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By now,
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Let's keep this short and sweet and focus on how factually wrong his statement is. In
the past 30 years, while the number of mothers entering the workforce has
increased... so have national math and reading evaluation scores.
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So, the good news is that Gov. Bryant is wrong, as this data so clearly proves. The bad
news is that ill-informed comments such as these have a tendency to take hold and
play into the already deep-seated doubts raging inside working mothers across the
country.
I've studied moms in 17 countries around the world and my research shows that selfdoubt is the one overriding emotion among moms. It's a common theme across all
income levels, cultures and backgrounds. And while all moms grapple with doubt,
working moms must also navigate the guilt that comes with feeling like one person
trying to live and thrive (and sometimes just survive) in two different worlds.
So, lady friends... resist the temptation to let this man's inaccurate comments make
you doubt your life choices for one second. Besides, most mothers in this country
simply don't have a choice. The latest research shows that a full two-thirds of the
"breadwinning moms" in this country are single moms earning a median income of
$23,000 a yea (http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2013/05/29/breadwinner-moms/)r.
And while mothers across the country can, and should, read Governor Bryant the riot
act... the one mother leading the charge should be his own wife, who worked outside
the home for over 38 years, including while their children were growing up.
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