15 tips: How to build a House of bricks

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MUSICAL
‘Tina and the Magic Mirror’ at Normandie Casino
By Rene Villaroman
Asianjournal.com
CERRITOS — Fresh from a
successful initial production
of Karim at Jasmin—the first
original Filipino opera—MRG
is now preparing for its second
offering, a Broadway musical
comedy written by composer
and writer Dr. Ramon Sison
Geluz. The musical, titled Tina
and the Magic Mirror, will be
presented on February 14 at
Normandie Casino. This was
announced by Dr. Geluz at
his residence here on Sunday,
January 13.
Lara Avengoza, 20, who
starred as one of the water
nymphs (diwata) in Karim at
Jasmin, will star in the lead
role as Tina. Christopher
Avendano, who portrayed the
lead in Karim will play the
lead. Tina and the Magic Mirror is the story of Valentina,
a perpetual dreamer who
celebrates her birthday by
slipping in and out of a magic
mirror that takes her to different romantic and funny adventures. It will feature songs
from iconic Broadway shows,
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living: 101
and beyond
By Monette Adeva Maglaya
Singer Lara Avengoza (left) confers with writer-composer, Dr. Ramon SisonGeluz (right) and pianist-arranger Joselito Pascual during rehearsals for the
Broadway musical “Tina and the Magic Mirror” at the residence of Dr. Geluz
in Cerritos. The musical comedy will be presented at Normandie Casino on
February 14. AJ Photo by Rene Villaroman
including West Side Story, know, it’s a little nerve-rackSouth Pacific, Camelot, The ing at times,” Avengoza told
Phantom of the Opera, and Asian Journal. “But because
other ballads, woven together it’s a musical comedy and the
to provide the romantic ingre- cast is small, I am actually redient in the musical comedy. ally comfortable.”
Tina will be the first imporA couple of years back,
tant role in a musical for Ms. Avengoza performed in a
Avengoza, who began singing back-to-back concert at Hollywhen she was three years wood’s Celebrity Center with
old. “I grew up singing the Chris Lawrence, winner in the
songs of Lea Salonga and Kuh The Filipino Channel-sponLedesma,” she said. “When sored Star in a Million contest.
they (producers) asked me to “That experience was differplay Tina—she’s the lead—I ent because I was still on my
was very excited, but, you phase as a pop and hip-hop
music, and I was still on an
awkward stage in my music,”
Avengoza revealed. “But now
that I am heading towards
musicals, I feel more comfortable in this role.” Avengoza
also had joined the cast of A
Kid’s Life, a traveling musical
production that toured the
U.S. for several weeks.
Classically-trained pianist
and arranger Joselito Pascual—a graduate of the Philippine Women’s University
College of Music—makes a
comeback as musical director
and will co-star with Avengoza, Avendano, and Joan Cano,
(“Princess Rajita” in Karim),
as a pianist who becomes
Tina’s mentor in her musical
journey.
“Actually, this is a lighter
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Remember the story of the
three little pigs?
Everyone does. But we relegate the story to children’s lit
and condescendingly forget that
these cute little porkers bring
home an important point about
the choices we make when we
embark on building something
worthwhile — like choosing the
foundation on which we build
our immigrant life.
The first pig built his house of
straw and the second one built
his house of sticks and went partying till the cows came home.
And the big bad wolf, who had
a hankering for chicharrones,
came down huffing and puffing
and blowing both houses down
in a snap, much to the utter
dismay of the two hapless, lazy
porkers. Running for their lives
with their curled, tiny tails and
the hair on their chinny, chin chin
a-quivering, they dashed over
to safety, straight to the house
of their other stolid, somewhat
stodgy brother pig who had
built his house methodically, meticulously, slowly, brick by solid
brick. Enter the big bad wolf,
now crazed with the thought of
wolfing down not one but three
pigs. He does his blustery huffing
and puffing… well… you know
how the story ended.
Any structural engineer will
agree with the third porker and
allude to the biblical reference
about a house built on a rock
and the wind and rain could
not prevail upon it. He will tell
you that solid foundation work
taking stress points into account
is basic in building anything of
value that’s meant to last. The
same is true in building an immigrant life.
I am certain there are countless other pointers hundreds of
thousands of immigrants more
than 200 years ago can add to
the growing pool of knowledge
and wisdom in this continuing
saga of immigrants shaping this
great country called America,
but in the interest of brevity
and the theme of this special
issue, I’ll cull out only 15 bitesize pointers gleaned and gathered by observation and study.
The first 5 tips came out on
December 13, 2006 issue and
the second set of 5 tips, on the
December 20, 2006 issue.
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Part 3 of 3
15 Tips: How to Build
a House of Bricks
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“Adapt, you must. Or die early, you will.”
— What the dodo bird’s mantra should have been
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3-part series)
11. Pray without ceasing to
the God of your being. Realize that when you do, you will
never be alone. The single,
most important foundation of
a transplanted life begins with
the realization that by yourself
alone, without help, you can do
nothing of real meaning and
lasting value. No obstacle is too
steep, no situation too difficult,
or setback too overwhelming
that cannot be helped by constant, heartfelt prayer and a
foundation of faith so strong, it
can move mountains.
12. Bring it all together. Once
your circumstances become stable and you are able to choose
the type of work you love to
do and more importantly, that
which makes you happy — go
for it. The shift will be uncomfortable and unnerving at first.
Seek the path that makes use of
the abilities and the talents that
you were born with. Listen to
what your whole being says you
were meant to do and enter that
rare, enviable state of being that
finally feels like coming home.
13. Rein in the spirit of the
crab. Put a number of live crabs
in a basket and witness how
crabs behave. Any crab successful enough to rise above
the heads of the other crabs to
escape the confines of the basket will be pulled down by the
pincer claws of the other crabs
underfoot. The crab mentality
is nothing more than envy in
disguise— alive and well in human nature. Lest you think the
Severe Acute Crab Syndrome
(SACS) — a name I coined for
this social phenomenon — is
endemic or unique only to our
community, take heart, for we’re
not alone. Other immigrant
communities report the same
thing. To counteract this, try
and be happy for others (even
if it kills you).
14. Strive to learn any way
you can. Learning is a lifelong
process of adaptation. And to
copy Yoda’s transposed way
of making a point, “Adapt, you
must. Or die early, you will.”
The dodo bird never learned to
adapt, never learned to defend
itself against predators and
became extinct. It’s been said
that the human mind is like a
cup with a hole at the bottom.
You just have to keep trying to
fill that bottomless cup. But be
warned: intelligence alone is
sorely inadequate. The whole
person’s mind and heart must
evolve. Of the two, the heart
should lead. Draw from the
strength of our own culture
and weave it into the new one.
The hybrid is often better suited
to the new environment. The
American Jews have been remarkable because they knew
the value of education and hit
the libraries early in the history
of this country and went all the
way to the highest levels of
learning. Many now dominate
multiple areas of achievement.
Take a cursory look at the young
ones who frequent your local
libraries and those who do
volunteer work and you can
take a peek at what the future
holds. See a preview of which
immigrant communities today
will replicate the patterns of excellence and achievement seen
in earlier groups of immigrants.
Yet, we must never lose sight of
the fact that in the end, all learning means nothing if we never
learn how to love.
15. See the big picture. Between birth and death is life.
How you live your immigrant
life is up to you. Many of the
wisest men who have pondered
the meaning and the purpose
of life over thousands of years,
have defined life according
to their own perceptions and
circumstances. In the end, if
you are in full control of all your
faculties as an average human
being, you and you alone define
your own life with the set of gifts
and the circumstances that life
gives you.
Immigrant or native, remember what someone else wrote
so succinctly long ago about
the essence of any worthwhile
life and that is — TO LIVE
WELL, LAUGH OFTEN AND
LOVE MUCH. May the house
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The crowd in Alex Theatre
there has been talk but right
now we’re just enjoying the
success of Kasal, Kasali and
Sakal, Sakali.”
The young couple was just
very thankful for having the
opportunity to meet Filipinos
that went to the screening.
“To all the Pinoys, thank
you for attending the screening in LA,” said Agoncillo.
“Thank you very much. We
know you lead busy lives here
in America so thank you so
much for the reception you
have given us.”
“Mabuhay,” added Santos.
Love the movie
After the show, the Filipino
crowd had smiles on their
faces.
“Very good,” said Fatima of
LA. “I really love them. They
are so good. All I can say is ‘Oh
my God,’ they are very good.”
“The movie was great, wonderful and funny,” said Ging
Ging. “We all enjoyed it.” (AJ)
A Star-Studded...
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coming here and enjoy the
movie,” added Ryan.
Art imitating life?
In an interview with the
Asian Journal (AJ) backstage,
AJ asked if Ryan and Juday’s
relationship mirrors that of
their characters Jed and Angie
in the movie. Ryan said, “Jed
and Angie’s characters are opposite to who we are.” “Jed is
spineless. Angie is very noisy,
maingay totally the opposite of
Judy but it’s fun to play these
characters. By shooting these
two films, we decided that we
are not going to get married to
Jed and Angie.”
Juday also said that at the
moment there are no plans for
a part 3.
“There’s been talk but honestly, probably not,” said Juday. “Two is enough.”
“We might be stretching
it,” added Ryan. “Honestly,
AJ Photo by Joseph Pimentel
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The contract of Cristine
Reyes with GMA-7 will expire
by the end of January. Some
quarters are speculating that
she will make the big switch
to ABS-CBN. “I don’t want
to choose between the two
networks,” she said. “What’s
important is kung saan maexplore ang talents ko at hindi
lang yung puro pa-sexy.” Is
she staying put in the Kapuso
network because of Dennis
Trillo? “Di ko na muna siya
iniisip,” she said, blushing.
“But I’m not closing my doors
on him.”
Will Dennis come knocking
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Dec. 4) their fourth child at a
San Francisco hospital, safe
and sound, despite earlier
advice by her doctor to choose
between her life and that of
her baby due to Jackie’s heart
problem (reported in “scoops”
by Funfare).
“I was on the phone all
the time Jackie was in labor,”
Anjo tells Funfare. “I felt as if
someone you love got hurt in
an accident but you couldn’t be
with her, so you imagined the
worst scenario.”
Jackie was vacationing in
the US with her mom when
she was diagnosed to have
a bad heart developed when
she was heavy with their third
child. Anjo and their three
kids followed her late last year
and they had a tearful family
Christmas reunion.
“As soon as Jackie delivered
the baby, whom we named
Sean Nathan, I kept checking
during our extended phone
call if he was ‘complete’ — the
toes, the fingers, all parts of
his body — just like how every
parent does. Luckily, and thank
God, Sean is okay.”
Asked what the best lesson
is that he learned from the
experience, Anjo says, “To devote more time to my family. It
shouldn’t be work, work, work
all the time.” g
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