11.11 CHAMPIONING the vision at the Presbyterian HOME for Children hope STRENGTH for today AND BRIGHT vol.05 {brought to you through the generous contribution of CHANCY & } STUART WEST my roots and wings.org 01 ROOTS and WINGS has been chosen as the name of this publication because we have a deep-seated desire to give both of these to each child that comes to us: ROOTS t o nourish and establish them, to ground them in who God says they are and to give them room to grow with a place and people who embody home; WINGS that they may soar beyond whatever hinders them and achieve much more than they have planned for themselves. AS WE ENTER THE HOLIDAYS, we’re excited to share with you stories of inspiration heart toward the source of all hope, Christ Jesus, and that you will be greatly blessed as you So turn the page and imagine Christmas morning at CW cottage where the Messers love on their nine kids (including two biological children) and not only matter-of-factly manage their brood of aspiring athletes, but carefully look for and draw out those qualities that make each unique. Then you’ll want to turn to page 13 and meet a wonderful woman, Becky Johnson, who uses clothing and compassion to help reveal to the children here their own value and self-worth. And don’t miss the story on page 17. You’ll be amazed as you read about one of path would lead. In the face of a difficult decision, she chose a brighter future for herself. Breezy Adams VICE CHAIRMAN Jerry Rohane TREASURER Jean Stuntz SECRETARY Geoffrey Wright PAST CHAIRMAN Diane Baker coming this Spring. While you’re reading, take a look at our Information and Announcements Dick Doyle on page 6 and our Friendly New Faces on page 15. We have several new people we want you to Shirley Fancher “Children’s Home” knowledge (available on page 5) so that when you’re sharing these amazing Janice Hamilton stories with your friends and they ask you questions, you’ll have all the answers. gift of $20 or more to The Children’s Home in honor of someone, we will send them a special Christy Kocsis Christmas card letting them know of your donation. Invite your friends to be a part of chang- Sonya Letson ing lives here at The Children’s Home. It’s what this season is all about, and we know you will want to be a part of it. As always, we welcome your comments. Email us at Wanda Whittenburg [email protected] or call 806.352.5771. Merry Christmas, and please Dawn Wells stop by and visit us soon! ALWAYS GROWING, The Children’s Home Staff Olen C. Wilson { p. with Becky Johnson p. that which of And we must mention a great way to give during this season. This Christmas when you give a Charles B. Kitsman p. new meet and exciting news to share! While you’re there, don’t forget to brush up on your basic p. and Speaking of the future, head to page 12 to get information about the roots and wings banquet p. the our young ladies who stood at a crossroads and recognized the two potential directions each CHAIRMAN announcements p. story take the time to be still and reflect during this busy season. James B. Austin IV and and hope from The Children’s Home. Our desire is that these pages will lead your mind and BOARD of TRUSTEES a side DREAMS are made p. JOIN the FUN! Somewhere in this newsletter, this symbol is hidden. You’ll win a pizza and Wii party with the kids on campus when you’re the first to contact us with the location of the symbol. Remember, it could be any size! TO WIN call 806.352.5771 or email [email protected] photography provided at a discount by ASHLYN MANNIS , } with assistant Jose Barron { } pictured here with wife, Racheal & son Israel It may seem odd to spend a lot of time considering someone else’s best qualities but that is what we do on a daily basis here at The Children’s Home. One of my greatest pleasures is speaking into the kids and naming the great things I see in them. Much like when the angel called to Gideon, who was hiding away in a wine press, “Oh Mighty Warrior”, we look for nuggets of potential in each youth and reveal those nuggets to them. As we consistently tell them about the amazing qualities God created in them, we see those qualities grow and develop. As a parent, boss, teacher or friend, you have the same ability to help build in others the strengths that God created them to have. Praise and encouragement of intrinsic traits works to firmly root them and nourish growth. How amazing to be able to partner in such a way with “God, who gives life to the dead and calls into existence things that don’t yet exist.” (Romans 4:17) boutiquephotographybyashlyn.com the Presbyterian Home for Children note all from of us 03 inspiring life information 06 07 mini bites building futures 09 12 save date q a: 13 15 friendly faces 17 p. my roots and wings.org 03 to have so many AMAZING and DEDICATED FAMILY TEACHERS, ASSISTANTS and PRNs on staff. People who are willing to focus on each child as an individual; who can see past the behaviors, hurts and needs to a vision of who that child can be. inspiring life “ “ WE are incredibly blessed p. The first time Reagan hit a ball, you should have seen her face!” Crystal Messer shares. “She was ECSTATIC! She’s very athletic - she can jump in and do anything - but she had never played a sport before she came here. Involvement in sports is one of the many new experiences Family were in a bad car accident this Teachers Jimmy and Crystal Messer lovingly provide. “We’re known at summer, Reagan took the initiative to the Y as the people with 50-million children,” Jimmy jokes. Aptly, with learn how to do laundry in order to enough kids to field a baseball team (nine including two biological be able to help out. “She takes joy in children), two of whom are in baseball, one who plays soccer, seven helping. She even offered to clean signed up for basketball and one who will be cheering, “All-Stars” is the our apartment,” the Messers smiled. chosen name for the Messer home, one of two at The Children’s Home specifically for kids ages five to ten. Crystal, who was adopted at age four, shares,”I know how it feels for your When Reagan joined the Messer family nine months ago, she was family to say, ‘I don’t want you.’ I determined to be first at everything - first to the car... first to finish know the love (of an adopted Mom) eating... It wasn’t as much about competitiveness as it was about getting and I know the dirty... not getting attention. “She begged for applause,” Crystal explains. In a home with fed... Mom’s not home. That’s my so many kids, giving everyone enough attention is difficult, but the drive to help these kids. It’s exhaust- Messers work hard to give each child moments of intense special time. ing, but we’re family. It’s hard and * “What we do depends on the kid,” they explain. “For a few, it’s cooking in the kitchen; for those struggling in school, it’s helping them study; for some, ten minutes on the floor playing fills them up.” And all the kids tiring, but in the end... when you know something is right, it’s right.” * name has been changed love to line up and circle the living room to be tickled and tossed about by Jimmy. “It’s tough, but we get to help them grow every day. We get to see how they develop individually and be a part of that!” Nine-year-old Reagan has flourished in the months she has been here. In addition to developing her incredible talent as an athlete, through the To seeds of growing and future greatness, they speak life; inspiring in each child a vision of his or her future-self. Encouraging the God-given ability to trust, to be joyful and giving, to not live in anger or self-pity, to hit a baseball, craft a bird-house or paint a picture, to be who they have been created to be. Such are the Family Teachers at The Children’s Home. experience of security and stability in her life, she’s become a leader in the home – moving from having to be first to being a servant. “She’s willing to do anything to help,” Crystal states. When Crystal and Jimmy the Presbyterian Home for Children my roots and wings.org we who are As it grew, Allen Early, Sr., an Amarillo businessman and philanthropist, donated land from an old military school at 1700 NW 13th Street for the expansion of the Presbyterian Home for Children which soon cared for 37 children. At this time, the majority of the children served were those whose parents had passed away or who were financially unable to provide for them. The Presbyterian Home for Children was further expanded in 1948 at the current location of 3400 S. Bowie. Dr. Thomsen purchased this land from Mr. Charles Wolflin for a mere $2500. The initial construction included four cottages and an administration building. This complex was dubbed, “Miracle on 34th Street.” It is upon this foundation that we operate the 7 cottages we have today: 2 which provide love and shelter to younger children (ages 5 10), 4 adolescent homes, and a Transitional Living Cottage for juniors and seniors as well as continued care for alumni as they pursue college or a career. Each cottage cares for 4-8 kids in a family setting. The majority of our kids now come from situations of abuse or neglect. In a safe and joyful atmosphere, our homes encourage the kids to be kids and work to develop areas of passion so that each child might reach his or her full potential. We seek to impart to them the tools and security necessary to explore and to experience success and failure safely with confidence of continued relationship. Each of our homes utilizes proven programs geared toward the ages and abilities of the child to teach each one the skills necessary for a successful life. From table manners to interviewing for a job to building healthy relationships, these programs provide the backbone of our campus. The heart, however, is the consistent love and compassion of Family Teaching couples, Assistants and PRN staff as we seek to bring up these individuals - challenging them and providing them with a variety of opportunities so that they might grow into wellrounded, Christ-centered people. information announcements wish list In February of 1923, Dr. R. Thomsen, the minister for what is now known as First Presbyterian Church, and some friends were meeting for coffee at the Amarillo Hotel when they noticed three children standing outside crying. The children were orphaned, hungry and in need of clean clothing. Dr. Thomsen and his friends fed and clothed the children and found them proper care. However, the memory of those little crying faces prompted Dr. Thomsen to search for a way to help other little ones as well, and March 1, 1924, the Presbyterian Home for Children was opened. p. and The Presbyterian Home for Children is a place where lives are nurtured, dreams are formed and futures are shaped. This was true at our earliest beginnings and continues to be true today. As world circumstances have changed, so have the needs of children. The Children’s Home has proven over time a readiness to adjust to meet those evolving needs. 06 IMPORTANT STUFF we want you to know ANNOUNCING my roots and wings.org We are excited to invite you to visit our redesigned website! Discover more about our history and ministry, catch up on stories you missed from past newsletters, find out how to get more involved and give easily online. FIELD DAY A BIG thank you to this amazing Bible study group for providing a day full of fun games and hotdogs for our kiddos and staff ! Our amazing day included the Corn Hole Toss, the Dizzy Bat, an Egg Race, Tug of War, a Plasma Car Race, the Chicken Pass, Kooky Clothes, and a Sac Race. • MELISSA & WES PURSER • SHELBY & SHANNON STAPP • ANDI & BRAD VEAZEY • CARRIE & NICK HICKS • SHANNON & JASON HERRICK • ASHLEY & KYLE SPARKMAN • MICHELE & ZAC ROSE • ERIN & TIM MCLEMORE A SPECIAL THANK YOU to the local chapter of the Christian Motorcyclist Association, AMARILLO BIBLE CRUSADERS, for hosting a BBQ for the kids and to Jeff Mitchell of TOOT ‘N TOTUM for donating the use of their cooker for the event. In-kind contributions allow you to participate in the ministry of The Children’s Home by providing goods, skills, or services. And they are tax deductible contributions. • Beef & Chicken • Turkeys for the holidays (15-20) • Camping & Hiking Equipment • multi-person tents • sleeping bags • fishing gear - tackle, rod and reels • camping stoves • backpacking equipment • Winter Gloves & Knit Caps (children size S - adult size XL) • New Undergarments • boys’ boxer shorts size 6-14 • men’s boxer shorts size S-XL • girls’ briefs or bikinis size 6-14 • women’s briefs or bikinis size 5-7 • New Socks • children’s socks any size and color • men‘s & ladies’ socks no show, white or black, one size fits most • Plastic Coat Hangers • Camper (16’x20’ bumper pull that sleeps 4-6) • 10’x24’ Campus Storage Building (for tools, bikes & sports equipment) • Large Armoire for scrapbooking supplies • Living Room Chair (upholstered, neutral colors) The UNION EAGLES competed in the TRI STATE FAIR with vegetables, ceramics, woodworking and leather craft projects, baked goods and more and won a total of 64 ribbons including: 2 BEST of SHOW • 31 1 ST Place ribbons • 18 2 ND Place ribbons • 11 3 RD Place ribbons the Presbyterian Home for Children my roots and wings.org 07 {as CHILDREN see it} One day one of my little girls informed me that she didn’t have to go to school anymore to learn p. because she could remember everything by taking a picture. She said she had a camera in her head she takes pictures with it to help her remember things. So I asked, “Then how is it you always seem to forget about picking up your toys?” She replied, “Sometimes I forget to put film in it.” q: What type of dinosaur makes the best music? a: A RAP-tor! horse sense Equine therapy through Horseplay at Mesquite to the nines Thanks to Sharon Bradley, Shelby Stapp and the rights of passage A hiking and camping trip to summit the 13,161 foot Ranch allows each cottage its own therapy time other numerous individuals for the special graduation peak of Mt. Wheeler in New Mexico was part of a during which they interact with the horses and other outfits for our 2011 graduating seniors. We want to monthly Bible-study for older boys hosted by CareNet members of their home both to learn life-skills, such thank everyone who was involved in helping our of Amarillo. Here, one of our boys works to start a as trust and self-control, and to work through graduates look and feel their best on their very fire with flint. CareNet also provides amazing Bible studies personal and inter-personal difficulties. special day! for our teenage girls and younger kids. AS WE CONCERN OURSELVES with giving our children A FUTURE, let us not neglect to give them A TODAY. – UNKNOWN the Presbyterian Home for Children my roots and wings.org 09 {THANK YOU to those who helped make the first TLC home a reality in 2007 } “ I LOVE EVERY PART OF TLC...I never dreamed I’d graduate from high school, much less go to college, but I’M DOING IT ALL. ” - Izabella Nancy & Al Abdullah • Melody & Chuck Alexander • Alice Allison • Amarillo Area Foundation • Amarillo Business Foundation • Amarillo National Bank • Sherman H. Anderson • Joyce Attebury • Dorothy Baggerly • Ann & Robert Ball • Cheryl & Robert Beckley • Glenda & Bob Bell • Bess Morgan Memorial Class • Mary E. Bivins Foundation p. Charles Bogard • Reid Bond • Ann Bookout • Pat Bright • Dick Brooks • Bruckner Family Foundation • Natalie & WP Buckthal • Susanne & Jack Bullock • Betty Burgy • Susan Burnette & Mark Morey • Norma & Tom Cambridge • Rita & Ray Castle • Pat Cathcart • Janette & Terry Caviness • Carolyn & Mark Christy • Joanne Robey Clark WH & ME Cobb Charitable Trust • Peggy & Harland Collins • Karen M. Cooley • Betty & Marvin Cooper • Beverly Cowden, Jr. • Bonne Rhea & Cliff Craig • Barbara & Dick Davis • Pattilou Dawkins • Allen Dawson • M.S. Doss Foundation, Inc. • Kay & Ron Edmondson • Gene & Elaine Edwards • LuNette & Craig Evetts Shirley & Ed Fancher • First Presbyterian Church - Amarillo, TX • First Presbyterian Church - Canadian, TX • FirstBank Southwest • The C.J. & Syble Fowlston Charitable Trust • Grace Franklin • Nona & Robert Fulton • Gilliland Family Foundation • Nancee & Scott Gilmour • Eleanor Glazener • Joanne & Steven Gosselin • Lynn & Gary Gwyn Janice & William Hamilton • Don & Sybil Harrington Foundation • Cynthia & Billy Hawkins • Mindy & Andy Hawkins • Elaine Hazelwood • Marilyn N. Henslee • Joan & Joe Horn • Betty & Joe K. Howell • Tammy & Paul Huff • Marsha & David Hutchins • Jean Irwin • Mitch Jones • Josephine Anderson Charitable Trust • Jane Juett Georgia & Chuck Kitsman • Sally & David Kritser • Claudette Landess • Stephanie & Rich Lapinski • Mary Nell & Rex Lemert • Sann Lindemann • J.E. & L.E. Mabee Foundation • Abbie & Wales Madden, Jr. • Virginia & John Maynard • Mays Foundation • Sue & Ken McCarty • Magdelena McMordie • Jan Metcalf Ned O. & Linda G. Miller Charitable Trust • Julie & Greg Mitchell • Edward S Morris • Gladys & Edward Morris • Kathy & Stan Morris • William & Louise Mullins Trust • Neely, Craig & Walton, LLP • Sharon & Larry Oeschger • Pat & Glen Parkey • Ann & Larry Parrish • Pete’s Car Smart Kia • The Waite & Genevieve Phillips Foundation Boone Pickens • Tennessee & Larry Pickens • Pinon Foundation • Geraldine Piper • Ruth & Bill Quackenbush • Myrna & Daniel Raffkind • Dave Richardson • Ed & Margaret Roberts Foundation • Jennifer & Sloan Rush • Bonnie & Bob Sanders • James R. Saunders • Marty Schantz • Betty & Bill Semmelbeck • Mildred Sentell The Sidwell Foundation • Donna & Gene Sidwell • Jeanne & Mark Sievers • Claire & Ray Snead • Betty & John Solis • Shannon & Brian Thaxton • Nancy & Champ Turner • Sharla & Joe Valdez • Molly & Brandt Vermillion • Roy Vineyard, Jr. • Frances A. Walker • Patrick Walker • Patsy & Jim Walker • Stacey & Reid Walker Lynn & Irvin Wall • Sandy & Jack Waller • Tol Ware • Darla & Douglas White • Sue & Jim Whitlock • Carol & Burk Whittenburg • Francie Whittenburg • Wanda Whittenburg • Vicki Wilmarth & Rohn Butterfield • Women of First Presbyterian Church - Amarillo, TX • Lacy & Geoffrey Wright • Xcel Energy building futures Once upon a time, after graduating high school, foster children nationwide were thrust into adulthood, on their own with little-to-no support system. Some succeeded, but many failed, struggling towards independence, falling through the cracks of society and becoming sad statistics. Believing that children deserve a better chance at the future, The Children’s Home responded to this crisis in 2002, casting a vision of continued support for graduating seniors. Thanks to the generosity of the community, in 2007 we opened the doors to the TLC cottage (Transitional Living Concepts) which takes teens through the critical years from youth into adulthood offering the guiding hand and safety net young adults need as they stumble towards independence as well as a home to return to for weekends, holidays, summers or in case of loss of employment. The next challenge we face results from the overwhelming success of the TLC program as well as the other programs of The Children’s Home. The TLC cottage has become a right of passage: younger kids on campus aspire to live there – working hard to learn the skills they need and display the maturity required to enter the program. Additionally, others have seen the effectiveness of the scope of care we offer and are desiring that same guidance and care for their own kids, asking to send their teens to The Children’s Home at age 16 or 17 so that they can move through the program and then into the TLC home. As more kids progress through The Children’s Home and desire to stay connected through the TLC program, the number of young people we can help is infinite. However, the TLC house itself is finite. Even now, we are seeking to “creatively rearrange” in order to provide this excellent program for the children who are ready for it. Please stand with us as we look to the future and determine to provide a The TLC PROGRAM at The Children’s Home STANDS AT THE CUTTING EDGE OF PROGRESS in the foster-care arena. It is SUCH A NEW CONCEPT that no complete curriculum has existed, until now. Carefully and methodically, The Children’s Home HAS CREATED one. This VASTLY SUCCESSFUL curriculum has been fully vetted by EXPERTS and has garnered national attention for its quality and depth. It is NOW IN PRODUCTION to be SOLD NATIONWIDE to foster homes, youth groups, schools and anyone seeking to PREPARE A CHILD FOR ADULTHOOD. hope for a better future to the many children who now and who will depend on us to do so. the Presbyterian Home for Children my roots and wings.org going places { roots (r utz) , 12 n. the condition of being well-grounded, ready to grow and fully prepared to go forward (wingz) , p. n. a means to fly farther into bright futures } a banquet to benefit the Presbyterian Home for Children, Tuesday, March 6, 2012 SAVE the date: Tuesday, MARCH 6, 2012 for the SECOND ANNUAL {banquet} 7 pm at the Amarillo Civic Center Heritage Ballroom bless you HONOR your friends and family with a gift to The Children’s Home this season, and we will send a card letting them know of your kind donation.* THE ROADMAP for NAVIGATING the JOURNEY to ADULTHOOD First ever comprehensive curriculum covers 64 distinct topics from budgeting to time management • fully vetted by experts nationwide • plug & play DVD and workbook package • perfect for children’s homes, youth groups, schools, clubs and families pre-order online at myrootsandwings.org Cards will be sent out in December , but GET YOUR “SHOPPING” DONE EARLY. Send in your list today! For your convenience, use the enclosed reply envelope. * minimum gift of $20 per card requested J Y o r ld the w } q a: Everyone of them has something different and special about them. and 13 How have you maintained your DEDICATION ? The KIDS. They keep it interesting . My challenge is to find that and help bring it out . p. { with Becky Johnson } Since 1946, the children’s store at The Children’s Home has been affectionately known as ‘Neiman Marcus.’ Becky Johnson has worked there as the Clothing Coordinator for the past 16 years. She and her husband, Danny, have two college-age daughters, Jessica and Stephanie. q: What does the Clothing Coordinator do? a: When a new child arrives here, my job that very first day is to inventory what he or she has, which is sometimes nothing more than the clothes on their back, then help them find what they need to fit in. That’s the most important thing - to fit in completely wherever they go. These kids already think they’re different, bad, or wrong, so we start changing that. I’ve had many girls over the years who’ve never worn a dress or skirt before. I explain to them that The Children’s Home provides many new and wonderful experiences, like going to church, having guests over to dinner, and they’ll want to look extra nice. I encourage them to approach wearing a dress as another ‘new experience.’ I meet with each child every three months to reassess their wardrobe since they’re constantly growing and changing. q: Why are clothes so important for success? a: The right clothes makes a world of difference. Think about when you wear clothing that makes you feel good. It gives you confidence. Most of us can pull that outfit from our own closets, or buy it, but these kids can’t. That’s what we do for them. It’s so wonderful, because once they pick out an item of clothes, it’s theirs to keep. Once, a girl came in with very little, but as she left carrying her new things, she smiled and said, “I feel like a rich girl.” The Children’s Home wants that for all our kids…to feel special. q: What transformations do you see in those first three months? a: The kids all look so much better, and I mean more than the clothes. They’re eating right, so their skin looks healthier. They’ve had new haircuts. The Children’s Home starts from the outside in, but over time, we see a more positive attitude in most kids. Our clothes say to them…I deserve this…I am worthy. q: What do you do when a child doesn’t want to try on clothes? a: I have to be very gentle. Many of our kids have been abused – verbally, physically, or sexually. If someone has told you everyday that you’re ugly, then you’re not going to want look at yourself in the mirror in a new outfit. how you I’ve worked with teen boys who don’t want anything. They’ve literally raised themselves, so they’re quite indepen- can HELP The community is always so generous with their donations and give some terrific things. We can always use more in ALL sizes (including plus): everyday clothes, nicer ‘Sunday School’ outfits, the girls LOVE costume jewelry, as well as specialty items: camping, swimming, summer camp clothes. Right now, we’re also short on gloves. Plus, we always buy brand new socks and underwear, so if anyone wants to donate those items new for the kids, that would be such a blessing. dent, and don’t need one thing. I’ll say, “Just take it. If you haven’t worn this in three months, you can give it back. Or, I might ask, “What’s your favorite sports team?” Even if they say they don’t like sports, I try to find something they like. Many teen girls come here so self-conscious with body issues, I’ll find out their favorite color. For most our little ones, they act like it’s Christmas. They’re so fun. story by Marcy McKay the Presbyterian Home for Children my roots and wings.org 15 WE’D LIKE TO INTRODUCE the newest members of our team. p. Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men; knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance. It is the Lord Christ whom you serve. Colossians 3:23-24 new friendly faces Clinical Specialist Samantha Hites Previously an Assistant Supervisor at Youth Center of the High Plains, Samantha Hites joins The Children’s Home as a Clinical Specialist. “I agree with the mission and direction of The Children’s recently joining our team as PRN staff: Chanita Jones & Samantha Jasso We are always excited to add new PRN staff. The flexibility of the PRN position allows The Children’s Home to meet new and unexpected challenges head-on while continuing to provide a high standard of care. PRN staff work to provide Family Teachers with days off as well as offering extra support during busy times. Home, and I want to be a part of it. I’m excited to be able to make a difference in the lives of kids and point them in a positive direction at this stage in their lives,” Samantha said. She is looking forward to working to benefit the kids on an individual level as well as being a part of the direction The Children’s Home is heading. the Presbyterian Home for Children Business Manager Dianne Hill After twelve successful and blessed years serving as the Executive Director of Opportunity School, Dianne felt the time was right to pass the baton to new leadership and the next stage in the school and to pursue a different path for herself professionally. Dianne brings with her twenty-three years of experience in administration and finance. “The Children’s Home has a wonderful reputation for quality and serves a much-needed mission,” Dianne commented. “I think the staff is amazing and it’s fun to see the kids every day. I’m looking forward to getting to know the organization better and better and I’m excited to see the continued growth. I can tell we’re on a really good path!” my roots and wings.org “ IN 17 said Eustace, “ a star is a huge ball of flaming gas .” “ Even in your world , my son, that is not what a star is , OUR WORLD ,” p. which DREAMS are made of that but only what it is MADE OF .” – C .S. LEWIS The Voyage of the Dawn Treader Like most 17-year-olds, Sara* was confident that she was ready for independence. “ Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience and the passion to reach “ for the stars to change the world. – Harriet Tubman After four years in foster care, she wanted to face life on her own terms and she was sure that, with a little help from her family, she could make it on her own. On her 18th birthday, she legally, and with much anticipation, signed herself out of CPS care. Unfortunately, the reality of the situation at home was much different than what she had hoped for. Without the support of her family, she found herself more on her own than she had imagined. “My Dad’s soon-to-be wife said I couldn’t live there, so I went to live with my Mom. I thought she had changed, but she hadn’t. I still had the mindset of a teen. I just wanted to hang out. I was making mistakes... getting myself in too deep... I realized I couldn’t do it. I needed structure and rules. I needed that somebody to tell me what to do and push on me and I wasn’t getting it there. I need guidance in my life because I was going nowhere without it.” Sara wasn’t content to “go nowhere.” She had dreams in sight and knew that they were worth pursuing. She contacted The Children’s Home and asked to return, then signed herself back into CPS care. Since her return, Sara is working to take more responsibility and be more independent. “I matured a lot this summer. I feel like I needed to realize that this is where I need to be.” Sara will graduate from Richard Milburn Academy in December and hopes to start classes at Amarillo College in the Spring. She wants to get her basics at A.C. , then go to Frank Phillips College for nursing. “I like helping people and seeing their faces after someone talks to them. I want to be that somebody who tells them ‘things are going to be rough, but you’re going to be OK’.” * name has been changed the Presbyterian Home for Children my roots and wings.org NON-PROFIT U.S. POSTAGE PA I D AMARILLO, TX PERMIT #247 3400 S. BOWIE, AMARILLO, TX 79109 a WORD from the PRESIDENT As we enter the holidays I am reminded of all the first time experiences that the children are having; their first turkey dinner at Thanksgiving with a loving family gathered around a big table or going to church to celebrate the birth of Jesus and realizing the true meaning of Christmas. Watching the spark come into the children’s eyes is what it’s all about! For many of the children, the holiday season is what gives them a sense of permanence and allows them to begin to dream about what’s next in their lives. Traditions that we take for granted, they find comforting and grounding in a way that allows them to set their eyes forward. “Without vision the people will perish”…but with love and a belief in what God has for them in the future, the kids will flourish. 2011 has been a remarkable year and we have been so encouraged by seeing the vision come to life. The growth of the team and the census on campus has been awesome. We are blessed to be serving more than double the number of children we were serving just two years ago. Thankfully we have a talented team with exceptional family teachers who invest in these children everyday…all day. As we approach 2012, we do it with a true sense of gratitude for all of the love and support that has been shown to the children and the PHC family. Without these blessings we could not give the children the real Children’s Home Experience. As we lift our eyes up to see what God has for us in the coming months and years, we ask for your prayers so that we see the future through His eyes and His vision becomes our vision. May God richly bless you and your home. With Gratitude,
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