1. family and parenting

Family Values
By:
Caden Barthlome, Mark Clements, Amanda Cook, Christopher
Hopkin, Patrick McGuire, Elsa Ojeda, Raul Puga
Our PSA announcement
•
What we decided to do for our PSA announcement is the importance of
family values. We believe in order to be a happy family it must have five
important qualities. First the importance of quality time with one another ,
whether it is a little amount of time or a lot it can make the children's and the
parents bond stronger. Next we felt generosity is a great trait that family can
share with one another, showing how important it can be to give help or gifts
when they need it most. Forgiveness is when family member makes a mistake
or does something wrong the family works together and understands in order
to make things right. We felt that respect is also another important value that
every family must have in order to be closer and happier with one another
that is why every family member must respect each others space and decisions
in order to make a better family. Lastly honesty with each other is what
makes the family closer and stronger because if you want everyone to trust
and believe in each other than they must be honest with each other to build
that bond that every family must have in order to have better family values.
“If the family were a boat, it would be a canoe that makes no progress unless
everyone paddles. LETTY COTTIN POGREBIN, Family and Politics” This
quote shows how important and strong the combination of love and working
with one another can be. Because without it nothing could be done but once
everyone works together everything will work just the way its suppose to.
Quality Time
• Quality time is a pivotal piece in the function of a
welcoming and loving family for each member to
grow and strengthen the bonds of togetherness.
The importance of this family trait is to focus
more on the “quality” than the “time”. Time spent
having fun and enjoying each others' company will
prove to be much more beneficial (even if only for
a short amount of time) than long hours partaking
in boring tasks. Setting aside some time every
week to plan out family activities is a great tip for
creating quality family time. Keeping your
activities interesting, fun, and diverse is a great
idea to help capture those special moments having
fun together!
Quality Time (Continued)
• It is important to note that every family is unique, enjoy
different things, and have separate beliefs. Finding what
your family connects with best and including every
member so that everyone has a good time is absolutely
critical. Some great ideas to start with are board game
nights, family walks or hikes, a few games of bowling, a
round of mini-golf, perhaps attending a musical concert,
or a short camping trip are all wonderful ideas to start
with. Find your family's niche and explore your options,
you may be surprised by the results. Although every
family is different in the way they bond or spend time
together, one thing that they all have in common is if you
make time for one another then the families bond will be
stronger and make a happier family.
Generosity
•
Generosity is a very important value that many have forgotten. We
have become more and more materialistic and selfish. We must
learn to be generous to those less fortunate and to those that need
it the most. “You cannot do a kindness too soon because you
never know how soon it will be too late.— Ralph Waldo
Emerson” This is something that families must remember and its
to be too dark but its true you never know what will happen or
what would be considered to late, that is why you should always
take the opportunity to be generous whenever possible because
you never know when it might be too late to help someone. I’m
not just talking in a monitory way but by giving someone a
helping hand when they most are in need of it. This is something
we can teach our families to do a lot more of. It starts with family
and helping the people that we love the most. A good example:
Maybe your mom had a rough day at work show her that you care
and help her around the house. These little things can make
someone’s day and it will make you feel good about what you’re
doing for that person. Let’s not lose these great values that make
us better people let’s make them stronger and teach others on how
to be generous.
Forgiveness
•
“ Forgiveness is the intentional and voluntary process by which a
victim undergoes a change in feelings and attitude regarding an
offense, lets go of negative emotions such as revenge, with an
increased ability to wish the offender well. "This is a key element
in families, and any family that is without it will become less
strong and quite possibly be broken. We all naturally have flaws
and weaknesses, and when you are confined to such close spaces
as you are in families these flaws at times seem to become
magnified. This makes forgiveness a necessary part of any family
surviving. Without forgiveness we hold on to grudges and as we
know a house divided against itself cannot stand. All and all if
you see a happy family you will find a family that is willing to
forgive. “At the end of the day, a loving family should find
everything forgivable.-- Mark V. Olsen and Will Sheffer.” No
matter how bad something may be or how hard it may be to
forgive someone, when it comes to family you find a way a way to
get it out of the way and love each other with all your heart. Like
everyone always says love will find a way to make you forgive.
Respect
•
I believe that there is two forms of respect that are being
forgotten in some families today. They are respect to others and
respect to the parents. My parents taught me to address people
older than myself as Mr. and Mrs. (not just their first name). This
is out of respect to them. If parents would teach their children
this kind of respect, I believe that crime and other mischief from
teens would decrease. The second is respect towards the parents. I
see to often kids that just don't listen to their parents and it's not
just in younger kids. I see it with teens in middle school and high
school to often in my opinion. Parents are just trying to help kids
get through their life and are only concerned about their wellbeing. Respect is the type of thing that passed on from person to
person. To receive someone's respect, in return a person must give
that person their respect first. However, we also have to keep in
mind that parents must also respect other people for their children
learn from their example so it is not only the children job to learn
respect but also the parents in order to have a family that respect
one another.
Honesty
• Honesty is being trustworthy with your family in a way
that allows every member to rely upon one another to do
what is right and best for everyone. The need for
integrity in today’s families is a value that continually
becomes eroded by the acidic lifestyles encouraged by the
media and the world. If families are honest with one
another then they can expect to rely upon each other as
well. Families who cannot trust one another to do what is
right quickly become unstable and are unable to forge
bonds in a constructive manner. Honesty doesn’t only
mean telling the truth, it means that everyone within a
family unit can have faith in one another. If there is no
trust within one’s own family how can there be love? If
one cannot trust their own family to be honest then who
can they trust?
Honesty (continued)
•
The lack of honesty and trust within families is a major issue in
today’s society which needs to be improved in order to ensure a
happy and loving familial relationship. Honest can be a hard
standard to obtain when one is afraid of parental disapproval.
This is why parents should make their homes a loving and
understanding environment for their children. If children are
afraid to tell their parents the truth in the face of what may seem
like corporal punishment, then how can said parents expect the
honest truth from their children? With honesty comes
understanding for those wrongs that have been committed and
then forgiveness is giving for those wrongs. “People grow through
experience if they meet life honestly and courageously. This is
how character is built. Eleanor Roosevelt” I love the use of this
quote for honesty because it shows how strong the strength of
honesty can be. That even though it may be hard to tell the truth
at first but when you finally tell the truth it makes you a stronger
person and a stronger family.
Sources
• "Forgive." Merriam-Webster. Merriam-Webster, n.d. Web. 30 Apr. 2014. <http://www.merriamwebster.com/dictionary/forgive>.
• "Family Quotes." Family Quotes. Notable Quotes, n.d. Web. 01 May 2014. <http://www.notablequotes.com/f/family_quotes.html>.
• "Heartwarming Family Quotes at Great-Inspirational-Quotes.com." Heartwarming Family Quotes at GreatInspirational-Quotes.com. Great Inspirational Quotes, n.d. Web. 01 May 2014. <http://www.greatinspirational-quotes.com/family-quotes.html>.
• "Inspirational Quotes - Motivational Quotes - Leadership Quotes | Values.com." Inspirational Quotes.
Values, n.d. Web. 02 May 2014. <http://www.values.com/inspirational-quotes/value/26-Honesty>.
• "22 Inspiring Quotes on Generosity." Next Avenue. N.p., n.d. Web. 02 May 2014.
<http://www.nextavenue.org/blog/22-inspiring-quotes-generosity>.