Book Notes, Page 2 • Manannah News, Page 5 • Hockey, Page 9 Rusty Nails Design - Page 2 Bret Mattice - Page 10 Wednesday, January 7, 2015 QUICK HITS Library to host story hour Children’s story hour will be held on Friday, Jan. 9, from 9:30 to 11 a.m. at the Eden Valley Area Library. Children (ages preschool to sixth grade) are welcome to participate. Registration is required. Contact Judy Thielen at jjthielen@meltel. net to register. Relay For Life event needs volunteers The Paynesville Relay For Life will hold an committee/ team meeting on Monday, Jan. 12, at the Paynesville Area Center at 7 p.m. Individuals are needed to help plan the June 2015 event in Paynesville. Anyone interested can get involved in this event, a fundraiser for the American Cancer Society. Contact Gina George (243-7206) with questions or comments. Book club to meet The book club will meet at the Eden Valley Area Library on Tuesday, Jan. 13, at 5:30 p.m. All are welcome. They will discuss the book The #1 Ladies’ Detective Agency by Alexander McCall Smith. Red Cross to hold blood drive at EV-W High School The American Red Cross will hold a blood drive in Eden Valley on Wednesday, Jan. 28, from 1:30 to 7:30 p.m. at the high school cafeteria. Donations count toward scholarship money that will be awarded to select graduating seniors from Eden Valley-Watkins High School. Donors should bring identification, as it is required to give blood. 75¢ Eden Valley Watkins VOICE 103 Stearns Ave. E., P.O. Box 7, Eden Valley, MN 55329 Phone: 320-453-8642 Fax: 320-243-4492 www.evwvoice.com • Copyright 2015 • Index Rusty Nails 2 Blotter 2 Book Notes 2 Getting In Touch 2 This Week in History 3 Manannah News 5 School Menus 5 What’s Cookin’ 5 Obituaries 6 Bulletin Board 6 Classifieds 7 Entertainment 8 Boys Hockey 9 Girls Hockey 9 Voice Sports in Review 2014 9 Brett Mattice 10 www.evwvoice.com Volume 4, No. 1 DRUG ADDICTION Drugs…A Lifetime Struggle By Laurie Schultz (Editor’s Note: The names have been changed to protect the identity of these people who spoke with the Voice about their drug addictions and the impact drug addiction has had on their lives. This story describes drug use, addiction, and other mature subjects.) The day her children were taken away, Kristin sat home alone, terrified, and absolutely heartbroken. She wasn’t able to contact her children in any way. The only information she was allowed to know was that her children were in an emergency foster home with the possibility of being placed with a family permanently. Unfortunately, she understood the reason for her loneliness…drugs. Kristin began her addiction when she was 13 years old. At the time, her father was an active addict. Within two years, Kristin would get her first line of oxycontin from her father. She watched him shoot oxycontin into his veins daily. As Kristin’s addiction overcame her, she wanted to feel what her father was feeling when he shot up. She begged him to let her shoot up. If he didn’t, she threatened to find the desired drugs elsewhere. Her father handed Kristin a needle for the first time at the age of 15. By the time she was 21, she stopped using painkillers and turned to using meth every day. “I have never in all my life experienced anything like the grip that meth had on me,” said Kristin. “Oh, sure, I could clean up for short periods of time…two weeks here, two weeks there… but I always ended up right back where I began,” she said. The prevalence of addiction extends into small communities, including Eden Valley-Watkins. Four days after her children were taken into custody by child protective services, she decided she was done using drugs. “Of course, being an addict, I did slip and use one last time, but after doing that last shot, I literally bawled my eyes out until I came down. I felt so guilty,” said Kristin. “I checked into an inpatient treatment center two weeks later, voluntarily, and never looked back,” she added. Active Addiction Justin hung his head low and focused his eyes on the floor, as if he were ashamed, After a few moments of silence, he raised his head. “I don’t know how to stop,” he explained. “I grew up with parents who were both addicts. It has now become my lifestyle,” he added. It had been four days since he last used meth, he said with sunken eyes and pale, yellowish skin. His raspy voice explained his addiction, how it began, and how he struggles to become sober. “I often wonder if I had parents who talked to me and discouraged me from using drugs how different my life might be.” His shaky hands reached for the pack of cigarettes on the table. The incapability to hold his hands steady made the simple task of removing a cigarette from the pack and lighting it appear almost impossible. Recently, he spent time in jail and made himself the promise to quit while there. Once he was released, his addiction overpowered his desire to remain “clean,” and he started using meth again. “I feel nothing but agony,” he said. “I feel like nothing will take away my pain the way a few hits of meth does.” The interview was cut short, as Justin received a call, and the lure of another high, to ease the pain of withdrawal, took priority. A Mother’s Story Nicole understands how drug addiction not only affects the user, but it also affects those who are involved in the user’s life. Her son also began to show signs of drug use at an early age. “My son is now in prison due to his drug addiction and the choices he made, and I can’t do anything about it. I can, however, encourage other parents to watch for all the warning signs,” she said. She strongly urges parents, if the warning signs become evident, to act upon them. “Denial will not help your child,” she added. Last winter, as if to set the mood for the courtroom, gray clouds invaded the skies, Nicole explained. Through a door, her son walked into the courtroom, handcuffed and accompanied by an officer of the court. As tears welled in her eyes, for a moment she saw a young boy with a crooked grin, tousled hair, and a sweet innocent face again. The vision quickly changed, as her son received his sentence. “The waves of emotions a parent goes through when seeing your child handcuffed and standing before a judge as he receives a minimum of three years in prison for possession of drugs was never explained in any How To Raise A Child book,” said Nicole. She feels that parents naturally have the instinct to protect their children. “As a mother, the moment your child is placed within your arms, you become protective. You hold their hand when crossing the street, you pick them up when they fall, you wipe their tears away, and you love them unconditionally,” Nicole said. Also, parents are the first to deny that their child may have a problem with substance abuse. Her son showed many signs of drug abuse, and she was in complete denial. Nicole felt like she enabled her son to walk down a path of selfdestruction and not have to face the consequences he legally deserved. Her son has a loving family and parents who work hard everyday. Nicole and her husband didn’t smoke, rarely drank, and attended every school and sporting event their children were involved in. Nicole felt her son had everything he needed. “Every week I receive letters from my son. The first letter he sent was emotional as I read the return address on ADDICTION – see page 3 Voice Year in Review 2014 – Part II July 2014 •Boaters were finally able to enjoy themselves on area lakes during the holiday after the “no wake” zones were lifted throughout Stearns County, including Rice Lake, when previously high water levels went down. •A 50-year plus class reunion was held at Dino’s Lakeside Club for Eden Valley High School classes from 1929 to 1963 at the end of the month with over 200 people in attendance from as far as California. •The Voice featured an article on the addition of Ebenezer Church at the Paynesville Area Historical Museum as a new exhibit. The church had been closed since 1968 and had originally been located near Co. Rd. 180, between Eden Valley and Paynesville. •Heather Ripley expressed an interest in becoming a hobbyist beekeeper to the Eden Valley City Council and urged them to consider amending the nuisance ordinance, pertaining to the limits on beekeeping. The Council also agreed to keep the city prohibition on tarp-covered structures, allowing residents six months to remove them before potentially giving out fines. •The Voice featured an article on Air Force Chief Master Sergeant Jeff Gabrelcik, a Watkins native, who saved the life of Dutch Marine Sergeant Major Gijs Ter-Horst after an accident at NATO school in Oberammerga, Germany, in June. •Janella “Nel” Fuchs, doctor of nursing practice, started her medical practice for CentraCare Clinic at the CentraCare Health Paynesville-Richmond Clinic. •British motivational author Gavin Hill discussed bullying and racism during a children’s musical presented at the Eden Valley Area Library’s summer reading program. The musical was based on Hill’s anti-bullying book William Gray and the Family Next Door. •The Voice featured an article on 2013 EV-W graduate Karlee Hanson, who traveled abroad for two weeks to Scandinavia in May to study art. •Members of EV-W’s L.E.A.D. (Learn, Engage, Achieve, Develop) 21st Century program visited Dockendorf Dairy in rural Watkins and the Oliver Kelley Homestead near Elk River. Dockendorf Dairy showed how a farm of the future with robotics works while the Oliver Kelley Homestead, a working farm operated by the Minnesota Historical Society, provided a glimpse of pioneer farming in the 1860. YEAR IN REVIEW – see page 4 File photo Watkins held their annual Kraut and Wurst celebration in August. Ayla Unterberger (center) was crowned Little Miss Watkins, along with First Princess Lily Schlangen (left) and Second Princess Alexis Vossen. The celebration also included a parade and firemans’ water fight.
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