Scarsdale Synagogue Temples Tremont and Emanu-El Fr id Bo a ay rd o , N f Tr ov uste e Ple em s In sta b as l e j er 14 latio oin n us I ! 8p m Scarsdale Synagogue Temples Tremont and Emanu-El Hineinu • הננוWe are here! Creating a covenant community of shared lives and real relationships. S H A L O M N E W S L E T T E R E LU L– T I S H R E I 5 774 – 5775 n O C TO B E R 2014 Sukkot FEAST OF BOOTHS Join us on Wednesday, October 8 ( D ETAILS INSID E) Professional Staff JEFFREY C. BROWN • Rabbi [email protected] CHANIN BECKER • Cantor [email protected] WENDY PEIN • Director of Congregational Learning [email protected] ROBERTA ARONOVITCH • Executive Director [email protected] JODY GLASSMAN • Nursery School Director [email protected] SARAH METZGER • Youth Group Director [email protected] SSTTE OFFICE [email protected] Board of Trustees Committee and Program Chairs Joy Bertan Sara Feinstein Roy Fenichel David Goldman Ron Katter Fredda Kwitman Jeff Margolin Jonathan Paul Beverly Picker Rhonda Pomerantz Debbie Schenfeld Mark Schneyer Emily Scherer Steinberg Amy Strongin Joel Wagman Carolyn Weiss Marsha Williams Jeff Zelkowitz Budget & Finance Steven Eigen Tom Vogel Care2Connect Christine Ginsberg Communal Worship Steven Masket Harvey Tessler Connected Congregations Ellen Baken Early Childhood Education Valerie Greenberg Lauren Ornstein Family Events Alison Litofsky Funds Investment David Newman James Shifren Governance Task Force Lowell Williams Library Life-Long Learning Millicent Baschkin Barbara Ginsberg Randee Horowitz Scott Baken Long-Range Planning Jay Chalson Madelaine Eppenstein Marketing & Public Relations Stuart Pearlman Eric Schoen Membership/Community Alison Litofsky Scott Rothstein Women of SSTTE Co-Presidents PJ Library Randee Horowitz Susan Lippmann Religious School Andrea Miller SSTTE Seniors Aaron Plum Congregational Leadership DONNA VITALE RUSKIN . . . . . . . . President KAREN CHAPRO. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Social Action STEVEN EIGEN. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Sec. / Treasurer DEBBIE FINN . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Learning ALISON LITOFSKY. . . . . . . . . . . . . . Community STEVEN MASKET. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Worship JULES NATOWITZ. . . . . . . . . . . . . . Administration SCOTT ROTHSTEIN. . . . . . . . . . . . . Community TOM VOGEL. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Finance ELLEN BAKEN. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Past President Ex-Officio Members of The Board Communal Worship Religious School Youth Group Pres. Honorary Trustee Harvey Tessler Andrea Miller Izzy Puig Rebecca Rosenberg Barbara Chesler Sandy Rothstein Professional Staff Emereti STEPHEN A. KLEIN. . . . . . . . . . . . . Rabbi – SSTTE [email protected] Brotherhood of SSTTE Co-Presidents Richard Primoff Dan Alpert KERRY BEN-DAVID. . . . . . . . . . . . . Cantor – SSTT Social Action/Tikkun Olam Karen Chapro Elinor Wharton Team Kehillah Ellen Plum Rosenberg ___________________________________ United Interfaith Food Bank Larry Eidelberg Elinor Wharton REBECCA SHUBERT. . . . . . . . . . . . . Educator – SSTTE SCARTY Group Co-Presidents Isabella Puig Rebecca Rosenberg Youth Advisory Board Debbie Finn Julie Schneyer SST TE SHALOM NEWSLET TER Programming Vice President Rachel Blume Communications Vice President Ben Chalson Membership Vice President Jenny Appelbaum Religious and Cultural Vice President Noah E. Steinberg Treasurer Jonathan Glickman NFTY NAR Liason Anna Wingate Social Action Vice President Zoe Zelkowitz GARY KATZ. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exec. Director – SSTTE ALAN HOCHBERG . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exec. Director – SSTTE MARILYN SHEBSHAIEVITZ. . . . . . Exec. Director – TE PHILIP ARONSON. . . . . . . . . . . . . . Exec. Director – TE The Shalom is partially funded by the Women of SSTTE. If you have ideas for a new article please contact Roberta Aronovitch, Executive Director, at 914.725.5175. The Shalom is published monthly (except for July & August). The Deadline for the November, 2014 Shalom is Friday, October 10, 2014. In order to meet the publishing deadline, please submit information on a timely basis according to the deadline listed. The SCARTY Youth Group welcomes all 9–12 graders from SSTTE to participate in activities. For more information contact Sarah Metzger: [email protected] Welcome! Any questions, please contact us either by E-Mail: [email protected] or Phone: 914.725.5175 RELIGIOUS SERVICES Wednesday, October 15** Friday, October 3 8:00 PM Kol Nidre Service Erev Simchat Torah 6:00 PM 6:30 PM Saturday, October 4* 10:00 AM Yom Kippur Service* 11:00 AM Children & Teen Service 1:00 PM Adult Discussion 1:30 PM HHD Family Experience** 3:00 PM Afternoon Service** 4:45 PM Yizkor followed by Neilah** and Breakfast Friday, October 17** 8:00 PM Friday, October 24** Sharing Shabbat Pizza Dinner Simchat Torah Service (Consecration of new students in Religious School) Shabbat of Simcha Sign up to attend or host a Shabbat Dinner Wednesday, October 8** Saturday, October 25** 10:00 AM Shabbat BaBoker 5:30 6:15 6:30 7:30 Friday, October 31** 8:00 PM Erev Sukkot PM PM PM PM Decorating and Crafts Sukkot Ritual and Songs Dinner Sukkot Evening Service Shabbat Service *Child Care Available **Open to the public Friday, October 10** 8:00 PM Chavurah Service SOMETHING FOR EVERYONE In this publication we try to print something for everybody. For those who like services, there is the Worship Section. For those who like to check on Mitzvahs there is the Cycle of our Congregational Family section. And for those who like to find mistakes, we have included a few of those as well. Please let us know if you have found any misspellings of names so that we may correct these typos in our records. CONTENTS AN INSPIRING Religious Service……………………………………….….3 Women of SSTTE………….…………………………..………..13 From Our Rabbi…...………………..……...……….………4 Care2Connect………………………………..……….…………14 From Our Director of Congregational Learning….….…..5 Judaica/ARZA………………………..…………….…………....15 Welcome Director of Youth Engagement………….….…6 Berlin & Krakow with Rabbi Brown…………………….….…..16 Yom Kippur Gift of Life…………………………….….…...7 SSTTE Library/PJ Library…………………………………..….17 From Our Director of Youth Engagement………….……8 SSTTE Seniors/Sharing Shabbat..……………….………. .…18 Mazel Tots………………………………………….…..……9 The Cycle of Our Lives/Generation to Generation....…….….19 Communal Worship Corner……………………...............10 Advertising……………………………………………….…...20-24 Social Action/Tikkun Olam….……………………...…11-12 -3- FROM THE CLERGY OF SCARSDALE SYNAGOGUE TEMPLES TREMONT AND EMANU-EL custom of ushpizin (Aramaic for “guests”), in which we are encouraged to invite out loud by name the spirits (or presence) of those no longer with us to join Shanah Tovah! May the New us in our respective sukkot. Year 5775 be filled with good This can be a moment of healing for those mourning health and much fulfillment! the loss of a dear loved one, as we acknowledge our Tishri, the Hebrew month we desire to re-connect with them, and share another currently find ourselves in, is holiday memory with them. Other ushpizin might CRAMMED with Jewish include a favorite figure from the Bible or Jewish holidays. Although Rosh History. At its core, ushpizin is about hospitality: Hashanah and Yom Kippur claim so much of our opening up our hearts and our homes to share with attention, I’d like to share a few thoughts about the others. week-long festival of Sukkot, which follows Yom Kippur by four days. (Join us on Wednesday At SSTTE, we are always asking ourselves how we as evening October 8th as we welcome Sukkot a synagogue can be more hospitable. The recent together with a free congregational dinner, second iteration of our nametag project over the High Holy Days, and the light onegs that followed Rosh sukkah decorating, and other festivities.) Hashanah morning services, have come out of that One of the great themes of Sukkot is the Jewish value conversation. And our Sharing Shabbat initiative this of hospitality: of opening up our homes, and sharing year (in which we will be encouraging congregants to a little of what we have with others. Thus, Jewish host one another for Shabbat dinner on four different tradition encourages us to not only dwell in a sukkah Friday nights) is another. I hope you will join us in at our local synagogues (feel free to spend time in participating! Please be in touch with the temple SSTTE’s throughout the holiday!), but also to build office if you are interested in either hosting or being sukkot (plural of “sukkah,” the unique mostly-organic hosted. And, as always, if you have any feedback or booths of the holiday) in our homes and to invite suggestions on how our synagogue can be even more guests to join us there for a meal, a treat, or even a hospitable and welcoming in the future, I hope you won’t hesitate to reach out and let me know. sleepover! Dear Friends: Hospitality in one’s sukkah isn’t limited to the “in- From my home to yours: wishing you only good person” guests that join you there. There is also the things in the year ahead. Rabbi Brown We are excited to welcome Sarah Metzger as our new Director of Youth Engagement! Our Search Committee and Board of Trustees voted unanimously to approve her hire. (For a glimpse of what Sarah looks like, see p. 6) Sarah is a 2010 graduate of University of Hartford, majoring in Judaic Studies. She has taken graduate level courses in Models of Teaching in Jewish Education and Spiritual Development for Jewish Education. Sarah was the Director of Youth Engagement at Congregation Sha'aray Shalom in Hingham, Massachusetts for two years. She comes to us with a Jewish Summer Camp background, having spent time as a head counselor, song leader and Judaic Specialist. We look forward to having Sarah lead our youth groups, teach in our school and energize all of us with her song leading. Please help us to welcome her to our Scarsdale Synagogue family. Sarah is looking forward to meeting and getting to know our youngest members, our teens and their families in the coming weeks, and to sharing a wide range of events that have been planned for this coming year. 4 FROM THE DESK OF RABBI WENDY D. PEIN DIRECTOR OF CONGREGATIONAL LEARNING SSTTE Religious School Update This month, we begin the study of the Book of Genesis. In the story of creation, the first thing God does is establish order out of chaos, and the first thing God creates is light. (Genesis 1:3). Light symbolizes Judaism’s commitment to clarity, openness, and knowledge. The opening weeks of SSTTE religious school often mirror the story of creation as we seek to establish order (instead of chaos!) with registration, schedules and class routines. Our goal is also to emanate the light of Jewish knowledge to all our students. This past September, we welcomed Cantor Dan Pincus into our school to help a group of our 4th - 6th grade students learn how to blow the shofar. Our goal was to create a small Shofar choir during the children’s services for Rosh HaShanah and Yom Kippur. One of our new teachers, Mrs. Barbara Vehaba, also arranged for our students to have Israeli pen pals with a Hebrew school in Afula, Israel. Our students will be corresponding with their students all year to learn about our Israeli peers’ lives in Israel. This month, we will also be setting up a student tzedakah collective for our pre-K - 3rd grade students. Stay tuned for more details! Team Tikkun begins Wednesday, October 1 Calling all our 8th – 12th graders – get ready for Team Tikkun! Our first Team Tikkun session will be Wednesday, October 1, 6:30 - 8:15 PM. Here are just a few highlights of our upcoming 2014-2015 Team Tikkun Program: · · · · · · Jewish Comedy 101 for our 11th and 12th grade students Class sessions about the modern state of Israel and Israeli culture with our new Israeli faculty member, Gal Segall Hanging out in Hebrew for our 8th grade students Jewish Teen Fundraising Network project (8th and 9th grade) A class addressing the Holocaust and Human Rights Scan here to Register! More Community Service and Leadership Activities for all grades To register your teen online, go to http://goo.gl/w6IPMi OR Scan the QR Code Not quite sure yet? Your teen is also welcome to drop in for a session of Team Tikkun before making a decision to register for the year. Please let me know if your teen is interested in doing this ([email protected]). Our Madrichim / Teen Aide Program Our teens have the opportunity to serve as aides in our Sunday school classrooms, and they may choose to receive a monthly stipend or receive community service hours. We currently have thirteen Madrichim serving our school on Sundays! If your teen may be interested in serving as a Madrich/Madricha/teen aide, please contact [email protected]. Jacqui Kaplan is the Religious School Administrator, and has been with SSTTE for one year. She is married with two children and lives in Larchmont. Jacqui is originally from South Africa and has lived in the States for almost 14 years. She comes from a close knit Jewish community and is a member of a local Conservative synagogue. Jacqui enjoys meeting new people and looks forward to greeting you in the Religious School office! She wishes you and your family a happy and healthy New Year! 5 FROM THE DESK OF OUR DIRECTOR OF YOUTH ENGAGEMENT Meet the new Director of Youth Engagement Hello, Scarsdale Synagogue! I’m so excited to be joining this community as the Director of Youth Engagement. Though I just started a few weeks ago, my time here thus far has been incredible and I’m thrilled to continue following my passion and working with Jewish youth. When I’m not busy inspiring the youth, you can find me jammin’ on the guitar, ukulele, kazoo, or piano, doing awesome impressions of roadrunner, or binge-watching Parks and Recreation. Through my many summers at URJ Camp Harlam and my participation in the NFTY-EIE High School in Israel program, I essentially grew up in the Reform youth movement. I started working with youth groups right out of college and immediately fell in love with it. I’ve had the privilege of working with Jewish communities all over the country, including New Hampshire, Massachusetts, Florida, California, and most recently Colorado. During my work in Massachusetts, I managed to revive a previously inactive youth group that now has upwards of 30 members and is still going strong. Again, I’m so excited to be here and I can’t wait to share my experience and expertise with the youth of Scarsdale Synagogue! Here’s what you can look forward to this month: October 1 October 5 October 19 October 26 First day of Team Tikkun Out of the Darkness walk to benefit the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention SCARTY day trip to Max Brenner followed by a photo scavenger hunt at grand central station SCARTY Jr. event TBD Stay tuned for more information about these upcoming events. If you have any questions, complements, or constructive feedback, please feel free to email me at [email protected]. 6 FROM THE DESK OF OUR DIRECTOR OF EARLY CHILDHOOD It’s the beginning of our 14th year and we’re off to an amazing start! Our Mazel Tots are simply adorable and adjusting to their new routines. Our warm and wonderful teachers have done so much to help the children settle in. All the classrooms are just great and have proven to be amazing places for the children to explore! This year we’ve added some new programs for our youngest Mazel Tots. We now have Fall as well as Spring Toddler Programs. Also, beginning this January we’ll have a new 3-Day 2’s program for those just turning 2 years old. We haven’t forgotten about our oldest Mazel Tots! We are designing a fullday 4/5’s class which will begin in September 2015. This new program promises to be an exciting and enriching! It will feature more hands-on exploration and more in-depth skills development. Call us to learn more about the program! If you are interested in learning more about Mazel Tots or Summer Stars, please call the Nursery School office at 723-3001 to arrange an appointment to see the school. We’d love to show you around! Jody Glassman, Director Jocelyn Gross is the Assistant Director here at Mazel Tots. She spends her mornings in the nursery school office, working alongside Jody Glassman. She loves watching the children explore, play and grow each school year. She spends most of her time giving tours to prospective families, planning events for current families, and supporting the staff in any way she can. Jody and Jocelyn work together to plan for the continued growth of the youngest members of our synagogue. This will be Jocelyn’s 6th year working at Mazel Tots and is a former Mazel Tots mom. Jocelyn and her family have been members of SSTTE since 2003. 7 COMMUNAL WORSHIP CORNER Gratitude and Commitment and Compassion Most of us have moments when we experience feelings of gratitude, commitment and compassion. And during those times we sometimes show very physical displays, evidencing those feelings - tears, big smiles, a ‘glow’, etc. These are usually cherished moments in our lives – they are meaningful and bring meaning to our lives These are also important Jewish values and are expressed explicitly or implicitly during services in our liturgy. Celebrating Shabbat by attending services is a great opportunity to create those very same cherished moments – of feeling gratitude or commitment or compassion. Each of our spiritual moments during the service feels good… and the congregation can somehow sense the shared emotion and expression. A Shabbat service is a communal setting for prayer, while at the same time our individual prayer helps to create community and connections to each other. Heschel writes: “To attain a degree of spiritual security one cannot rely upon one’s own resources. One needs an atmosphere, where the concern for the spirit is shared by a community… we need the company of witnesses, of human beings who are engaged in worship, who for a moment sense the truth that life is meaningless without attachment to God (and to each other).” Here are some examples of parts of the service when we can reflect and think meaningfully … and possibly ‘create’ these special feelings: Gratitude - Modim Anachnu Lach. During the T’filah (or Amidah) we give thanks to God for everything in our lives. What do you feel most grateful for in your life? Commitment: V’Shamru. “La Asot et hashabbat l’dorotam b’rit olam” “keeping the Sabbath as a covenant for all time”. What commitments have you made to a spouse, a parent, a child, a sibling, a friend?... when sometimes it’s not easy… but you do it … or you show up … or you are there for them… because you are committed... Hineini…and that commitment creates a transcendence connecting you in a way that is difficult to express in words… but felt in your heart. Compassion: Mi Shebeirach. Prayer for those who are not well. Where we pray together for their healing and restoring their ‘wholeness’ (refuah shlemah). Whom do you know in need of healing? How many people do you encounter every day where showing them your favor, your love, your compassion (Chain, v’Chesed, v’Rachamim) would really be a good thing for you and them? There are no rigid associations between any of your individual feelings and specific prayers. Any prayer can trigger any of those ‘moments’ – it’s whatever speaks to each of us. The liturgy, however, has some purposeful prayers when it may be easier to make meaningful associations. And that’s one reason that Shabbat services can be so special… if you help yourself to the opportunity. And because prayer is communal, invite a friend or family member to Shabbat services the next chance you get, and see if you can experience Heschel’s shared communal spirit and “for a moment sense the truth that life is meaningless without connection”. Shabbat Shalom Harvey Tessler 8 TZEDAKAH AUTHOR DANNY SIEGEL Scholar- in-Residence Weekend, Oct. 24 - 26 Danny Siegel is a renowned lecturer on social action and tzedakah. He has spoken in more than 500 Jewish communities, to synagogues, JCC’s, day schools and afternoon schools on tzedakah and Jewish values. He is the author of 29 books on topics such as Mitzvah Heroes and practical and personalized tzedakah. We are thrilled to welcome Danny Siegel as a scholar-in-residence during the weekend of October 24 – 26. Please save the date(s) for the following programs during the weekend: Saturday, October 25 – Danny will speak during our Shabbat BaBoker morning service on the subject of social action. His topic will be: There’s No Such Thing As a Small Mitzvah: More Than 36 (2 X Chai) Easy Ways To Make a BIG Difference With Just a Little Tzedakah Money and/or a Minimum of Time, Effort, Stamina, Talents and Personal Strengths and Preferences An informal Shabbat lunch will follow the service Saturday evening, October 25 – Our teens will have a Tikkun Olam Havdalah/fundraising event with Danny Siegel. This night will be an amazing opportunity to learn about social action from an expert, and it will also be a great opportunity for the teens to socialize, enjoy some live music and comedy from professionals and teens alike, and raise money for a social action / justice cause. Sunday morning, October 26 – During religious school, we will have a religious school assembly with parents during which Danny Siegel will speak to them and give them a tzedakah raising “charge” to kick-off the religious school year. On Sunday morning, Danny Siegel will also study with our 4th - 6th grade students on the subject of social action and tzedakah. He will be present throughout the morning to interact with parents and discuss tzedakah and social action. Women of SSTTE / Steps for Tzedakah, October 26 Following Sunday School -Weather permitting, Danny Siegel will join a group of us on a social action walk to raise tzedakah for My Sister’s Place and The Women of the Wall. We hope you will join us for these instructive and motivating events! 9 SOCIAL ACTION/TIKKUN OLAM ‘The flame of a single candle is not diminished by lighting even a thousand other candles.’ Every little bit counts….Really! I love the High Holy Day season and its call to reflect on the year that has been and to contemplate the future. The sense of possibility and new beginnings is almost palpable. Wherever your own introspection leads you this year, I encourage you to consider what role helping others plays in a rich and meaningful life and what place it will have in your life. So many of our Congregants already are shining examples of Tikkun Olam, G’milut Hasidim, Tzedakah, Social Action - whatever label you apply - doing amazing things to help others. If you are one of these people and are passionate about a cause or organization, please share your passion with us. We’d love to develop more programs to support what our members are already doing to Repair the World! Already, a wealth of opportunities to help Repair the World will be available whenever you walk through the doors at Scarsdale Synagogue this year. Some of the Tikkun Olam programs taking place in our sacred community this fall include: High Holy Day Food Drive: On Yom Kippur, we ask that you bring back the bag distributed on Rosh Hashanah filled with the items on the list attached to the bag. The food collected on the High Holy Days helps our Interfaith Food Bank bring food to hungry families and seniors 20 minutes away from us in the north Bronx twice a month all year round. Yom Kippur Gift of Life Bone Marrow Donor Registration Drive: On October 3rd and 4th, healthy individuals between the ages of 18 and 60 will have the opportunity to have their cheeks swabbed in order to register as potential blood cell or bone marrow donors. Information about the process of being screened and potentially donating is available at the Gift of Life website and will be available during the drive. Folks who do not qualify to register are welcome to help register others. Sukkot Dinner and Congregational Celebration: Tikkun Olam opportunities will include sorting and packing food with the members of the Food Bank (a significant task that will get accomplished more quickly, the more people participate!), and another opportunity to register with the Gift of Life Bone Marrow Donor Registry. Jewish Social Action month (Heshvan) begins at the end of October with Social Action Scholar in Residence, Danny Siegal, a renowned lecturer on topics of Tzedakah and Tikkun Olam, and with a weekend of related programming for Congregants of all ages. Mitzvah Day: Also during Jewish Social Action month on November 9th, Mitzvah Day will include Tikkun Olam opportunities for everyone including a Blood Drive, Cooking for the Homeless, Crafts and several drives. Don’t have time for any of the above? You can still . . . …(con’td on p.11) 10 SOCIAL ACTION/TIKKUN OLAM ‘The flame of a single candle is not diminished by lighting even a thousand other candles.’ Donate food to the Food Bank to help alleviate hunger ANYTIME, or empty the change from your pockets (or even a bill) into the Congregational Tzedakah Box (We will be rotating the organizations we are collecting for and posting information about them near the box. Let us know if you have any suggestions!) All the above and much more will be happening at Scarsdale Synagogue this year. No matter how little time you can spare, you can make a meaningful contribution. And just imagine what we can all accomplish working together! For more information about any of these projects or to suggest another program, contact Karen Chapro at [email protected] or Elli Wharton at [email protected] or go to the Scarsdale Synagogue website for more details. MITZVAH DAY Save the Date for Mitzvah Day 2014 Sunday, November 9th, 11am - 1 pm Mitzvah Day 2014 will happen on Sunday November 9 this year. As usual, this will be a fun filled day of doing good for the greater community including Cooking for the Homeless, Children's Crafts and the Blood Drive. When you are out and about this fall, or cleaning out your closets, please start collecting some of the items that we will be collecting on Mitzvah Day including: Dog/cat food, leashes, detergents, cleaning supplies, bedding and cages for the Animal Shelter Children’s clothes (clean clothes in good condition for 12 year olds and under) Young Children's Books (in good condition for those under 5 years old) Food for the food bank (ALWAYS!) Disposable diapers to distribute to the needy in shelters; and School supplies for underprivileged children. More details on the day to follow! Please contact Mary Blumenthal Lane at [email protected] if you would like to volunteer or if you have any questions. 11 ~ October 2014 Adult Life-Long Learning~ Sun 5 Mon 6 Tue 7 Wed Thu Fri Sat 1 2 3 4 8 9 10 11 Study Havurah with Rabbi Klein Time: 10:30-11:45 am 12 13 14 15 18 Study Havurah with Rabbi Klein Time: 10:30-11:45 am 19 20 Book Discussion: My Promised Land: The triumph and Tragedy of Israel Time: 9:30 p.m. 21 22 Study Havurah with Rabbi Klein Time: 10:30-11:45 am "Insight into Adolescent Development and Teen Parenting" with Rabbi Wendy Pein and Scarsdale psychologist Dr. Suzanne Reiffel Time: 7 p.m. Jewish Literacy with Rabbi Klein Time: 8-9:30 pm 26 Parent talk Tzedakah Raising “charge” Time: Religious School Assembly Nashim Social Justice Walk to Raise Tzedakah Time: Following Sunday School 27 Saturday Salons with Rabbi Brown Superman: The Semitic SuperHero?! 7:30 p.m. 28 29 Study Havurah with Rabbi Klein Time: 10:30-11:45 am Eating Disorder or Not…How to Tell and What to Do” with Jennie Kramer of Metro Behavioral Health Associates and Rabbi Pein Time: 7 p.m. 23 30 24 25 Scholar in Residence Weekend: Tzedakah Author Danny Siegel Shabbat Baboker Morning Service followed by Shabbat lunch “There’s No Such Thing as a Small Mitzvah” Teen Tikkun Olam Havdalah Fundraising Event 31 Notes: Times and Dates are Subject to Change 12 ADULT LIFE-LONG LEARNING CLASS DESCRIPTIONS FOR OCTOBER TO REGISTER: Please email us at [email protected] OR Call 914-725-5175 DATE TIME October 7 October 14 October 21 October 28 10:30-11:45 October 18 7:30 pm Saturday Salons with Rabbi Brown: Superman: The Semitic SuperHero?! Join Rabbi Brown at the home of a fellow congregant (TBA) for a fun and casual evening of coffee, dessert, and discussion. This evening’s session will explore the Man of Steel and the relationship between Superman’s creation, Jewish History, and Jewish identity. October 19 9:30 a.m. Book Discussion with Cantor Becker My Promised Land: The Triumph and Tragedy of Israel by Ari Shavit As we have all been especially connected to Israel throughout the last months, join this discussion of one prominent Israeli writer’s view of his home, its history and its challenges. October 21 8 p.m. Jewish Literacy This class will read through Joseph Telushkin’s Biblical Literacy, drawing on portions of the Tanach and contemporary articles as well. Discussions are free-flowing and challenging! October 22 October 29 7 p.m. Hot Topics on Wednesdays October 22: "Insight into Adolescent Development and Teen Parenting" with Rabbi Wendy Pein and Scarsdale psychologist Dr. Suzanne Reiffel October 29: “Eating Disorder or Not…How to Tell and What to Do” with Jennie Kramer of Metro Behavioral Health Associates and Rabbi Wendy Pein October 25-26 DESCRIPTION Study Havurah with Rabbi Klein (formerly known as “Bible”) This year, we will study Pirkei Avot (Chapters of the “Fathers”), a Jewish version of Ben Franklin’s Poor Richard’s Almanac. We will move quickly from the text to contemporary Jewish issues, politics, ethics, Jewish culture and many other aresas of interest. Danny Siegel Scholar in Residence Weekend Refer to p. in Shalom for Danny’s biography October 25 10 a.m. An informal Shabbat lunch will follow the service October 25 7 p.m. October 26 Starting at 9 a.m. Shabbat Baboker Join Rabbi Brown, Rabbi Pein and Cantor Becker for Shabbat Morning worship and study. Nourish your spirit with the peace and inspiration of Shabbat Morning while also having the opportunity to do in-depth study of the Portion of the Week with our clergy. Danny Siegel will speak during our Shabbat BaBoker morning service on the subject of social action. His topic will be: There’s No Such Thing As a Small Mitzvah (refer to p. in Shalom for more details) Our teens will have a Tikkun Olam Havdalah/fundraising event with Danny Siegel. Refer to p. in Shalom for more details. October 26 Following Sunday School October 26 9:45 a.m. During religious school, we will have a religious school assembly with parents during which Danny Siegel will speak to them and give them a tzedakah raising “charge” to kick-off the religious school year. On Sunday morning, Danny Siegel will also study with our 4th - 6th grade students and parents on the subject of social action and tzedakah. Refer to p. in Shalom for more details. Women of SSTTE / Steps for Tzedakah Weather permitting, Danny Siegel will join a group of us on a social action walk to raise tzedakah for My Sister’s Place and The Women of the Wall. Reading Group with Rita Kashner: The World to Come by Dara Horn. Contact Carolyn Streicher at 914-725-5781 for more information. 13 MARK YOUR CALENDARS Additional Adult Life-Long Learning Opportunities for the Fall TO REGISTER: Please email us at [email protected] or Call 914-725-5175 DATES TIME November 5 7 p.m. November 8 7:30 p.m. DESCRIPTION More Hot Topics on Wednesdays: The Sacred Encounter: A Panel Discussion about Judaism, Sexuality, and How We Talk About It In Our Homes and Communities. Come learn with Rabbi Brown and several other local rabbinic colleagues who joined him in contributing to the recent landmark publication: The Sacred Encounter: Jewish Perspectives on Sexuality. Saturday Salons with Rabbi Brown Meatballs and Matzah Balls? The Foods We Eat, And Our Identities Too Join Rabbi Brown at the home of a fellow congregant (TBA) for a fun and casual evening of coffee, dessert, and discussion. This evening’s session will explore the competing food traditions of Judaism (then and now) and how those traditions and choices affect our identities. November 19 December 3 December 17 7:30 Mussar Study Begins Again with Cantor Becker! Join Cantor Becker for a second round of A Season of Mussar, a program of The Mussar Institute. Mussar is a set of Jewish values and practices that help us reach our highest selves. You do not need to have participated before to join our Mussar study group now. There is a fee of $100 per person for the curriculum materials from the Mussar Institute. The deadline for registration is Monday, November 3, 2014. November 22 December 13 10 a.m. Shabbat BaBoker Join Rabbi Brown, Rabbi Pein and Cantor Becker for Shabbat Morning worship and study. Nourish your spirit with the peace and inspiration of Shabbat Morning while also having the opportunity to do in-depth study of the Portion of the Week with our clergy. Watch your mail for more exciting opportunities to come starting in January: Family Ski Weekend, Book Talks with Cantor Becker, Women’s Retreat, L’Dor VaDor Shabbat with Intergeneration Choir and many more! 14 WE NEED YOU! Our Care2Connect committee has one main goal – to reach out and support fellow congregants throughout various lifecycle events. Members of our committee are here for you, in good times and in hard times, offering support and a helping hand when needed. Throughout the years, we have provided words of congratulations for births, marriages and bar/bat mitzvahs; words of sympathy when those among us have lost loved ones, and words of support when others are not doing so well. needed to send cards and to make phone calls to fellow congregants during times of simcha and sorrow. We are hoping to create a large list of volunteers, so that the commitment of each person would be manageable and the connections we make can be deeper. We would be happy to discuss the various ways you can help – there is no requirement for what you would need to do, we would work within your comfort level to help you get involved. We ask that you please consider joining our committee. Please email Christine at [email protected] for further information. Our committee is in need of volunteers to offer Finally, if you or someone you know in the support to our community. Volunteers are congregation could use assistance, please don’t hesitate to reach out to the temple office. We need your help. Thank you! Christine Ginsberg Care2Connect Committee If you know of a Synagogue member who is ill or in the hospital, call the office and let us know. This way the Rabbi and Cantor can visit and Care2Connect can provide timely support. Don’t assume that we know---we will only know if you tell us! 15 WOMEN OF SSTTE It’s hard to imagine as I write this, that when you read it, Rosh Hashanah will be over and we will be getting ready for Yom Kippur and Sukkot. All of us at the Women of SSTTE wish you a very happy and healthy new year. May it be a sweet year for everyone. As you read last month, we are moving forward in our goals to bring all of the Women’s activities in our congregation under one umbrella and to try to have programs and activities at different times of day and different days to reach out to all of the women in our congregation. If you have any ideas or suggestions we encourage you to email us at [email protected]. We would love to hear from you. The coming months promise several opportunities for us to get together and get to know each other. Please plan to attend as many as you choose. October, in particular, is looking to be a busy month. Our next Board Meeting is Wednesday, October 8 at 4 p.m. All Women of SSTTE members are invited to attend. We will discuss and make plans for upcoming events. Following the meeting we will attend the Sukkot Celebrations. Women of SSTTE are participating in our congregation’s Gift of Life (Bone Marrow Swabbing) program on Yom Kippur. We encourage you to be swabbed as a possible donor or to volunteer to help. At least 75 congregations throughout the country will be doing this at the same time. Let’s make it as successful as we can. More information is available in this Shalom. If you would like to volunteer to help contact Beth Quinn at [email protected]. A highlight of our Fall Season is always our Welcome Back Luncheon on Wednesday, October 22. All paid up members of the Women of SSTTE are invited to be our guests. Non-members are welcome for a small charge. See the Flyer in this Shalom for all the details. Our guest speaker will be Leonard Lowy. Len is known to many in our congregation as an educator, Service leader, and friend. He will speak with us on Women in Judaism, focusing on the influence we have on our Society. On Tuesday, October 28, we will travel to three area Houses of Worship, to learn about our neighbors’ practices and to see their Houses of Worship. We will visit a Ukrainian Church (which is architecturally magnificent), a Hindu Temple, and a Buddhist Temple. We will stop for lunch at an authentic Greek Restaurant and dine on an abundance of Greek goodies. The cost for the trip is $85 for Women of SSTTE members and their spouses and $95 for non-members. Bring your friends, all are welcome. You can make your reservations by returning the tear slip on the flyer in this Shalom. Unfortunately, due to commitments we must make, fees must be non-refundable. For further information email Beth Quinn at [email protected]. Don’t forget to watch for more sales on School Supplies. We encourage you to stock up on extras to donate to our collection on Mitzvah Day, November 9. The Supplies we collect will go to an underfunded Public School to help their students. Let’s see if we can double last year’s collection!!!! From November 6-9 representatives of our Women of SSTTE will participate in the (Continued on p. 17) 16 WOMEN OF SSTTE Northeast District Women of Reform Judaism (our parent organization) Assembly in Albany. Several of our members will be going; there’s still room for more. If you would like to attend and share in this exciting and stimulating long weekend: Save the date of November 13 for our joint movie program with the Brandeis Group. The Movie is Miracle at Midnight, starring Mia Farrow and Sam Waterston. The movie tells about a Danish family trying to help their neighbors escape the Nazis. Contact Beth Quinn, [email protected] The Women of SSTTE are strong supporters of our congregation and its programs and we urge all women in the congregation to make sure that the SSTTE Women (Sisterhood) Dues Box is checked off and paid on your bills. Be sure to check the Shalom and the Temple website and weekly emails for information on future programs. Sunday, November 16th is the first Women of SSTTE Mahjongg Tournament. Bring your friends and play all day for fun and prizes. Entry fee ($50) includes a light breakfast, lunch, snacks and prizes. Men who are Mahjongg players are welcome to join us also. A flyer with all the details is in this Shalom. Marilyn Shebshaievitz MAH JONGG WEDNESDAY EVENINGS We are playing Mah Jongg at the synagogue on Wednesday evenings from 7:00PM9:00PM. Please join us. We are six players at present and would love to have a few more players at the tables. If you have any questions, please call Randee Horowitz at 472-3420 or email [email protected]. 17 If you’re planning a Bar or Bat Mitzvah in the near or distant future, we’d like you to know that the Judaica Shop at the synagogue has a wide selection of Tallesim, Yarmukes and Tallis Bags for that special boy or girl. And – if you have seen something that we don’t have in stock – we would be happy to try to order it for you. All of us were thankful to welcome back safely Cantor Becker and the group of congregants who accompanied her to Israel this summer, as well as Rabbi Pein who was on a study tour there. In our collection of books we have several beautiful volumes Barbara Baron Mitzie Stein representing Jerusalem, Tel Aviv and others relating to the history of the Jewish state, as well as videos, both biblical and modern. We invite you to purchase these for your family, or to give them as gifts. As with all our merchandise, our prices are below retail, and your purchases benefit the synagogue. We’ll be glad to arrange an appointment to suit your convenience. 693-3131 723-0188 OCTOBER 2014 Google: Matti Friedman—“An Insider’s Guide to the Most Important Story on Earth” In this time of reflection and teshuva, we may find these internet articles about Israel informative and clarifying: To read Facts about Gaza, most densely populated place on earth, open-air prison? What’s true? Google: Daniel Mandel—“The Big Lie of Gaza” To read On the media’s role in reporting about Gaza and Israel: To see an short interview with Matti Friedman Google: You Tube Videos: Brian Stelter Matti Friedman “Disproportionate Focus” on Israel Our SSTTE support is vital. Your membership in ARZA gives financial and moral support to the Reform Movement in Israel. Check off ARZA on the 2014-2015 dues statement. Help build a pluralist and democratic Israeli society. 18 BERLIN AND KRAKOW WITH RABBI BROWN In May 2015, Rabbi Brown will be leading a fascinating trip to Krakow and Berlin. We will visit sites telling the story of a once vibrant Jewish community, a community all but destroyed during the Holocaust, and see firsthand its remarkable and surprising rebirth in recent years. Our trip will begin in Krakow where highlights will include the Jewish Quarter, the Oskar Schindler factory museum, and an emotional trip to Auschwitz, the largest of the concentration camps and the most notorious symbol of Nazi barbarism. We will then move on to Berlin where we will explore the city’s past and present visiting sites such as the Reichstag, the Brandenburg gate, Checkpoint Charlie, the Holocaust Memorial, and the Villa in Wannsee, site of the infamous “Final Solution” conference. In addition, we will spend a day in Potsdam, the former residence of Prussian Kings and German Kaisers; and we will welcome Shabbat at a service at the Pestalozzi Strasse Synagogue, one of the strongholds of Liberal Judaism in Berlin. For further information, contact Judy Luskin ([email protected] or 472-9594). SSTTE SENIORS Join us for an early bird dinner at Pas-Tina's (155 South Central Avenue, Hartsdale) at 5 PM on Tuesday, October 7. For seating, please contact Maxine Jacobson at 476-4136. We welcome the return of our SSTTE member Richard Corn who will lecture on "Planning a Winter Vacation in a Warm Climate with a Bit of a Jewish Twist" on Tuesday, October 21 at SSTTE at 1 PM. Everyone is welcome at our meetings and programs 19 SSTTE LIBRARY We have completed the renovation of the books in the library. All books now have book pockets and check-out cards, spine labels with dewey classifications and protective covers. We have also cataloged all of the books and now have an online catalog for you to view. Visit www.sstte.org and click on the Education header, then Lifelong Learning and click on Synagogue Library. Type in any keyword to search for a book or scroll down and click on “New List” to view some of the new titles we have purchased. We have focused on updating the fiction, biography, cookbook, children’s and young adult sections of the library and have added some new titles to our incredible Holocaust collection. To check out a book, simply sign your name and the date you are taking the book on the card located in the back of the book and leave it in the box above the computer in the library. When you are finished with the book, find the card in the box and put it back in the book and leave the book by the computer. We will reshelf it. If you have any questions, please email Randee Horowitz at [email protected] Randee Horowitz Barbara Ginsberg AT SSTTE We are busy planning PJ Library events for families with children ages 6 months through 8 years old both at the synagogue and at venues outside of SSTTE. Here’s a preview of items on our schedule: After successful PJ Library efforts during the High Holy days, we invite you to join us for PJ storytime at the Sukkot Dinner on Wednesday, October 8. Additionally, we have designated five Friday night Shabbats as PJ Library evenings, so please mark your calendar with the following datesNovember 7, December 5, February 6, April 1 and June 5. We are also hoping to have an author visit during Mitzvah weekend, either November 7 or November 9. More details to follow as we get closer to the date. Early in the Spring of 2015, look for flyers announcing a PJ Library musical performance at SSTTE. And be on the lookout for an event at Peachwave in Hartsdale in the Spring as well. If you stop by the synagogue, please be sure and check out our new PJ Library reading corner. Feel free to stop by anytime and take advantage of the wonderful books PJ Library has available for you and your children. If you have not signed up to receive FREE Jewish themed children’s books delivered monthly to your children, it’s not too late. You can register at www.pjlibrary.org/ny/scarsdale Randee Horowitz PJ Library Chair Reading Group Led by Rita Kashner will meet on Sunday, October 26 from 9:45 to noon. The book is “The World to Come” by Dara Horn. For further details, please contact Carolyn Streicher at 725-5781. 20 SHARE SHABBAT WITH US! Sharing Shabbat is a new opportunity at SSTTE for 5775. On four Friday nights this year, our congregation will gather in each other's homes to share a Shabbat dinner, some conversation and camaraderie while welcoming in Shabbat together. Sign up now to host or attend our first dinner on Friday, October 24! (Instructions will follow.) Send an email to: [email protected] or call Elizabeth Rothstein at 874-5057 Other Sharing Shabbat dates this year include: • January 23, 2015 • March 13, 2015 • May 8, 2015 Our goal is to have everyone in the congregation host and/or attend a dinner at least once this year, so please sign up today. If you have special requests for dinner assignments, please let us know, but we hope you will take this as an opportunity to get to know new people in our community. The Cycle of our Congregational Family….. Shabbat of Simcha Dates Shabbat of Simcha is an opportunity to celebrate as one community. Join us at 8 p.m. for a special blessing when you or a loved one is celebrating any kind of happy occasion. October 17 November 21 December 19 January 16 February 20 March 20 April 17 May 15 June 19 21 Bone Marrow Registration Drive October 3, 2014: 7:15-8PM, 10:15-11PM October 4, 2014: 9-10:15AM, 12Noon-3:00PM, 6:30-7:30PM Scarsdale Synagogue, Temples Tremont and Emanu-El It is written in the Talmud, “He who saves one life, it is as if he had saved the entire World.” Perform the ultimate mitzvah... ...Swab your cheek at our bone marrow recruitment drive this Yom Kippur! A SIMPLE CHEEK SWAB IS ALL IT TAKES! For many children and adults suffering from leukemia, lymphoma and other blood related diseases, the only hope for a cure is a bone marrow transplant. Join the registry today and you could save a life tomorrow. Eligible donors must be between the ages of 18-60 and in general good health and meet the guidelines. If you are unable to attend, you can register to be a donor online by visiting www.giftoflife.org To get more information or to sign up to volunteer, contact Drive Coordinator, Beth Quinn at [email protected] or Karen Chapro at [email protected] #inscribed4life 22 IN REMEMBRANCE The Scarsdale Synagogue Temples Tremont and Emanu-El recognizes with sorrow the passing of: Rose Grueskin, mother of William Grueskin Michael Model, husband of Eileen Model Ronald Hepner, step-father of Susan Douglass MAZAL TOV TO: Janet Cohen on the marriage of her son, Stephen Cohen, to Christine Frost Ruth Gershon on the marriage of her grandson, Matti Baer, to Abigail Duman GENERATION TO GENERATION We appreciate the thoughtfulness of those who support Scarsdale Synagogue Temples Tremont and EmanuEl by remembering and honoring their friends and loved ones through their generous contributions. Cantor’s Discretionary Fund DR. DAVID & NANCY MILSTEIN in honor of Cantor Chanin Becker on her appointment as Chair of the Joint Cantorial Placement Commission of our Reform Movement General Tribute Fund ANDREW & SARA FEINSTEIN in memory of Miriam Goldberg, mother of Barbara Ginsberg IRENE FRIED in memory of her husband, Herbert Fried; her sister, Hildreth Goldfarb MITCHELL & BARBARA ROSS in honor of the 99th birthday of his mother, ALLAN WAHLER in honor of the B’nei Mitzvah of Ezekial & Averie Cohen MURIEL N. ROSS; in memory of her father, Charles Danetz Rabbi Klein’s Youth Initiative LYNN VERGANO in memory of her grandparents, Sidney & Irene Haas SALLY ZUCKERMAN in memory of her mother, Sonia Fisher Interfaith Food Pantry MARLENE BRENHOUSE in honor of Maxine Steinberg HARRIS & RANDEE HOROWITZ in memory of Miriam Goldberg, mother of Barbara Ginsberg HOWARD & ROBIN EPSTEIN in honor of their granddaughter, Edie Diane Epstein JOEL & PAULA KUDLOWITZ in memory of his grandmother, Becky Motel; his father, Samuel Kudlowitz RITA REICH in honor of Maxine Steinberg CECILIA PFEIFFER in memory of her aunt, Fannie Levy AARON PLUM in memory of his wife, Rhoda Plum RITA REICH in honor of the marriage of Matti Baer to Abigail Duman, grandson of Ruth Gershon Playground Enhancement Fund DR. PAULA LESTER in memory of her friend, David Nudick Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund DR. DAVID & NANCY MILSTEIN in honor of Rabbi Jeffrey Brown on being named a Fellow in the inaugural cohort of UJA-NY’s Rabbinic Fellowship for Visionary Leaders GLENN & SONJA COOPER in honor of the special birthday of Dr. Paula Lester; Rita Reich moving to a new home DR. DAVID & NANCY MILSTEIN in honor of Rabbi Wendy Pein on being accepted to participate in the 2014 Bergman Seminar for Progressive Jewish Educators, held in Jerusalem Sisterhood Special Action Fund JOAN HAYWOOD in memory of Miriam Goldberg, mother of Barbara Ginsberg Talmud/Midrash Study JOAN HAYWOOD in honor of the marriage of Matti Baer to Abigail Duman, grandson of Ruth Gershon MAXINE STEINBERG in honor of the marriage of Matti Baer to Abigail Duman, grandson of Ruth Gershon; to Peter & Linda Zeltner with best wishes for good health and much happiness in their new home 23 White Plains Printers Westchester Law Journal 199 Main Street Suite 301 White Plains, NY 10605 T 914 948.0715 / F 914 948.3014 Printing for all your personal and professional needs! 24 reTHINK SCHECHTER Being a mensch doesn’t just make the grandparents happy. Research confirms that learning to do the right thing with the right attitude leads to stronger academic performance. 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