The Smart Woman's Guide to Office Politics: How to Increase Your Influence & Achieve Your Career Goals FEATURED FACULTY: Marie G. McIntyre, Ph.D., Your Office Coach 770-788-1108 [email protected] Marie G. McIntyre, Ph.D., Your Office Coach Marie G. McIntyre, PH.D. writes the weekly workplace advice column Your Office Coach, which appears in newspapers nationwide. Her practical, down-to-earth advice is based on years of experience as a manager, HR director, and consultant. Marie’s latest book, Secrets to Winning at Office Politics, has been described as “a survival manual for the corporate jungle.” She is frequently quoted in national publications, including Fortune, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, & CNBC Online. As a consultant, Marie has worked with a wide variety of business and government organizations, including Cisco, The Home Depot, Walgreens, AT&T, and Panasonic. She also provides individual advice and career coaching through her website yourofficecoach.com. © Marie G. McIntyre, Atlanta GA, All rights reserved. **Certificates of attendance and CEUs, when available, must be requested through the online evaluation.** Evaluation for Live Event: We’d like to hear what you thought about the audio conference. Please take a moment to fill in the survey located here: http://www.c4cm.com/handouts/092412.htm Requests for continuing education credits and certificates of attendance must be submitted within 10 days of the live event. Evaluation for CD Recording: Please use the following link to submit your evaluation of the recorded event: http://www.c4cm.com/handouts/CDEval.htm Please note: All links are case sensitive Marie G. McIntyre, Ph.D. Your Office Coach www.yourofficecoach.com Practicing Positive Office Politics How to Increase Your Influence & Achieve Your Goals Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. CONTACT INFORMATION Marie G. McIntyre, Ph.D Your Office Coach Free coaching tips: www.yourofficecoach.com Personal coaching: [email protected] LinkedIn & Twitter: @officecoach Book: “Secrets to Winning at Office Politics” Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 1 Topics for Today POLITICAL INTELLIGENCE: Increasing your organizational IQ ORGANIZATIONAL REALITIES: Lessons in leverage MANAGING UP: Being smart about power differences CAREER SUCCESS: The “Three R’s” of getting ahead POLITICAL SUICIDE: Avoiding career-killer behaviors Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. POLITICAL INTELLIGENCE Smart people can be politically stupid. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 2 POLITICAL INTELLIGENCE Political Intelligence Achieving your goals by successfully managing relationships at work. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. POLITICAL INTELLIGENCE Top Ten Tips (plus one) for Practicing Positive Politics Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 3 POLITICAL INTELLIGENCE GOALS! Tip #4 Tip #1 Goals are more useful than wishes. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. POLITICAL INTELLIGENCE GOALS Business goals The responsibilities of your position Personal goals What you want in your career Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 4 POLITICAL INTELLIGENCE Problematic Personalities MARTYRS (Whiners, Pleasers, & Crusaders) Lose influence through SELF-SACRIFICE Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. POLITICAL INTELLIGENCE Problematic Personalities SOCIOPATHS Lose influence through SELFISHNESS Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 5 POLITICAL INTELLIGENCE Problematic Personalities DIMWITS Lose influence through LACK OF SELF-CONTROL Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. POLITICAL INTELLIGENCE Politically smart people consciously choose their behavior. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 6 POLITICAL INTELLIGENCE Winners Practice positive politics to achieve both business & personal goals. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. POLITICAL INTELLIGENCE Three Key Questions What goals do I hope to accomplish? Who can help me or hurt me? How well am I managing those relationships? Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 7 ORGANIZATIONAL REALITIES Tip #2 Forget fairness, look for leverage. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. ORGANIZATIONAL REALITIES One of the best ways to make yourself sick is to expect organizations to be rational. Geoffrey Bellman The Consultant’s Calling 8 ORGANIZATIONAL REALITIES The “Facts of Life” at Work Organizations are not democracies. Some people have more power than others. Virtually all decisions are subjective. Your boss has control over much of your life. Fairness is an impossible goal. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. ORGANIZATIONAL REALITIES Leverage Your ability to influence the outcome of a situation. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 9 ORGANIZATIONAL REALITIES Where do you focus your energy? Fairness ENERGY “Fairness” looks backwards. Leverage “Leverage” looks forward. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. ORGANIZATIONAL REALITIES What gives people leverage at work? Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 10 ORGANIZATIONAL REALITIES Sources of Leverage Position Results Information Expertise Association Attitude Empathy Networks Inclusion Detachment Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. ORGANIZATIONAL REALITIES Your power to affect their outcomes Their power to affect your outcomes The Leverage Equation Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 11 MANAGING UP Tip #2 Tip #3 Learn to deal with power differences. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. MANAGING UP Assess Yourself I tend to get into power struggles and control battles with my boss. I resent the fact that my boss has the power to direct my activities. I may intentionally ignore something that my boss requests or expects. I tend to feel somewhat anxious when I am with my boss. I am very hesitant about expressing disagreement to my boss. I often decide not to share my ideas or opinions with my boss. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 12 MANAGING UP Reactions to Power Fight • • • • • Flight Take a breath Don’t argue or debate Ask real questions Listen & discuss Be an adult DISCUSS • • • • • Take a breath Don’t apologize Explain the facts State your opinions Be an adult Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. MANAGING UP Tip # 4 “Manage up” without sucking up. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 13 MANAGING UP Identify your boss’s “Operating System” Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. MANAGING UP “Operating System” The emotional needs that drive your boss’s behavior and decisions. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 14 MANAGING UP Operating System #1 Control Fear: Losing power Values: Authority, hierarchy Hot button: Lack of respect Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. MANAGING UP Operating System #2 Conformity Fear: Being different Values: Tradition, loyalty Hot button: Not following policies Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 15 MANAGING UP Operating System #3 Competition Fear: Not being successful Values: Winning, gamesmanship Hot button: Lack of engagement Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. MANAGING UP Operating System #4 Affiliation Fear: Not being liked Values: Sociability, friendliness Hot button: Rudeness Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 16 MANAGING UP Operating System #5 Novelty Fear: Stagnation Values: Innovation, creativity Hot button: Resistance to change Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. MANAGING UP Truly Toxic Bosses Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 17 MANAGING UP You Can’t Enlighten the Unconscious. 6. Invite feedback 6 Steps for “Managing Up” 5. Express appreciation 4. Share your strengths 3. Grasp the goals 2. Feed the need 1. Respect the position Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 18 MANAGING UP Plus Six “Don’ts” DON’T get into power struggles. DON’T expect perfection. DON’T hoard information. DON’T harbor resentments. DON’T broadcast your complaints. DON’T forget your boss’s boss. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. MANAGING UP Tip #5 Never tell powerful people they “can’t” do something. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 19 MANAGING UP How to Work with Executives Acknowledge their power. But don’t be a wimp! Never tell them they “can’t” do anything. Don’t expect detailed instructions. Just make it happen. And be sure the details are perfect. Prepare for limited time and interruptions. Lose your ego. They have enough for both of you. Don’t take any abuse personally. Keep your self-confidence and sense of humor! Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. CAREER SUCCESS Reputation Results Relationships Tip #6 Career success has three R’s. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 20 CAREER SUCCESS Potential Pitfalls for WOMEN Conditional speech Constant apologies Giving up the floor Squabbles & cliques Emotions on the surface Power as an aphrodisiac Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. CAREER SUCCESS Potential Pitfalls for MEN Hierarchy & competition Opposition to authority Lack of collaboration Reluctance to apologize Gender stereotypes “Frat party” behavior Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 21 RESULTS “Do the right things and do those things right.” RELATIONSHIPS “Positive relationships build political capital.” REPUTATION “What people hear influences what people think.” Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. CAREER SUCCESS RESULTS What is your “personal ROI”? • Why are “they” funding your job? • Why did they put you in it? • How can you up your perceived ROI? Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 22 CAREER SUCCESS RELATIONSHIPS How good is your network? • How many people do you know? • How well do you collaborate? • How could you build your network? Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. CAREER SUCCESS Developing Your Network IT Guy Alyssa Eduardo +3 0 +1 –2 YOU Bob Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 23 CAREER SUCCESS REPUTATION What’s on the grapevine? • What do people say about you? • What’s your “360 status”? • What would you like to change? Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. CAREER SUCCESS Tip #7 Invisible contributions have no career value. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 24 CAREER SUCCESS The Art of Subtle Self-Promotion Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. CAREER SUCCESS Tip #8 Follow the Political Golden Rule. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 25 CAREER SUCCESS The Political Golden Rule Never advance your own interests by harming the business or hurting other people. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. POLITICAL SUICIDE Tip #9 Protect yourself from adversaries. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 26 POLITICAL SUICIDE Adversarial or Difficult? Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. POLITICAL SUICIDE Protect yourself from adversaries. • Focused adversaries • Emotional adversaries • Vengeful adversaries • Stealth adversaries Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 27 POLITICAL SUICIDE Three Key Questions Is this person really an adversary? Or just annoying? What does this person want? How do I keep this person from affecting my success? Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. POLITICAL SUICIDE Tip #10 Don’t become a Change Casualty. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 28 POLITICAL SUICIDE Change Attitude “Different” does not mean “wrong”. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. POLITICAL SUICIDE Tip #11 Becoming “The Problem” will kill your career. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 29 POLITICAL SUICIDE “The Problem” An employee whose behavior sucks up more time, energy, & attention than that person is worth. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. Top Ten Tips (plus one) 1. Goals are more useful than wishes. 2. Forget fairness, look for leverage. 3. Learn to deal with power differences. 4. “Manage up” without sucking up. 5. Never tell powerful they “can’t” do something. 6. Career success has three “R’s”. 7. Invisible contributions have no career value. 8. Follow the “Political Golden Rule”. 9. Protect yourself from adversaries. 10. Don’t become a change casualty. 11. Becoming “The Problem” will kill your career. Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 30 CONTACT INFORMATION Marie G. McIntyre, Ph.D Your Office Coach Free coaching tips: www.yourofficecoach.com Personal coaching: [email protected] LinkedIn & Twitter: @officecoach Book: “Secrets to Winning at Office Politics” Copyright Marie G. McIntyre, All rights reserved. 31
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