Chai Lights Volume 14 Issue 302 Community Yom HaShoah at B’nai Israel April 19 7:00 pm Nisan/Adar 5775 From the Rabbi’s Desk From Sea to Sinai Freedom requires more than reaching the finish line. Freedom is what happens once the finish line is crossed. Leaving Egypt, the theme of Pesach, is remembered through re-enacting the story with symbolic food, singing familiar songs and the company of family and friends. However profound, leaving enslavement in Egypt is in no way the completion of the journey. If crossing the Sea of Reeds doesn't end the story, what constitutes being done? Shouting "We're free! We're free!" or "Dayenu! Dayenu!" becomes old unless we know what to do with that freedom. After physical freedom from bondage, it is the narrative of spiritual freedom that whispers our name. For the Jewish people, the striving for spiritual liberation only became audible with each imprint of their sandals moving across the wilderness. We integrate their determined sojourn from Sea to Sinai through the counting of the Omer, the forty nine day spiritual practice Jewish people can experience from the second night of Passover until the holiday of Shavuot, the holiday of receiving Torah. Seven full weeks with distinctive themes are provided through Counting the Omer. Through this practice, we too can trace the march across the grit of desert sand toward sublime spiritual liberation. Our web site will provide the daily meditation for Counting the Omer. Once we reach Shavuot, observed this year Saturday evening, May 23rd, we will celebrate the complete freedom experience, both the physical and the spiritual. Our study theme will be "freedom" explored through sacred text, poetry, philosophy, yoga, meditation and art. Indeed the Divine plan for leaving Egypt was to be sufficiently free both inside and out in order to be in a place to receive and embrace Torah. And it happens still. Each time a Torah scroll is placed in the arms of a B'nai Mitzvah the fulfillment of that ancient journey from Sea to Sinai brilliantly shines, infusing and delighting our souls with the profound truth of our Jewish legacy. With blessings for our journey, April 2015 In This Issue Administration Anniversaries Book Review Birthdays Brotherhood Calendar Candle Lighting Page 2 18 13 18 12 16 19 20 Contribution Form Education Food Faire Fundraiser Library Life & Legacy Membership 5 6 15 4 13 10-11 3 2 1 7 Mission Statement President Rabbis Religious Practices Shabbat baBayit Social Action Tributes Yahrzeits Youth Groups 14 9 18 19 9 Join us for Shabbat Services: April 3 NO SERVICE Pesach – 1st Seder Saturday, April 4 10:00 a.m. Shabbat Service Friday, April 10 7:30 p.m. Choir Service Friday, April 17 6:00 p.m. Band Service Shabbat baBayit (pre-registration required) Friday, April 24 7:30 p.m. Choir Service Rabbi Nancy Wechsler-Azen Congregation Beth Shalom 4746 El Camino Ave, Carmichael CA 95608 (916)485-4478 2 Chai Lights Religious Leaders Rabbi Nancy Wechsler-Azen [email protected] Rabbi David Wechsler-Azen [email protected] President’s Message Tivon Schardl CBS Board President Many thanks to you, members of Congregation Beth Shalom, for your understanding and support over the past two months. CBS Desktop This month, it’s personal. Marlo Dewing As many of Administrator you know, I had the Rabbi Emeritus joy of celebrating a Rabbi Joseph Melamed life cycle simcha last month - my younger Director of Education daughter became a Bat Mitzvah. As a Jewish Rina Racket parent, I looked forward to that day since the day she was born; I imagined it as [email protected] she began preschool at Shalom School, and through her day school graduation; I led and encouraged and watched and kvetched and kvelled as she practiced from Choir Director the first day of 5th grade up to the day of her Bat Mitzvah service. Kamilyn Davis While my daughter was ready months before the actual service date, I Temple Administrator was not. Of course, I had a schedule of when things needed to be done. Such Marlo Dewing check lists and time tables are available in countless books and online, much like [email protected] they are when one is planning a wedding – order the invitations by this date, address and send them out by that date; research table centerpieces and meet Office Manager with the caterer; yada yada yada. But, no fear – I had accumulated many hours Brenda Baskerville for time off for just such purpose. [email protected] As the saying goes, life is what happens when you are making other plans. The month of February simply did not allow for leisurely time for any of Board of Directors 2014–2015 us. And one week before my daughter became a Bat Mitzvah, I received word President that my father died. Tivon Schardl I want to thank each and every one of you who graciously and gently VP Administration offered condolences. Your support and understanding during a trying time was Jack Ezekiel invaluable. Even after years of being your Administrator, I was not anticipating VP Education the number of hands extended in comfort. I am deeply moved. Thank you. Jana Uslan VP Religious Practices May 23rd Sheree Meyer VP Membership 7:00 p.m. Roberta Malkin VP Finance Joel Birch VP Programming/Fundraising Vacant VP Operations Marty Berbach Celebrate the complete freedom experience, Financial Secretary both the physical and the spiritual. Katie Braverman Our study theme will be "freedom" explored through sacred text, Treasurer poetry, philosophy, yoga, meditation and art. Penni Blumberg Recording Secretary For to be free is not merely to cast off one's chains, but to live Evan Drukker-Schardl in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others. Immediate Past President Nelson Mandela David Ginsburg Members at Large Enslave the liberty of but one human being and the liberties Dean Mirtle, Carry Cohn, Jeff of the world are put in peril. William Lloyd Garrison Swatt,, Wendy Wilson, Mauria Hirning, Sheila Sugarman, Fanny I would like to be remembered as a person who wanted to be Levy, Lori Nalangan free... so other people would be also free. Rosa Parks Tikkun Leil Shavuot Building Our Mission: An Update Mission Statement In February, I let you know that we Fanny Levy were forming a Mission Statement Team to CBS Board Member look at and revise our mission statement. To remind you, a mission statement is a statement of purpose. It lets people inside and outside of the organization know what is central to and unique about the organization and is inspiring to those involved within it. The process of creating a mission statement can also identify the vision of the organization (what it aspires to be) as well as its core values. When a mission statement is completed, it can be used to bring new members, for example by posting it on a website or social media, and it can also be used as a basis for decision-making and long term planning. The last time our mission statement was revised was 2001, so it is time for us to revisit it. I am pleased to let you know that we are making progress on this important project. CBS members Bob Bennett, Jessica Braverman Birch, Sharyn Gardner and Steve Lewis have joined me on the Mission Statement Team, we have had a first meeting with Rabbi Nancy, and we are beginning to hold focus group meetings with various constituents to find out what people at CBS think is essential about our community and what makes it special. Of course, the most important people in a member organization are… the members. To find out what you, our members, believe is central to and unique about CBS, we have set up two congregational focus groups. The first group will be held on Sunday, April 19th at 9:15 AM. The second group will be held on Tuesday, April 28th at 7:00 PM. We will also be holding focus groups with board members, clergy, staff, religious school and Midrasha teachers, as well as some of our teen leaders. (Please watch your CBS email for updates.) We want and need to hear your thoughts! If you are not available at the times that are stated above for the congregational focus groups and would like to participate in the process, please contact me (Fanny Levy) at [email protected], and our team will find an alternative way to get your input. When we have completed the focus groups, the team will look for commonalities among the different focus groups and come up with a statement that we think represents the congregation, which will then be reviewed by the clergy and congregation president before being presented to the board for approval. We look forward to meeting with you and hearing what you appreciate about CBS! CBS 3 Congregation Beth Shalom is a member of the Union of Reform Judaism. Office hours are Monday through Friday, 9:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. The Gift Shop is open during Religious School on Sundays and by appointment. Please call the office. General Service schedule: 1st Friday: 6:00—7:00 p.m. Family Service 2nd Friday: 7:30 p.m. Choir Service & Guest Speaker 3rd Friday: 6:00—7:00 p.m. Shabbat With a Beat– CBS Band 4th Friday: 7:30 p.m. Choir Service 5th Friday: 6:00 p.m. Torah Study: Saturdays at 10:00 a.m. Chai Lights is published 11 times each year with a combined June/July issue. Editor: Marlo Dewing Proofing: Brenda Baskerville Deadline for submissions is the 20th of the month prior to publication. Please send your article to Marlo and Brenda at [email protected] and [email protected] To request a copy by snail mail please call (916) 485-4478. Advertising is available: 1/8 page/business card: $9 1/4 page: $18 1/2 page: $25 Full page: $50 Prices listed are per issue. All ads subject to approval. Please contact [email protected] for more information. Gittel’s Hands by Erica Silverman takes the center stage for April Passover children’s book selections. School Library Journal says: “The story embodies the essence of the Passover holiday in a traditional folktale motif. Read aloud, it will delight young audiences.” Booklist says that Katherine Henderson luminous and sometimes unusual colors ensure that there CBS Librarian is much to occupy the eyes as well as the hearts of story lovers. Linda Jones has graciously agreed to take care of the library table for April during my absence for income tax season. 4 Chai Lights Library Corner Before you go online, GO CBS FIRST! Did you know the Gift shop helps raise much needed funds for CBS? Visit the CBS Gift Shop for your Judaica needs! The Gift Shop is open Sunday mornings during Religious School and by appointment. We are blessed to have a thriving teen group emerging here at CBS. Over CBS 5 the three years that I have had the privilege of working at CBS, I have had a special interest in strengthening the bonds which our teens have to our Congregation. Youth Engagement is now highlighted on a national level by the URJ as trends were showing that teen retention post Bar/t Mitzvah is shrinking. According Rina Racket to the URJ, “there are 1.5 million Reform Jews in North America. Each year, more Director of Education teenagers become bar and bat mitzvah in Reform synagogues than in any other form of Judaism. Therefore, the Reform Movement has the potential to have an enormous impact on the next generation. Despite that potential, there is widespread frustration that a majority of teenagers who become bar and bat mitzvah are not significantly engaged in Jewish life by the time they graduate high school.” This reality is shifting here at CBS. When I began working here, my first strategic move was to take the 7th grade Religious School program and re-shape it into a teen program. Instead of coming on Wednesday afternoons and Sunday mornings, these (almost) teens no longer meet during these RS hours. Instead, they come on Wednesday evenings and are surrounded by the other teen Midrasha students. Their curriculum is geared towards more adolescent relevant issues such as AntiSemitism, Jewish Identity, and Ethical Decision Making. I am proud to say that we now have 100% retention of our 7 th graders post B'nai Mitzvah. They all begin and end their 7th grade year together. Our Madrichim Program (teen aids on the classroom) has been transformed by a series of workshops and experiences where our teens gain true leadership skills. They create lesson plans, teach, and have even worked as substitute teachers when a teacher is absent. Our Madrichim are an integral part of the classroom environment. They work one on one with students, teach small groups, and are a second pair of “adult hands” during class. Under the supervision of Educator Laura Halen, our Madrichim have gained lifelong skills as leaders and role models in our Jewish Community. When I arrived, we had no teen affiliation with NFTY, National Federation of Temple Youth. With the dedication of our Youth Adviser, Alex Taylor, our BSTY (Beth Shalom Temple Youth) teens are now in their second year of having an active BSTY board, hosting events, and attending regional NFTY programs at Camp Newman. Our BSTY board includes: Noah Howard, President; Sarah Birch, Vice President; Maya Racket, Social Action Chair; Amalia Birch, Communications Chair; Jake Nalangan, Secretary; Leah Ezekiel, Treasurer; Anna Cohen, 8th Grade Representative; and Nicole Lawrence, Events Chair. This year these teens designed a BSTY sweatshirt and sold over 20 of them. I love seeing our teens take pride in their group and in our Congregation. Under the wonderful leadership of Marlo Dewing and Caren Zorman, our 8th-12th graders also participate in a Bi-weekly Midrasha program with both CBS and MLC teens. They join together and take part in elective classes of their choosing. At this time, CBS has 27 teens actively coming to Midrasha on a regular basis. Rabbi Nancy has also created a teen band which plays regularly at our Family Shabbat Service the first Friday of each month. It is so much fun seeing our musically talented teens taking part in the service in such a relevant way. In addition, Rabbi Nancy makes sure that each teen is welcomed back annually on the anniversary of their B'nai Mitzvah Parsha. This experience helps maintain the confidence each teen has on the Bimah as it gives them a refresher with torah material that they have already mastered. CBS proudly offers our youth a variety of options to maintain their connection to CBS. Studies show that teens who stay connected to Jewish life throughout high school have a higher chance of creating a Jewish home as adults. In addition, statistics show that teen involvement in organized religion reduces their incidence of both substance abuse and depression. Honestly, it is a joy and a pleasure as a Jewish Educator to see our CBS teens choosing ways to weave their Judaism into their busy lives. I could not ask for a better reward. Religious School Important Dates in April April 1 & 5: NO RS April 8: There IS RS and BMP on this day April 12: BSTY Social Action program for all people in 6th grade on up to adults 4-5:30pm at CBS April 18: Journeys Cafe for 6th Grade Families, home of Dina Howard 3-4:30pm April 19: Jewish Family Education program for our third/fourth grade families, 9:15-10:30am April 25: Saturday! Family School for all RS students and parents 9am-12:15pm April 26: NO RS (due to having school the day before) 6 Chai Lights Save the Date! CBS Jewish Food Faire August 30, 2015 Food Faire Volunteers needed! Please contact [email protected] Lydia Inghram & Sheila Wolfe Co-Chairs Jewish Food Faire 4 Question Quiz DID YOU KNOW THAT: 1.) ...CBS' Jewish Food Faire, our biggest FUN/D Raiser, is Sunday, August 30, 2015, and the money we raise helps fund many, many services and programs at Beth Shalom? ___ Y Of course! ___ N Didn't realize this! (wow, that means we all benefit from volunteering before, and on the day of, this important event - I'll find out what I can do to help!) 2.) ...Liz Stein ([email protected]) is an attorney for the Ca. Dept. of Education, mother, wife, active com munity member and Coordinator of the FF Bake Shop - AND she'd appreciate hearing from you - men, women & children - everyone who can come to a Baking Party and/or host one and/or bake at home? ___ Y I know Liz is awesome. ___ N Didn't realize this! (This sounds easy and fun - I can do this - I'll email Liz right away!) 3.) ...we import some of our best selling breads and pastries from Canter's Delicatessen in Los Angeles and we are looking for someone with family or friends in LA to volunteer to pick up our order early on Saturday morning August 29th and deliver it to CBS that day? ___ Y Canter’s, mmmmm... ___ N Didn't realize this! (I have an SUV/truck and wouldn't mind driving down and seeing my friends/family hmm, maybe they'd like to come here… I'll make some calls and let Sheila or Lydia know asap!) 4.) ...coordinating the FF Entertainment is fun and connects you with musicians, artists, performers, DJ's, the CBS Band and the community AND we are looking for a volunteer(s) for this role for this year's Faire? ___ Y I’m in the band. ___ N Didn't realize this! (I like music, dancing, art, cultural activities and community connections - I'll email or call Lydia or Sheila and let them know I'm interested!) BONUS Question: ** Did you know that the 2015 FF Coordinators welcome new ideas, volunteer inquiries, suggestions and contacts at: Lydia Inghram, 916/599-7529 cell -- [email protected] Sheila Wolfe, 916/955-1587 cell -- [email protected] Key to Scoring: Stars of David to all who took this quiz and who plan to get involved in this year's Faire - let's hear from you - winners rewarded in many ways!! Do you enjoy the sweetness of Shabbat? Please consider helping with oneg. Oneg duties include preparing Kiddush and Challah; providing and plating sweets; putting everything back in order when it’s finished. We also accept donations directly to the Oneg Fund. Please contact the office if you are able to participate in this mitzvah at any time. A New View of the Old View of Honors CBS 7 Let me introduce myself. I am Doris Walters, newly assigned to the Religious Practices Committee. My role is to help the Rabbis ensure that all members and Jewish guests have opportunities to take part in the traditions of Doris Walters lighting the Shabbat candles, saying the blessings before and after each Torah reading, and performing Hagbah and G’lilah, the lifting and dressing of the Torah. Religious Practices Shabbat services at Congregation Beth Shalom are full of meaningful ways in which to take part. We can pray, sing, rise, read, listen, and hopefully separate ourselves from the toil of every other day's busy activities. At Congregation Beth Shalom we start the Friday night services by lighting the Shabbat candles as it is traditionally done in the home on Erev Shabbat. As part of a bat or bar mitzvah celebration on erev Shabbat, our Rabbi will usually call on all female family members of the b’nai mitzvot to take part in this custom. When the Torah is read, there is added dimension to our service: our Jewish tradition of being called to the Torah. In olden days this opportunity often was described as receiving an honor. At Beth Shalom we are looking to give members and guests opportunities to honor meaningful moments in their lives as Jews. Typically we look to call on a family member of the Torah reader and those who are honoring a loved one’s yahrzeit. We also like to honor those who are celebrating anniversaries or special birthdays. During the coming months we are reaching out to those members who may not have had this opportunity in some time or perhaps never. There are members who initially feel some discomfort in being asked to do these mitzvot. Perhaps their Hebrew is rusty or they don’t know an aleph from a bet. We want members to be comfortable in being called. There is a new blessing guide on the Torah table. It is an exact copy of the blessings in Hebrew and the transliteration in our Siddur, Mishkan T’Filah, on page 368. During services we invite you to read along in the Siddur. There are also some helpful tutorials on-line. I like https:// m.youtube.com/watch?v=326UpV60hFQ. Hagbah and G’Lilah, the raising and dressing of the Torah scroll before placing it in the Ark, is another traditionally significant part of our Jewish heritage. This is demonstrated on-line at http://m.youtube.com/watch?autoplay=1&v=Cb0y80Sk8zs. Since every Torah is slightly different in weight and the distribution of weight depends on where we are in the Torah, this mitzvah requires some practice ahead of time for both the Hagbah and G’Lilah. During the coming months we will be having short familiarity lessons in the sanctuary in hopes that more congregants will take part in these mitvot. We invite you to volunteer for these traditional roles in the Shabbat and Torah services. Please don’t hesitate to call me to volunteer or just to chat. In closing, after services, please acknowledge those who have carried forward these Jewish traditions. Religious Practices CBS will host Melton’s next two-year cycle beginning October, 2015. Classes will be held Tuesday evenings from 6:30-8:45pm. Join the great Jewish Conversation. The Florence Melton School of Adult Jewish Learning is the largest pluralistic adult Jewish education network in the world. We have set the standard for high-quality text-based interactive Jewish study by offering a world-class, two year curriculum developed at Hebrew University that informs and inspires adult learners from all knowledge levels and backgrounds. If you are looking for a profound understanding of what it means to be Jewish, join us to explore the texts of our tradition and discover how they relate to us today. Learn more about Melton at www.meltonschool.org/. You may also contact Sara Kahn Shapiro, Director at [email protected] or call 916-4886397. 8 Chai Lights CBS Office CLOSED Friday April 3 & Friday April 10 for Pesach Club Kef CBS 9 Club Kef is doing something different for April. Instead of our normal Sunday events, we are going to have a Wednesday Walk to Dinner! On Wednesday, April 15th, we are walking to Skip’s Kitchen across the street to have dinner all together. We will walk to Skip’s right after religious school ends at 6:00pm. Pick up will be at 7:30pm at Alex Taylor Congregation Beth Shalom. All attendees should have about $10.00 to cover their meal Youth Group Advisor and as a reminder, this event is open to all 3rd -6th graders. For any questions or concerns contact Alex Taylor at [email protected]. Youth Groups BSTY One of BSTY’s biggest and most important events is taking place on April 12th from 4:00pm – 5:30pm. It is our Social Action Day. Once a year, our Social Justice Chair picks a cause of which our community needs to be aware. Last year, our youth group educated the community on homelessness. This year our program revolves around the injustice of sweatshop or unfair labor. Social Action Day is completely free and open to anyone from our community who is 12 and older. Although there is no cost, there is an opportunity to donate to a charity that specifically helps people who are oppressed by unfair labor practices. If you would like to RSVP or would like to know more please contact us at [email protected]. Hillel at Davis and Sacramento 50th Anniversary Celebration Sunday, May 3, 2:00 – 5:00 p.m., 328 A Street, Davis Please join Hillel in celebrating 50 years of providing a vibrant Jewish center for the college students of our region. This special occasion also will honor Hillel's Board Presidents through the decades, including CBS’s Steve Lewis. Sponsorships available. General admission $150/person. Drawing tickets $50/each or five for $200. Prizes include diamond necklace, private wine tasting party, ski condo weekend and Giants vs. Dodgers tickets. For more information, contact Joy Cohan at [email protected] or 530-756-3708. Social Action For more information about this event, please contact: Diane Weber Walk Manager Name Social Action Chair Donna Wood Walk Manager Email This winter, our congregation had been [email protected] approached by St. Marks Church, and asked if we would be interested in helping Walk Manager Phone out with the homeless program called Winter Promise. In years past our 916 504 5470 congregations had joined in many interfaith opportunities, and as the Social Action committee members felt it only right to join, we gladly did so. This past Location: William Land Park week we had the opportunity to help serve dinner to the homeless hosted by St. 1702 Sutterville Road, Sacramento, Marks. Needless to say, we all agreed it was a heartwarming event, and the participants were so thankful; it really makes one realize how very lucky we are. Date: Sat May 02 2015 In case you missed it, there will be many more opportunities to do this again in Distance: 5K the fall, and we would love to have many more volunteers. Check-in: 9:30 am Other happenings we are Start Time: 10:30 am working on, is getting a Jewish presence involved with the NAMI Please mail Matching Gifts (National Alliance on Mental Illness) and Offline Donations to: walk, which will be taking place early in NAMI Northern California May. Our very own Ellen King is heading this project. Please see the 3440 Viking Drive, Suite 104A Sacramento, California 95831 information to the left to participate or support. 10 Chai Lights Members of the Tribe Community Passover Seder at Beth Shalom on 4/4 We Celebrate Our New Members Please join me in welcoming Lionel and Lynette Stein, new members to Congregation Beth Shalom. Last month, I was telling you about our plans to have a New Members Dinner. Well, we held it on Sunday, March 15th, and it went well beyond my expectations. It was attended by more than 80 new members and their families, along with the CBS Board of Directors and our beloved Rabbi Nancy. We had a scrumptious Mediterranean themed dinner prepared by our own resident chef, Matt Kurtz and his crew, which included Jana Uslan, and even though Alon Vechter was invited as a new member, it was impossible to keep him out of the kitchen. As the new members arrived, they were welcomed by members of the Membership Dream Team, and invited into the Social Hall where tables were adorned with beautiful springtime centerpieces. The atmosphere was magical. The evening started with the showing of the 40th Anniversary video to give our new members some history about where we started and the path we have taken to get to the present day. After that, the new members enjoyed dinner and conversation with each other and the board member at their table, finding out a little bit more about them, what brought them to CBS and what they may hope to find now that they are members. Even though these questions were partly to break the ice, chatter was filling the room. After dinner, Andrea Segal provided some of her baking talents for dessert, during which Sheila Wolfe and Lydia Inghram spoke about our next Jewish Food Faire, which is being held on Sunday, August 30th. Then Michael Alcalay showed his video highlighting the 2014 Jewish Food Faire and all the fun that was had. We ended the evening in the sanctuary with Rabbi Nancy leading us in Hashkiveinu. It was a lovely moment seeing all the new members protected under tallitot held by board members. It was a beautiful end to a beautiful evening. Later that week, I ran into a few of the new members at Friday Night Services. Bill Rozell mentioned to me how much he enjoyed meeting so many others he had not had to opportunity to get to know. He felt very welcomed. And Michael Darter was there with his wife Olga and daughter Margaret, and they felt the same. Margaret was having a great time, as were all the children who attended. My heartfelt thanks again to Matt Kurtz who prepared a fabulous meal for all; the CBS Board Members who attended and made our new members feel welcome; Michael Alcalay, whose vision, thoughts and guidance helped me put together a wonderful program; and the Membership Dream Team: Andrea Segal, Lydia Inghram, Bonnie Kneitel, Lori Nalangan, Sheila Wolfe, Karen Hull, and Vicky Mirtle – they helped me put the vision of this evening into reality. Roberta Malkin VP of CBS Membership (cont. on page 11) Community Yom HaShoah at B’nai Israel on 4/19 CBS 11 (cont. from page 10) I want to mention all the new members here again. Please make it a point to introduce yourself to them and welcome them to the family: Laura Estrada and her children Isaiah, Jessica, Adrianna, Zulema and Santiago Rodriguez Charles Varano and Ester Apesoa-Varano and their children Sofia, Ellah, Magali, and Liam Michael Bray and Nancy Leaderman and their children, Eliana and Miri Mehrnaz Halimi, her brother, Sha and his children, Sabrina and Joshua Bill Rozell David Asch, Wendy Phoenix and their children, Morgan and Emma Doris Gray Richard Victor, Sharona Epstein, and their children, Sean and Mimi Karen Hull Joel Tillman and Misha Igra and their children, Rivkah and Gabriel Jerry Sanders Karen Sackheim and Gary Smilkstein and their son, Adam Sandy Zales Einat and Alon Vechter, and their children Ron, Gil and Ben Fred Hayward Peter and Julie Bedell and their children, Gabriel and Samuel Michael Darter Tatyana and Alexander Kagan and their son Mark Harry and Elaine Kaplow Morris Newman and Sharon Bernstein and their son, Leo Neil and Fanny Levy Michael and Patty Salcedo and their daughter, Shoshanah Ann Marie Steinke Roger and Kara Cross and their children Sam, Zoe and Evan Bob and Shirley Rosenberg Andrew and Shannon Gordon and their son, Evan John Zuris and Michele Stern David and Joy Silverburg and their son, Ezra Roy and Sarah Schutzengel Debbie Winter and her daughter, Leah Al and Judy Malkin Sigal Benbow and her daughter, Tiffany Lionel and Lynette Stein Jerry Pollack and Joan Gusinow Twenty brothers enjoyed poker and game night last month. Brotherhood raised $300.00 that evening. Brotherhood coffers are used to help our Temple fund special expenses. Special thanks to Mark Kraut, Don Parks, and Gene Bagoon for organizing this fun event. Randy Cortland Recommended reading for Jewish men: How to CBS/Brotherhood Member Raise a Jewish Dog by Ellis Weiner and Barbara Davilman. This book is a treatise on dog training the Jewish way – using guilt, shame, passive aggression, sarcasm and conditional unconditional love to create an unbreakable bond with your dog. Humor is injected with typical dog behavior. You may find this book in the CBS library or buy it at retailers or online. If you haven’t been to a Brotherhood meeting or event, please join us Sunday, April 12 at CBS at 10:00 am. You may contact Dave Malkin at [email protected] or 204-3699 to be placed on the e-mail list. Your brothers look forward to seeing you soon. 12 Chai Lights Brotherhood A connected community is a strong community. Please support the local businesses in our neighborhood. 4120 El Camino Ave. Sacramento, CA 95821 916-588-2701 www.crossfitlocoocho.com 4717 El Camino Ave Carmichael, CA 95608 (916) 514-0830 www.skipskitchen.com Calling all CBS “Foodies”! On Monday April 13th at 7PM, the CBS Book Review will focus on Eating on the Wild Side by Jo Robinson. Liz Stein will lead the discussion. Eating on the Wild Side is the winner of the 2014 International Association of Culinary Professionals Cookbook Award in the category of "Food Matters." CBS 13 Book Review Fanny Levy Here is what Liz has to say about Eating on the Wild Side: I picked Eating on the Wild Side by Jo Robinson for the temple’s book club. I thought this book was very interesting from a historical perspective because it details the early origins of fruits and vegetables and explains how they have changed over the last few hundred years in looks, appearance, taste and, most importantly, nutritional value. While man has come far in learning how to breed fruits and vegetables that look better, taste sweeter and can be shipped long distances, along the way important antioxidants and phytonutrients levels have decreased. After examining this evolution, the author, an investigative journalist, identifies the most nutritional varieties, what to look for when you are in the grocery store or farmer's markets, whether buying organic for that fruit or vegetable is important, how to store the fruits or vegetables once you get home and whether eating that particular fruit or vegetable frozen and/or canned is or is not equivalent in nutrition to eating fresh. This promises to be not only an interesting discussion but also a very practical one. Please join us! At our March meeting, we were pleased to welcome two new participants to the group! Fanny Levy led a thoughtful discussion of My Promised Land by Ari Shavit. A number of participants noted that it added to their understanding of the history and development of the modern state of Israel and that it caused them to reexamine the historical narrative they had previously learned. We also looked at reviews of the book that were critical of Shavit’s view of history on a number of grounds. Finally, Sheree Meyer provided statistics to help us understand the perspective of Arab Israelis, and we speculated about the way forward in the peace process given what we had learned from Shavit about the challenges that Israel faces. Upcoming Book Review Selection: May 11 – Everything is Illuminated by Jonathan Safran Foer Led by Sheree Meyer Life & Legacy Donors Thank you for committing to a lasting contribution for the future of CBS! Carry Cohn Jean Rubin Anonymous Dean Mirtle Robin Asch David Ginsburg Penni Blumberg Tivon Schardl Judy Lewis Steve Lewis Katie Braverman Anonymous Jana & Brian Uslan Wendy Wilson, Ph.D. Lydia Inghram Jessica Braverman Birch & Joel Birch Rabbi Nancy Wechsler-Azen Rabbi David Wechsler-Azen Alla Gamarnik & Joel Blank Dave & Roberta Malkin Add your name to the list of people who are assuring Jewish tomorrows! For more information about the Life & Legacy Program and how to participate, please contact the office to get connected to one of our Legacy Team Members. Connect with your CBS family! Member Directories are available in the office. 14 Chai Lights Shabbat Babayit Wendy Wilson Board Member –At-Large CBS Shabbat BaBayit Dream: Dates April 17 May 15 June 19 Together we will celebrate Shabbat. Its rhythm will unite us with each other, with Jews around the world, and throughout the ages. On this day we will create a warm and loving space, holding our families and friends together. On this day we will lay down the burdens, distractions, demands, and pressures of daily life. On this day we will renew ourselves, emerging spiritually, emotionally, and physically invigorated. On this day we will own our precious heritage, wearing it as a badge of pride and honor. Together we embark on this great adventure to rediscover our G-d-given gift of Shabbat. RSVP required by April 6 to participate on April 17. Click here to register online ENGLISH GARDEN TEA FUNDRAISER CBS 15 If you have never experienced a traditional garden tea party in the Edwardian manner, you are in for a rare treat. On Sunday, April 12 (rain delays one week), from 2:00 to 4:00 pm, you will be able to enjoy just such a delight from Wendy Wilson the past. Imagine strolling, tea cup in hand, through a spacious garden all in bloom, Board Member At Large admiring the roses, pausing to sniff the lilacs, as you recall snatches of Rupert Brooke (yes, there will be honey at this tea). Then picture yourself sitting at a small table chatting cozily with friends while nibbling on cucumber finger sandwiches and chocolate madeleines, as strains of Chopin waft through the mild air. No, it is not the set of Downton Abbey - it’s my backyard, and you are all invited! This special event will feature a variety of teas, including herbal, brewed in the traditional loose-leaf manner. A variety of savory finger sandwiches, scones, Devonshire cream, jam, lemon curd tarts, and other pastries will be on offer. We will even have authentic seed cake, which is not generally known outside of Great Britain. Everything will be homemade. Intimate seating areas for four will feature the traditional china and linens of bygone days. We encourage our guests to join in the fun by dressing up: flowery dresses, gloves, hats, whatever you like. We believe you will find the afternoon to be as refined, relaxing, and enjoyable as have past generations, and you may even be lucky enough to go home the winning bidder of one of our six enticing and pampering silent auction items – the perfect end to a perfect day. This event is limited to adults, with both ladies and gentlemen welcome, and is a bargain at only $36.00 per person. All proceeds will go to the Catherina Bos Music Fund. There’s a catch, of course. This event has limited seating and we anticipate it will sell out quickly, so please RSVP today to Andrea Segal, at 480-9478 or [email protected]. Advance reservations are required, so please don’t delay. Andrea and I are looking forward to welcoming you to our first garden tea; an event we hope will become an annual tradition at Beth Shalom. Fundraiser Federation is now accepting donations for its Kosher Food Pantry. All goods should be non-perishable and have a kosher symbol. Items may be delivered to the Federation office at 2130 21st Street, Sacramento. We also accept toiletries and Judaica items. For a list of suggested items, visit www.jewishsac.org. If you are in need of visiting the Food Pantry, please contact Resource & Referral Coordinator Alicia Mittleman 16 Chai Lights Post on your refrigerator! CBS 17 Individual/ Family Counseling Jewish Family Service offers affordable individual and family counseling with Community Social Worker Alicia Mittleman, LCSW, or Pastoral Counseling Intern Joel Zeff, Rabbi of Kenesset Israel Torah Center. Strict confidentiality maintained. For more information or to schedule an appointment, contact Alicia at 916-205-0688. Purchase a leaf on the Tree of Life Commemorate a special event with a custom leaf on the CBS Tree of Life, prominently displayed in the foyer. Only $120.00, 120 being the age of Moses. Contact Carry Cohn or [email protected] for details. 18 Chai Lights Happy April Anniversary Jan & Mike Hagen Happy April Birthday David Malkin Marcy Merrill Miriam Noble Katie Braverman Jim Warner Benjamin Cornfield Edward Edelstein Karen Brandt Grace Wallach David Halen Leo Bernstein-Newman Ivan Gennis Amalia Birch Sarah Birch Joel Elias Aaron Forman Zoe Grossman Blake Saksenberg Hannah Davidson Carol Klein Bradley Singer Gilbert Simon Katrina DolengaSchwartz Benjamin Sol Meyer David Seidenwurm Sarah Garfinkel Janet Radding Joanne Bekhour Nicole Lawrence Brian Sullivan Karen Elkins Katherine Henderson Jessica Kurtz Santiago Rodriguez Steven Black Evan Schardl Debra Compson Norman Black Juliet Davis-Porter Ginger Bicks Alison Black Donald Parks Misha Igra Jeffrey Leibenhaut David Ginsburg Jacob Sandman March Tributes To the General Fund: From Dave & Roberta Malkin, in honor of he yahrzeit of Roberta’s father & Dave’s father-in-law, Leland Robert Doty From Dave & Roberta Malkin, in honor of the yahrzeit of Dave’s great uncle, Mack Malkin From Lydia Inghram, in memory of Eddie Appell’s father, Allen Appell From Fanny & Neil Levy, in honor of Layla Nalangan becoming a Bat Mitzvah From Fanny & Neil Levy, in memory of Eddie Appell’s father, Allen Appell From Betsy Jennings, in honor of the yahrzeit of her father, Woodrow Miller From Holly Ilfed & Bob Bennett, in honor of the yahrzeit of Holly’s father, Dr. Morris H. Cohan From the Lightman Family, in memory of Aryeh SteinAzen Good News Welcome to new members: Lynette and Lionel Stein Do you have good news to share? Please email or call the office so we can acknowledge your simcha and others can celebrate with you. To the Rabbis’ Discretionary Fund: From Phil & Shelley Spilberg From Sylvia Wechsler, in honor of the yahrzeit of her husband, Bernard Wechsler From Andrea Segal & Scott Parrish, in memory of Aryeh Stein-Azen To the Torah Fund: From Cecile Asch To the Catherina Bos Music Fund: From Richard and Susan Nicoles, in memory of Marlo Dewing’s father, Ronald J. Dela Cruz To the Kitchen Fund: From Andrea Segal, to replace the BBQ grill From Andrea Segal, to calibrate the ovens To the Choir Fund: From Lydia Inghram, in memory of Marlo Dewing’s father, Ronald J. Dela Cruz To the Religious Practices Fund: From Andrea Segal & Scott Parrish, in memory of Sharon Abilovitz Thank you for your generous donations. Please use the Contribution Form on the back page to support CBS Programs. CBS April Yahrzeits Paul Finkle Harold Dames Gertrude Lewis William Gardener Rene L. Rothschild Edna Brenin Lillian McCord William Pinion Alex Sandronsky Ed Johnson Robert Spivak Richard Arbit Leon Michel Rita Backer Grace Weiss Robert Bennett, Sr. Esther Azen Jacqui Evans Daniel Halpert Rose L. Cohn Jeffrey Nathan Beatrice Korn Leon Korn Charles Greenstein Leah Ostrow Canter Reta Malkin Patricia Frey Gary Halfant George Michel Sally Selma Nathan Lawrence Milton Davis Maurice M. Rifkin Harry Cousin Thomas P. Ballard Julia Bos David Massoth Carolyn Vollmer Francis Rosenberg Sigmund Rosenblum Morris David Canter Edna Cohen Abe J. Harris Mota Beryl Rose Duke Rae Golumb Albert Elias John Clark Claude S. Ray Saul T. Benjamin Lawrence Katz Jules Michel Morton Landau David Clarke Israel Stavis Ivan Levin John Spiess Eva Hochstat Belle Udane Estelle Klipp Helen Smith Sheldon Rosenberg Maurice Swatt Sarah Ammer Zelda Segall Lillian Beverly Max Paykel Augusta S. Sass Betty H. Wolk Zelinda Ann Nathan Michael Baum Remember a Loved One with a Yahrzeit Plaque Only $250. 00 Contact Dick Nicoles at [email protected] for guidelines and details. Parashot 19 Candle Lighting Friday, April 3 / 15 Nisan Erev Pesah 7:13 pm Saturday, April 4 / 16 Nisan 8:12 pm 2nd Night of Passover Thursday, April 9 / 21 Nisan 7:18 pm 7th Night of Passover Friday, April 10 / 22 Nisan 7:19 pm 8th Night of Passover Friday, April 17 / 29 Nisan 7:26 pm Shemini Mahar Hodesh Leviticus 9:1 - 11:47 Haftarah: I Samuel 20:18-42 Friday, April 25 / 6 Iyar 7:33 pm Taziria-Metzora Leviticus 12:1 - 15:33 Haftarah: I Kings 7:3-20 Want to participate on the bimah? If you are observing a yahrzeit, anniversary, birthday or just wish to be part of the Friday night service by performing any of the following tasks, please contact Dave Malkin at (916) 782 -3699 or [email protected] 1—light the Shabbat candles 2—Aliyah to the Torah 3—redress the Torah as Hagbah or G’lilah All Jewish members ages B’nai Mitzvot and up are welcome. Postage Address Label Beth Shalom Contribution Tribute Donation Form The enclosed is: ( ) a deposit to my individual tribute account ( ) a designation of $________ from my tribute account to ___________________Fund. ( ) a contribution to the ___________________________________________ Fund. In memory/honor (circle one) of _______________________________________________________ Please acknowledge: Name: __________________________________________________________________________ Address:_________________________________________________________________________ City, State Zip ____________________________________________________________________ Donor: Name: __________________________________________________________________________ Address: ________________________________________________________________________ City, State Zip: ___________________________________________________________________ Phone: ____________________________ E-mail: _____________________________________ General Support Fund • Rabbis’ Discretionary Fund Education Program Funds• Catherine Bos Music Fund • Lester Gould Library Fund • Beautification Fund Unjericho Fund • Memorial Board • Rachel Melamed Storytelling Fund Youth Programs Fund • Religious Practices Fund • Other Thank you for making a tribute to Congregation Beth Shalom in memory or honor of an individual. To insure proper recognition, please use this tribute form when sending your tribute. Thank you! CBS Sisterhood Tribute Chair Please return completed form to Temple Office
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