Steeple Notes Newsletter for the family and friends of St. James’ Episcopal Church The Rev. Robin Martin, Interim Rector The Rt. Rev. Clifton Daniel 3rd , Bishop Provisional 409 E. Lancaster Ave., Downingtown, PA 19335 Parish Office: 610-269-1774 www.stjameschurch.ws email: [email protected] November 2014 From the Interim Rector Christmas is coming. As soon as Halloween is past…or maybe before, the decorations will be up in the stores, and Xmas muzak will fill the air. The number and frequency of catalogues coming to our house seems to have diminished in our increasingly digital age, but any day now we’ll be reminded how dependent the economy is on this once a year buying binge the culture encourages. And you and I have to decide where we’ll be on the continuum that runs from “Bah, humbug!” to greedy excess. I can’t tell you how many times during the years I’ve had some version of the same conversation with the mothers of children of all ages. The conversation always centers on how to manage the tensions around gift-giving and how they are trying to teach their children to be givers as well as receivers. These kinds of conversations almost always remind me of a story Kathleen, my long time parish secretary at the Church of the Advent, told me the year her daughter Laura was dying. Apparently a Jewish friend of Kathleen’s granddaughter, Jessica, is given a significant amount of money by her parents each year to do good deeds of her choosing. That year the friend chose to do a couple of things for Jessica and her family. I no longer remember the order in which these deeds were done, but one was to give Jessica a dog of her own. The other was to provide the extended family with an elegant and delicious catered Christmas dinner. Both gifts were intended to ease the sorrow and the burdens of a very difficult time. In Judaism, acts like these are called mitzvahs. The common definition of mitzvah is an act of human kindness, but it also refers to the commandments in the Torah and the rabbinical commandments. The importance of good deeds and the values and ethic they reflect is not limited to Judaism. Most faith systems share a similar understanding of the importance of doing good for the sake of others. Jesus reminds you and me that part of the Great Commandment is to love our neighbors as ourselves. Sometimes we forget that acts of human kindness are not just something we’re meant to do when we feel like it, but the commandment of God to all who would be faithful. This is an excellent time of year to remember the call to be good to others and generous to those who need our help. It’s also a good time to guide our children to a new way of thinking about Christmas. There’s no way to protect them from the wave of desires for more and more things that will wash over them in the coming weeks. But we can mediate it by helping them think about others and, like the parents of Jessica’s friend, help and encourage them to do something for someone else. (See Rector on page 2) outgoing and touchy-feely myself, I still know how violated I can feel when someone touches me in ways that And maybe a new word would help them… are unwelcome or make me uncomfortable. That leads and each of us think about it in a different way. me to think it is wise for each of us to be sensitive to the Maybe each of us can perform mitzvahs that will needs of others and not just assume they’re dying for a bear hug from us! (Rector Continued from page 1) help us celebrate the greatest mitzvah of all, the gift of God’s Son. It’s not even November as I write this. My intention is not to rush the season, but to help us not be overrun by it. It’s never too soon to think about what acts of human kindness with which we want to honor the Christ Child. But then I began to think about experiencing the exchange of the peace as a newcomer to the congregation…which I did when I became your Interim Rector. I wonder if it accentuates a feeling of newness and notyet-belonging to witness people scurrying around embracing and greeting one another the way it is so often done in so many places. Robin + I will tell you that I personally do have a problem with people who utilize the peace to chat with one another. That’s what coffee hour is for, and when it happens in worship it tends to make that part of the service even more chaotic and loud and extended than it needs to be. SUNDAY MATTERS Not long after John and I were married over fortyseven years ago, the Episcopal Church began the trial use of proposed changes to the Book of Common Prayer that had been adopted in 1928. That trial period lasted through several revisions of the proposed changes until To clasp someone’s hand, look in their eyes and the Book of Common Prayer we use today was adopted wish them God’s peace is a wonderful gift and takes but in 1976. Some of us old enough to remember that shift may still refer to the prayer book we now use on Sun- a few seconds. I encourage all of us to think about what we do at the peace, why we do it that way and what the days as the “new” book. effect may be on someone else. One of the things many people found most difficult in those early days was the introduction of exchanging the peace into the service. As I recall, those who took exception to it were not particularly interested in the fact that it was the reintroduction of a very ancient practice in worship. They simply didn’t like what they experienced as an interruption in the service, and they didn’t like having to interact with and touch those around them in the context of worship. For people who felt that way, worship was about them and God, not them and the worshiping community. Over time most people either embraced the change or learned to live with it. I KNOW!!! I am wading into treacherous waters here, and that feelings run deep in all directions around this matter. I just think it’s good to be aware of those whose needs may be different from ours and try to respect that. I would LOVE!!! to have conversation about this with whomever is interested in exploring it further. NEWS FROM THE PRESCHOOL November is an exciting time at the preschool. Though our trips to the playground are a bit chilly, we still enjoy getting our outside time and fresh air. OctoSomeone was talking to me about the peace a while ber was exciting! We took field trips to pick apples at back, and it got me to thinking about this again for the Highland Orchards and to the West Chester Planetarium first time in a long time…but from a different perspec- to do some stargazing. So much fun! tive. I began to wonder about exchanging the peace and We look forward to spending some time with the how it’s done in terms of what it communicates at the level of hospitality. You see, I still hear complaints children and their dads on Nov. 12 for Daddies’ Night. from some who find the practice intrusive and some- This year will be our fifth annual Bingo Night with times downright raucous and disrespectful. This was Daddy! The children will have a fabulous time getting true at the Church of the Advent where I was before and some one on one time with Daddy and playing autumn and Thanksgiving themed bingo. it is true here at St. James’ Church as well. We will all be spending time discussing ThanksAs I thought about it, I realized just how intrusive it might feel to someone who has a more reserved nature giving celebrations, turkeys, and things that we are than some of the rest of us. As someone who is pretty thankful for. One of our favorite traditions is the Thanksgiving feast where we Pilgrims and Indians from 2 different classes gather together to share a meal in our THE DISCERNMENT COMMITTEE traditional costumes that we make in class. Following a Dear friends, sing-a-long the children will feast on turkey sandwiches, applesauce and popcorn. Yesterday I had the pleasure of addressing the congregation regarding our discernment status. My objecAs 2014 is winding down, it’s time to start thinking tive was two-fold. First, I wanted to acknowledge your about registration for 2015/16 already! We give St. feelings of concern and interest in this lengthy process. James preschool families first priority in registering for As a committee, we meet frequently and have been busy classes. Registration for our families begins December interviewing candidates either by phone or in person. 3/4 before we open up registration to the community on There is a certain amount of reference checking, evaluDecember 10. ating sermons, site visits and general correspondence. All the while, we listen for the small still voice of the As always, if you have any questions or concerns, Spirit guiding us toward a rector who will love us, applease feel free to stop in the office. preciate us and move us spiritually forward in God’s We wish you and your families a happy, healthy will. We are unwavering in our commitment to the Thanksgiving. Suzanne Diodato and Johanna Uggla Spirit through our steadfast commitment to you. ST. JAMES PRESCHOOL WELCOMES WCU INTERNS! Second, I wanted to briefly explain the cumbersome nature of discernment setbacks. Why is this taking so long? Well, things happen. Sometimes it is the candidate who accepts a call to another parish. Sometimes it is our committee who determines that the person is not a good fit for St. James’. Sometimes it is the diocese who steps in with new information that prevents the Bishop from recommending a rector to be called. In any event, we start the process over again, each time a relationship with the candidate ends. St. James Preschool is honored once again to have been selected by West Chester University as one of their early childhood education field experience schools! Since the first day of school, we have had the pleasure of working with 8 West Chester University early education major student interns. The WCU students are working two or three days a week each in 4 of our classrooms and learning from our experienced teachers. It has been a wonderful experience for the interns, the St. James staff, and our lucky St. James students. While the interns are getting hands on experience under the supervision of our teachers, our classrooms are thriving with the energy, enthusiasm, and fresh ideas that the interns bring to our school. While we will be sad to see our current interns go at the end of their semester in December, we look forward to continuing the program with a new group of students in January. Pray for us, as we keep this journey a spiritual one. This is more than filling a position and we certainly could have had a priest hired immediately to ‘run’ the parish. That was clearly not what we were commissioned to do. Until we can recommend a priest to our congregation, we will “Work as if everything depends on us and pray as if everything depends on God” - St. Ignatius Loyola GUATEMALA COFFEE Don’t hesitate to the contact any one of the committee with questions or concerns. Have you started thinking about holiday and Christmas gifts? Juan-Ana Coffee from Guatemala could help with your gift list. This is the delicious coffee that is served at coffee hour and most St. James' events. The coffee is grown in San Lucas Toliman where conditions are perfect for raising the very best coffee. It is grown by independent farmers who previously worked on large plantations. The money we pay for the coffee goes directly to these f a r m i n g f a m i l i e s . The cost is $10 for a 17 ounce bag. It is available in ground, whole bean, and dark roast whole bean. Contact Barbara Monaghan or the parish office during business hours to order. Faithfully, Cathy Renzulli, Chair, Discernment Committee Discernment Prayer Almighty God, giver of every good gift: Look graciously on your Church, And so guide the minds of those who shall choose a rector for our parish, that we may receive a faithful pastor, who will care for your people and equip us for our ministries; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. ~ BCP, p. 818 3 LADIES NIGHT OUT, GET YOUR CRAFT ON! SAVE THE DATE Sunday School Christmas Pageant December 21 at the 11am service Learn how to make a faux stained glass Christmas ornament while enjoying the fellowship of the Ladies of St. James. Wednesday, November 5, 7 pm, Bartholomew Hall. Supplies will be provided; cost is $3.00 per ornament. Bring your own beverage and a snack to share. Please note that while the skills needed for this project are minimal, this is an evening of adult fellowship, no children please. You are invited to join the Sunday school students of St. James’ Church for their traditional Christmas Pageant and Rite II Eucharist Please RSVP, including how many ornaments you would like to make, to Carol Ryan, 610-547-9182, [email protected] by November 2nd so that there will be enough supplies for everyone. If you have other SUNDAY SCHOOL homemade ornament ideas you would like to share, bring a sample with you and if there is enough interest, OUTREACH PROJCT we can meet again to keep crafting. There will be a calOne of my requirements for endar of available dates to help us decide when to meet a class I am taking at Immacuagain. lata University is to help and honor our veterans through outreach. Vestry has giving HOLIDAY TIME BABYSITTING BY me permission to work with the youth group. My goal GIRL SCOUT CADETTE TROOP #423 is to give back to St. James’ Sunday school by working 8th grade Cadette Troop #423 will be offering a with the youth group, getting them involved so they can babysitting afternoon or evening one of the weekends in see what their hard work can do for others and letting between Thanksgiving and Christmas right here at St. the veterans know they are not forgotten. James Church! You know how you always wished for a few hours without the kids at home to pull out all of those gifts and get them all wrapped at once? Some time to run those errands and shop for those tricky hard to buy for relatives? An hour or two to pull out all of the Christmas decorations and get the house ready? Troop #423 to the rescue. These responsible, fun-loving 8th grade girls, under the supervision of their troop leaders, will be providing babysitting down in the preschool. They will provide fun activities for the children and keep them safe and entertained at St. James Preschool while you can get some things done during this busy time of year. Or maybe just take some time to yourself to catch your breath or have a quiet meal with your spouse! The details, including the date and time are still being worked out, but stay tuned for further information. We hope you will join Troop #423 for their babysitting event! I have been in contact with Gina Cybator, of the Coatesville Veterans Affairs Medical Center. Ms. Cybator suggested making individual care packages for the veterans by filing drawstring bags with personal items such as toiletries, new underwear or socks, etc. The first part of the project will be the youth group making the drawstring bags. A member of the church has already volunteered to cover the cost of the materials needed. We are looking for some adult volunteers to donate their time, talents, and sewing machines to help make the bags. Donated items to the fill the bags will be coming from other sources as well as reaching out to our members in the near future. Once the bags are finished and items collected and organized we will fill the bags. As a group, if possible, we will take a trip to the CVAMC to drop everything off along with some baked goodies as ADULT SPIRITUAL EDUCATION well. Ms. Cybator, told me the veterans always appreciAre you interested in an adult forum that could be a bi- ate fresh baked goods. As another component, I want to ble study or a time of meditation and prayer or a little of ask the younger classes to make cards for the veterans. both on Sundays at 10 AM? Please talk to Laura Harting at church or e-mail her at [email protected] or For more information or to volunteer to help make call 610 363-5258. the drawstring bags please contact me at 610-306-5199 Group meets on Sunday at 10am in the library or [email protected]. Thank you, Megan McIlvaine 4 MEN’S BIBLE STUDY RESUMES “Masculinity: Will the Real Jesus Please Stand Up?” will be the theme of the next men’s Bible study at St. James. Newcomers are welcome. We’ll use the same Serendipity format we’ve used before, but this time we’ll meet off-site, at Don Harting’s house, in the Brookwood subdivision of Uwchlan Township. We will also meet at a different (early!) time: 6:00 a.m. to 7:30 a.m. on Fridays, beginning October 31 and ending December 12. Cofacilitators will be Rob Deitcher and Don Harting. Please sign up so we know how many packets to make. The sign-up sheet and schedule are posted in the hallway. Questions? Contact Rob [email protected] or Don [email protected]. Masculinity: Will the Real Jesus Please Stand Up?* St. James’ Men’s Bible Study Fall, 2014 Hosts: Don and Laura Harting Co-leaders: Rob Deitcher and Don Harting Session Day Date Topic Bible passage Story 1 Fri 10/31 The Divine Jesus “God with us” 2 Fri 11/7 The Human Jesus Matthew 1:1825 Luke 4:14-30 3 Fri 11/14 The Initiated Jesus 4 Fri 11/21 The Tough Jesus Fri 11/28 NO MEETING 5 Fri 12/5 6 Fri 12/12 “Isn’t this Joseph’s son?” Matthew 3:13 4:11 Mark 11:12-19 Baptized and tempted The Tender Jesus John 11: 1-44 “Jesus wept.” The Triumphant Jesus Luke 23:44-49 Jesus’ death Temple cleansing time NOTE: This Bible study will be held at Don Harting’s house, 301 Brookwood Drive, Downingtown, (near the intersection of Peck Road.) Lost? Call 610-635-5303 for directions. SCHEDULE FOR EACH SESSION 6:00 to 6:15 a.m. Coffee and small talk 6:15 to 7:00 a.m. Bible study 7:00 to 7:30 a.m. Prayer PAPER RECYCLING NEWS Many of our members and neighbors use our recycling dumpster to recycle their papers to help the environment and the church. I am sad to say that the dumpster will be removed by the middle of November. There are a few reasons why with the major one being the repainting of the parking spaces and the location of the one of the community gardens. It will be difficult to relocate the dumpster without taking up two parking spaces for easy pick up by the very large recycling truck. If you have ever been at the church during the week with Preschool drop off and pick up and Thrift Shop customers you know how full the parking lot can be. Every parking space is valuable. We are sorry for any inconvenience this might cause. Most of us are able to recycle paper with our home trash pick up, but if you can not, United Methodist Church by Simpson Meadows has two dumpsters behind the church, and many of the local schools have dumpsters. A silver lining, we will now be able to add two or three additional community gardens to help feed the clients of the Lord’s Panty. Questions and concerns, please contact Bruce Shipley. 5 FOR ALL THE SAINTS We have many members that give of their time and talents for various committees and ministries. Members of vestry, altar guild, Forever Endeavor, and the choir. Our greeters, ushers, acolytes, lectors, chalicists, the verger, Sunday school teachers, troop boxes, and coffee hour volunteers. We know and see these volunteers and recognize their valuable contributions each week to the life of St. James’. There are also the “Quiet Saints” of St. James’ listed below. These are the volunteers who give of their time and talents quietly behind the scenes and go unnoticed. Your gifts are priceless and we thank you. pending RussRobinsonfors theannual ing ct ondu hours...weeks...cth echurchandNancyr financialauditof ing himtotakeove Robinsonforallowgroomtable theirdinin Don Harting and Matt Ryan for maintaining the website Barb Conne r and desser for her cookies ts on a mom ents notice Our Office Volunteers Nancy Cianfrani Louise McIlvaine Joan Craft Barb Monaghan Judy Craig Nancy Cianfrani Scott and Gwen Sett le the street and letting for having lived dow n us in the b we forgot uilding wh our keys . e n M e eting when the alarms we the police nt off Sam Benne for helping the office staff with computer issues. Auction Volunteers. It takes so many behind the scenes volunteers to list. You know who you are and we thank you. Pat Wood for making coffee for the 7:45ers each Sunday. r e” Hernandez fo Catherine “Mik ffee ffee cakes for co her delicious co hour Newsletter Crew Don & Florence Vivian Rita Montgomery Pat Wood Ken & Peggy Leister Marcia Rosenberg Chet Whiting Alice Smith rsonswhdo e p r o n o wnpers iltersan Theunknnoatedthecoffeefoilformany havedollsofaluminumf rs largero manyyea Gene Sullivan for his expert help and guidance with the auction computers Sandy Hodson and Chet whiting for being acolytes and chalicists for funerals with very little notice for pher McIntyre to is hr C d an ff Je ilds around the bu cutting the gras re e id with outs ing and helping pairs Carol McConnell for caring for our beautiful gardens DonVivianfor chalicistsforfunbeeringanacolyteand whatneedstobe als,andjustdoing done Barb Monaghan, the Queen of recycling. Jack Mea for making the weekly delivery of donated food to the Lord’s pantry the Judy Benne for being staff op voice of the Thrift Sh Gleaning Gardens Catherine “Mike” Hernandez Elaine Mordosky Adam and Carol D'Andrea Laura Harting Wanda and Rich Bryant Martin Price For weeding, watering, and harvesting and donating over 125 pounds of veggies and herbs to the Lord’s Pantry of Downingtown Thrift Shop volunteers Pat Jennifer Rita Marnie Marjorie Nancy Martha Janet Bernice Catherine “Mike” Carol 6 Counters Don Vivian Nancy Cianfrani Ron & Karen Meacham Ed & Marilyn Miller George & Beverley Hotton Terri Silvester Barb Monaghan Matt Ryan for being our 1st responder to building alarms going off in the middle of the night. Ron Meacham for the #2 responder. Members of the Discernment Committee for giving so much of your time to be a part of this very important committee. Jim Craig and Art Tompkin Two Quiet Saints, never to be forgotten November Altar Flowers November Birthdays Len Smith November 1 Fiona Rupp November 2 Michele Holman November 3 Luann McIlvaine November 3 Jack Mea November 4 Sam Benne November 5 George Fritze Sr November 5 Tim Gemmell November 7 Jared Shea November 7 Barbara Conner November 9 Patty Edge November 9 Carly Sharamatew November 10 Ranee Shipley November 12 George Hotton Rich Snyder November 14 November 15 George Zeiner November 15 Brett Leister November 18 Rob Deitcher Dante D'Andrea November 20 November 21 Glenn Fredericksen November 22 Kathy Voltz November 22 Conor Feeley Megan Heurich November 23 November 24 Darlene Kimber November 26 Jim Smyth November 26 Rosa Butler Jane Dalziel November 28 November 28 Greg Lewis November 28 Carol D'Andrea Rachel Wallace November 29 November 29 Piper Hudecheck November 30 Support Group Meetings In Bartholomew Hall Monday 7:00pm Monday Message Open AA Tuesday: 8:00pm NA 1st Tuesday of month 8:00pm District AA Friday: 8:00pm AA and Al Anon Saturday: 6:30pm AA offered in loving memory of November 2 Maurice Felton Kenneth S. Miller Eunice & Raymond Hiltebeitel November 9 Elizabeth M. Whiteman Edward Schmid Jim Craig November 16 Chester E. Whiting, Jr. November 23 Jacob V. Edge Edmond Cosgriff November 30 Richard & Jane McConnell Altar Flowers can be given in memory of or in thanksgiving of a loved one. Please fill in the date you would like in the Altar Guild Flower Book located on the table by the main entrance. Envelopes for payment are next to the book. HOSPITALIZATION REMINDER It is important to notify the Rector or the parish administrator (610-269-1774) when you or a family member is in the hospital. Due to privacy laws, hospitals are no longer able to give the church that information. Please let us know when you are in the hospital. Private messages may be left for the rector at 610-873-1065. After hours pastoral emergencies: 610-306-7059. Do you need help with meals? Our Ministry of Meals can help. Contact the Rector, parish administrator, or Mandy Watson at 610-518-0399. HUDSON L. VOLTZ, ESQUIRE JANET J. SATTERTHWAITE, ESQUIRE JOY L. VALANIA, ESQUIRE HEIDI T. NOVINO, PARALEGAL HUDSON L. VOLTZ, P.C. ATTORNEYS AT LAW Small Business ~ Family Law ~ Estate Planning & Probate ~ Real Estate Law THE LAIRD PROFESSIONAL BUILDING 610-518-9500 110 HOPEWELL ROAD, SUITE 200 Fax 610-518-5316 DOWNINGTOWN, PA 19335-1047 E-mail: [email protected] Mr. Voltz is a member; serving the St. James’ Community for Real Estate, Family, Business and Estate matters for the past 20 years 7 COMMITMENT SUNDAY All Saints Sunday, November 2, is Commitment Sunday You will be receiving in the mail your pledge card for 2015. Please bring your pledge card to church on November 2 to offer your pledge as a gift at God’s altar at one of the services. Thanks for Giving Celebration, November 9 Join vestry on November 9 after the 7:45 service and at 10am as they host a special coffee hour in celebration of our gifts to St. James’ Church of our time, talents, and treasures. Please join us for our Christmas Services ****Please note changes to the service times for this year’s Christmas Eve services**** Christmas Eve 4:30pm - Holy Eucharist Rite II Family, Contemporary 8:30pm Holy Eucharist Rite II Traditional Choir Music Christmas Day 10:00am Holy Eucharist with the Blessing of the Toys Sunday Service Schedule 7:45am Holy Eucharist, Rite I 9:00am Holy Eucharist, Rite II, Contemporary Music Nursery care during the 9am and 11am service 10:00am Fellowship and Coffee Hour in Bartholomew Hall 10:00am Christian Education Classes 11:00am Holy Eucharist, Rite II Traditional Music Rector The Rev. Robin Martin, Interim Rector [email protected] Parish Administrator/Bookkeeper Luann McIlvaine [email protected] Christian Education Coordinator Beth Sharamatew [email protected] Vestry Members - Term 2015 Judy Benne Rich Carango Nancy Cianfrani Brooke Giffi Home: 610-286-6141 Home: 610-518-0399 Home: 484-341-8051 Home: 610-594-2712 Parish Office ~ 610-269-1774 409 E. Lancaster Ave., Downingtown, PA 19335 Monday : 10am - 3pm Tuesday – Thursday: 9:00am – 3:00pm, Closed Friday Thrift Shop ~ 610-873-7812 Monday - Thursday: 10:00am – 3:00pm 1st & 3rd Saturdays each month: 9am - 1pm St. James Preschool ~ 610-269-0525 www.stjamespreschool.com Vestry Members - Term 2016 Bob Yuninger Tim Gemmell Bruce Shipley Matt Wagner Home: Home: Home: Home: 610-380-7941 610-431-7174 215-368-0542 610-873-2419 Vestry Members - Term 2017 Laura Harting Peggy Leister Dick McConnell Ron Meacham Home: Home Home: Home: 610-363-5258 610-696-5271 610-524-2447 610-269-9352 Deadline for the December/January issue of the Steeple Notes is due November10th. Please submit articles, announcements, and calendar events to the parish office via email [email protected]
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