How To Be A Lady Killer By Ann May www.Lady-Killing.com

How To Be A Lady Killer
By Ann May
www.Lady-Killing.com
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About the Author
Ann May is a 42 year old mother-of-two and has been actively dating for over
19 years. Owning and running her own beauty salon for the last 6 years has
brought her into contact with thousands of women, their stories about men and
their personal relationships. Ann has performed extensive research into dating
and relationships, in particular focusing on women’s views of a man’s role in
the dating ritual. This, coupled with her own experience and her ability to
learn life’s lessons, has given Ann an insight into the behavior of men that few
in the world can equal. Ann lives in East Ardsley, Yorkshire with her fiancé
Carl.
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CONTENTS
CONTENTS....................................................................................................................iv
INTRODUCTION ............................................................................................................vi
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS ............................................................................................. xiii
CHAPTER 1 - AN INTRODUCTION TO THE SEDUCTION PYRAMID .................................1
STEP 1: MAKE WOMEN DESIRE YOU .........................................................................4
CHAPTER 2 – HOW TO BE A SUCCESS WITH WOMEN ..............................................6
CHAPTER 3 – SKILLS THAT ATTRACT THE MOST WOMEN ...................................12
STEP 2: UNDERSTAND WOMEN ................................................................................16
CHAPTER 4 – THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF SEDUCTION ..................................18
CHAPTER 5 – HOW TO SATISFY HER FOUR MOST BASIC NEEDS ...........................25
STEP 3: ALLOW FOR SPECIAL DIFFERENCES WITH WOMEN................................28
CHAPTER 6 - THE MOST IMPORTANT DIFFERENCE WHEN SPEAKING TO WOMEN 31
CHAPTER 7 – TWELVE INSTANT MESSAGES WOMEN READ FROM YOU ...............47
STEP 4: PREPARE IN ADVANCE – TO GUARANTEE MORE WOMEN .......................52
CHAPTER 8 – THREE WAYS TO INCREASE SUCCESS WITH WOMEN ......................54
CHAPTER 9 - FINDING THE RIGHT APPEAL ............................................................57
CHAPTER 10 - HOW TO AVOID EMBARRASSING SILENCES....................................61
CHAPTER 11 – PROVEN METHODS TO ATTRACT MORE WOMEN ..........................66
STEP 5: MAKE YOUR FIRST CONTACT MEMORABLE .............................................70
CHAPTER 12 – HOW TO MAKE THE FIRST APPROACH...........................................73
CHAPTER 13 - RIGHT AND WRONG METHODS TO MAKE A FIRST IMPRESSION .....82
CHAPTER 14 - CONVERSATION STARTERS THAT GRAB A WOMAN’S INTEREST ...86
STEP 6: INCREASE THE POWER OF YOUR WORDS .................................................92
CHAPTER 15 - THE THREE THINGS WOMEN MOST WANT FROM MEN ..................95
CHAPTER 16 - TWENTY-SEVEN WAYS TO HOLD A WOMAN’S ATTENTION ........105
CHAPTER 17 - FORBIDDEN METHODS TO COMMAND WOMEN WITH HYPNOSIS.121
CHAPTER 18 – WORDS THAT ATTRACT THE MOST WOMEN ...............................128
CHAPTER 19 - HOW TO INCREASE HER EXCITEMENT WITH YOUR WORDS ........137
STEP 7: PROFIT FROM TEMPORARY SETBACKS ...................................................142
CHAPTER 20 – THE TWELVE GREATEST MISTAKES MEN MAKE WITH WOMEN .144
CHAPTER 21 – THE FIVE MOST IMPORTANT LESSONS TO LEARN FROM “NO”...147
STEP 8: SEDUCE WITHOUT WORDS .......................................................................162
CHAPTER 22 – ELEVEN SECRET MESSAGES YOUR BODY MAY BE BROADCASTING
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CHAPTER 23 – EIGHT WAYS TO SHOW HER YOU ARE INTERESTED ...................168
CHAPTER 24 – SIXTEEN METHODS TO SILENTLY SEDUCE ..................................172
CHAPTER 25 - SEVEN SURE-FIRE SIGNS A WOMAN IS FLIRTING .........................184
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CHAPTER 26 – BODY LANGUAGE THAT ATTRACTS THE MOST WOMEN ............188
STEP 9: ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT TONIGHT ....................................................191
CHAPTER 27 - FOUR WAYS TO INCREASE YOUR CHANCES OF “YES”.................194
CHAPTER 28 – RIGHT AND WRONG METHODS OF ASKING FOR A DATE .............197
CHAPTER 29 - SIX STEPS TO BRING HER BACK FOR MORE.................................201
CHAPTER 30 - FIVE WAYS TO MAKE HER WANT YOU NOW...............................206
STEP 10: ENJOY THE RESULTS ...............................................................................212
RESOURCES ...............................................................................................................219
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INTRODUCTION
Being successful with women has long held a deep mystique for most
men. In today’s society men are often unfairly judged on their level of
success with women. Why is one man successful while another isn’t?
There is almost always no apparent reason why one guy is more
successful than another.
It seems reasonable to assume that the
successful guy has something that the less successful guy does not. A
silver tongue, perhaps? A natural aptitude with which to succeed?
Maybe. What he will certainly have is a set of skills and a knowledge
base that generates confidence. Confidence breeds success.
The good news for you is that these skills and the necessary knowledge
can be acquired. They can be learned by anyone who wants to be a
success with women. You can help yourself to success by learning
some simple skills of communication, interaction, preparation and
presentation. These coupled with other insights into the expectations of
women, the way they think and the way they react to a variety of
situations will enable you to confidently approach any woman and win
her attention immediately.
So, how am I qualified to tell you all this? There are four main reasons.
Firstly, I am a woman. As such, I am perfectly positioned to provide a
woman’s perspective. Secondly, I run a beauty salon, which means I
have more exposure to a variety of other women and their problems
(almost all of which revolve around men) than any other person I know.
Thirdly, since I decided to write this book I have carried out extensive
research into the man/woman mating game and related topics. Finally, I
thought it would be good idea to carry out a survey to find out women’s
views on specific issues. I wanted the survey to be representative of a
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broad cross-section of women, so didn’t limit it only to the views of my
clients.
That is why you will find this book different from the rest. It is not
based on a study of women in a laboratory or analyst’s chair, but largely
based on what woman have revealed in a relaxed, female-only
environment. They leave their inhibitions at home when they come to
see me and what leaves their lips is what they really think.
The key advantage of reading this book over many other dating
publications is that you will be told how it is in reality and how to put it
right. Also, you are getting it from the horse’s mouth, rather than from
someone who has a theory, but may know little in practice. I hope you
will appreciate the difference.
By reading this book you have decided that you do not wish to continue
living the illusion that you know all you need to know about women.
You have woken up to the reality that you need a little help.
Congratulations. You have made a wise decision - one I promise you
will not regret. It could be the most important decision you have ever
made. You will learn all you need to know about us women, how we
want to be treated, what you should say, how you should say it, when
you should say it, what you should not do or say and much more. From
initial contact to eternal love, I will help you acquire the skills you need.
Please note, if you want to fully appreciate the lessons and derive
maximum benefit, you will need to read the book all the way through.
Each section is linked and supports the others. Merely reading part of
this work will leave you short of vital information. Only by reading and
absorbing the whole thing can you be sure that you are fully equipped to
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make your mark with all those girls waiting for you to come along and
claim them.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with needing some help in this area.
You are certainly not alone. If my experience is anything to go by, the
vast majority of the male species could do with some help.
Having said that, it can’t be easy for men in this game.
I can
sympathize with your plight. I would not relish walking into a bar and
having to use my charm to approach a complete stranger and win his
affections. All this in the knowledge that there is a queue of rivals
waiting for me to fail, just so they can step in and take my place. It is a
tough life out there for you guys, no doubt about that. Fear not, help is
at hand. If you have been swimming against the tide in the sea of love,
this is your lifeline. You can succeed and I will show you how.
“I can’t change, I will always be me and I am just not any good at this
sort of thing”, I hear you say. “Nonsense”, I say.
I have always been fascinated by the nurture versus nature debate. Are
we essentially who we are because of the genes we were born with, or
does our environment and influences mould us into who and what we
are? There are experts who swear it is all in the genes, whilst others will
not consider anything other than external influences. I have always
been of the opinion that the truth falls somewhere between the two.
I believe that our genetic make-up is responsible for the very core of our
being. For example, some children are born stubborn and continue to
have a stubborn nature throughout their lives. This obstinate nature will
never leave them as it is in their genetic make-up. For this reason, it
will always be a part of them.
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Looking at it from the nurture viewpoint, we can be scarred or
enlightened by certain events and experiences. It is easy to imagine that
a child brought up in an oppressive, abusive environment would be
likely to grow up differently than if he or she had been brought up by
loving, supportive parents.
It is not just children who are influenced by significant events and
individuals. We are all learning during every moment we are conscious.
We all face cross-roads situations every day of our lives; we just do not
see it that way, or at least the mundane experiences of each day do not
seem to hold so much importance. We need to remind ourselves that we
are all growing, each and every day.
It is this ability to develop, learn and grow that gives us the opportunity
to change, to broaden our horizons and acquire new skills and
knowledge. This is why I passionately believe that even the most shy,
bashful, hesitant, faint-hearted man, who can never bring himself to
utter a word in front of the opposite sex, can learn from my lessons. If
you can learn, you are capable of improving. If you are capable of
improving, then heed the lessons that follow. Put them into practice and
watch as the clouds of uncertainty fade away to reveal a clear path to
your goal.
You will achieve this by equipping yourself with everything you require
to succeed in your quest for love. I will teach you the things you need
to know before leaving home on a night out and how to pick-up the
silent signals all around you. I will share with you the techniques that
will help you break the ice. From this point there is still much work to
be done before capturing the heart of your prey and ensuring that she is
yours if you so desire. If she does turn out to be the woman of your
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dreams you will need to know what to do to ensure that she stays with
you rather than be snatched away by other predators, casting jealous,
admiring glances.
You should understand how the female species behaves and thinks
before you can realistically expect them to take you seriously. Take it
from me, most men do not understand the first thing about women and
their needs, so once you have learned all about us you will have a key
advantage over most other men. You will learn how to prepare for
capturing your ideal mate. There are secrets to quickly win the attention
of others and sustain it.
If you possess these you will gain the
confidence to approach members of the opposite sex - anytime,
anywhere.
My aim is to leave you with a set of personal and communication tools
that will ensure that you need never again approach a woman with that
tightness in the stomach or tennis ball-size lump in the throat. You will
have a plan. Armed with these skills, your odds of success will be
vastly improved.
Fortunately for you I get to spend lots of time with many women in a
relaxed setting, where they let their hair down and talk honestly. An
endless conveyer belt of interesting women of all ages and from all
walks of life pass through every day. I get them all - from leaders of
companies to cleaners of floors. From young maidens to old dears,
whether they be married, single, divorced, widowed, big, small, long,
short or tall, they all have one thing in common - a story to tell about
their love life, or lack of it. But more of that later.
As we get to know one another, so our intimacy grows. The resulting
knowledge is very enlightening. All these women cannot be wrong.
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Listening to what they are saying, one can only learn. For the last six
years I have spent the majority of my working hours doing just that.
They seem to revel in revealing what they like about men, what they
don’t like about men, what men do that pleases them and what men do
that does not please them.
I am sad to say that most men are getting it wrong most of the time. In
short, most men do not know where to start when it comes to treating a
woman how she wants to be treated.
I have acquired a deep knowledge of what women really want from
men, the most common areas where men fall down in trying to win their
affections and what men should do to remedy this. Up until now I have
shared this essential knowledge with only a few people.
This is
information that most men would never have acquired had I not decided
to reveal the truth.
Whether you are desperate to turn that sweet sixteen year-old into your
sweetheart, need to acquire the attention of that attractive young
accountant you admire or desire the demure divorcee at the dance class,
I can show you how to succeed. You will learn what to say, how to say
it and when to say it. If you feel like the proverbial rabbit in the
headlights when approaching women, I will show you how to build your
confidence for success. I have been told the answers to your dilemmas
so many times I practically recite them in my sleep.
I will be expanding on how you can make a woman feel good about
herself and also how to make her feel attractive and important. This is
crucial if you are to succeed.
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Do you think you have to be attractive to get women? Rippling biceps,
six-pack stomach, chiseled jaw and all that? Perhaps the answers will
surprise you. All will be revealed.
One crucial point before we get started in earnest. You must understand
from the outset that there is only one person who can put into practice
the techniques and lessons put before you in this book. I will provide
many tips, techniques and a mountain of knowledge, but your success
will be determined by how well you are able to apply what you learn. If
there were a sure-fire remedy that didn’t require your participation to
guarantee success with women, I would gladly share this with you and
become rich enough to buy the world. Alas, just reading will not be
enough, you have to play your part too, but I will try to make it fun.
Read, relax, enjoy and move forward with your life.
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How to be a Lady Killer. Resources
RESOURCES
Here are some excellent resources and other dating sites that you will find to be extremely helpful
in sky-rocketing your results with women.
TOOL #1 – How to Seduce Beautiful Women
How to pick up the most beautiful women, no matter what you look like.
The 7 closet erogenous zones that, when touched, will cause her to faint in delight!
TOOL #2 - 1000 Questions For Couples
What you absolutely Must know about the one you are with!
1,000 of the most important questions you can ask your partner.
TOOL #3 - Beautiful Russian Women
Contact and date beautiful Russian "model quality" girls of all ages.
Excellent reputation and instant results.
TOOL #4 - Bring Back A Lost Love
Discover how you can easily bring back the love of your life! - A potent 4-step strategy which
always works! No matter how hopeless or difficult your situation appears.
TOOL #5 - 500 Lovemaking Tips
Increase passion and intimacy through great sex with these advanced techniques.
Try out just a handful of the tips and your sex life will go through the roof!
TOOL #6 - 300 Creative Dates
Learn the world's most romantic unique and fun dating ideas. 100s of dates that cost from $5-$20.
Never again will you be by stuck for an idea of where to go on a date!
TOOL #7 - 50 Secrets of a Blissful Relationship
Uncover the secrets of holding on to the hottest women you can find.
Tens of thousands of couples are living in a blissful relationship. Find out how they do it...
TOOL #8 - High Status Male
Learn how to meet and seduce high class women.
Become the dominant male women love to be around.
TOOL #9 - How to Turn Women’s Sexual Key
Hidden methods to use a womens mind to make her insanely passionate towards you - even if you
only just met. You will discover shocking techniques – that work!!
TOOL #10 - A Girl In Your Town - Guaranteed
The #1 site for tracking down the girl of your dreams.
You are guaranteed to be find a local girl - and it's great fun when you discover a girl you already
know...
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