B’More Clubhouse Times April 2015 Mission Statement: The B’More Clubhouse empowers individuals with mental illness to lead meaningful and productive lives of their choice in the community. B’More Gives Back By: Jeanae Samuel & Natalie Etter At the end of last month, we decided to do something different for our Thursday social event on March 26th. We made a plan to give back to the community and help brighten someone else's day. After some brainstorming, we decided to create flower arrangements for the residents of Keswick Multi-Care Center. We used plastic flowers, sand, ribbon, construction paper and mason jars. We attached small notes and inspirational sayings to the jars for added cheer! The members and staff thoroughly enjoyed this activity and created about 20 arrangements. The following week, a group of us brought the flowers to Keswick Multi-Care Center. To our surprise, we were able to help their staff distribute the flowers around the center instead of simply dropping them off. We were able to witness the pleasant reactions from the residents and see how truly grateful they were! If we can make a difference in another person’s life, we have done a good deed for the day and hope to do many more! B’More Clubhouse 9 East Franklin Street Baltimore, MD 21202 Phone: 410-727-2030 www.bmoreclubhouse.org 1 Becoming A Better Gentleman By: Tommy Rice On Wednesday April 8, I accompanied four male members of the Clubhouse to check out a local Mt. Vernon based non-profit called Sharp Dressed Man. Sharp Dressed Man is run and managed by two of the top professional tailors in Baltimore City, Christopher Schafer and his son Seth Schafer. Sharp Dressed Man’s mission is to empower men to improve their lives through professional dress ware. When we walked into the boutique, we were blown away by the selection of beautiful suits, ties and wingtip shoes. More impressive than the variety, Seth Schafer was incredibly helpful pairing colors and taking measurements to find the perfect fit. There is no doubt, that Sharp Dressed Man has the apparel to give confidence and swagger to any gentleman living in Baltimore City. As one of our members Allen put it: “I was really amazed by all of the suits they had. Some of them were tailor made to fit. If I was still wearing suits today, I would definitely go there over any of the big-time retailers.” In all, we had a great time and walked out with over an estimated $1,000 worth of donated merchandise. A big thank you must go to Seth and Sharp Dressed Man for helping several of our men at the Clubhouse look great! http://christopherschafer.com/partners Job Development at B’More Clubhouse Please join us every Tuesday at 2pm for Job Hour at the Clubhouse! We also have our Employment Dinner every 3rd Thursday from 4-6pm at the Clubhouse. 2 Standard 4: No Barrier to Entry By: William Lockett “All members have equal access to every Clubhouse opportunity with no differentiation based on diagnosis or level of functioning." This is important because members can check their mental illness at the door and individuals are welcome to leave any lingering stigma from society outside too. As a result, this makes one feel apart of a community with no strings attached. People are not alone no matter what one's background or illness may be. We are treated like the dignified human beings that we are. This standard applies to me because I've had the opportunity to give tours, conduct Meet the Clubhouse arrangements with our outside supporters, work in the kitchen and most importantly, have a sense of belonging to something I can't find staring at four walls. I truly feel like I am accepted as a family member and this standard allows me to welcome other additions to my family within the Clubhouse. This standard defines what it means to be a member, not a patient, client or consumer. I love it. "Weak Lines" By: Mike Wheeler "Shishh!" Then, a "disconnection." I mean, the dude "beat" lymphoma twice! He'd no "time" for my trivial "tales o' personal physical painful EXPERIENCES." No. None. I let it "GO." I did not "hold fast" to the fact that, finally, we, both, "realized" we'd NOTHING "in common," and, NOTHING about which to talk. Apparently, I just did not get ("it"). Oh, well. "People 'drift' apart." Maybe...I "drill 'IT' into him." The fact that he's married, with a beautiful wife, two great kids, a JOB... "The WORKS." And, maybe, there is "the envy." (A "sure ROAD" to "depression.") *after Thomas Moore Yet, he is not "happy" with his life. Why does he just come right out and say it? I'm s'posed to be "a friend," for Christ's sake! Perhaps, he does not "perceive" (it) that way. When I talk of copping "a small dirt bike..." "Bubbahjon" is a sore SPOT, and Kenneth is still "with grief." ...and, ALL he wants to "speak of," ALL the time, is his "new drum kit," and the people he cannot get to JAM with him. "People 'drift' apart." 's"time"for me to give Kenneth, and "his life," a BREAK. He, surely, is NOT "supporting, or, BACKING me up." THIS is "from my Heartmind," although seemingly "off the top o' my head," yet I will make it a "point" to CARRY "this" to "Follow the Buffalo," because… ["People 'drift' apart."] 3 . My Wellness Plan By: Jeremiah Pollitt I, Jeremiah Pollitt, regarding wellness that’s important for me. I work out twice per week at the Wellness Center League or at home doing sit-ups, push-ups and cutting back on ice cream to trail mix and eating more baked foods. But in due respect, I’m looking forward to rejoining the YMCA, which has a variety of activities. I use the treadmill, the bicycle, lift weights, swim and shoot hoops at the YMCA. I hope to engage my wellness one day at a time. Wellness at B’More Clubhouse Please join us every Monday at 2:30pm for our Wellness Committee. We also have Meditation every Friday at 1:30pm. 4 Me By: Harry Burkhead My name is Harry Burkhead, but please call me Chip. I was born September 11, 1972 at St. Agnes Hospital, right here in Charm City. I have lived all 42 years of my life in and around the area, with stops in Halethorpe, Catonsville, and, currently, Arbutus. I live with my very supportive parents, two dogs, and a cat. I have a wide variety of interests. I enjoy reading, writing, video games, and sports. I also like watching animation and going to the occasional movie. My biggest interest, by far, is My Little Pony Friendship is Magic. Specifically, I enjoy reading fantasy novels. I've read Lord of the Rings, most of Anne and Todd McCaffery's Pern novels and even George R. R. Martin's, Song of Ice and Fire series. I also typically write fantasy stories and fantasy games, but I've also written poetry and plays. In video games I generally play turn-based strategy games and role-playing games, usually fantasy ones. I avoid action and shooting games because I lack the reflexes to do well, even with practice. I do like playing golf games. My favorite sport to watch is football, and I am an avid Ravens fan. I also like watching golf, bowling, soccer, and basketball. Sadly, I'm not much of a baseball fan, but I would prefer to watch an O's game, over a NASCAR race. While I enjoy such television shows as Ghost Hunters, Face Off, Defiance, and Lost Girl, my favorite form of entertainment is animation. I was a big fan of the toy tie-in shows of the 1980's, such as He-Man and the Masters of the Universe, GI Joe, and Transformers. I am also a large consumer of Japanese animation and have fond memories of Sailor Moon and Voltron. My favorite animated series, by far, is My Little Pony. During the summer between my freshman and sophomore years in high school, I was awake at 8:30 virtually every morning to watch the original series. Nowadays I watch and re-watch the newest version, Friendship is Magic. The ponies have given me great joy and I've done my best to take the show's lessons to heart, many of which are very important to the Clubhouse. Speaking of which, I just recently joined on March 18, 2015. Thus far it's been a positive experience. I've contributed in different ways. I've cleaned the cafe, updated the database, assisted with mailings, and printed the menu. I've cashiered at lunch, counted the money, and even tried reach out. I've even cooked and, by the time you read this, have even contributed to the newsletter. Moving forward I plan on still working on the database and "lending a hoof" wherever I can. I may contribute more to the newsletter and attend Clubhouse social events. I want to close by sharing a bit of "pony wisdom", with you all. At the end of this article is an excerpt from one of the songs from My Little Pony Friendship is Magic. The song, by Daniel Ingram, is called, "Let the Rainbow Remind You." I think it sums up the Clubhouse pretty well. Now, without further ado, the lyrics: “Each one of us has something special that makes us different, that makes us rare We have a light that shines within us that we were always meant to share. And when we come together combine the light that shines within There is nothing we can't do, There is no battle we can't win.” 5 Forgiveness By: Quinton Carter Everybody has had someone who has "done them wrong." When someone hurts us, we want to hurt them back. We live with anger and thoughts of revenge We want to see them suffer. We want them to feel what we have felt. We want them to know they can't get away with what they did. But they did get away if your anger keeps you stuck in the situation When the table turns We make mistakes, we create pain for others, and we cannot understand why they do not or cannot forgive us. Perhaps it is because there is someone we need to forgive. Forgiveness frees us from the pain of our past and moves us beyond our mistakes in the future. What you give, you get. When you forgive, forgiveness is there for you if you need or want it! Coming Home to B’More Clubhouse By: Debbie Parker One of the things that I found out about coming back to B’More is the love I have for not just the people and the staff but the community. And how B’More embraces it. When I walk through the halls, I get a sense of remembrance and it gives me that ah-ha moment, that moment that says when I initially came to B’More it was like okay what can I get, can I set some goals, will I be able to do that - in a sense, it was always asking what B’More could do for me. But as I reflected in coming back, it is always what can I do in turn for B’More giving out so much to me to a place in the community that has sustained me physically, emotionally, socially, and mentally and it has fed my spirit to the point of growth and that is when the ah-ha moment kicks in and you can’t help but say how can I give back to B’More and that is not only what I take it but in turn transcends everything and the thoughts of the healing process each and every time I walk through the doors of B’More. So that is my reflection of this homecoming journal. 6 From the Big Apple to Charm City By: Natalie Etter This time last year, I was living in New York City with my husband, Sean and our dog, Nessie. I was working at Fountain House, while anxiously awaiting the birth of our first child. Fast forward to today and I'm living in Baltimore, working part time at B'More Clubhouse, and staying home two days a week with our almost one year old daughter, Abigail. This year has brought on many changes, to say the least! After working at Fountain House for nearly two years, I was extremely sad to leave the members and staff that had become a part of my extended family. For those who know a thing or two about Manhattan, you know that the concrete jungle can be quite an intimidating place for a non-New Yorker. However, Fountain House proved to be a welcoming oasis set within the surrounding hustle bustle. The Clubhouse community quickly embraced me and became my home away from home. Therefore, the decision to permanently relocate to Maryland for my husband's job was far from easy. It meant giving up a city that had grown on us, friends that were close to us, and the first job that I had truly loved. Little did I know the opportunities that would accompany this big change... The move to Baltimore started off a bit rocky with many sleepless nights spent with a newborn and failed attempts at navigating this city--many wrong turns and desperate GPS moments! But, finally, the charm in Charm City began to unveil itself and a new world of opportunity emerged once I visited B'More Clubhouse. After a few email exchanges with Jason, I took a tour of the Clubhouse and scheduled my interview. Much like at Fountain House, my tour with Price immediately made me feel welcome and at ease. I was able to feel that unique warmth that only exists within the walls of a Clubhouse. Being a new mom, I was also thrilled to learn that there was an open part time position and gladly accepted the offer! Since starting in October, I've gotten to know our members and staff, as well as the way in which a smaller Clubhouse operates. I've had the opportunity to take part in job development, fundraising, community networking and learning collaborations. I'm also excited to help get the Communications Unit up and running. While I thoroughly enjoyed my work in the Research Unit at Fountain House, I did not have as many opportunities as I do here, based on the number of staff and Clubhouse size. I look forward to developing new projects and hopefully helping B'More increase its membership and funding opportunities. I've come to realize that the members of B'More are a close-knit, talented, and ambitious group of leaders. Each day at the Clubhouse, I learn something new and grow both professionally and personally. The Clubhouse community is unique in that it spans across cities, countries and cultures, yet keeps that common thread of community, hope, and strength. I have once again found a home away from home at B'More Clubhouse and I am very grateful for that! 7 Seeking Solace By: Jax Brondi This may sound cheesy, but B’More Clubhouse felt like a home away from home the first time I walked in. Maybe it was relief. I had spent an hour driving through Baltimore like a nervous wreck. I had nearly hit three cars as I switched lanes and was confused by the fact that people seemed to park in the middle of the road. All of these fears were compounded by my residual PTSD from a car accident a few years ago, and my prejudices against Baltimore and people of a lower socioeconomic class. I didn’t realize how much I was going to learn in the next few months while volunteering at the clubhouse, but it was already a sanctuary from the stressors I was facing. I chose to volunteer at the B’More Clubhouse because of my own experiences with mental illness. Through previous volunteer experiences, I found that I love listening to people’s stories and being able to assist an organization in small ways. At B’More Clubhouse I have been able to do both, with an added bonus. I too have benefited from the work unit structure of B’More Clubhouse. I have had meaningful work experiences and built relationships with people here. Coming to volunteer helps me to forget myself and the problems I am having at school and at home. Instead I get to build and help the clubhouse run for a few hours. More so, I have gotten to know a city that I had previously tried to stay away from. I learned more about its beauty and the resources that it has for the members of its community. I have learned to dispel my own prejudices and fears and to question the way I judge people as I drive by, thinking of the people I already know living in the city. I am grateful for all of the lessons the clubhouse has taught me. APRIL SOCIAL EVENTS April 16th (4-6pm): Employment Dinner April 18th (12-4pm): B’More Brunch April 23rd (4-6pm): Talent Show April 30th (4-6pm): Games at Homeslyce 8 Saturday, May 2nd from 6-8 PM: Flower- Mart 2015 Featuring Kirstie’s Band! Thursday, May 7th from 4-6 PM: Ice Cream at the Inner Harbor Thursday, May 14th from 4-6 PM: Employment Dinner Saturday, May 16th at 10 AM: NAMI 5K Walk at the Inner Harbor Thursday, May 21st at 12:30 PM: Orioles Game Monday, May 25th from 12-4 PM: Memorial Day Cookout Thursday, May 28th from 4-6 PM: Ping Pong Tournament 9 To the following members... Ben Arrowood Crystal Smith Charles Booker Roseann Richardson James Williams Donald Morgan Samuel Teitlebaum Arlene Henry Willette Cox Alvin Harris Vaugh Jones Bridget Barrera King Conaway Kiona Lawson Wendi Wheatley Chris Mannel Judith Joiner David Kaufman Sherwood Dorsey Allen Haskins Andrew Tanner David Lentz Zach Taylor Anthony Stokes Karen Richard Illya Winn Raphael Johnson Ellison McNear Lillian Abrams Treena Henschell Jackie Edmonds 10 The B’More Clubhouse Weekly Schedule Monday Thursday 8:30 am – Clubhouse Opens 8:30-8:50 – Breakfast 9:00-9:30 am – Morning Meeting 9:30-11:45 am – Lunch Tickets on Sale 10:00-11:00 am – Tours/Orientations (if needed) 10:00-11:00 am – Food Shopping 12:00-1:00 pm – Lunch 1:00-1:30 pm – Afternoon Meeting 2:00-3:00 pm – Tours/Orientations (if needed) 2:30 – 3:30 pm – Wellness Committee 4:30 pm – Closing Time 8:30 am – Clubhouse Opens 8:30-8:50 am – Breakfast 9:00-9:30 am – Morning Meeting 9:30-11:45 – Lunch Tickets on Sale 10:00-11:00am – Tours/Orientations (if needed) 10:00-11:00am – Food Shopping 12:00-1:00 pm – Lunch 1:00-1:30 pm – Afternoon Meeting 2:00-3:00 pm – Tours/Orientations (if needed) 2:00-3:00 pm-Social Planning/Communications Meeting 3:00-3:30 pm – Menu Planning Committee 4:00-6:00 pm – Social Activity 6:00 pm – Closing Time Tuesday 8:30 am – Clubhouse Opens 8:30-8:50 am – Breakfast 9:00-9:30 am – Morning Meeting 9:30-11:45 am – Lunch tickets on Sale 10:00-11:00 am – Tours/Orientations (if needed) 10:00-11:00 am – Food Shopping 12:00-1:00 pm – Lunch 1:00 pm-1:30 pm – Afternoon Meeting 2:00-3:00pm – Tours/Orientations (if needed) 2:00-3:00pm – Job Hour 3:00pm-3:30pm – Resume Workshop 4:30pm – Closing Time Friday 8:30 am – Clubhouse Opens 9:00-9:30 am – Morning Meeting 9:30-11:45 am – Lunch Tickets on Sale 10:00-11:00 am – Tours/Orientations (if needed) 10:00-11:00 am – Food Shopping 12:00-1:00 pm – Lunch 1:00-1:30 pm – Afternoon Meeting 1:30-2:00 pm – Meditation 2:00-3:00 pm – Tours/Orientations (if needed) 4:30 pm – Closing Time Wednesday Saturday 8:30 am – Clubhouse Opens 8:30-8:50 am – Breakfast 9:00-9:30 am – Morning Meeting 9:30-11:45 am – Lunch Tickets on Sale 10:00-11:00 am – Tours/Orientations (if needed) 10:00-11:00 am – Food Shopping 12:00-1:00 pm – Lunch 1:00-1:30 pm –Community Meeting 1:30-2:00 pm – Afternoon Meeting 2:00-3:00pm – Tours/Orientations (if needed) 4:30 pm – Clubhouse Closes 5:00-6:00 pm – DRA Meeting 12:00-4:00 – Brunch (3rd Saturday) 11 Aber D. Unger Foundation Achsah O’Donovan Amazon Smile Anonymous Barbara Hathaway Betsy Scott Betsy Sheehan Bob Williams Clayton Baker Trust Carla Harrison Dawn and Joan Pettit Dayton and Carolyn Males Deutche Bank Diane Gray Dixon and Janet Harvey Eddie and Suzy Dunn Francis Goelet Trust Hannah Gould Hylton and Gonzales Jane McConnell Jean McGarry Jean Wyman Joe Harrison Leigh Hall Lindsay D’Ambrosio Margaret Obrecht Morton K. and Jane Blaustein Foundation Paul and Dorothy Wolman Sonya and David Hannan Susan Knott United Way William Magruder and Patricia Dolgert 12
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