Meet the Bellarmine Ministry Team FR. PAUL MACKE, SJ, is executive director of Bellarmine Jesuit Retreat House. He is well-experienced in retreat ministry, having served in pastoral ministry in Alaska for 17 years, including six years as executive director of Holy Spirit Retreat Center in Anchorage, AK. Following his years in Alaska, he was appointed Secretary for Pastoral Ministries and Jesuit Life for the Jesuit Conference of the United States in Washington, DC. In that role he worked to promote the ministry of the Spiritual Exercises in the 28 retreat houses and 100 parishes of the Society of Jesus in the U.S. He holds an MA in counseling and DMin in pastoral psychotherapy. FR. JAMES GSCHWEND, SJ, is a member of Bellarmine’s resident staff. His background includes admin positions in Jesuit high schools, working at Community Mental Health in San Francisco, and serving as Director of Spirituality in the sabbatical program at the School of Applied Theology in Oakland and Berkeley, CA. Following a fellowship year on the clinical staff at the Southdown Institute in Canada, he served the Chicago Jesuit Provincial as assistant for personnel. MARY MCKEON, is a member of Bellarmine’s ministry staff. Originally from Quincy, IL Mary is a graduate of Marquette University in Milwaukee, WI. She taught school in Milwaukee’s inner city before moving to Washington, DC, to work for the United States Senate. Mary and her late husband, David, have a daughter, Catherine, and two grandsons who are the joy of her life. Mary received her training as a spiritual director at the Jesuits’ Manresa Retreat House in Bloomfield Hills, MI, where she was a staff member for several years before joining the staff here at Bellarmine. FR. ROBERT FLACK, SJ, is a member of Bellarmine’s resident staff, after serving for several years in the regional office of the Chicago Jesuits. Many will remember that prior to 2012, Fr. Flack was the administrator of Bellarmine Jesuit Retreat House. We are pleased to have him back on the Bellarmine team. Fr. Flack entered the Jesuits in 1983, after several years as a priest of the Archdiocese of Chicago. As a Jesuit he has been a pastor on the Rosebud reservation in South Dakota, taught demography at St. Louis University in Cincinnati, OH and directed retreats at the Jesuit Center for Spiritual Growth in Wernersville, PA. FR. RICK MCGURN, SJ, is a member of Bellarmine’s resident staff. He has been an associate pastor at Jesuit parishes in Chicago and Cincinnati, and directed the training program for spiritual directors at the Jesuit Retreat House in Cincinnati. He has been the Socius – executive assistant – to the Provincial of the Chicago Province Jesuits, as well as the Provincial’s Assistant for Formation, overseeing the studies of men preparing for ordination and ministry. Just prior to coming to Bellarmine he was superior of the Jesuit community at Loyola Academy, the Jesuit high school in Wilmette, IL. FR. MICHAEL SPAROUGH, SJ, is a member of Bellarmine’s resident staff. He holds an MFA from the Yale School of Drama and a DMin from St Mary of the Lake in Mundelein, IL. He is the founder of Charis Ministries, the Jesuit retreat ministry to young adults in their 20s and 30s, and has trained spiritual directors at Loyola University Chicago. A prolific writer and speaker, his latest book What’s Your Decision? is published by Loyola Press (see pg 6 for an excerpt on decision making). Fr. Michael blogs at jmsparough.wordpress.com Mission & Ministry At Bellarmine Jesuit Retreat House, we serve the spiritual needs of Catholics and all people of faith. Our ministry offerings include: • Silent Weekend Retreats that begin on Thursday or Friday • Bill W Recovery & Al-Anon Weekend Retreats • Individually Directed Retreats in June and July (5 to 8 days) • Single Day and Evening Spirituality Programs • Single Day Retreats for Veterans and their Families • Regular Spiritual Direction with a Priest or Lay Director Your faith-based group is encouraged to use our facility for Kairos retreats, ministry team retreats, parish retreats, or days of prayer and reflection. The hallmark of your time at Bellarmine is our peaceful atmosphere and sacred spaces which are nurtured to help bring you closer to God. The Ignatian Silent Retreat While we offer many programs to fit your spiritual needs, our primary ministry is the Ignatian Silent Retreat. Each preached retreat follows a basic pattern: The retreat is led (or given) by the Retreat Master who prepares eight talks based on The Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius Loyola. Between each talk are times for personal prayer and reflection. Optional activities include: • • • • • • Private Prayer & Journaling Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament The Stations of the Cross Praying the Rosary Walking the Grounds and Gardens Consulting with a Spiritual Director Most weekend retreats begin Friday evening with dinner and conclude on Sunday after lunch. For those in need of some extra retreat time, the 4-day retreats begin Thursday evening, offering an extra day in the quiet. Table of Contents The Gauge of a Good Retreat by Fr. Paul Macke, SJ 2 Captain’s Profile with Peggy Arizzi 3 Give the Gift of Retreat by Erin Maiorca 4 5 Listening in Silence by Fr. Rick McGurn, SJ 6, 11 What’s Your Decision? An Ignatian Approach 7 Thoughts from New Retreatants by Mary McKeon Retreat and Program Schedule 8-9 Retreat Costs and Funding Options 10 12-15 Retreat Master Biographies 16 Retreat/Program Registration Form St. Ignatius Loyola was born in 1491, one of 13 children of a family of minor nobility in northern Spain. As a young man, Ignatius was inflamed by the ideals of courtly love and knighthood and dreamed of doing great deeds. In 1521 Ignatius was gravely wounded in a battle with the French. While recuperating and reading about the lives of Jesus and the saints he experienced a conversion. He was happy and had a desire to do great things for the glory of God. Over the years, Ignatius became expert in the art of Spiritual Direction. His insights, prayers, and suggestions are collected in his book, The Spiritual Exercises, one of the most influential works on spiritual life ever written. With a small group of friends, Ignatius Loyola founded the Society of Jesus, or the Jesuits. Ignatius conceived the Jesuits as “contemplatives in action.” This also describes the many Christians who have been touched by Ignatian Spirituality. jesuitretreat.org 1 The Gauge of a Good Retreat, Fr. Paul Macke, SJ means carrying a little piece of our retreat with us each day. The Examen of Consciousness 1.Become aware of God’s presence. 2.Review the day with gratitude. 3.Pay attention to your emotions. 4.Pray from one feature of the day. 5.Look toward tomorrow. As I review this day, or the last few hours of life after the retreat ended, do I experience joy, delight, energy, A Retreatant Re-enters the busy world of life on Lake Cook Rd and love? If yes, this is usually a sign A key sentence in the Bellarmine Many retreatants remind me that of the Holy Spirit’s presence. It is Jesuit Retreat House vision statement this is their tenth, twentieth, or important that the gifts of the Holy is: “So that they may leave the retreat even fiftieth retreat, but the number Spirit—found in the simple joys of house to reinsert themselves in the of retreats you have attended does life—never be taken for granted. world of today and be the presence not indicate their effectiveness. My of the Heart of Christ in building the antenna go up when I hear: “You We give God thanks. We live grateful know Father, I got home from the lives and that is very attractive to Kingdom—so all may be one.” retreat and my spouse kids said to those around us—it helps lead them We live day to day immersed in me: ‘You should go on more of those.’” to Jesus. At times our daily Examen worldly concerns with our families, may uncover fears, lack of energy, friends, colleagues, and even those When those closest to us see positive agitation, anger, or restlessness. whom we have difficulty loving. On differences in how we live and act, These desolations are usually signs of each retreat we ask for the grace to that is the gauge of a good retreat. the evil spirit or sinful temptations. be free from anything that might A retreat gives us the space and We ask the Holy Spirit to heal us of prevent us from responding to God’s time needed for rest; to catch up what causes them. call. Some of these obstacles might on sleep and slow down enough to be sin or addictions such as alcohol, face ourselves and Jesus so that this Then, at the end of your retreat, pray drugs, over-eating, or pornography. “freedom from” and “freedom for” that God bless you and your fellow retreatants, with a peaceful transition On retreat, we need to be freed from can be possible. Some retreatants experience peace and tranquility on and reinsertion to the worldly the values of this world—excessive concerns so briefly set aside. The work and concern for money and retreat; others are restless and battle true gauge of a good retreat is not the possessions—so that we can be open their demons the whole time. The eloquence of the retreat master, or the to the values of Jesus. Occasionally we real gauge of whether a retreat was tastiness of the food, or the view from are prevented from spiritual growth successful or not isn’t what happens on the retreat itself, but depends on your room, but is the embrace of the by psychological barriers: anxiety, Holy Spirit that guides you through fear or depression. We need the grace how I reinsert myself into the world the trials and of concerns and struggles. of freedom to positively follow Jesus tribulations of on His Way. Freedom is not simply A simple prayer from St. Ignatius— life until you a negative “freedom from,” but the Examen of Consciousness (or can once again involves the positive “freedom for” to simply the Examen, for short)—can enter into the wholeheartedly love God, ourselves, be a daily tool to help each of us silence. and the others we encounter in life. balance worldly needs with God’s needs; to remember that reinsertion 2 jesuitretreat.org Captain’s Profile with Peggy Arizzi A recurring feature for the Program Guide is a conversation with a Retreat Captain. In this issue, we hear from Peggy Arizzi, whose retreat group is called: Meet Me In The Silence Peggy, what first brought you to Bellarmine? I was first invited to Bellarmine for a private day of prayer by a Jesuit I met when my mom’s health was declining. I lived out of state at the time and was scheduled to fly back for Mother’s Day. Unfortunately, my mom died before Mother’s Day, so the Day of Prayer that weekend brought me great comfort and was a first step towards healing from my grief and loss. Did you have any reservations about becoming a Retreat Captain? Do you have a favorite “spiritual” destination around our facilities and grounds? As I drive onto the Bellarmine grounds it is like arriving at my “home away from home;” the perfect environment for personal and spiritual discovery. As with any other journey, there are so many wonderful destinations at Bellarmine—both indoors and outdoors— that it’s hard to choose just one favorite spiritual destination. I like to begin each morning with a walk in the garden and a visit with our Blessed Mother no matter what the weather. Recently, my favorite places to pray have been in the Sacred Heart Chapel in front of the Holy Family portrait and in the Gazebo Shrine of St. Joseph. I volunteered to be a captain after one of my first retreats and yes, I had reservations. I was very new to the retreat experience and to Bellarmine. I had just moved to the community and did not think I would be very helpful serving as a Captain. My first Captain’s meeting and subsequent contact with the staff put all my reservations at ease. There is always someone to answer my questions, run an idea past and provide all the materials and moral support I need. I continue to learn from other Captains and enjoy the opportunities to exchange ideas and experiences when we gather at the annual Captain’s Meeting in the Spring. What do you tell a new person when first inviting him or her on retreat? That the food is delicious! Seriously, I always begin by explaining that the retreat is a silent retreat rooted in the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius and explain what to expect regarding the structure of the weekend. I explain that it is a time and place where you can be alone with God and encounter Him in prayer, reflection and contemplation—in the beauty of nature, in the serenity of the retreat house, in the Sacraments, in the silence that surrounds you, and in your heart. And what if someone still has objections? I respond that many first-time retreatants experience hesitancy about the silence and assure them that all they have to do is show up and God will do the rest. I tell them that the silence is a true gift, and that they deserve it. I ask them to imagine what it would be like to have a break from the stress and responsibilities of their daily routines—a time to rest, reflect and experience absolute peace and solitude in a warm and welcoming environment. The Gazebo Shrine of St. Joseph, Patron of Families Do you have any final thoughts on the Bellarmine experience to share? There are such a variety of retreats and programs to choose from each year. I’m happy to see the emphasis on women’s ministry, outreach to our Latino brothers and sisters, veterans, and even the homeless; something for everyone! Moreover, each person’s experience of God is unique to him or her. God knows what each of us needs when we show up. Not only are we comforted and consoled, but God also challenges us. I am reminded of a quote from Fr. Jim Willig: “When I got quieter, God got louder.” I have used this line to help differentiate between my voice and God’s voice while on retreat, and you know what, it really does help! jesuitretreat.org 3 Give the Gift of Retreat by Erin Maiorca We frequently hear that a major obstacle to making a retreat is finding the time to get away when so many professional and family obligations come first. Will you consider making time and giving encouragement to your spouse to come on retreat this coming 2015-16 season? We have had more than one instance this past year where the whole family came to drop mom or dad off for a of a retreat you are really giving the weekend retreat! It is a joy to see the spiritual gifts of: strength and commitment that these spouses have to one another—and peace & solitude; their faith—that they can sacrifice rest & contemplation; precious weekend time together support & guidance. for the other’s spiritual growth and This enables a deeper and more renewal. fulfilling: Sometimes we struggle to articulate how that spiritual growth and renwal time to pray; happens on a silent retreat. You may connection with Jesus; remember the graces you received silence of worldly distractions. on your last retreat, but sometimes the feelings are fleeting and even the Which provides the most important day after a retreat it might be hard to and meaningful gift of all: recall how God was communicating awareness of God’s ever present to you. So remember, when you give the gift love and grace in our lives. There are many ways we can bless others by using what God has given us. I encourage you to offer the gift of time in the quiet to a loved one or friend. Peggy reminded us in her Captain’s Profile of a quote from Fr. Jim Willig: “When I got quieter, God got louder.” We can also take this a step further by realizing that when God gets louder it is not only easier to know God’s will for us, but it is also easier to trust what we hear. Pope Francis encourages us to, “entrust ourselves to Jesus, let us give ourselves to Him.” Entrust your loved one to Jesus with a retreat. You won’t regret it! a Retreat for Fathers & Sons All fathers and their sons are invited to a retreat with Fr. Patrick McGrath, SJ (right) on August 7-9, 2015 or with Mr. Keith Maczkiewicz, SJ on April 15-16, 2016. This is a great opportunity to bring your son—aged 16 or older—to experience the grace of a weekend retreat! Whether you are a father who has attended many retreats in the past, or a son, or group of brothers and you encourage your father to attend with you, the retreat promises to be a time of deepening your relationships with each other and with God! To learn more about Fr. Patrick McGrath, SJ or Mr. Keith Maczkiewicz, SJ, check out their respective biographies on page 14. 4 jesuitretreat.org Listening in Silence by Fr. Rick McGurn, SJ In an early scene from Into Great Silence, a documentary of life in a Catholic monastery, the camera focuses in on a solitary monk sitting in his chair in a quiet room. His eyes are closed. Minutes pass by. He hardly moves, yet it is evident that he is very much awake. What is he doing? He’s listening. for God to “show up.” Only after long practice do we realize God is already here, awaiting us, yearning to answer our heart’s desire. For this reason, St. Ignatius Loyola says: begin prayer by first considering that “God our Lord beholds me”— that is, beholds me with love. The public world, too preoccupied with its own concerns and crises, has largely forgotten God, and so thinks that God has forgotten us and has withdrawn into a cold stellar distance. St. Teresa of Avila, on the contrary, in her As the scene ends, and the monk commentary on the Our Father, stirs, we quickly ask, “to whom was he says: “All the harm comes from listening, and what was he hearing?” not truly understanding that He was hearing the Father’s living He is near, but in imagining One of many places to find solitude at Bellarmine. Word, the one whose presence is Him as far away…If you listen, itself the message of hope, truth, and our mortality; but it also means that remember that you are going to hear new life: “This is my beloved Son, in new life can arrive from a benevolent One who is very close to you when whom I am well pleased. Listen to Source beyond us. He speaks.” him” (Matthew 17:5). What are the dispositions we need for How shall we listen? The first We think prayer begins with our listening? There are two. The first is requirement is solitude. Even today questions, our yearning, our hoping what St. Ignatius calls “indifference,” in a busy world, there are that is, the freedom not to be coerced spaces for solitude, where no by our own disordered desires, so as noise intrudes: riding alone in to be able to listen to God. The other a car with the radio off; sitting is the willingness to wait for God to in front of the fireplace in the disclose Himself to us. But in a time evening; standing outdoors of waiting, other voices may clamor to look up at the night sky; for attention: voices of fear, anger, listening to snow fall; allowing self-criticism, and hopelessness— silence to surround you. all saying: “there’s no time to pray, Kathleen Norris, in her book, and no reason to hope.” We need Amazing Grace, recounts an perseverance to endure and quell exercise she did with a group of these voices. fifth graders, asking them all to be very still, and to let silence That is why Jesus so often says, “Do envelop their classroom. They not be afraid,” and sends the Holy were fascinated by this; and one Spirit to calm our anxious souls. At boy said, “It’s like we’re waiting Bellarmine, the primary purpose of for something—it’s scary!” our retreats is to help each person Waiting is indeed “scary,” enter that encounter, and delve into because it brings awareness of the quiet to hear God’s living Word. “Be still, and know that I am God” (Ps. 46:11). The Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches that, “the living and true God tirelessly calls each person, seeking to draw us into the mysterious encounter known as prayer” (#2567). jesuitretreat.org 5 What’s Your Decision? An Ignatian Approach by Fr. Michael Sparough, SJ, et al Excerpt from What’s Your Decision? How to make Choices with Confidence and Clarity: An Ignatian Approach to Decision Making by J. Michael Sparough, SJ, Jim Manney, and Tim Hipskind, SJ (Loyola Press, 2010). Used with permission by Loyola Press. www.loyolapress.com. unpleasant gestures of renunciation.) How do you go about choosing between plausible, attractive alternatives? St Ignatius Loyola laid his ideas about decision-making and spiritual growth almost five hundred years ago and these ideas have had immense influence. The Ignatian approach calls for a couple of prerequisites: a sincere desire to choose the good, and a willingness to do what’s necessary to become free enough to make the best choice. God Cares about Our Decisions We are free, but the freedom we have comes from God. We have it for a purpose. Decision-making is essentially a matter of discovering this purpose and aligning ourselves with it. God is at work in your life. Your choices matter. God cares about them. At the center of reality is a God who loves us, says Ignatius. The world God created is good. “All the things in this world” exist so that we can love better. Our decisions are choices about how we use the things in this world. Our decisions matter to God. We Can Know God’s Will “God’s will” is a loaded, imprecise, and controversial term. The first problem is: what is the nature of God’s will? One view is that God’s will is completely objective, a “plan” that He made for 6 jesuitretreat.org us before we were born that exists independently of our desires, feelings, history, choices, and relationships. At the other extreme is the view that God’s will is subjective. Whatever we do to fulfill our potential and attain happiness is “God’s will.” The second problem has to do with knowing God’s will. We sometimes run across people who are certain that they know what God’s will is in certain matters. Television preachers. Religious zealots. They make us nervous. Or envious. Lucky you, to know what God’s will is. I wish I did. At the other extreme are people who don’t have the slightest idea what God might want of them when they face an important decision and think it’s a waste of time to even ask. Their God is detached or indifferent or inaccessible. Finally there’s the problem of doing God’s will. Some think that they can unquestionably do what God wants once they know it. It’s simply a matter of will power, of bold, decisive action. The view at the other extreme is that gravely flawed, easily-tempted sinners like ourselves are seldom able to do what God wants. We’re bound to fail. (Interestingly, people at both extremes tend to think that God generally wants people to make heroic, difficult, Ignatian discernment lies somewhere in the middle of all of these views. “God’s will” is neither totally objective nor entirely subjective. It’s a blend of both—God’s desire for us is manifested to a large degree in our own desires and struggles. God’s will is something we can know—but we can’t be sure that we know it perfectly. We are sinners with flawed minds and wayward hearts and an impressive capacity for selfdelusion. In fact, the mechanics of Ignatian discernment consist largely of techniques for freeing ourselves of attachments to desires and ideas that lead us astray. Finally, Ignatian discernment holds that we’re entirely capable of doing God’s will once we properly discern it. But—it’s not a matter of simple willpower. Doing God’s will is more a matter of growing into the kind of person we’re meant to be. Our Feelings are a Key to Discernment Learning to interpret emotions is one of the best ways to discern God’s will for our choices in life. This was the key insight that St. Ignatius had about the problem of decision-making. When he faced an important decision, Ignatius would contemplate the alternatives and pay attention to how he felt about them. These feelings, he realized, often pointed the way to the best choice. Over the years, Ignatius became expert in interpreting these feelings. From him we learn that the answers to the question, “What is God asking of me?” can be found in the inner movements of feelings within our hearts. Ignatius can help us with this. He discovered some very practical ways of “discerning” or sorting through our emotions. His discoveries proved to be so useful that the process of decisioncontinued on page 11 Thoughts from New Retreatants by Mary McKeon Can you recall your first retreat at Bellarmine? Was it last year or 50 years ago? Did you come into the retreat with expectations or fears? Were you surprised by God? Read on to hear what some of our recent first time retreatants have to say about their experience! Those who come to Bellamrine for the first time usually don’t come on a whim (but some do!). Usually they come at the invitation of a friend or family member who has been coming on retreat for some time. Or perhaps they might have heard a retreat captain give a witness talk at Mass or heard one of our own Ministry Team members speaking. Many new retreatants come after hearing our ads on Relevant Radio and feeling inspired to “Come to the quiet” by the Michael John Poirer song. Regardless of the way new retreatants are introduced to Bellarmine and our Ignatian Silent Retreats, week after week we hear some of the same comments at our gathering for new retreatants. They describe the retreat experience as: Powerful • Affirming • Profound Awesome • Inspiring • Enriching Peaceful • Calming • Cleansing Challenging • Insightful New Retreatants often say their Retreat was: When asked, “What is the highlight of your retreat experience?” we most often hear about the gift found in silence. Even those who feared trying to observe prolonged silence—and perhaps used this as a reason for not coming to Bellarmine sooner—speak of the grace received in spending time in quiet stillness with the Lord. Here are some of those graces first-hand: I felt nourishing of soul; the retreat was everything I expected – and more! I came with preconceived notions and it turned out that things I did not expect blessed me the most. In the silence, I could hear God’s voice for the first time in my life! The inner silence helped with my hard questions and provided time for discernment. The retreat blew my mind and softened my heart. It was an answer to my prayer; emotional doors were opened for me and finally some doors were able to be closed. The retreat had a wonderful balance of talks, activities and time for private prayer. The talks by the Retreat Master brought Scripture alive! Whether you are considering a retreat for the first time, or have been to Bellarmine many times and need a reason to return, ask yourself how the quiet and stillness might help you in your daily life. Fr. Paul spoke of re-insertion and carrying the graces from the retreat back into your life as the true gauge good retreat; give yourself that gift this coming season and consider brining someone new! One first-time retreatant recently said, “The words of Psalm 46 best reflect the Bellarmine experience: Be still and know that I am God.” jesuitretreat.org 7 Ignatian Silent Retreats For a biography of each retreat master, along with the title for their retreat (if available), see page 12. To register for any of the retreats below you may go online to www.jesuitretreat.org, call 847-381-1261, or use the mail-in registration form located on page 16. Simply write in the retreat or program date (or dates) you want to register for, and mail in your deposit along with the form. RETREATS FOR MEN August 7-9, 2015 Father/Son Fr. Patrick McGrath, SJ Sept 11-13, 2015 Matt Carpenter Fr. Tom Krettek, SJ Sept18-20, 2015 Weekend Fr. Jim Kubicki, SJ Sept 25-27, 2015 Weekend Fr. David Meconi, SJ October 9-11, 2015 Weekend Fr. David Meconi, SJ Oct 30-Nov 1, 2015 Weekend Fr. Peter Etzel, SJ Dec 4-6, 2015 Weekend Fr. Doug Leonhardt, SJ January 8-10, 2016 Four Shepherds Fr. Jim Kubicki, SJ January 15-17, 2016 Weekend Fr. John Foley, SJ January 22-24, 2016 Weekend Fr. Michael Sparough, SJ January 29-31, 2016 Roche/Zera Fr. Keith Muccino, SJ February 5-7, 2016 Weekend Fr. Mike Marco, SJ Feb 19-21, 2016 Weekend Fr. Peter Fennessy, SJ Feb 26-28, 2016 Weekend Fr. David Meconi, SJ March 18-20, 2016 Palm Sunday Fr. David Meconi, SJ April 15-17, 2016 Father/Son Mr. Keith Maczkiewicz, SJ INDIVIDUALLY DIRECTED RETREATS June 19-26, 2015 Men/Women* Jesuit & Lay Directors July 6-13, 2015 Men/Women Jesuit & Lay Directors June 17-24, 2016 Men/Women Jesuit & Lay Directors July 22-29, 2016 Men/Women Jesuit & Lay Directors RETREATS FOR WOMEN October 2-4, 2015 Weekend Mary McKeon October 6-8, 2015 Mid Wk Fr. Peter Fennessy, SJ April 8-9, 2016 1-Night Mary McKeon & Lynn Sprehe Apr 29-May 1, 2016 Weekend Fr. Kevin Kersten, SJ RETREATS FOR MEN & WOMEN March 3-6, 2016 4-Day Mary McKeon March 24-26, 2016 Holy Wk Fr. Bob Flack, SJ Mar 31-April 3, 2016 4-Day Fr. David Shields, SJ April 22-24, 2016 Couples* Fr. Jim Kubicki, SJ *Couples that have received the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony. BILL W RETREATS October 16-18, 2015 Men Mildred Frank November 6-8, 2015 Women Fr. Tom Weston, SJ Nov 13-15, 2015 Men Mildred Frank Dec 11-13, 2015 Men Fr. Jim Harbaugh, SJ March 11-13, 2016 Families* Fr. Tom Weston, SJ *Friends and Family of Bill W Retreat COMING HOME VETERANS’ RETREATS June 7, 2015 Dependents Fr. Sparough, SJ & Team August 2, 2015 Veterans Fr. Sparough, SJ & Team October 25, 2015 Dependents Fr. Sparough, SJ & Team February 28, 2016 Veterans Fr. Sparough, SJ & Team *The IDRs are open to Men and Women, Lay or Religious. June 12, 2016 Dependents Fr. Sparough, SJ & Team These are 5 to 8 day retreats with a personal Spiritual Director. Visit www.jesuitretreat.org/idrs to learn more. *Along with Fr. Michael Sparough, SJ, a group of military Veterans have formed a team to both plan and run the single day retreats for either Veterans or their Dependents. See the next page for full details on this new ministry offering at Bellarmine. 8 jesuitretreat.org Spirituality Programs Spirituality Programs at Bellarmine are a time of guided prayer and reflection without needing to commit to a weekend retreat. Visit jesuitretreat.org/programs/ to learn more about these dynamic, prayer provoking programs. SPIRITUALITY PROGRAMS FOR WOMEN September 14, 2015 Evening of Reflection: Mother Teresa of Calcutta, Contemplative in Action Mary McKeon October 13, 2015 Afternoon of Reflection: Praying the Rosary with Mary Untier of Knots Mary McKeon March 22, 2016 Evening of Reflection: The Way of the Cross Through Mary’s Eyes Mary McKeon SPIRITUALITY PROGRAMS FOR MEN & WOMEN November 2, 2015 Day of Reflection: Transforming Grief Fr. Paul Macke, SJ & Mary McKeon December 8, 2015 Advent Day of Reflection Fr. Rick McGurn, SJ February 10, 2016 Ash Wednesday Evening of Reflection Fr. Michael Sparough, SJ February 22, 2016 Lenten Day of Reflection Fr. Michael Sparough, SJ April 10, 2016 Hispanic Day of Reflection Fr. John Foley, SJ April 25, 2016 Day of Reflection: Spirituality of Aging Fr. Jim Gschwend, SJ & Mary McKeon Retreats for Veterans Skarr from the Ignatian Spirituality Project helped the team design the day using the ISP retreat model for the homeless. “The beauty of the ISP model is that it’s all about building trust and creating a safe place to be able to tell one’s story,” explains Committee Chair—retired Army Maj. General—Em Bataille. Trust is a big issue for most veterans recently returning from deployment. “The retreat seeks to create a safe place where veterans don’t have to explain themselves or what we’ve been through,” said Fr. Matt Foley, The retreat grew from a suggestion former military chaplain with four by Board Member Gene Croissant tours of duty in Afghanistan and who strongly advocated for a now pastor of St. James in Arlington spiritual outreach to those men and Heights. “I know that I am only now women who have served our nation beginning to process all that went on through the armed forces. A Veterans for me during my first deployment outreach committee was formed in Afghanistan. We veterans need and created an interactive, non- the kind of retreat experience that denominational spiritual experience Bellarmine is now offering. It’s that welcomes all veterans regardless critical to the healing process.” of their religious affiliation. Jordan Much has been written about the Bellarmine held its first retreat for Veterans on Sunday, November 23. The response of those who attended was electric! It was a healing, bonding and energizing day of prayer. trauma veterans experience. Many return with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) or Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI). Others experience something much harder to diagnose but equally devastating – Moral Injury. “This is a rupture to the core values of a person who in time of war has acted contrary to their basic moral code,” commented team member and retired Army Maj. General Jim Mukoyama. Joining Forces Bellarmine provides a one day retreat experience while Mayslake Ministries offers a more in depth, full weekend program especially for those suffering from PTSD. The retreats are offered free of charge through the generosity of benefactors. See page 8 for a full list of upcoming Veterans’ Retreats at Bellarmine. Mayslake Ministries offers a weekend retreat May 29 – 31 in Racine, WI. To register: ComingHomeRetreats.org jesuitretreat.org 9 Retreat and Program Costs and Funding Options Suggested Contribution Amounts Father Fussner Retreat Scholarship Fund It is the tradition of Bellarmine Jesuit Retreat House to welcome everyone to our Ignatian Silent Retreats, regardless of their ability to pay the suggested contribution amount. Our ministry depends on the generosity of retreatants giving to our Father Fussner Retreat Scholarship Fund which helps to cover retreat expenses for those who cannot afford to make a contribution on their own. Fr. Ray Fussner, SJ, lived and served at Bellarmine for 23 years until suffering a stroke in 1993 that forced him to retire to Columbiere, the Jesuit retirement community in MI, where he died in 1995. The Fr. Fussner Fund was established at Bellarmine to help those who cannot afford to come on retreat. Any amount given above the suggested retreat contribution goes into the Fussner Fund. We invite contributions to the Fussner Fund at any time. Your gift of $285 will sponsor a retreat for someone who cannot afford it at this time. 10 jesuitretreat.org Weekend Retreat (2 nights) $285 per person* 4-Day Retreat (3 nights) $360 per person Bill W/Al-Anon Retreats (2 nights) $285 per person Sacramentally Married Couples (2 nights) $515 per couple Overnight Retreat (1 night) $185 per person Individually Directed Retreat (5 to 8 days) $85 per night** Day of Reflection $50 per person*** Afternoon/Evening of Reflection $35 per person *A deposit of $85 is requested to register each person for a retreat. For those coming to the Married Couples’ retreat or the Father-Son retreats, the deposit amount is $42.50 per person. If you give more than the suggested amount, we consider that extra amount a tax-deductible gift. **The Early Bird rate for the IDR is $85 per night, secured with your deposit before May 1st. After May 1st, the rate is $90 per night. ***If you are registering for a Spirituality Program (day or evening), we request the full amount at the time of your registration. How We Use Your Contributions Your contribution primarily goes to cover the expenses of the Retreat House. Limited financial resources should not prevent anyone from making a retreat. The generosity of retreatants who can offer more than the requested contribution helps us to provide retreats for all who are unable to contribute at this time. The deposit is applied toward the total suggested contribution for your retreat. In the event of a cancellation 48 hours before the retreat begins, you have the option to move your deposit to a different retreat within the same season (a deposit may be moved once only). If not moving your deposit, you can either request a refund or donate your deposit as a tax-deductible gift. Each retreat has fixed costs, but we do not turn anyone away because they cannot afford to contribute. Flexible funding (see details below) allows payments to be spread over time. For those who cannot pay anything, we ask that you limit attendance to one retreat per year so that others may also benefit from this ministry. Flexible Funding Options If you are unable to give a deposit or pay the suggested retreat contribution at the time of your retreat, consider making smaller monthly payments spread over 4 or 10 months. If this too is a financial burden, a one-time scholarship may be offered from the Fussner Fund to cover your retreat costs. To inquire about utilizing the flexible funding option, or to receive a retreat scholarship, please call the Bellarmine office at 847-381-1261. What’s Your Decision? (continued) making that Ignatius developed is popularly referred to as “discernment.” us tools to help us acquire these skills as well. There’s a Methodology to Making Decisions Decisions Lead to More Decisions Ignatius’ first great contribution to the discussion was his realization that our emotions are an important factor in decision-making. His second achievement—even more important in our view—was to develop a methodology for decision-making that can be usefully applied to our lives. Our feelings have to be interpreted; we shouldn’t always just “go with our gut,” at least in most situations. And feelings aren’t the only consideration. Analysis is part of decision-making too, as are our life circumstances, the advice of others, and prior commitments and decisions. Ignatius developed a method and an approach. His advice about interpreting the inner movements of the heart is summarized in “Rules for Discernment of Spirits.” He proposed three methods for making decisions and fleshed out how these methods work in practical terms. Ignatian decision-making works best when we can listen and reflect on our experience and develop a sensitivity to subtle spiritual signals. Ignatius gave It’s often narrow and misleading to think of decision-making in terms of a single decision. The model is a journey. The end is “life forever with God,” in the words of Ignatius’ Principle and Foundation. The road to this end is a meandering one. Our travels are punctuated by decisions, some of them crucial, life-changing decisions, but we seldom “arrive” at a point where no further decisions are necessary. Ignatian decision-making isn’t linear. It’s more of a spiraling circle. We reflect on our experience, make a decision based on reflection and discernment, put the decision into practice, experience the result, reflect on that experience, and so forth. It’s a spiral—a circular process that carries us deeper and forward into a life lived for God. Thus, even our mistakes can be useful material in the next decision. In fact, it’s hard to think of a decision that is absolutely bad with no redeeming qualities and possibilities. As long as we’re walking the road with an open mindedness, as long as we’re seeking to do good and to love God and our fellow human Ignatian Decision-Making Isn’t Linear beings, we’ll continue to grow and to learn and to serve. The fact is: the decision is not the goal. The goal is to grow in a relationship with God. The decisions we make are means to this end. Ignatius put it this way in his Principle and Foundation at the beginning of the Spiritual Exercises: “Our one choice should be this: I want and I choose what better leads to God’s deepening life in me.” drawing by Christopher Santer www.pacemstudio.com St. Robert Bellarmine, SJ, one of the most important cardinals of the Catholic Reformation and a Doctor of the Church, was born to an impoverished noble Italian family. His early intellectual accomplishments gave his father hope that Bellarmine would restore the family’s fortunes through a political career. His mother’s wish that he enter the Society of Jesus prevailed. On completion of his studies, Bellarmine taught at Louvain in Belgium. In 1576, he accepted the invitation of Pope Gregory XIII to teach theology at the new Roman College. He spent the next 11 years teaching and writing a monumental defense of the Catholic faith against the arguments of the Protestants. Through his writings Bellarmine was involved in the political, religious, and social issues of the time. Although a very powerful man in Rome, Bellarmine lived an austere life. He gave most of his money to the poor saying, “The school of Christ is the school of charity...On the last day when the examination takes place... charity will be the whole syllabus. St. Robert Bellarmine was canonized by Pope Pius XI in 1930 and declared a Doctor of the Church in 1931. Bio from: ignatianspirituality.com jesuitretreat.org 11 Retreat Master Biographies with Retreat Dates and Titles Fr. David De Marco, SJ, MD, is a Jesuit priest and a physician, who lives in the Oglala Lakota Nation on the Pine Ridge Indian Reservation in SD, where he is the superior of the Holy Rosary Mission Jesuit Community. He has practiced primary care internal medicine at the Pine Ridge Hospital operated by the Dept. of Health and Human Services while also serving several of the faith communities on the reservation as an associate pastor. Besides his medical degree, Fr. De Marco holds degrees in medical ethics and divinity, and received his training in spiritual direction at the Weston Jesuit School of Theology. Retreat: Spiritual Director at the 2015 June and July IDRs Fr. Peter Etzel, SJ, is a priest with the Wisconsin Province Jesuits and currently serves as the Director of the Sioux Spiritual Center in Howes, SD. Fr. Etzel graduated with a BS in Journalism from the University of Wisconsin in 1975, entered the Jesuits in 1983, and then was ordained a priest in 1994. As a Jesuit, he studied Humanities at Creighton University, Philosophy at St. Louis University and received his M. Div. from the Jesuit School of Theology in 1994. Previously he was the Pastor at Gesu Parish from 2002-2009 and Director of Vocations for the Wisconsin Jesuits from 1996-1999. Fr. Jim Dixon, SJ, is a frequent team member for our Bellarmine retreats. He is currently superior of the Jesuit community in Chicago’s Hyde Park neighborhood, and Chaplain for the Ignatian Volunteer Corps. Prior to ordination, he studied theology in Toronto, and has given 8-day and 30-day retreats in Canada. Fr. Dixon has extensive experience in Native American ministry, as well as serving as pastor in various locales in rural America. His priestly ministry also includes service on the marriage tribunals for dioceses in SD and AK. Retreat: Spiritual Director at the 2015 June IDR Fr. Peter Fennessy, SJ, was born in Boston and is part of the Chicago-Detroit Province. He completed most of his studies in the Boston area but spent three years at Oxford University and three years teaching in Kingston, Jamaica. Fr. Fennessy earned graduate degrees in the Classics, Philosophy and Theology from Boston College and Weston Jesuit School of Theology. Ordained in 1970, he was active in the Campus Ministry Team at John Carroll University for 26 years, serving also as Team Director and Rector of the Jesuit Community. Since studying Theology and Art and Buddhist Aesthetics during a sabbatical, he has used the fine arts to illustrate his preached retreats. He works at Manresa Jesuit Retreat House in Bloomfield Hills, MI, giving preached and individually directed retreats. Retreat: a Silent Weekend Retreat for Men, October 30-November 1, 2015 Retreat: Praying with Art a Silent Midweek Retreat for Women, October 6-8, 2015 Fr. John P. Foley, SJ is Chief Mission Officer of the Cristo Rey Network. A native of Chicago, he joined the Society of Jesus in 1954 and was ordained a priest in 1967. From 1961 until 1995, he served in the Jesuit missions in Peru working in education and school administration. During this time, he was President of the Jesuit high schools in the cities of Piura and Tacna. In 1995, he returned to Chicago to help establish Cristo Rey Jesuit HS. The National Catholic Educational Association conferred on him the Seton Award for the positive impact this work has had on Catholic education in the US. In December 2008, Fr. Foley received the Distinguished Citizen’s Award from President George W. Bush for his work on behalf of the vulnerable youth served by the Cristo Rey Network schools. Retreat: Praying with Art a Silent Weekend Retreat for Men, February 19-21, 2016 Mildred Frank is an educator and inspirational speaker who has helped many people enhance the quality of their lives, improve their relationships and recover from addictions. She is a much sought-after counselor and spiritual adviser and a towering example of embracing and living recovery. For decades Mildred has spent 30 – 40 weekends a year sharing her message throughout Canada, the US and beyond. In all her work, Mildred shares freely from the rich personal experiences that shaped her own life. She is wonderfully skilled in making the program come alive as she speaks of practicing spirituality in everyday life situations. Retreat: What are you looking for? a Silent Weekend Retreat for Men, January 15-17, 2016 Retreat: a Bill W Silent Weekend Retreat for Men, November 13-15, 2015 12 jesuitretreat.org Retreat Master Biographies with Retreat Dates and Titles Fr. Jim Harbaugh, SJ, has been active in addictions recovery for nearly 25 years, including the retreat ministry. He has been a high school teacher, a college professor, an addictions counselor, and a parish priest. He has published books on the Twelve Steps (A 12-Step Approach to the Spiritual Exercises and A 12-Step Approach to the Sunday Readings) and the Jesuit Spiritual Exercises. He is currently the assistant pastor at St. Leo Church in Tacoma, WA. He has been leading retreats for recovering people since 1991. Retreat: What It Takes to Stay Awake a Bill W Silent Retreat for Men, December 11-13, 2015 A native of Council Bluffs, Iowa, Fr. Tom Krettek, SJ is presently Director of the Jesuit First Studies and Master of Arts in Philosophical Resources Programs at Fordham University in the Bronx. Formerly, he was provincial of the Wisconsin Province, and has been giving weekend preached retreats for over 15 years. Retreat: The Mass and the Spiritual Exercises a Silent Retreat for Men, September 11-13, 2015 Maureen Kuhn has been a Spiritual Director for the past 18 years. She and her husband graduated from the Institute of Pastoral Studies of Loyola University and then served in parish ministry in Wisconsin as Pastoral Associates. Along with her service at Bellarmine, she sees spiritual directees, offers “At Home and Workplace Retreats,” and works with the Diaconate Program for the Archdiocese of Chicago. Maureen is a past Regional Coordinator of Spiritual Directors International for the State of Illinois. Retreat: Spiritual Director at the 2015 June and July IDRs Fr. Kevin Kersten, SJ, holds graduate degrees in Theology from the Jesuit School of Theology at Berkeley; Television Production from San Francisco State University; and English Lit. from St. Louis University and has a PhD in International Communication from the University of Wisconsin. He served as Assistant Secretary General of the International Catholic Association for Radio/Television and then as Executive Secretary of the Jesuit Secretariat for Communications and the Media, East Asia. He also taught at the Jesuit Sogang University in Seoul, Korea and produced over 50 documentaries on faith and justice. Retreat: Jesus Christ: “Yesterday, Today, and Forever” St. Ignatius’s Way to Know, Love and Serve Our Lord a Silent Retreat for Women, April 29-May 1, 2016 Fr. Jim Kubicki, SJ, born in Milwaukee, entered the Jesuits in 1971, was ordained in 1983 and gave his first retreat in 1986. From 1984-88 he served as the Vocation Dir. and from 1995-99 as the Dir. of Formation for the Wisconsin Province Jesuits. Fr. Kubicki worked at the Sioux Spiritual Center, a retreat house for Native Americans in western SD, from 1989-95. From 2000-03 he was the Asst. Dir. of Demontreville Retreat House in Lake Elmo, MN. In 2003 he became the National Dir. of the Apostleship of Prayer overseeing the publication of materials to promote awareness of and prayer for the Holy Father’s monthly intentions, as well as materials which foster devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus. Retreat: A Heart Centered Approach to the Spiritual Exercises a Silent Weekend Retreat for Men, September 18-20, 2015 Retreat: A Heart Centered Approach to the Spiritual Exercises a Silent Weekend Retreat for Men, January 8-10, 2016 Retreat: a Silent Weekend Retreat for Sacramentally Married Couples, April 22-24, 2016 jesuitretreat.org 13 Retreat Master Biographies with Retreat Dates and Titles A native of Milwaukee, Fr. Doug Leonhardt, SJ, entered the Society of Jesus in 1956 and was ordained a priest in 1969. At various times he has served as the Principal and the President of Marquette University High, as the Director of Novices and the Formation Director of the Wisconsin Province, and as the Pastor of Gesu Parish in Milwaukee. He has extensive experience in directing the Spiritual Exercises and is presently working as Associate Vice President for Mission and Ministry at Marquette University. Retreat: God is more present than we think. Encountering God and Christ with St. Ignatius as our tutor a Silent Weekend Retreat for Men, December 4-6, 2015 Fr. Michael Marco, SJ was born in Omaha, NE, graduated from Creighton University in 1984 with a BA in Psychology, Boston College University with an MEd, Weston Jesuit School of Theology with an MDiv, and earned his teacher certification at Marquette University. He joined the Society of Jesus in 1984. He has been a theology instructor, retreat director, spiritual director, Director of Campus Ministry, and President of Walsh Jesuit High School and Georgetown Preparatory School. Fr. Marco currently serves as Special Assistant to the President at Marquette University High School. Retreat: a Silent Weekend Retreat for Men, February 5-7, 2016 Fr. David Meconi, SJ, is a professor of early Church history at Saint Louis University as well as the editor of Homiletic & Pastoral Review. He is a member of the Chicago-Detroit Province of the Society of Jesus, holds the pontifical license in Patristics from the University of Innsbruck, and the Doctorate in Ecclesiastical History from Oxford. He grew up "right around the lake" in the vineyards of Paw Paw, MI. Retreat: a Silent Weekend Retreat for Men, Sep 25-27, 2015 Retreat: a Silent Weekend Retreat for Men, Oct 9-11, 2015 Retreat: a Silent Weekend Retreat for Men, Feb 26-28, 2016 Retreat: a Palm Sunday Weekend Retreat for Men, March 18-20, 2016 14 jesuitretreat.org Keith Maczkiewicz, SJ a Long Island, New York Native, joined the former New England Province Jesuits in summer 2008. Keith graduated from Fairfield University in CT and did two years of service with the Providence Alliance for Catholic Teachers (PACT), serving as campus minister at a diocesan high school in Springfield, MA and living in community with other volunteer teachers. After completing two years there and earning an M.Ed. from Providence College, Keith began working at The University of Scranton in PA in the office of Campus Ministry doing retreat and justice work while living in a freshmen residence hall. After taking vows in the Society in 2010, Keith completed his philosophy studies at Loyola University Chicago in 2013. From 2013-15, Keith worked in the chaplains’ office at the College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, MA. In August 2015, he began his theology studies at the Jesuit School of Theology in Berkeley, CA. Retreat: High Definition: Finding God on Television a Silent Weekend Retreat for Fathers and Sons, April 15-17, 2016 Fr. Patrick E. McGrath, SJ, a Jesuit of the Chicago-Detroit Province, was installed as Loyola Academy’s eighth president in 2009. Fr. McGrath is a popular retreat leader and noted homilist who focuses on the practical living of Catholic faith. He uses storytelling, scripture, wisdom from the Catholic tradition and the spirituality of St. Ignatius to help audiences reflect and experience God in all things. A native of Chicago, Fr. McGrath graduated from Marist HS and earned his B.A. in American Government from the University of Notre Dame in 1988. He holds master’s degrees in Divinity from the Jesuit School of Theology, Berkeley and in Learning and Organizational Change from Northwestern. Before joining the Jesuits in 2000, Fr. McGrath taught religion and was campus minister at Cathedral HS in Chicago. He also taught scripture, ethics and philosophy at St. Ignatius College Prep and was director of Ignatian and Jesuit Identity at Loyola Academy from 2003-06. In July 2006, Fr. McGrath was ordained a Catholic priest. Retreat: a Silent Weekend Retreat for Fathers and Sons, August 7-9, 2015 Retreat Master Biographies with Retreat Dates and Titles Fr. Keith Muccino, SJ, MD, currently works as a physician and medical educator at Loyola University Medical Center in Chicago. Fr. Muccino’s love for retreat work has been a life long passion. While at Georgetown University from 1991-2004, he directed students, faculty, staff and alumni on a variety of Ignatian retreat experiences. Since moving to Chicago in 2004 to take on his current position at Loyola University Medical Center, he has continued to direct retreats for parish and professional groups, who are seeking to connect God to the busy pace and challenges that are a part of every day contemporary life. Retreat: a Silent Weekend Retreat for Men, January 29-31, 2016 Fr. David Shields, SJ, entered the Jesuits in 1961 after graduating from Marquette University HS in Milwaukee, WI. After finishing his theological studies in Toronto, Ontario, Canada, he was ordained a priest in 1973. He served on the Pine Ridge Reservation from 1974-89, where he taught at Red Cloud HS, did pastoral duties, served as director of the Red Cloud Volunteers, and was staff liaison at Holy Rosary Mission. From 1990-95, Fr. Shields was Assistant Director of the Family Life Office for the Diocese of Rapid City, SD. In 1996, he began ministry among Milwaukee’s Latino population. For the last 9 years, he has served as Executive Director of Casa Romero Renewal Center, an urban bilingual spirituality center in Milwaukee. Retreat: a 4-Day Silent Men & Women, March 31-April 3, 2016 Lynn Sprehe is a Spiritual Director trained in the Ignatian tradition. She is a team member of Bellarmine’s training program for spiritual directors. She enjoys giving the Spiritual Exercises to individuals and small groups, as well as offering workshops based on Ignatian spirituality. Lynn is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor with graduate degrees in Pastoral Studies and Clinical Psychology. She is married and the mother of three sons. Retreat: a Bill W Silent Weekend Retreat for Women, November 6-8, 2015 Retreat: a Silent Overnight Retreat for Women, April 8-9, 2016 Retreat: an Al-Anon Silent Weekend Retreat for Men & Women, March 11-13, 2016 Prayer for Healing said after Wednesday Morning Mass St. Peter Faber, SJ Gracious God, you called St. Peter Faber to be “the quiet companion of St. Ignatius” in the founding of the Society and Jesus, and a powerful instrument in helping your people to unite themselves with Christ. Through the intercession of St. Peter, we ask you for the complete healing of all those on our prayer list: body, mind, spirit and speech; that they might be restored to their loved ones and brought closer to you. We ask you this in Jesus’ name. Amen. Fr. Tom Weston, SJ, entered the California Province of the Jesuit Order in 1965 and was ordained a priest in 1978. Currently based in Oakland, CA, he has devoted most of his priestly life to counseling and retreat work with alcoholics and other addicts. In addition to his Twelve Step work, he was part of a team that taught English to ministry students in Thailand and Vietnam each summer. Beginning Fall of 2015: A 3-year Internship in Spiritual Direction in the Ignatian Tradition Offered Monday evenings from 6:30-8:30pm at Bellarmine, this program focuses on the dynamics of the spiritual direction conversation. In the Ignatian tradition, this means listening contemplatively to the movement of God in the life of the directee, discerning those movements, and fostering intimacy with God. In year one, classes are twice per month, going to once per month in years two and three. Lynn Sprehe will coordinate this program along with the Bellarmine Ministry Team. Call the office or email [email protected] to learn about applying. Applications are due by August 1, 2015. Three texts will be used: Barry & Connolly, The Practice of Spiritual Direction; Fr. Bill Barry, SJ, Letting God Come Close; Fr. Michael Sparough, SJ, What’s Your Decision? jesuitretreat.org 15 Volunteer Gardening Days We are blessed to have a dedicated group of professional and amateur gardeners who tend and cultivate our gardens and grounds on a weekly basis. Even with this level of attention we are still not able to get everything done that is needed throughout the season. To address this challenge we introduced volunteer gardening days where a big group of volunteers is invited to take on some of these tasks. Since the summer of 2013 we have had four of these gardening days, with more than 30 retreatants and volunteers participating. In addition to getting your hands dirty and working in the gardens, these days offer an excellent opportunity to see the grounds and the retreat house in a different time of year than the fall/winter/spring retreat season! At the first gardening day this box was emptied of the white Gooseneck Loosestrife plants (lower right) and given a new look with more variety. 2015 Gardening Dates Friday, May 29th Friday, July 17th Thursday, October 29th Each day will begin at 8:30am with garden work until 11:15am followed by Mass at 11:30am and then lunch at noon. To register for one of the dates above, please call the Bellarmine office, or visit jesuitretreat.org/garden. We look forward to having you! A husband and wife team work in the boxes near the statue of the Blessed Mother. Thank you to the generous donor who gave these beautiful plants! Retreat and Program Registration Form To register by mail, please complete this form and send it, along with your deposit or full payment, to our office at the address below. If you wish to pay for your retreat in installments, please call the office at 847-381-1261. I am registering for the following Retreat (list date): Name: Address: Enclosed is my check payable to: Bellarmine Jesuit Retreat House, Inc. City: Credit Card Type, if applicable: Visa Amex MC Discover State / Zip: Card #: Phone: Expiration Date: Please list any dietary restrictions: Signature: Retreat Group (if applicable): 16 jesuitretreat.org Bellarmine Jesuit Retreat House 420 W County Line Road • Barrington, IL 60010 847-381-1261 • www.jesuitretreat.org Bellarmine 2015-2016 Ignatian Silent Retreats & Spirituality Programs Register online at jesuitretreat.org or call 847.381.1261. Men Only Women Only Both Men & Women Gender Key: 420 W County Line Rd Barrington, IL 60010 847.381.1261 | www.jesuitretreat.org Program Key: DOR = Day of Reflection, EOR = Evening of Reflection Veterans Committee 19-26 Directed Retreats Multiple Directors 6-13 Directed Retreats Multiple Directors 2 Military Veterans Veterans Committee 7-9 Father/Son Retreat** Fr. Patrick McGrath, SJ 11-13 14 18-20 25-27 2-4 Weekend Retreat Evening of Reflection Weekend Retreat Weekend Retreat Weekend Retreat Fr. Tom Krettek, SJ Mary McKeon Fr. Jim Kubicki, SJ Fr. David Meconi, SJ Mary McKeon 6-8 Midweek Retreat Fr. Peter Fennessy, SJ 9-11 Weekend Retreat Fr. David Meconi, SJ Afternoon of Reflection Bill W Retreat Military Dependents Weekend Retreat DOR: Transforming Grief Bill W Retreat Bill W Retreat Weekend Retreat Advent DOR Bill W Retreat Mary McKeon Mildred Frank Veterans Committee Fr. Peter Etzel, SJ Fr. Macke & M. McKeon Fr. Tom Weston, SJ Mildred Frank Fr. Doug Leonhardt, SJ Fr. Rick McGurn, SJ Fr. Jim Harbaugh, SJ 13 16-18 25 30-Nov 1 2 6-8 13-15 4-6 8 11-13 August January June January Military Dependents February 7 2015 March Dec Nov October September Aug Jul June Jesuit Retreat House 2016 8-10 Four Shepherds Retreat Fr. Jim Kubicki, SJ 15-17 Weekend Retreat Fr. John Foley, SJ 22-24 Weekend Retreat Fr. Michael Sparough, SJ 29-31 Roche/Zera Retreat Fr. Keith Muccino, SJ 5-7 Weekend Retreat Fr. Mike Marco, SJ 10 Ash Wednesday EOR* Fr. Michael Sparough, SJ Weekend Retreat Fr. Peter Fennessy, SJ Lenten DOR Fr. Michael Sparough, SJ 26-28 Weekend Retreat Fr. David Meconi, SJ 28 Military Veterans Veterans Committee 3-6 4-Day Retreat Mary McKeon 19-21 22 11-13 Friends/Family of Bill W Fr. Tom Weston, SJ 18-20 Palm Sunday Retreat Fr. David Meconi, SJ 22 24-26 Evening of Reflection Mary McKeon Holy Week Retreat April 31-Apr 3 4-Day Retreat October **For Fathers and their Sons who are at least 16 years old or older. ***For Couples who have received the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony. Fr. David Shields, SJ 8-9 Overnight Retreat Mary McKeon/Lynn Sprehe 10 Hispanic DOR Fr. John Foley, SJ 15-17 Father/Son Retreat* Mr. Keith Maczkiewicz, SJ 22-24 Married Couples*** Fr. Jim Kubicki, SJ 25 DOR: Spirituality of Aging Fr. Gschwend & M. McKeon 29-May 1 Weekend Retreat Jul June *The Ash Wednesday Program is an Evening of Reflection next year. Fr. Bob Flack, SJ 12 Fr. Kevin Kersten, SJ Military Dependents Veterans Committee 17-24 Directed Retreats Multiple Directors 22-29 Directed Retreats Multiple Directors Bellarmine Jesuit Retreat House 420 W County Line Rd Barrington, IL 60010-4011 847-381-1261 • jesuitretreat.org
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