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The
MA+
Guide
A guide to More Accessible
sexuality-related assistive technology
Narelle Higson
Occupational Therapist
MSWA
The Multiple Sclerosis Society of Western Australia (Inc)
A word from the author:
This guide is not a collection of facts; it is a collection of ideas.
Ideas about pleasure, having fun, being playful, trying something different,
finding new ways of doing things, thinking outside the square. Ideas about
different ways to achieve and enrich sexual pleasure, on your own or with a
partner.
You may not particularly like these ideas…or prefer your own. That is absolutely
ok. (I would love to hear your ideas if you are willing to share  )
This guide merely tries to be a conversation starter…a thought prompter.
The MA+ Guide does not seek to educate about sexuality or the potential impact
of MS on sexual function – there are already many wonderful resources available
on that topic (please see the resource section at the end for details of these).
This guide is in no way intended to be prescriptive, it simply seeks to identify
sexuality and positioning products which:
 May be easy to use
 May be easy to adapt
 Have useful features
 Are readily available in Australia (unless otherwise noted)
This guide does not intend to be prescriptive in any way and does not replace the
advice of your healthcare practitioner.
Although up to date at the time of writing (2012), the products listed are just a
small sample chosen from local or online suppliers. Please feel welcome to
contact the MSWA Sexuality Service (or your local MS Society) for further
information on current pricing and availability or alternative products which may
be of use for you.
A word for Health Professionals: This guide can be printed in full as a
general resource. Alternatively, its design enables relevant sections to be printed
individually to meet specific needs.
I wish to acknowledge the generosity of the MSWA in supporting the
creation of this resource – and hope you find it helpful 
Narelle Higson (OT- Sexuality Service)
[email protected]
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Contents
Holding On
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Taking Control
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Extending your reach
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Getting into position
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Alternatives to batteries
23
Altered sensation
26
Fatigue
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Privacy
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Continence
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Lubrication
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Men only
33
Cleaning and safety tips
38
A brief word about anatomy
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Resources
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Holding on
Is it ever challenging to get and keep a good grip on a toy? (…or do
you imagine it could be?)
Whether you choose to wear it, stick it or prop it...there are many ways to use
toys that don’t involve holding them...
Wear it
Why? Wearing a toy on your body means that you don’t have to hold on to it.
Some toys are designed to be worn; others are shaped in such a way that they
can be tucked into clothing. Using a toy with a remote control enables you to be
in control even if the toy is out of reach.
Wear it: On your hand
Why? Anywhere your hand can reach you can experience a different
sensation, without the need to hold on. Can be used on self or partner, wherever
it may feel pleasurable or as part of a massage. Glove style massagers are
generally very quiet as the vibrating units are very small. As with all gloves, they
may be tricky to put on, however they will usually stay in place once put on
correctly.
Name: Fukuoko 5 Finger Massage Glove (Fukouko)
Approx. cost: $80
What is it?
Waterproof stretch fabric glove, with small
vibrating units at the tip of each finger. Powered by 3 AAA
batteries housed in pouch at base of glove. Small sliding
on/off switch on battery compartment also selects hi/lo
speeds. It is available in left or right hand and can be used
in the bath or shower.
http://www.fukuokuglove.com
Other ideas: For a cheaper alternative to a glove, consider putting a small
bullet vibrator in the finger of a loose latex or leather glove (e.g. golf glove).
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specific recommendation or endorsement of any product/company.
Wear it: On your finger
Why? As with the glove massagers, finger vibes allow you to turn your fingers
(or toes…or anything else they may fit onto) into a vibrator, without the need to
continually hold onto it. Finger vibes are very quiet and are often waterproof for
use in the shower or bath (where they can also be cleaned). Depending on the
model, these small vibrators use batteries ranging from small watch cell type to
larger AAA size, which may be easier to replace.
Name: Micro Finger Tingler (California Exotics)
Approx cost: $40
What is it? Small, hard plastic finger vibe. Small sliding switch at
side turns on/off and controls multiple speeds. Powered by 2 x
watch cell batteries.
http://www.calexotics.com
Name: The FingO (Screaming O)
Approx. cost: $20
What is it? Waterproof textured silicone sleeve with a vibrating
bullet, designed to slip over any finger. On/off switch is at the base
of the bullet. Available in different textures. Powered by 3 x watch
cell batteries.
http://www.thescreamingo.com/
Name: Finger Tingles (Rocks-Off)
Approx. cost: $40
What is it: A bullet powered vibrator made from soft stretchy
rubber. It is worn in such a way that your fingertip also becomes a
buzzing part of the toy. Powered by a 1.5V N battery.
http://www.rocks-off.com
Name: Ipo waterproof finger vibe (PicoBong)
Approx. cost: $50
Features: This silicone waterproof vibrator is powered by 1 x AAA
battery held in place by a screw cap, which lasts approximately 2hrs.
A two button interface controls 12 vibration patterns. These buttons
are housed under the smooth silicone coating and identified by raised
symbols.
http://www.picobong.com
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specific recommendation or endorsement of any product/company.
Wear it: On your tongue
Why? Tongue vibrators require little hand function for use, although
positioning on the tongue may require assistance. They are designed to add a
tickling, buzzing sensation in any area that can be kissed in partner play. Tongue
vibes can also be used on other body parts (fingers, toes…) and can be slipped
over non-vibrating toys to turn them into buzzing ones. They are lightweight,
waterproof and quiet. Tongue vibrators are available in cheaper disposable or
more expensive reusable models.
Name: Ling O Vibrating Tongue Ring (Screaming O)
Approx. cost: $20
Features: Attached to tongue by a stretchy silicone strap.
Vibrating area is textured silicone for added sensation.
Disposable – powered by a small non-replaceable battery.
http://www.thescreamingo.com/
Name: Tongue Joy (Tongue Joy)
Approx. cost: $120
Features: Chrome plated vibrating unit attached to the tongue
(or finger) via a silicone elastic band. Silicone sleeves are available
for added comfort, texture and to reduce the potential for damage
if the unit comes into contact with teeth. Powered by 2 x watch
cell batteries. An optional wired Turbo Pack is available which uses
2 x AA batteries, provides higher intensity variable vibration and
longer usage time.
http://www.tonguejoy.com.au
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This resource is intended as a guide only and should not be seen as the MS Society’s
specific recommendation or endorsement of any product/company.
Wear it: On your body
Why? Once positioned correctly, a wearable vibrator can stay comfortably
in place without any need for adjustments. Those controlled via a remote
control (wired or not) often have larger more accessible controls and may be
easier to use once in place.
Name: Fetish Fantasy Elite Vibrating Panty (Pipedream)
Approx. cost: $55
Features: A bullet vibrator situated inside a shaped silicone
sleeve is held firmly in place inside the underwear with two
elastic straps. To turn on/off or change the vibration pattern or
intensity, the button at the base of the bullet must be accessed
(making this tricky when the underwear is in place).
http://www.pipedreamproducts.com
Name: 10 function remote control vibrating fantasy panty
(Pipedream)
Approx. cost: $90
Features: A ten function bullet housed inside a textured rubber
sleeve designed to be worn internally (inside the vagina). Once
in position, the bullet is controlled via wireless remote control
from a distance of up to 8m. Requires 1 x 23A and 2 x N
batteries.
http://www.pipedreamproducts.com
Name: Micro Wireless Venus Butterfly (California Exotics)
Approx. price: $40
Features: A bullet vibrator powered by 1 x AAA battery is
housed inside a silicone sleeve (in this instance shaped like
a butterfly). The vibrator is held in place by removable
elastic straps which are placed around the thighs and waist
and are adjustable to ensure a secure fit. As this model
does not have a remote control, it is easier to turn it on to
the desired setting before putting in position.
http://www.calexotics.com
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specific recommendation or endorsement of any product/company.
Wear it: On your body - Other ideas:
A small, ergonomically shaped vibrator can be worn inside regular underwear or
tucked between two pairs of underwear to hold in place. They may also be
strapped to the hand with an elastic, Velcro© or neoprene strap.
Name: Spirit (Leaf)
Approx. price: $105
Features: A waterproof rechargeable silicone
vibrator which is controlled by a press and hold
button.
http://www.leafvibes.com/
Name: Bon Bon (Natural Contours)
Approx. price: $65
Features: Designed for external stimulation and to fit easily
within the hand, this hard plastic vibrator is powered by 2 x
AAA batteries and controlled via a raised button which can
be activated by pressing with finger or any firm surface.
http://www.naturalcontoursaustralia.com
Name: Vibrating sponge (Sportsheets)
Approx. price: $25
Features: A waterproof bullet housed within a sponge
designed for bath or shower use. This model has a wide
elastic strap to slip over the hand and hold it in place.
http://www.sportsheets.com.au
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This resource is intended as a guide only and should not be seen as the MS Society’s
specific recommendation or endorsement of any product/company.
Strap it: toys designed for penetration
Why? Toys designed for penetration are called dildos or dongs. They may be
used by men or women and come in a large variety of shapes, colours and sizes.
Dildos may be hand held or attached to the body via harness or straps. They may
also be attached to other objects (cushions, furniture) by using extension straps,
or have a suction base to attach to the floor, wall, chair etc. The toys below are
designed to be worn on the body and used in partner play.
Strap it: On your thigh
Name: Sedeux Thigh Harness
(Sportsheets)
Approx. price: $40
Features: A harness made from
neoprene (wetsuit material) which is
fastened using Velcro for a firm fit. For use with a partner or may be
strapped around a pillow for solo use.
http://www.sportsheets.com.au
Strap it: On your pelvis
Name: Fetish Fantasy Cumfy Hollow Strap-On (Pipedream)
Approx. price: $26
Features: This strap on dildo is hollow to accommodate a flaccid
or semi-erect penis, however can be used by males or females.
The pliable PVC dildo is lined on the inside with soft foam for
comfort and worn on the pelvis using an elastic harness.
http://www.pipedreamproducts.com
Note: a wide range of pelvis worn harnesses are available for both males and
females to accommodate a wide range of hollow or solid dildos. They may be
made out of stretch materials (as above), PVC or leather and have differing
methods of adjustment.
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Strap it: On your chest
Name: Sedeux Chest Harness and Dildo kit (Sportsheets)
Approx. price: $90
Features: A 4 point adjustable harness which may be
strapped around the chest, thigh or pillow. It may be
used with most dildos that have a flared base.
http://www.sportsheets.com.au
Strap it: On a pillow
Name: Sportsheets Pleasure Pillowcase (Sportsheets)
Approx. price: $50
Features: Velcro compatible pillowcase that can be used
for positioning or to attach a dildo or tethers. Enables
hands-free use of a dildo.
http://www.sportsheets.com.au
Stick it
Why? Suction based toys are available in two types and allow hands free use
for solo or couple play. Suction based vibrators are designed for external use.
Suction based dildos are available in both vibrating and non-vibrating styles and
designed for penetration by both males and female. Some suction toys are one
piece, with the suction cup built in to the bottom of the toy. Others are twopiece, with a detachable double sided suction cup allowing use with a range of
toys. Suction based toys may be fastened to the floor, wall or smooth furniture
(e.g. chair).
Name: Sex in the Shower Double Sided Suction Cup and Dildo
(Sportsheets)
Approx. price: $50
Features: A double sided suction fitting which can be used with
a variety of compatible dildos. Can be used with a vibrating
penis ring to add a vibrating element.
http://www.sportsheets.com.au
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This resource is intended as a guide only and should not be seen as the MS Society’s
specific recommendation or endorsement of any product/company.
Name: Ono Cleo Bath Massager (Lelo)
Approx. price: $70
Features: A waterproof, silicone suction based vibrator that
can be attached to any flat surface for hands free use. Powered
by 3 x AA batteries, there are 8 vibration modes which are
accessed by pressing the “O” letters on the silicone top. Very
quiet. Can be used with or without the double sided suction
base.
http://www.lelo.com/
Name: The Cone Vibrator (The Cone)
Approx. price: $140
Features: Although not suction based, this heavy vibrator has
a non-slip rubber base which enables it to sit firmly on any
smooth surface enabling hands free use for males or females.
It is powered by 3 x C batteries, increasing its usable time and
power and has a moderate noise level. Two raised buttons
near the base of the unit are used for on/off and to control
the vibration pattern.
Ideas for use: As the entire top surface of The Cone
vibrates, it can be used in solo or couple play – e.g. propped
between legs when seated; positioned to provide external
clitoral or perineal/prostate stimulation during sexual
intercourse (experimenting would be required to find useful
comfortable position). http://www.theconevibrator.net/
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specific recommendation or endorsement of any product/company.
Prop it
Why? Propping a vibrator in a purpose designed or custom made cushion
(cushions of the lounge?) may enable you to find a comfortable position without
needing to hold the toy.
If the toy offers particularly strong vibration, it may be less important to position
yourself precisely as the vibration of the massager may be transmitted through
the cushion (near enough may be good enough).
Name: Body Wand Vibe Station (Liberator)
Approx. price: $60
Features: A machine washable firm but soft pillow with a cutout to hold any size of the Body Wand (or similar wand style)
massagers. Designed to be straddled during solo or partner
play, this cushion enables hands free use of the vibrator.
http://www.theliberator.com.au
Name: Hump Bump and Vibe (Sportsheets)
Approx. price: $50
Features: A small firm foam pad with Velcro bottom which
houses a vibrating bullet for hands free external stimulation
during solo or partner play. Designed to be used with Pleasure
Pillowcase (see pg. 10), however could be attached to any
suitable surface as required. http://www.sportsheets.com.au
Name: Lovebumper Iceberg (Lovebumper)
Approx. price: unknown
Features: Manufactured (and sold) in Canada. A firm foam
wedge cushion with a waterproof washable removable cover
and an inbuilt pocket. Designed to hold a battery operated or
rechargeable vibrator enabling hands free use by lying over the
wedge. http://www.lovebumper.com
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specific recommendation or endorsement of any product/company.
Taking control
Are you ever bothered by small, fiddly or difficult to see controls?
Go simpler
Why? Depending on what you would like your toy to do, buying one with
larger or simple controls may mean that you don’t need to modify or adapt the
toy to be able to use it. These toys may also be easier to switch adapt if required.
Often the toys with the largest controls are those with a remote control.
Name: Remote Control Velvet Touch Egg (Nanma)
Approx. price: $46
Features: A waterproof remote controlled egg designed for
external or internal use. This vibrating egg has 3 speeds
accessed via a single large button on the remote. Uses 4 x
watch cells and 1 x 23A battery.
http://www.nanma.com
Name: Micro Tingler Bullet (Seven Creations)
Approx. price: $25
Features: A small, high powered vibrating bullet is attached
to a remote with a dial controller. The dial protrudes from the
side and may be controlled with the fingers or rolled along
any firm surface. Requires 2 x AA batteries. It can be used for
internal or external stimulation and has a very low noise level.
http://www.sevencreations.net
Name: Neon Luv Touch 5 Function Bullet (Pipedream)
Approx. price: $28
Features: A wired remote controlled egg which has a single
raised button to control 5 functions, which may be pressed
with finger or against any firm surface. It is suitable for
internal or external stimulation. Requires 3 x AAA batteries.
http://www.pipedreamproducts.com
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specific recommendation or endorsement of any product/company.
Name: Berman Pomona Palm Sized Massager (California
Exotics)
Approx. price: $30
Features: Shaped massager with 2 vibration speeds controlled
by a single raised button, which can be pressed by pushing against
any firm surface. Requires 2 x AAA batteries.
http://www.calexotics.com
Go smarter
Why? A number of toy on the market make use of new and innovative
methods of control. Instead of the usual buttons and switches, some toys are
activated by movement, touch, music, sound or voice. Think of the possibilities…
Go smarter: movement activated
Name: Lelo range of movement activated vibrators (Lelo)
Approx. price: $150 - $200
Features: A range of waterproof rechargeable
vibrators controlled by a movement sensitive remote.
Vibration intensity is controlled by tilting, shaking or
rotating the disk-like controller; synchronised
vibrations in the controller mirror those in the
vibrator, so it is possible to feel what a partner is experiencing from the vibrating
main unit. The range includes a vibrating egg (Lyla) (above) suitable for internal
or external use; a ring designed to be worn around the base of the penis (Oden);
and an internal/external vibrator (Tiani) designed to be worn inside the vagina
during intercourse. There are 2 x AAA batteries in the remote.
Oden
Tiani
http://www.lelo.com/
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specific recommendation or endorsement of any product/company.
Go smarter: touch activated
Name: iTap Bullet (California Exotics)
Approx. price: $30
Features: This remote controlled wired bullet is activated by
touch pads on the top surface of the remote. Any part of the
hand (or body) which can be brought into contact with the
touch sensitive area can be used to turn on/off and control
vibration intensity. Requires 2 x AAA batteries and has very
low noise level.
http://www.calexotics.com
Name: iTap Vibrator (California Exotics)
Approx. price: $40
Features: These 5 function vibrators are controlled
by tapping the base of the units. They are designed
for internal and external use and require 2 x AA
batteries. Low noise level.
http://www.calexotics.com
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Go smarter: sound activated
Name: OhMiBod wired and wireless vibrators (OhMiBod)
Approx. price: $100 - $160
Features: This range of vibrators includes those that are wired (plug into music
or sound source: e.g. MP3 player; iPhone; music system) and those that are
wireless. The wired vibrators have a 1m length cord with a splitter that allows
headphones to be used. The wireless vibrators have a transmitter which is
plugged into the music source and wirelessly transmits to the unit.
The vibrators may be used in music or manual mode. When in music (or voice
over an iPhone?) mode, the rhythm and intensity of the music control the
vibrations. Manual mode may also be selected which allows for 7 vibration
patterns.
The vibrators are rechargeable, with the wireless transmitters requiring 2 x AAA
batteries. www.ohmibod.com.au/
Name: Club Vibe (OhMiBod)
Approx. price: $110
Features: This wireless shaped vibe is designed to be
worn in underwear, although it may also be hand
held. The remote has a built-in microphone which
controls the vibration by responding to ambient
sound: music or voice. The remote may also be used
in manual mode to control 5 pre-set vibration
patterns. A 23A battery is required for the remote. The vibrator is charged via
USB. www.ohmibod.com.au/
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Go switch
Why? Switch adapting a toy may open a whole world of possibilities for you
(and your partner!) Some toys are easier to adapt than others, so if you are
interested in getting something adapted, it may be worth seeking advice from
your friendly Occupational Therapist. Sometimes the toys themselves can be
adapted, or adaptations can be made to remote controls to enable them to be
accessed easier. Powered toys can be switched too, through the use of a switch
adapted remotely controlled powerboard. Almost anything is possible...if in
doubt, ask 

A switch adapted remote control powerboard
for use with mains
powered items: simply plug the toy into the
powerboard, and a switch
into the adapted control box to enable the
switch to turn the item on and off.
http://www.novitatech.org.au
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Switch adapted toy (can be seen at the
Indpendent Living Centre of WA) )
http://www.ilc.com.au/
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Examples of adapted remote controls
(Perspex wedge made for easier access to pushbutton remote control)
(can be seen on display at ILCWA)
http://www.ilc.com.au/
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Extending your reach
Is it ever tricky to reach where you would like (on yourself or your
partner)?
Extra length
Why? Consider buying a toy that offers you extra length. Even if you don’t
need the toy to be as long as it is, it may mean that you will have room to hold
onto it and still reach where you would like.
Name: Body Wand Original Massager (Body Wand)
Approx. price: $100
Features: A mains powered extra strength massager that is 32cm in
length. Vibration intensity is controlled by a dial in the middle of the
handle.
http://www.thebodywand.com
Extra flexible
Why? Toys that can be bent to go around curves may be easier to position
(and keep in position)
Name: Luv Touch Flexa Pleaser Waterproof Massager (Pipedream)
Approx. price: $16
Features: With an overall length of 28cm, this flexible massager
designed for internal or external use has 10 vibration patterns
controlled by a push button on the base. Requires 2 x AA batteries.
http://www.pipedreamproducts.com
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Name: Power Flex Sunny (Doc Johnson)
Approx. price: $30
Features: Suitable for internal or external stimulation, this 3 speed
massager is 30cm in length and has a flexible shaft to assist with reach
and positioning. It requires 3 x AA batteries.
http://www.docjohnson.com
Name: Flex-a-Pleasure (Doc Johnson)
Approx. price: $50
Features: This 28cm long vibrator has a flexible shaft which can
be angled then stays in place to assist with reach and positioning.
The base is twisted to select one of 5 speeds. It requires 2 x N
batteries.
http://www.docjohnson.com
Extra thought (adapted)
Why? Any of the handy methods you already use to access difficult to reach
places may be useful. Could a toy be attached to a long handled reacher? ...a
bendable long handled bath sponge? Could that feather be attached to a long
handled shoe horn? The possibilities are only limited by your imagination!
Your Occupational Therapist may be able to assist you in adapting your
favourite toy to make it easier to use, or point you in the direction of services
that may be able to assist.
Name: Starburst Feather Body Tickler (Sportsheets)
Approx. price: $15
http://www.sportsheets.com.au
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Getting into position
Does tiredness, pain or spasm ever stop you moving (or not moving)
your body as you would like?
Add a cushion
Why? A firm supportive cushion may provide more support than a pillow in
helping you get and stay in a comfortable position.
Add a cushion: Foam
Name: Liberator Shapes range of Positioning Cushions (Liberator)
Approx. price: $130 - $230
Features: A range of soft core foam cushions with removable microfibre
covers, available in a variety of shapes, sizes and colours. May be used in a
wide variety of ways during sexual activity, e.g.: support pelvis in upward tilt;
support leg when lying on side; support under hips when on hands and knees.
Due to their non-slip surface, the cushions can be used together to create new
support shapes as required. The covers are moisture-proof and washable.
Note: The “Black Label” range has clips attached to enable the use of soft cuffs
and tethers.
http://www.theliberator.com.au
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Add a cushion: Inflatable
Name: Inflatable Position Master (Pipedream)
Approx. price: $45 - $60
Features: An inflatable wedge cushion with handles
at the side to aid with positioning for sexual activity
whether lying on back or front. The cushion is
available in a small and large size and has a non-slip
flock surface. http://www.pipedreamproducts.com
Take a ride
Why? Purpose built sturdy equipment can open up new possibilities for
movement and exploration with a partner. Care must be taken to follow
manufacturer instructions regarding installation, use and load capacity.
Name: Intimate Rider (Intimate Rider)
Approx. price: Intimate Rider + Rider Mate $1200
Features: A stable folding chair designed specifically
for men for use in sexual activity with a partner.
Using only a small amount of upper body effort, the
chair will rock in a forward/ backward motion to aid
with thrusting movements. The Rider Mate is a sling
style support to enable a partner to be positioned at the correct height. Optional
transfer legs provide extra stability when transferring from a wheelchair or for
any other reason extra stability is required.
www.seatingdynamics.com.au
Name: Sex Aid Sling
Approx. price: $445 (available from the Spokz in the UK)
Features: A padded swing designed for sexual activity and
suitable for a wide range of sexual positions. The swing is
attached to the ceiling with 2 hooks for greater stability, and
can be adjusted before or after the user is in position.
http://www.spokz.co.uk/products/sex-aid-sling.asp
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Grab a hold
Why? Wouldn’t it be easier to move into position if you had handles? Now you
can! For those not fortunate enough to have “love handles”, there are other
options 
Name: I like it Doggie Style Strap (Sportsheets)
Approx. price: $30
Features: A soft padded strap designed to support a
partner’s pelvis in tilted position during rear entry sexual
activity.
http://www.sportsheets.com.au
Name: Soft Transfer Belt (Pelican)
Approx. price: $80
Features: A padded, adjustable belt with handles designed to
assist with transfers. Transfer belts may be useful during
sexual activity to help a partner with positioning, moving and
holding.
http://www.pelicanmanufacturing.com.au
Name: The Sportsheet (Sportsheets)
Approx. price: $195
Features: A velvet-like Velcro compatible fitted bed sheet to
which anchor pads and cuffs can be attached. It may be
useful in assisting maintain position during sexual activity.
The Pleasure Pillowcase (or any other Velcro-compatible
cushion) can be attached in any position on the sheet.
http://www.sportsheets.com.au
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Batteries (not included)
Do you find changing batteries difficult?
Small, fiddly batteries and difficult to access battery compartments are
commonplace in smaller toys. There are, however, toys that use electricity,
larger batteries or alternatives to batteries that may solve the problem.
Full power
Why? Using an electrical item means there are no batteries at all, ever!
(however it DOES mean you need to be near a power point and can’t use it near
water...)
Name: Medisil Magic Touch Massager (Medisil)
Approx. price: $170
Features: A mains powered extra strength massager with a
rocker switch to control two vibration speeds. The tennis
ball sized head is mounted on a spring base and there
are optional heads designed for insertion and g spot
stimulation available. Moderate noise level.
http://www.medisilmagictouch.com
Note: other powered options include the Body Wand Vibe (pg. 18 ) and the Palm
Power Massager (pg. 27)
Name: i7 eSensual USB Plug & Play Bullet (California Exotics)
Approx. price: $30
Features: An egg shaped bullet designed for external use which
is powered via a 1m long USB cable (PC or power). The top
button on the controller turns on and cycles through 7 vibration
functions. The bottom button turns the unit off. No batteries
are required. http://www.calexotics.com
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Rechargeable
Why? Rechargeable toys are generally more expensive to purchase, however
there are no ongoing battery costs. If you are looking at a rechargeable toy, it is
worth checking where the recharging socket is. Some toys require a small
silicone flap to be lifted before inserting a micro-jack. Other options have
magnetic attachments, which do not require as much manipulation to attach.
Name: Fun Factory range of Click ‘n Charge
vibrators (Fun Factory)
Approx. price: $75 - $120
Features: A range of vibrators designed for internal
or external stimulation, available in a range of
shapes and sizes. To recharge, plug in the charger
and align the magnetic disk to the base of the unit
– it will automatically click into place.
http://www.funfactory.com.au
Name: Lelo Mia Rechargeable Lipstick Vibrator (Lelo)
Approx. price: $110
Features: A discreet lipstick style vibrator rechargeable via a USB
port or cable, with 2 hours of charging providing 4 hours of play.
Two buttons control 4 vibration modes.
http://www.lelo.com/
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Battery pack
Why? Some toys (for example the Tongue Joy (p ) have an optional power
pack. Not only does this mean that the toy will last longer before replacing
batteries, it also means that the batteries used will be larger and potentially
easier to replace. Note: having separate batteries also means that the toy itself
will be lighter.
Eco-alternatives
Why? Yes – you can have your sex toy and care about the environment at the
same time  For those times when you may be travelling...or just because you
feel like it, here are some greener options.
Name: Solar Powered Vibrating Bullet (California Exotics)
Approx. price: $32
Features: A wired bullet style vibrator which is charged in
direct sunlight or artificial light, with 60mins of use from 8hr
charge. Vibration intensity is controlled using a sliding switch
on top of the solar unit.
http://www.calexotics.com
Name: The Earth Angel Wind Up Vibrator (Earth Angel)
Approx. price: $109
Features: A vibrator with a flip out winding handle
providing 30mins of use from 4 minutes of winding.
http://www.naturalcontoursaustralia.com/p/1013706/the-earth-angel.html
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Altered sensation
Is genital numbness, hypersensitivity or heat tolerance an issue for
you?
Some ideas: Genital numbness is a common experience for people living with
MS. For some, adding a little extra stimulation from a vibrating sex toy can assist
in increasing pleasure in sexual activities. For others, any touch at all can feel
uncomfortable. If this is the case for you, smooth, cooling toys may assist in
reducing unpleasant sensations.
Decreased sensation: Strong Vibration
Why? If reduced sensation or numbness is an issue for you, you may find it
helpful to increase the level of stimulation during sexual activity. When
considering the strength of different toys, as a general rule toys powered by
mains power offer the strongest vibration. Rechargeable toys also offer strong
vibration, with toys powered by the largest size of batteries usually next in
vibration strength. Store owners are usually happy for you to test a toy – the tip
of your nose is a good testing place 
NOTE: if decreased sensation is an issue for you, be wary of using strong
vibration or other extra strength stimulation in areas that you are not able to
monitor for potential tissue damage.
Name: Colt Turbo Bullet (California Exotics)
Approx. price: $32
Features: A wired remote controlled egg shape bullet powered by
3 x AA batteries (housed in the remote) providing very strong
vibration. Vibration intensity is controlled by a slider at the side of
the remote.
http://www.calexotics.com
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Name: Palm Power Massager (BMS)
Approx. price: $90
Features: An electrical powered massager providing extra
strength vibration. Optional head attachments are available for
internal stimulation. On/off and vibration intensity is controlled
by a single press and hold button on the side of the handle.
Measures 19cm in length.
NOTE: not to be used around water.
http://www.bmsfactory.com
Name: We-Vibe Tango (We-Vibe)
Approx. price: $86
Features: A small extra strength waterproof vibrator,
with 8 vibration modes accessed via a push button at
the base of the vibrator (requires firm pressure to
activate). The vibrator is rechargeable via a click /
magnetic charging attachment which does not require
precise placement. It is 8cm in length, with 90 minutes
of charging providing 2 hrs of use.
Note: May be difficult to hold due to vibration intensity and smooth surface.
http://we-vibe.com/
Also consider: Body wand massager (pg. 18); Medisil magic touch massager
(pg. 23) .
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Increased sensation
Do altered sensations ever make intimate activities uncomfortable?
Some ideas: Think about the surface of your toy: choosing toys that are smooth
(eg glass or metal) may feel more comfortable. Choosing a vibratior that offers a
variable range of control, rather than on/off enables you to choose a level that
suits you best.
Cool it
Why? Ice packs or toys that can be cooled may feel soothing prior to or after
sexual activity. A wet sponge put in a zip-lock bag and placed in the freezer does
not cause wetness when used as an ice pack. Avoid placing ice directly on the
genital area for extended periods to avoid delicate tissue damage.
Name: Foreplay Ice Frost Vibrating Ice Massager (California
Exotics)
Approx. price: $36
Features: A waterproof silicone vibrator which is filled with
water and frozen before use. The ice remains contained
within the silicone chamber and does not come into direct
contact with skin. The removable 3 speed bullet is powered
by 3x watch batteries and is operated by a push button at the base.
http://www.calexotics.com
Name: Sinclair Institute Select Onyx Cyberglass Dildo (Sinclair
Institute)
Approx. price: $55
Features: A solid glass-like dildo designed for prostate or g-spot
stimulation which can be placed in the fridge to cool without
cracking.
http://www.sinclairinstitute.com/
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For when you’re tired (but not that
tired…)
Some ideas: make use of positioning pillows or supportive furniture which may
allow you to rest your body during activity. If possible, plan to have any items
you may find useful during solo or partner play within easy reach (hanging from
the bedhead?).
Choosing toys that are lighter, do not need to be held, or those made of
unbreakable material so they are unlikely to be damaged if dropped may also be
worth considering.
Placing a condom or toy cover over your toy may make clean-up easier.
Name: Bygel Wire Basket (Ikea)
Approx. price: $5
Features: A wire basket which may be hung over bed frame
(or nearby furniture) to keep useful supplies (e.g. lubrication,
condoms, vibrators, towels...) handy.
http://www.ikea.com/aa/en
Name: Lelo Personal Moisturiser (Lelo)
Approx. price: $40 – 150ml glass bottle.
Features: A lubricant branded as moisturiser that can be kept
on the bedside table for easy access – with a pump action for
ease of use.
http://www.lelo.com/
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Private time
Would you like to keep your activities private?
Some ideas
 Quiet please
o Powered sex toys vary considerably in their noise level. As a
general rule, vibrators powered by electricity are the noisiest
and battery operated vibrators tend to be quieter. Many store
websites give an indication of the noise level of the product. If
shopping in person and sound level is an issue, ask to hear the
item turned on.
 Discreet
o Many sex toys are clearly designed for intimate play and are
created to resemble various body parts. Depending on your
personal taste and living situation, you may prefer a toy that is
less obvious in design. Consider obtaining a multipurpose device,
such as a “body massager” which are readily obtained from
electrical or department stores.
 Easy clean
o Some toys are designed for easy cleaning, which may reduce the
need to ask someone to help you. Waterproof toys may be taken
in the shower or bath. Placing a condom over a toy designed for
insertion can reduce the need for cleaning.
 Storage solutions
o Purpose made zippered purchased or homemade cushions can
make storage of your collection less obvious (and more
accessible).
 Battery alternatives
o If you need to seek assistance to change batteries, you may wish
to consider some of the alternatives mentioned previously (See:
Batteries – not included ).
Name: Hide Your Vibe Pillow (Sportsheets)
Approx. price: $65
Features: A padded 28cm x 28cm cushion with a secret inner
zippered pocket. Washable.
http://www.sportsheets.com.au
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Continence
Having a towel handy can save the need for washing larger items (e.g.
blankets/sheets). Purpose designed bed protection is available that stays feeling
warm and dry, even when handling large amounts of fluid.
Name: Liberator Fascinator Throe (Liberator)
Approx. price: $129
Features: A moisture proof blanket which is microfiber or
plush on one side and satin on the other. The blanket is
machine washable and has a moisture barrier contained
within.
http://www.theliberator.com.au
Name: Connie Mate Bedpad (Connie)
Approx. price: $48
Features: Bed pads consisting of a soft polyester top layer,
highly absorbent core and a breathable PUL waterproof
backing. They are available with or without tuck-ins and are
designed to keep the skin feeling dry. Able to absorb 2L of
fluid over an 8hr period.
http://www.conni.com.au/
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A word about lubrication
Using too much is never enough when it comes to lubrication. Personal
lubricants make parts fit together more easily and more comfortably. Keep
water-based lubricant on hand and apply liberally. It can be refreshed by adding
water or saliva (there’s no need to add more if you were generous with its
application).
NOTE: If using silicone toys, water-based lubricant must be used, as silicone
based lubricant will interact with the toy and cause it to deteriorate. Condoms
must only be used with water based lubricant, as silicone lubricant will cause the
condom to deteriorate.
Name: Sylk
Approx. price: $9 – 40g
Features: Water-based lubricant available from pharmacies and
supermarkets. Formulated from Kiwifruit vine extract.
www.sylk.com.au/
Name: Wet Stuff Gold
Approx. price: $25 – 1kg pump pack
Features: A long lasting water-based lubricant. Apply liberally and
refresh with water or saliva. http://www.gelworks.com.au
Name: Aqua by Pjur
Approx. price: $20 – 100ml
Features: Long lasting odourless water-based lubricant.
http://www.pjurlubricants.com.au/
Name: Lelo Personal Moisturiser
Approx. price: $40 – 150ml glass bottle.
Features: Very long lasting water-based lubricant available in a
glass pump-pack dispenser. http://www.lelo.com/
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Men Only
Masturbation sleeves
Why? Masturbation sleeves provide increased sensations and may be
particularly useful if hand function (yours or your partner’s…) is reduced. The
sleeves are usually made of soft, stretchy textured materials and may be warmed
or cooled in water before use. Can be used in solo or partnered play.
Name: Fleshlight
Approx. price: $90
Features: Fleshlights are soft, pliable, non-vibrating sleeves
that are made from Real Feel Super Skin® housed in a hard
plastic casing designed to resemble a flashlight. They are
available in a range of styles resembling different body
openings and must be used with lubrication. The sleeve
may be immersed in hot water to add warmth (or iced
water to cool down). To wash, the sleeve must be removed from the case,
washed in hot soapy water and left to dry. As the inner sleeve itself is a tube, it
may be turned inside out to assist with cleaning. Some Fleshlights are available
with a bullet vibrating option.
www.fleshlight.com
Name: Tenga Flip Hole
Approx. price: $150
Features: A textured silicone masturbation sleeve housed in a
plastic case which flips open to enable easier cleaning. When
pressed, the three buttons on the case create separate
sensations along the shaft of the penis- massaging at the head,
sucking at the bottom.
The Flip Hole stands 17.5cm tall and has an insertable
length of 16.5cm.
http://www.tenga.net.au/
Note: A new lighter weight version of the Flip Hole has
been released which has a textured case.
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Name: A10 Cyclone (Rends Toys)
Approx. price: £124 (Sold by Spokz (UK) under
the name “The Whirlwind”)
http://www.spokz.co.uk/products/thewhirlwind.asp
Features: A battery operated male masturbation
toy with a corded push button remote control, which may be used on an erect or
flaccid penis. It has seven different rotation patterns and seven speed levels for
each pattern. Spacers are available to accommodate different lengths and a
variety of silicone inner sleeves are available. The non-waterproof handle is
attached to the silicone inner cup using a magnetic attachment system. This cup
has a variety of nubs for stimulation and requires the application of lubrication
before use. Although the unit disassembles into five pieces, it is only necessary to
break it into three for cleaning.
The power pack requires 3 C sized batteries.
The hand held remote control may be used with other Rends toys.
Note: Once positioned on the penis, no further movement is required apart from
operating the remote control.
http://www.rendstoys.com/r1-base-unit
Name: The Hand Solo (Rocks-Off)
Approx. price: $35
Features: A vibrating silicone masturbation sleeve that has a
handle on one side and is open on the other side to
accommodate all sizes. It is designed for use on an erect penis,
enhancing and mimicking the usual pleasuring movement. It is
waterproof, powered by a vibrating bullet which can be
positioned at the top or bottom during use and may be used in solo or partner
play. As with all silicone toys, must be used with a water-based lubricant.
http://www.rocks-off.com
Name: Super Head Honcho (California Exotics)
Approx. price: $35
Features: An open-ended stretchy textured sleeve which
may be flipped inside out for cleaning.
http://www.calexotics.com
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Penis rings
Why? The purpose of a penis ring (or cock ring / erection ring) is to trap blood
inside the penis in order to maintain an erection, or encourage a stronger
erection. In order to do this it must be placed at the base of the penis. Some
rings are designed to be worn around the penis and testicles.
Note: Penis rings must not be kept in place longer than about 30mins (or earlier
if coldness/numbness is detected)
Name: Touch-Plus Disposable Penis Ring (Screaming O)
Approx. price: $10
Features: A touch activated disposable vibrating penis ring
that can be worn to enhance and prolong an erection and
provide extra stimulation for both partners. Provides up to
60min of vibration. Can also be worn on fingers / toes, or
placed on a dildo to add a vibrating element.
http://www.thescreamingo.com/
Name: Adonis Caesar Silicone Penis Ring (California Exotics)
Approx. price: $20
Features: A super stretchy silicone ring which can be stretched
between the fingers using both hands and placed around base
of penis and testes.
http://www.calexotics.com
Name: Tor 6 Mode Rechargeable Cockring (Lelo)
Approx. price: $140
Features: A rechargeable silicone penis ring that is designed to
be worn during sexual intercourse, providing extra stimulation
for both partners. There are 6 vibration modes. 2 hours of
charging provides 1.5 hours of use.
http://www.lelo.com
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Penis vacuum pumps
Why? Penis pumps can be used to temporarily overcome symptoms of erectile
dysfunction. Penis pumps are cylinders that are fitted over the penis and have a
manual or motorised pump to create suction. As the partial vacuum is created
around the penis, blood is drawn in creating an erection. A penis ring is pushed
by hand onto the base of the erect penis before releasing the vacuum, which
restricts blood flow out of the penis and maintains the erection. Penis rings must
be removed after no more than 30 mins.
Name: Automatic Precision Penis Pump (California Exotics)
Approx. price: $70
Features: A battery powered vacuum pump activated by a
single button on the pistol shaped grip. The vacuum is
released by pushing a second button. To be used in
conjunction with a penis ring (slide off bottom of unit after
erection is attained). Powered by 4 x AA batteries.
http://www.calexotics.com
Name: Pump Worx Max Precision Power Pump
(Pipedream)
Approx. price: $80
Features: A pistol grip style large handled pump with gauge
and pressure release button. A penis ring is included.
http://www.pipedreamproducts.com
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Prostate stimulators
Why? Many men find stimulation of the perineum, area around the anus
and/or prostate highly pleasurable, even in the face of reduced sensation in
other genital areas. As with all toys it is important to use plenty of good quality
long lasting lubrication, particularly if using toys for insertion. Prostate
stimulators may be used in solo or partnered play.
NOTE: when considering toys for anal insertion, choose only smooth toys with a
wide/ flared/ large base to avoid the toy being sucked up into the rectum (and
avoid a visit to the emergency department to have it removed…).
Name: Dr Joel’s Prostate Massager (California Exotics)
Approx. price: $50
Features: A hard plastic waterproof vibrator powered by 3 x AAA
batteries (housed under screw cap at the base of the unit). Variable
speed is controlled by twisting the base of the screw cap. Suitable for
internal or external use. 17cm in length.
http://www.calexotics.com
Name: Sinclair Institute Select Onyx Cyberglass Dildo (Sinclair
Institute)
Approx. price: $55
Features: A solid glass-like dildo designed for prostate stimulation.
It may be warmed or cooled in water as desired before use.
http://www.sinclairinstitute.com/
Name: Rude Boy Prostate Pleasuriser (Rocks-Off)
Approx. price: $70
Features: A vibrating silicone insertable toy designed to provide
prostate and perineal stimulation. The toy is waterproof and
measures 13cm in length, 2.8cm in width. http://www.rocks-off.com
Name: Colt Turbo Bullet (California Exotics)
Approx. price: $32Features: A wired remote controlled egg
shape bullet powered by 3 x AA batteries (housed in the remote)
providing very strong vibration. Vibration intensity is controlled
by a slider at the side of the remote. http://www.calexotics.com
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Cleaning and safety tips
The best way to clean a sex toy depends on:
 what the sex toy is made of
 if the sex toy uses batteries and/or has parts that cannot be washed
Sex toys should come with advice about how to clean and store them. Follow the
manufacturer’s instructions carefully.
Most toys can be cleaned with soap and hot water or with a special sex toy
cleaner. It is important to keep water away from any vibrating motors and/or
battery compartments.
It is important to wash toys between use:
 on different parts of the body, such as the mouth, vagina and anus
 by one person and another
Toys designed for insertion (e.g. dildos) can be used with a condom, which can
then be discarded and the toy cleaned in the usual fashion.
It is also important to check sex toys regularly for any scratches or breaks in the
surface material where germs could be present and spread, increasing the risk of
infection.
Name: Toy Covers (California Exotics)
Approx. price: $5
Features: Sanitary sleeves with a non-reservoir tip made of
natural rubber latex, designed for slim and small toys. They
are un-lubricated, allowing use of chosen lubrication.
http://www.calexotics.com
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A brief word about anatomy
Why? In order to use adult toys in a safe and pleasurable manner, it is helpful
to have a basic understanding about how bodies work and “which bits are
where”. Some toys are designed for internal use, whilst others are only safe to be
used externally. If you haven’t yet become acquainted with all parts of your
body, a propped mirror can be a handy thing!
Female Genitals
Male Genitals
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Resources: Western Australia - agencies
The Multiple Sclerosis Society of Western Australia Inc.
29 Parkhill Way, Wilson WA 6107
Locked Bag 2, Bentley DC WA 6983
Ph 08 9365 4888
Fax 08 9451 4453
Country callers: 1800 287 367
Email: [email protected]
http://www.mswa.org.au/
FPWA Sexual Health Services (formerly Family Planning)
70 Roe Street Northbridge WA 6003
PO Box 141 Northbridge WA 6865
Ph 08 9227 6177
Fax 08 9227 6871
http://www.fpwa.org.au/
secca (Sexuality Education Counselling and Consultancy Agency)
City West Lotteries House
2 Delhi Street
West Perth WA 6005
Ph 9420 7226
Fax 9420 7229
Email: [email protected]
http://secca.org.au/
Independent Living Centre WA
Information, advice and display of disability related (including sexuality) assistive
technology.
The Niche 11 Aberdare Road,
Nedlands Western Australia, 6009
TOLL Free: 1300 885 886
Email: [email protected]
http://www.ilc.com.au/
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Resources: online
Sex and MS: a guide for men
An informative guide produced by the MS Trust UK available free as a download
from: http://www.mstrust.org.uk/shop/product.jsp?prodid=356
Sexuality and MS: a guide for women
An informative guide produced by the MS Trust UK available free as a download
from: http://www.mstrust.org.uk/shop/product.jsp?prodid=213
The Sexual Health Network
The Sexual Health Network is dedicated to providing easy access to sexuality
information, education, support, and other resources. It includes a section on
disability and illness. www.sexualhealth.com
Outsiders
The Outsiders is a UK based social and peer support network of disabled people
with a focus on relationships and sexuality. The website includes links to a range
of resources and has a variety of online leaflets available. www.outsiders.org.uk
Come As You Are
A co-operatively run sex toy, book and dvd store with a website which has
information and advice about a range of sex toys, their uses and newsletters. It
includes a "Sex and Disability" section with disability resources and seniors'
sexual health information. www.comeasyouare.com
Resources: books
Multiple Sclerosis: The Questions You Have, The Answers You Need,
Fifth Edition (2012) Rosalind C. Kalb, PhD. Demos Medical Publishing, 365 pp
ISBN: 978-1-936303-16-8
The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live
With Disabilities, Chronic Pain and Illness
(2003) Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg, and Fran Odette
Cleis Press P.O. Box 14648 San Francisco, CA, 94114 345 pp
ISBN: 1-57344-176-7
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The Multiple Sclerosis Society of Western Australia Inc.
29 Parkhill Way, Wilson WA 6107
Locked Bag 2, Bentley DC WA 6983
Ph 08 9365 4888
Fax 08 9451 4453
Country callers: 1800 287 367
Email: [email protected]
http://www.mswa.org.au/
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