NCSoS Internet Security From the NCSOS Internet Safety Committee - May 24, 2007 Router= A communication device designed to send out data by the most efficient route possible. Editor: Lori Thompson, Ready Springs School “Sex offenders [online predators] rely on parents staying unaware!” FBI Special Agent James Harris, Jr. Online Crime and Project Safe Childhood 6 in 10 children online receive messages from strangers. More than half write back. – FBI 1 in 5 youth receives an online sexual solicitation in a one year period. (2001) 29% of children freely give personal information online when asked. (2002) How to Become an Online-Aware Parent The internet can be a wonderful tool as long as everyone plays by the rules. But not everyone on the internet wants to be helpful and kind. Online predators will spend months – six months or longer – grooming a child/youth to build up trust where the child/youth will comply with any request. But you have the homecourt advantage to defeat that every day. • Talk to your kids, regularly (not just once) about What they do online and Who they talk to online. Ask questions (and then confirm to make sure they are telling you the truth!) Let me them know you’ll be checking. Sit down with them and have them show you how they surf the net. TTYL F2F (see page 2) • Remind your kids frequently that anyone they don’t know off-line is a stranger. This is the hardest thing for kids to remember! Tell your child Never Ever give out their name, address, phone number, pictures or other personal information to Anyone online. Bill Gates Limits His Kids’ Computer Time Bill Gates, founder of Microsoft, and his wife Melinda limit their ten-year old daughter and her younger brother to 45 minutes computer time per day during the week and only one hour on weekends. That includes games and anything other than actual homework. He also uses monitoring software to track their online contacts. When his son asked if he was going to have limits like this his whole life, Gates replied, “No, when you move away you can set your own screen limits.” • Take computers out of kids’ rooms. Put them in public areas (family room) with the screen facing the room. There is safety in numbers. A child spending unlimited time online, surfing aimlessly, is asking for trouble. Set time limits. • Choose your child’s screen name, email address or instant message name wisely. Don’t reveal ages, sex, hobbies and NOT suggestive or sexy names. Predators pursue those names. • Ask to see their MySpace (or other social network) profile page. . . tomorrow! It gives them a chance to remove everything that isn’t appropriate or safe. . .and becomes a lesson in what not to post. Talk it over, don’t explode. • It’s not an invasion of privacy if strangers can see it. The diary in their drawer is between them and the paper; their MySpace is between them and 700 million people online! Don’t be KPC • Get to know the people your kids consistently chat with online. Most predators who want to exploit your child pretend to be children or teens on line. You may be able to spot an adult posing as a teenager or young child better than your kids. Monitoring software allows you to review your child’s internet usage. “. . .It's very appropriate for a parent to get a sense of what they [their children] are seeing out there and be able to have conversations about it," Bill Gates on monitoring computer use. Cyberbullying: The Silent Tormentor NCSOS 112 Nevada City Hwy Nevada City, CA 95959 PHONE: (530) 478-6400 E-MAIL: Stan Miller, AssistantSuperintendent [email protected] Linda Krapfel, Nevada City District Technology Coordinator [email protected] Unlike playground bullies that you can get away from when you go home, cyberbullying follows you at home and can even follow you for life. Once on the web it is impossible to recover and destroy them. Cyberbullying uses information and communication technologies to express and support deliberate, repeated hostile behavior by one or more people with the intent to cause harm to others. It can be done through email, pagers, cell phones, instant messaging (IM), chat rooms, online games, online voting polls, and personal websites. Examples: •Sending cruel or threatening messages. •Creating websites with pictures, stories, and jokes ridiculing or smearing others. •Posting classmate pictures online and asking others to rate them in online polls – who’s ugliest, fattest, dumbest. •Using a digital phone camera to take an embarrassing or private picture, sending that picture to others or posting it online. In a survey of 4 - 8 grade students (ages 9 – 13) more than half had received mean or hurtful things online and more than half admitted saying something mean or hurtful to someone else online. Of those who received mean or hurtful things, none of them had told a parent or adult about the incident. What to Do: • Know your child’s friends, their school activities and their online activities. • Know your child’s technology, their lingo, and their culture (movies, music, online games) does it promote bullying? • Teach your child Stop, Block, & Tell: Stop: Do not respond to mean/hurtful messages. Unplug and go offline. Don’t send messages when angry. Cool off. Block: Use buddy lists on IM account of only people you know & trust well; report cyberbullying to the Internet Service Provider for websites Tell: Tell a parent or trusted adult who can help them deal with anything online that makes them feel sad, hurt, uncomfortable, angry. FWIW(for what it’s worth): Acronyms Parents Should Know More? Try: www.webopedia.com/quick_ref/textmessageabbreviations.asp Website Sources and More Help www.iKeepSafe.org www.kdcop.com www.netsmartz.org www.protectkids.com www.stopscyberbullying.org www.wiredsafety.org We’re on the Web! See us at: www.ncsd.k12.ca.us/parents P911 parent alert PAL parents are listening PAW parents are watching PIR parent in room PLOS parents looking over shoulder POS parent over shoulder ADR address ASL or A/S/L age, sex, location GYPO get your pants off IWSN I want sex now KFY kiss for you KPC keeping parents clueless LMIRL let’s meet in real life MorF male or female? MOOS member(s) of the opposite sex MOSS or MOTSS member(s) of the same sex NALOPKT not a lot of people know that NIFOC nude in front of computer SorG straight or gay TDTM talk dirty to me WYCM will you call me? WAYF where are you from? WYRN what’s your real name? 420 let’s get high BTDT been there done that CWYL chat with you later CYT or SYT see you tomorrow DIKU do I know you? EMA email address F2F face to face FYEO for your eyes only LOL laughing out loud MoS mother over shoulder NAZ name, address, zip PMJI pardon me for jumping in PTMM please tell me more PXT please explain that ROFL rolling on the floor laughing SMIM send me an instant message SMEM send me an email SLAP sounds like a plan SRY sorry TIA thanks in advance TTYL talk to you later TTFN ta ta for now YMMV your mileage may vary (your results me be different) ZZZZ sleeping 99 nighty - night
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