Respecting Religious Diversity • Defending Sanctity of Marriage • The Gift of Tithing September/October 2005 www.staugcatholic.org Bishop’s Message How to Live Simply Coming to America Catholic Charities Welcomes Family The Stem Cell Debate Curing Diseases and Respecting Life DyingwithDignity Is There a Right Way to Die? contents September/October 2005 Volume XV Issue 2 The St. Augustine Catholic is the official magazine of the Diocese of Saint Augustine, which embraces 17 counties spanning northeast and north central Florida from the Gulf of Mexico to the Atlantic Ocean. The diocese covers 11,032 square miles and serves nearly 162,000 registered Catholics. A petition drive for the proposed Florida Protection Marriage Amendment will occur in all parishes Sept. 25-Oct. 2. Turn to page 8 for the full story. 8 Defining Marriage by G.M. Palmer The Florida Bishops need your help in protecting the sanctity of marriage. Register to vote and make sure you sign their petition for a Florida Protection of Marriage Amendment. 10 The Stem Cell Debate by Mark Udry The tension between science and ethics continues. Can we cure devastating diseases while at the same time respecting the life of a human embryo? © age fotostock/SuperStock features departments 12 From Russia with Love by Brian Kosoy More than 40 families from western Russia will soon be relocated to the First Coast. Catholic Charities’ Refugee Resettlement Program welcomed the first family to Jacksonville in July and the family says they are grateful for their new life. 14 Creating a Bountiful Harvest by Michael Fortuna In the early 1950s, Tom and Gwen Umlauf began tithing 10 percent of their income to the poor. Tom says he would rather live on 90 percent of his earned income with the Lord’s help, than to live on 100 percent of his income without His assistance. 16 Cover Story: Dying with Dignity by Father J. Daniel Mindling, OFM Cap. Pope John Paul II taught us that to understand death with dignity, first accept the dignity of life. The dignity of life springs from its source – the loving action of God the Creator. 20 Respecting Religious Diversity by Father Robert Kinast Vatican II states, “Christians should acknowledge, preserve and encourage the spiritual and moral truths found among non-Christians, including their social life and culture.” 24 Welcoming Daddy Home by Carrie Resch In a follow-up to our story in the Nov./Dec. 2004 issue, the Wolz family of Jacksonville Beach is back together again. Daddy is home from Iraq and thankful for his time with his wife and two daughters. 2 Editor’s Notes by Kathleen Bagg-Morgan 3 Questions On Faith by Father Tom Willis 4 Bishop’s Message: Respect the Environment by Bishop Victor Galeone 6 Catholic News From Around the World by Catholic News Service 22 Parish Profile: Holy Spirit Parish, Jacksonville 24 27 30 32 by Shannon Scruby Henderson Teen Voices Around the Diocese Calendar of Events Reflection: Making Good Marriages Great by Theresa Notare Cover Photo: ©Jiang Jin/SuperStock St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 editor’s notes Media: The Church is Better Equipped Than Ever I It’s our annual opportunity to share the Good News – to promote all the programming and resources that the Catholic Communications Campaign (CCC) has to offer – and to invite our parishioners to visit the CCC website for the latest news. This year CCC will introduce four new radio programs, a new TV special Faith Works: Across the USA, and new public service announcements continuing the theme It Starts With Faith. The Catholic Communication Campaign 2005 annual collection will generate the funding necessary to carry on the work of the church, both nationally and in our own diocese. Each year, I make this plea to all of you because half of all the donations collected in our diocese will help offset the expense of producing the St. Augustine Catholic magazine, our diocesan website (www. dosafl.com), the magazine website (www. staugcatholic.org) and a host of marketing efforts designed to increase priestly and religious vocations, promote programs and services sponsored by the diocese and help build a better understanding of the Catholic Church through our secular news media. The Good News reaches parishioners each and every day: • A dad checks the Movie Reviews line before choosing a film for his family; • An estranged son sees a television spot about reconciliation and phones his parents; • A college student views Faith Works: Across the USA on ABC television and asks his campus minister about volunteer opportunities; • An engaged couples’ group views To Last a Lifetime and discusses the elements for an enduring marriage; • Parishioners access streaming video of CCC’s programming and events to keep up-to-date; • A mom reads Views in the Pew for helpful tips and clips them for future guidance; • A woman, running errands in her car, hears actress Margaret Colin talk about the impact of faith in her life on Catholic Radio Weekly and decides to return to church. And the Good News is just a few clicks away: www.usccb.org/ccc. The website contains TV and radio program clips, streaming video, movie and TV reviews and access to church documents and statements from the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops. Links to these resources are also available on the diocesan website: www.dosafl.com. We appreciate your past support and encourage you to donate to this year’s collection, which will be taken up in all parishes the weekend of Sept. 10-11, 2005. If you have any questions about these resources and others, please call me at (904) 262-3200, ext. 110 or email: kbaggmorgan@ dosafl.com. Another educational opportunity that occurs each fall is the annual USCCB Respect Life Program. “Help build a world where human life is always loved and defended, every form of violence banished” is the theme of the yearlong program that begins with Respect Life Sunday on October 2. The theme is derived from Pope John Paul’s prayer to the Virgin Mary on Dec. 8, 2004. Respect Life is the theme of this issue of the St. Augustine Catholic, which focuses attention on some of the more complex issues facing society today. We have produced articles that will help Catholics understand the church’s teachings on issues such as stem cell research, end-of-life care, protecting the sanctity of marriage and welcoming the stranger among us. All of our articles include information on how to become more involved and educated on the subject as well as where to obtain additional resources. The Catholic Church is better equipped than ever before in the area of communications media. Today we have innumerable publications, radio and television stations and thousands of Internet sites – a “media sphere.” But it is expensive and we need your help to meet our Christian mission: to proclaim to every person, in the name of God, the most valuable message – the treasure of salvation. St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 Kathleen Bagg-Morgan Editor Publisher Most Reverend Victor Galeone Editor Kathleen Bagg-Morgan Associate Editor Mark Udry Contributing Writers Michael Fortuna Father Robert Kinast Brian Kosoy Father J. Daniel Mindling, OFM Cap. Theresa Notare G.M. Palmer Carrie Resch Shannon Scruby Henderson Father Tom Willis Editorial Assistant Susie Nguyen Advertising Manager J. Michael Lenninger, APR Layout and Design Patrick McKinney Printer Allied Graphics, Inc. Diocesan Editorial Kathleen Bagg-Morgan Board Sister Lucille Clynes, DW Joe DeSalvo Msgr. James Heslin Patrick McKinney Father Victor Z. Narivelil, CMI Evelyn Tovar Diocesan Art Marshall, Chair Communication Rev. Ralph Besendorfer, J.C.D. Commission Mary Ann Christensen Dean Fiandaca John Halloran Patrick McKinney Kate Romano-Norton The St. Augustine Catholic Magazine is published bimonthly (six times a year) by the Diocese of Saint Augustine Office of Communications 11625 Old St. Augustine Road Jacksonville, FL 32258 (904) 262-3200, ext. 108 Fax: (904) 262-2398 E-Mail: [email protected] Visit the St. Augustine Catholic magazine online at: www.staugcatholic.org To learn more about the Diocese of Saint Augustine see our homepage at: www.dosafl.com bishop’s message “Brother Fire, Sister Water...” Respecting the Environment By B i s h o p V i c to r G a l e o n e D “What is meant by ‘simplicity of life?’ Living by the conviction that we are stewards of the earth, not its masters.” During my vacation this year, I spent a week visiting my former mission in the northern desert of Peru. While I was paying a visit to La Bocana, a poor fishing hamlet of the parish, located on the Pacific Ocean, Sister Martha took me to the oil rigs that an international petroleum conglomerate had recently installed. For the moment they’re extracting only four trucks of crude oil per day. Within a year the quota is expected to reach 200. By that time, I fear that the villagers will be forced to move elsewhere. You see, the local authorities signed a five-year contract with the oil firm, leasing the land surrounding the village for a mere $15 per acre a year. I suspect that the value of the crude, once refined, will reach the millions. I was reminded of my visit to La Bocana when I read the lead editorial, “Roots of the oil crisis,” in the Aug. 16 issue of the Florida Times-Union. The editor based his commentary on a new book Beyond Oil by Kenneth Dreffeyes, a geologist and professor emeritus at Princeton University. According to Dreffeyes, world oil will peak this year. “It is going to be very difficult for the United States to stand up to an international bidding war for the remaining oil and natural gas.” Dreffeyes lays the blame for the looming oil crisis on our failure to heed earlier warnings about a global oil peak. Meanwhile, we continue to feel the effects of the oil crisis locally St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 as the price for a gallon of regular hovers around $2.70. Professor Dreffeyes makes a number of concrete suggestions for confronting the crisis, like using wind turbines, nuclear power plants, biofuels from crops, etc. Rather than comment on his suggestions, I want to focus our attention on something more general, and perhaps, much more important: simplicity of life. What is meant by “simplicity of life?” Living by the conviction that we are stewards of the earth, not its masters. Unfortunately, most of us in first world countries live like masters of the earth, with little concern for how our behavior might affect future generations and the environment. We in the United States, with less than 5% of the world’s population, consume 30% of its non-renewable resources. Eight percent of the world’s population owns a car. What would happen if 20% owned a car? The average American consumes five times as much grain products and 60 times as much fuel as a citizen in India. What would be the result if the one billion people of India demanded and received as much grain and fuel products as we Americans consume? Simplicity of life cannot flourish in an atmosphere of consumerism. Driven by shrewd advertising, consumerism causes us to live beyond our means. The result is that we accumulate so many things that we have to rent special pods to store them. Did we really need them? No. Then why did we buy a giant step towards protecting the them? Modern advertising causes global ecosystem. For every human us to confuse desires with needs. act affects the environment to some And the aggressive nature of advertising aimed at children today is guaranteeing the subtle indoctrination of future generations. How does one combat – both globally and locally – the wrongs that consumerism is inflicting on the limited resources of our planet? On the global level, we should insist that our elected officials enact and enforce laws that protect the environment. Get involved. Write to your representatives. Ask why our government is investing so much money in nuclear weapons laboratories, while at the same time insisting that other nations forgo their nuclear programs. But if we’re going to wait for the government to take effective action to protect the environment, it may be too late. Therefore, let’s marshal our efforts on the local level now. Indeed, degree. If we all developed habits if everyone throughout the world acted to protect the environment on that respected the environment, the CF-Half Page Ad-SeptOct 8/22/05 9:58 AM Page 1 the local level, we would have taken problem would be largely solved. As “Indeed, if everyone throughout the world acted to protect the environment on the local level, we would have taken a giant step towards protecting the global ecosystem.” Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, the German poet once wrote, “If everyone swept in front of his own door step, the whole world would be clean.” For starters, here are a few suggestions: •Turn off lights. Use energyefficient bulbs. •Make your next vehicle a fuel efficient one. •Slow down. Every five miles over 60 mph adds 20¢ per gallon. •Limit your use of paper/plastic cups, plates, etc. •Limit purchases to your needs, not your wants. For those readers wondering what my message this month has to do with our faith, recall what Jesus did after he had fed the hungry crowd by multiplying the five barley loaves and the two fish. He sent his disciples through the crowd, telling them: “Gather the pieces that are left over. Let nothing be wasted” (Jn. 6:12). Recall, too, how our beloved Francis of Assisi in his Canticle of the Sun referred to the lower forms of creation: “Brother fire…Sister water… Mother Earth…” Caring For One Another This is the story about a parishioner in our diocese who has provided financial support for his 87-year old grandmother who resides in an assisted living facility, where the cost consumes most of her income and resources. After discussing possible gift tax implications with his tax advisor, he decided to establish a Charitable Gift Annuity with the Catholic Foundation and make his grandmother the beneficiary, entitling her to guaranteed payments for life. Upon her death, the income earned on the residual gift will be paid annually to benefit her parish as she directed. In this way, he is able to provide continued financial support for his grandmother, he is entitled to an income tax deduction, and he’s made a thoughtful perpetual gift to her parish. For information about joining the Order of Augustin Verot, contact Nancy M. Geary – 11625 Old St. Augustine Road, Jacksonville, FL 32258 904.262.3200, ext. 166 • 1.800.775.4659, ext. 166 • [email protected] St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 catholic news Pope urges youth to discover power of faith REUTERS/Pier Paolo Cito/Pool and to teach its lessons to younger generations who did not witness the “terrible events” that took place before and during World War II. The pope spoke to some 500 Jewish representatives in Cologne, in a synagogue destroyed during the 1938 Kristallnacht pogrom and rebuilt in 1959. The Jewish community in Cologne is the oldest in Europe north of the Alps and was decimated during World War II. Catholic Charities official sees hurricane funds at work Pope Benedict, wrapping up a triumphant return to his German homeland, on Aug. 21, urged young people to shun a ‘do-it-yourself’ concept of religion where they can choose what they want and disregard the rest. I In back-to-back encounters with more than a million young people from around the world, Pope Benedict XVI urged them to discover the transforming power of the faith and join the “true revolution” of personal holiness. At a World Youth Day vigil Aug. 20 and a closing Mass the next day, the pope preached about the inspiration of the saints and the mystery of the Eucharist, encouraging the youths to change themselves if they want to change the world. “Only from the saints, only from God does true revolution come,” he told a vast candlelit crowd spread across a field outside Cologne. The pope was presiding for the first time over World Youth Day, and he did so in a solemn and dignified style. At the end of the long evening, dressed in a golden cope, Pope Benedict led the crowd in adoration of the Eucharist. It’s not their parents’ faith Young adult Catholics might not be running parish bingo games or hosting sodality gatherings, but that doesn’t mean they’re not active in the church. Instead, they are doing things that older adult Catholics and the school-age set might not see: discussing theology at bars, volunteering at homeless shelters and food kitchens, getting together for eucharistic adoration or to discuss Catholic classics, attending retreats or simply hanging out together. A survey conducted by the U.S. bishops’ Subcommittee on Youth and Young Adults from May to June of this year found that the church’s outreach to young adults spans a variety of activities and that the most popular programs included retreats, Theology on Tap programs, leadership training and social activities. “Young adults have a lot of energy and will accept their responsibility for spreading the faith if we provide opportunities for them,” said Bishop Dennis M. Schnurr of Duluth, Minn., chairman of the subcommittee. Pope recalls Holocaust as ‘darkest period’ in Germany In a visit to a synagogue in his native Germany, Pope Benedict XVI recalled with sorrow the Nazi persecution of the Jews as “the darkest period of German and European history.” The pope warned of new signs of anti-Semitism today and said the Catholic Church has a duty to remember the Holocaust St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 Father Larry Snyder, Catholic Charities USA president, didn’t know what he would find in this northwest Florida area hit by two major hurricanes in less than a year, but he came to see for himself how relief funds were helping people rebuild their lives. The national charity has directed $920,000 in emergency and long-term relief grants to the 18-county Diocese of PensacolaTallahassee and more than $4 million throughout Florida. Father Snyder went first to Pensacola’s Warrington neighborhood Aug. 11. Collapsed homes awaiting demolition sat beside cleared lots where homes once stood, while residents made do with travel trailers for shelter almost a year after Hurricane Ivan. “I’m just astounded by this level of destruction and by the very difficult situations these people are still living in, nearly a year after the storm,” Father Snyder said. CRS begins food distribution in drought-stricken Niger After the first delivery of emergency food aid was made in her province in drought-stricken Niger, a mother told a Catholic Relief Services worker, “We’re going to eat until we can’t eat anymore.” “She had been eating nothing but leaves and weeds for months,” said G. Jefferson Price III, a communications consultant for CRS. “Her family was probably on the brink of starvation.” In a telephone interview with Catholic News Service, Price said that while there was a festive atmosphere in the Kawa Fako village in the Dogondoutchi province, where the Aug. 11 food distribution took place, there were clear signs of chronic malnutrition and suffering. Price said he saw children with distended stomachs and red tints in their hair, two of the telltale signs of malnourishment. “The people were is desperate straits,” he said. “There was a lot of listlessness among the people, especially the children.” Religions see world differently than media does Catch the Spirit Premiering fall 2005, please welcome Spirit Radio, WWLC-FM (88.5) in Cross City. For more information go to www.spirit-radio.org If the Spirit moves you, send donations to: Spirit Radio c/o St. Patrick Catholic Church 412 NE 16th Ave. Suite 15 Gainesville, FL 32601-3701 Religion is news and will be in the news, but reporters must remember that the news media and religious communities see the world through different lenses. That was the assessment of a panel of faith leaders speaking at a symposium on Religion and the Press. “Media and religion both want to define the world for other people,” said Cardinal Francis E. George of Chicago at the late July event, co-sponsored by the Medill School of Journalism and Sheil Catholic Center at Northwestern University in Chicago. “We simply have to live with that, and do the best we can with it.” The cardinal joined a panel of religious leaders that included Edith Blumhofer, director of the Institute for the Study of American Evangelicals; Michael Kotzin, executive vice president of the Jewish United Fund/Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Chicago; and Safaa Zarzour, chairman of the Chicago chapter of the Council on AmericanIslamic Relations. Panelists examine Pope Benedict XVI’s first 100 days Seen through the lens of its first 100 days, the papacy of Pope Benedict XVI is likely to focus on the quest for truth by challenging the “dictatorship of relativism” and be more collegial and ecumenical than that of his predecessor, said panelists at an Aug. 1 forum. While there have been subtle indications of a shifting approach to both evangelization and bureaucracy, there have been no “sudden moves” to date, they said. Also among observations made by four panelists, gathered for a discussion at the Graymoor Spiritual Life Center in Garrison attended by more than 100 people, was that the upcoming World Youth Day in Cologne, Germany, and the release of his first encyclical will provide Pope Benedict with the opportunity to showcase his pastoral gift for making complex ideas accessible to the faithful. Source: Catholic News Service St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 F lo r i d a B i s h o p s S e e k Yo u r H e l p T o S av e S a n c t i ty o f M a r r i a g e “Inasmuch as marriage is the legal union of only one man and one woman as husband and wife, no other legal union that is treated as marriage or the substantial equivalent thereof shall be valid or recognized. (Proposed Florida Protection of Marriage Amendment) defending marriage © age fotostock/SuperStock By G . M . Pa l m e r St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 t he Florida Bishops need your help to protect the sanctity of marriage. This fall, Bishop Victor Galeone will join his brother bishops of Florida in organizing parish petition drives for a proposed Florida Protection of Marriage Amendment. At least 600,000 signatures are required by this February before the measure can be added to the Nov. 7, 2006 general election ballot. The purpose of the amendment is twofold: 1) The Amendment defines and preserves marriage as the union of one man and one woman as husband and wife; and 2) The Amendment prohibits any other legal union that is treated as marriage or the substantial equivalent thereof from being valid or recognized as marriage. In 1997, Florida Statute 741.212, commonly referred to as the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), was enacted. It states “marriages between persons of the same sex…are not recognized for any purpose in this state.” “DOMA has been challenged several times since its creation,” says Michael McCarron, executive director of the Florida Catholic Conference (FCC) in Tallahassee. He says there have been a rash of lawsuits filed in the last year by celebrated Miami attorney Ellis Rubin on behalf of several same-sex couples. Though these frivolous lawsuits were dismissed out-of-hand earlier this year, McCarron says the possibility of further constitutional challenges to marriage in Florida and in many states where the sanctity of marriage is being challenged, prompted the action by the FCC. While Florida Governor Jeb Bush has stated the Florida Protection of Marriage Amendment is unnecessary, it is important to consider a few key points. “The sanctity of marriage is under attack by several groups who intend to change the definition of marriage,” says Stephen Patton, director of the Family Life Office for the Diocese of Saint Augustine. He says, “Words matter. To arbitrarily expand the meaning of marriage as a word would only further weaken the stability of marriage as an institution. It would lead to more confusion, divorce and misery would surely follow.” “The Florida Protection of Marriage Amendment will strengthen DOMA and eliminate any further constitutional challenges to the sanctity of marriage,” McCarron says. He adds,“It will support, not supplant Florida’s already strong Defense of Marriage Act.” In their April 14, 2005 statement, Marriage is Between One Man and One Woman, the Florida bishops state, “Although Florida law already defines marriage properly, we believe that an amendment to the state constitution is necessary in order to prevent judicial invalidation of the law.” While committed to their stand on the sanctity of marriage, the Florida bishops don’t want to give the impression they are “motivated by discrimination or animosity toward any group.” The statement says the church’s teaching about the dignity of homosexual persons is clear. “They must be accepted with respect, compassion and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided.” (Catechism of the Catholic Church, No. 2358) According to the statement, “To uphold God’s intent for marriage in which sexual relations have their proper and exclusive place is not to offend the dignity of persons with same sex attraction. Christians must give witness to the whole moral truth and proclaim as immoral all sexual activity outside of true marriage, as well as any unjust actions and hateful attitudes toward homosexual persons.” The petition drive for the Diocese of Saint Augustine will begin Sept. 25 and conclude by Oct. 2. To participate, make sure you are registered to vote in Florida. Only one petition per registered voter may be completed. Additional information about the petition drive will be made available in your parish in coming weeks. Attend a Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekend. 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N. 904-641-9755 To read the Florida Bishops statement, Marriage is Between One Man and One Woman and the Florida Marriage Protection Amendment, visit the Florida Catholic Conference website: www.flacathconf.org. NFDA-FFDA Serving all of Duval and Clay Counties > > > > > > > To read Florida Statute 741.212, the Defense of Marriage Act, visit: www.leg.state.fl.us/statutes. www.hardage-giddens.com St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 “Government has no business forcing taxpayers to become complicit in the direct destruction of human life at any stage. Nor is there any point in denying the scientific fact that human life is exactly what is at stake here.” – Cardinal William H. Keeler The Stem Cell Debate By M a r k U d ry © Igors Irbe/SuperStock T 10 St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 he debate on stem cell research among scientists, politicians, ethicists and clergy is often as rancorous as it is confusing. The only thing all parties seem to agree upon is there is no “magic bullet” gene therapy on the horizon, only the promise that further research may someday provide one. And therein lies the problem: navigating the minefield of ethics, science, religion and politics to strike a balance between preserving budding lives and saving existing ones. The Catholic Church vigorously supports and encourages adult stem cell research and strongly opposes research, for any purpose that destroys innocent human life. A stem cell is a relatively unspecialized cell that, when it divides, can do two things: make another cell like itself, or make any of a number of cells with more specialized functions. Adult stem cells are commonly obtained from umbilical cord blood, placentas and other adult tissues. Research has shown they exist in many more types of tissue than previously thought. They are “multipotent,” meaning that with the right laboratory conditions, certain kinds of adult stem cells can give rise to a great number of cell types in the body. They have been used to help people with Parkinson’s disease, spinal cord injury, sickle-cell anemia, heart damage, corneal damage and dozens of other conditions. Embryonic stem cells are considered “pluripotent,” meaning they are capable of producing nearly all cell types in the human body, which, geneticists say, makes them more versatile than multipotent adult stem cells. However, the only way currently to harvest these pluripotent cells is by destroying living human embryos. Some in the scientific community believe embryonic stem cell research and testing is the wave of the future, but so far such optimism is rooted more in theory than actual laboratory results. However, it is research and testing using adult stem cells that have yielded proven results and actually benefited patients needing treatment now. “The benefits derived from embryonic stem cells are entirely hypothetical,” says Richard Doerflinger, deputy director of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops’ (USCCB) Secretariat for Pro-Life Activities. “Research scientists have yet to conclusively prove gene therapy using these cells will ever benefit mankind.” Cardinal William H. Keeler, chairman of the USCCB Committee for Pro-Life Activities, has urged the U.S. Senate to support legislation promoting research and treatment using stem cells harvested from umbilical cord blood. “Umbilical cord blood stem cells have successfully treated thousands of patients with dozens of diseases,” Cardinal Keeler says. “They also exhibit properties once associated chiefly with embryonic stem cells: They grow rapidly in culture, producing enough cells to be clinically useful in both children and adults; they can treat patients who are not an exact genetic match, without being rejected as foreign tissue; and they seem able to produce a wide variety of different cell types.” Cardinal Keeler notes that a simple lack of funding, not ethics or lack of clinical evidence is the roadblock in large-scale use of this type of treatment. “By helping to establish a nationwide public cord blood bank, this legislation will begin saving more lives almost immediately,” says Cardinal Keeler. By contrast, he says, scientists are now warning against ‘false expectations’ regarding embryonic stem cells, pointing out that clinical use of those cells might be ‘three to five decades’ away. (Scientist: Stem Cell Work Will Aid Humans, AP, May 22, 2005) Legislation introduced earlier this summer in the U.S. House would serve to narrow the chasm between researchers and ethicists regarding embryonic stem cell research. H.R. 3144, the “Respect for Life Pluripotent Stem Cell Act of 2005,” introduced by Representative Roscoe Bartlett (R-MD) would provide $15 million in fiscal 2006 to fund alternative pluripotent cell research, with additional funding through 2010. Bartlett, a former research scientist and medical school professor, is the 4 Ways You Can Advance the Cause for Research Ethics 1.Educate yourself on the basics of stem cell research. 2.Educate and inform public policy makers and the general public regarding ethically acceptable and medically promising areas of research and treatment. 3.Support the continuation of federal laws prohibiting the federal funding of research that requires the destruction of human life, including the human embryo. 4.Talk to your friends, neighbors and co-workers – individual persuasion can be very powerful. only congressman with a master’s and doctorate in physiology. His proposed legislation is consistent with President George Bush’s support for stem cell research that doesn’t destroy human embryos. The bill proposes three types of research to produce pluripotent stem cells: use of animal embryos to develop and test techniques in extracting cells without harming embryos, further studies testing harvesting pluripotent stem cells from adult stem cells, and research on the production of pluripotent stem cells without creating or destroying embryos. The bill would prohibit any research that involves the use of human embryos. In his July 12 letter on the “Stem Cell Therapeutic and Research Act of 2005,” Cardinal Keeler noted “this bill relates to an area of stem cell research and treatment that is indisputably acceptable on moral grounds and remarkably promising in terms of clinical benefits: the use of umbilical cord blood retrieved immediately after live births.” “We know that the key biological difference between an adult body cell and a new embryo is not the gnome, but the pattern of gene expression,” said Doerflinger. “Scientists now know of certain factors that can activate the pattern of gene expression found only in pluripotent stem cells and not in completely specialized cells or the early embryo. So altering a body cell and an egg before they are joined should produce a cell that is no longer a specialized body cell, but is also easily distinguishable from the whole organism that is a human embryo,” he said. If such research is indeed successful, scientists and ethicists could begin to mend their rift on the stem cell debate. Science would have a powerful weapon in the fight against disease; ethicists would join the battle as a willing and vocal ally. Fact sheets and articles on Stem Cell Research and Human Cloning by the Resources United States Conference of Catholic Bishops. Visit: www.usccb.org/prolife/index.htm. Consumer’s Guide to the Brave New World by Wesley J. Smith (www. encounterbooks.com). This new essential book addresses all the key issues in order to provide a clear understanding of what’s at stake in the public policy debate over human stem-cell research and cloning. The Family Research Council’s Center for Human Life and Bioethics website: www.frc.org. St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 11 A C at h o l i c C h a r i t i e s P rov i d e s A N ew L i f e f o r M u s l i m F a m i ly Mark Udry A donated television sits on a table in the living room, one of the few pieces of furniture in the sparsely decorated apartment on Jacksonville’s Southside. Large Persian rugs decorate the living room floor and walls, some of the few possessions brought with the Muslim family from their distant mother country – a country that has been far from motherly to the family. The apartment may look quite modest to the average American, but for Tashpulat Mursalov and his family, it represents a fresh start on a new life filled with opportunity. Helping them make the transition to America is John Fitzgerald and his team of volunteers at Catholic Charities’ Refugee Resettlement Program in Jacksonville. The Catholic Charities program eagerly welcomed the family to Jacksonville in July and provided them with an apartment, furniture, clothing, food and living assistance. They also hired a Russian translator, Tatiana Eady, who has contact with the family almost daily. The Mursalov’s are Meskhetian Turks, originally from Meskhetia in the southwest region of Georgia that borders Turkey, a group that has essentially been “stateless” for about 60 years. In 1944, Josef Stalin deported about 100,000 Meskhetians to the Ferghana Valley in Uzbekistan, where hostilities among the Uzbeks, Afghans and Meskhetians grew over the years. In 1989, the violence among the groups escalated, leaving more than 100 people dead. The Meskhetians were then quickly relocated to western Russia under the assistance of the Soviet Army; so quickly, in fact, that the Meskhetians were unable to obtain the necessary documentation to relocate. From Russia with Love By B r i a n Ko s oy Meet the Mursalovs (l-r) Tashpulat, son Ibrakhim, Gulbakhar and daughter Narquzal. The Mursalovs are Turkish refugees who left Russia with only the clothes on their backs and two Persian rugs. They are now making a new life in Jacksonville with the help of Catholic Charities’ Refugee Resettlement Program. 12 St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 Directing the Refugee Resettlement Program for the Diocese of Saint Augustine is John Fitzgerald, a retired Navy captain who began working for the diocese part-time in 1996. What began as a project requiring two half-days a week for Fitzgerald has evolved into a fulltime position. In 1999, the program resettled about 20 refugees. In 2005, the program expects to resettle nearly 200. And the cases are more complex. Fitzgerald says the program used to only assist refugees with family currently living in the United States, but now they work on “free cases,” where refugees have no sponsoring relatives living in bank accounts, and some don’t even know how to shop for groceries. Our job is to teach them how to help themselves and make intelligent decisions.” “We’re kind of like a way station on their journey to hope,” Fitzgerald says. “They have come from a long, long history of oppression. Most of the refugees see this as an opportunity for a new beginning, especially for their children,” he says. According to Fitzergerald, the first generation usually has a hard time adjusting, because some of the stories they are told are grossly exaggerated as to how wonderful things are here. Once they adjust to the personal responsibility idea, Mark Udry Most of the Meskhetian Turks migrated to the Krasnodar Krai, an area the size of Pennsylvania with fertile land for agriculture. Despite citizenship laws passed in 1991, 18,000 Meskhetians Turks are still denied their legal rights in this region and are routinely subject to government harassment. Because the group lacks official residence status, they are unable to hold formal jobs and have limited access to education and social services. Violence is also prevalent in the region, as corrupt local officials routinely victimize the Meskhetian Turks. Meskhetian Turks are currently one of the largest groups of refugees approved for resettlement to the Unites States. By the end of this month, more than 8,000 Meskhetian Turks will be resettled in our country with another 12,000 expected to arrive next year. Tashpulat Mursalov, 39, has been married to his wife, Gulbakhar, 41, for 16 years. They have two children: Ibrakhim, 14, and Narquzal, 12. The family lived in Krasnodar, where Tashpulat worked on a tobacco farm and Gulbakhar produced and sold tomatoes. In Krasnodar, the family witnessed the horrors of persecution firsthand. They were afraid to leave their house, out of fear of being arrested for not having appropriate documentation – documentation that the government made all but impossible to obtain. Police would enter their house by force, demanding money; if the family had none, they would take furniture, appliances, or anything of value. They also witnessed the torture of women and children in the streets. “We think of the United States as a mother and father,” Tashpulat said through an interpreter. “We feel very welcome here and are very glad to be here. We would really like to thank Catholic Charities and everyone who has helped us feel so welcome.” Tashpulat’s brother, Bakhtiver, lives in the same apartment complex in Jacksonville. Bakhtiver and his wife, Faranas, arrived Feb. 5 through the assistance of Lutheran Social Services. While Tashpulat and Gulbakhar await Social Security cards before they can begin working, Bakhtiver and Faranas are already adapting well to their new country. Bakhtiver, a skilled homebuilder in his native country, works for a local contractor installing air conditioning units in new homes. Faranas works in the kitchen of the Hyatt Hotel in downtown Jacksonville, which has helped her learn some conversational English quickly. Tatiana Eady, right, a Russian-speaking translator employed by Catholic Charities, talks to the Mursalov family during an evening meal in the family’s Southside apartment. The famiy has “adopted” Eady as a member of the family, calling her “Auntie Tonya.” the country. While the largest clientele of Catholic Charities are Cuban refugees, this summer the program also assisted families from Sierra-Leone, Liberia and Bosnia-Herzegovina. The diocese will also relocate an additional 40 families of Meskhetian Turks this year. Despite the program’s exponential growth over the last several years, it operates on an annual budget of about $250,000 and relies heavily on donations from parishioners and volunteers. Donations are the lifeblood of the program, as for every dollar received, the federal government matches with a $1.85, up to $1,850 per person. “While the contact [with the family] has been frequent in the first few weeks, that’s going to taper off and we will have to teach them how to do things on their own,” says Fitzgerald. “And that’s one area where we need a lot of help.” Many [of the refugees] have never had that to earn and enjoy their freedom takes a lot of hard work, then they do fine. But it’s the second generation that really reaps the benefit,” he says. As the Mursalov family adapts to their new country, they await the arrival of their remaining family members. Tashpulat and Gulbakhar will soon be employed and begin paying for their apartment. Their son Ibrakhim just began his freshman year at Englewood High School, while their daughter Narquzal attends Southside Middle School. Their lives have just begun. Finally, the Mursalov’s have a place to call home. Volunteers are desperately needed to assist the workers at Catholic Charities. It is not necessary to speak a foreign language, and anyone can help. For information on how you can help welcome families to Jacksonville, call John Fitzgerald at (904) 354-4846, ext. 226 or email: [email protected]. St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 13 The teaching of Pope John Paul II about sickness and death came not only from his speeches, addresses, and encyclicals. He instructed just as convincingly with the witness of his own faith in the face of injury, suffering, hospitalization, illness and dying. He gave this catechesis for years. DyingwithDignity Building a World Where Life is Sacred By Fat h e r J . D a n i e l M i n d l i n g , O F M C a p. 16 St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 © Jiang Jin/SuperStock P Pope John Paul, in his 1995 apostolic letter, Evangelium Vitae (The Gospel of Life), taught us that to understand death with dignity, first accept the dignity of life. Human dignity is an undeserved gift, not an earned status. The dignity of life springs from its source. We come to be by the loving action of God the Creator. “What is man that you are mindful of him, and the son of man that you care for him? You have made him little less than a god, and crown him with glory and honor” (Psalm 8:5). The dignity of life is beyond price. We have been ransomed not with perishable things such as silver or gold, but with the precious blood of Christ (1 Peter 1:18-19). The dignity of life is clear from our calling. God’s plan for human beings is that they should “be conformed to the image of his Son” (Romans 8:29). “For God created man for incorruption, and made him in the image of his own eternity” (Wisdom 2:23). All who respect their God-given dignity are called to be heralds of a “culture of life.” Christ’s mission was to every human person, and our Lord had a passionate concern for the sick, the suffering and the dying. In our own time, Christ continues his mission, and his preference for the vulnerable, through his church. Christ looks mercifully upon us now and at the hour of our death, and the church proclaims solidarity with our brothers and sisters at the end of their earthly journey. The church is a patient advocate, working to ensure proper care for the sick and dying by promoting respect for their dignity. The church is physician and nurse, the Good Samaritan who treats the wounded and abandoned and never walks by. The church is also the innkeeper who provides the hospital, nursing home and hospice for care and comfort. Pope John Paul, no stranger to sickness and suffering, raised the prophetic voice of the church compassionately, often insisting on the care that is due to the sick and dying. Traditionally, Catholics have prayed for the grace of a happy death: From a sudden and unprovided death, deliver us, O Lord. Now, advances in modern medicine increasingly pose the challenge of coping with a terminal illness, which may last months or even years. Rather than worrying only about a sudden death, many today confront fears of a prolonged and debilitating illness, of being a burden on others and of facing a path possibly marked by suffering. “The church knows that the moment of death is always accompanied by particularly intense human sentiments: an earthy life is ending, the emotional, generational and social ties that are part of the person’s inner self are dissolving; people who are dying and those who assist them are aware of the conflict between hope in immortality and the unknown which troubles even the most enlightened minds. The church lifts her voice so that the dying are not offended but are given every loving care and are not left alone as they prepare to cross the threshold of time to enter eternity” (Love and Solidarity for the Dying, an address by Pope John Paul II to the Pontifical Academy for Life, Feb. 1999). And while true compassion “encourages every reasonable effort for the patient’s recovery, at the same time, it helps draw the line when it is clear that no further treatment will serve this purpose. The refusal of aggressive treatment is neither a rejection of the patient nor of his or her life. Indeed, the object of the decision on whether to begin or to continue a treatment has nothing to do with the value of the patient’s life, but rather with whether such medical intervention is beneficial for the patient. The possible decision either not to start or to halt a treatment will be deemed ethically correct if the treatment is ineffective or obviously disproportionate to the aims of sustaining life or recovering health. Consequently, the decision to forego aggressive treatment is an expression of the respect that is due to the patient at every moment” (Conference address by Pope John Paul II to the Pontifical Council for Health Pastoral Care, Nov. 2004). From the patient’s perspective, this is neither “giving up” nor disregarding the obligation to care for oneself, rather, it is an acceptance of the human condition in the face of life threatening illness (Evangelium Vitae, No. 64). Especially at the end of life, when it is clear that death is imminent and inevitable no matter what medical procedures are attempted, one may refuse treatment “that would only secure a precarious and burdensome prolongation of life, so long as the normal care due to the sick person in similar cases is not interrupted” (Declaration on Euthanasia, part 4, 1980, by the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith). Even at the stage of terminal illness when proportionate and effective treatment is no longer possible, however, palliative care is still appropriate and needed. The aim of such care can include alleviating many kinds of physical, psychological and mental suffering. Such care, said John Paul II, may involve a team of specialists with medical, psychological and religious qualifications who work together to support the patient in facing death. Dying often includes pain and suffering. Pope John Paul II admitted to his own personal sufferings, and proclaimed that these offered him a new source of strength for his ministry as pope. We read in Evangelium Vitae, No. 67: “Living to the Lord …means recognizing that suffering, while still an evil and a trial in itself, can always St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 17 become a source of good. It becomes such if it is experienced for love and with love through sharing, by God’s gracious gift and one’s own personal and free choice, in the suffering of Christ Crucified. In this way, the person who lives his suffering in the Lord grows more fully conformed to him (cf. Phil 3:10; 1 Pet 2:21) and more closely associated with his redemptive work on behalf of the church and humanity. This was the experience of St. Paul, which every person who suffers is called to relive: ‘I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake, and in my flesh I complete what is lacking in Christ’s afflictions for the sake of his Body, that is, the Church’” (Col 1:24). Ethical questions can arise regarding the use of pain medication. Pain should be managed in such a way as to allow patients to prepare for death while fully conscious. The dying should be kept as free of pain as possible. Some wish to blur the distinction between the use of medication to manage pain even at the risk of hastening the dying process, and the deliberate administration of a lethal overdose of pain medication. Those who claim the latter as mercy killing fail to recognize that true “compassion” leads to sharing another’s pain; it does not kill the person whose suffering we cannot bear. Sadly, there are physicians who see their role as assisting patients to end their own lives. What a tragedy it is that the very people trained to heal the injured and care for the sick, have become dealers in death. Pope John Paul II was blunt in his condemnation. Even if a patient requests assisted suicide, it remains an “inexcusable injustice.” Although controversies over physician assisted suicide might seem to have come up only in our own time, he quotes St. Augustine who wrote more than 1500 years ago: “It is never licit to kill another: even if he should wish it, indeed if he request it because, hanging between life and death, he begs for help in freeing the soul struggling against the bonds of the body and longing to be released; nor is it licit even when a sick person is no longer able to live.” Especially in light of the tragic case of Terri Schiavo, Pope John Paul II left no doubt about the church’s clear teaching regarding those in a so-called “persistent vegetative state” (PVS). In the opinion of their doctors, these patients have suffered such severe neurological damage that they can no longer give any indication that they are aware of themselves or of their environment. It is unfortunate that their state is labeled “vegetative.” Human persons are not vegetables. Such regrettable terminology may lead some to conclude falsely that these handicapped persons are more like vegetables than human beings. 18 This is simply not true. All disabled persons have basic rights. Although their higher cognitive functions may be seriously impaired, these patients are human beings with the same intrinsic value and personal dignity as any other human person. Caution should be exercised even regarding the diagnosis of PVS. It is true that the longer such a state persists, the less likely the patient will recover. Nevertheless, at times this label is applied incorrectly, and there are more than a few cases reported in the literature of persons who have emerged from a “vegetative” state after appropriate treatment or who have recovered at least partially, even after many years. “We can thus state that medical science, up till now, is still unable to predict with certainty those, among patients in this condition, who will recover and who will not” (Conference address by John Paul II to the International Congress on LifeSustaining Treatments and the Vegetative State: Scientific Advances and Ethical Dilemmas, March 2004). PVS patients, like all other patients, have a right to basic health care. They should be kept comfortable, clean and warm. Care should be taken to prevent complications associated with being confined to bed. They should be given appropriate rehabilitative care and monitored for signs of improvement. Families who bear the heavy burden of dealing with this condition should be assisted by the rest of society, as true solidarity demands. Pope John Paul II also resolved a longstanding debate about life sustaining care for PVS patients. He taught unequivocally that there is a moral obligation on care providers. These patients should be provided food and water, even when these are supplied through a feeding tube. It is unjust to refuse to initiate or continue such basic care based on the quality of their life or on a claim that such care is too expensive. It is unjust to discontinue it even because of a decreased hope for recovery. John Paul II’s statement is explicit. Nutrition and hydration is a natural means of preserving life, and “should be considered, in principle, ordinary and proportionate, and as such morally obligatory, insofar as and until it is seen to have attained its proper finality, which in the present case consists in providing nourishment to the patient and alleviation of his suffering” (Conference address by John Paul II to the International Congress on Life-Sustaining Treatments and the Vegetative State: Scientific Advances and Ethical Dilemmas, March 2004). Patients often want to direct their care in the event that they become unable to communicate their wishes. The Holy Father’s statement that PVS patients should be given nutrition and hydration, as part of the ordinary care to which all are entitled, raises questions about advance directives. Living wills should not include a statement St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 that refuses nutrition and hydration in the event that one is diagnosed in a persistent vegetative state. It is, in principle, ordinary and proportionate care, which is morally obligatory. There is great confusion about death with dignity. What John Paul II rightly called the “culture of death” disregards the sanctity and dignity of life, and so misunderstands dying. It claims that life has value only to the extent that it is productive, when it brings pleasure and well being. In this vision, “death is considered ‘senseless’ if it suddenly interrupts a life still open to a future of new and interesting experiences. But it becomes a ‘rightful liberation’ once life is held to be no longer meaningful because it is filled with pain and inexorably doomed to even greater suffering” (Evangelium Vitae, No. 64). Because the culture of death disregards God, it also overestimates human autonomy with respect to life. Within the culture of death, “the fear of a prolonged or painful death and concerns about being a burden on loved ones tempts some to try to take control of death and bring it about before its time, ‘gently’ ending one’s own life or the life of others” (Evangelium Vitae, No. 64). By contrast, a culture of life will reject all forms of euthanasia. Euthanasia is “an action or omission which of itself and by intention causes death, with the purpose of eliminating all suffering” (Declaration on Euthanasia, 1980 by the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith). It is “a grave violation of the Law of God, since it is the deliberate and morally unacceptable killing of a human person” (Evangelium Vitae, No. 65). “Euthanasia is one of those tragedies caused by an ethic that claims to dictate who should live and who should die. Even if it is motivated by sentiments of a misconstrued compassion or of a misunderstood preservation of dignity, euthanasia actually eliminates the person instead of relieving the individual of suffering” (Conference address by Pope John Paul II to the International Congress on Life-Sustaining Treatments and the Vegetative State: Scientific Advances and Ethical Dilemmas, March 2004). “Even when not motivated by a selfish refusal to be burdened with the life of someone who is suffering, euthanasia must be called a false mercy, and indeed a disturbing ‘perversion’ of mercy. True ‘compassion’ leads to sharing another’s pain; it does not kill the person whose suffering we cannot bear. Moreover, the act of euthanasia appears all the more perverse if it is carried out by those, like relatives, who are supposed to treat a family member with patience and love, or by those, such as doctors, who by virtue of their specific profession are supposed to care for the sick person even in the most painful terminal stages” (Evangelium Vitae, No. 65). “None of us lives to himself, and none of us dies to himself. If we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord; so then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord’s” (Rom 14:7-8). Dying to the Lord means experiencing one’s death as the supreme act of obedience to the Father (cf. Phil 2:8), being ready to meet death at the “hour” willed and chosen by him (cf. Jn 13:1), which can only mean when one’s earthly pilgrimage is completed” (Evangelium Vitae, No. 67). Last but not least, respect for the dignity and sanctity of life of patients includes concern for their spiritual needs. “The terminally ill in particular deserve the solidarity, communion and affection of those around them; they often need to be able to forgive and to be forgiven, to make peace with God and with others” (Dying is also part of Comforting Solutions for In-home Care Companionship • Transportation Meal Preparation • Laundry • Errands Light Housekeeping (904) 230-9220 Resources for End-of-Life Decisions The United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) has a number of church documents and resources for issues relating to end of life decisions. Visit: www.usccb.org/prolife/index.htm. The Florida Catholic Conference also has a number of statements written by the Florida Bishops, including the “Catholic Declaration of Life and Death” form and the “Designation of Health Care Surrogate” form. 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Guided by its belief in monotheism and proclaiming Jesus as the one, true Savior of all people, Christianity historically has prized unity over diversity as it sought to convert people to Christ. At times when Christians were the political or numerical majority, this commitment even has led to a type of Christian imperialism. Of course, there also is the rich history of the church promoting the arts and sciences, establishing universities and preserving elements of civilization, ennobling work, improving health care, altering social systems on behalf of the poor and welcoming the creative alternatives of diverse cultures, religions and movements. So how are Christians to relate to the diverse values and practices we encounter in our world today? Four points are worth noting. “Is diversity in itself a threat and a problem to eliminate or is it a gift from God and a reflection of divine creativity? ” First, every Christian has to answer the basic question: Is diversity in itself a threat and a problem to eliminate or is it a gift from God and a reflection of divine creativity? Embracing the latter position prompts a Christian initially to adopt an attitude of respect for diverse beliefs and practices such as those found in Islam or among Native Americans. Second, with this attitude a Christian looks for signs of God’s presence and grace in different religious and cultural expressions. God has ways of reaching people. Wherever there are indications of God’s grace at work, Christians should recognize and affirm them in the spirit of Jesus. He was able to say that whoever is not against us is with us (Matthew 9:40). This does not mean that Christians abandon their faith’s distinctive claims and mission when, for example, they dialogue with Jews or work with agnostics on social projects. But from a Christian perspective, good works by those who are not Christian are still good works and do not detract from Christianity or lessen its importance. Rather, as Vatican Council II said, ‘’Christians should acknowledge, preserve and encourage the spiritual and moral truths found among nonChristians, including their social life and culture’’ (Declaration on Non-Christian Religions, No. 2). Third, a positive orientation toward religious and cultural diversity must always be tempered by a critical examination of the beliefs and practices of religions and cultures. Not all religions are of equal value, and even the best secular service is not the same as full human salvation. Where there is hatred, sexism, deceit, exploitation, violation of human rights and dignity, there is conflict with God’s intention for humanity. Opposing a practice like abortion on Christian grounds is not the same as imposing Christianity on society or on another religion; it is uplifting humanity and contributing to a better world from a Christian perspective. TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE. “Christians are not immune from discomfort with diversity. Guided by its belief in monotheism and proclaiming Jesus as the one, true Savior of all people, Christianity historically has prized unity over diversity as it sought to convert people to Christ.” You can secure a better financial future today. ............................... $500 investment. PT/ FT – work from home. On the web, please visit: www. kmb.theonlinebusiness.com ............................... To do this effectively, Christians may have to translate their values and principles – for example, regarding capital punishment or the primacy of the poor – into terms and behaviors that communicate with people in a particular culture. This is one of the primary challenges of effective evangelization and a continuation of what Jesus did. He expressed the profound truth of revelation in images and actions that people could grasp. Fourth, in relating to other religions and cultures, Christians should be open to examining their own faith from the perspective of those who are not Christian. Just as Jesus extolled the faith of the Roman centurion (Luke 7:1-10), the persistence of the Syro-Phoenician mother (Mark 7:24-30) or the generous neighborliness of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:29-37), so Christians might just learn a new reverence for the Bible from witnessing the devotion of a Muslim for the Quran or develop a new appreciation for service to the common good from witnessing the heroism of firefighters and rescuers. In shaping a Christian attitude toward difference and diversity, we may want to recall what St. Augustine wrote about what he called the City of God and the City of Man. Augustine acknowledged that there were these two worlds. But these two worlds do not stand side by side, clearly separated from each other. They co-mingle, intertwine and complement each other. The role of Christians is to recognize and foster the City of God wherever it appears and thereby to give praise to God. Father Robert Kinast is director of the Center for Theological Reflection, Clearwater, Fla. He wrote this article as part of the Faith Alive series for Catholic News Service. St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 21 parish profiles Growing in the Spirit: Holy Spirit Parish Keeps Pace with Area Growth B y S h a n n o n S c r u b y H e n d e r so n The 13-acre riverfront tract that is home to Arlington’s Holy Spirit Parish was once quiet and rural – like the rest of Fort Caroline Road in Jacksonville. Those days are long gone. “Fort Caroline wasn’t even paved back when Archbishop Joseph Hurley bought this land and set it aside for a future parish,” comments pastor Msgr. James Heslin. “Today, there are building projects everywhere you look. The place is booming.” The history of Holy Spirit’s faith community parallels Fort Caroline’s transformation, growing from a population of about 60 families when the parish was carved from Resurrection Parish in 1966, to 1,400 families in 2005. The first church, now used as a school cafeteria and meeting space, was dedicated in 1971. Since then, Holy Spirit, like other suburban Jacksonville parishes, has been in a building mode, adding a rectory, a second church, a school and a combination gymnasium and 22 St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 Susie Nguyen T Susie Nguyen Since his appointment as pastor of Holy Spirit in 1985, Msgr. James Heslin has overseen many building projects, including the new church as seen here that was dedicated in 1992. social hall that will open this fall. Beginning in 1992, Mass has been held in the new church, a large, handsome structure with a high angled ceiling and a fair share of diocesan history: The arresting stained glass windows on the wall behind the altar are from the old Holy Rosary Church on Laura Street – as are the bas relief Stations of the Cross that adorn the side walls. Also of interest is a statue of the Blessed Kateri Tekakwitha in full Mohawk dress at the back of the church. This, says Msgr. Heslin, was a gift from a parishioner. It’s not the only Native American connection at Holy Spirit. “Years ago, Timucuan Indians lived along the river here,” says Msgr. Heslin. “When we started digging the parking lot for the new church, we ran into a problem. Twenty-three human remains from those ancient times were eventually exhumed by the state and moved to Tallahassee at parish expense.” Supporting a school and the parish’s other ministries requires considerable effort. Fortunately, Holy Spirit is blessed with hard workers. Among them is a sizable population of Filipino parishioners. “Although they’re in the minority here, you wouldn’t know it if you could see how much they do,” says Strandes. “Our Filipino groups love to party and they love to contribute to the parish,” adds Msgr. Heslin. Unlike in many Jacksonville parishes, Holy Spirit’s Spanish-speaking parishioners are few. “On the other hand, we have a strong Albanian connection,” says Msgr. Heslin. That’s due to Deacon Gjet Bajraktari, an Albanian Catholic who has become a magnet for Albanians in the area. “Although most don’t live in the area, they come here for baptisms and weddings to be with Deacon Gjet,” he says. Sharing the spirit The school is a major focus, but members of the parish also reach out to the larger community. “I encourage parishioners not to be Sunday-morning Catholics,” says Msgr. Heslin. “Today, with the culture becoming secularized, even anti-religious, I think Catholics have to become more politicized. They should get into the process, voting and expressing themselves publicly,” he adds firmly. To that end, the pastor participates in parish-sponsored outreach. “He’s down at the Women’s Help Center saying Mass,” says CCW President Darlene Jones, referring to a facility on Emerson Street that was started by a couple from Holy Spirit – with Msgr. Heslin’s blessing and encouragement. Working with Holy Spirit parishioners, Deacon Gjet helped launch another effort that is now a diocesan ministry, the Apostleship of the Sea, located in a building made of two doublewide trailers within walking distance of Jacksonville’s shipyards. “The idea was to provide a place for seamen to relax, attend religious services The design and architecture of Holy Spirit and get in touch with family,” Catholic Church reflects the rich cultural says Jones. Volunteers recently diversity of the parish community. The church helped build phone booths was dedicated 13 years ago this month by inside the facility so that Bishop John J. Snyder. maritime visitors can call Mark Udry A diverse community united by common goals Holy Spirit is an enthusiastic, energetic parish, with a good mix of young families and older parishioners, notes John Luciano, Ph.D., principal of Holy Spirit Catholic School. “It’s a very supportive environment,” he says, “and the parish takes an unprecedented interest in having a good school.” This focus, he adds, starts at the top: “Msgr. Heslin believes in us. For him, the primary purpose of the parish is the operation of this school. He doesn’t want it to be elitist. He wants to keep it very affordable for that single mother out there who wants to put her child with us. At the same time, we’re able to offer a quality, fully accredited program. For example, right now, 80 percent of faculty members hold master’s degrees.” Peter Strandes, president of the Men’s Club, credits the school’s success to good leadership: “Msgr. Heslin feels that the school and youth of our parish are our future, and Luciano does a fantastic job. We’re all really proud of what we’ve got here.” home – using donated phone cards. There are also computers so they can email. “It’s a refuge for people from Third World countries who often make less than $600 a year and spend two years straight – or more – aboard a ship,” says Jones. It’s also an example of the kind of generosity that emanates from Holy Spirit Parish, touching people in need for miles beyond the confines of the parish’s pastoral campus on the banks of the St. Johns River. Holy Spirit Parish 11665 Fort Caroline Road Jacksonville, FL 32225 (904) 641-7244 www.holyspiritjax.org Parishioners: 1,400 registered families School: 268 students in grades PreK through grade 8 Pastor: Msgr. James Heslin Deacon: Gjet Bajraktari Father Richard J. Bowles celebrated the parish’s first Mass on Feb. 13, 1966, in the Beacon Hills Club House. At that time, the congregation numbered about 60 families. In 1968, Father R. Joseph James replaced Father Bowles as pastor. Under his leadership, the first parish church was completed in 1971 on Fort Caroline Road in Arlington. In 1974, a parish rectory was built close to the church. Msgr. James J. Heslin was appointed pastor of the fast-growing faith community in 1985. He oversaw construction of a new church that was dedicated by Bishop John J. Snyder on Sept. 20, 1992. Other projects completed under Msgr. Heslin include the parish school, the conversion of the original church to a school cafeteria and social hall, and opening soon, a new parish social hall and gymnasium. St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 23 home Welcoming Mark Udry By C a r r i e R e s c h D a ddy The Wolz family was featured in our November/December 2004 “Christmas” issue. It was a lonely holiday for Melanie and her two daughters with Mike stationed in Iraq. But we are happy to provide this follow-up feature on the Wolz family who confirms Mike is home and thankful for his time with his family. T The family waited in excited anticipation as passengers filed off the plane. They had been waiting for this moment for almost eight months. Two young girls held up a sign reading “Welcome Home Daddy” in red, white and blue letters. The girls studied every face that passed by until they finally spotted who they were looking for. Lt. Commander Mike Wolz – “Daddy” had finally returned home. Wolz was finally reunited with his wife, Melanie and the two girls, 11-yearold Abby and eight-year-old Kate, in late 24 March, the week before Easter. Mike has missed much since he left for Iraq last August; Thanksgiving, Christmas, the Super Bowl, but what he missed most was his family. “One of the hardest things was not being able to hug and kiss my wife and kids,” he said. He was also constantly worrying if everything was all right at home, especially during the four hurricanes that devastated Florida during his tour. Since returning to the United States Mike has been able to enjoy some vacation time. “I had three weeks off St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 when I returned before I went back to work,” he said. “Most of that time was spending time with Melanie and the kids.” Mike is a civil engineer with the U.S. Army Corp of Engineers, and Melanie works part-time as a physical therapist at the Mayo Clinic. The timing of his return home worked out well because the girls had spring break during his time off. They enjoyed spending a whole week with their father, picking up right where they left off with movie and game nights, bike riding and playing tennis. He was also happy to be back in time for Kate’s First Communion on Mother’s Day and both the girls’ birthdays in April and May. The family had a lot of support while Mike was away, especially from their parish, St. Paul, in Jacksonville Beach, where the girls also attend school. The parish gave Melanie a “spiritual bouquet” of prayers and a card stating how many prayers had been said for them. Mike’s name was also listed on the school bulletin board of who to pray for. “That was always nice to know they were thinking [of us],” Melanie said. Neighbors also provided a great deal of support. A letter was sent out before Christmas explaining the Wolz’s situation. About 20 families responded by putting together a large package filled with homemade cookies, candy and even a Super Bowl T-shirt to send to Mike. The family regularly communicated through emails and phone calls. Abby wrote her father every three days, keeping him informed of happenings. During the long absence, the family found comfort in their faith to help them during the difficult time. “My faith really helped to see us through the long separation,” Melanie said. Both she and Mike regularly say prayers with the girls at bedtime; Melanie carried on the ritual while he was away. “We would always get a chance to ask for [Mike’s] and all the military’s safety,” she said. The holidays have been especially hard for the Wolz family. This is the second year in a row that Mike has been away during Thanksgiving and Christmas. In 2003 he was deployed to Moscow for three months. Melanie and the girls tried to keep their situation in perspective. “As hard as it was for us, at least we were together,” Melanie said. “Mike probably had the hard part being away from family. That’s what I always used to tell the girls, as sorry as we could feel for ourselves or as blue, we have to remember that we three were actually the lucky ones because we had each other and we were in our own home where he’s off by himself in a strange place.” Mike spent his Christmas in Iraq working after attending morning Mass. “The holidays were another work day, unfortunately,” Mike said. “There was a modest recognition for each of them, but mostly it was just a special dinner.” He attended a weekly Mass in Iraq that was conducted by two priests. One of the priests was Father Ron Camarda, former pastor of St. Patrick Parish in Jacksonville. He too is a reservist and was called to active duty last year. Father Camarda is now home and is temporarily serving at Resurrection Parish in Jacksonville. Mike said his faith helped keep him centered and that attending church was an outlet. “You have to keep a balance with the changes at hand with your faith in that setting,” he said. Mike joined the Navy Reserves 10 years ago. “I just wanted to do my part and I wanted to learn more about it,” he said. “I’ve gotten some good training and good leadership opportunities.” In Iraq his unit was stationed in Fallujah and placed in charge of construction contracts and power restoration. Fallujah is 40 miles west of Baghdad and has been a hot zone for frequent insurgent attacks and military battles. He was witness to the battle in Fallujah in November where thousands of U.S. and Iraqi forces infiltrated the city. “I didn’t harbor any hatred for the insurgents,” he said. “I was disappointed with their choices and didn’t understand the more destructive actions they decided to take. It would be easy to dislike or hate them, but I don’t. I don’t think that is the right approach.” The family’s outlook on life has mainly stayed the same, although they are a little more cautious of the time they have together. “I don’t think we were ever the kind that took a whole lot for granted, but these kinds of experience underscore that everyday is a blessing and you have to be thankful for what you’ve got because it could change very quickly,” Mike said. So far, there are no plans for Mike’s redeployment, so he should be able to spend Thanksgiving and Christmas with his family for the first time in two years. “In October we’re going to start nailing the doors shut,” Melanie joked. In the meantime, Melanie is counting her blessings. “We’re just so thankful to have him home,” she said. St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 25 teen voices Gainesville Youth Learn About special Pope Benedict XVI appealed to more than 1 million young people to become new missionaries in a world that is forgetting God. In his homily at the closing Mass of World Youth Day, the pope said: “Anyone who has discovered Christ must lead others to him. A great joy cannot be kept to oneself. It has to be passed on.” While thousands traveled to World Youth Day, celebrated in Cologne, Germany August 15-21, more than 1,000 young Catholics from Florida and Georgia flocked to the Mission Nombre de Dios in St. Augustine for a weekend of live music, speeches, 26 St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 plays, group discussion and a live broadcast of the pope’s message on a giant Jumbotron. On Sunday, August 21, Bishop Victor Galeone celebrated celebrated Mass on a large stage on the mission grounds. The local event was the first of its kind in Florida and was the result of joint efforts of seven area parishes and the brainchild of Glen Sablich, a parishioner of the Susie Nguyen For five days, 22 kids made a difference in their community. special Mark Udry special More than 20 teens from Gainesville area parishes participated in a five-day event that opened their eyes to how much they take for granted and what a difference they can make in the lives of others. Organizing the Real World camp experience were youth ministers Emily Froeba, Nikki Arrington and Elisa Danielle Kramer cleans up at shelter. Ward. The camp was based on the corporal works of mercy and each day teens focused on ways they are called to be Christ’s hands and feet and perform good deeds. From July 5-9, the campers visited Park Meadows nursing home and the Ronald McDonald House in Gainesville. A highlight of the week for one teen, Tony Perez, was spending time with an elderly Hispanic man at the nursing home. He spoke to the man in his native language and the hospital staff was amazed at how happy the man was because he usually doesn’t have anyone to talk to. Justin HarrisonThe group also prepared Conwill feeds more than 100 meals for homeless. the homeless and used their own money to buy and distribute snow cones. The teens also visited other social services agencies, including St. Francis House, Shands Hospital, Habitat for Humanity and the St. Vincent de Paul home. They got to know the staff of the agencies well so they can continue working with them to help the community. Susie Nguyen world youth day 2005 Real World Y council along with some others that attended the youth leader camp. I will know what to do as different situations are thrown at me.” Lyn Kramer, 15, St. Patrick Parish, Gainesville: “Youth leader taught me to use my talents, not for myself but for the Lord. It also taught me to apply the leadership skills that I learned in everything that I do. I will use the L. Kramer training to help my parish learn about our youth group and get more teens involved, because that’s what it’s all about.” Justin Harrison-Conwill, 16, St. Augustine Parish, Gainesville: “I learned a lot of different things that I didn’t plan on learning. There were also things that I already know from my own experience. I am now in my youth group’s “I learned many important leadership skills, including how to communicate effectively, that are already proving useful when interacting in my parish, with my family and friends. I would Shelden like to use these new skills to get more youth involved in my parish. We aren’t the leaders of tomorrow – we are the leaders of today.” Danielle Kramer, 18, St. Patrick Parish, Gainesville: “Youth leader taught me no skill or gift is too small. I will give of myself to serve others and this is part of what makes a good leader. I will use this training to help other teens in my parish to grow in their faith and become leaders as well.” special special “I learned a great deal about how communication is an essential part of being a leader and that being a good follower is a trait of a great leader. A leader must have excellent Rozensky listening skills. Accepting the input of others will only benefit you. In completing your goal and finishing the task that you’ve started, whether it is a fundraiser or a community service project, you are bettering your parish community.” Mark Udry Rachel Shelden, 16, Most Holy Redeemer Parish, Jacksonville: special Joseph Rozensky, 16, St. Matthew Parish, Jacksonville: “Youth leader taught me about so many aspects of effective leadership skills that I never learned before. I also learned no matter where you come from friends will be made, Simons strangers will disappear, and all you have left is a familiar face. I will use this experience to communicate effectively to my peers and fellow parishioners; I feel good when talking about my faith because it allows me to evangelize to people who might not have had a personal encounter.” special Michael Simons, 17, Resurrection Parish, Jacksonville: Jacqueline Ramirez, 16, St. Catherine Parish, Orange Park: “To be a leader you have to meet standards. Leaders are principlecentered, proactive, good listeners and communicators. As leaders we also have to think win/win, learn how to negotiate Ramirez with youth and others. We also learned how to work in groups, support and encourage other’s opinions. Taking this training helped me understand how to use my gifts that God has blessed me with. My goal is to provide the teens in my parish the same information I learned, because I think every teen has a chance to be a leader.” Harrison-Conwill special Youth Leader: Empowering Youth for Christian Leadership, a five-day youth leadership development program sponsored by the Diocese of Saint Augustine, was held July 17-21 at the Marywood Retreat Center. Youth Leader focuses on helping young people learn skills, gain insight into Christian leadership and connect their values to their leadership roles. According to program materials, leadership is not about position, or authority, or title. It’s about using the gifts that you have, combined with good leadership skills, to make a difference in the world. We asked seven participants of Youth Leader what they learned and how they’ll apply their new skills as leaders in their parishes. special Youth Leaders Trained for Work in Parishes D. Kramer St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 27 around the diocese SFCHS Students Excited About New Digs. Catholic Schools Welcome New Principals A SFCHS Sophomore Susana Roque. Stephanie Chinault feels right at home at Jacksonville’s Christ the King School. A Jacksonville native, Stephanie attended Christ the King (class of ’81) and Bishop Kenny High School (class of ’85). She has taught social studies for sixth through eighth grades. Stephanie is a graduate of Emory University in Atlanta, where she majored in history. Knights Honor Members with 755 Years of Service special Mark Udry FPO In June, the Knights of Columbus – Arlington Council #4727 in Jacksonville, honored 14 of members who have given 50 to 63 years of service to the church. The honorees were then inducted into the “50 Year Club.” The club supports the efforts of the council through charitable projects each year. Members recognized for their faithful and loyal service are: (l-r) Pasquale Bianco (50 years), Vernon Duncan (51), William Picket (62), James Middleton (52), Alfred Martin, Jr. (50) and Richard Cashen, Jr. (50). Not pictured: Roy Baer, Jr. (50), Francis Becht (53), Stephen Bowes, Jr. (53), Mark Costello, Jr. (59), Robert Wm. Coyle (58), Ronald Heying (51), Mawry Jones, Sr. (63) and Denis Riordan (53). 28 St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 Kathleen Faulk, a teacher for 11 years, has taught six of those years at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton School in Palm Coast. Kathleen has taught eighth grade for the last two years and has taught students in all grades except first and third grades. Kathleen is a graduate of St. Francis College in Loretto, Pa., where she majored in political science. Sandra Vahl joined the faculty at St. Patrick School in Gainesville this summer. Moving from the frozen tundra of Watertown, Wis., Sandra has 23 years experience as a teacher and administrator. She comes to the diocese from St. Henry Catholic School, where she was their principal. Originally from Milwaukee, Sandra has a master’s in education administration from Edgewood College in Madison, Wis. and a bachelor’s in early childhood education from the University of Wisconsin. Mark Udry Mark Udry Three parish schools in the Diocese of Saint Augustine have new principals. Please welcome the following educators to their posts: Mark Udry Ask Susana Roque about one of the best things she likes about her new school and the answer would surprise you. “The lockers,” she said. “Last year at Holy Faith we had to carry all of our things around in big Rubbermaid bins and take them to all our classes.” Susana, 15, a sophomore at St. Francis Catholic High School in Gainesville, no longer has to lug around a storage bin. She and 111 freshman and sophomore students have lockers and many other amenities. “The new facilities here are fantastic – they’re a step up from having to borrow classrooms [at Holy Faith Parish], she said. St. Francis faculty welcomed the first two classes of freshman and sophomore students to its state-ofthe-art facility on Aug. 10. Student enrollment will increase each year with a 600-student capacity. And everyone will have a locker! around the diocese Catholic Charities Hosts Ball for Homeless Mark your calendars – the Black and White Ball will be held Saturday, Nov. 5 at the Prime Osborne Convention Center in Jacksonville. The second annual wine tasting, Festival D’Vine, will be Friday, Nov. 4 at Balis Park in San Marco. Proceeds from both events will be used to keep families in their homes by assisting them with utilities, rent, mortgage payments, groceries, counseling and job assistance. Last year, Catholic Charities received 80,000 requests for financial assistance, but had only enough funds to help 5,000 families. According to organizers, the needs of families on the First Coast continue to grow. For information and tickets, call Liza Furman at Catholic Charities at (904) 354-4846, ext. 257 or email: [email protected]. Tickets are $200 each for the ball and $75 each for the wine tasting. People In The News... Anne McGaugh began her duties as director of the diocesan Youth and Young Adult Ministry on Aug. 1. Originally from Pittsburgh, Anne moved to Oak Ridge, Tenn., while in grade school. A 1987 graduate of East Tennessee State University, Anne has a degree in health administration and business management. She has more than 17 years experience in youth ministry and most recently served as the parish coordinator of Youth Ministry for St. Mary Parish in Oak Ridge, Tenn. She also served as the Deanery Coordinator of Youth Ministry and Diocesan NCYC Coordinator for the Diocese of Knoxville. She is a member of the National Federation of Catholic Youth Ministry – Management Committee for Youth Events. Anne can be reached at the Catholic Center at (904) 262-3200, ext. 112 or by email: [email protected]. Mark Udry joined the staff of the Office of Communications on Aug. 1 as the new associate editor of the St. Augustine Catholic magazine. He is a native of Jacksonville and attended Sacred Heart Catholic School, Bishop Kenny High School, Florida Community College and the University of North Florida where he earned a bachelor’s degree in Communications. Mark has an extensive background in photojournalism and writing for newspapers in Phoenix, Orange Park and most recently in south Florida. Mark can be reached at the Catholic Center at (904) 262-3200, ext. 109 or by email: [email protected]. Susie Nguyen Lynn Giorgianni is the new program coordinator for the diocesan “Protecting God’s Children” program. Lynn is also assisting the Chancellor’s Office with parish compliance and audit reporting. She began both duties on Aug. 1. A native of Englewood, N.J., Lynn has a bachelor’s in education from the University of South Florida and a master’s from the University of North Florida. She previously worked in human resources and employee training at CSX and also has experience in elementary school education. Lynn is a member of Holy Family Parish, Jacksonville. You can reach Lynn at the Catholic Center in Jacksonville at (904) 262-3200 or by email: [email protected] Mark Udry The FOCUS team is back at the University of North Florida with two new members. Joining Chris McGraw and Tonya Turner for the peer-to-peer college ministry are Olivia DuBois and Rimas Sidrys. DuBois, from Redlands, Calf, graduated from the University of San Francisco with a bachelor’s in communications. Rimis, from Denver, Colo., is a graduate of the University of Colorado where he majored in marketing. FOCUS stands for Fellowship of Catholic University Students. The ministry recruits recent college graduates between the ages of 22 and 30 and trains them to become missionaries on college campuses. They are currently ministering on more than 25 campuses in the United States. The campus-based ministry provides university students with small group Bible studies, personal discipleship, large group leadership training and fellowship. Mark Udry FOCUS: Reaching College Students at UNF Adopted Children Benefit from License Plates The City of Jacksonville, in compliance with Florida Statute 320.08058(30), has selected Catholic Charities Bureau as the managers of the “Choose Life License Plate” funding for Duval County. The license plates raise money to support adoption efforts of “abortion alternative” organizations that provide free assistance to women in crisis pregnancies and for non-profit adoption agencies. The cost for a Choose Life license tag is $22 per year, above the normal cost of a Florida tag, of which $20 is returned to the county where the tag was purchased. If you are a non-profit, non-governmental agency in Duval County that provides free services and counsels pregnant women who are committed to placing their children for adoption, call Brenda Farr at (904) 354-4718 or email: [email protected] for an application to apply for the funds. Deadline: Sept. 16. St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 29 Advertising in the St. Augustine Catholic may not get you into heaven, but it could get you in front of 162,000 Catholics. calendar of events Contact Tom & Susan Hughes 800-923-WWME (9963) www.geocities.com/jaxMEweb MAKE MILLIONS IN REAL ESTATE! Multiple streams of six figure income. 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Please give us a call today. 1-800-511-4409 United Children’s Fund, Inc. www.unchildren.org 30 St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 September Sept. 14 Annulment Workshop – Wednesday, 7-8 p.m., San Jose Parish, Jacksonville. Presenter: Judicial Vicar Father Tim Lindenfelser. For information, call (904) 733-1630. Sept. 15 Medicaid Planning Seminar – Thursday, 2:30 p.m., St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Parish, Palm Coast. Speaker: Attorney John Crawford. For information, call Nancy Geary, (904) 262-3200, ext. 166 or email: [email protected]. Sept. 16 Volunteer Recognition Luncheon for the Farm Worker Ministry – Friday, Noon, Corky Blue’s Waterfront Restaurant, Palatka. For information, call Al or Olga Moser (386) 698-4234 or (904) 461-9931. Sept. 16-18 Engaged Encounter – A marriage preparation program open to couples of all faiths. Begins Friday, 7:30 p.m., Marywood Retreat Center, Jacksonville. Call (904) 308-7474 or register online: www.dcfl.org Sept. 22 Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends – A program for those separated or divorced. Each Thursday through Dec. 1, 7-9 p.m., Catholic Center, Jacksonville. Registration is limited. Fee: $40. For information, call (904) 308-7474. Sept. 23-25 Worldwide Marriage Encounter – A weekend for couples who want to make a good marriage better. Friday-Sunday, Holiday Inn on Newberry Road, Gainesville. For information, call Deacon Tom Hughes (904) 220-3040 or email: [email protected]. Sept. 24 Project SEE Eye-care Program for inner city African Americans. Sponsored by Catholic Charities’ Farm Worker Ministry and VISTAKON, Saturday, 9 a.m., VISTAKON Bldg. in Deerwood Park, Jacksonville. For information call Gwen Robinson (904) 353-3243. October Oct. 1 Pre Cana– A marriage preparation program for engaged couples who want to marry in the Catholic Church. Available in Spanish and English. Saturday, 8:15 a.m.-5:30 p.m., St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Parish, Palm Coast. Fee: $69 per couple. Call (904) 308-7474 or register online: www.dcfl.org Oct. 1 Newly Married Couples Enrichment Experience: The Next Step – Saturday, 8 a.m.5 p.m., St. Catherine Parish, Orange Park. To register, call Tony and Sandy, (904) 291-1357 or Bill and Georgeanne, (904) 215-0672. Oct. 2 Annual Life Chain in Jacksonville, Jacksonville Beach and Orange Park. Sunday, 2-3 p.m. along Monument Road, on Third Street in Jacksonville Beach and along Kingsley Road in Orange Park. For information, call Tom Masters (904) 998-8577. Oct. 4 Healing Mass and Rosary – Tuesday, 7 p.m., St. Augustine House of Prayer & Evangelization Center, 34 Ocean Ave., St. Augustine. For information, call (904) 824-4831. Oct. 7-9 Engaged Encounter – A marriage preparation program open to couples of all faiths. Begins Friday, 7:30 p.m., Marywood Retreat Center, Jacksonville. Call (904) 308-7474 or register online: www.dcfl.org Oct. 14-16 Retrouvaille/ Rediscovery Weekend – A retreat program for couples with troubled marriages. Friday, 8 p.m. to Sunday, 5 pm., Jacksonville. To register, call Bill or Trudy, (904) 992-0408. Oct. 15 Celebration of Women Conference – Saturday, Noon to 4 p.m., Christ the King Parish, Jacksonville. Speaker: Bishop Victor Galeone. Sponsored by the Commission on Women. For information, call Pat (904) 461-3950 or Barbara (904) 724-1776. Oct. 21-23 Diocesan Marriage Renewal – A retreat weekend for couples who want to enrich their marriage. Begins Friday, 7 p.m., Marywood Retreat Center, Jacksonville. To register, call Tina or John, (904) 744-6843. calendar of events Marywood Events For information on any of the following programs, call 287-2525 in Jacksonville or toll free 1-888-287-2539 or online at www.marywoodcenter.org September Sept. 12 A Practicum for Church Musicians and Leaders of Worship – Leader: Bernie Sans. Monday, 7-9 p.m. Cost: $9. Sept. 17 Your Prayer Style – Is it Right For You? Leader: Joan Kaam. Saturday, 10 a.m.3 p.m. Cost: $27. Sept. 23-25 Christian Meditation Seminar – Leader: Sheelah Trefle Hidden. Friday, 7:30 p.m. - Sunday, 10 a.m. Cost: $113-$193. October Oct. 12 Day of Reflection: Waking Up to God’s Presence Through the Examen of Consciousness – Leader: Mary Ann Johnson. Wednesday, 9:30 a.m.-2:30 p.m. Cost: $27. Oct. 20 Morality of Catholics – Leader: Father Michael Houle. Thursday, 7-9 p.m. Cost: $9. Oct. 22 Roots of Christian Mysticism – Leaders: Cenacle Sisters Elizabeth Hillmann, Rose Hoover and Annette Mattle. Saturday, 9:30 a.m.-3 p.m. Cost: $35. Oct. 28-29 Mother and Adult Daughter Retreat – Leaders: Elizabeth Rhoden and Stacee Vestal. Friday, 7:30 p.m. to Saturday, 3 p.m. Cost: $125. Oct. 22 Fall Encounter for Region VII Cursillo – The Cursillos of the Diocese of Saint Augustine will host this event that includes group sharing and workshops. For information, call Pete Lasher (904) 910-6646 or Larry Hart (904) 443-3134. Oct. 22 Sisters of St. Joseph Annual Art Auction – Proceeds go to care of the elderly and infirm sisters. Saturday, 5-8 p.m., Bishop Baker Parish Hall, 259 St. George Street, St. Augustine. Donation at the door: $25. For information and tickets, call (904) 824-9100. Oct. 23 Closing Mass for “Year of the Eucharist” with Bishop Victor Galeone presiding. Sunday, 11 a.m., Cathedral-Basilica, St. Augustine. For information call (904) 262-3200, ext. 165. Oct. 25 Vocation Discernment Evening – Open to all men interested in learning about the priesthood. Light dinner followed by Q&A with Bishop Victor Galeone. Tuesday, 6 p.m., Catholic Center, 11625 Old St. Augustine Road, Jacksonville. For information, call (904) 262-3200, ext. 101. A Refreshing Stop books, books, gifts, gifts, religious religious items, items, more! more! 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Call (904) 308-7474 or register online: www.dcfl.org November Nov. 4 Festival D’Vine – “Splendors of the Orient,” Friday, 6:30–9:30 p.m., Balis Park of San Marco, Jacksonville. Proceeds benefit Catholic Charities. For information, call Liza Furman (904) 354-4846, ext. 257. Cost: $75 Nov. 5 13th Annual Black & White Ball, Saturday, 6:30 p.m. – Midnight, Prime Osborn Convention Center, Jacksonville. Proceeds go to Catholic Charities to help prevent homelessness. For information and tickets, call Liza Furman (904) 354-4846, ext. 257. Cost: $200. Music, Bibles, Books Jewelry, Videos & More Mother’s Day, Confirmation, Graduation & Father’s Day Gifts 3619 Blanding Blvd. (south of Wilson) Closed Sunday and Monday (904) 777-1880 St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 31 reflection Making Good Marriages GREAT By T h e r e s a N ota r e 32 © age fotostock/SuperStock M Maybe I’ve just watched too many MGM musicals in my life, but I think most marriages are good. I believe that most people enter marriage wanting the best for their spouses and themselves. They want their love to last forever. They hope life won’t be too hard and that they too can have the American dream of children, a home and a happy life. These are good things to aspire to. The Catholic Church has similar desires for married couples but goes further – the church wants good marriages to become great marriages. How can a good marriage become great? Our faith suggests how – by knowing and loving God, and by living in a way that reflects that relationship. As Christians, the starting point for all human relationships is our relationship with the Triune God. It is only in light of that love that we can love the other person fully. As members of the Body of Christ we are called to love as Christ loves – faithfully, generously, and permanently. That’s a huge calling, but grace makes it possible. This common Christian vocation to love God and neighbor takes on a unique focus in the lives of married couples. Its uniqueness is related to God’s original gift to humanity: God blessed man and woman to be “no longer two but one flesh,” and said, “Be fruitful and multiply.” The couple’s shared vocation is embodied in the unitive and procreative nature of marital sexuality. To make a good Christian marriage great, these two aspects of marital sexuality must be understood, nurtured and lived. The marriage bond is formed by a free act of will, and nurtured by selfless love. That means putting your spouse’s needs before your own. If both spouses strive to be mindful of each other, a real communion of persons can be built. Not “me,” but “we” can become second nature and their bond will become strong enough to blossom into a greater love for all human life. The church teaches that marriage involves a radical act of giving. This is nowhere clearer than in the marital embrace. Husband and wife give all of themselves to each other – body, mind and soul. Pope John Paul II has said, “Nothing that is part of themselves can be excluded from this gift.” Their fertility, their power to create a new person to love in union with each other, St. Augustine Catholic September/October 2005 is part of that gift. Here lies the reason why contraception is wrong – it breaks that “inseparable connection” between the two meanings of the conjugal act, the unitive and the procreative.” (Humanae vitae, no. 12) Doing something that is against what God designed us for can only harm us. Living your marriage according to God’s design can only make you happy. It can make your good marriage great! Theresa Notare is the assistant director of the Diocesan Development Program for Natural Family Planning of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops.
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