Beth El Temple of West Hartford, CT December 2014 Kislev/Tevet 5775, Volume L, No. 4 Temple Topics Movies, Music, Mitzvahs & More THURSDAY, DECEMBER BER 1 M E C E D , Y nt,” MONDA The Red Te to have “ So exciting before it airs on ek Part I a we e See pag Lifetime! 5 4 Cantorial and Chanukah Music concert at 7:30 p.m. with optional Israeli dinner by Yosi at 5:30 p.m.…yum! See page 9 SATURDAY, DECEMBER 6 NOTE TO SELF: Learn more about the Saturday morning Shabbat service with Rabbi Rosen’s session, “Motion and Emotion in Jewish Prayer: The Basics.” See page 4 CEMBER SUNDAY, DE 14 Israel Men’s Club/ eakfast br Engagement az Newman, hR program wit Mandell he shaliach at t JCC. age 5 See p THURSDAY, DEC EMBER 25 X -Mas Day Mitzv ah Day Six options for h elping others in the area. Pick a pro ject and sign up ! MBER 14 SUNDAY, DECnEin g of Arias, e “A Delightful Ev . mbles” at 7 p.m Duets and Ense age See back p Temple Topics December 2014 Kislev/Tevet 5775 See page 3 Beth El Temple of West Hartford Inc. 2626 Albany Avenue West Hartford CT 06117 Main Office: 860.233.9696 Religious School: 860.233.9891 bethelwesthartford.org James S. Rosen Rabbi [email protected] Ilana C. Garber Rabbi [email protected] Stanley M. Kessler Rabbi Emeritus Joseph Ness Cantor [email protected] Rabbi Howard B. Rosenbaum Education and Program Director [email protected] Rabbi Howard Sowalsky Ritual and Executive Director [email protected] Lois Koteen President [email protected] Francine Stier Editor Amy Goldman Front Page Published monthly with a combined June/July issue Please send bulletin information to: [email protected] by the first of the month prior to publication (e.g., December 1 for the January issue. ) 2 Rabbi’s Report by Rabbi James Rosen Hail to the Editor The title "editor” seems to depict a rather simple job. It describes the task of someone who has apparently assumed the role of grammatical expert, a matter of simply excising a word here or there, suggesting a couple of possible additions or deletions and making some text fit into prearranged spaces. But to consciously and consistently shape a final written product is like giving birth to a new creation. In the case of Temple Topics, a new "baby" is born every month. And the labor pains involved are many: reminding writers to submit their work, fitting everything into tight parameters, choosing the best way to highlight upcoming holidays and Beth El events, and coordinating the many different contributors, proof reading again and again and much more. All of this in a way that will be appealing to our members’ eyes and demonstrating honor and respect to all who write. For the past 14 years Francine Stier has performed this task with remarkable patience, creativity, ingenuity, and a passion for her work. It is no exaggeration to suggest that for Francine this is been a work of religious commitment. As one who is so involved in Beth El and cares about every aspect of our congregation’s work, one who herself identifies so totally with the daily rhythms of our religious life, she has fashioned for us the essence of Beth El each and every month. We are taught in the Talmud that one who engages in the work of the community is as one who teaches Torah. Tradition such as ours uses words as the central way of conveying religious truths, and our deep passion for real community. Francine has made a huge difference in shaping us all. In her able hands, Francine has made communication, the use of words, the vehicle for making Beth El part of the lives of so many. Thank you Francine for all that you have done on our behalf. Because of you we are a stronger congregation and a better community. Editors Note: Please allow me one last indulgence—I wanted to repeat one of my favorite editorials from 2002, ”Reading Torah.” I started to read Torah shortly before my adult Bat Mitzvah. The awe and apprehension I felt was a combination of avoiding embarrassment for myself and my family as well as a fear of committing an unpardonable affront to those knowledgeable in Torah. Now I realize (after having read Torah for awhile) that the fear and trembling has more to do with the awesome task of standing before our sacred scrolls, on the Bima of our Sanctuary-a holy place. At this point the jitters and pounding heart remind me of the covenant I chose to make with Judaism. Learning my Torah portion has become an activity that centers me when I feel under particular stress. I feel grounded in a purpose beyond myself, toward something which has guided the Jewish people for generations. Just the daily repetition of the words and trope in an effort to learn the reading has a certain calming effect. I remember a story about my grandfather, whose father (Yudel) was the most religious and respected Hasid in their small shtetl. Yudel used to come to my grandfather’s home every Shabbat to prod him out of bed to go to schul. This was after my grandfather was already the father of four young children and a business man. I think he probably just wanted to sleep late and rest in bed most Saturdays but Yudel would have none of that. My mother had a very special relationship with Yudel. She always wanted to accompany him to schul and in fact attended services nestled close to him while she was young. But when she came of age, she was unable to be downstairs with him. She wanted so desperately to learn Torah. Now, both she and I are coming full circle to join the generations of Torah readers before us. [Ed. Note: My mom passed away in 2009. She read Torah monthly with such great joy.] When I first came to Beth El on my quest toward Judaism, it was as an outsider. By that I mean that because I couldn’t read Hebrew or follow the service, I felt distanced from my religion. And for a long time I was comfortable there-it kept me invisible-I did not have to align myself with the intimidating and mysterious aspects of the language, rituals and choreography. But, like Dorothy in Oz, pulling back the curtain on the great and mysterious can sometimes reveal intense beauty, magic and truth. Standing up on the Bima behind the unfolding Torah scrolls is something magical. The words are revealed like a road map– one upon which my yad (Torah pointer—a gift from Sisterhood) travels. The Hebrew letters appear to me like hills and valleys to traverse-my voice going up and over the hills or down and under the valleys. When I finish reading, my heart stops pounding and I am so relieved that I traveled through the reading with only minor bumps in the road. Sometimes, what I am given to read has much resonance to my daily life. At other times, the reading remains a mystery to be unlocked at some later point. Rabbi Rosen once mentioned that one of his goals for Beth El was to have “too many Torah readers.” I think that he is well on his way-several Adult Bar/Bat Mitzvah classes have assured that many more members are acquiring the skill and expertise needed to step up to the Bima. I look forward to meeting you there-we can tremble together! Francine Stier Beth El Temple West Hartford, CT www.bethelwesthartford.org 860.233.9696 Engaging Generations Congratulations Alys and Jack Krichavsky on the marriage of their son Alan to Mia Katz. Mazal Tov and Appreciation for Sponsoring an Oneg or Kiddush Taste of Shabbat Jeanne & Dan Kleinman & family in honor of Dan’s special birthday. Bar/Bat Mitzvah Celebrations in December Please check with the office for information about the Bar/Bat Mitzvah celebrations in Lillian Satlof December December 20, 2014 (Mincha) Lillian, daughter of Joshua and Heather Satlof, sister of Miles, granddaughter of Dr. David and Judith Satlof of West Hartford and Sheryl Cohen and (the late) Harris Cohen of The Villages, FL, is an 8th grader at Avon Middle School. Her Mitzvah Project is to "make homeless pets comfortable until they find a home.” Bar or Bat Mitzvah Claire Peikes by the Peikes family. Dara Hechter by the Hechter family. A Warm Welcome to New Members Sheryl & Boris Levin with Alex, Sammy & Charlie Condolences Dr. Jerold Blum & family on the loss of mother & grandmother, Helen Blum. Marjorie Malitz & family on the loss of husband, father & grandfather, Larry Malitz. Steve Malitz & family on the loss of father & grandfather, Larry Malitz. Cantor Joseph Ness & family on the loss of mother & grandmother, Pauline Ness. Ellen Roth & family on the loss of brother, Gerald Kershenbaum. Doing Mitzvot X-Mas Day Mitzvah Day Library News Our library has re-opened after years of being closed and has lots of new, award-winning books. Please stop by and have a look at one of our new choices: Such Good Girls by R.D. Rosen. This book chronicles the journey of three hidden Jewish children survivors during the Holocaust. PreSchool P.A.L.S. Sunday 12/7 11:00 am This year, our award-winning program for children and their parents, Preschool P.A. L.S. (Play and Learn at Synagogue) will explore the themes of Chanukah. We sing, do craft projects and learn new ways to celebrate together. These classes are geared for preschoolers ages birth to four. Please, no older siblings. RSVP on page 9 Come see why Beth El is the hot spot for babies, pre-schoolers and their parents. Sponsored by Beth El Temple 12/25 Various Locations and Times This X-Mas day, you and your family can make a difference in the lives of others. The Beth El Temple Social Action Committee offers a choice of these six rewarding experiences. Information about other programming is available on the Beth El website: www.bethelwesthartford.org . Hands on Hartford – Provides direct services to people in need by promoting civic engagement and volunteerism. Volunteers needed to serve X-Mas dinner and help clean up for approximately 200-250 people. Location: Christ Church Cathedral, 45 Church Street, Hartford. 9:15a.m.-2:00 p.m. Meal served at 11:30 am Hebrew Home and Hospital -A health care provider featuring a full spectrum of in-patient, out-patient and community based geriatric services to meet the needs of older adults. Volunteers needed for various activities throughout the day including socializing with residents, playing games, arts & crafts, etc. (Suitable for all ages.) Location: 1 Abrahms Blvd., West Hartford. 8:00a.m.-4:00p.m. Peter’s Retreat - A supportive housing program for people living with HIV/AIDS. Volunteers needed to set tables, cook and serve X-Mas dinner for approximately 20-25 people. Location: 123 Retreat Ave., Hartford. 2:00 p.m.-5:00 p.m. (Dinner will be served around 4:00 pm) River Ridge at Avon - Assisted & Independent Living facility. Volunteers needed for bingo, piano and sing-a-long (Suitable for all ages.) Location: 101 Bickford Extension, Avon. 3:00p.m.-5:00p.m South Park Inn – Provides temporary and long-term housing and supportive services for the homeless. Volunteers needed to cook and serve X-Mas dinner for approximately 120 people. Location: 75 Main Street, Hartford. Cook at 3:00p.m., Serve at 5:15p.m. (Suitable for all ages.) Summerwood - Senior Living Community. Volunteers needed for various activities throughout the day. May include socializing with residents, playing games, arts & crafts, etc. Location: 160 Simsbury Road, West Hartford. 11:00a.m. To volunteer for Beth El Temple’s X-Mas Day Mitzvah Day: Contact Marci Alter at [email protected] or 860-676-2248 or Ronit Shoham at [email protected] or 860-558-5313 by 12/16 Name______________________________ Phone number________________________ Email____________________________ Check the venue you where you would like to volunteer: _____River Ridge Of Avon ____Hebrew Home and Hospital _____South Park Inn ____ Peter’s Retreat _____Summerwood ____ Hands on Hartford Second Choice in case you are closed out of your first choice: _______________________# of volunteers in your group_______ Please mail your registration by 12/16 to: Marci Alter 40 Ariel Way Avon, CT 06001 If you wish to email us your choice, please feel free to do so. If you are only able to volunteer for a portion of the time, please indicate so with your choice. Temple Topics December 2014 Kislev/Tevet 5775 3 Worshiping Together Shabbat at Beth El Temple Kabbalat Shabbat services begin at 6:00 pm on Fridays and Shabbat morning services begin at 9:30 am on Saturdays. For up-to-date information on Shabbat-related programming and all RSVP forms, please check the Shabbat brochure, the weekly e-bulletin, or the Beth El website: www.bethelwesthartford.org. Friday, 12/5 Family Shabbat Service 5:45 pm Saturday, 12/6 Birthday Shabbat – Is your birthday in December? Join us for a birthday aliyah (group honor) during the Torah service. “Motion & Emotion in Jewish Prayer” 10:30 am Friday 12/12 Shir Shabbat Service Saturday 12/13 JCL Special Needs Service Junior Congregation Tumbling with Torah Shabbat Family Experience 6:00 pm 10:30 am 11:00 am 11:00 am 11:00 am Friday, 12/19 PJ & Kids’ ClubShabbat Saturday 12/20 Children’s Playroom 5:45 pm Friday Night Family Shabbat Service (Monthly) 12/5 5:45 pm Geared to students in grades 3-6, this Friday night experience highlights your children. All Religious School and SSDS students will be invited to lead prayers. If your child plays a musical instrument and wants to accompany one of our Shabbat prayers, please contact Rabbi Garber([email protected].) Hors d’oeuvres follow services. Children’s Playroom Every Shabbat 9:30 am There is always something for your child at Beth El on Shabbat mornings! We have a Shabbat playroom with the tumbling equipment. Children must be accompanied by a parent or responsible adult. “Motion and Emotion in Jewish Prayer: The Basics” 12/6 10:30 am This is a three session series intended for those who may not ordinarily attend services but would like to feel more comfortable by learning the basics. Led by Rabbi Jim Rosen, participants are encouraged to attend the once a month sessions during Saturday morning services for the next three months and join Rabbi Jim Rosen for a three-part look at the basics of the Saturday morning Shabbat service. 9:30 am Saturday, 12/27 Tumbling with Torah 11:00 am Shir Shabbat 12/12, 6:00 pm We welcome Shabbat with joy and harmony, singing spiritual melodies that are easy to learn. Your heart will soar and your soul will feel refreshed as we sing and pray together. Tumbling With Torah JCL Special Needs Service 12/13 10:30 am This joyous and exuberant service is open to adults who have special needs as well as “typical” worshippers who enjoy an abbreviated meaningful service filled with ruach (spirit and energy) and geared toward those with developmental delays. The service typically includes the singing of prayers, story-telling by Sara deBeer, a Torah parade, and Shabbat appropriate activities based on the particular theme of each service. Led by Nancy Rosen and Judaic Coordinators of JCL: Susan Fried and Bonnie Eisenberg-Greene. A light Kiddush lunch follows the service. PJ Shabbat & Kids’ ClubShabbat 12/13, 27 11:00 am Come see why this is a hot place for tots. Barbara Checknoff is our Tumbling with Torah morah (teacher). Children up to age five are invited for stories, songs and special activities followed by structured time to tumble and climb on the special equipment. We welcome guests! Junior Congregation 12/13 11:00 am At this student service, we will read from the Torah, and are looking for students in grades 3-6 to participate. If you are able to read Torah, are interested, and/or would like to lead any prayers, please be in touch with Rabbi Rosenbaum at 860-233-9891 or [email protected]. Shabbat Family Experience 12/13 11:00 am For children in grades K-2, this Shabbat service is filled with 12/19 5:45 pm prayers, songs and stories led by Adrian Durlester. Parents are For our youngest children, dress them in their PJs and bring them to synagogue for stories, songs, prayers and a Torah parade encouraged to join their children for a meaningful Shabbat experience. led by Rabbi Garber. For children ages 5-8, join Barbara Checknoff for a parallel program of stories, songs and prayers. A chicken nugget dinner for kids and Shabbat hors d’oeuvres for parents follows for participants of both programs. There is no charge but participating families are invited to serve as sponsors in honor of their children. To sponsor this in your child’s honor, please call 860-233-9891. RSVP for planning purposes, page 9. 4 Beth El Temple West Hartford, CT www.bethelwesthartford.org 860.233.9696 Making Connections Women’s Network Exclusive Premiere of Lifetime’s, “The Red Tent” Miniseries Monday, 12/ 1 7:00 pm The world premiere of Lifetime’s miniseries “The Red Tent,” isn’t until December 7, but the Women’s Network of Beth El Temple has acquired Part I of the miniseries (running length approximately two hours) to show at an exclusive preview. This screening is open to the public and is being shown as a fundraiser for The Lillian Fund and My Sister’s Place. Lifetime’s miniseries “The Red Tent,” based on the best-selling novel by Anita Diamant, is a sweeping tale that takes place during the times of the Bible, told through the eyes of Dinah, the daughter of Leah and Jacob. The all-star cast includes Academy Award, Golden Globe and Emmy nominee Minnie Driver (“Return to Zero,” “About a Boy”), Emmy nominee Morena Baccarin (“Homeland”), Golden Globe nominee Rebecca Ferguson (“The White Queen”), Iain Glen (“Game of Thrones”), Will Tudor (“Game of Thrones”) and Academy Award, Golden Globe and Emmy nominee Debra Winger (“Terms of Endearment”). The miniseries begins with Dinah’s (Ferguson) happy childhood spent inside the red tent where the women of her tribe gather and share the traditions and turmoil of ancient womanhood. The film recounts the story of Dinah’s mothers Leah (Driver), Rachel (Baccarin), Zilpah and Bilhah, the four wives of Jacob (Glen). Dinah matures and experiences an intense love that subsequently leads to a devastating loss, and the fate of her family is forever changed. Winger portrays Rebecca, Jacob’s mother while Tudor stars as Joseph, Dinah’s brother. “The Red Tent” has sold millions of copies worldwide and has been translated in 28 languages. The novel is a New York Times, Los Angeles Times, Washington Post, San Francisco Chronicle, USA Today and Entertainment Weekly Top Ten Best Seller. Men’s Club & Israel Engagement Committee Breakfast Program: Raz Newman, Director: Israel Programs at the Mandell JCC Sunday 12/ 14 9:15 am The community is invited to our breakfast program with Israel native Raz Newman, the shaliach at the Mandell JCC. He will share his stories about growing up in Israel, his role serving the Israel Defense Forces in Oketz, an elite combat unit, and he will discuss the recent conflict in Gaza. There will be plenty of time for questions and answers. RSVP page 9. Bite of Beth El Cooking the Jewish Classics: Latkes Thursday, 12/18 7:30 pm Go from “oy” to “joy” – of cooking, that is – in a hands-on cooking experience. This is a "make and take" demonstration where we will learn about the basics of a Jewish classic before preparing our own to take home and savor. It's Chanukah time and food blogger, Martha Kalen, will be frying up some amazing classic potato latkes and bringing us modern latke twists! Let us do the frying and you take home dinner for another night of Chanukah! Space is limited – this event is for men and women, but no children, please. RSVP page 9. Brought to you by the Women’s Network. Contact Rachel Leventhal-Weiner ([email protected]) with any questions. Temple Topics December 2014 Kislev/Tevet 5775 5 Supporting Beth El Camp Ramah Fund Annette & Sy Gavens in honor of the special birthday of Nancy Rosen. Cantor’s Music Fund Jackie Bazzano in appreciation of Cantor Ness for the bat mitzvah of daughter, Marissa Lazinsk. Ellen & Peter Donshik in memory of Evelyn Stier, mother of Steve. Sandra & Richard Greenberg in appreciation of Cantor Ness. Maya Margulis for the yahrzeit of father, Moses Volodazsky. Judith & David Satlof in honor of the High Holiday participation of grandson Miles Herschel Satlof; in appreciation of Cantor Ness. Florence Shakun in honor of the special birthday of Ellen Margolis. Shakun & Company in memory of Cecil Schatz. Phyllis & Jim Turner in honor of Don Golden for many more healthy years. Cemetery Fund Philip Schulz for the yahrzeit of mother, Judith Schulz. Chai Society Fund The following donations were received in honor of the 95th birthday of Dr. Abe Weinberg: Jeanne & Marshall Elman, Anne & Leonard Goldman. Jeanne & Marshall Elman in honor of Howard Meyerowitz & Bernie Selig being honored by Men’s Club with the Distinguished Service Award. Judith & David Satlof for the yahrzeit of father, Phillip Ralph Ugelow. Education Fund Marci & Jonathan Alter in honor of Leah Goldman’s dedication to the BET Religious School. Felice Goldman in honor of granddaughter, Leah. Jill & Gary Jones for the yahrzeit of grandfather, George Scharmett; for friend, Stefanie Asksomit. Friends of Ari Santiago Temple Accessibility Fund Robin & Rafi Santiago for the yahrzeit of mother, Lila Santiago. Jewish Continuity Fund Sharon & Neil Kochen in honor of Howard Meyerowitz & Bernie Selig being honored by Men’s Club with the Distinguished Service Award. Rabbi Garber’s Discretionary Fund Diane & Richard Lieberfarb in honor of Eleanore Reiner & Judy Rosenthal for their 6 Thoughtful Contributions (received through 11/1/14) honors on Simchat Torah; in memory of Evelyn Stier, mother of Steve; wishing a speedy recovery to Roz Hahn, Michelle Levitt & Lois Schwartz; for the yahrzeit of mother, Estelle Davis. Rabbi Rosen’s Discretionary Fund The following donations were received in memory of Marvin Lewtan, father of Doug: Marylin & Arthur Noll, Carol Rosen, Stuart Toben, Eleanor & Leonard Udolf. The following donations were received in memory of Mickey Rosenzweig, father of Lisa Alpert: Eve Alpert, Felice Goldman, Grace Karczmarczyk, Sherri & Fred Pliskin, June Rosen & Ben Abrams. The following donations were received in memory of Cecil Schatz: Elaine & Bob Dombroff, Sybil & Don Golden, Diane & Larry Greenfield, Bernie Matlaw, Marylin & Arthur Noll, Judith & Laljeebhai Patel, Deborah & Richard Polivy, Sonny & Mark Shipman, Debby & Michael Stiebel, Gail & Ray Weinstein, Irene & Bob Weiss. Jackie Bazzano in appreciation of Rabbi Rosen for the bat mitzvah of daughter, Marissa Lazinsk. Drs. Laura Berlin & Alfred Gladstone in memory of Evelyn Stier, mother of Steve. Nancy Cohen in appreciation of Rabbi Rosen. Martha Ehrlich & Jacalyn Cohen in honor of the 30th birthday of Dani Rosen, son of Nancy & Rabbi Jim Rosen; in appreciation of Rabbi Rosen. Sandy & Marc Friedman & family in appreciation of Rabbi Rosen. Mark Gold in appreciation of Rabbi Rosen. Beatrice Goldberg in honor of the 95th birthday of brother, Abe Weinberg. Lori, Harvey & Joshua Goodman in appreciation of Rabbi Rosen. Nancy & Dennis Gottfried in honor of the bat mitzvah of daughter, Lucy; in appreciation of Rabbi Rosen, Rabbi Garber, Rabbi Rosenbaum, Rabbi Sowalsky and Cantor Ness. Sandra & Richard Greenberg in honor of Howard Meyerowitz being honored by Men’s Club with the Distinguished Service Award; in appreciation of Rabbi Rosen & Rabbi Sowalsky. Miriam Lappen in honor of the 95th birthday of Abe Weinberg; in honor of the naming of granddaughter, Reese Sydney Wolf. Robert Levine in memory of Dr. Marvin Levine. Judy & Harold Levy in memory of Evelyn Stier, mother of Steve. Tim McCarthy for the yahrzeit of wife, Frances Erlichson. Sherri & Fred Pliskin in honor of Lois Koteen & Nancy Rosen; in memory of Evelyn Stier, mother of Steve. Nelson Riner in honor of the 95th birthday of Abe Weinberg. Joanne & Arthur Rome in memory of Evelyn Stier, mother of Steve. Martin Schulz for the yahrzeit of wife, Judith Schulz; for mother-in-law, Bessie Lovitz Beltzer; for father-in-law, Samuel Lovitz. Anne Stein in appreciation of Rabbi Rosen. Heidi & Stan Teplitz in honor of the 30th wedding anniversary of Linda & Steve Blotner. Susan & Marty Ungar in memory of Harold Epstein. Lorraine & Farrel Vogelhut in appreciation of Judy Rosenthal. Sara Wolf in appreciation of Rabbi Rosen. Ruth Yincovich in appreciation of Rabbi Rosen. Dr. Richard Zimmerman for the yahrzeit of mother, Nora Zimmerman. Taste of Shabbat Fund Annette & Sy Gavens in honor of the 95th birthday of Abe Weinberg. Loren & Joel Gelber in memory of Evelyn Stier, mother of Steve. Florence & Philip Post in honor of Bob Gruskay receiving the Keeper of the Flame Award from CT Valley Regional Federation of Men’s Clubs; in honor of Howard Meyerowitz & Bernie Selig receiving the Men’s Club Distinguished Service Award. Temple Fund The following donations were received in memory of Marvin Lewtan, father of Doug: Ruth & Bert Berlin, Leslie & Harold Blumberg, Janet & Robert Bruner, Barbara & Harold Fink, Diane & Larry Greenfield, The Flaxman family, William, Sue & David Kanter, Doris & Simon Konover, Barbara & Ira Levin, Mahoney Sabol & Company, Rachel & Mitchell Marcus, Carla & Steve Schwartz, Trans-Tex, Dottie & Zane Wernick. The following donations were received in memory of Mickey Rosenzweig, father of Lisa Alpert: Beth El Temple West Hartford, CT www.bethelwesthartford.org 860.233.9696 Ann Cohen, Amy & Jim Goldman, Sydney, Melissa & David Lerner, Gilda Liebowitz, Freda & Lenny Schwartz, Laurie & Steven Strauss. The following donations were received in memory of Cecil Schatz: Marjorie & Bruce Abel, Barbra & Samuel Chester, Doris & Simon Konover, Jay Levin, Nancy Shuch. Amy & Jim Goldman in memory of Evelyn Stier, mother of Steve. Leah & Peter Katz in appreciation of High Holiday honor. Stella & Arthur Mostel in honor of Carolyn & Jeffrey Weiser & daughters. Deborah & Richard Polivy in honor of Bernie Selig being honored by Men’s Club with the Distinguished Service Award. Lea & Bernie Selig in memory of Evelyn Stier, mother of Steve. Edna, David & Naomi Shamash in honor of Howard Meyerowitz being honored by Men’s Club with the Distinguished Service Award. Anne Stein in appreciation of the Beth El Temple staff and volunteers. Selma Squires in honor of the marriage of granddaughter, Anna Squires Levine to Ethan Kershar. Carolyn & Jeff Weiser in memory of Evelyn Stier, mother of Steve. Yahrzeit Carolyn Bernstein for friend, Danica Cupurdija. Dr. Jordan Blinder & family for father & grandfather, Steven Blinder. Harold Blumberg for mother, Jean Blumberg. Shirley K. & David Brody & family for mother & grandmother, Molly Kling; for mother & grandmother, Rebecca Brody. Sharon & Steve Conway for father, Bernard Reisman; for mother, Judy Conway. Reeva Cremer for mother, Fanny Smith Cremer. Meryl Danitz for father, Irving Ducker. Harriet M. Dannhauser for father, H. Louis Mandell. Ellen & Peter Donshik for mother, Sylvia Philips. Sandy & Marc Friedman & family for parents & grandparents, Thelma & Seymour Gold. Sarah Friedman for Samuel Markman; for sister, Rose Adelson. Irene Fromson for husband, Frank Fromson. Nan Glass for grandmother, Rose Gould Mass; for Holocaust remembrance, Valerie Draheim. Doris & Herb Golinsky for son, Jed M. Golinsky; for father, Max J. Golinsky. Susan & Bob Gold for father, Leo J. Gold. Barbara & Robert Green for father, Jack Franzman; for father, Sydney Green. Diane & Larry Greenfield for mother, Ethel Bernstein. Vivian Haas for mother, Bernice Kosofsky. Lillian Hillman for daughter, Carolyn Hillman. Jill, Brad, Will & Jack Hutensky for Holocaust remembrance, Harry Steinbach. Barbara Karasik for father, Joseph Issac Silver. Debbie & Gary Katz for father, Gerald Steinberg. Jeffrey Katz for mother, Jean Goldman Katz. Debbie & Steve Kleinman for father, Benjamin Kleinman. Gina Koppel for mother, Sybil Simon. Leslie & Paul Korus & family for father & grandfather, Arthur Bodner. Andre Lerer for father, Sam Lerer. Wendy Lyon for father, Dr. Sam Lyon; for brother, Daniel Lyon. Lynn & Joel Malkoff for mother, Harriet Treach. Sheila & Howard Mark for brother, Lester Mark. Barbara Messing for husband, Arthur Messing; for parents, Thelma & Sidney Steinberg. Harold Moskowitz for mother, Ruth Moskowitz. Honi Papernik for mother, Muriel Cohen. Randi Piaker for mother, Barbara Levy. Elliott Pollack for parents, Mollie & Samuel Pollack. Rhona & Joel Roffer for father, Ira J. Posnak. Joanne Rome for father, Hy Gloth. Lillian Rosenberg for mother-in-law, Gertrude Rosenberg. Gloria Rubin for father, Jack Miller; for grandfather, David Cohen. Sandra & Marshall Rulnick for mother, Sara Rulnick. Sue Eisner Saidel for mother, Gladys Rose Eisner. Florence Shakun for father-in-law, Hyman Shakun. Karen & Roy Shakun & family for father, Norton Seltzer; for father, Richard Shakun; for grandmother, Ann Seltzer. Cyral & Richard Sheldon & family for mother & grandmother, Ruth Krongold. Stacey Stern Shore & Eric Shore for parents, Myra & Lionel Stern. Dr. Joseph Springut for father, Arthur Springut. Paula Steinberg for parents, Sylvia Mildred & Albert Max Drucker. Michael Stiebel for father, Abner Stiebel. Suzanne & Stanley Stier for mother, Gertrude Senft Besunder; for father, Irving Stier; for brother, Walter Stier; for Holocaust remembrance, Basia Cukrowski. Gertrude Sucoll for husband, Dr. Sidney Temple Topics December 2014 Kislev/Tevet 5775 Sucoll. Selma Squires for husband, Arnold Squires. Lois & Jason Tanzer for parents, Mary & Benjamin Blessoff; for father, Saul Tanzer. Shirley & Julius Wachtel for father, Samuel Wilensky; for father, Morris Wachtel; for Holocaust remembrance, Miriam Sternfeld & Julio Sternberg. Susan & Stuart Wachtel for Holocaust remembrance, Dionyz Stein. Tsedakah/Chesed Fund Michael Fink in memory of Marvin Lewtan, father of Doug. Youth Activities Fund Andrea & Dr. Robert Lindenberg in honor of the bat mitzvah of Lucy Gottfried, daughter of Nancy & Dennis Gottfried. Endowment Funds General Endowment The Coopers in memory of David deCastro Robles, father of Esther Aronson. Marsha & Warren Fisher in appreciation of the Beth El Temple community and the honor on Kol Nidre. Annette & Sy Gavens in honor of Judy Rosenthal, “Kallah Mafteret” on Simchat Torah. Phyllis & Richard Levy in honor of the 30th wedding anniversary of Carol & Burton Cunin. Lauren Reynolds in honor of Micah Francis Reynolds. Naomi & Michael Cohen Endowment Fund Naomi & Michael Cohen in memory of Mickey Rosenzweig, father of Lisa Alpert. Merle & David Harris in honor of the 75th birthday of Michael Cohen. Friends Fund for Members in Need Lee Ann & Claudio Benadiva in honor of Judy Rosenthal, “Kallah Mafteret” on Simchat Torah; in memory of Cantor Herbert Weiser, father of Jeff. Joyce & Richard Leibert in memory of Cecil Schatz; in memory of Linda Hammerman, sister of Annette Levine; in memory of Jerry Wagner. Judy & David Rosenthal in memory of Cecil Schatz; in honor of the engagement of Allison Shapiro, daughter of Joan & Paul, to Michael Dwork. Patti & Howard Weiner, Fran Weiner in honor of Judy Rosenthal, “Kallah Mafteret” on Simchat Torah; in memory of Marvin Lewtan, father of Doug; in memory of Cecil Schatz; in memory of Herbert Weiner. Gavens Family College Youth Fund Annette & Sy Gavens in honor of the birth of Isabella Small, granddaughter of Ruth & Gilbert; in appreciation of having experienced these High Holidays. 7 Irving & Shirley Gutcheon Endowment Fund Paulette & Jim Lotstein in honor of the bat mitzvah of Rae Hannah Gutcheon, daughter of Mina Nemirow & Jason Gutcheon; in honor of Rabbi Stanley Kessler receiving an honorary degree from University of Hartford; in memory of Dan Miller, husband of Cipie; in memory of Sylvia Novarr, mother of Susan Schenker; wishing a speedy recovery to Roz Hahn; for the yahrzeit of grandparents, Annie & Samuel Lotstein. Anna Heineman Memorial Fund Barbara Fertig in memory of mother, Anna Heineman. Lisa Grant & Billy Weitzer in memory of Evelyn Stier, mother of Steve. Hattie Kaufman in memory of mother, Anna Heineman. Eleanor Weinberg Jainchill Family Fund Lois & Chuck Koteen in honor of the 95th birthday of Abe Weinberg. Koteen Family Fund The following donations were received in honor of birth of Samuel Tilden Barr, grandson of Lois & Chuck Koteen: Carolyn & Stu Bernstein, Leah & Peter Katz The following donations were received in honor of the birth of Ansley Rose Koteen, granddaughter of Lois & Chuck: Carolyn & Stu Bernstein, Judy & David Borus, Annette & Sy Gavens, Leah & Peter Katz. Abbey & Stephen Kreinik wishing a speedy recovery to Chuck Koteen. Dr. Leo P. Reiner Endowment Fund Annette & Sy Gavens in honor of Eleanore Reiner, “Kallah Torah” on Simchat Supporting Beth El Torah. Lois & Alvin Reiner Family Fund Alvin Reiner in honor of the 50th wedding anniversary of Judie & Coleman Levy; in honor of the 65th wedding anniversary of Jeanne & Marshall Elman; in honor of the birth of Mickey Sowalsky Schaeffer, granddaughter of Dora & Rabbi Howard Sowalsky; in honor of the birthday of granddaughter, Ellen Arnstein; in honor of the retirement of Michael Price; in memory of Cecil Schatz; in memory of Marvin Lewtan, father of Doug. Roland-Berkowitz Family Fund Lenore Weisinger in memory of parents, Betty & Max Berkowitz; of grandfather, Louis Berkowitz. Michael & Susan Schenker Endowment Fund Gail & Steve Muntner in memory of Sylvia Novarr, mother of Susan Schenker. Susan & Michael Schenker in memory of Cecil Schatz; in memory of Evelyn Stier, mother of Steve; for the yahrzeit of parents, Muriel & Morton Schenker. Muriel G. & Morton L. Schenker Fund for the Arts Norma Jean & Robert Sternschein in honor of the special birthdays of Stuart Herskovitz and Michael Herskovitz. Mort Shechtman Men’s Club Fund Annette & Sy Gavens in honor of Jacob Kovel, “Chattan Bereshith” on Simchat Torah. Joy Shechtman Mankoff & Ronald Mankoff in honor of the birthday of Vicki Shechtman. Bruce Shein & Sharon Levine-Shein Endowment Fund Sharon Levine-Shein & Bruce Shein in honor of Joseph Rachlin being honored by Beth El Temple for his years of service to the Board of Trustees; in honor of Howard Meyerowitz & Bernie Selig being honored by Men’s Club with the Distinguished Service Award; in honor of the special birthday of Lillian Hillman; in honor of the 95th birthday of Abe Weinberg; in memory of Cecil Schatz; in memory of Evelyn Stier, mother of Steve; in appreciation of Karyn Schwartzer & Melissa Mentzer. Sowalsky Gabbai Rishon Endowment Fund Gilda Liebowitz in honor of the birth of Mickey Sowalsky Schaeffer, grandson of Dora & Rabbi Howard Sowalsky. Jacalyn Szarkowicz-Nair for the yahrzeit of husband, Robert Nair. Leigh A. Newman & Gary S. Starr Family Fund Dr. Joseph Starr in honor of Leigh Newman “davening” the Haftorah on Yom Kippur. Dr. Manuel M. Stier Memorial Fund The following donations were received in memory of Evelyn Stier, mother of Steve: Meryl & Mitchell Danitz, Barbara Fertig, Annette & Sy Gavens, Hattie Kaufman, Lois & Chuck Koteen, Abbey & Stephen Kreinik, Florence & Philip Post, Rhona & Dr. Joel Roffer. Sussman Families Fund Suzanne Sussman & Olga Smith for the yahrzeit of father & husband, Jack Smith. Amy E. Toyen Endowment Fund Marilyn & Alan Rothstein for the yahrzeit of father, Leo Simon; for aunt, Rose Sverdlin. Endowment News Why Endowment? Honor the Past. . .Cherish the Present.. .Assure the Future. . . The Talmud teaches us, “I did not find the world desolate when I entered it, and as my fathers planted for me, so do I plant for my children.” Each of us has the opportunity to do something for the future of Beth El Temple. We can make a difference. We can Aim Chai. This is our community and it is our responsibility to preserve what has been created and help it flourish. A secure Endowment will enable us to realize the future and meet the ever-changing needs of our congregation. We honor our past, as we support today’s strength’s, in order to secure tomorrow’s possibilities. Everyone has a unique family and financial situation but your legacy gift can be designed to match your personal circumstances. With your support, we will secure a sound future for Beth El Temple. Contact [email protected] or one of the Endowment Trustees. Dan Gottfried Myra Kleinman Lois Koteen Abbey M Kreinik Jerry Leshem Judie Levy Frank Resnick Naomi Tussin Stuart Wachtel Howard Weiner 8 Beth El Temple West Hartford, CT www.bethelwesthartford.org 860.233.9696 RSVP Enjoying Beth El Women’s Network Pre-Screening of “The Red Tent” Mini-Series 12/1 7:00 pm ___$18 in advance; ___$20 at the door Includes popcorn and hot chocolate. Total $___ To RSVP contact Beth Papermaster at [email protected] or call the office 860-2339696. PreSchool PALS (Play & Learn At Synagogue) 12/7 11:00 am $10 Beth El members___ $15 Non-Members___ Total $___ Men’s Club & Israel Engagement Committee Breakfast Program 12/14 9:15 am Cost: $7 (no charge for Men’s Club members) Walk-ins: $10 ($5 for Men’s Club members) RSVP: by 12/11 to Joe Springut - 860-676-9878/ [email protected] (Contact Joe if you need a ride.) Total $___ Bite of Beth El RSVP: by 12/12 $20/Adult___ 12/18 7:30 pm Total $___ PJ & Kids’ ClubShabbat 12/19 5:45 pm (suggested for planning purposes) Adult Oneg no charge #____ Child Nuggets no charge #____ Mail to: Beth El Temple, 2626 Albany Ave., West Hartford, CT 06117 Name____________________ Email_______________ Address__________________ Phone____________ Grand Total $ ________ Doing Mitzvot Israel, Chazzanut & Chanukiah Thursday 12/4 Dinner 5:30 pm Concert 7:30 pm An Evening of Opera Arias Sunday 12/14 Dinner 5:30 pm Concert 7:00 pm The 2014-15 Music Series at Beth El will be kicking-off this month with two memorable offerings! Please join us for "Songs Of The Heart"A Concert Of Cantorial and Holiday Music by Raymond Goldstein, Israeli composer and arranger on Thursday, December 4. An Israeli pre-concert dinner will be offered at 5:30pm and the concert will begin at 7:30pm. Cantors Chaim Dovid Berson, Sanford Cohn,(of The Emanuel Synagogue-West Hartford), Brian Mayer and Gideon Zelermyer (formerly of West Hartford) will be accompanied by pianist Adrian Durlester and instrumentalists. A community chorale with Beth El Temple Adult and Children's Choirs and members of The Solomon Schechter Day School of Greater Hartford and Bess and Paul Siegel Hebrew Academy of Greater Hartford children's choirs will also perform Chanukah and Israeli musical favorites all under the direction of Cantor Joseph Ness. An Israeli pre-concert dinner by Yosi Kosher Catering will be offered. RSVP not required for dinner. Dinner is $10 per person (cash only) for dinners. "An Evening Of Opera Arias" Orchestral concert will be offered on Sunday, December 14 at 7:00 pm. Beloved opera arias by Mozart, Bizet, Massenet and Korngold among other opera composers will be interpreted by leading artists of the national and international opera stages: John Bellemer, tenor, possesses a voice described by The New York Times as "clarion-toned". Emerging soprano, Ashley Kerr, is praised for her "plush and seductive tone." Mezzo soprano, Shirin Eskandani, is hailed by Opera Today for her " pleasing and pliant voice." Baritone, Chai Lun Yueh, back by popular demand, is an award-winning artist with a rich and powerful voice. Cantor Ness conducts the Beth El Orchestra. Wednesday Evening Music Lectures Charter Oak Project Sunday 12/7 9:00 am Cook at Beth El Monday 12/8 5:30 pm Serve at Charter Oak Cultural Center In cooperation with the Charter Oak Cultural Center, we prepare (Sunday morning at Beth El) and then serve dinner on Monday evening to Hartford schoolchildren and their families at the Charter Oak Cultural Center. For information, contact Craig Diamond at 860-461-0263, [email protected], or Kerry Rausch at 860-232-3591, [email protected]. Loaves & Fishes Monday 12/8 10:00 am On the first Monday of each month, a group of Beth El volunteers meets at this soup kitchen in the Immanuel Church in Hartford. The group prepares and serves lunch to approximately 70-90 clients. For more information, contact Ellen Solomon [email protected]. KNITzvah Group BEMA-Beth El Music & Arts 12/14 10:00 am The award winning KNITzvah Group will be starting its 13th year. If you love to knit, join us. We usually meet once a month on a Sunday morning. Check with the office for actual location and for future dates and bring a # 10 needle. Annette, Cipie & NormaJean with Cantor Joseph Ness 2/18/15 8:00 pm Starting Points—Mendelssohn, Mahler, Schoenberg 2/25/15 8:00 pm The Influence of European Jewish Composers; Joseph Smith, guest pianist. 3/4/15 No Class PURIM 3/11/15 8:00 pm Wagner’s Jews - Movie Screening plus discussion with music expert, Hilan Warshaw. 3/18/15 8:00 pm Music of the Theater: Korngold, Weill, Eisler, Hermann, Gershwin, Bernstein, Sondheim and more. Please note: The Beth El Choir will appear at the Bushnell, Thursday, 5/7-Sunday, 5/10 with the exception of the Friday night performance. . Beethoven & Mozart: Symphony No. 6 & Bernstein’s “Chichester Psalms.” Part of the Masterworks Series with conductor Carolyn Kuan, The Hartford Chorale, Beth El Temple Choir, & Beth Israel Chorus. (This concert is not part of the BEMA annual season series.) Temple Topics December 2014 Kislev/Tevet 5775 9 10 Beth El Temple West Hartford, CT www.bethelwesthartford.org 860.233.9696 December 2014 Kislev /Tevet 5775 Daily Service Schedule Mornings 7:00 am Monday—Friday, 8:45 am Sunday Evenings 7:30 pm Sun. -Thurs. Shabbat שבתFriday 6:00 pm Kabbalat Shabbat Saturday 9:30 am Shacharit-Torah Service Musaf, Mincha-Ma’ariv-Havdalah (MMH) SEE BELOW Note: When a Saturday evening B/M is listed, there will be a concurrent service in the Chapel. SUNSUNDAY MONDAY 1 9 Kislev TUESDAY WEDNES- 2 10 Kislev 10:00 am Loaves & Fishes 10:00 am Memoir Writing Workshop; 7:00 pm “Red Tent” Movie 7 15 Kislev 8 9:00 am Cooking for Charter Oak; 10:30 am Daled Family BBM Workshop; Hai Program with JCL; 11:00 am Preschool P.A.L.S. 5:30 pm Serving Dinner at Charter Oak Cultural Center 16 Kislev 14 22 Kislev 15 23 Kislev 9:15 am Men’s Club Breakfast & Progr 10:00 am KNITzvah Group 5:30 pm PreConcert Dinner 6:30 pm Minyan 7:00 pm BEMA Concert 21 29 Kislev 10:00 am Religious School Medura (bonfire) 7:00 pm Social Action: Chanukah Candle Lighting at River Ridge 28 6 Tevet 9 17 Kislev THURS4 12 Kislev 5 6:30 pm Gurlz JAM 5:30 pm PreConcert Dinner 7:30 pm BEMA Israel Concert 4:02 pm Light Candles 5:45 pm Family Service 6:00 pm Kabbalat Shabbat 11 19 Kislev 12 20 Kislev 13 Kislev 4:02 pm Light Candles 6:00 pm Shir Shabbat 16 24 Kislev 17 25 Kislev 18 26 Kislev 19 27 Kislev First Night of Chanukah 5:45 pm Outdoor Lighting of Chanukiah 2nd Night of Chanukah 5:45 pm Outdoor Lighting of Chanukiah 3rd Night of Chanukah 7:00 pm Social Action: Chanukah Candle Lighting at River Ridge 7:30 pm “Bite of Beth El” Light Chanukah Candles before Shabbat 4:04 pm Light Candles 5:45 pm PJ & Kids’ ClubShabbat 6:00 pm Kabbalat Shabbat 24 2 Tevet 25 3 Tevet 26 4 Tevet All Day Social Action: X-Mas Day Mitzvah Day at different venues 9:00 am Minyan 4:09 pm Light Candles 6:00 pm Kabbalat Shabbat 7:00 pm Social Action: Chanukah Candle Lighting at River Ridge 8th Night of Chanukah 5:45 pm Outdoor Lighting of Chanukiah 7:00 pm Social Action: Chanukah Candle Lighting at River Ridge 29 7 Tevet 30 8 Tevet SATURDAYSAT 6 14 Kislev Parsha Vayishlach Birthday Aliyah 9:30 am Shabbat Service 10:30 am “Motion & Emotion in Jewish Prayer” 4:10 pm MMH 13 21 Kislev Parsha Vayeshev 9:30 am Shabbat Service 10:30 am JCL Service 11:00 am Shabbat Family Experience; Junior Congregation; Tumbling with Torah; 4:10 pm MMH 20 28 Kislev Parsha Miketz 9:30 am Shabbat Service 4:10 pm MMH; B/M of Lillian Satlof 7:00 pm Chanukah Candle Lighting at River Ridge 27 5 Tevet Parsha Vayigash 11:00 am ; Tumbling With Torah 4:15 pm MMH Ongoing Weekly Programs, 31 9 Tevet 1/ 1 10 Tevet 5:00 pm Minyan Fast Day 9:00 am Minyan Multi-Week Classes, Mon Fri FRIDAYFRI 3 11 Kislev 10 18 Kislev 22 30 Kislev 23 1 Tevet Rosh Chodesh Rosh Chodesh No Religious School—Resumes on January 6 טבת/כסלו registration &/or payment required 10:00 am Memoir Workshop 12/1 7:00 pm Hebrew Ulpan, Int./Adv. 10:00 am A Bisl Yiddish no registration required Tue 12:00 pm Lunch & Learn Wed 10:30 am Talmud Study NO CLASS on 12/24 & 12/31 Thu 8:00 am Bible & Breakfast Fri 10:00 am Beth El Babies Exploring (bebe) with parent supervision. Recognizing Our Volunteers Loaves& Fishes Chair: Ellen Solomon Bert Berlin Nancy Gershman Debra Katz Sheila Ment Steve Szafman Fast of the Tenth of Tevet 1/1 The Tenth of Tevet marks the day on which the Babylonian siege of Jerusalem began in the year 588 BCE, an event which eventually led to the destruction on the Temple in 586 BCE and the first exile from Israel. The Tenth of Tevet is considered a "minor fast" from sunrise to sunset. Temple Topics December 2014 Kislev/Tevet 5775 11 NON PROFIT ORG U.S. POSTAGE PAID Hartford, CT PERMIT No. 4331 2626 Albany Avenue West Hartford, CT 06117 Beth El Events 12 Beth El Temple West Hartford, CT www.bethelwesthartford.org 860.233.9696
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