F Ta k R e E O E ne ! Todays Family Family Happenings in and Around Lake & Geauga Counties ’ November 2014 Lots of great family events and activities! Lake & Geauga Atlas Cinemas Great value and entertainment! Helping your child build friendships Kidz Business Awards to honor young entrepreneurs Need Extra Money for the Holidays? WE PAY CASH! We buy up to 1 hour before closing in this issue features 4 Kidz Business Awards Do you know a young entrepreneur? Let us know! Great entertainment value at Atlas Cinemas Rewarding experience for all Opening in mid-November 5 Now Showing! 6 Big Brothers Big Sisters 7 Sky Zone Indoor Trampoline Park 8 Helping your child build friendships Four ways to empower your child 12 Common Core Standardized school curriculum being implemented Kid’s Stuff with Previous Experience® Infant to size 14 Furniture • Toys Shoes • Equipment Books Accessories Playroom MENTOR COLONIAL PLAZA No Appointment Necessary Trade in your old toys for new ones this holiday! WESTLAKE 7537 Mentor Avenue 25028 Center Ridge Mon.-Sat. 10-8 • Sun. 12-5 Mon.-Sat. 9-7 • Sun. 12-5 440-951-7222 440-899-1100 Be In Shape for the holidays. Join Our Fitness Programs Today! 14 Mommy Chronicles A bucket full of thanks Managing your finances through technology epartments d 28 Money Matters - By Cardinal Credit Union 29 Family Health - By Cleveland Clinic 30 31 Lower your child's risk of diabetes Family Calendar A listing of activities and events in northeast Ohio Fostering & Adoption By Lake County Department of Job & Family Services Todays’ Family MAGAZINE P.O. Box 7316, Eastlake, Ohio 44097 www.todaysfamilymagazine.com [email protected] (440) 953-2999 Publisher Kim Miller Why wait until after the holidays? Challenge yourself today with our karate, kickboxing, yoga, Zumba or tai chi programs. Start to tone your body and mind today, so you’re lookin’ good and feelin’ great for the holidays and beyond. Editor Dan Miller Writers Deanna Adams Jamie Lober Laura Lytle Kim McCloskey Glen Miller Stacy Turner Advertising Kim Miller Graphic Design Dawn Miller The opinions expressed in this magazine do not constitute an endorsement by the Today’s Family Magazine® staff or our advertisers. All contributors and advertisers assume responsibility and liability for the accuracy of statements and claims in advertisements and press releases. All readers assume responsibility for actions or decisions they may make as a result of reading this publication. We reserve the right to refuse any advertising. Submission of articles does not guarantee publication. Copyright 2014, Direct Market Publishing, LLC., All rights reserved. Karate4Family.com 8901 Mentor Ave. Mentor Behind the Sunoco station 2 Call Family Karate 440-255-7300 today to try a free class! Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 Today’s Family Magazine is distributed free of charge for residents in and around Lake and Geauga counties. Like us on Facebook! Search "Today’s Family Magazine" Ohio’s #1 care across Lake County. Madison, Mentor and Willoughby Hills Same-day appointments 216.444.CARE clevelandclinic.org/lakecounty Make sure your healthcare plan includes Cleveland Clinic. Do you know a child/teen who has started a business? If so, they can win $250 by submitting an application form for the Kidz Business Awards. Deadline is December 1! Whether they are earning money to buy their first car or make their first charitable donation, Lake County youth are developing and honing their business skills and there is a program developed to recognize them. Lake Kidz Biz, a business resource and networking organization for companies focusing on children’s services and products, has created the Kidz Business Awards to honor Lake County’s youngest residents for their initiative to undertake a business opportunity and use their entrepreneurial spirit to implement a business concept that either benefits others or is a for-profit business endeavor. The awards program seeks to: recognize Lake County youth for implementing a business concept on their own; identify how youth are having a positive impact in the community; and publicize the importance of youth helping others. Since these kids typically begin projects without fanfare, Lake Kidz Biz needs your help to find our outstanding youth! “We’re very excited for our second year of the awards program,” states Pat Perry, programming chair and co-founder of Lake Kidz Biz. “There are so many kids in our area who have, out of the kindness of their heart, created a business of sorts to provide items or monetary donations to others. Be it big or small, it does not matter. These kids are making a difference while using business concepts and we would like to recognize them.” Sponsors 240514.pdf 2/2/07 1:02:21 PM MANDOVI ENTERPRISES Todays’ Family MAGAZINE Along with helping others, there is an award category for an individual who has launched a for-profit endeavor. As many Lake Kidz Biz members are business owners and entrepreneurs, it is only fitting a category for a profit endeavor was included. Entries may not be a school project or assignment or an activity for credit from an organization. Applicants must be 18 years or younger and attend school or reside in Lake County to be eligible for one of the three $250 award categories: • One award for an individual not-for-profit (charitable) endeavor • One award for a group not-for-profit (charitable) endeavor • One award for an individual for-profit endeavor Applicants must submit a two page application, along with supporting documentation, by December 1. Winners in each category will be recognized on December 21st prior to the showing of Willy Wonka at The Fine Arts Association. Each will receive a $250 award along with an additional prize pack. For more info, or to find the application online, visit www.lakekidzbiz.com. All instructions are included in the application. Specific questions can be directed to Pat Perry at 440-974-1198. The Kidz Business Awards has received sponsorship support from Captains Charities, Lake News, McDonald’s – Mandovi Enterprises, Mentor Area Chamber of Commerce Foundation and Today’s Family Magazine. Assistance is now needed from the community to help identify youth entrepreneurs. If you know someone who should apply, direct them to www.lakekidzbiz.com, the Lake Kidz Biz website, to download an application. Great Minds don’t Think Alike Serving K-12 students with Dyslexia, ADHD, and other language-based learning differences. 440.526.0717 www.lawrenceschool.org Broadview Heights | Sagamore Hills Small, highly-structured classes 4 Today’s Family Magazine Personalized instruction NovemBER2014 Multi-sensory learning Assistive Technology NOW SHOWING! Families find great value & entertainment at Atlas Cinemas By Laura Lytle F or over 38 years, Atlas Cinemas has helped families laugh, cry and enjoy the latest films from Hollywood. Now with five locations, it is the largest independent chain of movie theaters in northeast Ohio. While each theater provides its own unique experience, the family-friendly value and pricing remain the same. Family value comes in many forms at Atlas Cinemas. From affordable tickets and concession stands to its unique loyalty rewards, there is always a focus on providing customers a great value-added experience. For instance, every customer receives a loyalty reward card that earns a free movie ticket after five purchases of any size popcorn. Also daily matinee prices are extended to 6 pm, not 4 pm like many other theaters. Customer Appreciation Mondays are another favorite reward where every movie is only $5 all day, with no restrictions on film choice or showtime. “We are proud to give all our customers value at Atlas Cinemas. Something more they can take away than just a good movie experience,” said Gabby Saluan, vice president of Atlas Cinemas. “We extend that customer appreciation beyond our doors and into our neighboring communities, too. The best example of this has been our successful partnerships with local restaurants to encourage 'dinner and a movie' dates. Restaurant patrons can receive a two-for-one movie ticket or 50% off discount movie tickets.” For a current listing of participating restaurants in the dinner and a movie deal, you can visit www. AtlasCinemas.net. “Not only do we invest in our community through partnerships and special events with the American Red Cross and United Way, we also support independent filmmakers,” added Saluan. “The 2014 Ohio Independent Film Festival highlights 30–40 local producers over four days. We have special screenings of independent films year-round but this is a marathon of local talent.” The 2014 Ohio Independent Film Festival (OIFF) is scheduled for November 6–9, 2014 at Lakeshore 7 in Euclid. This year’s festival will mark the 21st year of OIFF which is planned to be more exciting than ever with filmmaker meet and greets, Q&A sessions and VIP access passes for unrestricted access to all the festival showings. Atlas Cinemas plans continuous upgrades at its theaters to keep customers in comfortable seating and enhance their movie experience with digital projection and 3D screens. In fact, new 3D screens are planned for various locations in the next few months to engage viewers with the hottest theater experience. Atlas Cinemas also host kids birthday parties and group events for corporate meetings or large group events that can be customized for individual needs. Atlas Cinemas are located at Eastgate 10 in Mayfield Heights, Lakeshore 7 in Euclid, Midway Mall 8 in Elyria, as well as Great Lakes Stadium 16 and Diamond Center 16 in Mentor. For a complete list of cinema showtimes and directions, visit www.AtlasCinemas.net. CLASSES FOR EVERYONE: HIP HOP • JAZZ • TAP • BALLET CREATIVE DANCE CHEER DANCE • ACRO BREAK DANCING • LYRICAL MUSICAL THEATER • SINGING PERFORMING GROUPS Our Mentor Facility Features: • Positive & Motivating Environment • 3 Class Rooms • Viewing Windows • Classes for Ages 3 to Adult • Highly Qualified Teaching Staff • Hip Hop & Break Dance Classes Starting at 5 Years Old and Up • 1 mile from Rte 90 & Rte 2 Sign Up for Classes Anytime! 7589 Mentor Avenue, Mentor, Ohio 44060 (Entrance in Back) (440) 95-DANCE WWW.SPOTLIGHTDC.COM Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 5 Being a Big Sister is rewarding for all involved Heather had trouble in school, I knew she was the one for me. I had always excelled in school and had done some tutoring, so I thought, here is someone I can help. We became a great fit!” By Deanna Adams N ine years ago, Nicky Vassil’s mother suggested she get involved in the Big Brothers Big Sisters program. “I’m the youngest of six girls, so I was never a big sister and she thought it would be nice for me to do,” says Vassil, 34, from Willoughby Hills. “I began a good career as a medical dosimetrist, working in the cancer field, and wanted to share my good fortune with a girl who might benefit from what I had to offer.” So Vassil, in her mid-20s at the time, became a Big Sister in 2006. She was given the opportunity to choose between three other matches. “When I heard that 9-year-old Mentoring Youth Matters Big Brothers Big Sisters of Northeast Ohio, based in Painesville, is an organization that provides young people with quality mentoring relationships to help them reach their potential through positive role models and friendships. Because common interests are an important consideration when it comes to matching up the “Bigs” and “Littles,” the agency takes pride in bringing together those with similar personalities who enjoy doing the same things. “When I met Heather, she literally could not read because of her dyslexia. So I began to tutor her and we started putting a higher value on learning. I made sure her schoolwork was done before we went out and had fun. I really wanted her to do well in school because I knew it would give her a better future.” Heather, now 17, has four siblings, including twin sister, Elizabeth, who also has a Big. The Big Brothers Big Sisters program has made a big difference in their lives. “Nicky has a lot to do with my getting more involved in school,” says Heather, who is now a junior at Harvey High School in Painesville. “I remember our first meeting. I was in 4th grade and I just loved her right away. She was so kind, and we had things in common, like we both like the same kind of music, and other activities. And after she helped me with my reading, I grew to love books.” “I wanted to show Heather that the world is a great place if you put in the effort towards your goals,” Vassil says. “Now she’s in the National Honor Society, carries an incredible GPA, she’s active in several clubs, participates in the high school Mock Trial, and is a member of the Future Business Leaders of America. She’s amazing. To see the transformation in Heather has been life changing for her—and for me.” Time Well Spent Being a Big doesn’t require a lot of money, or even a lot of time. Activities can include the simple things in life, such as visiting a park, playing a board game, taking walks or bike rides, shooting hoops, or sharing a pizza. It is the quality time spent together that’s important. In many cases, the friendships made through this national organization last a lifetime. Like with Nicky and Heather. They both admit that it’s harder now with their busy lives to get together as much as they would like. Since they met, Nicky Vassil has married a physician, is a mother of two children and works full time. Heather is a young woman with a full schedule that includes a parttime job. But when they do get together, it’s a family affair. “I love hanging out with her family,” Heather says. “Her children are little, 1 and 4, and so adorable!” She recalls See Big Sister on page 14 SAVE $100 WHEN YOU CALL BEFORE 12/1/14 OGT Mentor 440 205 8283 University Heights 216 382 8223 Accredited by 6 Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 Sky Zone Indoor Trampoline Park: Fun for Everyone! By Deanna Adams T here’s a new fun park coming to town and it’s not just for kids. Sky Zone, an indoor trampoline facility, will open in mid-November in Highland Heights. The amusement center is touted as “awesome healthy fun for everyone,” and offers a place for families, friends, and even business associates, to get together for some stress-relief entertainment. There is no age limit for the trampolines, they advertise that if you can walk, you can jump. “But we’re not just for jumping on trampolines,” says marketing director, Valerie Hurst. “We also offer fitness classes, dodgeball tournaments, and we rent out for big events, such as corporate events, fundraisers, after prom, as well as birthday parties, and bar and bat mitzvahs. So we get a good number of adults as well as kids.” The facility is owned by Kristin Kemper, who is also the proprietor of the Westlake Sky Zone, and will be opening a center in Youngstown next summer. She got interested in the franchise when she visited the Columbus facility with her three children. “Kristin’s son is autistic and real active, and she saw how much he loved it there,” Hurst says. “She realized that here was an opportunity for families to enjoy some good, healthy fun together, and keep kids off the streets. So that paved the way to bring the business to Cleveland.” As a result, Kemper offers a Special Needs Jump Night on Mondays, when the facility is closed to the public. “It’s a night just for them to enjoy,” says Hurst. “Many can’t really jump with the other kids so this way, they get the place to themselves.” Programs include Toddler Time, Sky Mania (for ages 10–15), Sky Fitness and Team Building. Sky Zone has four separate areas called activity courts. There is the Main Court, three Ultimate Dodgeball Courts, the Sky Slam Dunk Court (for basketball), and the Foam Zone, where jumpers can land into 10,000 foam cubes. “The Foam Zone is a pit filled with foam cubes for freestyle jumping,” Hurst says, adding that they are regularly sterilized. “Kristin owns Kemper Nursing Homes, so she is a real stickler about sanitization.” Sky Zone is open to all ages, and participants of course must sign a waiver. Jumpers under age 18 must have their waiver signed by a parent or legal guardian. Along with handling the marketing, Hurst also coordinates the events and helps launch the new stores, such as the one in Highland Heights. But she also uses the facility herself every week. “I do the fitness classes cross training. That involves jumping on the trampoline for your cardio training, and then use the weights for strength training. It’s a great overall workout. And really fun.” Jump prices are $10 for 30 minutes, $14 for an hour, $18 for 90 minutes, and $22 for 120 minutes. Birthday parties take place in a private room. Packages include pizza, drinks, ice cream, and personalized birthday cake. “No matter who comes in,” says Hurst, “Our goal is that we want people to leave with that WOW feeling, and tell everyone what a great time they had.” Sky Zone opens at 3 pm Tuesdays – Fridays, Saturdays at 10 am, and Sundays at 11 am. Sky Zone Indoor Trampoline Park 750 Alpha Drive Highland Heights 440-596-3400 www.skyzone.com/highlandheights 35th Year of Martial Arts Excellence Children, Teen and Adult Benefit from Martial Arts Become More Active and Fit. Builds Self-Esteem and Confidence. Learn Anti-Bullying Tactics. Develop the Mindset of “I Can Do It”! Coming November Two New Programs: AM ZUMBA & Sport Sword SPECIAL Trial Month with Karate Uniform Sky Zone can host your next birthday party in their private party room. Packages include pizza, drinks, ice cream, and personalized birthday cake. Call 440-596-3400 for more information. only $89! Karate Institute sm Near the Great Lakes Mall 7667 Mentor Ave. Suite 102 Mentor City Center Plaza Lower Level Mentor, Ohio Call Today to Get Start! 440-951-0463 www.MentorKarate.com Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 7 Helping your child build friendships By Jan Pierce, M.Ed F or many kids building friendships comes as naturally as breathing in air or waking up in the morning. For others, the process is filled with landmines of fear, anxiety and discouragement. Experts agree that friendship-building is a skill—it can be learned. The popular kids Popular children, those successful in making friends, have strong pro-social skills. They show caring for others, often wanting to share something with them or help them in some way. They have strong verbal skills so they can carry on conversations. They’re able to curb their own selfish or aggressive behaviors and instead are good at understanding the feelings of others, seeing others’ perspectives. They’re able to make good choices to help avoid arguments or problems. In general, children will reject those they perceive to be aggressive, disruptive, irritable, bossy or selfish. The negative character traits raise a red flag: there could be trouble ahead for those who spend time with that person. But they gravitate toward those with positive social skills, knowing they’ll be appreciated, be safe and have fun with that person. What can parents do? How can you help your child improve friendship-making skills? What can you do at home to model healthy interpersonal relationships? How can you support your child without intruding and undermining confidence? If your child is one who struggles with making new friends, there are simple ways to help sidestep relationship landmines. Here are four ways you can empower your children to navigate the often murky waters of friendship-building. 1. Develop positive social skills Help your child develop those necessary positive social skills such as empathy, cooperation, problemsolving and clear communication. Begin now to model and discuss Christmas Train and Toy Show Sunday,November 23,2014 10:00 am to 3:30 pm LAKELAND COMMUNITY COLLEGE ATHLETIC & FITNESS CENTER Santa Claus will be at the show from 12:30 pm to 2:00 pm. (AFC) Main Gym 7700 CLOCKTOWER DR.• KIRTLAND Interstate 90 and Rt. 306 (S.E. Corner) Featuring: HO Trains – Structures – Accessories 300 + Tables • One Floor • Operating Train Layouts Lionel, American Flyer, G-gauge, N scale trains Weaver – Atlas – MTH – K-Line – 2 Rail O Scale Good Food - 24 hr Police Security BUY - SELL – TRADE Dealer Redeemable this Show • $25.00 Door Prize Certificate Drawings at 11am, 1 pm, 3 pm Sunday, November 23, 2014 • 10:00 am to 3:30 pm Info: (440) 256-8141 www.cleveshows.com Fax (440) 256-1749 Email: [email protected] Admission: Adults $6.00 Family $15.00 • Children (6-12) $3.00 , Under 6 Free Active Military Personal Free If you wish to take Toys for Tots Collection – New in box toys only (unwrapped). your child’s picture with Please no stuffed animals. Santa, we ask that you make JDRF – Stop by the LCJDWF table and help find a cure for a $5.00 donation to JDRF. Juvenile Diabetes with your donation. 8 Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 ways to be a friend. Help your child notice when others need help and offer to give it. Practice talking through a problem to find ways to cooperate. Notice when someone is hurting and say kind words to them. Model a kind act or giving a compliment. Often just one kind word or action makes all the difference in building a friendship. Practice will help your child react appropriately in real life settings. 2. Role play One of the most powerful methods of changing behavior in children is found in role play. When children are involved in acting out ways to cooperate, or what to do when a problem arises, the results are amazing. Role-playing can be done by physically acting out a scenario or through the use of puppets or dolls. Either way, your child is empowered to be part of the solution. Try it, you’ll be pleased with the results. 3. Offer play opportunities Children need many opportunities to practice their friendship-making skills. They need repetition to mas- ter cooperation, or negotiating a solution to a problem as it arises in their play situations. Invite another child to have lunch at your home or plan simple play dates in your community. Be sure to allow lots of unstructured play time in which children can pretend play. Be nearby to guide and redirect when help is needed. 4. Stay balanced A good sense of humor is a wonderful possession for both adults and children. Life isn’t perfect and friendships may bear a few battle scars. Children need to learn that conflict is a part of life. Thus, learning to resolve conflict is a real opportunity for personal growth. Making and keeping friends is a lifelong pursuit—it won’t be mastered in one day. Build on your child’s strengths. Compliment him when he does well and listen to her when she wants to talk about her friendship ups and down. You can’t make friends for your children, but you can model, train and redirect behavior in ways that support the skills they need to build healthy, happy relationships. Role play questions To “break the ice” and problem-solve in friendship-building Ask: • Do you want to play blocks, dolls, a game or activity? • That’s a cool bike. Can I ride with you? • Why don’t you ask Justin for help with your cars? • How do you think that made Jennifer feel? • Can you think of another way to solve the problem? • I like your American Girl. Do you want to play together? • Shall we ask Danny to play with us? • I wonder if we can make a road for our cars in the sand? • I’m sorry I got angry. Can we try again? • Let’s let Chelsea play with us. She looks sad. Skill Initiate Compliment Cooperation Empathy Problem-solve Compliment Cooperation Initiate Problem-solve Empathy Planning a birthday party? Visit www.todaysfamilymagazine.com for great ideas! LAKE COUNTY YMCA FIT for the Holiday with HEALTHY FUN & $80 in SAVINGS BLACK FRIDAY ONLY NOVEMBER 28, 2014 TF TF Join on Black Friday and Save up to $80 PLUS NO JOINER FEE ($50 Value) • NO CONTRACTS You will be registered ($30 value) into the First Y-Fit Blitz Statewide Fitness Challenge Including: • FREE T-shirt • FREE Y-TRAAK Link (To track your personal workout in real time) If you are already a Y Member you can still take advantage of this offer: Bring in a NEW MEMBER, they join & Save $50 with NO JOINER FEE PLUS • Add notes, Pictures, Share • Access to ALL devices/ Anytime • Real Time Goal Tracking • Opportunity to WIN an iPad or Fitbit (Get details at your local Y Branch) You BOTH will be registered ($30 value each) into the First Y-Fit Blitz Statewide Fitness Challenge Offer valid at all Lake County Y Locations on November 28th 2014 ONLY Bring this coupon on BLACK FRIDAY (November 28, 2014) to any of the Lake County Y Locations listed below to take advantage of these offers. Lake County Y Central Branch (Painesville) 5 AM - 7:30 PM Lake County Y West End Branch (Willoughby) 5 AM - 7:30 PM Lake County Y East End Branch (Madison) 5 AM - 7:30 PM Don’t You Wish Every Day Was Black Friday? Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 9 Museum presents Mammoths and Mastodons exhibition For millions of years they survived, living in temperate climates and on the wind-swept lands of the frozen north—great beasts weighing as much as eight tons and bearing tusks up to 16 feet long. Mammoths and mastodons were wonderfully successful creatures of the Ice Age. They were a source of food and artistic inspiration for ancient peoples who lived in Europe, Asia and North America. But despite their size and ability to adapt to different habitats, these early cousins of the elephant eventually went extinct—leaving us an abundant fossil record. Mammoths and Mastodons: Titans of the Ice Age, an exploration of these fascinating creatures, opens at The Cleveland Museum of Natural History November 22, 2014 and runs through April 15, 2015. The exhibition, developed by The Field Museum in Chicago, brings to life how these animals lived and their interactions with one another and with ancient humans. The exhibition is geared for all ages and is an experience the whole family will enjoy. Mammoths and Mastodons gives visitors an opportunity to delve deeper into the Ice Age world. The exhibition shows environments that awe and amaze through large-scale projections, walk-through dioramas and virtual experiences. Mammoths and Mastodons features large, fleshed-out creatures and skeletons that visitors can touch and examine up close. Also showcased are rare and evocative objects including some of the oldest art in existence, huge skulls and tusks, weird and wonderful mammoth relatives—including dwarf mammoths—and mastodon bones collected by William Clark (of Lewis and Clark) for President Thomas Jefferson’s own collection. It also details the scientific methods used to study beasts from the past as well as their surviving relatives: modern-day elephants. Museum visitors will discover answers to many questions, such as how these creatures balanced their heavy tusks, how much a mammoth ate in a day, and how elephants “talk” to each other. Mammoths and Mastodons explores not only how these Ice Age creatures lived, forming herds similar in social structure to those of modern elephants, but also how they died and became extinct. It looks at the roles played by climate change, human predation and other factors in their demise. Mammoths and mastodons have long been popular at The Cleveland Museum of Natural History. The famous Johnstown mastodon, on permanent display in the Museum’s Kirtland Hall of Prehistoric Life, is recognized as one of the best mastodon specimens ever recovered. Discovered by a farmer in 1926, the remains were quickly identified as belonging to a mastodon. Also showcased in the traveling exhibit will be the Museum’s Hartley mastodon, a small adult female mastodon found preserved in a bog near Salem, Ohio. The lower jaw and tusks of this local find will be on display. The Cleveland Museum of Natural History receives public support with local tax dollars from Cuyahoga Arts & Culture, to preserve and enrich the region’s artistic and cultural heritage. Mammoths and Mastodons is free with Museum admission. Admission fees are: $14 adults; $12 ages 3-18, college students with valid ID and seniors over age 60; free for children 2 and under. Shafran Planetarium shows are $5 with general admission. 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Events to be held throughout the day include: • Holiday shopping at 5th Street Arcades • Horseshoe Casino’s festive window displays • Toy solider holiday performance and Olmsted Performing Arts entertainment at Tower City • Cleveland Public Library display of toy trains and children’s activities • Horse-drawn carriage rides begin outside the library Pop-up shops including local Cleveland merchants and food trucks will be available. The annual tree lighting ceremony will begin at 6 p.m., including a stage performance, an appearance from Santa and ending in a fireworks finale. Downtown in December will kick off November 29 as well – a tour of Downtown Cleveland on the iconic Lolly the Trolley starting at 11:30 a.m. and running through 5:30 p.m. Following Winterfest is the 5th annual Winter Wine and Ale Fest at 200 Public Square. Tickets are $65. Visit www.downtowncleveland. com/events for more information and to purchase tickets to the Winter Wine and Ale Fest. Cleveland Clinic and Marc's Pharmacy launch HealthSpot stations Customers can access Cleveland Clinic healthcare services through retail-based walk-in kiosks Cleveland Clinic is expanding its world-class care to patients and Marc’s Pharmacy customers and employees by launching two new HealthSpot® stations at the Mentor and Garfield Heights Marc’s stores, offering an alternative option to access Cleveland Clinic healthcare services through the virtual walk-in kiosks. Marc’s is the first retailer in Ohio to offer the HealthSpot telehealth platform, which combines cloudbased software with the HealthSpot station - a private, walk-in kiosk, outfitted with touch screens, interactive medical devices and high-definition videoconferencing capabilities that virtually connects patients with a medical provider. Customers and patients can conveniently walk up to a station without scheduling an appointment and receive treatment from a Cleveland Clinic medical provider for minor, common health conditions, including cold and flu, rashes and skin conditions, eye conditions, earaches, sore throat, sinus infections, upper respiratory infections and seasonal allergies. The HealthSpot station’s two-way high-definition video screen delivers a unique face-to-face experience between patients and medical providers. An array of digital medical devices housed within each unit – stethoscope, scale, blood pressure cuff, pulse oximeter, thermometer, otoscope and magnascope – stream medical information to provider and patients. HealthSpot visits fully integrate into a patient’s Cleveland Clinic electronic medical record, ensuring seamless communication and continuity of care. Several health insurance companies currently cover the telehealth sessions like a regular office visit. Patients can also pay for their visit with cash, check, credit and debit cards. The Marc’s locations are joining two other Cleveland Clinic HealthSpot station locations including one at the Willoughby Hills Family Health Center. Hours of operation for Cleveland Clinic HealthSpot stations are Monday through Friday from 8:00 am–8:00 pm, Saturday and Sunday from 8:00 am–4:00 pm. To learn more about Cleveland Clinic HealthSpot locations, please visit ClevelandClinic.org/healthspot. Discover Christ Centered Academic Excellence OPEN TOURS Friday, November 14th 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 noon Bring your future student and enjoy cookies and cocoa we show you around. our staff and amazing students and see why we are The Greatest Place to Grow! OSLS some while Meet Registration and RSVP 440.357.7776 Enrollment for K-8 “We encourage you to call for an appointment, see the school in action and share your questions and concerns about schooling in the 21st century.” 508 Mentor Avenue • Painesville, Ohio 44077 (across from Lake Erie College) 440.357.7776 • www.oslpainesville.org Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 11 New Common Core curriculum explained By Glen Miller A n effort to streamline education and make it more uniform across Ohio and the country is beginning to be implemented in area school districts to standardize curriculum and improve student learning skills. Despite the reservations of some parents and a few educators, Kirtland Schools Superintendent Steven Barrett and fellow Superintendent Michael Hanlon in Chardon are proponents of the Common Core, a common set of math and English Language Arts standards that K-12 students are expected to attain by the end of each grade level. In short, the Common Core replaces education standards that have widely varied from state to state and even among some school districts in the same state. They also increase student learning standards, which is important in increasingly competitive local, national and world job markets. “We now live in an increasingly complex and competitive world, where students need to solve problems, think critically, write and communicate well,” says Barrett. “Students need to be prepared to enter college or the workforce with high level skills.” Hanlon, who agrees, notes that demands and expectations among employers continue to change in respect to the skills and competencies required. Therefore “educational standards need to continue to move forward in order to meet these new expectations and allow our nation to compete effectively with the highest achieving nations in the world,” adds the Chardon superintendent. Even though Common Core standards are fewer in number, they are more rigorous than previous Ohio Academic Content Standards because they focus on performance assessment. The National Governors Association and Council of Chief State School Officers initiated the standards several years ago along with teachers, parents and educational experts. Barrett and Hanlon says the standards are designed to: • Help students gain the knowledge and skills they need to think and work at a deeper level. • Create opportunities for all students to excel at reading, writing, speaking, listening, language and math. • Encourage students to think critically about what they read and the math that they do. • Allow teachers and students to focus more deeply on fewer critical concepts in mathematics. Regardless, it is not a day-by-day curriculum that dictates a teacher's lesson plan. Yet, Barrett has some reservations about Common Core student assessments created by the Partnership for Assessment of Readiness for College and Careers (PARCC). The organization is a group of educators in several states created a few years ago to measure if students are on track to be successful in college and their careers. See Common Core on page 13 Mark your calendar for two great events! Aim High Junior High Early Childhood Education Expo Thursday, November 20 • 6:30 pm Wednesday, November 12 • 6:30 pm Discover Our Best Kept Secret Aim High Junior High What sets the St. Mary School Junior High program apart from the rest? Hear from teachers, parents, and former students about the St. Mary’s difference! This is a hands-on night, so bring the kids and have fun! Discover all the excellent programs offered for preschool and kindergarten students at St. Mary School. Discover Our Best Kept Secret questions and provide tours of the classrooms. Discover Our Best Kept Secret Teachers, parents andCHILDHOOD students will be available to answer Aim High Junior High EARLY EDUCATION EXPO Thursday, Nov.20th 6:30pm ! Thursday, Nov.20th 6:30pm For both events please RSVP to Maureen: Chardon, OH! 44024 440-286-3590 apart from the rest? ! t440-286-3590 Hear from eachers, parents, and former students [email protected] Hear from teachers, parents, and former students about the St. M ary’s difference! What sets ary School Junior High program 401 Street ! St. MNorth a part f rom t he What sets St. Mary School Junior High program rest? about the St. Mary’s difference! 12 Today’s Family Magazine ! ! Please RSVP to Maureen: 286-3590 NovemBER2014 Please RSVP to Maureen: 286-3590 [email protected] [email protected] NOVEMBER 12TH - 6:30 PM This is a hands-on night, so bring the kids and have fun! Discover all the excellent programs offered for preschool and kindergarten students at St. Mary School. Teachers, parents and students will be available to answer questions and provide tours of the classrooms. PLEASE RSVP TO MAUREEN: 286-3590 [email protected] 401 North St. Chardon, OH Common Core (from page 12) “I worry that the assessments that are designed by PARCC might not measure what we want them to measure,” he says. In Language Arts, for example, Barrett says students might be asked to write essays and refer to passages they have read on the computer. This means that they will be measured on their ability to type, read and write clearly. “It might be tough to measure all these things in a valid and reliable way,” he adds. Regardless, Barrett, a former math teacher, is a strong proponent of the Common Core. While speaking to parents last year, he said old Ohio math standards were “a mile wide and an inch deep,” while Common Core standards “pare things down a little by grade level and are more focused.” Under Common Core math instruction, students can learn math in a more conceptual way. “They shouldn’t just know what a bar graph is, they should learn how a graph creates an argument and learn be able to say if a graph in USA Today is accurate,” he said. According to a national poll, 52 percent of parents have heard little or nothing about the Common Core curriculum. Among those who have are a few parents who have expressed concern about the more rigorous standards students must meet. Both Hanlon and Barrett say teachers in their respective schools systems will provide help and resources for students who are struggling with them. “School districts are continuing to adapt classroom instruction and support services to the needs of students, as well as reconsidering the school calendar to address learning outcomes,” says Hanlon. “Classroom teachers focus on instruction and assessment in relation to state standards, and will assign appropriate levels of homework given the developmental level and age of the student,” he adds. Just for Laughs Little Johnny's new baby brother is screaming up a storm. He asks his mom, "Where'd we get him?" His mother replies, "He came from Heaven, Johnny." Johnny says, "Wow! I can see why they threw him out!" ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ Timmy was listening to his sister practice her singing. "Sis," he said, "I wish you'd sing Christmas carols." "Thats nice of you, Timmy," she replied, "but why?" Timmy replied, "Because then I'd only have to hear your voice once a year!" ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ One day Jimmy got home early from school and his mom asked, "Why are you home so early?" He answered, "Because I was the only one that answered a question in my class." She said, "Wow, my son is a genius. What was the question?" Jimmy replied, "The question was 'Who threw the trash can at the principal's head?'" ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ Dear Dad, $chool i$ really great. I am making lot$ of friend$ and $tudying very hard. With all my $tuff, I $imply can`t think of anything I need. $o if you would like, you can ju$t $end me a card, a$ I would love to hear from you. Love, Your $on The Reply: Dear Son, I kNOw that astroNOmy, ecoNOmics, and oceaNOgraphy are eNOugh to keep even an hoNOr student busy. Do NOt forget that the pursuit of kNOwledge is a NOble task, and you can never study eNOugh. Love, Dad WHERE THE ICE AGE AND CLEVELAND COLLIDE OPENS NOVEMBER 22 © www.paleoart.com CMNH.org This exhibition was created by The Field Museum, Chicago. This exhibition was created by The Field Museum, Chicago. Local support provided by Dr. Michael E. Gallagher, DDS Sponsored by: Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 13 A bucket full of thanks R MOMMY CHRONICLES By Stacy Turner ecently, there’s been much talk about bucket lists, prompting people to pen lists of wonderful adventures they hope to have before the end of their days. I like the idea, and the dreams and plans that go with it. But writing a bucket list brings to my mind everything I’ve been blessed to experience thus far, things that helped shape me. So I wrote down a different kind of list -- a precursor to a bucket list. These are the people and events that have helped define me, and for that, I’m truly grateful. It’s my hope that, in this season of gratitude, you might be inspired to make a pre-bucket list of your own. First off, I’m thankful for my children, who cause me gray hair, while at the same time keep me young. I appreciate one for her constant curiosity that keeps us all learning and striving to do and be more. I appreciate the other for her skill to take notice of all the little things -- pointing out treasures in each day that I might otherwise miss. And her wacky sense of humor that keeps us laughing along the way. I’m thankful that my husband, who is often my biggest cheerleader, can also be my biggest critic when I need it most. On the winding road of our life together, he provides the accelerator while I’ve got the brakes -- which have served us pretty well on our many adventures together. I’m thankful for my parents’ example of how to celebrate special days. With six children, celebrations didn’t necessarily involve spending money. Often, it was simple things -- like the opportunity to choose dinner on your birthday, and what type of special cake you’d like. With five other siblings, getting your own way was a special treat. My dad’s early passing, while not something I’m especially grateful for, helps me remember to pause and reassess what really matters. This time of focus helps let go of what no longer fits, and welcome new opportunities that arise. Ultimately, his loss helped me to depend on God, and to trust that in each moment, wherever I am is exactly where He has planned me to be. I’m thankful, too, for the many lessons I’ve learned from my mother-in-law. Her small stature is misleading -- she stands tall for that which she believes. Her strong faith has been her saving grace through the loss of her best friend, my father-in-law. She embraces life, riding everything from roller coasters to zip-lines well into her 70s. I want to be like her when I grow up. While my father-in-law may not have had the ideal childhood, as an adult, he made sure those around him felt loved and appreciated. From him, I’ve learned no matter where you’ve come from, where you end up is in large part, up to you. From my many siblings, I’ve learned to live and let live, because although we share a similar beginning, our paths have taken us in a variety of directions. Our shared history binds us together, even as our individual lives have placed many miles between us. And lastly, I appreciate my friends -- ones who have known me the longest, and those who’ve come into my life more recently. Their support and kindness help me weather the storms of life with humor and grace. So there you have it — my pre-bucket list. After looking back in gratitude, I’m ready to move forward in the same way. And I challenge you to do the same this Thanksgiving season. need more space? GIVE the GIFT of a LAKE METROPARKS FARMPARK { membership Family memberships start as low as $55! Memberships and gift memberships available online at LAKEMETROPARKS.cOM. We can help! Memberships include these great benefits & more! •FREE admission for one year (some restrictions apply) •Discounts on Parks Plus! programs led by Farmpark staff •Discount pre-order tickets to Vintage Ohio and Country Lights Lake Metroparks Farmpark 8800 Euclid Chardon Rd. (Rt.6) Kirtland, Ohio 44094 440-256-2122 lakemetroparks.com 14 Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 Scan the QR code for more information about Farmpark memberships • Climate controlled units • New, clean facility 4141 Palmetto Drive Willoughby (440) 953-2323 www.willoselfstor.com Big Sister (from page 6) the time that Nicky’s husband took her to see “High School Musical” in downtown Cleveland when Nicky wasn’t able to. “I couldn’t believe he did that for me! We had such a great time.” Vassil adds, “My husband actually told me after we started dating that one of the things he loved about me was that I was a Big Sister,” she says. “He and I are big supporters of Big Brothers Big Sisters because we’ve seen the changes it makes in everyone involved, the kids as well as the volunteers. So I’m on a campaign to recruit Bigs! I know a lot of young professionals and I’m always encouraging them not to wait to get involved, do it before you have kids, and life gets so busy.” “My whole family, sisters, parents, husband . . . we all think of Heather as our own. We’re all so proud of her. She will always be a part of our lives.” To become a Big Brother or Big Sister, call 440-352-2526, or visit www.bbbsneo.org. The Wild Days of Winter game returns! On a life-sized indoor game board, discover the many flavors that nature gives us as you play along in our all new winter wonderland. Draw a card, move from space to space and explore nature through the seasons. The game is played just like Candy Land, but with a natural twist! The Wild Days of Winter – A Taste of Seasons is free for all ages. The game, presented by Discount Drug Mart, begins at noon Saturday, November 22 at Penitentiary Glen Nature Center. The fun continues noon to 5 pm daily through January 4, 2015, with the exception of Thanksgiving, Christmas Eve, Christmas Day and New Year’s Eve when the exhibit will be closed. Supporting sponsors include Playground World, The News-Herald and Today’s Family. Continue your adventure with family-fun, hands-on activities both indoors and out. • Challenge your family to indoor and outdoor scavenger hunts that explore nature. • Enjoy a seasonal craft. • Discover the sights and sounds of wildlife at the interactive Nature Calls exhibit. • Watch and listen for wildlife at the many bird feeders in Penitentiary Glen Nature Center’s Window on Wildlife. • Go for an adventurous walk on the Peppermint Trail on snowshoes. Rentals available through the season as weather permits. Adults: $3/hr. or $12/day, children $1.50/hr. or $6/day. • Visit the Wildlife Center to learn about and meet native Ohio wildlife. Make this year’s gift a wild one! The “Adopt an Animal” program provides a unique, thoughtful gift idea that helps to cover the cost of care! •E xplore more than 8.5 miles of hiking trails open year round. • Visit The Nature Store for all great nature- and wildlife- themed holiday shopping gift ideas. Refreshments are available. Join in on Saturday afternoons from 1 to 3 pm for special free activities. •N ovember 22 – Wildlife Day! •N ovember 29 – Campfire and S'mores •D ecember 6 – Trains (weather permitting) Penitentiary Glen Reservation is located at 8668 Kirtland Chardon Road in Kirtland. Directions: Take I-90 to the Rt. 306 exit; head south one mile to Rt. 615. Turn left and follow 1/8 mile to the next light. Turn right onto Kirtland-Chardon Road and follow two miles to Penitentiary Glen Reservation on the right. For more information, call 440-256-1404 or visit www.lakemetroparks.com. November is National Adoption Month Help a Child to Give Thanks Open your heart and your home to adoption You can make the difference in the life of a child. Please call us for more information on our Adoption and Foster Care Programs. Call the Foster Care line: 440-350-4218 (in Lake County) 440-918-4218 (in Cuyahoga County) Lake County Department of Job and Family Services Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 15 I Does your child need a tutor? pendent when it comes to homework, but if you find that the school work he or she does without assistance is incoherent or unfinished, talk to your child. Does he or she understand assignments? Talk to his or her teacher, too. Is your child paying attention in class? How should you assist at home? Your child often spins his or her wheels. When your child studies or does homework, does he or she have trouble getting started and/or staying on task? Talk to your child's teacher about how much time your child should spend on homework each night and pay attention to the actual time spent. If your child studies regularly but his or her grades don't reflect the effort, explore possible reasons with his or her teacher. Your child seems totally apathetic about school. Certainly, some children may express great distaste for school when they are struggling, but others may simply lose interest in learning. If your deally, parents will know long before their child brings home a failing report card that he or she needs tutoring help – but Martina McIsaac of Huntington Learning Center says that it's important for parents to heed both academic and non-academic warning signs that their child needs supplemental education. "Grades are an obvious measure of a student's school progress, but there are a number of other clues to help you recognize problems," says McIsaac. "Your child isn't likely to come to you asking for tutoring help, so as a parent, it's important to be aware of the red flags that may indicate your child could benefit from one-on-one tutoring." How can you tell if your child needs tutoring? Here are several warning signs: Your child's homework is incomplete, inaccurate and sloppy. Throughout school, your child should become increasingly inde- Have Your Birthday Party at THE COMPLETE FAMILY EXPERIENCE Great Lakes Stadium 16 - (440) 974-4372 Diamond Center 16 - (440) 352-8846 Midway Mall 8 - (440) 324-2195 Lakeshore 7 - (216) 731-1701 Eastgate 10 - (440) 460-0399 privaatreea party popcorn cake treats moviesFor more information, visit us online at pizza www.ATLASCINEMAS.net 16 Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 child was once excited about school and now seems indifferent, talk to him or her and try to probe gently into what's going on. You notice a gradual decline in grades. If your child's grades on homework and tests have steadily gone down since the beginning of the school year, it could be a sign of something more serious than a tough unit or one difficult class. A temporary dip is nothing to get overly concerned about, but grades that get progressively worse can indicate that your child lacks basic skills and therefore can't keep up in the classroom. Your child is very hard on him or herself. School struggles can take a serious toll on a child's selfesteem and confidence. If you find your child being extremely selfcritical, demeaning and pessimistic about school, it's definitely time to investigate and seek help. Homework time includes lots of tears and crying. Children who struggle with school can become so frustrated that their emotions overwhelm them during homework time. If your child dreads homework and studying, and all study sessions are tense and stressful, perhaps your child is avoiding school altogether because he or she feels incapable of doing the work. The clearest sign that a child needs tutoring is a poor report card, but McIsaac encourages parents to act as soon as they sense there is a problem. "When a child has problems in school, his or her grades aren't the only things that suffer – children experience a lot of frustration, sadness and even anger when they struggle in school," McIsaac says. "Seek help early. Problems like these don't go away on their own. At Huntington, they design programs that are tailored to each child's specific needs, and they don't believe in quick fixes. Their goal is to close those gaps in skills so that our students can go on to be better, more confident, and most importantly, happier students." For more information contact Huntington Learning Center of Mentor at 440-205-8283. Christmas Craft Show Wednesday & Thursday December 3rd & 4th 11 am-9 pm HANDMADE UNIQUE HOLIDAY GIFTS Holiday Entertainment & Chinese Raffle Door Prizes Every Hour From John Roberts Hair Studio & Spa Lunch & Dinner Available Three Dollar Admission NORMANDY PARTY CENTER 30310 Palisades Parkway • Off Euclid Avenue in Wickliffe Our show benefits Fall Sports & Fun!! Soccer 101 Lil Kickers In-house Soccer League • Saturday mornings at 11:00 am December through early March •12-week fee of $150, plus $15 registration fee Soccer 101 is the “next step” in our youth soccer program. Targeted at kids ages 6-9, Soccer 101 includes both soccer foot skills training with small-sided soccer games. The emphasis is on FUN, coupled with an introduction to competition by playing some team matches. All teams will be coached by current and/or former soccer players. Child Development Program • Innovative, popular child development program • Focus is on kids from 18 months to 8 years • Classes run 50 minutes per session once a week • Sign up early to lock in your preferred class time • Winter session starts December 2nd New in-house program starting in November Key features include: • Consistent game day & starting time (Saturdays at noon) • Small-sided games, 5v5 • Coaching provided by LNSP “Soccer 101” staff (all experienced HS or college players) • Reversible mesh jerseys included with league fee • Great introduction to competitive soccer league play; emphasis on more touches per player • Cost of $96/player for 8-week season (Nov & Dec) Contact Danny at (440) 602-4000 ext 236 or [email protected] Lil Sluggers Call Danny B. at 440-602-4000 ext 236 Call to sign up today! • Introduction to baseball for kids from 2–5 years of age • Nationally franchised child development program; exclusive location in NE Ohio • New program at LNSP that started in spring 2013 • Low student/instructor ratio (usually 4–6 kids per instructor) Youth Indoor Baseball League • Age Divisions: - Under 8 - Ages 9/10 - Ages 11-13 • 8-game regular season, plus playoffs • Current session (October-December) was sold out! • Entry deadline for Winter session (Jan - March) is December 23rd -- DON’T GET SHUT OUT! • Games played on Friday nights between 5-8 PM and LNSP is accepting registration for Sunday mornings between 7 AM - Noon our popular off-season youth indoor baseball league for kids from ages 7-13. • Team fee of $735; Individual fee of $80 Call Dan at Contact Ed Strauss at (440) 602-4000 ext 225 or [email protected] 440-602-4000 • NFL Flag, Powered by USA Football ext. 229 or • Games played on Saturday afternoons from 3:00 - 7:00 PM • 3 age groups: - 6-8 years old - 9-11 years old - 12-13 years old DNaderer@ 12 game season (two 24-minute games per week) Registration deadline - October 27th LNSPORTSPARK.com Contact Ed Strauss at (440) 602-4000 ext 225 or [email protected] Youth Flag Football FUN! FRIENDS! your child’s favorite sports activity Birthday Parties Combine with a complete birthday party package! FITNESS! Call Marilyn at 440-602-4000 ext. 223 for details! 38630 Jet Center Drive • Willoughby North of Route 2 off Lost Nation Road www.LNSPORTSPARK.com In a time of need, food bank serves hope By Kim McCloskey A single mother works full time at a local restaurant but admits it’s a struggle to feed her two children on just one salary. An elderly woman who recently had surgery is unable to get to the grocery store, and shares that even if she could, it would be too difficult to prepare the food. Two young boys look forward to their school lunch as it is the only meal they get each day. After his salary was drastically cut, a 52-year-old man and his wife have to choose between food and keeping their utilities on. In our area, these scenarios are all too common. According to the Greater Cleveland Food Bank’s website, one in six northeast Ohioans is food insecure, meaning they do not know where their next meal will come from. “We served about 247,000 different individuals last year,” says Karen Pozna, director of communications for the Greater Cleveland Food Bank. “The Food Bank really tries to bridge the meal gap, and connect individuals to the resources they need to be healthy.” The Greater Cleveland Food Bank, located on South Waterloo Road in Cleveland, serves more than 700 member agencies in six northeast Ohio counties including Cuyahoga, Lake, Geauga, and Ashtabula. Clients can take advantage of the many food pantries available if they have transportation and are able to pick up food. These pantries work with the Food Bank to distribute food for free to those who are hungry in the community. But Pozna explains that almost half of the Food Bank’s clients are made up of seniors and children, who are unable to leave their homes. “We try to think creatively with these groups,” says Pozna. “We recently started a mobile food truck that takes food such as bread, produce, and dairy products to underserved areas and to people who don’t have transportation.” To serve the rising number of hungry children in northeast Ohio, the Food Bank came up with another creative solution – the Backpack for Kids program. “We supply schools with backpacks to hand out to children who qualify,” says Pozna. “The backpacks can be taken home for the weekend and are YOU’RE THE BOSS Get the high yield checking account that works for you. TakeCharge checking from Cardinal earns 1.5% apy. That will make you sit up and take notice. stuffed with enough food for 6 meals – breakfast, lunch, and dinner. The kids love them and are so excited to see what they will get each weekend.” According to Pozna, one million healthy meals were supplied through the kids program last year and the need is growing. With limited resources and partner pantries, Pozna explains what may be the Food Bank’s most important work — helping link individuals to the right programs. “There are thousands of people in our area who are eligible for food stamps that don’t take advantage of that opportunity,” says Pozna. “We really try to connect people to resources that are already out there for them.” As the holidays and cold weather approach, Pozna says the Food Bank is always in need of volunteers to collect, sort, and repack food; distribute produce; or work in the kitchen. Virtual food drives are also available and can be customized to schools, groups, or businesses. But the biggest help according to Pozna is monetary donations. “Through the buying power of volunteers and local groups, $1 can provide four meals,” says Pozna. “We can make money go so much further than actual food.” If you are in need of food assistance, the Food Bank Help Center is open Monday through Friday at 216-738-2067. For those interested in volunteering, visit www. greaterclevelandfoodbank.org. Q: What do these adults have in common? A: They ALL are mentoring children in need of a positive role model! YOU can make a BIG difference to a child! Big Brothers Big Sisters of Northeast Ohio *High yield on first $15,000; remaining balance earns dividends at money market rate. Rates subject to change at any time and are set by the credit union. Failure to meet all account requirements will result in $6.95/mo. fee and no dividends paid. Ten signature-based debit card transactions exceeding $10 required each month. 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Ideas to safeguard your home this winter Winter is just around the corner, so it’s time to get your home and yard ready for the inevitable chill to come. Here are some simple steps to promote safety and reduce potential homeowner losses. HEATING SYSTEM • Make sure your furnace has adequate ventilation and check the batteries in your thermostat. • Remove all flammable material from the area surrounding the furnace. • Replace or clean furnace filters once a month during the heating season. • Have your heating system professionally checked and inspected annually. GET THE FIREPLACE READY • If the chimney hasn’t been cleaned recently, call a chimney sweep to remove soot and creosote. • A professional chimney sweep can not only clean your chimney but check for safety issues. Most chimney fires can be avoided by taking these steps. SMOKE AND CARBON MONOXIDE DETECTORS • Install carbon monoxide detectors if you don’t already have them. • Test all smoke and carbon monoxide detectors to make sure they work. • Buy a fire extinguisher or replace an extinguisher older than 10 years. • Make sure to change the batteries annually when daylight savings ends. PREVENT PLUMBING FREEZES • Insulate any exposed piping, including the faucets themselves. • Drain air conditioner pipes and, if your AC has a water shut-off valve, turn it off. • Disconnect and drain all garden hoses. • Turn off your sprinkler system completely and have the lines blown out. CHECK THE EXTERIOR, DOORS, AND WINDOWS • Install your storm windows and doors. • Use caulking to seal any exterior cracks and exposed entry points around pipes. • Use weather stripping around doors and caulk windows to prevent cold air from entering the home. CHECK FOUNDATIONS • Tuck-point or seal foundation cracks; mice can slip through a space as thin as a dime. • Caulk your driveway and sidewalks. INSPECT ROOF, GUTTERS, AND DOWNSPOUTS • By adding extra insulation to the attic it will prevent warm air from creeping to your roof and causing damage. • Clean out your gutters so they can run freely. BE READY, JUST IN CASE • Have flashlights, extra batteries, matches and candles readily accessible. • Keep a list of emergency phone numbers, as well as utility company phone numbers near your phone or inside the phone book. • Store extra bottled water and non-perishable food supplies, blankets, and a first aid kit in a dry and easy to access location. • Give your snow blower a checkup and make sure it’s working properly. Matthew Corsaro is the president and owner of the Corsaro Insurance Group in Mentor. His company and staff have been providing insurance solutions to families and business owners for over forty years. Mr. Corsaro has obtained the Accredited Advisor in Insurance and Certified Insurance Counselor designations. Corsaro Insurance Group represents over twenty insurance companies. As well they have expertise in all areas of auto, home and business insurance. They can be reached at 440-946-4950. Fall into savings . . . Find out how you can save by insuring your home and auto with Auto-Owners Insurance! Contact us for the best rates! LIFE • HOME • CAR • BUSINESS 8039 Broadmoor Road • Mentor 440-946-4950 Planning a birthday party? Visit www.todaysfamilymagazine.com for great ideas! Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 19 U N L E A S H his PA S S I O N The Actor When he’s not constructing robots as a member of University School’s First Lego League or singing in the choral group, High Tops, Calvin, US class of 2019, can be found starring in the school’s theater productions. “It’s a great experience to get up and try to make somebody believe something – believe that you are really somebody else. Theater builds character.” Learn more: www.us.edu/UnleashHisPassion For boys, grades K-12. PARENT OPEN HOUSE | Tuesday, November 4th Register at www.us.edu 20 Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 Christmas Train and Toy Show For more information call Mentor Civic Arena 440-974-5730 8600 Munson Road Mentor, Ohio 44060 www.cityofmentor.com/play Skate On In Come to the Christmas Train and Toy Show and see over 200 dealers with model trains of all gauges, antique toys, and diecast toys just in time for your Christmas shopping. The show will be held November 23 from 10:00 am–3:30 pm at Lakeland Community College in Kirtland (I90 and Rt. 306). Enjoy watching the operating train layouts in many different scales and dioramas. Buy, sell or trade. This will be a great time to upgrade your model train or get a new train set for under the Christmas tree. Santa Claus will be at the show from 12:30 pm–2:00 pm. If you wish to take your child’s picture with Santa, we ask that you make a $5 donation to Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation. There will be Toys for Tots collection boxes at the show. Please help those less fortunate by donating new, in the package (unwrapped), toys. Please no stuffed animals. Admission: adults $6 each, family $15, children (6–12) $3, children under 6 and active military are free. For more information visit www. cleveshows.com, email cleveshows @att.net or call 440-256-8141. Hands on Pottery Studio offers unique event options Searching for an artistic, engaging and unique team-building experience for your holiday gathering? Hands on Pottery Studio, Cleveland’s premier pottery painting and glass fusing studio, is well known for providing individual creative opportunity daily at the studio. In addition, the studio proudly coordinates custom off-site “Portable Pottery” programs and hosts on-site private events. Over the last decade, the studio’s event options have provided uniquely creative additions to many community functions. Satisfied “Portable Pottery” customers include KinderCare, Jewish Federation of Cleveland, Hathaway Brown School, and The Cleveland Museum of Natural History. At these special off-site events, studio staff provides all the pottery, paint, and expertise needed to create a memorable school, business, or nonprofit organization gathering. Hands on Pottery Studio will coordinate the entire project, collect all completed projects, process and package pieces and then return them to your site! “Portable Pottery” customized programs add creative energy to any function and increase fundraising, team building, and outreach capabilities. Hands on Pottery Studio will also coordinate and host in-studio private events. This option offers the same artistic material, creative outlet, and helpful staff in an inviting and relaxing studio space. Private studio events can be hosted both during and after regular business hours throughout the year. Hands on Pottery Studio’s dedication to providing artistic and therapeutic experiences can help make your upcoming event an enjoyable and effective function. Call 216-292-4844 or visit www. handsonpottery.com and learn about this unique program opportunity today! Hands On Pottery Studio is located in the Greens of Lyndhurst shopping center at 5660 Mayfield Road in Lyndhurst. Public Open Ice Schedule October thru April Monday 3:15 – 4:45 pm Tuesday 4:00 – 5:30 pm Wednesday 4:00 – 5:30 pm Thursday 4:00 – 5:30 pm Friday (DJ Night) 8:30 – 10:30 pm Saturday 1:30 – 3:30 pm 8:30 – 10:00 pm Sunday 1:30 – 3:30 pm Luncheon Skate M–F • Noon–1:30 pm Adults $6/Youth & Seniors $5 Skate Rental $3 Small Folk Skate October – April Saturdays and Sundays 1:30 – 3:30 p.m. Children eight years of age and under and a parent are invited to come and skate on the Studio Rink with children their own size during the Small Folk Open Skate. It’s a great time for younger children to practice skating skills or simply skate at their own pace! Skating Party Options All Day Skate Camp November 4 • 8 am – 5 pm December 22 • 8 am – 5 pm Looking for an activity for your kids? Come to the arena for an all day program that includes skating, movies, crafts, games and more skating. Children can participate in any activity or just skate all day. Children must be 6 years and up. Admission is $30 for the day which includes skate rental. pre-register and receive a $5 discount. Learn To Skate • Register in person or online • Skate rental is $1 • Helmets are provided fo those 10 & under at no cost Toddler Crawl: Ages 14–28 mo. Tot (1, 2, 3): Ages 3–5 Basic (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8): Ages 6+ Freestyle (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6) (must have passed Basic 8) Tot Hockey: Ages 3–5 (must have passed Tot 1) Instructional Hockey: Ages 6+ Teen & Adult: 12+ Special Skaters Program: All Ages Competition Class: All Ages (must have passed Tot 1 or Basic 1) OPEN SKATE BIRTHDAY PARTY Book the party room during one of our weekend Open Skates. Lots of fun! STUDIO RINK PARTIES Want a more private party? The Studio Rink and lounge is great for youth birthday parties. The Studio Rink is smaller and is best suited for children under age 10. LARGE RINK PARTIES Try something new to entertain your friends or group. Rent one of our large rinks for your school, class, church, scout groups, etc. Mascot Day Sunday, Nov. 8 Public Skate 1:30 pm – 3:30 pm Come skate with your favorite mascot. Prizes and discounted admission $4.00 (Skate rental free.) Room Rentals Looking for a room to rent for a meeting, shower, wedding? 50 people 100 people 200 people? We have a room for you! Call 440-974-5730. Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 21 Willoughby-Eastlake Public Library Fun Scavenger Hunt St. Gabriel to celebrate Community Day of Service On November 15, 2014, The Catholic Community of St. Gabriel will span throughout Lake and Geauga County as the hands of Christ serving their neighbors to mark their second annual Community Day of Service. Almost 500 St. Gabriel parishioners have volunteered for this day of service. Small teams will work visiting over 70 different facilities to help with maintenance, yard work, and other service projects. Recipients include places such as Hartley Manor, Project Hope, and The James A. Gar- field Home. Projects also consist of leaf raking for private homes by the teen youth group at St. Gabriel. The youth will gather at houses of elderly or physically challenged individuals and help them with fall clean up. Also on this day, St. Gabriel will host a Tail Gate Party for Deepwood residents to enjoy fun and games. The day will culminate when all teams reunite at St. Gabriel for Mass and enjoy a volunteer made dinner together to give thanks to God for the honor of serving others. Food drive allows library patrons to donate food in exchange for fine forgiveness 1. Visit any library and find a book about Thanksgiving 2. Find the Thanksgiving graphic at WE247.org 3. Tell us what you are thankful for at your library Pick up your entry form in the library children’s department and list your three answers. Present it to the librarian and be entered in to win a prize. Scavenger Hunt runs November 1 to November 30. 22 Eastlake Public Library 36706 Lake Shore Blvd. Eastlake, OH 44095 440.942.7880 Willowick Public Library 263 East 305th Street Willowick, OH 44095 440.943.4151 Willoughby Public Library 30 Public Square Willoughby, OH 44094 440.942.3200 Willoughby Hills Public Library 35400 Chardon Road Willoughby, OH 44094 440.942.3362 Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 The "Can Your Fines" food drive is returning to Mentor Public Library and, once again, library patrons can donate food in exchange for forgiveness of their fines. The food drive will run all through November and people can donate at any of Mentor Public Library’s branches. The donated food will go to local food pantries at St. Gabriel and St. John Vianney. The pantries will, in turn, give it to families in need. Each nonperishable food item that somebody donates will be worth up to a dollar off of the fines they owe. People can get up to five dollars in fines waived this way. Patrons can only trade food for fines once during the Can Your Fines food drive. Those whose fines have gone to collections are not eligible to participate. Last year, patrons donated hundreds of pounds of food during the Can Your Fines drive. For more information, contact the Mentor Public Library at 440-2558811 or visit the library’s website at www.mentorpl.org. Great decoration ideas for your next party! Just Artifacts is an online décor store for parties and events. From paper lanterns, sky lanterns, paper straws, tissue paper pom poms, parasols, and fans to their many other décor products, it’s easy to find what you need to decorate for your next birthday party, school event, shower, wedding, or other special occasion. They offer a wide range of colors and sizes to meet all your decorating needs! www.justartifacts.net A karate kid at heart 72-year-old earns black belt at Karate Institute By Kim McCloskey L ike every other candidate, years of practice, dedication, and hard work will bring Steven Stefancic to Lakeland Community College for the 2014 Black Belt Extravaganza. But Stefancic isn’t like every other candidate. At age 72, he’s the oldest first degree black belt at the Karate Institute of Mentor and one of the oldest in Lake County. “Steven is an amazing individual,” says Dennis Janes, owner of Karate Institute, eighth degree black belt, and Stefancic’s instructor. “He has a true warrior spirit that never gives up.” According to Janes, Stefancic earned the prestigious honor in the July-August black belt test and will join eleven others from Lake and Ashtabula counties receiving junior black belts and black belts at the Extravaganza on Saturday, November 15. “These students have spent years developing themselves into top martial artists, and we are excited to see them obtain this rank,” said Janes. According to Janes, the road to earning a black belt is marked by years of classes, training, and competitions, and culminates with a grueling multi-day exam that covers everything martial artists have learned since beginning their studies. Each year, the Karate Institute of Mentor has hosted the Black Belt Extravaganza, not only to honor the candidates, but to showcase skills from students of all ages. The public will be able to see Stefancic in action, as well as a high-energy lighted glow weapons demonstration, creative skits choreographed by each of the black belt recipients, and Karate Institute demonstration and competition teams, which have ranked nationally. Guests will also see skilled students as young as three years old. Students at the Karate Institute, says Janes, range in age from 3 to 72. There are different goals for each age group, but the benefits of studying martial arts remain the same for all ages. Classes provide students with self-confidence, self-discipline, athletic skills, improved concentration, and a positive mental attitude, all of which they can use in their daily lives. “It’s been a great journey and pleasure empowering countless numbers of students with the ability to develop personal protection and build confidence through the martial arts,” says Janes. For Stefancic, the benefits have paid off. “It’s very unusual to have someone over the age of 50 achieve the rank of black belt and it’s extremely rare for someone in their 70s to earn this coveted rank,” says Janes. “Steven Stefancic is one in a million.” The 2014 Black Belt Extravaganza begins at 6 Moral Values · Discovery · Achievement MATER DEI ACADEMY students are empowered to grow spiritually, academically and socially through worship, a challenging curriculum, service and extra-curricular activities. MATER DEI ACADEMY offers Kindergarten – grade 8, all day Pre-K and half day Preschool for 3 and 4 year olds. CAMPUS TOURS TUESDAY MORNINGS AT 10:30AM AND FRIDAY AFTERNOONS AT 12:30 PM Registration Requested. Please call the school office. MATER DEI ACADEMY offers advanced/honors coursework, ActivBoard technology in classrooms, weekly Physical Education, Art, Music, Spanish and Technology classes; tutoring and remedial help is available for those who qualify. We participate in the diocesan hot lunch program. Before/After school care is also available. We offer a comprehensive course of study fully accredited by the Ohio Department of Education and the Ohio Catholic Schools Accrediting Association. 29840 Euclid Avenue • Wickliffe, Ohio 44092 440-585-0800 440-585-9391 fax • www.MaterDeiAcademy.us Steven Stefancic earned his first degree black belt this past summer at the age of 72 years old. He will showcase his skills on November 15 at the 2014 Black Belt Extravaganza held at Lakeland Community College. p.m., Saturday, November 15 at Lakeland Community College Performing Arts Center. The event is open to the public. For ticket information or questions, email [email protected] or call 440-951-0463. the WILD Days of Wintergame: free! all new ! a TasTe of seasons November 22, 2014 through January 4, 2015 at Penitentiary Glen nature Center exhibit open daily noon to 5 pm Closed Thanksgiving, Christmas Eve, Christmas & New Year’s Eve On a life-sized game board, discover the many flavors that nature gives us as you play along in our all new winter wonderland. enjoy a craft, activity pages and scavenger hunts—fun for the whole family! Penitentiary Glen Reservation 8668 Kirtland Chardon Rd. Kirtland, Ohio 44094 440-256-1404 look for special activities every lakemetroparks.com Saturday 1 to 3 pm during the exhibit! Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 23 Kurt Law is there to help small businesses and small business owners harvest their true potential We all know this is an exciting time in the Cleveland region, a time full of big dreams and great potential. At the same time, the delivery of legal services is changing, and Kurt Law Office is changing as well. To help businesses and individuals harvest their collective and individual potential at this unique time, Kurt Law Office, a woman-owned law practice in Lake County, has expanded the firm and added practice groups serving general corporate and small business services; probate and estate planning; and real estate/construction law. Attorney Pamela Kurt, owner and principal at Kurt Law, described the change as an investment in the business community and people of Lake County. “More and more I have seen how small businesses can reach their full potential by using skilled, affordable legal counsel and business services. One of our small business attorneys can be an invaluable partner who helps a small business owner harvest his/her potential and make their dreams become a reality.” In addition to traditional legal services, a small business attorney can help minimize numerous business risks for small businesses through such services as general risk management, contract and document review, business planning, drafting legal and non-legal documents and, on the more personal side, creating a basic estate plan that protects the people and families that create, own, and operate the small business. “We come to work every day committed to helping our small business clients build the life they dream of, protect what they have already built, and solve some of life’s more challenging problems. We consistently counsel our clients about how the legal system can, or cannot, help them harvest their potential and accomplish their goals,” said Kurt. As a forward-thinking legal service firm, Kurt Law Office is committed to providing innovative, skilled professional legal services. Kurt Law Office is currently explor- Top row: Amy Baird, Amanda Bacon, Pamela Kurt, Esq., Rachel Webster Bottom row: Amy Casner, Esq., Liz Kohn, Oliver Herthneck, Esq. ing expansion into several neighboring counties in the northeast Ohio region. They are also welcoming their most recent additions of Amy J. Casner, Esq. and Oliver Herthneck, Esq. Stay tuned for more announce- ments as they harvest THEIR potential! Please call their office at 440516-1010 for a consultation for your business evaluation and/or legal needs. Are you a parent or caregiver of a child or adolescent with mental illness or serious emotional disturbances? · Attention Deficit Disorder · ADHD · Major Depression · Bipolar Disorder · Conduct Disorder Support for NAMI Basics is provided by the Lake County Department of Job and Family Services Dozens of Lake County residents have already completed NAMI Basics. NAMI Lake County has provided education, support, information, and advocacy for families of those with mental illness for twenty-three years. Its programs receive vital funding from the County Alcohol Drug Addiction and Mental Health Services Board (ADAMHS). · Oppositional Defiant Disorder · Anxiety Disorder · Obsessive Compulsive Disorder · Childhood Schizophrenia · Substance Abuse Disorders NAMI Lake County is here for you. We care about children. We care about families. Learning your child has a mental illness can change family life profoundly. If you’re a parent or caregiver you deal not only with the illness itself but also navigating unfamiliar terrain which can be challenging. NAMI Basics Education is a six-week free course providing an important road map to guide you during difficult times. This course gives the basic information necessary to take the best care possible of your child, as well as the rest of your family, and yourself! For more information or to register for the next session call NAMI Lake County at 440-639-1200. 24 Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 New classes help women prepare for childbirth If you are an expecting mother searching for a quality childbirth class, then you may want to check out BirthWorks. BirthWorks is a program designed to help develop a woman’s innate trust and confidence in her ability to birth and nurture her child. Centered around the philosophy that the knowledge of how to birth already exists within every woman, BirthWorks believes that you cannot teach a woman to give birth. Rather, the program helps women to develop faith in their own body knowledge. Building confidence in a woman’s trust in herself and her body is key to her being more satisfied with her birth experience. Through bodywork, exploration of individual and cultural beliefs about birth, and much more, women can truly be empowered to listen to their own instincts when giving birth. "Taking a BirthWorks class will be an experience you will not soon forget," says certified Birthworks instructor, Trisha Lawrie. "You will feel comfortable sharing in a safe and non-judgmental environment. The classes will help both you and your birth companion become aware of the ways to make labor safer and more comfortable." Classes are open to women with any birthing history, and whether it is your first child or your fourth. BirthWorks classes are meaningful and helpful no matter what kind of birth you plan to have—at home or hospital, with or without an epidural, or even a planned Cesarean. BirthWorks encourages women to take classes as early as possible in their pregnancy—ideally, the beginning of the second trimester. However, any stage of pregnancy is welcome. Topics you will learn about include: • Instead of teaching patterned breathing, you will learn slow, deep breathing as one way to make labor more comfortable • Understanding and working with contractions in labor • Making informed choices about medical interventions • Relaxation, pelvic awareness and bodywork • Nutrition, exercise, and postpartum wellness • Labor companionship and comfort measures • How beliefs and attitudes affect your experi- EXTENDED EXTENDED EXTENDED ence of birth • Healing past emotional trauma to facilitate normal birth • Options for your birth and birth planning • Breastfeeding • More "Many women today enter pregnancy and childbirth surrounded by fear and apprehension," adds Lawrie. "We've been taught to view birth as a frightening and dangerous experience. Taking a BirthWorks class enables you to examine those fears, and alleviate them by not only getting them out in the open in a supportive environment, but counteracting them with up-to-date research and information." A woman who takes a BirthWorks class can expect to walk away empowered emotionally and intellectually, ready to make important decisions that must be faced when becoming parents. A good beginning helps everyone, including baby, mother and family. Feeling satisfied with your birth experience is a powerful first step on your journey into parenthood, and BirthWorks will help you begin that journey with confidence and joy. To learn more about classes, please contact Trisha Lawrie at 440-364-2122 or trisha.lawrie@ yahoo.com. Trisha is a certified BirthWorks instructor and her website is www.trishasbirthworks. yolasite.com. HOLIDAY HOLIDAY HOURS HOLIDAY HOURS HOURS Here forfor the Here the Holidays! Here for theHolidays! Holidays! TheThe Return ofof Weeknight Return Weeknight The Return of Weeknight & Saturday Hours! & Saturday Hours! & Saturday Hours! Mon-Fri: am - 11pm pm Mon-Fri: 6 6am Mon-Fri: 6 am- 11 - 11 pm Sat: 9 am- 11 - 11 pm Sat: 9 am Sat: 9 am - 11pm pm November 10 - January 3 November 1010 - January November - January33 ✪ ✪ ✪ All Services Will Operate All Services Will Operate Veterans Day All On Services Will Operate Tuesday, November On Veterans Day On Veterans Day 11th Tuesday, November11 11thth Tuesday, November www.laketran.com | 1.888.LAKETRAN www.laketran.com | 1.888.LAKETRAN www.laketran.com | 1.888.LAKETRAN Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 25 The happiest babysitter on the block of children, and the sitter’s level of experience. Research pay rates in your area by scouting the profiles on Sittercity.com or asking other mothers. Paying a sitter too little or way too much can make her feel icky. By Heidi Smith Luedtke, Ph.D. B ehind every happy mom is a hardworking babysitter who watches the kids during book club meetings and date nights. Here’s what you can do to build a strong bond with your favorite caregiver and ensure she doesn’t ditch you for the sitterstealing parents down the street. 1. Provide critical information. Do a walkthrough with your sitter to make sure she can find important objects, like diapers, pajamas and the blanket your 3-year-old won’t sleep without. Include a tutorial on any electronic gizmos she’ll need to use, like the DVR. Offer a written list of your kids’ bedtime routines as well. Insider info sets your sitter up for success. 2. Check your expectations. You may be used to multitasking craziness, but the average babysitter is not. Don’t expect her to entertain your toddler, prep dinner and supervise homework simultaneously. Order pizza if the sitter will be helping your son with fourth-grade social studies. And make sure your child knows exactly what assignments to complete. Ultimately, it is his responsibility to get schoolwork done. 3. Meet basic biological needs. Keep your babysitter satisfied by stocking up on snacks and drinks she likes. And make sure you invite her to indulge. Also, let her know if it’s okay to snooze on the sofa after the kids go to sleep. A tired teen may struggle to stay awake if you’re out until the wee hours. 4. Watch the clock. Babysitters have busy calendars and parents shouldn’t assume a sitter will want to stay past the agreed-upon end time – even for extra pay. Your sitter may need to get to bed early so she will have energy for a next-day sporting event or family outing. Come home at the appointed hour and call if you are delayed. Sitters appreciate it when parents respect their time. 5. Pay fairly. Talk about money up front and make sure you agree about how much you’ll pay. Rates vary by location, number and ages Wednesday, January 28th 9 AM - 11 AM Christ Centered 26 Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 • 6. Be available. Yes, this is your time off. But your sitter needs to know how to contact you in an emergency. Jot down your cell phone number and a brief itinerary so she knows how to reach you. Most sitters will hesitate to disrupt date night, even if times get tough. Explain what kinds of situations should prompt a call. 7. Let her shine. Find out what makes your babysitter unique and give her the opportunity to share her talents. A high school cheerleader might teach your kids a new chant or help them practice cartwheels. A drama queen might inspire them to put on a play. Prime the kids with a little advanced info so they know how to connect to their new-found friend. 8. Look out for #1 (and 2). Even if you have several sitters on your contact list, give your goto sitters special treatment. Tell top sitters how much the kids like spending time with them, and hire them on a regular basis if possible. A sitter who feels a special connection to you and your kids will prioritize your family over others. Sunday, February 22nd (Open House & Registration) 12 noon - 2PM Service • Strong Academics Make a difference by restoring hope Emergency shelter seeks volunteers In November, Project Hope for the Homeless will be opening the doors on a 5,200 sq. ft. expansion, and in the process are seeking caring, kind faces to greet guests walking through them. “Volunteers are the backbone of Project Hope,” said Executive Director Judy Burr. “Throughout this expansion, our main focus has been on the children and families, and we are in need of volunteers to help us give them the best experience possible, leading to a successful transition from homeless to housed.” Last year, over 115 volunteers at both Project Hope and the shelter’s family program, Families Moving Forward, served more than 6,000 hours. They served and ate dinner with guests, played with children, helped with homework, gave a listening ear to guests who needed to talk, and provided informal support while shelter staff worked with guests to improve their lives. Project Hope volunteers, Burr said, are nothing short of amazing. “We have volunteers who regularly take one or two shifts each week, and develop great and lasting friendships with the staff and fellow volunteers they work with,” she said. “One volunteer invited another volunteer to her wedding.” Tom Wolfe, of Painesville, has been volunteering on-site since 2008. “This is where I learned what it means to be without, to have no food on the table, or roof over my head,” he said. “Those who the world has turned its back on, those without hope, those without much at all, except a promise of a future. A future given them through the devoted, dedicated, loving and kind work of the employees and volunteers of Project Hope." Former guests now serve as trustees, employees, volunteers, and colleagues in partner agencies, giving back to help others find the same success. “Project Hope volunteers have a unique opportunity to see their giving make a difference,” said Project Hope Volunteer Coordinator Missy Knight. “By providing informal support to our guests and staff, they ensure Project Hope is a safe and ef- ficient environment. It’s during their service that they can encourage those who are feeling hopeless, and within weeks see these same people walk out with hope for a better future.” Painesville Township resident Mike Manary began volunteering eight years ago, and has seen that success many times over the years. “I keep coming back for two reasons,” he said. “One is the mission is pure. This is the front lines for helping people in need. I like the direct, handson approach to helping. The second is Project Hope itself. Project Hope makes the best case possible for faith-based charities. We are efficient, almost no bureaucracy, and we make the best use of volunteers and donations with very little waste. This is how charity should be.” Volunteer shifts are scheduled in the afternoon, evening, and night, following a brief training. Youth ages 15–17 can volunteer in the shelter with a parent. Learn more about the shifts and apply online at www.projecthopeonline.org. daycares & preschools SUMMER 2010 Enroll Now CAMP For Preschool LEARN THRIVE In Child Care at the Y, parents feel confident their kids are in a safe, caring and educational environment and . . . the kids can’t wait to see their “teachers” and play with friends. Child Care LAKE COUNTY YMCA CENTRAL Y (Painesville) Preschool, School-Age Painesville City 440.352.3303 EAST END Y (Madison) Preschool, School-Age Madison 440.428.5125 WEST END Y (Willoughby) Preschool, School-Age Willoughby 440.946.1160 PERRY CHILD CARE CENTER Infant, Toddler, Preschool School-Age Perry 440.259.4596 For more details visit us online at www.lakecountyymca.org www.creativelearningcare.com Eastlake (440) 954-9548 36100 Portage Dr. (near Surfside off Lakeshore) Streetsboro (330) 562-2262 ENROLL NOW ! • Free tuition for those qualified • Free transportation from public schools before & after school • Two acres of outdoor playground (Eastlake) • 6 weeks through 10 years 20 Today’s Family Magazine Before and after school care • Educational curriculum • Infant, toddler, preschool & school age programs • Hot lunches & nutritious snacks • Over 45 years in operation • Degreed & certified teachers AUGUST2014 CHILD DEVELOPMENT CENTER SAFE SAFEAND ANDSOUND SOUND EENNRROOLLYLL! TOTDODAAY! Two convenient locations dedicated to providing the best care for your infants, toddlers, preschoolers & school age children. u u u u u u 6 weekstoto1213years years Infants uWeekly themes/events Weekly themes/events Full time uComputer Activities Full time/part time/part time Computer Activities Magic uDegreed/Certified teachers Piano Mondays Instruction Degreed/Certified Teachers Piano Instruction uAll meals & snacks provided Games,crafts, crafts, sport sport All meals & snacks activities provided Games, uAge-appropriate Educational Field Trips Educational uOpened Monday-Friday Open Monday-Friday From 6 a.m. to 6:45 p.m. ...much more fun!! MENTOR MENTOR 8303 8303Tyler Tyler Blvd. Blvd. 440-205-8420 440-205-8420 EUCLID EUCLID 1050 E.E.200th 1050 200thStreet Street 216-481-3830 216-481-3830 www.horizonchildcare.com www.horizonchildcare.com Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 27 Managing your finances through technology Teaching, Learning, Leading, and Serving Come & Discover See for yourself the high quality of faith formation and education that Learning Loft Preschool, St. Gabriel School, and our loving community provide for each child entrusted in our care. Offering preschool through eighth grade. 5th Grade one to one Chromebook program! St. Gabriel School offers monthly Open Houses on Tuesdays at 9:00am Nov 18• Dec 16 • Feb 10 Special Kindergarten Meet & Greet December 11 & 12 Call today to register and discover: • Christ-centered educational environment emphasizing service to others • Rigorous curriculum, advanced technology, and differentiated instruction for optimal learning • A wealth of extracurricular activities for further growth & development 9935 Johnnycake Ridge Road Concord Township, Ohio 44060 440/354-7858 www.St-GabrielSchool.org 28 Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 It is no secret that over the past several years, the financial industry has adopted many new technologies to optimize the consumer experience and to make money management easier. Whether it’s through a mobile app, remote deposit capture, or virtual banking, financial institutions are incorporating beneficial advances in technology. Apple recently revealed the latest iPhone and, with it, a new technology called Apple Pay. This novel take on a mobile-payment system is not unlike existing systems such as Google Wallet or PayPal, however it applies a heightened level of security that in many cases makes it even safer to use than a physical credit card. By simply loading your credit card information into the app (which then protects your information through a process called tokenization), you will be able to easily turn your iPhone into your central payment system. The technology takes advantage of the swipe-free systems already available with many debit and credit cards and has been adopted by the majority of credit card companies in the U.S. One local financial institution, Cardinal Credit Union, is optimizing its systems to incorporate this newest technology in order to provide the best service to its members. “Apple Pay is just one more resource that you can take advantage of to keep your credit cards and your finances secure,” said Christine Blake, president and CEO of Cardinal Credit Union. “When our members load their Cardinal Visa into the app, they will be incorporating measures of security that were unprecedented until now. Simply put, Apple Pay is more secure for merchants and payment networks, and more private for consumers. It augments our efforts to provide better member experience, better security, and better privacy, all while taking advantage of the latest technologies.” By allowing technology to lead the way, Cardinal and other institutions strive to offer both financial security and peace of mind. Through a dedication to superior service and unparalleled products, Ms. Blake and her staff predict a bright future. Cardinal Credit Union is a member-owned, full service financial institution open to anyone who lives, works, worships or attends school in Lake, Geauga, Cuyahoga or Ashtabula counties. For more information on Cardinal Credit Union and the products it offers, stop by any one of the local branches, call 1-877-900-MYCU, or visit them online at www.CardinalCU.com. Upcoming classes/events at FAA Holiday Card Making Workshop* November 21 • 5:30 pm-7:45 pm Kids ages 6–10 will love ending their week with this fun workshop and pizza dinner! (Hey, parents, this is a perfect time to plan a date night out or evening with friends.) Pizza and materials included in $27 fee. Roald Dahl’s Willy Wonka Join us this holiday season in Willy Wonka’s magical world of chocolate dreams, featuring your favorite songs from the classic film. (Rated G) $15/children ages 10 and under; $23/ seniors & students ages 11 and up; $25/adults. Call or visit website for performance dates and times. All the Arts Camp* December 1 • 9 am–3 pm Have a day off school? Come to Fine Arts for FUN! Kids in grades K-5 will enjoy hands-on arts explorations in dance, music, visual arts and theatre in this awesome one-day camp. Cost: $45/camper; Before Camp Care available from 8–9 am for $6 per camper. The Fine Arts Association 38660 Mentor Avenue, Willoughby 440-951-7500 www.fineartsassociation.org *Registration required. FamilyHealth Diabetes on the rise in kids How to lower your child’s risk Your child may have • Spends less than two diabetes and not know hours of screen time it — just like more than (e.g., watching televi8 million U.S. adults, sion, playing video according to the Centers games, using a comfor Disease Control and puter or mobile device) Prevention (CDC). While many with diaOnce considered an betes have no symptoms, Michael “adult” disease, type 2 diawatch your child for: Koniarczyk, MD betes is on the rise in U.S. • Increased thirst children. Between 2001 • Frequent urination and 2009, incidence rose 30 percent • Patches of darker, thicker skin in kids ages 10 to 19. near the groin and armpits “As childhood obesity has in• Weight loss for no reason (for creased, so has the number of kids type 1 diabetes) with type 2 diabetes,” says Michael “See your pediatrician right away Koniarczyk, MD, who specializes in if your child has symptoms or if you pediatrics and internal medicine at have specific concerns,” says Dr. Cleveland Clinic’s Mentor Medical Koniarczyk. “Otherwise, continue Office Building. your child’s annual checkups. That’s when your pediatrician will do diaDiabetes basics betes screening, if needed.” Diabetes is a condition in which your blood sugar (glucose) is too When to have high. Over time, high blood sugar diabetes screening can cause a host of health problems, Per American Academy of Pediatincluding heart disease and kidney rics guidelines, many pediatricians disease. have begun screening for diabetes • Type 1 diabetes, also known as with a blood test to check glucose juvenile diabetes, is an autoimlevels in kids age 10 and older who mune disease. It affects the are above the 85th percentile on pancreas so it can’t make enough the body mass index (BMI) growth of the hormone insulin to process chart. BMI above the 85th percentile blood sugar. It’s linked to family is considered overweight, above the history and genetics, and typi90th percentile is considered obese. cally strikes in childhood. Before age 10, children typically • Type 2 diabetes is diagnosed aren’t screened for diabetes unless when your body develops a resis- they have symptoms. tance to insulin. It is also linked “While children with type 1 diabeto genetics, but obesity and tes require insulin. A healthy diet and physical inactivity are important exercise may be enough to control risk factors. type 2 diabetes so your child doesn’t need insulin or medication,” says Dr. What parents should do Koniarczyk. “Your child can lead a Dr. Koniarczyk recommends taknormal life.” ing steps to lower your child’s risk of For an appointment with Dr. obesity and type 2 diabetes. Every Koniarczyk or another physician at day, make sure your child: Cleveland Clinic’s Mentor Medical • Limits junk food — yet eats five Office Building — 7060 Wayside servings of fruits and vegetables Drive in Mentor (just off Mentor and three to four servings of Avenue, behind Key Bank) — call dairy products 440.357.2770. For an appointment • Is physically active for more than with a pediatrician at another Lake one hour County location, call 216.444.KIDS. Planning a birthday party? Visit www.todaysfamilymagazine.com for great ideas! St. Gabriel Christmas Craft Boutique St. Gabriel School 9935 Johnnycake Ridge Rd. • Concord Township Friday, November 7, 2014 6:00 – 9:00 pm & Saturday, November 8, 2014 9:00 am – 3:00 pm Come and experience the high quality craftsmanship of over 100 inspired artisans. Don’t miss this amazing opportunity to buy for those special people on your Christmas list! Admission is $3.00 for those 13 and older. Please do not bring strollers for safety reasons. Make Your Wedding Unforgettable... Make it a Classic! 440.833.3333 www.aclassicflorist.com 1221 East 305th Street Willowick Saturday, November 15, 2014 9 am - 4 pm Open To The Public HERSHEY MONTESSORI SCHOOL 10229 Prouty Road • Concord Twp. 440-357-0918 www.hershey-montessori.org Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 29 St. Gabriel Christmas Craft Boutique Fri., November 7 • 6–9 pm Sat., November 8 • 9 am–3 pm St. Gabriel School 9935 Johnnycake Ridge Road Concord Township Come and experience the high quality craftsmanship of over 100 inspired artisans. Admission $3 for those 13 and older. Please, no strollers for safety reasons. Cosmic Ray Cloud Chamber Fridays, November 7 & 21 7–8 pm Observatory Park 10610 Clay Street, Montville Twp. 440-286-9516 www.geaugaparkdistrict.org Did you know that with just a jar, some rubbing alcohol, a bit of dry ice and some ingenuity, you could build your own cosmic ray detector - a "cloud chamber," which lets you see traces of high-energy particles? Look no further for instruction how! Attend to try your hand at assembling a cloud chamber and using it to search for cosmic rays, then receive a set of take-home instructions on how to assemble your own cloud chamber. Officer Dan and Jager Wednesday, November 12 6:30 pm Willowick Library 263 E. 305 Street 440-943-4151 Meet Officer Dan and his special K-9 dog, Jager, who is the new puppy in training. Learn how helpful a dog can be with fighting crime. Registration required. Hershey Montessori Arts Fest Saturday, November 15 9 am–4 pm Hershey Montessori School 10229 Prouty Road, Concord Twp. 440-357-0918 www.hershey-montessori.org A celebration of local fine arts and crafts. Open to the public. The 9th Annual Fabulous Food Show November 14 –16 10 am–6 pm I-X Center, Cleveland www.fabulousfoodshow.com Featuring the country’s largest presentation of fine food, fine art, craft breweries, wineries and restaurants all under one roof. 30 Today’s Family Magazine family calendar Visit www.todaysfamilymagazine.com for more listings! Girls Go! Science Saturday, November 15 Great Lakes Science Center 601 Erieside Avenue, Cleveland www.greatscience.com Calling all girls in grades 6–12! Join in for this day-long workshop of new hands-on sessions led by women working in science, technology, engineering and math. Visit website for more details. Reserve today! Call 216-621-2400. Karate Institute Black Belt Extravaganza Saturday, November 15 6 pm Held at: Lakeland Community College Fine Arts Center This event is recognition and celebration of the new 2014 black belts as they and the Karate Institute Demo Team put on an exciting martial arts exhibition. Advance tickets are $8 on or before November 1, $10 November 2 to the day of the show. For information: 440-951-0463 [email protected] www.mentorkarate.com Mickey Mouse's Birthday! Sunday, November 16 2 pm–3 pm Geauga West Library 13455 Chillicothe Road Chesterland 440-729-4250 Mickey Mouse celebrates his 86th birthday! Come and celebrate with trivia, games, and snacks. Registration is required. Please call the library to register. Cupcake Bake-Off Wednesday, November 19 2:30 pm Wickliffe Public Library 1713 Lincoln Road Wickliffe 440-944-6010 Do you love to bake? Do you love cupcakes? Then this program is for you! Bring a dozen of your best homemade cupcakes to share, and find out if your batch is voted a favorite. You will have a chance to taste test and judge the other entries, too. Yum!! Call or stop by to register. Grades 5 and up. NovemBER2014 Annual Youth Services Puppet Show Thursday, November 20 10 am–10:40 am Chardon Library 110 East Park Street Chardon 440-285-7601 Children ages 3 and older with their families. Join the youth services department for a rousing good time with puppets, stories and songs. Call to register. I-X Christmas Connection November 21–23 I-X Center Cleveland 216-676-6000 www.ixchristmasconnection.com Over 600 booths with handmade soaps, pottery, gourmet dips, woven garments, flavored coffees, jewelry, furniture and much more. Features include Santaland for kids, live choirs, a holiday balloon scene, Gingerbread Square where the first 600 kids will have the chance to decorate – and eat – their own holiday cookie, and a children’s play area featuring childfriendly outdoor toys. Wonka Birthday Party Saturday, November 22 2 pm Mentor-on-the-Lake Library 5642 Andrews Road 440-257-2512 Celebrate the 50th anniversary of Roald Dahl’s “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory." Kids can test their Wonka Vision, make custom candy creations in the Inventing Room and design mini Wonka top hats. Registration is required for this program and begins Nov. 1. Fuzzy Scarf Craft Saturday, November 22 2–3:30 pm Eastlake Library 36706 Lakeshore Blvd. Eastlake 440-942-7880 Looking for the perfect accessory for those chilly winter days? Join in to make a cute, fuzzy scarf… no knitting, crocheting or sewing required! A seasonal favorite! Grades 6–12. Ages 11–18. Registration required. Dryland Sled Dog Challenge November 22 & 23 Races run 9 am–12:30 pm Demonstrations until 2:30 pm Lake Metroparks Farmpark 8800 Euclid Chardon Road Kirtland 440-256-2122 www.lakemetroparks.com Watch and cheer on mushers and their teams from the United States and Canada as they compete for the best time over a twomile course. Come out and meet the dogs, talk to the racers and find out why this sport is becoming so popular. The Dryland Sled Dog Challenge is included with Farmpark admission. A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving Lunch Wednesday, November 26 Noon Mentor Main Library 8215 Mentor Avenue 440-255-8811 Watch a holiday classic while eating a special lunch provided by the children's department at Mentor Library. Registration is open to all ages, although those younger than eight must be accompanied by an adult. Registration begins November 12. Country Hearth Christmas November 28–30 December 6–7 10 am–4 pm Burton Log Cabin & Sugar Camp 14590 E. Park Street Burton 440-834-4204 burtonchamberofcommerce.org Burton Village celebrates Christmas with old-fashioned flair. Enjoy the many holiday activities such as a lighted parade on Friday at 6 pm followed by caroling and holiday decor lighting and refreshments, including Santa at the Burton Log Cabin with free hot chocolate and cookies 12–4 pm. Admission and parking are free. Beary Merry Christmas Craft Show December 3 & 4 11 am–9 pm Normandy Party Center 30310 Palisades Parkway, Wickliffe Featuring unique, handmade holiday gifts, holiday entertainment, Chinese raffle, door prizes, food available. Admission is $3. Fostering A Child By Lake County Department of Job and Family Services November is National Adoption Awareness Month The spotlight this month is on the month itself as November is known as “National Adoption Month.” The history of designating a month to celebrate and bring awareness to adoption began in Massachusetts in 1976. Then Governor of Massachusetts, Mike Dukakis, designated an “adoption week” to recognize children in need of permanent homes. This single idea, sparked national interest and spread throughout the country. President Gerald Ford later instituted the first National Adoption Week. In 1990, “adoption week” changed to “adoption month” due to the interest the topic generated throughout the country. Both children and parents alike have benefited from this interest as it is what has and continues to bring families together. Children services agencies throughout the nation take a moment to recognize and promote November as National Adoption Month because not only are foster parents needed to help care for children, so are adoptive parents. Sometimes, children are unable to return to their birth family and it is the adoptive parents that agencies turn to when children are in need of “Forever Families.” What is adoption? Legally, adoption is accepting a child into your family that was not born to the parents. Once the adoption is legalized, the child will have the adoptive parents’ name and the same legal rights as a child by birth. To a child, adoption means so much more. It means having somebody there at all times to meet their needs, to help them through both good and bad times and to share their life experiences. Children of all ages, genders and races are in need of adoption. Any child who has entered into the public child welfare system has experienced a trauma, either through abuse or neglect and due to this trauma have been affected either physically or emotionally. Their behaviors can be demanding and challenging, but with commitment, consistency and time families are growing. Once a county is awarded permanent custody of a child, it becomes the county’s responsibility to find that child a permanent home. Currently, Lake County Department of Job and Family Services has four children in permanent custody and one who needs a “Forever Family.” Over the past two years, 14 Lake County children have been adopted. For those families who have adopted, please look throughout your local community and online resources to see all the different ways adoption is being celebrated and how you can become a part of that celebration. We at the Lake County Department of Job and Family Services are grateful to all of our families who have adopted children in the past. Thank you for helping these children find their “Forever Families.” If you are interested in becoming a foster and/or adoptive parent, please call the Foster Care/Adoption Inquiry Line, Lake County Department of Job and Family Services at (440) 350-4218 or e-mail Eugene.Tetrick@ jfs.ohio.gov. They will be happy to answer your questions and send you information about foster care and adoption. The Lake County Department of Job and Family Services is in need of families who would be willing to care for teenagers. Tell them you heard about foster parenting in Today's Family. Let me put this sign in your yard. SOLD DANIEL MILLER 440-537-5126 [email protected] Today’s Family Magazine NovemBER2014 31 Nurturing the spirit. Engaging the intellect. Inspiring creative thinkers. COME VISIT! 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