How to Have Sex with 2 Women a Day Mr. Locario Edited & Produced by ITAKKS Media New York 2011 www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 1 Table of Contents Introduction......................................................................... 3 Chapter 1: Becoming the Man/Being the Man....................8 Chapter 2: Develop Your Own Personal Style................. 17 Chapter 3: How to Approach Women in Any Situation... 24 Chapter 4: How to Use Rejection to Your Advantage.......45 Chapter 5: How to Have Sex with Your Co-worker ........55 Chapter 6: How to Make Online Dating Work for You...65 Chapter 7: How to Have Sex with Two Women a Day....73 About the Author..............................................................81 www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 2 Introduction Get ready. What you’re about to experience is unlike anything else you have ever experienced before. You are going to learn how to identify and get exactly what you’ve always wanted from dating. This book is designed to help you -be the Man-who-can-get-any-woman-he-wants -attract a lot of women as sex partners -have multiple options any time you want to have sex The methods are simple, effective, and easy to follow. This book can bring you to a point of having sex with two women a day, and also improve your dating life in general. The methods will help you develop a better understanding of what you are looking for, and direct you in exactly how to get there. Maybe you want to have more sex partners, or maybe you want to be in a committed relationship. Either way, this book will assist you in making it happen. Whatever your goals are, your dating game is about to become more exciting and fulfilling. Having Sex with Two Women a Day www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 3 The title of this book works on multiple levels. It is a metaphor for having options in your sex life, and for bringing you to a point of getting the most satisfaction from dating. While one man might find satisfaction in having sex with many different women, another man might find satisfaction in getting married. Regardless of what your end goal becomes, you will need to experience dating many different women in order to get there. This book is based on the idea that in order to get what you want in any part of your life, you first have to identify what you want. This is especially true when it comes to dating. Exploring your options will help you to figure out what works best for you. The more you experience being involved with different women, the better you will be at identifying what you want from them. Maximizing the number of women you have sex with will give you more experience and will lead to a better understanding of your own dating preferences. You will gain more confidence as you begin to clarify for yourself what it is that you are looking for. As you do this, you will also get more satisfaction from the choices you make with the women you sleep with. In dating hundreds of women, I found ways to get exactly what I wanted from dating. When I first started dating though, I didn’t have the experience, confidence, or self awareness that I have now. I used to settle with dating women who I wasn’t that attracted to, were self absorbed, weren’t good in bed, were rude, or made me wait months for sex. I put up with these women because I thought I had no other options and that I couldn’t do any better. I believed that in order to find sexual satisfaction, I had to put up with a lot of bullshit. www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 4 As I gained experience though, I began to find ways to increase my options. I developed my own personal style and attitude about dating. I worked to overcome being nervous when talking with women and learned to deal with getting rejected. I gained confidence in thinking of myself as the Man-who-can-get-anywoman-he-wants. To be successful with women, I discovered that I just needed to believe I could be. Not only did my dating life become less awkward and unpleasant, it became something I enjoyed and felt that I did well. I was approaching women in the street, at work, in coffee shops, in elevators-- wherever I could. As I grew more comfortable with the dating game, it became clear to me what I wanted from it. Once I knew what I wanted, getting what I wanted was simply the next step. I got to a point where I could call a number of different women to have sex with at any time. I always had options of who to have sex with. Exploring Your Options YOU: I already know what I like from the few women I’ve dated. How would dating a lot of women change my approach? MR. LOCARIO: Until I had dated many different women, I did not have the perspective to see what I wanted or to know that sex could be a constant option in my life. Dating many different women expands your understanding of the choices you have in dating. This will then give you the option to choose the choice that is best for you. www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 5 Let me share with you an example: David is a guy I know who’d never had many options with who he dated. He didn’t approach girls much, and so he only ever slept with a few women. The few girls he got with had a slim, skinny body type. He tried to talk with thicker girls a few times, but it just never worked out for him. He got into a committed relationship with a slim girl for a few years, but he was always curious about dating thicker chicks. He felt like he might be missing out on something. At one point, he got a copy of my book, The Magnificent 10: Crucial Dating Tips for Men and started using the ideas from it in his own life. He started talking with more women, and finally had the opportunity to sleep with a thicker girl. David dated many different types of women, and after a while, he discovered that he liked thick girls better than slim ones. When David started dating this thick, curvy woman named Sylvia, he was confident that she was the type of woman that he would be satisfied with. A few years later, David was still dating Sylvia. He told me how glad he was that he had been able to explore his options with women. He would not have realized this without experiencing sex with both slim and thick girls. If he hadn’t gotten with some thicker girls, he would always have wondered about it and probably would have felt unsatisfied with his sex life. Once David had experienced dating and having sex with many different women, he was able to make a better decision for himself. I’m not saying that thick girls are better than slim girls, but that having options allows any man to choose what is best for him. In this www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 6 case, David found he liked having sex with thicker women, but that was just specific to him and his preferences. How to Make it Work The only way you will be able to know and get what you want from dating is if you date a lot of women. You will need to date and have sex with multiple women on a regular basis. This way, you will be able to make the right choices for yourself in who you date and what you are getting from it. This allows you to choose to be with women who you really want to be with, rather than just settling for what you can get. YOU: Okay, I’m in! Now, where do I start? MR. LOCARIO: It all starts with this: The power to be successful comes from you. Reading through the chapters in this book will give you the tools to have sex with a lot of women. But to actually have sex with a lot of women, you have to put these tools to use. You’re going to have to try it out, and persevere if gets challenging. The only thing that could stop you is... you. If you don’t make the effort, guess who is going to be jerking off in a room by himself? www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 7 Chapter 1: Becoming the Man/Being the Man Do you ever wonder why some men are always getting with a lot of women, and other men can’t even get with one? What, you wonder, makes one guy so much more successful than the other? Why do some men seem to have all the luck? It actually has nothing to do with luck. A man can only be successful with women if he believes he can. The basic difference between a man who gets with a lot of woman and a man who doesn’t get with a lot of women is the way that they think about themselves. The first guy thinks and believes he can do it, and the second guy doesn’t. What you think and believe about your own capabilities is the foundation for how you will approach women. This is what you have to realize before you can even attempt to get with women. To be the type of man that can get any women he wants whenever he wants to, you have to begin thinking and believing you are that Man. This is the starting point to becoming the Man-who- can-getany-woman-he-wants. In becoming the Man, you will be able to approach and get any woman you want because that’s what you do. It’s simple: www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 8 You are a man who thinks and believes that he can get with a lot of women. As a result, you will start getting with a lot of women. YOU: But how am I going to believe that I’m that type of guy when I know I’m not? MR. LOCARIO: At this point, you need to begin training the way you think. The more you focus on thinking a certain way, the more it becomes reality. When you get dressed in the morning, when you look in the mirror, when you walk down the street, just say to yourself, “I am a man who can get any woman he wants.” Say this either out loud or in your mind over and over again. “I am a man who can get any woman he wants.” When you do this, your subconscious mind begins to take in that information. It will be reflected in your confidence level and in the way you approach social situations. As it filters into your subconscious, you will automatically start to do things that will make you become that man. Developing Your Inner Game If you wanted to become a doctor, you would first have to think about how to become a doctor. You would make a plan-of-action that would probably include getting an undergraduate degree, studying four years in medical school, working a two year residency, and getting a license. To follow through with all the years of hard work and labor, you would need to believe that becoming a doctor was a reasonable goal. Once you’d completed these steps, then you would finally be in a position to become a doctor. Looking back, you would see that this process was www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 9 started by you thinking about becoming a doctor, and that by continuously believing in that thought made it a reality. Similarly, you will need to think of the steps it takes to become the Man-who-can-get-any- woman-he-wants, and continue to believe in yourself. This means that when negative, insecure thoughts pop into your head, it is vital that you not dwell on them. Focus your energy on believing you can accomplish this goal. So while you are having a wonderful day telling yourself, “I am a man who can get any woman he wants,” a thought might pop in your head like, “I can’t get any woman I want. I’m a loser.” Do not, and I mean do not pay attention to that. This thought is popping in your head because you’ve been conditioned for years to think this way. You’ve probably thought about it a lot, and it is only getting in your way. You have to change your thinking. Keep telling yourself, “I am a man who can get any woman he wants.” Surprisingly, these negative, insecure thoughts will show up less frequently and in time, they will stop completely. If someone suggests, “You can’t get any woman you want” or “You’re a loser,” it will sound like a joke to you. This is because you’ll have re-programmed your mind to think otherwise. You’ll have successfully overcome the negativity and insecurity. By thinking and believing you are the Man you want to be, you will become him. www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 10 MR. LOCARIO: I’d like to point out to you that you are, in fact, a man who can get any woman he wants. I know this because of how many men I have helped discover this about themselves. It has become clear to me that any man who believes he can do this can actually do it. When telling yourself, “I am a man who can get any woman he wants,” focus on believing what you are saying. If you don’t truly believe it, then you are actually telling your subconscious, “I can’t get any woman I want, I’m just lying to myself.” Even when those random, “No I’m not,” and “No I can’t” thoughts come up in your mind, you need to remind yourself that they have no credibility. They are just your insecurities speaking. Remind yourself to laugh it off because they simply can’t be true. YOU: Why can’t they be true? MR. LOCARIO: Because-- you are a man who can get any woman he wants! Taking on the Role Getting many women is about to become something that you do, but it will only represent a part of who you are in the moment that you are doing it. What I’m saying is that you’ll focus on being the Man when you are interacting with women. In that context, you are the Man-who-can- get-any-woman-he-wants. It is like a role you play when you are approaching women. It becomes one of the many aspects of your life that makes up who you are. But while it’s www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 11 something you’ll do well, it will only define a part of who you are in a particular context. How you present yourself changes depending on where you are and what you’re doing. What you say and how you act with your grandmother is probably different from what you say and how you act in a job interview, or with friends. You recognize that you are in a different context, and you act accordingly. It is the same for being the Man. As you become the Man, you are like an actor playing a role in a movie. The way you take on this new role is the same as a good actor preparing himself for a new character. He will focus his energy and his mind on being this character. When he is acting, he feels as if this is who he really is. The character’s emotions become his emotions, and he can look like he is extremely depressed or elated because that’s actually how he feels. In learning to get any woman you want, you must become as invested in becoming the Man as an actor is in becoming his character. Men often take rejection personally and imagine it means that there’s something wrong with them. It lowers their self-esteem and affects their future pursuits with women. I am always getting questions like, “How come she doesn’t like me?” “Why won’t she return my calls?” “What did I do wrong?” www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 12 A man who says this is making the mistake of getting his ego caught up in the dating game. He thinks that when a woman rejects his game that it is a reflection of who he is as a man. He takes the rejection personally, and begins to believe that there is something wrong with him. Thinking of the Man as a part of your personality rather than what defines who you are will help you maintain your confidence and focus. You can approach a woman with the knowledge that if she rejects you, it is actually just your game she is rejecting. She doesn’t know you personally, and so she can’t reject you as a person. This way of thinking will help you remember that who you are is not defined by your success with women. MR. LOCARIO: Keep in mind that dating is a game. While reading this book, you are preparing yourself to be successful in that game. Becoming the Man is taking on that role. Getting with any woman you want is part of the game. Remember that being the Man is something you do-- not who you are as a person. What’s more, games are meant to be fun. So while you are playing the dating game, have fun! Don’t take anything too seriously while you are playing. YOU: But this is about either having sex or going home alone. How can I not take it seriously? MR. LOCARIO: Because it’s just a game. Let’s say, for example, you were talking with www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 13 a girl, but then she refuses to give you her number. As she walks away, would you feel like a loser? YOU: Yeah, probably. MR. LOCARIO: Why? YOU: Because she rejected me. MR. LOCARIO: Actually, she didn’t reject you. YOU: What do you mean? MR. LOCARIO: She rejected the role you were playing. She can’t reject you because being the man is not who you are, it’s what you do. Consider the game Monopoly-- where players use character pieces (the dog, the shoe, the boat, etc.) to move around the board. As you play, you buy property, pay taxes, or earn money. Let’s say you are playing with some friends. At one point, you ask your friend to sell a property to you, and offer a substantial payment. But your friend refuses. As the game moves on, do you feel like a loser? YOU: Not really. www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 14 MR. LOCARIO: Why not? YOU: Because it’s just a game. MR. LOCARIO: Exactly. And in the same way, you should never feel like a loser when playing the dating game. So many men get their egos caught up in rejection. They end up thinking that they are losers, taking it personally, feeling frustrated, and getting upset. But by approaching it as a game, you can avoid these obstacles. There is really no reason to take it personally if a woman rejects you. You are playing a role, and this is just a part of the game. [See more about rejection in Chapter 4.] In Summary *You already have what it takes to get with all the women you want. You simply need to take in the information, set your goals, and follow through. *You will only be successful with women if you think and believe you can be. *You can become the Man-who-can-get-any-woman-he-wants by telling yourself you are. By telling yourself, “I am a man who can get any woman I want,” you are training your thought processes, your confidence, and your approach to be successful. www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 15 *Being the Man-who-can-get-any-woman-he-wants is a role you play, not who you are as a person. *While reading this book, you are preparing yourself for your role in the dating game. *Games are meant to be fun. So while you are playing the dating game, enjoy yourself! www.mrlocario.com www.mrlocario.com 16