INSIDE NOVEMBER 2014 | VOLUME 43, NUMBER 2 Rabbi Steven Stark Lowenstein 2 Cantor Andrea Rae Markowicz 3 Executive Director Edward Alpert 4 President Barbara Breakstone 5 Rabbi Phyllis A. Sommer 6 Director of Education Judi Berliner 7 Library News 8 Jewish Music Heritage Shabbat 9 Chanukah Bazaar 10 Mitzvah Opportunities! 11 Am Shalom Young Adults 12-13 We Remember, We Celebrate 15 Travel Opportunities 16 Am Shalom LOVES Torah! 17 With Appreciation 18 Insert: November 2014 Calendar CHAZAK STRENGTHENING OURSELVES AND EACH OTHER Am Shalom’s mission, as a Reform congregation, is to engage, enlighten, embrace and educate our members in ways that build a sense of community, while respecting individual forms of expression and belief. We seek to explore our Jewish roots, awareness and values, and enrich the spiritual lives of our members, while serving humanity through social action. Am Shalom is proud to be a member of the Union for Reform Judaism. FROM THE DESK OF RABBI STEVEN STARK LOWENSTEIN The High Holy Days begin each new Jewish year, but these few days are situated within a much larger framework of sacred time. These days are our annual opportunity for the process of personal reflection and communal commitment to ourselves and to those around us. Truth be told, the process of the High Holy Days is on-going. It doesn’t end with the final shofar blast. We are in a perpetual cycle of transformation all of the time. We put so much energy into building our own inner tabernacle, so that the presence of God might dwell in us - but then, after all this effort, we make a mistake and the whole thing comes apart. When that happens, our job is to turn around, take heart and set out to rebuild our spiritual home. Even if it comes apart again, we must build it once again. have the ongoing opportunity to look at what we do and how we do it. You can be sure that we will continue to look at the liturgy that we use in Gates of Repentance, Mishkan Hanefesh the new prayer book we piloted on Rosh Hashanah and the special Yizkor and Healing service we created ourselves to try and find the right experience that reflects who we are as a congregation. Rabbi Sharon Brous teaches, “There are two spiritual axes on which the Jewish year rotates. On one hand, the reminder that life’s trajectory is the journey from degradation to dignity, from darkness to light, from narrowness to possibility. On the other, the growing awareness of our fragility, which compels us to live with purpose, integrity and compassion.” Our greatest hope is that you leave our services with a renewed sense of purpose, integrity and compassion. There are so many in our community who say that our services have become a highlight for their Jewish lives each year. This year, we as a congregation tried very hard to offer these uplifting services with the proper balance between innovation and tradition, between the grandeur of the day and the daily routine we often encounter. Walking that line can be very difficult. This year we took some risks and tried to look at services in some new and unique ways. As we move forward, the clergy, the staff, the board and the entire congregation will We will continue to explore the music, instruments, and choir make up that best enhances our prayer experience. Service times, ticket policies, sermons, technology, and innovation are all part of what we look at to make the entire experience meaningful and fulfilling. Many have shared their opinions with 2 MEN’S CHAVURAH with Rabbi Steve A variety of programming of interest to men. Topics TBD. Email: [email protected] to register. Meeting Schedule: Sundays, November 9, December 14, January 11, March 8, April 19. All meetings are at 9:30am during Religious School. us on what they liked and didn't like, and we hope that you will as well. Feel free to call or email any thought you might have. To help you we have created an e-mail account, feedback@ amshalom.com Each day we are in a constant struggle to rebuild ourselves. An anonymous poet once wrote: Your tasks: To build a better world, said God. I answered: How? The world is such a large, vast place So complicated now And, so small and useless, am I. There’s nothing I can do. But God in such great wisdom said, “Just build a better you.” On a very personal note, it is my honor to work with the most amazing team, whose efforts on the High Holy Days are matched by their equally impressive efforts throughout the entire year. It was my honor to share the bimah with the most talented clergy team. A special thank you to Rabbi Phyllis Sommer, Rabbi Pam Mandel, Cantor Andrea Rae Markowicz and Deanna Neil. On Page 18 you will find just a partial list of all who participated to make the services here at Am Shalom so beautiful. Our greatest hope is that you leave our services with a renewed sense of purpose, integrity and compassion that will last all year long. FROM THE DESK OF CANTOR ANDREA RAE MARKOWICZ Jewish Music Heritage Shabbat (JMHS) is an initiative of Am Shalom to expose and explore the ever-evolving modes of worship and musical expression within the prayer experience. On November 7th, we kick off our 2nd year with The Music of Debbie Friedman with Guest Artists-inResidence, Merri Lovinger Arian and Elana Arian. Beginning in 1970, Debbie Friedman (1951-2011) was at the forefront of reshaping music for her generation and beyond. Debbie had a passion for all genres of Jewish music, instrumental or vocal, that gave “voice” to the wonders of Jewish heritage and living. She enjoyed classical music including opera, symphonic and chamber music. She never laughed louder than when listening to Bette Midler’s humorous music and banter. Debbie’s early musical influences included Peter, Paul and Mary, Joan Baez, Judy Collins, and others in that genre. As did her musical forbearers, Debbie raised her voice, challenging those in positions of power and popularity; she challenged the status quo. But, Debbie’s influence and inspiration was indelibly etched on her heart long before those musicians had their impact. Her mother and maternal grandparents were Debbie’s first and real inspirations. From them flowed her passion for love, justice, integrity, humor – living Jewishly. Her music touches people in myriad ways. It compels our willing souls to pray in a different way to see ourselves and others through different eyes, understand ways to give that were previously unknown, find deeper parts of ourselves that were hidden. Her music makes Judaism accessible to all those who are open. For her generation, and those since, the teachings of Judaism were waiting for someone to unfold them – to unwrap them. Debbie gave us that gift. During Debbie’s formative years, as she sat in synagogue services, she felt that something was missing both for her and for those she observed. She identified with other young people whose Judaism had no language that spoke to them – or for them. In 1970, Debbie wrote V’ahavta, a paragraph of the Sh’ma. A month later, she taught it to those attending a regional youth convention. In Jewish Sages of Today, you will find the following discussion: “I was stunned when they suddenly put their arms around each other and there were tears rolling down their faces. They were reclaiming this prayer, and it was ours in a musical language they were able to understand... We were reclaiming something that we hadn’t touched, that we had no access to until now.” It wasn’t long after that she had a realization that set the course for her future career, while she was attending a service at her family’s synagogue. Debbie used music to express her Judaism. She translated and transformed prayers, Torah, Talmud, and other scholarly texts, ancient and contemporary. She brought words of heretofore lesser-known liturgical pieces, Torah portions, psalms, the prophets, and philosophers, into our every-day vernacular. Imagine ordinary people like us – young and old, quoting the prophets, the Talmud, the Koran, and so on. Debbie’s music weaves the message of one’s obligation to the community and its individuals – finding the parallel between the texts and the world as she experienced it. I am thrilled to welcome our Guest Artists-in-Residence to Am Shalom, both teachers of mine at Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Music, this mother-daughter team, both had very close, lifelong relationships with Debbie Friedman. Their experience and passion for Debbie’s music will greatly enhance our exploration of Debbie’s legacy. Merri Lovinger Arian serves on the faculty of the Debbie Friedman School of Sacred Music at the Hebrew Union College – Jewish Institute of Religion in New York. She teaches both cantorial and rabbinic students, offering courses in Music Education, Conducting, Congregational Singing, Worship, and Contemporary Congregational Repertoire. Merri previously served as Program Director, and then Director of Music for Synagogue 2000 (S2K), a leading trans-denominational institute developing models for revitalizing synagogue life. She (Continued on page 9) KOL 3 FROM THE DESK OF EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR EDWARD M. ALPERT Every day I count my blessings for my good health, wonderful wife and incredible son. I am also filled with gratitude to be able to work at Am Shalom and share in this very special community. I work with the greatest staff in the synagogue world and am so very grateful for the many close friendships I have made over the years. Too often I wonder if all of us take the necessary time to be grateful for those big and small things that do occur daily in our lives. For my article this month I wish to share with you some beautiful words I came across on this subject from the writings of Rabbi Zelig Pliskin. I hope you will find them as meaningful as I did. “Living with gratitude elevates your entire life. You become a more spiritual person. You become a more joyful person. You become a kinder and more compassionate person. You become a calmer and more peaceful person. You become a person who lives in greater harmony with others.” “When you look at each person who says or does anything kind to you as the Creator’s agent, you look at this person in a more elevated and spiritual way. Even a long time after this seemingly minor event happened, you can still remember that the kind person has served as the Almighty’s agent. Their stature has been raised in your eyes. And when you continually view other people this way, they will respond to you in a higher way. This entire process is a step forward in raising the spiritual level of the world, and it started from just a few kind words or an easy to do action.” I wish all of us “an attitude of gratitude,” and the good things that come with it. Am Shalom is a proud sponsor of the 2014 Chicago Festival of Israeli Cinema! Monday, November 3rd, @ 6:00 p.m. Join us at the AMC Northbrook Theatre on as we host a screening of Guy Nattiv and Erez Tadmor’s Comedy-Drama: Please purchase tickets through AMC Theatres or Fandango.com. 4 FROM THE DESK OF PRESIDENT BARBARA BREAKSTONE On Yom Kippur, I was asked to speak about the “state of the temple.” On Yom Kippur we take stock of ourselves, and we can take stock of the temple. Well, the state of the temple is just fine, in fact more than just fine – we are in great shape – we have incredible clergy, an amazing executive director and staff, and a wonderful, caring, active, committed congregation. We have all of you. We have meaningful, beautiful, moving services and other spiritual activities and lots of other programs all week, every week. Unlike many other congregations, fortunately our membership is stable. We are in sound financial condition, The state of the temple is stronger if you are here. This year’s theme, “Strengthening Ourselves and Each Other” is our starting point. We can strengthen ourselves by going to services, to programs, to yoga, on trips, Am Shalom Women’s Spirituality Group meets Saturday, November 8th at 11:30 a.m. Register online at amshalom.com by helping with the many social action events, by looking at the calendar and choosing a new thing to do. Go to two more events this year than you did last year – try something new – and if you like it, go to even more. You will learn about new things and strengthen yourself in ways you never dreamed. Doing this at Am Shalom – no better way to go. This year, I am going to get to those Monday night movies and to a new grandparenting program. Of course we have to be there in order to be there for each other – in the good times and the bad. Being in this community and creating relationships, that to me is central to Judaism. Studies have shown that being in a community, having friends, literally contributes to a longer life – be part of the Am Shalom community – maybe it will help with your Book of Life. I love that we have started the New Year 5775 – it’s a palindrome, it’s symmetrical – it won’t happen for 110 more years – that makes this a pretty special year – forwards or backwards, early service or late service, Friday night services or Saturday Torah study, new member of long time Am Shalom member – I hope for a year of health, happiness and peace for all of us. Women, Our “Other” Bible Heroes with Buddy Schreiber Tuesday, November 11th @ 10-11:00 a.m. We all know the stories of male Bible heroes, but what about the women? Learn the courageous deeds and contributions of the women of the Bible. Join Master Teacher Buddy Schreiber for a stimulating discussion. Register online at amshalom.com. KOL 5 PHYLLIS A. SOMMER FROM THE DESK OF RABBI DIRECTOR OF CONGREGATIONAL LEARNING Books to Read in 5775 November 13, 2014 The Family by David Laskin (See page 8 for details.) December 11, 2014 The Ice Cream Queen of Orchard Street January 14, 2015 Sinners and the Sea by Rebecca Kanner February 12, 2015 Jacob’s Oath by Martin Fletcher March 25, 2015 A Guide for the Perplexed by Dara Horn April 22, 2015 Homesick by Eshkol Nevo May 21, 2015 The Golem and the Jinni by Helene Wecker Movies to See in 5775 November 3, 2014 Magic Men (See page 4 for details.) December 1, 2014 Zaytoun January 5, 2015 Hannah Arendt February 2, 2015 Campfire March 2, 2015 Fill the Void April 6, 2015 Turn Left at the End of the World May 4, 2015 Lost Islands 6 I am so overjoyed to be writing this article, my first as the Director of Congregational Learning at Am Shalom. Part of this work is to continue my direct involvement in our Adult Learning programs at Am Shalom, and I hope you’ll all find something meaningful in which to participate. I am always so excited to put together our Adult Learning programs at Am Shalom. We are reading books together and watching movies, there are groups studying Jewish texts and learning Hebrew, discussing current events and debating ethical dilemmas. I’m so excited that Dr. Maurice Pickard will be leading a lunchtime discussion about medical ethics. I think that his expertise as a bioethicist will make this an invaluable and fascinating conversation about ethical conflicts in medical decision-making. (November 13 and 20, from 12-1pm, at Am Shalom). Also, make sure to mark your calendar for the weekend of December 5-6, when Dr. Jonathan Cohen of the Hebrew Union College will be with us for a really wonderful learning experience. Dr. Cohen is a teacher of Talmud and Ethics and I know that his presentation will be thought-provoking and enlightening. And don’t forget to mark your calendar for the Chicago Festival of Israeli Cinema, kicking off our own Monday Night at the Movies with Magic Men at the Northbrook Court AMC theater on November 3rd. (The full list of our movies and books for the year are available over on the side of this column, and also on our website, www.amshalom.com – you don’t have to attend all of the sessions in order to be involved!) There are so many opportunities to learn and grow at Am Shalom. I’m also very interested to hear from you. What do you want to learn? What topics tickle your fancy? And I will put out the following challenge: Gather a group of 5 Am Shalom friends together, and I will come and teach a class on the topic of your choice – in your living room or at the temple – design your own learning! I hope that all of these possibilities will help you to find a space to learn something new in this upcoming year. In addition to Adult Learning, I am settling into an expanded role in the Religious and Hebrew Schools. I look forward to sharing more of my thoughts on these roles with you in the future. You’ll also continue to see me on the bima and in the classrooms as the year gets underway in full swing. And please, come and visit me in my new office as I’m getting settled! I’m right next to Judi Berliner, near the entrance to our school wing. I look forward to seeing you! L’shalom, Rabbi Phyllis FROM THE DESK OF DIRECTOR OF EDUCATION JUDI BERLINER Each year I look forward to the fall season. Fall is truly is a new year for me personally. A new school year begins, as well as a new year on the Hebrew calendar. It is wonderful to see all the teachers and the students return and watch the building come to life again after a quiet summer. There is excitement as we anticipate the coming of the Jewish High Holy Days. It is a warm and comfortable feeling when I worship with my community and welcome the Jewish New Year. This year, for the first time in my life, I was not home for Rosh Hashanah. A few days before Rosh Hashanah, my daughter, Dena, called to tell me that she needed me to be with her in Oregon. After giving birth at the end of August to her first child, she and her husband needed some help. Even though I had been there 3 weeks earlier, I knew that she must really have needed me there when she offered to buy my plane ticket. With a refrigerator filled with a Rosh Hashanah feast waiting to be cooked, I left Glencoe and headed west to Medford, Oregon. I arrived in Medford two days before Rosh Hashanah. While I was so happy to be with my daughter, my son-in-law and my new granddaughter, I was wondering what Rosh Hashanah would be like this year. Dena informed me as soon as I arrived that she had a ticket for me to attend services at her Temple. I must admit I was relieved knowing I had a place to go for the holiday. Even better, I would be there with my daughter and her family. The next big change from my usual Rosh Hashanah was that there would be no brisket or chicken soup this year. I was celebrating the New Year in a vegetarian household. But together we made a delicious Rosh Hashanah meal just as wonderful and satisfying as any other year. On Rosh Hashanah we attended Temple Emek Shalom in Ashland, Oregon. In many ways it was the same as being home at Am Shalom, and in many ways it was different. There was a different Machzor but the prayers were the same! The melodies were also the same. Even though I was a thousand miles from Glencoe I felt at home. Sure, I was not in my own community, but I was still part of a Jewish community, and I felt accepted and comfortable. While there were not as many people attending as at Am Shalom, there was still a full house. As I sat there, it occurred to me why being affiliated with a synagogue and taking on the responsibility to ensure that all Jewish children have the opportunity to receive a Jewish education is so important. Here I was, far away from home on a major Jewish holiday, and enjoying everything the holiday has to offer. I saw children in that congregation able to follow along in the service, and knew that if they came to Am Shalom, they too would feel part of our community. The prayers would not seem strange to them if they were at Am Shalom, the melodies would be familiar, and the joy of the holiday would be experienced. When the students at Am Shalom mature and eventually leave for college, I know they will be able to attend Shabbat services and Jewish holiday observances in other places and still feel part of the Jewish community. While many children and parents view becoming Bar and Bat Mitzvah as a goal, the teachers and clergy staff at Am Shalom know that Jewish education serves a more important purpose. We want every child to grow up to be literate Jews. Becoming a Bar or Bat Mitzvah is a major life cycle event, but in Judaism it is equally important that our children grow up to embrace all Judaism has to offer. No matter where we go, we should all be able to go anywhere in the world and connect with our Jewish community and feel that we belong. I am so grateful that my parents gave me the gift of a Jewish education and a love for Jewish culture and observance. In our school, it is our responsibility to ensure that your children are given the knowledge and ability to participate in any temple service or Jewish community wherever they find themselves, yet still feel as if they are home. My observance of Rosh Hashanah was not at home in Glencoe this year, but it was still meaningful. I learned something from this experience. The Hebrew term Klal Yisrael comes to mind. When we are part of the Jewish community, despite any differences we might have, we still have many things in common. We are Klal Yisrael, a Jewish community. KOL 7 AM SHALOM LIBRARY NEWS The Am Shalom Book Club resumes in November. Rabbi Sommer has chosen a diverse group of titles that are sure to spark an interesting discussion. If you can be free at 9:45 on a weekday morning, plan on joining us. Most of the titles are available at local libraries and there are extra copies to borrow at Am Shalom’s front desk in addition to our library’s copy on the New Book Rack by the library windows. The first meeting is November 13th. We’ll be discussing The Family by David Laskin. The book is a memoir of Laskin’s family going back to 1835 with the birth of Mr. Laskin's ancestors in the Pale of Settlement on Russia's western edge. It ends in the second decade of the 21st century with 101 descendants in America, 32 in Israel and only a few gravestones left in Europe. Laskin’s great-great-great grandfather, Shimon Dov Hakohen, was a Torah scribe whose wife kept a small store in the shtetl to help support the family that grew to have five sons and a daughter. Among their grandchildren is, Itel, a diminutive woman who leaves for America and becomes the millionaire entrepreneur who founds the Maidenform company. Other cousins in America begin A. Cohen and Sons, a housewares firm. Two of Itel’s cousins, Chaim and Sonia, leave for Palestine in 1924 and 1932 fueled with Zionist fervor to become halutzim – farming pioneers who would reclaim ‘The Land’ through labor. Some remain in the Pale as their land becomes a piece of the world repeatedly traded and conquered by Russia, Poland and Germany. Their stories, told through letters and family memories, are reason enough to read the book. This is an ambitious project, but Laskin relates the history of the times with the experiences of his family to make an 8 “Book Club Begins” by Doris Gould interesting memoir. The author dedicates The Family to his Israeli cousin, Benny Kahanovitz, who saved a collection of 281 Yiddish family letters that bring the narrative to life. The Family is the Spertus Museum ‘One Book : One Community’ selection for this year. In December we’ll meet on the 11th to discuss Susan Gilman’s novel, The Ice Cream Queen of Orchard Street. This is the tale of how Malka Treynovsky Bialystoker becomes Lillian Marie Dinello Dunkle and in the process builds an ice cream empire and loses two families. As a child in a New York tenement, Malka’s mother tells her, “Malka, that mouth of yours is going to get you in trouble” – and what a mouth it is. The story is told in first person and her voice has chutzpah and grit. As a child, Malka is injured in a collision with a horse drawn cart. Her mother, penniless and trying to support three other children without the help of a husband, abandons her at the hospital. It is the driver of the cart, Salvatore Dinello, who takes her home to be raised with his family. Mr. Dinello is an ice cream vendor, and he and his wife save Malka and in the process teach her a lot about ice cream and bookkeeping. Our heroine is abrasive and flawed in many ways, but I found myself rooting for her and hoping she would rise above her problems. Every time she explains to the reader, “I never meant that, I was just being a weisenheimer” I felt myself sighing, “Oy, Malka, your mouth!” I don’t want to tell you too much and spoil the story for you, but I promise you’ll find it yummy. Wednesday, January 21st we’ll be talking about Sinners and the Sea. In this biblical fiction Rebecca Kanner follows in the footsteps of Anita Diamant to bring life to a neglected woman from Torah. In this case it is the woman who is only referred to as “his wife” in the story of Noah. The author states on her website that she didn’t start out to write a novel, but she was caught up in the idea of the woman who lived with a “500 year old man everyone thinks is crazy, a host of vulgar sinners and a world on the verge of destruction … for me, this material was irresistible.” I haven’t read this book yet, but from reviews I understand that Kanner goes full tilt at populating and naming the people of the story. She throws in a hairy mammoth for animal interest and details the depravity of the village and the extent to which Noah’s wife must go to protect her sons. Her tale is meant to make us wonder about the nature of virtue, and to question our desire for acceptance from an imperfect, even sinful, world. It’s best not to expect this type of book to be scholarly research; I think we should just enjoy the story. I’ll be content if she didn’t get as far afield from the text as Darren Aronofsky did in the Russell Crowe movie. This is just a sampling of the new titles available in the library. We welcome new readers and new library volunteers. We are appreciative of all those who contribute to our library. Many thanks. A Summer at Camp Makes a Great Hanukkah Gift! Give your child or grandchild a gift that will last a lifetime … a summer at URJ Olin-SangRuby Union Institute. OSRUI combines creative and innovative Jewish experiences will all the fun of summer camp and offers sessions for campers entering 2nd – 12th grades. Gift Certificates are available in any denomination, starting at $18. For more information about OSRUI programs, see their website: www.osrui.org or contact them at [email protected] or 847-509-0990. (Continued from page 3) served more recently as Synagogue 3000’s consultant on liturgical arts at HUC-JIR in New York, and continues to supervise rabbinic and cantorial students in creating worship collaboratively at the College-Institute. Yale and has performed at some of the most celebrated concert halls in the country, including Carnegie Hall, Lincoln Center, Tanglewood, and perhaps most memorably, four different performances at the White House. A frequent artist-inresidence in congregations across the country, Merri has also served as a music consultant to a number of congregations, exploring with the clergy team ways to enhance the worship in their congregation. She had the honor of singing with Debbie Friedman, z”l, in Carnegie Hall and has performed and lead music programs for HUC-JIR, the URJ, the Wexner Heritage Foundation, JFNA Lions of Judah, the Women’s League for Conservative Judaism, and Jewish Women’s Archives, among others. Merri holds an MA in Teaching, a BFA in Music Education, and a Certificate in Music Therapy. Merri edited R’fuah Sh’leimah: Songs of Healing. Her recordings include Nefesh: Songs for the Soul, a CD for S2K, and NFTY in Harmony, an album with an accompanying songbook of original choral arrangements. She has written on “Music, Prayer and Sacred Community,” and on the educational value of youth choirs. Elana has recorded two albums of original music, has appeared on NPR’s Soundcheck, as well as on PBS’ Finding Your Roots. Elana accompanies some of the leading voices in contemporary Jewish music, including Dan Nichols, Julie Silver, and Debbie Friedman, z”l. Elana has served on the faculty of HUC-JIR, teaching guitar at the Debbie Friedman School of Sacred Music and playing in the house band at Central Synagogue for the past 8 years. Raised on equal parts Mozart, Mingus and Mitchell, Elana Arian, is a busy multi-instrumentalist, singer/songwriter, and recording artist. She studied conducting and violin, jazz guitar, and songwriting at We look forward to seeing you on Shabbat, November 7th at 6:30pm as we sing, recount, and remember the music and life of this special soul. Jewish Music Heritage Shabbat Bring strength to your soul with some amazing music! Friday, November 7 @ 6:30 p.m. featuring the music of Debbie Friedman kwwz with Merri Lovinger Arian and the Eliana Arian Am Shalom Adult Choir Watch the KOL for details on upcoming Jewish Music Heritage Shabbat programming: Friday, January 30 and Friday, May 8 KOL 9 Unique an nd creativ ve vendors ffor or all of your r gift-giving needs! S nd Su day, No Nov vember b r 16 ~ 9:30-3:00 Am Shalom ~ 840 Vernon Ave. Glencoe Delicate Creations And Ever rything Nice /LVD¶V%RXWLTXH (WDOD\D·V Ex Exotic ti M Mandel Brooit it Que Posh-A! The Am Shalom Chanukah Bazaar is provided as a benefit to our congregants. Am Shalom does not guarantee any of the offered products or services. 2 THANKSGIVING MITZVAH OPPORTUNITIES! Winthrop Harbor Community-Wide Thanksgiving Day Dinner Thanksgiving Day, November 27 Schlader Building, Winthrop Harbor Village Park 2700 9th Street, Winthrop Harbor, Illinois Donate some goodies, then help prepare goody bags! Hang around and help with dinner. Contact Ed Litke at [email protected] for details, or just watch for our special Mitzvah Opportunities KOLbytes! Bethlehem Healing Temple Thanksgiving Meal Saturday, November 22 12 South Oakley, Chicago, Illinois Specific food and warm clothing items needed. Volunteer opportunities to serve the meal are limited due to space, and first priority for volunteer assignments will be given to those who are also contributing to the meal. Contact Nina Schroeder at [email protected] for details, or just watch for our special Mitzvah Opportunities KOLbytes! Glencoe Interfaith Thanksgiving Service Sunday, November 23 @ 7:00 p.m. Northshore United Methodist Church - 213 Hazel, Glencoe Am Shalom joins with other Glencoe Houses of Worship to give thanks! Please bring your donations of nonperishable food items to benefit the New Trier Township Food Pantry. OUR SHUL’S COOKING FOOLS! Am Shalom Young Adults Program Get in the picture on November 21st! 12 Bowling for Change Friday, November 21st at 8:00 pm at the 10PIN Bowling Lounge 330 N State St, Chicago, IL 60654 Want to start the New Year off right?! Then come join the Am Shalom Young Adults as we celebrate Shabbat with bowling, dinner, drinks, and a good deed! We are going to be bowling in support of the St. Baldrick's Foundation... So come help us conquer childhood cancers! We will be collecting $1 for every strike and gutterball that you bowl (with a $20 max). We also have a very generous donor who has offered to match whatever funds we raise. It is sure to be a fun night with great people AND you get to do a little tzedakah! This event is FREE and is open to all Am Shalom Young Adults and friends. RSVP by Monday, November 17th, to the Am Shalom Young Adults Facebook group. Questions? Contact Rabbi Pam Mandel at [email protected]. KOL 13 CALLING ALL GRANDPARENTS! Sunday, November 2 @ 10:00 a.m. Join us for a special class taught by Sharon Morton, RJE, Educator Emeritus at Am Shalom. It will provide essential opportunities for you to embark on a journey with your grandchildren as they become philanthropists, social action activists and mentchen. It is one of the ways to leave a signifcant legacy to them. Why you want to participate in the GIFTS program: • You can develop better communications skills with your grandchildren, adding value to your relationship • You can help your grandchildren develop a greater sense of generosity and become philanthropists • You can begin the process of writing your personal legacy statement to your grandchildren • You can develop new relationships with other Am Shalom grandparents GIFTS is supported by a generous grant from the Breakthrough Fund, an Innovation of the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Chicago, in partnership with Grandparents for Social Action and InterfaithFamily/Chicago. Medical Ethics: What You Should Know About Medical Decision-Making Library Book Discussion Led by Maurice Pickard, M.D. Internist and Bioethicist, previously Fellow University of Chicago McClean Institute of Clinical Medical Ethics Dr. Pickard will explore what everyone should know about ethical conflicts in medical decision making. The cultural shift from paternalism to patient autonomy in conjunction with the rapid growth in technology has led to tensions where there often is no "right answer." This will be an engaging and interesting discussion! Bring your own lunch! We'll provide a dessert! November 13 and 20, 12:00 p.m. until 1:00 p.m. 14 Thursday, November 13 at 9:45 a.m. WE REMEMBER ... The Congregation extends its heartfelt condolences to the families of: Daniel Dunkleman, uncle of Ruth (Charlie) Harter Richard Alan Mandel, father of Brad (Rabbi Pam) Mandel; grandfather of Sadie & Naomi Lonna Beth Nystrom, daughter of Robert Berman Marilyn Malkov Stein, sister of Idair (Ron) Taradash Elaine Dann, mother of Susan Taylor; grandmother of Brian (Katie) Taylor Larry Glazer, uncle of Adam (Denise) Hoeflich Barbara Ohler Weber, mother of Fred (Diane) Weber Harold Uhrman, father of Tracie (Larry) Kugler Howard E. Glickman, father of Lauren Rosen Margaret Leavitt, mother of Dr. William (Lori) Leavitt Are you interested in being notified whenever there is a death in the Congregation? Please send your preferred e-mail address to [email protected] and we will include you on our "Good and Welfare" notification list. WE CELEBRATE ... The Congregation extends a hearty “Mazel Tov!” to the following: Weddings Parker Eiseman, son of Kimberly Eiseman Feld & Dr. Michael Feld, married Susan Gilman on Saturday, October 11 Ashley Zisook, daughter of Ricky & Lili Ann Zisook, married Neal Snitz on Saturday, October 11, in Indio, California B’nai Mitzvah Max Kleinman, son of Paul & Pamela Kleinmann, on becoming a Bar Mitzvah on November 1 Eliana Silverman, daughter of Michael & Jill Silverman, on becoming a Bat Mitzvah on November 1 Jackson Goldman, son of Cary & Danielle Goldman, on becoming a Bar Mitzvah on November 8 David Sommer, son of Rabbi Michael & Rabbi Phyllis Sommer, on becoming a Bar Mitzvah on November 15 Julia Tropp, daughter of David & Donna Tropp, on becoming a Bat Mitzvah on November 29 HELPING THE HOMELESS Fanchon Simons’ Join Us Sunday, October 19 @ 9:00 a.m. in the Am Shalom Kitchen Make sandwiches, pack 400 lunches, drivers needed. If you are suffering from a recent loss, being impacted by illness, or just feeling stressed by life, consider attending the Am Shalom “Almost Daily” Minyan. This quiet and intimate fifteen-minute service, held in the serene worship space of the Rosenfield Chapel, is the perfect setting to remember a Yahrzeit, to pray for healing, and to calm and refresh your soul. The “Almost Daily” Minyan is held on Mondays and Thursdays at 5:45 p.m. Youth Group Events in NOVEMBER Rishonim/Gesher (Grades 2-4, 5-6) Pump It UP! Sunday, November 9 @ 5:30-7:15 p.m. $20 per person. 1 hour & 20 minutes of JUMP TIME! Pizza dinner included. Contact [email protected] to sign up. Notice: all dates are subject to change. Other upcoming Youth Group events to be announced. Contact Matthew Altman ([email protected]) if you have any questions or any really good ideas! “Release your inner mustard!” KOL 15 COME AND JOURNEY WITH US Morocco Travel with our Am Shalom clergy to exciting OLD places! Am Shalom goes to February 15th-23rd, 2015 Destinations include: Casablanca * Volubilis * Fes * Meknes * Rabat * Marrakech * Ourika Valley Contact Elaine Wexler at Am Shalom for further details. ([email protected]) Your contact for adventure is Elaine Wexler! You can reach Elaine via e-mail at [email protected], or by phone at (847) 835-4800, ext. 254. DOWNTOWNERS with Rabbi Steve Meet on the first Thursday of each month for a thoughtful discussion over lunch, headed by Rabbi Lowenstein, in the Chicago Loop. Email [email protected] to register. Meeting Schedule: 1st Thursdays of the month, November 6, December 4, February 5, March 5, April 2, May 7. All meetings are at 12 noon.during Religious School. 16 THIS year in Jerusalem! Am Shalom Family Trip to ISRAEL December 18th-30th Enjoy 10 full days in the Promised Land, with fun and educational activities for the whole family! Contact Elaine Wexler ([email protected]) for details. WE LOVE TORAH! at Am Shalom KOL 17 WITH APPRECIATION We thank the following for the gift of their The Abrams Family Ava Eppley Julie Abt David Estes Olivia Allen Miriam Estes Jeffrey and Diane Susan Frank Arnold Steve Gold Benjamin Bakal Talah Goldfarb The Beck Family James and Ann David and Lisa Bercu Goodman Nancy Berg Alex Gordon Linda Block Paul and Judi Gordon Michael Blum and Samantha Gordon Ruth Goodman Blum William and Doris Lewis and Ellin Gould Blumenthal Mort and Roda Robert Boiko Greenberg Rob and Leslie Bond Bruce Hall and Sunny Helen Boris Joy Langton Barbara Breakstone The Harris Family Nick and Mary Lou Ruth Harter Brown Marlene Iglitzen Mark and Jean Richard and Nettie Burnstine Isenberg Jeanne Diamond Marissa Kalman Marilyn Elrod Gregg Kalman Steven Elrod The Kalt Family time and talents for our Am Shalom High Holy Days Services James and Nancy Greg and Melissa Adam Slavin Kaplan Miller Eric Slavin Charles and Shelley Pamela Miller Kyle Slavin Kiven Sylvia Myintoo Ken Smith Ally Kleinmann Deanna Neil Fred and Sheryl El Kogan Sylvia Neil Socoloff Robert and Arona Jodi Newmark and Yael Sommer Landsman Daniel Newmark The Sosler Family Mitchell and Katherine Rex Paster Toni Stavrakova Lederer Sanford and Jodi Perl The Stone Family Carly Levin Noah Plotkin Lauren Strelsin Gerry and Laurie Levin Sam Powers Mark Tilton Haley Levin Zach Powers Judy Vass Sidney Lewensohn Jack and Susan Rabin Ann Wenger Stephen Libbin Michael Ries The Wilhelmsen Family Mark and Karen Mitch Rogatz Lori and Ella Worth Loewenstein David Rosenstein Dennis and Geena Mitchell Loveman Ted Schwartz Zaslavsky Larry Magill Ted Schaffner Jim Zechman James and Nancy Jennifer Friedman The Zieserl Family Marcus Shaffer Allen Markowicz Chloe Sherman Paul Meister David Sherman Rex Merdinger Rachel Silvers Caroline Meyer John and Sharon Sklar WITH APPRECIATION We thank the following for their generous contributions to Am Shalom In Memory of Frances K. Alpert In Memory of Marcy and Mike Patty and Mike Cohen Raftenberg and Ruth and Marvin Judy and Gary Guten Miller Stanley and Mary Beth Adelman Jean and Mort Schur Mimi Grossman Donna and Jerry Goldman In Memory of Elaine Bronstein Barbara Lindstrom Mitchell Berg James Smith Terry Schimek Yvonne Chan Jordan and Susan Yarett Eric Goodison and Lisa Mazure In Memory of Norma Gordon Abby and Mark Lewensohn In Memory of Joy Levin Doris Notarius In Memory of Jack Michlin Lorraine Brotman In Memory of Rochelle Wolff Ginny and Bob Coplan 18 Arona and Bob Landsman Abby and Mark Lewensohn Karen and Fred Abel Marilyn Elrod Sarah, Scott and Harry Hirsch Joan Pines Laura and David Kreiger In Memory of Jimmy Davis Laurie and Gerry Levin Doris and Bill Gould Leslie and David Storch In Honor of Michael Marcus’s marriage Fanchon and Bruce Simons In Memory of Greg Eveloff Joanne and Bernie Harris In Honor of Ken Shonfeld Nancy and Rob Berg and Family In Memory of Benn Davis Doris and Bill Gould Leslie and David Storch In Honor of Stacy, David, Jordyn and Evan Pritsker Myron Goldstin In Memory of Sylvia Leibowitz Rotter, Leo Leibowitz, Betty and Abraham Lipman, and Vivian Lipman Robert and Bette Lipman In Memory of Richard Alan Mandel Allison and Eric Kahn Arianna and Stephen Goutman All donations to Am Shalom are listed in the KOL. If you would prefer that your contribution not be listed, please notify us when making your donation. Am m Shalom COOK O BOOK ORDER — ALL PRO CE ED S B EN EF I T— tes against Childhood t Athle Can wes cer d i M 1 Cookboo ok = $25.00 5 copies or more in one order = $22.00 each e Send in this flyer yer & your check to the Am Shalom offfice; fice; we’ll email you u when your cookbook order arrives! ORDE RDER FO ORM! ORM! Cookbooks will be available for pick up at Am A Shalom during specific times. We will notify purchasers via email with exact times and dates. Thankk you for your cooperation. Questions? uestions? Please contact Be ecky Cameron at cameron_be [email protected]. Number of copies: (circle) 1 2 5 10 other: I’d also like to add dd a special donation in memory of Sam Sommer and all of the childr ildren we’ve lost to childhood cancer. $18 $36 6 Am Sha lom in tiime for Chanuk ah! Other: ______ Name Address Home Phone e Cell Phone Email Address e s Cookb books @ $ $ Additional D Donation: ........................... ........ $ Total of Pre e-O Ord der: ............................... ........ $ Please make ccheck payable to: AM M SHALOM 840 Vernon Vernon A Avenue, ven nue, Glencoe, IL 60022 8 847-835-4800 In memo, please e add: COOKBOOK Send in this form and your checck to the Am Shalom m Offfice fice today! Pre-order your cookbooks at the Chanukah Bazaar and receive a cool preview of some of our favorite recipes including a very special latke recipe from Rabbi Steve – just in time for Chanukah! These cookbooks will be THE Chanukah gift of the season! Created in memory of Sam Sommer, all proceeds will benefit MACC, Midwest Atheletes against Childhood Cancer. 840 Vernon Avenue, Glencoe, IL 60022-1560 Telephone: (847)835-4800; Fax: (847)835-5204 e-mail: [email protected] Rabbi Steven Stark Lowenstein, Rabbi Rabbi Phyllis A. Sommer, Director of Congregational Learning Rabbi Pamela Mandel, Rabbi Cantor Andrea Rae Markowicz, Cantor Rabbi Harold L. Kudan, Founding Rabbi Judi Berliner, Director of Education Matthew Altman, Director of Youth Programming Sharon Morton, R.J.E., Educator Emeritus Edward M. Alpert, F.T.A., Executive Director Laura Horn, Associate Executive Director Carolyn R. Fulton, Director of Communications Barbara Breakstone, President Gregory Miller, President-Elect Mitchell Lederer, Vice President Dr. Michael Blum, Vice President Paul Kleinmann, Treasurer Marissa Kalman, Secretary Change Service Requested TOT SHABBAT November, 2014 KOL Non-Profit Organization U.S. POSTAGE PAID Skokie, IL 60077 Permit No. 269 Volume 43, Number 2 Noah and his animals are coming for Friday, November 7 Come join us at 4:45 p.m. and meet the animals at our PETTING ZOO and stay for our MUSICAL SERVICE at 5:15 p.m. from all of us here at Am Shalom! NOVEMBER 2014 Our calendar is always available online at www.amshalom.com. Now! Find us on Facebook: facebook.com/amshalomglencoe MONDAY SUNDAY 2 9:30am Religious School (K-6) 10:00am GIFTS Program 11:30am Religious School (7-10) 9 3 5:45pm Almost Daily Minyan 7:00pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah class 7:00pm Am Shalom hosts the Israeli Film Festival: Magic Men @ Northbrook AMC Theatre 10 TUESDAY 4 9:30am Adult B’nai Mitzvah class 11 8:30am Youth Jam Band 9:00am Ruach Choir 9:30am Men’s Chavurah 9:30am Religious School (K-6) 11:30am Religious School (7-10) 1:00pm Joyce Schrager adult education class 5:45pm Almost Daily Minyan 7:00pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah class 9:30am Adult B’nai Mitzvah class 10:00am Class: Women, Our “Other” Bible Heroes 8:30am Youth Jam Band 9:00am Board Breakfast & Retreat 9:00am Fanchon Simons Helping the Homeless 9:00am Ruach Choir 9:30am Chanukah Bazaar 9:30am Religious School (K-6) 11:30am Religious School (7-10) 5:45pm Almost Daily Minyan 9:30am Adult B’nai Mitzvah 6:00pm URJ Program with Rabbi Steve class Kaye 7:00pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah class 7:30pm Adult Choir rehearsal 17 18 9:30am Religious School (K-6) 11:30am Religious School (7-10) 7:00pm Glencoe Interfaith Thanksgiving Service 1:00pm Joyce Schrager adult education class 5:45pm Almost Daily Minyan 7:00pm Adult B’nai Mitzvah class 7:30pm Adult Choir rehearsal 16 23 30 Kislev 1 NO RELIGIOUS SCHOOL Cheshvan/Kislev 5775 24 25 9:30am Adult B’nai Mitzvah class WEDNESDAY 5 3:30pm Drop-In 4:10pm Hebrew School 12 3:30pm Drop-In 4:10pm Hebrew School 19 1:00pm Laurie Marshall class 3:30pm Drop-In 4:10pm Hebrew School 26 NO HEBREW SCHOOL FRIDAY THURSDAY 6 12:00pm Downtowners 5:45pm Almost Daily Minyan 7:30pm Adult Choir rehearsal 13 9:45am Book Discussion - The Family 12:00pm Medical Ethics Lunch & Learn 5:45pm Almost Daily Minyan 20 10:00am Laurie Marshall class 12:00pm Medical Ethics Lunch & Learn 5:45pm Almost Daily Minyan 27 OFFICE CLOSED 7 1 SATURDAY 9:00am Library Minyan 10:30am Max Kleinman Bar Mitzvah 4:30pm Eliana Silverman Bat Mitzvah 8 9:00am Mahjong at Am Shalom 9:00am Library Minyan 9:30am New Member Shabbat Basket 10:30am Jackson Goldman Bar Mitzvah Packing 11:30am Women’s Spirituality group 1:00pm Laurie Marshall class 2:00pm Kyle Levy Bar Mitzvah 5:15pm Noah’s Ark Tot Shabbat 4:30pm Adult Choir Workshop, 6:30pm Jewish Music Heritage Havdalah and Nosh Shabbat feat. music of Debbie Friedman Confirmation Retreat 14 15 9:00am Mahjong at Am Shalom 6:30pm Shabbat Service Congregational celebration of David Sommer’s Bar Mitzvah, with Josh Nelson and Neshama Carlebach 9:00am Library Minyan 10:30am David Sommer Bar Mitzvah 21 22 9:00am Mahjong at Am Shalom 9:00am Library Minyan 6:30pm Shabbat Service w/ Ruach Choir & Jam Band 8:00pm Young Adults Event: Bowling for Change 28 OFFICE CLOSED 29 9:00am Library Minyan 10:30am Julia Tropp Bat Mitzvah 4:30pm Annabelle Lerrick Bat Mitzvah
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