Politz Hebrew Academy HaKesher Licht Bentching 4:26pm Friday, November 14, 2014 What's Happening at Politz Please join me in warmly welcoming the latest additions to our "family"! Dear Parents and Friends, Last week the kindergarten was learning about patterns as a prequel to learning reading and math. I was watching these blossoming little flowers use their knowledge in creative ways that made me cognizant of patterns all around me. Listening to their observations about patterns in their life made me begin to discern patterns everywhere I went. Patterns are woven into every aspect of the fabric of our life. No matter how variegated or different leaves may be from one another, if you look closely, you will find a pattern. As disparate as numbers may be, there are infinite patterns which connect them together. Although no two human beings are completely alike, these are common denominators which established patterns that link us all together. The consistency of stimuli acting as catalysts for predictable responses is evidence that there are patterns inherent in Hashem's universe. Not only are there physical patterns in our beautiful physical world, there are predictable patterns in relationships. Kindness will create a pattern of continued kindness; and anger will create a pattern of continued anger. Sometimes we work to perpetuate the pattern, as the pattern creates a sense of harmony and peace. Sometimes, however, (Cont'd on page 2) Darmon Family Preschel Family Stalkol Family the patterns of anger brought on by discord is perpetuated , not because we want it to break the pattern, because our human frailties get in the way. I recently experienced a situation with a friend that could have developed into a major conflagration ignited by the fuel of angry words, hurt feelings, and the stubbornness of ego. But we broke that pattern and chose harmony and the priority of maintaining our friendship. How wasteful and meaningless it would have been for each of us to have held on to our respective justification at the expense of a friendship. Maintaining a pattern of friendship requires breaking the pattern of "self" for the larger good. What seemed so major becomes insignificant when realizing what can be lost. The following parable attests to the beauty of preserving harmony and not allowing ill feelings to create a pattern of erosion in meaningful relationships: A man was once exploring caves jutting out from the seashore. During his explorations he discovered an old beaten bag with several clay balls inside of it. They looked like little non-descript sun-baked balls appearing to have little or no value. The man was intrigued by these little clay balls, so he put them in his pocket not really knowing what he would do with them. He decided one day to throw these little clay balls into the ocean. He threw them one at a time to see if he could increase the distance of his trajectory. One day he dropped one of the balls, and it cracked open on a rock. Inside was a beautiful, precious stone. Excited, the man started breaking open the remaining clay balls and discovered a precious stone inside each of them. He found thousands of dollars worth of jewels in the clay balls that he had left. Having been on the beach a long time, the man realized that he had already thrown away fifty or sixty balls. The ocean waves now consumed thousands upon thousands of dollars in jewels. The man could have become even wealthier had he not thrown away what he thought were just dried up clay balls. This simple parable can be applied to people as well. When relationships sometimes become problematic we are very quick to throw them away. In this day of disposables and replaceables, we are used to throwing things away if they do not meet our expectations and replace them with something "even better". People, however, are not disposable or replaceable. Sometimes misunderstandings or conflict create a hard baked shell around the jewel that lies within every person. Rather than break through that hardened shell of conflict and righteous indignation, we are prepared to throw away something very precious. It is not always easy to break through hardened coverings. Sometimes it may take a long time. It may not be easy to strip away ossified veneers of anger, but, if we remember there is a jewel buried inside, we will focus on the task at hand. Poets throughout the ages have tried to describe friendship with beautiful words; musicians have tried to serenade the gift of friendship with heartfelt lyrics. However, it is not until you experience and own the treasure of friendship do you understand what you could be losing if you allow it to be consumed by the tumultuous waves of anger. Hashem created Man with a Tzelem E-lokim (In His own image); that is the treasure we must always discover and uncover within each of us. May all of Klal Yisroel be linked by the golden chain of friendship held together by the indestructible clasp of our Tzelem Elokim. Good Shabbos, Mrs. Katz WHAT’S HAPPENING Pajama Party 2nd Grade Girls Parshas Chaya Sara Motzei Shabbos, November 15th 7:00 - 8:00pm Bring Politz Hebrew Academy back to our #1 Ranking for collection of BoxTops for Education!! Bring all of your BoxTops in now! Remember...10¢ a piece adds up quickly! See if your class can collect the most BoxTops! Mr. & Mrs. Shmuel Danielli on the engagement of their daughter, Ayelet, to Josh Isaac of London. Ayelet is an alumna of Politz Hebrew Academy. Mrs. Jodi Freed on the engagement of her son Josh, to Annette Rosenfeld. Josh is an alumnus of Politz Hebrew Academy. Sunday Schedule - Nov. 27 Thanksgiving Break - Nov. 28 Mr. & Mrs. Harold Wyzansky on the engagement of their son, Mordechai, to Gila Becker of Montreal. Mordechai is an alumnus of Politz Hebrew Academy. Rabbi & Mrs. Avrohom Hoberman on the engagement of their son, Aron, to Goldie Gastwirth of Far Rockaway. Aron is an alumnus of Politz Hebrew Academy. First Report Card - Dec. 4 Parent/Teacher Conferences No Classes All Teachers, Both Sessions 12:00 - 4:00; 6:00 - 8:30PM Dec. 8 Shabbos Chanukah - No Classes Dec. 19 - 21 Teacher In-Service - 12 Noon Dismissal Dec. 30 Mid-Winter Break Dec. 31 - Jan. 4 Classes Resume Mon., Jan. 5
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