International and Comparative Law Journal (ICLJ) LCLS(S) EVENT London College of Legal Studies (South): My Home Ruqaiyyah Kazi1 Have you ever noticed your father or mother acting differently around people who they have studied with? That twinkles around the corner of their eyes seeming to sparkle more than usual, and how someone above 45 automatically turns into someone in their twenties? If the answer to all the questions above is 'YES,' it is only because your parents are reminiscing the best years of their lives. This is no anti-ageing cream, but simply a scientific belief that deems every face is etched with memories; sorry kids, apparently that look turns into a grimace once you show up. What they cherish is not having to feel young (partially), but the memories being young. Most tales begin with "When I was in University..." and hence, so will this. Once you are done graduating high school, a thrill wrecks your spine with countless chills for a new beginning. After all, how many times do we encounter new beginnings? It's the time of the year where you resolute to yourself to be better in whatever you The author is a student of LL.B.(Hon’s) under University of London at the London College of Legal Studies (South). 1 91 92 International and Comparative Law Journal (ICLJ) will do compared to when you had been in high school. University - a place to become someone worth it. I was stuck in a world of anonymity after high school with faces covered in masks. I remember choosing Law with no hesitation and just listening to the whispers of my gut; finally learning to distinguish between the whale-like stomach growls and well, my gut. Yes, surprisingly there was no "deep" reason to pick Law. Don't judge me; I was only 15 when I had decided to become a lawyer. So, out of the big check list that I had created for myself, "finding a course" had a big tick mark beside it and that gave rise to the next "big thing" - friends. "A real friend is one who walks in, when the entire world walks out" - Walter Winchell I was challenged by Walter Winchell to find someone like that and my response was, "Challenge accepted!" and let me tell you, Walter, I became friends with the very first person I had an argument with. Beginner's luck? The fact is, law schools are occupied with filthy rich kids whose parents are either politicians or lawyers. Everyone was aware of what they were doing but my family had no history of politicians or lawyers, so I was an alien. Yes, you may conclude that it was indeed, a beginner's luck. This raised doubts but my mind was just playing table tennis with itself - the ball reflecting my thoughts and bouncing against all the walls without a solution. Was it the right decision to satisfy my glutton gut? Now what? International and Comparative Law Journal (ICLJ) I gave myself a shot and paid attention to what the teachers uttered. I understood the concept of Euthanasia, why DPP Vs Morgan was abolished, how Lord Denning made a revolution, how a Claimant won against all odds and lastly, how Boston Legal became more interesting because I could finally decode it. Now, I understand why my gut directed me towards Law. But of course, decoding was not achieved solely by me. I was guided by teachers who understood the notion of these twisted laws and incorporated it with the changing Society - mastering the art of associating law with the relevant facts; the lesson we are taught throughout the law school. The best part about my teachers is that, they make themselves available 25/8, despite their busy schedules, and I am not exaggerating this one pinch. For instance, a teacher made themselves available via Skype, and all other contact means to resolve doubts before exam. Who does that!? But don't be mistaken that a University life is only about academics. This is the phase where you explore your interior talents and try to implement them accordingly. If you're an athlete, you'd be welcomed with a warm heart to our Sport's club which facilitates football, cricket, badminton and table tennis - ensuring to participate constantly in the tournaments held nationally. But there is a catch; you need to be someone who goes by the rule - "early to bed, EARLY TO RISE," I CANNOT stretch the latter half enough. For those of you who do not like the spotlight, you can participate 93 94 International and Comparative Law Journal (ICLJ) in community services via the Community club. The Community club is always active with non-stop projects that revolve around the very basics of humanity - helping one another. Lastly, the traits that all lawyers need to have, is practiced in the Debating and Mooting club. Debating and mooting helps your thought process to elevate to such an extent where you'd want to end your comeback with "Owned!" The club members have participated internationally and have debated with high spirit all the way. The fun does not end here. We have conducted Fresher's night where the freshers (obviously) and the graduates are welcomed with a rock show, followed by other eventful programs such as fashion show, drama and whatnot. Every year there is an annual picnic which helps everyone release stress through the fresh environment, away from the City life and its dilemma. Consecutively, a trip outside the country is also held immediately after the end of exams. The perfect time to rest your mind and occupy it with cultures that you've never thought of; welcoming yourself to explore outside the barrier that you have created for yourself. Well, I believe you have finally grasped the enigma about your parents' "sparkly" faces. But times have changed and currently, before stepping into the competitive world, we are taught to be attackers and always on defence because everyone is striving for the same goal - a secured future. In the process of securing a picture International and Comparative Law Journal (ICLJ) for ourselves gazillion years later, we forget to live the instant moment that has taken birth just for us. We become too busy in being that shark, who will only think about trampling (in the shark scenario, "biting") others, rather than thinking about selfimprovement. Little do we know that if we continue being this way, we will all become drones, or that shark that ends up alone? However, if you see the way my institute is living; it's all about THIS moment, not next. Through its ways, I have learned to live a drone-free life and have achieved so much over time. I have achieved a goal that drives me to exert effort every day, various friendships that will help me smile on my death bed, teachers that have believed in my abilities when the odds were against me, and the multiple events that have tested my talents. I may not live up to it, but now I know they are worth fighting for because it's all about THIS moment, and not next. So, I would like to welcome you to my home - London College of Legal Studies (South). Finally, I know 20 years from now; I will be that person with a twinkle around the corner of her eyes, embracing the memories of my home. 95
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