1. religion and spirituality
2. christianity
3. catholicism

Making Disciples through Prayer, Faith Formation and Service
Creative Ministries Presents
The Journey, Cross
& Crucifixion
Thursday, March 12th
7:30 PM ~ CHURCH
See inside the bulletin for details.
Pastoral Staff
Pastor - Rev. James Wood
Pastoral Vicar - Rev. Paul Butler
Deacons: Ed Hayes,
Retired: William Kogler
Biagio Muratore, Phil Paolicelli
Faith Formation Office:
Director of Religious Education
Jennifer Menneci x131
Holy Angels Regional School, Patchogue
Principal - Michael Connell
631-475-0422
St. Margaret’s Preschool
Jenny Tranfaglia, Coordinator x124
Business Manager
Parish
Reconciliation
Services
Friday, March 13
7:30 PM
Lisa Boyd x113
Facilities Manager
Michael Lorio x115
Music Ministry
March 8, 2015
Dr. Daniel Crews, Dir. x117
Parish Outreach
Jackie Mirenda x119
Phone: (631) 732-3131
RCIA ~ Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults
Rectory Office Hours
Dan & Joanne Williams
Administrative Assistant
Julie Burtoff x133
Celebration of the Eucharist
Saturday: 5:00 P.M.
Sunday:
8:00 A.M., 10:00 A.M. & 12:00 N
Weekdays: 8:00 A.M. on Tues., Thurs., Sat.
9:00 A.M. on Mon., Wed., Fri.
Confessions:
Saturdays: 4:00 pm - 4:45 pm
or by appointment
Open for Walk-In Business
Mon thru Thurs
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
Morning
am
pm
9 -1
9 am - 1 pm
9 am - 12 pm
Closed
Afternoon
2-4
pm
Evening
7 - 8pm
Fax (631) 732 - 8827
www.saintmargaret.com
81 COLLEGE ROAD  SELDEN  NY 11784-2813
Time, Talent & Treasure
Stewardship Thought for the Week
We are grateful this week for all stewards in our
parish who make a conscious effort to simplify their lives
by reprioritizing and getting back to basics.
Sacrificial Giving
Thank you to all who so generously give to the
support of our parish. You are returning to God what God has so
generously given to you.
2015
$ 18,265
542
Last week’s Sunday offering
Number of Envelopes Used
Mass Attendance
Last Week
Yrly Average
5pm
277
331
8am
132
232
Readings for Next Sunday
10
249
375
2014
15,198
476
12
350
347
Total
1008
1288
For the week of Mar. 8th
Fourth Sunday of Lent
Altar Bread & Wine
First Reading ....... 2 Chr 36: 14-16, 19-23
Second Reading ..................... Eph 2: 4-10
Gospel ................................... Jn 3: 14-21
in Memory of
Matilda Mc Fadden
MARRIAGES: Couples should make arrangements in person at least one year in advance
for required interview. At least one of the parties must live within the parish boundaries, or
be a registered member of the parish. Please call the Rectory for an appointment. No dates
will be set over the telephone.
BAPTISMS: Prospective parents should telephone the rectory about three months before
the expected birth to discuss the arrangements for your child’s baptism and enroll you in the
required baptismal class. Baptism classes are held monthly on the 1st or 2nd Sunday of the
month. The baptism date will be set at the time of the class. The child’s birth certificate as
well as the godparent’s “sponsor certificate” (godparents must be practicing Catholics) must
be presented before a date is finalized.
PARISH MEMBERSHIP: We welcome all new parishioners! We ask them to register at
the rectory and encourage the use of weekly envelopes. If you are moving, please notify the
rectory.
Women’s Group: - The newly formed Women of Faith Ministry invites all women of the
parish to join us at our upcoming gatherings. Watch the bulletin for further details.
Women’s Bible Sharing: The women of the parish gather for Bible sharing on Monday
mornings, 9:30 through 11:30 in the rectory.
FAITH FORMATION OFFICE: Monday through Thursday: 9:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m.;
3:00 – 5:00 p.m.; Closed on Fridays.
PARISH OUTREACH MINISTRY: Monday 10am -1 pm. and 2 - 4 pm.; Wednesday 3-5
p.m. Call for appointment.
Masses for the Week
Family members and/or those who requested
the Mass are always welcome to present the
gifts of bread & wine at the offertory procession. On weekends, please introduce yourselves to our ushers or call the office during
the previous week.
Monday - March 9th
9:00 A.M.
Ed & Teresa Bartnik
Tuesday - March 10th
8:00 A.M.
Antoine Lambert
Wednesday - -March 11th
9:00 A.M
Aimee Given
Thursday - March 12th
8:00 A.M.
Matilda Mc Fadden
Friday - March 13th
9:00 A.M
Jose & Julian Barreto
Saturday - March 14th
8:00 A.M.
Lauren Fennell
5:00 P.M.
Mary E. Russo
Sunday –March 15th
8:00 A.M.
For All Parishioners
10:00 A.M.
Colon O’Reilly
Chester Esposito
12:00 P.M.
Vincent Aspromonti
Albert Fassler
For all our parishioners
suffering from chronic illness,
as well as Dcn. Phil Paolicelli,
Alyssa Baisch, Cara-Lynn De Molfetto,
Frank Fasano, William Cummings,
Jimmie D’Angelo, Robert Mahon,
Norma Frasca, Maryann Portesy Sr.,
Thomas Jankay, Marilyn & Steven
Vacchio, Artie Riley, Wendiann Alfieri,
Nicholas Alfieri, Ann Miceli,
Christopher McGuinness, Sarah Behie,
Andrew Rosa, Bob Carlsen, Carmella &
Carmine Guadagni, Patricia Herman,
Michael C. Liotta, Sharon Klyn, Anne
Logan, Marguerite DeAngelo, Nicole
Marano, Fran Colon, Terry Roucoulet,
Steve Margrane, Melanie Seibel,
Anthony Alessi, Suzanne Peterson,
Maureen Cardone, Steve Timlin,
Intentions of Theresa Mc Guire.
Family members, please resubmit names for
those who are ill. We will list them for 3
weeks, and then remove them unless told
otherwise. Please note-due to privacy issues,
we can include names given by the individual
or a health care proxy only. Thank you.
Dear Parishioners and Guests,
Although we no longer purchase animals for sacrifice on the steps of our churches, the temptation to turn faith into profit is
still with us. Today, as in Jesus’ time, there is wealth to be made in religion and spirituality (as we can see from the escapades
of some tele-evangelists). But even for those of us who don’t profit directly from our faith, there is a pull to make it into just
another thing we do every week, instead of a true act of worship. When we come to Mass, we can be distracted by worldly
affairs, more concerned with what is going on in people’s lives, even slipping out early so that we can get on with “real Life.”
In today’s gospel, Jesus is showing us that the time we give to God needs to be given freely and fully – without being compromised by anything else. That is what the commandment, “Keep Holy the Sabbath,” is about. For those of us who grew up with
the Baltimore Catechism, the emphasis was on avoiding “servile” work. But, consider that in the book of Genesis, the seventh
day, God’s rest, is holy because it is part of the fabric of creation; it was the “day” God rested after the work of creation, a
time to admire his work. To take time away from our routines and to draw closer to God and be in touch with his presence that
affects all we do, is holiness itself. In this sense, how can you “keep holy the Lord’s day?” ~ Fr. Jim
UPCOMING PARISH EVENTS
Monday March 9
9:30 am Women’s Bible Sharing / Rectory
4:30-8:15 Religious Education Classes
Tuesday March 10
4:30-8:15 Religious Education Classes
7 pm Level 5 Reconciliation / Ch
Wednesday March 11
4:30-8:15 pm Religious Education Classes
6 pm Level 2 Parent Meeting / Aud
Thursday March 12
10 am Level 2 Parent Meeting / Aud
4:30-8:15 Religious Education Classes
7 :30 pm Journey Cross & Crucifixion / Ch
7 pm 12 Step Bible Study / Rm 153
Friday March 13
6:30—8 pm CGS Meditation Night #1 / Rec
7:30 pm Parish Reconciliation / Ch
Saturday March 14
Bishop Perez’s Visit & Outreach Food Drive
8:45 am Lenten Retreat / Rec Rm 207
9:30 am Children’s Choir / Rec
Sunday March 15
Bishop Perez’s Visit & Outreach Food Drive
10 am Mass - Family Liturgy & Hospitality
11 am Spec Sacraments / RCIA room
Hospitality Sunday
March 15th ~ Auditorium
In conjunction with the Family Mass, all are
invited to come downstairs to the auditorium
after the 10:00 AM Mass. We look forward to
having this time of fellowship, coffee & snack.
Sacraments are Celebrations!
Baptisms
Savannah Ann Stepnowski, Charles Thomas Monte,
Parker Gabriel Oliveira, Peyton Olivia Di Carlo,
Noah John Allsopp, Francesca Jean Borja
BISHOP PEREZ TO VISIT
Bishop Nelson Perez, one of our Auxiliary Bishops
and the Vicar for our area of Long Island, will be visiting St. Margaret on the weekend of March 14/15.
Bishop Perez will have the chance on Saturday to learn about
our ministries and activities through meetings with Staff and
those assisting them. He then will be part of our Saturday/
Sunday Masses. We look forward to welcoming him to our
community.
Catholic Relief Services Collection March 15
Next week, our parish will take up The Catholic Relief Services
Collection. This Collection supports six Catholic agencies benefiting millions of vulnerable, displaced, and impoverished families and individuals around the world. From direct humanitarian
service to helping victims of human trafficking and working to
reunify families, the funds from this Collection make a real difference in lives across the globe. How will you help? Next
week, please support The Catholic Relief Services Collection
and Jesus in disguise.
Lent is Here: THIS WEEK
1)
2)
3)
4)
On Line Retreat
Journey, Cross & Crucifixion
Parish Reconciliation Service
Outreach Food Drive
SEE DETAILS IN THE BULLETIN.
PARISH RECONCILIATION SERVICE
FRIDAY, March 13 at 7:30 PM
Lent calls our attention to the need for forgiveness and healing. The Sacrament of Reconciliation is the most powerful
way of experiencing both! Join your fellow parishioners in
celebrating this sacrament as a way of strengthening us in
our faith journey and preparing for our Holy Week
liturgies. Let this “Friday the 13th” be a day of
GOOD BLESSINGS!
Faith Formation
Jesus gave us plenty to talk
about so let’s talk!
join us for a short series of gospel reflections
March 17th or March 19th
Jesus the True Vine –
7-8pm
part 2
March 24th or March 26th
The Found Sheep & The
7-8pm
Found Coin
Each week we will focus on a different
Scripture Passage
Feel free to drop in once or once each week
In John’s Gospel, Jesus visited Jerusalem for three Passovers.
Today’s Gospel story takes place during his first visit. Try to
imagine the scene. A young rabbi from distant Galilee is
inspired to make a scene in the courtyard of the Temple that no
one would forget. He tosses over tables with money on them
and overturns and opens cages with animals and birds that get
out. What chaos! But he is not doing this to get attention. He
is doing it because he believes that people have forgotten the
most important part of praying to God. Even though it is
important for Jews and Christians to contribute support to their
places of worship, God wants something that money cannot buy.
God wants our love and trust. This is what the people in the
Temple had forgotten. The authorities don’t understand this and
want to know what gives Him the right to do this. But instead
of giving a clear answer, Jesus makes a mysterious statement
that He will do something impossible: He will rebuild a large
building in three days. It was only after the Resurrection that
His friends realized what He truly meant. His risen Body is
God’s new Temple, filled with life for all.
Peek through the glass doors of the church
You’ll see us huddled together
Talking, praying and waiting for you!
‘just drop in on the Gospel’
Children’s Liturgy of the Word
Dismissal for the Children’s Liturgy of the Word
for Lent will be held on March 22 ~ 10 AM Mass.
Family Mass will be on March 15th
Questions –
1- Jesus did something that upset people, but it was for a good
reason. Have I done things that upset my family for selfish
reasons?
2- His listeners did not understand what He was saying. Are
there some teachings of Jesus that I do not understand or find
hard to follow?
Level 5 Reconciliation
Tuesday, March 8th at 7 PM in the Church
Level 2 Parent Meeting
Wednesday, March 11th at 6 PM or March 12th
at 10 AM in the Auditorium.
Parish Social Ministry
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Canned Fruit
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Soup & Crackers
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Peanut Butter & Jelly
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Canned vegetables
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Canned Tuna & Chicken
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Pasta & Sauce
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Instant Potatoes
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Mac & cheese
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Cereal—hot and cold
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Store gift cards
March 14/15 before all the Masses
HELP US KEEP OUR NEIGHBORS HEATHY BY SUPPORTING OUR
HEALTHY SHELVES.
LOW SALT & SUGAR PRODUCTS, WHOLE GRAINS & GLUTEN FREE!
Helpful Phone Numbers
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Domestic Violence 1-800-799-SAFE
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Baby Safe Haven Hot Line 1-877-796-HOPE
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Post Abortion Counseling - days 722-4355
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Depression after Delivery 1-800-944-4PPD
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Project Rachel - evenings 242-0907
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The Life Center 243-2373
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Crisis Pregnancy/Counseling 243-2373
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Drug Hotline 1-800-522-5353
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24 hr State Child Abuse 1-800-342-3720
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Suicide Prevention 1-800-639-5433
LENTEN / EASTER ON LINE RETREAT
This Sunday’s Gospel reminds us how easy it is to “do” religious activities, yet forget our
personal relationship with God. Our choices in Lent help us to refocus on that most important area. The internet resource: An Ignatian Prayer Adventure, which you have seen in
these past week’s bulletins is one way to deepen that connection. On our parish website
(www.saintmargaret.com), you see the same logo as you see here. Click on it and you come
to the site. There, in the center column, are the links for the retreat, beginning with assistance (“Before You
Begin”) and offering resources for 8 weeks. YOU choose the number of days, the amount of time and the
place you will use. YOU review the parts of the offerings each week and decide what you can commit yourself
to. This is not a course where you have to get all the work done, and each person can approach it in his/her own
way. What is important is choosing what you will do and staying with that routine during the full time as
best as possible. This is an opportunity to be with the Lord in your own way.
In addition, entirely extra, Fr Jim invites anyone using this experience to come together to talk about our prayer
times. Again, this is not “classwork” or “reports,” but a chance to encourage one another and hear the variety
of the Lord’s work in our lives. Come when you can on Saturday mornings at 9:00am in the Rectory
(Coffee/hot water available).
Creative Ministries Presents
The Journey,
Cross & Crucifixion
A live dramatic presentation of the
Stations of The Cross. Join us as we
experience the trial of Jesus, His journey
through the streets of Jerusalem, &
His final moments on the cross.
Thursday,
March 12th
7:30
PM
~ CHURCH
A freewill offering will be taken.
National Catholic Sisters Week
March 8 – 14
You are invited to join in prayer for Religious Sisters everywhere. Here is a prayer you can use:
Gracious and loving God, we pray this week in a special way
for women religious who consecrate their lives in
poverty, celibacy and obedience.
We thank you for their commitment to your people
and those they serve.
May your love and grace inspire them. Fill them
with joy and generosity.
May religious life abound in vitality so that the
power of your love and care
Will be known more and more throughout our
world.
We ask this in Jesus’ name and the power of the
Holy Spirit. Amen.
Also go to the following websites and social media to see
some of their incredible work.
www.nationalcatholicsistersweek.org; www.pinterest.com/
sisterstory/
www.facebook.com/NationalCatholicSistersWeek;
https://twitter.com/NCSWeek
Legal Representation for Illegal Youth
Catholic Charities and the Diocese of Rockville Centre is partnering with Equal Justice Works & Americorps to provide legal representation for unaccompanied immigrant minors. To learn more about the program please contact EJW/Americorps Fellow:
Christopher Schettini, [email protected] ~ 631-789-5355.
LITURGICAL MINISTRY TRAINING
Fifty years ago, the Bishops at the Vatican Council called for more active participation on the part of the
congregation at Mass. This was accomplished primarily by having the Mass celebrated in the local language
of the people. But in addition, various ministries were created to allow men and women to use their gifts to
strengthen the parish. Many people over the years responded to the invitation.
Once again, an invitation is being offered.
This April, training sessions for two important ministries are being offered: Lectors and Extraordinary
Ministers of Communion (to serve at Masses & to serve the homebound/in hospitals).
If you are interested, please write a letter to Fr. Jim before March 29th (Palm Sunday), explaining why you
want to share in either or both of these ministries. Emails to [email protected] are welcome, too. If you
would like more information, please call Fr. Jim (732-3131 x111) or email to the address above.
Practical Information: ~Training for both ministries:
Saturday 9am – 1pm [April 18 in Uniondale
OR April 25 in Riverhead]
Wednesday 7pm – 10pm [May 6 in Melville]
Additional training only for Ministers of Communion
interested in serving hospital or the homebound:
Saturday 9am – 1pm [May 9 in Riverhead
OR May 16 in Riverhead]
Wednesday 7pm – 10pm [May 20 in Melville]
STREET SANDWICH SUPPER
Friday, March 27th
7 PM in the Auditorium
Every evening, many people on Long Island depend on a Soup Kitchen or Van for their dinner.
There are no fancy plates or silverware. No TV, glassware or seconds. Dinner is far from a joyful
gathering of the family.
In solidarity with these our brothers and sisters in Christ, we invite you to join us the Friday before
Holy Week for a simple meal of a sandwich, a drink and a piece of fruit.
Reservations are necessary (so we can purchase sufficient food) and will close on Monday,
March 23rd. Tickets will be available after Masses on the weekend of March 21st & 22nd.
They may also be purchased in the rectory during regular business hours.
Each person attending must have a ticket.
__ Adults (13 yrs & older) $500,
___ Children (5-12 yrs old) $300,
___ Small Children (under 5 yrs) are free (must have a ticket).
Bring the bottom of this page when purchasing tickets to ease sales.
Name: _______________________________
Phone: _________________
Golden Wedding Liturgy
PREORDER
Honoring Couples Married Fifty Years or More
This fall, couples that have been married fifty years or more will
be honored at liturgies on Sunday, April 19th at St. Lawrence the
Martyr in Sayville and on Sunday, April 26th at Maria Regina in
Seaford. Both Liturgies will begin at 2:30 PM. Registration
must be received by the Office of Worship by April 6th for
the April 19th liturgy in Sayville and by April 13th for the
April 26th liturgy in Seaford. There will be additional dates
in the fall for those who find this more convenient. Registration forms are at the rectory. For info call the rectory at
732-3131 x0 or Suzanne at the Diocese at 516-678-5800 x207.
WorldWide Marriage
Encounter ~ Married Couples!
PALM
CROSS
cross size 24" x 17"
$10.00
EACH
Married Couples! Looking for the perfect weekend
that will bring a husband and wife closer together? Enhance
your good marriage by attending a
Worldwide Marriage Encounter Weekend!
Weekends are scheduled throughout the Metro New York area.
The next weekend on Long Island is scheduled for
April 24-26 at the Immaculate Conception Seminary in Lloyd Harbor NY. For info or to apply, call
1-877-697-9963 or visit our web site at http://www.wwme.org.
12 DAYS GREECE & TURKEY
IN THE STEPS OF PAUL
HOSTED BY
FR. JIM WOOD
SR. PHYLLIS ESPOSITO
FOR ONLY $3044 PER PERSON FROM NEW YORK
(Air/land tour price is $2649 plus $395 govt. taxes/airline
fuel surcharges)
NOVEMBER 2 - 13, 2015
Roundtrip air from New York, $395 government taxes/airline
fuel surcharges, first class hotels, breakfast & dinner daily,
services of an English speaking guide & comprehensive sightseeing & much more!
Travel in the footsteps of St. Paul...See the Acropolis in
Athens...Visit Corinth where Paul worked with Aquila &
Priscilla..Visit Thessaloniki & Phillipi..Visit Ephesus see Istanbul
Pre-orders may be picked up on
Saturday March 21st
10AM—12PM
Detach & return order form by
Wednesday, March 18th
Qty ________@ $10.00 each
TOTAL:
Quantity __________ Cost $ __________
Name ____________________________________________
For a full color brochure, contact:
Fr. Jim Wood: (631) 732-3131 x111 (Tel) or
[email protected] (Email)
Sr. Phyllis Esposito: (631) 589-8174 (Tel) or
[email protected] (Email)
Join us for the trip of a lifetime!
SPACE IS LIMITED AT THE SPECIAL PRICE!
Address ___________________________________________
___________________________________________
Phone # ____________________Cell # ___________________