catholic St. Augustine December 2007 • www.staugcatholic.org A Christmas Tradition building a spanish nativity belén p. 16 Migrant Farm Workers a call for solidarity p. 24 Home from War Christmas has special meaning this year for Capt. Kathleen Michel FATHER JOE p. 8 what’s up with Ouija boards? Theology 101 p. 10 why is Jesus the best teacher? Spiritual Fitness p. 14 the battle for peace Msgr. Joseph James Writing Scholarship for High School Seniors this year only! And have your work published in the St. Augustine Catholic magazine How do you sustain your Catholic identity in today’s culture? Entries due February 29, 2008 Contact your Campus Minister, DRE, Youth Minister, Pastor or Teacher for entry information or visit www.staugcatholic.org or email: [email protected]. contents contents catholic St. Augustine December 2007 Volume XVII Issue 5 The St. Augustine Catholic is the official magazine of the Diocese of Saint Augustine, which embraces 17 counties spanning northeast and north central Florida from the Gulf of Mexico to the Atlantic Ocean. The diocese covers 11,032 square miles and serves more than 164,000 registered Catholics. features what you’ll get out of this issue 16 Elizabeth Gessner Creating a Nativity Belén Learn the art of building a Belén – a popular and longestablished family custom in Spain. It’s a wonderful custom that gives families a real focus for Christmas. – Elizabeth Gessner 4editor’s notes Celebrating the Holidays – Kathleen Bagg-Morgan 5saint of the month Mary on the Feast of the Immaculate Conception – Jan Rynearson 18 Cover Story: Home from War Find out how Navy Capt. Kathleen Michel’s faith helped her get through the hell of war while serving at the Expeditionary Medical Facility in Kuwait. And now that she’s home, how is she adjusting to life with her husband and children? 10 6 bishop’s message “Born the Virgin Mary” – Bishop Victor Galeone 7 from the archives First Parish Registers – Michael Gannon, Ph.D. Scott Smith 8 in the know with Father Joe What does the church think about Ouija boards? – Father Joseph Krupp – Amelia Eudy 9 catholic world news – Zenit 10theology 101 Why is Jesus the best teacher? – Elizabeth Solsburg 12your marriage matters Reconciling two separate bank accounts – Tom and Jo Ann Fogle Tom Tracy 24 From the Fields to Marketplace In part two of our two part series on immigration and migrant farm workers, writer Tom Tracy breaks down some of the issues and myths facing migrant workers today. – Tom Tracy On the Cover: Navy Capt. Kathleen Michel at Naval Hospital Jacksonville. Photo by Scott Smith 13parenting journey Is Christmas making you crazy? Learn how to be a peaceful parent – Dr. Cathleen McGreal 14spiritual fitness The battle for peace – Father Bill Ashbaugh 22parish profile San José Parish, Jacksonville – Shannon Scruby-Henderson 26culture Windows of Peace – Michelle Sessions DiFranco 28 around the diocese 30 calendar of events St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 catholic St. Augustine notes editor’s notes The Magazine of the Diocese of Saint Augustine Most Rev. Victor Galeone Publisher Kathleen Bagg-Morgan Editor Susie Nguyen Editorial Assistant/Subscriptions Patrick McKinney Art Director/Graphic Designer Father Bill Ashbaugh Michelle Sessions DiFranco Amelia Eudy Michael Gannon, Ph.D. Tom and Jo Ann Fogle Elizabeth Gessner Shannon Scruby-Henderson Father Joseph Krupp Dr. Cathleen McGreal Jan Rynearson Elizabeth Solsburg Tom Tracy Contributing Writers Tom Gennara Elizabeth Gessner Susie Nguyen Phillip Shippert Scott Smith Tom Tracy Tony Watson Frantizek Zvardon Contributing Photographers Kathleen Bagg-Morgan Advertising Sales Coordinator InnerWorkings Print Management St. Augustine Catholic Website www.staugcatholic.org Diocese of Saint Augustine Website www.dosafl.com The St. Augustine Catholic is a membership publication of the Diocese of Saint Augustine, 11625 St. Augustine Road, Jacksonville, FL 32258-2060. Published monthly except January and August. Subscription rates are $15 per year. Individual issues are $2.50. Send all subscription information and address changes to: Office of Communications, 11625 St. Augustine Road, Jacksonville, FL 32258-2060; (904) 262-3200, ext. 108; fax (904) 262-2398 or email [email protected]. ©St. Augustine Catholic, Diocese of Saint Augustine. ©FAITH Publishing Service. No portion of the St. Augustine Catholic may be published, broadcast, rewritten or otherwise reproduced or distributed in whole or in part, without prior written authority of the Diocese of Saint Augustine and/or Faith Publishing ServiceTM. For reprint information or other questions regarding use of copyright material, contact the St. Augustine Catholic editorial offices at the Diocese of Saint Augustine. Help Spread the Faith! Give the gift of the St. Augustine Catholic Magazine Order a $15 annual subscription today 1-800-775-4659, ext. 110 St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 Celebrating the Holidays by Kathleen Bagg-Morgan N ot being with family during the holidays is tough for anyone. But for those in the military, spending the holidays away from home is often a reality. The uncertainty of unrest in Iraq will make this holiday season even more stressful than usual for the families of military members serving in harms way. Nurse and Navy Capt. Kathleen Michel is fortunate. She will be home when her four children unwrap their presents this Christmas day. But she didn’t expect to be. Capt. Michel was called to serve at the Expeditionary Medical Facility in Kuwait, the only coalition forces military hospital just south of Iraq. In our cover story this month, Capt. Michel explains how her faith helped her tend to the combat wounds of our soldiers and endure time spent away from her husband and kids. And while our armed forces are doing the business of the country, military chaplains, like Father Michael Mikstay are busy at home taking care of the families of our military personnel. Father Mikstay is Command Chaplain at Naval Air Station Jacksonville. He will be here for Christmas ministering to the families of St. Edward Chapel before joining the Marines as a Catholic chaplain serving in Iraq early next year. So how can we help those in uniform celebrate the holidays? It’s not too late to: • Donate a calling card to help troops keep in touch with their families at Operation Uplink, www. operationuplink.org. • Sign a virtual thank-you card at www. defendamerica.mil/nmam.html. • Make a donation to the Military Relief Societies: Army at www.aerhq.org; Navy and Marines at www.nmcrs.org; Air Force at www.afas.org, or the Coast Guard at www.cgmahq.org. If you know a family that will be alone this holiday due to a loved one serving oversees, reach out to them and share the spirit of Christmas by exchanging family customs and traditions – or you can try one of two featured in this issue. Turn to page 16 for a complete guide to building a Spanish-style Nativity scene. Popular in Spain and throughout Europe, building a Belén (Spanish for Bethlehem) is a wonderful custom that provides families a real focus for Christmas. Elizabeth Gessner, a Spanish translator living in St. Augustine has traveled extensively to Spain to hone her linguistic skills and while there she discovered the art of making a Nativity Belén. She says it offers parents an outstanding teaching moment, and is simply a lot of fun. And Elizabeth’s Belén will be on display this Christmas at the Cathedral-Basilica of St. Augustine. In our new Culture column on page 26, Michelle Sessions-DiFranco shares her recipe for making cathedral cookies for Christmas. She calls them windows of peace and they provide a message of hope, love and peace especially for people separated from loved ones during the holidays. On behalf of the staff of the St. Augustine Catholic, have a blessed Advent and very merry Christmas! Corrections: The headline for the Catholic Charities article that appeared in the November issue was incorrect. It should have read Breaking the Cycle of Poverty. We apologize for the error. bishop from the bishop “Born of the Virgin Mary…” Why do Catholics say that Mary was always a virgin? by Bishop Victor Galeone Actually, it’s not just Catholics who believe Mary was a virgin throughout her life. So does the Orthodox Church. And the Protestant reformers Luther and Calvin held the same belief. To understand why, let’s go to Luke’s gospel (1:26-38) where the Angel Gabriel tells Mary that she’s going to have a baby. Her reaction was, “How can that happen since I don’t know man?” In Scripture, “to know man” is a euphemism for having sexual relations. Mary’s question is somewhat strange, since we learned in verse 27 that she’s engaged to be married to Joseph. Didn’t they plan to consummate the marriage after their wedding? To learn the answer, suppose that I offer you a beer (or a cigarette) and you reply, “Sorry, I don’t drink/smoke.” When do you plan to start? With your present mindset, never. Doesn’t Mary’s question fall into the same category? Did she ever plan to have marital relations? The early church fathers concluded that Mary and Joseph had made a private vow to live as brother and sister after the wedding. (We know from the historian Josephus that members of the Essene Community, who lived around the time of Jesus, were celibate.) When Gabriel explained that she was to conceive through the power of the Holy Spirit, Mary gave her consent. And she remained a virgin for the rest of her life. What about Jesus’ brothers and sisters named in Mark 6:3? In Hebrew, the word for brother (’AK) can mean blood brother, half-brother, stepbrother, uncle, nephew or cousin. The context must indicate the relationship. For example, Genesis 12:5 states that Lot is “the son of Abraham’s brother,” that is, his nephew. But in the next chapter, Abraham says to Lot, “Let us not quarrel, for we are brothers.” Besides, if Jesus had other siblings, why did he entrust Mary to the care of John while he was dying on the cross? Such an action would have been unthinkable if Mary had other children to care for her. So Jesus’ siblings mentioned in Mark were probably his cousins. But Matthew 1:25 says that Joseph had no relations with Mary until she gave birth to her son. Doesn’t the “until” imply they had relations afterwards? Not really. We’re dealing with another Hebrew idiom. In English, what is said before until is usually not true afterwards: “I didn’t drink until I was 21.” But there are exceptions: “Behave yourselves until I get back.” Does that mean the kids can tear the house apart once mother returns? Hebrew, however, stresses only what occurs before the until clause. What is said there may or may not be true afterwards. St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 For example, 2 Samuel 6:23 states: “Michal had no children until the day she died.” Are we to assume Michal bore children in the grave? So too, Matthew 1:25 is the Hebrew way of stressing that Joseph had no role in Jesus’ conception. What about Luke 2:7 which says, “She gave birth to her firstborn son.” If he’s the first, there must have been others after him. Firstborn (bekor) in Hebrew was a technical term, conferring special legal status on the firstborn son. As St. Jerome explained in the fourth century: “Firstborn doesn’t mean there were any later-born. It merely excludes any previous-born.” Archeology has confirmed St. Jerome’s statement. In 1922 a tombstone was unearthed in Egypt of a Jewish bride who had died in 5 B.C., with the inscription: “Fate has ended my life in the birth pangs of my firstborn son.” Why is there no mention of Jesus’ virgin birth outside of the infancy narratives of Matthew and Luke? While there are no explicit references, there are some implicit ones. For example, in citing someone’s human ancestry, St. Paul usually refers to the father alone, or in some cases, to both father and mother. The only exception occurs in Galatians 4:4. “Now in the fullness of time, God sent his son, born of a woman, born under the Law…” Precisely when Paul reaches the end of Salvation History (“in the fullness of time”), he mentions only the mother of the promised Messiah – who is not linked to any human father. When the Messiah appears in our midst, he has only one Father (“God sent his Son”), and only one mother (“born of a woman”). Also, Joseph, Mary’s husband, is never mentioned in Mark’s gospel. This is especially striking in the passage where Matthew and Luke have, “Isn’t this the son of the carpenter (Mt)/Joseph (Lk)?” Instead, Mark has: “Isn’t this the carpenter, the son of Mary?” Let us conclude this reflection with the opening lines of Wordsworth’s sonnet, “The Virgin.” “Mother! whose virgin bosom was uncrost With the least shade of thought to sin allied; Woman! Above all women glorified, Our tainted nature’s solitary boast…” archives from the archives First Parish Registers Invest your time before you invest your money. Frantizek Zvardo A parish register is a blank book in which a pastor enters the names of his parishioners and the dates on which they receive certain ministries of the church, e.g., baptism, marriage and burial. The very first such registers at the infant parish of St. Augustine, covering the last four months of 1565 and the first months of 1566, have long been lost; our best information is that they were carried off by soldier mutineers in the spring of 1566. The registers from that date until 1586 similarly are lost, but, again, we think we know what happened to them. In the summer of 1586 the city of St Augustine was plundered and burned to the ground by the English corsair Francis Drake. A member of Drake’s force wrote that not so much as “the leaves on the trees” were spared. When the then pastor Father Rodrigo García de Trujillo emerged with his parishioners from the western woods, where they had taken refuge, he found their church, Our Lady of Healing, a tangle of blackened timbers. If the registers had been left in the church, they would have turned to ash. The pastor and his people rebuilt their wooden church. In 1593, broken in health after 28 years of service, Father García retired and was replaced as pastor by Father Diego Escobar de Sambrana, whose name is the first to appear in the registers that survived. On Jan. 24, 1594, we find in the brittle but still readable initial page of the matrimonial register, Father Escobar brought a couple before the altar to be married. The groom and bride were Gabriel Hernández, “a soldier of this presidio,” and Catalina de Valdés. That entry on that page is the oldest European document of North American (north of Mexico) origin extant in our country. n by Michael Gannon, Ph.D. The first page of the St. Augustine Parish Register of Baptisms dated June 10, 1594. The first entry in the baptismal register is also in Father Escobar’s hand, dated June 25, 1594. It records the baptism of an infant named “María, legitimate daughter of S. Ximenes de la Queva and María Meléndez, his wife. The surviving registers of the First Spanish Period (1565-1763) offer us a near-continuous record (there are some lacunae or holes) of Catholic life in the old city from 1594 to 1763, for a total of 169 years. In 1763, by virtue of the Treaty of Paris concluding the French and Indian War, Florida passed into the hands of Great Britain. The population of St. Augustine, not trusting the British to respect their Catholic faith, elected to depart Florida for Cuba and other destinations in the Caribbean basin. Only three Spanish families remained behind. In February 1764, the church’s possessions, including the parish registers, were removed to Havana on board a schooner named Nuestra Señora de la Luz (Our Lady of the Light). There the registers were placed in the basement of the cathedral church. And there they would remain, forgotten, for the next 107 years. Ellen O. 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OK, these are three totally Father Mark, seeing that the different things, so first, let’s define each one and then look man was moved to tears, asked “Are you remembering happy at what they purport to do childhood memories?” “No,” the from a Catholic perspective. man sniffed, wiping a tear. “I’m a First, let’s look at Ouija boards. According to Princeton’s Wordnet, they are boards with the alphabet on it; used with a planchette to his son or daughter in the fire, who practices spell out supernatural messages. divination or sorcery, interprets omens, engages in Apparently, the name comes from witchcraft, or casts spells, or who is a medium or combining the French word for “Yes” (Oui) spiritist or who consults the dead. Anyone who does and the German word for “Yes” (Ja). these things is detestable to the Lord. (Deuteronomy In terms of crystals, I assume you are asking about the way some people claim to use 18:10–12a) The Scripture is clear, and many exorcists crystals for spiritual protection or channeling, in the Catholic Church speak very strongly or in any religious way. against the Ouija board. Whether we intend The enneagram is a nine-sided shape that it for “fun” or not is irrelevant; it’s a loaded is used as a model for different things; the spiritual gun and we should destroy any of most common being its use as a personality these things that are in our home. assessment tool. This assessment tool focuses Crystals are a little harder to nail down, on the imbalance present in each person – their “hidden self.” Integration is essential in as they are used in so many ways. However, this model, and each personality type is shown the simple answer is this: I can’t find any circumstance under which a person can or the way to integration through the use of should “use crystals” for a spiritual purpose. arrows. OK, we’ve got them now; let’s take it one at a Again, its purpose seems quite clearly against the Scripture passage that I cited above. time. The Ouija board was introduced as a board The easiest way to look at these things is to remember the story of Babel and the story of game, and was intended to be used as a way to contact the spirits of angels, demons, or the Adam and Eve. In both cases, what the people dead. This is a dangerous practice. People have wanted was right, but they wanted to do it in approached me about this and expressed their their own way and not in the way God calls us concern over my “hard-line stance on a board to. The desire to have contact with the divine is holy and good, but we must do it in the way game,” but that is precisely one of the big problems here: disguising a fundamentally evil God invites us to. The problem is when we spiritual practice into a game for kids is, in my act as if our actions can somehow “force God’s hand” or as if the Scriptures and the guidance mind, the definition of evil. of the church aren’t sufficient. Take a look at this passage: There are tons of fights on the Internet Let no one be found among you who sacrifices about the enneagram. Some people see them A: St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 as helpful tools, others see them as an evil New Age practice. It appears that in this case, it’s best to avoid working with this model. Why? First, because of its roots. The roots of this practice appear to come from the Sufis, who seem to combine Islam and paganism in their worship. Second, this model is a problem because of its focus on self-improvement through purely human means. In the mind of the church, it is essential that we base all of our efforts for “self improvement” on the person of Jesus Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit. One source I read indicated that Jesus calls us to “die to self,” while this model calls us to an almost obsessive focus on the self. Remember, brothers and sisters, Jesus has given us all we need to come to him. As he said in John 14:6, “I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” Enjoy another day in God’s presence! Send your questions to: “In the Know with Father Joe” c/o FAITH Magazine 300 W. Ottawa Lansing, MI 48933 Or: [email protected] world news the top-10 Catholic News events this month 1 Vatican Stamp and Coin Museum Opens A new museum featuring all the stamps and coins minted in Vatican City State since 1929 is open to the public. Materials illustrating the production of stamps and coins are included. 2 Israel tightens policy on re-entry visas The Israeli government is no longer granting routine re-entry visas to Arab Christian religious leaders who travel in and out of occupied Palestinian territories. The new policy means that clergy will no longer be able to move freely between their parishes in occupied territories. 3 Six Arkansas nuns excommunicated Six women religious were excommunicated in Arkansas for their involvement in the schismatic association Army of Mary. 4 Prayers for minority Christians Benedict XVI is praying that Christians who are in minority situations may have the strength and courage to live their faith and persevere in bearing witness to it. 5 Global cooling A “cooling off” of love and solidarity is even more dangerous than global warming, claims the archbishop of Prague. 6 Spirituality over logistics for World Youth Day Youth are challenged to ensure that organization of logistics does not interfere with spiritual preparation for the 2008 event. 7 Pope encourages youth to evangelize in hometowns The pope said that missionary work is essential to Christian faith formation. 8 Personal development through sports Sports are beneficial when pursued in the right spirit with respect and dignity, Benedict XVI said. 9 Nobel Prize winners join the Pontifical Academy of Sciences Klaus von Klitzing, who won the Nobel Prize in physics, and Yuan Tseh Lee, who won the Nobel Prize in chemistry, are now ordinary members of the academy. 10 U.N. needs to focus on health care The pope called for the U.N. to renew its commitment to the preservation of life at every level and in every corner of the world. Finding cures and protecting life A packet of information about the church’s stance on stem cells was delivered to every Catholic home in Michigan that’s registered with a parish. A letter signed by the state’s diocesan bishops, a 12-minute DVD, and a brochure explaining the church’s support for adult stem cell research were sent out as part of the Michigan Catholic Conference’s The Science of Stem Cells: Finding Cures and Protecting Life campaign. The conference aimed to reach 500,000 homes and nearly 800 parishes. The Michigan Catholic Conference campaign formed in light of embryonic stem cell research supporter’s movement to overturn the state’s ban on research that involves the destruction of human embryos. Paul Long, the vice president for public policy at the conference, said the central message of the statewide education program is the church’s support for adult stem cell research and opposition to research which involved destroying human embryos. Long said that the campaign is intended to counter all of the attention focused on embryonic stem cell research which has overshadowed the real hope that adult stem cell research can provide. According to Long, “ Medical science, along with people from different faith and political backgrounds, have recognized that human cloning and the destruction of living embryos for research purposes may not be the most promising way to move forward with stem cell research. Yet because of the great deal of attention given to unproven embryo destructive research, partly through misinformation and even deceit, necessary funding for and the promotion of adult stem cell research have been nearly nonexistent.” Often people do not know that adult stem cells are already providing treatment and even cures without harming donors. The letter that was included in the mailing said, “Catholics have the right and duty to assist all who are suffering, and medical science, through adult stem cell research and its proven track record of success, has opened a door of hope.” – ZENIT St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 theology theology 101 by Elizabeth Solsburg W h o i s C h r i s t ? a year-l ong conv e rsatio n with th e ol o gians Why is Jesus the best Why did Jesus teacher? some and not others? Jesus taught by doing T his year, the St. Augustine Catholic is exploring Christology – the study of Jesus Christ. We asked several eminent seminary professors some questions about Jesus. Their answers are enlightening and thought-provoking. Meet the professors Father Acklin Father Muller Father Stevens Father Thomas Acklin is a monk of St. Vincent Archabbey in Latrobe, Pa. He is a graduate of Duqesne University, St. Vincent Seminary, The Catholic University of Louvain and Pittsburgh Psychoanalytic Institute. Father Earl Muller is The Bishop Kevin M. Britt Professor of Theology/ Christology at Sacred Heart Seminary in Detroit. He formerly taught at Marquette University in Wisconsin. Father Gladstone Stevens is on the faculty of St. Mary Seminary in Baltimore. 10 St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 Q SAC: What is Jesus’ role as teacher? Father Acklin: Jesus teaches even more by what he does than what he says. It’s like the famous quote attributed to St. Francis: “Preach always – use words when necessary.” Jesus’ whole ministry is like this; he begins with teaching and miracles. Then, he begins to teach the hard stuff, about giving us his flesh and blood to eat and drink – and there are very few miracles at that point, because miracles are signs pointing toward something, not an end in themselves. Jesus teaches with parables to break through the resistance to understanding, to prepare us to enter into the mystery. theologian of the month Catherine of Siena (1347-1380) Catherine had visions and mystical experiences from a very young age. By the time she was 7, she had dedicated her virginity to Christ. As a teen, she joined the Dominican Tertiary order and began to live a solitary, consecrated life in her father’s home. In 1370, she experienced a series of visions of heaven, purgatory and hell – and heard God telling her to leave her cloistered life and enter the world of diplomacy and politics. She did so, beginning correspondence with king and pope. In fact, her urgings prompted Pope Gregory XI to return to Rome in defiance of France’s king. Catherine was responsible for a spiritual renewal and had a number of followers. Catherine was deeply devoted to the Eucharist, existing on nothing more than Communion wafers and water for long periods of time. Heresy! Jesus as God, but not as man the heresy of monophysitism To Monophysitists, Jesus had only one nature, and it was divine. It resembles Apollinarianism, in which Christ’s divine nature overcame his human one. But in monophysitism, Jesus was solely and always divine. This heresy mostly affected the Eastern church, which excommunicated the monophysitists in the sixth century. Like many of the other heresies, this one is problematic because, without incarnation, there can be no true atonement for our sins on the cross. It was condemned by the Sixth Ecumenical Council in 680-681; the doctrine of hypostatic union was reaffirmed – Jesus is one person with two natures inextricably intertwined. He is fully human and fully divine. Otherwise, you could take this body of knowledge away and think you’ve “got it.” For Apostles fumbled and ran away, and learned through that. Ultimately, we slip and fall and miss the point, It’s like the famous quote and that is where the opportunity for real attributed to St. Francis: learning occurs. For us to really know Jesus, all of his sayings have to become living Jesus’ for us. That happens whole ministry is like this. through faith. And we have to recognize that example, the beatitudes – living everything Jesus taught was them is a mystery; it’s not just accompanied by things he did. about knowing them. We have teaching in the Father Muller: Jesus’ Scriptures and in other church teaching is connected with the teaching, like the catechism. Word – Jesus is the revelation But to live through the of God. Revelation must touch questions is where you really on the human heart and the learn to know something. The human intellect. When you talk “Preach always – use words when necessary.” what does that symbol mean? Pelican The pelican was believed to pierce its own flesh with its bill, in order to feed its young with its own blood. As such, it became a symbol of Jesus and the atonement. The pelican is seen in paintings, stained glass and murals. Bible Quiz I heard the voice of God Who am I? getting up and asking Eli what he wanted. Eli kept telling me to go back to sleep, but the voice didn’t stop. Finally, Eli told me that it was God calling – and my response, “Here I am Lord,” has become the title of a song that is sung in churches regularly. I served the Lord the rest of my days, and was honored to select the first two kings of Israel, Saul and David. Who am I? Father Stevens: Everything Jesus does is a teaching moment. When does he teach the most? It is when he says nothing – it is in his passion. In that moment, we have the sublime teaching of what it means to be human and God. So, how do we propagate this – how do we teach? We use a combination of words, actions and silence. If Jesus teaches by silence, we should too. For example, don’t judge. Don’t cast a stone. Ultimate teaching is through silence. And teaching is always more than a matter of utterances. Look at Matthew, chapter 25 – we teach by visiting someone, by giving them water and clothing. This teaching is the way in which the truth of God reaches another human being. Elizabeth Solsburg [email protected] Answer: Samuel My mother, Hannah, asked God to send her a son – and in exchange, she promised to raise him as a Nazirite, totally dedicated to the Lord. I am that son – and as soon as I was weaned, Mother brought me to Eli at Shiloh and that’s where I lived. When I was about 12 or so, I began hearing a voice in the night, while I tried to sleep. I kept about the communication of God to our intellect, you’re talking about a studentteacher relationship between us and God. So Christ, as a revelation of the Father, comes as one who enlightens our intellect. That is the root of what is meant by teacher. There were also cultural issues in the Scriptures that led to the use of that title – in the first-century Jewish culture, those who gathered disciples and trained them were called “teacher” or “rabbi.” Since Jesus did those things, he was often called by those titles. St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 11 marriage your marriage matters ro mance Romance Try going on a date in the “next town over.” Go to dinner, or see an attraction somewhere that requires some extra drive time. Make a little adventure out of it and go just far enough to feel free from the daily stressors. Have a collection of some of your favorite romantic music on hand. Use the extra travel time to talk and just enjoy each other’s company. money That’s entertainment! Eating out is fun and has become increasingly popular. But a candlelit dinner for two at your own table can be very romantic and save you money. To save a little money, eliminate one dinner out a week and eat in instead. 12 K atherine and David have been married for eight years. Katherine just discovered that David has a bank account in his own name that she had not known about. It’s my money Katherine says: I have been bothered by David’s secretiveness throughout our marriage; for example, he will never tell me who was on the phone when he finishes a conversation. But I was devastated when I found a bank book in his desk while I was cleaning the office. It’s in David’s name only and there’s a substantial sum of money in it. I thought marriage was supposed to be a partnership. But I feel marginalized and betrayed. What else is he keeping secret? I thought we shared everything David says: I don’t understand why Katherine is so upset – it’s not like the phone calls I get are any big deal, but they are mine and not hers. We aren’t joined at the hip – I’m allowed to have some privacy, aren’t I? As it happens, the bank account Katherine found was money I’ve been setting aside to surprise her with a cruise for our anniversary. But frankly, given the big scenes she’s made about this, I’m not sure I even want to go on a trip with her! When ideas are not communicated and then discovered inadvertently by your spouse, there is a whole lot of explaining to do! Is it just poor judgment or is it “busted!?” The first comment made by Katherine was a red flag to Tom. Was David’s secretiveness a continuation of an existing pattern while dating and during the engagement period, or is this a new behavior? Most often, habits and behaviors are a continuation of existing patterns set long before a marriage. Sometimes, our strongest and most endearing qualities and attributes prior to marriage becomes our major St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 He said She said what do they do? by Tom and Jo Anne Fogle weaknesses after marriage. The one question most couples don’t ask themselves prior to marriage is, “What if the current behaviors and patterns continue for the rest of our married life – can I live with it exactly as I know it today?” In marriage, spouses get to experience the other’s most intimate details – that means it is critical to really understand the person you are marrying prior to the wedding day. What you see is really what you get! Secrecy is the cornerstone of mistrust – especially within the context of marriage. When the wall begins to form between spouses you can rest assured Tom and Jo Anne Fogle the cornerstone will be mistrust. That cornerstone has a way of attracting other building material that would normally be given little consideration. But attached to the mistrust cornerstone, they become bonded and meaningful to building the wall. For example, David’s phone conversations by themselves would not be significant except for the cornerstone of mistrust. The secretiveness of the phone calls bond with the cornerstone of mistrust to create a formidable barrier to communication and couple growth. Once the wall begins to be built, people would be surprised at what is put into the mix to make it even more formidable; items such as a letter addressed only to David and not to Katherine, David working unusually late at his job, David wanting to spend a weekend away fishing with his buddies, or a bank book that Katherine didn’t know about. Regardless how innocent these extra events/items are on the surface once they are placed next to the cornerstone of mistrust, there is serious work needed by both parties, David and Katherine, to chip away and remove the wall. In reviewing both David and Katherine’s comments, it struck us that communication is not one of their strengths. It appears there is a lot of “assuming” between them and very little “fact finding”. It might have helped if Katherine would first ask David about the bank account and let him explain the situation. Maybe indeed it was for a surprise anniversary cruise, in which case Katherine would be delighted and pleased, yet a little embarrassed at discovering his special surprise. Given his reactions at her being upset (now not wanting to take her on the cruise) our belief is that his story was a not quite accurate and that Katherine’s thoughts might have some validity. If it were truly going to be a surprise and a special event, discovery may be disappointing, but it shouldn’t be viewed as a deal breaker. parenting parenting journey communication Is Christmas making you crazy? How to be a more peaceful parent Good marriage You want to celebrate Christmas in your own home this year. He wants to go to his mother’s for the Christmas he’s always known. Holidays can be highstress when your expectations are different. Set aside time to discuss your “perfect” Christmas, and make sure both of you get a little of what’s most important. Maybe this year at home and next year at your mother-inlaw’s! time Shop and spend together. Develop an ability to shop with your spouse; be it in a clothing store or hardware store. Shopping doesn’t need to be expensive (window shopping is free) and spending doesn’t need to break the bank. Walking together and exchanging ideas and thoughts tend to build strong relationships and lasting bonds. by Dr. Cathleen McGreal A s we pray for international peace during the Advent season, parents often have immediate concerns for preparing a tranquil family Christmas. I’ve found Advent challenging because it coincides with deadlines for exams and grades. When my four children were young, I began spreading Christmas shopping over months, searching for bargains. Now that they make purchases on their own as Christmas nears I wonder if I’ve done a “good job.” I start balancing amounts in Following my head. Is this fair? Should I make one more purchase? Even things God’s will out? I have to rein myself in, reminding myself that when the voice might not feel cries, “Prepare the way for the Lord, make straight paths for him” (Mt “peaceful” at first because it 3:3) that our preparation is not about giving the right gifts to one another in honor of Jesus’ birth! The straight path is an interior preparation and runs contrary to our habits peace that comes from our relationship with God. Allow time as parents to experience the gentle guidance of the Shepherd. “He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young.” ( Isaiah 40:11) Many a stained glass window shows the comforting sight of Jesus carrying a lamb. But it is reassuring to know that he is guiding parents as well. How is God relating to you as a parent this Advent? Are there discoveries that will lead to stronger relationships or healing in the family? The parenting journey is one that lasts a lifetime. Has a younger generation expressed interest in hosting the Christmas dinner? Has there been a spiraling trend toward more expensive gifts? It may be that, despite the gentleness of the dialogue, there are prospects of change that seem disconcerting. Following God’s will might not feel “peaceful” at first because it runs contrary to our habits. “A heart at peace gives life to the body ... ” (Proverbs 14:30) There are many physical demands to parenthood, as Mary and Joseph knew well with their journey to Bethlehem, Jesus’ birth in the stable and the flight to Egypt. Parents struggle to get up night after night with newborns, wondering when the baby is going to sleep through the night. Preschoolers have bad dreams and there are long nights tending to feverish children. Parents of adolescents catch catnaps waiting for teens to come home from dates. Sometimes, “empty” nests are re-feathered and grandparents help out young families. Being a parent can be exhausting! This Christmas season, try to find one personal activity that brings your own heart peace. Make time for prayer and connect with your church community – it may help bring life to your body! Email questions and comments to: [email protected] Dr. Cathleen McGreal St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 13 spiritual spiritual fitness by Father Bill Ashbaugh Of course, the holidays bring other factors that can trigger “the blues.” They add stress to people who are already stressed, work for people who are already overworked and expectations on those already pushed to the limit. There are increased financial and social demands. People may feel overwhelmed because they have to shop, go to parties, host parties themselves, decorate, send cards – and do it all in a couple weeks. Somewhere in all this, we can lose Jesus. Now that is depressing! Also, because holidays are often very special family times, those who have lost loved ones may feel their absence more acutely. Holidays become a painful reminder of loss. And then, of course, we all are faced with the emptiness of over-commercialization which blurs the true meaning of the season and real source of our joy – Jesus Christ. How can a person deal with the blues that can come in this season? We cannot be little Grinches who try to steal Christmas, nor Scrooges who “bah! humbug!” it away. Feelings of gloom do not go away by turning off the season. One thing I have found helpful is to understand that dejection is not an enemy, but a sign. It is emotional darkness that points us to “move on, change your attitude and thinking.” My little nephew was reaching for a hot plate and someone yelled, “NO! HOT!” He stopped immediately. The words “No! Hot!” were a sign he understood. When people suffer feelings of melancholy, they may become frozen in a place of pain or anxiety. The dark feelings produce more sad thoughts that, in turn, produce more bad feelings. “O what a wretch I am,” says St Paul. “Who will save me from this? Thanks be to God for Jesus Christ our Lord.” (cf. Romans 7:13-25) Yes, Jesus saves us from all things! He saves us from this. To draw out of our distress we make a choice to draw close to Jesus. We stand in his light. When we do, the darkness shrinks. How interesting to know that to treat SAD, the sufferer is treated by being exposed to more light! He or she feels better by being in the light! The good news of this season is this, “Today in David’s city a Savior has been born to you, the Messiah and Lord .” (Lk 2:11) Today! Just hearing that proclamation can bring us out of a dark place. The present, the here and now, is the moment at which eternity touches us. God is eternally now. Now is the acceptable time. Now is the day of salvation. God makes every day and every moment new. If we start to think of sadness as a sign that says, “No! Hot!,” we can begin to break the pattern of dark thoughts and feelings. We can turn our thoughts to Jesus, our light. His light shines in the darkness and the darkness does not overcome it. (John 1:2) So when we focus on dark feelings, we must hear our minds say, “No! Hot! Do not go there.” Instead, seek Jesus. Say his name. Think about him as a baby in the manger. How poor. How little. Feeling down? how to find joy when you feel joyless – beating depression during the holidays T his has been difficult for me to write, because, just before I was asked to write it, I was going through a dark time myself! God’s timing, though. I’ll reveal some of the fruit of my own struggle. How can we work through our dark times – and even find joy – when we feel joyless? We all go through times when we are down or low. Some people suffer from this more than others, especially during the holidays. Why is this? Holidays are supposed to be fun and joyful! Many times they are, but they also can open up painful memories and instill extra anxieties. Sometimes depression is related to a chemical imbalance caused by a lack of light. The winter blues are real; doctors have studied the condition, and appropriately named it Seasonal Affective Disorder, or SAD. During the winter months, daylight wanes and darkness grows, triggering chemical changes in our bodies that can lead to sadness or anxiety. 14 St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 He wants you to be there with him. He is happy you are there with him. When the shepherds were in the fields, it was night. But in the darkness, God was there! Angels exploded the darkness and the message given to the shepherds was believed! The shepherds did not just sit around after the angels told them that a Messiah had been born. They were not frozen in the darkness. The light of God was breaking through and moving them to act. They chose to act in faith and considered the possibility that the Messiah had come to them. When they acted in faith at that moment, they found Jesus! The same will be true for us this holiday season. Jesus said, “Your father in heaven knows all that you need. Seek first his kingship over you, his way of holiness, and all these things will be given you besides.” (Matt 6:33) In our holiday madness, we must not miss the moment! Jesus is there. For our Spiritual Fitness this Christmas season, we practice being present to the “present” of Jesus Christ. Make a list of all the activities you think you must do. Cut out what is unnecessary; prioritize. Include time for quiet and rest, time for immediate family and especially, time for Jesus. Remember that “Jesus is the reason for the season.” 1 Focus on the present. Do not compare today with the “days of the past.” When you notice yourself feeling sad, say to yourself, “No! Hot!” Consider the gift of the moment and express your faith that God is with you. A simple sign of the cross or praying the Our Father may be helpful. Repetition is the mother of learning, so keep working on this new mental habit. Good feelings will eventually follow. 2 Sadness is often associated with loneliness. When we are down, we do not want to be with others. Resist this. Be like the shepherds who went to Bethlehem What does depression sound like? Here is a first person account – volunteer some time by visiting hospitals or nursing homes. Jesus is there. Go Christmas caroling. Jesus is there. Say “yes” to party invitations. Do not be a Scrooge. Jesus is there. 3 Take some time to enjoy the beauty of the season. Turn on some Christmas music. Take a walk or drive to enjoy the lights and decorations. Live in the moment. Some people hate snow – but really look at a snowflake sometime and appreciate its intricate and delicate beauty. God created it for us. Think about the wondrous gift of Jesus. God made everything through him and for him. Jesus is the central point of the whole universe. He is not only the reason for the season. He is the reason for everything. Can we really ever make a big enough deal out of His birth? “God so loved the world that He gave us his only Son, that whoever believes in him may not die, but might have eternal life .” (Jn 3:16) God bless you and have a merry Christmas! • Increase in self-critical thoughts with a voice in the back of one’s mind providing a constant barrage of harsh, negative statements. • Sleep disturbance or inability to fall back to sleep • Feeling fatigued after 12 hours of sleep. • Decrease in appetite or food loses its taste. • Feelings of guilt, helplessness and/or What if you’re not hopelessness. just feeling “down in the • Thoughts of suicide. dumps,” or if you’ve been • Increased isolation. “blue” for a long time? • Missing deadlines or a The following are some signs drop in standards. of clinical depression. If you • Change in personality. have experienced several • Increased alcohol/drug of these symptoms for use. more than two weeks, you should call a mental health Clinical depression professional: is treatable, usually with • Concentration is often a combination of cognitive impaired. therapy and medication. • Inability to experience (Dartmouth College, Dept of Counseling and pleasure. Human Development) I can’t read, and the music I used to enjoy so much does nothing for me. I am bored, but I feel like doing nothing. There are times, when I’m It takes the greatest effort to get alone, that I think that life out of bed in the morning. I am is hopeless and meaningless tired all day, yet when night and I can’t go on much longer. comes, sleep evades me. I stare – Anonymous at the ceiling, wondering what has happened to my life, and How do you know if what will become of me. you’re depressed? Nothing is getting done at work. I have projects to complete, but I can’t think. I try to focus on my work and I get lost. I keep wondering when the boss will discover how little I have accomplished. Email your questions and comments to: [email protected] My wife does not understand. She keeps telling me to “snap out of it.” I’m irritable all the time, and yell at the kids, then I feel terrible later. Nothing is fun any more. St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 15 S St. Augustine takes great pride in its Spanish heritage, visible in so many ways – the architecture of its buildings, the names of its streets, and in particular the Cathedral-Basilica located across from the Plaza de la Constitucion. As Christmas approaches, there is another tradition that should be added to the many Spanish customs already alive here – the family custom of building a Nativity Belén. For more than five centuries, Spanish children and adults alike have greeted the Christmas season with the building of a Belén, a word that means Bethlehem in Spanish. It’s a Nativity scene that depicts life as it was in Bethlehem at the time of our Lord’s birth. Creating a Nativity Belén Elizabeth Gessner B y E l i z a be t h G e s s n e r 16 Camels cross a bridge in a large Belén on display in Madrid, Spain last year. St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 The Nativity scene tradition originated in Italy with St. Francis in the 13th century and soon spread to Spain and could be seen in many Spanish monasteries or religious houses. Over the years, the Belén became an art form, prized by nobility and royalty, who spent great sums of money on building elaborate scenes with hundreds of figures. But it also became a humble family custom that continues today. We have no historical records of Nativity scenes in early St. Augustine, but it’s hard to imagine that they didn’t exist – at least in the parish churches. scott smith Elizabeth Gessner In Spain, the Belén generally goes up shortly after the Feast of the Immaculate Conception (Dec. 8) although some families wait until the Christmas Novena (Dec. 16) while others wait until Christmas Eve. Building the Belén is an exciting project for the entire family. Nativity figures are passed down from generation to generation in Spanish families, so most families already have a collection of figures. But many people enjoy shopping for new figures at specialized stores or the Feria de Navidad, the outdoor Christmas markets that appear all over Spain in December. Adapting this custom to life in the United States is not difficult. While the beautiful, artisan-produced Spanish Nativity figures are hard to come by in this country, many American families have at least the basic figures for the Nativity scene, called the Misterio in Spanish – the Virgin Mary, Joseph and the baby Jesus. In Spain, the ox and the donkey and an angel are usually included in this basic scene. Then you can add shepherds, villagers and animals to create your little town of Bethlehem, Spanish-style. A good way to start is by reading the Gospel accounts of Matthew and Luke (chapters 1-2). Discuss them with your kids, showing them on a map where the events occurred. Do a little research on the Internet. Then have your children Nativity scenes in Spain can be quite elaborate. This large Belén in Madrid depicts daily life in Bethlehem. draw what they think the first Christmas looked like. Use their drawings to decide what kind of scene you are going to build. A small one in a box? Or a bigger one on a flat surface? Do you want to put your manger in a cave or in a stable? If you don’t have enough figures for the scene you have in mind, check out the local craft and toy stores. The figures don’t have to be expensive Nativity figures and in fact, they don’t have to be Nativity figures at all. You can adapt any small plastic figure for use in your Belén by some careful snipping and reshaping. Dress them up with new paint and bits of cloth, and your transformed figures are now ready for your Belén. You don’t have to go out and buy them all at once either. Part of the fun is adding new figures each year. And don’t forget to get lots of animals, because kids love to play with the little sheep, rabbits, chickens and other barnyard critters. You’ll probably also want to add tiny furnishings, utensils and things like food or tools. These can be bought, but they’re also fun to make. Creativity and ingenuity From her home in St. Augustine, Elizabeth Gessner builds are the secret ingredients! a Nativity Belén that will be displayed this month at the Cathedral-Basilica. Paint your backdrop, if making a box diorama, and assemble the larger parts of your scene, such as the buildings or the cave. Then add your figures and a few more finishing touches – perhaps sticking in some twigs or bits of moss or vegetation. But don’t put the baby Jesus in until Christmas Eve! In the days before Christmas, some people read a little prayer, prayed a decade of the rosary, or sang Advent hymns at their Nativity scene in the evening. You can also personalize it by doing things such as giving each child a sheep of their very own to move a tiny bit closer to the manger every day during Advent. In Spain, the Belén is generally left in place through Epiphany (Jan. 6), which is also known as the Día de Los Reyes and is the day Spanish children get their presents. You can also follow the Spanish custom of visiting other families to see their scenes and opening your home to your friends and neighbors to show off your Belén. But whatever you decide to do, you will find that reviving this historic tradition in your family will not only connect you with our Spanish past but will help your family build a rich and wonderful tradition that will make Christmas even more special every year. Elizabeth Gessner is a parishioner of the Cathedral-Basilica in St. Augustine and a Spanish translator. It was through her educational travels to Spain that she learned of the long-established custom of building a Belén. You can read more about the custom on her website at www.SpanishNativity.com. St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 17 Home from War Christmas has special meaning for one military family By Amelia Eudy 18 St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 Photography by Scott Smith c o v e r s t o r y f there’s no place like home for the holidays, no one would know that better than our U.S. troops who have been forward deployed or have served overseas. This Christmas, another year when service members will spend the holiday in harms way, one local family is preparing to celebrate a Christmas that was almost spent apart. Standing out front of Naval Hospital Jacksonville, Capt. Kathleen Michel holds a picture taken during her Individual Augmentee (IA) deployment to Camp Arifjan in Kuwait where she spent six months as head nurse. Nurse and Navy Capt. Kathleen Michel, 44, the mother of four children: Parker, 10, Griffin, 8, and 6-year-old twins, Ethan and Seth, found her own ways to cope with the uncertainty of a six-month military deployment. “[The military] initially told me it would be for six months, then it was one year, then eight months, then back to six,” Kathleen remembers back home at Naval Hospital Jacksonville. Having missed Easter, her 16th wedding anniversary, and her twins’ sixth birthday, she can’t imagine what it would have been like to be gone for Christmas as well. “I think that would be really hard,” she says. Originally from Ohio, Kathleen completed her college undergraduate and graduate nursing degrees at Ohio State University. She joined the Navy for the choice of duty stations near the water and the opportunity for adventure. Earlier this year, she received an assignment of “adventure” as she was called for Individual Augmentee (IA) duty to serve at the Expeditionary Medical Facility Kuwait, the only coalition forces military hospital in the small country, located just south of Iraq. Camp Arifjan was Kathleen’s first tour in the Middle East and the new assignment took some adjustment. “When we first got there it was cold – in the 50s and 60s. It quickly got hot and was 120 to 130 degrees when we left,” Kathleen explains. “It was windy and sandy – like walking into a hairdryer with sand blowing out of it.” St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 19 As the head nurse for the tent-hospital facility, which included an emergency room, medical/surgical unit, a mental health ward and operating rooms, she also provided career support and guidance to 40 military nurses in Kuwait. Because her specialty is in neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) nursing, Kathleen’s first exposure to a combat support hospital tested her wits and strengthened her faith. “I have never seen trauma before and we saw a lot in the first month,” she recalls. “We had a week of three mass casualty days in a row. I saw a bunch of stuff I had never seen before, like amputations, burns . . .” One difficult day, while looking for identification in an individual’s body armor belonging to a soldier who had died, she came across photographs and sticks of gum. “I started crying,” Kathleen says, “then thought, ‘I can’t do this as head nurse …I have to pull myself together. You can’t think of your emotions until it’s all over.’” During the long days, Kathleen found time to attend Mass as much as possible, daily if she could get away from her work schedule of six 12-hour days. During Holy Week, she was able to attend Mass everyday, something she had never been able to do before. The chapel experience was different from her chapel back home, St. Edward at NAS Jacksonville, where she is an extraordinary minister of holy Communion. While she was accustomed to saying the “Soldier’s Prayer” at Mass at the Florida chapel, in Kuwait it meant so much more after actually caring for people who had been in combat. “We were immersed in it everyday. It was not just an idea – we got to see the effects [of combat] on a person’s mind, body and soul,” Kathleen says. Sunday Mass at the Army base was full, she recalls. Being in a forward deployed environment “definitely strengthened” her faith life and she remembers, “I was praying a lot more than I normally do. You really realize that life is short and you have to make the most out of it.” Being away, she learned to appreciate her children and husband more and missed being there for them. Military Chaplains: Supporting our Troops and their Families Catholic military chaplains wear many “uniforms.” They are spiritual leaders, counselors, companions, commanding officers and confidants. “It’s service to God, our church and our nation,” Navy Cmdr. Michael Mikstay, chaplain of 15 years, says. When St. Edward Chapel at Naval Air Station Jacksonville loses Father Mikstay, the current Command Chaplain, early next year, the base will lose its last active duty priest assigned to the 65-year-old air base. This is due to a shortage of military chaplains who are answering the call to serve the troops at home and those forward deployed. Father Mikstay, who spent the first five-and-a-half years serving in various “hot-spots” around the world, such as Somalia and Liberia with the United States Marine Corps, is preparing to leave his administrative position on the home front to rejoin the Marines as a Catholic chaplain serving in Iraq. “I am there to be their priest,” says Father Mikstay, who was ordained for the Diocese of Youngstown, Ohio in 1981. “To travel around to places where …anybody has a need for a chaplain is what I look forward to. The real calling for me is to be operational and be with the Marine Corps.” Serving overseas, for him, is “another opportunity to provide the power of the priesthood in an operational setting.” 20 St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 Overseas and during wartime, military chaplains help the men and women of the armed forces through many trying situations. “The type of ministry is much different,” Father Mikstay explains. “Our travel, supplies and services [are] done so we can take care of those people spread across the theater in which we operate.” But chaplains are also a valuable informational tool for the active duty and families at home. Father Michael Mikstay “We are faced with all sorts of issues when someone walks in our door,” Father Mikstay says. Financial difficulty is one of those issues. “Loan sharks charging astronomical [interest] percentages are commonplace outside many military bases. The military are going there because they are in financial need,” he says. But the Navy Marine Corps Relief Society (NMCRS) is an organization that provides interest free loans to military personnel. They work closely with the service member or the family to create a budget and a plan to repay the loan. The Fleet and Family Support Center, a government-funded organization found on almost all Navy installations, provides counselors who give advice about a number of topics such as finance, marriage, abuse, grief and others. “Especially beneficial for those who have a loved one deployed for the global war on terrorism are the family support groups which the center organizes and coordinates,” advises Father Mikstay. “Very high on the list of priorities for the Navy and Marine Corps is to take care of the military families,” Father Mikstay claims. “In my experience, when I am in an operational area, say a foxhole or the desert, and I ask [a service member] his three biggest concerns, [he] will say ‘Take care of my family.’ As chaplains assigned to shore installations, we are called to support the fleet or the war-fighter, but we can do that best by taking care of their families.” -Amelia Eudy For information about the Navy Marine Corps Relief Society call (904) 5423515 and for the Fleet and Family Support Center call (904) 542-2766. One of her biggest concerns was knowing if her young family would be okay without her. “I wouldn’t want them to spend a lot of time being sad. I didn’t want them to cry or become dysfunctional,” she admits. Luckily, Kathleen was able to communicate regularly with her children and husband, John, 41, who works for the State of Florida Veteran’s Affairs Department. A webcam, set up in her room, enabled her to see her family as she talked to them every day. They also mailed packages to each other. John, who Kathleen calls ‘a saint’, was able to take time off during the summer months to care for and travel with the children. She could tell, however, that it was difficult for her husband to deal with things like the homework and dinner schedules alone. Although he is not Catholic, At a Time When Being Together is Most Important. Our beautiful cemetery and funeral home are in one location, giving you more time to be with your family. Jacksonville Memory Gardens Cemetery and Funeral Home Owned since 1958 by local Catholic family • 111 Blanding Blvd. • Orange Park, FL www.JacksonvilleMemoryGardens.com (904) 272-2435 See Christmas through a child’s eyes… Capt. Kathleen Michel and her husband, John, savor reading time with their four children: Parker, 10, Griffin, 8, Ethan and Seth, both 6. When she deployed to Kuwait in the spring, Michel wasn’t sure if she would be home for Christmas. he took the children to religious education classes regularly and helped them with their nightly prayers, which still include a line to, “Please keep mommy safe.” Kathleen returned home in August to resume her job as associate director for medical services at the Naval Hospital. She doesn’t anticipate being called back to the Middle East any time soon but is watching as others get ready to take their turn overseas, many of whom will be away for Christmas. “We send nurses and other staff on deployment all the time from here,” Kathleen admits. “All you can do is stay in contact and celebrate when you get home.” This year, after Christmas Mass, the Michel family will spend the day at their own home, an important tradition they have established for their mobile military family. “I’m sure I’ll go overboard again this year with the decorations and presents …to celebrate that I am home and not deployed as was the initial plan,” she reflects. This Christmas, send greeting cards that feature the artwork of elementary school age children in the United States — young missionaries sharing their faith through art. This box of 24 cards showcases the winning color drawings from the Holy Childhood Association’s annual Christmas artwork contest. To view all winning art, visit the HCA children’s web site: www.hcakids.org. To purchase HCA Christmas cards for $10 a box, call your diocesan mission director, or 1-(800) 431-2222. You may also buy these cards online at: www.givetothemissions.org. Holy Childhood Association …a Pontifical Mission Society national office - 366 Fifth Avenue, New York, NY 10001 St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 21 parish parish profile San José Parish in Jacksonville A Vision for the Future W hen San José Parish reaches its golden anniversary milestone in 2009, the community plans to celebrate in style. A new parish center is at the heart of an ambitious $2.5 million capital campaign, Building Together to Serve Christ, that will also fund improvements to almost every building in the complex. In addition, money is earmarked for a parking lot expansion and debt reduction. “This is a very exciting time,” says parishioner Cheryl Roth. “The capital campaign is an opportunity for us to make an imprint that will impact the future. I like to think that decades from now, people will still be talking about what we accomplished.” Pastor Jim Moss concurs. “With the new campaign, we are building upon our past and remembering our ‘foundation’ in faith by a dedicated group of selfless parishioners,” he says. San José pioneer Ozzie Bonner, 91, is a bridge from that generation to the present, and he sees parallels in the new initiative. “Msgr. (Mortimer) Danaher had people skills,” he notes. “He knew how to bring people together, and so does Father Moss. He’s doing a good job of making sure the church stays up with the times.” Tony Watson Father James Moss, pastor of San José Parish since 1999. by Shannon Scruby-Henderson Tony Watson The Spanish-style San José Catholic Church was designed by Junck and Walker Architects and dedicated by Bishop John J. Snyder on Nov. 4, 1990. 22 St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 At San José, a lot has changed in five decades – most noticeably, its multicultural population. “This parish is a microcosm of our nation,” says Cheryl Roth. “For example, we have a strong Albanian presence and Hispanic people from Mexico and nearly every country you can name in South and Central America.” Ministering to diverse groups is a joint effort. Deacon Gjet Bajraktari coordinates outreach to Albanian Catholics. Father Al Esposito’s Spanish Mass each Sunday is attended by as many as 600. He has recently organized a Portuguese ministry for Brazilians. With a Hispanic population that now stands at 25 percent, San José has Hispanic Advisory Council that parallels and complements the English-speaking parish council. The community has become a mecca for immigrants seeking instruction in English. Sister Maria Maxwell directs an all-volunteer program that runs three evenings a week, 11 months a year. Last year, it served 400 adults. The program is open to everyone, Catholic or not. To ensure that language training is free, Sister Maria writes grants for funding. “We’re Sisters of Mercy and our mission is to people who are poor, so this was a natural fit,” she says. “I began S a n J o s é P a r i s h a t a G l a n c e San José Parish, est. 1959 3619 Toledo Road Jacksonville, FL 32217 [email protected] Pastor: Parochial Vicar: Parishioners: School: Principal: Father James Moss Father Alberto Esposito 2150 registered families 500 students, Pre-K through 8 Jan Magiera Diocesan visionary Archbishop Joseph P. Hurley purchased the parcel on Toledo and St. Augustine Roads that would become San José Parish back in 1954. In 1959, he appointed Msgr. Mortimer Danaher to establish the parish. Msgr. John J. Lenihan succeeded as pastor in 1977, leading the parish until his retirement in 1999. During his tenure, San José dedicated a splendid new Spanish-style church. Father James Moss has been pastor since 1999. Under his leadership, the parish has embarked on a capital campaign that will modernize the faith community for a new generation of Catholics. Tony Watson A glimpse back to the beginning Local history buffs may be interested to learn that when South Jacksonville’s San José Parish was founded by Msgr. Mortimer Danaher in 1959, his younger brother Leo (now deceased) was also going door to door to canvas parishioners for a new parish – in his case, Sacred Heart on Blanding Blvd. Both Danaher’s built churches in 1960; each opened a school right away – and persuaded the Sisters of Mercy from two different convents in Ireland to help. The sanctuary area is dominated by a window wall of glass depicting the Trinity. The three large windows are fabricated in a combination of colored, painted and faceted glass. helping migrant workers in the Crescent Beach area, but then I realized that the need was right here in my own parish.” Father Moss credits “seven years of reflection and focus on stewardship of time, talent and treasure” as the force that encourages parishioners to engage in ministries that enhance parish life and to help others. “We continue to preach and teach about calling people to be faithful disciples and good stewards, as they recognize all as a gift from God,” he says. Sister Ambrose Cruise, director of religious education, sees generosity as a hallmark of the parish. “It’s a very alive place, and people are so enthusiastic,” she says. “In my own program, every year I’m looking for more teachers. I pray and end up getting more than I need. Lay people work together for our parish and the community.” There is also an emphasis on enjoying each other’s company. The parish has organized a FUNN (Fellowship Under a New Name) Committee, to sponsor social events. Recently, more than 60 women met to reestablish an old parish tradition of ladies’ circles. These and other social ministries are part of Father Moss’ longrange plan. “When I arrived, I invited the people to consider a vision of parish as people who ‘pray together and play together,’” he says. “In doing that we build community, so that when we gather around the Lord’s table we know each other better as we pray together. Our prayer with and for one another leads us to get involved with others.” Email questions and comments to: [email protected] St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 23 Part Two of a Two-Part Series on Immigration and Migrant Farm Workers From the Fields to Marketplace Tom Tracy By Tom Tracy 24 A Call for Solidarity Migrant workers in the fern farms near Crescent City, Fla. perform back-breaking labor that pays just 25 to 28 cents a bunch. St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 a furniture and clothing. Fortunately, no one was injured in the fire but the home was destroyed. The adult farm workers here are so busy in the fields and raising their children that realistically they don’t have time to learn English, but their children, mostly American born and attending public school, do, often becoming good students and citizens. A typical scenario is for the wife to work in the fields while the husband may take a job in construction. Tom Tracy At a fern farm in Crescent City, Fla., under the hot sun and a mesh net cover, which traps the humidity, Aldegunda Albarran wades through rows of foliage exposing herself to snakes, insects, pesticides and the elements. She and the other mostly Mexican workers here only pick the ferns that are ready for harvest that will soon be shipped around the country and to markets as far away as Japan. They stoop over deeply in order to cut the ferns near the roots, starting early in the morning to avoid stifling late-afternoon heat. Albarran and the workers tell jokes, laugh and talk about things going on in their lives, their sore backs and the recent cost of living increases effecting things like milk, gas and housing. Weather permitting; with a good rate of picking, they may earn $40 to $50 a day. Some of these farm workers live up the road in mobile homes and apartments north of Seville, Fla. Some of them, like Albarran, are legal and have led stable lives in the community for a long time, while others are undocumented and worry about new measures being enforced by the Department of Homeland Security to target employers hiring non-resident workers. The situation has been a serious worry to not only workers but Florida’s agricultural industry. “Immigration will come into a town and take everyone they find, going into homes, so the people run,” said Albarran’s daughter Myra, a teenager who said her mother has been doing this work since 1989 when the pay was just 18 cents per bunch. Now, the rate is 25 to 28 cents. Maira said she hopes to become a nurse one day. Albarran, who is a resident, is clearly respected by the workers here, and is a volunteer and point person for the Farm Worker Ministry of the Diocese of Saint Augustine. From two satellite offices, Crescent City and in Green Cove Springs, staff of the Farm Workers Ministry minister to local farm workers. Worried about loss of employment in agricultural jobs and a reduced demand for the ferns – a luxury item in a nervous American economy – more families are coming to the ministry to make ends meet this year, according to Olga Lara-Moser, who, with her husband Al, coordinates the Farm Worker Ministry for the diocese. “We are getting more requests for food and for help with utility, rent, and medical bills,” she said. Recently a farm worker’s mobile home burned to the ground. Olga arranged for the woman and her daughter to pick up some Aldegunda Albarran with her daughter Maira. Aldegunda has worked at the fernery for 18 years earning between $40 and $50 a day. Pedro, a legal resident, who has been working in the fernery for 18 years and supports a wife and four children, said he doubts many other people will ever want to do this kind of work. The Mexicans here work in tremendous heat, cold winter mornings and suffer from insecticide induced itchy skin. They encounter snakes and rats. “Nobody else will do this work if they deport us to Mexico; and everybody here is Mexican,” he said. The U.S. Bishops’ Justice for Immigrants Campaign, created to educate Catholics and the general community about undocumented persons in this country, breaks down some of the myths that may be driving the antiimmigrant sentiment in the United States: • Immigrants do pay taxes – federal, state and local. • Immigrants come here to work, not for welfare. • Immigrants may send some money back to Mexico, but most of it stays in the community. • Immigrants contribute in a positive way to the economy. “The people here now are contributing to the community and they do pay taxes but often don’t get anything back for that,” said Al, who points out that the Farm Worker Ministry assists workers with annual tax preparation during tax season and connects adults with English-speaking classes and tutoring programs run by the ministry. “I would like to improve communications with the growers so we can help each other deal with the problems that come through our doors,” he said. Father James May, pastor of St. John the Baptist Parish in Crescent City, said he views the farm worker and immigrant population in his midst as good people trying to do the best they can under the circumstances, and that he is impressed with how the community unites to help one another. He organized a special collection for the family displaced by the mobile home fire and was touched by the mother’s reticence to even mention her tragedy to him. “We need to open our hearts more and be bothered by the situation of these people and about their well-being,” Father May said, adding that new immigration measures taken in Florida and around the country are not helping the situation. “We allow the Mexican people to come here to work but conditions are poor and it is difficult for them to carve out a decent living. We act as if the ‘American Dream’ is not really for them.” “But the greatest happiness you can have is to make other people happy and my job as a priest is to show how the Gospel is speaking to us now. If you are going to be a Christian then let your light shine. When you respond to the Gospels your own faith is increased,” Father May reflects. Dignifying Human Work • Do our attitudes show respect for the dignity of work and the human person? Or do we see not human persons, but “labor costs” or “illegals”? • Do our laws and institutions protect workers? Or do we see human persons as a “workforce,” which exists to produce economic goods? • Do we honor the “work of human hands”? Or do we accept as normal that many of Florida’s working poor can only afford to live in dilapidated rental trailers. -Florida Catholic Conference St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 25 culture I culture Bake these cathedral cookies for Christmas Windows of Peace Philip Shippert By Michelle Sessions DiFranco Cathedral Window Cookies 26 More Ideas Philip Shippert 1 cup sugar 1/4 cup shortening 1/2 cup softened butter 1 teaspoon vanilla 2 eggs 2 ½ cups flour, sifted 1 teaspoon salt 1 teaspoon baking powder ’ll never forget that first day of being away from home when I went to college. I remember fighting back tears when my folks drove off after a day of helping me move into my campus apartment. I tried to shake it off and get excited about the semesters that were ahead at the fine art school I had worked so hard to get into, but my heart sank even more when I caught a glimpse of the Detroit “neighborhood” surrounding the campus. I cringed at all the vacant homes with broken windows and trash littering the yards. My parents weren’t even gone five minutes, and I was already homesick. In the coming days, I started to acclimate to my new surroundings. I met a few fellow classmates and found contentment with class projects and decorating my new studio apartment. But what truly brought me a pure and complete sense of peace was something far beyond the distractions of interior decorating, homework and socializing. It was the peace I felt when I went to Mass just a few blocks from campus. There, in the darkest corridors of the inner city, stood a very large, old cathedral that wasn’t in the best shape on the outside. But inside, people who knew, believed, and prayed the same parts of the Mass exactly as I knew them, surrounded me. And I was listening to the same Gospel and receiving the same Eucharist as my family back home. I truly felt in communion with them. I once heard the Catholic apologist, Pat Madrid, say that the way people see the church can be likened to the stained glass windows that adorn the church buildings. From the outside, they appear dark, mysterious and nonvibrant. But inside the church, the windows glow, illuminating everything and depicting messages of hope, love, and – for me, peace. On that day, I was so glad to be inside that church. My homesickness was gone. Do you know of someone who is away at college or even serving our country overseas? Give them a message of hope, love and peace, St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 1 package of hard candy, finely crushed. Church cookie cutter (can be purchased online) • Design your own church or cathedral! Easy instructions for making your own cookie cutters can be found online. Using a search engine, type in “making your own cookie cutters.” • Make them in just minutes using store-bought sugar cookie dough (don’t forget to roll out dough 1/8”). and something to remind them of home. Send them a dozen or more of these cathedral window cookies. While they are perfect for Christmas, they are also a great reminder that wherever you are in the world, you will always feel at home in the Catholic Church. 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Deering courtesy of CNS Bishop Robert J. Baker was installed as the fourth bishop of Birmingham at the Cathedral of St. Paul Oct. 2, a beautiful fall day that was the feast of the Guardian Angels. The three-hour ceremony began with Bishop Baker knocking at the Birmingham cathedral door, signaling his willingness to enter and become head of the diocese. Archbishop Pietro Sambi, apostolic nuncio to the United States, read the mandate from Pope Benedict XVI appointing Bishop Baker. Archbishop Sambi and Archbishop Oscar H. Lipscomb of Mobile escorted Bishop Baker to the cathedra, the chair that symbolizes a bishop’s teaching office and his pastoral authority in the local church. Archbishop Lipscomb then presented him with the crosier, the pastoral staff that is the symbol of his office. “I am happy to be the new bishop of Birmingham,” Bishop Baker told the congregation. He also thanked his predecessor, retired Bishop David E. Foley, for his “devoted leadership.” Bishop Foley retired in May 2005, but was diocesan administrator until Bishop Baker’s installation. Bishop Baker was ordained a priest of the Diocese of Saint Augustine in 1970 and has served as bishop of Charleston since 1999. Sisters of St. Joseph Celebrating 50 Years in God’s Service Law and Spirituality Award Kathleen Bagg-Morgan Following the Jubilee Mass at the Cathedral-Basilica in St. Augustine, the honorees posed for a picture with Bishop John J. Snyder. From left: Sisters Mary Loyce Newton, Florence Bryan, Bishop Snyder, Joyce Marie Newton and Elizabeth Ann McCormick. 28 St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 Susie Nguyen F our Sisters of St. Joseph celebrated their golden jubilees on Saturday, Oct. 13 at the Cathedral-Basilica of St. Augustine. Bishop John J. Snyder was the celebrant of Mass and Father Tim Lindenfelser gave the homily in which he gave thanks to the sisters for sharing their many gifts and talents with the people of Florida. The congregation of the Sisters of St. Joseph was founded in Le Puy, France on Oct. 15, 1650. Eight sisters came to the Diocese of Saint Augustine in Sept. 1866 at the invitation of Bishop Augustin Verot. “We are most grateful to our Jubilarians. We thank them for their faithfulness and their commitment in following the chaste, poor and obedient Jesus,” said Sister Ann Kuhn, general superior of the Sisters of St. Joseph. Bishop Victor Galeone celebrates the annual Red Mass on Oct. 18 at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church, Jacksonville. He is assisted by Deacon Paul Consbruck. Bishop Victor Galeone celebrated a Red Mass for members of the judicial, legal and law enforcement communities on Thursday, Oct. 18 at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in Jacksonville. The special Mass is an adaptation of the church’s age-old expression of dependence on God to the peculiar needs and institutions of the courts and the law. Each year at the Red Mass the Catholic Lawyers Guild honors a member of the community who, through their actions, exemplify the best in the areas of law and spirituality. This year that honor went to Msgr. Daniel Logan, pastor of Our Lady Star of the Sea Parish in Ponte Vedra Beach and a Tribunal Judge where he adjudicates matters such as annulments and issues governed by cannon law. Unfortunately Msgr. Logan was ill and unable to accept his award in person. around around the diocese Upcoming Events… Knights of Columbus help Unwed Mothers The Knights of Columbus Council #5758 and Eulalia and Paul Wilcox contributed funds to the Alpha Women’s Center in Ocala. From left are Eulalia Wilcox, Lori Chamblin, director of Alpha of Ocala, and Knights W.L. Jones and Paul Vincent. Special The Knights of Columbus Palatka Council #5758 applied for and received a $2,200 grant from the Knights of Columbus Charities of Florida. The funds were given to the Alpha Women’s Center in Ocala, an organization that assists unwed mothers. In addition to the grant, the council gave the center in August eight handmade wooden cradles complete with bedding for mothers and their newborns. To date, the council has provided 95 cradles. On another note – Council #5758 was recognized and awarded the status of Double Star Council for 2006-2007, one of 480 councils to achieve the recognition for their growth. The Cathedral-Basilica of St. Augustine is hosting the 2008 National Cathedral Ministry Conference, Jan. 14-17. An estimated 300 people from around the United States are expected to attend the four-day event. Frantizek Zvardon T he Florida bishops have launched a campaign to get Catholics to join the Florida Catholic Conference (FCC) Advocacy Network. “As Catholics we have a profound responsibility to pursue justice for our neighbors and protect the sacredness of the life of every man, woman and child – born or unborn,” said the nine bishops of Florida in a statement released last month. Collaborate with Catholics throughout Florida to help encourage lawmakers to defend all human life and promote the dignity of the most vulnerable in our society. Speak out on behalf of the poor, the disabled, the sick or dying, the unborn, the elderly, families and children, farm workers, immigrants, the imprisoned, and others in need. The FCC Advocacy Network informs you of current legislative issues that relate to areas of church teaching and provides an easily accessible channel of communication to assist you in sharing your concerns with elected officials. Sign-up by visiting www.flacathconf.org and click on Join FCC Advocacy. There is no cost to participate. For questions call (850) 205-6817. The public is invited to celebrate Mass with the conference attendees at 6 p.m. on Tuesday, Jan. 15. Bishop Victor Galeone will be the main celebrant. For more information on the event, and possible volunteer opportunities, call Christine McMillan at (904) 824-2806 or email: [email protected] or visit www.cathedralministries.org. The annual Mass for Solidarity and Unity is Sunday, Jan. 20, at the Cathedral-Basilica of St. Augustine. Guest homilist is Benedictine Father Cyprian Davis, a professor of Church History at the St. Meinrad School of Theology and the Institute for Black Catholic Studies at Xavier University of Louisiana. Father Davis lectures widely on the topic of Black Catholic history and was a contributor to the U.S. Bishops’ 1979 pastoral letter Brothers and Sisters to Us and to the Black U.S. Bishops’ pastoral letter What We Have Seen and Heard in 1984. The Mass begins at 3 p.m. St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 Special action alert Let Your Voice Be Heard 29 A Refreshing Stop books, books, gifts, gifts, religious religious items, items, more! more! Bell Tower Gift Shop (Inside the Cathedral Basilica) 35 Treasury Street Downtown St. Augustine Open Daily Weekdays 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Saturday Noon-4:30 p.m. Sunday 10 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Phone for mail orders (904) 829-0620 Back thrown out with the trash? www.jaxhealth.com calendar calendar December 2007 Dec. 2 A Celebration of Christmas Customs – Sunday, 3-5 p.m., Marywood Retreat Center, Jacksonville. Cost: Free. Call (904) 287-2525 or visit www. marywoodcenter.org. Dec. 7-9 Weekend Advent Retreat: Recovering Bethlehem’s Peace Leader: Jesuit Father Matthew Linn. Friday-Sunday, Marywood Retreat Center, Jacksonville. Cost: $140$230. Call (904) 287-2525 or visit www. marywoodcenter.org. Dec. 8 Feast of the Immaculate Conception Dec. 10 27th Annual St. Joseph Academy Golf Classic – Monday, 10 a.m., The Slammer & Squire at World Golf Village. Various levels of sponsorships available. Call Jerry Grause at (904) 477-0399. Only God reaches more Catholics Dec. 14 20th Annual L’Arche Harbor House Living Nativity – Presented by the residents of L’Arche. Friday, 7 p.m., Christ the King Parish, Jacksonville. Call (904) 721-5992 or email: development@ bellsouth.net. Dec. 19 Carols of the Faithful – A concert of sing-a-long Christmas carols and inspirational music. Wednesday, 7 p.m., Holy Family Parish, Jacksonville. Admission: Free. Call Joe Colsant, (904) 641-5838 or email: [email protected]. Dec. 25 Christmas The St. Augustine Catholic magazine reaches more than 54,000 Catholic households in 17 counties of North Florida. To advertise, call Susie Nguyen at (904) 262-3200, ext. 108 or email: [email protected]. 30 St. Augustine Catholic December 2007 Dec. 31-Jan. 1 Overnight Silent Retreat: Christian Meditation, Journey of Faith Leaders: Cenacle Sister Elizabeth Hillman and Linda Kay. Monday-Tuesday, Marywood Retreat Center, Jacksonville. Cost: $65-$115. Call (904) 287-2525 or visit www.marywoodcenter.org. Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe Spanish Mass Schedule Saturday, December 8 Epiphany Parish Lake City 7 p.m. Sunday, December 10 St. John the Baptist Crescent City Noon St. Catherine Parish Orange Park 6:30 p.m. San José Parish Jacksonville 12:30 p.m. Tuesday, December 11 San Juan Mission Branford 7 p.m. Wednesday, December 12 Our Lady of Guadalupe Mission Mayo 6 p.m. December 15 Sacred Heart Parish Fleming Island 5:30 p.m. January Date Savers Jan. 19 & 20 “Proud 2B Catholic” – Diocesan Youth Rallies for middle and high school teens with guest speaker Cooper Ray at Bishop Snyder High School, Jacksonville. Jan. 20 Mass for Solidarity and Unity Sunday, 3 p.m. at the Cathedral-Basilica of St. Augustine. Guest homilist: Father Cyprian Davis. 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