Spring 2015 Lent & Easter Worship Wednesdays in Lent: February 25 to April 1 7:30 a.m. Holy Eucharist March 29– Palm Sunday 8:00 a.m. Holy Communion 10:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist March 30 to April 1 – Holy Week 7:30 p.m. Quiet reflection and personal confession (optional) April 2 – Maundy Thursday 7:30 p.m. Holy Eucharist and stripping of the altar April 3 – Good Friday 10:00 a.m. The Passion Story April 5 – Easter Sunday 8:00 a.m. Holy Communion 10:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist Worship Services Every Sunday: 8:00 a.m. Quiet Communion Last Sunday of the Month: 10:00 a.m. Morning Praise All other Sundays: 10:00 a.m. Holy Eucharist St John’s York Mills Anglican Church 19 Don Ridge Drive Toronto, Ontario M2P 1H3 Phone: 416-225-6611 Fax: 416-225-6081 [email protected] | www.sjym.ca www.facebook.com/SJYMAnglicanChurch RECTOR’S REFLECTIONS Sabbatical: adj. Of or appropriate to the Sabbath; [1] seventh year in which Israelites were to cease tilling and release debtors and Israelite slaves , [2] period of leave granted at intervals to university professor, teacher, missionary, etc. for study, travel, approximately every seventh year. [Oxford Dictionary] As you are all well aware by now, I am taking a brief three month sabbatical after Easter, returning in August. My primary hope is to gain some perspective on my leadership role at SJYM and in particular to help me discern how best to chart the waters ahead over the next few years. Although we have seen some growth in the parish, I believe largely due to a renewed commitment to our children’s ministry and to the welcome committee, I am confident that there are other areas where we can improve. Part of the struggle is that our Canadian society is largely influenced more and more by secular values. Thus building a vibrant faith community is an ever increasing challenge. Unlike many churches that are literally on major streets and can often rely on “walk-in” traffic, we at SJYM do not have that luxury. It is striking how few people even know that our Church exists and this is an ongoing problem. Despite new signage in the neighbourhood, we all understand that Church growth is infinitely more complicated than providing proper advertising. It seems clear that there are many churches that are indeed growing, some more rapidly than SJYM and it is my desire to study and reflect on what some of those success stories are. For example, should we focus on bringing thoughtful and inspiring speakers to SJYM, helping us to grow personally and corporately? Should we commit ourselves to providing quality marital and counselling services to the community? Should we develop more educational and spiritual practices unique to the men/women in our parish? (Research clearly shows that men and women experience and worship God differently.) Could our very liturgy be a deterrent to growth or is it our great strength? Clearly the non-denominational churches are growing in Canada more substantially than most of the liturgical mainline churches such as ours. Is there a way for us to offer a greater variety of worship services without fracturing the present goodness currently within our walls? Clearly this is a complex subject and there are people who study, write, and reflect on these topics full-time. I do not have that luxury but feel that it would be time well spent for me to speak with academics, bishops, and especially successful clergy as to what is working for them, what is essential for continued growth in this increasingly complex world. I am also looking forward to a more sustained and deliberate prayer life as I am confident Continued on page 2 Rector’s Reflections Continued from page 1 that our Lord may have some things to say about this topic as well! For these reasons I am taking this time apart to reflect, pray, read, study, and talk to people that I may provide more effective leadership to you the people of SJYM. My prayer is for your continued spiritual growth, and it is my hope that my obedience to this task will help bring that prayer to fulfillment. God’s Richest Blessings, Rector, SJYM DEACON CATHERINE’S DIARY Dear friends in Christ Although I am not there to share in this Lenten and Easter Season please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I look forward to returning to my diaconal duties after Easter, when I will again be assisting with the liturgy, visiting Cedarhurst, leading the Monday afternoon bible study, attending the Blown Away Children’s Ministry Conference, and seeing all of you. As we begin the Lenten and Easter season, I pray that you and your families will feel God’s presence, His love, His comfort and support. May you be blessed with good health, lots of happiness, and joy in the Lord. Rev. Dr. Catherine Keating, Deacon MEET JIM PARRISH, DEPUTY WARDEN I was born and raised in Toronto, beginning in Leaside where I was baptised at Leaside United Church. My family moved to the York Mills area in 1955 and joined Trinity Presbyterian Church, where I was confirmed at the age of 13. My church service began there as a pianist for the junior Sunday school. I attended Harrison Road Public School and York Mills Collegiate. In the early 1970s, my parents, Eleanor and Don, and I joined St. John’s and were confirmed into the Anglican Church in response to the welcoming Anglican ministry of Canon Jim O’Neil and Archdeacon Terence Crosthwait. My wife Vicki (nee Anglin) and I were married in 1983 at Timothy Eaton Memorial (United), with Jim O’Neil copresiding. My family and I have been involved in many facets of St. John’s life over the years. My father and I served as sidesmen. Our children, James and Kristine, were baptized and confirmed at St. John’s and were part of the Sunday school, youth groups, and Handbell choirs. Vicki has had many roles, and I continue to serve as a Eucharistic minister. I attended U of T from 1967-78, graduating with degrees in Electrical and Biomedical Engineering and then Medicine. During that time I was part of St. John’s Server’s Guild and Head Server from 1972 to 1977 under the guidance of Rev. Margery Pezzack. After residencies at North York General and Sunnybrook hospitals, I joined Bayview Medical Centre in 1980 as a family physician, and during my 34 year practice treated many St. John’s parishioners and clergy. I retired in December, 2013, and now enjoy more time for travel, tennis, swimming, tai chi, gardening, reading, and involvement at St. John’s. I am honoured to be an appointed deputy warden and look forward to serving St. John’s in this capacity. Jim Parrish The Link is published 4 times per year by St John’s York Mills Anglican Church. Items for inclusion are subject to editing and should be submitted to [email protected] Related high resolution digital photos may be submitted as well. Next Issue: Summer 2014 copy deadline is April 15 for a mid-May mailing. Editor: Patricia Smith Designer: Catherine Bryant FROM YOUR WARDENS Looking back at life at St. John’s since the end of the renovation, beginning with the re-dedication of the sanctuary on November 2, and culminating in the four wonderful services on Christmas Eve and Christmas morning, we are struck by the enthusiastic spirit of our congregation and the renewed commitment to God’s work that we feel in our community, both within our church and without. Wonderful things are happening at St. John’s in Children’s Ministry, in the Welcome Ministry, in the Barnabas group, and in the music program. The people who offer us coffee and goodies on a Sunday morning, the tech crew who bring us the wonderful audio-visual content of our services, the Ringers and Chimers who raise money for worthwhile outreach charities, our hardworking verger and sexton, the staff and volunteers in the office, and so many more people are all part of the vibrant fabric that makes up our church. If you want to get involved in church life, there are many opportunities, no matter your skill set or your time limitations. We want you as a parishioner of St. John’s to take advantage of the spiritual nourishment that is offered here, but we would ask also that you re-dedicate yourself this year to God’s church and to the life of our community. Speak to any of the clergy or wardens if you want to be involved and have not yet found your spot. If you cannot help physically, your financial support and prayers are also needed as we head into the first full year of our renewal. As we look ahead to a busy year, with preparations for the anniversary year of 2016 gearing up and possible Phase Three renovations happening, we would like to take this opportunity to introduce you on these pages to the leadership at St. John’s. If you have concerns which are not pastoral in nature but which you would like to bring to the attention of the wardens or members of Parish Council, please do not hesitate to do so. We represent you and we want to hear your opinions. Work is still going on in the aftermath of the renovation; not everything is in place yet and not every detail has been worked out. Keeping that in mind, we are still pleased to hear your ideas and listen to your concerns. On Christmas Eve, we introduced a new 4:00 p.m. service for families with very young children. If you were at that service, please let us know what you thought. For those who attended our later traditional Christmas Eve services and Christmas morning service, we are interested to know if those services met your spiritual needs. Please know that we welcome dialogue with you at any time. As we enter 2015, let all of us at St. John’s re-dedicate ourselves to knowing Christ and making him known. Your Wardens Churchwardens Deputy Wardens Sylvia McConnell People’s Warden Max Dionisio (elected) Mo Bent Rector’s Warden Jim Parrish (appointed) Suzanne Sutherland Hugh Moore (elected) (appointed) Other Members of Parish Council Synod Delegates: Max Dionisio, Para Sathi, and Peter Raynham Members-at-large (elected): Charlotte Orser, Michele Church, and Damien Benedict Members-at-large (appointed): Peter Miller, Petra Rattray Green, and Giovanna Sirianni Treasurer: Martin Block “BEING PRESENT” IN GOD’S PRESENCE When I was a very young boy, I remember being given a small, fold-up box at the beginning of Lent at my home church. After assembling this quaint little box, I was instructed to insert a quarter into it daily. After forty days of feeding the cardboard containers with loose change, the money I’d set aside was then put towards my church. To this day, I’m still not entirely sure what the purpose of the exercise was. Perhaps it was meant to teach us “young’uns” that Lent was about tithing. Maybe it was instructing us how to be financially savvy at an early age. Or it might have been an attempt to turn us all into good little fundraisers for the church. Whatever the objective, it left me scratching my little red-haired head and asking: “What does giving all my quarters, er… my mother’s quarters to the church have anything to do with God?” Have you ever been asked the question: “What are you giving up for Lent this year?” Many of my acquaintances – both “churched” and “unchurched” – see Lent as a time to “give something up” or, conversely, “take something up”. To some, the season of Lent and the secular New Year are interchangeable: both present an opportunity for new beginnings or a “fresh start”. Lists of resolutions are penned and personal goals with deadlines are set in hopes of rebuilding a more fulfilling life. Some of these goals include: abstaining from eating chocolate, going to the gym more often, or taking a “break” from Facebook. Don’t get me wrong. I avoid consuming sugary foods, I lead a physically active lifestyle, and I require time away from social media once in a while. But when we say that we’re “giving something up” or “taking something up” in the name of Lent, I’m always taken back to that place of asking: “How does this have anything to do with God?” After many years of thought, discussion, and prayer, I’ve arrived at a rather satisfying conclusion: it has everything to do with God! I feel I am in God’s holy presence the most when I am living in the present, in the now, in every God-given moment. By the same token, I feel most distant from God when my mind and heart are fixed on matters of the past and/or the future. Jesus was on to something when he asked his disciples: “Can anxious thought add a single day to your life?” (Matthew 6: 27; Luke 12: 25). This helps explain why I felt so spiritually disconnected from that curious Lenten “piggy bank” exercise in my youth: the emphasis was more on some goal in the future and less on the daily journey in the present. We all perceive God and experience God’s presence in different ways. For me, some of my most profound “God moments” occur when I’m going about my daily activities. Currently, one of my greatest joys is cooking. While I often strive to create meals that are both healthy and “look good enough to eat” (literally!), for me, the most enjoyable part of the process is collecting and then admiring all the different ingredients that God has created for me to use in my cooking. I admire how they look, how they smell, how they taste, and what they feel like in my hands. I ponder how they were grown and cared for, what part of the world they came from, and how they came to be in my possession. All of these thoughts, feelings, and sensations are rooted in the present moment – the “red-hot minute” – and I give thanks to God that He’s gifted me with the physical senses to fully appreciate what He has created and provided for me. Saint Paul sums it up pretty well in his First Letter to the Corinthians: “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10: 31). I also experience God’s presence when I’m being physically active. For the past year-and-a-half, I’ve been practicing Bikram Yoga at a hot yoga studio located near my home in the Beaches. For those not entirely familiar with the practice, Bikram Yoga classes run for 90 minutes in a room heated to 40 degrees Celsius and consist of the same series of 26 postures and 2 breathing exercises. (This is not unlike the Anglican order of service, which is comprised of a sequence of recurring liturgical items.) While Bikram Yoga offers a multitude of physical benefits, it also teaches us how to quiet the mind by focusing on our breath; by turning our attention to how we’re breathing, it’s encouraging us to be present, to (literally!) “Live and move and have our being” (Acts 17: 28) in the “here-and-now”. You see, the breath is God’s first – and perhaps his most significant – gift to humankind: it is what gives us life! The Book of Genesis tells us: “Then the LORD God formed a man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being” (Genesis 2: 7). By contemplating God’s life-giving breath, I can’t help but consider the other ways in which God has blessed and continues to bless my life. It fills me with a sense of wonder and peace. The prophet Isaiah said it best when he wrote: “You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you” (Isaiah 23: 6). And, of course, it wouldn’t be an article from your music director unless I said a word or two about music! Creating music, whether playing for a religious service or at a recital, is an activity that exists only in the present. As both a church musician and organ recitalist, many hours of my life go into planning and preparing all kinds of liturgical and concert music; yet, plan and prepare as I may, the act of making music always occurs in the present, in the now! Every musical performance, recorded or live, read off a score or improvised, is a creative and interpretive expression of the moment. When I play the same piece of music more than once, no two performances are the ever same: each performance is unique and unfolds in the present! If you take a look at the Psalms, you’ll notice that not only are many of the verses written in the imperative but also in the present tense: “Come, let us sing for joy to the Lord; let us shout aloud to the Rock of our salvation” (Psalm 95: 1); “Sing to him, sing praise to him; tell of all his wonderful acts” (Psalm 105: 2); “Praise him with the sounding of the trumpet, praise him with the harp and lyre, praise him with timbrel and dancing, praise him with the strings and pipe, praise him with the clash of cymbals, praise him with resounding cymbals” (Psalm 150: 3-5). The Psalmist doesn’t want us to sit around and wait to lift up our praises to God in song: clearly, he wants us to sing and make music to God right now, this “red-hot minute”! With the season of Lent right around the corner, I’m reminded of a sermon that was preached on Ash Wednesday by the rector of my previous parish. His sermon began and ended with the words: “Lent is not a diet!” Tongue-in-cheek as it was, the preacher’s point was that Lent should be a time of seeking God and drawing closer to His presence… and what better way to experience His presence than by seeking Him out in the present, right here and right now. Our very own band leader, Rob Ellis, often refers to “Ordinary Time” in the church calendar as “Extraordinary Time”… and to that end, I invite you to seek the “extraordinary” in the “ordinary”; the divine in the mundane; and the “Alpha and the Omega, the First and the Last, the Beginning and the End” (Revelation 22: 13) in the here and now. Patrick Dewell, Music Director, your Brother in Christ CHRISTIAN FOR A REASON Michael Coren is a British-Canadian columnist, author, public speaker, radio host, and television talk show host. remains connected to the ecumenical scene in Canada and beyond. His articles and speeches often include stories of his own personal spiritual journey. Coren's father was Jewish, as was his maternal grandfather. His maternal grandmother came from a family of Welsh coalminers and converted to Judaism. Coren converted to Roman Catholicism in his early twenties while still living in England, but that didn't last long. He said that he had "converted to an institution." He eventually converted to evangelical Christianity in the 1990s, after a conversion experience as an adult, which was greatly influenced by Canadian televangelist Terry Winter. In early 2004, Michael embraced Catholicism again. He cites St. Thomas More, C. S. Lewis, Ronald Knox, and his godfather, Lord Longford, as spiritual influences, and He hosted the television talk show The Michael Coren Show on the Crossroads Television System from 1999 to 2011, when he moved to the Sun News Network to host an evening talk show, The Arena with Michael Coren. He has also been a long-time radio personality, particularly on CFRB radio. Michael has written more than ten books, including biographies of G. K. Chesterton, H. G. Wells, Arthur Conan Doyle, and C. S. Lewis. His latest books include: Why Catholics are Right, and Hatred: Islam’s War on Christianity. Come hear him speak at St. John’s York Mills, on Monday, March 23 at 6:30 p.m. It should be an interesting event! THE MCCOLLUM FUND On November 25, 2014, the Trustees of Archdeacon A.C. McCollum Fund met to review ten strong applications. This year, the committee decided to award a $5,000 bursary. After much discussion, we selected three students to share the bursary. All awardees attend Wycliffe College and are currently pursuing a Masters of Divinity. The co-chairs wish to thank all the members of the committee for their hard work in reviewing the applications. John Sundara (awarded $2,000) I am currently a student at Wycliffe seminary and a recent recipient of the McCollum scholarship. I hope to become a postulant in the Diocese of Toronto. Naomi, my wife, is also a lifelong Anglican from Alberta and a part-time student at Wycliffe while she continues working full-time in a Christian university ministry. Born and baptized in Chennai, in the (Anglican) Church of South India, I grew up in a very multireligious context with Hindu and Muslim neighbours. As well, studying at a Hindu private school helped me appreciate other religions and faiths, but more importantly, it helped me deeply understand and love Christ’s uniqueness. My family immigrated to Vancouver when I was in high school. I attended St. Cuthbert’s (Anglican Church of Canada) and was confirmed in the Diocese of New Westminster in 2004. I was the youth worker at St. Cuthbert’s for 5-6 years. Around that time I was also a premed student at UBC, and involved with Power to Change (P2C), an interdenominational Christian university ministry that emphasizes Bible study, outreach, and discipleship. It was a very spiritually formative season, especially since many of my classes emphasized a very secular and unexaggeratedly anti-religious perception of the world devoid of a practical relationship with God, and definitely not God in Christ. After graduation in 2007, I interned with P2C, which led to my joining staff with P2C for a few years, helping students find real faith in Christ and live out God’s Word in their contexts. As you can tell, Med School was not really the next step after my time at UBC. Much of this was because I sensed Christ drawing me to follow him by participating in full-time ministry. Now, being a student at Wycliffe, I am sensing a further call to ordained ministry and am prayerfully seeking how I can continue being faithful and obedient to our Lord. I am in the process of being accepted as a postulant in the Diocese of Toronto. I thank you for your generous bursary to help Naomi and me pay for my fees as I follow the Lord. Elizabeth Martin (awarded $2,000) Elizabeth Achimah (Martin) is a Masters of Divinity Student in the pioneer stream at Wycliffe College. She is passionate about joining God's heart for those in the neighbourhood who do not know God's love. She has offered contextually based youth mentorship programs in various churches in Toronto. She is now working with the Church of the Resurrection to explore the need for Anglican ministry in the St. Clair/O'Connor area. She is currently leading a team to start a youth drop-in, Side Door, which seeks to provide a safe environment for youth to explore questions of life over board games, art, sports, and conversation. In her free time, she can be found hanging out with her cat Shalom, cooking food from around the world, playing the guitar, or working on some kind of writing project. Stephen Monk (awarded $1,000) I have attended Wycliffe College as a part-time student since 2010. I’ve discerned my ministry for almost ten years. I originally thought that my role was as a Permanent Deacon, serving my parish and the community. Prayer, service to SJYM, my studies, and further discernment have led me to discover that my calling is as a full-time priest in the diocese of Toronto. SJYM has a history of church planting and I hope to continue that tradition—not building a congregation from nothing but taking a struggling parish and helping it to go through the transformation that St John’s has gone through. I hope that you can take part in this transformation by praying for me. I thank SJYM for the faith that it has in me by awarding me this bursary. I hope to do you proud. Max Dionisio, McCollum Fund Co-Chair SECOND CHANCE St. John’s will be hosting an event for young adults called “Second Chance” on Saturday February 28th at 5 pm. St. John's York Mills Anglican Church will collaborate with other local churches in North Toronto that are Anglican and ecumenical to host a free event for young adults over 17 to come as they are and encounter the love of God. This event is for people to get away from the busyness of the world and just worship God. Our mission is to build up people of power who can effectively seek change in communities with a strong biblical foundation. Faithbased institutions should be relations-based and focus on building communities with Jesus at the center. The night will consist of a free dinner, 2 young adults’ worship bands, a testimony and guest speaker. When we launched this in November we had approximately 65 attendees. We encourage people to come and to bring friends. If you have any questions, concerns, or would like more information, please contact Chantal Sathi. Blessings and Love, Chantal Sathi [email protected] SLEEP OVER AT SJYM—THE INSIDE STORY On a Sunday morning, along with all the other announcements, we sometimes hear about our youth groups that have slept over in the church the night before. This news is usually delivered by sleepy-eyed youth leaders that I assume spent more time awake than asleep. I know what it’s like to come to morning services when the church is filled with light, with the sounds of children chattering, and with conversations going on everywhere. Coming into the church for meetings in the evening, the church is hushed and it takes on a more sombre countenance. There is a different feeling about the place at night. It got me wondering what it would be like to be in the church all night long. So on the morning of Sunday, February 2nd, I met some of the kids who had spent the night at the church and asked them what it was like to sleep over. I didn’t have a chance to speak with all of them; however, Declan, Katie, Jacob, Matthew, Emmanuel, Sarah, and Jessica gave me the low down. They all agreed that sleeping over in the church was great fun. After watching the movie Facing the Giants they played games. Apparently food plays a big part of the evening. There was pizza, pasta, and chicken fingers. Carbs are apparently a key ingredient to the success of the event! I asked them, “What was it like?” They told me it was dark, scary, and spooky. These observations may have been influenced by the youth playing hide ‘n seek and cops and robbers. Running along the corridors with only the red exit signs glowing added to the overall ambiance. “Where did you sleep?” I asked them. The boys slept in the Marsh room and turned the lights out well after midnight. The girls slept in Chantal’s office. Have you seen those rooms? They are good enough for office space, but hardly the lap of luxury (or even modest comfort) for getting a good night’s sleep, I would imagine. So, when I spoke with the young people on Sunday morning, they were getting organized for the service amid the excited chatter of the night before. The youth woke up around 8:00 a.m. Sunday morning and prepared the soup for our Souper Bowl Sunday event. The seafood chowder was delicious, which is testament, I’m sure, to the energy produced by the in-take of carbs and the endurance of youth. So, my curiosity satisfied, I personally commend Chantal and Nathan for hosting these events and I thank them most sincerely for making them such a fun event for our youth. Great job you two! Suzanne Sutherland, Deputy Warden A Kaleidoscope of Chords and Colours MusicFest 2015 Sunday, May 3, 2015 A fun-filled music concert for all ages 3:00 pm An amazing mix of English Handbells, Chimes, Band, Organ, Percussion, Guitars, Sax, Piano and Voices Doors open 2:30 p.m. Tickets: Adults $15 / Children $5 416-225-6611 or [email protected] 12TH ANNUAL SILENT FILM NIGHT SERIES The popular Silent Film series continues in its 12th year with screenings on Saturday, February 21, at 7:30 p.m. and Saturday, April 18, at 7:30 p.m. Each night, internationally-acclaimed silent film accompanist William O’Meara will provide improvised accompaniment on the organ. Admission is free. Donation proceeds from the evenings will be directed to FaithWorks. On Saturday, February 21, at 7:30 p.m., we will be presenting the comedy For Heaven’s Sake (1926, 58 minutes) starring Harold Lloyd. In For Heaven’s Sake, Harold is a young, carefree millionaire who unwittingly makes a donation that is used to start a Christian mission led by Brother Paul in the poor part of town. Harold is initially indignant when he learns that his name is associated with the mission, but he soon falls in love with Brother Paul’s daughter, Hope. To impress Hope, Harold goes to great lengths to The 2015 Silent Film series will continue on Saturday, April 18 at 7:30 p.m. with the screening of another comedy. The current plans are to present on April 18 The Navigator (1924, 59 minutes) starring Buster Keaton. Please join us for the silent movie screenings on Saturday, February 21, at 7:30 p.m. and Saturday, April 18 at 7:30 p.m. and be sure to invite your friends. Lychgate welcomes Kathy Knowles Director of Osu Children’s Library Fund attract members of the pool hall gang to the mission. When Harold and Hope announce their engagement, Harold’s wealthy friends try to prevent him from marrying beneath his station. Harold, though, is determined to marry the woman he loves. The leading film critic Leonard Maltin gave For Heaven’s Sake a rating of four stars out of four and described the movie as “screamingly funny”. The Osu Children’s Library Fund is a Canadian not for profit charity that brings the love of reading to children in Africa. In 1989, Kathy’s husband accepted a position in Ghana, Africa. She noticed that the local children did not have the opportunity to read storybooks, so she started a reading circle under a tree. The children loved it, and so it ‘grew’ into the ‘Library Tree’. Since then, the Osu Children’s Library Fund of Canada and the Osu Library Fund of Ghana have built 7 large community libraries in Greater Accra and have helped to create more than 200 libraries in Africa. Kathy has won many awards from around the world, including the Governor General’s Medallion Award. Kathy will join us on Thursday, March 12 at 8 p.m.. All St. John’s parishioners are welcome. There will be a sign-up sheet so we know how many for coffee. LENT: A SEASON FOR LISTENING ... Listening - A Lenten Practice This year as we move towards Easter, we hear the invitation to focus on Listening. Deep Listening is a wonderful practice during Lent as we prepare for Easter. Rather than giving up something that shouldn’t be a part of our life and then taking it back with enthusiasm at Easter, rather than disciplining ourselves in a ways that subtly strengthen our egos with a sense of our own willpower, rather than doing the digging work of selfreflection, take the time to focus on Listening. In the scripture, we read Mark 9:7 where God speaks to the disciples and tells them to listen to Jesus. That short passage of scripture can be enough for many days or weeks! We must figure out how to take that word - listen - seriously and be wise on what and who we listen to. Do you hear the voice of Jesus? Do you listen to the internal tapes, the demands of the world, the pressures from others ... or do you listen to the voice of love who came into this world because of love for all of us? The Practice of Listening Some practices that I have found helpful in growing to listen more deeply: Breathe – and pay attention to it! Slow down, be attentive to present moment and present place. (See The Good and Beautiful God, pg. 190, for exercises.) Listen to myself Listen to my body – aches, pains, tension – What do you, my body, want to say to me? Listen to my emotions – What is moving through me? Listen to my mind – Observe the pace and content, without engaging or judging it. Listen to others Be attentive to their body language, their words, their emotions, and their hidden codes. What are they saying to me? Seek clarity - ask them - are you saying ...? Listen to Spirit of God God speaks to us through our location, through our bodies, emotions, and thoughts, through other people, and through sacred texts, music, or prayers. Open your heart to hearing God speak through many avenues. Learn to hear your Master's voice, the voice that will call you "Beloved", "Good Enough", "My Own Child". Don’t listen to any voice that condemns you. (Romans 8:1) Listen for voice of the one who came to earth out of love for you. LISTEN – with ears to hear with your heart. Learn More about Listening Some books I’ve found helpful on learning to Listen: 1. Brad Jersak: “Can You Hear Me?”, Monarch Books 2006: Jersak teaches about listening prayer, offering many true life stories and prayer exercises based on scripture and encountering God. 2. Henri Nouwen: “Life of the Beloved”, Crossroad Publishing 1992: Trying to explain his faith to a nonChristian friend, Nouwen teaches all of us to hear more deeply and live more truly from God’s name for us. We are Beloved. 3. Michael Nichols: “The Lost Art of Listening”, Guilford Press 1995: A classic and fundamental book on why and how to listen to others. 4. McMahon and Campbell: “Rediscovering the Lost Body-Connection within Christian Spirituality”, Tasora Books 2010: Very practical and transformational. It helped me learn to listen to what God is saying to me through my body. 5. James Bryan Smith: “Good and Beautiful God”, IVP Books, 2009: This book requires some investment of time with soul-training exercises, but people of our congregation who have worked through this book have found it illuminating and helpful. Offered by Anne+ For Lent 2015 NEW CIRCLES’ NEW LOCATION NOW OPEN! As previously reported, New Circles was very busy in 2014 obtaining City by-law approvals and making plans to relocate to 161 Bartley Drive, which is near Victoria Park Avenue and Eglinton Avenue East in Victoria Village. We are delighted to announce that they are now open and are once again able to accept donations of gently used clothes, shoes, and accessories for children, teens, men, and women (http://newcircles.ca/move2014). Donations are accepted at their side door, located on Hobson Avenue. Please ring the doorbell and a New Circles representative will be happy to assist you with unloading your donations. The new site is much larger, and within the next month will be ready to significantly improve this fine organization’s capacity for service delivery: The space for our clothing service will be much bigger. This will now be set up as a Winners-style department store, and will create a more professional retail setting for clients. An expanded waiting area with kitchenette, internet café, and children’s play space is available. Two fully-equipped classrooms to support our new certificate-based retail and office skills training programs, as well as language tutoring and friendship circles, are now open. New Circles would also appreciate receiving financial support to help in developing these new programs and facilities, and Carol Ball would also welcome any volunteers who could help them with the large amount of moved items that need to be sorted out. To make a donation, simply make your cheque out to “St. John’s York Mills Outreach” with “New Circles” on the memo line and leave it in the collection plate or at the office. If you want to drop off a clothing donation at the church, please leave it with the office or contact Carol at 416-4880125 to arrange for pick up. Scott McDougall SHROVE TUESDAY On Shrove Tuesday, February 17, a feast was provided by the Men’s Supper Club, with the support of the FaithWorks and Outreach Committee. The men of the Supper Club were in the kitchen cooking up a feast of pancakes, butter, syrup, ham and fruit! Sixty people enjoyed a tasty meal and good conversation. FaithWorks to help with their work in the Diocese and beyond (through PWRDF and the Anglican Appeal). A total of $386.00 was raised! In addition to their contribution of time and talent, the Men’s Supper Club funded the cost of the meal so that every penny of the free will offering collected will go to Your hosts thank you for supporting their passion in all that FaithWorks does! St John’s York Mills Anglican Church • 19 Don Ridge Drive • Toronto, Ontario • M2P 1H3 Phone: 416-225-6611 • Fax: 416-225-6081 • [email protected] • www.sjym.ca www.facebook.com/SJYMAnglicanChurhc
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