1. family and parenting
2. children

INFORMATION PACKET:
Gay & Lesbian Foster Care
and Adoption
By Joanne Smith
MAY 2002
The increasing number of homosexuals choosing to adopt has brought the issue of gay
and lesbian parenting to the forefront. Social workers are being asked to look carefully at
their own feelings and to make reasonable judgments about what is in the best interest of
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children who need families. The increasing number of children needing adoptive
families puts pressure on workers to find appropriate families. Should stable, nurturing,
mature applicants be turned away only on the basis of sexual preference?1
Gay men and lesbians have always adopted, though in the past they usually hid their
sexual orientation. Today, as they have become more visible in all aspects of society,
they are determined to be considered seriously as potential adoptive parents. This may
become easier in light of the fact that the number of gay and lesbian biological parents in
the United States has increased dramatically during the past two decades. In 1976, there
were an estimated 300,000 to 500,000; today, there are an estimated 1.5 to 5 million
lesbian mothers and 1 to 3 million gay fathers. As of 1990, an estimated 6 to 14 million
children were being raised in gay and lesbian households.2
Until the 1950s and '60s, adoption was predominately used to place healthy white babies
in the homes of middle class, married couples. In the decades since, adoption practices
have changed dramatically, and adoption has become a way for increasingly diverse
populations to form families.
Rosie O'Donnell has helped all Lesbian and Gay families wanting to adopt children by raising
awareness and putting a face on the loving homes that children can find with all kinds of
families. The AIA supports Steve Lofton and Roger Croteau, a gay couple fighting to keep their
family together by trying to overturn the state of Florida's ban on gay adoption who are
challenging Florida's law which states: "No person eligible to adopt under this statute may
adopt if that person is a homosexual." Title IV, Chapter 63, Article 63.042: Who may be adopted; who may adopt.
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Written by Gloria Hochman, Mady Prowler, and Anna Huston of the National Adoption Center in
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, for the National Adoption Information Clearinghouse, 1995. Used by
permission.
2 Kreisher, Kristen. (January 2002) is Managing Editor of Children's Voice Article, Child Welfare
League of America Children's Voice.
3American Infertility Association (AIA). (2002). Supports Gay/Lesbian Adoptive Families; Calls for an end
to “Gender Politics” New York, NY
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FACT SHEET/GENERAL STATISTICS
(The Following Facts have been compiled from Lesbian & Gay Rights, American Civil Liberties Union, Freedom
Network)
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The issue of adoption is best decided by parents and professionals on a
case-by-case basis, not by politicians or the government.
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The goal of adoption is to make sure that the child has a permanent home
with people who have the skills to be good parents.
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Lesbians and gay men can and do make good parents.
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There is a critical shortage of adoptive parents, and children will be stuck
in foster care permanently if we start adopting exclusionary adoption
policies.
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According to the Adoption and Foster Care Analysis and Reporting System, on
September 30, 2001, 132,000 children in the public child welfare system were waiting to
be adopted. The median age of children in this group was 7.7 years, and many had spent
more than 36 continuous months in foster care.
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21 states have granted second-parent adoptions to lesbian and gay couples, ensuring that
their children can enjoy the benefits of having two legal parents, especially if one of the
parents dies or becomes incapacitated.
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More than 22 states to date have allowed lesbians and gay men to adopt children either
through state-run or private adoption agencies.
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One state (Florida) has a law that expressly bars lesbians and gay men from ever adopting
children.
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Arkansas has just adopted a policy prohibiting lesbians, gay men, and those who live with
them, from serving as foster parents.
MYTHS VS FACTS
About Lesbian and Gay Foster and Adoptive Parents
(The following is adopted from the American Civil Liberties Union Fact Sheet: Overview of Lesbian and Gay
Parenting, Adoption and Foster Care, April 1999)
Myth: The only acceptable home for a child is one with a mother and father who are
married to each other.
Fact: Children without homes do not have the option of choosing between a married
mother and father or some other type of parent(s). These children have neither a mother
nor a father, married or unmarried. There simply are not enough married mothers and
fathers who are interested in adoption and foster care. Last year only 20,000 of the
100,000 foster children in need of adoption were adopted, including children adopted by
single people as well as married couples. Our adoption and foster care policies must deal
with reality, or these children will never have stable and loving homes.
Myth: Children need a mother and a father to have proper male and female role models.
Fact: Children without homes have neither a mother nor a father as role models. And
children get their role models from many places besides their parents. These include
grandparents, aunts and uncles, teachers, friends, and neighbors. In a case-by-case
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evaluation, trained professionals can ensure that the child to be adopted or placed in
foster care is moving into an environment with adequate role models of all types.
Myth: Gays and lesbians don't have stable relationships and don't know how to be good
parents.
Fact: Like other adults in this country, the majority of lesbians and gay men are in stable
committed relationships.4 Of course some of these relationships have problems, as do
some heterosexual relationships. The adoption and foster care screening process is very
rigorous, including extensive home visits and interviews of prospective parents. It is
designed to screen out those individuals who are not qualified to adopt or be foster
parents, for whatever reason. All of the evidence shows that lesbians and gay men can
and do make good parents. The American Psychological Association, in a recent report
reviewing the research, observed that "not a single study has found children of gay or
lesbian parents to be disadvantaged in any significant respect relative to children of
heterosexual parents," and concluded that "home environments provided by gay and
lesbian parents are as likely as those provided by heterosexual parents to support and
enable children's psychosocial growth."5 That is why the Child Welfare League of
America, the nation's oldest children's advocacy organization, and the North American
Council on Adoptable Children say that gays and lesbians seeking to adopt should be
evaluated just like other adoptive applicants.
Myth: Children raised by gay or lesbian parents are more likely to grow up gay
themselves.
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Fact: All of the available evidence demonstrates that the sexual orientation of parents has
no impact on the sexual orientation of their children and that children of lesbian and gay
parents are no more likely than any other child to grow up to be gay. 6 There is some
evidence that children of gays and lesbians are more tolerant of diversity, but this is
certainly not a disadvantage. Of course, some children of lesbians and gay men will grow
up to be gay, as will some children of heterosexual parents. These children will have the
added advantage of being raised by parents who are supportive and accepting in a world
that can sometimes be hostile.
Myth: Children who are raised by lesbian or gay parents will be subjected to harassment
and will be rejected by their peers.
Fact: Children make fun of other children for all kinds of reasons: for being too short or
too tall, for being too thin or too fat, for being of a different race or religion or speaking a
different language. Children show remarkable resiliency, especially if they are provided
with a stable and loving home environment. Children in foster care can face tremendous
abuse from their peers for being parentless. These children often internalize that abuse,
and often feel unwanted. Unfortunately, they do not have the emotional support of a
loving permanent family to help them through these difficult times.
Myth: Lesbians and gay men are more likely to molest children.
Fact: There is no connection between homosexuality and pedophilia. All of the
legitimate scientific evidence shows that. Sexual orientation, whether heterosexual or
homosexual, is an adult sexual attraction to others. Pedophilia, on the other hand, is an
adult sexual attraction to children. Ninety percent of child abuse is committed by
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heterosexual men. In one study of 269 cases of child sexual abuse, only two offenders
were gay or lesbian. Of the cases studied involving molestation of a boy by a man, 74
percent of the men were or had been in a heterosexual relationship with the boy's mother
or another female relative. The study concluded that "a child's risk of being molested by
his or her relative's heterosexual partner is over 100 times greater than by someone who
might be identifiable as being homosexual, lesbian, or bisexual."7
Myth: Children raised by lesbians and gay men will be brought up in an "immoral"
environment.
Fact: There are all kinds of disagreements in this country about what is moral and what is
immoral. Some people may think raising children without religion is immoral, yet
atheists are allowed to adopt and be foster parents. Some people think drinking and
gambling are immoral, but these things don't disqualify someone from being evaluated as
an adoptive or foster parent. If we eliminated all of the people who could possibly be
considered "immoral," we would have almost no parents left to adopt and provide foster
care. That can't be the right solution. What we can probably all agree on is that it is
immoral to leave children without homes when there are qualified parents waiting to raise
them. And that is what many gays and lesbians can do.
4
Overlooked Opinions, "The Gay Market," Chicago, January 1992.
American Psychological Association, Lesbian And Gay Parenting: A Resource For Psychologists (1995).
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See Bailey, J.M., Bobrow, D., Wolfe, M. & Mikach, S. (1995), Sexual orientation of adult sons of gay
fathers, Developmental Psychology, 31, 124-129; Bozett, F.W. (1987). Children of gay fathers, F.W. Bozett
(Ed.), Gay and Lesbian Parents (pp. 39-57), New York: Praeger; Gottman, J.S. (1991), Children of gay and
lesbian parents, F.W. Bozett & M.B. Sussman, (Eds.), Homosexuality and Family Relations (pp. 177-196),
New York: Harrington Park Press; Golombok, S., Spencer, A., & Rutter, M. (1983), Children in lesbian
and single-parent households: psychosexual and psychiatric appraisal, Journal of Child Psychology and
Psychiatry, 24, 551-572; Green, R. (1978), Sexual identity of 37 children raised by homosexual or
5
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transsexual parents, American Journal of Psychiatry, 135, 692-697; Huggins, S.L., (1989) A comparative
study of self-esteem of adolescent children of divorced lesbian mothers and divorced heterosexual mothers,
F. W. Bozett (Ed.), Homosexuality and the Family (pp. 123-135), New York: Harrington Park Press;
Miller, B. (1979), Gay fathers and their children, The Family Coordinator, 28, 544-52; Paul, J.P. (1986).
Carole Jenny, et al., Are Children at Risk for Sexual Abuse by Homosexuals ?, Pediatrics, Vol. 94, No. 1
(1994); see also David Newton, Homosexual Behavior and Child Molestation: A Review of the Evidence,
Adolescence, Vol. XIII, No. 49 at 40 (1978) ("A review of the available research on pedophilia provides no
basis for associating child molestation with homosexual behavior.")
7Carole Jenny, et al., Are Children at Risk for Sexual Abuse by Homosexuals?, Pediatrics, Vol. 94, No. 1
(1994); see also David Newton, Homosexual Behavior and Child Molestation: A Review of the Evidence,
Adolescence, Vol. XIII, No. 49 at 40 (1978) ("A review of the available research on pedophilia provides no
basis for associating child molestation with homosexual behavior.")
LEGISLATIVE STRATEGIES/ BEST PRACTICE TIPS
(The following Legislative Strategies have been compiled from www.ACLU.org website)
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The ACLU's policy memorandum contains information, "Defending Fair And
Sensible Adoption Policies" and should be used to defeat anti-gay, anti-child
adoption legislation.
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Introduce Legislators And The Public To Lesbian And Gay Families. To
effectively debunk biases and stereotypes invoked by opponents of “gay
adoption” show the public and legislators who lesbian and gay parents are.
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Get lesbian and gay families to tell their stories in testimony before legislative
committees, to the media, and in public meetings. Try to find lesbian or gay
couples or individuals who have adopted or are otherwise raising children and
who are willing to tell their story in public.
(The following statistics have been compiled from the websites listed in the resources)
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Build Alliances With Children's Advocacy Groups And Other Non-Gay
Organizations, pediatricians, interested members of communities of faith, and
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others who have historically expressed a strong interest in the interests of
children.
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Representatives of children's advocacy groups and pediatricians can testify before
legislators and speak at public events. Children's groups can join with you to
publish supportive op ed pieces.
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Where possible, you should work to defeat hostile adoption legislation in an "up or
down" vote on the proposed legislation. However, depending on the circumstances, this
may not be the approach most likely to succeed. What follows are a number of proposed
alternatives that can be introduced either as amendments or alternatives if it does not
appear possible to kill a bad adoption bill on a straight vote.
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Child Welfare League of America’s Standards for Adoption Service state, All
applicants should have an equal opportunity to apply for the consideration of their
qualifications as adoptive parents, under applicable law. (5.4) Applicants should
be fairly assessed on their abilities to successfully parent a child needing family
membership and not on their appearance, differing lifestyle, or sexual preference.
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The American Psychological Association adopted the belief that homosexuality
per se implies no impairment in judgment, stability, reliability, or general social
and vocational capabilities. The American Psychological Association urges all
mental health professionals to take the lead in moving the stigma of mental illness
that has long been associated with homosexual orientations.
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The February 4, 2002 NY Times states that the American Academy of Pediatrics says it
will support right of gay men and lesbians to adopt their partners' children; says most
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studies over past two decades indicate children of gay or lesbian parents are as well
adjusted socially and psychologically as those of heterosexual parents; experts say
endorsement is likely to carry weight in courts and legislatures because group, which
represents 55,000 pediatricians, enjoys wide respect; three states currently ban such
adoptions, while seven and Washington (DC) permit them by law or court ruling;
otherwise, legal status of such adoptions varies widely (Goode, 2002).
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The American Psychological Association deplores all public and private
discrimination in such areas as employment, housing, public, accommodation,
and licensing against those who engage in or have engaged in homosexual
activities and urges the enactment of civil rights legislation at the local, State and
Federal level that would offer citizens who engage in acts of homosexuality the
same protections now guaranteed to others on the basis of race, creed, color, etc.
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The Statement of National Association of Social Workers Code of Ethics on Gay
and Lesbian Issues is that social workers should not practice, condone, facilitate,
or collaborate with any form of discrimination on the basis of race, color, sex,
sexual orientation, age, religion, national origin, marital status etc. Social workers
should act to expand choice and opportunity for all persons, with special regard to
disadvantaged or oppressed groups and persons.
Laws and Practices Vary From State to State
(Work Compiled from Child Welfare League. Children’s Voice Article; Gay Adoption (January 2002))
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Federal and state laws govern adoption, but practices within states often vary
from region to region-and even from agency to agency and judge to judge. By
researching state laws and analyzing court records, the Human Rights Campaign
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(HRC), the nation's largest gay and lesbian organization, have determined 21
states and the District of Columbia are "open" to gay adoption. "More and more
states recognize gay and lesbian adoption as a fine thing," says Lisa Bennett,
Deputy Director of HRC's Family Net. "Some have explicit, welcoming
language."
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New Jersey was the first state to specify that sexual orientation and marital status
cannot be used to discriminate against couples who are seeking to adopt. The state
also allows second-parent adoption, a legal procedure by which a co parent can
adopt the biological or adopted child of his or her nonmarital partner.
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New York also grants second-parent adoptions statewide and forbids
discrimination in adoption decisions. California recently enacted a new domestic
partnership law that legalizes second-parent adoption.
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Utah prohibits adoption by any unmarried couple or individual. And while
Mississippi does not explicitly ban gay and lesbian individuals from adopting, it
does prohibit adoption by same-sex couples, and the climate is reported as
unwelcoming.
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The policies in most states, however, are unwritten, and experts assume they will
stay that way. According to Joan Heifetz Hollinger, a visiting professor at the
University of California Berkeley School of Law and a leading scholar on
adoption law and practice, much of the decision making in adoption cases
"happens behind public view, without much scrutiny."
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Informal, variable policies are the rule in most states. Louisiana, for example,
restricts adoption to married couples and single individuals and has no reported
cases of gays adopting. CWLA's White, previously a Louisiana social worker and
state adoption director, however, says, "I myself placed kids with gay parents,"
stressing that many were already foster parents to the children and her decisions
were based purely on their "ability to parent."
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The new permanency guidelines in the Adoption and Safe Families Act of 1997 have led
to an increased number of children in the child welfare system who need homes, and a
growing acceptance of nontraditional families who want to adopt. Freundlich says
agencies want to "maximize adoptive family resources without drawing
MODEL PROGRAMS AND ORGANIZATIONS
(Hundreds of support groups for lesbian and gay families exist throughout the country. The following list is modified
from The Gay and Lesbian Parenting Handbook.)
Information Specific to Gay and Lesbian Issues In Adoption State by State:
ARIZONA
Gay and Lesbian Parent Support Network
P.O. Box 66823
Phoenix, AZ 85082-6823
(602) 256-9173
CALIFORNIA
Ysabel Llerena, M.A., M.S.W.
International Adoption Consultant
1121 La Cienega Blvd., Ste. 205
West Hollywood, CA 90069
(310) 652-2412
National Center for Lesbian Rights
http://www.nclrights.org
870 Market Street, Suite 570
San Francisco, CA 94102
(415) 392-6257
Fax: (415) 392-8442
[email protected]
"Just For Us" Newsletter
c/o COLAGE (Children of Lesbians and Gays
Everywhere)
2300 Market Street, Box 165
San Francisco, CA 94114
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"The Family Next Door"
Magazine for Lesbian and Gay Parents and
their Friends
P.O. Box 21580
Oakland, CA 94620
(510) 482-5778
Gay Fathers of Long Beach
c/o The Center
2017 East Fourth St.
Long Beach, CA 90814
Lesbian Mothers Group of Long Beach
2017 E. 4th St.
Long Beach, CA 90814
(310) 434-4455
The Lyon-Martin Women's Health Clinic
1748 Market St., Ste. 201
San Francisco, CA 94102
(415) 565-7674
Outreach for Couples
405 W. Washington St., #86
San Diego, CA 92103
Gay and Lesbian Parents of Los Angeles
Suite 109-346
7985 Santa Monica Blvd.
West Hollywood, CA 90046
(213) 654-0307
AASK Adopt A Special Kid
http://www.adoptaspecialkid.org
7700 Edgewater Drive, Suite 125
Oakland, CA 94621
(510) 553-1748 ext. 12
[email protected]
Family Pride Coalition
http://www.familypridecoalition.org
PO Box 34337
San Diego, CA 92163
(619) 296-0199
Fax: (619) 296-0699
[email protected]
Children of Lesbians and Gays Everywhere –
COLAGE http://www.colage.org
3543 18th Street #17
San Francisco, CA 94110
(415) 861-5437
[email protected]
!OutProud! The National Coalition for Gay,
Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Youth
369 Third Street, Suite B-362
Web site:
http://www.outproud.org
San Rafael, CA 94901-3581
E-mail: [email protected]
COLORADO
Gay and Lesbian Parents-Denver
P.O. Box Drawer E
Denver, CO 80218
(303) 937-3625
DISTRICT OF COLUMBIA
Gay Fathers Coalition of Washington, DC
P.O. Box 19891
Washington, DC 20036
(202) 583-8029
Parents, Families, Friends of Lesbians and
Gays - PFLAG http://pflag.org/pflag.html
1101 14th Street NW, Suite 1030
Washington, DC 20005
(202) 638-4200
Fax: (202) 638-0243
Sexual Minority Youth Assistance League
(SMYAL)
http://www.smyal.com
410 Seventh Street SE
Washington, DC 20003-2707
(202) 546-5940
Fax: (202) 544-1306
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[email protected]
[email protected]
Child Welfare League of http://www.cwla.org
440 First Street NW, Third Floor
Washington, DC 20001-2085 [email protected]
(202) 638-2952 Fax: (202) 638-4004
Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation
– GLAAD
http://www.glaad.org
1825 Connecticut Ave NW, 5th Floor
Washington, DC 20009 (800) GAY-MEDIA
Gay Fathers Coalition
PO Box 19891
Washington, DC 20036
(202) 583-8029
MASSACHUSETTS
Lesbian/Gay Family Parenting Services
Fenway Community Health Center
7 Haviland St.
Boston, MA 02115
Gay Fathers of Greater Boston
P.O. Box 1373
Boston, MA 02205
NEW JERSEY
National Gay and Lesbian Parent Coalition
Newsletter (quarterly)
P.O. Box 43206
Upper Montclair, NJ 07043
(201) 783-6204
NEW YORK
April Martin, Ph.D.
Clinical Psychologist
429 W. 24th St.
New York, NY 10011
(212) 675-6872
Center Kids-Terry Boggis, Director
208 West 13th St.
New York, NY 10011
(212) 620-7310
Gay Fathers Coalition of Buffalo
Westside Station
P.O. Box 404
Buffalo, NY 14213
(716) 633-2692
Gay Fathers NY
Church Street Station
P.O. Box 2553
New York, NY 10008-7727
Gay Fathers Forum of Greater New York
Midtown Station
P.O. Box 1321
New York, NY 10018-0725 (212) 721-4216
Gay Fathers of Long Island
P.O. Box 2483
Patchogue, NY 11772-0879
American Civil Liberties Union - Lesbian and
Gay Rights Project http://www.aclu.org
125 Broad Street
Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network
– GLSEN
http://www.glsen.org
121 West 27th Street, Suite 804
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New York, NY 10004
(212) 549-2627
[email protected]
New York, NY 10001
(212) 727-0135
Fax: (212) 727-0254:
[email protected]
Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund
http://www.lambdalegal.org
120 Wall Street, Suite 1500
New York, NY 10005-3904
(212) 809-8585
Fax: (212) 809-0055n
[email protected]
Lesbian and Gay Rights Project
http://www.aclu.org
125 Broad Street
New York, NY 10004
(212) 549-2627
NORTH CAROLINA
GLP/Queen City-Charlotte
4417-F Sharon Chase Dr.
Charlotte, NC 28215
OHIO
Lesbian Mothers/Co-Parents Support Group
Cincinnati, OH
(513) 631-5812
Momazons
http://www.glbnet.com/~momazons
PO Box 02069
Columbus, OH 43202
(614) 267-0193
[email protected]
Denise Goodman, Ph.D.
Consultant and Trainer
1824 Snouffer St.
Worthington, OH 43085
(614) 436-6838
Gay and Lesbian Parenting Group of Central
Ohio
P.O. Box 16235
Columbus, OH 43216
Gay Fathers
1319 W. 106th St.
Cleveland, OH 44102
(216) 228-4550
Gay/Lesbian Parenting Coalition
Ashtabula, Lake and Geauga Co.
(216) 974-8909
Momazons
P.O. Box 02069
Columbus, OH 43202
(614) 267-0193
OREGEN
Love Makes a Family
http://www.teleport.com/~lmfamily
PO Box 5163
Portland, OR 97208-5163
Love Makes a Family
Bonnie Tinker
6243 NE 19th St.
Portland, OR 97211
(503) 288-4306
PENNSYLVANIA
CALM, Inc. (Custody Action for Lesbian
Mothers)
P.O. Box 281
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Narberth, PA 19072
(215) 667-7508
Abby Ruder
Adoption Information Services
901B E. Willow Grove Ave.
Wyndmoor, PA 19118
(215) 233-1380
Philadelphia Family Pride
P.O. Box 4995
Philadelphia, PA 19119
(215) 843-1596
Women's Law Project
125 S. Ninth St., Ste. 401
Philadelphia, PA 19107
(215) 928-9801
Custody Action for Lesbian Mothers - CALM,
Inc.
PO Box 281
Narbeth, PA 19072
(215) 667-7508
TEXAS
Gay Fathers of Austin
c/o Robert H. Havican
P.O. Box 16181
Austin, TX 78761-6181
Gay Fathers/Fathers First of Houston
P.O. Box 981053
Houston, TX 77098-1053
(713) 782-5414
Houston Gay and Lesbian Parent Support
P.O. Box 35709-262
Houston, TX 77235
(713) 666-8260
SAGL Parents
P.O. Box 15094
San Antonio, TX 78212
(512) 828-4092
ABC Adoption Agency
417 San Pedro Ave.
San Antonio, TX 78212
(512) 227-7820
VERMONT
Friends in Adoption
Buxton Ave., Box 7270
Middletown Springs, VT 05751
(802) 235-2312
Children's Home Society of Washington
Gay Adoptive Parent Support Group
3300 N.E. 65th St.
Seattle, WA 98115-0190
(206) 524-6020
Lavender Families Resource Network
PO Box 21567
Seattle, WA 98111
(206) 325-2643
Partners Task Force for Gay and Lesbian
Couples http://www.buddybuddy.com
Box 9685
Seattle, WA 98109-0685
(206) 935-1206 [email protected]
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INTERNATIONAL:
Gay and Lesbian Parents Coalition
International
P.O. Box 34337
San Diego, CA 92163
(619) 296-0199
(619) 296-0699 (fax)
http://www.glpci.org
The International Lesbian and Gay
Association
Web site:
http://www.ilga.org
ILGA Administrative Office
81 Kolenmarkt
B 1000, Brussels, Belgium
+32-2-5022471
E-mail: [email protected]
Lesbian Mothers Support Society
PO Box 61
Station M
Calgary, Alberta
Canada T2P2G9
(403) 265-6433
[email protected]
REFERENCES AND SUGGESTED READINGS
Children's Books for Gay and Lesbian Parented Families
Bosche, S. (1981). Jenny lives with Eric and Martin. London, England: Gay Men's Press.
Dahl, J. (1989). River of promise. San Diego, CA: Luramedia.
Elwin, R., Paulse, M. (1990). Asha's Mums. Toronto, Canada: Women's Press.
Heron, A., Meredith, M. (1991). How would you feel if your dad was gay? Boston, MA: Alyson
Publications.
Newman, L. (1989). Heather has two mommies. Boston, MA: Alyson Publications.
Newman, L. (1991). Gloria goes to gay pride. Boston, MA: Alyson Publications.
Newman, L. (1993). Saturday is Patty day. Boston, MA: Alyson Publications.
Schaffer, P. (1988). How babies and families are made: There Is More Than One Way. Berkeley,
CA: Tabor Sarah Books.
Willhoite, M. (1990). Daddy's roommate Boston, MA: Alyson Publications.
Willhoite, M. (1991). Families: A coloring book. Boston, MA: Alyson Publications.
Willhoite, M. (1993). Uncle what-is-it-is coming to visit. Boston, MA: Alyson Publications.
Bibliography of Books for Gay and Lesbian Parents
Barrett, R. L., Robinson, B. E. (1990). Gay fathers. Lexington, MA: Lexington Books.
Benkov, L. (1994). Reinventing the family: Lesbian and gay parents. New York, NY: Crown
Publishing.
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Berzon, B. (1988). Permanent partners: Building gay and lesbian relationships. New York, NY:
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