What has happened to Britney Spears? http://www.courier-journal.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/2007031... Customer Service: Subscribe Now | Pay Bill | Place an Ad | Contact Us courier-journal.com News Obituaries Weather Sports Jobs Cars Neighborhoods Real Estate Business Apartments Shopping Entertainment Velocity Classifieds Features Dating Opinion Travel Services Search Kentuckiana: All Go courier-journal.com > Scene Saturday, March 10, 2007 E-mail this | Print page What has happened to Britney Spears? Not-so-'Lucky' star breaks down; can she get back up? By Tamara Ikenberg [email protected] The Courier-Journal "She's so lucky/she's a star/but she cry, cry cries/in her lonely heart," Britney Spears sang in her 2000 hit "Lucky." NEWSLETTERS Sign up now! Get morning headlines, breaking news, afternoon business updates, weekend happenings and more sent to your inbox! FEEDBACK Click here to join a discussion in our reader forums. E-EDITION Check out the new digital version of The C-J RSS RSS feeds - Get the headlines you want delivered to your reader. At the time, it seemed like a hollow complaint. The 19-year-old beauty was on top of the pop world, with two hit albums and a devoted Justin Timberlake. Seven years later, those lyrics seem much more relevant as the once-bubbly Brit struggles with a panoply of personal problems and a stalled career. The world is left wondering: What was responsible for this breakdown, and can it be fixed? "You have a woman whose life is in extraordinary disarray. She's had two recent children, a divorce, a stressful lifestyle," says Drew "Dr. Drew" Pinsky, an addiction specialist and personality on the Discovery Health Channel. "I don't know what the status of her friend relationships is; she seems to have none." + enlarge Photo illustration by Andrew Davis, The Courier-Journal. Image from PRNewsFoto/PEOPLE Magazine Is her loneliness killing her, as she sang in her 1998 breakout single "… Baby One More Time"? Will she end up a bitter, washed-up star a la Baby Jane, psychologically torturing her spritely sis Jamie-Lynn? Let's recap Britney's recent bizarre behavior. Early signs of trouble It's not readily apparent when the meltdown began. But things have been visibly shaky since 2004, when she infamously wed Kevin Federline. She had two babies, Sean Preston and Jayden James, in 2005 and 2006, respectively, and filed for divorce in November. After that, things got worse. She spiraled into drug addiction and started hanging out with Paris Hilton, exposing her lady parts, vomiting and making a scene wherever she went. Then she checked herself in and out of rehab twice, and has repeatedly shown up, frantic, at Federline's doorstep, where she's been turned away because he's worried about how seeing their mom in such a state will affect their children. But perhaps the most shocking and telling moment was when she shaved her head in the middle of last month. + enlarge Britney Spears was caught by a film crew after shearing off her locks last month. For many, it wasn't a fashion statement but a cry for help. (KABC-TV/via AP) "The astonishing thing is," Pinsky said, "here she is, demanding to shave her hair off impulsively in someone's closed barber shop, and the owner of the shop is like, 'Britney, you're having a bad day, think about it' -- and the bodyguard stepped in front of the owner and said, 'She can do whatever she wants; it's her body.' That's emblematic of what's going on with this poor woman." Psychologist Cooper Lawrence, a regular guest on CNN and host of her own radio show, agrees that Spears' status is only hurting her. 1 of 3 + enlarge Spears married Kevin Federline in 2004. Although they're divorcing, he's been praised as a recent steadying influence (By Eric Jamison/Associated Press) 4/7/07 5:28 PM What has happened to Britney Spears? http://www.courier-journal.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/2007031... "It gives her a sense of entitlement she doesn't need right now," Lawrence says. "She needs humility to get through whatever she's getting through. She's never been one for humility. It's not part of the whole structure of stardom." Spears and Madonna put on a show during a performance at the MTV Video Music Awards in 2003. (By Julie Jacobson/Associated Press) And Britney has been a star for much of her life, living a sheltered, pampered existence where everyone on the payroll puffs her up. "She didn't go through the normal developmental milestones the rest of us go through at different ages; she was forced into a life that was not congruous with her development," Lawrence says. "We know now as psychologists that the frontal lobe is not fully developed till your early 20s. She's at that age where her brain is catching up to her life. The fact that all this went on prior to 25 is no shock." Could Brit's premature stardom be part of the problem? She was being groomed for celebrity before she was 10, having auditioned for "The New Mickey Mouse Club" at age 8 and appearing on "Star Search" at 11. She was featured on "The New Mickey Mouse Club" from ages 11 to 13. + enlarge "There's nothing to suggest that being a young star or child star by itself is what predisposes (one) to these issues," says Pinsky, who treats several major stars. After all, if that were the core cause, wouldn't we see the same problems arising with fellow former Mouseketeers Christina Aguilera and Timberlake? Olivia C. Grosser, author of the new book "Britney Spears: Prodigal Daughter," available at oliviapublishing.com, has an idea why Spears' contemporaries haven't collapsed. "I think Christina has been regarded as the 'second fiddle' to Britney all along, so has consistently tried to improve her standing. This in turn means she has had room to manipulate her image, to reinvent herself from vamp to classy sophisticate. It has gained her an awful lot of respect and what I call 'late-onset recognition.' Christina is now in her mid-twenties and better able to navigate and control her life and career. I don't think she had a parent or manager controlling her in the way Spears' did," she says. "As for Justin Timberlake, I think he has shrewdly invested and diversified his talents. He has branched out from music into fine-dining and other areas. He has constantly evolved, whereas Britney hasn't. Poor Spears got stuck in a moment she thought would last forever, whereas Aguilera and Timberlake know they have to roll with the punches to enjoy longevity in their careers. … They have crafted their careers, unlike Britney, who was entirely manufactured and perhaps never allowed to be who she wanted to become." This suggests there could be more at play than stress, early stardom and substance abuse. Pinsky and Lawrence both say Spears may suffer from an organic mental condition like bipolar disorder. "There might have been something there for a long time that's undiagnosed. It took a while for it to dawn on people (that something could be mentally wrong) because they're not intellectually savvy when it comes to psychological problems," Lawrence says. "Britney… doesn't need rehab; she needs a therapist. She's been going to Alcoholics Anonymous, which is the most ridiculous thing in the world. They're treating her as an alcoholic who has the same problems as every other alcoholic who's sitting in the room with her. She's Britney Spears. So the anonymous part's already gone; what's the point?" Not funny anymore People who were previously amused by Spears' antics have a more empathetic point of view now. "When you find the person you've been poking fun at is mentally unstable, there's this guilt that comes after you've made fun of them," says Liz Shaffer-Wishner, 23, a Louisville resident who works for AmeriCorp Vista. But Shaffer-Wishner doesn't see a bright future for the star. "She can't stop her own decline. She's going to be the next Anna Nicole Smith. She's going to run herself into the ground." CALL CENTER MANAGER CALL CENTER MANAGER NEEDED IMMEDIATELY 2... LIFEGUARD Certified Lifeguard LIFEGUARD Certified Lifeguard Needed . I... HEALTHCARE CuraScript IP welco HEALTHCARE CuraScript IP welcomes indivi... Sales to join one of the most productive mortg... 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Louisville residents Mary Jent, 30, a mental health-care worker, and Kassie Alfred, 27, a nursing student, said they were never big fans, but they've been following Spears' story. "She went from an idol to a bad after-school special," Jent says. "I think she's just in a rough patch, or a fuzzy patch. No matter how crazy I get, I'm not shaving my head." 2 of 3 4/7/07 5:28 PM What has happened to Britney Spears? http://www.courier-journal.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/2007031... Alfred points out that Spears may be seriously alienating her core audience. "The demographic her music is aimed towards wouldn't understand what she's going through, and can't feel sympathy or empathy," Alfred says. Still, they feel she'll survive somehow. "People come back from worse," Jent says. The experts also agree that with some serious self-reflection and a commitment to treatment, Britney Spears may yet rise from this epic fall. And most surprisingly, Federline, who almost everyone had pegged as the deadbeat troublemaker in the saga, has stepped up to the plate when it comes to caring for Sean and Jayden and dealing with Britney. "Kevin Federline is suddenly looking like a good guy," Pinsky says. "He's setting down boundaries appropriately, he's creating leverage and motivation for her to stay in treatment." If K-Fed can come out smelling like roses, Brit can surely re-emerge smarter and stronger. Post a Comment View All Comments i think every female should shave their head bald to show britney that we support her! Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 7:55 pm I am male, and 42 year old consultant instead of a pop star (whatever THAT is) - but I, like our girl Brit, 1. shave my head 2. am recently divorced 3. have no musical talent 4. would shagg about any member of the opposite sex who meets my stringent requirements (beating heart, no foul odors) leave the poor girl alone, we are kindred spirits! Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 4:00 am Seriously what is this world coming to. People disgust me. She is human she bleeds red just like you and me. She isnt perfect and no one is, there is no such thing as perfect and I highly doubt she has any real true friends she can trust. Look at how many of her "so called" friends are so quick to sell her out for profit and publicity. I honestly feel sorry for her and I know exactly what she is going through. I was in shock when i saw that she shaved her head because that was me. I was going to shave my head once because i just lost it but i didnt and the fact she did really concerned me. The ironic thing about all of this is that im not a fan and have never been but she is a child of God as we all are and people need to leave her alone unless your trying to send her to an early grave. She needs someone real someone she can trust and knows that they care about her as a human and not just because shes britney spears. I hope this gets to a lot of people and you will leave her alone and let her get help and heal. Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 3:46 am I think Britney should just get over it already. I mean for god's sake I'm going through a divorce, and the custody of my daughter, and you don't see normal people out drinking and partying. If she cared so much about those boys she'd get her sh*t together and grow up. She makes me sick. I guess she thinks this is the only way she can get into the lime light again, well I hate to break it to her, but her career is over, she messed that up the minute she married K-Fed(or K-fag, whichever). She needs to pull her head outta her a** and put those boys first, not her partying and her friends. Because friends come a dime a dozen, your kids last forever. So Britney my message to you: Grow up and stop acting like a child, face your damn problems head on. Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2007 1:43 am BRITNEY MADE HER MARK LIVING ON HER BACK SIDE???LIKE MANY OTHERS HAVE!!!! WHO CARES SHES JUST A SLUT!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 11:32 pm Post a Comment View All Comments ^^ Back to top E-mail this Print this Subscribe RSS feeds Home | News | Sports | Business | Features | Travel | Scene | Velocity | Classifieds | Jobs | Cars | Homes | Shopping | Contact Us | Search Classified Partners: Jobs: CareerBuilder.com | Cars: Cars.com | Apartments: Apartments.com | Shopping: ShopLocal.com Copyright 2005 The Courier-Journal. Use of this site signifies your agreement to the Terms of Service and Privacy Policy/Your California Privacy Rights (updated 3/7/2007). Send questions and comments to The Webmaster. 3 of 3 4/7/07 5:28 PM
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