HE NEVER FAILED ME YET Sometimes there are tragedies in life that seem to overwhelm us to the point of despair. Some strike at the very core of our faith. Often it seems they are the “starting over from scratch” kind. Things like divorce, death of a loved one, job loss, bankruptcy, just to name a few. For many people these sorts of tragedies initially come with some level of support from friends, family, and their church community. But, after the shock wears off, and after our support system fades some of us find ourselves questioning God, questioning our faith. How do we move forward? Where do we find the strength, the courage to rebuild our broken faith? I realize the question is larger than my ability to answer. But, I do have a few suggestions that might help you rebuild your faith after tragedy. First, a little background. The book of Nehemiah reflects the nation of Israel’s re-birth. For about 800 years after the Exodus the descendants of Abraham lived in the land of Israel. And for most of that time they were halfhearted at best in their worship of God. Then, after 800 years of warning, God removed the people from the land He had given them. For seventy years they were in captivity and then in 538 BC Cyrus, the King of Persia sent them back to Israel. They returned and began to try to rebuild their country, the city of Jerusalem, and their faith. Like all of us who have faced tragedy, whether brought on by our sin or not, they struggled to start over. Their initial enthusiasm waned, the realities of life drove them to despair, and shortly they were struggling just to survive. Huge portions of the city were unoccupied, and the walls of the city were in ruins. Eventually they built a small temple, but the city of Jerusalem was still in shambles. They were faced with starting over and they started well. But, it didn’t last. Sound familiar? Divorce, death, and other tragedies initially hit us hard. Then often we recover and make a good show of letting people know that we are ok. But, after a while the realities of the new normal set in and we find ourselves still too wounded and overwhelmed by the size of the task of starting over to continue on. So, we just stop. Ways to rebuild your broken faith. The first seven chapters of Nehemiah focus on the rebuilding of a broken community. But for our purposes I want to focus on the events of chapters 8-10, the rebuilding of a broken faith. 1. Spend time in the Word of God. Nehemiah 8 There is no shortcut, no pep talk, no medication that will replace the healing power of just spending time reading, studying, and meditating on the Word of God. Many of us would like to feel better instantly. But that is not the way the universe works. It takes time and the best way to spend that time is in the Scriptures. Read Nehemiah 8 and mark each reference to the book or law. Answer the following questions: 1|Page ©2010-2012 Precept Ministries International-8.25.14 Who read the book of the Law? What was the response of the people to the truth they heard? Verse 9 Verse 12 Verses 13-18 2. Confess your personal sin. Nehemiah 9:1-3 The Word of God changed the hearts, the attitudes of the people. The Word of God exposed their part in the tragedy. They recognized their sins. Sometimes, not always, but sometimes we have a part to play in the tragedies we face. If we have sinned, our own sins need to be addressed and confessed. For example, divorces are rarely the product of only one person. In most cases both parties played a role in the breakup of the marriage. Ask yourself if there is any personal sin involved in whatever tragedy you are facing. Then confess it, call it what it is, and ask God to forgive you for your part, no matter how large or small that may be. Now, this is the best part. Israel sinned against God and their sin was obvious! But, God did not forsake them, He did not abandon them. Even in their sin God loved them and took care of them. It is so easy to forget this, but God will not fail you! He will not leave you or abandon you. 3. Remember what God has done. Nehemiah 9:5-38. This assignment is a little long, but it is so worth it! Do not skip this! Read Nehemiah 9. Mark each reference to God with a triangle. List what you learn about God from Nehemiah 9. You don’t need to worry about what is implied; just stick with the facts. Ask yourself what exactly the text teaches you about God and then write it down. When you have finished think about the following questions. Given the context of chapter 8, what was the point of this exercise in the lives of the Jewish people on that day? Why would it be helpful in times of deep tragedy to remember what God has already done in your life? 4. Start putting the pieces of your spiritual life back in place. Nehemiah 10:28-39 2|Page ©2010-2012 Precept Ministries International-8.25.14 Read Nehemiah 10:28-39. Mark references to the Jewish people. In verses 28 – 29 watch for “their” and “we.” List exactly what they have promised to do. What do their actions have to do with their spiritual life? Or, how are their actions related to their religion? Wrap up The people of Israel faced a harsh new reality after returning to the land of Israel. The fear and stress must have been overwhelming. They felt alone and isolated, much like each of us do when we come through a tragedy. How do you handle it? What do you do? Go back to God. You go back the clear examples in your life of what God has done. Start by spending time in the Word of God. Too many times pain drives us away from God and His Word when it should drive us closer to Him. Make up your mind that nothing will separate you from time in the Word. Confess any personal sin that the Spirit shows you. Although we all sin, you may not have sinned in this situation; but if the Holy Spirit points something out, don’t ignore or justify it! Just confess it and turn from it. Journal what you have seen God do in your life. This one exercise might set you free from your pain. Remembering what God has done as the leaders did in Nehemiah 9 will renew your faith and set your eyes on heaven instead of the hell you are walking through. Please, if you have a tragedy in your life and you are in one of those devastating “start over” places in life, try this exercise. Buy a journal or a notebook and every day take a few minutes to list how you have seen God’s hand at work in your life. You will soon find yourself overwhelmed by His grace and His goodness. Then, pick yourself up, dust off your knees, and start doing what you know to do. The steps are not easy, and pain will tend to make you do nothing. But, we both know that doing something will lessen the pain and doing nothing only lets the pain grow, dominate, and control. Pray, get up, step out, and start doing what you know you should be doing. We have a lot of resources to help you study the Word and find hope in time of crisis. The following links will take you to our favorites. Lord, Heal My Hurts Finding Hope After Divorce Lord, Where Are You When Bad Things Happen? 3|Page ©2010-2012 Precept Ministries International-8.25.14 In your pain, remember God will never fail you! He Never Failed Me Yet – Robert Ray I will sing of God's mercy Every day, every hour He gives me power. I will sing and give thanks to Thee For all the dangers, toils and snares That He has brought me out. He is my God and I'll serve Him No matter what the test Trust and never doubt Jesus will surely bring you out He never failed me yet. I know God is able to deliver In times of storm And I know that He'll keep you safe From all earthly harm. One day when my weary soul is at rest I'm going home to be forever blessed Trust and never doubt Jesus will surely bring you out He never failed me yet. Didn't my God deliver Moses from King Pharaoh? And didn't He cool the fiery furnace For Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego? When I think of what my God can do He delivered Daniel I know He will deliver you. Trust and never doubt Jesus will surely bring you out He never failed me yet. Want more resources like this one? Check out www.precept.org/resource! 4|Page ©2010-2012 Precept Ministries International-8.25.14
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