Our Lady of Mercy Church Park Ridge, New Jersey 07656 December 28, 2014 The Holy Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph New Year’s Eve Mass Schedule 5:30pm New Year’s Day 10am & 12 noon Rev. Charles P. Granstrand, Pastor Rev. Robert T. Ulak, Parochial Vicar Rev. Msgr. James C. Turro (Weekends) Rev. Msgr. Carl D. Hinrichsen (In Residence) Rev. John Chadwick (Weekends) Joseph Romano, Deacon Gary Tankard, Deacon John Rokoszak, Pastoral Associate Debra Wyka, Minister of Music Amy Ballanco, Religious Education Coordinator Jennifer Kavanagh, Youth Minister Donna Quinn, Business Manager RECONCILIATION Saturday: 9-9:30AM & 1-1:30PM Monday: 7-7:30PM MASS SCHEDULE Saturday Evening: 5:30PM Sunday: 7:30AM, 9:30AM, 11:00AM, 12:30PM Daily: 6:30AM, 8:30AM Saturday: 8:30AM BAPTISM The Sacrament is celebrated one Sunday every month. Parents should contact the rectory prior to the birth of their child for dates of Baptism Preparation Sessions. MARRIAGE Couples planning to be married should contact the rectory at least ONE YEAR PRIOR to the wedding date. Rectory Websites School 201-391-5315 UROLM.org 201-391-3838 2 Fremont Ave. OLMAcademy.org SCHOOL Our Lady of Mercy Academy 2011 National Blue Ribbon School of Excellence 25 Fremont Avenue, Park Ridge, NJ 07656 Laraine Meehan, Principal CATECHETICAL MINISTRY Grades K-6: 4-5PM Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday Grades 7-8: 3:45-5:15PM Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday Catechetical Center 201-391-3590 201-802-1771 Music Minister E-Mail 201-358-2994 [email protected] [email protected] OUR LADY OF MERCY PARISH MISSION STATEMENT Our Lady of Mercy Parish is a Catholic community that worships God the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit, celebrating Mass, proclaiming the Gospel Message and uniting in prayer. We strive to welcome all and to educate ourselves and others in the Good News of Jesus Christ. We support one another in times of joy and sadness and attempt to serve each other by reaching out to those in need in our community and beyond. We are imperfect people on a journey. Our goal is that the life of each person leads to the Lord. MASS SCHEDULE SATURDAY, DECEMBER 27 5:30 Barbara Levinson The Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph SUNDAY, DECEMBER 28 Sir 3: 2-6, 12-14/ Col 3: 12-21/ Lk 2: 22-40 7:30 Joseph Higgins 9:30 People of the Parish 11:00 Aldo Boccher 12:30 June DeTitta St. Thomas Becker MONDAY, DECEMBER 29 1 Jn 2: 3-11/ Lk 2: 22-35 6:30 Carol Kopeck 8:30 Margaret Todd TUESDAY, DECEMBER 30 1 Jn 2: 12-17/ Lk 2: 36-40 6:30 Edward Coppola 8:30 Catherine Karp St. Sylvester I WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 31 1 Jn 2: 18-21/ Jn 1: 1-18 6:30 Patricia Cullen 8:30 John & Evelyn McNamara New Year’s Eve 5:30pm Olympia Argento Solemnity of Mary, the Holy Mother of God THURSDAY, JANUARY 1 Nm 6: 22-27/ Gal 4: 4-7/ Lk 2: 16-21 10:00 Edna Del Prete 12:00 Corey Nagle Saints Basil the Great & Gregory Nazianzen FRIDAY, JANUARY 2 1 Jn 2: 22-28/ Jn 1: 19-28 6:30 N. Mellas 8:30 David Emerick 8pm Joseph Ferrara The Most Holy Name of Jesus SATURDAY, JANUARY 3 1 Jn 2: 29—3:6/ Jn 1: 29-34 8:30 Joseph Farinelli 5:30 June DeTitta The Epiphany Of The Lord SUNDAY, JANUARY 4 Is 60: 1-6/ Eph 3: 2-3a, 5-6/ Mt 2: 1-12 7:30 Marie Pansini 9:30 Salvino Eannone 11:00 People of the Parish 12:30 Joe Sangallo LET US PRAY In your love and kindness please pray for the sick especially: Ella Gamble, Pat Eichenlaub, Brian Long, Colleen Strabone, Fr. Peter Funesti, Teresa Hurd, and Claire Mangieri. Please also remember the deceased of our parish and their families, especially: Sophie Przezdziecki, Barbara DePalma, James Strabone, Dominick Calabro, and Deborah Kay. Please join with us in praying one OUR FATHER per day for all those who have no one to pray for them. THE SANCTUARY LAMPS burn this week in memory of: Sam O. Tarrant III, Laura Mizii, and for Thomas Kirk. If you would like more information about reserving a Sanctuary Lamp in memory of a loved one or for a Special Intention, please call the rectory office at 201-391-5315. GOD’S PLAN FOR GIVING – Tithing December 14 Collection: $18,771 The collection totals for December 21 and Christmas will be posted in a future bulletin. Tithing is God’s plan to support His Church. Full tithing means 10% of gross income to God. We ask half of this, or 5%, for your Parish church. The other 5% goes to your favorite charities. SCRIPTURE SHARING GROUP with Deacon Gary Meets every Monday after the 8:30am Mass in the Gathering Space. As has been the custom, the scripture reading of the Mass of the day will be used. All are welcome. THE FAMILY OF GOD PRAYER GROUP meets every Tuesday at 7:30PM in the chapel to praise God and pray for special intentions. ABUNDANT LIFE PRAYER GROUP meets Thursday mornings at 9:30am in the Chapel. THE MIRACULOUS MEDAL NOVENA will be recited each Saturday in the Sacred Heart Chapel immediately following the 8:30AM Mass. ARCHBISHOPS ANNUAL APPEAL—If you have an outstanding balance on your pledge, please make sure to send it in before December 31st. THE RECTORY OFFICE will be closed December 31 and January 1. PASTOR’S COLUMN Dear Sisters and Brothers in Christ, As I write we are still in Advent but you are reading this bulletin on the Sunday after Christmas, the Feast of the Holy Family. I certainly hope your Christmas celebration was a great one. I thank all those in our parish who helped us to prepare the church by setting up the trees, the Nativity scenes, and arrange the flowers. I am grateful to all those who share their talents with us in a variety of liturgical ministries. We are blessed with Eucharistic ministers, lectors, ushers, altar servers and a wonderful mix of choirs, cantors, and instrumentalists to help us praise God in many ways. Every Christmas since I have been at Our Lady of Mercy I marvel at the great numbers who come to participate in the Masses for the Nativity of the Lord. And the thought that always follows is “wouldn’t it be great if every Sunday we had a similar number joining in the great prayer of the Eucharist”. Please make it one of your prayer intentions that each one of us be an ambassador for Christ by living the Gospel of Jesus in such a way that others want to be part of Christ’s Body, the Church. Even though the rush of Christmas shopping is now over, and probably the Christmas music which seemed to start before Thanksgiving is finished as well, we Christians are invited to continue observing the Christmas Season until the Baptism of the Lord on Sunday, January 11. Please keep open space in your busy lives to marvel at this great mystery of the Incarnation. In this Sunday’s bulletin we are including a reflection on the Holy Family taken from the monthly “Give Us This Day” for December, pages 301-2. May God bless all our families and the parish family of Our Lady of Mercy! Peace in the Lord, Reflection Sacred Family Portraits Sons, tender toward their fathers, and obedient to their mothers. Children, flourishing like olive plants, gathered around a table. Long life and blessings rain down on those who honor their families; their prayers are heard, even their sins forgiven. Like layers of oil paints laid with exquisite care on canvas by a Renaissance master, today’s readings produce a lush and tender picture of the Holy Family. And one that seems unattainable to the uncanonized. My mother, raising six children without recourse to angelic advisors or prophetic counsel, was known to look at her squabbling offspring gathered around the table and sigh, “Mary had just one child and He was God.” She wondered, as do I, how to bridge the gulf between the sacred family portrait we are invited to imitate and the messy realities of family life, short of divine intervention. Continued in next column But I wonder if the message of this feast is that divine intervention is precisely what it takes to live as a holy family. Let God’s Word dwell richly in us, suggests Paul, let Christ well up from deep within, washing away bitterness, pushing away grievances. Walk, as the psalmist suggests, in awe of God, keenly aware of Christ playing not just in a thousand places but of Christ dwelling right here, looking at us through the eyes of the people with whom we share homes and neighborhoods and streets. My mother needn’t have despaired; though she had six children to Mary’s one, we were indeed a holy family, for God dwelt within each one of us. Michelle M. Francl-Donnay TEACH US TO PRAY Praying with the Holy Family Fr. James Martin, S.J. We think of them as nearly perfect, and perhaps they were. After all, Jesus was fully human and fully divine, Mary was conceived without sin, and Joseph was a saint. But we also need to remember that the Holy Family was a human family living in difficult times. This means they faced many of the same struggles that families do today—worrying about money, to begin with. The Greek word the Gospels use for Joseph’s profession (tekton) means not only carpenter but, more precisely, craftsman. That meant working with wood, of course, but also building walls, and often scrounging for work. Mary had to undergo the physical pains of childbirth and, later, mourned the death of Joseph. (He’s not present at the crucifixion, so we can presume that he had died by then.) And there were misunderstandings in this family too. When Jesus was “lost” in the temple, his parents were frantic with worry about their young son. “I was in my Father’s house,” Jesus assures them. “But they did not understand” (Luke 3:48-50). The next time you think your family is the only one that deals with misunderstandings, think again. Praying with the Holy Family may mean imagining sitting in the presence of the three and remembering that their lives were not without difficulties. In this way, they are more like our own families or religious communities than we might think. But they met all their trials with love, hope, and trust. Can we? R.C.I.A The group will meet after the 9:30 Mass in the Parish Center on January 11, 25, February 8, March 8, 22, May 3, June 7. For more information, or if you are unable to make a Sunday Session, please contact John Rokoszak at 201-391-3590 or call/text 201-2646376 or email [email protected] UN-TRIM THE CHURCH - If you would like to help untrim Our Lady of Mercy Church on January 12th at 7p.m., please call the Rectory. This is an ideal service project for High School students and Confirmation candidates. CHILDREN’S LITURGY—Join us during the 9:30 Mass as we gather the children in the chapel after the Opening Prayer. They will listen to the same liturgy as the regular Mass, but in a way they can understand with stories, coloring, and songs. The children will then return to the church during Offertory. Best for ages 3 to 8 years old, but older siblings are welcome to help out. N.I.C.E. “Liturgy of the Word With Special Needs” SESSIONS CALENDAR 2014-2015 JANUARY 11, 18, 25 FEBRUARY 1, 8, 22 MARCH 1, 8, 15, 22 No sessions on Palm Sunday or Easter Sunday APRIL 12, Last Session (Autism Awareness Month) A resource table will be set up in the Gathering Space ALL DATES ARE SUBJECT TO CHANGE. If you are coming for the first time, please call to be sure we are in session and for further instructions. Religious Education Office 201-391-3590 Amy Ballanco/DRE No fee required. Donations accepted. OUR LADY OF MERCY ACADEMY PRE SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE Our Lady of Mercy Academy Preschool fosters an environment where children are encouraged to bring their enthusiasm for discovery, excitement for learning, and passion for creativity. We encourage our children to become problem solvers, to express themselves thoughtfully and grow in self-confidence. Join us on Wednesday, January 7th from 9:30-11am, 1-2pm and 78:30pm to see for yourself. Bring your child or come alone. We offer a full-day, five day kindergarten readiness program for four-year olds. Specialized instruction is offered in art, music, library, technology and physical education. Before & After school care is available. Visit our website at www.olmacademy.org or call the school office at 201-391-3838 for more information. Our Lady of Mercy Academy is a National Blue Ribbon School of Excellence and is located in Park Ridge NJ. THE SCHOLARSHIP FUND for inner-city children which provides partial tuition scholarships for low income students in grades K to 12 to attend Catholic schools, will hold its 12th annual High School Basketball Festival on January 2 and 4 at Kean University in Union. The teams playing include; Paramus Catholic, St. Joseph’s Regional, St. Anthony HS, Roselle Catholic, Hudson Catholic, Seton Hall Prep, Mt. St. Dominic, St. Benedict’s Prep, Marist, Union Catholic, St. Dominic’s Academy. For complete game schedule, times and information on ordering tickets, please visit www.sfichoops.com or call 973-497 -4279. HACKENSACK SOUP KITCHEN— Walk in Dinner Program— Volunteers are needed to help serve dinner at the Soup Kitchen in Hackensack on Thursday, January 8th. Bulletin boards will be set up in the Gathering Space and in the main entrance of the church indicating the food and the supplies needed. As the number of those we serve are increasing, please consider donating a much needed dinner item. Food and supplies should be delivered to the Parish Center on Thursday, January 8th before 2:30pm. Please call Elaine Hart 201-391-5051 or Dolly Diffendal 201-2478102 if you wish to volunteer. SAVE THE DATE - The Acoustic Café Music Series at OLM is looking forward to our first show of the year on Saturday, January 24th when we welcome critically acclaimed singer/songwriter Ellis Paul! Ellis has won 15 Boston Music awards, has 19 record releases, a documentary film, a book of poems & short stories, an award winning children's book project, as well as songs featured on Hollywood soundtracks. More info about Ellis here:www.ellispaul.com Special guest 17 year old emerging artist Hayley Reardon will open the show. Proceeds benefit the Vallieres, Haiti Scholarship Fund. 8 PM in OLM Academy. Get your tickets now $20 advance online, $22 at the door. www.cafeacoustic.org 201-573-0718 Refreshments, accessible. ADVENT GIVING TREE—THANK YOU! Thanks to the generosity of Our Lady of Mercy parishioners, close to $24,000 was collected and delivered to local charities. EUCHARISTIC ADORATION—Here at OLM we are blessed to have Eucharistic Adoration, starting after the 8:00pm Mass, every First Friday and continuing throughout the night ending at 6:30am, on Saturday. Everyone is encouraged to come and visit. Date: January 2-3. Any questions, please call 201-3910657. The ROSARY SOCIETY will attend the 8:30am Mass on Saturday, January 3rd followed by recitation of the Rosary. THE ARCHDIOCESAN RESPECT LIFE OFFICE and the Pro-Life Commission will host a Pro-Life Mass at noon on January 18th at the Cathedral Basilica of the Sacred Heart, Newark. January 22, 2015 marks the 42nd anniversary of the legalization of abortion in this country. By attending this special Mass, those who wish to stand up for life but cannot attend the March for Life in Washington DC or the rally in Trenton can still show their support and defend those who cannot defend themselves. For more information please contact Cheryl Riley at 973-497-4350 or at [email protected]
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