Whole Life Overhaul ------------------------------------------------------------Good Morning! Welcome to Week #3 At this point, we have started working on reawakening your spirit and giving you some control over your life. Keep reading your profile nightly, and keep working through the cleaning exercises. Are you starting to feel that you have a stronger foundation? A little more resolve? Good! The exercises this week won’t be so tough. I want you to get used to the cleaning habits, so I won’t overload you. So that you get in the habit of keeping your home picked up and clean, starting today you will also have a daily planner. The trick here is to keep building on the last lessons until you’ve gotten into the habit and it all comes naturally. Now you are going to start paying attention to you. The next 2 weeks will be just about taking care of you. The person you’ve probably neglected the most. How do you feel on those occasions when you take extra care to look your best? Picture one of those times now…. Take your time, there’s no hurry here. Feels pretty good, doesn’t it? You feel confident and attractive. You walk taller. You might even strut just a bit. Why not feel that way every day? Sigh…. I know- no time. That’s the excuse right? Baloney. You don’t think you’re worth taking the extra time. Let get rid of that lie right now. You are worth it. You deserve the 10 or 15 minutes it takes to look your best for the day, every day. You deserve to feel good about yourself. And just in case you’re still feeling a pang of guilt- if others in your life depend on you, then they need you to feel good about yourself. You can’t take care of the needs of others for very long if you don’t take care of your own needs. It’s a vicious negative cycle. You don’t take the time to take care of yourself, so you don’t look too good. You feel bad because you don’t look too good. Because you feel bad, you won’t take care of yourself. STOP-STOP-STOPGet off that merry-go-round NOW. We will work on you this week. Today’s exercise is one that will take a little practice. OK, maybe a lot of practice. You know what your perfect amount of sleep is. Mine is 7 hours. If I sleep 8 I get a headache that won’t go away. 6 is not quite enough. If you are not sure, start with a target of 7. Most people get less than 6, and it is wreaking havoc in increased accidents and illness. It costs the economy billions in lost time. It has the opposite effect of what people think they are accomplishing by sleeping less. You are actually less productive, and maybe even dangerous to yourself and others. Your body is a fine machine, as long as you maintain it. It far outlasts a Mercedes. You wouldn’t let your Mercedes go without gas, oil, and basic maintenance now would you? Of course not. It’s far too valuable. The Mercedes can be replaced. You can’t. Ok, enough of the lecture…. Back to the exerciseSince most of us don’t really have a choice when we can get up- we have to work backwards and set a bedtime. So, if you have to get up at 7 AM, then get to bed by midnight. If you have to get up at 5 AM (gasp!) then you have to be in bed by 10 PM. Just let everyone know you will turn into a pumpkin if you don’t. Which is sort of the truth, isn’t it? But you are going to make it even better. Wash all of your bedding. Use a nice smelling fabric softener. While the sheets are off- FeBreeze your mattress and pillows. When you sink into that nice clean bed….ahhh. That is your exercise today. Finish your picking up in the kitchen and bathroom, read your profile, and sink into that nice clean bed on time. See you tomorrow. Carole Read this out loud at the end of the day I will go to bed knowing that I did the best that I could this day and turn it over to my higher power to work on while I get some rest. I am confident that I am on the right track and making changes that will affect the way I live forever. Day by day, in every way, I’m getting better and better. My Daily Planner Monday, _______________________ This is going to be a Great Day! Every Day, in Every Way- I’m getting better and better! Today, I start taking care of me. 5:00 AM 5:30 AM 6:00 AM 6:30 AM 7:00 AM 7:30 AM 8:00 AM 8:30 AM 9:00 AM 9:30 AM 10:00 AM 10:30 AM 11:00 AM 11:30 AM Noon 12:30 PM 1:00 PM 1:30 PM 2:00 PM 2:30 PM 3:00 PM 3:30 PM 4:00 PM 4:30 PM 5:00 PM 5:30 PM 6:00 PM 6:30 PM 7:00 PM 7:30 PM 8:00 PM 8:30 PM 9:00 PM 9:30 PM 10:00 PM 10:30 PM 11:00 PM Clean the bedding Pick up clutter, papers, etc. Final cleanup- Read over your profile Get a good night’s sleep. Whole Life Overhaul ------------------------------------------------------------Good Morning! Here is Exercise #2 for this weekGet a haircut. Get a nice easy to care for cut. Relax and enjoy the shampoo. Feel the frazzled ends being cut away. Feel how nice it is to have someone else dry your hair. Feel the warmth of the dryer. Feel how fluffy your hair feels when it’s done. Now, go out and enjoy your new do. Watch how heads turn as your new, confident self walks through a crowded store. You can feel the new softness, you can feel how it lays in place so nicely. Admire your reflection in every window you walk past…and then admire it again when you get back home. OK, don’t forget to dust, pick up the kitchen and bathroom, read your profile, and get to bed on time. I’m such a slave driver, aren’t I? See You Tomorrow! Carole CommonSenseLiving.com Read this out loud at the end of the day I will go to bed knowing that I did the best that I could this day and turn it over to my higher power to work on while I get some rest. I am confident that I am on the right track and making changes that will affect the way I live forever. Day by day, in every way, I’m getting better and better. My Daily Planner Tuesday, ________________________ This is going to be a Great Day! Every Day, in Every Way- I’m getting better and better! I feel really good today. 5:00 AM 5:30 AM 6:00 AM 6:30 AM 7:00 AM 7:30 AM 8:00 AM 8:30 AM 9:00 AM 9:30 AM 10:00 AM 10:30 AM 11:00 AM 11:30 AM Noon 12:30 PM 1:00 PM 1:30 PM 2:00 PM 2:30 PM 3:00 PM 3:30 PM 4:00 PM 4:30 PM 5:00 PM 5:30 PM 6:00 PM 6:30 PM 7:00 PM 7:30 PM 8:00 PM 8:30 PM 9:00 PM 9:30 PM 10:00 PM 10:30 PM 11:00 PM Get a haircut today. Dust Final cleanup- Read over your profile Get a good night’s sleep. Whole Life Overhaul ------------------------------------------------------------Good Morning! Here is Exercise #3 for this week- Facing the World Today you’ll need some facial scrubbing grains. You can pick up St. Ives for pretty cheap. (I’ve even seen it in the sample aisle.) Neutrogena has facial cleanser with micro abrasion. It doesn’t have that big grainy feel to it. You probably will like that one better. Before bed, give your face a good washing with whichever product you choose. Splash rinse your face with cool water (not cold) about 10 times to rinse off any residue. This step is really good for your face. You will immediately see a difference. Follow up with a good moisturizer. If you like, you can use a self tanning lotions to give your skin a little color. Men are not excused from this exercise! Tomorrow morning, wash your face, splash rinse, moisturize. Men- shave. Women- put on your makeup. Fix your hair. I don’t care if all you have to do is walk the dog. Do it for you. You'll feel better if the reflection looking back at you in the mirror looks good. Looking at a tired, depressed, craggy looking face is not going to do much for your moral. Make the effort to look your best. You'll be mentally ready to start doing something. It's kind of like giving yourself this thought, Well, I'm ready, now what do I do? It starts a chain reaction; look better-feel better, feel better-look better. And you’re lookin pretty good there! Your ongoing exercisesToday is clean the kitchen day. It’s not so bad this week, is it? Don’t forget to check under the rangehood. If it’s really bad, use 409 orange cleaner and a scotch brite sponge. The kind with the green scrubber pad attached. You can use the wear it away practice. Remember? Every week, just work on it a little at a time until finally it is all worn away and clean. Pick up and quick clean Kitchen and Bath. Read over your dream profile. Get to bed on time. See You Tomorrow! Carole CommonSenseLiving.com Read this out loud at the end of the day I will go to bed knowing that I did the best that I could this day and turn it over to my higher power to work on while I get some rest. I am confident that I am on the right track and making changes that will affect the way I live forever. Day by day, in every way, I’m getting better and better. My Daily Planner Wednesday, _____________________ This is going to be a Great Day! Every Day, in Every Way- I’m getting better and better! I will put my best face forward. 5:00 AM 5:30 AM 6:00 AM 6:30 AM 7:00 AM 7:30 AM 8:00 AM 8:30 AM 9:00 AM 9:30 AM 10:00 AM 10:30 AM 11:00 AM 11:30 AM Noon 12:30 PM 1:00 PM 1:30 PM 2:00 PM 2:30 PM 3:00 PM 3:30 PM 4:00 PM 4:30 PM 5:00 PM 5:30 PM 6:00 PM 6:30 PM 7:00 PM 7:30 PM 8:00 PM 8:30 PM 9:00 PM 9:30 PM 10:00 PM 10:30 PM 11:00 PM Clean the kitchen Do a Facial Final cleanup- Read over your profile Get a good night’s sleep. Whole Life Overhaul ------------------------------------------------------------Good Morning! Here is Exercise #4 for this weekIncrease your Water Remember that success is about doing a lot of little things. One little thing you can do has a multitude of benefits. Water improves the look and texture of your skin. Kind of moisturizing from within. Aside from drinking water, be sure to be generous when rinsing your face. Splashing your face at least 10 times with cool (not cold) water helps to rinse away all traces of soap, cleaner, makeup and grime that may be left on your skin. You will see a noticeable difference in a couple of days. Water keeps your body organs lubricated and functioning properly. Water helps flush your system, including fatty acids. That is why it is such an essential part of all weight loss programs. Water helps you think better. That's right! Most of us are walking around with dehydrated brains. You will be able to retain more. Your kids will do better in school. Really, it's the truth. Water helps increase energy and endurance. I've read that we lose about 25% of our total capacity because of dehydration. Improve your life right now with this simple advice; drink your water! Your ongoing exercisesToday is bathroom-cleaning day. It’s a lot easier this time, isn’t it? Pick up and quick clean Kitchen and Bath. Read over your dream profile. Get to bed on time. See You Tomorrow! Carole CommonSenseLiving.com Read this out loud at the end of the day - I will go to bed knowing that I did the best that I could this day and turn it over to my higher power to work on while I get some rest. I am confident that I am on the right track and making changes that will affect the way I live forever. Day by day, in every way, I’m getting better and better. ____________________ My Daily Planner This is going to be a Great Day! Thursday, _______________________ Every Day, in Every Way- I’m getting better and better! I AM looking pretty good! 5:00 AM 5:30 AM 6:00 AM 6:30 AM 7:00 AM 7:30 AM 8:00 AM 8:30 AM 9:00 AM 9:30 AM 10:00 AM 10:30 AM 11:00 AM 11:30 AM Noon 12:30 PM 1:00 PM 1:30 PM 2:00 PM 2:30 PM 3:00 PM 3:30 PM 4:00 PM 4:30 PM 5:00 PM 5:30 PM 6:00 PM 6:30 PM 7:00 PM 7:30 PM 8:00 PM 8:30 PM 9:00 PM 9:30 PM 10:00 PM 10:30 PM 11:00 PM Water Water Water Water Water Water Water Clean bathroom(s) Water Final cleanup- Read over your profile Get a good night’s sleep. Whole Life Overhaul ------------------------------------------------------------Good Morning! Here is Exercise #5 for this weekStanding Tall Did you ever notice that successful people stand tall? They have great posture. It gives off the air of total self-confidence. You are drawn to them. You can have that sort of presence too. It doesn’t matter how you necessarily feel. It doesn’t have to show. Just stand tall. Another benefit is that your body is designed to function properly when you are sitting up straight. When you slouch, your body does not work as efficiently. A couple of times a day, make an effort to sit up straight for 5-10 minutes at a time. I find sitting in the car is a great time to do this. Make sure to hold your shoulders back. And you will find it uncomfortable at first. Your muscles have gotten used to the slouched position. Muscles atrophy (become weak and smaller in size) very quickly, rebuilding them takes much longer. Don’t expect overnight miracles if you’ve been a long term sloucher. To help create good posture, the most effective exercise you can do is: stand against a wall, with your feet about a foot apart. Press your shoulder blades back flush against the wall. At the same time, focus on your abdomen. Use your abdominal muscles to press the small of your back into the wall. Hold for 5 seconds and repeat. Another is to envision that you are wearing a back brace and cannot slouch. Another is to imagine that you are a puppet. There is a string attached to your head and it is being held tight. You have no choice but to stand up straight. No matter which method appeals to you, it is just a matter of being conscious of it and practicing. Practice everyday until it becomes habit. Speaking of habit- here are your ongoing exercisesLet’s see, today is vacuuming and washing floors. What can I say. This one is what it is. You can make it more fun with music. I’ve been known to dance with the vacuum cleaner. You could use this time to work your voice…who’ll hear you over the vacuum? Of course, continue your bedtime routine, quick clean-up of kitchen and bath. Review your dream profile. Get to bed on time. See You Tomorrow! Carole CommonSenseLiving.com Read this out loud at the end of the day I will go to bed knowing that I did the best that I could this day and turn it over to my higher power to work on while I get some rest. I am confident that I am on the right track and making changes that will affect the way I live forever. Day by day, in every way, I’m getting better and better. _________________________ My Daily Planner This is going to be a Great Day! Friday, _________________________ Every Day, in Every Way- I’m getting better and better! It’s easier to stand tall when I feel good about myself. 5:00 AM 5:30 AM 6:00 AM 6:30 AM 7:00 AM 7:30 AM 8:00 AM 8:30 AM 9:00 AM 9:30 AM 10:00 AM 10:30 AM 11:00 AM 11:30 AM Noon 12:30 PM 1:00 PM 1:30 PM 2:00 PM 2:30 PM 3:00 PM 3:30 PM 4:00 PM 4:30 PM 5:00 PM 5:30 PM 6:00 PM 6:30 PM 7:00 PM 7:30 PM 8:00 PM 8:30 PM 9:00 PM 9:30 PM 10:00 PM 10:30 PM 11:00 PM Stand Tall (or sit tall) Water Stand Tall Water Water Stand Tall Water Water Sit Tall Water Do Floors Water Posture exercise Final cleanup- Read over your profile Get a good night’s sleep. Whole Life Overhaul ------------------------------------------------------------Good Morning! Here is Exercise #6 for this weekBreathe Deep You know, after you have had surgery they give you this thing to do breathing exercises with? I asked the Doctor why they do this. He doctor told me that most people use less than ½ of their lung capacity. He explained that what happens is that the sacs at the bottom of the lungs don’t get expanded the way that they should. Then they develop a sticky substance that stops the sacs from opening. Left long enough, the sacs completely lose the ability to open even when heavy breathing is required. I still have the little breathing tester that they give you when you are in the hospital. I check every once in a while to make sure I can still top the thing out. Breathing exercises are an important part of meditation and yoga. Proper breathing increases mental clarity. It also increases energy and endurance. Deep breathing helps to relieve stress. To do basic deep breathing exercises1. Slowly breath in through your nose for a count of 8 seconds. 2. Breath out through your mouth for a count of 8 seconds; being sure to completely empty your lungs. Repeat a few times. There really isn’t a cleaning assignment for today. Just pick up. You can make buying fresh flowers a weekly ritual/ treat if you like. Catch up on laundry. Enjoy being home. Read. Do make sure that you are: Picking up the kitchen and bath before you go to bed, and reading your profile every night, and getting to bed on time. See you Tomorrow! Carole Read this out loud at the end of the day I will go to bed knowing that I did the best that I could this day and turn it over to my higher power to work on while I get some rest. I am confident that I am on the right track and making changes that will affect the way I live forever. Day by day, in every way, I’m getting better and better. ____________________ My Daily Planner This is going to be a Great Day! Saturday, _______________________ Every Day, in Every Way- I’m getting better and better! It feels so good to have some time to myself. 5:00 AM 5:30 AM 6:00 AM 6:30 AM 7:00 AM 7:30 AM 8:00 AM 8:30 AM 9:00 AM 9:30 AM 10:00 AM 10:30 AM 11:00 AM 11:30 AM Noon 12:30 PM 1:00 PM 1:30 PM 2:00 PM 2:30 PM 3:00 PM 3:30 PM 4:00 PM 4:30 PM 5:00 PM 5:30 PM 6:00 PM 6:30 PM 7:00 PM 7:30 PM 8:00 PM 8:30 PM 9:00 PM 9:30 PM 10:00 PM 10:30 PM 11:00 PM Water Take care of this face. Do breathing exercises to get moving. Stand Tall Water Water Do breathing exercises to relieve stress. Water Water Sit up! Water Read and do breathing exercises Water Final cleanup- Read over your profile Get a good night’s sleep. Whole Life Overhaul ------------------------------------------------------------Good Morning! Here’s Exercise #7 Your chores are done. Go out and do something with your family. Fill out your weekly report. Complete the following report, answer each question honestly and thoroughly. Copy and paste this report into the body of an email and send it to: mailto:[email protected] BeginCopy-----------------------------------------------Report WEEK 3 Did you finish each assignment this week? Do you feel that you gained some control through the exercises? Do you feel better about yourself after finishing these exercises? Do you feel happier with yourself after completing these exercises? Comments/Feedback Your NameYour EmailEndCopy--------------------------------------------------------------------- ________________________ My Daily Planner This is going to be a Great Day! Sunday, ________________________ Every Day, in Every Way- I’m getting better and better! I accomplished a lot this week. Today I’m going to play. 5:00 AM 5:30 AM 6:00 AM 6:30 AM 7:00 AM 7:30 AM 8:00 AM 8:30 AM 9:00 AM 9:30 AM 10:00 AM 10:30 AM 11:00 AM 11:30 AM Noon 12:30 PM 1:00 PM 1:30 PM 2:00 PM 2:30 PM 3:00 PM 3:30 PM 4:00 PM 4:30 PM 5:00 PM 5:30 PM 6:00 PM 6:30 PM 7:00 PM 7:30 PM 8:00 PM 8:30 PM 9:00 PM 9:30 PM 10:00 PM 10:30 PM 11:00 PM Water Water Breathing Stand Tall Water Water Water Water Water Breathing and posture exercises Water Final cleanup- Read over your profile Get a good night’s sleep. I will go to bed knowing that I did the best that I could this day and turn it over to my higher power to work on while I get some rest. I am confident that I am on the right track and making changes that will affect the way I live forever.
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