A publication of Philadelphia Corporation for Aging 2013 November 2014 Free Patricia Woods Sellers: Street musician Home Energy What to do in case of a power outage Inside Veteran outreach: Once homeless, now he helps others .......................5 Utility assistance: Programs available for lowincome households ...... 4 Photo by Paola Nogueras By Linda L. Riley “Music’s good for the soul,” says Patricia Woods Sellers, who has found a new outlet for her talents at age 87. By Constance Garcia-Barrio Feature Topic: Home Energy Health Tips. . . . . . . . . . 2 Calendar . . . . . . . . . . 8-9 In Season . . . . . . . . . . 14 Don’s Column . . . . . . . 15 The Milestones Crossword. . . . . . . . . . 15 Next Month: Caregiving Numbers can pin down age and weight, but they can’t quantify spunk. At 87 years and 95 pounds, Patricia Woods Sellers, of Oreland, has begun a career as a street musician. “I’d seen guitarists and singers in Center City, and I asked myself, ‘Why not me?’” Her Saturday performances outside Kilian’s Hardware Store, 8450 Germantown Ave. in Chestnut Hill, have been decades in the making. “I started studying piano at age 7,” said Sellers. Her parents got her a spinet at first, but she wanted a baby grand. “The baby grand’s longer strings mean a richer sound.” After some wrangling, she and her parents made a truce: If she did well, they would buy a baby grand. They might have foreseen the outcome, given her love of keyboards. “When I was a little girl, my parents had friends who owned a pump organ,” she said. “I would play it when they were trying to visit. It drove them crazy.” Other members of the Sellers clan enjoyed the baby grand that soon graced the family’s Erdenheim home. “My father and his four sisters all sang and played the piano,” said Sellers, an only child. “On Sunday afternoons they would get together and have a sing-sing.” By her 20s, Sellers had married and begun working at an engineering firm, Milton Roy, which makes products to treat water. A drafting clerk, she took care of the blueprints. She also played tricks on the engineers. “I might tell one of them that the president of the company wanted to see him immediately, but it wasn’t so,” she said. “We liked each other and got along.” She devoted herself solely to homemaking after the birth of a son, Scott, in 1955 and then her daughter, Nina, in 1965. Change blindsided her when her marriage ended. “I had to scramble, work, be mother and father to my children,” she said. “It was a shock. My faith in God pulled me through, and my music. Some people turn to drugs, but music’s good for the soul. Think about how you feel after you sing a hymn in church,” • continued on page 14 Last February’s ice and snow storm resulted in more than 700,000 of PECO’s 1.6 million customers throughout the region losing power, some for as long as a week. Losing electrical power and heat in the home is an inconvenience if it lasts for a few hours, but if an outage lasts longer, especially during cold weather, it can be dangerous. Temperatures inside the house can drop quickly; darkness can increase risks of falls; and within a few hours, food can begin to spoil, even in the refrigerator. As this winter approaches, it’s important to plan ahead so you are ready if there is a power outage. “Plan on where you would go if you had to evacuate your house,” said Edward Vassallo, public information program manager for Philadelphia’s Office of Emergency Management (OEM). Ideally, that would be a friend or relative’s home, although in some • continued on page 11 November 2014 Milestones 2 Health Tips Clearing confusion on adult vaccination Published by Philadelphia Corporation for Aging Holly Lange, President and CEO Editor: Linda L. Riley 215 765-9000, ext. 5080 Board Officers and Directors Glenn D. Bryan, Chair Arthur E. Helfand, D.P.M., Vice Chair Sheri C. Gifford, Treasurer Barbara Waynant Murphy, Secretary Jack Dembow Katherine E. Galluzzi, D.O., F.A.C.O.F.P. Dick Goldberg Frederick Lewis Frances Miller Victor M. Negron, Jr. Satya B. Verma, O.D., F.A.A.O. Lenore Wasserman Scola Joe Watkins John Whitman Advertising: Joan Zaremba, 215-765-9000, ext. 5051 Distribution & Subscriptions: LaTasha Johnson, 215-765-9000, ext. 5050 Home delivery: $12/year We welcome your letters, comments and suggestions. All submissions of letters for publication must be signed and dated and include writer’s home address and phone number. 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In this publication neither the publisher nor any other party is rendering expert advice. No part of this newspaper may be reproduced without the express written permission of Philadelphia Corporation for Aging. ©2014 Philadelphia Corporation for Aging. All rights reserved. By Norman Edelman, M.D. Mention vaccinations and the first thing that comes to mind are the vaccines recommended for young children. But vaccinations are not just for kids. In fact, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends certain vaccinations for all adults; but significant numbers are not following this advice. Aging has a detrimental impact on the immune system, weakening our natural armor and leaving us more prone to illness. It is always advisable for anyone 65 years and older to speak with a health care provider about which vaccines are appropriate for them. Those with certain chronic conditions, including heart and lung disease, may be at an increased risk for serious illnesses that are potentially preventable with vaccines, such as influenza and pneumococcal pneumonia, diseases which affect the lungs. Contracting influenza or pneumococcal pneumonia can have serious, even deadly, consequences for all adults, but particularly for those with asthma and chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD), and for those who smoke. Combined, influenza and pneumonia, including pneumococcal pneumonia, were the ninth leading causes of death in the United States in 2010, according to the CDC. It is also estimated by the CDC that 900,000 Americans contract pneumococcal pneumonia an- nually, with as many as 400,000 hospitalizations. What is often largely unknown about pneumococcal pneumonia is that someone without symptoms can transmit this bacterium, which can be spread by coughing or sneezing. Common symptoms of pneumococcal pneumonia include fever, chills, productive (mucus) cough that persists or gets worse, difficulty in breathing and chest pain. Vaccination can help prevent influenza and pneumococcal pneumonia. In addition to vaccination, maintaining good hygiene, including regular hand washing, is also important. It’s important to ask your health care provider to review your immunization records. Patients often assume their health care provider will remind them of their vaccination needs, but that’s not always the case. The key to staying current on essential vaccinations is to report all vaccinations to your primary care provider, and to ask questions about which vaccinations you might need. The CDC’s website, www.cdc.gov, also provides helpful guidance. If you or someone you care about is 65 years or older, talking to your health care provider about getting vaccinated is an important step you can take. 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You must continue to pay your Medicare Part B premium. Health Partners Medicare is available in Philadelphia County. *Cost sharing may vary in Special Needs Plan. H9207_HPM-419-13 Approved 09/2013 November 2014 Milestones 4 Home Energy Help for low-income customers who struggle to cover cost of home heating Ready or not, cold weather is on the way! While forecasts indicate this winter will be less severe than last year, the 2015 Farmers’ Almanac predicts our area will experience colder and slightly wetter than normal weather with above-normal snowfall. The thought of colder temperatures – and the accompanying rise in utility costs – is troubling news to anyone who struggles to make ends meet. But help is out there. Anyone who receives SNAP (food stamps), housing assistance, SSI or SSDI will probably qualify for utility assistance, as will lowincome seniors and many working families living on minimum-wage. “As we head into the cold weather season, we want to make people on low or fixed incomes, who are struggling to pay their bills, aware of the assistance programs that are available to them,” said Barry O’Sullivan, director of corporate communications at Philadelphia Gas Works (PGW). LIHEAP helps pay utility bills One of the largest utility assistance programs is the federal Low-Income Home Energy Assistance Program (LIHEAP). LIHEAP pays cash grants of $100 to $1,000 directly to the utility customer’s account to help low-income individuals and families heat their homes. LIHEAP Crisis grants of $25 to $500 are also available to households that are in immediate danger of being without heat, including those who have a disruption in utility service or have received a 10day shutoff notice. People may receive both LIHEAP and Crisis once a year, if they are eligible. The 2014-15 LIHEAP season opens on Nov. 3. Since there is a fixed pool of money, it is recommended that people apply as soon as possible. “LIHEAP helps thousands of low-income customers to get over the hump of winter, so they don’t have to choose between heating and medicine or other necessities,” said O’Sullivan, who added that 80% of PGW customers who received a LIHEAP grant last year were able to remain current on their bills until the next winter season. Milestones file photo By Alicia M. Colombo Eligibility for assistance with utility bills is based on household income; find out quickly if you qualify by going online to www.compass.state.pa.us. Eligibility for LIHEAP is based on income and household size. The income limits for this year’s program are 150% of the federal poverty level (FPL), which is $17,505 for an individual and $23,595 for two people. (Add $6,090 for each additional household member.) For information or to apply: call the LIHEAP hotline: 215-560-1583, visit www.compass.state.pa.us, or apply in person at 1348 W. Sedgley Ave. in Philadelphia (at www.compass.state.pa.us, you can also find out if you are eligible for other benefits). Utility company assistance People who receive a federal LIHEAP grant may also receive assistance directly from utility companies and other programs. So it’s best to apply for all programs for which you are eligible. PGW has a Customer Responsibility Program (CRP) that provides discounted natural gas bills to low-income customers. Income eligibility for CRP is based on the same federal poverty guidelines as LIHEAP. “CRP addresses the needs of our low-income customer base, which includes many older customers. It gives those people a consistent, discounted bill each month, plus a $5 per month co-pay towards any pre-program debt,” said O’Sullivan. For customers who are facing a temporary hardship, such as a medical emergency or unemployment, the Customer Assistance Referral and Evaluation Program (CARES) can help find assistance. PGW also makes payment arrangements for customers who have fallen behind on monthly gas bills. If your account is in good standing, PGW can divide your bills for the year into equal monthly payments to make budgeting easier and heating costs more predictable. “The one message we try to get across is not to worry in silence. Call us. There are a number of ways that we can work with you and provide assistance, from federal programs to giving you more time to pay. We take our social mission in Philadelphia very seriously. We are aware that many customers have experienced tough economic times in recent years and that some of our customers are in crisis,” said O’Sullivan. For information about PGW’s payment assistance programs, call 215-235-1000 (1777 for CRP), weekdays from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. or go to www.pgworks.com. PECO offers discounted Customer Assistance Program (CAP) rates for low-income residential electric customers. Seven discounted rates of up to 90% are available, based on gross household income. Income eligibility is the same as LIHEAP. PECO also has a CARES program which provides referral and information to assist specialneeds, low-income customers who have a temporary personal or financial hardship that prevents the payment of the utility bill. The Matching Energy Assistance Fund (MEAF) provides low-income customers with funds to pay their bill through customer donations, which are matched by PECO. For customers with high usage, the Low-Income Usage Reduction Program (LIURP) offers services to help reduce the amount of electricity used in the home. This free program is available to all PECO customers with income limits at 200% of FPL, which is $21,780 for one person or $29,424 for two people. (Add $7,632 for each additional household member.) For information about PECO’s payment assistance programs or to discuss payment arrangements and other options, call 1-800-774-7040 (675-0222 for LIURP) or go to www.PECO.com/customerservice/ assistanceprograms. Other assistance The Energy Coordinating Agency (ECA) helps renters and homeowners conserve energy, which cuts down on usage and lowers utility bills. ECA’s services for low-income households include weatherization, community education, and repair or replacement of heaters. Through the Weatherization Assistance Program (WAP), ECA provides full energy conservation services for heating, water heating and electricity that help users save more than 20% on energy costs. (For tips on reducing your home heating bills, see article on page 6.) ECA operates 14 Neighborhood Energy Centers (NECs) throughout the city that serve as one-stop-shops for energy programs to help low-income Philadelphians prevent a utility emergency. To locate a NEC near you • continued on page 10 Milestones 5 November 2014 Housing help for low-income vets By Marcia Z. Siegal Photo by Paola Nogueras Eligible low-income Philadelphia veterans who are homeless or at imminent risk of homelessness can receive housing assistance and support services to attain financial stability through the Utility Emergency Services Fund (UESF) Veterans Housing Stabilization Program. Funded by a grant by the U.S. Veterans Administration, the program is part of a federal initiative to end veteran homelessness by 2015. Once homeless himself, veteran Kermit Putnam now does outreach to help other vets. Now in its second year, the UESF program can help veterans find suitable housing or avoid eviction; aid in landlord negotiations; and provide immediate financial assistance for security deposits, rent, utilities, moving expenses and emergency supplies. “Generally, we focus on stabilizing housing first and then helping clients acquire the financial resources and skills to stay housed,” says Tina Floyd, UESF director of operations and development. UESF collaborates with organizations throughout the community to offer a holistic approach to address issues that led to the housing crisis. Veterans are helped to increase their income through eligibility screening/enrollment for veterans’ and mainstream benefits; job counseling and training; education opportunities; and one-on-one budget counseling and other financial education measures. UESF also collaborates with SeniorLAW Center to assist older veterans in its program with legal matters. (See article on page 13.) “We offer different levels of support, depending on the situation,” Floyd says. “With some individuals, it may just be a matter of helping to pay a month or two back rent to avoid eviction and working with the client to develop a budget. Others come to us without proper documentation of veteran status or other identification and need help getting their documentation before we can even begin.” Veterans with severe mental health and/or substance abuse issues often require more intensive and longer term assistance, she says. For these individuals, placement in housing attached to more intensive supportive services often best serves their needs. To qualify for assistance, applicants must have served actively in the U.S. armed forces (it need not be in a war zone); cannot have been dishonorably discharged; and must be the head or cohead of their household. (Widows or widowers of veterans are not eligible.) Household income must be at or below 50% of the annual Area Median Income: currently $27,600 (one person); $31,550 (two people); $35,500 (three people); and $39,400 (four people). In the October 1, 2013 to September 30, 2014 period, the program served 179 veterans. “We expect to serve another 200 in the coming year,” Floyd says. The program typically assists veterans for up to three months. Assistance may continue for up to three additional months as necessary. UESF is reaching out to find potential participants by going where the veterans are – to veterans’ centers and clubs, for instance, and by seeking out homeless veterans at places where homeless individuals congregate or go for meals and shelter, Floyd says. Kermit Putnam leads the program’s three-person street outreach team – all of whom are veterans – on a determined quest to identify those in need of help. • continued on page 6 November 2014 Milestones 6 Housing for veterans Home Energy • continued from page 4 Improvements to help you control costs By Alicia M. Colombo Many Philadelphia homes are older and not energy efficient, which results in high heating bills. Boilers or furnaces installed years ago were not built to be as efficient as they are today. “If your furnace or boiler hasn’t been replaced in the last 15 years, it’s probably inefficient,” said Barry O’Sullivan, director of corporate communications at Philadelphia Gas Works. “Old equipment combined with a home that’s not sealed or weatherized property, usually results in higher heating bills.” According to the U.S. Department of Energy, more than 40% of an average home’s energy loss is due to warm air leaking out. “People often hesitate to look into weatherizing their homes, because they think it will be onerous or expensive,” said O’Sullivan. But there are simple things you can do to make a big difference. Take control Installing a programmable thermostat, available for as little as $20 from a hardware store, can reduce your heating bills by more than 10%. No matter what type of thermostat you have, you can lower the temperature a few degrees when you’re not home or are asleep. Each additional degree on your thermostat consumes three to five percent more energy. When at home, set the temperature to 68°, unless your doctor advises otherwise. If you’ll be out for more than a few hours, turn it down to 58°. You can also save energy by lowering the temperature on your water heater. If you do not have a dishwasher, 120° or “low” is recommended. Otherwise, set to 140°or “normal.” When running the dishwasher, use the energy saver or low temperature setting, if available. Here are some more free or low-cost conservation tips: • Keep the doors, air vents and radiators closed in rooms that are not in use. • Close the dampers on unused fireplaces. • Open blinds and curtains on sunny days, but close them at night to keep cold air out. • Warm air rises, so direct the vents’ airflow across the floor and reverse the direction of ceiling fans to draw warm air down into your living space. • Make sure that air vents aren’t blocked. Rearrange furniture and other items or shorten drapes, so air can flow freely. • Clean or replace your heating system’s air filter each month during winter. • Use caulking and weather stripping around doors and windows. • Add a layer of insulation to your hot water heater and around ventilator ducts and water pipes that pass through unheated areas of your home, like the basement. • Use a window insulation kit to cover windows with plastic shrink film. Invest in efficiency Installing exterior storm doors and heat reflective window screens can help keep heat from escaping. Having your furnace cleaned and serviced by a professional can extend its life and improve efficiency. Any old appliances and heating equipment are likely zapping energy. It might be time to consider purchasing new ones with the ENERGY STAR label. This will allow you to save money on future utility bills. Most utility companies offer rebates, incentives and/or discounts for purchasing energy efficient equipment, which can help defray the cost. (For information about assistance programs that help pay utility bills, see article on page 4.) Contact Alicia Colombo at: [email protected] According to an annual report compiled by the City of Philadelphia’s Office of Supportive Housing, which is based on a single-night count of sheltered and unsheltered homeless individuals each January, there were a total of 5,738 homeless individuals, including 357 veterans, in the 2014 count. Less than a year and a half ago, Putnam was homeless himself. Putnam served in the 1989 “Just Cause,” the U.S. campaign in Panama to protect American interests in the Canal Zone, which led to the overthrow of Panama’s drug-dealing dictator Manuel Noriega. Putnam’s adjustment to civilian life was a struggle, with periods of homelessness and short-term jobs. He became homeless again in 2013 after losing his job as a cook in a fast food restaurant. “I would sit and ride the buses all night because I couldn’t afford a place to live,” he says. “Due to my military training, I knew how to be prepared. I would stash changes of clothes in strategic places throughout the city and use public restrooms to stay clean.” Though homeless, Putnam was then seeking to better his situation – studying human services at Orleans Technical Institute, a program of JEVS Human Services, with the help of student loans. He came across a display about the UESF veterans program at Suburban Station, while en route to an internship. “I thought ‘I’m a vet. What can they do for me?’” he remembers. As it turns out, they did a lot, he says. “They provided me with training, transportation money, interview clothes and supported me in an apartment.” He told his case manager how personally connected he felt to the program’s mission. “I’m a vet. I think like a vet. I know what it is to be homeless. I could work in this program,” he suggested. Soon after, UESF hired him as a veteran-outreach worker. Now, he says, “I’m on the street every day and every night in search of vets. I share my experiences. I tell them ‘the program helped me and it can help you.’ I don’t want to just take my blessings and run with them. I want to give back.” For information about the UESF Veterans Assistance Program: go to the UESF Main Office at 1617 John F. Kennedy Blvd. (Suburban Station Bldg.), Suite 840 in Philadelphia; call the UESF Vet Hotline at 215-814-6888; or visit www.uesfacts.org. USEF also conducts regular intake for the veterans program during weekly meal times at Broad Street Ministry, 315 South Broad St. For information about Veterans Administration services to overcome or prevent homelessness: 877-4AID-VET (424-3838) 24/7 or www.va.gov/homeless. Contact Marcia Z. Siegal at: [email protected] Free swim for vets & pets The Philadelphia Pet Campus is offering veterans a once-monthly 30minute complimentary swim for, or with, their pets, in the new indoor recreational and rehabilitation pool at 7401 Holstein Ave. The pool is filled with pet-friendly saline water; it is 14 feet by 32 feet, and the depth ranges from 3’6” to 6’6.” For more information call (215)724-5550. Tax freeze for seniors The City of Philadelphia Revenue Department will "freeze" Real Estate Taxes for homeowners 65 years or older; or 50 years old and the widow or widower of someone who was 65 or older at the time of death. The deadline to apply for the 2015 Senior Citizen Real Estate Tax Freeze Program is January 31, 2015. Household income cannot exceed $23,500 for a (single person); or $31,500 for a married couple. For details call: 215-686-6442 or visit www.phila.gov/revenue and click “senior citizen programs.” The Po Power Of Of Choice. Yo Your Ho Home Care, Yo Your Wa Way. High Quality Home and Personal Care Liberty Resources Ho Home Choices brings tth he Power Of Of Choice to to you, Independent Living enhancin ng yourr health and d promotin ng yourr independence. for It’s Y Yoour Ho Home Care, Yo Your Wa Way. Call (267) 415-8788 or visit us at www.libertyyresources.org/homechoices Ser ving Philadelphia, Montgomer y, Bucks, Chester, and Delaware Counties Saturday November 2014 Events that end with a $ require an entrance fee or advance ticket purchase. Events that are free may request a donation or offer items for sale. Please call the number listed for information on pricing or other questions about an event. National Family Caregivers Month Sunday Daylight Saving Time Ends (Fall Back) Monday 2 Sustainable Chocolate Day. Learn how to recycle Halloween candy into fondue & more. Noon to 2. Academy of Natural Sciences of Drexel Univ. 215299-1000. $ Why Does Jewish History Matter to American History? Historians & professors discuss. 4 p.m. National Museum of American Jewish History. 215-923-3811. $ 9 Philadelphia Chamber Music Society Concert. Tubist Carol Jantsch & pianist Michael Djupstrom. Works by Lebedev, Koetsier & Debussy. 3 p.m. Phila. Museum of Art. 215-5698080. $ Philadelphia Museum of Art Contemporary Craft Show. Show & sale of work by 195 U.S. artists. 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Pa. Convention Center. 215-6847930. $ 16 Alan Abel 85th Birthday Concert. Works by Wright, Becker, Hartenberger & Rissman. Members of the Phila. Orchestra, Curtis Institute of Music, Temple Univ. & NEXUS Percussion Ensemble. 3 p.m. The Kimmel Center. 215-569-8080. $ New York City Trip: "It's Only a Play" on Broadway. Comedy starring Nathan Lane & Matthew Broderick. 10 a.m. to 8 p.m. Presented by Klein JCC. Register: 215-698-7300, ext. 176. $ 23 Author Event: Anne Lamott. Discussion of “Small Victories: Spotting Improbable Moments of Grace.” 2 p.m. Parkway Central Library. 215-6865322. $ 30 Shakespeare Film Series: “Macbeth.” Screening of 1979 film starring Ian McKellen, based on classic play originally performed in 1605. 11 a.m. Northeast Regional Library. 215-685-0522. Tuesday 3 Caregiver Support Group. Topic is anger & guilt. 10:30 to noon. Mercy LIFE - Gray's Ferry. 215-426-8610, ext. 1207. Foot Care. Presentation by Podiatric Medical & Surgical Associates, PC: Foot & Ankle Wellness Center. 10 a.m. Marconi Older Adult Program. 215-717-1969. Line Dancing. 12:45 to 2:30 p.m. & 2:30 to 3:30 p.m. (beginners). Center in the Park. 215848-7722, ext. 224. (Nov. 10, 17 & 24.) $ Election Day Wednesday 4 Astronomy Class: Are We Alone in the Universe? 1 p.m. Center in the Park. 215-848-7722, ext. 225. (Continues Nov. 6.) $ Support Groups. Boomers R Heroes (caregivers): 11:30 a.m. @ North City Congress, 215-978-1300, Nov. 18. The Next Chapter (peer discussion): 1 p.m. @ Center in the Park, register: 215-848-7722, Nov. 11 & 18. 11 10 Veterans Day 17 Alzheimer's Caregiver Support Group. 5:30 to 6:45 p.m. Sponsored by Alzheimer's Assn. of Del. Valley. Center on the Hill. 215-247-8855. Community Luncheon. Hot meal, blood pressure screenings & games. Noon. Chestnut Hill Center for Enrichment. 215-248-0180. $ French Language & Culture Class. 2:30 to 4 p.m. Center on the Hill. Register: 215247-8855. (Wednesdays to Dec. 16.) $ Thanksgiving Dinner. 2 p.m. North City Congress. Register by Nov. 11: 215-978-1324. Hypertension Presentation. 10:30 a.m. St. Anne's Senior Center. 215-426-9799. Meet The Author: Maria Gilbert. Excerpts from book “Roof Oasis,” signing & raffle. 10 a.m. Marconi Older Adult Program. 215-7171969. Movie Matinee Monday. Attendees pick film. Popcorn & beverages. 12:30 p.m. Peter Bressi NE Senior Center. 215-831-2926. (Nov. 24.) Breast Cancer Support Group. 1 to 2:30 p.m. Center in the Park. Register: 215-848-7722, ext. 224. Caregiving: Focus on Strength. The role of caregiver creates emotional, physical, spiritual & financial challenges, but can also be a powerful bonding opportunity. 10 a.m. Chestnut Hill Hospital. 215-247-8855. Fruit & Vegetable of the Month: Sweet Potato Ginger Soup. 10 a.m. Marconi Older Adult Program. 215-717-1969. $ 24 Blood Pressure Screening. Sponsored by Jefferson Univ. Hospital. 11 a.m. Marconi Older Adult Program. 215-717-1969. Distinguished American Institutions Re-inventing Themselves: Newspapers. Philadelphia Inquirer Editor William Marimow discusses the future of the Inquirer & the nation’s newspaper industry. 11 a.m. Parkway Central Library, Room 108. 215-686-5331. Capture Your Story. Outdoor storytelling walk. 11 a.m. Cobbs Creek Environmental Education Center. Register: 866878-3595. $ Leaving The Emerald Isle. Struggles of Irish immigrants in 19th century Phila. Reception & music. 6:30 p.m. Historical Society of Pa. 215-732-6200, ext. 227. $ Maximize Your Memory. How the memory works & why it fails us. 12:30 p.m. Center on the Hill. 215-247-8855. 18 25 Thanksgiving Luncheon. 11 a.m. Center in the Park. 215-848-7722, ext. 225. $ Thanksgiving Prayer Service & Meal. 10:30 a.m. St. Charles Senior Community Center. 215-790-9530. Movie Night for Adults: “Philomena.” 6:40 p.m. Chestnut Hill Hospital, Center on the Hill. 215-247-8855 $ Caregiver Support Group. 10:30 a.m. West Phila Senior Community Center. 215426-8610, ext. 1207. Lecture: Social Concern in Jewish American Art. Noon. Pa. Academy of the Fine Arts. 215972-7600. Veterans Counseling Group. 10:30 a.m. Haddington Multi-Services for Older Adults. 215-472-6600. 12 Art at Lunch: Philadelphia Firsts. 19th century paintings of city’s early accomplishments. Noon. Pa. Academy of the Fine Arts. 215-972-7600. Brain Health Workshop. 10 a.m. Center in the Park. Register: 215-848-7722, ext. 224. (Nov. 19.) Veterans Service. 11 a.m. The Chapel of Four Chaplains, The Navy Yard, Bldg. 649. 215-218-1943. 19 Blood Pressure Screening. 10 to 11:30 a.m. Center in the Park. 215-8487722, ext. 224 Irish American History & Immigrant Experiences. 4:30 p.m. The Historical Society of Pa. 215-732-6200, ext. 227. Live Right Through Nutrition. Presentation by Stephanie Perez, ShopRite Dietician. 11 a.m. St. Anne's Senior Center. 215-4269799. 26 Enhance Fitness. Strengthen muscles & enhance lifestyle through exercise. 10:30 a.m. Haddington Multi-Services for Older Adults. 215-472-6600. Thanksgiving Luncheon. 11 a.m. Phila. Senior Center. 215-546-5879, ext. 209. $ Veterans Support Group. 1 to 2:30 p.m. North City Congress. 215-978-1300. Muslim Voices. Film screenings & discussion with filmmakers. 2:30 p.m. NE Regional Library. 215-685-0522. Play: “Dead Right.” The Foster Family proves that passion & politics don’t mix. Guests are at each others' throats, bank accounts & bedroom doors. 7 p.m. Presbyterian Church of Chestnut. 215-247-8855. $ Friday Thursday 5 1 Send your calendar items to: Attn: Calendar Editor PCA Communications Dept. 642 North Broad Street Philadelphia, PA 19130-3409 Phone: 215-765-9000, ext. 5081 Fax: 215-765-9066 E-mail: [email protected] 6 Art Workshop: Fall Still Life. 9:30 a.m. Marconi Older Adult Program. 215-7171969. (Continues Nov. 13 & 20.) $ Caregiver Support Group. 10:30 a.m. NE Regional Library. Register: 215-426-8610, ext. 1207. Financial Empowerment Counseling. Confidential appointments. 8:30 a.m. to 3 p.m. Register: 215-978-1300. (Nov. 20.) Memory Loss, Dementia & Alzheimer's Disease. 10 a.m. North City Congress. 215-978-1300. 13 Line Dancing. 1 to 2:30 p.m. Haddington Multi-Services for Older Adults. 215-472-6600. (Nov. 20 & 27.) $ Speaker Series: Chris Wheeler, Former Phillies Broadcaster. Bring lunch; dessert & coffee provided. 12:30 p.m. Chestnut Hill Hospital. 215-247-8855. Trip: Tropicana Casino in Atlantic City, NJ. 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. Phila. Senior Center Main Branch. Register: 215-546-5879, ext. 209. $ 20 Aging in Place: The Dream, Reality & Possibilities. Forum for legislators, policy makers & practitioners. 8 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Drexel Univ. Register: 610-7330955. Brain Aging & Dementia. 12:30 p.m. Chestnut Hill Hospital. 215-247-8855. Healthy Habits Cooking Demo. 1:30 p.m. Peter Bressi NE Senior Center. 215-831-2926. Holiday Choir Concert. 10 a.m. Phila. Senior Center - Main Branch. 215-546-5879. 27 Thanksgiving 6ABC/Dunkin' Donuts Thanksgiving Day Parade. 8 a.m. to 1 p.m. Benjamin Franklin Parkway. (Also televised on Channel 6 in Phila. area.) 7 Challenge Your Brain Game Day. Center in the Park. 10 a.m. Register: 215-848-7722, ext. 224. (Nov. 14 & 21.) Men’s Gathering. 9:30 to 11:30 a.m. Center in the Park. 215-848-7722, ext. 224. (Continues Nov. 14 & 21.) $ 14 Grown & Sexy Cabaret. Wear your finest party attire. Attendees receive gifts. No alcohol. 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. St. Charles Senior Community Center. 215-790-9530. $ Philadelphia Chamber Music Society Concert. Works by Mozart, Bartok & Mendelssohn. 8 p.m. Kimmel Center. 215-569-8080. $ Yoga Class. 11 a.m. Center in the Park. 215-848-7722, ext. 224. (Nov. 14 & 21.) $ 21 Cookology Class. Certified dietitian makes delicious, nutritious treats. 10 a.m. Peter Bressi NE Senior Center. 215-831-2926. Eastern State Penitentiary & Contemporary Corrections. Discussion of increase in U.S. incarcerations since 1970 & negative, disproportionate effect on people of color. Noon. African American Museum in Phila. 215-574-0380. 28 Dinosaur Days. Holiday weekend of family-friendly activities about dinosaurs & the closest living relatives, birds. 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Academy of Natural Sciences of Drexel University. (Through Nov. 30.) $ Rodgers & Hammerstein's Cinderella. Tony Award-winning Broadway musical of contemporary take on classic tale. 2 & 8 p.m. Academy of Music. 215-893-1999. (Through Nov. 30 at various times.) $ 8 William Glackens Exhibit Opens. More than 90 works by Phila. native & PAFA student illustrating a long career in French modernism & progressive American painting. 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. The Barnes Foundation. 215-2787000. (Through Feb. 2, 2015.) $ Siege Weekend. Scripted battles re-enact greatest bombardment of Revolutionary war. Guided tours, living history activities, musket drills & weapons demos. 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Fort Mifflin. 215-685-4167. (Nov. 9.) $ 15 Electrical Spectacle: A Holiday Light Show. Two alternating shows of 50,000+ lights set to holiday music by The Philly POPS. Every 30 minutes from 4:30 to 8 p.m. Franklin Square. 215-629-4026. (Through Dec. 31.) Resume and Job Coaching: How to get a Government Job. 2 p.m. Free Library of Phila., Lawncrest Branch. 215-685-0549. 22 Bob Dylan & His Band in Concert. Dylan’s first Center City theater appearance since 1963. 8 p.m. Academy of Music. 215-893-1999. (Nov. 23.) $ Artist & Curator Tour: “A Fine Arrangement” Exhibit. 2 p.m. Pa. Academy of the Fine Arts. 215-972-7600. 29 Macy’s Christmas Light Show. A Philadelphia holiday tradition since 1956, featuring 100,000 LED lights & sounds of the Wanamaker Organ. 10 a.m. to 8 p.m., every 2 hours. Macy’s Center City. 215-241-9000. (Through Dec. 31, except Christmas.) Thanksgiving Volunteer Luncheon with Lodge #2 Masons. Noon to 2 p.m. Sponsored by Cigna Health. Haddington MultiServices for Older Adults. 215-472-6600. November 2014 Stay warm • continued from page 4 or for more information about ECA’s programs, call 215-988-0929 or go to www.ecasaves.org. Emergency help After all other resources for assistance have been exhausted, these additional resources for emergency aid may be available to low-income Philadelphia seniors. The Utility Emergency Services Fund (UESF) provides privately funded grants of $500 to $1,500 to people who have or are in danger of a utility shutoff. PECO, PGW and the Philadelphia Water Dept. provide matching funds, with the goal of reaching a zero balance. The income limit for UESF is 175% of FPL, which is $20,423 for one person or $27,528 for two. (Add $7,105 for each additional household member.) UESF funds are provided only as a last resort, after people have applied for LIHEAP or when Milestones 10 the program is closed. UESF assistance may be received only once every two years. For information or to apply, contact UESF at 215-972-5170 or www.uesfacts.org. Referral required The Emergency Fund for Older Philadelphians helps low-income seniors, age 60plus, who are in crisis to meet basic needs. To receive assistance, eligible seniors must have exhausted all other resources, and must be referred by recognized social service agencies or the clergy. Grants of up to $100 (paid directly to the utility or other vendor) or 100 gallons of heating oil may be received once per year. While Emergency Fund aid is available for many reasons, including food and medication, it is most often sought in winter for assistance with utility bills. The income limit is $1,702 a month for an individual or $2,294 a month for a couple. For more information, call the PCA Helpline at 215-765-9040 or go to www.pcaCares.org/efund. November 2014 Milestones 11 Power outage • continued from cover cases, the city does provide emergency shelters. During Superstorm Sandy, when many areas experienced severe flooding, three high schools were opened where people – and their pets – could shelter. “Whenever we open up shelters, pets are welcome, so bring them along,” Vassallo said. Planning ahead Vassallo said media outlets are updated frequently, so tuning in to TV or radio news is helpful. He recommended signing up for emergency alerts through www.readynotifypa.org. These can be sent to an e-mail account or to your cell phone. If you do not have either of these, you can call the city’s information line at 3-1-1. In a bad storm, it may not be safe or even possible to travel. Know how you will shelter in place if you need to. There are some supplies you can have on hand, and preparations you can make in advance. Supplies and precautions Have a list of emergency contacts, including family members within and outside the area, doctors, veterinarian, and pharmacy. Keep flashlights and fresh batteries in easily accessed places on every floor of your home. Make sure all residents know where these are kept. Cell phones and portable phones are convenient, but in a power outage you will lose phone service if your phone requires an electrical outlet to work or be charged. It is a good idea to have a “land line,” and a phone that does not rely on electricity, which simply plugs into a phone jack. Have a three-day supply of bottled water and non-perishable, easily prepared foods such as peanut butter and jelly, crackers, nutrition bars, and dried or canned fruit. Be sure you have a manual can opener. Check these periodically to make sure they have not passed expiration dates. The beginning and end of Daylight Savings Time can be a convenient reminder to do this, when you set clocks back or forward. A battery-powered or windup radio will enable you to listen to news reports. A battery-powered clock or watch is also helpful. Use voltage surge suppressors/protectors to plug in televisions, computers and microwave ovens. However, during a power outage or storm, it is best to turn these off and unplug them, as they may not protect appliances from a powerful surge. If you have a car, don’t let the gas tank get below half full in winter. A full tank will keep the fuel line from freezing, and help make sure you can get where you need to go. When the power goes out During a power outage, keep just one or two lights on so you know when the power comes back on; turn the rest off. Turn off all appliances including furnace, water heater and water pump to protect against damage from a power surge. Use perishable food from the refrigerator first. Open the refrigerator door as little as possible, so food keeps as long as possible. Move meats, cheese and milk into the freezer compartment which will stay cold longer. The more full the freezer and refrigerator are, the longer they will stay cold. A full freezer can keep meat frozen for up to 48 hours. Fill bottles with water and put them in the refrigerator and freezer to take up more space. To prevent your pipes from freezing, if temperatures go below 55 degrees Fahrenheit, open faucets so there is a constant drip. Personal warmth and safety Choose a room with few windows and doors, above street level if possible. Cover windows at night to keep heat in, and uncover them during daylight to get the warmth from the sun. Wear layers of clothing and a hat to preserve your body heat. If you have sleeping bags, use them. Never use a gas stove or oven, propane heater or propane grill for heating a room. The Philadelphia Fire Code permits the use of portable kerosene heaters only in one- and two-family dwellings. The code does not permit the use of portable propane heaters indoors. Choose space heaters that turn off automatically if they tip over. Install smoke alarms near every sleeping area, and on every level of the home. Test smoke alarms monthly. Install and maintain carbon monoxide alarms to avoid risk of carbon monoxide poisoning. Have a first aid kit. If you are using a kerosene heater, use only the fuel recommended by the manufacturer. When refueling, always turn off the heater, let it cool down, use a fuel gauge to prevent overfilling, and fill the tank outdoors. Store kerosene away from heat and open flame in a cool area in a closed, approved container clearly marked with the name of the fuel. Keep a three foot clearance between heating equipment and anything that can burn. Turn space heaters off every time you leave the room and before going to bed. Never use a space heater to dry clothing. Never block an exit with a portable heater. Children and pets should be supervised at all times when space heaters are in use. Planning for your pets Make sure each pet has a license, ID tag and current vaccinations. Have copies of your animal's health records, registration, proof of vaccination, pet license numbers and microchip numbers. Have on hand: • A three-day supply of pet food and water; bowls; and a manual can opener • Collar, leash, muzzle or carriers/cages to transport pets safely • Animal first aid kit, including flea and tick treatment • Contact information for your veterinarian • Any medication your pet takes, a list of the medications, dosage and medical conditions • Toys and treats • Litter, litter box and scoop for cats • Plastic bags, paper towels and cleaning supplies If you need to evacuate Have a portable, waterproof kit containing: • Medications and a list of them • Names and numbers for doctors and pharmacy • Copies of important documents, such as insurance cards, photo IDs, birth certificates, deeds and proof of address • Extra set of house and car keys • Credit and ATM cards • Cash in small bills • Flashlight and fresh batteries • Sturdy, comfortable shoes; and lightweight rain gear • Hand sanitizer, toothbrush, toothpaste, toilet paper, feminine products • Pet supplies (see above) The information in this article was obtained from PECO; the American Red Cross; the Philadelphia Office of Emergency Management; and Ready.gov. Contact Linda L. Riley at: [email protected] Stay informed during a power outage Philadelphia Office of Emergency Management (OEM): The website, www.phila.gov/ready, is updated 24/7 during an incident. OEM also posts emergency information on TV Channel 64, the City’s Government Access television channel. OEM posts frequent updates on Twitter, Facebook, Google Plus, LinkedIn, YouTube and Blogger. City of Philadelphia information call center: 3-1-1 – or, for those with Voice over Internet Protocol (VoIP) and for calls from outside of Philadelphia: 215686-8686. www.phila.gov/311. PECO: 800-841-4141 to report power outages or fallen power lines. More information, and updates on outages: www.peco.com. Red Cross: 1-866-GET-INFO is a central number where you can register, so family from outside the area can get information about you. You can also register online at www.redcross.org. November 2014 Milestones 12 Commentary Embracing new Thanksgiving traditions Photo by Ruth Rovner I've always envied peoOur own sea change came in an unexple who had sweet and pected way. rich memories of a famOur oldest daughter, then a sidelined ily Thanksgiving. I had lawyer/full-time mother, had often menvery few. tioned her former colleague in the gritty My immigrant grand- world of the Brooklyn Public Defenders parents didn't much care office. Dan O'Donnell was his name – a about this strange Amer- good Irish guy with a great sense of By Sally ican holiday focused on humor. One year, Jill told us that Dan – Friedman the bird they called and his good friend, John – would love to "Toikey." And during the nacook our Thanksgivtional disruption of the ing dinner. World War II years, my late Say what? We father, a lawyer involved in barely knew Dan and some hushed civilian war efhad never met John. fort, was absent so much of But that year – no the time that my mother, a one is sure exactly legendary cook, had taken to what year it was – preparing only the simplest Dan and John came meals, including on Thanksdown from New York giving. to prepare dinner for It both saddened and emthe Friedman family barrassed me that we had so at daughter Jill's little connection to those home. Norman Rockwellian families Dan O’Donnell (left) and John And what a dinwhose holiday tables glistened Banta help make the Friedmans’ ner it was! A fresh, with perfect china and whose Thanksgiving dinners special not frozen turkey plates were filled with foods was a goldenwe never saw or tasted. brown masterpiece, the chestnut stuffing Then I got married. My husband and I a gourmet delight. And there was a defimoved into a little house with what the nite feeling that year that this was the bebuilder called a “breakfast nook,” a wan ginning of a very special connection. substitute for a real dining room. Babies The next Thanksgiving, Dan and John came. Life was a blur of diapers, naps, for- were back – by now, they were also the mula and exhaustion. godparents to Jill's son and daughter. And Two homes later, it finally happened: it was clear, if unspoken at the time, that we had a wonderful dining room, three they were a couple. A gay couple. kids, and a chance to experiment with a Mind you, this was long before gay family Thanksgiving dinner. rights had mushroomed into a moveIt was rough sailing that first year, with ment. America had so much to learn back an overcooked turkey and cranberry then. sauce that I’d boiled into mush. As our Thanksgivings tumbled into one But our three daughters were delighted another, we began to see the love that to be part of the American tapestry, and bound these two men, who had met in so were we. college and had never parted. Fast forward to their marriages and their Our grandchildren witnessed that love, babies. In that era, we alternated hosting and accepted it as routine. Without Thanksgiving, often with an army of high preaching or formal teaching, they came chairs around a groaning table. to know that people of the same sex can But traditions have a way of initially love one another, and sometimes do. tiptoeing in until suddenly, they It's been at least twenty years now, and are...traditions. the ritual is established: two days before Thanksgiving, Dan and John arrive at our daughter and son-in-law's home, start kitchen operations, start decorating the table, and create Thanksgivings so memorable and beautiful that we all run out of words of gratitude. There have been milestones marked: Dan O'Donnell is now a celebrated member of the New York Assembly who has been a leading crusader for gay marriage rights. John is director of special events for the Metropolitan Opera in New York City. Two years ago, we gathered in a magnificent Manhattan space for John and Dan's wedding, performed by the retired Chief Judge of the New York Court of Appeals before several hundred guests, including the governor, a U.S. senator and Dan's sister, Rosie O'Donnell, who had long since come out herself and sat proudly with her new wife. Nearly everyone cried at the sheer joy and meaning of it all. Later this month, on Thanksgiving Day, we will sit down to a feast like no other the rest of the year. We will celebrate this iconic American holiday as a family. And we will give thanks for a changing world, and for acceptance, enlightenment and the great fortune that Dan O'Donnell and John Banta are in our lives to stay. Sally Friedman can be reached at [email protected] Solutions to the Milestones Crossword puzzle (see page 15) Milestones 13 November 2014 Free help with legal and housing issues, benefits for low-income older vets By Rita Charleston He was a young man who loved his country and volunteered for service in the U.S. Army. He served at the Battle of the Bulge, and years later, returning to Philadelphia, Bob Murray (not his real name) even managed to buy a home and settle down into a comfortable living. Until the unthinkable happened. “He went from being a proud homeowner to facing homelessness to eventually living in his car,” says Karen Buck, executive director of SeniorLAW Center, a nonprofit organization focusing solely on the civil legal needs of older Pennsylvanians. Helping veterans, like Murray, is the focus of a new project that provides legal services to qualified Philadelphia veterans 60 and older, and their families, who are homeless or at risk of becoming homeless, Buck says. “Thanks to a new grant from the Utility Emergency Services Fund (USEF), under a project titled “Protecting Older Veterans Who Once Protected Us,” we are able to offer free legal advice, information and direct representation to vulnerable veterans and their families,” Buck says. According to Buck, older veterans are often a forgotten segment of the population. Many are living on low, fixed incomes, and many are targets of crime, elder abuse, and theft of the very benefits they receive for serving their country. Older veterans who are victims of crime may face multiple additional obstacles, such as injuries, physical and mental health challenges, problems with mobility, dependence on caregivers, and more. “Many of them decide to suffer in silence,” Buck says. ”So one of the major challenges we face is not only getting the word out that we are here for them, but also helping them overcome their reluctance to take advantage of our services. I think many of them have a long history of independence and strength, so much so that they may feel some shame in coming to us and asking for help. But that’s exactly why we are here.” There are approximately 70,000 veterans currently living in Philadelphia, and more than 50% of them are seniors, Buck says. The U.S. Census Bureau estimates that approximately 10% of Philadelphia’s older veterans live at or below the poverty level, and 5% are disabled. “We are particularly proud of this program, especially since 2014 was officially declared The Year of the Veteran in Philadelphia,” Buck says. “The project’s goal is to offer a wide range of focused, collaborative services and resources, addressing their continuum of needs, including safety, health, shelter and economic security.” Philadelphia veterans 60 and older can seek legal advice in the areas of housing, landlord/tenant disputes, family law, government benefits, consumer issues, and other non-criminal legal issues from SeniorLAW Center. “Our staff of 15 attorneys, along with more than 100 volunteers, are here to help. There is no charge for our services or the holistic approach we offer with various partners,” says Buck, who came from private practice to the SeniorLAW Center 17 years ago. “To be able to change lives by addressing the most basic of human needs, help to change the system, and serve the older veterans who deserve our utmost attention and respect has been one of the many things that has made me proud and changed my life for the better,” Buck says. If you think you qualify, or know someone who qualifies for these services, call SeniorLAW Center at 215-988-1244. For assistance with legal issues, call the intake line at 215-988-1242 (1-877-727-7529 outside Philadelphia) Mon. to Thurs., 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Rita Charleston has been a freelance writer for 30 years. November 2014 Milestones 14 In Season Tasty Butternut Squash and Apples This recipe uses a slow cooker, or Crockpot, to make eight filling and delicious helpings. It freezes well, so you will want to have some freezer bags or containers on hand unless you are cooking for a crowd. Ingredients 4 lb. butternut squash 5 tart apples (Macintosh, Winesap or Granny Smith work well) 1 cup raisins 1 ⁄3 cup butter, melted ½ cup brown sugar 3 tbsp. flour ½ tsp. salt ½ tsp. ginger 1 tsp. cinnamon ¼ tsp. nutmeg 1 ⁄8 tsp. cardamom Directions Wash the butternut squash and pierce it with a knife in six places. Place on a microwave-safe dish or plate, and microwave it on high for five minutes. Wait until it is cool enough to handle. Cut in half and use a spoon to scoop out the seeds. Peel the skin off and cut squash into slices, ½-inch thick. Peel and core the apples and cut them into ½-inch thick slices. Mix together in a bowl the melted butter, sugar, flour, salt and spices. Place half the squash in the bottom of the Crockpot; then half of the apple slices; and half of the spice mixture, followed by squash, apples and the rest of the spices. Cover the Crockpot and cook on low for 6 to 7 hours, or on high for 3½ hours. Newer Crockpots may require less cooking time. Sprinkle raisins on each serving. Street musician • continued from cover said Sellers, who attended St. Thomas’ Church in Whitemarsh for many years. As a single mother, Sellers worked at a clothing store, Nana, as well as at the Depot restaurant and a veterinarian’s office; but playing the piano at the Philadelphia Cricket Club became her mainstay. “I started working there in 1982,” she said. “I enjoyed playing at birthday parties where people were turning 100. I liked seeing the guest of honor still smiling and perking along.” The axe fell in 2011. “I lost my job at the Philadelphia Cricket Club when new management let go of many long-time employees,” she said. She had both liked and depended on that job. In time, she had to sell her beloved piano. “You can’t live on Social Security,” she said. Sellers told Russ Goudy Jr. of Kilian’s Hardware that she could play her keyboard outside the store if she had electricity. He OK’d her plan. Still, challenges remain. “If it rains, I can’t play,” Sellers said, “and sometimes it’s really hot.” The ballads and classics of her curbside concerts embroider the hum of traffic, and being a street musician brings unique rewards. Sellers, who grew up with dachshunds, likes meeting the dogs and different people. “One day a young fellow who looked a little disheveled leaned against a light pole and listened to me play for some time,” she said. “Finally, he approached me and said, ‘I was really down today. You lifted me up.’” Three months into her performances, Sellers said she hopes to land more Chestnut Hill gigs. Given her philosophy, one can’t doubt that she will: “The secret to living well is never give up.” Sellers plays from noon to 2 p.m. on Saturdays outside Kilian’s, weather permitting. Constance Garcia-Barrios is a freelance writer. Milestones 15 November 2014 The Milestones Crossword Don’s Column 41 Like: suffix 42 Beetle 43 One-seat carriage ACROSS 45 Most like a fox 1 Early bird's reward 46 A Fleming 5 Washington, D.C., 47 Lodging place Basin 49 Laughton role 10 Kind of beer 52 Louvre's ___ Lisa 14 Mine, in Amiens 53 Like some tea 15 Trap 57 Hie 16 ___ Bator 58 Gounod opera 17 Pleat 59 Botanist Asa 18 ___ of God: Amanda 60 Help a felon Plummer role 61 "...lovely as ___": Kilmer 19 Confirmation, e.g. 62 Juno 20 Digits 63 Turns right 21 Mythical birds 64 Music signs 22 Provide with talent 65 Look after DOWN 23 Wed 1 Blow gently 25 Jackie's second 2 Melville work 26 Foams 3 Part 29 Arrange in an 4 A ___ Dream: Shakespeare orderly way 5 Prerevolutionary Russian 34 Armor headpiece 6 Metal bar 35 Charge 7 Part of Ponchielli's 36 Increase La Gioconda: with The 37 Aquatic mammal 8 War god 38 Consumed 9 Defense Secretary Aspin 39 Turkish city 10 Jack London book 40 Whiz Keeping up in an ever-changing world On time Strolling back from lunch, we saw reporters rushing out of the Bulletin Building – headed to Dallas and Washington and By Don Boston and Cape Cod. Harrison The President, they told us, had been shot. The President? The young, brilliant, eloquent President? Surely, he’d recover. By the time we were back in the newsroom, we learned that he had not. Daily newspapers used to print several editions a day, and our next was less than two hours away. There was a lot to do on that November day in 1963, and not much time. Each of us on the city desk was given specific pages to go over, line by line, searching for references to the Kennedys – to be updated or eliminated. Then, off to the (pre-computer-era) composing room, where the paper was put together, to help oversee the replacing of pages. Linotypists and proofreaders were turning out new copy, and directed by editors, makeup men were lifting pages for the stereotypers and pressmen to substitute. The next Bulletin was almost totally different… And so was the world. Women’s work For most of my female classmates, career choices were still pretty limited – work in an office, go into nursing or teach. In many cases, it didn’t much matter. For some, a job was just something you did until you married and had kids. That was my mother’s world (if a woman “had to” work, my mother believed, it was because her husband was not “a good provider”). But things were changing, especially as the World War II labor shortage was expanding the job market, and many women were beginning to demand equality. Prejudice and harassment are still a workplace problem, but women in the workplace are no longer docile, and more and more, we learn of “the first woman” this or “the first woman” that. Actually, the gender gap in the workplace has been harmful to us all, not just to women. Over the years, if everyone had been participating in the economy – not just half of us – how many advances, discoveries and achievements might we all have benefited from? Election Day We’re patronized. We’re condescended to. We’re stereotyped as cute or as tragic or as irrelevant. The powers-that-be won’t be responsive to our needs unless we’re essential to theirs – that’s how this system is supposed to work. And why it’s important that we vote. 11 12 13 22 24 25 26 27 28 30 31 32 33 38 39 41 42 44 48 49 50 51 52 54 55 56 58 Strong-smelling ___ the Censor Was aware Period ___-do-well Ripen Markets Dress size: var. Excessive Caddoan Indian Furious Areas William ___ Gladstone Viper All, in Ulm Charged particle Ranks Exclamation of triumph Beginning Boast Service station job Words of understanding Spouse Algonquian Indian Merit Pair Distant Solution The solution for the crossword puzzle can be found on page 12. 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