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JoAnn Abraham Columnists at Large ............................................... Steven Blumerman, Sue Goulden, Kal Silverman, Carol Krimko, Bunny Libenson, Anne Quatrochi, Stuart Speck, Bernard Jacks, Steve Resnick Research Assistant.............................................................. Warren Carter Photography Sub-committee....................................... Eleanor Goldstein, Harvey Salzman, Jerry Simon, Kim Silverman Distribution Staff........................................ Warren Agate, Ellen Deutsch, Laurie Feldman, Murray Friedman, Christine Fornes, Hannah Gold, Diane Goldstein, Gail Lassoff, Arnie Lifland, Barbara Scheinerman, Iris Silverman, Dave Sobel, Stuart Speck, Barry Tepp, Lydia Leimsider Past Editors.............................................. Andrea Shorr, Bunny Libenson, Carol Krimko, Maria Sabatino, Barbara Sugarman by Richard Leimsider Rain gets a lot of bad press. After all, it does squelch all those nice parades. It postpones so many promising baseball games, sending soggy, disappointed fans home without the exhilaration of ninth inning heroics (or the agony of humiliating defeat). It creates travel nightmares; the term “driving rain” doesn’t exactly connote a pleasant journey. Most of all, it is, well, wet: wet as in “soaked to the bone”, wet as in the rather unpleasant odor of a sodden dog’s fur, wet as in squishy socks and shoes, courtesy of that camouflaged puddle. Add a little wind, and your umbrella does its “inside-out” dance, leaving you struggling with twisted cloth and metal while simultaneously relegating you defenseless against the descending droplets. It doesn’t stop there, oh no. Rain, in so many popular songs is the harbinger, nay, the avatar, of love lost, love unrequited. Remember, in Del Shannon’s “Runaway”: I’m a-walkin’ in the rain Tears are fallin’ and I feel the pain Wishin’ you were here by me To end this misery and Dee Clark’s “Raindrops” Since my love has left me I’m so all alone… There must be a cloud in my hea-ea-ea-ead Rain keeps falling from my eye-eyes Oh no they can’t be teardrops For a man ain’t supposed to cry or the Cascades’ “Rhythm of the Rain” Community Services Community Property Manager Kimberlee Weisneck 732-786-1725 [email protected] sK 44 Palomino Drive, Manalapan, NJ 07726 Fax - 732-786-1728 Lifestyle Director Diane Sheehan 732-786-1727 [email protected] Four Seasons at Manalapan Clubhouse 732-786-1724 44 Palomino Drive, Manalapan, NJ 07726-9566 Assitant Property Manager Debbie Impresa 732-786-1725 [email protected] Gatehouse (Security) 732-446-6478 Emergency Services 800-956-1097 Warranty Services 1-800-428-2516 Jane [email protected] Important Phone Numbers Emergency phone numbers during non-business hours (5 P.M. - 8 A.M.)* In the event that you have a true emergency after normal business hours, call the number for the following emergencies: Plumbing Emergency............. F & W Mechanical......................... 732-286-4747 HVAC Emergency.................. Kool Vent........................................ 732-905-3756 Electric Emergency................. Mac Electrical Contractors..............732-684-1129 ...........................................................................................................732-522-7088 *In the event that you experience an emergency after normal business hours, please inform your Homeowner Service Coordinator on the next business day. Emergency phone numbers during normal business hours (8 A.M. - 5 P.M.) Fire & Rescue.......................... Manalapan Fire Dept...................Emergency 911 ........................................................................................................ 732-462-1112 Police................................................................................................................911 ........................................................................................................ 732-446-4300 Electric Company.................... JCP&L............................................ 800-662-3115 Gas Company.......................... NJ Natural Gas Co......................... 800-221-0051 Telephone Company................ Verizon........................................... 800-675-9966 Sewer....................................... Western Monmouth Utility Authority ........................................................................................................ 732-446-9300 Garbage................................... Manalapan Twp............................. 732-446-8404 Irrigation................................. Down to Earth......................... 800-280-1837 x15 Water...................United Water Matchaponix, Inc........................ 732-446-5102 K. HOVNANIAN’S FOUR SEASONS AT MANALAPAN K. Hovnanian Homeowner Service Office 110 Fieldcrest Avenue, Edison, NJ 08818 • Phone 732-225-4001 / Fax 732-623-6925 Cover and Centerfold created by Harvey Salzman A-L-L Irrigation questions, concerns or EMERGENCIES should be directed to Down to Earth Irrigation 800-280-1837 x15 – Jessica, at any time (day / night / weekend) Rain please tell me now does that seem fair For her to steal my heart away when she don’t care I can’t love another when my heart’s somewhere far away There, you see. The optimists try to paper over the despair by telling us that line about April showers bringing May flowers… hmm, actually I do remember a song with an implied happy ending… Bus stop, wet day, she’s there, I say Please share my umbrella Bus stop, bus goes, she stays, love grows Under my umbrella* And then, there’s this iconic poem: Let the rain kiss you Let the rain beat upon your head with silver liquid drops Let the rain sing you a lullaby The rain makes still pools on the sidewalk The rain makes running pools in the gutter The rain plays a little sleep song on our roof at night And I love the rain.** And let’s not forget about those exquisite rainbows… ________________________________________________________ *From “Bus Stop” by the Hollies ** “April Rain Song” by Langston Hughes Statement of Editorial principles Pegasus Editorial Staff The goal of the Pegasus Press, the official publication of the Four Seasons at Manalapan community, is threefold: -To provide information to residents of FS@M from the Board of Trustees, its committees and clubs, the property management company, and the township -To inform the residents of FS@M as to social, cultural, and educational events in the community and surrounding area -To establish a means of communication within FS@M that fosters community spirit and goodwill among residents All articles and opinions expressed in the Pegasus Press represent the viewpoint of the respective authors and do not necessarily represent the opinions of the FS@M community or its editors. We assume no responsibility for the contents or the accuracy of the same. Pegasus Press reserves the right to reject, edit, or condense all submissions and will not accept any article it deems libelous, inflammatory, plagiarized, or in bad taste. Senior Publishing Company prints the Pegasus Press at no cost to the FS@M Homeowners Association. The publisher and not the editorial staff of this publication have solicited most advertisers. We disclaim all responsibility for the goods and services advertised herein. Pegasus Press • April 2015 Four SeasonsAt Manalapan Letter From The Editor 3 K. HOVNANIAN’S® Pegasus Press • April 2015 4 From Your Board of Trustees Rick Gross FYI Stu Abraham David Miller Gene Avidano Janet Adrian Professionally managed by Taylor Management Company 44 Palomino Drive • Manalapan, NJ 07726 (732)786-1725 Bulletin #8 — March 10, 2015 Common Area Fallen Tree Removal — Homeowner Intervention Policy This FYI is intended to address requests by homeowners to be allowed to arrange for the removal of fallen trees from common areas behind their homes. Over the years there have been a number of requests from homeowners to allow them to remove fallen trees in the treed common areas behind their homes. This note establishes the procedures for such action. It should be noted that "common areas" are distinguished from "conservation easement” areas. Per the existing conservation easement agreement with Manalapan Township, fallen trees in a designated "conservation easement" area may not be removed. While the HOA cannot undertake the fiscal responsibility for dealing with fallen trees in the common areas behind homes, the following procedure has been established to permit homeowners to address their concerns about fallen trees. In the event that a homeowner wishes to remove a fallen (non-hazard) tree from a common property area adjacent to the homeowner's home, the area not otherwise maintained by the HOA, and which is generally referred to as “woods" and not a conservation easement , the following shall apply: Step 1: The homeowner requests approval to remove the fallen tree by petitioning the Grounds Committee; Step 2: It is understood that if the work is approved, the approval is conditioned upon the requirement that the work must be performed by the landscaper then being utilized by the HOA; Step 3: If approval is granted, the homeowner is solely responsible for the costs of the work. Costs are to be paid directly to the landscaping company; Step 4: As appropriate, upon recommendation from the Grounds Committee, the BOT may direct that neighboring homeowners may be approached prior to giving approval; Step 5: Upon recommendation by the Grounds Committee, the HOA Board of .Trustees will consider the request for final approval. A MOMENT OF GREAT PRIDE AT 4 SEASONS: THE RAISING OF A POW-MIA FLAG MARCH 19, 2015 By David Miller As we residents came to the Clubhouse over the years to enjoy our various social activities, most of us barely noted the flags flying outside. The vivid colors of the Red White and Blue American flag always stood out, but there were two others, a New Jersey state flag and one from K Hovnanian. About six months ago, Ernie Di'Orio attended one of the Community's Board of Trustees meetings. A Four Seasons resident, Armed Forces veteran and now Chairman of the Manalapan Township Veterans Advisory Committee, he mentioned to the Board his dismay that we were not flying a POWMIA flag. The Board noted the presence of the builder's flag, and said flag had to fly, as long as the builder was formally present in the Community. The Board promised to remove the K Hov flag when the builder eventually departed in the coming Winter and replace it with a POW-MIA flag. As soon after the builder's departure as could be arranged, the day arrived. Thursday, March 19th, was clear, sunny and cold. The wind was strong and the temperature was palpably low. Mayor Jack McNaboe, Deputy Mayor and Four Seasons resident, Mary Ann Musich and the Board of Trustees were present, but this day was for the 50 or 60 veterans in attendance, proudly wearing their military colors and insignia. The cold didn't bother them. In fact, it seemed to invigorate them. The group gathered at the flagpoles in front of the Clubhouse, Mayor McNaboe gave words of thanks for the service of the veterans, and the ceremonies began. The K Hov flag was lowered and, as it was about to hit the ground, several veterans rushed up to gather it in. There was no particular sentiment for the builder, but this group knows the respect that any retiring flag is entitled to. Ernie Di’Orio offered sentiments about the occasion, the Pledge of Allegiance was recited by all, and a rendition of "Taps" sounded quietly in the background. Though barely discernable, it brought tears to the eyes of nearly all in attendance. Ernie and his fellow committeemen, Donald Klieger and Tony Lordo, attached the new POW-MIA flag, and it started up. "Hand Salute" was shouted, fingertips touched eyebrows, and all eyes watched as the new flag went up. When the flag reached the top, "Recover" was shouted, salutes came down, but all eyes continued to admire the new flag, flying in the strong breeze. Proudly, the assemblage dispersed, to repeat the ceremony at the flagpoles near the main entrance, above the signage facing Route 33. Mission accomplished! From the Desk Of Your Lifestyle Director Diane Sheehan Hi Everyone, Well here we are, I have been here over a month already, and let’s hope by the time you read this the snow and cold weather is behind us!! Chorus Update: With approximately 36 residents interested in joining a chorus here in our community, three of those residents expressed an interest in leading this group. Look for an email announcing a meeting if you are one of those 36. If there is a pianist in the community who has an interest in helping out, please contact me – [email protected] . Senior Olympics Update: Be on the lookout for an email with more detailed information regarding dates, times, etc. The events are as follows (subject to change without notice): Racewalking, Ladies Tennis, Men’s Tennis, Mixed Doubles, Pickleball, Shuffleboard, Bocce, 8 Ball, 9 Ball, Straight Pool, Golf, Bridge, Bowling, Swimming, Ping Pong. 7 SAN FRATELLO COURT Pegasus Press • April 2015 Gene Avidano 5 CANDIDATES FOR THE THREE POSITIONS ON THE BOARD OF TRUSTEES I am seeking reelection to the board. For the past 2 1/2 years I have had the privilege of being a member of the Board of Trustees. I am also currently, the chair of the transition committee. During my tenure, the board has started the transition process, formed a transition committee, approved three new operating budgets and most recently hired a new management company including a new manager, ass't manager and activities director. We have also worked very closely with the township people to secure our interests with regard to the various bond releases. I would like to be reelected to the Board to continue the work on the transition committee and to work with the new management company to help make sure that all the things we expect on both of these fronts come to fruition, along with continuing to work on all the other issues in the community. Gail Gnesin 11 WHIRLAWAY ROAD I. My motivation for seeking a position on the Board of Trustees of Four Seasons at Manalapan is multi-fold. For the past eight years, I have enjoyed living in this exceptionally well-run community. The people of Four Seasons, including the Board of Trustees, the chairpeople and volunteers for all of the many committees, as well as many others who are dedicated to maintaining the wellbeing of the residents and their property are the reason for my satisfaction. I believe I could help to support the existing Board's continuing needs by bringing my organizational, personal, and management skills. In addition, as a woman who had a long tenure as the de facto supervisor of three high school media centers over 26 years, having had oversight of budget, purchasing, staff management, and curriculum coordination in that environment, my point-of-view would add another dimension to the discussion and resolution of various issues. II. My experience as an Educational Media Specialist in the Freehold Regional High School District for 26 years in schools with populations as high as 2400 people, as well as a teacher of English in a New York City public school for 3 1/2 years, demanded the ability to plan and implement projects for both short-term and long-term benefit. For example, as library technology evolved—both hardware and software—keeping up-to-date required staying within defined financial parameters as well as collaborating with administrators and teachers to find the best use of allocated funds. Over the course of my tenure, I was instrumental in formulating a library technology strategy, developing the plan, petitioning for the needed funding, managing the implementation of the plan, and continuing to expand the technology as new resources became available. Also, having a unique position in my workplace environment required dealing directly with a vast array of temperaments and needs. This developed my ability to be conciliatory in order to find common ground so that individual objectives could be met. I was on the Board of Trustees for my religious organization for ten years, have been a member of the Board of Trustees of the Marlboro Free Public Library for the past nine years and have served as the Recording Secretary for the past three years. In each of these positions as well as in my professional life, adherence to financial constraints, an ability to compromise, and a capacity to understand the point-of-view of others have been critical to success. III.While living at Four Seasons at Manalapan, I was on the Clubhouse Committee for two years and was a copy editor on the Pegasus Press from its inception until two years ago. I am also involved in several unstructured activities which keep me busy within the community. Arnie Klein 6 ARCARO ROAD Resident of the community with my wife Susan for 5+ years I would like to run for trustee at Four Seasons because I feel with my background and experience as listed below I would be an asset to the current board and the community as a whole. The following is my experience outside of FSM that I feel will help me be an effective trustee: • President, Vice President and Trustee of a local Temple • President and Vice President on the Manalapan-Englishtown Bd of Ed. • Vice President of a Surety Bond company for 13 years • Vice President for various banks for over 20 years • President and Treasurer of a local business networking organization During my six years on the Board of Ed I was on the personnel, budget and negotiation sub-committees. While working at the Surety Bond Company I handled the administration and branch operations. While in the banking field I was a branch manager and was involved in branch administration where employees concerns were always foremost in my job. I believe in open and active communication with everyone in the community. The worst thing is when people don't know or understand what is going on. Current and previous volunteer experience at FSM • Current Chairman of the Social Committee for the past 3+years • Treasurer of the Social Committee for 1 year • Former member of the ACC Committee for 2+years • Organizer of the Wine Club and its first president • Current member of the Ad Hoc Gambling Committee • Former member of the Election Committee • Organizer of the weekly bowling league for the past two seasons • Head of the Senior Olympics bowling team • Harvest Festival Co-Chairman the past three years What is needed on the Board of Trustees is someone to address the concerns of the community while at the same time making sure they are within their fiduciary responsibility. I feel I am ready to take on the responsibilities of a trustee and help direct our community forward. 6 Pegasus Press • April 2015 Election Committee Announcement In May 2015, the homeowners of FSAM will elect three homeowners to fill the upcoming three vacancies on the Board of Trustees. As of the February 23 filing deadline, three homeowner candidates filed to run in the election. We are fortunate that Gene Avidano, Gail Gnesin and Arnie Klein have come forward to run for Trustee. Our bylaws state that a quorum of at least 25% of the occupied households must vote in order to have a valid election. Even though there are three candidates for three positions, we still need a quorum of eligible homeowners to vote in order for the new Trustees to take their seats. All eligible homeowners will be able to vote by attending the HOA meeting in May, or by giving their proxy to someone who does attend the meeting, or simply by filling out and returning an absentee ballot at least one day before the HOA meeting. You should have already received a mailing containing statements from the three candidates and more information on how to cast your vote. Remember that your vote is important. Even though this is an uncontested election, we need a quorum of households voting to have a valid election. Please contact the Management Office if you have any questions. Thank you to Gene for being willing to serve another term on the HOA Board, and welcome to Gail and Arnie! Thank you for coming forward to become part of the leadership of our Homeowners Association! The Election Committee. Condolences Compiled by Bunny Libenson Condolences to Robbie Alhadeff upon the passing of his brother-in-law Yeuda Salama on January 30th in Israel. The Written Word... Some thoughts about April… “April hath put a spirit of youth in everything” “Men are April when they woo, December when they wed.” William Shakespeare “The April winds are magical And thrill our tuneful frames The garden walks are passional To bachelors and dames” Ralph Waldo Emerson “The first of April is the day we remember what we are the other 364 days of the year.” Mark Twain ******************************************************** Do you have a favorite poem or some favorite quotations or lines from a play? Have you written a short memoir or essay that others might find interesting? Would you like to see your original writing in print? Here’s your chance. Submit it or them for our “Written Word” column. Send all submissions directly to me at [email protected] for review. Richard Leimsider, Editor 7 Pegasus Press • April 2015 Prior Studies on page 35 Some Things To Think About Or Do After A Storm Or Black-Out Now that we have had a chance to catch our breaths after the things that have happened during and after a blackout, snow, ice or high wind events, let's take a step back and think about the little things that we may take for granted, like a warm, dry house. Obviously we looked for the puddles of water to be sure that we don’t have broken pipes or leaks in the roofs or ceilings. Don’t wait till it starts raining. You can go outside and make a casual inspection of the outside of your house to look for places water could enter. Take along a pair of binoculars so that you can step back a little from the house and look up onto the roof. See if the shingles are still in place or are torn away or are standing up or otherwise not as they should be. See if the gutters are in place and connected to the roof. If things are not as they should be, don’t climb up on the roof. Call a repair service before the rains come and have the repairs made before the rains get into the roof and into your house. The same applies to the trim and the sidings and the shutters, etc. Walk around the outside of your house and see that the lights and assorted electrical fixtures that are attached around the house are still in their proper positions. If not, check to see if they light up and then call the electrician or appropriate service person depending on what’s wrong. Also remember to check your grill and its connection to the gas line or the propane tank. Check the trees on your property to see if they are standing upright and that they are facing in the same direction and that the wind hasn’t turned the tree around in a different direction. This is especially important in a relatively young tree, since such a young tree will try to return to its original direction and could die in the process. This should be reported to the proper authorities so that they can rotate the tree, ball and all, to its original position. We all remember (hopefully) to change the batteries in our smoke alarms and detectors annually. However, after a blackout or loss of electricity for any significant period of time our smoke alarms are now relying on these batteries so that when we get our electricity back we should change the batteries since they are now somewhat depleted and we want a fully-charged back-up in our smoke alarms and detectors. Most of us have cell phones, but in an emergency, how many of us have the necessary emergency numbers readily available on our phones? Could you really remember an emergency number in an actual emergency? Maybe 911, but a gas leak, the local hospital, or whatever. Well, now is the time, right after reading this article, to start a section in your phone for emergency numbers and contacts, even who to call if you are injured. What’s the old saying? “An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.” Ask Roy Roy Nathan, a member of the Homeowner Maintenance Committee, is a retired engineer. He is available to answer any questions that you may have concerning your home. He can be reached by phone at 732-851-6855 where such questions can be directed to Roy. This will be a direct confidential conversation between the homeowner and Roy. Community members should know that the Code of Ethics of the Homeowner Maintenance Committee requires that all committee members keep all personal information confidential. The committee may use a general problem for an investigation to share with the community but personal information will be held in strict confidence. ads-668D ads-668D Dr. R. J. 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I know quite a few guys who now take involuntary naps while watching TV, during card games, and even while eating breakfast at our meetings. While age does have some unwelcome effects, I’m convinced that it’s true that the older we get the wiser we become. For example, one of our “older” members recently cancelled his burglar alarm contract and disconnected his home’s alarm system. Then he bought a Pakistani flag and an Iranian flag and put them on poles attached to each side of his garage. Now the local police, county sheriff, state police, FBI, CIA, NSA, Homeland Security, and Secret Service are all watching his house 24/7. He says he’s never felt safer and is saving 35 bucks a month. He’s living proof – older and wiser! Speaking of being wise, all you fellows would be smart to consider visiting or calling the advertisers in the Men’s Club calendar. I’m sure you realize that your $20 dues doesn’t go very far. Most of the free food and subsidized shows and events you get as a member of the Men’s Club are paid for by the revenue from the calendar. So by supporting the advertisers you’re supporting the calendar, and in turn your Men’s Club. There are nine eateries advertised in the calendar, plus numerous pro- fessionals and local businesses. So give them a try and don’t forget to tell them that you live in Four Seasons and saw their ad in the calendar. Then hopefully they’ll continue to support us by taking out ads next year … so that you can keep eating for free. Upcoming Events: Sunday April 12 Monday April 20 Monday April 27 Sunday May 3 Friday May 8 Tuesday May 12 Saturday May 16 Tuesday June 9 Tuesday June 16 Friday June 19 Saturday July 11 Thursday July 23 Breakfast Meeting Lecture Series with guest speaker Indian Point Nuclear Plant Trip Annual BBQ – free to members Show in Clubhouse – live entertainment Maryland golf trip (3 days) CPR Training West Point Trip Blue Claws – members only Blue Claws – with grandkids Live Concert – to benefit Ronald McDonald House Trenton Thunder Lots more in the works, including shows, trips, golf, and family day (save the date – Aug. 15). And don’t forget our breakfasts at Gus’s on the 2nd and 4th Wednesday every month Spring is here! Golf! Tennis! Walks! Biking! Allergies! Porcelain, and more Partial or entire estates 9 Special care senior citizens Arts Crafts for for Charity We're off to a great start for 2015 will be offering or even Daryl more wonAsk forand Jeff, Peter derful items for sale at our annual boutique. We have great ideas and lots 800-290-5401 of enthusiasm to make this bigger and better than before. Someone recently mentioned to me "Why do you do it? Because you 848-466-9000 love it?" If you have ever watched Channel 13's Memorial Day tribute with Gary Sinese and Joe Montagne, you'll know why we do it. If you happened to see "American Sniper" and remember the scene where Chris Kyle was at the Veterans Hospital visiting wounded Vets, you'll know why we do this. We want to do something to honor those Americans who have gone to war to protect our way of life only to come home half a person —physically and mentally. Their families are destroyed, yet they still go on and believe in what they did for all of us, preserving our freedoms and this country. We think they deserve a little bit of gratitude, knowing that we care. We would like to try to make a small difference in their lives and the lives of their families. At Arts & Crafts for Charities, you will see everyone working so hard to make something beautiful out of something so inexpensive and small just to be of some help. It's more than just being creative, it's giving a small part of oneself, knowing that in the end, some family may benefit from what we did as a team. We always try to keep our end goal —raising money for Wounded Warriors — right in front of us as we put in all of our effort and imagination to try to create something appealing, something others would be willing to purchase and present as a gift knowing the good it could do. This year, we will be offering hostess gift sets, hand-made coasters, napkin rings, hand-made cards and a variety of other items at a very reasonable cost. We are especially blessed to have several artists with us who hand decorate our birdhouses and flowerpots along with Rosemarie Karen who hand painted several large trays with floral motifs. And please remember, if you don't want to purchase anything, drop a few dollars into our contribution bucket. Last year we raised $750 but we know we can do much better this year with your help and support. For me, an added benefit is getting to really know our members, to talk about things that matter to us and to share a few laughs with some really lovely women. We meet on the third Thursday of every month in the Arts & Crafts Room at 1 P.M. Come out and see what we're about and you just might find you're having fun and making new friends. $ Will pay CASH for $ Costume & Fine Jewelry, Silver, Watches, Coins, Antiques, Art, Sculpture, Furniture, Lighting, Musical Instruments, Porcelain, and more Partial or entire estates Special care for senior citizens Your satisfaction is our goal Ask for Jeff, Peter or Daryl 800-290-5401 848-466-9000 Pegasus Press • April 2015 AD 4688 Submitted Diane Cypser is our goal Yourbysatisfaction 10 Pegasus Press • April 2015 CLUB NEWS Women’s Club 6th Annual Breast Cancer Awareness Walk Set For October 3rd, 2015 The Women's Club is proud to sponsor our community's 6th Annual Breast Cancer Awareness Walk. This major event will take place at 9:00AM starting in our Clubhouse ballroom as the room fills with a sea of pink tee shirts. For those of you new to the Four Seasons at Manalapan, please join your neighbors, friends and family either by walking or cheering us on. Even last year's inclement weather couldn't rain on our parade. We live in an amazing and generous community. FSM Women's Club The Women’s Club Paid Up Membership Brunch will be on Sunday, June 14, 2015 at Battleground Country Club in Manalapan. Please join old and new friends for a wonderful spring morning of great food and conversation! Folders will be on the rounder in the Clubhouse lobby soon. There will be a maximum of 12 gals at each table. A $25.00 check, made out to Four Seasons Manalapan Activity Fund (FSM) will hold your spot and will be refunded to you at the event. If you are new to our community and need help with seating, we will be delighted to help you find a great table. This event is open to paid up members only. If you have not renewed your membership, please be sure to renew before you sign up. Any questions: contact Janet Gross- [email protected] FSM Women's Club Judy Epstein and Carol Lifland FSM Women's Club Co-Presidents By the time you read this, hopefully Spring will have sprung, the weather has warmed up, the birds are singing, and some early blooming flowers and leaves on the trees have started to bud, and most of all, our Snowbirds have started to return to Four Seasons. As always, your FSM Women's Club has been busily preparing some wonderful activities for our members. Here they are: Wednesday afternoon, April 15, in our Clubhouse: Shelly Strickler will tell all about "The Naughty Boys of Politics." There will be a buffet luncheon catered by Destino's. The cost is $27 per person and is open to WC members only. The cut-off date for sign up and check refund is April 8. Thursday evening, April 23, there is a bus trip to the George Street Films and Lectures for the Spring Season Playhouse to see "Ernest Shackleton Loves Me". This play has replaced the original offering of "Six Degrees of Separation." As the temperatures slowly rise, daylight hours increase, snowbirds Before the show, there will be dinner at "Old Man Rafferty's. The cost return, we look forward to the outdoor seasons ahead. Learning 4 All for the bus, dinner, and the show is $90 pp and is open to WC members Seasons is ready to present our Spring Films and Conversation series and only. There will be two buses with a total of 70 theater tickets reserved. our always-stimulating Lecture Series. Cut-off date for sign up and refund is April 2. Our committee has been busy searching and previewing films in order On Wednesday, May 6, our WC Learning 4 All Seasons presents our to choose those that will provide our audience with a selection that will second Author Luncheon at Eagle Oaks Golf and Country Club in Farmingentertain and encourage post film conversation. dale, New Jersey. Our guest speaker is Julie Orringer, author of the book "The Invisible Bridge." The dates and film titles are listed below: The sign up folders are on the lobby carousel. This event is open to friends and family (Women only.) The cost is $55 for WC members and Tuesday, April 14 - "The Intouchables" $60 for non-members. Sign up by table or we will be happy to seat you. The cut-off date for signing up and receiving refunds is April 15. Thursday, April 30 - "Owl and the Sparrow" Hold the date of June 14 for our WC paid up membership brunch aka PUM to be held at Battleground CC. Monday, May 11 - "Akeelah and the Bee" As always, watch for our monthly Women's Club Newsletter, sent to you via e-mail by our very own Media specialist, Marilyn Grad aka FINDTuesday, May 26 - "My Sister's Sister" NAME. You will find a wealth of information in our Newsletter with regard to all of our Women's Club activities. Our Spring lecture series will offer a variety of topics to inspire and Watch for e-blasts with regard to Learning 4 All Seasons films and lecexcite us. tures, our future trips, our Share and Care Projects, and any other Women's On Tuesday, May 19, we will learn about mindfulness when Ken Verni, Club activities. director of the New Jersey Center for Mindful Awareness brings his expertise New members are always welcome. See our membership folder on the to Four Seasons. lobby carousel. We look forward to meeting and greeting all of our members On Thursday, June 4, Larry Wolfert, Olliru instructor, will entertain us at our upcoming events. with his talk on 20th century comedians. Your FSM Co/Presidents On Friday, April 24, Anne Devlin, retired teacher and film lecturer, will show and discuss the film "Kiss Me Kate" with music and lyrics by Cole Porter. The film series sign up folder will be on the rounder as you are reading Joan Bilmes has a new Granddaughter! this article. This series of four films with yummy refreshments will cost Gia Rae Ladnzinski was born on Thursday, January $15. As always, you must be a Women’s Club member to join us. All films 29th, 2015. will begin at 1P.M. in the ballroom. The lecture series sign up folder will be on the rounder by the last week 5 pounds 10 ounces. in March. The cost for the lecture series will be $15 for Women’s Club Heather and Brian Ladnzinski are the proud parents. members only. All lectures begin at 1PM in the Men’s Card Room. We are looking forward to having you join us for all these highly enriching events. Our planning meetings will begin soon. All residents are invited to make our OCTOBER 3rd walk as special as those in the past. Look for upcoming articles and eblasts for more information or contact Diane Goldstein at beeg4aol.com. Learning 4 All Seasons Congratulations BREAST CANCER SUPPORT GROUP A folder will be placed in the rounder for everyone to sign up. The cost of membership is $18.00 per household, singles are able to bring a guest. by Goldie Golden Please make checks payable to: “FSM Activity Fund” CHEMO-BRAIN Have you ever walked into a room and forgot why you were there? Have you ever tried to get a word or thought out and it does not come? I am sure these have happened to all of us at one time or another and it was not a big deal. But, for some women with breast cancer, who have had chemotherapy, this is upsetting. Women experience thinking and memory problems and describe this as being in a mental fog. This is called "CHEMO-BRAIN". Some doctors believed these symptoms were just a figment of the patient's imagination. They were not sure what Chemo-Brain was because many other factors can cause mental change. Head trauma, medications, some diseases, menopause and aging can all be contributing factors. Now, however, many physicians feel Chemo-Brain is a true side effect of chemotherapy. Chemo-Brain symptoms can include -* FS@M Women's Club Programming for 2015 . Difficulty concentrating . Finding the right words . Multi-tasking . Being organized . Short attention span . Trouble with verbal and visual memory Judy Epstein and Carol Lifland, CoPresidents Please check your e-mails for e-blasts and WC Newsletter for complete WC Program information. We may add or possibly delete events as we continue planning ahead. PLEASE BE SURE WE HAVE YOUR E-MAIL ADDRESS These symptoms can begin during cancer treatment and continue for months or years after treatment. Many times this will get better. Ideas to help manage changes -* . Exercise your brain with crossword puzzles and number games . Keep a regular schedule . Practice relaxation techniques . Use calendars, planners or lists . Divide tasks, take a break between each one . Exercising your body helps with stress, fatigue and depression . Get lots of rest Remember, memory problems happen to everyone. It is best to be open and honest about your symptoms. Talk with your doctor, family and friends so they can understand and help you. Our Breast Cancer Support Group is comprised of women who have traveled the rocky road of breast cancer. We share, learn, listen and laugh. We are here to help you survive and thrive. Please remember early detection is very important. Make an appointment for your yearly mammography, discuss other screenings, have a breast exam and report any changes to your doctor. Any questions, please call Diane Goldstein at 732-446-2443, Flo Miller at 732-536-3375, or me, Goldie Golden at 732-851-6637. 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It consists of over 200 varieties which bloom from mid-October through March. Many, many colors and varieties were in bloom. (I have a red camellia in my garden that I purchased at Rare Find Nursery, Jackson. If I had more room I would get another plant; they have shiny leaves year-round and bloom in the spring in NJ.) In the heart of the Leu garden is a historic home that has been restored to exemplify turn-of-the-century-Florida living. Harry Leu was an Orlando native who built a successful industrial supply business and was very active in building central Florida. He and his wife Mary Jane purchased this estate in 1936 and developed it into a local showplace. The museum is listed on the National Registry of Historic Places and is Orlando’s only house-museum open to the public. The 50-acre garden and home was donated to the city of Orlando. You can visit their web site at www.leugardens.org We loved our walk thru this botanical oasis. Our second excursion was to another National Historic Landmark, Bok Tower Gardens, Tower Boulevard, Lake Wales. Their website is www.boktowergardens.org These gardens were established in 1929 by Edward W. Bok as a gift to the American people. The garden comprises 50 acres, designed by landscape architect Frederick Law Olmstead Jr. and is a contemplative and informal woodland setting. (Mr. Olmstead also designed gardens at the White house; his father designed Central Park in Manhattan.) In the Tower gardens there are acres of ferns, palms, oaks and pines. The area has flowering azaleas, camellias and magnolias. You can step back in time there by visiting a luxurious, 1930’s Mediterraneanstyle, 20-room home called Pinewood Estate. The focal point was the beautiful 205-foot marble and coquina Singing Tower, with mosaics, animal carvings, custom iron work and daily carillon concerts. (Coquina is a mixture of limestone made from shell and coral fragments.) The Tower houses a 60-bell carillon, one of the world’s finest. It is beautiful and the bells ring out half hour carillon concerts at 1 and 3 P.M., with short selections played on the hour and half hour. The tower is pink, rising out of the top of 298-foot-high Lake Wales Ridge, the highest point on the peninsula of Florida. It sits in front of a beautiful reflecting pool filled with koi. When we reached the tower we sat and took in the beauty of the area; looking out over the landscape you can see miles of orange groves. While walking through this lovely garden we came upon a stone with a very beautiful quote by Edward Bok mounted in front of the tower. “MAKE YOU THE WORLD A BETTER AND MORE BEAUTIFUL PLACE BECAUSE YOU HAVE LIVED IN IT” My thoughts exactly. Mr. Bok surely made a beautiful place for all to enjoy. RETIREMENT INVESTING by Stuart Speck The Value of Cash Cash is King, almost. Everyone should have cash for emergencies and living expenses. For the past six years the interest received from various cash investments has been almost nothing. The Federal Reserve Bank, basing its actions on how the economy is doing, is poised to finally raise short-term interest rates. When they do raise these rates, it will be a slow process, essentially to be sure that the economy will not slip back into a recession. The Federal Reserve Bank is also watching European and other world economies that still have problems. My investment philosophy is very transparent; buy only investments that are totally liquid. By that I mean, buy only what you can see on your computer, tablet, or smartphone, and are able to sell immediately for cash. I preach investing for the long-term, three to five years, but sometimes you need cash, and you have to sell. All the investments that I recommend are liquid and transparent, so they can readily be converted to cash. The dividends that many of these investments produce are (federally) taxed at a maximum of 15%; the interest income from others is taxed at your marginal tax rate. Many people with pensions and social security are (federally) taxed at a rate higher than 15%. Investing in cash (at current and historical low rates of return) is always a losing proposition. This is because inflation reduces your buying power by at least 2% a year. Yes, you will get your principal back, but the purchasing power of your dollar decreases every year. It is also true if you buy stocks or the equivalent mutual funds or ETFs that the value of your investment can increase or decrease. That is why I recommend long-term investment; buy and hold dividend yielding stocks or the equivalent. The stock market is now at an all-time high; even if it goes down at some point, history tells us that it always comes back. No guarantees, of course, but history does tend to repeat itself. In 2009, when “the world was coming to an end”, the Dow was at 14,000 – it proceeded to drop to 6,500, a decrease of over 50%. Today, the Dow is over 17,000, an increase of over 100%. Again, buy quality large cap dividend paying stocks that generally increase their dividend every year. The price may fluctuate, but you will still (hopefully) receive your dividends and pay taxes at the lower rate. Preferred stocks also pay nice dividends, and these dividends are generally “qualified”, which guarantees the lower tax rate. Your asset allocation is extremely important. Your individual risk tolerance will determine the percentage of equities and fixed income investments that you hold in your portfolio, whether they are in active, tax deferred, tax exempt, or Roth IRA accounts. There are many quality large capital stocks that have excellent credit ratings, higher than bond issues in many instances. 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Outside, this place is not much to look at – just a plain store front with a sign overhead. Inside, however, the restaurant is bright and spacious with plenty of booths and table seating. As you enter, you pick up a paper menu, and then proceed to a cashier to place your order. After paying, find a seat and someone will bring your food to your table (you’re given a number on a metal holder for them to find you). The burgers here were good. You have a wide selection of specialty items, veggie and turkey burgers, sliders, crab cake and salmon burgers, etc. You can also add toppings for $.50 to $1.00 more (sautéed onions, onion rings, guacamole, fried egg, etc). Burgers cost from about $7.00 to $10.00. As you can see from the picture of my barbeque bacon cheeseburger, the burgers are of a reasonable size, not huge but not tiny either. I found them tasty and filling – a big step from a McDonald's burger that barely fills you up. You can also get hot dogs in a number of varieties (cheesy dog, jalapeno dog, New Yorker, the Chicago, etc). I tried a plain one ($3.25) and it was good, especially as it was served on a thick Italian bread ‘bun’ and not the flimsy, more typical hot dog buns you normally get elsewhere. Tables have French’s plain yellow mustard. A bit disappointing as I would prefer a spicier mustard to go with the dog (I did find, however, a package of Gulden's brown mustard at the soda/supplies stand). Sandwiches, Philly steaks, wings, and salads are available. So too are floats, shakes, smoothies and ice cream! French Fries are the long thin variety and are very tasty. Not quite as good as homemade thick cut fries but still very nice. The large portion I ordered ($5) was ample and I had plenty to take home. Fries come plain, sweet potato, or covered with a variety of options (cheese wiz, bacon, jalapenos, salt n vinegar, etc. Fountain sodas are $2, a reasonable price with free refills. 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Photographs must include a brief description (25 words or less) of the photo. Awards will be given as follows: Prizes of $250 for 1st Place and $100 for Honorable Mention will be awarded in the following categories: -18 years & over (senior) -17 years & younger (junior) People's Choice – the photo that receives most votes from the Manalapan Day (June 20th) display will also win a prize of $250. As mentioned, all photos will be on display at the Manalapan Day community event on June 20, 2015 where the special “Peoples Choice” award will be given to the photo that garners the most votes that day from the visiting and judging public. Photographs must be received by 4:30 P.M. on May 22, 2015. Photographs can be submitted by email to [email protected] (file must be less than 5mb) or dropped off at the Manalapan Township Health Department (photographic prints must not be larger than 5” x 7”). The full set of rules and the submission form are available at the Township website www.mtnj.org. Please remember, a submission form must accompany the photograph. Forms are also available on the Township website or at the Manalapan Township Health Department. www.SAMDecks.com Ad 4459a The Manalapan Arts Council and the Manalapan Township Committee is pleased to announce the holding of its 7th annual photo contest. The 2015 theme is "Let's Move It, Move It!" Photos should capture an image that symbolizes a way to move from one place to another. This could be a vehicle, a train, a plane, skates, etc. Judges will be looking at the artistic element in how the photo is taken and how the image of movement is conveyed. Each year’s contest has been very successful as almost 300 photos have been submitted in the past six years. Barbara Miller, Contest Co-Chair, explains the theme. “There are so many ways in which we move. Consider private or public transportation, old ways and new ways. We move over land, through air, over and under sea and into space. We have and still use animals to transport us. People move with skates or bikes or roller blades. The list goes on forever!” Barbara went on to explain the artistic element they are looking for. “The judges will be looking at the photos and really trying to find the photograph that best captures a means of moving in a unique setting or manner”. We encourage all Manalapan residents to consider submitting a photo and a short caption that describes a form of movement. "First of all I want to thank the Manalapan Arts Council for sponsoring our Photo Contest, especially the co-chairs Barbara Miller, Carolee Trifon, and Helen Newhook,” said Mayor Jack McNaboe. “Looking at the photos on display in the courtroom I am always impressed with the artistic talents of the residents of our town, and how they have captured the essence of each theme in their photos. This year,” he went on, “I would like to challenge the participants to follow the words of President Ronald Reagan when he said, "America is too great for small dreams.’ I know firsthand of the imagination and creativity in this community-so dream big-and I expect that there will again be outstanding photos to admire at the end of the day." 30 Pegasus Press • April 2015 New Dress Or No New Dress, That is The Question By JoAnn Abraham I don’t mean to seem ungrateful. I’m happy to celebrate with my friends who are getting married. And with my relatives who are getting married. And with my friends and relatives and their children when they get married – even if it’s for the fourth time. But honestly, I don’t understand why I have to get a new dress for each event. I had only one wedding dress. True, I’ve had only one wedding. But I’ve worn that dress more than once. One time I wore it to a Halloween party. No one believed it really was THE dress, especially since, by that point, I’d been married 40 years. True, there were about a dozen years when my arm wouldn’t fit into the sleeve, but the year of the party it did. So I did. Because I loved that dress, I was sure one of my offspring would wear it. None would even consider the notion. I offered it to a cousin who was marrying her significant other. She declined too. They wanted to wear matching dresses. I thought about dying the dress so I could wear it to OPWs, other people’s weddings, but I couldn’t decide on a color. And even if I could have, I had no guarantee that the old lace and the ancient satin would all end up the same color. So I gave up on that idea. Which left me where I am now: several invitations to lovely events for which I don’t have a dress no one’s seen me wear. What would happen, I wonder, if I just decided to show up wearing the one I have; the one I’ve worn for the last year to every wedding; the one everyone – my relatives, my friends, and even their children have seen. What would happen if I wore that for another round of events? Sure my dress would be seen again in all those photos. But My Prince Charming (MPC) wears the same tuxedo and the roof tiles don’t fall down on us. Actually, now that I’m thinking about it, the shots of me at OPWs have all been of me either sitting at a table or standing behind someone else sitting at a table. So who’d really know if it was the same dress? Especially if the photos only show from the shoulders up? And actually MPC doesn’t always wear the same tux. He has three: slim, not-so-slim, and oops. And then there’s the one that’s both slim and oops. We’d gone on a cruise that had two formal dinners. I packed the same outfit for both. He packed what he thought was the (large) tux, forgetting he’d sent the pants out to be pressed but not the jacket. The night of the first dinner he shaved, showered, and then grabbed the plastic bag that held what he thought was his tux. Except the pants were missing. “Not to worry,” I said. “I’m sure the ship’s store has something for you.” So off we went, me dressed to the nines and he in a tee shirt and shorts. The store did have something: a tux marked large. He tried on the jacket. It fit. So, assuming the pants would also, we paid, and hustled back to the room. Turned out that although the jacket was large, the pants were tiny. Not small. Not slim. Tiny. We managed, using safety pins, to get the pants to close, and off we went to dinner. Of course, MPC had no room in his pants for food, but he looked cute. Until he sneezed. Then we made a hasty exit, with him following very close behind me. Maybe I should just follow the example of my great aunt Sylvia. It was she who decreed we couldn’t wear the dress a second time with the same group of people. But when it came to her son’s engagement parties, the rules changed. She’d bought a very expensive dress for his first engagement party, but the party lasted longer than the engagement. When next he announced his intention to marry, she made another party and, since five years had passed, she assumed no one would recognize the dress, so she wore it again. I asked how come she could break her own rule, and she said, “Even fashion plates love to save money.” The wisdom of her choice became clear when he took that ring back too. Another few years passed before he once again announced his intention to marry. Unfortunately, Sylvia really didn’t like the young lady. Since she’d worn the dress twice to celebrate marriages that never happened, she decided to wear the dress again, hoping it would jinx the deal. No such luck. 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Perhaps a sort of sliding scale of freshness is needed. Not unlike the answer to the age-old query, “How many hairs must you lose to be considered bald?” Don’t laugh, this is a question that subtly stands for the principle that some things are not black and white; that sometimes a sliding scale may be necessary where precision is not possible. These two questions “How fresh is fresh? How frozen is frozen?” were suggested to me, and possibly answered, by an MSN.com on-line article entitled 10 Things Grocery Stores Won’t Tell You. I read it in December. It was written, or at least copyrighted, by Chris Ratcliffe/Bloomberg. The article listed revelations gleaned from food industry surveys, and included statistics like, “The average American household makes 1.6 trips a week to the grocery store, and spends an average $102.90 a week.” The first paragraph of the article, subtitled, “We’re terrified of Costco and Walmart,” noted that this amount, this $102.90 spent weekly in grocery stores by the average American household, is down from earlier years, in part because of increased competition from stores like Walmart and Costco. Therefore, the paragraph announced, the first thing grocery stores won’t tell is that grocery stores are “terrified of Costco and Walmart.” That’s the article’s word, “terrified.” Perhaps this word is a little strong. After all, “terrified” is subjective. But you get the idea; on the baldness scale, ”terrified” is extreme, close to the edge of measurement, sort of at the no hair at all, Yul Brenner end of the bald scale, I guess. Hard to believe big chains like Wegmans and Stop & Shop and ShopRite are so concerned as to be “terrified.” But, who am I to judge? And how could I, anyway? Ask them? Some of the other things grocery stores won’t tell, according to this article, are that their carts are filthy; that they are monitoring where you go in the store and what you buy; that they have “tricks” to make you spend, spend, spend (I guess the average American household spending only $102.90 isn’t enough for them,) and on and on. As I read these items I realized that the things in this article, and in other tell-all articles like it, probably should be viewed with skepticism. I know, as you know, that these types of articles, usually filled with statistics and survey results and gross generalizations, are created with an eye towards shock value. I believe they should at a minimum be taken with a grain of salt. And by taking them with a grain of salt hopefully purchased at the local grocery store, you, too, can help Wegmans and Stop & Shop and ShopRite to be less “terrified” of the discount box stores Three of the article’s “things grocery stores won’t tell you” were of particular interest to me because they were, in fact, a little shocking; on my shock scale at least, but maybe not on yours. The article reported that the “mist” supermarkets apply to fruits and vegetables may be a problem for consumers because the spray device, which the supermarket industry representatives say is designed to keep the produce fresh, doesn’t keep anything fresh, it only makes the stuff appear to be fresh. But the mist does add cost to the produce, because the weight of the mist, which is just water, makes the items heavier, and these items are sold by weight! That isn’t too shocking, that stores mist fruits and vegetables so they appear fresh. But raising the cost to the consumer by this deceptive practice is shocking, not to mention a little underhanded. More shocking is another paragraph in the article, sub-titled, “Our Fresh Foods Are Anything But.” This paragraph cited a 2010 survey of 25 supermarkets in five countries which claimed to find that the average apple being sold is 14 months old, having been kept in cold storage for much of that time. According to this study, the article said, fish may be displayed over ice and look fresh, but actually had been frozen on the boat, who knows how long ago; that meat and poultry often “sit for a while” and may be past their expiration dates. Now, from my own experience I know that sometimes the yogurt on the shelf in the refrigerator case may be close or past the expiration date clearly (clearly?) stamped somewhere on the package. But that’s not the same thing. That’s a day or two or maybe a week late. That’s not the same thing as foods sold as “fresh” kept 14 months in frozen storage. 14 months in storage for apples and other fruits and vegetables, all sold in grocery stores under big signs that say things like FRESH FRUIT! FRESH VEGGIES! FRESH PRODUCE! Who knows how many weeks or months for fish or poultry or meat? How could this be, I asked myself. But I didn’t have an answer. How to get an answer? I could reach out to MSN.com or Chris Ratcliffe/Bloomberg, or to the people who conducted the “independent study” way back in 2010. Or, better yet, because I really don’t care if supermarkets in other countries do these things, or even supermarkets in this country, as long as the supermarkets close to home don’t do it, I could ask in the local grocery stores, Wegmans, Stop & Shop, ShopRite. But would they know? Would the staff in the local store know if the produce they received every night, trucked in from some warehouse in another county or even another state, had been sitting cooling its heels in some freezer; or for how long? Probably not, I realized. But, I thought, the corporate officials should know, would know. And, if asked properly by way of a consumer inquiry, they might even tell me! Back to the computer I went, the very same computer I was on when I read that article. Wegmans… Stop & Shop… ShopRite; Wegmans… Stop & Shop… ShopRite. Yes! All three have on-line websites that ask for consumer questions and input. I was off and running; off and typing, anyway. To the designated official in each of the corporate offices I sent an e-mail that asked two questions. The first question was, “Are the fruits, vegetables, meats, poultry or fish that you sell frozen & stored for more than 6 months before sale?” The second question was based on the third of the article’s paragraphs I had found somewhat shocking, that some supermarkets sell certain items, such as nuts or cheese, at different prices in different sections of the supermarket. For example, the cheese in the deli may be cheaper than the same cheese in the specialty cheese department, if one exists. So question number two was, “Do you sell certain identical items for different prices in different areas of the store? I e-mailed these questions to the corporate offices of all three supermarket chains on January 4th. The next day I received an e-mail response from Wegmans, as follows: Thank you for your e-mail. We do not sell identical items at different prices in different store departments. If an item is merchandised in two spots in the same store, they will be the same price. Certain produce items are only harvested once a year (such as apples, potatoes, etc.) and the items are stored in special climate controlled conditions in order to maintain their freshness until the following harvest. This is the industry standard, and is the result of demand being year round but growing conditions being seasonal. Pegasus Press • April 2015 By Steve Resnick 33 HOW FRESH IS FRESH? HOW FROZEN IS FROZEN? I received nothing from Stop & Shop or ShopRite, but, I thought, they could be busy. So I waited. And I waited some more, and then on January 23rd I wrote again; same questions. Only this time, I said I was writing on behalf of a newspaper, The Pegasus Press. That worked, sort of. From Stop & Shop I received an e-mail stating they would get back to me, soon. From ShopRite Customer Care @wakefern.com I received the following response: Thank you for emailing ShopRite. As you may know, ShopRite stores are owned and operated by independent companies. Wakefern provides the stores with products and retail support services but the store owner ultimately controls the day-to-day operation. We’ve forwarded your comments to the owner of this location for further follow up with their management team and asked that you be contacted. If we can be of any assistance in the future, please let us know. So far, as of this writing, the end of February 2015, I have received nothing more from ShopRite, or Wakefern or Stop & Shop. As a result of this forensic endeavor I have reached certain minimal conclusions. First, that with respect to the fruit, Wegmans does do what the article said some supermarkets do, even though, as one might expect, Wegmans puts a different spin on it. Not good. And Wegmans denies selling the same item at a different price in the same store. That second part’s good. Second, ShopRite’s response could be construed as acknowledging the frozen fruit, if not the double pricing, but seeks to shift the blame or the credit to the local owners, saying that Shoprite/Wakefern “provides the stores with products and retail support services…”. Products like apples? This is the issue, isn’t it? But the store owners are the ones to ask about this, says Shoprite/Wakefern, not the parent company that supplies them! So I went to the local ShopRite, in Marlboro. I couldn’t find an “owner,” so I asked three employees, two manager types wearing ties walking around with clipboards, and one guy in a white smock who was stocking the fruit. The two in ties told me they didn’t know, told me to call ShopRite/Wakefern; I should call the same people who told me to ask locally! The guy in the smock listened intently to my question while he worked. Then he stopped putting out the glistening apples, scratched his head and said, “They wouldn’t do that, store fruit that long, sell old fruit, would they? In other articles we may discuss other legal topics. However, with the topics discussed in this article, we are speaking in generalities, and nothing written here should be construed as legal advice for a particular case. A specific set of facts may invoke other legal principles and require a different conclusion. It is always best to consult a lawyer, with all the facts of the case so as to be able to ascertain exactly what your rights and responsibilities are in a particular situation. 34 Pegasus Press • April 2015 A Would-Be Musician Finds The Right Fit By Bernard Jacks Nobody's dreams are immune to change. When I entered high school the mouthpiece and you can't return it - but it also fits the euphonium, and in 1952, my father wanted me to play football. My mother wanted me to we need one in the band." become valedictorian. I wanted to play trombone in the marching band. I "What's a euphonium?" saw myself parading on the sunny field in blue and gold, knees pumping, "It's like a small tuba. It has almost the same range as a trombone, but trombone flashing, and girls - particularly Ellen from English class - watch- it's all coiled up and has valves you press instead of a slide." He pointed ing me with adoration. to a three-foot-tall brass instrument. "How would you like to play that?" I didn't own a trombone and didn't know how to play one, but our music "I don't know. Can I smell it?" department taught students any of the school's instruments. When I applied, He still seemed troubled about selecting a musical instrument by smell, Mr. Franks, the music teacher and bandmaster, said, "Great, we can always but said, "Go ahead. Check it out." use another trombone. How long have you played?" I picked it up. It didn't smell funny. It was shinier than the trombones, "Well, never." and not too heavy. "No trombone?" "You do use these in the marching band?" "No." "Well, yes, but I need a euphonium in the symphonic band - not the "Any instrument?" marching band. Think about it. In the marching band, you'd be lost in the "No." crowd. In the symphonic, there's only one euphonium. And we're giving a "Can you read music?" concert in three months in the auditorium, including the final movement of "No." Dvorak's "New World Symphony." There's a solo for euphonium ... a small "We've got work to do." one, but a solo. You wouldn't get that in the marching band." "Yes, sir." "A solo? I've never even played before!" "First," he said, "you'll have to go to a music store and buy your own "I'll coach you. The solo is easy. Just, 'di-di-di-dah-dah.' " mouthpiece." This took some persuading of my parents, who didn't see a I thought about this. If I accepted, my dream of marching in a blue and trombone fitting their dreams of football and scholarship. That done, Mr. gold uniform, blaring out Sousa on my trombone, would be replaced by a Franks admitted me to the band room. It was filled with drums, trumpets, folding chair on the auditorium stage, a fat mini-tuba, and ... di-di-di-dahclarinets, trombones, and a few instruments I couldn't identify. dah. But the idea of a solo sounded good. My parents would be happy. It "Pick a trombone," he said. would surely impress Ellen from English. There were eight, all in cases. I opened one, lifted the instrument to apLessons began with the basics: How to blow into the mouthpiece to proximately playing position, waggled the slide a few times, then returned make a buzzing sound that would be amplified by the brass tubing. Then it to its case. I did the same with the other seven. 12 weeks of concentrated music and instrument study in my spare periods. "What's the problem?" he asked. Eventually, I got creditable sounds out of the big brass and became the "They smell funny." symphonic band's principal - and only - euphonium player. "What do you mean, 'funny'?" The band rehearsed after school every day, and on the night of the per"They smell ... brassy ... metallic. It's pretty awful. I don't think I want formance, we were ready. Shirts and ties, neatly pressed pants. Parents and to play them." students seated. Mr. Franks brought down the baton, and we got through the Mr. Franks had obviously spent his musical career concerned with how piece without too many mistakes. I wasn't allowed to play much because I instruments sounded, not how they smelled, but he picked up a trombone and hadn't mastered the sharps and flats, but I got all the notes of my solo right. tentatively sniffed around the outside of the bell. Then he tried two more. Mom and Dad were proud. It didn't matter that Ellen from English had "You're right. Metallic. Maybe it's the polish we use. 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