International Journal of Psychology and Behavioral Research. Vol., 4(1), 66-72, 2015 Available online at http:// www. ijpbrjournal.com ISSN 2322-4002 ©2015 Victor Quest Publications The effectiveness of couple’s therapy training on increasing of psychological capital of couples 1 2 Seyed Mousa Golestaneh , Setareh Mohanaee , Mahnaz Jokar 3 1- Assistant Professor of Psychology, Persian Gulf University, Boushehr, Iran 2- M.A student , Islamic Azad University Science & Research Branch of Boushehr, Iran 3- Assistant Professor of Psychology, Persian Gulf University, Boushehr, Iran Corresponding E-mail address: [email protected] Abstract The purpose of this study was to investigate the effectiveness of training couple therapy by Imago Relationship Therapy method to increase psychological capital. The present study method is an experimental study with pre test – post test and follow up control group design. The statistical population was includes couples who due to the marital problems were referred to family counselling center of justice, and the center of decrease the divorce Bushehr city in the 91-92 years. The statistical sample were consisted of 30 couples who were selected by randomly sampling method and were divided into two groups of experimental (15 persons) and control groups (15 persons). The experimental group is participated in the eight training sessions 90 minutes based on imago relationship therapy approach. The research findings were analyzed by the use of MANCOVA and subsequent ANOVA. The research results was represents the impact of training imago relationship therapy method on increasing psychological capital in the experimental group compared with the control group. As well as results showed that impact the imago relationship therapy method on dimensions of psychological capital, this training method had a significant effect on self-efficacy, hope, optimism, but in the dimension of resiliency was not observed significant effect. Keywords: Couple Therapy Training, Psychological Capital Introduction Marriage has always been a main element in family system all over the world. Marriage is joining of two persons with different genders, in a correlated unit, in order to make a system for fostering children and raising them. These binds which end to marriage often begin with romantic love between two persons and end to a permanent relationship (De.klerk,2001). A successful and true marriage is a bind in which matrimony relationship is formed based on main elements such as sincerity, reciprocal understanding, respect and… .(Hendrix and Hunt, 1999). Naturally, whenever matrimony relationships are damaged, each of these elements are damaged too. matrimony relationship is a process through which couples exchange their sensations and thoughts either in verbal form, by speech or nonverbal form, by listening, pausing and facial expressions. The importance of relationship in family efficiency has been demonstrated in several family interaction patterns. For example, Mc. Master pattern has determined six important fields in family efficiency, including relationship and affective responsiveness (Heller and wood, 1998). Intl. J. Phys. Beh. Res. Vol., 4(1), 66-72, 2015 Psychological capital which is the third generation of human and social capitals is constituted of four psychological variables, such as: Hope, Self efficacy, optimism and resiliency. In this concept, they believe in capability of extension, fostering, and flowering of human perfection and turning into what human optionally has. In another definition, psychological capital is one of positivistic psychology indexes, which is defined by characteristics such as, human belief in his ability to be successful, to have staying-power in following his goals, making positive attributes about himself and bearing problems (Bahadori and Khosroshahi, 2012). Psychological capital and its dimensions have significant role in matrimony relationships. One of couples therapy's paradigms is Imago Relationship therapy (IRT). Hendrix's IRT is a short-term therapy which combines insight with practical skills. Introduction of this theory is Freud and Jung's psychoanalysis theory, and object relations, interpersonal theory, I-you philosophy, and social learning theory. The aim of this paradigm is helping couples to make efficient relationship with each other and more compatibility to understanding each other by consciousness discussion and making a secure environment to satisfying needs and solving childhood problems (Braun et al, 1999). This paradigm believes that childhood growth stages, especially person's primary relationships with parent, affects on matrimony relationships. Choosing a spouse and matrimony relationships is not a consciousness process, but its significant part is unconscious, and is the result of necessity to complete imperfect childhood growth stages and healing affective damages. In this way, couples can learn skills for healing childhood affective damages and making efficient behaviours, by understanding their unconscious processes. Couples can achieve love and sincerity by chaining unconscious marriage and relationship in to conscious one. In this regard, this study aims to analysis IRT role in increasing of couples psychological capital, by investigating about decreasing of couples' psychological capital. couples increasing contradictions in contemporary world, and divorce and its negative effects on mental health makes consultants and especially those who work with family, to present ideas and patterns, to help family's with contradictory problems (Shiralinia, 2007). In matrimony relationships, damages appear due to couples' lack of knowledge about appropriate communicational ways, lack of reciprocal understanding and knowing about features and expectations, needs and attitudes of each other, this damages and disorders, in long-term cause reduction of psychological capitals and couples' negative reactions against each other. Thus it is so important and necessary to instruct correct ways of communication or cure disorders in matrimony relationships in order to decrease negative effects and increase positive effects of matrimony relationships (Hendrix and Hunt, 1999). So, communicational portrayal paradigm combines training and therapy to help correction of relationships between couples (Etemadi, et al, 2006). Theoretical power of communicational portrayal way in this way that, at first couples were instructured about reason and quality of contraditions and then they received instruments and techniques to solve them (Niloofari, 2008). This theory calls unsatisfied needs as " damages" and believes that, although people grow up. physically and biologically, emotionally they are like children who want to satisfy their needs which belong to primary stages of growth. Needs such as confirmation, attention and availability of parent. These needs won't be eliminated unless be satisfied, because they origin from natural impulses of growth. These needs which direct peoples unconscious toward marriage, show themselves in a committed relationship, and affect couples relationship by untold expectations. Also, needs if won't be changed into conscious one, after ending of romantic love stage, direct couples relationship toward power war and malice increasing gaps (Hendrix, 2006). So, by respect to the basis of this research couples therapy by imago therapy was chosen, and its effect on increasing of couples psychological capital has been investigated. Also, by considering this fact that family is the basis of health society, improving interpersonal relationship in family has positive results for couples and family members; thus performing such research has practical importance and necessity. The general goal of this research is the investigation of instructing couples therapy effectiveness by imago therapy, on increasing of psychological capital of couples who have 67 Intl. J. Phys. Beh. Res. Vol., 4(1), 66-72, 2015 matrimony problems, and refer to consultation clinics, family consultation center judicature and divorce reduction center of welfare, in Bushehr city, in 2014. Materials and Method The method of this research is field experimental research and its design is pre-test, post-test and follows up control group. The statistical population of research includes couples who have referred to consultation clinics, family consultation center judicature and divorce reduction center of welfare in Bushehr, in 2014. In this research, sampling method is randomly sampling, which 60 samples (30 couples) were chosen randomly among applicants in consultation cilinics, family consultation center judicature and divorce reduction center of welfare in Bushehr, and in 2014 (15 couples in experimental group, and 15 couples in control group), who should have following conditions : -The lack of acute mental and personality disorders - The lack of critical contradictions or to be about to divorce - To have at least fifth or cycle educational certification. To identify couples with these conditions, primary recognitional interview was performed by incorporation of Bushehr consultation center and welfare office. The members of two groups completed psychological capital measurement questionnaire before beginning of sessions. Then experimental group couples were instructed communicational portrayal by mental- educational paradigm during 8 sessions and 90 min, and after these sessions they give post-test again. Imago therapy treatment session were as follows: Session 1: Introduction and contract; Familiarity with members and introducing them to each other. Explaining of process and session aims. Giving commitment to couples and group members in order to use achieved insight in sessions for improving relationship. characterizing imagery of an ideal and satisfactory romantic relationship. Determining desirable features of a relationship and ideal features. Making therapy contract. Session 2:Increase of self-awareness; Returning to childhood house and reviewing memories. Investigating couples attachment style and their communicational pattern. Investigating communicational pattern of couples main family. Writing parent's positive and negative features and their effect on person. Investigating unsatisfied needs of affective bind and attachment. Explaining the concept of old and new brain and their effects on person's way of reaction to frustration and communicational experience. Session 3:Spouse recognition; writing spouse's positive and negative features. Comparing spouse features with person's imagery (Imago). Investigating spouse unsatisfied affective needs. Investigating mutual effect of person's imagery with spouse features. Discussing and explaining about falling in love from communicational portrayal point of view. Session 4: Unfinished function of childhood and learning conscious conversation. Reviewing and discussion the results of 1-3 session with spouse. Instructing and practicing the way of conscious conversation. Investigating couples definition of sincerity. Investigating couples expectations from each other for more sincerity and sincere behaviours. Session 5: Closing exit doors. Identifying exit doors (run away doors from solving contradictions). planning for closing exit doors and mutual concordat. Instructing and practicing constructive ways of solving contradictions. Session 6: Remembering romantic memories. Reviewing past desirable behaviours and memories. providing justification of existing differences in sincerity of man and woman for couples. Determining available ways for spouse. Identifying spouse's needs and unsatisfied wishes. giving unexpectable gifts. Session 7: Showing anger and exemption; Determining and investigating undeclared and negative sensations and uncompleted and unsolved situations. Instructing anger discharge and control in a constructive way. To have empathy and forgiving each other for affective damages and deciding for compensation. Session 8: Summing up and conclusion; Summing up different parts of denied, lost and fictitious self and real self. Practicing love visualization. 68 Intl. J. Phys. Beh. Res. Vol., 4(1), 66-72, 2015 Instruments: In this research Luthans psychological capital scale (2007) was used for measuring the rate of couples matrimony psychological capital. This questionnaire was developed in 2007, by Luthans. In this questionnaire, standardized rates were used which extensively measure structures such as hope, resiliency, optimism and self-efficacy, and its validity and reliability has been demonstrated. This questionnaire includes 24 questions and 4 sub-scales, and each sub-scale includes 6 point, and subjects should answer each point in likert's 6-grade scale (completely disagree to completely agree).To obtaining psychological capital grade, at first each sub-scale's grade should be determined separately, and then the sum of these grades considered 2 as a total grade. x ratio of these two tests is 24.6, and CFI and RMSEA statistics in this model were 0.97 and 0.08 respectively. Also in this research questionnaire reliability, was obtained 0.83, by Alpha. Result descriptive statistics of psychological capital and its dimentions in seperating experimental group and control group, in pre-test, post-test and follow up stages, have been shown on table 1. Table 1: psychological capital mean and standard deviation and its dimensions by separation of experimental group and control group in pre-test, post-test and follow up stages. Variables Statistical Experimental group Control group indexes Pre-test Post-test Pre-test Post-test Pre-test Post-test Hope 21.53 28.13 28.53 20.6 20.93 20.87 SD 4.73 3.41 3.21 4.8 4.66 4.65 Resiliency 27.6 27.6 27.4 23.87 23.87 23.63 SD 2.9 2.9 2.88 4.78 4.78 5.44 Optimism 23.27 30.3 30 22.67 23.1 22.97 SD 6.12 2.73 2.88 5.25 5.13 5.49 Self-efficacy 20.53 25.9 25.8 20.93 21.1 21.27 SD 6.37 3.09 2.99 4.9 4.78 4.94 Psychological 93.43 111.93 111.73 88.07 89 88.73 capital SD 16.93 8.36 8.97 16.8 16.49 17.93 To investigate experimental treatment effect, multi-variate covariance (MANCOVA) analysis was performed on post-test scores, by controlling pre-tests of dependent variables (psychological capital, hope, resiliency, optimism and self-efficacy). multivariate covariance analysis results on post-test scores, by controlling dependent variables pre-test (psychological capital, hope, resiliency, optimism, self-efficiency) indicated with F = 36.77 and p< 0.001 there is significant difference between experimental group and control group, regarding to at least one of dependent variables (psychological capital, hope, resiliency, optimism, self-efficacy). In the other words, we can say imago therapy (communicational portrayal) has increased couples psychological capital. For investigating the difference, one way factor covariance analysis was performed on dependant variables. The results of this analysis have been represented in table 2. Table 2: one-way factor covariance analysis results on post-test scores by controlling dependant variables pre-test in experimental group and control group. Source SS DF MS F P Eta Dependant variable Group Hope 505.32 1 505.32 94.23 0.0001 0.64 Resiliency 0.08 1 0.08 1.02 0.31 0.01 Optimism 404.98 1 404.98 54.72 0.0001 0.50 69 Intl. J. Phys. Beh. Res. Vol., 4(1), 66-72, 2015 Self-efficacy Psychological capital 208.50 3253.93 1 1 208.50 3253.93 21.93 91.59 0.0001 0.0001 0.29 0.63 The results in table 2 show that one-way covariance analysis in hope (F=94.23 and P=0.0001), optimism (F=54.72, P=0.0001), self-efficacy (F=21.93, P=0.0001) and psychological capital (F=91.59, P=0.0001). between experimental group and control group had significant difference, however, in resiliency variable there was no significant difference between two groups. So, the effect of imago therapy training on psychological capital, hope, optimism and self-efficacy is confirmed, but the effect of imago therapy training on couples resiliency is not confirmed, also for investigating experimental treatment effect on interaction with gender, multi-variable covariance analysis (MANCOVA) on post-test scores was performed, by controlling pre-tests dependant variables (psychological capital, hope, resiliency. optimism, self-efficacy) and gender. there was no significant difference between gender and its interaction in group. So interaction of group with gender was not significant. Discussion and Conclusion Research results show that couples in imago therapy training, by practicing conscious conversations, learn that they can rescue themselves of trapping in negative interactions, and solve their contractions. The more interactions between couples, provided that these interactions will be more sincere, the more satisfaction between couples (Sadrjahani and et al, 2010). In imago therapy approach, couples can raise psychological capital dimensions, by giving unexpected gifts, reviewing past good memories, doing mutural and desirable activities, investigating positive and negative features of parents, himself/herself, his/her spouse and reconstructing a real mental image of his/her spouse. On the other hand, the more couples separate themselves from their past experiences the more psychological capital they will experience. The results of performed researches indicate that psychological potentials, such as: hope, resiliency, optimism and self-efficacy, together, constitute “psychological capital" factor. In other word, some of psychological variables such as: hope, resiliency, optimism and self-efficacy, together constitute a hidden factor or supply which is visible in each of these variables. So psychological capital is constitute from positivistic psychological variables which are measurable and it is possible to foster, expand and manage them (Bahadori khosroshahi; etal, 2012). In explaining resiliency dimension which was not confirmed it must be stated that performed researches indicate that some of resilient people, after confronting with difficult situation, again come back to operation normal level, where as operation of some people after confronting with frustrations, disasters and difficulties, are promoted. Communicational portrayal is a process in which couples receive knowledge and information and most importantly are instructed in order to be informed about their unconscious dimensions of their relationships and inspect their contractions root, rather than try to solve them in surface (Veisi, 2009). According to this point of view childhood stages growth, specially child's first relationships with parents, affect matrimony relationships. Choosing spouse in matrimony relationships is not just a conscious process, but its main part is unconscious and a result of completing unfinished part of childhood stages and healing affective damages. In this way, couples can learn skills for healing childhood damages and making true behaviors, by understanding unconscious processes in themselves and their spouse and also achieve their needed love and sincerity by changing unconscious relationship into conscious relationship and marriage (Hendrix and Hunt, 1999). So the effect of imago therapy training on psychological capital, hope, optimism and self-efficacy is confirmed but the effect of imago therapy (communicational portrayal) on resiliency is not confirmed. Also, research results showed that there is no significance interaction between gender and experimental group. In explaining this hypothesis, it should be stated that results indicate imago therapy (communicational portrayal) has some effect in psychological capital, hope, resiliency, optimism and self-efficacy on men and women, and there is no significant difference between men 70 Intl. J. Phys. Beh. Res. Vol., 4(1), 66-72, 2015 and women in psychological capital. It means, the rate of stated variables were the same in men and women. According to research results, men and women value psychological capital in the same way. Also, research results indicate that there is no difference between post-test and follow-up scores of psychological capital variable and each of its dimension in couples and control group, and it can be due to successful training sessions. Regarding to effectiveness of imago therapy approach on increasing of psychological capital and its dimensions, it is suggested that: practical techniques of this approach are used by consultants for increasing psychological, capital practices and skills of this approach can be presented to couples and counselling students, in training sessions before marriage, family training, instructional workshops and practical pamphlets. Regarding to effectiveness of childhood damages and experiences on matrimony relationships, in pre-marriage counselling, couples who subjected to danger were identified and counselled. The importance and effect of parents relationship with children were considered in family training sessions and making health relationships skills were instructed to parents. It is suggested to welfare organization to consider concentrated training programs in couples therapy, by imago therapy for applicant couples. 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