Connecting Services & Sharing Stories in Greater Waco Cover photo by Travis Tucker Jerry and Betty Mars enjoy the road of life together along with their vintage cars and collection of 1950s-era memorabilia Story on Page 4 2015 Member Staff Lesly Rascoe Publisher Advertising & Digital Media Director Margaret Sanders Contributing Editor Travis Tucker Photographer Michael Rascoe David Rascoe Distribution Managers SeniorConnectionWaco P.O. Box 716 Hewitt TX 76643 (254) 749-7073 [email protected] SeniorConnectionWaco.com Copyright © 2015 Senior Connection Waco No part of this publication may be reproduced in whole or in part without express prior written consent from Senior Connection Waco. 2 { { SeniorConnection SeniorConnectionWaco.com “I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.” Roy Croft, poet A Heart for Seniors Long-lasting love is a precious resource, and in this issue of Senior Connection we meet some special couples who have endured the test of time. They have weathered life’s storms and made it through to the other side with common memories and a sweet companionship that only those who have been together for most of their lives know. These romances for the ages share something in common. Each of these endearing couples resonate a mutual respect and shared kindness that brings out the best in each other. It’s not the over-the-top puppy love of the young but the seasoned, more refined love that matured through the years during the mundane and chaotic, beautiful and precious days they have spent together. As we cherish the matters of the heart, we also talk about heart health for seniors. Many older adults experience cardiac episodes that can diminish their ability to enjoy life like they once did, but with proper exercise and dietary changes they find restored energy and vitality. While cardiac issues can affect adults of any age, we are inspired by a local senior who has made a difference in his own life and encourages others to embrace lifestyle choices that allow them to live each day to the fullest. A nutritional expert and renowned chef weighs in with her heart health advice and recipes. A nurse shares her story of caring for others for 70 years beginning in World War II where she treated young soldiers on the battlefields of Europe. She also has a heart for seniors and has enjoyed a long career in geriatric care where she has touched so many through her gracious humour and generous wisdom. We love to share the stories of the wonderful seniors in our community and be reminded that their lessons for living are timeless. SC SeniorConnectionWaco.com includes a searchable online directory of hundreds of service providers in Greater Waco who touch seniors. In addition, this website features stories about and for seniors, and an online calendar provides information about events, programs and special days unique to seniors and their families and professional caregivers. Coming up World War II nurse still giving back Page 16 Banjo Buddies pass down the heritage of their music Page 14 If these walls could talk Page 20 Preserving keepsakes as pieces of art Page 9 Caregiving Conference March 20 This conference is for anyone who provides care whether they are professionals or family members. Topics covered will include: Legal Issues, Making Difficult Decisions, Financial Issues, Pain Medications/Vaccinations and Caregiving & Depression. Cost: $5 registration fee. The conference will be from 9 a.m. to 1:45 p.m. at Columbus Avenue Baptist Church, 1300 Columbus Ave., Waco, Texas. Registration begins at 8:30 a.m. Participants must pre‐register by March 13 by calling (254) 757-5180 or e‐mailing [email protected]. For vendor information, call Janet Enders at (254) 292-1843. The conference is presented by the Texas A&M AgriLife Extension Service. All you need is love, ConnectingSeniors Seniors&&Sharing SharingStories StoriesininGreater GreaterWaco Waco Senior Connection Connecting Lesly Rascoe Publisher SeniorConnectionWaco.com February 2015 3 Keeping Love By Maggie Sanders and Lesly Rascoe Some couples just seem to have that special something. Whether it’s the sparkle in their eyes when they are together or the way they build each other up. No matter what life throws their way, they team up and make it work. They grow through the hard times and relish the good times, making memories and blessing others in their path. It’s been said that “Love doesn’t make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.” In this issue of Senior Connection, we feature three couples who have enjoyed the ride for decades keeping love alive through faith, family and service. going for the long haul.... Their journey began on a softball field in Irving. Both were working for the same company, though they didn’t know each other, when their employer decided to have a picnic and softball game. Betty’s legal department didn’t have enough to make a team, so she ended up playing with Jerry’s department. They’ve been on the same team ever since. They married in August 1981 and continued living and working in Irving. Although he had success in engineering and accounting, Jerry had always wanted his own business. Jerry and Betty Mars Leaning against their vintage Chevrolet, Jerry and Betty Mars look like two teenagers in love, but the couple is actually entering their 34th year of marriage. Their journey has included raising a family, starting and running two successful printing businesses and a track record of active involvement in civic organizations and community service. 4 Senior Connection Betty and Jerry Mars are still cruising together after 34 years of Photo by Travis Tucker marriage. Connecting Seniors & Sharing Stories in Greater Waco The couple began exploring They weren’t ready to retire, however, and franchise options and in 1984 wanted to open a printing business again, purchased a printing this time on their own. Betty worked at the franchise. For the first few Heart of Texas Council of Governments years, Betty ran the while Jerry began researching the busicompany while Jerry ness climate in Greater Waco. He realized continued working at his that Bellmead would be the perfect place to regular job, joining her to help launch the new business. in the shop during the evenings. They established Advantage Press as an “It was tough,” he said. “Sometimes independent full-service print and copy we’d work until 11:30 at night, go home shop in 1991, with their pastor blessing the and start all over early the next morning.” business before they opened the doors. They When they reached the point of needing quickly became involved in the community, more help, Jerry came to the print shop full active in the Bellmead Chamber of time. Commerce, Bellmead Lions Club, La Vega Managing took cooperation and commuIndependent School District committees and nication, they said. councils and the Heart O’ Texas Fair. The couple maintained a clear distinction between work and home. “Our common commitment to “We had disagreements, as do all Christ is the foundation. It’s business partners,” Jerry said, “but the glue that holds everything when we left work, any disagreements were left at the shop.” together.” Jerry Mars They operated their print shop in Irving and were active in chambers of commerce, merchants associations and civic That spirit of service was especially helpful groups until 1989 when an opportunity arose in building a business in their new to sell the shop. With both of their daughters community, but that is not why they did it. grown, Jerry and Betty acted on a longtime “We became involved in these groups interest in moving to a smaller community because it was the right thing to do,” said and relocated to Limestone County where Jerry. Jerry had purchased land several years Love continued on Page 6 earlier. SeniorConnectionWaco.com February 2015 5 Love continued from Page 5 “We would have done that service anyway. But the contacts we made through these networks really helped our business.” After operating the print shop for more than 20 years, the couple sold the business in 2013 to “really retire.” Soon afterwards, Betty was diagnosed with breast cancer, and the couple began a new challenge together. “Jerry was with me every treatment, every day of that journey,” Betty said. Their faith and his support brought her through to the other side, and she is doing well today. It hasn’t been all work and no play for this couple, however. For years, Jerry had kept the 1964 Impala Super Sport, the first new car he ever purchased. He began expanding his collection after meeting fellow Bellmead resident and car enthusiast Coy Emert. They soon joined the Heart O’ Texas Old Car Club and enjoy attending car shows with other members. Their interest in vintage cars led Betty to create Betty Lou’s Collectibles started out of a trailer, which she filled with memorabilia and collectibles and pulled to car shows and swap meets. Eventually, she began selling similar items out of the print shop. They like to be active, traveling to watch their grandchildren play softball and baseball. Dancing is another interest. Betty and Jerry performed in Branson on the Brazos for 10 years and appeared at the HOT Fair, Stars across Texas and other festivals throughout Central Texas. They also continue their own interests. Betty is the Queen Mother of the Red Hat Mamas, the Bellmead chapter of the Red Hat Society, a group of women dedicated to fun and friendship. Jerry is part of the Williams Creek Brotherhood that is cleaning the old Shead cemetery in Limestone County. While many couples marry their first loves, Jerry and Betty are part of the “second-time-around” club. They said prior relationships helped in their own marriage. “You learn to be more tolerant, feeling and Mary and Dean Hodde recently celebrated their 59th wedding understanding,” Jerry said. Betty said experience also anniversary, a milestone they reached by holding on to their faith helps you understand more about yourself and what and family values. Photo by Travis Tucker you want in a partner. If there were a secret to this couple’s success, Jerry Mary and Dean Hodde said, it’s something that is no secret. “Our common Mary Corley and Dean Hodde met as teenagers at commitment to Christ is the foundation. It’s the glue West High School in the 1950s. Now married for 59 that holds everything together.” years, they share four children, 11 grandchildren and five great-grandchildren. 6 Senior Connection Connecting Seniors & Sharing Stories in Greater Waco They have weathered the ups and downs of life together raising a family, changing careers when times called for it, growing a business or two and moving all while staying grounded in the roots of church, hard work and a family farm. Mary grew up in Gholson where there was no high school, and Dean’s family moved to Rogers Hill Road from Woodway on Thanksgiving Day 1950. They both landed at West High School where Dean graduated in 1953 and Mary in 1956. “When I grew up in Gholson, my grandpa was A.O. Gassaway, who owned the Gholson store and the cotton gin. My other grandpa was a big farmer and drove the school bus,” said Mary. She recalls coming home from school and changing clothes to help with the farm chores where hogs, chickens, canning and growing watermelon and cantaloupe were part of daily life. “It was a treat for us to get to come to Waco from Gholson,” said Mary. Meanwhile, Dean helped build the house on the land that is still in the family and where they continue to make memories enjoying the outdoors. After the couple married, their early days were not easy. “My mother died at the age of 38,” said Mary, who was 18 at the time. “I was the oldest of five, and my baby sister was 20 months old.” As newlyweds, Mary and Dean stepped in to help her family while Dean and her father worked at General Tire. “It was very hard. We lived in a four-room house with no running water and no indoor facilities,” said Mary. “Things were different back then. I guess we’re dedicated. I can truly say that not many men would do what he did.” “You learned to make do,” added Dean. Dean, the oldest of four in his family, “has never known anything but hard work. He’s the early bird,” said Mary. The young couple endured and eventually were able to have a home of their own. The first house they owned was a duplex on Pine. They lived in one side and rented out the other half. They often had young couples from John Connally Air Force Base as their neighbors. Mary was a homemaker for a few years. Dean worked at General Tire for 22 years before retiring. Mary went to work for the McLennan County records office before being recruited by Sheriff Jack Harwell as a deputy sheriff. She earned her peace officer certificate and then her law enforcement certificate. Since female deputies did not work patrol in those days, Mary worked on civil issues before retiring from the county in 2002 after 25 years. All of the Hoddes’ children live in McLennan County making for large holiday celebrations and plenty of time together. Dean, 80, still enjoys going out to the family farm, and Mary is a member of the Daughters of the Confederacy. Mary’s great-great-great-grandfather served in the Confederacy and was an early Waco doctor. They are involved at the First Lutheran Church in Waco where they have been members since 1947. Their son, Calvin, is the mayor of Lacy Lakeview. The retired couple owns Hodde Properties. They are involved with their grandchildren. Their grandson, Corley, is a freshman at Reicher High School. Crisp and Doris Perilo Waco natives Crisp and Doris Perilo grew up in Waco but didn’t know each other until they were introduced by mutual friends in 1948. Now married 64 years, they have remained in their home town, raising their daughters in a home focused on faith, family and service. They wouldn’t have connected, however, if Crisp had not joined the military, first enlisting in the Navy during World War II, and later transferring into the Air Force. He wanted to see more of the world outside of Central Texas. He was assigned to Connally Air Force Base, now the Texas State Technical College Waco campus, where he was a military policeman. While there, he became acquainted with the brother of Doris’s best friend, and it was those two siblings who introduced the young people. They courted for a year and a half and married in December 1950. They went on a free honeymoon when Uncle Sam sent Crisp to Pensacola, Florida for MP training. He remained at Connally until he was discharged but continued in the Air Force and Navy reserves for 27 more years. A new civilian, Crisp earned a barber license and opened a shop in Beverly Hills. Eventually, he closed the barber shop and joined the security force at the VA Medical Center, drawing on much of his military police background. Love continued on Page 8 SeniorConnectionWaco.com February 2015 7 Love continued from Page 7 Doris and Crisp Perilo have stood side by side for 64 years by balancing their individual interests and spending time together. Photo by Richard Braun 8 Senior Connection During their marriage, they followed the traditions of many in their generation. Doris was the classic homemaker, taking care of their children, while Crisp worked to support the family. The family has since expanded to include three granddaughters, one greatgranddaughter and a great-grandson with another great-grandchild on the way. Faith and family have remained her lifelong calling, she said. “I’ve tried to live my life with God first, husband and home second.” After the girls entered school, she worked part-time for 27 years in a local real estate office. She was also active in the couple’s church, Beverly Hills Baptist, working primarily with teens and youth in Sunday School and other activities for nearly 50 years. “It’s important to have hobbies and a little bit of separateness, especially after the family is grown,” Doris said. She joked that one of the keys to their long and happy marriage is that “Crisp leaves the house at 9:30 each morning and doesn’t come home until feeding time.” He stays busy all day long most days, meeting for coffee and gossip with his buddies, playing in twice-weekly 84 games and bowling in a weekly league. Now 88, he says he always tried to take care of his body and mind. He has also been active in Gideons International, which distributes Bibles in hotels, schools, hospitals, prisons and other venues throughout the world. For several years, he’s chaired the local chapter’s Memorial Bible program, which requires a lot of clerical work, which he passes on to Doris. “He’s got the job, I’ve got the work,” Doris said, laughing. “But then, I sort of like being one of God’s secretaries.” While Crisp likes to be out playing games and visiting, Doris enjoys staying home and reading. “I’m an inveterate reader. I like to read anything and everything.” They say common faith, respect, commitment and hard work have helped their marriage stay strong. Sitting on their living room couch, they held hands. “If I had to do it all over again,” Crisp said, “I’d do the exact same thing.” SC Connecting Seniors & Sharing Stories in Greater Waco Preserve mementos, photos for heirloom keepsakes By LESLY RASCOE Antique photographs, grandpa’s medals, grandmother’s lace handkerchief or baby’s shoes are keepsakes that are often treasured for generations. Preserving these mementos can ensure they are enjoyed for years to come, said Lance Magid, owner of Studio Gallery. Specializing in photo restoration and creating works of art from family keepsakes, Studio Gallery can colorize a sepia-toned and damaged photo bringing it back to life. “We are preserving history. The photos that we restore, it’s one of one, and there are no others like it,” said Magid. “We digitize each photo and give the customer a disc along with their original photo and the restored photo in an acetate sleeve.” The special care that Studio Gallery takes with each precious photo and keepsake is reflected in the final product that becomes a work of art. This shadow box by Studio Gallery displays photos and keepsakes from “I get a lot of pictures where the customer a World War II veteran. Photo courtesy of Studio Gallery will tell me, ‘This is Mom when she was 19.’ Some of them are the only photo in existence like that,” swords and scabbards are some of the more interestsaid Heather Hopkins, production manager and photo ing items that have been displayed in heirloom shadow boxes. restoration specialist for Studio Gallery. A late 1800s parlor pistol was arranged with a photo Whether damaged by age, water, smoke or light, of the customer’s grandfather along with the note he photos are scanned and then digitally modified to wrote as he was dying after being shot. He was carryrestore their original beauty and in many cases even ing the pistol during the brawl, and he explains in the better. Most photos take three to four hours to note who had shot him. Studio Gallery aged the paper colorize, said Hopkins. before carefully displaying it inside the glass case. When historical items come in, Studio Gallery will “Instead of these precious heirlooms of your family research the time period to learn details that make being stored in a box, you can make a beautiful piece their preservation a snapshot of history. of art of out of it,” said Magid. Shadow boxes are popular ways to preserve items One of his favorite pieces was a father’s baseball that might otherwise be lost through damage and glove that was given to him for Father’s Day. deterioration. “This is why I do the framing and shadow boxes. It A father’s doctor’s bag and its contents were was a special gift from a daughter to a father,” he said. arranged in a shadow box creating a glimpse into “To me, that’s the really fun thing about shadowboxmedical equipment from days gone by. Military shadow boxes also are frequent requests so ing. We can really do anything. As long as it’s not living, it can go in a shadow box. We also do offfamilies can save honor medals, photos, flags, the-wall things. We even preserved a snake skin in a postcards, letters and other sentimental items. Coins, records and musical instruments, a model of shadow box.” a vintage plane, grandfather’s watch, a pistol that was taken off of a German officer during World War II and Continued on Page 10 SeniorConnectionWaco.com February February2015 2015 9 SeniorConnectionWaco.com The birthday cards are for both girls when they were one and two years old but only one for Eula when their third birthday came. “They copied the original letter since it was so fragile and sealed it on the back of the shadow box. They made the letter look old and displayed it in the box,” said McCall. Studio Gallery takes special care with antique keepsakes so they can be enjoyed for many more years. “All our materials are acid-free and conservationgrade,” said Magid. “We use the same stuff that the Library of Congress uses.” Non-glare museum glass is an option to give the shadow box the illusion that it does not have glass at all. All shadow boxes are custom-made, and the customer can choose from more than a thousand kinds of molding, matting and cloth to cover the mat board. Lighting, holograms, digital photo monitors and engraved nameplates can be added as well. “Everything we do is one-of-a-kind,” said Magid. Studio Gallery is located at 4712 W. Waco Drive. For Jill McCall, executive director of Compassion Ministries in more information, call (254) 772-0907 or visit StudioWaco, preserved treasured keepsakes from her aunt Eula GalleryWaco.com. Helen Harvey Mayo, who is pictured here with her twin sister, Pat Sundstrom with PixologieZone has discovered Beulah Ellen Harvey. Beulah died as a toddler but their that organizing years’ worth of family photos can be a Sunday School cradle roll cards, letters and a baby cape are daunting task. preserved in a framed piece by Studio Gallery. “PixologieZone is a longtime dream of mine,” said Sundstrom. “For years, I have done organization and Shadow boxes that open with a hinged door can be restoration of photos. I have always wanted to make it great show pieces for useful firearms that can be into a business helping others tell the story of their life displayed but still removed. in photos.” It takes Studio Gallery about two weeks to create a PixologieZone is equipped with quality high speed keepsake shadowbox, which make great gifts for 50th scanners, computers and software designed to utilize wedding anniversaries. A wedding can be memorialthe latest methods of photo restoration and organizaized with a flower, invitation and fabric. tion. A baby’s bib, photos, shoes, spoon and a mat made “Most people have tossed their photos into boxes of a special piece of clothing can create a lovely keepand stored them in their basement or attic. Unfortusake to be treasured for a lifetime. nately, such storage is damaging, especially with radical Jill McCall preserved an heirloom infant cape that temperature changes and moisture. With the advent of belonged to her aunt, Eula Harvey Mayo, who was today’s technology we now have our cells, tablets and born in 1917. computers loaded with photos,” said Sundstrom. “It’s a very sentimental piece to me. She never had That’s where PixologieZone comes in. Services any children and was like a second mother to me,” said include organization of prints and digital images; McCall. scanning, restoring and enhancing photos, newspaper The unique shadowbox also contains a photo of clippings, documents and recipes; download digital Eula with her twin sister, Beulah, who died when she images from electronic devices; convert VHS and 35 was two and a half. The box contains antique birthday mm slides to DVD; create traditional and/or digital cards from their cradle roll class at the BrucevilleEddy United Methodist Church and a letter from their photo albums and slide shows for special occasions. teacher expressing her condolences when Beulah died. Photo by Lesly Rascoe Continued from Page 9 10 Senior Connection Connecting Seniors & Sharing Stories in Greater Waco This original photo (left) was restored by PixologieZone to remove creases and other signs of age. Photos courtesy of PixologieZone “PixologieZone’s helps others get started wherever they are in their efforts to organize their photos, videos and slides. We do this through one-on-one consultation and hands-on assistance. Ultimately, they recapture those most cherished moments,” said Sundstrom. Photos are vulnerable to hard drive crashes and technical obsolescence. Time destroys photos, home movies and video tapes. Statistics reveal that 75% of American households own a digital camera, and 86% of all digital images never leave the camera. “We not only help people preserve their cherished memories, we also educate them on the importance of saving and archiving these memories so they are not lost through age, loss, computer crashes and natural disaster,” said Sundstrom. “We offer a free consultation to review your needs, determine your goals, lay out a plan to assist you and give you an estimate of cost for the project. Estimates vary depending on size and extent of the project.” For more information, call (254) 640-5438 or visit PixologieZone.com. SC SeniorConnectionWaco.com SeniorConnectionWaco.com February February2015 2015 11 By LESLY RASCOE F The heart eeling good and having the energy to do the things that make life enjoyable is important to people of all ages and walks of life. As we age, the incidence of cardiovascular disease increases, but those risks can be reduced by boosting physical activity, eating a healthy diet and having regular check-ups. While genetics play a large role as well, according to the American Heart Association, obesity, high blood pressure, smoking, diabetes and inactivity are factors that can be improved for many older adults. Tommy Carter, 72, administrator at Quality Care of Waco, has adopted habits to improve his heart health. “On my mother’s side, the genes were horrible. She had a brother who died at 50 of a massive heart attack,” said Carter. “At 61, I went in for what I thought was indigestion.” Tests revealed he had three blockages requiring a heart bypass at Providence Health Center. “I had excellent care at Providence. I spent four nights in the hospital and recuperated for six weeks,” said Carter. He began a committed exercise regimen at the R.W. Crosthwait, Sr., Cardiac and Pulmonary Rehabilitation Program that he continues three times each week to this day. Carter said he enjoys renewed energy when he works out using the treadmill, leg presses, walking track and Stairmaster. “After open heart surgery, I had so much more energy,” said Carter. “It was a life-changing moment.” Noticing that many people seem to slip back into unhealthy habits after surgery, Carter said he knew he must be disciplined and consistent to establish a heart healthy lifestyle. “For years, I worked, went home and put my feet up,” said Carter. “Exercise is the key and getting off that fried food. That’s what keeps us going is our exercise. It’s crucial.” That approach has given him the energy and stamina to do the things he enjoys such as traveling and talking to each of his patients at Quality Care at least once every day. “They miss me if I don’t come by,” said Carter. He is one of many Providence patients who have 12 Senior Connection of the matter overcome cardiac challenges so they can continue living life to the fullest. Tootie Murry RN, manager of the rehabilitation program at Providence since 1986 and a nurse at the hospital since 1973, has seen hundreds of patients experience a renewed zest for life by adopting healthier habits. “It is uplifting. They can come here and get going and see other patients who have had similar procedures and how they are doing,” said Murry. The monitored exercise program allows patients to check their blood pressure and monitor their heart rate in a safe environment. They also can weigh in and track their results each time they visit the rehab center. State-of-the-art equipment includes treadmills, stationary bicycles, NuStep®, ellipticals, arm ergometers and weight training. Other components of the program include diabetes and nutritional education, smoking cessation information, dietary consultation and emotional intervention for patients who may become discouraged. “What we try to do is moderate their risks as much as possible and meet their needs, both physical and emotional,” said Murry. “They feel comfortable and safe, and they know we are there for them.” The three-phase program begins when the patient is in the hospital and receiving pre-treatment education. Once they are discharged, they enter Phase II and remain on a monitor while exercising in the rehab center until they have completed the required number of 60-minute sessions. Phase III is an outpatient maintenance program for patients in need of primary prevention with a focus on maintaining lifestyle changes as well as physical conditioning. With about 250 patients ranging in age from their 30s to 97 on the roll, the center comfortably serves 120 to 125 patients every Monday, Wednesday and Friday. “They develop a lot of good relationships here, and that’s so good for them, too,” said Murry. “The anxiety levels are so high when they first come in.” To relieve some of the early concerns new patients may experience, the Mended Hearts support group was formed. Comprised of people who have been through Connecting Seniors & Sharing Stories in Greater Waco a heart event, the group meets monthly and also visits with patients in the hospital who are undergoing treatment for cardiac issues. Vicki Sprague RN, a nurse in the rehab center for 20 years, said the patients and former patients enjoy the non-intimidating setting to become more physically fit. “We have a group of men waiting when Tootie opens the door at 6 a.m.,” said Sprague. “It’s a safe place for them to come and get back on their feet. We counsel them and pull up diet plans for them.” Among the many success stories of people who have participated in the program is one patient who lost more than 100 pounds. “Accountability is huge,” said Sprague. “We do try to follow up if we haven’t seen someone in a while unlike in a regular gym where they blend in.” The rehab center also focuses on the patient’s general well-being and heart health instead of a more intense body building regimen. “We are more interested in them improving their stamina and strength,” said Sprague. Murry agrees. “They must have a real good motivation such as grandchildren and they want to be more active,” she said. The rehab center also offers a pulmonary care program for patients with chronic pulmonary disease. Oxygen drops are available throughout the room for these patients who workout on Tuesdays and Thursdays. The pulmonary program works with participants to feel better and experience greater activity and increased endurance and strength. Both the Providence cardiac and pulmonary rehab programs are nationally certified. For more information, visit Providence.net. SC Tommy Carter works out three times a week at the R.W. Crosthwait Sr. Cardiac and Pulmonary Rehabilitation Center to maintain his heart health. Photo by Travis Tucker SeniorConnectionWaco.com February February2015 2015 13 SeniorConnectionWaco.com From left are Buddy Shieldes, Alison Lampert, Dick Rood and Ollie Lampert performing American banjo music accompanied by the flute for Alison Lampert’s fourth grade music class at Valley Mills Elementary. Photos by Lesly Rascoe Banjo Buddies share musical heritage with children The strumming of a banjo is about as American as Banjo Buddies’ ability to play all the notes, and they flying the flag, rich in homegrown culture and had some good questions such as, ‘Is it hard to play?’ resonating with bits of history that are reminiscent of a and ‘Do your fingers hurt after you play a lot?’ ” simpler time. Buddy Shieldes, another of the Banjo Buddies, When fourth grade music students in Alison demonstrated the mechanisms of the banjo and how Lampert’s class at Valley Mills Elementary listened to to manipulate the strings to make different sounds. He The Banjo Buddies play, they were captivated by the also shared the history of the instrument that had its nostalgic tunes that have been passed down through beginnings on another continent. the generations. “It actually came from Africa. The ‘banjar’ was When the Saints Go Marching In with its catchy beat made out of a big round gourd with the stretched skin and easy-to-sing lyrics caught their attention and got of an animal over it. The strings were added to make their feet tapping. sounds,” said Shieldes. “The African slaves made them. “The banjo is a unique instrument for the students They enjoyed playing them and entertaining with to observe because it is a versatile instrument that can them.” be used in several genres of music such as country and The instrument was especially popular in the 1800s bluegrass, folk and indie,” said Allison, whose grandand early 1900s, he told the students, who sang along father, Ollie Lampert, plays with the group. “Also, the with patriotic tunes such as You’re a Grand Old Flag, banjo is similar enough to the guitar that students can America the Beautiful and God Bless America. associate the two instruments together and compare The group wants to take their program into more them to find the differences.” classrooms to share the nostalgia and heritage of the As students learn about rhythm, chords and styles banjo. of music, something special happens when they get to “My family was musical. Everybody either played witness an instrument being played up close. guitar, mandolin, fiddle or banjo,” said Shieldes. “When “Listening to live music allows students to observe I left to go to the army in 1960, I stopped by uncle’s more in person than they can observe from a video house in Sulphur Springs and he handed me a tenor or audio recording,” said Alison Lampert. “Students banjo and said, ‘Take this with you.’ I would entertain learn more about how the instrument sounds and how at the officers’ club.” it is played. The students seemed intrigued by The 14 Senior Connection Connecting Seniors & Sharing Stories in Greater Waco The guitar is his favorite instrument “because it’s more versatile. You can play so many styles, but a banjo is a lot of fun. When you pull out the banjo, the party begins. It’s a fun time instrument.” He likes to make sure his audiences have fun whether they are elementary age or in their older years. The Banjo Buddies are popular entertainers at local nursing homes. “The people really enjoy some of the songs they remember hearing from their childhood and their young life. It’s great to see the smiles on their faces and that we are pleasing them with our entertainment,” he said. “Where they have dementia, you will see the light come on in their eyes and they will start mouthing the words. It’s like an awakening to their memories. Music is a wonderful gift of God.” Shieldes spent nine years in the U.S. Army before beginning a career in sales. Through all the changes in his life, Buddy said music has been a constant source of inspiration. “Music has always been a comfort to me, and it’s always been an icebreaker in crowds. Also, there’s a bond among musicians. Some of my closest friends and long-lasting friends have been musicians and I really do value that,” he said. “It’s what got me involved in church. I started playing for religious services. I got more involved and became a deacon. It kind of opened that door for me there, too.” Ollie Lampert, 82, said that while the guitar is his primary instrument, he can tune his banjo and get into the rhythm with the group. “I like banjo sounds, especially the way the good banjo players pick with their thumb and fingers on a five-string,” said Ollie Lampert. “We just play rhythm with a banjo in my case. Sometimes I play lead with some runs and variations. I play everything by ear.” Some of his favorite tunes are Born Free, Play Misty for Me, Don’t Fence Me In and Beautiful Dreamer. Also in the group is Dick Rood, who plays the four-string tenor banjo and makes the song list for the group’s gigs. The Banjo Buddies practice every Tuesday unless they have a gig, “We work on chords, tunes and timing. We are amateurs, but we are musicians,” he said. The group likes to stay tuned up to play at fund-raisers, churches and other events from their repertoire of about 60 songs that are popular with their audiences. The group doesn’t accept pay but will “play for food,” jokes Rood. ‘I liked their outfits, and I also liked that they told us about the first banjos,’ said Logan, who got to practice strumming on Buddy Shieldes’ banjo. The band plays about once a week with their regular rotation including 2 p.m. third Tuesdays at Sterling House Retirement Center, 3 p.m. third Wednesdays at Lakeshore Estates and 10:30 a.m. fourth Mondays at Stilwell Retirement Center. “When we play at the nursing homes, they love the Golden Oldies, songs they remember from their childhood,” said Rood. Tunes from the early 1900s, 1920s and 1930s and gospel and praise songs are especially enjoyed by the older set. Let Me Call You Sweetheart and Alexander’s Rag Time Band are always on the playlist, said Rood, who has been playing the banjo for 25 years. “I learned from an uncle who was self-taught, and my mother played piano. She wanted all three of her sons to learn the piano, but as the youngest I couldn’t get the left hand to synchronize with the right hand,” said Rood. When he was 13, his mother told him she had found a place where he could take banjo lessons. “I took for a couple of years, but being a teenager and it being so different than my peers, I didn’t do anything else with it...Now, I’ve played the banjo one hour a day seven days a weeks for more than 20 years.” SC SeniorConnectionWaco.com February 2015 15 M Nurse recalls days treating akeshift, mobile field hospitals dotted the landscape in war-torn Europe during World War II. Their presence was often obscured from enemy forces while dedicated men and women worked around the clock to care for the wounded. It was in this setting that Martha Meers Moyer earned her bars as a U.S. Army surgical nurse. She treated the most critically injured, young men with severe chest and abdominal wounds who needed immediate care before being transported to a hospital. She worked alongside doctors mending and caring for paratroopers and soldiers who had faced enemy fire and still had a chance to make it back home. Patriotism calls young nurse to join the cause “All the young men in my high school graduating class were being drafted or volunteered. It was a patriotic thing,” said Moyer. She graduated from St. John’s Hospital in Joplin, Missouri in 1941 and soon heard the calling of her generation and joined the Army Nurses Corps in September 1942. She spent two years at Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri before transferring to the 42nd Field Hospital at Fort Bragg, North Carolina. The hospital was divided into three platoons, each of which could operate as a separate hospital. Moyer was assigned to the third platoon. From Fort Bragg, the nurses went to New York before embarking on a 10-day journey to Glasgow, Scotland where they were greeted by a bagpipe band. Moyer spent her 24th birthday crossing the North Atlantic aboard the U.S.S. Susan B. Anthony in March 1944. The young women traveled by train to Bromyard, England, where their hospital unit was attached to the 1st Army under General Omar Bradley. Realizing that D-Day was eminent, the nurses lived in a private home and continued to train by watching films and working in the bivouac area, practicing setting up pyramidal tents and cots. They were learning to work as an efficient team so they could be as prepared as possible to carry out these tasks with the noise of shell fire around them. Only four days after the invasion at Normandy on June 6, 1944, the 42nd Field Hospital was put to the test. Their extensive training was desperately needed 16 Senior Connection on the beaches where they were sent to care for countless wounded. The nurses boarded a liberty ship, a U.S.-built cargo vessel, at South Hampton, England to head to France. “It was loaded with supplies including trucks down below us with cans of gasoline,” said Moyer. The nurses stayed on the second deck of the ship during the night for safety. “When we woke up in the morning, we could go up on the deck. I think what stands out in my mind is the number of ships in the English Channel,” said Moyer. “Some of the ships had big booms on the stern and bow of the ship to prevent the German dive bombers.” When the ship arrived at Utah Beach, the docks were already built. Because their equipment landed at Omaha Beach, the third platoon worked with the other two platoons in their unit until their equipment arrived. They walked about a mile through a recently cleared mine field to trucks that would take them to the tent hospital near Saint Mere-Eglise. The hospital operated in total blackout because of the bombings, said Moyer. To avoid drawing attention, staff created an entryway for the tent so light from the generator-powered bulbs could not be seen. Each platoon had 30 cots with no sheets where wounded soldiers waited for treatment and recovered with a wool Army blanket to keep warm. Sheets were used to line the operating areas to create a more sterile environment. X-ray machines and a laboratory were set up, but most treatment was basic compared to modern standards. “As soon as patients were stable enough to be transferred, we would send them to an evacuation hospital,” said Moyer. “Of course, we had deaths, too. A special unit took care of the bodies. They were so busy on the beaches because there were so many bodies.” While death was a part of life on the war front, Moyer said they worked hard to save as many lives as possible. “They expected our total hospital, all three platoons, to have a 25 percent mortality rate, but we had about a 15 to 16 percent so we did some good,” she said. Moyer cared for hundreds of young men. Most would come and go so quickly through the tent hospital that getting to know them more personally was difficult. ConnectingSeniors Seniors&&Sharing SharingStories StoriesininGreater GreaterWaco Waco Connecting soldiers on the war front By LESLY RASCOE One young man still captures her memory though. “We were stationed near Paris, and there was a young Jewish man, a kid really, from New York state,” said Moyer. “He had his left arm amputated. I think it was blown off. He was so convinced that his family would not accept him because he was not whole. He willed himself to die and he did. That still haunts me. I still think if I had known psychological nursing, I maybe could have helped.” The only disposable supplies were gloves and bandages. Glass syringes would be sterilized and re-used, and needles were sterilized and sharpened. Surgical instruments were packaged according to procedures to insure quick access, and towels, dressings and sponges were prepared for emergencies. The injured were cared for under the grim conditions with morphine and an early form of penicillin. “When I first went in the Army, they were just Moyer is shown here at the U.S. Army tent hospital where she starting to use penicillin. It was a water solution. worked. This little black pup was the platoon’s mascot and pet. We would mix the powder and inject it every ‘We named him Gerry because of the Germans.’ three hours,” said Moyer. “The GIs carried sulfanilamide powder to sprinkle on wounds to Moyer picked up a few German words while caring prevent infection.” for the German soldiers. Schmerzen indicated pain or The platoons in the field hospital would try to stay hurt and was a word she heard often from her patients. ahead of the action and keep up with constant flow of Eventually, her unit moved forward to St. Vith, patients. Belgium, a crossroads within the Ardennes Forest. She “We would begin moving and start leap-frogging was there when the Battle of the Bulge began on Dec. with the other platoons,” said Moyer. They continued 16, 1944, in bitter cold. working with the 1st Army until the St. Lo break“The nurses were evacuated in the back of an ambuthrough in July 1944 when they were moved to the 3rd lance leaving two doctors and seven corpsmen behind Army under Gen. George S. Patton. to care for patients,” she said. Those members of their “We followed Patton all the way through France,” platoon were captured when the Germans took St. she said. “We increased from 30 cots to 100 cots, Vith. setting up more tents. All the platoons did.” “We could see out of the back window (as we were Not only were they caring for Allied troops, but the leaving) and the Germans were coming. St. Vith was platoon also took in enemy soldiers. being shelled,” she said. They went to a place near “We had a number of German prisoners, and that Sedan, France to seek shelter during the invasion. was different because of the language barrier,” said “All nine were finally freed, and our last corpsman Moyer. “Also, they had been indoctrinated since they came back to us on Christmas Day. It was the best were children and were very disrespectful to the nurses Christmas present we could ask for.” until we got a POW German doctor who straightened them out. They didn’t trust us, and they weren’t Continued on Page 18 supposed to.” SeniorConnectionWaco.com SeniorConnectionWaco.com February February2015 2015 17 Continued from Page 17 Martha Meers (right) shows off her newly issued long johns, gas mask and helmet with her friend and fellow nurse, Maxine Dow, from Iowa. ‘We dressed up to show off our new equipment.’ The sudden move meant the platoon, which was constantly dodging the enemy while tending to the wounded, had to rebuild. “We had lost all of our equipment again. We were re-equipped and started out again crossing the Rhine River to Cologne, Germany,” said Moyer. Amidst all the surreal events of the war, Moyer remembers the moment that for her was the most unnerving. It happened when her platoon was in Germany. “We were in a building, and we had the little dog with us,” said Moyer. “We were on R&R between patients. My friend and I were in one room, and we kept hearing the shelling. We tried to get under the bed but couldn’t. The echo reverberated between the two brick buildings, and we were just sure that building was going to go.” 18 Senior Connection When the women emerged, they learned that the shelling had sounded closer than it actually was because of the echo between the buildings. “I don’t remember being scared. We were just doing our job, and we were where we were supposed to be,” said Moyer. “I just had a feeling that God would take care of us. I wasn’t really that religious at the time. I took my training at a Catholic hospital, and I went to Sunday School as a kid, but I’m fairly ecumenical.” Moyer was officially discharged in January 1946 as a captain. When the war ended, Moyer was sent to Fort Sheridan near Chicago. “Of course, they wanted me to stay in the Army and go to San Antonio,” said Moyer. “I liked the Army, but I wanted to get married and have a family. At that time, a woman couldn’t be married and be in the Army. A lot has changed since then.” Although Moyer didn’t choose the Army life as her career, her days taking care of the young men who served in World War II remain with her. “I went back to Normandy on the 50th anniversary, and it was very emotional to see all those crosses and Stars of David at Omaha Beach. They were all very young,” said Moyer. “At the Battle of the Bulge, when the infantry came in, those boys hadn’t been in the Army 30 to 60 days. They weren’t even dry behind the ears.” Life after the war In 1946, Martha Meer married Robert Moyer, a childhood friend who had served in the Army in the South Pacific. “He went to work for Rocketdyne in Missouri and was transferred to McGregor in 1960,” she said. He passed away in 1974. The couple had two daughters, Robin Christian, who is a nurse in Georgetown, and Stephanie Hannemann. Moyer now boasts three grandchildren and five greatgrandchildren. Martha Moyer continued her nursing career, working in hospitals and clinics bejore the joining the team at Westview Manor in McGregor where she still works with patient records. In 1966, Dr. L.E. Robertson and his brother, Dr. W.C. Robertson, and businessman Jimmy Gilmore built Westview Manor. Moyer joined the staff and wore the dual hat of administrator and director of nurses until the home began accepting Medicare patients. ConnectingSeniors Seniors&&Sharing SharingStories StoriesininGreater GreaterWaco Waco Connecting “So they said I was wearing too many hats, and they hired another administrator. I remained the director of nurses for 22 years and then tried to retire a couple of times,” she said. She worked as the infection control and quality assurance nurse for two or three years and retired for three months before returning to help with discharge summaries. “I told them I would come back, but this time I would be staying until they put me in a bed,” she said. While caring for the nursing home patients, Moyer also played a key role in caring for the community. In 1978, the community set up an EMS for Crawford, Moody and McGregor. The EMS continued as an all-volunteer service until December 2013, when Coryell Memorial EMS began providing ambulance and emergency services. Moyer became an Emergency Care Attendant (ECA), and later was certified as an Emergency Medical Technician (EMT) so that she could teach those who volunteered with the new ambulance service. She Martha Moyer shows off some of her commendations, continued to work as an EMT until she was 80. including the French Legion of Honor, for her service as a She also was named McGregor’s Outstanding nurse for the U.S. Army during World War II. Citizen in 1978 and received the Chamber’s Lifetime Photo by Lesly Rascoe Achievement award in 2012. Moyer also has received the Community Builder Award from the Masonic Grand Lodge of Texas. She was named the Outstanding Older Worker of Texas in 2007 and attended a recognition ceremony in Washington DC along with honorees from every state. Sharing her story Most recently, she received the French Legion of Honor Award Nov. 14 at Fort Sam Houston in San Antonio for her service during World War II. The highest French decoration was established by Napoleon Bonaparte to recognize eminent merits of service in France and may be awarded to French citizens and foreign nationals. Of the 22 World War II veterans honored that day, Moyer was the only woman. The chief nurse at the hospital at Fort Sam Houston thanked Moyer for paving the way for future women in the Army. In June 2014, Moyer returned to Fort Leonard Wood, at the invitation of her great nephew, Command Sergeant Major Tim Meers of the Missouri Army National Guard. Back at her original base, she toured the new hospital and the John B. Mahaffey Museum complex and shared her story with hospital personnel and the Missouri National Guard historian. SC SeniorConnectionWaco.com SeniorConnectionWaco.com February February2015 2015 19 If walls could talk…. Old country church still resonates with history of days gone by By LESLY RASCOE About 10 years later, it appears the church divided into two congregations, and the Eagle Springs Baptist The Eagle Springs Baptist Church is a place where church was formed. Its early parishioners included future Texas Governor and president of Baylor history has been made since it was founded by Texas University Pat Neff and members of his family. pioneers on the banks of Onion Creek in Coryell “Neff joined the church at a young age and was County. baptized in nearby Onion Creek. Neff always considIts walls have withstood the test of time, and the church maintains a loyal following of people who ered this church as the origin of his religious beliefs,” according to On the banks of Onion Creek.., an continue to honor its story with an annual historical account of the church’s past that was pubhomecoming celebration. lished in 1998 to commemorate its 140th anniversary. The original Onion Creek Church was founded The exact date of construction of the current in 1858 by the Rev. John McClain, who would visit building is not certain but is believed to be in the mid neighboring communities on horseback inviting the pioneering farmers and their families to attend church. to late 1870s. Cypress wood was hauled by oxen-pulled wagons He offered to pastor a log church that was being from Galveston for the church’s siding. The original constructed on the creek. Church historians believe wood floors and pews still welcome guests who visit that church burned about a year after its construction the church. Its two front doors allowed the women and and was rebuilt. children to enter on the left and men on the right. The Church legend says that Rev. McClain preached men bore guns on their knees in case services were against the rampant problem of horse stealing during his time. Word got out that the preacher should refrain interrupted by a Comanche attack. “That is what is so valuable about a church like this,” from his weekly sermons against this profitable—yet said trustee and historian Martha Deeringer. “This is illegal—practice. His life was threatened, and the what a church was like 150 years ago. People still pastor was forced to hide in the woods until things worshipped God even in these primitive conditions.” cooled down. The church served as a stepping stone for many of A group of lawmen and citizens took care of the outlaws re-establishing law and order in Eagle Springs. its early pastors who were young ministerial students from Baylor University. Its historical rosters boast of Rev. McClain returned to the pulpit and continued as men who would later become noted pastors in the pastor until 1868. Southern Baptist Convention. The church remains the only building of the once thriving community of Eagle Springs that withered away when it was passed up by the railroad. The congregation finally voted to disband in 1948 electing trustees to maintain the building for weddings, funerals and annual homecomings. The church basically stood empty for half a century until retired Baptist minister Rev. Marion Ford resurrected it in 1998 with old-fashioned Gospel music and preaching. The beloved relic received a makeover that retained its historic atmosphere while preserving it for future generations. The building was levelled This historical photo at Eagle Springs Baptist Church bears a note and painted and wiring was replaced. Ceiling fans saying the man sitting on the step is Gov. Pat Neff. were installed. New doors were hung, and a Photo courtesy of Eagle Springs Baptist Church concrete ramp was built. 20 Senior Connection Connecting Seniors & Sharing Stories in Greater Waco The Eagle Springs Baptist Church is one of only a few Baptist churches left in Texas with side-by-side doors, according to the Texas Historical Commission. Women and children entered on the left while men entered on the right. Photos by Lesly Rascoe This hard work resulted in a phase of tremendous growth, and a new modern structure was built to accommodate the congregation. The historic church was nearly destroyed by a tornado in 2006 and was slated for destruction. Its historical significance inspired a group of parishioners to raise money and begin restorations again. The church was moved to a nearby grove of trees on private property next to the Eagle Springs Cemetery. The grave of the church’s founding pastor can be seen from its steps. It bears a designation from the Texas Historial Commission and is maintained through private donations. Eagle Springs Baptist Church is located just off FM 107 between Moody and Gatesville. For more information, visit Rootsweb.ancestry.com/~txhesbca. SC The original wood floors, pews and pulpit are some of the original historical features at Eagle Springs Baptist Church. An original light fixture from the church was fashioned into a lamp and rests on the piano. SeniorConnectionWaco.com February 2015 21 SeniorConnectionWaco.com February 2015 21 Publisher’s note... My great-grandparents, Katura Green Wheat and Thomas Carroll Porterfield, were married on Nov. 20, 1898, by the Rev. John McClain at Eagle Springs Baptist Church. David Scott, a church historian, told me that Rev. McClain continued to marry young couples long after his retirement as pastor of the church. Katie and Carroll had nine children. Their daughter, Robbie Lorraine Porterfield Kirk, 95, still lives Katura Green Wheat and Thomas Carroll Porterfield were married in 1898 at the Eagle in Bellmead. Their Springs Baptist Church. youngest child, Ernest Katie and Carroll are buried at Moody Cemetery along Carroll Porterfield, with other family members. LR was my grandfather and passed in 2002. 22 Senior Connection Connecting Seniors & Sharing Stories in Greater Waco Cooking from the Heart A heart healthy diet is plant-based, rich in antioxidants By ROBIN JEEP Your body is a super self-healing machine if you give it the right fuel. A plant-based diet rich in antioxidants (protection against disease) and micro-nutrients (essential nutrients in vitamins and minerals) has shown itself to be the fuel to protect your body against such conditions as coronary disease, Type II diabetes and cancer. The Standard American Diet, lacking in antioxidants, micro-nutrients and fiber while at the same time rich in fat, animal protein and processed foods, is a formula for chronic illness such as heart disease. Two of the best ways you can protect your heart is to read New York Times best-sellers: Reverse and Protect Heart Disease by Caldwell B. Esselstyn, Jr. MD and Eat To Live by Joel Fuhrman MD. Dr. Esselstyn challenged conventional cardiology by proving with amazing results that patients who followed his groundbreaking plant-based nutrition program can not only prevent and stop the progression of heart disease but also reverse its effects. Dr. Esselstyn was a surgeon, clinician and researcher at the Cleveland Clinic for more than 35 years, where he was a member of the board of governors and president of the staff. He and his family are on a mission to turn around America’s health crisis. For more information, visit DrEsselstyn.com. Dr. Joel Fuhrman, another brilliant out-of-the-box thinker, is a board-certified family physician and nutritional researcher who specializes in preventing and reversing disease through nutritional and natural methods. I highly recommend any of his books or his powerfully motivating DVDs at DrFuhrman.com. While working as Dr. Fuhrman’s dietary assistant in his New Jersey clinic, it became commonplace to witness his patients recover from serious heart disease and other chronic illnesses on a daily basis. This work inspired me to develop recipes that are rich in antioxidants. This recipe for Veggie Wraps is easy and delicious. It appears in my book, The Super Antioxidant Diet and Nutrition Guide, in which I collaborated with Richard Couey PhD. Veggie Wraps Serves 4 1 cup cooked or canned lentils or beans ½ cup chopped celery 1 orange, peeled, pressed or minced ½ tablespoon balsamic vinegar 3 teaspoons cold-pressed virgin olive oil 1 tablespoon dried currants ¼ cup chopped red bell pepper, seeds removed 1 tablespoon chopped parsley 1 tablespoon chopped mint 1 teaspoon Bragg’s Liquid Amino Acids 1 tablespoon nutritional yeast ½ cup coarsely chopped walnuts 12 large leaf lettuce leaves Combine all ingredients except for lettuce leaves. Spread mixture on each lettuce leaf and roll. Chef Robin Jeep is the creator of Vibrant Cuisine® and the visionary behind Clean Eats Gourmet Meals and education program. For more information, visit RobinJeep.com. SC SeniorConnectionWaco.com February 2015 23 Senior Money Management Estate planning involves five core documents By LESLY RASCOE Preparing for the transfer of assets at the end of one’s life is just one important part of basic estate planning. It also involves making medical decisions and allowing family members to help when an individual is unable to make decisions on their own. “No matter how much we talk about it, many people neglect it,” said attorney and estate planning expert Elisa Rainey. She recommends five core documents to ensure that a person has considered and set in place directives for both their property and their physical wellbeing: a will, durable power of attorney for financial matters, directive to physicians (also known as a living will), HIPAA (Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act ) authorization and health care power of attorney. “These are the five I recommend regardless of age for adults on up to end of life. Obviously, as we age the likelihood that we need one is much higher, but we can have an emergency at any age,” said Rainey. While many people will ask about a revocable living trust, most clients do not need this instrument in Texas since the probate process here is very efficient and much more affordable than in other states, said Rainey. “In Texas, we have independent administration, and most people are better off with just a will instead of going to the expense and administrative obligation of a trust,” she said. However, trusts can be helpful in the case of heirs who are very young, disabled or who need long-term management of the trust. “A will is very important even for someone with a very simple estate. If we have to probate, it’s much easier and much less expensive if we have a will,” said Rainey. Probate is the process in which the court puts the will into effect after a person’s passing. In some cases, this step can be bypassed such as if a person has sold all their property and put their money in an account with their children named as beneficiaries or for contracts such as life insurance or retirement accounts. A durable power of attorney for financial matters allows a designated agent to make financial decisions on behalf of the client. “One of the biggest decisions that a person makes when drafting their power of attorney is when the power kicks in. We can draft it so that the agent has authority immediately or when the person is incapable of making their own decisions. I usually recommend that they make it effective immediately because it can be unclear when capacity is diminished,” said Rainey. “It is critical that you have confidence in the integrity of your agent. 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