-be-effective Peter Bromberg | Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike CC BY-NC-SA FrameChanges: How to Be Effective. Keynote at Indiana Library Federation, Nov 14, 2012 • • Know others: Adapt to others (choose your responses as appropriate to the situation; don’t overuse your style) [slide – know thyself] In my own life and work I have found learning a variety of personality assessments including Myers-Briggs, DISC, Enneagram, and Strengthfinders, to extremely helpful in my efforts to be effective. Two books I highly recommend are: [slide – 9 ways/type talk books] Learning about personality styles will help you become aware of unconscious biases and blind spots, your preferred communication style, your preferred decision making Style, and your preference for dealing with conflict. I’ve found it very useful to learn a number of different personality style models. They are like maps—they each describe the same terrain, but they each reveal different aspects. (i.e. there are highway maps, elevation maps, satellite maps.—they all cover the same ground, but they’ll each reveal different, and useful pieces of information depending on your need or the situation — and taken together as a whole, they present a fuller more accurate picture of reality. [slide – know others] Just as importantly, when you learn the preferences and inclinations of other types, it will help you be more effective in working and communicating with others. For instance, you may learn that your preference is for lots of detail, and a slow deliberate decision-making process, but your boss might value moving quickly and have a preference for getting to the bottom line. This knowledge can help you tailor your approach. The key lesson here is to adhere to the Platinum Rule: [slide – Platinum rule] “Treat others the way they want to be treated” If studying personality types helps us be more effective through a better understanding of our differences, there is also much to be gained by learning more about the ways in which we are all the same. [slide – Understanding Motivation] Regardless of personality types, as humans we all tend to share some interesting, and not always intuitive, traits. Here are a few books I highly recommend that will help you understand how we make decisions, how we can grow and communicate ideas, how we can effectively manage change, and how we can motivate ourselves and others. Slidedeck at: http://www.slideshare.net/pbromberg/framechanges-how-to-be-effective Peter Bromberg | Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike CC BY-NC-SA FrameChanges: How to Be Effective. Keynote at Indiana Library Federation, Nov 14, 2012 [Review books titles and authors.] Another area of common ground, regardless of our personality style, is the way humans – regardless of personality, age, or culture -- tend to engage. [slide – Engagement] ENGAGEMENT The Principles of Engagement is one of the most fascinating and useful concepts that I’ve come across. In a talk that Jesse James Garrett did at UX Week 2009 (http://vimeo.com/6952223) (a user experience conference), he suggested that people can be engaged in four primary ways: [slide – Second Engagement slide] Through: 1. Perception (senses) 2. Action (body) 3. Cognition (mind) 4. Emotion (heart) Why is this important? Because an understanding of the principles of engagement can be used to attract attention, grow support, influence behavior, and build loyalty. Here’s an example of how an understanding of the principles of engagement can be used. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2lXh2n0aPyw) [slide – Fun theory] [slide – Engagement] So you see how that’s done? So think about your libraries – your physical spaces, your website, your programs--- and think about them with these principles in mind. I guarantee that you will see things that you can do to better engage your users. To wrap up: We’ve reviewed a number of strategies and mental models that have a proven track record in helping us: 1. Move to into greater states of resourcefulness 2. Deal with the new realities coming at us every day due of the exponential pace of change. 3. Most importantly—GET INTO ACTION. But none of these ideas are worth anything unless you try them. So try them. Play with these ideas. Decide what you want, commit to action steps, and find a friend, family member, or colleague to ask you once a week, “So what did you do?” and “Did it move you in the right direction?” and “What will you do next.” This is simple but transformative. Slidedeck at: http://www.slideshare.net/pbromberg/framechanges-how-to-be-effective Peter Bromberg | Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike CC BY-NC-SA FrameChanges: How to Be Effective. Keynote at Indiana Library Federation, Nov 14, 2012 I’d like to close on this note: Remember, that we are not alone… We are lucky to work in a profession with an astounding number of smart, energized, creative and extremely GENEROUS people. And lucky again that we live in a time when it has never been easier to share information, to network with each other, to collaborate, converse, and create with each other. Indeed, I truly believe that there has never been a more exciting, challenging, and rewarding time to be working in the field of librarianship. The work you we are doing is important. It is important, and at the risk of sounding old-fashioned it is noble. Please, don’t forget that. Remembering it every day will give you the energy to do great things. Thank you. Slidedeck at: http://www.slideshare.net/pbromberg/framechanges-how-to-be-effective Peter Bromberg | Attribution-NonCommercial-ShareAlike CC BY-NC-SA
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