Ontario Government Proposed 2015 Health and Physical Education Curriculum for Grade 1-8 The Issue ! The Ontario Ministry of Education is proposing a new Sex Education Curriculum under the umbrella of Health and Physical Education which will come into effect as of Fall 2015. ! The curriculum was originally introduced in 2010 but was retracted after 3 days of public backlash. Dalton McGuinty promised parents at the time that a public consultation would take place before the curriculum is reintroduced. The Concerns ! The ministry consultation process was extremely poor. (No outreach was done to parents; instead, the chairs of 4000 Parent Councils across the province were asked to fill out a survey without seeing the content of the curriculum. The questions were generic and the chairs were advised not to consult with anyone in order to maximize the value of the survey). ! The changes marginalize the role of parents in teaching their children about values. (In various parts, the curriculum attempts to create a clash between the children’s desires and their parents’ religious and cultural beliefs). The Concerns - continued ! The age-inappropriate material placed throughout the 2015 curriculum is seen as an attempt to sexualize children in their early years; thereby making them easy targets for sexual exploitation. ! The proposal is biased, since the then Deputy Minister of Education, Ben Levin, who administered the curriculum content, was recently charged with seven counts of child pornography as part of an international investigation. Levin pleaded guilty to 3 of the 7 offences. The Issue In Details by Grades Grade 1 (6 years old) Curriculum ! Parents’ Input Human Development and Sexual Health ! Limit the vocabulary to “Penis & C1.3 identify body parts, including Vagina”. No need for extra detail at genitalia (e.g., penis, testicles, vagina, such a young age. vulva), using correct terminology [PS] ! Replace other people with my Teacher prompt: “We talk about all body parents, my teacher or first parts with respect. Why is it important responder in emergencies. to know about your own body, and use correct names for the parts of your body?” Student: “All parts of my body are a part of me, and I need to know how to take care of and talk about my own body. If I’m hurt or need help, and I know the right words, other people will know what I’m talking about.” (p. 93). Skip to actions needed Grade 3 (8 or 9 years old) Curriculum ! C3.3 Parents’ Input ! Remove “gender identity and sexual orientation” – Not age appropriate, introduce in grade 10. (C1) ! Gender identity is each person’s internal and individual experience of gender. It is their sense of being a woman, a man, both, neither, or anywhere along the gender spectrum. A person’s gender identity may be the same as or different from their birth-assigned sex. Gender identity is fundamentally different from a person’s sexual orientation. (Definition from the Ontario human rights code) ! According to the code, It is clear that a 8/9 years old will neither have the capacity to comprehend nor will have the experience of gender. Since experiences come with practice and from being involved in action Teacher prompt: describe how visible differences (e.g., …) and invisible differences (e.g., … cultural values and beliefs, gender identity, sexual orientation ... (p. 124) Grade 4 (9 or 10 years old) Parents’ Input Curriculum ! C1.5 Teacher prompt: “What can change socially as you start to develop physically?” ! Student: “….. Some people start ‘liking’ others. They want to be more than ‘just friends’ and become interested in going out. Sometimes people treat you as if you are older than you actually are because of how you look. Sometimes classmates, friends, or family make comments or tease you about the changes.” (p. 141) ! Remove – In conflict with most of cultural teachings. (C4) Grade 5 (10 or 11 years old) Curriculum ! C2.4 Student Prompt: Parents’ Input ! Remove “gender identity and sexual orientation” – still controversial. Move to grade 10 when the students are mature enough to understand the concept instead of confusing them. (C7) ! Also should not be listed among “Things I cannot control” as is not scientifically proven. “Things I can control include …... Things I cannot control include where I was born, who is in my family, how much money my family has, and personal characteristics such as my skin colour, hair colour, whether I am male or female, my gender identity, sexual orientation, and overall body shape and structure.” (p. 159). Grade 6 (11 or 12 years old) Curriculum ! P. 172 - C1.1 Teacher prompt: “Different types of drugs can have very different effects on your body, …. ! Student: “Cannabis can change the way you see and feel things – distances can seem shorter or longer than they really are, and things that are serious can seem funny Parents’ Input ! Remove the phrase “and things that are serious can seem funny”. Such phrase is very inviting, especially to vulnerable children that might want to escape the seriousness of their less-than-ideal reality Grade 6 (11 or 12 years old) Curriculum ! P. 172 - C1.3 identify factors that affect the development of a person’s self-concept (e.g., environment, evaluations by others who are important to them, stereotypes, awareness of strengths and needs, social competencies, cultural and gender identity, support, body image, mental health and emotional well-being, physical abilities). Parents’ Input ! C1.3 identify factors that affect the development of a person’s selfconcept (e.g., environment, evaluations by others who are important to them, stereotypes, awareness of strengths and needs, social competencies, cultural and religious beliefs, support, body image, mental health and emotional well-being, physical abilities) Grade 6 (11 or 12 years old) Curriculum ! C2.5 Teacher prompt: “Things like wet dreams or vaginal lubrication are normal and happen as a result of physical changes with puberty. Exploring one’s body by touching or masturbating is something that many people do and find pleasurable. It is common and is not harmful and is one way of learning about your body.” Parents’ Input ! According to the Canadian Criminal Code 152 - no one can invite a child under the age of 16 to touch himself/herself or them for a sexual purpose. The penalty for this offence is a mandatory minimum period of imprisonment of up to a maximum of 10 years; ! According to research [ref] and marriage counselling, masturbation leads to unfulfilling relationships Grade 6 (11 or 12 years old) Curriculum ! P. 175 - C2.6 Teacher: “How does knowing yourself help you to make healthy decisions when you are in a relationship?” Parents’ Input ! Research shows that adolescents don’t have fully developed rationalization and decision making skills; and should not feel obligated to make decisions about sexual relationships ... ! At this age they need to learn how to make healthy decisions and choices in all relationships, not only in a romantic relationship. Grade 6 (11 or 12 years old) Curriculum Parents’ Input ! C3.3 Students: “Stereotypes are usually formed when we do not have enough information… we can work to change stereotypes. We can understand people’s sexual orientations better, for example, by reading books that describe various types of families and relationships. ! Should be: ” .. We can understand our differences better, for example, by reading books that describe various types of families and relationships …” ! …We need to make sure that we don’t assume that all couples are of the opposite sex, …, we could use a word like ‘partner’ instead of ‘husband’ or ‘wife’. We need to be inclusive and welcoming.” (p.177) ! Both terms can co-exist (“partners” and “husband and wife”). Asking the students to replace “husband and wife” is a breach to the Equity and Inclusion Framework in Ontario. Grade 7 (12 or 13 years old) Curriculum ! C1.3 explain the importance of having a shared understanding with a partner about the following: delaying sexual activity until they are older (e.g., choosing to abstain from any genital contact; choosing to abstain from having vaginal or anal intercourse; choosing to abstain from having oral-genital contact); the reasons for not engaging in sexual activity; the concept of consent and how consent is communicated; and, in general, the need to communicate clearly with each other when making decisions about sexual activity in the relationship. (p. 195) Parents’ Input ! ! Research suggests that early exposure to sexually graphic material is likely to have a negative influence on children. ! Prematurely sexualizing the child; ! Increases acceptance of high-risk behavior; ! Shapes expectations in relationships; ! Shapes expectations of physical appearances and certain sexual acts; ! Increases risk of problematic sexual behavior against others for experimentation Laws about legal age for different sexual practices & consent, as well as STD statistics, should be made available. Grade 7 (12 or 13 years old) Curriculum ! ! C1.5 Teacher prompt: “Engaging in sexual activities like oral sex, vaginal intercourse, and anal intercourse means that you can be infected with an STI. If you do not have sex, you do not need to worry about getting an STI. (By the way, statistics show that young people who delay first intercourse are more likely to use protection when they choose to be sexually active.) If a person is thinking of having sex, what can they do to protect themselves?” (p. 196) Parents’ Input ! Remove (oral sex, vaginal intercourse, and anal intercourse). ! Remove anal sex from the curriculum for various health & legal reasons as detailed in the proposal (pages 37-39) ! Students need to learn that even oral sex is considered a sexual activity that can transmit STDs. They are exposed to this information from their peers. (C12) ! At this age they are considered children and minors (<16), and cannot have sex according to the Law. Grade 7 (12 or 13 years old) Curriculum ! ! Student: “.. People who think they will be having sex sometime soon should keep a condom with them so they will have it when they need it. They should also talk with their partner about using a condom before they have sex, so both partners will know a condom will be used. If a partner says they do not want to use a condom, a person should say, ‘I will not have sex without a condom.’ If you do have sex, it is important that you use a condom every time, because condoms help to protect you against STIs, including HIV, and Parents’ Input ! it is important to highlight the limited effectiveness of condoms in protecting against STD’s & pregnancy. ! It is illegal and age inappropriate to suggest to 11 and 12 year olds that they could now have sex under the condition they carry a condom. Grade 7 (12 or 13 years old) Curriculum ! HIV treatment can reduce the amount of HIV in someone’s body to the point where it is much less likely that HIV will be transmitted. ! HIV is transmitted through contact with bodily fluids – semen, blood, vaginal or anal fluid, and breast milk ! One of the best things you can do to stop HIV is to stop the stigma that is associated with having the infection Parents’ Input ! In some cases, HIV treatment can reduce the amount of HIV in someone’s body to the point where it is much less likely that HIV will be transmited. ! Remove the phrase “anal fluid”. We failed to find a medical term in any REPUTABLE or TRUSTED sources ! It is misleading & dangerous to say that stopping a `stigma’ about any disease, would in any way stop the disease itself. Grade 7 (12 or 13 years old) Curriculum ! P. 199 - C2.4 Teacher prompt: “Thinking about your sexual health is complicated. It’s important to have a good understanding of yourself before getting involved with someone else. It’s not just about making a decision to have sex or waiting until you are older. It’s also about things such as your physical readiness; safer sex and avoiding consequences such as pregnancy or STIs; your sexual orientation and gender identity; your understanding of your own body, including what gives you pleasure. Parents’ Input ! “… It’s not just about making a decision to have sex or waiting until you are older. It’s mainly about things such as your physical readiness; safety and avoiding consequences such as pregnancy or STIs; your understanding of your own body and the emotional implications of sexual intimacy and being in a relationship.” ! Inviting students to understand what gives them pleasure is an open invitation to have sex to experiment and explore. Grade 7 (12 or 13 years old) Curriculum ! P. 199 - C2.4 Teacher prompt: “Thinking about your sexual health is complicated. It’s important to have a good understanding of yourself before getting involved with someone else. It’s not just about making a decision to have sex or waiting until you are older. It’s also about things such as your physical readiness; safer sex and avoiding consequences such as pregnancy or STIs; your sexual orientation and gender identity; your understanding of your own body, including what gives you pleasure. Parents’ Input ! A key responsibility of the curriculum is to protect the health of students by educating them, particularly girls, about the physical development of their bodies and how waiting until adulthood is always the healthiest choice for sex. ! Sexual orientation and gender identity to be introduced in grade 10 Grade 8 (13 or 14 years old) Curriculum ! C1.5 demonstrate an understanding of gender identity (e.g., male, female, two-spirited, transgender, transsexual, intersex), gender expression, and sexual orientation (e.g., heterosexual, gay, lesbian, bisexual), and identify factors that can help individuals of all identities and orientations develop a positive self-concept (p. 216) Parents’ Input ! Remove and introduce in grade 10. ! Why do 13 year olds need to “demonstrate an understanding” of such detailed information on a subject that is extremely controversial? It completely disregards the Judeo-Christian values that are described in section 264 of the Ontario Education Act. ! Wording suggests to unsuspecting minors that they don’t have a choice in their gender and orientation, which is a highly controversial statement that research has not proven to be true as of yet. Grade 8 (13 or 14 years old) Curriculum ! ! P. 218 - C2.3 explain how stress affects mental health and emotional well-being, and demonstrate an understanding of how to use a variety of strategies for relieving stress and caring for their mental health (e.g., engaging in physical activity, listening to music, resting, meditating, talking with a trusted individual, practising smudging “Some First Nation people, for example, use smudging to relieve stress...” Parents’ Input ! Smudging is used by First Nation people and in conflict with some other cultures. It may also be perceived as New Age Religion which is in conflict with some other religions ! Talking to and seeking advice from their parents/guardians should be on the list ! How Can You Help to Stop this? ! If you are convinced with the changes proposed by “the well-informed parent” group, which this presentation summarised, fill the disclaimer, sign and send it back. http://www.thewellinformedparent.com/resources “Your disclaimer will be used to support the proposal to the Ministry.” ! Visit the link http://www.thewellinformedparent.com/letters-to-your-mpps , and download any letter format you like, sign and send to your MPP or MP. ! Be involved and raise your concern, it is your child and/or grandchild at stake. ! It is Your Right. Summary - We are not opposed to the change of curriculum in general but opposed to certain points that are major and not acceptable, hence, we are criticizing the lack of consultation with parents. - Parents are the main educators and they need to be heavily consulted in any moral and sexual messaging to their kids (This is not a math curriculum where input from experts is the main driver). - We need to add a guarantee that the teachers will not add their own experiences or influence the children in any way and that they will stick to the factual information. - The concept of sexual consent should be aligned with the Canadian Law and a reference to the Law needs to be stressed. (C14) - We have concerns about sections that are not age appropriate (C1, C2, C7, C12, C14, C15) - We have concerns about sections that would encourage kids on conducting illegal sexual behaviour before the age of 16. (C11, C12, C14) - We have concerns about sections that would encourage actions that are not aligned with the other cultural teachings. (C4, C5, C9, C11, C12, C14) - We have concerns about sections that need to be more accurately defined (C3, C6, C8, C10, C12, C13).
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