Page 1 Editor’s note: I had planned to include this article because of a number of losses locally. Then Boston happened. I was born and raised in Massachusetts and have to apologize if this issue is a little Boston -intensive. My late husband and I spent many happy hours in that part of Boston and in Watertown, MA so the sense of loss and tragedy is palpable for me. Prayers go out also to West, TX; Sichuan province, China; and the flood victims in Illinois. May God see to their needs and grant them peace, healing and comfort. A How-to Guide for Responding to Sickness and Grief When asked to pray in public, I am tempted to add after the prayer, “I am a professional. Do not try this at home.” After all, aren’t all Christians to pray? But the area where this is most noticeable can be in reaching out to those who are sick, dying or grieving. This is usually left to the priest and perhaps also to one or two persons in a congregation who seem to have the gift for what is sometimes called “pastoral care”, but that is really the duty of all Christians to live out loving our neighbors. person God has in the area who can respond in a time of tragedy. How you respond will depend on the gifts God has given you. As the Apostle Paul taught in writing about the Body of Christ (I Corinthians 12), we each have differing abilities given to us by God. The key is to discover your gifts and then use them to help others in time of need. Beyond “Let me know how I can help” The most commonly heard statement in the wake of some personal tragedy is “Let me know how I can help.” It is generally sincere and almost universally unhelpful. This statement gets the response all wrong as it puts the burden on the one in need. Try something more specific based on your abilities. For a cancer patient with young children, if you have the time and talent, offer free childcare. To the caregiver of a dying spouse, offer to mow the grass. Or to the family in grief offer meals, or to handle phone calls coming into the house, or to keep up with the help coming in to organize thank you notes. When the offer is more specific, the answer will more frequently be “Yes.” To assist in lowering the bar a bit, I will share a two-part Loose Canon which is my version of a guide for anyone who feels that he or she doesn’t know how to respond when tragedy strikes a friend or family member. As Christians, we are to share God’s love with those in need, but how can we make a difference in the lives of those who are hurting? While you won’t be able to take all the pain and suffering and make it go away, you can have a positive effect on those suffering emotional or physical pain. This is where I find we men, who often find we have nothing to offer in the midst of tears and suffering, are well equipped to offer direct assistance. Find the way that you can best help others and then be open to making the offer as needed. You might come to be a grass cutting, or medicine picking up specialist in no time. In his Parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37), Jesus shows that God does not start with me as the person who wants to provide aid and answer with limits on who I have to help. God begins with the person in need and asks, “Who do I have in the area who can help?” Looked at in this way, you will sometimes be the The Rev. Frank Logue Canon to the Ordinary Next [time], I will cover what not to say and then move on to how to write and speak to those in the midst of suffering. This is Part One of a guide for responding to grief by the Rev. Frank Logue, Canon to the Ordinary of the Diocese of Georgia. Rev. Logue writes at http:// loosecanon.georgiaepiscopal.org/ and is always enlightening. Page 2 Happy Mother’s Day and Thank You, Mom! A Mother's Love There are times when only a mother's love Can understand our tears, Can soothe our disappoints And calm all of our fears. There are times when only a mother's love Can share the joy we feel When something we've dreamed about Quite suddenly is real. There are times when only a mother's faith Can help us on life's way And inspire in us the confidence We need from day to day. For a mother's heart and a mother's faith And a mother's steadfast love Were fashioned by the angels And sent from God above. Author Unknown 2013 HR Camp Schedule The HR Camp brochure and registration are now available. It is only $60 per week for our members to attend. For details about the season, the brochure, or to register, visit: http://camp.diowy.org/ or contact: [email protected] or [email protected]. July 7 - 12 Middler Camp Grades 3rd- 5th July 29 - August 2 End of Season Camp Grades 4th- 9th (For those who could not attend other sessions.) July 14 - 19 Middle School Camp Grades 6th- 9th July 21 - 26 Art and Photography Camp Grades 4th- 9th August 8 - August 11 Family Camp This will be a service camp on the Wind River Reservation. Register now to be part of the fun! From Wheatland High School Muira Bunker Page 3 Presiding Bishop offers prayer for Boston [April 15, 2013] Episcopal Church Presiding Bishop Katharine Jefferts Schori calls for prayer following the explosions in Boston, MA, and offers the following prayer: Gracious God, you walk with us through the valley of the shadow of death. We pray that the suffering and terrorized be surrounded by the incarnate presence of the crucified and risen one. May every human being be reminded of the precious gift of life you entered to share with us. May our hearts be pierced with compassion for those who suffer, and for those who have inflicted this violence, for your love is the only healing balm we know. May the dead be received into your enfolding arms, and may your friends show the grieving they are not alone as they walk this vale of tears. All this we pray in the name of the one who walked the road to Calvary. Boston Marathon Bombings (Sending prayers in the aftermath of explosions near Copley Square) Washington, DC—The Very Rev. Gary Hall, dean of Washington National Cathedral, has released the following statement in response to today’s (April 15th) bombings in Boston, Mass. Monday’s two bomb blasts in Boston are a sobering reminder of the persistence of malevolent violence in our world. The Boston Marathon is one of America’s most joyous and treasured sporting and community events, so the attempt to disrupt it through bloodshed strikes all people of goodwill as especially heinous. We at Washington National Cathedral join those who have deplored these attacks, and we will continue to hold the victims, their families, and the city of Boston in our prayers in the assurance that God will bring healing and hope to those who suffer and mourn. We also give thanks for the ministry of former Cathedral Dean Samuel T. Lloyd III, now priest-in-charge of Trinity Church, Copley Square, and will keep the parish community in our prayers as they reach out to all those touched by yet another event of senseless violence. [SOURCE: Washington National Cathedral] Calling All Young Episcopalians! A diocesan youth event for grades 6 through 12 will be held at St. Matthew's Cathedral in Laramie from May 24th to May 26th. Transportation is available from Rawlins, Riverton, and Casper. This is the second of four quarterly diocesan wide youth events that are planned for 2013. The event will begin at 7:00 pm Friday night and will include fun activities, reflection, a service project on Saturday, planning time for our next gathering, and worship with the Cathedral on Sunday morning. This event is built upon the framework of the popular Happenings program. Leaders for this first event are Kate Marcotte, Diocesan Staff; Syd Johnson, HR Camp Director; and Tristan English. The cost for the event is $10. Questions? Please call (307) 265-5200 or email [email protected]. Our financial status as of the end of March, 2013 is as follows: March Actual $6,484.92 YTD $13,482.55 Budget $38,850.00 Cash Disbursements $3,004.29 $ 9,667.55 $35,212.00 Net Income (Loss) $3,480.63 $ 3,815.00 $ 3,638.00 Cash Receipts Checking & Savings balances as of 3/31/13: Total in checking $ 5,320.07 Total in memorial fund $77,190.50 Page 4 All Saints’ Episcopal Church May 2013 Service Schedule If a change in your schedule is necessary, please make those arrangements and notify the Worship Team Leader, Jill Zimmerschied, at 331-8746. Thanks! 6th Easter May 5 10:00 AM Weekly Lectionary ~Mother’s Day~ 7th Easter May 12 10:00 AM Acts 16:9-15 Psalm 67 Acts 16:16-34 Psalm 97 Revelation 21:10, 22-22:5 John 14:23-29 or John 5:1-9 Revelation 22:12-14, 1617, 20-21 John 17:20-26 Morning Prayer Day of Pentecost May 19 10:00 AM 1st Pentecost Trinity Sunday May 26 10:00 AM Acts 2:1-21 or Genesis 11:1-9 Psalm 104:25-35, 37 Proverbs 8:1-4, 22-31 Psalm 8 or Canticle 2 or 13 Romans 8:14-17 or Acts 2:1-21 John 14:8-17, (25-27) Romans 5:1-5 John 16:12-15 Worship Leader/ Chalice Bearer Doug Weaver Nancy Robinson Jill Zimmerschied LeRoy Jons Priest or Deacon Ray Grieb Lori Modesitt None Ray Grieb Preacher Ray Grieb Lori Modesitt Nancy Robinson Ray Grieb Lector (ScriptureReader) Jill Bramlet Shana Bunker John Robinson BJ Durr Prayers of the People Bonnie Portwood Callae McManus None Cathy Hellbaum Music Jane Olind Jane Olind BJ Durr BJ Durr Greeters Bonnie Portwood VirJean Reynolds John Robinson Lee Modesitt Eucharistic Visitors ——— Jill Zimmerschied & Bonnie Portwood ——— Jill Zimmerschied & Bonnie Portwood Sunday School No Sunday School Today ALL (Last Day) ——— ——— Church Cleaning (Once per month) Leslie Dickerson Altar Guild Crepe & Casserole Brunch (Bring fillings!) Memorial Day Weekend Coffee Hour Joann Lewis & Jeanne Jones Tue 8 9 2 23 Dinner begins at 5:30 pm 16 10 AM Morning Worship 30 29 22 15 Thu 26 28 21 14 NATIONAL TEACHER APPRECIATION WEEK IS MAY 6-10 NA TI ONA L F A M I LY W EE K I S M AY 5 - 11 7 1 Wed Last Day: Friday, May 24th 27 20 13 6 1—Grady Haeffelin 24—Jeannie Mitchell Dr. & Cindy Woods Torrie Rice 8— Joann Lewis Cassie McDonald 11—George Good 26—Nancy Munier 12—Joni Zowada Cole Goertz 17—Jacob Dingman Laynie Goertz 20—Tom & Jill Bramlet 28—Ruth Bookout Mon Chugwater Graduation 7:00 PM WHS Graduation 2:00 PM 19 8:30 AM Vestry Meeting 10 AM Morning Worship 10 AM Morning Worship 12 10 AM Morning Worship 5 Sun 31 24 17 10 3 Fri 25 18 Glendo Graduation 7:00 PM - 8:00 PM 11 4 Sat Calling all young Episcopalians grades 6 12! A diocesan youth event will be held at St. Matthew's Cathedral in Laramie May 24th to May 26th, starting at 7 pm Friday evening. The cost for the event is $10. All Saints’ Episcopal Church May 2013 Page 5 Page 6 What can we do in tragedy’s wake? A reflection from Massachusetts Bishop Thomas Shaw By M. Thomas Shaw | April 17, 2013 [Episcopal Diocese of Massachusetts] A few years ago one of my younger brothers, Sam, in his early 60′s, ran the Boston Marathon. My family came from all over the country to support him and watch the marathon. We had a great time, getting on and off the crowded Green Line subway trolleys, standing on the side of the road in Newton, following the race into Boston for the finale. We loved being together in the spring weather, marathon fans and baseball fans, because there was a game that day, out in force celebrating the pure joy of this New England day. I expect almost every one of us in eastern Massachusetts at one time or another, whether as a runner in the race, or supporter of a friend or family member or spectator, has had the same experience. That was the spirit yesterday, when, in the middle of the afternoon, before all the runners had crossed the finish line, with huge crowds in the Copley Square area, two bombs killed three and injured more than 150 people. It seems unlikely the event will ever be quite the same again. My first phone call was from our suffragan bishop, Gayle Harris, then our canon to the ordinary, Mally Lloyd, followed by Jep Streit, the dean of our cathedral. I then called Sam Lloyd, the priest-in-charge of Trinity Church in Copley Square, and then we were in touch with the people of Emmanuel Church on Newbury Street, also so close to the explosions. It seemed there was very little we could do because the police requested only the presence of first responders in the Copley Square area. Slowly, as the afternoon went on into the early evening, it looked as though none of our church members were directly affected. The executive director of Episcopal Relief and Development called me to see if they could help. I heard from Arrington Chambliss, our director of the Life Together program, that all of our interns were safe. So many of our priests and deacons in the diocese called, texted or e-mailed offering their help. Gayle and I heard from people all over the world, also offering to help in whatever way they could. We are so grateful. What can we do? We can pray, most immediately for caregivers and responders, for those who are wounded or grieving, for all who are fearful or angry. God will show us how we can best bring Christ’s peace and healing to this difficult time if we continue to pray about what has happened, if we talk to one another, if we make every effort to include these murders and assaults with every act of violence witnessed in the last year. How are we being called actively to bring peace to our cities and beyond? Good can triumph over evil, but it’s going to take some work. Ever since last fall and the murder of our own Jorge Fuentes, we in this part of the Episcopal Church have been listening to each other and bringing awareness to the violence in our cities and our country so we can find the most peaceful way forward. Over the last 10 days I have been talking to clergy across our diocese asking them to participate with their congregations in the Louis D. Brown Peace Institute Mother’s Day Walk for Peace, and I have been deeply moved by the willingness to join in this witness (you can register to join us as a “B-PEACE for Jorge” team member by using the drop-down menu). It is important to bring our presence to events that support a vision of peace and healing. So many of our congregations have already opened their doors to bring their communities together in prayer. The Spirit is moving within us, asking us to be the bearers of peace. God will show us how. Pray for our City of Boston and for all who have been so deeply affected by this violence. Page 7 Vestry Views ‘n News: To set the tone at our April 21st Vestry meeting, Co-Senior Warden Cindy Abbott read a devotional about valuing others and looking at good rather than at faults. Our thanks to Bruce Hellbaum and VirJean Reynolds who conducted the 2011 and 2012 audits for All Saints’. Also thanks to Jeannie Mitchell, Cathy Weaver, Cathy Hellbaum and Bronnie Barry for their excellent financial and organizational skills which enable our Church to meet the Episcopal Diocese standards. The Committee did find some discrepancies which need to be addressed. The Vestry will address, remedy, and clarify these concerns, and then submit a written report to the State Episcopal Diocese as to their resolution. We then all admired the new toilets that were installed since our last meeting. Very nice! Action was taken on a request from Lori Modesitt on behalf of Syd Johnson, director of HR Camp, who wondered if All Saints’ would be willing to donate a dining table for the Camp. At a cost of approximately $80, the Vestry voted to fund this request. We’re still looking at the needs of the physical Church, and always appreciate suggestions, comments, and (of course) donations. By the time you are reading this newsletter, we will have already conducted our Blue-Jean Sunday which we scheduled for April 28th. So – the plan is that we will have had lots of assistance on that day, and the Church and yard will have gotten a wonderful spring cleaning. However, as the Spring and Summer progress, if you see a need, a weed, or a lack of toilet paper or other supplies, please feel free to pull the weed or bring some supplies!! It takes a village, you know! As always, please let us know if you have concerns which can be addressed at our Vestry meetings or otherwise. Submitted on behalf of your Vestry members. Happy Spring!! Co-Senior Wardens, Jane Olind & Cindy Abbott The Cathedral Home for Children’s 34th Annual Awards Banquet will be held on Thursday, May 16th, 2013 at the UW Conference Center in Laramie. Dress is semiformal. Dinner starts at 5:30 pm. There is an invitation with menu choices in the parish hall. This is a popular event, so please RSVP by May 7th to: [email protected] or call 307-721-1582. Leslie Dickerson and Bronnie Barry plan to complete work on the church directory as soon as possible. If for any reason you do NOT wish to have your information published, please notify Leslie at 322-1880 or Bronnie at 322-9067. Thank you! New Wall Art in the Church Office! Please stop by the church office and see the “Wonderful Counselor” tapestry wall hanging. The tapestry includes all the names that Jesus is known by: Messiah, King of Kings, Lamb of God, etc. with Scripture from Micah 5:2, Isaiah 9:6 and Matthew 1:23. It is a joy to behold! The colors in the tapestry are a beautiful compliment to the new wall color too! Your Parish Administrator, Bronnie Barry, would like to express her sincerest thanks to Rev. Jill and the Vestry for agreeing that this was just what that bare wall needed. A big thanks also to Fr. Ray Grieb’s family and Leslie Dickerson’s insistence that those wonderfully tall chaps get the tapestry up on the church office wall at last. Thank you, all! Page 8 Episcopal Church Foundation Offers Webinars for May & June Major Donors for Dioceses (May 1, 2:00 PM ET), presented by ECF Program Director, Terri Mathes Identifying & Recruiting New Leaders (May 7, 7:00 PM ET), presented by Ella Auchincloss, founder of the Diocese of Massachusetts' Leadership Development Initiative (please note that there is a $10 fee to participate in this web conference) Running a Holy & Effective Meeting (May 14, 7:00 PM ET), presented by Ella Auchincloss, founder of the Diocese of Massachusetts' Leadership Development Initiative (please note that there is a $10 fee to participate in this web conference) Part I of Getting to the 'Why': Building a Shared Sense of Purpose (June 4, 7:00 PM ET), presented by ECF Program Director, Miguel Escobar Part II of Getting to the 'Why': Prioritizing Leadership Development (June 6, 2013, 7:00 PM ET), presented by ECF Program Director, Miguel Escobar All Saints’ Episcopal Church 605 - 11th Street PO Box 997 Wheatland, WY 82201 [email protected] http://allsaintswheatland.diowy.org
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