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Spring, TX 77379 281-255-4111 st. t i mothy’ s Times St. Timothy’s Anglican Church Spring, TX From The Rector Dear Parish Family, Contents Father Stan............................1, 2, 3, 4 Deacon’s Desk..................................4 From Websters Dictionary: Stew•ard•ship: noun \ˈstü-ərd-ˌship, ˈstyü-; ˈst(y)u̇rd-\ : the activity or job of protecting and being Mission & Outreach.........................5 responsible for something Evangelism.......................................6 Eventfully Speaking.........................7 Full Definition of STEWARDSHIP 1: the office, duties, and obligations of a steward 2: the conducting, supervising, or managing of something; especially the careful Spiritual Champion..........................7 and responsible management of something entrusted to one's care Picture Pages................................8, 9 Birthdays 11/01 Art Blancas 11/02 Caroline Davies Lizbeth Ibarra Casey Johnson Jane Pavelka Emma Williams 11/03 Nancy McCracken 11/04 Diana Sullivan 11/06 Paul Lankford 11/07 Bill Hyer 11/08 Sue Cox 11/09 Phyllis Mueller 11/10 Diann Brooke 11/11 Reese Boyd Jim Maxey Wade Seiver 11/12 Joe Boyd Williams 11/13 Andrew Heeter 11/14 John Moran 11/16 Eric Ritts 11/17 Linda Tervay Landen Ross 11/19 Oralia Cain Brandon Drath Galen Mansee 11/20 Tom Burgess Brandon Geer 11/21 Bob Capps 11/22 Gail Cahill 11/23 Caleb Aringo Mary Capps Mackenzie Seiver 11/25 Martin Aringo Santiago Gallego Ify Ibekwe Aaron Scherzer Grant Seiver 11/26 Jeannye Jobes 11/27 Kaylun Bradley Nettie Briggs 11/28 Jennifer Goslin 11/30 Mary Gerber STAFF Fr. Stan Gerber, Rector Fr. Oscar Gallego, Assisting Clergy Fr. Jeff Minshall, Pastor of Youth Ministry Fr. Bill Kotlan, Pastor of Spiritual Formation Deacon Larry DiSano, Pastor of Pastoral Care Deacon John Pegues, Pastor of Adult Education Deacon Jennifer Scherzer, Pastor of Children’s Education Nicholas Gerber, Praise Team Leader Kris Heeter, Financial Secretary Susan Howard, Nursery Coordinator Caye Lankford, Special Events Coordinator Mike Mason, Music Director Carol McBee & Valerie Shepherd, Altar Guild Zachary Musick, Sub-Organist Meagan Patton, Office Administrator Tracy Pegues, Evangelism Coordinator Charlotte Talley, Parish Cook VESTRY Kathy Boggs(2017) Rachel Boyd (2015) Bob Capps(2017) Patrick Howard (2016) Judith Jordan (2015) Joe Kenney (2016) Tommy Lamb (2017) Robbie Sheltz (2015) Merrill Stanley (2015) Anne Sundquist (2016) George Vick (2016) Mike Weil (2017), Treasurer E-MAIL Fr. Stan Gerber: [email protected] Newsletter: [email protected] WEBSITE www.sttimothysanglican.org Stewardship comes in many packages, and is practiced by every one of us in one Christian Formation........................10 way or another every day of our lives. STAY & Youth Minister..................11 Parents are stewards of the children God has provided. -- Teachers are stewards of the students in their classrooms. – Priests are stewards of the people in their congregations. – Children are stewards of their playthings. – Christians are stewards of the churches in which they worship – and are stewards of the people who have not yet been brought into the Kingdom of God. Folks, stewardship is practiced every single day by every single person. Now, I am not saying that everyone practices good stewardship. Oftentimes parents, teachers, priests, children, and Christians are not good stewards over what has been given to them. Oftentimes we neglect our responsibilities. Oftentimes we think that what we have, i.e., money, possessions, children, students…, belong to us. But they don’t. Everything we have is a gift from God and He expects us to use it for our enjoyment and His glory. Women’s Ministries..................12, 13 Men’s Ministries.............................13 New Flock on the Block.................14 Vintage Flock..................................15 Our Mission Is: We Will Know, Love, Serve, and Obey Christ and Will Make Him Known to Others! Our Core Values: Growing and Discipling the Family of God Reflecting the Love of God Through Hospitality, Friendship and Fellowship Bad stewards do not recognize the tremendous blessings that come from practicing good stewardship. They do not recognize that it is more blessed to give than to the Living God Through receive, and that blessings are returned to the giver sometimes up to 10, 20 or 100 Encountering Traditional and Contemporary percent. Good stewards realize the blessings because they have experienced them Worship in their lives. Raising and Nurturing Children through the Grace of God There are so many missed opportunities to bless God by our lack of providing for Sharing God’s Love By Reaching Out His Kingdom on earth --- His Church --- His Body. to the Needy, Broken, and Oppressed. The other day I ran across the story of a man who had a great opportunity that he missed. His friend took him for a ride one day way out in the country. They drove off the main road and drove through groves of trees to a large uninhabited expanse of land. A few horses were grazing, and a couple of old shacks remained. The friend, Walter, stopped the car, got out, and started to describe with great vividness the wonderful things he was going to build. He wanted his friend Arthur to buy some of the land surrounding his project to get in on the ground floor. But Arthur thought to himself, “Who in the world is going to drive twenty-five miles for this crazy project? The logistics of the venture are staggering.” (Fr. Stan cont. on pg. 2) (Fr. Stan continued) And so Walter explained to his friend Arthur, "I can handle the main project myself. But it will take all my money. But the land bordering it, where we're standing now, will in just a couple of years be jammed with hotels and restaurants and convention halls to accommodate the people who will come to spend their entire vacation here at my park." He continued, "I want you to have the first chance at this surrounding acreage, because in the next five years it will increase in value several hundred times." "What could I say? I knew he was wrong," Arthur says. "I knew that he had let this dream get the best of his common sense, so I mumbled something about a tight-money situation and promised that I would look into the whole thing a little later on." "Later on will be too late," Walter cautioned Arthur as they walked back to the car. "You'd better move on it right now." And so Art Linkletter turned down the opportunity to buy up all the land that surrounded what was to become Disneyland. Prayer Shawl Ministry His friend Walt Disney tried to talk him into it. But Art thought he was crazy. My friends, our Lord has shown us in the Scriptures that we have many opportunities to expand His Kingdom by bringing the world to Him. But there are so many missed opportunities, because our finite minds are sometimes overwhelmed with the infinite possibilities of God, and so we place limits on our giving, on our loving, and on our serving, either because we believe that what we have belongs to us, or because we do not believe in the infinite power and authority of God. Now meeting on the 1st and 3rd Friday of each month at St. Timothy’s. An evening of games and a potluck dinner for adults. All adults are invited to join us for this evening of food, friends, conversation and a little competition. Our next gathering is on Friday, November 21, at 6:45pm.Watch the bulletin for more information. I ask each of you to begin praying about how you might respond to our upcoming stewardship campaign (see schedule below). Listen to the voice of God, weigh your financial responsibilities for your well-being, and give generously to support the work of God’s Church here at St. Timothy’s. We have started two different needlepoint groups. • Tuesdays from 1:00-2:30 in the Parish Hall • Wednesdays from 7:00-8:30 in the Green Cross Room Stewardship Schedule October 27 – A Stewardship Letter and Pledge Cards will be mailed November 2 – Lay Witnessing on Stewardship November 3 – Parish ‘‘Ketch-Up’ Gathering at 6:30pm to elect Vestry members (stewards of the church’s finances) November 9 -- Stewardship Sunday – a day to return your Commitment Cards to the Offering Plates Then we invite you to come & stitch each week after that on either Tuesday afternoons or Wednesday evenings, same time and place as the classes. Tracey Weissling & Lucy Sefcik will be your instructors. Veteran’s Day Sunday – November 9th Mary & Martha’s Women’s Retreat – Nov 14-15 Camp Tejas, Giddings, Register online at StTimothysAnglican.org Parish Thanksgiving Dinners -- November 16 – 12:30 and 5:00pm Diocesan Synod 2014 The Anglican Diocese of the Western Gulf Coast Synod 2014 will be held on Friday, November 7th and Saturday, November 8th, 2014 at HopePointe Anglican Church (333 S. Panther Creek Dr., The Woodlands). The theme of our Diocesan Synod 2014 is “Forward, Forward, Always Forward, Everywhere Forward.” The event will be a time of learning, sharing, and equipping for every leader (lay and clergy) in our diocese. Our keynote speakers will be Bishop Clark Lowenfield and Bishop Terrell Glenn. Please invite other servant leaders from your church to this event and plan to be blessed by this investment of time! At the Synod we will welcome into the diocese several new clergy and one or two new parishes. FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 7TH SCHEDULE 7:00 p.m. Synod Opening Eucharist (Bp. Clark Preaching) 8:15 p.m. Dessert Reception Vintage Flock (Fr. Stan cont. on pg. 3) This month the Rosary is offered on the third Wednesday of the month November 19 at 5:30pm 2 Parish “Ketch-Up” Gathering Monday, November 3 6:30pm Vestry Elections A light dinner will be served Questions? Call Mary Lee Turk at 281-256-1772. Let’s Needlepoint! Things to watch for in November: Scripture & Meditation is offered on the second Wednesday of the month - November 12 at 5:30pm We were having so much fun that we decided to meet two times each month. Everyone is invited to join us. Don’t know how to knit? No problem, just show up and we will teach you! Incense Sundays 11:00 am service the second Sunday of the month November 9 December 14 8:45 am service the third Sunday of the month November 16 December 21 Ed. Note - Picture on front page is The Parable of the Wise and Foolish Virgins, William Blake, 1882 Our annual Christmas Ornament Sale will be on Sunday, November 2nd and 9th, following all services. We will meet for lunch and games on November 11th at 11:30am, bring a dish and join the fun. We will not meet on November 25th during Thanksgiving week. The annual Brookwood trip is on Tuesday, November 18th. The bus will leave at 10:30am. Lunch will be on your own at Brookwood. Please call Nancy Kison at 281 397-9450 to reserve your space. Happy Thanksgiving to all! Blessings, Sue 15 (Fr. Stan continued) SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 8TH SCHEDULE 7:30 a.m. Continental Breakfast and Registration 8:00 a.m. Morning Prayer 8:30 a.m. ** Business Session - required for Diocesan delegates 9:30 a.m. Plenary I (Bp. Terrell Glenn) 10:15 a.m. Deanery Gatherings and Clergy Wives Gathering 11:15 a.m. Congregational Testimonies 12:00 p.m. Lunch at Roundtable Gatherings 1:30 p.m. Plenary II (Bp. Terrell and Bp. Clark) 2:15 p.m. Closing Worship the new FLOCK on the BLOCK Young Family Ministry “To strengthen and encourage young families to walk and grow in Christ’s love.” This ministry will help young families connect to each other and to Christ through several family-oriented activities, fellowship and Christ-centered conversations. We invite all families who have a child 5 or younger to join us! If you have a young one and older ones too you are welcome to bring the older ones along. Do you have a great story and/or craft for Story Time or just like to read to children? We’d love to have you join us as a guest reader or crafts person on Thursday morning sometime. Just see Susan Howard or call the Church office at 281-255-4111. REGISTRATION FOR THE DIOCESAN SYNOD 2014 CAN BE FOUND AT WWW.DWGC.ORG $10.00, payable by cash or check made out to the Anglican Diocese of the Western Gulf Coast, which you can bring to the event. Most Important Events in Christian History --- The nineteenth of the Top 100 Storytime Thursdays at 10am Join us for Story Time with juice and snacks every Thursday in the Nursery. Thanks for a Kudos and Congratulations! Holy Baptisms Grace McIntyre - granddaughter of Cherie Forester Cruz Garcia Olivia Kyser Thanksgiving for the birth of Natalie to Nicole Cruz We would like to celebrate important events in our members’ lives. If you have a Kudos or Congratulations for the month please email it to Tracy at [email protected]. Please use the subject line Kudos. All notices are due by the 15th of the month PREVIOUS to the occurrence. 14 successful Fall Festival Thank you to everyone who helped make this such a great event! In every monthly newsletter, I am offering an article from the ‘Christian History Magazine’ which is a tool used for catechizing. These articles come from the magazine’s understanding of what they believe are the 100 most important events in Christian history. The Great Awakening Peaks (1740) A mighty wave of revival washed across North America, forever altering the religious landscape. by MARK A. NOLL Then, in the mid-1730s, the Northampton congregation that Edwards had inherited from his grandfather was deeply In the fall of 1740, a farmer near Hartford, Connecticut, stirred by Edwards’ dramatic preaching on justification by heard life-changing news. Nathan Cole was a conventionally faith. His account of this stirring, A Faithful Narrative of the religious man whose conscience had been increasingly Surprising Work of God in the Conversion of Many Hundred troubled by an unmet need for God. The news was that the Souls in Northampton (1737) was read widely in America young revivalist George Whitefield would be preaching and the British Isles and stimulated other ministers to look twelve miles away in Middletown. Immediately, as Cole for similar renewal in their congregations. later wrote, “I … ran to my pasture for my horse with all my might,” and with his wife hastened to Middletown “as Fiery Whitefield if we were fleeing for our lives.” They arrived just in time General revival, however, awaited the arrival of Whitefield. to see Whitefield mount the scaffold that had been erected This young Anglican had been a colleague of John and for his sermon. To Nathan Cole the young British evangelist Charles Wesley and had already experimented with preaching “lookt almost angelical.” But it was Whitefield’s message that out-of-doors in Britain. His nominal reason for being in changed his life: “My hearing him preach gave me a heart America was to supervise an orphanage in Georgia. His wound; by Gods blessing my old Foundation was broken up, real reason was to preach. A person of nearly overpowering and I saw that my righteousness would not save me.” After charisma, Whitefield also intuited something about the several more months, Cole was confident that he had been changing circumstances of his day. Whitefield’s dramatic reconciled to a gracious God. appeal to individuals represented a Christian adaptation of the old gospel to the kind of free market that was speedily First Stirrings developing in trade and ideas. It was to the individual (not Nathan Cole and his wife were among the thousands who as positioned in a traditional hierarchy, not as bound by thrilled to the message of George Whitefield at the highfamily constraints, not as member of a local congregation) water mark of America’s Great Awakening. But the roots that Whitefield made his appeal. Whitefield preached more of this revival extended deep in time before Whitefield, and than fifteen thousand sermons in his thirty-five-year career its fruits could be observed for generations. First stirrings as an itinerant, but none were more effective than in 1740. occurred during the early decades of the eighteenth century. On a New England preaching circuit in the fall of that year, Preaching aimed at “awakening” the spiritually sluggish or when he was heard by Nathan Cole and his wife, Whitefield “harvesting” those with a new interest in God’s grace took addressed crowds of up to eight thousand people nearly place in New England Congregational churches, in Dutch every day for over a month. That tour may have been the Reformed congregations in New Jersey, and among scattered most sensational event in the history of American religion. Presbyterians in Pennsylvania and New Jersey. Solomon Stoddard (grandfather and predecessor of Jonathan Edwards In his wake Whitefield left thousands asking “What must I as minister in Northampton, Massachusetts), Theodore do to be saved?” He also left some of the colonies’ leaders Frelinghuysen (a Dutch minister trained by Continental wondering what such religious “enthusiasm” would do to Pietists), and several members of the Tennent family the social fabric, and not a few ministers dismayed about (Presbyterian immigrants from Northern Ireland) were the this radical new approach. The attacks that eventually rose pioneers of this work. (Fr. Stan cont. on pg. 4) 3 (Fr. Stan continued) against Whitefield and his message led to lingering disputes. But they also prompted careful, discriminating defenses of awakened piety from Jonathan Edwards. Edwards’ defense of the Awakening’s revivalistic Calvinism became a major component of the theological work that sets him apart as America’s most powerful Christian theologian. Forceful Changes Revivals like those promoted by Whitefield and defended by Edwards soon spread throughout the colonies. Some, like awakenings under Henry Alline in the Canadian Maritimes, rejected the Calvinism that had undergirded Whitefield’s message. Others, like those encouraged by Isaac Backus in New England and Shubal Stearns in North Carolina, were led by Baptists, a group that grew in great numbers as a result of the Awakening. Still other currents of renewal helped prepare the way for the later expansion of the Methodists. The colonial Awakening stamped American Protestantism with a revivalistic character that it has never lost. Although its leading spirits (Frelinghuysen, the Tennents, Whitefield, and Edwards) were Calvinist members of state churches, its primary institutions legacy was among Baptists and Methodists who rejected Calvinism, the establishment of religion, or both. Historians ponder deeply the connection between the revivalists’ willingness to break with religious tradition and the eagerness of Americans only a few decades later to throw off the hereditary rule of England. Christians will be impressed by that possibility, but even more by the renewal of faith that was the revival’s gift to humble hearers like Nathan Cole. Band of Brothers Men’s Ministry Join us on Saturday, November 15, at 8:00am as we gather for prayer, encouragement, fellowship and breakfast. All men 18 and older are invited. The Band of Brothers has Adopted the 'Oikos' Lifestyle. Come and see what it is all about! From the Deacon’s Desk As we study the Anglican Catechism this fall I am struck again by how easy it is to take for granted the value of fellowship in our life of transformation together. Studying the Bible together and sharing our thoughts, concerns and questions allows us to grow in our unity with each other and with God while holding each other accountable. I cherish those that I have the opportunity to study with because I truly need brothers and sisters who will hold me accountable; not just for the study, but for the way I live my daily life. I cannot imagine wanting to face serious illness or challenging professional or economic decisions without a church family that lifts us up in prayer and loves and supports us in our times of need. We have just returned from one of the more interesting church cruises that I have ever been on and there were a couple of things that really stood out to me during the course of the last week. The opportunity that I had to spend some down time, enjoying my quiet, introverted reading was tremendously enhanced by the opportunity that I had to intermix that time with brief periods of fellowship with the many other members of our church family who went along. It was such a blessing to watch all of the different ways in which we enjoyed our leisure time…and it is even more of a blessing to feel comfortable enough with each other that we can travel these different paths together and strengthen our common bonds in fellowship. The second observation that was driven home is how much easier it is to face uncertainty when doing it together. We have so many different personalities that deal with stress and uncertainty in different ways, but to be able to worship together during the Saturday mass and to be able to draw comfort and peace from those around us makes it easier to rely on our faith in God together. I can’t say that I ever really felt any significant stress from the uncertainties of the trip, but 4 I can say I was able to enjoy every moment from beginning to end even through the uncertainty because of the presence of God that I felt through those times of fellowship together. Deacon John Daughters of Honor Prayer, Study, Service and Evangelism The November meeting of the Daughters of Honor will be on Saturday, the 22nd. We will begin at 9:15 with Holy Eucharist in the Chapel, then refreshments and our meeting in the Blue Cross Room. Guests are always welcome to attend our meetings. During our November meeting, we will complete our study titled, Boundless Love by the Women of Faith. Father Stan will be leading the discussion for the last chapter of this study. The Daughters would like to give a big THANK YOU to our church family for their generous donations to our Operation Christmas Child program! During our October meeting, we sorted and packed your generous donations into boxes for the children. We will announce the total number of boxes filled in next month’s newsletter. The Daughters will not have a meeting in December, our next meeting will be January 17, 2015. Please join us to discover what the New Year brings! Again please MARK YOUR CALENDARS: The Daughters of Honor Meeting will be on Saturday, November 22nd, due to other events happening on the 15th. Daylight Savings Time Ends on Sunday, November 2 at 2AM Remember to set your clock BACK one hour before you go to bed on Saturday night. 13 M Marys and Marthas: Sisters Seeking and Serving Our Savior Women’s Ministry Annual Advent Luncheon: Preparing for the Promise "Lord, help me to see myself the way you see me." During the Beautiful Event at HopePointe speaker Teresa Glenn charged us to daily pray this prayer. She encouraged us to avoid becoming entangled with the world's warped ideas of beauty, but to instead seek our Heavenly Father’s standards. Hearing her engaging talk and being challenged by her message made me look forward to our own Advent Luncheon on Sunday December 7th at 1 p.m. when Teresa will encourage us to be: “Preparing for the Promise.” Teresa Glenn, a South Carolina native, graduated from the College of Charleston and received her M.Ed. from the University of South Carolina. For nine years she taught children with learning disabilities. Teresa has been married to Bishop Terrell Glenn for 25 years, and they have three adult children. One of her greatest passions is discipling women. Teresa has written material for and has led community group studies, retreats and small groups as well as engaging in spiritual direction and prayer. Her blog, celebratethefamily.org, encourages moms of all ages. She and Terrell are currently planting Church of the Apostles in Houston. Tickets ($15.00) will go on sale on Sunday November 9th for this very special event in our Parish Hall. Be sure to invite your friends and if you would like to decorate a table, as is our tradition, please see Nettie Briggs or sign up at the ticket table on Sunday morning. This event will feature a catered lunch, musical entertainment and our guest speaker, and it typically sells out; so please save your spot soon. November Ladies Night Out The Marys and Marthas will be gathering at Juanita’s Mexican Restaurant on Louetta. This was one of our most popular gatherings in January, so don’t miss out on some excellent food and fellowship on November 11th at 7:00 p.m. Mission & Outreach Don’t forget to bring non-perishable food items on Sunday, November 2nd and Sunday, December 7th for T.E.A.M. Tomball Emergency Assistance Ministries A Reminder as You Begin Your Christmas Shopping: Help TOMAGWA While You Shop at Amazon Amazon has a foundation called “Amazon Smile”. They will donate 0.5% of qualified purchases to TOMAGWA. The next time you check Amazon to purchase something, please go to Smile.Amazon.com, using this link, http://smile.amazon.com/ch/76-0280324 Amazon Smile offers most of the same products at the same prices as the regular site. This is an easy fundraiser for TOMAGWA. Amazon will donate money once a quarter, based on the purchases for that quarter. We have a few donors that are already using Amazon Smile to shop! Thanks and happy shopping! ADVENT WREATHS Inaugural Advent Devotion We will be keeping the popular tradition of making Advent wreaths later this month. Traditionally, the wreath is made of four candles in a circle of evergreens. Each day at home, the candles are lighted, perhaps before the evening meal-- one candle the first week, and then another each succeeding week until December 25th. A short prayer may accompany the lighting. Right Now Media: Recommendation Pre-orders for Advent wreaths will be taken on the Connection Cards. The Advent Wreaths will be in “take home” kits that include greenery, a floral ring, candles, candle holders, instructions and this year’s devotional book. Kits will once again cost $15. Payment can be made online or by check made payable to St. Timothy’s with Advent Wreath in memo line. Checks may be put in offering plate or given to Tracy. I want to express a big thank you to all the talented ladies of our parish who have contributed a short devotion to our very first ever Advent Devotional: Preparing for the Promise. This booklet will be available at the end of this month to be used during the Advent season. Many of you may have logged on to check out Right Now Media after Deacon Jennifer Scherzer emailed many in our parish a link to check it out. (If you did not get an invitation please let her know.) This month I would like to recommend to you Sheila Walsh’s The Shelter of God’s Promises located in the Bible Study Library. I have been watching the streaming videos of the teachings she does in that series and they have been phenomenal. In a time of rampant media panic, it’s so good to tune into a message designed to encourage and remind us all that the ultimate promise keeper is more than able to do above and beyond what we can even begin to expect or imagine. Supplies are limited so in order to guarantee an Advent Wreath kit for your family, payment must be made no later Sunday, November 23 (online payment will end on that date). After that any extra kits will be available on a first come, first serve basis on Sunday, November 30th with payment due at the time of pick-up. Check in with us next month to find out more about The Marys’ and Marthas’ Spring Bible study offering and other events planned for 2015! --Anthea Kotlan [email protected] Ladies Night Out Ladies, join us on Tuesday, November 11th, at 7 p.m. for a night out with the girls at Juanitas at 11550 Louetta. If you can come be sure to call or text Valerie Fennel so she can save a spot at the table for you: 281-744-0345 or just show up—we will make room! 12 Women Who Read First Monday of the month 10:30 at the Tomball Retirement Center Library. See Jackie Austin for more information November Songs of Willow Frost Jamie Ford December The All Girl Filling Station’s Fannie Flagg Last Reunion Forward, Forward, Always Forward, Everywhere Forward Diocesan Synod 2014 November 7 & 8 HopePointe Anglican Church 3333 S. Panther Creek Dr., The Woodlands, TX 77381 Register at www.dwgc.org Cost is $10 payable by cash or check the day of the event. 5 Evangelism It is said that one of the greatest gifts that we can give each other is the gift of time. I know that those of us who lead ministries believe this because of how valuable each of you who pledge your time here at St. Timothy’s is to each of us. The gift of time can take many forms; working alongside others, doing something for someone that might help lift a burden, coming together in fellowship or perhaps a random act of kindness. Often within that gift of time, what others really desire is someone to listen to them. Have you ever thought, “I just want someone to listen to me.” Listening is a skill, some of us are better at it than others, and some days each of us are better at it than others, but it is a skill that I believe we can all develop and, in most cases, always improve on. Truly active listening can be hard work; it is not always easy to stay engaged. When doing any kind of listening – a TV show, or a radio program, or even a sermon – it is easy for our minds to hijack us to our lives, that ‘mental grocery list’ of what we need, or want, or think we should be doing. Our busy minds and active lives don’t make it easy for our brains to concentrate even when we know how important it is. Another common problem is that while we are listening, we start to formulate our answer, or position, or advice before the person is done talking. There is always a danger in doing this, not the least of which is that the last thing a person wants is advice, they just want to be listened to. It is amazing sometimes how just talking to someone else can bring your own clarity without the listener needing to say a thing. It is OK, if you aren’t sure to ask someone what they want from you, but, no matter what it is, listening to all they have to say is critical. The other thing we need to remember is that we all have filters that we hear and speak through. Our filters are the result of our own experiences in our lives; where we have lived, how we were raised, our interactions with each other and such. Our filters fluctuate as our circumstances change and even things as simple as having a good or bad day can temporarily affect how we interpret what we see and hear. As we listen to others, it is important that we do our best to hear them, as much as possible, through their filters and not our own. For example, let’s say you are listening to someone’s faith story and you would like to invite them to church. Perhaps as you listen you hear that they have a bad church experience that has affected them, but your church experience has always been great. It is important that you respect their pain and remember that their story is not your story and meet them there. Encourage them, invite them, share your positive experience but never dismiss their experience because it hasn’t happened to you. On the other side of the coin, you may have strong feelings about something that isn’t that critical in the life of the person you are listening to. Don’t force your feelings on them. Chances are they are going to throw up defensive walls and shut you out. As active listeners, it is important that we are actively listening to what the other person is saying to us, not the narrative based on our life that is going through our head. Sometimes God gives us those amazing moments when He puts you in a place to help someone who has been through what you have been through. It doesn’t mean you should be any less active in your listening, but it does allow you a special opportunity to connect with that person. As we look through the Gospels we can see that over and over Jesus met people where they were; in the midst of their lives, their questions, their sins. He never hesitated to tell them truth about their sins but He sat and listened to (or watched) them as they revealed their experiences and filters to Him. We are called to be Christ-like to each other. We certainly aren’t perfect and try as we might sometimes our own lists and filters get in the way of being good listeners. What is important is that we pray for God’s grace as always to do better next time. Remember practice makes perfect, so go forth and listen! Thoughts from the Youth Minister Early in October I invited a group together to begin seriously looking at the future of youth ministry at Saint Timothy’s. The purpose of the meeting was to begin a process of creating a ministry that is not dependent upon a specific youth minister but instead dependent upon the church’s vision and action. In order to accomplish this task, our first meeting began by discussing the need for a sustainable plan of youth ministry. In essence, this plan will include a clear picture of where we currently are/have been, a vision of where we would like to be, a realistic acknowledgement of what barriers will need to be overcome to get to that vision, and measureable goals that will indicate we are moving in the direction we want to go. process, by telling the stories that highlight the best parts of youth ministry here at Saint Timothy’s. This is where I want to invite you to be a part of the process. I would like to compile a chronicle of stories highlighting our youth ministry at its best. If you have a story about the youth ministry, however big or small, that highlights it at its best, would you please share it with me? It may be something that you were a part of but it might also be something you saw the youth doing. To contribute, please write down your story and either put it in my box in the office or e-mail it to me at [email protected]. I look forward to hearing all the amazing stories and sharing them at our next meeting. The rest of our meeting time was spent in the first part of this Fr. Jeff Canterbury Kids Everyone can serve the Lord even "kids". One of the ways the kids of St. Timothy's (ages 6 -12) serve is by joining Canterbury Kids Choir. We meet Wednesday evenings from 5:00-6:00 just before the evening service and other small groups. You don't have to be a great singer, we'll teach you, but you do need to be ready to work together as a team to serve the Lord through praise and song. Come early at 5:00 and check us out, we've got a spot waiting just for you. STAY - 7th - 12th Grade St. Timothy’s Anglican Youth Nov. 2 Sun 5 - 7PM Nov. 5 Wed. 6:15PM Nov. 12 Wed. 6:45 - 8:30PM Nov. 15 Sat TBA Nov. 19 Wed 6:45 - 8:30PM Nov. 26 Wed. No STAY Nov. 30 Sun TBA 2nd Annual Pumpkin Chunkin’ Bible Study Bible Study STAY to Mud Run Bible Study Preliminiary Soul in the City Meeting For more information talk to Lisa Musick. Hey kids don’t forget! Peace, Tracy. Thanks from the Patch I would like to thank all of you who helped support this year’s Pumpkin Patch by purchasing your pumpkins from us. We have just completed year three and are reaching the point where folks in our community now start to look for us. My heartfelt gratitude goes out to everyone who helped make this year’s patch a reality. From all those who helped unload the pumpkin truck, including our awesome Boy Scout Troop and their families, to each of you who gave of your time to help sell this year’s crop. Without all of you we never could have had another incredibly successful Pumpkin Patch! 6 Saturday, December 6, 9 - 11am Invite your friends! 11 Christian Formation Eventfully Speaking Parish Thanksgiving Dinner Sunday, November 16, 2014 Parish Hall Chidren & Youth Education I have ordered and received a lot of different prepackaged programs over the life of this ministry. One grouping in particular has kept my interest piqued. It is for the pre-teen age group – those children who aren’t so much children anymore as they are in-betweeners, sometimes really mature, sometimes really immature. I’m determined someday to be able to offer to this group what we can in the way of working with them to grow them into spiritually mature teenagers and then on to mature adults. I was roaming through the programs again today and ran into one called Some Assembly Required. Its premise is that God has given us… well, let me share a piece of its introduction with you. Some Assembly Required is a series that recognizes that sometimes the best things in life come in pieces and that how we put the pieces together determines what we have in the end. This is how a relationship with God often functions. It’s easy to think the Christian life is a one-stop shop purchased by one decision and a lot of grace. We want the finished product without the process. But the truth is… when we choose God, we don’t get a life complete and free from struggle. Instead, God gives us a life with new potential, a set of instructions and a smile. He invites us into the process of putting it all together and works beside us as we do. I’m just thinking that sometimes we adults need to get back into our spiritual in-betweener age and look at our potentials, re-read the set of instructions, and maybe even undo and start over on some of the pieces we think we’ve put together right. I’d love to start a group of pre-teens with people who are willing to go back and look at their own potential, as well as help those younger to begin looking at theirs. We’d be looking at the 4th-6th graders in particular. It would be more of a project rather than a teacher/student relationship. If you know of anyone who would be a great fit for this, please pass it on to me. Otherwise, I’m ecstatic over the life of WoRM, the Sunday School offerings we’ve initiated, and the Wednesday Night Watchdog group’s latest project, the Jesse Tree. Watch in the hallway for the upcoming stories for November and Advent time – the parable of the Sower and the Seed and The Magnificat. Both are excellent works in their own right – thanks to the writing skills and creativity of the WoRM Team. Remember, God is smiling on us all the time – we should smile back every once in a while!! Deacon Jennifer Learning About the Eucharist Class Saturday, November 1 at 9AM ADULT EDUCATION We are at the halfway point in our study of the new Anglican Catechism and we continue to hear good things from those who are involved. It is time to start seriously thinking about the offerings for the spring semester and I am looking for volunteers to teach the classes we hope to offer as well as suggestions for classes that you might wish to see offered in addition to these. We are looking for leaders for our congregation-wide study of the Bible using the Baby Boomers Bible Study. We also would like to offer one session of Alpha and one session of the Anglican Catechism for those who have missed the opportunity to do these studies and I am looking for leaders or even teams of leaders to take these two projects on. If any of our regular groups intend to do additional studies beyond these three, I would like you to let me know so that we can get them in the catalog for the spring. Deacon John 10 Please join the St. Timothy’s Parish Family for our Annual Thanksgiving Dinner on Sunday, November 16, 2 seatings; 12:45 PM and 5:00 PM Reservations begin on Sunday, November 2, 2014 Donations to purchase turkeys are greatly appreciated. A – I - Corn Casserole or Corn Pudding J – R - Green Beans or Potato Dish S – Z - Dessert HELP NEEDED! Please contact Caye Lankford at 281-320-2920. Becoming a Spiritual Champion Kamehameha and Emma King and Queen of Hawaii Kamehameha became king of Hawaii at the age of twenty in 1855 and worked with his wife Emma to establish the Anglican Church in the islands. The king had been upset by an experience of racism in the United States when he was taken for a servant during a visit, but he had been deeply impressed by the beauty and dignity of Anglican liturgy during a visit to England. He translated The Book of Common Prayer and much of the hymnal into Hawaiian. The influx of Americans and Europeans into Hawaii had brought with it diseases that ravaged the native population and Kamehameha and Emma worked to establish hospitals. The king went door-to-door with a notebook soliciting pledges for the establishment of Queen’s Hospital, still the largest civilian hospital in Hawaii. They also worked to establish homes for the elderly, as well as a leprosy treatment facility on the island of Maui. After the king’s early death at age 29 from chronic asthma, Emma continued to devote herself to acts of charity and was deeply involved in the creation of St. Andrew’s Priory school and Iolani College. Sources: Celebrating the Saints, Wikipedia Others commemorated in November include: Richard Hooker Martin de Porres Margery Kempe Hilda Edmund Clement 7 Celebration of Life Grace McIntyre Holy Baptism Blessing of the Animals Canterbury Kids
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