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Briar II News
Volume 19, Number 9
Published by the Homeowners of Greenbriar II, Brick, N.J.
January 2015
Nancy’s Dream Luncheon
Story & Photos by Rose Marie Lodico
Once again all the
hard work that was put
forth in organizing and
preparing for Nancy’s
Dream Luncheon really
paid off. On Nov. 20,
2014 many of the honored guests arrived at
the clubhouse with their
caregivers, and others
were transported by volunteers from the GBII
community. Kudos to the
four co-chairs, Jan Lavance, Karen McConnell, Anne Marie Willcox and Pat Vincelli, who saw to it that the event ran like a well-oiled machine.
Cooked turkeys and hams were brought to the clubhouse at 10:00 AM so that the resident meat cutters could boneout and slice the meat. At 11:00 AM the rest of the cooked foods: stuffing, sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, string beans,
cranberry sauce and gravy were plated. All of these foods were donated and cooked with love by our wonderful and
caring neighbors who chose to be part of Nancy’s Dream.
The tables were set so elegantly, thanks to Jan Lavance and her committee. Lace table cloths, cloth napkins, plates
and silverware adorned the tables. Many “oohs” and “ahhs” were heard as the guests entered the room. The beautiful
centerpieces were donated by the Garden Club. A guest from each table took home the centerpiece if their birthday was
closest to the Nov. 20th date.
The drivers, servers, hosts, hostesses and of course those who remained to clean after the party, were all volunteers of
our great community. As I observed the smiles on the faces of the guests at my table, I was so proud to be part of the event.
Each invited guest was given a container of food to take home for another meal, plus cookie bags. After lunch we
were entertained by “Mrs. Hughes” (Karen McConnell), singers John Fahey and Jack McGuigan, sax
player Dave Whitaker, accordianist Joe DeSanctis and
comedienne Evelyn Klappholz. Ice cream sundaes with
all the trimmings were a delicious choice for dessert.
During the holiday season it would be a wonderful gesture if everyone reached out to their friends
and neighbors. It brings joy
to their lives and absolutely
enriches your life as well.
Thanks again to everyone
involved in Nancy’s Dream
Luncheon for creating wonderful memories for our GBII
community.
More photos on pages 4 & 5
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Greenbriar II
Board Meeting
Board of Trustees
President - John Fahey
1st Vice President - Philip McConnell
2nd Vice President - Frank Jones
Secretary - Rita Hahn
Treasurer - Bill Philipson
Wed., January 7
Also
Wed., Jan. 21 in Auditorium
Televised on Channel 97 at 10:00 a.m.
Briar II News Staff
Rosemary Sparandera,
Colleen Tierney, Ren Relli,
Rose Marie Lodico, Judy Muldoon,
Pat Cerro, and Pat Vincelli
Circulation
Colleen Tierney,
Judy Muldoon, Barbara DeRosa, Pat Vincelli,
Elise Martell, Mary Ann Pecci, Annette Luccioni,
Carmen Panfan, Vince Horsting,
Richard & Betty Gerber,
Janet Kain, Peg Jaeger, Val Hickey,
Joe Zubrowski, Mary Kupka-Irski
These are the substitutes:
Dorothy Westpy, Rita Hahn, Bonnie Rosa,
Connie Safran, Don Briden, Anne Marie Wurdarski
and Marge Donovan
Policy
Contributions: We invite readers to send articles
of interest to the GB II community, including photographs, drawings, and letters to the editor. Material
must include the writer’s name and address, and
preferably be less than 500 words for articles and
200 words for letters. We also solicit your opinions
and your ideas for new articles.
Classified Advertisements are accepted only
from residents of GB II. They must not compete
directly with regular advertisements contained in
the paper.
For Advertising Contact:
Senior Publishing Company
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Deadline For All Advertising: Tenth day of the
month for insertion in following month’s issue.
Editing: All material is subject to approval by
the editorial committee which reserves the right to
edit, condense, or reject it. Material published does
not necessarily represent the views of the editors nor
of the GB II Community. The editorial committee
does not endorse the services or items offered by
advertisers.
We accept no responsibility for any advertisements. If there
are any complaints concerning an advertiser, please contact
them directly. If you receive no satisfaction, you can contact
your Better Business Bureau or the Ocean County Department of Consumer Affairs.
All residents are invited to attend!
Deadlines
Deadline for submission of articles for the
February Issue of the Briar II News is January 5.
Thank you for your cooperation.
Editorial Staff
We Thank You
The Briar II News staff thanks the following people
for their contribution to this edition of the paper: Evelyn
Klappholz, Sissie Jones, Toni Forte, Marianna Bocchino,
Marie Pausz, Mary Aimutis, Barbara Kochie, Marie
Karpeles, Joe Rosendale, Richard Bartomioli, Mary Ann
Pecci, Walter Pruiksma and Anne Leahy.
Thank You
To the residents of Greenbriar II,
Thank you for supporting our Teddy Bear Tea. Fiftytwo beautifully-dressed bears were distributed to children
by the Ocean County Head Start Program.
Thank you to Rose Marie Lodico and Pat Vincelli for
their help right from the start; to Anne Marie Willcox and
Diane Mansfield for their gracious help in setting up for
the Tea, and to Pete Flipse for transporting the bears to
Aristicare in Manchester which manages the project.
I am sure Astrid Doughty looked down on us with a
GREAT BIG SMILE. She began the Teddy Bear Project
in 1989. Thank you, Astrid, for all the smiles you put on
children’s faces, as well as on the faces of the residents
who dressed the bears.
Liz Slane and I thank everyone who participated. It
could not have been the success it was without the help
of all.
Sincerely, Marie Karpeles
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I’d like to thank the CareRing office staff and drivers for your time and dedication through the past year.
CareRing provides an important service to the residents of
the Greenbriar II community and with your help we can
continue to offer our services. Please feel free to contact
me anytime.
The September luncheon will be held sometime in the
Spring. Thank you for your patience.
Anne Leahy
God has not called us to see through each other, but
to see each other through. - Author Unknown
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New Residents
Submitted by Mary Ann Pecci
Meet Nora McVicker, 49 Rainier Dr, retired Senior
Secretary for the Diocese of Metuchen. Formerly a resident
of both Woodbridge and Belmar, Nora munches popcorn
during TV viewing. Her favorite pastime, though, is spending time with family and friends - she loves those frequent
lunch dates! WELCOME, Nora!
Louis and Ellen Dorse bid Scranton, PA, good-bye for
their home at 17 Olympus Way. Ellen, a retired teacher from
the Western Wayne School District, practices Tai Chi and
is interested in needle crafts, cooking and her volunteer
work. Lou also practices Tai Chi and his other interests
include UFO phenomenon, chess and military history.
Retired from the PA Dept. of Transportation, this former
engineering technician and certified field investigator for
MUFON, enjoys TV viewing with a bag of salted peanuts.
WELCOME, Louis and Ellen!
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Here are Sebastian and Trudy Ferrantell. Previously
from Dumont, N.J., the couple now resides at 6 Andes
Court. Sebastian is an excellent tailor. The couple enjoys
watching TV, particularly Fox Network. WELCOME,
Sebastian and Trudy!
From Wall Township, Gerry and Marty Metzgar are
the new residents of 28 Rainier Drive. Marty currently
continues to pursue his full-time profession. Exercise is
a favorite hobby of this couple, who enjoy munching on
apples and pretzels when watching a favorite TV show.
Unfortunately, Gerry had fractured both knees and although
one is completely healed, the other continues to be troublesome. WELCOME, Gerry and Marty!
Romantic Comedy
By Pat Cerro
As you can imagine, most of the action takes place
between Carmichael and Craddock as their careers and
relationship evolves. Crawford and McLaughlin appear
really perfect in their parts. He displays his world-weary
and sarcastic self, and she is always positively happy and
extremely motivated. Their swift and witty conversations
remain, through their unrequited love interest in each other
over the 9 years they are together, until some resolution
finally emerges.
I know the title includes the word “Comedy”. It definitely has some very witty and cleverly funny lines, but it
was not your typical laugh-out-loud, as you roll down the
aisles comedy. Romantic Comedy leaned more to real life,
a mixture of love and relationships, difficulties, challenges,
successes and failures, sprinkled with good times and
laughter. It was a play that drew you in and made you experience true empathy and understanding for the characters.
Two and a half hours of wonderful entertainment
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The supporting cast includes Blanche Daily, cleverly
played by my girl Gail Sheehan. I’ve watched Gail’s acting
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self-assured agent who was a former showgirl. She appears
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newcomer, and a definite plus to The Guild Theatreworks,
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Garden Club Column
The Care of
Christmas Cacti
By Barbara Kochie
On October 30th the Master Gardeners of the Rutgers
Cooperative Extension and Agricultural Center in Toms
River held an open house. One of the speakers talked about
the care of the typical Christmas plants many of us buy
or receive as gifts. The Christmas cactus is one holiday
plant many people use as decorations in their homes and
it survives well from year to year.
There are actually three different blooming times
for “Christmas Cacti”. Cacti with serrated leaves bloom
around Thanksgiving; cacti with soft, scalloped leaves
bloom around Christmas and those with thicker, longer
leaves bloom around Easter. None of these cacti like to
be in direct sunlight and their leaves will turn red to show
their displeasure with the sunny location.
Being cacti they want very little water. Only when the
ground in the pot is very dry should they be watered. Cacti
do like cactus fertilizer. They also love cool temperatures
of 55-60 degrees by day and 40-50 degrees at night at this
time of year. They are the perfect winter plant for anyone
with a three-season sunroom at the shore. Once the sunroom
starts to heat up in the spring the Christmas Cactus will
need to be brought into the cooler house.
Getting the “Christmas Cactus” to flower requires it to
have a good amount of darkness. A room that you do not
go into at all in the evening is best. Once buds form, the
cactus requires more water and does not want to be moved
or even rotated.
Christmas Cacti are beautiful plants to grow from one
Christmas season to the next and require only minimal care.
On Monday, January 19th, 2015, the Greenbriar
II Garden Club will hold its reorganization meeting
in the Arts and Crafts room at 10 am. Committees
will be forming for the coming events planned by
the club in 2015. All residents are invited to attend
and join with seasoned and rookie gardeners as they
share and learn new gardening techniques from each
other and invited speakers.
Don’t Be Fooled!
By Colleen Tierney
Although it’s winter, don’t assume that the rabies virus is not a threat. If you don’t read or follow local news,
you probably did not know that on November 15, 2014, a
raccoon was picked up in Brick and it tested POSITIVE
for rabies! Once again, people have been warned NOT
TO FEED feral cats, of which there are numerous such
animals that roam throughout the township. They become
more numerous in neighborhoods where well-meaning
citizens who feel sorry for them, especially during winter
months, keep feeding them. Cats frequently have run-ins
with wildlife, namely raccoons, skunks, opossums and
bats. If you allow your pet cat outdoors, make absolutely
certain that its rabies vaccination is current. Better yet, if
you think that a cat “needs” to be outside to be “happy”, you
are seriously misinformed. Of course dog owners should
also make sure that their dog’s vaccinations are up-to-date.
*****
Another, and often repeated news story which is appearing locally is the warning about telephone scams. It
seems that Brick residents are falling for these despite the
warnings. The IRS and all other legitimate agencies DO
NOT make phone calls to tell people that they owe money.
They send notices through the mail. If you subscribe to
Caller ID, and especially if you also have an answering
machine and/or subscribe to Voicemail, do not even answer
a call that comes up as “anonymous”, “unknown name”,
a town’s name/state without a phone number, etc. Let the
call go to your answering machine or voicemail. If it’s
legitimate, the caller will leave a message and you can
decide whether to respond. Most of these calls leave no
message, therefore they are not important and are likely a
scam. Keep in mind that when you answer a call, it verifies that your phone number is a working number, even
if you hang up. Learn to IGNORE these calls!!! They are
most often what’s referred to as a “robocall” - a computer
is dialing numbers at random and when no one “picks up”
after two rings it moves on to the next number. If you pick
up, you have verified your phone number is working - be
prepared to receive even more calls in the future.
Woodchuck’s BBQ
By Rosemary Sparandera
Being big fans of barbeque, Don and I had wanted to
try Woodchuck’s on Route 88, in Point Pleasant. Since I
have been working very hard packing, getting ready for my
move from GBII, Don decided I needed a night off from
cooking, and off we went.
We were pleasantly surprised with the wonderful menu,
and found it difficult to decide what we wanted to try. The
entrees are varied, and reasonably priced. We decided to try
different food so that we could share. I ordered the Baby
Backs Pulled Meats Platter. The ribs are half a slab. I chose
the Ribs and Beef Brisket. Don decided on the Ribs and
Pulled Chicken. My sides were homemade four cheese Mac
‘n’ cheese and Woody’s baked beans which were delicious.
Don had side salad and sweet potato fries, also very tasty.
The entrees include a choice of two sides and cornbread.
The prices range from $15 to $ 20 for these meals.
When our food was served, we could not believe the
size of our plates. Needless to say, we had food to take
home. You can order your ribs Wet, Dry Rubbed, Spicy
or Naked. We both chose the Spicy. They were delicious,
and the meat was falling off the bones. My brisket did not
require a knife, it was so very tender. Don enjoyed his
pulled chicken as did I, when we tasted each other’s meals.
The menu consists of many appetizers, wings, salads,
a good variety of sides and sandwiches. They also have
specialty burgers and gourmet grilled cheese. Another item
on the menu is Woodchuck’s Family Feast Deals.
They have catering, take out, or take advantage of their
Free Delivery. Don and I heartily agreed that this place was
a great find, and plan on going back in the future.
They are located on Route 88 next to Rita’s Ices. From
GBII, go left on Burnt Tavern Road to Route 88, make a
left on 88, and drive east for about a mile. You will see the
restaurant on the left. Their telephone # is 732-714-1400.
I hope you enjoy this place as much as Don and I did.
By the way, it is also a BYOB.
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Texas Hold’em Tournament
Story & photo by Rose Marie Lodico
It was a casino-like atmosphere as the
participants and on-lookers arrived for the
Texas Hold’em Tournament. There were 40
players that were ready to play the elimination game until the bitter end. Men and women alike remained poker-faced as they bluffed
or strategized through the game to reign as
the tournament winner. Prizes were at stake,
but most important were the bragging rights
of the victors. As the night progressed, the
players had one chance to buy back into the
game within a certain time limit.
The tournament began with five tables of
eight players, plus one dealer. Players who
went all-in were eliminated as soon as they
lost their chips. Tables were condensed until
there was one table of eight players. Nina
Zamarra, and Ray Hohman from Greenbriar
l, split the prizes for first and second place.
Before the game, we had sandwiches, coffee and dessert. The winner
Joe Marsella was third, and a friend of Joe of the 50/50 drawing was Karen McConnell. Thanks again to the R&A
Mignone’s came in fourth.
and committee for all their hard work.
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A View From the Briarpatch
By Ren Relli
Returning to Florida in late October, one of my first
projects to do was go to my community theater and check
in. Pajama Game had closed. Running at that time was
a comedy called Dixie Swim Club. Too late to make a
contribution to the production, we just sat back to enjoy
the last performance. First thing I noticed was that the set
was a simple box-type cottage with way too many things
on the wall. Clutter.
The next thing was the cast: Five women, mostly large.
These were supposed to be swimmers. The play itself is
a classic. Five southern women, whose friendships began
many years ago on their college swim team, set aside a
long weekend every August to recharge those relationships.
Free from husbands, kids and jobs, they meet at the same
beach cottage on North Carolina’s Outer Banks to catch
up, laugh and meddle in each other’s lives. The Dixie Swim
Club focuses on four of those weekends and spans a period
of thirty-three years.
Sherry, the spunky team captain, desperately tries to
maintain a “perfect” life, and continues to be the group’s
leader. Dinah, the wisecracking overachiever, her victories
in the courtroom are in stark contrast to the frustrations
of her personal life. Lexie, pampered and outspoken, is
determined to hold on to her looks and youth as long as
possible. She enjoys being married - over and over and over
again. The self-deprecating Vernadette, acutely aware of
the dark cloud that hovers over her life, has decided to give
up. And then, sweet, eager-to-please Jeri Neal experiences
a late entry into motherhood that takes them all by surprise.
As their lives unfold and the years pass, these women
increasingly rely on one another, through advice and rowdy
humor to get through the challenges that life flings at them.
When fate throws a wrench into one of their lives in the
second act, these friends, proving the enduring power of
teamwork, rally ‘round their own with the strength and
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with a sweet feel. Steel Magnolias has a personal tragedy at
the core of its story, and Dixie Swim Club does, too, when
late in the play one of the group is the first to move on to
that great swim meet in the sky.
Breaking down the set later in the week, we kept most
of the walls up for the next production, a Christmas show.
By tradition, anyone who shows up for auditions is in the
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On Veteran’s Day 2014
A Salute to Our Fallen Heros and All Veterans
By Richard Bartomioli
As time goes by, we all tend to forget,
The terrible sacrifices made by so many and yet,
We take for granted the freedom they won,
With loss of life and the suffering of many a
mother’s son.
Our brave soldiers hit the shores of France,
No other army would have taken such a chance.
Adolph Hitler knew that he was through,
When our brave warriors said,
“We’re coming for you.”
Please keep in mind, the families those
brave soldiers left behind.
They knew the sacrifices they had to make,
So that the enemy could never take over our people
or our beloved land.
Boy, wouldn’t that have been just grand.
It seems that peace on earth is a thing of the past,
All these crazy terrorists won’t let peace last.
Why are they all fighting us, I just can’t tell,
I just wish they would all go straight to hell.
The crime and shame of our wonderful VA,
Just letting our veteran’s pass away.
Yes, they kept false records to make more dough,
I’d like to show them all where to go.
All these Vets went through hell to save our land
And these bums didn’t even give them a helping hand.
That is really not the American way,
And that’s about all I have to say.
Except right from my heart
May God always bless the U.S.A.
And may God Bless you all.
Amen
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My First Poem Touches on the American Revolution!
By Richard Bartomioli
Today when you see a flag draped coffin,
And lately that seems to be pretty often,
The soldier who takes the flag off to fold,
Is following tradition that’s really old.
The 13 folds each have a special meaning,
To show the way our country was leaning.
When the folding is done, it takes on the
appearance of a cocked hat.
Worn by all the brave men who fought against
England, just like that.
Under General George Washington and
Captain John Paul Jones.
And they did it all without making bones,
About the hardship and suffering they had to endure.
Because they knew that their mission was pure.
To get away from England was their one desire,
And they did it all with hearts afire,
To preserve the rights, priviledges and freedom
we all enjoy today.
Is there any more that I can say?
Oh yes!
The 21 gun salute to honor the fallen is the sum total of 1776,
Another one of our founding fathers’ cute little tricks.
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Canine Column
By Colleen Tierney
Frequently I’ve written about how canine and human
health issues are so similar, often identical. These articles
are based on actual medical/scientific research findings,
NOT from some questionable internet source, but from
newsletters of veterinary colleges in American universities,
such as Cornell, U. of Pennsylvania, Tufts, etc. Here are
some more recent findings.
It has long been known that in dogs which lack pigment, in other words, truly white dogs, deafness is often
the concern. Before getting to the “meat of the matter”,
Dalmatians and Harlequin Great Danes do have colored
spots, they are often deaf because their skin lacks pigment
(you might know that Dalmatians are born white and spots
appear as their adult coat grows). That aside, the medical
explanation for deafness is that pigment cells on top of the
head are supposed to migrate to the inner ear at a particular
time during development of the fetus. Instead of providing
color, these pigment cells allow sound transmission within
the ear. Just as this occurs in dogs, it also occurs in humans.
In humans whose pigment cells fail to migrate into the inner ear, it is called Waardenburg Syndrome. Because the
genetic make-up of purebred dogs is much easier to trace
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DNA material, scientists can locate the problem genes,
then find a solution to induce the formation of pigment at
the right time in utero in order to prevent deafness in dogs,
as well as people. Geneticists are also using this method
to locate the genes responsible for heart disease, various
cancers, diabetes, narcolepsy and a host of other health
problems. A major point which is being made is that by
having developed pure breeds of dogs, breeders have unknowingly begun a process which will make it possible to
create therapies and even cures for the diseases that affect
both dogs and humans.
A condition recognized so often today, especially
among our returning veterans, is Post Traumatic Stress
Disorder (PTSD). It’s another situation humans share with
canines. As with people, some dogs present with PTSD for
a period of time and eventually are able to recover. Approximately 20% of dogs which exhibit PTSD are unable
to “get over it”, and coincidentally about 20% of humans
who experience PTSD symptoms are likewise unable to
recover fully. What seems to prevent PTSD from becoming a chronic condition in dogs is the administration of
propranolol, a beta blocker, before or within a short time
of a traumatic event. Dr. Nicholas Dodman, who is heading
this research, is hopeful that if soldiers are given this beta
blocker within hours of witnessing an horrific event, they
might be able to avoid PTSD.
Finally, a significant fact: All humans and all dogs
share the ability to digest starch. It is believed that this
factor allowed dogs to become one of the first animals to
be domesticated. Even the apes, such as chimpanzees, are
unable to digest nutrients found in starch, yet dogs can.
Surprisingly, wolves cannot break down nutrients in starch
nearly as efficiently as dogs. Researchers from Harvard,
MIT, Uppsala University in Sweden refer to this similarity between humans and canines as “parallel evolution”.
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how important it is to feed your pet dog a diet rich in meat
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for a cd. Beneath that is a small slot for a digital camera’s
that did or did not have arms. I needed no help, thank you.
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Teddy Bear Tea
By Patricia Vincelli, Photos by Judy Muldoon and Marie Karpeles
On November 16th we celebrated a wonderful tribute to Astrid Doughty
who originated the first Teddy Bear Tea in 1989.
Thank you to over 60 residents who came and admired the 52 bears
that were dressed in so many imaginative outfits. Every year they get better and better. We had a Ninja turtle,
sports figures, camouflage, bathing beauties complete with sun glasses and so many more-one nicer than the
next. Many of them were handmade and very beautiful. Bill Clark has donated the bears for many years and
we are very grateful for his generosity in memory of his aunt, who was a former Greenbriar II resident.
When Astrid was in the hospital she asked Marie Karpeles to take over, which she did with Liz Slane, Rose
Marie Lodico and Patricia Vincelli. Thank you, Marie, for your hard work in doing this and making it such a
great success.
Marie and Liz wanted to have a special tribute to Astrid. They set up her photo and did a beautiful angel
bear, and had a special tea cup in her honor. In Astrid’s memory, the angel bear and the camouflage bear are
being given to her son and daughter.
A special thank you to Peter Flipse who transported the bears to the Arista Care Nursing Home in Manchester, and then onto the Ocean County Head Start Program where they will be distributed to needy children.
Thank you to the R&A Committee who provided the refreshments for everyone.
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How to Be a
Good Neighbor
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Here are some ideas we’ve found to be helpful:
1. Leave your phone number with your neighbor’s
close relatives. In an emergency, they can call you to check
to see if everything is okay.
2. Take their mail in, and pick up the monthly bulletin
from the clubhouse for them.
3. Keep an eye on their house if they will be away for
a time. Open and close blinds and put a timer on for them.
4. If there’s a light snow, sweep or shovel driveway
or walk for them.
5. Take their garbage out and in for them.
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January Happenings
By Patricia Vincelli
Thursday, January 1 - Maintenance Fees due, $145
Thursday, January 1 - Office closed, no bus, no activities;
New Year’s Day Brunch, 11:00 am-2 pm
Sunday, January 4 - GB II Movie (to be picked) 2:00 pm
Monday, January 5 - All activities resume this first week.
No Serenaders for the month of January
Monday, January 5 - 10:00 am-Noon, Ticket Sales for
Italian Festival on January 25 (Details to follow)
Tuesday, January 6 - 10:00 am-Noon, Ticket Sales for
Italian Festival on January 25
Wednesday, January 7 - 5:30-7:00 pm, Ticket Sales for
Italian Festival on January 25
Wednesday, January 7 - Board Meeting, 10:00 am, Conference Room
Thursday, January 8 - R&A Meeting, 9:30 am
Monday, January 12 - Ceramics resumes, 10:00 am
Monday, January 19 - Martin Luther King, Jr. Day; Clubhouse office open. GB II Bus, 12:30 pm Brick Plaza.
No mail/No recycling
Monday, January 19 - Garden Club, 10:00 am
Tuesday, January 20 - Recycling
Wednesday, January 21 - Board Meeting, 10:00 am,
Auditorium, Televised on Channel 97
Wednesday, January 21 - No Garbage
Thursday, January 22 - Garbage Day
Thursday, January 22 - Library Committee Meeting,
9:30 am
Thursday, January 22 - Women’s Club, 1:00 pm
Friday, January 23 - TV/Audio Meeting, 10:00 am
Sunday, January 25 - Italian Festival (details to follow)
Friday, January 30 - Bazaar Workshops Begin!! 10:30 am
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“Butt Lane”
By Walter N. Pruiksma
A “BUTT” IS THE UNBURNED END OF A
SMOKED CIGARETTE
As a teenager I developed into a pretty good softball
pitcher. The summer between my junior and senior year
of high school, Forstmann Woolen Company hired me to
pitch for their men’s softball team. I worked the 11 p.m. to
7 a.m. shift. There was a smoking area in the mill. It was an
eight-foot by eight-foot area painted dark green. You could
see that the green was long gone and was now covered with
brown nicotine. There was also a bucket filled with sand
where the smokers would put their “butts”.
In the army the men were told to break open the “butt”
and scatter the tobacco on the ground. The fact is that wherever humans work, play and travel you will find “butts”.
A few months ago, I walked into an area store to
purchase coffee. I observed a clerk filling up the cigarette
shelf. The store manager happened to be there so I asked
him what was the average monthly sale of cigarettes. He
said, “$30,000”. One store - $30,000! There have to be
plenty of “butts” somewhere.
In Brick I found an area I call “Butt Lane”. It’s located
at the entrance of Quest Diagnostics where people go for
blood tests. Every time Claire and I go for a blood test,
we find people smoking. Can you guess what they leave
behind?
At the age of 91 I can happily say that I never smoked
cigarettes, because I believe it is a waste of money and a
dirty and unhealthy habit. Can anyone tell me one good
thing that comes from cigarette smoking?
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Philosophy of Ambiguity
For those who love the philosophy of ambiguity, as
well as the idiosyncrasies of the English language.
• If the police arrest a mute, do they tell him he has the
right to remain silent?
• Why do they put Braille on the drive-through bank machines?
• How do they get deer to cross the road only at those yellow road signs?
• What was the best thing before sliced bread?
• One nice thing about egotists: They don’t talk about
other people.
• Does the Little Mermaid wear an algebra?
(This one took me a minute)
• How is it possible to have a Civil War?
• If one synchronized swimmer drowns, do the rest drown
too?
• If you ate both pasta and antipasto, would you still be
hungry?
• If you try to fail, and succeed, which have you done?
• Whose cruel idea was it for the word ‘Lisp’ to have ‘s’
in it?
• Why are hemorrhoids called “hemorrhoids” instead of
“assteroids?”
• Why is it called tourist season if we can’t shoot at them?
• Why is there an expiration date on sour cream?
• If you spin an Oriental man in a circle three times, does
he become disoriented?
• Can an Atheist get insurance against acts of God?
Briar II Snoop
By Judy Muldoon
“When weather conditions force you to stay indoors, how do you enjoy passing the time?”
PHIL McCONNELL
Phil says he has no hobbies, but likes to read!
HELEN RZESZOTARSKI
Helen said she likes to embroider, watch television
(she likes westerns), and used to do puzzles. She also likes
to bake.
MARY ANN CRAIG
Mary Ann reads and plays games.
MARIE KARPELES
Marie likes to snuggle under a blanket on the couch
and either read or watch a chick flick.
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Fungus Grows Amungus
Story and photo by Colleen Tierney
My phone rings. I answer, “Hello, my gorgeous, wonderful, terrific next-door neighbor.” Marie Ferrara replies,
“Hello, most beautiful, fantastic, stupendous neighbor.”
Yes, this is how Marie, Ernie and I greet each other, often
using other adjectives to address ourselves.
Marie: “Put your coat on and come out back. I
want you to see this.”
Me: “I just took it off, but okay, give me a second.”
I’d no idea what I was supposed to look at, but
could see Ernie standing behind his house. He told
me to look at the area behind the sunroom, where a
dead tree had been removed. Marie also came out,
and we stood looking at huge clusters of mushrooms
encircling the spot where there used to be the tree.
I’ve taken numerous photos of mushrooms, different colors, sizes and types, but this was an enormous grouping of fungi. After my initial “Wow!”,
the next thought to enter my mind was, “This would
make a good article for our world renowned Briar II
News!” and “I’ll get my camera!”
After taking several shots from different angles,
Marie asked if I’d e-mail them to her so she could
forward them to her family, which of course I would (and
did).
This enormous mass of mushrooms which seemed to
have “sprouted” overnight, despite the bitterly cold weather
we had mid-November, was quite interesting.
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Where Did These Expressions Come From?
A SHOT OF WHISKEY
In the old west a .45 cartridge for a six-gun cost 12
cents, so did a glass of whiskey. If a cowhand was low
on cash he would often give the bartender a cartridge in
exchange for a drink. This became known as a shot of
whiskey.
THE WHOLE NINE YARDS
American fighter planes in WW2 had machine guns
that were fed by a belt of cartridges. The average plane held
belts that were 27 feet (9 yards) long. If the pilot used all
his ammo he was said to have given it the whole nine yards.
BUYING THE FARM
This is synonymous with dying. During WW1 soldiers
were given life insurance policies worth $5,000.
This was about the price of an average farm so if you
died you “bought the farm” for your survivors.
IRON CLAD CONTRACT
This came about from the ironclad ships of the Civil
War. It meant something so strong it could not be broken.
PASSING THE BUCK /THE BUCK STOPS HERE
Most men in the early west carried a jack knife made
by the Buck Knife Company. When playing poker it was
common to place one of these Buck knives in front of the
dealer so that everyone knew who he was. When it was
time for a new dealer the deck of cards and the knife were
given to the new dealer. If this person didn’t want to deal
he would “pass the buck” to the next player. If that player
accepted, then “the buck stopped there”.
RIFF RAFF
The Mississippi River was the main way of traveling
from north to south.
Riverboats carried passengers and freight but they
were expensive, so most people used rafts. Everything had
the right of way over rafts which were considered cheap.
The steering oar on the rafts was called a “riff’ and this
transposed into riff-raft, meaning low class.
COBWEB
The Old English word for “spider” was “cob”.
SHIP STATE ROOMS
Traveling by steamboat was considered the height of
comfort. Passenger cabins on the boats were not numbered.
Instead they were named after states. To this day cabins on
ships are called staterooms.
SLEEP TIGHT
Early beds were made with a wooden frame. Ropes
were tied across the frame in a criss-cross pattern. A straw
mattress was then put on top of the ropes. Over time the
ropes stretched, causing the bed to sag.The owner would
then tighten the ropes to get a better night’s sleep.
SHOWBOAT
These were floating theaters built on a barge that was
pushed by a steamboat. These played small towns along
the Mississippi River. Unlike the boat shown in the movie
“Showboat” these did not have an engine. They were gaudy
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Little Poem, So True It Hurts!
Submitted by Toni Forte and Sissie Jones
Another year has passed
And we’re all a little older.
Last summer felt hotter
And winter seems much colder.
There was a time not long ago
When life was quite a blast
Now I fully understand
About ‘Living in the Past’
We used to go to weddings,
Football games and lunches.
Now we go to funeral homes
And after-funeral brunches.
We used to have hangovers,
From parties that were gay.
Now we suffer body aches
And whine the night away.
We used to go out dining,
And couldn’t get our fill.
Now we ask for doggie bags,
Come home and take a pill.
We used to often travel
To places near and far.
Now we get sore asses
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And drink a little booze.
Now we stay home at night
And watch the evening news.
That, my friend is how life is,
And now my tale is told.
So, enjoy each day and live it up...
Before you’re too damned old!
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WOW! Beautiful Costa Rica
By Pat Cerro
Yep, “Wow! Beautiful!” was the expression that most
people used as their comment to pictures I posted on Facebook of my recent trip to Costa Rica.
Costa Rica is a country in Central America, two degrees north of the equator. Its average temperature is 81
degrees all year round. While we were enjoying sun, fun
and temperatures in the 80’s, Brick was in a freeze and
much of the U.S. was getting snow. I must admit, by luck
we had chosen the best week for our trip.
I never expected to ever visit Costa Rica, but am very
glad that I had the opportunity to do so. It is a beautifully
scenic country, complete with many beaches surrounded by
hills and mountains offering wonderful views. We stayed
on the Pacific Ocean side, in the Guanacaste region. To be
more specific, we stayed at the Pacifico (a luxury resort
community) in Playas del Coco (Coco Beach) in Guanacaste. We were surrounded by the Guanacaste Mountain
Range.
If you are the adventurous type there is so much for you
to do. There are hiking trails and horseback riding, which
are another great way to enjoy the area’s natural beauty
and make memorable adventures. Other activities include
tubing, mountain biking and waterfall swimming. We could
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also zipline through the rainforest or do whitewater rafting,
as well as soak in the hot springs.
Since I’m not the least bit adventurous, I was quite
satisfied laying poolside (by the way, there were three pools,
and one had somewhat of a waterfall), or exercising in the
pool and soaking in the wonderful hot tub at the Pacifico
Resort. Visiting the lovely beaches, walking in the Pacific
Ocean at its edge, and getting a massage right on the beach
was about as adventuresome as I got. At Father Rooster, a
restaurant on Playa Ocotal Beach, I would not even order
the red snapper meal that everyone else ordered because it
came complete with head, eyes and opened mouth.
The Pacifico Private Beach Club was more my style.
During the day I lounged in the oversized chaise lounges in
the lovely cabanas, offering me a safe haven from the sun.
The Beach Club also featured two pools that extend forever;
it seemed into the far recesses of the Pacific Ocean. In the
evening there was time for sipping Margaritas poolside
while we were entertained by Spanish music consisting
of men playing bongos and keyboard, including a pretty
female singer. There was floor dancing and chair dancing
to the tuneful music, but the main event was yet to come.
My favorite thing is to take pictures of sunsets wherever I go. Each place is different, but always offers excitement
and beauty. Costa Rica did not disappoint me. I headed for
the coco-sand beach, which is positioned in the middle of
the bay’s crescent-shaped beach and surrounded by the
glorious rainforest mountains for which the country is so
well known. I snapped away as the sun began to descend
behind the mountains. The golden color in the sky was
magnificent as the sun set, leaving mountains and palm
trees silhouetted in black.
I cannot say enough about Costa Rica. You will just
have to visit and learn for yourself. Probably any week is
the best week to make that trip.
WOW! Beautiful Costa Rica
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The cold weather makes it hard to get motivated
to go outdoors and shoot, but there are some great
photo opportunities to be had in winter. Make
certain you dress for the cold and watch for ice!
Even when there is no snow, icy pond make
great subjects. Look for ducks, geese, or sea
gulls standing on the ice. Ice also makes for great
reflection images. Many normal scenes take on a
new meaning in the cold of winter
After a snowfall there are great shots
everywhere. The challenge with snow shots is
getting the proper exposure. A very bright snowy
scene tricks you camera into thinking there is
too much light, so the camera will cut back on
exposure. This makes the snow in your images
look gray. If you know how to set your exposure
compensation, increase the exposure by 1 stop
to brighten the snow. If your camera has “scene”
modes, use the one for snow or beach.
The bare leafless trees make nice silhouette
shots and are very good for black and white
photography. They are especially effective with a
sunrise or sunset behind them.
That’s it for this month. As always you can
email [email protected] with any
photographic questions. Visit my web site at
www.KirmsPhotography.com if you’d like to see
more of my images. Remember to keep shooting
and trying to improve your images, but most
importantly, have fun with your camera.
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January Recipes
Broccoli Casserole
Submitted by Marie Pausz
2 pkgs. frozen broccoli or 2 bunches fresh broccoli
1 can golden mushroom soup
1/2 cup mayonnaise
2 eggs, beaten
1 cup cheddar cheese, grated
1 medium onion
1/2 cup butter or margarine
1 cup packaged stuffing mix
salt - pepper
1. Par cook broccoli and drain.
2. Slice and saute onion.
3. Combine onion, soup, mayonnaise, eggs, salt & pepper.
4. Mix with broccoli.
5. Place in ovenproof casserole dish
6. Sprinkle stuffing on top -cover with melted butter.
7. Top with cheese.
8. Bake at 350 for 45 minutes. Makes 8 servings.
Asian Coleslaw
Submitted by Mary Aimutis
serves 4 to 6
4 cups Chinese cabbage
1/2 cup finely sliced onion
1/2 cup finely sliced carrot
juice of 1/2 lime
2 tsp low sodium soy sauce
2 tsp toasted sesame oil
1/8 tsp salt
1/4 tsp freshly ground black pepper
1. In a large bowl, combine the cabbage, onion and
carrot. In a small bowl, whisk together the lime juice, soy
sauce, sesame oil, salt and pepper.
2. When ready to serve, pour the dressing over the
vegetables and mix well.
Seven Layer Salad
Submitted by Sissie Jones
1 head iceberg lettuce, shredded
1 green pepper - diced
1 cup celery - chopped
1 large onion - chopped
1 box frozen peas
2 cups mayonnaise
1 tablespoon brown sugar
1/2 cup Cheddar cheese - shredded
1/2 cup bacon bits
Prepare salad in a large bowl. Add ingredients one at
a time as given, in a separate layer. Do not toss. Cover and
refrigerate for 8 hours or overnight. Serve in bowl, making
sure each guest digs down deep to get a portion of each
layer. You may also prepare in individual salad bowls, again
making seven layers. This salad will keep one or two days
if necessary. Makes 8 generous servmgs.
Be sure to layer according to recipe for flavors to blend
properly.
Italian Wedding Soup
Submitted by Marianna Bocchino
8 cups homemade chicken broth
2 tsp. dried basil
3/4 lb. ground beef
1 tsp. dried parsley
3/4 lb. ground pork
1/2 cup grated Parmesan, (plus 1 cup reserved)
3 eggs (plus 5 eggs reserved)
2 medium heads escarole, cleaned and chopped
1 cup dry breadcrumbs
In a separate pot over medium heat, bring the broth
to boil.
In a separate large bowl, combine the ground beef,
ground pork, 3 eggs, bread crumbs, basil, parsley and 1/2
cup Parmesan cheese.
Mix well and form into bite size balls.
Drop the balls into the broth.
Add escarole into broth
When meatballs rise to the top, they are cooked (about
6 to 7 minutes).
When escarole wilts it is done
In a separate bowl combine the remaining 5 eggs with
the remaining 1 cup of cheese. Pour this mixture into the
soup stirring continuously, until the egg is cooked.
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