c o u sin F WINTER 2014 VOL. 4, NO. 1 Summer 2013 Vol. 2, No. 2 MAKING A DIFFERENCE g A publication of the Sisters of St. Joseph Brentwood, New York1 We Believe... Featured in this issue that we create the future As we move with the Spirit in giving full expression to our giftedness as women in the Church Sharing equally in its mission— In living a life that is simple prayerful courageous and compassionate— in proclaiming with prophetic voice the Gospel to all people— in strengthening our corporateness as women in community— in demonstrating our belief in the dignity of the human person and the call to secure this dignity for all women and men— in expressing our solidarity with the poor and oppressed. IN FAITH AND HOPE WE ACCEPT THE CHALLENGES THESE BELIEFS IMPLY. Sisters of St. Joseph • Brentwood, NY — Vision Statement Chapter Directions As Sisters of St. Joseph living in the 21st Century, we believe in the power, presence and love of God working through an evolving universe and in God’s self-communication through Jesus Christ. As women of the Church, we recommit ourselves to Jesus’ mission as we move with the Spirit to bring about God’s reign and seek to promote justice, to live lives of non-violence and to respond to the needs of our time. F rom the STRANGERS NO 4 LONGER CSJ SCHOOLS WINTER 2014 VOL. 4, NO. 1 Focusing is published twice yearly in Fall/Winter and Spring/Summer by the Congregation of the Sisters of St. Joseph, Brentwood NY. CENTRAL OFFICE St. Joseph’s Convent 1725 Brentwood Road Brentwood, NY 11717 LEADERSHIP LIAISON Kathleen McKinney, CSJ Patricia Mahoney, CSJ E D I TO R S Mary Ryan, CSJ Patricia Manning, CSJ AT Focusing 6 S t . J oseph V I L L A OUR 5 7 8 J O U R N E Y C S J S ponsored M inistries 10 A WHOLE 12 S T. A N N E ’ S G A R D E N S Ministry to Women and Girls 9 R E A S O N TO C E L E B R AT E N E W WAY Making A Difference 13 GRAPHIC DESIGN Patricia Manning, CSJ IN BRENTWOOD; IN THE Neighborhood 1 4 C O N T R I B U TO R S Catherine Atkins, CSJ Kathleen Carberry, CSJ Rosalie Carven, CSJ Mary Ann Cashin, CSJ Maura Costello, CSJ Marion Defeis, CSJ Catherine Fitzgibbon, CSJ Joan Gallagher, CSJ Angela Gannon, CSJ Heather Ganz, CSJ Helen Kearney, CSJ Mary McConnell, CSJ Suzanne Michelle, Associate Patricia Monahan, Co-Minister Linda Pero, CSJ Rita Piro, Co-Minister James R. Rennert, Dir. CSJ Advancement Elaine Roulet, CSJ Mary Ross, CSJ Kathy Schaetzle, CSJ JoAnn Vitiello, Co-Minister Rose Viceconte, CSJ Janelle Hyppolite, Student St. Joseph HS P H OTO G R A P H E R S Johanna Flores, HWWRP Kerry Handal, CSJ Karan Kaelin, CSJ Marie Mackey, CSJ Robert Napolitano, Co-Minister Annie Fernandez, Co-Minister Loretta Miles Eileen Crinnion & Colleen Cluess-Angeletti Sacred Heart Academy Students w w w. b re n t wo o d c s j . o r g 2 president MUSIC M A RY M I N I S T RY LOUIS R E N OVAT I O N WELCOME AND FAREWELL 15 1 6 18 GALA 2014 19 Teresa Fitzgerald, F ounder ’ s D ay in B roo k lyn 2 0 CSJ, who directs the nonprofit organizaT he L earning C onnection 2 1 tion Hour Children in Queens, New York, 22 A ssociates dedicated to transforming the lives of R ecognitions , P U B L I C AT I O N S , 2 3 women offenders and their children, was honored October 16, with S abbath T I M E the 2014 Opus Prize for faith-based humanitarian work.Tesa said the $1 million award will provide desperately needed housing for the T houghts F rom the G arden 2 4 women and children Hour Children serves. Here Mike Herzog, chair of Gonzaga’s Opus Prize Steering Committee, greets Tesa on her Cover Photo: Students from Fontbonne Hall Acadarrival October 13, at Gonzaga University in Spokane WA for the emy, St. Joseph HS and Academia Maria Reina join Opus Prize week of events culminating with the Opus Prize awards Sisters Rosemarie Figlia, (l. to r.) Kerry Handal, Jaceremony. net Kinney and JoAnn Squitieri (far right) watching the sun set near St. Joseph’s Villa in Hampton Bays. 3 Strangers No Longer: A Love Story FROM THE PRESIDENT Dear Sisters, Associates and Friends, All of us, gifted with life from our loving and generous God, share in the life of all creation. We are intimately connected to one another and to all life on our planet. Because of this interconnectedness we, as humans, have a responsibility to sustain and enhance all that God has created. Deep within our being, there is an innate desire to make a difference in the lives of others. We invite you to see how so many of our sisters, associates and companions have made a difference by their service, care and presence to the women in our sponsored educational ministries, to parishioners, our elder neighbors and to those who are misunderstood, underserved and unwelcomed. Our congregation’s mission of bearing God’s healing, reconciling and all-inclusive love wherever there is need impels us to be a life-giving presence for the sake of our earth, our youth, the aged and infirmed and those currently or formerly incarcerated. We stand with others to call attention to unjust systems that oppress or exclude all who have been given life by the same loving Creator. As you read the articles in this issue you will see the energy, hope and joy that come from being neighbor to so many longing for knowledge, companionship and the respect and dignity that was intended for all creation. Through accounts of shared learning experiences, celebrations, and the awareness of the fragility of all life we can be inspired to find ways of making a difference wherever we find ourselves. You can get current information on our ministries, news, and events on our web www.csjbrentwood.org. We invite you to share in our daily prayer posted on this site as a way of joining in our mission. The energy to live out our mission comes from a commitment to prayer and contemplation so that we can be attentive to where the Spirit is leading us. With your support and prayers and with all who accompany us, the mission of the Sisters of St. Joseph will continue into the future, making a difference where there is the greatest need. We are grateful to Sister Rose Viceconte for her twenty years of service to advance our mission and we welcome Jim Rennert who will continue in her footsteps to help us sustain our mission. We thank all of you and promise to pray for you and all of your intentions. Sister Helen Kearney, CSJ 4 Rosalie Carven, CSJ “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.” This well-known quote has never been traced to a place or date but its author is Margaret Mead, the cultural anthropologist. I dare say that the reality it praises – making a difference – was written into stories of Sisters of St. Joseph long before Margaret Mead was born. One chapter in the story of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Brentwood, NY (CSJs) is about making a difference in the lives of immigrants coming to the U.S. Call it a “love story” (inclusive love) and make the title of the chapter read: Strangers No Longer. I can add a brief footnote to that chapter, telling you what I have experienced in the past fifty years. Imagine a young woman who grows up in a fairly homogeneous neighborhood, enters a fairly homogeneous congregation but is eventually awakened to a diversity she hardly knew existed. Her new perspective slowly emerges out of several different “mission assignments.” One was to a parish where racial integration was taking place, and across the nation as a whole, the movement for civil rights was also appearing. CSJs were in the midst of that effort. Another assignment was to an “almost” rural parish where migrant farmers toiled under the miserable conditions that Florida and California farmworkers were already organizing to change. CSJs were in the midst of that effort. Then I shared a mission assignment where two CSJs helped me understand that discrimination against women put society’s benefits out of reach for them. How could I ever have outgrown discrimination on my own or embraced “Love of God and neighbor without distinction” without Sisters of St. Joseph at my side? Sisters Kathy Britt, Rosalie Carven and Nancy Fackner show support for immigrants. The days of “being assigned” to a parish or a particular service are long gone. So call it good fortune – or a blessing – that I found a “mission” that built on my experience of being with people on the margins. This happened when I took a position as Refugee Resettlement Coordinator with the Diocese of Rockville Centre. I ask you to imagine the horrors of displacement visited on people in the most inhumane ways but also to hold on to the unwavering conviction that a compassionate embrace will help people survive and grow again with human dignity. Then you will understand refugees and the resettlement process. Every small detail of rebuilding lives - and you know what that entails - has made a difference in the lives of immigrants I helped. But even more transforming was the difference it made in me. For years, CSJs have walked at the side of those who are misunderstood, underserved and unwelcomed. No one retires from that. Now my action on behalf of immigrants happens at my computer, over the phone, in my congressperson’s office or at meetings and events with other immigrant advocates. But every CSJ is also in the midst of that effort, creating an unseen but effective community of advocates. I help support their participation with resources and suggestions for action. On behalf of all Sisters of St. Joseph, I recently accepted an award from Long Island Jobs With Justice which recognized me as one of five women who make a difference for immigrants on Long Island. I couldn’t resist telling the audience what all Sisters of St. Joseph say of themselves: “We are pygmies standing on the shoulders of giants.” Truly, it is in the shadow of every Sister of St. Joseph who has gone before us, that we all find our own commitment to justice for immigrants. 5 RN P KEA B IS H O CSJ Schools C SS JJ SS C CH HO OO O LL SS :: C STUDENTS students MA A KK II N NG G A A M D II FF FF EE RR EE N NC C EE D 66 BK H E Y H IG r Blood D SC H O OL ive A T S T. J O S E P H V I L L A BK Linda Pero, CSJ C BISHOP KEARNEY HIGH SCHOOL oming? Going? Down for the Day?” These words were spoken hundreds of times over the last 50+ years at St. Joseph Villa, Hampton Bays, originally purchased as a vacation house for the Sisters. Located as it is on Shinnecock Bay, it offers beautiful vistas, magnificent sunrises, a place of peaceful serenity and, of course, home-cooked meals. “ Thanksgiving Drive SHA SACRED HEART ACADEMY Traffic Free Super Bowl SHA SACRED HEART ACADEMY Nails and Sharing at Sacred Heart Convent Human Traffing Event TM LA March for Climate Change THE MARY LOUIS ACADEMY #BringBackOurGirls AMR ACADEMIA MARIA REINA Special Olympics Over the years, the Villa invited mothers and relatives of the Sisters to join them on vacation. Recently, it opened its doors to many retreat, parish and school groups. In particular, two women’s Matt Talbot groups have come twice a year for their retreats. The peaceful surroundings and the freedom they have to enjoy the grounds provide these women with time to pray, reflect and meet with each other. Our charism of hospitality and welcoming is certainly evident to all who come here and they are very grateful for the opportunity to share their time with us. A highlight of our year is when the students from our six high schools give a week of service to the Sisters on vacation. While the girls come from different schools, including Maria Reina in Puerto Rico, they instantly feel the connection of being in a CSJ school. These CSJ Leaders bring what they have learned about the charism of inclusive love, unity and reconciliation and put it into action by becoming “reliefers.” Working side by side with the Sisters, they help make beds, fix meals, assist the Sisters in the pool, take active roles in the liturgy and, most especially, bring a spirit of youthful joy and enthusiasm. While giving a manicure or assisting with an art project, the girls and the Sisters share their life stories. The girls all agree that they come away from this week with a much deeper appreciation of who the Sisters are and what they have done and this will have a lasting impression on them. We hope to continue to provide our tradition of hospitality and welcoming for many years to come at our Villa home. Walk for Humanities AMR ACADEMIA MARIA REINA Ball Games at St. Joseph Convent Students from various CSJ Schools prepare for a new set of vacationers at the Villa. S. Preenika Dabrera (r.) leads the girls 7 Our Journey: Making A Difference O ur Journey, Inc. was begun in July 2005 by S. Elaine Roulet and four women who were formerly incarcerated at Bedford Hills Correctional Facility. S. Elaine, recently retired as Chaplain at the prison, now saw the need for a spiritual thrust in their lives. Elaine contacted Brother Tom Grady and Dr. Frank Macchiarola (President of St. Francis College) to ask if Our Journey, Inc. could use space at the College the third Saturday of each month to provide a spiritual renewal for formerly incarcerated women. Brother Tom and Dr. Macchiarola readily agreed and Our Journey, Inc. has been going strong for almost 10 years. The relationship between St. Francis College and Our Journey has been an experience in cooperation and caring dedication by the Staff there, especially by the Security staff at the front desk. We are able to use the beautiful Chapel and classrooms for our retreat graciously offered by the Administration and Staff. Our Journey, Inc. provides the women with coffee and donuts for breakfast upon arrival and a pizza lunch. Each month, approximately 30 women come to the College where they pray, meditate and have workshops on topics relevant to formerly incarcerated women. Some of these topics include: family problems, rearing children, job-hunting, housing issues and emotional topics like guilt, mothering and self-esteem. We have also added a thrift shop where the women receive clothing and household items at no cost. Teresa Sefchek, a volunteer, helps Elaine and the women by gathering items for donation and transporting them to St. Francis College. Twice a year the women are invited to an overnight retreat facilitated by Sisters Elaine and Marion Defeis. In May it is held in the Renewal Center in Brentwood and in October in the Mariondale Retreat Center in Ossining. S. Elaine Roulet with CSJ student at the Villa In Brentwood, the women enjoy the lovely grounds and the time allotted for prayer and reflection. On Sunday Morning many respond to the invitation to attend Mass with our Sisters in the Sacred Heart Chapel. The women appreciate the opportunity to leave the noise and confusion of city life to experience the peace and quiet that Brentwood provides. Our Journey, Inc. through grants helps the women in difficult financial situations by paying emergency utility bills, rent or medical bills. We have also helped bury the dead: indigent women with no family or resources to help with a funeral service and burial. We have been fortunate to receive a grant from Dr. Scholl’s (yes, the shoe company) which has provided Our Journey with money to buy gift cards to DWS shoe store for each woman to receive a $50 gift card for new shoes. Our Journey, Inc. has given formerly incarcerated women hope, respect and dignity during a time of extreme turmoil in this critical time of their lives. A definite emphasis has been on the spiritual growth of the women, no matter what their religion. Our prayer is: Be Still and Know that I AM God Be Still and Know that I AM Be Still and Know Be Still Be 8 S. Marion Defeis facilitates Renewal Center Retreat M aking a D ifference : CSJ Office for Sponsored Educational Ministries Angela Gannon, CSJ T he CSJ Office for Sponsored Educational Ministries opened in September 2013 so that the particular needs of our six high schools and the Learning Connection could be addressed. As Coordinator for this effort, I began to focus on mission effectiveness as a common thread which would shape the services offered primarily to the Boards of Trustees, the leadership development of our administrators through a performance appraisal process, and the revision of the By-Laws governing our sponsored ministries. It was our hope that all that we did would indeed make a difference in fostering the mission, vision, and values of each ministry and the Sisters of St. Joseph. A Performance Appraisal Process was designed for the evaluation of our Presidents, Vice-President, and Principals. Seven administrators participated last spring; others will be scheduled in the second year of their employment. Using SurveyMonkey as our online service, each participant completed a Self-Evaluation and was then appraised by her total faculty and Board of Trustees as well as a sample representation of students, parents, and alumnae. The comprehensiveness of the process provided each administrator with the data needed to then complete her own Professional Growth Plan for the year. In September, a CSJ Board of Trustees’ Convocation took place so that particular concerns and needs could be addressed. All sponsored educational ministries were represented including Academia Maria Reina. Keynote presentations highlighted the responsibilities associated with these Boards and the revision of the By-Laws of our schools. Participants had the opportunity to meet with one another, share ideas and resources, and look forward to future collaboration. The Boards of Trustees are key partners as we move forward in providing young women with an excellent education in the tradition of the Sisters of St. Joseph. S. Angela Gannon (r.) gathers with administrators and staffs from the CSJ sponsored schools at St. Joseph Villa in Hampton Bays. At a meeting of CSJ school administrators in Chicago on November 6, S. Angela (center) conducts a session with some of the Brentwood CSJ administrators: S. Kathleen McKinney, Mary Ann Spicijaric, Sisters Joanne Forker, Judy Burchyns, Jeanne Ross and Joan Gallagher. Do these events make a difference for those who participate? Without hesitation, the response is a clear YES! While not reaching vast numbers, each program is highly rated for providing time for prayer, professional development, networking possibilities, and mission awareness. After all is said and done, isn’t it really all about the mission? 9 REASOn TO CELEBRATE 100th Birthday S. Rita Josephine Lisante celebrating with friends September 13, 2014 Liturgy for 50th and 60th Jubilarians Inaugural Mass October 5, 2014 Mary Ann Cashin, CSJ T he seventh president of St. Joseph’s College, Dr. Jack Calareso, chose to begin the Inauguration with an Inaugural Mass in Sacred Heart Chapel, Brentwood. Together with his wife, Rose, Dr. Calareso acknowledged the almost 100 years that St. Joseph’s College has provided quality education rooted in the Josephite tradition. His goal is to continue to model and promote these core values. In her welcome, S. Helen Kearney also recognized the significant role the Sisters of St. Joseph have played in the mission, founding and expansion of St. Joseph’s College. The sheer beauty of Sacred Heart Chapel, its spirit and sacred tradition, enhanced the joy of the gathered community of Sisters of St Joseph and St. Joseph’s College students, trustees, administrators, faculty, staff, alumni, benefactors and friends. In the entrance hymn, All Are Welcome, we sang of hopes, dreams and visions, and the faith and grace that make us one. Our shared mission was celebrated with gratitude, hope and the promise to be faithful to its ideals. Bishop Raymond Chappetto, celebrant, and Father Tom Ahern, prayed with us from their rich experience of shared ministry with the Sisters of St. Joseph. Our guests expressed their wonder at the overall beauty of the liturgy. Uplifting music stirred the joy in each of us. The grace of the dancers heightened the praise and gratitude we offered throughout the liturgy. Each of the processional moments symbolized the unity and continuity of our efforts. Most of all, everyone felt the welcome that animates our Brentwood home. We joined Bishop Chappetto in a special blessing for Jack and Rose as they continue to live what we celebrated in this Inaugural Liturgy. In particular, we prayed for their hope for the future and their imaginative seeing and understanding. Reflecting on this historic and unforgettable day, Dr. Calareso expressed his and Rose’s gratitude for a wonderful celebration. “The opportunity to celebrate at Brentwood with the Sisters of St Joseph was inspirational. We greatly appreciated the hospitality of the Congregation; the extraordinary planning of the day to make everything perfect; and the dedication to the College of so many who took the time to participate in this special event.” 10 (Front row, l. to r.) Sisters Carole Lessard, Rosalind Picciano, Catherine Fitzsgibbon, Pat O’Keefe, Charlotte Shinnick, Joan Petito, Marianne Sennick, Eva Marchese; row 2, Roberta Oberle, Pat Rizzo, Ruth Anne McHugh, Rose Miriam Pelletier, Margaret Buckley; row 3, Gloria Cruz Espinoza, Margaret Faherty, Alice O’Shaughnessy, Judy Fay,Teresa Fitzgerald; row 4, Mary Walsh, Margaret O’Donnell, Filippa Luciano, Helen Dolores Byrne; row 5, Nancy Vendura, Stella Slonski, Peggy Fanning, Maureen Keating, Pat McDonnell, Nancy Edwards, Grace Eidt, Jane Bannon. September 27, 2014 Liturgy for Diamond Jubilarians Seventy year Jubilarians (seated l. to r.) Sisters Mary Cecilia Giannitti, Mary Ann Rogers, Victoria Karp, St. Elizabeth Montgomery,Virginia Crowley; (standing) Muriel Smithwick, Leonard Marie Lichinchi, Claudia Bradshaw, Mary Kenneth Lane. Seventy-five year Jubilarians (l. to r.) Sisters Mary Martin, Agnes Cecilia McKenna, Margaret de Sales Grob, Muriel Vincent Esposito, Agnes Alphonse Finamore, Lorna Strachan. First Vows September 6, 2014 Heather Ganz receives a blessing from her parents and Sisters Helen Kearney and Mary Walsh rejoice with her. Renewal of Vows, October 18, 2014 Director of Formation S. Mary Walsh, Sisters Virginia Murtha and Preenika Dabrera, President S. Helen Kearney 11 ma k ing a difference in a whole new way JoAnn Vitiello, Co-Minister Catherine Atkins, CSJ Y I ou may have heard the expression, “All good things come from Brooklyn.” Well, that is certainly the case when it comes to the Squitieri family. Aniello and Maria Squitieri, born in Brooklyn and the parents of JoAnn Squitieri, raised a loving daughter whose values were steeped in the love of God and neighbor without distinction. It seems to me, that the charism that JoAnn had embedded in her soul since childhood, recently found root in the loving support and comfort of the Congregation of the Sisters of St. Joseph who “Guess What!” espouse and live that same charism. Coincidence, I think not. Called to a life lived in close union with God. I believe so. have been a Sister of St. Joseph for almost 50 years. Most of those years (30) were spent as a Registered Dietitian taking care of our sisters at Maria Regina in Brentwood. After that I spent 17 months working in the Community Archives. For the past 11 years I have had the joy of serving in the Secretarial Services of our Congregational Offices in Brentwood. In 2007 I moved my 94 year old mother from Bay Ridge, Brooklyn to St. Anne’s Gardens in Brentwood where she could be nearer to me. St. Anne’s Gardens was built in 2000 on the sight of what was St. Anne’s School where our sisters taught for many years. It is a 100 apartment complex for seniors over 60 under Catholic Charities and managed by Stanan Management. Sister JoAnn Squitieri was recently welcomed to experience life within the Congregation of the Sisters of St. Joseph at a prayer service which was held on Sunday, January 5, 2014. At that service, Sisters from the community with whom she will live, Sisters who have been significant in her discernment process, other Sisters from the Congregation, and her family and friends were all present. The “Celebration of Welcome” was the first step for JoAnn as she continues her process toward full membership in the Congregation. In conversation with JoAnn, she recalls how moved her family and friends were as they listened to S. Mary Walsh’s accounting of the History of the Sisters of St. Joseph. “Not only do all good things come from Brooklyn but all good things come from the Sisters of St. Joseph of Brentwood as well.” Since her involvement with the Sisters of St. Joseph, JoAnn has found fulfillment in her ministry at Sacred Heart Academy where she works as an assistant to the Campus Minister. She has also experienced great joy in living in community at St. Nicholas of Tolentine Convent and learning more about the charism of the Sisters of St. Joseph. When asked if there have been any disappointments she responds: “No, not at all. It has been way more gratifying than I had ever expected. I believe I have found my place.” Service to people is not new to S. JoAnn. She holds an Associates Degree in Psychology, a B.A. Degree in Management and Communications, an MBA in Business Administration and a Post Graduate Degree in Human Resources. JoAnn is also a Pastoral Formation Graduate from the three-year program in Faith Formation from the Diocese of RVC. She has always viewed herself as a person who provides service to people. She began as a customer service representative and retired after twenty-six years with Verizon as a training manager. It was after her retirement and the death of her mother that she began to discern what would be next in her life. Quite accidentally, JoAnn happened upon a brochure inviting interested persons to the Renewal Center in Brentwood. She picked it up, read it, inquired and the rest is history. After taking the 19th Annotation of St. Ignatius Retreat in September 2011, followed by a twelveday pilgrimage to the Holy Land, and a three-year program at the Renewal Center which resulted in her commission as a Spiritual Director, JoAnn knew that life had changed and that it was good. She believes that God has led her in her journey directly to the Sisters of St. Joseph. 12 12 Making A Difference in St. Anne’s Gardens St. Anne’s Gardens I didn’t know at the time when I moved mom that I would need to stay with her and be her full time caregiver, still keeping my ministry at the convent at the same time. I spent the last 7 years living with mom at St. Anne’s and traveling across the field to work 3 days a week. Mom passed away one month after her 101st birthday on March 10th 2014. I decided in consultation with the community to stay at St. Anne’s after mom’s death. As all others who have been called to a life dedicated to God and to the service of God’s people, her story is not unique. She can trace the path, look back and know that God was at the center of her discernment. Through prayer and an open spirit, she responded to a new and exciting vocation. JoAnn brings to the Congregation her own gifts which include a warm and loving personality who is fully prepared for ministry and whose personal attributes will bring life and vitality to her community experience. Be careful; she holds a black belt in karate and has even sky-dived. The things she enjoys most are spending time with friends and family, good relationships, cooking and has recently tried her hand at a game of golf. JoAnn’s commitment to make a difference in the lives of those she serves will now be lived out in her new experiences within the Congregation of the Sisters of St. Joseph. As the Sisters of St. Joseph welcomed her, she too welcomes the challenge of making a difference in a whole new way. So can we all agree that “All good things come from Brooklyn and Brentwood as well?” Living with the residents at St. Anne’s has been a great experience for me as they have been a great support to me and encouragement to me during these years. They are so grateful to have the presence of a “Sister” and always remind me of that, but I find that I receive much more from them than I could ever give. We have three of our CSJ associates living at St. Anne’s: Marie Gallagher, Norma Dalley and Mary Lou Locke. They always amaze me with their example and the service that they give here and to our CSJ Community, bringing Communion to the sick, singing in the choir at St. Anne’s and just being there for those who need someone. I have become much more aware of how lucky we are to have such great women as part of our Community. Marie has given 14 years of faithful service at Maria Regina. Mary Lou works at St. Joseph Convent as receptionist and switchboard operator. Norma is into many ministries at St. Anne’s Parish. Ministry means just doing the things that need to be done at the moment, checking on a neighbor who has no family, being a “Fire Captain” to help residents get out of the building in case of emergency, laughing and crying with the residents, being there to listen, sharing a meal. I enjoy helping my neighbors with computers and all sorts of modern gear and the necessities of daily living as needed. Our first sisters taught us that to help the “Dear Neighbor” is most important. I hope in some way to be a sign of God’s love to those at St. Anne’s Gardens as they have been to me. S. Cathy Atkins with Associates Norma Dalley, Marie Gallagher and Mary Lou Locke 13 13 MAKING A DIFFERENCE IN BRENTWOOD Mary McConnell, CSJ S. Febronia Loewenstein and S. Mary McConnell A s novices we were reminded of this truth. “The young think they are holy but they are not. The middle aged neither think they are holy nor are they holy. The old don’t think that they are holy but they are holy.” Living in Brentwood now with the young of 50, 60, 70 years ago I have finally grasped the meaning of that statement. How blest I am to live with the beautiful, young, enthusiastic sisters I met when I, too, was young. Living in Brentwood is living in the Corridor of Heaven. Like the disciples on the road to Emmaus, each day there are new glimpses of God’s incredible loving presence. We recognize Jesus in the joy and pain of our daily life and we experience God’s joy as our walker, or cane, or wheel chair becomes our way to do real ministry for each other. Without realizing it, we have matured. We now live and love the person God created and loves. There is no competition…no desire to be or seem to be another. We reverence each other as Gift of God to us, each living to the best of her ability the truth of her Now…diminished but still captured by the abiding love and presence of God. Each living what is real holiness - loving others as we have been loved by God. This is what it means to be old…to know that holiness is not about me but about my life lived each day in the Heart of God. 14 AND IN THE “NEIGHBORHOOD” Mary Ross, CSJ M U S I C M I N I S T RY : M A K I N G A D I F F E R E N C E am an Administrative Law Judge for the Department of Corrections and Community Service. This is the only type of judge a religious is permitted to become. Religious are not allowed to be elected to any political position, or be in any position where they could be elected to a political position. I have worked in the criminal justice system for many years. I started out volunteering in women’s prisons and working in Providence House with ex-offenders. I moved on to be an attorney doing indigent defense work. I then became a Commissioner of Parole for New York State and given the awesome responsibility of determining which inmates eligible for parole in New York State were worthy of release and did not pose a threat to society. O I Being a judge does not fall easily within the charism of the Sisters of St. Joseph unless you think of a judge as a decision maker. As decision makers, we Sisters of St. Joseph have been dividing up the city and meeting the needs where we found them since our inception. And the way we provide service to the community is based on the decisions we make, after discerning the needs of our times. My ministry involves work with parolees, people who have spent time in prison convicted of a crime and released to community supervision. They must report to a parole officer and have a number of conditions they must adhere to. My ministry involves making decisions about these parolees when they violate the conditions of parole and/or commit a new crime. It is then my responsibility to weigh the nature of the violation against any mitigating factors to determine what, if any, sanctions I will give to the parolee The options include release, programs (including programs in prison and boot camp type programs) or incarceration. A majority of the people I see are long time drug addicts and they are very difficult to help unless they are ready for help or have reached rock bottom. As a judge I have the freedom to restore a parolee to a drug program which I do with frequency with an admonition that this is your chance and you will likely not get another. I also see people convicted of violent crimes or their violation involves violence and must determine whether these people pose a threat to society. In all cases I see parolees are represented by attorneys whose responsibility it is to advocate on behalf of their clients. I take this ministry very seriously because every day, what I decide affects a person’s freedom or return to incarceration and certainly understand the gospel mandate in that regard. JoAnn Vitiello, Co-Minister ctober 3, 2014 marked the 35th Anniversary of Pope John Paul II’s visit to the U.S. and even closer to home, “Youth in Concert,” at Madison Square Garden. That defining moment in the lives of many youth in the New York metropolitan area is particularly remembered by the St. Martha’s Folk Group, Uniondale. The St. Martha’s Folk Group began in 1970 under the direction of S. Elizabeth Myles, Parish Youth Minister. The group was made up of sixty teenage parishioners. From 1970 to 2000, the folk group provided liturgical song each week at the 10:30am celebration of the Eucharist. Standing room only was not uncommon as many parishioners enjoyed the vitality and song of these young musicians. Almost four decades later, S. Elizabeth Myles was contacted by a representative of RGTV, requesting that the folk group be a part of a documentary highlighting the defining moments of Madison Square Garden of which, according to the producer of the documentary, Pope John Paul II’s visit is paramount. St. Martha’s Folk Group (35 years later) taken on Sunday, Sept. 14, 2014 at the taping of the documentary, “Defining Moments of Madison Square Garden.” S. Elizabeth Myles first row, far right. On Sunday, September 14, 2014, exactly thirty-five years later, twenty-eight original members of the folk group gathered at the parish hall of St. Martha’s Church to be taped for the documentary. Included in the taping were three songs performed by the group and five individual interviews one of which one was with Elizabeth. In her interview, Elizabeth recalls, “When the Pope arrived Madison Square Garden was charged with energy. Everyone was cheering and chanting. For me it was an experience of the young church being alive. Youth in Concert was an opportunity to connect young people with other young people who were committed to their faith. The Pope gave the opportunity for all of us to do that. The message of ‘Look to Christ,’ was our recurring theme as our group followed up with prayer and song for many years.” The visit of the Pope was only one of the defining moments for this young group. Their weekly practice sessions, their prayer together, the Sunday liturgy, the recording of a record, “Blest Be The Lord,” the annual play and all of the personal relationships, including marriage within the group, are fondly recalled at a reunion which takes place in Uniondale every two years. Folk group members who are now adult men and women bring their children to the reunion in order to share the memories of the moments of their lives which have given them direction and faith so intense that they have made it a mission to pass it on to their children. Being a part of the church at such a young age and experiencing the love of God made a difference in their lives. Today, at Sacred Heard Convent in North Merrick, S. Elizabeth leads a prayer group of young women, all former members of the folk group. The group discusses topics relevant to their present life circumstances, prays together and provides spiritual and emotional support for one another. They discuss how important it was for them to receive instruction and support in those young years. No one would dispute that “Sister Liz,” as she is fondly known, played an instrumental role in their spiritual formation. They agree that being part of a group associated with their church has created an impermeable bond between each of them and Christ, the model and purpose of their existence. The experience of being part of the St. Martha’s Folk Group made a difference in the lives of these young people. The amazing thing about this group is that they continue to be a part of each other’s lives through Face Book and the celebration of both joyful and sorrowful events. Today four decades later, Sister Liz receives Christmas cards from each of these families and has been there for them throughout their journeys. It is the greatest gift of one’s life to know that you have made a difference. 15 The Renovated Mary Louis Convent Becomes a Treasured Resource for the Academy Classrooms and a work area were carved out of the large Community Room where the Sisters once enjoyed their entertainment and offices were formed out of a few bedrooms just above this area. Much more extensive renovations have taken place during 2014 and in September a whole new design of the convent first floor has allowed the vision of the Sisters of the Mary Louis Convent to be carried on today. The pioneer Sisters of TMLA included (standing l. to r.) James Cecilia, Jean Catherine, Mary Odran, Grace Teresa, Regina Celeste, Eustochium, Miriam Fidelis, (front) Superior Francis Geronimo and Principal Mary Angelica. With them is Rev. Roger Munson, CP. Rita Piro, Co-Minister W hen the pioneer Sisters of The Mary Louis Academy Convent first entered their new home at 86-44 Edgerton Boulevard in Jamaica Estates in April 1936, they were undoubtedly quite taken aback by what they saw. As Sisters Francis Geronimo, Mary Eustochium, Regina Celeste, Jean Catherine, James Cecilia, Mary Odran, Grace Teresa, Mary Angelica, and Miriam Fidelis surveyed their surroundings, they surely must have wondered how they would survive just one night at this location. The once glorious mansion known as Rose Crest, formerly owned by the Adikes Family of Jamaica and Flushing, was in a dilapidated state and extensive repairs were needed throughout the house. The Sisters would later recall that the electric stove was in such poor condition that they would have to set several pots of water on the stovetop before leaving for Mass at Immaculate Conception Church across the street and hope that the water would have come to a boil for cooking by the time they returned. The Sisters quickly got to work and by June had not only established another warm and welcoming Josephite community, but were also ready to announce the opening of their newest instructional endeavor, The Mary Louis Academy Private High School for Girls. Seventeen young ladies began classes in the parlor of the Sisters’ convent that September, followed in February by additional young ladies for a total of 47 members of TMLA’s first class of freshwomen. Within months a chapel and a classroom were added on either side of the original building and by September 1938 the main school building was complete for the education of 800 girls. 16 At its peak during the baby boomer years of Catholic education, it housed nearly 55 sisters. Superiors included Sisters Francis Geronimo, Mary Lumina, Mary Immaculata, Naomi, Rose of Lima, Joan Killen, St. Jerome and Mary McConnell.In 2011 the last four Sisters living in the Mary Louis convent moved to other houses and the convent was closed. During the last three years changes have taken place in the old convent that continue and develop the mission of the original 9 Sisters of St. Joseph who lived there and the many others who followed. The main central parlor welcomes guests and visitors who are captivated by the original grand staircase and fireplace, the latter still bearing the carved CSJ seal. On other side of the parlor are two spaces which make the entire area perfect for meetings and performances. The TMLA Service Homerooms have their almost daily meetings in this space. These homerooms provide students with an invaluable and unique opportunity to work closely throughout the year with other students and faculty committed to issues concerning our health, environment and social justice, long time concerns of the Sisters of St. Joseph. Since the program’s inception, members of service homerooms have participated in workshops and conferences at the United Nations, volunteered at a local soup kitchen, hosted a Fair Trade Christmas Bazaar, and created an internationally-recognized and acclaimed anti-cyber-bullying initiative. The original convent refectory now houses the multi-award winning TMLA Robotics Program and a separate part of the old community room now serves with two classrooms and a Math lab under the direction of S. Linda Pero. Once the busy hub of food and drink, the convent’s original kitchen now welcomes the Baking/Cooking Club as well as the cultural clubs who prepare various ethnic dishes. The Italian Society, under the direction of Mr. Nicholas Maurantonio with assistance from S. Margaret Secour Anella, prepares delectable Italian dishes weekly in the newly updated kitchen. The rear sun parlor, which once opened to the patio complete with working fountain, now houses the Advanced Painting classes, where TMLA Art students enjoy and use the wonderful natural light. Finally, the chapel, the first addition to the original mansion building and opened on January 1, 1937, has been lovingly refurbished with all original pieces including the statues of Joseph and Mary which were taken from the Church of St. Malachy in Rockaway Park after it was closed and brought to the new chapel at TMLA. It is believed that these statues are well over 100 years old. Over the past 76 years since the establishment of The Mary Louis Academy Convent, 20,000 young women have carried forth the charism and mission of the Sisters of St. Joseph with many more ready to continue the tradition. 17 17 welcome to G ala 2 0 1 4 s of St. Joseph, Dear Friends of the Sister new Director to introduce myself as the ge vile pri a d an r no ho know, S. It is an ter s of St. Joseph. As you Sis the for nt me ce van of Mission Ad only pray that I at the end of this year. I can Rose Viceconte is retiring usly as she has as effectively and as gracio u yo g vin ser to se clo come ! done for the past 20 years t of which was career background, the las ied var a th wi u yo to Cenacle I come of Development for the tor rec Di ce vin Pro the 15 years as my wife Maureen . I have been married to Sister s in the United States graced us last daughter Jacqueline who a ve ha we d an , ars ye for 36 ild Lucas. year with our first grandch tries of the ce the mission and minis van ad to sly ou or vig rk wo I will S. Rose Viceconte is recognized for 20 years as Director of Development by S. Helen Kearney at the Gala. Sister s. But only with your help. le work that the read about the remarkab In this magazine you will man and gir ls, ace, the environment, wo pe d an e tic jus for do s without Sister it alone. They can’t do it do ’t can ey Th re. mo ch and so mu your help. all the I will be telling you about g, sin cu Fo of s ue iss ure And so, in fut eph to advance with the Sister s of St. Jos ways that you can partner do. the incredible work they k you for weldone for the Sister s. Than Thank you for all you have with us. u for walking this journey coming me. And, thank yo Sincerely, Jim Rennert and S. Pat Turley James R. Renner t, CFRE cement Director of Mission Advan Helen Moss receives the CSJ award from S. Helen Kearney. S. Rose Viceconte and Jim Rennert (seated) and Nadine Veletanga S. Helen Kearney, S. Kerry Handal, MC Wendy Walsh and Sisters Eugenia Calabrese and Pat Mahoney 18 18 19 F ounder ’ s D ay at S aint J oseph H igh S chool Janelle Hyppolite, St. Joseph HS ’16 T he CSJ Learning Connection, celebrating its 20th year, is an independent community-based organization, affiliated with the Brentwood Public School District and the Brentwood Public Library, which aims to serve the educational needs of women in the Brentwood area. O n Friday October 17, 2014, St. Joseph High School celebrated the Sisters of St. Joseph Founder’s Day which dates back to 1650 in Le Puy, France. This celebration gives us an opportunity to come to know the CSJ mission more deeply and to recognize significant years of service of the SJHS faculty and staff. This year several CSJ Sisters from different ministries came to speak to the students about what they do helping us to realize that the work of Sisters reaches further than school walls. Following our sessions with the Sisters we gathered as a school community at St. Boniface Church for a Founder’s Day prayer service. At this time we were joined by the family and friends of S. Nora Ashe, CSJ, a beloved U.S. History teacher who passed away one year ago. When asked how the day was planned, Principal S. Joan Gallagher replied that while it had been a dream it became a reality when Mrs. Greaves, SJHS Math teacher, noted it would be important for the students to know of all the work the Sisters do beyond education in school. We needed a day when students could learn about what Sisters do, directly from the Sisters. Mrs. Greaves, S. Rosemarie Baglivio and S. Pat Lucas formed the committee that put this day together. Letters of invitation to more than forty Sisters in various ministries were sent out. The Sisters were honored to be invited. All were happy to come and others were disappointed that they could not participate in the day. After listening to CSJ Sisters passionately telling us about their work, it was appropriate to celebrate and honor S. Nora who was a passionate educator. Because S. Nora sadly passed away on October 14, 2013 our memorial was perfectly aligned with Founder’s Day. Following the prayer service at St. Boniface, family, friends, Sisters and colleagues of S. Nora gathered back at SJHS and dedicated the Technology Lab in her honor. S. Nora was a master teacher who knew well how to integrate technology into her students’ learning. Now with her watchful eye all SJHS students can continue to use technology in responsible ways to enhance their learning. The day ended with a festive luncheon where S. Nora’s family, friends, Sisters and colleagues continued to celebrate her extraordinary life and share their favorite memories of her. I personally enjoyed Founder’s Day and I thought it was a great success. I was happy to know that the Catholic Church was still very much alive due to the work of the Sisters and all those who are helped by their work. To know that there are women out there who risk their lives so that others can live better is very inspiring and empowering. I believe that Founder’s Day shows us examples of empowered women so that we can aspire to be greater and to achieve so much more than one can ever imagine. 20 C S J S ponsored M inistry : T H E L earning C onnection ESL students and teachers from the Learning Connection program Director of Formation S. Mary Walsh speaks about her ministry. Congratulations to New Citizens The St. Joseph HS community joined in prayer with S. Nora Ashe’s family and friends at St. Boniface Church. S. Marie Ross (l.) and her class on graduation day, June 1, 2014. Principal S. Joan Gallagher (l.) welcomed all while guest speaker S.Theresa Scanlon praised the life of S. Nora Ashe. Assistant Director S. Mary Theresa Donlon, Helen Moss and Director of The Learning Connection, S. Kathleen Carberry 21 Sabbath Time: A Reflection on Silence A ssociate L arge G roup D ay Pat Monahan, Associate Maura Costello, CSJ I ’ve just returned from my morning walk around “the bend” and meandered across the lawn which had been a cow pasture when I was in elementary school at the Academy of St. Joseph in the late 40’s. I unpacked my camp chair and settled under the shade of a mighty spruce facing a distant stand of heritage pines. A refreshing breeze stirred the branches and brushed against my face. Starlings swooped tree to tree; squirrels scampered about gathering nuts and seeds; billowing clouds floated gracefully across an azure blue sky. I drifted off into the peace of the moment losing track of time and place... into silence. A t 9:30 am on November 1, 2014 the atmosphere in the ASJ Rec Hall was alive with chatter and excitement in anticipation of the day’s activities. Associates and Sisters began the Welcome Ceremony for our potential Associates who were to begin their journey toward commitment in April 2015. Each one spoke of her/his life and connection with the CSJs. Potential Associates with the support of their sponsors, standing behind them, begin the program towards commitment that will take place in April 2015. (Front row standing l. to r.) Sheila Wilkinson, Mary Lou Locke, Mary Doolan, Mary Della Vecchia, Anne Cajigas, Frank Brancato, Jo’Anne Brancato, Christina Bopp. As a follow-up to the Convocation with Ilia Delio in June, S. Maureen Wild SC called all present to the “Living Cosmology and Emerging Consciousness” through a vibrant, experiential ritual, accompanied by visuals of our Congregation’s and other gifted persons, and personal sharing of God’s presence in her life. Narrating this were Pat Monahan, a dear friend of Maureen, and S. Susan Wilcox. The “time line” of evolution as evidenced in the spiral of creation created a sense of awe and a realization of the place of human development in the cosmos. S. Helen Kearney joined us for the twentieth anniversary prayer for Associate Patricia DeGregoria Scola and for S. Eileen Clifford who have journeyed with the Associates for 20 years. Speaker S. Maureen Wild SC, presents the “time line” of evolution symbolized by candles. Patricia DeGregoria Scola (photo left) receives a certificate for twenty years as an Associate while S. Eileen Clifford (l. in photo right) receives her commendation. Associate Marie Bevilacqua congratulates Eileen. 22 Here on these grounds I look upon nature as my friend. I grew up with these trees through the cycle of seasons, through the decades of life’s unfolding. When close friends meet there is no need of words. Silence enhances presence one with the other… and mutual indwelling occurs. Nature activates the Spirit within me. In silence I feel an intimacy to all things and to the Divine. As Miester Eckhart reminds us, “Nothing in the universe resembles God more than silence.” RECOGNITIONS On September 25, 2014, Mary Ann Ambrose, CSJ received the “ Service to Youth Award “ at the Bishop’s Dinner for Scouting. Patricia Hudson, CSJ was awarded “Best in Show” for her watercolor painting, Evening Song. It was presented by The Rockaway Artists Alliance Gallery at Fort Tilden. Sister used the Sum-i: P’oMo ancient Chinese painting techniques. (Earth Matters offers Sabbath Time the fourth Sunday of every month from 1:15-2:45 pm. Join us at the Ecology Center, bring a folding chair, a bag lunch, and let the Spirit do the rest.) New Publications Elizabeth A. Johnson, CSJ Ask the Beasts: Darwin and the God of Love, Bloomsbury Publishing Co., 2014. Catherine M Kugler, CSJ received an Associate Degree of Science in Respiratory Therapy from the River Valley Community College in Claremont, N.H. She is registered by The National Board of Respiratory Care and is licensed in Vermont and N.H. Maria Pascuzzi, CSJ Paul: Windows on His Thoughts and His World Anselm Academic, 2014. Kathleen Sullivan, CSJ received an award at the 125th Anniversary of St. Francis Xavier School. It was in gratitude and praise for her many years of service as a teacher and administrator and much more! Teresa Fitzgerald, CSJ was awarded the Opus Prize, an annual gift awarded to an individual or organization whose faith based,entrepreneurial leadership helps people in need to transform their lives. A scholarship in honor of Peggy Ford, CSJ (RIP) has been named at St. Mchael’s School, Brooklyn in recognition of the years of her service to the parish. The Sisters of St. Joseph Convent, Brentwood donated to Mercy First for the support of immigrant children. 23 Non-Profit Organization US Postage PAID Brentwood, NY PERMIT NO. 10 St. Joseph’s Convent 1725 Brentwood Rd. Brentwood, NY 11717 THOUGHTS FROM THE GARDEN A came from within its body. The caterpillar was no longer – its skin crumpled at the top of its new chrysalis like yesterday’s laundry wrinkled and tossed to the side. Twice, also, we witnessed a brand new butterfly emerge then waited as its wings dried and it prepared to fly. We cheered as it lifted off on its first flight. Most of these transformations happen so slowly that we don’t notice them happening. They occur before our very eyes, but we can’t quite see them. When I leave the garden at night to a stem of green tomatoes and return in the morning to a stem of red ones, I am charmed by the transformation that happened without my observing. My tongue, too, is delighted by the burst of sweetness of my first ripe tomato each morning. When I plant seeds in the rich soil and days later see their first stretchings toward the sun, I am enchanted. Somehow, all of a sudden and yet with infinitesimal slowness, transformation happens. Watching these great transformations happen were akin to watching a new life being born, and it is no wonder that caterpillars and butterflies have provided inspiration for prayer, art, poetry, and music for generations. Through the lifespan of these beautiful lives, we learn a bit about the transformations that are happening both around and within us. The chrysalis looks like it is constant, steady, nearly unchanging until the last day when it becomes almost translucent. We know, however, that what entered the chrysalis is entirely different from what emerges. Those infinitesimal changes give birth to something entirely new. Heather Ganz,CSJ flower became a cucumber. A seed became a plant. Sunlight became my salad. This all happened at the garden today, and yesterday, and it will probably happen again tomorrow. Thousands of miraculous transformations are happening every moment; we are surrounded by them. Another miraculous transformation is happening in the Honey House at this moment. Hanging on a parsley stem by a perfectly placed, silky thin strand, is a chrysalis. S. Mary Lou Buser and I discovered the tiny black speck of a caterpillar weeks ago and have been minding it and its three siblings ever since. When we harvested their parsley abode, we recognized that our lives were intertwined. We were now responsible for these little lives. We watched as the tiny black specks matured into big, juicy caterpillars with clearly defined stripes of brilliant colors. Twice we noticed waves moving through the caterpillar that caused its whole body to pulse. As we observed, we saw it wrap itself in something that 24 As I observe these transformations around me, I am encouraged to look within. What tiny changes are happening within me? Am I willing to let go of myself – my ideas, thoughts, beliefs, desires - to enter into the chrysalis of transformation? Am I willing to risk everything I’ve known myself to be to become more fully who I am? I wonder, too, how we might do this as a community, allowing the slow work of God to transform our lives together. After all, thousands of miraculous transformations are occurring at every moment; we are surrounded by them, and they are within us. Oh look… a butterfly!
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