By: Natasha Kostuck body language is a form of nonverbal communication body language includes body movement, gestures, mannerisms, motion, and visual communication (http://www.thesaurus.com/browse/body language) kinesics is the study of body movement body language can have multiple meanings improving your body language can change the way people respond to you (Sayer, 2009) (Floyd, 2009) 55% •body language 38% 7% •tone of voice •what is actually said (Sayer, 2009) the body doesn’t lie actions speak louder than words when people like one another they subconsciously begin mirroring each other (Pease, 2006) body language is important because it reveals to people how you are feeling (Sayer, 2009) put a smile on your face keep your head up roll your shoulders back pull in your stomach deflate your chest (Sayer, 2009) arms folded across the chest tapping your foot or finger propping your head with your hands resting hands behind your head or on your hips looking down when in conversation (Pease, 2006) if the feet are pointed towards you this means you have their attention both men and woman that play with their hair can imply they are attracted to one another touching of the hands means they enjoy your company (http://www.livingtv.co.uk/relationships/bodylanguage.php) the shoulder shrug implies that the person does not understand what is being said nodding the head is a indication of “yes” head shaking shows disagreement or indication of “no” (Pease, 2006) the ring sign in the United States generally means OK in some Mediterranean countries it is used as a signal to imply a man is a homosexual Throughout Europe it can mean zero, nothing, or worthless In Japan it can mean money or asking for a bribe (Pease 2006) commonly used as another OK signal in the United States used by hitchhikers to get a ride or telling someone “up yours” in Greece the main meaning is “get stuffed!” Europeans use thumbsup for meaning “one” (Pease, 2006) in the United States the v-sign usually stands for peace or meaning “two” in Britain it was used to show their enemies that they still have their shooting fingers if the palm is facing out it stands for victory if the palm is facing the speaker it can mean “up yours” (Pease, 2006) when someone strokes their head or hair it is because that is how their mother comforted them when they were young shaking the head side to side is learned through infancy by breastfeeding, it is a way of saying “no” to not wanting more to eat most people, even people born blind use gestures before they begin to actually speak (Pease 2006 ) 1) 2) 3) 4) 5) Body Language. (n.d.). Roget's 21st Century Thesaurus, Third Edition. Retrieved March 26, 2010, from Thesaurus.com website: http://www.thesaurus.com/browse/body language Floyd, K. (2009). Interpersonal Communication.(Vol. 1st ed., Michael. Ryan, Ed.). New York, NY: McGraw-Hill. Pease, A., & Pease, B. (2006). The Definitive Book of Body Language. New York, NY: Bantam Dell. Sayer, M. (2009). Read the Signals: The Body Language Handbook. Molly Aloian, (Ed.). New York, NY: Crabtree Pub. (2009). It’s All in the Body Language. http://www.livingtv.co.uk/relationships/bodylanguage.php
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