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CONTENTS
About DateMasters ................................................
About the Founder of DateMasters ........................
Preface to the Second Edition ................................
Welcome to DateMasters! ….................….............
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PART I
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How to Meet Women ………………...................... 22
How to Meet Women When You Have No Time … 26
How to Meet Women as a Regular Guy .................. 30
How to Meet Women by Walking Away .................. 32
PART II
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This Might Shock You …………………............…. 38
What Is Abundance Reality? …............................... 41
You Have a Responsibility with This Book …….... 42
How Can This Book Transform Your Dating Life?.. 44
The Secret to Revolutionizing Your Life …….....… 45
Standing on the Shoulders of Giants …................… 47
Get Amazing With Women ….................................. 49
The Single Biggest Problem for Men Today …....... 51
The Single Biggest Solution for Men Today ..……. 53
The Reason Why Most Men Struggle
to Meet More Women ….............................. 56
PART III
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The Major Obstacles Holding You Back ….....…… 61
Women with Intimidating Beauty
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The Guy Who is Naturally Stuck with Women ....... 64
Grandmas, Babies and Arsonist Bears ……............. 66
Amazing! …….....………………........................… 68
The Answer to All Your Problems..……………….. 71
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What Is the Difference Between
Amazing and Persuasive? …........................ 75
Make This Life-Changing Choice Right Now ..….. 80
How to Save Time and Money
by Becoming Amazing…............................. 82
Improving Your Dating Skills with
Maximum Force and Velocity …................. 87
How to Get Total Freedom with
Women and Dating ….................................. 88
Why You Must Take Massive Action …...….…….. 90
PART IV
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How to Use This Book to Meet More Women ….... 95
What Is Identifying? ….....…………..….………… 98
How to Find Women Who Are Really Into You .…. 98
The Magic Words You Can Use Today …………… 101
How to Tell if She’s Into You …………………….. 104
A Simple Streamlined Process for
Meeting More Women …............................ 105
How to Enjoy Lots of Women Without Chasing … 106
The Perils and Pitfalls of Persistence …………….. 108
Stepping Towards Women
as a Strong, Confident Man …................… 110
Ever Heard the Lie
“Looks Don’t Matter to Women?” ............. 113
How to Become Your Own Authority on Women .. 116
How to Handle Girls Who Aren’t Into You …...…. 118
Proof That You Can Meet the
Woman of Your Dreams …….……............. 120
PART V
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From Meeting to Breaking Up and
Every Step Along the Way …................….. 125
Thirty Places to Find and Meet Women You Like .. 126
Calling Women for Dates ….................................... 135
Six Tested Date Plans You Can Use Now …............ 136
Four Big Mistakes That Hurt Your Sex Life ............ 140
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Four Big Tips to Build a Rockin' Sex Life …........... 142
How to Keep a Good Thing Going …...................... 143
Thirty-One Ways to Get Over a Breakup …............. 144
PART VI
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More Life Reports .................................................... 148
How to Walk Away from a Disrespectful Woman ... 149
How to Get Phone Numbers from
Girls Who Are on the Fence ….................... 157
Why You Should Keep Your Emotions in Check .....165
If Women Are Challenges You're Doing It Wrong ... 171
Two Girls, One Train Wreck …................................ 175
How to Handle a Girl Who Wants to
Go Home with You ...................................... 184
How to Meet a Beautiful
Woman Who's with a Guy …....................... 189
PART VII
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The DateMasters Massive Action Road Map ....….. 197
How to Use This Road Map (Step 1 – Step 5) ........ 199
The Road Map (Week 1 – Week 8) ......................... 205
PART VIII
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What Are the Most Vital Lessons
of Meet More Women ……......................... 216
The Single Most Powerful Concept in This Book ... 218
Are You a Victim of Persuasion? ….……………… 220
The Kind of Man That Amazing Women
DO NOT Want Is …..................................... 222
Revolutionize Your Dating Life ……....................... 223
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ABOUT DATEMASTERS
DateMasters is a dating and relationship advice company. Since
2007, we have presented our live seminars to hundreds of men
worldwide, who invest thousands of dollars to learn from us.
Our goal at Datemasters is to help build men of high value
and self-esteem and train them how to find, meet, get, and keep
high value women of great beauty and accomplishment via our
advice, training and products or via other companies products we
find valuable.
First and foremost - we get men results with high value
women.
For the past few years, we have taught hundreds of men our
extremely powerful and effective ways of finding, meeting, getting and keeping amazing women of exceptional beauty and
accomplishment.
DateMasters equals respect, class, and most importantly - results.
Always feel free to contact us with any questions about our
company or products, or if you just want to share your own success story.
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THE FOUNDER OF
DATEMASTERS
BOUT
DateMasters was founded by Douglas Hall – one of those rare
men who is truly a mover and shaker in the world of training men
to meet, date and keep the kind of high value women they have
always wanted. Heck, just by himself, he has approached and met
enough women to fill up the largest football stadium in the world
(I'm completely serious) and has dated enough women to make
almost all the dating/seduction "gurus" COMBINED seem amateur and inexperienced.
Dealing out dating advice and training to exclusive clientele
since 1987, he was in triple digits when many of the so-called
leaders of the 'Pickup Community' were still in grade school.
But, most importantly for you, Douglas Hall and DateMasters
consistently help men all around the world enjoy more exciting,
easy experiences and relationships with a staggering number of
high value women of exceptional beauty.
Here is a short list of the kinds of women he has dated (along
with some that his clients successfully date using his training):
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Doctors, Lawyers, Dentists, Bankers...
Singers, TV Personalities, Musicians...
Belly Dancers, Pole Dancers, Ballet Dancers...
Showgirls, Stewardesses, Hair Stylists...
Wealthy Heiresses, Rich Business Owners...
Yoga Instructors, Aerobics Instructors, Fitness Instructors...
Fashion Models, Runway Models, Glamor Models...
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Women Who OWN Modeling Agencies...
Jewelry Designers, Shoe Designers, Fashion Designers...
College Girls, Club Girls, Secretaries, Waitresses...
Olympic Athletes, Stage Actresses, Movie Actresses...
Accountants, Successful CEO's, Entrepreneurs...
Professional Photographers, Painters and Poets...
Police Officers, Novelists, Journalists...
Programmers, Space Agency Researchers, Astrophysicists...
Nail Artists, Salsa Dancers, Event Planners...
University Professors, PhD Students, Executive Secretaries...
High School Teachers, Astrologers, UN Translators...
Television and Movie Producers...
Masseuses, Female Bodybuilders, Professional Cheerleaders...
High-Level Interpreters, Heart Surgeons, Nurses...
(Yes... Even a Geisha!)
And a whole lot more...
Really, the list could go on for this entire article but you get
the picture: Success with high value women is what DateMasters
delivers.
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PREFACE TO THE SECOND EDITION
This is a book for all men who want to improve their dating life –
Whether you want to date lots and lots of women or simply find
that one special girl to spend the rest of your life with.
Beginners in the dating game will learn powerful ideas that
will help take them light-years ahead of where they would have
been without this book.
For guys who have been around the block a few times, Meet
More Women, will help you understand a new, unique paradigm
for meeting and understanding women.
In Part I, we're going to hit the ground running and blast you
with 3 high-powered examples of meeting women using our
simple, straightforward methods. Rather than load you full of
analysis and complex ideas right away, we want to start by
showing you what is possible when you use what you learn in
Meet More Women. We recommend re-reading Part I after you
finish the book so that you can understand it with new perspective.
In Part II, we will take a step back and start to de-program
you from a lot of misleading, unfounded, harmful beliefs about
meeting women that are so common in today's world. Our goal
here is cleanse your mind of many of the influences and beliefs
that keep you from confidently and easily meeting wonderful,
high value women.
In Part III, we start by showing you 4 case studies that highlight major issues that are facing guys (maybe even you). By this
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point, hopefully your mind is fully open to the possibilities as
we'll show you the unique mindset that underlies the DateMasters
approach to meeting women. This is where you start to really
grasp how and why you can be so much more successful and
happy with women.
In Part IV, we will give you actionable strategies on how you
can use our powerful ideas and mindset to start meeting more
women and start enjoying more fulfilling, happy experiences with
high value women who honestly like you. This is where we show
you exactly how you can use what you have just learned. We'll
also go more in depth into several more topics that will massively
help you improve your dating life.
In Part V, we take things even further by giving you advice on
how to handle everything from where to meet women, to how to
call her, to sex and relationships. You can continue to use it as a
reference for years to come.
In Part VI, we let you dig into 7 detailed, firsthand reports.
This will help you start to analyze and internalize everything you
have been learning. You'll see firsthand experiences, both good
and bad, that will highlight any number of very important concepts. You'll also have the chance to test your knowledge and
interact with the material as we prompt you with specific questions to maximize your learning experience.
In Part VII, we start wrapping everything up. This is where
we make sure you have learned exactly what you need to learn
from this book. When you finish this part, you'll be ready to take
your knowledge into the real world with confidence and determination.
In Part VIII, we give you an 8-week 'Road Map' based on
proven personal change techniques used in the fields of therapy,
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NLP and personal development. It will help you internalize and
use everything you've learned (and continue to learn). This used
to be it's own separate product but we've decided to include it
with Meet More Women so that you can benefit even more from
the time and mental energy you invest in our training.
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FOREWORD
W
ELCOME TO
DATEMASTERS!
So, You Want To Meet More Women?
Amazing!
My name is Douglas Hall. I’m the founder of DateMasters
and I will be your guide on this new and wonderful adventure.
We’re quite sure you’ll get a whole lot of value from Meet
More Women and we look forward to sharing even more of our
advice, experience and training with you in the near future.
For the past few years, we have taught hundreds of guys our
extremely powerful and effective ways of finding, meeting, getting and keeping Amazing women of exceptional beauty and
accomplishment.
These men have paid thousands of dollars to learn from us so
that they can start living the kind of lives they want, with women
who make them truly happy.
Bottom line, we know how to meet women and how to build
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happy, exciting relationships with the kind of women that we
want. More importantly, we know how to train men to do the
same.
We know we can help you, too.
This book is here to help you Meet More Women. For guys
who want to know about everything not covered in this book
you’ll be excited to know about our incredible seminars, newsletters, books, private consultations, and other free and paid
products and services, but right now let’s get right into it.
Whether you’re 18 or 80, single, married, divorced, Meet
More Women has the potential to change your entire life for the
better. Why do we say ‘potential’? Because in order for this
information to have any real power you must read it again and
again and again. You must study it, word by word, sentence by
sentence, until the deep meanings inside it make themselves
known to you. A single reading will NOT suffice.
Meet More Women is filled with gold but you have to mine it.
Read this book 15 times in 15 days. Print it out and make notes in
the margins. Write down personal examples from your own life
that verify what is written here. Think carefully about each sentence. Do your best to understand the real meaning of each
concept. Ask yourself ‘What experiences in my own life verify
the truth of what I’ve just read; what examples can I provide
based on what has happened to me personally to hammer this
point home?’ as well as ‘How can I use the concept I’ve just read
in my life to make it better?’
Once you’ve completed 15 readings in as many days, read at
least 3 pages every day forever. It’s only from repeated readings
that the true power of Meet More Women will start to fill your
mind and you will start seeing women, dating, and relationships
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in a totally new and positive way. And that’s just the beginning!
As the lessons of Meet More Women alter your thinking you’ll
notice many Amazing things happening in your life. Your interactions with women will get much smoother, you’ll understand
their ways and behaviors more and more. There will be less confusion on your part, no more ‘Why can’t I?’ and a whole lot more
‘Wow. That makes so much sense!’
With your growing sense of awareness of the true nature of
how to Meet More Women will come a new confidence and with
that confidence will come more success with the women in your
life. A lot more success. Specifically, you’ll notice that whereas
before you were desperately trying to find a better way to Meet
More Women, suddenly you have such an overabundance of
women in your life that you’ll be living the kind of lifestyle and
dating the kind of women that other men only fantasize about.
One of our main goals at DateMasters is to make you so
attractive, so magnetic, so Amazing, so cool, that the perfect
women for you will be behaving around you pretty much the
same way a cat behaves when it is near catnip. They go nuts!
None of this is possible unless you Meet More Women now. In
our exciting seminars and products we go into great depth
explaining how to quickly and easily master all these powerful
techniques (you can find out about those events on our website or
in our newsletter), but for now don’t worry - we’ll be giving you
some of the most important and valuable pieces right here in
Meet More Women.
Once you master Meet More Women and start on the road to
becoming a DateMaster – thru study, practice, discipline,
patience, and self-control – your success with women will come
with greater ease and increased clarity.
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In fact, your success with Meet More Women will create possibly the biggest problem you will ever face as a DateMaster:
How do I choose the most Amazing woman from all the ones that
are chasing me?
Now we know many of you don’t have women chasing you
yet. Some of you can’t even begin to imagine having women
chase you but we want to say to you right now: Don’t worry,
we’ll help get you there. Listen to what we say, think about it
carefully, follow our instructions, and eventually you will find
yourself with a gorgeous woman who does everything possible to
make your life more happy, easy, fun and exciting.
We will show you exactly what it takes to Meet More Women
and set you on the path to find, meet, get, and keep women of
exceptional beauty and great accomplishment.
Let’s make something really clear right from the beginning,
though: DateMasters is NOT about using fancy tricks to ‘convince’ girls to do what we want. You want a better way, right?
Something that lets you Meet More Women easier, faster and
with less stress while not only keeping all your self-respect in
tact, but growing your self-esteem and your sense of self-worth.
Gentlemen, DateMasters is the answer and we’re glad to have
you here with us.
You deserve better women. You deserve an alternative in your
dating life, a better way, built on self-respect and dignity. You
deserve the freedom in your dating life that naturally comes from
knowing how to Meet More Women.
We are light-years beyond the old methods of persuading and
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ating Amazing men and giving them all the tools they need to live
their ideal lifestyle and find, build and maintain healthy, fulfilling
relationships with incredible women.
Read this guide. Study it every night before you go to bed.
Review it before and after you go Meet More Women. Read it,
study it, review it -LEARN it. You will learn something new each
time. Many guys come to our coaching seminars again and again
because they have a thirst for knowledge that is the hallmark of a
man on the path to success. Your goal is to become the kind of
man that Amazing women dream about. Learn what we teach and
you, too, will become an Amazing Man, and will find the
Amazing women perfect for you.
We know what you are doing that keeps you from meeting
more women. We know why it feels difficult and confusing. We
know what you need to do to Meet More Women and find, get,
and keep incredible, Amazing women with great attitudes. The
kind of woman who makes you want to become a better man. A
woman who makes life easier for you. A woman who always
brings happiness and joy into your life. A woman so in love with
you that her body shakes just at the sight of you.
Know this – Amazing women feel good by making you feel
good. But you have to meet her first. And unless you get lucky,
chances are good that you’re going to have to meet and date a lot
of women before you find the most Amazing woman for you.
Part of our mission is to take the garbage regarding how to
meet women out of your head. (In other words, we have to deprogram you.) And the nature of truth is so powerful that even if this
book were 10,000 pages we could only give you the basics.
That’s why we’re giving you a solid foundation here in this book,
so we don’t confuse or overwhelm you with information overload. When you become a DateMaster and start to preach this
information to all your friends, the rest will come to you. We
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want you to go out, take massive action on your life, and Meet
More Women. And when your friends start coming to you for
advice on women you can tell them with a knowing smile, “Go
Meet More Women.”
Welcome to DateMasters and Meet More Women! Your world
is about to get ‘Mo Betta!’ than you could ever possibly imagine.
Douglas Hall
Founder, DateMasters
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PART I
H
OW TO
MEET WOMEN
We advocate very simple but powerful methods for meeting
women.
Why?
Well, number one, through tens of thousands of tests and
thousands of hours of research we have discovered that staying
simple simply gets the best results. Regardless of your dating
goals.
Number two, it makes life a whole heck of a lot easier for us
as men.
For you math majors out there: Better Results + Much Easier
= Yes, Please!
Let’s face it, most dating advice for men out there tends to
make meeting women a whole lot more complicated and daunting
than it really is. That’s why in these first few chapters you'll read
personal stories of guys approaching women and asking for
phone numbers WITHOUT using “game,” persuasion, seduction
and all that other mumbo-jumbo overly complicated nonsense.
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It's important to keep in mind that any and all attraction or chemistry between the guy and the girl is mutual. This is no accident.
It's actually very simple (you'll learn all about it soon enough).
Dating is a whole lot more fun when you can go from “trying to
get the girl” to “you and a girl mutually working together to
move things forward.”
So, let’s get down to business.
Now, this book is based on the research of a number of men
who spent months and months of years approaching 30 attractive
women a day, according to a system we developed known as The
Revolution! The way we do it makes meeting women very
simple, straightforward and easy, so it only takes about an hour a
day to live in a true Abundance Reality (having more and better
women than you could possible have time for). What happens
when you meet so many women? You start finding some truly
Amazing Women who really like you, and all women who don’t
completely make your eyes spin simply get left behind. Let me
tell you, for an hour a day the payoffs are HUGE! Why do you
think we, at DateMasters, have all our dating issues solved?
Anyways, on to the story from one of our guys:
“I had just finished up doing The Daily 30 (approaching 30
women a day). I was waiting for my train, walking along the platform to find a place to stand. While I was looking across the platform at another train waiting to leave, I noticed a cute girl
looking back at me from inside a faraway train.
I smiled at her. She smiled back.
We were too far away to talk (plus we were separated by the
tracks). So I pulled out my phone and tried to motion for her to
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tell me her phone number. I have gotten a girls phone number my
motioning this way before so it was nothing new.
She pulled out her phone.
Then she pointed upstairs, above the tracks, to a place we
could actually meet and talk. I met her up there. Her train left
without her.
“Hi. How are you?”
We then had a few minutes of light, playful conversation.
My train was leaving soon so I asked for her phone number.
“Tell me your phone number.”
“Sure!”
I wished her a good rest of the day and then I went down to
catch my train. On the stairs going down towards my train there
was another, even prettier girl walking next to me in a skirt.”
Guys, it’s really simple.
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Say “Hello.”
Ask for her name.
Ask for her number.
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That’s it. That is the core of what you need to do (we'll explain in
more detail as the book moves forward). It also helps to have fun
conversation that makes her laugh too. If you and the girl share
and kind of chemistry, everything will go well with a casual, fun
conversation (unless guys mess it up by doing any number of
things that most dating coaches advise guys to do).
If you’re not taking those core actions then you are not doing
what is necessary to meet and date the women you want.
Everything else will follow after you start making it a habit to
take those actions.
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Approach her.
Say “Hi.”
Ask for her name.
Make her laugh.
Ask for her number.
If she says yes. That’s okay.
If she says no. That’s okay too. Confident, strong men are
able to accept no as an answer. Keep approaching attractive
women. Eventually you’ll find more and more who you really
have chemistry with. You'll be amazed at how eager many very
attractive women are to meet you.
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MEET WOMEN
WHEN YOU HAVE NO TIME
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In the last chapter we told you about about a girl who missed her
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train to go talk to our guy. Remember, these first few chapters are
meant to show you how easy it really is to meet women. Then,
later, we'll dive into all of the ideas, methods and strategies that
will help you understand exactly what is happening.
Now, the story from the last chapter continues:
“After that incident I went to my platform to get on my train
that was about to leave.
Lo and behold, as I’m walking down the stairs, there is
another very pretty girl in a skirt a bit ahead of me.
A couple excuses run through my mind about why I shouldn’t
approach her. “I just got the phone number of that other girl who
is still in eyesight across the platform.”
But, as guys who do The Revolution! know, excuses like
these are pretty easy to dissolve, especially when you train for
moments like this every day.
I lost her for a second in the crowd, while my train was
pulling up.
Then I saw her sitting down, legs crossed, nice legs, very
pretty face, clearly not getting on the same train as me.
I only had a few seconds, if I wanted to catch my train (and I
did).
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The situation:
• The most attractive girl I had seen all day
(after approaching 31 attractive girls).
• My train leaving within 30 seconds.
• Another girl whose number I got possibly
watching.
So what did I do?
“Hi. What’s your name?” I shot a glance at the train. The
doors had just opened and people were starting to file out.
“M”
“Hi M. What’s your phone number?”
It was obvious that I was in a rush so she hurriedly typed her
number into my phone.
When she finished I told her to have a good day and then
sprinted onto my train as the doors were shutting. She waved to
me while the train left.
Simple.
Now, some of you are probably saying, “Yeah man, but how
did you know she would give you her number?”
I didn’t. If she says no… IT’S OKAY. Many girls don’t give
me their phone numbers. That’s fine. When you have an abundPage 27 Copyright © 2012 DateMasters
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ance of beautiful, high quality women in your life, it doesn’t
really matter one way or the other. It takes Confidence to be
willing to take “no” for an answer. Women can sense it.
Truth is, my goal wasn’t to get her number.
My goal was to Identify whether she was into me or not. I'm
not trying to “get” the girl. I'm simply Identifying if there is a
mutual reason for us to both get to know each other more. (Identification is a concept we talk about in detail later on in this book.
It is also a major concept in our comprehensive training system
on how to meet women, The Revolution!).
I’m looking for girls who I share chemistry with. Chemistry
happens right off the bat. You don’t have to do any fancy tricks or
do anything special to “attract” her. It’s either there, or it’s not.
You can't fake it.
Something incredible happens when you stop trying to ‘build
attraction’ and simply Identify if it's there or not: Your interactions with women become easier, you spend less time with
women who don’t go anywhere, and you start being able to meet
and date A LOT more and much higher quality women.
If there is chemistry, and you know how to see it, then you
will look like magic with women compared to guys who are stuck
chasing and persuading women to like them.
Why?
Because she likes you!
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“But what about girls who don’t like you?”
To that I say, why are you wasting your time with girls who
don’t like you?
First of all, it’s inefficient and slows you down if your goal is
to date more and/or better quality women.
Secondly, what kind of a self-respecting man wants to be with
a woman who doesn’t honestly like him?
Fact is, if you only focus on finding women who like you
(right from the start) you can build an incredible dating life free
of all the stress and BS that you hear about from other guys.
Here's what you do:
• Hi
• What’s your name
• What’s your phone number?
• Anything else you do should just be fun,
normal, light conversation.
See how simple that is?”
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H
MEET WOMEN
AS A REGULAR GUY
OW TO
“I had finished my Daily 30 for the day and was shopping at the
grocery store.”
While I was looking around the pasta aisle, I looked over and
noticed a very attractive girl wearing a short skirt.
Cool.
After talking to 30 women in the last hour, saying 'hi' to this
one girl was fairly simple.
I hear a lot of guys talk about how nervous they get when
approaching a girl. That's fine if that is where you are at as a man.
But, you're reading this because you want help, right? That's why
I'm sharing my experiences. So that you can see how a normal
man approaches a girl he finds attractive (without all the BS, lies,
dancing and manipulation you see from most dating advice for
men).
"Hi" I say.
She looks up.
"What's your name?"
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"K"
"Nice to meet you, K." I extend my hand to shake hers.
Over the next few minutes we have a decent conversation. As
the conversation continued, I made jokes, she laughed. Gradually
she started asking me a few questions about myself. Although,
I've talked to girls that were much more interesting and with
whom I share a lot more chemistry. That's okay. She might be a
great girl for me. Might not. I still don't really know her yet.
Eventually, I simply ask for her phone number.
She says sure and types in her info.
Finally, she asks my name. I give it and then tell her, "I had
fun. I hope you have a good evening. Bye now."
I noticed that her final handshake lingered a bit longer than
her first handshake. (If you don't notice these subtleties yet, relax.
It comes with experience and time. Approaching 30 women a day,
as per The Revolution! tends to speed up that process exponentially, too.) She also seemed more noticeably in a good mood
after talking with me for a few minutes.
See how hard that was guys?
• You meet a girl.
• Say hi.
• Have a light, playful conversation for a
few minutes.
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• Then you ask for her number.
Life is a lot easier when you stop worrying about "making" a girl
like you. Focus, instead, on finding girls who are open to having
a conversation with you, keep things light and playful, listen to
her and then determine if this is a girl you actually want in your
life.
"But if I don't MAKE her like me how will I get girls to like
me?"
We hear this argument a lot.
Bottom line - you can meet and date much more and much
better women by finding women who actually like you and not
wasting time with women who don't like you. Rather than trying
to convince every woman you meet to like you.
What is the by-product of not trying to convince every girl to
like you? A LOT more girls will actually like you! Funny how
that works.
H
MEET WOMEN
BY WALKING AWAY
OW TO
Recently, I was cruising through another day of The Revolution!
when I saw a skinny blonde with black-rimmed glasses who
looked really good.
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I walk right up to her and said, "Hello. What's your name?"
She smiles. After exchanging greetings and joking around for
about a minute I decided to ask for her number...
And since I approach 30 women a day, the possibility of
rejection doesn't even matter. It's pretty easy to accept "No" as an
answer. If any one woman isn't into us, we thank her, wish her
well, and continue on to the next attractive one we see. That's
pretty much what was happening here, until an unexpected twist.
Me: “Tell me your phone number.”
Her: “Why?”
Me: “So I can call you and ask you on a date.”
Her: “Wha-!!! Are you serious?”
I nodded.
Her: “Really??? Are you trying to trick me or something?”
I checked inside my suit like I'm looking for something insidious, but not finding it. “Nope, I don't think so.”
Her: “Hahaha! You're funny!”
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Me: “Thanks. I try.”
Her: “So, what is this? Are you a salesman?”
I raise an eyebrow at her.
Her: “Why do you really want my phone number?”
While smiling and extending my hand I say, “It's ok. I had a
fun time.”
She shook my hand confusedly. “Wait... Are you leaving?”
As I backed away to leave and talk to 16 more girls that day,
“Yes. I hope you have a nice day.”
Her: “W-w-w-wait! You don't want my number?”
Me: “If you don't want to give it to me, it's okay. If you want
to give it to me, that's okay too. Which one is it?”
Her: “You want to call me for a date?”
Me: “Yep.”
Her: “Ok! You can have my number! It's ok!”
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Me: “Well... Ok... But... Are you sure?”
Her: “Yes!”
Me: “Really? You really want to give me your phone
number?”
Her: “Yes, yes! Really, it's ok!”
Me: “Hmm. Alright.”
After I got her number, she thanked me and I told her I hope
she has a nice day. As I walked away, I could only think of something that Douglas Hall taught me a long time ago "When a girl
likes you, she won't let you disqualify her."
This kind of thing happens when you're willing to accept
"No" as an answer, rather than push, plow, dance and beg just for
a chance to "get in there."
Halfway through this interaction, when I shook her hand to
walk away, I felt that I had Identified her as a woman who was
not interested enough in me to give me her phone number. And
since I knew I would be talking to plenty more women in the next
few minutes, I was okay with simply walking away. All of her
weird games got tossed to the side at that point then, simply
because she saw I was EXTREMELY willing to accept "No" as
an answer... Enough so that she actually STOPPED me from
leaving and practically demanded I take her number!
All of my actions were based on the principle of Identifying
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women who are into me right from the beginning while talking to
30 women a day. Walking away from her when she wasn't
making things fun and simple actually led to her giving me her
number. Even the strategy of consciously making an effort (and
in this case, succeeding) to make her laugh is really only another
way to Identify whether or she's into me - women who are interested smile and laugh at our jokes (even when they're lame...
ESPECIALLY when they're lame!), while those who aren't interested may not even bat an eyelash (even when we come up with
the most gut-bustingly, witty zinger).
None of my actions came from a Chasing mindset - the kind
of mindset that has guys Chasing her for her phone number,
Chasing her to spend more time with her, Chasing her for the
chance to maybe possibly get a date or anything else. Any form
of "pushing" or "plowing" just causes resistance, and thus has no
place in the dating life of men who want stress-free, fun-filled
times with incredible women who are totally into them.”
Stop Chasing. Learn to Identify women who are into you right
from the beginning. Talk to lots of women (30 or more) every
day. Simply walk away if she's not making things smooth and
fun. And as always, Be Amazing.
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PART II
T
MIGHT
SHOCK YOU …
HIS
Men, before you keep reading the rest of this book we want to
clear something up. Instead of feeding you the usual marketing
line about how to “make any girl like you regardless of your
looks, age or money. Guaranteed!” we are going to be more
straight-forward with you and tell you: This book is NOT going
to teach you how to convince or seduce a girl and make her like
you.
We have something much more powerful; something that we
believe most men want, crave and need but have never had the
chance to get (until now).
This book flies in the face of what society, the mass media
and many of the dating experts are telling you. But, fact is, if you
want more, better or the best women then you don’t need to convince, persuade, seduce, or build attraction.
It’s time to stop begging for attention and validation from hot
women.
We'll give you the chance to learn a new way of looking at the
world of women and dating that can let you build your dating life
into something so much more Amazing.
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Of course, some guys like the ego-boost of convincing girls to
like them. But, most guys want a way to meet and date truly great
women without doing the degrading dance of persuasion and convincing just to get her approval.
If this is you then we’re glad to have you with us. It’s going to
be a long, exciting, sometimes difficult, ultimately fulfilling
journey and we will keep supporting you every step of the way.
If however, after reading this book, you are one of those guys
who would still rather beg, convince and persuade girls to like
him because he doesn’t value self-respect, honesty and fulfillment then we wish you the best of luck. Much of the existing
dating/seduction advice out there is catered specifically to you.
Enjoy.
We make this disclaimer about the kind of guys this book is
NOT intended for because, even though it will mean that we
might lose some of our audience, we know how powerfully our
message continues to resonate with men who want the very best
for themselves; men who are willing to take action; men who
want self-respect and self-esteem in all areas of life; men who
want women of great beauty and accomplishment; men who want
more and better women without sacrificing integrity; men who
want excitement without sacrificing honesty, happiness without
losing dignity and fulfillment without compromising standards;
men who want the very best and are willing to take action to get
it.
If you are this kind of man then – We’re about to show you
the path to greatness.
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W
HAT
IS
ABUNDANCE REALITY?
I finished up a date early Wednesday evening, and realized that I
was still free tomorrow evening. So, I pulled out my list of prospects and started calling the new numbers I had gotten from
attractive women through the past couple of weeks, looking to
schedule some dates.
As I went down the list, I left messages on answering
machines or I hung up after letting it ring for a reasonable amount
of time. Sometimes, a woman would answer, and I would invite
her out for coffee. Some turned me down, and eventually I had
absolutely no more free time to schedule dates that week.
Get this … about a quarter of of my ‘prospect list’ still
remained. Because I had started with the most impressive
women, the remaining list was the leftover women who, while
still quite hot, had attitudes and personalities that were less
impressive that the girls I had scheduled for dates. When you
have an Abundance Reality, the quality of women skyrockets.
I literally could not fit any more dates into that week’s
schedule without losing sleep, skipping work, calling off dates
with other girls, breaking appointments, double-booking dates or
doing something else that would disrupt my plans and/or the balance of my week. I WANTED to call the last chunk of numbers
(and hopefully schedule even more dates), but I HAD to wait
until the following week because my time was limited.
Abundance, to us here at DateMasters, means having more
than we want – we have too much. It isn’t a mindset. It is a fact.
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Our quality and quantity of women is so maxed out that our
dating issues are solved with room to spare.
We can say “no” to hot women because we honestly don’t
need her or even really care about getting her. Not because it’s a
tactic to help us get her, but because we literally have too many
other hot, cool women in our lives to worry about her. Having the
ability to both say “No” and walk away from beautiful women
you simply don’t have any chemistry with, as well as take “No”
confidently for an answer from any woman, will help make you a
much more attractive and Amazing Man who women honestly
want and like.
The most awesome part about this is that I don’t need to rely
on any tricky phone tactics to get women on dates. Why?
Because I have so many prospective dates, I have the freedom to
only date women who are both very attractive to me AND are
mutually interested in me. You don’t need to use tactics to get a
girl when she wants to get you as much or more than you want to
get her.
Part of this stems from the fact I’m meeting 30 women a day,
every day and have met tons of women who were interested in
me right from the very beginning. I don’t have to chase after
every single girl that gives me a bit of attention. I have too many
great girls and new prospects already. Guys will be amazed to
know that there are, quite literally, millions of sexy, high quality
women out there in the world waiting to meet you. You just have
to know how to find them without getting all caught up in trying
to push yourself on every single girl regardless of her interest in
you. There are always newer, more beautiful, better attitude
women right around the corner (about 30 of them, every day).
This isn’t some random thing I say to myself in the morning. This
is my reality.
I hesitate to call this attitude ‘abundance mentality,’ as that
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term gets thrown about in discussions about women and dating to
the point where its meaning has been watered down. What I’m
talking about is meeting women so efficiently and effectively so
that you too can do it every day, easily, and in massive numbers.
One of the best ways we know of doing so is simply to get up, get
out of the house, and to start greeting women. (For example, following The Revolution! Helps you effectively and efficiently
meet massive numbers of women. We highly recommend you
check it out if you want an Abundance Reality too.)
Even if our ‘prospect list’ is overflowing with numbers from
women accepting dates, we still need to meet more women. This
is how you make the fastest and easiest progress towards
extremely high quality women or even finding the woman of
your dreams who makes you want to stop meeting more women.
When our schedules are full and we’re STILL getting more
incoming dates, our standards rise as a result. Then we simply
HAVE to let some of them go/walk away from some of them.
No wishful thinking here and no need to talk and talk and talk
about how importance ‘abundance mentality’ is. We prefer living
in an actual Abundance Reality.
Y
OU
HAVE A
RESPONSIBILITY
WITH THIS BOOK
There are two different kinds of men who read this book: men
who read it and take action and others who read it and make
excuses. If you are a man who is willing to take action, then this
book will change your life. If you choose not to take action on
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what you read then don’t be surprised when nothing happens.
You must make the decision, right now, and commit to taking
action on what you read in this book. ESPECIALLY if you don’t
fully understand it.
When something this powerful, that completely shifts the way
people think comes along, it’s no good just to read it and do
nothing. You must use everything you are about to read now.
It’s true. Men are eager for a new way of thinking that frees
them from their old constraints. When that knowledge comes
along they devour it. They pass it along to their friends, knowing
that they will become a better man if they around surrounded by
men who understand this new way of thinking. They blog and
write about as a record of their first steps towards greatness. It
monopolizes forums and discussions. And because you are
reading this now, you are at the forefront of this new understanding, on the cutting edge of these new breakthroughs.
We fully expect you to be so Amazed, so stunned, by what
you can achieve with the way of thinking that we will show you
later that we know you will take action on what you learn. We
know that many of you will want to tell others about this because
you benefit when others read this book. The more men who are
set free from the old ways of thinking, the easier it will be for you
to meet, date, and keep the kind of women you want. Many of
you will even want send us an email thanking us for writing it
and share your success stories that this book helped you create for
yourself. That’s all good.
Remember, it is always YOU who creates your own success.
This book cannot create any success for you that you are
unwilling to create for yourself. But for those of you who read
this carefully and take massive action on what you learn, you will
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achieve Amazing things in life.
If you are willing to use this book as a guide to create your
own success with women then this book has the potential to completely and fundamentally alter your life. Your success is YOUR
responsibility. We are here to open your eyes and show you the
way.
H
CAN THIS
BOOK TRANSFORM
YOUR DATING LIFE?
OW
It's amazing.
You can sit down, read this book, and transform your entire
dating life.
We might have been reluctant to say this a few years ago. But
that’s exactly what’s happening for the guys who are using what
we teach. And they continue to change in more incredible ways
than even we have ever imagined (and trust us, we have great
imaginations).
All our success stories can fill volumes ten times the size of
this book (and they do inside the exclusive DateMasters Community Forums). The skill-sets we all needed to develop in
gaining mastery over dating and meeting women have powerfully
carried over into many other aspects of our daily lives.
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As you take massive action on what you learn with this book,
we are certain that your journey to Meet More Women, meet
better women and live an incredible life will only accelerate as
we inspire you to become more Amazing.
We highly recommend that you print out Meet More Women
right now (we know some of you have already done it), grab
some colored markers and pens for taking notes, pull up your
favorite comfy chair, sit back and relax for a spell as you carefully read what follows. The concepts in this book continue to
change the lives of our guys in more ways than they ever anticipated and we believe the same can happen for you.
T
HE
SECRET TO
REVOLUTIONIZING
YOUR LIFE
You wanna hear a secret?
We’ve got lots to share.
We know you’re hungry to learn so let’s start with telling you
why it’s important to wait to tell you the fundamental idea that
underscores everything we do here at DateMasters. As much as
we would like you to understand the significance of this book
right now, our reason for waiting to reveal what has revolutionized the lives of so many men is quite simple. Once you realize
the impact it’s had ... you can’t help but to read it more closely,
think through each implication, and focus on each and every
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detail searching for the catalyst to make your own life more
Amazing. You see, the greater you understand the significance of
this book the easier it will be to use it to change your life in
Amazing ways.
By the time you finish reading you’ll learn, in simple clear
terms, the single over-arching idea that you should take from this
book that will help you. And when you read it the second, fourth,
and one-hundredth time you will even see how we have laced this
entire book with this fundamental concept starting with the very
first paragraph. In fact, we’ve packed so much into this small
book that you’ll most likely have new insights and make new
realizations each and every time you read Meet More Women.
The first customers and students who learned from us were
never told overtly about this idea so we’ll just call this your lucky
bonus for the day.
We want to make sure you know, believe, and understand
exactly why this idea is having such a profound impact on men
who want respect, excitement, happiness and fulfillment now.
Because it’s this one simple, but powerful concept that has
made all the difference in helping take men from frustration and
pain to happy, fulfilling lives with Amazing women.
Now, you might be tempted right now to turn the pages forward and read it right now. It’s that powerful. But trust us, it’s
going to be an even more powerful experience when you read it
in the order we present it in so that you can make your own major
revelations.
A huge part of our job is deprogramming your mind of all the
BS about women that has been crammed into your head by all the
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Hollywood movies, mass media, and seduction experts. Only
when your misconceptions have been cleared away will your
mind be capable of some seriously level-headed rational thinking
and well on the way to reaching your own epiphanies when it
comes to women, dating, and relationships. Our hope is that when
you finish reading this book the first time you will understand
how fully this concept can revolutionize your life … especially
when you are shown how to take massive action upon it.
We want you to enjoy the experience of reading it. More
importantly – we want you to have the same Amazing levels of
success as our DateMasters.
After we introduce this critical concept to you, we will even
give you a more in-depth explanation of why it’s so important
and a thorough description of how you can apply it right now.
And then, in Parts VI & VII, we will take everything you’re
about to discover here and really work to internalize it all. We'll
drill down even deeper into all the nuts and bolts as you learn
how to apply everything quickly and easily. We want you to
achieve your goals with women as fast as possible.
S
TANDING ON THE
SHOULDERS OF GIANTS
This book is based on years and years of research while dating
hundreds and thousands of women and observing (and enjoying)
all variety of relationships with every possible kind of woman. It
is based on our experiences approaching and dating thousands
with women and our students experiences using what we teach.
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But most importantly, it’s based on the results that we witness our
students achieve when they grasp and apply ideas outlined in this
book.
Because no matter how great we think the concepts are or
how much research we’ve done or women we’ve met and dated,
the only real gauge of the power of our concepts is if our results
are consistently reproduced by our students. We already know
that we understand women. But it wasn’t until we started seeing
men transform themselves using what we teach that we realized
we have something of true value for men who want more
Amazing women. The true testament to these ideas is that they
are consistently responsible for guys success and happiness far
beyond what they had initially hoped.
We can confidently say that yes – this book can help you
reach success and happiness with women beyond what you ever
dreamed possible.
Again and again men who follow exactly what we teach and
implement everything they learn have been able to CONSISTENTLY reproduce the exact same kinds of Amazing and varied
relationships that we enjoy with the same caliber of women:
women of exceptional beauty and accomplishment.
You have in your hands something with the power the change
your life. When you take action on it – We believe that it will
change your life.
Enjoy it, and appreciate every moment of what’s happening
for you...
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G
AMAZING
WITH WOMEN
ET
What you now hold in your hands is just a snapshot of years of
extensive research and testing on thousands and thousands of
women. Years of a group of men going out and meeting 30
women a day, everyday, going on dozens of dates a week, and
building strong, fulfilling relationships with women who are not
only so stunningly beautiful that they intimidate most men but
who also have the kind brains, drive and success that would make
most men jealous.
Up till now, these ideas have been closely guarded and were
only available to select men who we accepted as clients because
we knew they would use what we taught them. Lo and behold,
when these men used what we taught them, as we taught them,
they got the exact same results we did. One of our clients said
this about his training with DateMasters, “It feels too easy.”
The key is that you must use this book as the catalyst for the
change you need in your life. Let’s face it, we all want more and
better. The simple fact that you are reading this right now means
that you are one of the few men who is actually willing to take
the steps necessary to change your life for the better. You deserve
the kind of women you want. We are providing you with knowledge and knowledge is power. But you have to use this power to
take action on what you learn right now.
If you are concerned about what you should take action on,
relax. We’re going to give you some really simple but extremely
potent steps you can take right away to use Meet More Women to
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It is up to you to do everything in your power (remember how
we said we are giving you power?) to use what you learn and live
up to your full potential to be an Amazing Man.
We have already told you that for the past several years we’ve
been personally training select clientele to get Amazing women
and be Amazing with women. What we didn’t tell you yet was
that it was all for a bigger purpose.
You see, we’ve spent the past several years honing our ideas
and our methods into something that not only helps you get results for yourself, it frees you from the chains that are holding you
back and lets you live the life you really want.
Most of what you are about to read is going to go against
what many of you have learned (or didn’t learn) from society,
movies, seduction / dating experts and the powers-that-be about
how to meet women. And for some of you who have spent years
and years letting opportunities slip away or wasting time honing
your ‘persuasion’ skills it might be painful.
Or it might be exactly what you need to set you free. This is
your chance to make things right.
Our vision is to help men all over the world find, meet, get
and keep absolutely Amazing women, all the while building
men’s self-esteem, self-respect and self-worth. We realized that
the best way to achieve this goal is to give away these powerful
ideas right here in this book, Meet More Women.
We know that once your mind is opened to your true potential
that the more driven and ambitious among you will take action on
what you learn. Some of you will implement what you read here
into your daily lives so fully that we never hear from you again
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except when you email us to say “Thank you! This was when it
all changed for me!” Great! Or maybe, in your quest to be more
and more Amazing, you will come back to us for more training
and guidance. A few of you might even transform your lives so
radically because of this book that other men start to look to you
for advice on women.
If you haven’t already, we strongly suggest that you print this
book out right now, and read it immediately, all in one sitting.
And take notes.
You’re gonna want to get your pen and pad ready. Make sure
you’re sitting down (we don’t want you falling over and bumping
your head). Go get a cup of coffee. Take a deep breath. Okay.
Ready?
T
SINGLE
BIGGEST PROBLEM
FOR MEN TODAY
HE
The single biggest problem facing men today is that they can’t
meet a great girl.
Even if you don’t think this is the biggest problem, it is. And
we’ll explain.
There are so many great men out there who have so much to
offer women: men who are shy but good people; men who seem
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to have it all but lack confidence with women; men with self-respect, ambition and a good head on their shoulders who seem to
be at a loss as to why they can’t meet a really great girl; successful men or men who have all the money in the world who still
aren’t able to find a great woman who likes him for who he is,
instead of liking him for what he provides. Even guys who want
to date lots of girls and enjoy being single are still confused as to
why they can’t meet enough great girls who stick around.
This problem is so daunting for most guys that they simply
settle for what they’ve got even though they know they could be
doing better.
Or they go to all kinds of outlandish lengths to get past this
problem. Problem is, without the right knowledge, the right
mindset, and the right action the problem either never gets solved
or it just gets repressed behind a mountain of other problems.
But we know how you feel. And we know what you’re going
through. What’s more, we’ve come out on the other side and seen
how Amazing you can become if you take massive action on your
life in the right way.
Until DateMasters, men with self-respect had relatively few
dignified options for improving their dating life and learning how
to meet women. Right now, this is when you find the solution.
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T
SINGLE
BIGGEST SOLUTION
FOR MEN TODAY
HE
First, we’re going to tell you the solution to the biggest problem
facing men today. After we identify the solution we’re going to
teach you about our life-changing concepts to help bridge the gap
from problem to solution.
Guys, this is going to be obvious. You already know it. Everybody knows it. Entire industries have been built to cater to it and
facilitate it, from the nightlife industry to the dating advice
industry.
So, what is the solution?
Simple.
Meet More Women. (duh!)
This isn’t the breakthrough. Men have always known that
they want to Meet More Women, and that they need to Meet
More Women.
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Want to find a gorgeous girl with a great personality who makes you a better man? You have to
meet her first. Go. Meet More Women.
Want to find that girl who makes you feel like
you could take on the world? You need to meet
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her first. Go. Meet More Women.
Want to find a great woman who you can trust to
help you raise an Amazing family? You need to
find the best one. Go. Meet More Women.
Want to date lots of girls and enjoy yourself with
lots of really great ones? Go. Meet More Women.
Want lots of dates with lots of girls? Go. Meet
More Women.
Want to have a fulfilling relationship with your
ideal woman? Go. Meet More Women.
Want to find a woman who respects you? Go.
Meet More Women.
Want to find a women who is so in love with you
she shakes when she’s near you? Go. Meet More
Women.
Want lots of exciting experiences with women so
you can look back on your life and say, “That
sure was fun!”? Go. Meet More Women.
Want to get better talking to women? Go. Meet
More Women.
Want more experience with women so that you
can improve yourself, be more confident, more
relaxed and more comfortable with women? Go.
Meet More Women.
We hope that by just saying it, Meet More Women, you will
remember that the only reason why you haven’t met a great
woman is because you haven’t met her yet. Once you know you
have the power to meet her you can transform your life.
Simple fact is, if you aren’t in a fulfilling, relationship with a
woman that makes you truly happy then you need to Meet More
Women. It’s simple. The only way to get and keep the kind of
woman you want is to meet her first. There is no way around it.
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For some of you this won’t be a revelation. For others, simply
identifying the fact that you need to Meet More Women will be
like a light-bulb just went off inside your head.
Most guys will only really meet a small handful of women in
their lifetime. Out of that small handful they will date even less
and seriously date even less than that. The odds that you meet the
woman who is best for you out of that small handful is slim. And
unless you decide right now to take full control of how you Meet
More Women, you just aren’t giving yourself a chance in hell at
finding an incredible woman who is perfect for you.
We want you to have total freedom in your dating life; the
freedom to meet and be with the kind of woman that makes you
happy.
Even guys who outwardly appear very social and obviously
go out to “chase girls” end up falling short when it comes to
meeting a really great woman who makes them want to stop
chasing girls.
Simply put – the more women you meet the greater your
chances of finding that really incredible one who is totally into
you. The best way to find that woman (or women) is to develop
true freedom of choice with women. If you don’t have choice
with women then you don’t have freedom. If you don’t have
choice with women then you are ultimately just a slave to the
whims and fancies of circumstance. We want you to have
freedom.
When it comes right down to it, we want our guys to be with
the greatest women in the world. We know it’s possible. But you
have to want it.
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Men – choice with women is freedom with women.
The path to freedom is to Meet More Women...
Any of the issues you are having with the women in your life
can be solved by meeting more women. The more women you
meet, the more chances you will have at meeting a woman who
you truly connect with on both a physical and mental level. Guys,
we’re speaking from experience when we tell you that if you
meet enough women, the right way, you will find women who
like you who are more Amazing and gorgeous than you ever imagined (and yes, they will like you right away). If this seems outlandish to you relax. There is a very good reason why this doesn’t
seem possible (but is completely possible).
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REASON WHY
MOST MEN STRUGGLE
TO MEET MORE WOMEN
HE
We’re always Amazed at how consistently most men are
approaching dating and women the wrong way. Even people who
make a living giving dating advice tend to be totally off the mark
more often than not. (Not to say there isn’t some good advice out
there, but we urge you to be careful and selective with whose
advice you heed.) So often we’ll see a guy inching closer and
closer to the answer when suddenly he veers off into the land of
frustration, rejection and unhappiness.
But it’s all cool. We’re here to help you see the problem and
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find solutions.
Lack of a fundamental understanding of what is truly holding
guys back has made them seek solutions in arbitrary places, or
worse yet, not at all.
Here is your problem: You are not meeting enough women.
Whether you aren’t meeting enough women because you
don’t know how, it’s too difficult, you don’t want to bother or you
feel like you can’t, the fact remains, you aren’t meeting enough
women.
Some guys just sit around at home all day, digging through
tomes of pseudo-scientific tips on how to meet women but since
they don’t know how to consistently motivate themselves to take
action and Meet More Women they end up stuck at home with a
bunch of information gathering dust.
Others create mental blocks and make excuses that prevent
them from meeting more women or else they try to trick women
into liking them.
Even guys who seemingly have no problem meeting women
feel frustrated and confused because they still can’t find happiness with the women they are meeting.
Maybe you’re one of the guys who are simply unaware of the
possibilities of the kind of life you can have with women if you
apply yourself and take action.
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Or maybe you’ve reached a point where you think “Yeah I
can get girls!” but because you aren’t consistently taking action
your results are random, spotty, and with women who don’t fully
satisfy you over the long haul. Or maybe you get results but
you’re unhappy with the consistency of the results you are getting.
Or perhaps you go out, you start meeting women, and then
over time your momentum slows down and you stop meeting lots
of women even though you haven’t yet found your ideal women
or aren’t living you ideal lifestyle.
We believe that these problems all stems from the fact that
most guys’ approach to meeting women is tragically flawed.
We’ve come to believe that this is not only the most important
dilemma facing men today but that if you were to solve this
problem for yourself, all of your other problems with women
could be solved in time.
It’s sad that the primary cause for so much struggling and
grief is really a lack of fundamental knowledge. It’s the reason
why the overwhelming majority of guys “feel like a failure”
when it comes to women even if they spend lots of time, effort
and money trying to “get girls.”
Unfortunately, there are all sorts of negative influences
throughout the world telling guys things that ultimately lead them
down a self-destructive path that leaves them less happy with
themselves than when they began.
We know from our vastly different experiences that it doesn’t
have to be this way. We’re here to empower you with the knowledge to get the respect, happiness, and women you want and
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deserve. This is your chance to change your life rather than letting your dreams fall by the wayside due to a misunderstanding
of how to meet, date and keep Amazing women.
We’re here to expose the issue and give you clarity about how
to move forward, earn respect and Meet More Women in ways
you’ve never seen before; ways that are consistently responsible
for the success and happiness of ourselves and our students.
If you’re not meeting more women, doing it consistently,
while simultaneously growing your own self-respect, happiness,
and confidence then you’re doing it wrong. So what is standing in
your way?
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PART III
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MAJOR OBSTACLES
HOLDING YOU BACK
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So, now let’s look at what’s holding you back and preventing you
from moving with maximum force towards meeting more women
faster than you ever thought possible.
Our goal here is to show you, point blank, exactly what the
main obstacles are so that we can expose them and eliminate
them. You need to see what your true obstacles are to meeting
women in a way that can actually lead to happy relationships with
women you really want.
Let’s really look at some major issues that a lot of guys, and
maybe even you, experience. In the next 4 chapters we’ll be
presenting you with a series of case studies, including our analysis of what went wrong and how to fix the problems.
If you’re a guy who has these issues with meeting women
then you are in for a real eye-opener. If you’re one of the men
who no longer experiences these issues then we recommend you
read the following case studies with an open mind because they
will still give you some incredible insight on how to further
improve yourself even more.
As you read the next 4 chapters take a few moments to think
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of times in your past when you’ve had experiences like this.
Remember, these brief case studies only touch the tip of the
iceberg. We still have a whole lot coming your way.
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OMEN WITH
INTIMIDATING BEAUTY
Frankie is going about his day when he sees a gorgeous woman
walking his way. Long legs, great body, sexy style. An intimidating beauty.
He starts running through his mind.
“What can I say?”
“What should I do?”
“I should talk to her! But how?”
“What if I mess up?”
“How can I make her like me?”
He gets stuck on thinking of the perfect thing to say so that
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this beautiful girl likes him. His mind races, playing all the possibilities over and over. And before he knows it, it is over.
“I should talk to her! I should talk to her! Bah! I should have
talked to her!”
She’s already passed him by and he missed his chance
because he got stuck in his head instead of taking action.
Once again, Frankie is left feeling like he doesn’t have what it
takes to approach gorgeous women
Has this ever happened to you?
Symptom: You feel nervous or anxious about approaching
gorgeous women.
Cause: Thinking that if you don’t make a great approach then
you’ll have a tough time convincing her to like you.
“Oh no! If I’m not good at convincing her to like me with my
approach then I can’t get her!”
Analysis: Most guys who struggle with women feel pressured
to ‘say X’ or ‘do Y’ in order to convince each girl to like them.
When it comes to meeting more women, the pressure of trying to
convince each girl to like him comes out as anxiety and nervousness. Since the pressure gets worse the more a guy is attracted to
a girl, these guys often end up hesitating and missing out on
approaching the kind of women they really want.
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This kind of guy is afraid that if he makes a mistake the girl
will walk out of his life forever. It’s as if he sees girls as a special
combination lock and thinks that if he doesn’t have the exact
right code he can’t unlock her. Talk about pressure!
Underlying Problem: Feeling the need to persuade and convince women to like you. This comes from a lack of understanding and knowledge (followed up by experience) on how to
meet women without any tricks to convince and persuade her at
all.
Solution: Develop understanding, experience and knowledge
of how to Meet More Women that isn’t reliant on persuasion.
(Keep reading for a more detailed explanation)
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GUY WHO IS NATURALLY
STUCK WITH WOMEN
Bob likes to hang out with the guys. Sure, he wants to meet a
great girl but he just doesn’t feel comfortable going out to “hit
on” girls. He thinks it would be much better to naturally meet
women rather than trying to convince them to like him.
Unfortunately, Bob has yet to find a “natural” way of getting
women lined up at his doorstep begging to meet him. So, for now,
he is stuck meeting just a few new girls a year.
He knows he could Meet More Women if he went out with
the intention of meeting more women but that doesn’t fit his
image of himself. He feels like this would be changing who he is
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just to get girls. Even when he does randomly meet a new girl at a
party or through friends he is very resistant to the idea of changing who he is just to get a girl to like him.
When faced with the choice of trying to convince and cajole a
girl into liking him and just not meeting many women he chooses
the latter (not realizing that this is a false choice).
Ultimately, this leaves him feeling lonely and unsatisfied
because he can’t find a really great woman.
Have you ever experienced this?
Symptom: You feel resistant to changing who you are just to
make girls like you.
Cause: Thinking that the only way to meet lots of girls is to
cajole and convince them to like you.
“No way! I’m not going out just to try to get girls! Trying to
convince girls to like me is lame! I’m not gonna change who I
am!”
Analysis: Lots of guys are like this. They want girls to like
them for who they are and are unwilling to go out of their way
just to ‘hit on’ girls. This comes from a powerful gut feeling they
get that trying to make girls like you is not something that a selfrespecting man does. They value self-respect, integrity and honesty over convincing girls to like them. Lacking a way to meet
women without sacrificing their values they just don’t meet many
women.
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Underlying Problem: You don’t have a way to Meet More
Women that allows you to maintain self-respect, integrity and
honesty. You want a way to Meet More Women that amounts to
more than just “chasing girls.” You want a way to Meet More
Women lets you keep all you dignity and self-respect.
Solution: Learn to Meet More Women in a way that maintains
dignity, self-respect and honesty. (Keep reading for a more
detailed explanation)
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RANDMAS,
BABIES AND
ARSONIST BEARS
Bill meets a girl who he thinks is ‘all that’ and more. She’s hot
and Bill is sure he can impress her so he puts the pressure on
himself to pull out all his best tricks, techniques and lines.
Initially, she gives him bad attitude and challenges him by
being rude and dismissive. He just looks at it like a “test” and
thinks that all girls do this.
In an effort to show her how un-phased he is by her tests and
tries to slyly (or overtly) hint at his expensive house in the rich
part of town, his new car, how popular he is with girls, his cool
interests, and his wild lifestyle. He even tells the story about the
baby and grandmother he simultaneously saved from a collapsing
building that had been set on fire (by bears) so that she knows
how protective and loving he is.
She’s hot so he wants to convince her that he’s hot too. The
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hotter the girl the bigger the brag.
Unfortunately, he always ends up with girls who want his
house, his car, his commitment, his popularity, his status, his VIP
access, his lifestyle or his attention more than they actually want
him.
He ends up lonely and disappointed because the only women
who stay in his life seem to want him for everything EXCEPT
who he is as a man.
He just wishes he could find a girl who likes him for the great
guy he is and not for what he can do for her.
Have you ever felt this way?
Symptom: You feel the stress to impress when with a gorgeous woman.
Cause: Thinking that you need to persuade girls to like you.
“Dang, she’s hot! I better do everything I can to impress her
or else she’ll get away!”
Analysis: Lots of guys think that they need to brag or else
girls won’t like them. Hey, it’s worked before! They tell the girl
about their big house, their shiny new car and their fancy job and
girls eat it up. But somehow the guy is left feeling like the girl is
just using him and he wonders why he can’t find a girl who likes
him for who he is as a man, never realizing that his braggadocio
is actually repelling the high-value women of exceptional beauty
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and accomplishment and attracting only the beautiful users.
Since he can’t keep a great woman with all of his cool stories
and lifestyle, he makes the mistake of thinking that he just needs
to impress girls more if he wants to keep them. So he goes back
out to meet more girls thinking he just needs to get better convincing them to like him and the cycle starts all over. Ultimately this
leads him to settle with a girl who doesn’t really like him or it
causes him to meet less women out of frustration. Really, his
whole approach to meeting women was flawed in the first place
and he never even realized it.
Underlying Problem: Undeveloped core personality and attitude that great women naturally want so you believe you must do
something special in order to impress her or get her to feel / think
a certain way.
Solution: Develop your core personality and attitude so that
when you meet great women you don’t need to persuade her to
like you.
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MAZING!
Bill meets another girl. She’s great. Gorgeous. Incredible job.
Smart. Exciting. She’s even funny! And to top it all off, she seems
into him!
’She’s amazing!’ He thinks.
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Just like the last case study, Bill puts on his best performance.
He really wants to impress her. He tells her all about his great
lifestyle and all the cool stuff going for him. He doesn’t meet
many girls like this so he really wants to make her feel a connection. He even starts making plans with her to go on future dates
and telling her how unique, cool and different she is from all the
other girls out there.
He pulls out every trick in the book to try to convince her that
he is the right man for her. This woman is exactly the reason why
he wanted to get better at persuasion and “getting the girl.”
Success! They go on a couple dates and he spares no expense.
“I better do things right” he thinks. Things are going smoothly.
They seem to have such a great connection after he’s shared so
much of his past with her. He even sends her frequent messages
to let her know about the cool things going on in his life and to let
her know that he likes her for more than just her body.
And then … she’s gone. She stops returning his phone calls
and messages with anything more than “I’m busy.” Meanwhile,
Bill is frantically planning out how he can “get her” to like him
again. But all his pushing and persistence leads to nothing
because she is already gone and he’s left scratching his head.
The next time he goes out to Meet More Women he tries even
harder to persuade girls to like him, under the false assumption
that “if it didn’t work with her then I need to improve my persuasion skills.”
In the end, Bill goes right back into the cycle of persuading
every girl he meets to like him
Have you ever done this?
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Symptom: You feel disappointed and let-down when girls you
really like leave you or stop returning your phone calls.
Cause: Feeling like you need to convince and persuade girls if
you want them to stay with you for the long-run.
“Boo Hoo! If only I could have done a better job making her
like me I could have kept her!”
Analysis: The thing about persuasion is that even if a guy can
convince a girl to do something she didn’t originally want, the
minute he stops persuading her, she leaves.
An interaction that starts with persuasion can only keep
moving forward with persuasion. This puts many guys in the
(usually unnoticed) cycle of trying to persuade and convince her
as long as he wants her in his life or else he risks losing her when
he turns off the persuading tactics.
Persuading a girl to stay with him is almost impossible for a
man to do for an extended period of time. The constant internal
stress of feeling the need to persuade and convince girls to like
him ends up interfering with his overall happiness and ability to
meet really great women.
The worst part is, for the really great women like the one
above, persuasion simply doesn’t cut it. She can have any man
she wants. Why would she stay with a guy who has to convince
her to stay when she could just as easily get one she already
knows is the kind of man she wants?
Underlying Problem: Lack of a way to meet women that can
actually lead to a relationship where you are both mutually and
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extraordinarily happy rather than one where you are in a constant
struggle to persuade her to stay with you.
Solution: Learn to be the kind of man that great women want
to be with so that you don’t have to worry about how to persuade
her to stay with you. (Keep reading for a more detailed explanation)
So what do the above case studies have in common?
1. They are all examples how persuasive thinking holds guys back,
prevents them from meeting more women and ultimately hurts
their chances of finding, getting and keeping really great women.
2. They are all examples of guys who are stuck thinking that if they
want to get better and do better with women they must do more
and better persuading.
3. They are all examples of guys who are lacking the qualities of the
kind of man doesn’t need to persuade great women to like him:
The Amazing Man.
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ANSWER
TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS
HE
The very first and most fundamental obstacle we need to look at
is you and your mindset. It’s from here that everything else flows.
There are two diametrically opposed paths you can take to get
better with women and to Meet More Women.
You can either be more persuasive or you can be more
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Amazing.
In short, a guy who relies on persuading has to convince girls
to like him or else the girls that he wants won’t like him. An
Amazing Man has no need for persuading girls to like him
because, get this, really great women already do! An Amazing
Man does not need to persuade. He is what she wants!
As you might have guess, the persuader is under a lot more
pressure, anxiety and strain than the Amazing Man. And to top it
off, girls resist the persuaders advances and invitations more
often than the Amazing Man.
Think about this scenario – there’s a contest and the winner
gets a million dollars. But there’s a catch: one guy has to get a
stranger to keep a piece of dusty, old charcoal for a year and the
other guy is giving away a solid gold brick.
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Who do you think has an easier time – the guy
giving out charcoal or the guy giving out gold?
Who do you think has to worry about his persuasion techniques – the guy giving out charcoal or
the guy giving out gold?
Who do you think has to work his butt off convincing people – the guy giving out charcoal or
the guy giving out gold?
Who do you think experiences nervousness, frustration and failure – the guy giving out charcoal
or the guy giving out gold?
Who do you think feels more comfortable and
confident that he can do what he needs to do –
the guy giving out charcoal or the guy giving out
gold?
Why?
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Because most normal, sane people would much rather have
gold over charcoal.
Just like people already want the solid gold brick, great
women already want an Amazing Man. Our goal here at DateMasters is to help you make yourself into an Amazing Man.
Let’s look at the underlying assumption of persuading, convincing, or seducing someone to do something. It means that they
didn’t really want to do it but someone gets them to do it anyways. What almost always happens is that as soon as the convincing stops, the person goes back to not wanting to do it.
This might work for the tricky used car salesman who just
pockets the money and runs, but think about what it means for
your dating life. If you end up getting the girl through persuading
and convincing you HAVE TO keep persuading and convincing
until she finds out the truth and leaves you. You met by persuading so the only way to get her and keep her is by persuading
(and then she leaves you for a guy who doesn’t have to persuade
her).
Living life constantly persuading someone to like us certainly
doesn’t sound like happiness and fulfillment to us. And just think
of the long-term damage this will do to a man’s self-respect and
self-worth – to constantly need to be convincing a girl to like you.
Live by persuasion, die by persuasion.
And the worst part is, even if you get good at persuasion you
are constantly questioning yourself.
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“Are these the caliber of women that I really want?”
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“Are these the absolute best women I could be getting?”
“Are these women of exceptional beauty and accomplishment?”
“Am I earning self-respect this way?”
“Am I growing my happiness and fulfillment?”
“Am I really building my self-worth?”
“Do I deserve more / better women with less stress?”
“Do I have what it takes to keep my ultimate dream women when I
do meet her?”
The Amazing Man doesn’t need convince a woman to do anything because she already wants to do it. He makes no excuses
about why he wants to meet her or why he wants her phone
number. What woman isn’t thrilled to have an Amazing Man talk
to her or ask her on a date? Do you think she would run off or
make excuses if Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp walked up to her and
asked for her phone number?
The persuader focuses on how he can get better at persuading,
convincing and seducing girls. The Amazing Man focuses on
what he can do to become the kind of man that great women actually want.
But what does that mean, exactly – to be be Amazing rather
than being persuasive?
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DIFFERENCE
BETWEEN AMAZING
AND PERSUASIVE?
HAT IS THE
Persuading: When guys try to get the girl to like them and
doing / saying things that will make her do what they want.
Trying to convince girls to feel a certain way, trying to
spark her interest, or feeling the need to do something special so she doesn’t leave them for someone else – these are
all examples of persuasion.
Most guys who struggle with women (and many who appear
successful but are inwardly unhappy) busy themselves with
trying to make a girl like him. Their ideas on how to Meet More
Women put so much pressure on themselves that many of them
just don’t even want to bother meeting new women or they give
up before they find a really great one. Or, because they are stuck
in the cycle of persuasion it ends up causing unnecessary stress
and frustration with the girls they actually do meet and date.
They are concerned with ‘how to make her do something or
feel a certain way’ and ‘how to keep her from leaving.’
Tell-tale signs that you are falling into the trap of persuasive
thinking include:
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Giving her excuses for why you want to talk to
her / call her / see her.
Trying to convince her that you are talking to her
or
want
to
call
her for any reason other than dating.
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Failing to approach gorgeous a woman because
you aren’t sure how, what to do, or how to
“build attraction.”
Thinking that women give you “tests” that you
must pass (this kind of thinking is responsible
for a whole lot of unnecessary stress when it
comes to meeting and interacting with women).
Feeling like you need to be more tough or more alpha to get girls.
Trying to convince girls you have attractive qualities
by
telling
them stories or by trying to act popular.
Pretending to “be natural” because you think it
will make girls like you.
Taking girls you don’t really know to expensive
dates because you think it will help you get her
to like you.
All in all, it’s a mess. Now, let’s take a look at the advantages of
Amazing!
Amazing: You have a vision for the kind of women you
want and the kind of man you want to be and you take
action on that vision in a way that builds self-respect.
Whether you've consciously made the decision or not, you
are going down the path of Amazing Man simply by
reading this.
The Amazing Man focuses his energy on developing himself,
his personality, his attitude and his life so that great women naturally want to meet him, have fun with him, date him, and stay with
him. Then he searches for and chooses women who fit with his
life and vision, knowing that since he is Amazing he will meet
really incredible women who will want to be with him.
The Amazing Man knows that by taking massive action to
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improve his own life he is also setting in motion the very forces
that will allow him to bring more women into his circle, enjoy
those women more thoroughly, and be more happy and fulfilled
in his relationships.
The Amazing Man’s primary concern is “How can I be even
more Amazing?”
Each one of the guys in the case studies above is a victim of
what we like to call ‘persuasive thinking.’ We all are, at times.
That’s why it’s so important to always be aware of this fact. Ask
yourself “Am I being Amazing? Or am I just trying to persuade
her to like me?”
Persuaders worry about things like:
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’What do I say first, next, etc?’
’When should I call her?’
’What do I do if she ignores me?’
’What should I say before / after I ask her number?’
’What do I say if she she says she has a boyfriend?’
’What do I say if she asks why I’m talking to her?’
’What do I say if she calls me a player?’
’What do I do if she turns away from me and walks away?’
’What do I say if she asks if I think shes cute?’
’What do I say if she asks why / if I like her / what I think of her?’
And on and on and on.
Gets confusing, huh?
The Amazing Man is different. The Amazing Man doesn’t
worry about any of this because he knows how to be fun, funny,
playful, witty and charming in a way that is magnetic for great
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women. He understands how to show the best parts of his true
personality and cuts straight through all those small worries.
Persuaders think up lots of tactics, plan out elaborate lines and
stories or dance through a bunch of funky mental gymnastics to
psyche themselves up so that they can go towards the ultimate
goal of convincing a girl to do something she wasn’t willing and
eager to do on her own. They bounce from one technique to the
next, often never really understanding the bigger picture.
A true Amazing Man, on the other hand, is completely different altogether. The Amazing Man has a clear vision of the man
he wants to become. Because he has a vision of what he wants his
life to be like, he can work towards becoming more Amazing in a
way that brings more and better women into his life. He isn’t
blinded by trying (and often failing) to “get the girl” and so he is
are able to see and observe the true nature of women and relationships (and if he wants to, he actually ends up “getting the girl”
more often and more easily than most persuaders). He has integrity and standards and great women understand and respect him
for this.
An Amazing Man, unlike the persuader, is actually willing to
walk away from a hot woman if she isn’t up to his level of integrity and standards. It’s for this reason that the really great women
end up chasing him. Meeting an Amazing Man is a refreshing and
rare experience for the beautiful woman with a great attitude.
Persuasive thinkers need to micro-manage each interaction
and convince every woman at every step or else it falls apart. The
Amazing Man knows that his biggest ‘convincer’ to ‘persuade’
any woman is simply the obvious and unstated fact that he is, at
his core, the kind of man that she wants. He’s not a man who follows his whims or emotions, or changes who he is in order to
please every single girl he meets. An Amazing Man is able to
relax and enjoy himself all while moving towards his goals and
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visions with women.
The persuader begs for respect through his words. The
Amazing Man commands respect through his presence.
Why will the Amazing Man always win out over the persuader in the long run (and often in the short run too)? Because
the Amazing Man IS what great women want.
You’ll hear guys who follow the ‘path of persuasion’ talk
about making a girl like them or making her ‘feel attraction’
when a girl doesn’t like them. What they don’t seem to understand is if they focused on becoming Amazing then they wouldn’t
need to make her like them.
Think about this – Parents have to make their kids eat
asparagus (if you were one of those strange kids who liked
asparagus then pretend the asparagus is covered in dirt and stinky,
rotten fungus). The kid might eat it when his parents make him
and he might even put on a happy face just to make them think he
likes it but the minute they’re gone he is tossing out the asparagus
and stuffing himself with something he really wants. If she
doesn’t like you and you are trying to make her become attracted
to you then YOU are her dirty, rotten asparagus.
Think about that. Because the minute you’re gone and aren’t
persuading her then she’s off to fill herself with something she
really wants.
It’s no wonder guys who rely on persuasion have to think of
elaborate strategies to keep a girl loyal, keep other guys from
taking her or keep her from leaving him. SHE THINKS OF THE
PERSUADER LIKE A KID THINKS OF ROTTEN
ASPARAGUS!
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The only way that same kid is ever going to like asparagus is
if he actually comes to it on his own. Trying to force the kid to
like it will just ensure that he doesn’t like it, even if he eats it.
Similarly, trying to force, persuade or convince girls to like you
will only make them resist you more, even if they were actually
attracted to you in the first place.
High-value women of exceptional beauty and accomplishment know when they meet a persuader. If you are trying to persuade her to like you then you are outing yourself as a persuader.
The mere fact that a guy has to persuade a girl to like him is a
dead giveaway that he is not Amazing. Trust us, women are a lot
more socially perceptive to the true nature of when a man is
trying to persuade her. If she really likes you she might let you
get away with pretending to persuade her for a time. But a truly
outstanding woman doesn’t want a man who has to persuade her.
Persuaders persuade. Amazing men Amaze. You always have
a choice.
M
THIS LIFE-CHANGING
CHOICE RIGHT NOW
AKE
Make a commitment.
Right now.
Make a commitment to yourself to become the most Amazing
Man you can be. Let go of the entire ‘persuasion’ paradigm that
weighs guys down like heavy chains.
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Once you dedicate all of your focus, attention and effort on
becoming more Amazing; becoming the kind of man that incredible women really want, desire and chase (yes, great women
chase you, not the other way ‘round) your dating and relationship
life will most likely become so happy, fulfilling, abundant and
exciting that people around you will look at you in awe and
wonder about how you were able to build such a life. Keep
reading because we’re going to show you exactly what you need
to do to take action on becoming more Amazing.
The beautiful, successful women that you bring into your life
will look at you in utter joy and awe that a man like you actually
exists. And they will be thankful every day that they are able to
make you happier.
These are the kind of women that make life exciting. These
are the women who you are able to have the intensely enjoyable
relationships with that make most men jealous.
These are the kind of women that will do everything in their
power to help you become a better man; women that help you
enjoy life to the fullest; that totally support you in all of your
ambitions; that like you for your sometimes quirky sense of
humor and your unique view of life.
Most importantly, instead of being with you just for the
money, status or pickup lines you throw at them, these high-value
women of exceptional beauty and accomplishment truly respect
you for who you are as a man.
Men – this isn’t just speculation. This is our lived experience
here at DateMasters.
So make a commitment. Right now. Repeat this to yourself
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daily –
“I am dedicated to becoming the most Amazing Man I possibly can be.”
Make it your personal mantra and repeat this phrase
throughout the day. Then follow up on it by taking the massive
action we’ll be sharing with you now and watch most of your
previous issues with women simply fade away. Repeat this
mantra often and become more Amazing. Do it now.
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SAVE TIME AND MONEY
BY BECOMING AMAZING
OW TO
Persuaders focus on how they can get better at persuading, convincing, seducing, and manipulating. The Amazing Man focuses
on what he can do to become the kind of man that great women
already want. Talk about a massive difference. Re-read that sentence until the gravity of its importance really sinks in.
In the long run, the persuader always spends more money and
more time on women who don’t make him happy than the
Amazing Man.
How?
The persuader is always looking for the next new trick that he
can use to get better at persuading girls to like him in the
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moment. His only criteria is, “Will this convince her to like me /
give her number / go on a date / have sex?”
So today it’s fancy pickup lines, tomorrow it’s little tricks to
psyche themselves up, yesterday it was buying her drinks / dinner
/ flowers, and last month it was funky hypnotic mind tricks. It’s
always some hot tactic about changing her mind or magically
making her go from ignoring him to loving him.
The persuader buys into the idea that women are like high-security bank vaults and all he needs are the right set of safecracking skills so he can ‘bust her open’ no matter how closed to
him she is. Or like a hacker trying to get through all the firewalls.
The Amazing Man just smiles when he hears guys talk ‘bank
vaults’ ‘hacking in’ and ‘challenges’ because he knows that when
it comes to the best women for him, these ladies are already
unlocked and open; they make it all easy for him.
Once you have the keys to the safe you don’t need any fancy
lock-picking skills. Once you have all the access codes there’s no
need to hack the system.
For the Amazing Man, trying to unlock an unlocked safe is
akin to turning on your TV by standing upside-down on your
head with your hands tied behind your back and the TV remote in
your teeth. Sure, it might make your buddies say “you da’ man”
but it’s completely unnecessary.
And here’s some inside information that the big-money marketers selling false dreams to men around the world don’t want
you to know:
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Guys who are stuck persuading girls to like them are about
100 times easier to sell to than an Amazing Man. Why? Because
the persuader has no criteria – if they can convince you that it
might help you ‘get laid’ with it, they’ve made their sale.
These are the people promoting the idea that it will help guys
get laid if they spend money on: a cool new car, watch, tactic,
fancy restaurant, flower, furniture-piece, house, lifestyle, VIP
access, BS technique, or crazy pickup line that was passed on by
the wisdom of ancient ninja societies of seduction … ninja …
societies (okay, maybe nobody spent money on that one).
Take the ‘buy a girl a drink’ alcohol industry and the ‘guys
pay extra to talk to girls’ bar and club industry, to the ‘nice meal
will impress her’ restaurant industry and the ‘expensive equals
sex’ luxury item industry, plus the ‘do and say anything to get
laid seduction advice industry’ and what you have are all a bunch
of vultures misleading guys into spending money on anything
that offers them the promise of quick and easy sex.
And here’s the rub: The overwhelming majority of guys who
are trying to get better with better women are doing nothing more
than trying to be more persuasive. They have no underlying
framework for being Amazing, so they hop from one technique to
another. And while they may have some arbitrary goal for
‘number of dates scored’ or girls ‘got’ or ‘relationships had’ they
have no vision of what kind of man they would need to become
in order to achieve it all with efficiency and happiness. Since they
don’t have a clear vision they end up wasting time and money. A
few end up buying anything and everything that comes their way
that has promise of helping them persuade girls to like them.
Worst of all, most of the time they aren’t even conscious of it!
The Amazing Man, on the other hand, has much different criteria. The Amazing Man uses his rational mind and common
sense to ask himself “Will this make it easier for me to achieve
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my vision?” “Is this something that will help me find more happiness and fulfillment, be more Amazing and meet more great
women?” and “If this does work is it superior to what I am currently doing?”
The question to ask is: Are you spending your money on
things to impress and persuade girls to like you or are you
investing your time and money on the things and knowledge that
will bring you closer to your ideal life and help you meet meet
more and better quality women in the process?
Before you spend any more time and money hoping to persuade girls, stop!
Just stop!!
Instead, make a promise to yourself to invest in whatever’s
necessary in order to help you identify and move towards your
vision in the long run. Remember: Short-term strategies only
have short-term payoffs. Good long-term strategies have both
long-term AND short-term payoffs built-in.
You want to spend money on things that help save you time
and money and efficiently move towards your goals of finding,
meeting, getting and keeping incredible women as an Amazing
Man and not just a better persuader.
When you spend money and time on something you need to
be selective and do it because it will help make you more
Amazing as a man. We see too many guys suffer too much
because they wasted time and money persuading a girl to like
them when they could have done things so much differently. They
could have even found a much better girl who actually liked them
if they didn’t waste so much time on persuading.
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4 things you can spend your money, time and effort on
that will lead you to unhappiness and pain …
1. Trying to impress her.
2. Trying to persuade and convince her to like
you.
3. Something that promises to ‘get any girl.’
4. Something that promises to make you
better at persuading, seducing and convincing women to like you.
4 things to invest money, time and effort in that will lead
to happiness, fulfillment and excitement …
1. Knowledge or action that will help you
become more Amazing as a man.
2. Knowledge or action that will help make
you into a man that she has to persuade
and convince to like and stay with her
(how’s that for a role reversal!).
3. Knowledge or action that will actually help
you save time and money in the long-run
as you move towards your vision.
4. Knowledge or action that will help you
meet so many women that you have total
freedom of choice in your dating life.
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YOUR DATING
SKILLS WITH MAXIMUM
FORCE AND VELOCITY
MPROVING
When you start down the path to becoming Amazing and stop
trying to persuade each woman to like you, you’ll find that not
only do you save more time and money but you actually allow
yourself the freedom to improve yourself with women more efficiently and thoroughly.
Trying to get better at persuasion installs psychological roadblocks and barriers that force you to do mental gymnastics just to
get into the right ‘state’ to go Meet More Women. Doing mental
gymnastics before meeting women will only slow down your
progress and ultimately make it harder for you to have freedom
with women and dating.
If you find that you or your techniques for meeting women
rely on getting into the right mental state or being the dominant
‘alpha’ Mr. Tough Guy in order to be effective with women then
you can be certain that these barriers exist because you are falling
into the trap of persuasive thinking. Remove those barriers by
cutting off the source of your bad persuasive habits, whether it
means committing to drinking less alcohol or consciously not
taking the dating advice of people who tell you that you need to
make her like you (remember the asparagus?)
The persuader focuses on short-term gains and ends up forfeiting any chance of long-term happiness.
Becoming Amazing is a long-term strategy towards happiness
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and fulfillment with lots of short-term excitement and benefits.
Since Amazing men meet a lot of women they actually see more
and better short-term results (whether that be dates, girlfriends,
relationships, etc.) than most guys who go down the path of persuasion.
And if you’re meeting a lot of women while keeping with a
strategy that fits with the overall vision of the man you want to
become then you can even improve your skills with women
better, faster and more efficiently than the guy pursuing persuasion could ever imagine.
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GET TOTAL FREEDOM
WITH WOMEN AND DATING
OW TO
Here at DateMasters we’ve found that guys who are able to meet
massive numbers of women as an Amazing Man will always get
more, faster and better results plus have more freedom with
women than guys who aren’t meeting as many many women,
even if those guys are good at persuasion.
If you really want total freedom with women and dating then
you have to meet lots of women. There is no way around it.
That’s why we’re going to give you some direct advice on how
we, at DateMasters, meet so many women while using less time,
money and stress.
In fact, once you are able to use this closer look at the inner
workings of how an Amazing Man meets women and use it yourself to go talk to 30 women a day, everyday, until you find the
woman of your dreams then you will actually be moving with
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maximum force and velocity towards your goals with women.
Now, we don’t actually expect that you can go talk to 30
women a day, everyday. There are probably too many excuses
stopping you.
We know.
We’ve dealt with them.
All of them.
And unless you’re a mind-reader who can instantly know the
ins and outs of every woman’s personality, character and attitude
before ever meeting her you really can’t have total freedom with
women unless you are meeting a lot of them. But for guys who
follow persuasion, meeting massive amount of women just takes
way too much time, money and stress.
Here at DateMasters, meeting massive amounts of women
while searching for the most Amazing and dating lots of beautiful
women in the meantime is simply what we do. Our methods
allow us to meet massive numbers of beautiful women with so
little time, stress and money invested that we are able to move
towards our goals with women with maximum force and speed
while even having extra time to focus on mastering our other life
ambitions.
Here at DateMasters, we show our clients the system and
mindset necessary to get them meeting 30 women everyday while
investing about the same amount of time weekly as they spend
showering, shaving and brushing their teeth (read: not much time
at all). We call our system ‘The Revolution!’ The massive results
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we’re seeing our clients achieve along with the speed and efficiency at which we see them them improve their skills, confidence, quantity and quality of women in their lives and relationships has been astounding, especially when compared to guys
who are still stuck trying to persuade girls to like them.
(You can read more about The Revolution! here: http://datemasters.com/dating-advice-for-men/the-revolution/)
You really want total freedom with women? You NEED to
take massive action on your life. Meet 30 hot women a day,
everyday. We’ll meet you on the other side.
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MUST
TAKE MASSIVE ACTION
HY YOU
Alright, let’s say that we have either convinced you that you need
to be an Amazing Man and build yourself into the kind of man
that great women want, or you already knew it. Now, let’s talk
about what you can do to make that into reality …
You already know that you need to become more Amazing
rather than just more persuading.
That means you have to start thinking AND acting like an
Amazing Man.
The way to start thinking Amazing is to start acting Amazing.
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The way to start acting Amazing is to start thinking Amazing.
The two work together. You can’t have one without the other.
What is the first action to take as an Amazing Man? Meet
More Women.
We all know that one weird guy who seems to have this crazy
fantasy that if he just keeps living his life the way he’s been
doing, that one fine day a huge bus will magically roll up into his
driveway and unload a bevy of beautiful women, all just wanting
to meet HIM.
Sorry. Life just doesn’t work that way.
Let’s take a closer look at hard reality.
Nobody in the world gets more women than they meet. That’s
a fact. How ridiculous would it be – “Dude, I went on 3 dates last
week! But I only met 2 of them. The third one I never actually
met because … ummm … I didn’t look at her or talk to her the
entire date. I’m dating more girls than I met!”
The reality is that the more women you meet, the more
women you can date, get and keep.
But the thing that will ultimately define your success isn’t
your ability to meet women. It’s your willingness to take action
on meeting more women.
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Inevitably, everyone who takes action and meets more women
will have a greater chance to get more women.
Just as 1 + 1 = 2, the more action you take the more results
you’ll get, the more progress you’ll make.
The guy taking the most action on his life wins.
And this is true whether you are persuading girls or Amazing
them: the more action you take, the more results and progress
you’ll make.
But, for many guys, their problems stem from the fact that,
when compared to the simple effectiveness of Amazing thinking,
persuasive thinking actually makes it more difficult to take action
on their life when it comes to meeting more women.
You’ll see this in yourself in the form of excuses that prevent
you from doing the only thing that will guarantee that you Meet
More Women … go Meet More Women.
A is A. 1 + 1 = 2. If you Meet More Women, you will have
met more women.
If you find yourself NOT taking action on meeting women
because of any variety of excuses then this is a flashing red light
that you’re on the wrong path. You need to take action by shifting
from persuasive thinking to thinking like an Amazing Man.
For guys who think like Amazing Men, meeting more women
is as simple as stepping out the door and saying “hi” to the first
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hot woman they see (or the first 30 for those of us who really
want to see improvement and freedom on a massive scale). Keep
reading, because we are about to dive right into how we, at DateMasters, meet so many women.
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PART IV
H
USE THIS BOOK
TO MEET MORE WOMEN
OW TO
There are exactly a gazillion and 17 different ways to Meet More
Women and they’re not all equal.
Persuasive thinking would tell you to use certain stories,
‘pickup lines’ or ‘hypnotic mental techniques’ to make girls more
receptive to you and/or to make her attracted to you. Other kinds
of persuasive thinking tell you vaguely that, in order to change
her mind or her feelings about you, you should just ‘be yourself’
and ‘don’t focus on results’ or some similar tactic (but they never
ever give you specific steps you can take to actually Meet More
Women).
That’s all fine and well. And it will get you a certain kind of
result (with women who are less than Amazing) if you are willing
to waste lots of time, effort, money and stress.
At DateMasters, as Amazing men, we want something better.
So, the big question …
How does an Amazing Man Meet More Women?
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This rabbit hole goes very deep my friend. What you are
about to learn is simply one tool in the toolbox of the Amazing
Man. It is a mental strategy that lets us take massive action in the
real world to Meet More Women consistently, every single day.
You are opening the doors to something that, when you act on it,
will change your life in more Amazing ways than you can imagine.
Be warned – what you are about to learn is simple but NOT
easy.
We don’t expect that you will be able to fully implement right
away what we are about to share with you. It will take a committed effort on your part to start to do what is necessary to get
past your excuses and start thinking and acting like an Amazing
Man.
The strategies that we use here at DateMasters, as Amazing
men, differ wildly from conventional dating advice on how to
Meet More Women. In fact, what we are about to teach you goes
against almost everything that you will hear about how to meet
women. This is what makes us Amazing.
There will be guys and so-called “experts” who tell you that
you can’t or shouldn’t do things like how we are about to teach
you. Or they’ll tell you that it doesn’t work or that you can’t get
women that way. You can be quite certain that those guys have a
vested interest in trying to keep you stuck in the persuasion
mindset (either to sell you something or to justify their own inaction). When those guys say “that stuff doesn’t work” they are
really just telling you that it doesn’t work for them because they
refuse to accept that a woman can like them without persuasion,
convincing and manipulation.
The reality is – since we started using what we are about to
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teach you, we at DateMasters and our clients have had more
dates, better relationships, more fun, more sex, less stress, more
freedom and more happiness with more high quality girls than
ever before. THAT is why we laugh anytime we hear someone
say “that stuff doesn’t work.”
Reality is always stronger than hearsay.
And we believe the same reality can happen for you when you
commit yourself to work at it.
Once you master the mindset that we are about to share with
you, you will be able to meet more hot women, date more
extraordinary women, have more exciting relationships and do it
all with less stress, time and money than any persuader could
ever hope to accomplish.
The journey to become an Amazing Man will require you to
take (massive) action on your dating life. But that’s a small price
to pay for the power of happiness, fulfillment, freedom and
excitement that all self-respecting men want with their women
but only a few of us truly experience.
Know this – Amazing men do not chase women. Because we
are Amazing women chase us. But we have to make the first
move.
What we do is MEET WOMEN.
With that, here is one of the many powerful tools that
Amazing men use to meet women. We call it ‘Identifying.’
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W
HAT
IS
IDENTIFYING?
One of the most important tools we use is called Identifying. By
Identifying, we mean Identifying women who are into us; who
we have chemistry with; who we connect with; who like us.
Identifying stands in direct opposition to the persuaders tactic of
chasing. By chasing, we mean persistently pursuing women who
are not interested in us for the same reasons we are interested in
her.
When using the tool we call ‘Identifying’ you will meet
women anywhere and everywhere: in malls, bookstores, coffee
shops, gyms, grocery stores, bars, clubs, restaurants, the beach,
boardwalk, parties, and our favorite – the street. At DateMasters,
we each approach 30 hot women a day, everyday, so the streets of
cities around the world give us the most freedom with women.
But regardless of where you see an attractive woman, when
you approach her you have a choice – you can Chase or you can
Identify.
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FIND WOMEN
WHO ARE REALLY INTO YOU
OW TO
Every moment we spend interacting with/talking to a woman
who isn’t really all that into us is time we could be looking for
another one who is.
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It’s just that simple.
Now if you’re living in a limited-pie world – for example in a
small town, or attending a small university, or hanging out in a
club/bar, or enjoying the evening at a party, then yeah, you’re
kinda stuck with whatever females the Fates have tossed in those
confines and you might even be tempted to stick around and try
to make the best of it.
But we don’t ever recommend that.
Why?
Because we know that the world is a very big place and that
there are lots of women out there that would most likely find you
very attractive and want to meet you without you going through
all the gymnastics of trying really hard to get her to like you.
We believe it’s all pretty much just a matter of getting in front
of as many attractive girls as you possibly can and talking to
them long enough to determine if the two of you actually
think/feel there might be something there; some spark worth
investing a little more time developing and taking it from there.
Now we all know there are some guys out there that think that
if they talk to the girl long enough, using magical phrases, or
interesting hypnotic patterns, or funny routines, or what-haveyou, that the girl will somehow change her initial opinion about
them and decide that they’re really all that and jump them.
Yeah, that happens. It takes a whole lot of work to get that
good and even more effort to maintain it. And that’s just the
beginning of the bad news.
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Because even when it does happen, and the guy gets the girl,
he usually suspects (and the girl always knows) that if some guy
who is more ‘the type’ that the girl is really into comes along,
well, she’ll be gone.
So we ask, why put oneself through all that aggra?
Why not be the guy that the girl really wants from the get-go?
Why not search for the girls that are really into you, or at least
somewhat into you from the very beginning of the interaction?
One of the most important skills you can develop as an
Amazing Man is – learning how to find and identify the girls that
like you from the jump and then how to capitalize on it.
At any given time in any given place, there is an appreciable
percentage of the female population that will find you attractive
enough to want to talk with you – and this is especially true if
you continue to make yourself more and more Amazing – and
subsequently date you when you do everything right and keep her
interested in you (yes, we help men with all of this at DateMasters). So it’s always in your best interests to spend as much time
as possible putting yourself in front of those women rather than
trying to convince / persuade / manipulate / hypnotize an indifferent one to like you.
We tell all our guys – Save time, save money, save your
energy: look for the ones that really like you and let the other
ones go make some other guy miserable.
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MAGIC WORDS
YOU CAN USE TODAY
HE
When Identifying, it’s important to be straightforward with
women. What do we mean by straightforward?
Here are some examples of straightforward... and we present
to you, the Magic Words to start a conversation with anyone, anywhere, anytime:
“Hi. What’s your name?”
Yes indeed! There are even other variations of the same thing
that convey the same message:
“Hey, how ya doing?”
“Hello, how are you?”
“Excuse me. I have a question. (pause) What’s your name?”
Really, this is all you need.
Note we said it works anywhere, anytime, and with anyone!
“Hi, what’s your name?” works wonderfully when trying to
Identify which women are immediately into you. Those are the
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ones you want to talk to. If a woman wants to talk to you, she’ll
tell you her name. If she doesn’t want to talk to you, she won’t,
and you can smile, thank her, wish her a nice day and continue
searching for another one to talk to (or 30 more if you really want
to be Amazing).
If the goal is to “get a specific girl to stop and talk to me no
matter whether she’s interested in me or not” then there are definitely other ways to go about doing that. Most of these conversation starters are clad somewhat in subterfuge in an attempt to
“come in under her radar” so guys can ‘get in there’ without the
girls knowing their intentions.
For example:
“Hey, do you know where Starbucks is?”
“I need a female opinion on something.”
“Whoooo! Cheers! What are you drinking?!”
We’re not saying these don’t “work...” They do. In fact, if the
woman is into you right from the beginning, these would work
just as well as “Hi, what’s your name?”
These lines become problematic, however, because they often
lead to ‘false positive’ interactions – getting women who aren’t
interested in us at all to stop and talk. Rather than try to edge into
a conversation with her, at DateMasters we come in straightforward in order to Identify whether these women are into us. We
want to build the most accurate personal database of conversations as possible, and we do that by discovering what type of
women tend to talk to us when we’re presenting specific images
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at different locations and times.
In addition, if a guy “sneaks into a conversation” with a
woman who isn’t truly into him, he might find himself being led
on a wild goose chase. Trust us. It becomes a long, drawn out
interaction that is neither time efficient nor results driven. Maybe
it’s fun, and maybe the guy’s ego gets a boost, and maybe his
bros will high-five him later and tell him what mad skillz he has.
But in the end, when she refuses to give him her phone number,
or gives him the number but never answers/returns his calls, or
answers his calls but refuses to make a date, or makes a date but
flakes at the last-minute, etc. End result – he’ll be left scratching
his head about what he did or didn’t do … When actually there
was nothing he could have done anyways, because she wasn’t
truly interested in him from the very beginning.
When you’re straight with women from the very beginning
you make it clear you’re interested in them. Doing things like
asking her name, saying “Nice to meet you,” and shaking hands,
making her giggle or laugh in the first 10 seconds or so are how
you do that. Then she decides whether she’s interested in you
enough to continue the conversation, or not. If not, she’ll walk
away. In which case, The Magic Words worked. They worked by
Identifying that the girl you were talking to is part of that large
percentage of the female population that isn’t into your
looks/image.
Congratulations! Now you don’t have to marry her and lose
half your net-worth when she divorces you!
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TELL IF
SHE’S INTO YOU
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So now we know that some women are into us right from the getgo and others aren’t. How do we figure out which ones are
which? How do we go about Identifying rather than Chasing?
How do we disqualify women quickly? How do we know which
women to disqualify? How exactly does one decide whether or
not to continue the interaction? Where do we draw the lines when
we’re out there face-to-face with women?
The difference between Identifying and Chasing is day and
night- and it’s clearly recognizable with just a little bit of practice. If you follow everything we teach at DateMasters, as we
teach it, you’ll learn the proper sequence of steps to tell if she’s
into you, and if she is, you’ll also happen to end up with her
phone number!
So how do we tell if she’s interested? You could read tomes of
popular psychology books about flirting that will tell you stuff
like she twiddles her hair or her pupils dilate or whatever. Maybe.
But none of that really matters when you have your own experience and statistics to back it up.
We’re big on lived experience here because ultimately, it’s the
statistics that speak. We have a series of milestones we go
through to check how much she’s into us.
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SIMPLE STREAMLINED PROCESS
FOR MEETING MORE WOMEN
At DateMasters we have a very simple, streamlined process that
we go through in order to Identify and meet women who are into
us.
In The Revolution! we call it ‘The Milestones’ but what you
need to know for Meet More Women is that basically it’s a series
of actions, statements, questions and commands that 1) make it
clear we’re interested in her (but not too much) and 2) put the ball
in her court in order for her to make a decision whether she’s
interested in us or not. The goal is to Identify if she is into us.
For example, walking up to a woman and greeting her is the
first milestone. She then has a choice to make.
1. She could enter a friendly conversation
with you, (“Hi! Nice to meet you! / Oh!
What’s your name?”).
2. She could enter neutral conversation with
you (“Um, hello? / Uhh... Who are you?”).
3. She could ignore us completely (“...”).
4. She could throw some rudeness or bad attitude (“Wtf?! Why are you talking to me?
Who the hell are you?!” [note: if you live
in New York City, this actually qualifies as
number 1]).
If you’re really smart then you’ll walk away if she does anything
besides number 1. Here at DateMasters we are simply meeting
and dating so many Amazing fun women who are into us that we
don’t have time for girls who show us anything other than their
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absolute best selves. You’ll get there soon enough so long as you
read carefully and take action.
Now, we know some of you may say “Hey, you can turn that
whole situation around – you just have to step to her and spit
some of that hot fire – solid Game – at her and she’ll be golden!”
basically that by persisting and talking more to her, she might
change her mind and be persuaded to like you. That’s cool … and
we call that Chasing. Next, let’s look at the qualities of Chasing.
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ENJOY
LOTS OF WOMEN
WITHOUT CHASING
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Chasing, by our definition, is what happens any time a guy goes
after a woman who hasn’t made it explicitly clear that’s she
totally interested in him. “Going after” includes talking to, flirting
with, asking out, dating, giving gifts, marrying and generally just
trying to sleep with a given woman. It’s the “Gotta catch ‘em
all!!!” mentality that some guys have.
At DateMasters, trying to convince women who aren’t into
you to give you their name, their phone number, their chastity, or
whatever would be considered Chasing.
Bottom line – Amazing men enjoy lots of incredible women
without chasing.
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Hollywood and all its friends would have you believe that the
formula for dating and relationship success goes something like
this: Guy meets girl, guy chases girl, guy chases girl some more,
chases and chases and chases, guy finally gets girl. We’re here to
tell you this: they’re lying to you.
Those people who tell you, “Chase! Chase! Chase!” are
selling you something that is NOT based on reality. Or rather, it is
based on a sick and twisted view of THEIR reality.
They’re lying to you and we are here to help you WAKE UP!
Break out of The Matrix that they’ve got you trapped in!
This is your chance to become something so much more than
a guy begging for the approval of every girl he meets!
You have a choice to make. Rather than being the Chasing
guy fawning over any girl, clawing at her trying to get her attention, never taking his eyes off her while she halfheartedly
acknowledges his existence, you can instead be the Amazing Man
squiring around a gorgeous, successful woman (or women) who
has a great attitude, happily clinging to your arm, while you smile
comfortable in the knowledge that you have the foresight and the
experience to Identify a quality woman who you share chemistry
with... AND who fully appreciates all those important male characteristics that you have worked so hard to develop. Characteristics that will keep her wanting you more and more, again and
again.
Now, to be fair, getting out there and chasing women IS better
for your dating life than just sitting at home playing World of
Warcraft. When it comes to dating, doing anything is always
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mend chasing women – although even sometimes, persistence
does pay off and you can “get the girl”… But you have to ask
yourself, at what price? How much are you willing to “dance
fool, dance!” to the tune of some woman who cares more about
your bank account or her self-esteem void than she cares about
you? Sure, you might get her her in the end, but the odds are
astronomically low. Not to mention the amount of self-esteem,
dignity and self-respect you might lose in the process hardly
makes it a reasonable endeavor.
At DateMasters, we think that even if you “get the girl” after
“plowing” through all her initial resistance, bitchiness, bad attitude, rudeness, her falsely inflated sense of value for being the
‘star’ of some random club/bar, her flat out cruelty, you still lose
out in the game that matters – you didn’t get a girl who was actually into you.
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PERILS AND
PITFALLS OF PERSISTENCE
HE
At DateMasters, we’re all about opportunity cost. Every moment
you waste with women who don’t like you, you are literally not
spending that time searching for women who DO like you. Therefore, we believe the best way to go about your dating life is getting yourself in front of AS MANY women as possible (at DateMasters we train our guys to efficiently meet 30 a day, everyday)
and learning how to tell within the first 30 seconds or so which
ones like you. These women like the way you look and like your
image. They’ll also be more likely to continue liking you down
the line.
If you refuse to take no for an answer, sometimes the woman
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will go along... to a point. Sure, she might give you her phone
number after you pester her, manipulate her, persuade her or
whatever for a few minutes, but most of the times, she’s never
gonna answer the phone. And even if she does it’ll be an uphill
battle all the way (until she dumps you for a guy with a better
offer or one who she is actually into). And you always have to ask
yourself, “How much of my own self-worth, self-value, and selfesteem am I willing to sacrifice trying to get with this girl when I
could just as easily find a better girl who wants me as much as I
want her?”
Strangely enough (and unlike the rest of a Hollywood-influenced culture) we actually consider it quite unfortunate when a
guy who is persistent gets the girl. First of all, this persistence
attitude gets reinforced, despite its total inefficiency. Second,
most likely it was her agenda, and not his persistence that led to
his “success”: free meals, free trips, expensive gifts, attention, a
roof over her head, etc. Fact is, if she’d really liked him from the
beginning and he’d done things right, he wouldn’t have had to
have been persistent; she would have chased him.
Let’s be clear, we’re not saying persistence-in-and-of-itself is
bad. In fact, persistence is Amazing in the right context (our guys
who excel with The Revolution! know all about this).
At DateMasters, we believe that being persistent means continually making yourself a better man, meeting more and more
Amazing women, and taking positive action in your life and with
women. Be persistent in THAT way, and watch in astonishment at
the kind of high-quality women you’ll be bringing into your life.
Be persistent in the goal of FINDING high-value women of
exceptional value and accomplishment who are already into you,
and marvel at how convenient, easy and Amazingly fun it is!
Whooooo! No stress!
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TOWARDS WOMEN
AS A STRONG, CONFIDENT MAN
TEPPING
Some of you might be saying, “But I’ve heard stories of guys
who DID get the girl even though she wasn’t into them from the
beginning! I’ve even done so myself!”
Cool.
So what?
It’s an uphill slog every step of the way.
To our way of thinking it’s like listening to the speaker at a
Multi-Level Marketing meeting. They always tell about the winners – the people that have made sooooo much money hawking
their product.
They don’t tell you about all the people who make less than a
hundred bucks a month being a distributor. They NEVER tell you
about all the people who go into debt trying to make it big and
never get there.
It’s like the people going to Las Vegas and playing the slots hey, someone’s gotta win the jackpot.
Or blackjack, craps, roulette. Their chances are so outrageously slim that you wonder why they just don’t mail their
money into the casino.
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Anytime you hear the story about a guy who begged and
wheedled and cajoled a woman to go out with him and finally
succeeded, you can be sure there are hundreds, thousands, millions of guys who lost.
The woman never said yes.
She just kept saying no.
One guy succeeds, millions lose.
What’s the big deal?
But it gets even worse.
What happens even if she does say yes - agrees to go out?
Who’s to say the only reason she agreed was that she wanted
a free meal?
Or someone to tell her troubles to?
Or someone who would give her some attention?
Or someone who could introduce her to his rich friends?
She might not even care about the guy at all – she just wants
to use him for his money, or his counsel, or his contacts .
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The guy might have been better off if she had said no to him
and stuck to it. Of if he had taken no for an answer and just
walked away instead of needling her more for her number. So
many guys seem to look at this whole dating thing the way they
look at playing some kind of video game: gotta win gotta win
gotta win. The problem is most guys have defined ‘winning’
much too narrowly. Rather than thinking the game is about winning any particular woman, guys would be better served if they
thought about it from the standpoint of Identifying a lady that is
really into them from the jump and then not messing it up.
When a guy stops thinking, “Wow! That girl is money! I’ve
GOT to get her to like me or I’ll just die,” and starts thinking,
“Hmmmm. Let’s go see if she likes me,” he’ll find everything
begins to change ALL to his advantage. He stops wasting his time
trying to convince girls to like him, he stops begging, he stops
dancing on his knees, he stops giving up all his self-respect and
self-esteem in order to get a few crumbs of acknowledgment
from a total stranger who just happens to have lucked into some
‘pretty DNA’ by being born to the right parents.
Guys have to start learning how to efficiently Meet More
Women while looking for girls that like them from the very
beginning rather than putting tons of energy into ‘making’ a noninterested one like them.
Only then will they start stepping towards women as strong
men, confident men, Amazing Men.
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HEARD THE LIE “LOOKS
DON’T MATTER TO WOMEN?”
VER
Just about everyone has heard the expression (especially when it
relates to how women see men) that “looks don’t matter.”
Have you heard that one?
Yeah, it’s not true.
Total lie.
And we mean TOTAL lie.
L-I-E.
What’s more, belief in the idea that “looks don’t matter” actually hurts guys of average looks.
The thing is, high-quality women initially decide how much
they like a guy within the first 9-35 seconds of meeting him – and
oftentimes even less than that. Think of it this way: How long
does it takes you, as a guy, to decide whether a woman is physically attractive to you, or not? Yeah, almost instantly, right?
Women are the same. When first meeting a guy, they are similarly
attracted to looks, fashion, presentation and image.
And this is great news! Because the common dating wisdom
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that “looks don’t matter” is horrible advice for everyone except
the naturally good looking guys.
Reality is, regardless of what you look like now, if you
improve your looks, fashion, presentation and image, it will help
with women. Especially if you can back up your improved looks
with being an Amazing Man.
Guys who teach that looks don’t matter are feeding you a load
of bunk that will actually slow down your progress and hurt you
in the long-run because it causes guys to ignore the role their
fashion, image and presentation play in meeting women. True,
you can meet women without improving your looks. But it will
always have a positive effect in your work to Meet More Women
when you strive to improve how you look.
Now, we know that it might be good marketing on our part to
tell you “Get any girl regardless of how you look!” but we want
to give you a clearer picture of reality so that you don’t waste
time chasing delusions.
So while the whole ‘looks don’t matter’ twaddle looks good
on paper it can actually hurts your progress, especially if you are
an average or below-average looking guy. We’re here to tell you
the plain truth: Improve your looks, fashion, style, posture,
grooming, body language and your image and you will have a
much easier time meeting women who will really like you for
who you are. This is simply the result of more women being
willing to give you a chance and get to know you, whereas
before, they weren’t even willing to hear you out.
Pretty much anytime you hear about successes coming from
the delusion that “looks don’t matter” you can probably be sure
that the success you’re hearing about had more to do with a particular girl’s agenda/quirky taste in guys and not because it was
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good advice. Perhaps it even prompted the guy to go Meet More
Women, but that still doesn’t make it good advice. Anything that
gets guys out the door to go Meet More Women will lead to
increased results with women, even if it is bad advice that actually sabotages the number and quality of women and relationships that they could have achieved with less time, money and
stress had they used good advice.
And if you are worried about not being able to look good for
the kind of women you want, relax. Simply by nature of being a
man, you have the potential to be physically attractive to women.
It’s simple. Improve your looks. Improve your results.
Improve your happiness.
Remember – chasing is basically unattractive to high-value
women and all the time spent talking to women who don’t like
you could be better spent searching for one who does.
One of the many interesting things that guys who use The
Revolution! discover is that when you only go for the ones that
like you, the same ratio of attractive women will want to talk to
you as unattractive ones. Go out and try it yourself. Be surprised
again!
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BECOME
YOUR OWN AUTHORITY
ON WOMEN
OW TO
Everyone wants to become their own authority on women.
Imagine – no longer relying on random conflicting advice on
women you get from movies, TV, dating experts and anyone else
who claims to know what is best for you.
But guess what? When you use what we teach to take massive
action, Meet More Women and become more Amazing you will
become your own authority on women, based on your own personal lived experience. Meet 30 women a day, everyday for
months and years like our guys do with The Revolution! and
you’ll discover that, after time and consistent effort, all your personal experience will prove far more educational and valuable
than anything you could ever read, listen to or watch.
Likewise, you’ll be able to identify what dating advice really
works. You’ll come to see where Disney and Miramax’s romantic
films are in line with reality, and where they’re pure junk food
fiction. (Hint: Hollywood romance movies consistently pin our
BS meters at redline.) You can keep this knowledge to yourself
and nod silently when you see a guy Chasing, realizing that unbeknownst to him, he’s shooting himself in the foot (especially over
the long term).
At DateMasters, we encourage you to carefully collect the
valuable data that comes from your experiences in meeting thousands of women. And from those thousands of experiences, you
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are then liberated from the chains of all the dating misinformation, disinformation, and propaganda foist upon us by the mass
media, our parents, teachers, priests, politicians, pundits, and
society. Whether the chains be your own BS Excuses, or someone
else’s that got chained around you intentionally or not, you will
have your own lived experience to contrast against it... And no
intellectual armchair arguments about what works and what
doesn’t when it comes to meeting women can cut through your
MASSIVE, pure, lived experience.
You may even come back to this very chapter and say, “After
talking to tens of thousands of women, through my own lived
experience, I can say without a doubt that everything written in
this material is completely, totally and absolutely right on the
money, on the mark, exactamundo. Oh my God, you guys are so
totally awesome!”
Or maybe you’ll just come back and say, “Yup. You’re right.”
That’s cool, too.
We at DateMasters still believe there’s plenty we can teach
you that will drastically increase your velocity when it comes to
getting great results within the entire dating process and finding
Amazing Women.
We’re simply here to present you with an effective and efficient system of practice that allows you to build your own experiences. Verify what we’ve written through your own lived experience and let us know how it’s going for you.
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HANDLE
GIRLS WHO
AREN’T INTO YOU
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If she isn’t into you from the beginning, you have nowhere to go
but away – from her. Immediately. Nothing starts unless she’s
into you. Without initial interest on her end, you can do nothing
to get her to actually like you for who you are as a man. This is
great because now that you know it, it saves you time and money.
Time because when she lets you know right away that she isn’t
into you, you can quickly continue on with your search for a
high-value woman by talking to the the next attractive one you
see. Money because you don’t wind up taking her on a series of
costly dates only to find out she was never all that much interested in you in the first place.
Actually, on second thought, you can get a girl who isn’t into
you from the beginning. You can get her to take advantage of
your money, your status, your attention, your emotions and your
generosity. But since these girls don’t actually like you for who
you are and will dump you once they find a guy with a better
offer, we prefer to avoid them like The Plague.
But there are simply too many gorgeous women with great
attitudes who will like us for who we are as men to accept anything less.
Ever wonder why the ‘players’ never end up with high value
women of exceptional beauty and accomplishment? Because their
tactics are specifically designed to get girls who aren’t into them.
In reality their tactics will only change the minds of girls who use
their sex and looks to take advantage of the the player. Do you
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want to know why ‘players’ have to devise all sorts of tricky
ways of to keep girls interested in them or keep girls from
cheating? Because they are with girls who are still on the hunt they’re still looking for a guy that they actually like! The player is
really just a ‘place-holder’ until her real Prince comes along.
Player be played.
When girls are with players they are always looking for
someone else. When girls are with an Amazing Man she doesn’t
want to even look at anyone else. Which kind of girl do you want
to be with?
Amazing men, men of dignity, self-respect and self-esteem
don’t settle for women who aren’t into us for who we are as men.
There are too many great girls out there to waste time on the ones
who would feign interest in us for ulterior motives.
A girl who wants us for our money does not deserve our
money. A girl who wants us because she wants attention doesn’t
deserve our attention. A girl who wants us because we validate
her does not deserve our validation. A girl who wants us for our
status does not deserve our status. A girl who wants us because
she has low self-esteem does not deserve us boosting her selfesteem. A girl who wants us because we could provide her with a
nice house and a nice car does not deserve the things we provide
her. A girl who wants us because she wants someone to whine
and complain about life to does not deserve her complaints to be
heard by us. A girl who wants us because she wants someone,
anyone to save her does not deserve to be saved by us. A girl who
wants us to work so she doesn’t have to does not deserve our
hard-earned wages.
But a woman who wants you because she adores you and
values who you are as a MAN … this woman deserves
everything that you have to give her. And every second you waste
Chasing a girl who doesn’t deserve what you have to offer is
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another missed opportunity to meet a really Amazing woman of
beauty and accomplishment who DOES deserve you.
Know this – when you strive towards becoming Amazing and
focus on Identifying – with consistent effort you will find really
great women who are into you right from the very beginning. No
tricks. No lines. Simply you, armed with the core qualities that
make you Amazing and the confidence that women only find in
men who have no need to Chase but rather approach them only in
order to Identify.
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THAT YOU CAN MEET
THE WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS
ROOF
Well, there’s a whole lotta people on the planet these days – 6.744
billion of ‘em from what we’ve read.
Of that total, 3.8 billion are between the ages of 18 ~ 40
(approximately 50.5 percent of are male and 49.5 percent
female).
For the sake of our musings here, let’s just automatically disqualify 80% of them for living in the developing world, being in
jail, insane, diseased, married, with children, ugly, stupid or otherwise unavailable and undesirable.
Which gives us a lovely pool of about 380 million women to
look at.
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Now, ‘scientists’ tell us that it’s a simple matter of fact that for
every 50 women a man meets, with one he will experience an
almost immediate chemical attraction to and, better yet, this
‘chemistry’ will be mutual.
(Here’s where we and scientists will sharply disagree:
1. These scientists have OBVIOUSLY never studied the effect
that men like Orlando Bloom, Johnny Depp, Gabriel Aubry, Brad
Pitt, David Conrad, Daniel Craig, Antonio Banderas, George
Clooney, etc, have on women.
2. These scientists are being extremely optimistic. We think
it’s somewhere between 1 in 60 to 1 in 100. Perhaps it’s our background in sales [it’s considered a selling norm that in a fast
market a good salesperson can expect 1 ‘instant’ sale for every 60
prospecting calls he makes, in a slow market the number can be
as lousy as 1 for every 100 prospecting calls to result in an almost
immediate sale], or perhaps it’s our own experiences doing The
Revolution! as regular guys (we’re no Brad Pitts or Orlando
Blooms).
To get down to the real nitty-gritty based on our experience,
for our purposes let’s use a 1 in 100 figure – which brings us to
3.8 million women.
Of these lovely ladies, we can expect 66% of them, despite
their having a powerful, almost instant mutual attraction with us,
to also have any number of personality characteristics / values /
beliefs (read: flaws) that, although not nearly enough to qualify
them for a one-way ticket to a rubber room with a matching
jacket that ties in the back, makes them pretty much unsuitable
for anything that anyone in their right mind would ever consider
calling ‘a relationship.’ We’re talking about girls who are untrustworthy, disloyal, liars, have low self-esteem, are lazy, stupid, dysfunctional, have deep emotional scars and baggage, addictive personalities, etc.
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Basically, Total Train Wrecks.
Fun to play with for a night, no problem.
Fun to have for more than a fling - uh, no.
Really, no.
Just no.
So that leaves us with 1.26 million females.
These 1.26 million women will not only be really great
women to begin with but will also pretty much like us instantly
upon meeting. They’re hot, loyal, trustworthy, have healthy selfesteem, are fun to be with, and will love sex with us. In other
words - for many guys, their dream woman – and that is really as
good as it gets.
Hot Diggety Dawg!
We’ve found the Wonka Tickets!!
THESE are the women most any guy would want in his life.
Especially seeing as he doesn’t have to do much of anything ‘special’ once he meets them other than not mess it all up – he just
needs to make her laugh, keep things light and playful, upbeat
and fun.
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In fact, if all a guy did was meet and talk to as many women
as he possibly could in as short a time as possible (30 or more a
day, perhaps?), and consciously eliminate ALL the ones that
weren’t immediately into his looks and his personality style, as
well as not having the positive personality qualities he was
looking for in a woman, he would invariably find the women of
his dreams in a fairly short amount of time while wasting virtually no time at all on any of the icky out there. He couldn’t NOT
find the great ones, actually.
Anyways, you might want to consider some of these things
really carefully, so the next time you see that beautiful woman
crossing the street in front of you, or notice that gorgeous lady
slowly stirring her drink next to you at the cafe, or when you’re
shocked into awareness as that incredibly sexy one sits down next
to you on the train to work, you’re primed and ready to think to
yourself,
“She just might be one of those Magic 1.26 million that is
totally looking for ME, and all I gotta do to get this ON is open
my mouth and say, “Hi. What’s you name?”
And isn’t that actually the kind of woman you REALLY want
to get?
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PART V
F
MEETING TO
BREAKING UP AND EVERY
STEP ALONG THE WAY
ROM
Take a step back for a moment and look at every romantic interaction between men and women. They are like stories – each one has
a beginning, a middle and an end. Sometimes all three happen
extremely rapidly, like in when a guy greets a woman and she
simply ignores him. Other times, it might be the story of two
people sharing an intense and passionate love, with both ups and
downs that finishes only at the end of their lives.
In this section we'll be covering each of these steps in the story
of relating with women. We'll start at the beginning (finding and
meeting), move on to the middle (calling her, dating, sex and
relating) and finish with the end (breaking up).
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T
PLACES TO
FIND AND MEET
WOMEN YOU LIKE
HIRTY
All the following examples come from real situations that the
guys here at DateMasters have experienced. Of course, the places
you can meet women is infinitely varied. These are simply snapshots of how and where we find and meet attractive women. Our
goal here is to show you what is possible and help you start to
imagine where you can meet women now. We've condensed these
case studies down into quick paragraphs to quickly illustrate the
possibilities.
Remember, we recommend meeting women by being simple
and straightforward: “Hi, what's your name?” followed by a
short, friendly conversation to Identify if she's into you.
This general format applies to virtually all situations with all
women – thus if some of the following examples seem repetitive,
that's because they are. Repetition is good when it works. This
strategy is simple, repeatable and it is very effective when it
comes to Identifying: giving you the opportunity to Identify
whether she's into you or not.
1. Supermarkets – “While pushing my
cart down the pasta aisle, I saw an
attractive woman looking at sauces. I
rolled up next to her, said 'Hello,' and she
turned around. 'What's your name?' I
asked. She smiled, told me, and we had a
quick conversation right there in the
middle of the supermarket. After a short,
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light conversation I asked for her number
so I could call her for a date and then went
on my way. It was simple and straightforward.”
2. The gym – “At the snack bar attached
the gym, I got a protein drink. There was a
cute girl sitting near me. I said 'Hey, what's
up?' and she turned to smile at me. We
talked about the gym for a few minutes, I
made her laugh a bit, then I asked for her
number. She gave it to me, and then I
headed out.”
3. Yoga classes – “As we were wrapping
up our yoga mats, I struck up a conversation with the woman next to me. I said,
“Hey, nice mat.” She replied with a laugh,
“Haha, yeah.” She and I hit off. I invited
her for a quick coffee, so we went to a
nearby cafe after the lesson.”
4. Dance classes – “After the salsa class
wrapped up, I struck up a conversation
with a group of two guys and two pretty
ladies. 'Hey, I'm gonna go grab a burger.
Care to join me?' One guy and two girls
accepted, we went to get burgers. While
we were on the way there, I asked the most
attractive girl for her phone number. The
other girl and the guy there heard me ask,
but didn't care at all.”
5. Museum / art gallery exhibitions –
“At the museum, I saw a girl I wanted to
talk to looking at a painting. I went up to
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her, said “Hello. How you doing?” and
struck up a conversation. We talked about
the painting and the museum and joked
around a bit. It ended up that she had a
boyfriend, but she thanked me for talking
to her before we went different ways.”
6. Coffee shops – “I was sitting a
crowded coffee shop working on my computer when I looked up and caught eyes
with a very pretty woman with long legs.
After she got seated I went over to her seat
and said 'Hello. Can I sit down?' She
nodded while beaming a smile at me. We
hit it off right away, had a fun conversation
and we're still dating a year and a half
later.”
7. Small house parties / dinner parties
– “I had a small house party recently. I
invited 2 co-worker and they both brought
friends. There were six people total. Two
of them were attractive women who I was
meeting for the first time and one of them
seemed interested quite in me. I asked for
her number and she gladly gave it to me.
I'll ask her on a date in a few days.”
8. Friends – “My friend invited me out
for dinner with a small handful of his
coworkers I had never met. We had a good
time – there was a cute girl who I was
interested in and who seemed possibly
interested in me. In order to find out
whether she was interested or not, while
going from the restaurant back to our cars,
I told her to give me her number. She did,
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and a week later when I called she happily
accepted my date offer.”
9. Weddings – “I went to my buddy's
wedding recently. At the reception, I was
having a good time and dancing with
everyone – eventually I found myself dancing with a friend of the bride's sister. I
made sure to say hi and ask for everyone's
name. Out of all the girls there, this girl
was the one I seemed to hit it off best with.
She gave me her number when I asked.
We'll see how things go when I call her up
for a date.”
10. Community theatre / acting classes “I auditioned, got a part and started going
to practices. After one of the practices I
invited out one of the actresses. I had no
clue if she was interested in me or not so I
followed your advice and took action anyways. 'Hey,' I said, 'Let's grab a bite to eat
after practice today.' She agreed. I know it
doesn't sound all that heroic or exciting,
but that's how we met.”
11. Comedy / improv lessons - “Another
group organization where I met lots of
cool people – guys and girls. I wasn't planning on dating any of the girls in my
group, but the night of our first show one
of the pretty members of our group asked
me if I wanted to go ice-skating with her,
just the two of us. I agreed, despite never
having skated before in my life. Things
went pretty well (the date, not the skating
so much), and we've been dating since.”
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12. Bookstores (or any kind of store) – “I
was looking at books when I noticed a
very pretty girl browsing books not too far
from me. So, I went over to her and said,
'Hi.' She smiled at me, I asked her name
and we talked quietly for a couple minutes.
There was a coffee shop in the bookstore
so I invited her to sit down with me. It was
all very simple and very fun. We met up
about a week later for our first real date.”
13. University / Adult education classes
– “I was taking classes for my master's
degree and ended up in a class with a particularly shapely brunette who wore blackrimmed glasses. After the third or fourth
class, I saw her in the library. I said
“Hello,” she smiled back and we joked
around a bit. Before getting back to what
we were doing, I said, “Hey, tell me your
number.” She agreed, and we've been on
three dates since then.”
14. Bars – “I was at a bar with friends celebrating a birthday party. When I went to
the counter to get a drink, a cute . 'Hey,' I
said. 'What's your name?' She stopped,
told me her name, and we had a little chat.
I invited her and her friend to our table,
and they joined us in the festivities for the
rest of the night.”
15. Clubs - “I went in, then walked around
and said “Hello, how are you?” to all the
girls I found attractive. Some of them
smiled and we had short conversations –
others ignored me, and that was okay.
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Once I had done a full 'round' and talked to
all the hot ones, I simply went back to the
hot AND fun ones to see if they were up
for doing something outside the club. One
of them was, and we enjoyed the rest of
the night together.”
16. Large parties - “I went around and
greeted everyone I knew, and made sure to
proactively take opportunities to meet
everyone I didn't know. Along the way, I
made sure to keep my eyes and ears open
to Identify if any women were into me
right from the beginning. A few were, so I
went back to talk to them - I got 3 numbers that evening.”
17. Train stations - “A couple major train
stations are located near my house. Every
day on my way home from work, I walk
through them and they are filled to the
brim with people of all ages and backgrounds – including attractive women in
their mid-20s, my favorite. I always make
sure to do The Revolution! there by
greeting 30 of them every day.”
18. Buses - “Across the aisle, I saw a hot
young girl. I waved at her, she smiled. I
motioned for her to sit next me. She did
and we started talking. I asked her name.
We hit it off pretty good. She gave me her
number soon after. It was a very fun bus
ride to say the least.”
19. Airports – “After checking in early, I
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had plenty of time before my flight.
Instead of just sitting around waiting, I
decided to walk around the terminal and to
my surprise, there were plenty of attractive
women there. Though I hadn't planned on
it until after I arrived at my destination, I
started doing The Revolution right there in
the airport. After talking to a few women
who were traveling to places I never go, I
found one that lived in a city I travel to
often and got her number.”
20. Airplanes – “I sat down on a flight
from Chicago to L.A. It was fairly empty
but there was a pretty girl who sat down in
front of me. After we were both seated I
struck up a conversation with her. Since it
was an uncrowded flight we moved to sit
next to each other to continue our chat.
Even though we live in different cities, I
asked for her number and email. She
gladly gave it to me.”
21. Restaurants – “I noticed a cute girl
kept looking at our group and giggling.
When I went to go get water, she got up
too. I greeted here at the drink bar. Since
we were both with friends, I kept it brief,
asked for her name and number, and after
making her laugh for a minute, headed
back to my seat.”
22. Malls / Department Stores - “At the
mall, my hands were full after doing some
Christmas shopping, but somehow I still
found the time and willpower to approach
the hottest girl I saw that day. “Hi there,” I
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said, peeping my head over a bundle of
boxes I was carrying. She smiled when I
greeted her, we hit it off, and I set down
my boxes so I could get her number a few
minutes later.”
23. Speed Dating – “These events literally
runs themselves. I didn't want to follow
the speed dating 'match up' rules, so I
simply ask every woman I was interested
in for her phone number during the
allotted time.”
24. Walking away from us on the street
– (The street is a personal favorite of many
trainers here at DateMasters for the sheer
endless number of attractive women
flowing through a wide, open space.) “I
wasn't sure if she was as pretty as she
looked, so I hustled a bit to catch up to her.
When I caught up to her side, I turned my
head and said 'Excuse me.' She turned,
opened her eyes wide and said 'Yes?' I
replied, 'What's your name?' From there,
we hit it off and had a quick
conversation.”
25. Walking towards us on the street –
“I was heading out to lunch when I saw a
gorgeously dressed 30's something woman
walking in my direction. I slowed down,
looked at her and said 'Hello!' She smiled
and slowed down. I said 'How ya doing?'
to which she responded by giggling. From
there, we hit it off and had a quick conversation.”
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26. Girls who are working – “She looked
busy, but hot. So, after greeting her and
making her laugh for a minute, I handed
her my business card and told her to give
me a call. In a large enough sample pool,
some of them call me. Another variation
on The Revolution! but in reverse.”
27. Parks - “Every morning I take a jog
through the park. I'm usually dressed in
my gym shorts and a t-shirt, so I'm not
really stylin' all that much during my jog.
But when I see a hottie, I always make
sure to greet her. I've gotten quite a few
dates doing this over the last year.”
28. Subways / trains – “Part of my commute has me on the subway everyday. The
other day I saw a pretty hot college girl
near me on the ride. I said hello and asked
for her name. We had a short, casual conversation for a few minutes before I said
'tell me your phone number.' She said sure.
Fairly simple.”
29. Elevators - “I was on an elevator when
a really pretty girl stepped on. Naturally
(as per your advice), I said hi, asked her
name and made her laugh in the short
amount of time. She was getting off before
me. In order to Identify whether she was
actually into me or just being friendly I
knew I had to ask her number, even though
we hadn't been talking long. I got off on
her floor, told her to wait a second, and
asked. She was more than happy to give
me her number before I got back on the
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elevator.”
30. Online – “I treat online dating just like
The Revolution! I have a nice picture, an
interesting profile and I “approach” (send
messages to) every single girl I think is
attractive. Lots of them don't respond.
That's fine. Some do. I end up hitting it off
really good with lots of cool women online
this way. There's always a new batch of
members every couple months so this
keeps things fresh.”
31. Plus one place we do NOT recommend: Work. Don't do it. With all these
other options of places to meet more
women, why would you ever even consider jeopardizing your livelihood and
career prospects?
C
ALLING
WOMEN FOR DATES
So, you met her, got her number, and now you want to call her for
a date. In our seminars, this issue tends to come up again and
again. “What do I do after I have her phone number?” After practicing what they learn from us, our guys are consistently surprised at
how simple it is to call women for dates. Really, guys make a
much bigger deal about calling women than is necessary. That's
okay because we're going to give you some insight into how to
handle calling women.
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Whenever possible, always make sure you record the following
information when getting a phone number:
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•
•
Her name.
Where you met her.
When you met her (date and day of the week).
Also, when you start to meet lots of women, you'll want to record a
brief description of her so you can remember her. For example:
what she was wearing, any distinguishing features, anything notable that she said or did. All of this will make it that much easier
for you when you call her up to schedule a date.
In our seminars we recommend guys wait about 5 to 9 days
before calling her to schedule a date. We also recommend you
avoid calling her on weekends or holidays. Typically, the best time
to call is in the evening before 9pm, if you can.
Now remember, you only have one reason for calling her: You
want to invite her on a date. That's it. You're simply calling her to
ask for a date. No more, no less. With this in mind, we keep all our
phone conversations short and to the point. You're not there to
make fluffy conversation, tell her about the cool party you went to,
or ask her to unload all her problems on you. No bantering, no silly
stories, no long-winded conversation.
So, you invite her on the date. She'll either say yes (good) or
she'll say no, make excuses and otherwise do her best job of
avoiding giving you a definite answer (also good). If she's not
eager and willing to go on a date with you and you find yourself
jumping through hoops just to try to schedule a date with her,
you're better off meeting more women. You can be sure that this
girl isn't really all that into you. Any further pushing on your part
will only end up with you Chasing her around like a lost puppy
while she is still out looking for a guy she actually likes (and no,
you aren't going to change her mind). Trying to convince her to go
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on a date with you when she isn't eager for it is really just setting
yourself up to get emotionally and financially drained by a girl
who knows how to use your good intentions against you. When a
girl with a Good Attitude likes a guy, she jumps at the chance to
meet him for a date.
Phones are for setting up dates. Once you've scheduled the
date, there is no need keep contacting her until she shows up at the
agreed upon time and location of the date. Women who have their
act together and are interested in you keep their word and show up
for dates. If she doesn't show up for the date, well, consider yourself lucky that you found out she was dishonest, unreliable, disrespectful towards men in general and you in particular, plus completely uninterested in you before you wasted any more time and
energy on her. Recommendation: go meet more women!
S
TESTED DATE PLANS
YOU CAN USE NOW
IX
Here are 6 great date plans that we've tested extensively and successfully for you to use again and again. You can use all of these
date plans exactly as they are written. Or, you can mix and match
activities and meals that you prefer. These are simply some tried
and tested ideas that we've had lots of experience and success
using.
•
Date 1: Short Coffee Date – A great
first date is a short coffee date to get to
know her better and find out if you
want to take her on a proper date. Ask
her questions, make her laugh, listen to
what she says. You can learn treasure
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troves of information about her from a
quick 45-60 minute date, including
whether or not you'd even like to see
her again. We highly recommend this
over any sit down restaurant in the
beginning. This avoids any awkward
dinner dates between two people who
don't actually have any chemistry. Awkward coffee dates don't happen, because
if she's a total bore, you can wrap things
up pretty quickly by saying “Hey, I had
a fun time talking with you. Gotta go
now. Bye.”
•
Date 2: Darts & Ice Cream - Darts is
another great first or second date. It's
active and gets her moving around.
Also, it's still fun whether you have any
skill at darts or not. In the case that you
do have some experience with darts,
you can show her how to play if she
doesn't know. Or if you both don't have
any skills, then you'll have lots of
laughs whenever either one misses the
dart board. Ice cream, like coffee above,
is another short non-committal, inexpensive 'meal' that you can sit down
over and make light, playful, fun conversation.
•
Date 3: Billiards & Drinks – We
really like keeping all our dates active,
especially the early ones. Billiards, like
the darts above, follows in that same
pattern. If she's really bad at billiards
feel free to help her out by giving her
some easy shots. Point at something
across the room and when she looks
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away line up an easy shot for her (it's
also funny to change an easy shot to an
impossible one). Remember, the point
is to have fun, not beating her at billiards. Likewise, getting drinks follows the same pattern as coffee and ice
cream: 45-60 minute and relatively
inexpensive compared with ordering a
proper meal (which we save for
women who have shown us good behavior over the course of multiple dates).
•
Date 4: Ping Pong & Light Meal – All
the things about darts and billiards
above are applicable to ping-pong as
well – active, gets her moving, and it's
fun. Check around at local sports clubs,
gyms, rec centers or arcades to find a
place to play. After you've been on two
or three dates with her, and know that
things are going pretty well so far, you
can sit down for a proper meal, but keep
it light. (Save all the fancy-pants
expensive stuff until you've been dating
her for a while... a LONG while).
Something like sandwiches or street
vendor food tends to work well.
•
Date 5: Park & Picnic - Go take a
walk in a park. Bring some a couple
mitts and a baseball to play catch. Or
bring a Frisbee and toss that around.
You can even play tag, giving her the
chance to unleash her inner child. Also,
bring along a blanket or tarp, some
paper plates and cups, food, drinks and
have a little picnic. Make sure you let
her know you're going to the park so
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she can dress appropriately and so she
can bring some food or drinks to
impress you with.
•
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Date 6: Bowling & Small Ethnic
Food Place – Bowling keeps it active,
as with the other activities we've mentioned here. For the restaurant, ideally
we want an out-of-the-way and comfortable ethnic food restaurant that
when she walks in, she'll be amazed
enough to say “How did you ever find
this place?” while still keeping it inexpensive. The key is to keep her
guessing and wondering about you.
One of the easiest way to do that is
with unique, interesting date locations.
BIG MISTAKES THAT
HURT YOUR SEX LIFE
OUR
Mistake #1: There's an idea that getting all grabby and touchy
with girls turns them on and makes them horny. That's a misleading half-truth at best, and pure unicorn grade mythology at
worst. Simply not how it works. Keep your hands to yourself –
this allows you to be cool, chill and normal in all situations,
greatly enabling your ability to meet more women. Practice selfcontrol, and let her touch you first. Beautiful women with great
attitudes who really like you will literally jump you for sex (even
the first time) when you stay patient and in control of yourself.
When your touch is rare, she will appreciate it, desire it, and may
actually feel turned on by it than if you are constantly grabby and
hounding her for sex.
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Mistake #2: Another weird idea out there is that sex is a magical
bonding glue. Some guys think that if they can work their way
into a girl's pants, that he'll be able to keep her. This just isn't true.
Just because two people had sex doesn't mean they're gonna be
magical special soul-mates forever and ever. It's just isn't so –
there are a variety of other factors in play when determining the
length and quality of a relationship besides sex. We recommend
keeping your emotions in check until you've really gotten to
know a girl, both in and out of the bedroom.
Mistake #3: Have 'sex talk' until long into the relationship.
Bottom line - IT'S A TRAP. Guys are way too eager to make dirty
jokes and talk about sex with girls, which is only encouraged by
all the BS advice out there about how “Ya gotta show her your
sexual side. Talk about sex stuff to show her how comfortable
you are!” Nope. If she isn't into the guy talking about sex, there's
the very real possibility that things will turn awkward and blow
up (which ultimately is still fine, because you know that the solution to that problem is to go meet more women). And in the case
when a woman likes you, then TALKING about sex is the last
thing she wants to do. Actions speak louder than words – give her
a chance to jump you. At best, dudes' sex talk will be written off
as 'it must be a guy thing.' At worst, it turns her off completely
and ruin their chances with a really great girl. There's also the
dark possibility of running into a girl who knows guys like talking
sex so she teases with sex talk while draining their wallets, emotions and sanity.
Mistake #4: Sticking with girls who have a bad attitude and/or
aren't into you, just because she's willing to have sex – simply
one of the most destructive things that can happen to any given
man's life. Try looking at what's at stake 10-15 years down the
road with this kind of behavior. Half your net-worth, plus alimony, housing payment, child support all because fear of loneliness (remedied by meeting more women) overpowered the
obvious problems with her attitude and/or that she wasn't totally
into him. Be careful out there. How many guys have you met
who have had their emotions and sanity gutted because they were
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suckered into staying with a girl who was a poor match because
of sex? We know we've seen way too many guys walking around
in a virtual living hell because they keep any woman in their life
who gives them sex regardless of how badly she treats him or
how much she nags him.
F
BIG TIPS TO
BUILD A ROCKIN' SEX LIFE
OUR
Tip #1: Commit to mastery and gradually increase skills. As with
all skills, you can improve at sex. By committing to becoming a
more masterful lover, you'll benefit from an increased quality
(and possibly quantity) of sexual experiences. That means
striving to learn more, trying new things, taking a look at the long
game and reflecting back analytically on your experiences. Plus,
it's always fun to see a really great woman literally passing out
because her brain is so scrambled from orgasm after orgasm. This
won't make a bad relationship good, but it will make a great relationship Amazing.
Tip #2: Mix things up. Variety helps both partners stay excited
and helps couples prevent getting into a boring routine. Every
time you have sex with your partner, we recommend doing at
least a little bit something different every time. We're sure you
can come up with some ideas of things you'd like to try with your
lady. And if you can't, there's plenty of sources of inspiration
available everywhere on the internet. When your woman is into
you and Open-minded (and we always recommend our guys date
Open-minded women) then she will be happy to try new things
with you.
Tip #3: Identify woman who are into you. The quality of sex
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when both partners are totally into each other is phenomenal. And
the inverse is true as well – it's not very much fun when one or
both of the partners aren't into each other. The long-term emotional and self-esteem damage from having sex with women who
don't actually like you is something that no man needs to settle
for. Likewise, when you meet a lot of women, there is no need to
ever have sex with a woman who doesn't completely rock your
world. There's an old saying: Bad sex is like bad pizza – it's still
good. We disagree. Bad sex and bad pizza are bad – stick with the
good stuff. And not on any moral ground either, simply out pure
rational self interest. Guys who are willing to accept woman who
don't actually like them into their lives get what they bargained
for: a sub-par sex life devoid of any passion.
Tip #4: After Identifying one who's into you, give her the chance
to Chase you. This, of course, depends on your being able
Identify women who are into you. Consider that sex with girls
who are into you is far and away better and more frequent than
sex with girls who aren't. When she Chases you, she is the one
who wants to initiate make-outs, initiate taking off clothes, initiate intimate touching and initiate just about everything else. In
our experience, this is much more fun for both partners.
H
TO KEEP
A GOOD THING GOING
OW
This part is easy. Want to keep it going? Keep doing what worked
in the first place!
Keep things light, playful and fun... Forever. When you do this,
you can keep a great thing going strong for the rest of your life.
Our research confirms it. When you meet a really great girl, 'make
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her laugh' should be your mantra for the next 50 to 100 years. Save
getting serious for your funeral. Life is for living.
Too many guys lapse into laziness or get too serious way too
fast. They think, “YEAH, I GOT DA GIRL!” At that point, they've
begun to do something different from what they were doing before
they 'got the girl.' Lots of guys screw it up by getting serious on a
girl, ruining all of the fun, excitement and romance for her. Of
course, it's totally fine if you happen to mess up. When you screw
things up you grow. After learning from the school of hard-knocks,
we can say that the best way to bounce back after messing up a
good thing is to go put new knowledge to work by... Surprise! Go
meet more women! And keep in mind all the new lessons and
experiences.
Don't settle or compromise for a woman who isn't the love of
your life. If you ever catch yourself thinking, “Well, she's good
enough...” – that's called rationalizing. It means you need to get up,
get out and go meet more women.
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HIRTY-ONE
WAYS
TO GET OVER A BREAKUP
One way for guys to deal with a breakup is going into a wanton
spiral of depression, self-destruction, not shaving and emo music.
While this continues to be one of the most popular methods that
guys process the end of a relationship, we have some severe doubts
about its effectiveness.
Fortunately, we have an alternative 31 ways to get your life
back in the swing of things should you feel emotional about a
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breakup.
First, make a commitment: “No matter what, I'm going to take
action... MASSIVE action... To get my life back in gear after any
and all breakups.”
The great thing about this commitment is that you can make it
whether you're still in a relationship, recently single or a chronic
bachelor... Because who knows what the future may bring?
Doesn't matter when, what matters is that you decide right now
that:
“Yes. I'm willing to take MASSIVE action on my dating life.
Regardless of how I feel. Regardless of my circumstances.
Regardless of whatever may try and stop me. I'm now taking
action.”
Once you've seriously considered this commitment, written it
down on paper, made the emotional investment in it and are ready
to put it into practice, then the hard part is done!
The other thirty reasons are as follows:
Get up, get suited up, get out, and head to where the highest
amount of the most attractive women are walking around. Say
“Hi, what's your name?” to 30 women.
That's it!
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Step 1: Make the commitment.
Step 2 – 31: Approach a girl and say “Hi, what's your name?”
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Repeat this daily. Every day. Especially on days when you don't
'feel like it.'
A recent or impending breakup may make us 'sad,' but by getting out and talking to 30 women every single day, not only are
we on the right track, we're also doing everything we possibly
can to get to where we want to be. This allows us to feel good and
feel motivated to kick it, get up, get out and go meet 30 women
every single day, looking for the next great woman to come into
our lives.
We aren't trying to interrupt, push aside or deny any negative
emotions that may arise as a side-effect of the breakup. Rather,
we accept those emotions as a sign that things need to change.
And when we need to change things, we get into high gear. Thus,
those emotions are simply a sign-post of where we're going in
life.
Take the word “depression.” Depression is a lack of action.
Stagnation. If look at the word “depress,” you can break it down
to “de” and “press.” “De,” the prefix for “not,” and “press,” as in
“press on,” or “press forward.” By not pressing on, guys stop
taking action, get stagnant and end up feeling pity for themselves.
Looking at it like this, the solution is easy – Take action. We
take action regardless of our individual present mental state or
mood (only girls let their success and actions be dictated by their
feelings, state or mood). This serves as a rock solid foundation to
progress forward towards goals in the face of the inevitable ups
and downs we face in life. The bigger, the better, the more bold,
audacious, stronger, faster the action you take in life, the quicker
you make progress.
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PART VI
M
REAL
LIFE REPORTS
ORE
In this section, we're presenting more case studies from DateMasters trainers and students to show you more examples of both
what to do and what NOT to do. We ask relevant questions
before and after every Case Study. Put forth some time and effort
answering them – we want you to engage with page – that way
you'll actually be learning. Just skimming through these case
studies without doing the exercises or answering the questions is
fine too, as long as you're willing to accept slower growth, less
knowledge and a more superficial understanding of women and
dating.
So, we recommend busting out those colored markers and
pens if you haven't already, start taking notes, answering (and
asking!) questions and consciously considering all the information being presented to you.
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WALK AWAY FROM
A DISRESPECTFUL WOMAN
OW TO
While you read this report here are some points to pay attention
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to:
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Notice when he is Identifying (or failing to Identify).
Notice when he is Chasing (or refusing to Chase).
How does he show that he has self-respect in this situation?
Where does he display Confidence?
How are his actions a result of living in an Abundance Reality?
How does he save time, money and emotional energy?
How will his actions help him with women in the future?
The Story
“I met a girl at a party about a month ago. I remembered she had a
really cute face. When I gave her a call and invited her out for
coffee, she agreed. The day of the date, she called me an hour
before our agreed meeting and I answered my phone. She asked
to move the date up by 30 minutes, to which I agreed.
We met at our newly agreed time in front of a coffee shop
downtown. I was surprised at her appearance, she was less
attractive than I had remembered her. Her face... not so cute.
She's not all dolled up like she was at the party, which made
sense. Anyway, she immediately started asking about the suit I
was wearing. I joked around by saying I had just come from a
meeting with the President and then went into funny stuff. I
started walking into the coffee shop and she was like "Nononono
not coffee. I'm hungry.”
We negotiated on where to go location – we chose a nearby
hamburger shop instead. She had proven herself stubborn so far,
certainly not long term dating material. I ate my onion rings
pretty quickly and she went to work on her burger. She refused to
let me pay when I offered.
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While eating, she hounded me with questions trying to find
out about my job relentlessly. Having been on three coffee dates
in the last 8 days, I KNOW that my style of humor is funny to
some women, and I KNOW that those women who found we
funny were considerably more attractive than her.
Yet she did not laugh at my jokes and was visibly annoyed.
I told her she can ask me one serious question a day. She
agreed, then asked about my job. I told her my current job status.
Then she asked a followup question about how much money I
make now. I started going back to funny answers that made hotter
women laugh harder last week, yet this girl was not amused. And
then she went back AND ASKED ABOUT MY JOB AGAIN?!
Even though I had told her exactly what I do already?!
At this point I was thinking I should bail, but I remembered
Douglas Hall told me during my Dating and Relating Mastery
Seminar to "not bail on dates, but rather learn from the girl and
keep practicing the skills."
So I decided to bust out some interview questions to learn
more about her.
Me: So, tell meHer: (interrupting) I'm not gonna answer until you tell me
your job.
Me: Um, no, actually, tell me one thing you like about yourself.
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Her: If you don't answer me, we can't talk about anything
else!
Me: I already told my job when you asked me your one serious question for the day. So you already know what it is. But you
still want to ask me again?
Her: Yeah! I think you're suspicious!
Me: (smiling and joking) I'm an adviser to the President. You
see, today we talked about the economicHer: (now openly annoyed) Ok, if you don't answer me
straight, the next time you call me... I won't answer my phone.
At this point I started laughing. She's stubborn (not long term
dating material), not hot (unattractive sexually), she's not
laughing at my funny jokes (not fun for me), and mostly importantly disrespectful by trying to her guilt trip me with "I won't
answer my phone if you don't tell me what income bracket you're
in.”
On top of that, she's not answering the interview questions
which was the main reason I was still around. I didn't have anything left to get from being there.
Me: (melodramatic) Ohhh! The pain! You've wounded me
forever and it will never heal! (switching to neutral) ...So what
else are you gonna do if I don't answer your question?
Her: ... I've had enough.
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I stood up and shook her hand.
Me: Thanks. I had fun.
Her: Ah! Oh, you're leaving!? I thought you had another 30
minutes---Me: (interrupting) Bye now.
I was gone before her sentence was finished. Not gentlemanly. But she said she had enough, and I had had enough as
well. I spent the 30 minutes I saved at a different coffee shop
working on a project with some friends. A much better use of my
time.
I made some mistakes... Like answering my phone without
thinking about the consequences of doing so. I was caught off
guard with the time reschedules and gave in without thinking.
Next, I negotiated about time / meeting locations. If women aren't
down for my offers, I feel I should just let them go and maybe
give them one more try the next week during calls.
After walking out on her... I thought maybe I should have just
caved in and answered her stupid questions about job, salary, etc.
Was it not gentlemanly to walk out on the date like that? I could
have left in a bit more polite way while still being time efficient...
but to be honest, it felt so good to get out of there.”
Your Analysis
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hope that you follow this general format for analyzing your own
experiences. As with all of our exercises, the more you put in, the
more you'll get out. Then you'll be able to compare your analysis
to ours. The closer your answer is to ours the better. It means
you're really starting to internalize everything you're learning.
What did he do wrong? ________________________
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What did he do right? _________________________
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What can he do better next time? _________________
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Our Analysis
This is a hilarious coffee date! Just imagine 'plowing' on that one.
Seriously though, when a girl has an attitude this bad we don't
even bother 'practicing' our dating skills.
It's good to see a man handling things with this level of
aplomb. It's an excellent REAL-LIFE story, a hardcore reference
for what we do as really Amazing Men. He handled it quite well.
He was funny and not taking her seriously... until she became
disrespectful him. Heck, he even gave her the benefit of the doubt
for awhile and hung around longer than he really needed to.
Always remember: 90% of the time we use humor to make
our points and keep things flowing in a fun way, and 10% of the
time we need to get serious with them – "Wait a second! What
did you say? No, no, what did you say?! What kind of attitude is
that? Look this is a date and dates are supposed to be fun and if
you can't chill and relax and make this fun then let's just close
this down right now and go our separate ways. Is that what you
want to do?"
Girls need to know where that 'line that cannot be crossed is'
and sometimes you've just got to check them hard just so they
know that it's there. Girls call them 'tests.'
Truth be told, we keep it pretty raw these days and don't even
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bother with the above speech - we're just outta there. There are
simply too many beautiful women who are fun with Good Attitudes.
Heck, if she even greets us wrong, we're gone.
And if she THINKS about testing us, we go straight into 'Get
outta my face' mode.
It doesn't even get to the 'test' point - SCHOOL IS OVER,
DARLIN' - WE GRADUATED. WE DON'T TAKE NO MORE '
TESTS.'
Our guys don't get 'tested' by women. Why? Because we live
in an Abundance Reality full of high value women who are both
beautiful and have great Attitudes. Our experience shows that
high value women (beautiful, great Attitude) won't 'test' you when
they really like you. Use humor as your primary method of communication and you'll find that 'tests' disappear and turn into fun,
relaxed experiences with great women. If you're using humor and
she's not laughing then you're better off finding a girl who isn't
such a bug up her butt.
If you feel like you are being 'tested' it means one or all of
three things:
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You've Identified that she's just not into you (Go find a girl who
likes you).
You've Identified that she has a bad Attitude (She's gonna make
your life hell every step of the way).
You're taking the situation way too seriously and not using
humor (lighten up!).
As for the question, “Was it un-gentlemanly to walk out on the
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date like that?” As opposed to what? Caving, answering her
overly-prying questions and surrendering your self-respect?
No way!! She wasn't even trying to be friendly... She was getting an estimate of his monetary value to her AND being disrespectful about it at the same time. That girl and her rapport
were for sale. He wasn't making an offer so she got angry. Our
guy gained a lot more by leaving than he could have by staying a
few extra minutes and questioning this particular girl. Can't really
can't get any more gentlemanly than he did.
He was able to tell her to get lost using a handshake and
thanking her for a good time. THAT takes class.
He did right. This girl was a hard-case. Can you imagine
what's gonna be in store for her next boyfriend?
Quite simply, some girls do not come into the whole dating
game with the same kind of class, manners, and style as we do.
The less time you spend with girls like this – the more time you
have to give to women who really deserve your attention.
Just charge her to the Game and be done with her.
It makes your life easier and frees you up to meet a woman
who makes you really happy.
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GET PHONE
NUMBERS FROM GIRLS WHO
ARE ON THE FENCE
OW TO
While you read this report ask yourself the following questions:
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How does he attempt to Identify?
Where does he fail to thoroughly Identify?
Where does he display Confidence?
How is he straightforward with the woman?
The Story
“I was just sitting down at in a coffee shop when I noticed a cute
university student next to me. Immediately we greeted each other
with a mutual "Hello." I asked her name, said “Nice to meet you,”
and shook her hand. She asked for my name immediately after
the handshake. Things seemed to be going well.
We joked around a bit. I told her I came here by horse, which
is tethered up right outside. I'm here at this cafe to get some
coffee for the trip back down to the ranch. (We're in middle of a
downtown metropolis.) She was laughing a bunch, so after bantering for about another minute or two...
Me: “What's your phone number?”
Her: “Huh?! Why?”
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Me: “I want it because I'd like to call you and ask you out on
a date.”
Her: “...??? Where are you from?! Do you live around here?!”
Me: “No, I'm from the ranch like I told you.”
Her: “Hahaha!”
So I went back to bantering and joking around since she didn't
tell me right away. I felt pretty nervous. I wanted to ask her
number again, but since she didn't tell the first time... I didn't
want to start Chasing by pushing for her phone number. I turned
away at a lull in the conversation. She left about 15 minutes later.
Your Analysis
Spend a few minutes answering these questions. Eventually, we
hope that you follow this general format for analyzing your own
experiences. As with all of our exercises, the more you put in, the
more you'll get out. Then you'll be able to compare your analysis
to ours. The closer your answer is to ours the better. It means
you're really starting to internalize everything you're learning.
What did he do wrong? ________________________
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What did he do right? _________________________
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What can he do better next time? _________________
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Our Analysis
Overall, he did 'okay.' But really, if he wants to Identify, he needs
to press the issue a bit more. Some girls who might actually be
interested in you (as you'll see later) aren't quite sure how to react
the first time you ask for their number. If she really isn't into you,
you'll find out when you ask for a clear answer from her.
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The truth always comes out in time so continue moving forward until you know for certain.
We recommend you run it something like this:
You: “What's your phone number?”
Her: “Huh?! Why?”
Me: “I want it so I can call you and ask you out on a date.”
Her: “...??? Where are you from?! Do you live around here?!”
Me: “Yes. What's your phone number?” (get out pen and
paper and hand it to her)
Her: “Ummmmmmm-”
Me: “Really, it's okay. I want your phone number so I can call
you up and ask you out on a date. Do you want to give me your
phone number, or not? (Gentle smile, soft eyes, neutral tone of
voice.)”
At this point she has to make a yes/no decision.
If yes, good. Get her phone number and continue talking to
her. If no, smile gently and say, "I had a fun time talking to you
and hope you have a great day. Bye," and walk away.
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Anything besides yes or no at this point is a non-sequitur. So
if she spouts some more nonsense besides yes or no, go straight
back to the issue of whether she'll give me her phone number or
not.
Her: (non-sequitur)
Me: “Really, it's okay. Tell me your phone number. Or would
you rather not? Yes is good, no is okay, too. What do you want to
do?”
Remember: Her saying 'no' is just as good as her saying 'yes.'
Both answers are fine. We want to give her space to say 'no'
because our research shows – giving her space to say 'no' gives
the really great ones space to say 'yes, please!'
When you can handle 'no' like a Confident, self-assured man,
you'll find that you start to hear 'yes' a whole lot more.
The Follow-up Story
“So while I doing The Revolution! later that week, I ran into a
very similar situation again. It was nice, because I could see my
progress from taking your advice.
I saw a hot business woman walking around downtown...
Me: “Hello”
Her: “???”
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Me: “You're cute so I wanted to talk to you. What's your
name?”
Her: (laughter) “I'm M.”
Me: “Where are you going?”
Her: “I have to get to a meeting, I'm in a hurry.”
Me: “Ok. Well I want to take you on a date. Let's get coffee
next time. What's your phone number?”
Her: “?!?! ...What?!”
At this point, I went into joking around and bantering- she
laughed and eased up a bit. Then I asked her again about 1.5
minutes later.
Me: “...and monkeys.”
Her: “Hahahaha!”
Me: “Hah. Yeah. So. Coffee date. Phone number.”
Her: (happily) “Ok. Here it is.”
I collected that number, told her I had a fun time talking to
her, wished her a pleasant day, said goodbye to her, put the
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number in my pocket and walked off.”
Your Follow-up Analysis
Spend a few minutes answering these questions. Eventually, we
hope that you follow this general format for analyzing your own
experiences. As with all of our exercises, the more you put in, the
more you'll get out. Then you'll be able to compare your analysis
to ours. The closer your answer is to ours the better. It means
you're really starting to internalize everything you're learning.
What did he do wrong? ________________________
_____________________________________________
_____________________________________________
_____________________________________________
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_____________________________________________
What did he do right? _________________________
_____________________________________________
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What can he do better next time? _________________
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Our Follow-up Analysis
When you start meeting a lot of women, you'll run into cases
where the woman is on the fence about giving you her number.
Take this as a chance to make her laugh before she makes a
decision. She doesn't know what she's buying yet. "I'm not sure,"
isn't a real reason to disqualify her because you still don't know
whether she's interested in what you're offering her. "I'm not
sure" is actually okay to ignore – it's a non-sequitur.
If she's truly NOT into us (which is fine), then she'll have to
walk away or say NO directly to a phone number request before
we thank her for the experience and move on.
Really, our guy could have offered to escort this woman to her
meeting in order to continue the conversation.
There's nothing wrong with talking with a girl for a few
minutes (up to 10 or so) in order for her to take your measure and
give you a chance to see if what you have to say 'moves' her
(read: makes you more attractive to her).
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If you're her type, have the kind of personality she likes, and
can – with your witty, charming, light-hearted bantering and
teasing – make her laugh and smile, she'll more than likely be
willing to give you her home phone number and go on a date with
you. Assuming, of course, that she doesn't have a boyfriend or
husband.
W
YOU SHOULD
KEEP YOUR EMOTIONS
IN CHECK
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Here's a study of guy shooting himself in the foot and not realizing it.
While you read ask yourself the following questions •
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How could problems in this case study be solved by Meeting
More Women?
Where is he making things more difficult for himself than he
needs to?
Where is he persuading?
Where is he losing self-respect by persuading?
Where is he Chasing?
How is he wasting time, money and emotions by Chasing?
How could he benefit by Identifying?
How could he benefit by being willing to take no for an answer?
How could he benefit by being willing to say no?
How could he benefit by disqualifying this woman?
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As you do this more and more, the closer your answers get to our
commentary, the more you know you're on the right track.
The Story
“I was out drinking a couple weeks back with my friends when I
met this cute 25 year old – and we ended up going back home
together and hooking up. The next day, she lingered around my
apartment and although I kinda wanted her out, she stuck
around... I took this as a sign she was into me.
Before she left, I invited her out on a date to get some food
about a week later. Later, she texted me: "Hey I had a lot of fun.
That was nice of you to make breakfast =) How about next
Tuesday for Italian?" I was really looking forward to hooking up
with her again, this time sober. The day before our date, I got this:
"Sorry but I can't go to your place... My parents are visiting for a
few days. I'll see you some other time."
I decided to send her another message the next day.
“I'm having a pizza party at my place this week. When is
good for you?” I wasn't sure if saying 'My schedule is pretty
tight, but might be able to do something this day or this day,'
would have been a better choice... Mistake?
Her reply:
“Hey... Who's all coming to the party? It sounds fun! But
actually I already have plans for every night this week. Also, I'll
be out of town for the 3 day weekend. Hope you have another
party later on. Cya!”
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How can she be so busy? I don't know where I went wrong.
Don't think I over-pursued her... Maybe I under-pursued her? Is
that possible? Looking more and more like a one-night stand,
which I should be happy about.....but I'm not.
What can I do to get this girl to see me again?”
Your Analysis
Spend a few minutes answering these questions. Eventually, we
hope that you follow this general format for analyzing your own
experiences. As with all of our exercises, the more you put in, the
more you'll get out. Then you'll be able to compare your analysis
to ours. The closer your answer is to ours the better. It means
you're really starting to internalize everything you're learning.
What did he do wrong? ________________________
_____________________________________________
_____________________________________________
_____________________________________________
_____________________________________________
_____________________________________________
What did he do right? _________________________
_____________________________________________
_____________________________________________
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What can he do better next time? _________________
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Our Analysis
See what's wrong with this situation? The guy is Chasing; plus
sounding desperate, needy and clingy.
She's letting him know in Female-ese, "You're out."
It's over. Guys aren't the only ones who want a simple onenight stand and nothing more. He could have saved himself a lot
of emotional grief if he was focused on Identifying whether she
was actually into him. Instead, he pinned all his hopes in Chasing
the next “hookup” regardless of whether this girl was interested
in him.
IF he was Identifying, he would have pulled in the reigns on
his emotions. Nothing sets you up for emotionally wrecking
yourself like Chasing a girl who really isn't into you.
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The biggest mistake this guy made was letting his emotions
run wild. This, in turn, made him less and less attractive, and it
made it much more difficult for him to see what was really happening.
When guys Chase, they play a losing game. How? Because
when a girl leaves (and she always does when you Chase) this
hits you emotionally as a failure. When you Identify, every situation becomes a success, so long as you've verified that she is or
isn't into you. This makes it exponentially easier to feel Confident, have fun, and become more attractive to high value
women.
Instead, he got his ego invested in convincing a girl to see him
again, when it should have been obvious that she wasn't all that
into him (remember, just because she has sex with you doesn't
mean she likes you).
“In fast, out fast” we like to say. Stop beating a dead horse.
Guys gotta read between the lines and understand what she's
REALLY trying to communicate. ("Thanks for thinking of me.
No, I don't want to see you again. Please leave me alone. Bye.")
If she had REALLY wanted to see him again she would have
nailed down a specific day after she got back from her trip. She
didn't so you knows he's not all that as far as she's concerned.
But, if you find yourself in a situation like this – don't just
take our word for it! Call her a few days after the 3-day weekend
and make another offer!
You: "Hey, Let's meet up for darts and Italian on Monday.
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How does that sound?"
If she accepts, great.
If not, and she doesn't make a counteroffer – well, you definitely know the score.
Guys gotta learn for themselves. Believing us (or anyone else
for that matter) without YOUR HAVING THE LIVED EXPERIENCE is just plain stupid.
New guys should ALWAYS keep chasing her – after awhile a
little light will go on in your head and you'll think "Holy Moley!
DateMasters was right, this is so not going anywhere. NOW I see
it."
Then you can recognize it happening a lot faster in the future.
Our job is to make it easier for you to see things clearly - but
in the end it's YOU who has to do the looking.
By the way – a he shouldn't have offered to take her out for
food as she was leaving your place that first time. Another textbook example of Chasing. Instead...
You: "Hey, I had a fun time. Bye."
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WOMEN ARE CHALLENGES
YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG
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While you read ask yourself the following questions •
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How could problems in this case study be solved by Meeting
More Women?
How could this guy have better handled himself in this situation?
How could he have avoided these issues or even the whole situation?
Where is he making things more difficult for himself than he
needs to?
Where is he persuading?
Where is he Chasing?
How could he benefit by... Identifying?
Being straightforward with her?
Being willing to take no for an answer?
Disqualifying?
The Story
“So, I was dating this girl a while back, but now we're broken up
because I didn't want to be her boyfriend. Here's the situation
with her now...
She's always keen to meet and typically we meet with little
planning. Like she'll just have some random free-time and we
will get together. She'll refuse any direct meeting within walking
distance of my house.
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She'll refuse any direct plans that's just the two of us. She will
touch casually anytime and anyplace. She's done it right in front
of her boyfriend before. (Did I mention she has a new
boyfriend?) Trying to get into a sexy time mood with her seems
to weird her out. Touching her sometimes does too.
In fact typically as soon as as I start making out with her, she
starts talking about needing to go home.
I'm stuck, but I love a challenge so its hard to stop trying.
Also, I feel like if I just wait until she breaks up with boyfriend,
the victory will be less sweet. (Not to mention she'll just want me
to be her boyfriend all over again …)”
Your Analysis
Spend a few minutes answering these questions. Eventually, we
hope that you follow this general format for analyzing your own
experiences. As with all of our exercises, the more you put in, the
more you'll get out. Then you'll be able to compare your analysis
to ours. The closer your answer is to ours the better. It means
you're really starting to internalize everything you're learning.
What did he do wrong? ________________________
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What did he do right? _________________________
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What can he do better next time? _________________
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Our Analysis
If you noticed that this girl is playing this guy like a violin then
you're learning well. The only reason she's still around this guy is
purely for the entertainment value.
Obviously we can Identify that this woman has very little loyalty or honesty. She has another boyfriend. Meanwhile, she's
leading him on, touching him, making out, feigning interest but
then avoiding any actual romantic encounter. If this girl were an
honest, loyal high value woman with a good attitude, she
wouldn't have anything to do with this guy.
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This guy is trying to be a player. Like all players, he ends up
getting played. The only kind of girl who would keep a guy like
this in her back pocket is a girl with issues. She's stringing him
along because he gives her a self-esteem boost. “Look at all the
guys chasing after me!”
How about that for a messed up situation. By Chasing, he
makes certain that he will:
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Get disqualified by high value, honest women.
Get strung along by girls with issues.
“I love a challenge.” Ha. Yeah, that's pretty easy to see. Textbook
Chasing, there. Try-hard.
The girl can see it even more clearly. And she's playing him.
He's making a complete fool of himself (and draining himself
emotionally) EVERY time he has an interaction with her.
Every move, every play, every gambit, every strategy; she
knows what he's gonna do before he even thinks about it. She
knew before he got outta bed.
Trying to get into the panties of an ex who's no longer even
available? What a gigantic waste of time, not to mention a drain
on his self-esteem / self-respect. He should have deleted the contact info for this girl a LONG TIME AGO.
It would do this guy well to get out and Meet More Women.
Preferably 30 a day, every day forever, while searching for one of
the million+ SINGLE women in the city he lives in who are hot,
high value and dying to meet a great guy.
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High value women are not challenges when they really like a
guy. If she is a challenge – you're doing something wrong. Either
she isn't high value or she isn't really into you. In both cases, we
recommend going out to meet a whole lot more women.
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GIRLS
ONE TRAIN WRECK
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One of our students had this heart riveting tale to tell. While you
read ask yourself the following questions •
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How could problems in this study be solved by Meeting More
Women?
How could this student have better handled himself in this situation?
How could he benefit by... Identifying?
Saying no?
Being willing to take no for an answer?
Disqualifying?
Our Analysis
“A friend of mine (we'll call him Mark) met a cute girl at his
workplace. They got together over the winter holiday and became
a couple. She integrated right into our group of friends and
everything was great. A year later, they moved in together and
even bought a puppy.
Three years later, he was getting ready to propose to her, but
before doing so, she informed him that she won't marry him
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unless he has at least $30,000 in the bank. Also, his job simply
wouldn't do. Never mind that he wasn't just working as an
employee, he was managing a franchise.
Unfortunately, she had a several-month work assignment
abroad. While she was out there, he went on a massive job hunt.
He had a ridiculous number of interviews for some pretty highpaying and high-status positions. None of it was anything that he
was interested in, but he needed something high status for her.
Especially because he had just received his grandmother's
engagement ring in the mail from his parents.
He got a very good job (high pay and status) and moved from
NYC (a city he loves) to LA (a city he hates). He uprooted his
entire life, even causing psychological stress to his puppy, in the
process. He bought a plane ticket to the country she was staying
in (expensive and far!) and was all ready to go...
A few days before he took off, she Skype-called him to let
him know that it was over, and she had been cheating on him
with a young football player.
Mark and her are still in contact and are civil, but he does
whatever he can to avoid her. He refuses to move back to his
beloved NYC until she moves away. He's not doing very well at
his job, as it's simply not something he's into.
This girl, on the other hand, continued in a long-distance relationship with the football guy for quite a few months (maybe
even a year) after returning home. He decreed that she's not
allowed to go out with friends or doing anything social. She did
what he said, for the most part, even though he's thousands of
kilometers away. He recently broke up with her and it turns out
that he was cheating on her. She told everyone her sad story. Even
people she just met (no doubt getting lots of attention).
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She even tried to get sympathy from the ex-boyfriend she
cheated on.
Before doing training with DateMasters, she just seemed to
me like a cute, fun girl. Then, I started to see some red flags here
and there, but nothing major. After some of my own experiences,
she glowed like a red super-giant just before gravitational collapse.
If you're not keeping your eyes open for those red flags...
Fast forward a bit.
Mark has settled into LA quite well now. He still misses
NYC, but is handling himself well. His job life has improved, as
well as his social life. I visited him recently and got to meet his
new girlfriend.
What a difference! He has her wrapped around his finger. She
was touching him pretty much the whole time. Her default position was staring at him. He's a funny guy, but she really laughed
at everything he had to say. She's a textbook example of a girl
who really likes the guy she's with. I didn't see any obvious red
flags from her at all. On the other hand, Mark is a textbook
example of self control. His experience with the ex-girlfriend
must have caused him to put up some defenses. He obviously
likes his current girlfriend, but he's reining it in. He's a great challenge with her. Not much mystery, though.
He hasn't cut off contact from his ex completely yet. There are
some organizations that they have in common, so there's little he
can he can do about that for now. However, he has the sense to
keep her far away from his girlfriend. The ex has almost no
information about the new girlfriend, even after months of poking
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around and asking questions. Mark has made an almost-impenetrable wall between the two. He's really looking forward to
September, when the ex finally leaves the country for good.
Your Analysis
Spend a few minutes answering these questions. Eventually, we
hope that you follow this general format for analyzing your own
experiences. As with all of our exercises, the more you put in, the
more you'll get out. Then you'll be able to compare your analysis
to ours. The closer your answer is to ours the better. It means
you're really starting to internalize everything you're learning.
What did he do wrong? ________________________
_____________________________________________
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What did he do right? _________________________
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What can he do better next time? _________________
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Our Analysis
The most important aspect of how we run relationships, we
believe, is the whole 'keep her' part of the equation. Lots of guys
can find the girls (uh, go to any location filled with hot girls),
many guys can meet the girls ("Hello, what's your name?" isn't
exactly rocket surgery), and guys can always get the girls (if she
likes you everything's a piece of cake).
But most guys blow it when it comes to doing the right things
to keep the girls interested in them. They stop doing all the things
that were working when they first met each other and early on in
their dating. We know what happens next - Respect goes right out
the window, and along with it the Supportiveness that is the
lifeblood of a good long-term relationship.
As this continues, the girl's affection for the guy goes down
and down and down until he's out.
Sure, Mark has his new girl wrapped around his finger now –
that's the easy part, IN THE BEGINNING. But does he know
why his previous girl did him wrong? Did he take time to actually
sit down and go, "Hmmm. How did I let this happen to me? How
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did I create this mess in the first place?"
Did he do that?
Yeah, we know she was probably a Total Train Wreck to
begin with, BUT reading the story it seems everyone in Mark's
social circle accepted her, and they did like each other enough to
move in together, so I've gotta ask - what did Mark do to drive
her to do him bad? What red flags did he miss? What rocks did he
throw in the stream?
The reality is – Mark was so busy Chasing her that he completely failed to Identify the situation with this woman.
We know he was Chasing because he was busy uprooting his
entire life simply because she said she wouldn't marry him...
UNLESS. (A girl giving you ultimatums like that is a huge red
flag.)
Then there's this: “He hasn't cut off contact from his ex completely yet.”
There's a mistake right there. Doesn't say much for his 'Loyalty' in the eyes of his new girlfriend. If Mark doesn't wake up
soon, he'll drive his new girlfriends interest right into the ground
by keeping his ex around.
Guys who keep their exes in the picture (even if it's just mentally) are just making their life more difficult. If you keep the ex
around, you can be sure that this will drive away most normal,
high value women.
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Oh yeah, how about this little gem, “There are some organizations that they have in common, so there's little he can he can do
about that for now.”
How about; "Hey, how're you doing. Good to see you. I'm
fine. Gotta go. Nice seeing you again. Bye."
Or: "Oh, her? Yeah, that didn't work out too well for us - but
Hey! I've got this great new girl now. Totally amazing girl. Hope
what's-her-name is happy. So, how about those Yankees?!
Yippee!"
But, Mark says he doesn't talk to his ex about his new girlfriend. So we're supposed to give him +10 points for not discussing his current girlfriend with his ex?
This doesn't offset the -10,000 he gets for even talking with
his ex. How can the ex 'poke around' if she's in NYC and Mark is
in LA? Oh wait – Now it makes sense! Mark is still in CONTACT with the ex. And what's that all about?
Mark is simply using his new girlfriend as the 'Challenge' to
make himself more 'interesting' to his old girlfriend. This old girl
is still trying to get at Mark for something and he's figured out
how to pique her interest by holding out his new girlfriend as the
string for the old one.
And then what happens when September finally rolls around
and the ex is out of the country?
He'll stay in LA with a girl he's not all that into, but that's
totally into him?
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How long will that last – how long until she realizes Mark
isn't all that much into her? (We know he's not Loyal, and unless
he's been telling her all about his ongoing contact with the ex he's
also basically Dishonest and Untrustworthy.)
Nope.
Basically Mark hasn't a clue about what's really going on in
his life, with women, or with relationships.
He's a perfect 'Challenge' with his current girlfriend because
he basically doesn't give a shit about her (we ALWAYS do it perfectly when we don't care about the girl) and still has feelings for
his old one (otherwise he'd have no contact with her - 'organization' notwithstanding - to give her the opportunity to 'poke
around' his business).
He's still stuck and just lucked into a girl that's really crazy
about him – for now.
This is why we recommend breaking off all contact with exes,
then sitting down and do the hard-thinking necessary to figure out
how we blew it.
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What red flags did I WILLINGLY not see?
When did those red flags first come up?
How did I ignore them?
What stopped me from seeing them? (Yeah, we know it was the
testosterone and male ego cocktail, but let's be specific here.)
And after that - when did those same red flags come up again?
How did I not see those?
And new ones - what red flags came up?
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Rinse and repeat.
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What will I do next time?
How will I prevent this from happening again?
How will I recover from this and what, specifically, will I do to
keep myself and the ex far far apart?
Fact is, if Mark was really into his new girlfriend he wouldn't
bother having anything to do with the ex, and certainly not
spending any time talking on the phone with her.
Think about it - if you were bedding a Total Ten that you were
into, would you even bother about a Total Train Wreck Ex?
Uhhh no, it would more likely be, "Hey Baby, thanks for
calling. I'd love to talk but my new girlfriend is in the shower and
I've gotta get ready for when she comes out. Ooops, here she
comes now. D-A-M-N! But don't worry, baby, she doesn't mean a
thing to me - it's only you! Bye."
*Click*
Then go back to watching South Park.
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HANDLE A GIRL
WHO WANTS TO GO
HOME WITH YOU
OW TO
Here is a positive example that shows you what is possible when
you start to Be Amazing and Identify women who are into you.
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Where is he Identifying?
Where is he showing that he has integrity in this situation?
How does he use determination and perseverance properly in
this situation?
Where is he showing willing to take no for an answer?
Where does he display Confidence?
Where is SHE Chasing?
How does he benefit by not letting his mood or mental state
effect his actions?
The Story
“I was in the local shopping mall, running The Revolution! I was
in a bad mood. I was taking a long time, and I'm doing a game
programming contest this weekend, so my time is especially valuable. "Grrr! Why did I commit to doing this? I've talked to more
than 15 girls and no one's talking to me, except that one boring
stupid girl who didn't give me her number and it's hot and I want
to go home and I'm getting hungry and I still have to pay my
taxes and oil prices are probably going up and the Mayan calender is ending and my toe hurts and everybody sucks!" I wasn't
happy, but I was doing it like I've been trained.
I saw a pretty cute girl in a gray one-piece and a white sun
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hat. I put on a fake smile and said "Hello," She answered with a
"Hello," which surprised me for a moment. I asked her name,
made a joke or two and we were off to the races (it's funny how
much your mood can be improved when having fun with a hot
girl). She touched me on the arm right from the beginning, again
surprising me.
I asked her what she was doing today and she said "Nothing.
I'm a bit lost and I'm just killing time," I suggested going to a cafe
and she enthusiastically agreed. There were no cafes anywhere
close to us, so we got coffee at McDonalds.
We talked and bantered for a little less than an hour. She
laughed the whole time. I found out she's 22, works two part-time
jobs at two restaurants and even said she'll be visiting Sri Lanka
next month.
Once coffee was done, I said that it was time to go, and I'd
walk her as far as her train station. She misunderstood and
thought that I was going to get on the train and take off.
When I explained that I'm just walking through the station on
the way home, she invited herself along... basically inviting herself home with me.
This whole time she was on my arm, only letting go to make
sure that the wind didn't take her hat. It was only then that I realized that I might have a live one on my hands, but I didn't linger
on the thought. I brought her home, quickly hid another girl's
hairbrush that had been left (I wasn't expecting visitors) and had
her sit on my sofa.
No computer, no TV, no videos, just us. She said something
about us having just met. I don't quite remember how she said it
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but I do remember my response. "Come here." I pulled her in to
kiss her. Less than one minute into the make-out, we started getting quite 'intimate.' I had her stand up and wait while I turned the
sofa into a bed. Once it was a bed, the clothes came off very
quickly, revealing a wonderful pair of D-cups. Those were really
nice.
We had three fun rounds, watching Youtube and talking in
between each. She seems quite into me – she was on me like an
octopus. I don't know that I could have escaped had I wanted to.
After the third time, I told her that I've got stuff to do and it's time
to go. She was hoping for a fourth round, but it wasn't a problem.
I walked her out and we said goodbye for now. A few minutes
later, she sent a picture of us she took with her cell phone.
I expect to see her again when I come back from my travels
next month, but if I don't, it's cool. Again, no big deal really. This
kind of thing is all fairly normal so no big "I did it!" feeling from
this. Really, she should be the one saying "I did it!"
Fun day.
I headed back out and finished off my remaining 12 of my
Daily 30. They were a breeze and I was in a much better mood.
Now to get back to work.”
Your Analysis
Spend a few minutes answering these questions. Eventually, we
hope that you follow this general format for analyzing your own
experiences. As with all of our exercises, the more you put in, the
more you'll get out. Then you'll be able to compare your analysis
to ours. The closer your answer is to ours the better. It means
you're really starting to internalize everything you're learning.
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What did he do wrong? ________________________
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What did he do right? _________________________
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What can he do better next time? _________________
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Our Analysis
This is a great report for a lot of reasons. A perfect example of a
Confident guy who doesn't let his emotions or circumstance prevent him from meeting a really great girl (and then having a
whole lot of fun).
“I was in the local shopping mall, doing The Revolution in a
bad mood.” Some guys might have argued he should have
pumped up his state or gotten into a better mood before
approaching women: "Dude, you totally should have pumped
yourself by pretending to be a fire truck and then squeezing
lemon in your eye! You can' get girls if you're not "in state." It's
not "natural" if you're making yourself do it."
"Hello." They also might have argued: "You can't say that.
Girls hear it all the time. You gotta give value to the girl and build
attraction then make her think there is a connection!"
“makeout ... the clothes came off ... a wonderful pair of Dcups ... three rounds ... Youtube ... octopus.” Those guys still
might argue: “Excuse me - but didn't anyone tell you the news?
DateMasters material and The Revolution! do not, I repeat DO
NOT work for guys who want 'Fast Sex.' It does not work and it's
bad. You shouldn't try to use our advice if your goal is just quick
sex - it's not designed to do that and it can't work.
Everyone knows we simply don't have a clue about how to
design a system for guys that would want that as their goal, even
though Douglas Hall used to have “Fast Sex” experiences like
this all the time for over 40 years. Do you understand that ignore DateMasters if you want to get hot girls for Fast Sex!
Impossible.
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Especially if you're in a bad 'state.'
It doesn't work!!
And if by some miracle it does work, well, then it shouldn't
work.
So don't do it. Okay?”
Obviously, we encourage you to use and test all of our
material before making judgments. We think you'll be happily
surprised at the wide variety of experiences you can have using
Identification rather than Chasing.
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MEET A BEAUTIFUL
WOMAN WHO'S WITH A GUY
OW TO
Here is a report that you can use as a positive example of
approaching a beautiful woman in a situation where most
guys would chicken out or make fools of themselves.
While you read ask yourself the following questions •
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How did he Identify?
How easy was it to approach this woman?
What did our guy do well?
How can you use this to help your dating life?
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Where does he show his Confidence?
How is he straightforward?
How does being willing to take no for an answer help?
As you do this more and more, the closer your answers get to our
commentary, the more you know you're on the right track.
The Story
“I was eating a sandwich in Subway after doing a round of The
Revolution.
Half-way through my lunch a very, very pretty girl walks in
with a guy.
Damn.
She definitely caught my attention.
I have to talk to her.
I observe them. He pays for lunch. She moves her hand back
and forth a couple times over his arm like a kid intrigued by the
arm-hair of a guy. Didn't see if she touched him while doing it.
Hmm. Most likely they are a couple, I thought. But I gotta go
check.
They sat down on the other side of Subway. She never looked
at me and we never made eye contact.
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I was almost finished with my food and they just started so I
knew I could relax and finish my food before approaching her. I
ended up getting water at the same time as the guy.
Me: "Is that your girlfriend?"
Him: "Haha. No, nothing like that. Just a friend."
I went back to my seat, pulled out a blank business card that I
carry around, borrowed a pen from Subway and wrote my name
and phone number.
Before I left Subway I approached them from across the
room.
They were sitting at a counter.
The guy looked shocked as I approached.
I walk up behind and slightly equidistant between them.
"Excuse me," I say.
They both look at me.
"This is random but I think you're very pretty. Can I ask for
your name?" (Said with a deep, slow voice and without a highpitched rising intonation that is common at the end of questions.)
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Her eyes look surprised. Her mouth is full of food. She looks
over at the guy.
He nods his head up and down excitedly signaling that all is
well.
She gives me a hold-on gesture and signals that she is
chewing. Funny situation.
"My name is S."
"It's nice to meet you S." I extend my hand and shake hers.
"Nice to meet you too."
"I can't talk now - But if it's all good with you *I hold out my
information* please call me. I'd like to invite you on a coffee
date."
"Thank you."
"You two, I hope you enjoy the rest of your day. Bye."
Then I walk away and leave without looking back.
A few days later (Friday evening) I got a text message from
her.
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"Hey. This is S from Subway."
A few days later I called her back and we setup a date.”
Your Analysis
Spend a few minutes answering these questions. Eventually, we
hope that you follow this general format for analyzing your own
experiences. As with all of our exercises, the more you put in, the
more you'll get out. Then you'll be able to compare your analysis
to ours. The closer your answer is to ours the better. It means
you're really starting to internalize everything you're learning.
What did he do wrong? ________________________
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What did he do right? _________________________
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What can he do better next time? _________________
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Our Analysis
It's important to keep in mind that this student had been doing
The Revolution! for about 6 months when he approached this girl
in Subway. He was by no means a beginner. BUT, really, all he
did was approach a girl he found attractive (very attractive) and
say hi, just like you would expect any classy, Amazing Man does.
No tricks or persuasion. Simply taking the actions necessary
to get the kind of dating life that all men want, but only some
ever achieve. She could have easily said 'no' if she wasn't interested.
That's where exceptional people really start to notice how
much power and confidence this sort of approach conveys. Most
men are far too caught up in protecting their ego to ever do something that overtly risks, even encourages, a woman to say no if
she isn't interested. This gives women who are interested a
massive amount of space to feel comfortable saying yes.
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Nothing screams insecurity and fake confidence like trying to
worm your way into never getting rejected (plus it just doesn't
work). High value women can feel it from a mile away.
Putting yourself out there in a relaxed manner that says, “I am
completely and honestly fine whether you say yes or no” screams
confidence like nothing else you can do. When you meet high
quality women who are interested in you (remember to always
dress your best), the difference is extraordinary.
Really, the only thing he could have done better would be to
thank the guy for being Amazing too.
"I had a fun time meeting you, S."
Then look the guy right in the eye, smile and say: "And dude,
thank-you for being Amazing. (Shake hands with him.) Bye."
The dude was Amazing: He didn't salt our guys game and actively encouraged her to talk to him. That's good stuff. When he
thanks him in front of her, both his stock AND OUR GUYS go
right thru the roof in her eyes.
Props to our guy for sacking up and going for what 99.99% of
all guys will never do: Be Amazing.
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PART VII
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DATEMASTERS
MASSIVE ACTION ROAD MAP
HE
The DateMasters Massive Action Road Map is a step-by-step
guide that will help you fully implement and internalize
everything that you’ve just learned from DateMasters. It can profoundly benefit your life in so many ways, both in dating and in
life. Only after you USE this knowledge, you will truly be on the
path to becoming an Amazing Man.
The reality is – unless you are self-sufficient in your ability to
Meet More Women you won’t be able to accomplish the kind of
relationships and experiences that you want and need. This is
why it’s so important that you develop the ability to improve
yourself independently, without our help.
If you aren’t willing to do the hard work on your own, then no
amount of revolutionary knowledge is going to help you.
So, you can depend on other people to try and fix you your
whole life. Or you can accept that it is your personal responsibility to take action and improve your dating life. Because when
you accept this personal responsibility, only then are you truly
able to take advantage of the best knowledge, the best methods,
the best systems and the best training from the best teachers.
When you decide and commit yourself to doing the hard work
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ledge of DateMasters to make your life into the grand adventure
that you want it to be.
An interesting thing happens to the students who follow what
we teach and do everything that we recommend. They get the
EXACT same Amazing results with women that we get. But
simple truth is, we can’t Meet More Women for you and we can’t
force you to leave your house, improve your fashion or dedicate
yourself to becoming a more Amazing Man.
We can show you the path that leads where you want to go.
We can show you every detail of the path; the pitfalls and traps as
well as the shortcuts. We can show you where other guys fell off
the path and we can show you how they got back on before they
accomplished their goals. But ultimately, it’s YOU who must
decide to go down the path that we are showing you.
It’s time for you to make your success a whole lot simpler.
Now, let us show you how to apply it using The DateMasters
Massive Action Road Map so that you can reach all the exciting,
fulfilling rewards of becoming an Amazing Man.
Read it right away and start doing the exercises outlined in it.
When you follow up on your learning with these exercise then
you will make massive progress on becoming much more
Amazing. It's very important that you start doing this today, right
now, while all of this knowledge is still fresh in your mind. You'll
understand why after you read it.
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HOW TO USE THIS ROAD MAP
Just like a real road map YOU have to do the driving. But since
we've been there before we can make sure you take the shortest,
easiest path to get to your destination.
Essentially, The DateMasters Massive Action Road Map will
give you a series of exercises that will first, help you continuously identify where you need to improve yourself and your life
in order to reach your goals with women. Second, it will give
you a way to hone in on those areas that you can improve so that
you not only know WHAT to improve but you also know HOW
to improve it. The interesting thing about the human mind is,
most of us have a lot more knowledge than we ever use. Our
exercises are designed to tap into the power that we all have
buried inside of us. When you do what we teach you in this short
guide, you will uncover lifetimes of hidden knowledge within
yourself.
The first thing you'll notice about The DateMasters Massive
Action Road Map is that it is based around something we call
Sentence Completion Exercises. These exercises are used by
people in the fields of therapy, NLP, self-improvement and more.
They are designed to raise awareness, facilitate self-understanding and stimulate self-growth.
DateMasters utilizes sentence completion exercises as a way
of taking massive action on improving our dating life. We have
tested and tested, and undoubtedly, when you combine these personal awareness exercises with taking actual steps towards your
goals, you will take yourself and your dating life to places that
would have been impossible to reach otherwise.
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STEP 1: SENTENCES
Every day, schedule out about 15-25 minutes where you can
be alone and concentrate without being interrupted.
During this time, every day, complete each of the following
sentence fragments at least 6 times as quickly as possible. You
can type it, write it down, or even say it into a voice recording
device. It's all good.
The goal is to keep adding different endings to the sentence
fragments, as fast as possible, without stopping to think about
your answers. Don't worry if the sentences are grammatically correct, aren't profound or don't even make sense. It's okay.
For example, let's say the sentence fragment is: “Being an
Amazing Man to me means …”
Write or type that sentence fragment and complete the sentence without stopping to reflect 6 – 10 times as quickly as possible. Write anything that comes to mind.
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
Being an Amazing Man to me means ...
Being an Amazing Man to me means ...
Being an Amazing Man to me means ...
Being an Amazing Man to me means ...
Being an Amazing Man to me means …
Being an Amazing Man to me means ...
After completing this stem 6 – 10 times move on to the next one.
At the end of this guide we will give you an 8 week program
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to follow. At the end of 8 weeks we recommend you start back at
week one and keep repeating the cycle. Really, there is no limit to
how long you should keep doing these exercises. We have found
that a man can do variations of these exercises for years and they
do not lose their effectiveness.
STEP 2: SKILLS
Part of becoming an Amazing Man means Identifying exactly
WHAT you need to improve and then taking steps to improve it.
Without taking action on specific skills then you won't make
improvement.
You'll probably find you have an ongoing source of new skills
that you will want to improve. One of the great things about getting advice from DateMasters Trainers is that you can get
accurate feedback on exactly what issues YOU, specifically, need
to work on in order to improve your dating life. Combine that
with the Road Map and you will move towards your goals at
lightspeed.
Below we have a list of skills that we have Identified as being
useful areas for all men to improve. You might already feel comfortable with some, not with others. That's okay. You're free to
choose the skills that you would like to work on. Everybody is
dealing with different issues and coming from different backgrounds so unless you are talking directly with us, we can't tell
you what YOUR most important issue is.
We recommend that you focus on each of these skills for as
long as necessary. Because you are doing these exercises every
single day you WILL make improvements. Sometimes it happens
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fast, sometimes gradually. But the important thing is that you take
action daily.
Feel free to add your own to this list or you can even search
around DateMasters for more ideas. Heck, even reading our
product descriptions will give you great ideas. Of course, we
think you would benefit greatly by investing in our products, but
there is no reason why you can't go get free advice from our
product descriptions without ever spending a dime. Search for
qualities that will make you a better man. Here is a short list:
• Humor.
• Body language.
• Posture.
• Fashion.
• Voice intonation.
• Voice projection.
• Ability to Meet More Women.
• Ability to Meet More Women in a time-efficient manner
• Ability to Meet More Women in a cost-efficient manner
• Maintaining self-respect and integrity with women.
• Setting and maintaining boundaries with women.
• Honesty and straightforwardness with women.
• Ability to feel comfortable greeting attractive women in a
wide variety of places.
• Ability to feel comforting asking for her phone number.
• Identifying women who are into me.
• Identifying women who are NOT into me.
• Identifying bad girls.
• Identifying good girls.
• Identifying Amazing women.
• Persistence in taking Massive Action every single day.
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After you have chosen a skill to improve, use it in the sentence
fragment exercises below.
Example: If I take Massive Action to improve my humor ...
1. If I take Massive Action to improve my ___________...
2. If I take Daily Action to improve my ___________ ...
3. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving my
in the coming weeks, months and years is ___________ ...
4. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving my
today is ___________...
STEP 3: PLAN
Okay, now that you are doing these daily sentence fragment exercises it's time to actually take action on what
you have written.
You MUST take action on a daily basis. This is simply, the
most efficient, effective way to move forward.
At the end of each week it's time to read over what you have
written, reflect on it and start coming up with plans on how to
take action on it.
Now write complete this one sentence fragment 6 to 10 times
as quickly as possible.
“If any of what I wrote this week is true, it might be
helpful if I …”
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STEP 4: ACTION
This time, read over what you have just written. Notice what you
can do to take action. Make plans to actually take action on
everything you have written.
Maybe, you were focusing on humor and one of the ideas that
you thought of was to take an improv class. Great! That is something that you can take concrete, physical action on doing. You
now know something you can do to improve your dating life. As
you continue to do these exercises, the benefits will continue to
stack and grow until you have transformed your life into something so much more Amazing.
STEP 5: PROGRESS
Over the coming weeks, months and years ahead, chart your progress. Record where you started, what actions you're taking on a
daily basis and what your goals are.
Recording your progress and your statistics is vitally
important for people who want to make progress faster and more
efficiently.
Some guys keep a whiteboard on their wall. Others record
everything on paper. We recommend opening up a spreadsheet
and charting all of your progress that way.
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Keeping statistics and charting your progress is vital for any
man who takes his own development seriously. Think about this –
We all expect any company to track statistics about what works
and what doesn't in order to deliver the most innovative, efficient
products available. You wouldn't pay for dating advice from a
guy who doesn't keep track all of his statistics regarding women
(how many women he approaches, engages in conversation,
invites on dates, etc.). He's just an amateur unless he holds himself accountable with measured, scientific data. We should hold
ourselves to the same standards of accountability.
(If you want more on how to measure your progress with
becoming better with women efficiently and quickly then check
out our online training course for The Revolution!)
THE ROAD MAP
The following is an 8 week Road Map that you can use to propel
yourself and your dating life forward like never before.
We recommend that you print out these pages so that you can
write on them, take notes and even do your sentences fragment
exercises on them. It's also helpful to open a spreadsheet on your
computer to track everything.
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Week 1
Sentences: Complete each sentence at least 6 times each day, except the last
day of the week.
1.
2.
3.
4.
Being an Amazing Man to me means …
Meeting an Amazing Woman to me means …
Becoming more Amazing with women to me means …
Taking massive action to me means …
Skills: Write out 1 – 6 skills you will focus on this week.
Complete each of the following sentences at least 6 times each day, except the
last day of the week.
1.
2.
3.
4.
If I take Massive Action to improve my
…
If I take Daily Action to improve my
…
One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
in the coming weeks, months and years is …
One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
today is …
Plan: Review your sentences from this week. At the end of the week complete
the following sentence 6 to 10 times.
“If any of what I wrote this week is true, it might be helpful if I …”
Action: Create a plan of actions to take based on the sentences you have
written and followup on the plan.
Progress: Chart your progress on paper or in a spreadsheet.
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Week 2
Sentences: Complete each sentence at least 6 times each day, except the last
day of the week.
1. If I become a more Amazing Man today …
2. If I meet an Amazing Woman today …
3. If I take action on becoming more Amazing with women today …
Skills: Write out 1 – 6 skills you will focus on this week.
Complete each of the following sentences at least 6 times each day, except the
last day of the week.
1. If I take Massive Action to improve my
…
2. If I take Daily Action to improve my
…
3. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
in the coming weeks, months and years is …
4. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
today is …
Plan: Review your sentences from this week. At the end of the week complete
the following sentence 6 to 10 times.
“If any of what I wrote this week is true, it might be helpful if I …”
Action: Create a plan of actions to take based on the sentences you have
written and followup on the plan.
Progress: Chart your progress on paper or in a spreadsheet.
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Week 3
Sentences: Complete each sentence at least 6 times each day, except the last
day of the week.
1. One way I could become a more Amazing Man today is …
2. One way I could meet a more Amazing Woman today is …
3. One way I could become more Amazing with Women today is …
Skills: Write out 1 – 6 skills you will focus on this week.
Complete each of the following sentences at least 6 times each day, except the
last day of the week.
1. If I take Massive Action to improve my
…
2. If I take Daily Action to improve my
…
3. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
in the coming weeks, months and years is …
4. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
today is …
Plan: Review your sentences from this week. At the end of the week complete
the following sentence 6 to 10 times.
“If any of what I wrote this week is true, it might be helpful if I …”
Action: Create a plan of actions to take based on the sentences you have
written and followup on the plan.
Progress: Chart your progress on paper or in a spreadsheet.
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Week 4
Sentences: Complete each sentence at least 6 times each day, except the last
day of the week.
1. If I resort to persuading women to like me …
2. If I rely on tricks to get women to like me …
3. When I look at what I do to try to persuade women to like me …
Skills: Write out 1 – 6 skills you will focus on this week.
Complete each of the following sentences at least 6 times each day, except the
last day of the week.
1. If I take Massive Action to improve my
…
2. If I take Daily Action to improve my
…
3. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
in the coming weeks, months and years is …
4. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
today is …
Plan: Review your sentences from this week. At the end of the week complete
the following sentence 6 to 10 times.
“If any of what I wrote this week is true, it might be helpful if I …”
Action: Create a plan of actions to take based on the sentences you have
written and followup on the plan.
Progress: Chart your progress on paper or in a spreadsheet.
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Week 5
Sentences: Complete each sentence at least 6 times each day, except the last
day of the week.
1. If I meet a great woman who honestly likes me …
2. If I can meet a great woman in my daily life …
3. If I am more honest in my dealings with women …
Skills: Write out 1 – 6 skills you will focus on this week.
Complete each of the following sentences at least 6 times each day, except the
last day of the week.
1. If I take Massive Action to improve my
…
2. If I take Daily Action to improve my
…
3. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
in the coming weeks, months and years is …
4. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
today is …
Plan: Review your sentences from this week. At the end of the week complete
the following sentence 6 to 10 times.
“If any of what I wrote this week is true, it might be helpful if I …”
Action: Create a plan of actions to take based on the sentences you have
written and followup on the plan.
Progress: Chart your progress on paper or in a spreadsheet.
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Week 6
Sentences: Complete each sentence at least 6 times each day, except the last
day of the week.
1.
2.
3.
4.
If I take action on becoming a more Amazing Man today …
If I take action on becoming more Amazing with women today …
One way I could become a more Amazing Man today is …
One way I could become more Amazing with women today is …
Skills: Write out 1 – 6 skills you will focus on this week.
Complete each of the following sentences at least 6 times each day, except the
last day of the week.
1. If I take Massive Action to improve my
…
2. If I take Daily Action to improve my
…
3. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
in the coming weeks, months and years is …
4. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
today is …
Plan: Review your sentences from this week. At the end of the week complete
the following sentence 6 to 10 times.
“If any of what I wrote this week is true, it might be helpful if I …”
Action: Create a plan of actions to take based on the sentences you have
written and followup on the plan.
Progress: Chart your progress on paper or in a spreadsheet.
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Week 7
Sentences: Complete each sentence at least 6 times each day, except the last
day of the week.
1.
2.
3.
4.
If I take action on meeting more women today …
If I take action on meeting better women today …
One way I could meet more women today is …
One way I could meet better women today is …
Skills: Write out 1 – 6 skills you will focus on this week.
Complete each of the following sentences at least 6 times each day, except the
last day of the week.
1. If I take Massive Action to improve my
…
2. If I take Daily Action to improve my
…
3. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
in the coming weeks, months and years is …
4. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
today is …
Plan: Review your sentences from this week. At the end of the week complete
the following sentence 6 to 10 times.
“If any of what I wrote this week is true, it might be helpful if I …”
Action: Create a plan of actions to take based on the sentences you have
written and followup on the plan.
Progress: Chart your progress on paper or in a spreadsheet.
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Week 8
Sentences: Complete each sentence at least 6 times each day, except the last
day of the week.
1. If I imagine being more a more Amazing Man …
2. If I imagine being happy with an Amazing Woman …
3. If I imagine being more Amazing with women …
Skills: Write out 1 – 6 skills you will focus on this week.
Complete each of the following sentences at least 6 times each day, except the
last day of the week.
1. If I take Massive Action to improve my
…
2. If I take Daily Action to improve my
…
3. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
in the coming weeks, months and years is …
4. One thing I can do to take Massive Action on improving
my
today is …
Plan: Review your sentences from this week. At the end of the week complete
the following sentence 6 to 10 times.
“If any of what I wrote this week is true, it might be helpful if I …”
Action: Create a plan of actions to take based on the sentences you have
written and followup on the plan.
Progress: Chart your progress on paper or in a spreadsheet.
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When you finish with week 8, feel free to start back at the beginning or even create a slightly modified version of the road map
going forward.
You can master and Identify so many of your weaknesses and
find solutions to them easily using this 8-week plan. Most people
never realize the vast store of knowledge and power they have
hidden away in their own minds. Luckily you have us here to
help out (when you're ready for it, The Revolution will extend
your power so that you can overcome all excuses and truly master
every aspect of approaching women).
You have a lot of valuable material to work with in The DateMasters Massive Action Road Map. Enjoy.
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PART VIII
W
ARE THE
MOST VITAL LESSONS OF
MEET MORE WOMEN?
HAT
What we wanted to do with Meet More Women is to get you
thinking differently not just about meeting women, but about the
kind of man that you need to become in order to achieve the kind
of life that you really want. Here’s a short overview:
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
6.
Every single dating issue that you have
can be solved in time when you Meet
More Women.
Choice with women is freedom with
women.
Most of the issues guys have with
meeting women are a result of a tragically flawed mindset of persuasion.
You need to develop understanding,
experience and knowledge of how to
Meet More Women that isn’t reliant on
persuasion.
Learning to Meet More Women in a
way that maintains dignity, self-respect
and honesty will make life better.
Developing your core personality and
attitude will help make it easier to meet
great women who you don’t need to
persuade to like you.
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7.
You need to learn to be the kind of man
that great women want to be with so
that you don’t have to worry about how
to persuade her to stay with you.
8. Using Identifying allows you to save
time, money and stress while moving
towards maximum force and velocity
towards your goals with women.
9. You can meet women anywhere. Just
say “Hi.”
10. Improving your image, fashion and
looks will always help you and make
your dating life easier.
11. Lots of (hot) women actually will like
you from the very beginning if you are
approaching as an Amazing Man and
are Identifying rather than Chasing.
Use these guidelines and you will be well on your way to mastering your dating life and meeting the kind of women that most
men only dream about.
Simply by reading this book, you have just taken a giant step
towards achieving the kind of dating life that you want, need and
deserve.
But you’re not through yet. Before we end this book you’ll
have the opportunity to take everything you’ve learned so much
further.
It’s time to take what you’ve learned here and apply it so that
you can transform yourself into a more Amazing Man with maximum speed and efficiency.
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T
HE
SINGLE MOST POWERFUL
CONCEPT IN THIS BOOK
Obviously, we can’t go into detail on every single topic in this
book. That would take days of seminar followed up by months
and years of dedicated practice. (Check out our website for more
information on our exciting and client-result oriented training
programs and products. Go to http://date-masters.com.)
But there is one concept that should be absolutely clear. You
must always remember it. Use it as your compass to guide you as
you Meet More Women and as you become more Amazing with
women. Do this, and you will get closer and closer to total
freedom and happiness with women with each passing day.
So what is the single most powerful concept in this book?
What is the over-arching concept we told you about at the beginning?
Be Amazing
Say it out loud. Three times. Five times. Ten times! Every single
day! The more you say it, hear it and let it sink into your brain –
the greater the positive impact it will have and the faster progress
you will make.
We can’t make you choose to be Amazing over persuading.
However, we can tell you the end result of each path. Persuading
will lead you down a path of unhappiness, self-esteem troubles,
self-worth issues, guilt, confusion and emotional pain. ESPEPage 218 Copyright © 2012 DateMasters
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CIALLY if you get good at persuading girls to like you. This is
the path that is being sold to you by the mass media, Hollywood
moves, the powers-that-be and many of the so-called dating
experts. You know where it leads.
On the other hand, when you choose to become a more
Amazing Man then you will build self-respect, achieve happiness
and fulfillment, accomplish more goals honestly and have total
freedom with women and dating. At the end of this road you will
be able to enjoy life as an incredible adventure with a woman of
exceptional beauty and great accomplishment who likes you for
who you are as a man. This is the path that we are showing you.
Remember, persuaders continuously struggle with Happiness.
Amazing Men achieve freedom, fulfillment, and self-respect
while enjoying exciting, fun, beautiful women. At the end of your
life do you want to look back and regret having spent all of your
time persuading women to like you, bitter that you struggled
more and had less fun adventures than your Amazing counterparts, only to end up with a girl who you aren’t really satisfied
with or no-one at all?
Or do you want to look back at your life, proud of the fact that
you had more exciting experiences with more high quality girls,
and incredibly grateful that you were able to live an ultimately
fulfilling life with a truly Amazing woman by your side who
respects you, loves you and makes you truly happy.
That’s why …
… Persuaders Fail. Amazing Men Succeed.
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RE
YOU A
VICTIM OF PERSUASION?
Ever notice how easy it is for women to meet guys?
They have the luxury of sitting back, doing nothing and letting guys come to them.
Guys don’t have it that easy. We have to take the initiative and
go say “Hi.”
But somewhere along the way some guys started thinking that
the best way to get women would be to persuade them. If they
could persuade them better than the next guy, so the thinking
went, they would be number one, numero uno, the top dawg, the
big man on campus.
But here’s what happens. This is extremely dangerous so it’s
important that you know it. More importantly, you must be
vigilant and aware of it. Because it can quickly transform the
unsuspecting, average guy into a confused, frustrated, unhappy,
unfulfilled persuader. And all of the persuasion skills in the world
won’t help you.
Here why: When guys fall into the traps of persuasion that
we’ve told you about in this book, they become less able have
happy, fulfilling, exciting experiences with truly high quality
women. So much of the faulty dating advice tries to get guys to
mask their flaws and fears in an ill-fated attempt to appear “natural.” But eventually, those flaws and fears show themselves and
self-doubt, unhappiness, and dissatisfaction sprouts its ugly head
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in each new relationship. These guys never fully capitalize on all
of the time, money and effort they spent trying to improve their
dating life. They work harder than they need to and get worse results than they deserve. And it could have all been avoided if they
had read and took action on what you have read about in this
book.
There is a so much better path. A path that leads to incredible
women of exceptional beauty and accomplishment who like you
from the very beginning and fall in love with you for who you are
as a man. And it’s a path that takes so much less time, money and
emotional stress than persuasion. This is the path of the Amazing
Man. The path to mastering your dating life.
This is why we are called DateMasters. Because we are
providing you with a path to mastery of your dating life. So that
you spend less time, money and emotional stress building a
skillset that allows you to date and enjoy incredible, exciting relationships with the best women in the world.
When you make the transition to thinking like an Amazing
Man, just as you’ve learned in this book, there will be a few
hidden bumps in the road. That’s to be expected.
It all starts with this: You must dislodge and replace a single
belief. Right now. Because this one single belief is feeding your
inner persuader. Through our work at DateMasters, we have
helped hundreds of struggling men make their lives more
Amazing and achieve the kind of relationships they want. And it
always starts with replacing a single belief …
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KIND OF MAN THAT AMAZING
WOMEN DO NOT WANT IS …
HE
Amazing women DO NOT want persuaders.
They want Amazing Men; Men who, quite literally, Amaze
them.
Here is the dictionary definition of “amaze.”
a·maze [uh-meyz] verb (used with object) - to overwhelm
with surprise or sudden wonder; astonish greatly.
Our goal is to fill her with surprise, wonder and astonishment
and keep doing it until we lived an exciting life full of incredible
experiences with truly great women. Is it any surprise that our
guys here at DateMasters have high value women Chasing us like
we're going out of style?
The first way to Be Amazing is to stop Chasing and start
Identifying women with whom you share chemistry (you are into
her, she is into you). If you aren’t into her then it’s time to move
on. If she isn’t into you then it’s time to move on. Everything else
flows from here.
Stop clinging on to girls who aren’t into you like a child
afraid to leave his mother. It’s incredibly unattractive to each new
girl you meet. And yet you see persuaders do it all the time as
they try to overcome the resistance girls have to talking to them,
meeting them, giving out their phone number, returning their
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calls, going on dates and on and on. It’s no wonder that the best
persuaders can’t keep a gorgeous, high quality woman who has
ambition, intelligence and a great attitude.
The mistaken belief is that women want a guy who persuades
them. No, they don’t. Great women ESPECIALLY don’t want a
guy who has to persuade them.
Women are really quite simple and extremely enjoyable once
you understand them. They are not the difficult, challenging combination locks that persuaders make them out to be. When you
Meet More Women and take massive action on improving your
dating skills the way that we teach you will realize how true this
is.
But the persuaders goes through life, seeing women as a challenge, and amassing a giant number of hot tactics without ever
really building himself into the kind of man that Amazing women
want to meet, chase and stay with. That’s why successful persuaders often have such a visceral reaction to this book. Because
they realize that they are wasting time and money on techniques
that do nothing to make them a better man; A man who actually
deserves high value women of exceptional beauty and great
accomplishment.
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The Revolution! is the system we use at DateMasters to propel
our dating lives forward with such incredible speed, consistency
and efficiency. We use it to meet 30 hot women a day, everyday
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while saving tremendous amounts of time, money and emotional
energy that we can then dedicate to our many other ambitions in
life.
Guys who take our training system known as The Revolution!,
and implement it as we teach it consistently report:
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More freedom with women.
A much higher quantity of women.
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Increased happiness.
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More and higher quality sex.
Reduced levels of stress when interacting with women.
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Increased motivation and drive.
Relief at not being dependent on bars, clubs, alcohol and money to
meet women.
Much faster and more significant improvement and money saved
when compared to other guys who spend lots more time and
money meeting lower quality women.
Increased overall fulfillment.
Training for The Revolution! is certainly not for everyone. It
works for men who are just starting out as well as guys with lots
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However, if you’re serious about overcoming all the BS
excuses holding you back and also meeting lots of women consistently while saving yourself time, money and stress and
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Revolution! is for you.
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The Revolution! is, without a doubt, the most powerful
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gaining total freedom with women.
(And no, it does not involve Internet / Online dating.)
Follow the URL below and get access to more free content
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DateMasters is a dating and relationship advice company. Since
2007, we have presented our live seminars to hundreds of men
worldwide, who invest thousands of dollars to learn from us.
Our goal at Datemasters is to help build men of high value
and self-esteem and train them how to find, meet, get, and keep
high value women of great beauty and accomplishment via our
advice, training and products or via other companies products we
find valuable.
First and foremost - we get men results with high value
women.
For the past few years, we have taught hundreds of men our
extremely powerful and effective ways of finding, meeting, getting and keeping amazing women of exceptional beauty and
accomplishment.
DateMasters equals respect, class, and most importantly - results.
Always feel free to contact us with any questions about our
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More at http://date-masters.com
If you would like more information about our free advice,
other products or training services please follow the links below.
This is just a short list of what is offered at DateMasters.
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“How to Meet More High Value Women
Who Honestly Like You”
A life-changing book that shows you how to meet and date much
more and much higher quality women who honestly like you.
http://date-masters.com/dating-advice-for-men/meet-morewomen/
The DateMasters Newsletter
“Free Weekly Dating Advice and Stories
From Guys Who Approach 30 Hot Women a Day”
An email newsletter jam-packed with the latest news, articles,
reports, breakdowns, special offers and free advice from
DateMasters.
http://date-masters.com/dating-advice-for-men/newsletter/
The DateMasters Community
“A New Dating Advice Forum from Experienced Pro's
For Men Who Want the Very Best.”
For the first time ever, DateMasters is opening the gates to their
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will help you on your quest to achieve total happiness and
fulfillment with women.
http://date-masters.com/dating-advice-for-men/the-datemasterscommunity/
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The Revolution!
“How to Make Massive Success with Beautiful Women
80% Easier, 100% Cheaper and 750% Faster”
An online training course for a system that helps clients
breakthrough all of their excuses for not meeting women and
motivate themselves to gain complete freedom and abundance
with women with unprecedented speed and efficiency. Clients
consistently report incredible advances in their skills, confidence
and a much higher quantity and quality of women in their lives
and relationships.
http://date-masters.com/dating-advice-for-men/the-revolution/
The Amazing Man Seminar
“Who Pays 15,000 for a Dating Seminar?”
The Amazing Man Seminar is a $15,000, 8-day comprehensive,
private/small group seminar, led by DateMasters founder Douglas
Hall. This the most comprehensive training that money can buy
for men who want the very best with women, dating, sex and
relationships. Men who are only “kind of” committed, or only
want “decent” results need not apply – This seminar (held in any
major world city) is for qualified men who are dedicated to being
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realize is possible.
http://date-masters.com/dating-advice-for-men/the-amazing-man/
Visit http://date-masters.com to see our entire product and course
catalog.
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