Children's Hope International www.ChildrensHope.net www.ChildrensHope.net Spring 2007 15 th How it All Began The First Adoptions National Reunion All-American Family R HOMES, H E A LT H AND HOPE FOR CHILDREN IN NEED Luis, 8, Ana Maria, 5 ½, and Jeison, 3 ½, came home to Kentucky from Colombia in February. These siblings, with the big happy smiles, were adopted by Jose and Megan Huerta. Contents Family Stories 4 My Mother Children's Hope News _ China 3 Dwyatt's Desk by YaLi Wahlstrom 10 6 2007 Reunion Picnic The First Adoptions _ China 7 Letters from Orphans by Jennifer Newcomb 8 How it All Began 12 Green Light Go _ Russia 15 years of Children’s Hope Adopting a Child with Special Needs 16 All American Family _ Vietnam 14 Humanitarian Aid 2006 Year-End Report by Shar Moser 18 New Arrivals 12 On the Cover 2007 marks the 15th year Children’s Hope has found loving homes for orphans who desperately need the love of a family- nearly 6000 children since 1992. Read about how it all began on page 8. -2- 16 www.ChildrensHope.net Children's Hope International Spring 2007 DWYATT’S DESK 15 Eyes of Hope Fifteen Years of Giving Homes, Health and Hope Out of the cold night of hopeless abandonment into the warm security and strong arms of love. This is the unspoken meaning of adoption. Children who have no parents to tuck them into bed and look at them with the eyes of love are lost beyond any words to describe. When I first saw the children living in Chinese orphanages in the early 90’s I was struck with the realization that they had no light in their eyes. Their eyes looked dead and I realized that it was the light of hope that was missing. They had turned their longing in upon themselves – with no way of even knowing that something called love existed. And then!!...when I saw those same children swallowed up by the billowing, surrounding love of their adoptive parents who spoke without words into the longing emptiness to say, “You are now and forever loved and family”, I saw the lights come on in their eyes! In a few days they were almost unrecognizable from the lonely and forsaken child that had sat sad and forlorn in the orphanage! Their beauty blossomed and their lives began. As long as there are children without parents to love them, we will be their voice—and their eyes to look for the parents they will never have if we don’t. That has been our mission and our passion for 15 years – and forward. Somewhere a child sits and waits… 1992- China opens up to international adoption. While moving from Beijing to Tulsa, Dwyatt Gantt, along with Melody Zhang in China, finalizes 14 adoptions. 1993 - Gantt moves to St. Louis, Missouri, and Zhang immigrates to the United States to help continue and expand adoptions of Chinese orphans to American families. Due to a Chinese moratorium, only 20 adoptions were completed. 1994 - Out of a St. Louis apartment office, adoptions triple to 66. 1995- Additional staff is hired and moved into a building in Overland, Missouri, that would be Children’s Hope International home office for ten years. 240 Chinese orphans are united with their families. 1996 - Added several branch offices across the United States. Also added a Russian adoption program. Total international adoptions: 304. 1997 - The Cascade Adoption Agency in Portland becomes a part of Children’s Hope. New programs for India, Guatemala and Vietnam are developed. Adoptions for the year: 349. 1998 - Some changes in China’s adoption procedures drop adoptions to 220. 1999 - Adoptions edge back up to 257 as the Chinese opens up again and new international programs pick up steam. 2000 - Children’s Hope International is one of the first agencies accredited in Russia. More staff is added to handle 389 adoptions. 2001 - New branches are added in four cities as the staff grows to 71 in the United States and internationally. Colombia is a new country. Children’s Hope Foundation launched to handle humanitarian projects. 513 adoptions were completed. 2002 - The number of adoptions this year totals 689 with over $1.7 million going to orphan and humanitarian needs in all six Children’s Hope countries. 2003 - While 718 children were placed with loving families, the groundwork was laid for a new program in Kazakhstan that opened January 1, 2004. 2004 - With 443 adoptions from China and 230 Adoptions from Russia, Children’s Hope found homes for 816 children in 2004. 2005 - The St. Louis home office moved to a new larger building five miles west in St. Louis county. For the year, 744 children were placed in loving homes. Nearly 500 of those adoptions were from China. 2006 - New Orphan Sponsorship Program launches on www.ChildrensHope.net while finding homes for 715 orphans. Dwyatt Gantt Children's Hope International Executive Director www.ChildrensHope.net Children's Hope International Spring 2007 China 3,612 Russia 1,351 Orphans Adopted Colombia 206 1992-2006 Vietnam 188 Kazakhstan 30 India 188 (closed Aug 2005) Guatemala 385 (closed Feb 2003) Nepal 15 (closed Jan 2005) -3- My Mother FAMILY STORY By YaLi Wahlstrom Father and Mother are the greatest and the most holy career in the world. The children who have a father and mother must be the happiest children in the world. No matter if they are poor or rich, the parents are always ready, giving all their love to their children, no matter whether the children are their own or adopted. I have a great mother. She adopted my sister, my brother and me from China. Even though three of the children are not her biological children, she gives all her love to these three Chinese children. My mother is very beautiful. She has brown hair, and bright meaningful eyes. She has a big high nose. She is very tall and slim. My mother takes very good care of me in everyday. I have been eating Chinese food since I came to America because my mother worries I am not used to the food here. The Chinese food my mother makes is very tasty. At night, I feel scared, so my mother sleeps with me. Whatever I want, my mother always buys them for me. Sometimes I feel I am asking too much, it is not right. But my mother always understands and comforts me all the time. When I saw some white hairs coming out from my mother’s beautiful hair, I felt very sad because she works too hard for us. So in the daily life, I wish I could do something to make my mother happy and try my best to help her. I am fully grateful to my mother. Here in America, I can really enjoy Mother’s love, which I have never had in my life. I love my mother and love her big heart. After being in the United States for about a month, YaLi was asked by her teacher in Madison, Wisconsin, to write an essay on “The most important person in your life”. Her essay was translated from Chinese to English. -4- CHILDREN’S HOPE NEWS CHANGES in China’s Adopting Parent Qualifications New Regulations will Limit the Number of People Who Adopt from China In a move to lessen the number of families adopting from China, the China Center for Adoption Affairs implemented new tighter qualifications for potential adoptive parents. Under these new rules, anyone who is either single, over 50-years-old or who has been married for less than two years will no longer meet qualifications to adopt from China. The CCAA held a meeting in Beijing on December 18, 2006 with all international adoption agencies to layout the requirement changes. All adoption paperwork submitted to China after May 1, 2007 must meet the new standards. “We are sad for the people who had their hearts set on adopting from China…yet no longer qualify,” said Ann Tollefson, Children’s Hope China Program Director. “The good news is Children’s Hope does have options (other countries that will accept them) for many of these people.” Stating that China will accept “only healthy adults”, the CCAA will no longer take applications from individuals with a Body Mass Index over 40, anyone who is being treated for depression, a serious disability or any ailment that will shorten a parent’s life span. “The priority criteria are meant to protect children’s interests and shorten the waiting time for more qualified applicants,” said Xing Kaimin, CCAA Director. Xing added that there are twice as many dossiers to adopt from China as there are orphans available for adoption. With the new requirements, the CCAA hopes to lessen the number of applicants so that the wait time to adopt will eventually become shorter than the current 15 months. In Children’s Hope’s 15 years, we have seen numerous changes in procedures from all the countries we serve. This is the case with China. Not too long ago a parent had to be at least 35-years-old to adopt. In the mid-1990s, anyone adopting for a second time had to be open to adopting a child with special needs. The wait time from when the adoption paperwork is submitted to China to when a referral is received has fluctuated greatly over the years less than six months to more than 18-months. Meanwhile Director Xing stressed what we know from history: “The guidelines are temporary and might be revised.” Blanketed in Love While 13-month-old Zhengwei was fighting for her life with third degree burns in a Boston hospital, members of Girl Scout Troop 725 of Palos Park, Illinois, were learning to crochet. As each girl completed a little woolen square, they were receiving a valuable lesson that went far beyond yarn and fancy stitches. All these little squares were to come together to make a soft colorful blanket for that terribly burned girl from China. On December 31, Children’s Hope arranged to have Zhengwei and her mother flown from Shandong Province, China, to Shriners Burn Hospital in Boston. Last summer Zhengwei fell off her mother’s bike into a pot of boiled noodles. The burns were so severe that her neck and chest fused together. With no facilities in China capable of treating the injuries properly, Children’s Hope asked for help from Shriners. The hospital’s world class medical care would be free to Zhengwei’s family; Children’s Hope just had to get her there. There will be months and months of surgery and recovery time for Zhengwei. But with loving support from people like the girls of Scout Troop 725 and the many volunteers from the Chinese Christian Churches of Greater Boston, Zhengwei and her mother will not be alone as they work through this difficult separation from friends and family back home. Zhengwei’s mother comforts her shortly after a recent surgery in Boston. ( L-R) Madeline Husar, Natalie Cianci and Claire Husar helping to crochet a blanket for the badly burned baby. -5- Orphan Ministry Children’s Hope Church Outreach Tool Chest The new Children’s Hope Church Packet will enable you to present Adoption Awareness, Orphan Care, and Orphan Sponsorship to your church or community group. The packet we will mail to you contains a CD with a power-point presentation detailing the worldwide orphan tragedy, talking points with scriptural references on orphan care and a bulletin insert. Also included is an emotional 3-minute DVD that grabs the heart of the viewer by proclaiming a call to action, You Can Bring Hope to an Orphan. Bring ORPHAN MINISTRIES into your church or community group: Michelle Wehde Howdeshell [email protected] 314-812-1746 Reserve Your Table July 14 National Reunion Picnic Registration Deadline June 20 ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Registration Form Parent’s Name Address Phone Email National Reunion Picnic- July 14 10:30 am to 3:30 pm St. Louis, MO The Indoor Arena at Queeny Park ___________________________ ________________________________ ________________________________ ________________________________ Guests Attending name: Children: Name Age Country _________________________ ___ _________ _________________________ ___ _________ _________________________ ___ _________ _________________________ ___ _________ ________________________________ ________________________________ Lunch is $8.00 per person (adults & children). Please send check and registration form to: Children’s Hope, Attn: Picnic, 11780 Borman Dr., St. Louis, MO 63146 www.childrenshopeint.org/reunion/reunion07.htm You Can Bring Hope to an Orphan “ I am very glad to know that I have got a sponsor. I think that from now on I will be happier and it will be easier to overcome all the difficulties with you. I won’t let you down. I will try my best. I swear! ” Jyothi from India holds her drawing high so sponsor Aimee Skornik of Mesa, AZ, will see her talented work in her own hands. Part of a letter written to Dawn Milazzo of Titusville, NJ, by Olga, the Kazakhstan girl she sponsors on a monthly basis through the Children’s Hope Orphan Sponsorship program. www.ChildrensHope.net Thanks to Lisa Ferguson of Troy, MO, her sponsored child and three other happy, determined boys in China can now ride to school on their own bike. Browse photos and profiles online to find your match—an orphan from one of five countries, waiting for the love and attention he or she so desperately needs. Sponsor an orphan today and change a life forever. Thuy Nguyen, Children’s Hope Director in Vietnam, helping Yen Nhi write a letter to her sponsor. How It All Began The Children’s Hope Story is a Story of God’s Love for Orphans Orphans who had no hope, now have hope. Orphans who dreamed of a home, now have a home. Orphans who prayed for a mommy and daddy, now are tucked in with a kiss, every night. It all started in China in the 1980s, Dwyatt Gantt, Children’s Hope Executive Director and Founder, started the organization, University Language Services. While living part time in China, he was recruiting American and Canadian teachers to teach English in Chinese universities. In less than a decade, Dwyatt had placed over 700 teachers. Once in China, some of these new teachers started visiting neighborhood orphanages. Their hearts were torn to do something. Several asked the orphanage staff if they could take some of the more sickly children home, for a night or a weekend, in order to give them better nutrition or medical attention. Eventually the teachers wanted to take it a step further and adopt the children they had already made a part of their families. This gave Dwyatt his first look into the desperate needs of thousands of orphans in Chinese orphanages. A one child policy coupled with poverty and a centuries-old male preference culture, left many Chinese baby girls shivering to survive in cold, poorly staffed child welfare homes. Melody Zhang and Dwyatt Gantt in 2006 at the Children’s Hope Center in Beijing. “It’s a win-win situation. An orphan who desperately needs a home gets a home and a home that aches for a child, gets a child to love.” Dwyatt Gantt “We are totally blessed that God would use us to save this many children.” Melody Zhang “Those valiant teachers who visited the orphanages were responding out of the need they saw,” Dwyatt said. “All they were trying to do is save the children. The result is that they ended up adopting.” In 1989, Gantt met a young Chinese journalist with the Foreign Expert Bureau, Zhang Wen (Melody), who was working for his group on this particular day as a translator during a trip to the Great Wall. “I was fascinated by them…so loving and dedicated to China. It uplifted me being around them,” Melody said. Melody was so taken by the University Language Services teachers’ love for the people of China, she soon was writing an article featuring Dwyatt for a national magazine. It was titled, “I Have a Chinese Heart”. By end of 1991, China was preparing to begin adoptions to foreigners outside of China. On New Year’s Day 1992, Dwyatt rode his bike ten miles to the United States Embassy in Beijing simply to find non-profit organizations dealing with children. He had envisioned volunteering his assistance to one of these groups to help orphans get adopted into loving homes in America. “My desire was to just volunteer to help…but the phone started ringing and it hasn’t stopped since,” Dwyatt said. -8- www.ChildrensHope.net Children's Hope International Spring 2007 1993 1993 While back in the States, Dwyatt contacted Melody to assist in finding orphanages that would agree to work with him in adopting orphans into American families. It was not until Melody met Dwyatt that she even became aware that there were orphanages in China. She had believed there was no need for orphanages since all people in China were taken care of equally by the government. “I started contacting local orphanages. There was no norm…no one knew what was involved,” Melody recalls about the early days of international adoption from China in 1992. She called her aunt in Changshu (Jiangsu Province), asking her about orphanages in her area. To Melody’s surprise, her aunt was good friends with the director of an orphanage right in the neighborhood. In June 1992, Melody flew down to her aunt’s to visit her first an orphanage. Only a few weeks after Melody’s initial visit, three orphans were assigned to those families from the orphanage in Changshu, on August 8, 1992. One of those families, the Ortners from Florida, were already booked on a business/tourist trip to China for August, so Dwyatt contacted the agency to get the other two families ready to fly to Beijing in order to meet up with the Ortners. It was a tight deadline. The families didn’t even receive the referral photos until they were boarding their international flight in California. “God’s grace was on us…there was no road (adoption procedures), we just had to make the road,” Dwyatt said. “But China was not a mystery to me so I wasn’t worried.” Melody greeted the families as they got off their plane and then escorted them onto a flight down to Shanghai. The next day they traveled to Changshu and checked into a hotel right across the street from the orphanage. If it wasn’t for the prayer and faith for their mission, Children’s In the first 20-by-20-foot room she walked into, Hope could have Melody saw crib after crib bordering the room. There were two children per crib with a very easily folded bamboo mat and no sheet. The children were rocking back and forth. All looked malnourished in that second year. and mosquito bitten. “When I went in I got a shock. It was dark… hot…and smelled so bad,” Melody said. “It looked like a refugee camp. They were so pale they didn’t look like normal children.” “I said to the director, ‘We will try to find homes for the children’,” Melody said. “They trusted us with their children.” A little 8-month-old girl with a huge diaper made from a man’s old trousers stretched out her hand toward Melody, twirling it like a helicopter. Melody picked her up to hold her. This would be the very first baby to be adopted through Children’s Hope — Lian Ortner. Back in the States, Dwyatt had finalized a working relationship with an established adoption agency. Calling his new organization China’s Children, Dwyatt was quickly given three couples who would be the “pioneer families” for adoptions from China. “I was pretty sure it would all happen. I was so naïve,” Melody said regarding her lack of apprehension about families flying to China to adopt when there was no official adoption procedure yet established by the country. That first year, 14 Chinese orphans were adopted into American homes through China’s Children. The early part of 1993, another 20 adoptions were completed. China then put a stop to adoptions in order to carefully adjust procedures. With 40 families waiting and more calling everyday, Dwyatt used the down time to ask Melody to assist him back in the United States. She rented an apartment above his in St. Louis, Missouri. They worked out of the office in Dwyatt’s small living room equipped with a $29 desk from WalMart, a fax machine and laptop computer. If it wasn’t for the prayer and faith for their mission, China’s Children could have very easily folded in that second year. Fortunately, the Chinese government got the adoption process re-organized and operating efficiently. Within a few months the moratorium was lifted and children were coming home again by May 1994. That year 66 orphans were adopted into new loving homes. Continued on page 17 >> www.ChildrensHope.net Children's Hope International Spring 2007 -9 - 15 th First Adoptions China may have opened their doors to the seat in front of us and just stared at it the whole way on the plane.” adoption in April of 1992, but three Children’s Hope families already had hearts wide open. For the Ortner’s, the Quinn’s, and the Yohey’s — the first Children’s Hope families — they were pioneers in what is now commonly known as the journey of love to China. In Florida, Judy and Peter Ortner were researching international adoption with little materializing. In Colorado, Patty and Ed Quinn were suffering through the tail-end of eight years of disappointments in fertility treatments. In Pennsylvania, Brenda and Roger Yohey sought the dream of a large, loving family. All three families were referred to Dwyatt Gantt and Melody Zhang of emerging China’s Children, an organization later known as Children’s Hope International. “It was quite unusual for all of us,” says Peter Ortner. “But we said, ‘Let’s go for it. Let’s be one of the first. And then it was just a few months.” The Ortner’s planned to tour their future child’s homeland, allowing Peter to schedule corporate speaking engagements throughout Asia and India. When they received a cable requesting their adoption travel in less than two weeks, the family only deviated from their current plans. The Quinn’s were not quite as prepared. Downtrodden with previous tribulations, Patty had not yet completed their immigration approval. You can’t travel without it! After finding a government worker with a huge heart, what typically takes forty days to process arrived in hand the day before the family was ready to travel. The adoption was on! Up north, the Yohey’s received a call at 1 a.m., during Chinese business hours. China was seeking additional income and career -10 - When they landed, the Ortner’s joined the other two families to embark on their adoption journey. At their first hotel in Shanghai, Melody Zhang—as their complete one person stafflaunched into the group itinerary, reviewing every detail from week one through week four. intentions from Brenda so Melody was unsure the family should travel. They received the verdict the next morning while still bravely en route. “Everything will be fine!” Melody reassured, and the family continued to their next stop, one scare behind them. In San Francisco, the Quinn’s and the Yohey’s met. Just as they boarded their connecting flight to Shanghai, they were handed a color fax—for the first time they saw their little girls. Noted above the referral photos were the families’ last names, distinguishing each of the Changshu Welfare House roommates set to return to the States only three weeks later. “We were pretty sure she was a girl, but we didn’t know what age. I had to bring two to three different sizes of diapers and different clothes, Jenna Yohey because we were prepared for anything from birth to a year,” says Patty. “Until then we only knew they were to be healthy little girls,” says Brenda. When the Quinn’s saw the picture it was overwhelming. “My husband who is not really emotional—he looked at it and, realizing it was In Changshu, the families experienced a personal touch. They visited Melody’s aunt’s house one evening and when travel needed to be rerouted a friend of Melody’s drove them personally to their destinations. “We are so close. We all consider ourselves cousins. Even though we are spread all over the country, we get together still once or twice a year.” way powerful, said, ‘Put it away! Don’t get it wrinkled!’” Patty laughs. “I don’t think he could absorb it. A minute later he said, “Let me see it again!” Finally, we propped it up on the back of Lian Ortner www.ChildrensHope.net “We already had reservations to come back home and were pushing the limits of employment, being gone for nearly three weeks. We were all, ‘Oh, my gosh! We have to be back home!’ I’ll never forget the look on Melody’s face! She just said, ‘Oh, okay!’ and made it happen,” Patty recalls. Sarah Quinn Children's Hope International Spring 2007 At the orphanage, paperwork that now is done long before travel, needed to be completed. “We didn’t realize there was more to do!” says Brenda. When all was ready, the orphanage director personally flew to Beijing to receive approval for the three adoptions. Because the staff was fearful of bonding taking place prior to approval, the families were only now able to meet their children after five long days in country. “The aunties brought the girls from the orphanage for lunch...and then took them back again!” Patty remembers laughing. “It was gut wrenching. It was terrible. We hardly got to hold them.” www.ChildrensHope.net 15 th “The mothers were all sort of a mess,” Brenda says, adding that her bonding occurred immediately. “Melody tried to tell us that was good and maybe the orphanage director and staff wanted to see what our reaction was.” Over dinner the Yohey’s asked for a birth date and, finally, they all learned the age of their babies. Two days later they were able to see their girls a second time and were never made to part again. The orphanage staff continued to meet formally and socially with the families, inviting them several times to dine at their dining hall. “It was kind of new to everyone in general in 1992,” says Peter. The American families may have been on new turf (literally and metaphorically), but so was the Chinese government. When the families traveled to Hong Kong by train, a U.S. embassy official escorted them so that he too could glean a better understanding of the process. Traveling alone to Guangzhou, the city of the American embassy and consulate, the families learned they had one last hurdle: their children’s medical testing. “We couldn’t find the medical office! We needed the testing to give the consulate, to get the visa. That was a little difficult, but we...you know!” laughs Brenda. the Ortner’s and the Quinn’s returned to China with their girls to visit the country and their firstborns’ orphanage. A banquet was thrown in their honor. Caregivers ran out with baby photos in hand, hugging the children they once knew, now grown into beautiful young women. Even the orphanage director, now in retirement, joined to celebrate the families. It is clear, the staff in China had nothing to worry about; these families were built on lasting love. Dwyatt and Melody forged a special bond with these first families as well. The Ortner’s flew Melody to the States with their new frequent flyer miles. “I miss her,” says Patty. “She’s like a sister to me. While we were in China, she was our lifeline; we’d never traveled before.” Peter echoes, “We are one big family now!” Reflecting on Melody and Dwyatt, Brenda sighs, “They are, oh my gosh, from heaven. They are both very special.” Patty continues, “They are such incredible spirits, so driven by what they do. They have incredible hearts and are great role models. We are very fortunate that our path led us to them.” Their children feel the same way. “It was exciting! It was great! We learned so much from the process,” Patty says. After their ground breaking adoption, the three pioneer families brought home baby girls, Sarah, Lian, and Jenna. Years later the Quinn’s and the Ortner’s returned again, adopting Emily and Catherine respectively. To this day, the families keep in touch meeting once or twice a year. In the summer of 2005, Children's Hope International Spring 2007 At the orphanage in Changshu, Children’s Hope’s first families hold their daughters close. (L-R) Judy Ortner with Lian, Roger and Brenda Yohey with Jenna, and Ed and Patty Quinn with Sarah, orphanage staff. - 11- Find out what your love is capable of __ As a single prospective mother, Heidi took all this into consideration. Although it would mean additional personal attention, the more minor special needs Heidi felt she can handle. W hen Hans Denis Graser was born, he was delivered with fluid in his lungs. Doctors in Russia diagnosed pneumonia and administered the appropriate antibiotic treatment. The drug’s effective dose was to be given over a period of time gradually, but in error the drug’s full dose was given all at once. In little Hans, the resulting action caused nerve deafness. As is the custom for orphans in his region, Hans stayed in a baby hospital his first year, completely deaf and unable to hear. Ninetynine percent of his life was spent in his crib and the little boy was given one diaper change a day. Upon graduation from the baby hospital, Hans moved to a “baby house” where he was unlikely to be adopted. His caretakers labeled him severely deaf and developmentally delayed. “I’ve always thought Special Needs strictly meant mentally and physically handicapped kids,” says Heidi Graser, new mom to adorable “Jack” a.k.a. Hans Denis Graser. “When I found out Russia considers deafness, cleft lip and cleft palate, burns, and things of that nature as special needs, I thought, ‘Those are not special needs! Those are fixable, workable maladies.’” By to Cory Barron— Children ’s Hope She applied Children’s Hope International on December 1, 2005, choosing her country, region, age range, and the special needs she was open to. Her main goal—to find the one child with the slimmest chances of finding a home. She told her adoption coordinator, “I’m very well traveled. Send me where people don’t want to go because it is too far away.” She had the place—Vladivostok, nine hours by plane from Moscow. “I was prepared for Jack to be stone cold deaf. I had to get into that mental state before I traveled on that first trip.” What if it was more than she could handle? Would it matter if he could never hear her? What if the orphanage did not disclose his entire medical history and his development delay was due to another cause? Heidi had never known anyone with a hearing impairment. Filled with doubt she consulted her adoption coordinator, family and friends. Talking through it got Heidi through it. Within the region she selected, he was the only child under 3 years of age afflicted with any of the special needs she was open to. “We’d set up a pro and con list. He might just need hearing aids or implants, and we can always use sign language. We always had one or two positives to knock out the negatives.” For Russia, you travel twice: once to see the child and verify your decision to adopt; the second, to attend court and finalize the process. Heidi began her first trip on April 13. Before leaving she took every single day, thinking, “Do I go or not go.” Heidi explains, “You have to wrap your mind around it. My sister is pregnant right now, high risk. And I realized I could’ve given birth to a child with a hearing impairment or a child with a cleft lip. Would I love them any less? No, of course not, he or she would still be my child.” “It wasn’t so much, ‘Is he right for me?’ but ‘Am I right for him?’” Although she hoped it would not be necessary, knowing she had options was a great relief; if she and Jack were not a match, she could always return to the States and await another referral. In her first couple of days in Moscow, Heidi was overwhelmed with how to communicate with Jack. When he looked in her eyes and she in his, she saw there was no need to worry. By the time Jack came home, Heidi had studied sign language. Jack picked up many words within their first month together. At first he stumbled down the stretch of her hallway, but now Jack runs giggling. After three months at home, he has been fitted for hearing aids in both ears. Are you and your family ready for a child with special needs? On the third day, after holding him emotionally at arms length, Heidi fell under Jack’s spell. Five months later she returned and took him home as her son. “It’s so much easier than I ever thought it would be. That I was scared to even go meet him...seems silly now. It was the fear of the unknown.” Now Heidi knows the unspeakable joy a child can bring. Tears well up in her eyes when she speaks of how Jack loves her. Communication is no problem. “He talks to me; he tells me what he wants. We communicate with looking in each other’s eyes, giving hugs, with kisses and pointing. “Seeing a smile on his face is the best action without words. That’s how he says, ‘You’re mine.’” Developmentally, Jack caught up quickly when given personal attention. Although his caregivers in Russia meant well, they never knew his potential. Jack is already developmentally on track with other kids his age. Heidi’s pediatrician referred her to a multitude of resources for a child with special needs including home care, special tutors, First Steps, and Parents as Teachers. Jack now attends the St. Joseph Institute for the Deaf and sees professionals in audiology and ENT. “When they put the hearing aids in I wasn’t expecting him to hear anything. Snapping fingers, water—every little bit that he can hear is like a miracle to me.” These aids work in preparation for the cochlear implants he will receive by April or May of 2007, the all important surgery which will effectively replace the nerve that was damaged upon his birth. Amazingly, Jack’s surgery is covered 100% by Heidi’s insurance and her employer is covering all deductibles. Jack will have the opportunity to be everything he is meant to be. “I’m looking forward to the day when Jack calls me ‘Momma’, but when that kid comes running across the room to give me a kiss, holding both sides of my face—that is better than any “Momma” word ever. We share a bond that is unbreakable.” Deciding to adopt a child with special needs requires special consideration. Do you have these qualities? Commitment: You have a genuine desire to help a child develop at his/her own pace. You have a long term perspective and always expect the unexpected. Your job is flexible to the necessity of hospital visits and care. Flexibility: You are a strong person. You deal with frustration patiently and have a good sense of humor. Your resilience will aid you in the inevitable trials of the first months, while the child tests your love. Often these children have had important people in their life let them down. Empathy: You are able to view people for what they can accomplish, not what they can’t. You realize your child is made unique by their special need. Resourcefulness: You are prepared to be your child’s advocate. You are not hesitant about researching outside resources and seeking professional help if need arises. Financially Responsible: You are prepared with the financial resources necessary and have ensured your medical insurance, especially if self-paid, covers your adoptive child. He taps me on my shoulder as I’m nodding off to sleep, and he comes up close to my face, gives me a kiss, and just smiles and goes back to sleep. The fact that he’s deaf is no part of that. That’s just my son giving his mom a kiss. --Heidi on Jack --List compiled by Children’s Hope Social Work staff SPONSORSHIP TEAM Humanitarian Aid: 2006 Annual Report TOTAL DONATIONS IN 2006: $1,522,661… THIS IS A 75.1% INCREASE FROM 2005. Dear Friends of Children’s Hope, Across the globe, roughly one in every five children aged 12-17, and one in every six children aged 6-11 are orphans.** Meanwhile, millions more children are at imminent risk of becoming orphans, due to poverty, violence, and the rapid spread of HIV/AIDS. Yes, the statistics are sobering…but in 2006, you offered HOPE! You gave to multiple medical, educational, and social projects in eight different countries. You sponsored children, providing not only financial assistance, but emotional support through the relationships that have formed. You spread the word about Children’s Hope programs, increasing awareness of the grim reality of orphanhood and offering practical ways to transform lives. In the words of Winston Churchill, “We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give.” From all of us at Children’s Hope, thank you – your gifts have made a true impact on the lives of our world’s children. With sincere appreciation, Yuriy Kudinov, Director of Humanitarian Aid/Orphan Sponsorship Program **Statistics from UNICEF’s The State of the World’s Children 2007 Fundraising Administration 4.6% 1.2% Total Expenses for 2006 Program Expenses 94.2% Children’s Hope International is recognized by the IRS as a 501(c)(3) public charity and all contributions are tax-deductible to the full extent of the law. Children’s Hope has been recognized for financial and organizational accountability through accreditation from the Council on Accreditation (COA) and the Evangelical Council for Financial Accountability (ECFA). -14 - www.ChildrensHope.net Children's Hope International Spring 2007 SPONSORSHIP TEAM Orphan Sponsorship Takes Wing! On June 30th, Children’s Hope launched a new program aimed at helping those orphaned or impoverished children with little or no chance of being adopted. To date, 212 children have been sponsored, from five different countries (China, India, Kazakhstan, Russia, and Vietnam). An additional 507 children have been entered into the system and are available for sponsorship on our website. The relationships these children are building with their sponsors provide them with a new sense of hope, love, and support. Depending on their ages and needs, those enrolled in the program receive such assistance as new clothes, medical care, nutritious food, educational support, and/or holiday gifts. China • Completed 684 surgeries for orphans and for children living in poverty, including 446 procedures to repair congenital heart defects and 158 cleft lip and palate procedures. • Started a counseling program for children orphaned by AIDS in Henan province. Colombia • Sponsored young birthmothers at the Rosa Virginia Maternity Home. • Funded repairs and structural improvements at the Children’s Vision International orphanage. Ethiopia • Constructed one floor of the new Hope Community Services orphanage. The first four children moved into their new home in December. Guatemala • Supplied school scholarships for junior and senior high students whose families live in the Guatemala City Dump. India • Opened a new elementary school, where approximately 300 children receive free education. • Constructed fresh water wells for 30 different villages in the poverty-stricken region of Kakinada. Kazakhstan • Renovated orphanages by painting, repairing roofs, installing drainpipes, and fixing windows and doors. Russia • Developed and hosted a unique summer camp experience that allowed children from 10 orphanages in Tomsk and Kemerovo to live side-by-side with their non-orphaned peers. • Provided professional training for older orphans at the Safronovo orphanage in Smolensk. The teenagers learned skills that will enable them to get jobs in agriculture when it comes time for them to leave the orphanage. Vietnam • Provided funds to pay for physical therapists to work with developmentally-challenged orphans. • Held holidays parties for children in multiple orphanages, providing a special day of celebration that they will remember for many months to come. For a more listings and financial reports of humanitarian aid projects, visit http://orphan.childrenshope.net & http://finance.childrenshope.net 1138 www.ChildrensHope.net Children's Hope International Spring 2007 -15 - Jason, 13, David, 7, Josh, 15, Jonathan, 5, Abby, 10, Greg, Joanna, 2, Shar, Eddie, 9 Completing the All-American Family By Shar Moser The Father of the fatherless planted the idea of adoption in my heart way back when I was single. Not so with my husband Greg. I prayed that if adoption was God’s plan for us, He would have to change Greg’s heart. At my urging, we did start the process for a domestic adoption when our third child, Abby, was still an infant. It ended abruptly when I found out I was expecting our forth, Eddie. Then came number five, David, and soon six, Jonathan. I just thought adoption must not be in God’s plan for us after all. So I stopped praying about it. (Josh is #1 and Jason #2) _ Illinois So our adventure to bring our new daughter home began. Since we already had six biological children, we found out we could not adopt from China. Over the next several months we were being led to Vietnam and Children’s Hope International. In September 2002, our agency application was approved and we began preparing our reams of home study paper work. Shortly after, in January 2003, Vietnam closed to international adoptions. A new law passed in Vietnam putting a moratorium on all adoptions, including ours. Almost two years later, as we waited for the governments of the United States and Vietnam to sign an agreement on a restructured adoption process, we were presented with the possibility of adopting a “waiting child”. During the last year of the moratorium, Vietnam decided to allow Children’s Hope to find homes for several special needs children. “Our adoption was now on hold. We had to wait for the moratorium to officially lift. ” But while at a church potluck, when Jonathan was 10-months-old, our dinner time discussion was on adoption. On the way home I mentioned to Greg that more church couples should be adopting children who need a home. He responded, “Yes…I can see adopting a little girl from China.” WOW! I had not expected that answer at all. In fact, I was not even thinking of us—six children is a pretty full quiver. But I could feel this HUGE grin on my face even though I was feeling quite overwhelmed at the very idea. A few weeks later I asked Greg if he was serious about adoption. “Yes,” was his reply. “When?” I asked. “Right now. We’re not getting any younger.” -16 - We saw the picture of a beautiful 5-month-old girl born in a hospital but left by her birth mother. We cannot imagine how hard that must have been for the mom to leave her baby, but we will be forever grateful to her for not aborting, as is often done. After much prayer we knew beyond any doubt that this little girl, born of another mother in Vietnam, was to be our daughter. So now we had our precious daughter, we named Joanna, waiting for www.ChildrensHope.net Children's Hope International Spring 2007 FAMILY STORY us in the Tam Binh Province in Southern Vietnam. We thought surely we would bring her home in early 2005. But the U.S. government would only allow a few of these special adoptions to finalize. Our adoption was now on hold. We had to wait for the moratorium to officially lift. In May 2005, Joanna’s first birthday passed. We had hoped maybe we could get her home before Christmas, but Christmas came and went with no Joanna. In the summer, the agreement on adoption was finally signed by both the U.S. and Vietnam. The Vietnam government then started to re-license adoption agencies to start in 2006. We were hoping this would allow us to have Joanna home by her second birthday. But her second birthday arrived and I was losing hope. May 2006 became a very difficult time for me, as I continued to watch from a distance our daughter grow from infant to toddler. During a study of the Book of Daniel, I was reminded that God has everything under control. daughter. The poor little sad girl didn’t know what was happening to her. By the end of our stay in Vietnam, she was smiling and playing with our three oldest sons who traveled with us. Since then, Joanna has adjusted amazingly well. Abby is in her glory with her new baby sister. Joanna sleeps in a crib in Abby’s room, so that Abby can get her up and dress her most mornings. The boys adore her as well. Though it took her about four months to warm up to Greg, she loves her daddy now, and will tell him, “Daddy, kiss me!” Jonathan, 5, and Joanna on the wagon trail Joanna brings us such joy. We cannot imagine life without her. Am I ever glad we waited. Sure enough, even before May was over, May 29, we received THE CALL! After months of waiting, we were suddenly in the “rush like crazy” stage to get ready to fly to Vietnam by early June. In a little over a week, we were in Ho Chi Minh City holding our In 2006: Children’s Hope found homes for 60 of the total 163 orphans from Vietnam who were adopted into American families. << Continued from page 9 How It All Began 15 The next year, Dwyatt bought a small office building in Overland, Missouri, so that he could add staff. The year would bring 240 adoptions from China. By 1996, China’s Children became Children’s Hope International when Dwyatt—along with his new Nashville branch director Brenda Barker—traveled to Russia to explore starting an adoption program from that country. The course was now set for Children’s Hope. Wherever there was an orphan in need with a government that would cooperate within international ethical standards for adoption, Children’s Hope was going to help. Humanitarian aid projects were expanded to all the countries Children’s Hope serves: providing food and medicine to orphanages, building playgrounds, sponsoring career training and providing for over 1,600 surgeries to orphans and children of poor families. Through the new Children’s Hope Orphan Sponsorship program, an individual can now sponsor an orphan to guarantee that child an education, fresh water, and modern medical treatment, but most of all, the sponsor will give that orphan a loving relationship they so desperately long for. The dedicated Children’s Hope staff, now 200 worldwide, continues to work hard to unite children with their forever families and ease the burden of those who still wait. Over 6,000 orphans have been adopted through Children’s Hope and thousands more have received Hope from its efforts. “If we really love, then we work to end the suffering. This is a higher call…the depth of our moral responsibility,” says Melody Zhang. www.ChildrensHope.net Children's Hope International Spring 2007 -17 - New Arrivals From CHINA November 2006 Parents' Names Child's Name Borrego, Donald & Martha Bowen, Edward & Christi Brown, Kenneth & April Buel, Tabb & Kay Byrne, David &Therese Cooksey, Jason & Peggy Graham, Gregory & Maas, Maryann Hanson, Ronald & Melanie Sheahan, John & Bridget Smith, Paul & Ernst-Smith, Karen Westermeier, John & Laura Wood, Spencer & Collins, Tina Stanley, Matthew & Manette Reed, William & Carol Rauch, Andrew &Vicki Hollowell, Terry & Jill Vishnesky, Daniel & Brandy Drake, William & Andrea O’Hara, Anne Cange, Francis & Patricia Scheffer, Mark & Patricia Spoehr, Philip & Kamilla Anderson, John & Caterina Blanchford, Arthur & Tanya Caron, Timothy & Christine Freed, Dale & Karen Glover, Timothy & Corinne Kunde, Scott & Kim Medici, Michael & Gonzales, Lisa Norris, Stephen & Elizabeth Patrick, Joshua & Jennifer Revennaugh, Jason & Lorraine Ross, Andrew & Gray, Margaret Siegler, Randy & Carol Smith, Stephen & Waters-Smith, Lori Guangxi Lilly Guangdong Kate Guangdong Chloe Guangdong Nicole Guangdong Lydia Guangdong Estelle Guangdong Marjorie Guangdong MeiLing Guangdong Fiona Guangdong Madeline Guangdong Grace Guangdong Madison Shaanxi Chynna Shaanxi Emily Hunan Sausha Inner Mongolia Tyler Zhejiang Isabelle HeiLongjiang Judson Jiangsu Caroline Guangxi Emily Inner Mongolia Kayden Guangdong Amanda Jiangxi Olive Jiangxi Kayli Jiangxi Mia Jiangxi Delaney Jiangxi Sabrina Jadyn & Jenna (twins) Jiangxi Jiangxi Isabella Jiangxi Amelia Jiangxi Jenevieve Jiangxi Madison Jiangxi Stella Jiangxi Emma Jiangxi Teah CHINA Child's Name Outland, Christopher & Ginger Palmer, Sean & Jennifer Townsley, Lindel & Soon Mee Korb, David & Cathryn Matthew, Christopher & Laurie James, Hayse & Jacqueline Benson, Steven & Betsy Rhine, James & Jacqueline Beaudoin, Marc & Christen Gatlin, Alan & Tonya Hughes, Brad & Kimberly Crabtree, Christopher & Yvette Ella Abbi Rebekah Jacob Cole Quinn Corenne Ava Hailey Baylen Lillian Gracie Province Anhui Fujian Fujian Henan Henan Hunan Jiangxi Jiangxi Shaanxi Xinjiang Xinjiang Hunan CHINA December 2006 State Parents' Names NM TN TX KS TN MO IL ND NY FL IL OH KS IA OH LA IL GA IL IL WA IL OR MI CA MD NC AZ CA MO WI OH NY MO OR Bradshaw, Edward & Gina Deck, Christopher & Scolaro, Melissa Dunaway, David & Mitzi Farmer, Donald & Gina Folster, Corey & Christina Fowlkes, William & Ashley Gin, Michael & Kara Griffin, Mark & Patricia Hall, Daniel & Siekman-Hall, Stacey Hughes, Cole & Lauri Langlois, David & Tapphorn, Janelle Leck, David & Murray, Patricia Morley, Robert & Rebecca Swirski, Richard & Catherine Villaluz, Jason & Ng, Cynthia Blaylock, Russell & Dedra Burruss, George & Sharon Cook, Mike & Carrie Parkin, Rodney & Kirsten Plendl, Richard & Kristen December 2006 Parents' Names -18 - Province Asia, Eastern Europe, South America State TN OR PRC AZ AZ MS AR MO NH MI MO KS Child's Name Powell, Thomas & Kelley Rintoul, James & Brooke Siegel, Brian & Jodie Smith, Timothy & Kathleen Ungar, Charles & Janet Eden Twins – AnMei & JiaLi Bryleigh Maci Clancy Hannah Lily Bridget Eva Amelia Joy Alayna Ella Jasmine Kate Emma Corinne Madalyn Mia Twins – Hope & Stella Chloe Annalee Julia Kathleen Keira Jiangxi Jiangxi KY MO Jiangxi Jiangxi Jiangxi Jiangxi Jiangxi Jiangxi Jiangxi Jiangxi Jiangxi Jiangxi Jiangxi Jiangxi Jiangxi Guangdong Guangdong Guangdong Guangdong Guangdong AL IL WA KY AZ TN OH OR AZ KS FL FL NJ AZ IL AZ TN IL Guangdong Guangdong Guangdong Guangdong Guangdong MO MO CA WI CA January 2006 CHINA Parents' Names Child's Name King, James Jr. & Laura Goodman, Roger & Cindy Markham, Patrick & Sherry Meldrum-Green, David & Sally Aten, David & Janelle Roberson, Kristopher & Cara Parham, Randy & Jacqueline Van Kirk, Richard & Aracely Evans, Scott & Kimberly Berggren, Richard & Kristin Billingsley, Kenneth & Eileen Bowser, Noel & Samantha Hallenberg, Peggy Pace, Victor & Angela Patrick, Brian & Tina Rian Evan Elizabeth Deiah Connor Elizabeth Emily Estrella Meilee Emma Malia Marlo Sydney Rebecca Katelyn www.ChildrensHope.net Province State Children's Hope International Province State Henan Henan Fujian Jiangsu Jiangsu Guangxi Guangdong Xinjiang Jiangxi Anhui Anhui Anhui Anhui Anhui Anhui MI TN IL FL NM FL MO MO MI CA VA AZ MO MO KS Spring 2007 COLOMBIA December 2006 November 2006 VIETNAM Parents' Names Child's Name Province State Parents' Names Child's Name Howell, Kevin & Makisha Bourbour, Feraidoon & Pam Weston, Daniel & Tina Karabell, David & Maria Jordi Valentina John Dean Joshua Bogotá Huila Risaralda Valle NC MN MO NJ Dao, Khai & Riccio, Roberta Hudson, Jennifer & Scott Friedrich, Allison & Kenny Meitz, Hubert & Werner, Lisa Gerretsen, Alyssa Bain, John & Quynh Shane Joseph Kennison Eliana Dominic Jean-Hai Aidan November 2006 RUSSIA Parents' Names Child's Name Berger, Alan & Julie Cramer, Bruce & Susan Diffey, Lynda Fuqua, John & Michelle Gray, Larry & Dimple Lauderback, George & Tina Kaliningrad Victoriya Kate Nikita Bruce, Maxim Bruce Novosibirsk Moscow Milena Marie Anastasiya Novosibirsk Aleena Grace Tver Colton Dean Sergey Pskov Dustin Riley, Dillon Connor, Daelyn Keeley Kaliningrad William Victor Otis Vladivostok Sergey Alexander Tver William Sergei Nigh, Cathlynn Sullivan, Jon & Katharine Toeppe, William & Myra RUSSIA Province State TX MN MO TN TN TN IL FL GA Sams, Chris & Becky Province, Susan & Bryan Herman, Natalie Shoemaker, Jennifer Garrett, Regina Pavey, Roger & Camie Hohn, Tim & Ransley, Lynda Cooper Anna Benjamin Kate Gabriella Alyssa My Duyen Tuyet Province HCMC HCMC HCMC HCMC HCMC HCMC HCMC State MO IL NJ TX TN IA WA January 2007 Child's Name Nichols, David & Tabitha Milarck, George & Lisa Brosius, Ray & Jean-Marie Struckhoff, Lisa Renbarger, Rodney & Cortese, Amy Krecko, Linda Sheriff, Kelcie Ross, Robin Lange, Kim Liam Tommy Meghan Anna Jai VL HCMC HCMC HCMC HCMC DE FL GA MO OR Jason Sara Eva Hannah HCMC KG KG KG FL WA AR CA LA MD FL TN TN NJ Natalia Claudine Kemerovo CA RUSSIA January 2007 INDIA Child's Name Parents' Names Vladivostok Tver Astrakhan Tver Vladivostok Kaliningrad Russell, Dennis & Jennifer Paden, Roger & Lynne Plum, Samuel &Treva Smith, Ryan & Andrea Wilton, Ronald & Carolyn Parents' Names State Madison Maria Vitaly Archipov Alexander Jaxson Tatiana Wren Aaron Alexander Mychal Andrei Benjamin Andrew Owen Iverin Maksim James, Nikolai Timothy Natalia Noelle Tatiana Elizabeth Dimitri Alexander Ana Michaela Ronald Gennady December 2006 VIETNAM Province Carroll, Taylor & Andrea Christ, Matthew & Kimberly Key, Darren & Rachel McRee, Robert & Melba Miller, Russell & Anita Schumacher, Michael & Rosemary Logan, Mark & Kelly Durey, Lonnie & Susan French, Patrick & Jennifer Morrisey, Tim & Kellie PA IL MO AZ IL DC VIETNAM Child's Name Child's Name HCMC HCMC HCMC HCMC HCMC HCMC State December 2006 Parents' Names Parents' Names Province Province TN KS IL MO NY December 2006 Parents' Names Child's Name City State Hellander, Ida Aarushi Hellander Delhi IL Parents' Names Lyle, Barbara Child's Name www.ChildrensHope.net Children's Hope International Shiwani Lyle State State Kaliningrad OH Astrakhan TN Tver IL Astrakhan Vladivostok Vladivostok Astrakhan Tver Province January 2006 City State Delhi NV Spring 2007 KAZAKHSTAN Parents' Names November 2006 Child's Name Province State Tatyana Nett, Randy & Michelle Ian Edwards, James & Monica Reichman, Jay & Worley, Jane Benjamin Shymkent Karakastek Karakastek Parents' Names Child's Name December 2006 Province State Payne, Vilia Vineyard, Scott & Lara George Leigh Karakastek Karakastek WY IN NH TX AZ January 2007 Parents' Names Child's Name Frazier, Lance & Monique Sabir, Tahir & Shafeen Max Ayan Province State Shymkent Taldykorgan UT NY -19 - 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