Third decade Second thousand ogxf dxy iig 1111 e"dl d"ryz'd oeygxn a"k Nov 14-15 '14 OU Israel Center • 22 Keren HaYesod • POB 37015 • Jerusalem • (02) 560-9100 REVISITING MINCHA In this week's sedra, the Torah tells us (B'reishit 24:63) - And Yitzchak went out to meditate (to converse) in the field toward evening. Connecting this pasuk with T'hilim 102:1 - A Prayer of the poor, when he faints, and pours out his conversation before G-d. The Gemara in the name of R' Yosi b"R Chanina, concludes that Yitzchak Avinu "established" the prayer of Mincha. The next pasuk is - Hear my prayer, HaShem, and let my cry reach you. SICHA in the context of T'hilim 102 is a term for heartfelt prayer and this connotation is applied to the pasuk with Yitzchak as well. Earlier, the Gemara quotes R' Chelbo who said in the name of R' Huna - a person should always be careful (particular, meticulous) cont. page 4 Photo shows the ancient stone path leading into Hebron. Two walls - one 4500 years old and dated to the era of No'ach, and another wall 3700 years old from the time of Avraham and Sarah, ensconce a stairwell that is over 4000 years old. JERUSALEM in/out times for Shabbat Parshat Chayei Sara Candles 4:06PM • Havdala 5:18PM • Rabbeinu Tam 5:52pm Pi x ParshaP Explanations on p.52 bdbbpbd bbebbbb BD r or Heads up: A "Fun" Molad coming This piece is really for next Shabbat, Parshat Tol'dot, M'vorchim Chodesh Kislev. But if we wait for next issue, people who don't get to read TT until Shabbat might miss out. So we are putting this in the Chayei Sara issue, but it is not Shabbat M'vorchim yet. Let's be clear on that. BTW, Chayei Sara is most often m'vorchim Kislev (68%), but not this year. When Rosh HaShana is Thursday-Friday (32% of the time), then M'vorchim Kislev is on Shabbat Parshat Toldot (as is the case this year). Some background about the Molad in general, and then to next week's. goto p.16 nge Candles Parshat CHAYEI SARA Yerushalayim / Maale Adumim The Aza area (Netivot, etc.) Gush Etzion Raanana / Tel Mond / Herzliya Beit Shemesh / RBS Netanya Modi'in / Chashmona'im Rehovot Be'er Sheva / Otniel Petach Tikva Ginot Shomron Gush Shiloh Haifa / Zichron Chevron / Kiryat Arba Giv'at Ze'ev Ashkelon Tzfat Yad Binyamin Havdala Toldot 4:06 5:18 4:02 5:16 4:23 5:21 4:20 5:19 4:20 5:19 4:17 5:16 4:21 5:19 4:17 5:17 4:21 5:19 4:18 5:17 4:20 5:19 4:17 5:16 4:20 5:19 4:17 5:16 4:21 5:20 4:18 5:17 4:21 5:21 4:17 5:18 4:06 5:19 4:02 5:17 4:20 5:18 4:16 5:16 4:10 5:18 4:16 5:15 4:09 5:18 4:06 5:15 4:21 5:19 4:18 5:17 4:20 5:19 4:17 5:16 4:23 5:21 4:20 5:19 4:07 5:16 4:04 5:13 4:22 5:20 4:18 5:17 R' Tam (Jerusalem) - 5:52pm • next week: 5:49pm cont. from the Front Page with T'filat Mincha, because it wasn't until Mincha time that Eliyahu HaNavi was answered (in his confrontation with the 450 false prophets of Baal), as it says in Melachim Alef (18:36) And it was at the time of the offering of the evening sacrifice (Mincha time), that Eliyahu the prophet came near, and said: HaShem... In various works of Rabbinic Literature throughout the generations - because of the episode of Eliyahu HaNavi on Mt. Carmel, Mincha became associated with the quality of Emunah, faith in G-d. The result of the confrontation with the prophets of Baal resulted in the people of Israel resoundedly proclaiming, HASHEM HU HA'ELOKIM, HASHEM HU HAELOKIM. This is considered such an important statement of Emunah in G-d that we conclude NE'ILA on Yom Kippur with a sevenfold emotional declaration that "HaShem is The G-d!" Ironically, the Amida of both Shacharit and Maariv are preceded by the recitation of the Sh'ma - our twice daily (at least) reconfirmation of our belief and acceptance of the Yoke of Heaven. Mincha is not "fortified", shall we say, with the Sh'ma, but it has the dramatic episode with Eliyahu HaNavi as its background. Because of its small size, and more so because of when we daven Mincha, our Sages have considered there to be a special reward for meticulous attention to Mincha. Shacharit is part of our morning routine, before we get involved in the day's activities. Maariv is part of our evening routine, usually after the OU Israel Center TT 1111 day's activities have been concluded. Mincha, however, usually requires us to make the time in our "busy schedule" for it. Evidence of our commitment to Mincha are the many Mincha minyanim that one finds around town at various times in the early afternoon - in stores, banks, bus stations, office buildings. In Yerushalayim and other cities, there are Minyan Factories that host countess daveners in many, many minyanim from the earliest time for Mincha (half hour after halachic noon) until sunset (and even a bit beyond). [Mincha at the OU Israel Center is at 1:20pm year-round.] According to T'fila K'hilchata, most (Ashkenazi) poskim hold that women are required to daven both Shacharit and Mincha - extent and application of this statement should be checked out with your Rav. Obviously, each of our davenings should be done with seriousness and care. It's not just Mincha. But the others have an easier time of it, so to speak, because of their timings and content. Mincha is a simpler prayer than the other two. It seems to fit with the personality of Yitzchak Avinu. And the image of conversing with G-d in the field as the day comes to an end, has a more spiritual "flavor" than the corresponding verses and circumstances for Shacharit and Maariv. If you don't daven Mincha, think about taking it on. If you do, give Yitzchak Avinu a thought and let him help us daven better. page 4 e Chayei Sara 5775 Chayei Sara Kohen - First Aliya 16 p'sukim - 23:1-16 5th of the Torah's 54 sedras; 5th of 12 in B'reishit Written on 171 lines in a Torah, rank 37th 4 Parshiyot; 3 open, 1 closed 105 p'sukim - ranks 32nd (11 in B'reishit) same as D'varim (which is longer) 1402 words - ranks 37th (11th in B'reishit) 5314 letters - ranks 36th (11th in B'reishit) Shorter than average p'sukim in a sedra with slightly below average number of p'sukim means a smallish sedra None of the 613 mitzvot are in Chayei Sara, however, as mentioned often, there are Midot and values and other lessons to be learned. This is one of 17 mitzva-less sedras, 9 of which are in Sefer B'reishit, 3 in Sh'mot, none in Vayikra, 2 in Bamidbar, and 3 in D'varim.) [P> X:Y (Z)] and [S> X:Y (Z)] indicate start of a parsha p'tucha or s'tuma. X:Y is Perek:Pasuk of the beginning of the parsha; (Z) is the number of p'sukim in it. Heartfelt condolences to Shaindy, Michelle, and Moshe on the untimely passing of their husband/father David Zigelman l"f milyexie oeiv ila` x`y jeza mkz` mgpi mewnd OU Israel Center TT 1111 [P> 23:1 (20)] The parsha begins by telling us that Sara died in Kiryat Arba, which is Hevron. But first it tells us that she lived a full, long life of 127 years. With the last topic of Vayeira being the AKEIDA, the juxtaposition of Sara's death supports our Tradition that Sara died as a result of the Akeida. The Midrash says that the Satan informed Sara about what Avraham was intending to do with Yitzchak, when they went towards Har HaMoriah. The shock was too great for an old woman, and she died. Some commentaries give an interesting twist to this. They say that Sara died, not from fear that Avraham would offer Yitzchak as a Korban, but rather that he might not! She remembered Avraham's reaction when she told him to banish Yishmael (and Hagar). She was afraid that Avraham's love and kindness towards Yitzchak would prevent him from carrying out G-d's command, and that Avraham would thus fail this ultimate test of faith. When she saw (or heard) that Avraham was returning with Yitzchak still alive, she thought her fears were realized and she died. Avraham comes (some say from the Akeida, i.e. from Har HaMoriah; some say from Be'er Sheva; either way, it was apparently to Hevron that he came) to eulogize Sara and to cry for her. page 5 e Chayei Sara 5775 V’LIVKOTAH, and to cry for her, is written with a small KAF. Some take this as a reminder that the crying was "small" since Sara had lived such a long life (Baal HaTurim). There is more crying when a person dies young. Some say that the KAF points to the 20 in the way that the Torah tells us how old she was when she died: 100 years and 20 years and 7 years. Others say that the small KAF allows us to reread the word with regular-sized letters only to obtain a different understanding, on a REMEZ (hint) level. And Avraham came to eulogize Sara ULVITAH, and for her daughter. This correlates with the opinions that Avraham and Sara had a daughter, but that she died when Sara did. (Some even say that her name was BAKOL - see further.) Avraham next makes the arragements for providing a suitable place to bury Sara. (There is a Tradition that Avraham was aware of the burial place of Adam and Chava, and that is the piece of land he was interested in.) He turns to the people of CHEIT, one of whom is known as EFRON. They all exchange niceties and the people offer Avraham any land he wants. He insists on paying full price and that is what he does for the field and cave of Machpela. Pirkei Avot made famous that Avraham was tested 10 times. But the mishna does not enumerate the ten tests. There are different opinions as to which of Avraham's experiences are considered tests of his faith. Most lists of the 10 end with the Akeida, as implied by the p'sukim themselves. Rabeinu Yona finds a test after the Akeida Avraham's experience in providing a burial place for Sara. The question on this is obvious - What was so difficult about that, that it should qualify as a test of faith - especially after the Akeida? Perhaps the answer lies in the fact that after the Akeida, Avraham still had a couple of difficult things to go through. Wasn't the Akeida and everything that preceded it enough? No, not finished yet. This can test a person, sometimes, more than terrible trials and tribulations. As an example closer to us... Surviving the Holocaust did not guarantee a person that he would Please dedicate the learning from this week's TT in memory of Chanie's mother d"r dcedi xi`n axd za diza Menachem and Chanie Persoff OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 6 e Chayei Sara 5775 have an easy life from then on. Some were blessed with trouble-free lives after their terrible ordeals, but most had many more difficulties to face in the years to come. We do not know how G-d works. Why must we suffer trials and tribulations in this world? It has something to do with making us better people. With challenging us. With testing us. With preparing our souls for the World of Truth. And probably a lot more. There is another approach to answer the same question. Eulogizing his wife, acquiring a burial place, finding a "shiduch" for Yitzchak - even remarrying Hagar (Ketura) are all "regular", mundane experiences. Can one who spoke repeatedly to G-d, ascended Har HaMori'ah, had a special relationship with G-d - can such a person return to being a "normal" human being? This too is a test, and Avraham passed with flying colors. These commentaries point to the pasuk at the end of the Akeida portion, "And Avraham return to the lads..." as an indication that he was able to "come back down to earth". Excellence in Eyecare • Professional, caring optometrists and staff • Comprehensive Eye Exams • Expert fitting of Multifocals and Contacts • Wide selection of Frames • Your satisfaction is guaranteed 3 convenient locations • 02-674-3888 for all three Beit HaNetziv, 101 Derech Hevron, Talpiot 16 King George (above Bank Ha’poalim) Ramot Eshkol Shopping Center, Rechov Paran 9 UNTIL 120 Robert, Connie, Oren, Shani Nancy, Yael, Amir Ellen, Shaul, Yoel, Daniel, Eitan, Amit Jimmy, Miriam,Yishaya, Eliahu, Zipora, Shmuel, Shira If a father insists that his son marry or not marry a particular woman, the son is not duty-bound to listen to his father. Meshech Chochma says that we learn this Mazal Tov to Gershon & Debbie Markovitz and family on the marriage of their son OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 7 e Chayei Sara 5775 from the fact that Avraham gave instructions and administered an oath to Eliezer about a wife for Yitzchak, but did not command Yitzchak himself on the matter. Levi - Second Aliya 13 p'sukim - 23:17-24:9 The field, cave, trees, etc. become the lawful property of Avraham, after which he buries Sara. [S> 24:1 (67)] Avraham is now at an advanced age and has been blessed greatly by G-d. “And G-d blessed Avraham BAKOL”, with everything. The word BAKOL screams out for explanation. And, sure enough, there are many suggestions as to what this extra blessing of BAKOL is. (Every time we say Birkat HaMazon, we ask G-d to bless us as He blessed our forefathers BAKOL... Mikol and Kol are terms associated with Yitzchak and Yaakov.) The numeric value of BAKOL 52, the same as BEN, son. This alludes to the ultimate blessing that Avraham received - his son Yitzchak. S Moshe and D.A.* *(note TT issue number) OU Israel Center TT 1111 Gimatriya play: As just mentioned, some point to the numeric value of BAKOL - which is the same as BEN (52). ELIYAHU = 1+30+10+5+6 = 52. Tradition says that ELIYAHU was PINCHAS (or is it the other way?). The gimatriya of PINCHAS is 208, the same as that of YITZCHAK. From BAKOL to BEN to ELIYAHU to PINCHAS to YITZCHAK. Note too that 208 is a multiple of 52 - so what? Who knows? By the way, YOSEF=156, also a multiple of 52. As long as we started, let's go a little further. Joining ELIYAHU at 52 are G'DALYA, KALEV, and one of David HaMelech's wives, AVITAL. NACHUM and MANO'ACH, which are anagrams of each other, are each 52x2. Joining YOSEF at 3x52 are VOFSI - an anagram - and YECHEZKEL. And joining YITZCHAK and PINCHAS is HAGAR. Have fun! R. Meir says that Avraham was blessed by NOT having a daughter. In Avraham's time and in his unique circumstances, who would she have married? What would have happened to her? In this case it was a bracha not to have had a daughter. On the other hand... R. Yehuda says that Avraham's extra blessing was that he DID have a daughter. There is even an opinion that his daughter's name was BAKOL (as mentioned earlier). Mazal Tov to the Flumenbaum family on the marriage of their daughter page 8 e Chayei Sara 5775 Rabbi Eliezer HaModai says that Avraham was blessed with the art/ skill/power of astrology and that he was consulted by noblemen from far and wide. (Even when G-d told Avraham that he would have a child, Avraham resisted because he had seen in the stars that he was not going to have children. G-d "explained" to Avraham that it is possible to rise above one's "mazal", and in fact, that is the special quality of the nation that will come from him. l`xyil lfn oi`. Ibn Ezra says in the name of our Sages z"l, true, but only as long as we keep the Torah.) R. Shimon bar Yochai says that Avraham had a precious stone with curative powers that would heal all who gazed upon it. These last two opinions identify BAKOL as Avraham's prominent position in the world. This fits with his role as "father of many nations". Some suggest that Eisav's not sinning (until Avraham died) and Yishmael's repentance during Avraham's lifetime are the extra blessings. There are still other explanations. From the variety of explanations of BAKOL, it is quite clear that the unique status of Avraham as the one who restored belief in One G-d to the world did not go unrewarded. We can see in this list of blessings, different kinds of blessings that can be ours, the spiritual heirs of Avraham Avinu. Avraham heard (understood, heeded, agreed with) Efron... OU Israel Center TT 1111 The Growing Trends in the Jerusalem Market • In Talbieh, the most magnificent property of J'erusalem, Authentic Arab style house, 560m built, 10 rooms with a private garden of 500m, 4.5m high ceilings, typical arched windows, typical large terrace, FOR SERIOUS CLIENTS ONLY! Deborah: 054-480-4767 • Charming corner private house in a small lane of Old Katamon, private elevator, 260m built, 2 private entrances, separate unit, totally renovated, large garden and terraces facing beautiful views VERED: 054-560-4928 • On Ben Maimon St, new building, new luxurious apartment of 240m, 6 rooms, 4 bathrooms, succah terrace, facing South, very bright, views, parking • Old Katamon, New penthouse of 250m with private elevator, 7 rooms, 2 huge terraces of 50 and 80m, succah, panoramic views of Jerusalem, high ceilings, 4 exposures, parking, only a 2-family house • Talbieh in KDC Residence, from private seller, beautifully renovated apartment 170m, 4 rooms (2 master bedrooms), 2 balconies, parking, doorman ETA: 054-723-3863 • In a small lane of Shaare Hessed, in a new building, new 5-room apartment, 200m on one level, succah terrace facing beautiful views, luxurious standard, immediate - Eta: 054-723-3863 • Magnificent Penthouse in Mamilla, first line to the Old City view, 250m terrace facing panoramic views to Old City walls, 250m on one level divided as 5 rooms, high end, FOR SERIOUS BUYERS ONLY! Kim: 054-441-5704 • Beautiful new luxurious building, Old Katamon, 4-5 rooms apartments with succah balcony or private garden, private parking, high standard, Shabbat elevator, available immediately - Keys in our office • Amazing unique 520m villa in Rehavia- 2.5 levels, elevator, doorman, 120m succah terrace facing panoramic views of Jerusalem, 10 rooms, all ensuite, double living room, dining room, separate entrance Deborah: 054-480-4767 T&T Investments & Real Estate 02-674-4000 • 054-480-4767 Washington 2, cor. King David 26 www.realestatejerusalem.co.il page 9 e Chayei Sara 5775 The one major task remaining, which will forge the next vital link in what promises to be a great people and a great Chain of Tradition, is finding a suitable "shidduch" for Yitzchak. Everything now will depend upon Yitzchak. However great Avraham was, unless there is "solid" continuity, all will be lost. To this end, Avraham calls upon Eliezer to swear that he will faithfully carry out his task, that he will return to Avraham's family and hometown, and find a wife for Yitzchak there. And that Yitzchak is not to leave Eretz Yisrael (having been consecrated on the Mizbei'ach at the Akeida). dx¨d¥ n§ g©lW§ Y¦ W¤ Epi«zFa£ ¥ ` idŸl|`¥ ¥ e Epi«dŸl|¡ ¥ ` 'd Li«p¤ t¨ N§ n¦ oFvx¨ id§¦ i milFg© ¦ l sEBd© z`Et © xE§ W¤t«P¤ d© z`Et © x§ mi¦ n«© X¨ d© on¦ dn¥ ¨ lW§ d`Et ¨ x§ dxy dqcd za dkxa xnz dig zicedi za `cpid lcii` deg za diav dwax za xzq` dxy za dewz dnlq dxy dadf za lgx libia` lfiix dig xzq` za lhib dpg za oeiq ilxe` dlib za ixiy lfiix za `ail lgx za dpipt xzq` za dxeac `lcpd dpicr za rliia dxy dxetv zxt` za xzq` libia` lri za dwax dxeac diti za dxiy lgx lfiix za dwax dpg lgx za dgny xzq` za deg lhia` lkin za dngp dilce` dxy dqcd za dkxa xnz mixn dpic za `nixt `cleb `ail dqcd dig za decg `biit dkln za lgx dxy za dkln Shlishi - Third Aliya 17 p'sukim - 24:10-26 Henne Rasha bat Yitta Ratza Frumet bat Chana Mirel Menya Leba bat Yitta Chaya Chaya Yocheved bat Karpel Shira Alter Baruch ben Sarah Shmuel ben Sarah Pasha Eliezer (who is exclusively referred to as "The Servant" or "The Man", as opposed to by name - his name never appears in Parshat Chayei Sara, where we would have expected to find it repeated over and over) takes ten camels laden with a splendid assortment of goods and travels to Avraham's hometown. Upon arrival, he ties the camels up near the well (and spring), towards evening, at the time when the local girls come to draw water. He asks G-d to be kind to his master Avraham. Eliezer asks for a sign - the girl who will offer him drink and also for his camels, OU Israel Center TT 1111 dig oa sqei iav dpipt oa iyi oeiv oa hki oa lkin l`igi awri lhib oa xkyyi lhib dkln oa mely diryi dpg deg oa xzl` l`xyi `hr dxeac oa l`eny iyi liigd xzq` oa edil` sqei dtlf oa wgvi diqg oa oxd` l`kin zibg oa sqei l`ixfr d`l oa l`ipc mely lqix oa dyn ryedi drny dpyey oa iav `aiwr dnila oa `pipg mdxa` miig xzq` oa cec lgx oa mingx xe` oxw oa mxei dcedi daia` oa ediryi mdxa` dxetiv lgx oa aec l`ipc dxy daia` oa awri digzt l`tx dpeniq dxeac oa l`ingxi xi`n .l¥`x¨U¦i § i¥lFg x`¨ W§ KFzA§ page 10 e Chayei Sara 5775 she will be the one sent by G-d. Almost before he finished speaking, Rivka bat Betu'el of Avraham's family arrives on the scene with her water container on her shoulder. Eliezer runs to her and asks for a bit of water. She immediately gives him his fill and then draws water for his camels. Anxious to find out whether she was "the one", Eliezer waits until the camels have their drink and then presents Rivka with gifts of jewelry. (On the one hand, he has seen her kind nature and tireless act of chesed; on the other hand, he has not even asked her who she is.) When Rivka tells Eliezer that she is indeed from Avraham's family and invites him to stay at her home, he prostrates himself before G-d in grateful acknowledgment. him. Rivka runs home to tell her family what has happened. Lavan (filled with ulterior motives, our sources tell us) runs to greet Eliezer. The gold jewelry adorning Rivka catches Lavan's eye, and he "graciously" offers Eliezer hospitality. Eliezer is served food but refuses to eat until his "business" is completed. Eliezer proceeds to tell the story of his mission. He tells of Avraham and Yitzchak and of being sent to find a wife for Yitzchak. When he asks for Rivka's hand on behalf of his master, Lavan and Betu'el (commentaries point to Lavan's pushing himself before his father as an indication of a negative R'vi'i - Fourth Aliya 26 p'sukim - 24:27-52 Bennie & Florence Klein Eliezer also says a blessing to G-d for not abandoning Avraham or withholding Divine Kindness from OU Israel Center TT 1111 In loving memory of our parents/grandparents melyd mdilr on their 8th yahrzeits oeygxn a"i l"f uxt oa jexa oeygxn d"k d"r oae`x opg za lciixt Janet & Gordon Berkley and family page 11 e Chayei Sara 5775 personality trait) accept all as G-d's will. Eliezer again prostrates himself before G-d in grateful acknowledgment of the success of his mission. Chamishi 5th Aliya 15 p'sukim - 24:53-67 Eliezer gives more gifts to Rivka and her mother and brother, then they all celebrate with food and drink, and Eliezer and his party stay overnight. In the morning, Eliezer asks his leave. Rivka's family asks that she remain for a year, or at least ten months (as was the custom in olden times) but Eliezer insists on leaving immediately (and taking Rivka with him). Rivka is consulted and she agrees to leave right away. They send her off with a "maid" (later identified as Devora) and bless her. This blessing has been repeated countless times to Jewish brides throughout the generations. Ironic, is it not, that we use Lavan's words for such a special occasion. Finally the entourage leaves for Canaan. Meanwhile, Yitzchak (having gone to bring Hagar back to Avraham) is in the Negev area and goes "into the field to commune, before evening". (This, we are taught, is OU Israel Center TT 1111 the model for Mincha.) As the Rivka-Eliezer caravan approaches, Rivka sees Yitzchak from a distance, jumps down from her camel, and asks Eliezer who that man is. She covers her face with a veil when she is told that the man is her intended husband. Eliezer tells Yitzchak everything that has occurred. Yitzchak takes Rivka as his wife and she becomes a comfort to him for the loss of his mother. For us, she later becomes Rivka Imeinu. Rabbi Sholom Gold speculates as to how a girl growing up in the house of Betuel and Lavan can so quickly step into Sara Imeinu's shoes. His answer (beautifully developed in a shiur) is that it was D'vorah, Rivka's nursemaid, who was her teacher and influence in the ways of Sara. D'vorah was left behind when Avraham and Sara "made Aliya", for just this purpose. Shishi - Sixth Aliya 11 p'sukim - 25:1-11 [P> 25:1 (11)] Avraham, having successfully provided for the Delighted to announce the birth of a great grandson to Dr. Pessy Krausz and her late husband Neville Krausz z'l for Parshat Vayera - his Bar Mitzva Parsha page 12 e Chayei Sara 5775 continuity of what will become the Jewish Nation, now lives out the remainder of his life as a "private citizen", so to speak. He takes for himself a wife named KETURA (which we are taught was HAGAR) and fathers six more children. He gives them gifts, but Yitzchak remains Avraham's exclusive spiritual heir. (We can really say that in some ways, other peoples of the world followed Avraham's lead in living monotheistic lives, but the Torah's definition of Avraham's lineage is Yitzchak.) On the question of the different treatment of Yishmael (banishment) and the children from Ketura (gifts), it can be explained that there was a crucial difference between Yishmael and Ketura's children. Yishmael challenged Yitzchak's inheritance. He claimed (and in some ways continues to claim) Avraham's legacy. When G-d told Avraham to listen to Sara, He told him to banish them, BECAUSE in Yitzchak will be called your offspring, your descendants. This point had to be made, and a farewell party and lavish provisions for the journey would not OU Israel Center TT 1111 have made the point. No such problem with Ketura's children. They made no such claim. They did not dispute Yitzchak's role. They received gifts. Avraham dies at the "ripe old age" of 175 (actually, this is 5 years short of the complete 180 that Yitzchak later reached - various reasons are given for the "lost" 5 years). His was a graceful, good, and fulfilling life (despite the tough times he had). He is buried in the Cave of Machpela, where he had buried Sara. Both Yitzchak and Yishmael take care of the burial. The Torah implies that Yishmael had repented his ways and had become righteous. What greater "nachas" for a father than that! page 13 e Chayei Sara 5775 G-d blesses Yitzchak after Avraham's death. From the fact that Avraham took Ketura only after Yitzchak was married, the Baal HaTurim says that this is the proper thing to do - Marry off your children, before you yourself remarry. Sh'VII Seventh Aliya 7 p'sukim - 25:12-18 [P> 25:12 (7)] The descendants of Yishmael are now enumerated. Yishmael is identified fully as the son of Avraham and Hagar the Egyptian maiden of Sara who bore Yishmael "to Avraham". (This is quite parallel to the description of Yitzchak's connection to Avraham as stated in the beginning of next week's sedra. This might further indicate Yishmael's T'shuva in his later years. On the other hand, commentaries point out that the word TO-L'DOT in the Yishmael context is spelled without any VAVs, indicating a lesser status to Yishmael.) It is noteworthy that Yishmael fathered twelve sons (not like Yitzchak, but like Yaakov). Note that both Nachor and Yishmael had their 12 descendants before we did. This indicates a tougher life for the Jewish people (something that has been borne out over and over again in the course Shimon's Div-HaYa B'chor, goats, and whose kingdom Pesach in Jerusalem Friday to Motza"Sh • April 4-11 Join Esther Valencia at the beautiful refurbished Yehuda Hotel, Givat Masua, Jerusalem On behalf of the over 200 families whom we help regularly with food and basic necessities, we thank you, our friends and donors for your response over the Holiday period. Tizku L’mitzvot Scholar-in-residence: Please send your donations to the Rabbi Zev Shandalov Further details and prices will be available shortly Esther Valencia: 052-855-0277 [email protected] OU Israel Center TT 1111 Clara Hammer Chicken Fund POB 18602 Jerusalem 91185 tel. (02) 581-0256 page 14 e Chayei Sara 5775 of Jewish History, right up to current events). Yishmael dies at the age of 100 and 30 and 7 years. The wording in the Torah (seems to) purposely parallels that which was used to describe Sara's lifespan, a further indication (perhaps) of the change for the better in Yishmael. Rashi says that the age of Yishmael is included to help us compute the chronology of Yaakov. The last 3 p'sukim are reread for the Maftir. Haftara 31 p'sukim Melachim Alef 1:1-31 The sedra tells of the aging Avraham and his task of providing for the continuity of his beliefs through his son Yitzchak (even though there were other potential heirs). The Haftara parallels this theme by telling us of the aging King David with many potential heirs, providing that it would be his son Shlomo who would be the next link in the Davidic line. This, fulfillment of a promise made to Shlomo's mother, Batsheva similar to the promise made to Sara that her son would inherit. The starting points are Avraham Avinu and David Hamelech. But no matter how strong their personalities were, the chain ends with them unless the next generation is as strong as a Yitzchak Avinu and a Shlomo HaMelech. OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 15 e Chayei Sara 5775 A "Fun" Molad coming cont. from p.2 A Jewish calendar month is a lunar month, approximately equal to the number of days it takes the Moon to go through its cycle of phases. New Moon (no moon would be a better, more accurate descriptive term) is used as the beginning point of a month. New Moon is called the Molad (also not the greatest term since people think that the Moon is visible at the molad - it is not, and wont be for at least 20 hours after the molad) and it is the moment the Moon in its orbit around the Earth, is between the Earth and the Sun. (Once in a while, the Moon is directly between Earth and Sun and a Solar Eclipse takes place at the time of the molad. Most often, the Moon is slightly above or below the line between Earth and Sun at the Molad, and no eclipse occurs.) The average time it takes the Moon to go through its cycle each month (taking into account the fact that the EarthMoon have also traveled in their orbit around the Sun) is 29 days, 12 hours 44 minutes and 1 part of a minute (3 and a third seconds). The actual time from one Molad Amiti (actual or astronomical new moon) to the next can vary from the average time plus or minus anything up to 6½ hours. Our fixed calendar uses the Molad Emtza'i (average molad) for fixing the calendar, announcing the molad, and for determining the timings for Kiddush L'vana. The molad that is announced during Rosh Chodesh Benching is not only the average time, but it is given in Jerusalem Solar Time, which considers 12h to be the time the Sun reaches its highest point in the sky. In fact, Jerusalem's 'high noon' (CHATZOT) averages 21 minutes earlier than 12:00 o'clock during Winter time and 39 minutes later than 12:00 o'clock during Summer time. OU Israel Center TT 1111 You know the feeling… Fatigue that does not disappear. A general feeling that “something is not right with me…” You would not believe the results we can achieve in just a few sessions. Medical massage relieves: Neck and back pain • Migraines • Chronic tiredness Neuropathic pain • Sports injuries Acute and chronic inflammation of muscles Reflexology helpful for: Hormonal imbalance • Digestive disorders Tensions, anxiety… Contact us: 058-6000-410 • 02-6259552 Medispa: King Solomon Hotel - Level LL 32 King David Street, Jerusalem www.spajerusalem.com • [email protected] So in Israel, now with Standard time in effect, one can convert the announced Molad time into real (clock) time, by subtracting 21 minutes. Halachic opinions differ, but we are considering the opinion that the announced time of the molad is to be converted to local clock time in determining Kiddush L'vana z'manim. On Shabbat Parshat Toldot, we will announce that Rosh Chodesh Kislev is on Sunday (Machar Chodesh) and that the molad occurs at 9h 46m 17p on Shabbat morning. That's approx. 9:26am Israel Winter time. That means that a minyan that gets to Rosh Chodesh Benching before that time, will say HAMOLAD YIHYEH (will be). Shuls that pass that time will say HAMOLAD HAYA (was). And if a particular minyan is announcing the molad at 9:26am, they can say, HAMOLAD HU ACHSHAV (now) - a very rare thing to say. Other locales need to adjust the time of the molad to know to say YIHYEH or HAYA. page 16 e Chayei Sara 5775 mgpn ixac Divrei Menachem [email protected] The question is oft asked as to why the opening line of Parshat Chayei Sara "Vayihyu Chayei Sara" - introducing us, as it were, to the life and times of our erstwhile matriarch, should then continue to describe her passing from this world? Indeed, with all the following convoluted details of Sarah's burial, we might very well find ourselves inclined to write off Sarah's life as yet another episode in the long chain of historical events described in the early biblical narrative. In fact, do we not find, as Hillel Zeitlin was wont to tell us, that there disappears along with a person's final demise all traces of his or her righteous deeds and sublime qualities? For is it not written of the righteous Chanoch who walked with G-d that, "He was no longer for G-d had taken him" (B'reishit 5:24)? Interestingly, this notion was reiterated in one of Shakespeare's most famous soliloquies, following the murder of Julius Caesar Friends, Romans, countrymen, lend me your ears; I come to bury Caesar, not to praise him. The evil that men do lives after them; The good is oft interred with their bones. However, our tradition sees these matters differently. In the Talmud is to be found a contrary dictum: "Tzadikim B'mitatan K'ruyim Chayim" - 'The righteous in their death are considered as if they were still alive.' Indeed, with Sarah's passing, we celebrate her life and legacy. For Sarah, along with Avraham, not only left behind the stirrings of our Jewish people, but also, as revolutionaries, they also established for all time the moral compass settings that would guide the future generations and set ethical standards for a whole world. Q OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 17 e Chayei Sara 5775 from the virtual desk of the OU VEBBE REBBE The Orthodox Union - via its website - fields questions of all types in the areas of Kashrut, Jewish Law and Values. Some of them are answered by Eretz Hemda, the Institute for Advanced Jewish Studies, Jerusalem, headed by Rav Yosef Carmel and Rav Moshe Ehrenreich, founded by HaRav Shaul Yisraeli zt"l, to prepare rabbanim and dayanim to serve the National Religious community in Israel and abroad. Ask the Rabbi is a joint venture of the OU, Yerushalayim Network, Eretz Hemda... and OU Israel's Torah Tidbits. Grounds for Cutting Down Fruit Tree Question: May one cut down a fruit tree in order to make room for improvements to their back yard for recreational purposes such as to put in a pool or a basketball court? Answer: The Torah forbids cutting down fruit trees (D'varim 20:19), which is the strictest application of the concept not to be destructive (see Rambam, Melachim 6:8). It is thus not surprising that the gemara and poskim identify "non-destructive" cases where it is permitted to cut down fruit trees. The gemara grants permission in the following cases: (1) The tree no longer produces a kav (a relatively small amount) of fruit (Bava Kama 91b-92a). (2) It is worth more for wood than for fruit (see Rashi, ad loc.). (3) It is significantly damaging a more valuable tree (see Tosafot). (4) It is damaging someone else's property (Bava Batra 26a). The Rosh (Bava Kama 8:15) learns from the above that one may cut down a tree if needed to use its location, which the Taz (Yoreh Deah 116:6) OU Israel Center TT 1111 applies to building a home. Most poskim say this includes expanding a home, at least when the addition is objectively more valuable than the tree (see Chayim Sha'al I:22; Yabia Omer V:12). On the other hand, the gemara tells of an Amora's son who died because he cut down a fruit tree prematurely, and R. Yehuda Hachasid also warned about it. Therefore, even when it is apparently permitted, some prefer that the work be done by a non-Jew (ibid.) and/or that the tree be transplanted (Chatam Sofer, YD 102). To what extent can we rely on the Rosh's thesis that making room for something else is an excuse for cutting down a fruit tree? The Beit Yaakov (140) claims that Tosafot and others disagree with the Rosh. The Meishiv Davar (II:56) adds that it is hard to be certain that after cutting down the tree, the building project will actualize. However, many Acharonim (see Chayim Sha'al I:22; Yabi'a Omer V, Yoreh De'ah 12) strongly reject the Beit Yaakov and adopt the Rosh/Taz leniency. JONATHAN POLLARD 10,586 days in prison www.jonathanpollard.org page 18 e Chayei Sara 5775 How important must the need for the spot be? Although the gemara's cases (e.g., wood worth more, affecting another tree) are not huge benefits, they relate to situations where the tree's existence is more directly wasteful. In contrast, in the Rosh's (and your) case, the tree is fully viable, just that it precludes another future use. It is therefore not surprising that some who accept the Rosh say that the need must be substantial. The She'eilat Yaavetz (I:176) relates to a case where a shul is too small and needs to be extended to an area occupied by fruit trees. The Chavot Ya'ir (195), while allowing cutting down a tree that darkens one's house, forbids doing so to allow for a place for walking around or increasing space and light. Several Acharonim, including important poskim such as the Aruch HaShulchan (YD 116:13) and Yabi'a Omer (ibid.) adopt this middle-of-the-road approach. Appraising the cases you raised is tricky. On one hand, building a swimming pool or a basketball court is expensive, so that one erects one only if it is important to him (see Minchat Asher, D'varim 33), in which case the tree should not prevent it. On the other hand, some poskim (see Yabi'a Omer ibid.) indicate that the value of the change should be an objective one that applies to the average person. Swimming pools and basketball courts are not likely to qualify in that regard (even if we focus on the positive and permitted OU Israel Center TT 1111 uses of those facilities). It is hard to ignore the possibility that one who uses honest but faulty judgment could be punished with death (aforementioned gemara; see also Chatam Sofer YD 102; She'eilat Yaavetz ibid. is more extreme). Another factor is that it might be possible, even if less convenient, to build what is desired without cutting down a fruit tree. Therefore, we suggest the following. If you are willing to professionally, preferably by a non-Jew, transplant the tree, you may do so. Otherwise, we would have difficulty permitting removing the fruit tree unless we were convinced that the need and the lack of alternative were clear. Rav Daniel Mann, Eretz Hemdah Institute Questions? email [email protected] Having a dispute? For a Din Torah in English or Hebrew contact 'Eretz Hemdah - Gazit' Rabbinical Court: 077-215-8-215 • fax: (02) 537-9626 [email protected] page 19 e Chayei Sara 5775 Rabbi Weinreb's Weekly Column: Parshat Chayei Sara "Better the Servant than the Student" "You can't find decent help these days!" This is a common complaint heard in middle-class homes, particularly in Jewish kitchens during the season of preparations for Pesach. Happily, my wife and I have been blessed, over the years, with some excellent domestic help. Usually, they were African-American women who were not only honest, efficient, and reliable, but also surprisingly knowledgeable about traditional Jewish practices. I fondly recall a woman named Mildred. She had spent many years working as a maid for an older rabbi in the community. We'll call him Rabbi Rosencrantz. Although I was but a young rabbi when she began working for us, I had already amassed a considerable library of sacred Jewish books, including some precious antique volumes that I had inherited from my grandfather. Needless to say, I was extremely careful about how those books were handled. afternoon to find all of my bookshelves empty. In a panic, I began to search the premises and, much to my chagrin, discovered that the books were lying in disarray on a long table in the backyard. Mildred was systemically turning them all upside down and shaking them vigorously. I couldn't contain my disapproval and yelled, "Mildred, what on earth are you doing?" Mildred gently replied that she was making certain that there was no chametz inside any of the books. You see, it was just before Pesach, and many people carefully inspect their books for breadcrumbs or cookie bits that may have found their way into the holy volumes during the course of the year. I am generally quite careful to avoid bringing any food into close contact with the books I use, but apparently Rabbi Rosencrantz was much more meticulous about inspecting his books for chametz than I was. When I told Mildred that she really didn't have to do that, she responded, "Rabbi! I am not going to allow a young upstart like you to tell me how to prepare for Pesach. I learned about chametz from Rabbi Rosencrantz, and he was old How astonished I was when I returned home late one spring OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 20 e Chayei Sara 5775 enough to have been your grandfather!" No question about it. Sometimes a gentile maid can take Jewish customs more seriously than an ordained rabbi. This lesson is not a new one. It can be learned from this week's Torah portion, Chayei Sarah (B'reishit 23:1-25:18). Eliezer, Avraham's servant, is the hero of the entire Chapter 24. The story of his mission to find a wife for his master's son, Yitzchak, is narrated at length and in great detail. We learn of how Eliezer identified Rivka as a proper wife for Yitzchak. Eliezer then reviews the story, again at length and in detail, to Rivka's father Betuel and brother Lavan. Finally, in verse 66, we read that Eliezer retold the story yet again, this time to Yitzchak himself. attitude towards Eliezer's words: "The idle conversation of the Patriarchs' servants is more precious than the Torah of their descendants." A much lesser known but even more impressive illustration of the superiority of a servant's wisdom is to be found in a passage in Talmud Tractate Moed Katan, 17a. There, the story is told of the maidservant of Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi, usually referred to simply as "Rabbi", or "Rebbe". She once observed a father disciplining his adult son by striking him. The Rabbis see in all this repetitive detail an indication of the Almighty's Apartment Management Itzhak Kotler • also vacation rentals (02) 586-1554 • 052-286-3877 Since 1978 • See us at www.jerusalem-management.com OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 21 e Chayei Sara 5775 She censured the father, convinced that the son might not be able to resist reacting to the provocation by striking his father back. In her judgment, the father was thus guilty of "placing an obstacle before a blind man". So critical was she of the father's behavior that she placed him under a nidui, or ban, effectively excommunicating him. The rabbinical courts of that time let three years pass before they lifted that ban. The great medieval halachic authority, Rabbenu Asher, known as "the Rosh", questions the courts' failure to nullify the ban sooner, which was their usual practice in response to bans imposed by non-credentialed individuals. In response, he quotes the words of an earlier authority, Rabbi Avraham ben David, or "the Ra'avad", who writes: "The rabbis were reluctant to overturn a ban imposed by this woman because of her superior wisdom and piety. They did not consider themselves her equal until they found an outstanding sage who was demonstrably qualified to nullify her ban!" We can learn quite a few powerful lessons from the story of Rebbe's maidservant; from Eliezer the servant of Avraham; and yes, even from my family's beloved housekeeper, Mildred. First of all, we can learn the timeless lesson that we must be ready to gain knowledge from every conceivable source. "Who is wise? He who learns from OU Israel Center TT 1111 every person." One can learn a great deal even from unexpected sources and must revere every potential source of knowledge, even in matters of religion. But there is another lesson to be derived from these anecdotes. There are many ways to learn. Some learn by studying books; others learn by listening to lectures. These are important tools to gain knowledge with, and they cannot be minimized. But one also learns through experience. If one is fortunate to grow up in a home rich in spirituality, he or she will become very knowledgeable about spirituality, even if no explicit lessons were taught. A process of osmosis occurs, by which anyone who spends time in an environment in which high ideals are exemplified will absorb those ideals. The Talmud used the example of Eliezer, and the medieval rabbis Many talents go unrealized for lack of realization that they are talents. If we must LOOK twice, how much more so must we THINK twice? It is not so much that time HEALS all wounds, as that it shows what we THOUGHT were wounds not to be so. from "A Candle by Day" by Rabbi Shraga Silverstein z"l www.createspace.com/4492905 page 22 e Chayei Sara 5775 used the example of Rebbe's maidservant, to teach us that sometimes what the "mere" servant absorbs from his experience in Avraham's company, or her years of service in the palace of Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi, is of greater value than the erudition of great scholars. Precious indeed is the idle conversation of the servants of the Patriarchs! What I learned that pre-Pesach day so long ago was that the capacity to learn from unexpected sources was not limited to times gone by, or to lofty souls such as the biblical Eliezer and the unique personage who was Rebbe's maidservant. Even Mildred, who passed away long ago, had a lot to teach me. She taught me about the importance of the scrupulous observance of Jewish customs, particularly those that have to do with Pesach. She taught me that, even with regard to matters of religious observance, one can learn a great deal from unexpected sources. Above all, she taught me a lesson about humility. That's a lesson that requires lifelong review. Thank you, Mildred. Jonathan Rosenblum, DPM • 050-595-5161 Pediatric and Geriatric Foot Care, Bunions, Hammertoes, and Diabetic Wound Care OU Israel Center TT 1111 The Land shall keep a Shabbat unto G-d (Vayikra 25:2) [4] by Dr. Meir Tamari The Torah continues the verses which deal with Sh'mita with a prolonged and detailed description of the laws of Yovel (Vayikra 25:8-54). So Sh'mita is neither an isolated concept nor an isolated mitzva, rather it is intimately linked to Yovel. Even though halachically we no longer can practice Yovel since the tribal allocation of Eetz Yisrael which it restores has been voided, nevertheless the ideologies of both mitzvot have much present day relevance for us. "Two acts of chesed Hashem did for us. The universal one which we share with all mankind, is the Creation and renewal of the natural forces from which we satisfy our needs. A second one, specific and restricted to Yisrael, is the giving of Torah whereby we are obliged and capable of elevating and sanctifying our material wealth and the mundane actions of living. Sh'mita, the Shabbat for rest accruing to the land, is testimony to the 7th day of the Creation. Yovel, is testimony to Matan Torah which came 50 days after leaving Egypt; it was heralded by the sound of the Shofar on Motzaei Yom Kippur just like Matan Torah was heralded by the shofar" (Abarbanel). Men over 50 Natural, herbal supplement to treat male ED Safe, effective, powerful, 054-490-4795 page 23 e Chayei Sara 5775 kosher Here the shofar is to proclaim D'ROR, usually translated as liberty and freedom, but Harav Hirsch teaches that, "the fundamental meaning of D'ROR is 'to follow a natural trend and here that natural trend means the restitution of Man to the rights and dignity of Man. It has the connotation of returning something to its real owner, of a homecoming". Yovel is the macro solution of national atonement for inequality and social division. Yovel as testimony to Matan Torah comes to place D'ROR in its special Jewish connotation as witnessed by the concluding verse of Yovel; "Bnei Yisrael are My servants whom I brought out of Egypt." "The fundamental factor on which the freedom of Israel, which cannot be lost or sold, rests is the Exodus, whereby we became His slaves. This precludes any form of belonging to anything else and disallows them to bind themselves to any other master. This concept of inalienability of the personal freedom of each Jew is translated halachically to mean that a contract normally considered irrevocable, can nevertheless be refuted by a daily worker at any time of the day" (S. R. Hirsch). However, Torah being equitable, the same concept of being a servant only of Hashem makes entering into lifelong employment or long-term labor contracts halachically questionable. The same symmetry leads the halacha to distinguish between the EVED, who cannot be made to perform menial or degrading tasks [the loss of his freedom is degrading enough] and the free worker who undertakes to do any kind of work in return for his wages. Freeing the EVED IVRI, the Hebrew indentured servant, from servitude is, together with the retuning of the land to its original divisions among the tribes, the major phenomena of Yovel. Redeeming the soil of Eretz Yisrael both from foreign ownership and from centuries of neglect was part of our modern day Shivat Tzion, our national renaissance. This redemption was modeled on Yovel and so land could not be bought from the national institutions but only leased for 49 years. It is true that state ownership of land has had a price - bureaucracy, costly building, corruption, etc.; yet it enabled settlement of settlers with negative equity and ensured, unlike present day free markets, that the Land would not be for sale to our enemies. When the poor were forced to sell their primary source of income, their land, the Torah placed an obligation on their kinsfolk to redeem it and return it to them. This not only gave the financial assistance but a livelihood, dignity and a positive role in society. "Granting a loan to the poor [to start a business] is superior to Cleaning & Maintenance Services for Home and Office (J'lem area) For details and appt call Srully 058-407-0204 OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 24 e Chayei Sara 5775 giving charity and to create a business partnership with the poor is superior to everything" (Shabbat 63a; Matnat Aniyim 10:7). Charity simply perpetuates poverty whereas the steps mentioned in the Talmud and codified by Rambam break the poverty cycle. Yovel substituted leasing for outright sale of land and the price of such leases depended on the number of years remaining until the next Jubilee Year. Human nature being what it is and the desire to earn profits being the basis of all economies, it is not surprising that the Yovel system provided opportunities for sharp dealing and price gouging since unscrupulous dealers could exploit the ignorance or the need of the other party and so under price the lease. Twice in the laws of Yovel the Torah warns against ona'a; " you shall not overreach - gouge one another" (25:14), this concerns ona'at mamon, money oppression; and " you shall not hurt the feelings of one another (25:17), this refers to ona'at d'varim, verbal oppression. Both apply halakhically to us today. Ona'at mamon, Jewish just price theory, protects people [both buyer and seller] from overcharging or undercharging of goods. The cutoff point at which legal action may be taken is 1/6th of market price; at that point the excess must be returned, above it the whole sale may be canceled and money returned. Ona'a does not apply to sales where there is full disclosure of variations from market price, thus making it protection against OU Israel Center TT 1111 oppression of ignorance. Ona'at d'varim forbids, for instance, referring to a convert's idolatrous past or reminding ba'alei t'shuva of any previous irreligious actions or lifestyles. Such reminders are verbal oppression. "If the moral qualities of the individual, and the public response [to ethical challenges] in the nation's conduct is diminished by our religious observance then our supposed piety is of no value" (A. Y. Hakohen Kook). New Kollel Americans (to age 35) Now learning Gemara Kiddushin Contact Rav Eliyahu Mitterhoff 058-33-000-43 • [email protected] KOLLEL ELISHA - Rechov Achida 14 Bayit Vegan, Jerusalem page 25 e Chayei Sara 5775 The following is from Sapphire from the Land of Israel A New Light on the Weekly Portion from the Writings of Rabbi Abraham Isaac HaKohen Kook by Rabbi Chanan Morrison website: ravkooktorah.org Guarding the Inner Child Adapted from Ma’amerei HaRe’iyah vol. II, pp. 230-231, from a lecture that Rav Kook delivered at the opening of a Talmud Torah school in Rehovot in 1905 The Torah counts the years of Sarah’s long life: “A hundred years and twenty years and seven years; these were the years of Sarah’s life” (B'reishit 23:1). Noting the verse’s wordiness, the Sages commented that throughout all the years of her life - whether at age seven, twenty, or a hundred - Sarah retained the same goodness, the same purity, and the same youthful innocence. Despite her long years of barrenness, despite twice being kidnapped as she accompanied her husband Avraham on his many journeys, Sarah did not become hard and cynical. Their son was named Yitzchak – meaning, “he will laugh” due to Abraham’s feelings of wonderment and Sarah’s amazed laughter. “God had given me laughter; all who hear will rejoice for me” (B'reishit 21:6). How to Educate From the inspiring example of Sarah’s purity and faith, we can learn an important lesson about education. OU Israel Center TT 1111 The nation’s future depends upon how we educate the next generation. How should we tend to the vineyard of the House of Israel so that the saplings will prosper and grow, anchoring fast roots below and producing pleasant fruit above? How can we make sure that our children will develop into complete Jewish adults, their values firmly rooted in their heritage, living lives that are “pleasing to God and to man”? We must take care to avoid slavish imitation of the educational methods of other nations. Our educational approach must suit the special nature and unique characteristics of our nation. Two Views of Childhood The question of education revolves around an even more basic question. What is childhood? Is it just a preparatory stage leading to adulthood, or does it have intrinsic value in and of itself? If life is all about working and earning a livelihood, then a child is simply a lump of clay to be formed into a tool to serve in the nation’s workforce. Childhood is but a Luxury Furnished Apartments for RENT 1 to 6 bedroom Apartments OWNERS: Want to Rent you Vacation Apartment? 15 minutes FREE consultation at your home For more info: [email protected] www.JerusalemApartmentRentals.com 052-977-91-91 or US 718-841-8020 page 26 e Chayei Sara 5775 preparation for adulthood, when one becomes a productive member of society, a cog in the great machine of the nation’s economy. But there is another view of life, an idealistic outlook which values the qualities of purity and innocence. Such a viewpoint sees childhood as a stage of life that has value in its own right. The Sages recognized the special contribution of children to the world. “The world endures only for the sake of the breath of school children,” for their Torah is learned in purity, undefiled by sin (Shabbat 119b). When children are educated properly, we may discern within their pristine souls untold measures of holiness and purity. But this is only true if the grace and beauty of these delicate flowers is not crushed by the spirit-numbing reality of the factory floor and the cynical manipulations of greedy corporations. Childhood is good and holy, but it is too weak and vulnerable to withstand the powerful forces of society. It is our duty to preserve the simplicity of childhood, to carefully allow our children to mature without losing their innate innocence. This will enable them to acquire the physical strength and spiritual resilience that they lack, while retaining the innocent exuberance of childhood. My Anointed Ones “‘Do not harm meshichai, My anointed ones’ - this refers to school children” (Shabbat 119b). Why are OU Israel Center TT 1111 children called “God’s anointed ones”? Anointing is not a one-time event, but an initiation ceremony which influences the years to come. Thus a king is anointed, and throughout the years of his reign he is the melech ha-mashiach, the anointed king. The same is true with childhood. When it has not been debased by the pressures of an exploitative society, childhood is our anointing, our initiation, so that we may enjoy its pure fruits throughout our lives. This is the beautiful example that Sarah provides. She lived a life of holiness and pure faith, retaining her childlike wonder and purity throughout the many vicissitudes of her long life. “All her years were equal in goodness” (Rashi). page 27 e Chayei Sara 5775 A look at CHAYEI SARA from The Poetic Dimension Romantic memory weaves a garland around the name Machpelah, though the area has more robust connotations in Israel’s current environment. Machpelah, established from early Biblical times, was an important place of pilgrimage for medieval travellers like Benjamin of Tudela, who described the two stages by which a determined visitor gained access to the site. The ordinary traveller was told by his guide that the outer area contained the remains of the patriarchs, but if one were determined and prepared to pay the guide extra it was possible to go further, descend some steps and enter an underground cavern which was the real burial place. CHESSED FUND Please help us help those who turn to us for help. Regardless of the political problems of today, there is a poetic dimension of the Machpelah story which should not be forgotten. The bones of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob and their wives come to life like the dry bones in Ezekiel’s vision if you cast your mind’s eye back through Jewish history. You encounter the spirit of the patriarchs and are immediately asked, “You Jews of the 21st century, four thousand years on from when we ourselves lived, do you fittingly honour our memory as the founding fathers of Judaism? Do you devote to Judaism the spiritual eagerness of Avraham, Yitzchak’s love of tradition, Yaakov’s tenacity even in times of trouble? “Do you honour our principles, not just our mausoleum?” Rabbi Apple served for 32 years as the chief minister of the Great Synagogue, Sydney, and was Australia's highest profile rabbi and leading spokesman for Jews and Judaism on the Australian continent. He is now retired and lives in Jerusalem. He blogs at www.oztorah.com Make checks payable to the "Chessed Fund" and send them to Israel Center Chesed Fund att. Menachem Persoff POB 37015 Jerusalem 91370 or leave them at the front desk OU Israel Center TT 1111 100. But for you, 46 Dr. Eliezer Rosenblum NYS Licensed and Board Certified Chiropractor Offices in Jerusalem, Ramat Beit Shemesh 052-662-4658 page 28 e Chayei Sara 5775 Parsha Points to Ponder by MK Rabbi Dov Lipman Chayei Sara 1) Why does Avraham mean when he says that he will bury Sarah MILFANAI - FROM BEFORE ME (23:4)? 2) Why does the Torah write the were AVADIM without a YUD and SH'FACHOT without a VAV when Eliezer relates that G-D blessed Avraham with wealth including slaves and maidservants (24:35)? 3) When Eliezer first asked for Rivka as a wife for Yitzchak, the family responded TAKE HER AND GO (24:51). Why, then, do they seemingly change their minds and say WE WILL CALL THE YOUNG GIRL AND WE WILL ASK HER (24:57)? [email protected] The suggested answers are elsewhere Ponder the questions first, then see further The Shmittah App - a free, English everything-you-need-or-want-to-know about Sh'mita - for android. Impressive! Sara Genstil, Ph.D. Psychologist, Social Worker Focus on relationships, psychosomatic issues, eating disorders, sexual dysfunction, anxiety, post-trauma and depression Orientation: Self-Psychology and Intersubjective System Theory 0522-609-087 • English & Hebrew OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 29 e Chayei Sara 5775 OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 30 e Chayei Sara 5775 OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 31 e Chayei Sara 5775 MONDAYS at 3:00PM MONDAYS at 4:00PM OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 32 e Chayei Sara 5775 Maharal on the Sedra Avraham's Test was Hashem's Goodness B'reishit 24:1 -...and Hashem blessed Avraham with all. Chidushei Agadot Sanhedrin 107a, 3:251b: The sages said that David asked Hashem why they say in the Amida, the God of Avraham, Yitzchak and Yaakov but they do not say the God of David? Hashem answers that they were tested, you were not. How was Avraham tested? With the blessing of Hashem's goodness, as it is written, and Hashem blessed Avraham with all. This is the biggest test of all, as Shlomo said, "Do not give me inheritance and wealth which will cause me to kick, and deny [the One who gave it to me]" [Mishlei 30:8]. That is what wealth does, as it is written, "Lest you eat and are satisfied, and build nice houses to live in and your livestock will multiply, and your heart will be exalted, and you will forget Hashem your God" [D'varim 8:12]. Yitzchak was tested with bodily suffering, specifically blindness [B'reishit 27:1] which is considered like death [Nedarim 64a]. This is a bigger test than the AKEIDA, which was a single moment, while the blindness continued until he died. Yaakov was tested with tragic events as he says, NEED A MOHEL? A person has body, soul and wealth, hinted at in "with all your heart, and all your soul and all your might [wealth]" [D'varim 6:5]. Avraham was tested with wealth, Yitzchak with body [bodily suffering], and Yaakov with soul [tragic events], for tragic events affect the soul. MDK - Every child in school knows that the AKEIDA was the pinnacle of Avraham's tests! Maharal himself says so [Derech Chaim 5:3, 92a]. Perhaps this account refers to a continuous lifetime test, like Yitzchak's and Yaakov's, and not an event. Column prepared by Dr. Moshe Kuhr Dr Kuhr is the author of two volumes (so far) of Lion Cub of Prague YOU KNOW ENGLISH But do your children? Rav Hayim Leiter Private lessons -- All levels Your house or mine • (02) 6-222-104 www.saferhabrit.com • 054-735-2408 Your pace, your language, your Simcha OU Israel Center TT 1111 "Keil Sha-dai", which Rashi renders "Let the One Who said to His world 'Enough" say to my troubles 'Enough'" [B'reishit 43:14]. This is why he said to Par'o that the days of his life were few and bad [47:9]. page 34 e Chayei Sara 5775 www.rabbisholomgold.com More than 1000 audio & video shiurim for listening and downloading plus written articles A subsidiary of Sossin Financial Group (www.sossingroup.com) We specialize in Senior estate planning solutions for foreign residents age 55 and up U.S. based Life Insurance for Israel Residents with minimal hassle Lower premiums • more benefits If you want an American based life insurance policy and thought you couldn't - well now you can. Regardless of how long you've been living in Israel U.S. Citizenship Not required uncopyrightable One of the 4 longest words in English that don't repeat any letters Underwriting requirements will need to be completed in the U.S. Call for a FREE US number: Life Insurance Quote 917-559-1828 [email protected] • www.dflifeinsurance.com OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 35 e Chayei Sara 5775 Reprinted (with permission) from Shabbat Shalom Parsha Booklet (4) by Rabbi Berel Wein A while ago, two of my grandsons had become engaged to be married, within a 10-day period. Naturally, this was an occasion of joy and satisfaction to me. It occurred during the period of time that we read this week's parsha which deals with the betrothal and marriage of Yitzchak and Rivka. In the bible and in traditional Jewish life generally, parents have input into the choice of a mate for their children. Avraham strictly instructs Eliezer not to deign making any marriage arrangement with the daughters of the Canaanites for Yitzchak. Avraham chooses family - his own general family - over all other considerations. There is no doubt that family is a very important consideration in choosing a mate. People who come from stable and loving home environments have a pattern and model to follow in their own later domestic relationships. Avraham searches for a family that, although it has other defects paganism and a selfish attitude towards wealth and stretching the truth - at least shares his value of hospitality towards strangers and a sense of compassion towards other human beings. Nevertheless, Rivka represents the exception in her OU Israel Center TT 1111 SPEND CHANUKA with RABBI WEIN in EILAT 4 days, 3 nights (December 21-24) at the 5-star Leonardo Plaza Best location in Eilat, on the Boardwalk/Marina Private Beach on Red Sea for hotel guests Three Pools in hotel and a waterfall. Some Separate swimming in addition to family swim Each Room has all 5-star amenities Half Board. Glatt Meat, Mehadrin Chicken , Shemita Lechumra, Rabbi Wein lectures daily, full program for all ages. Optional (extra charge) trips: Tour of Eilat with Rabbi Wein, Boat Excursion, Mehadrin BBQ, speedboats, banana boats and more SAVE THE DATE: Sun. Jan. 25th Premiere of the latest Faith & Fate Destiny Film: “PASSING THE TORCH” A Special Holocaust Film (details to follow) For further information, contact Nachum Amsel 0544-54-36-18 or [email protected] family. She is not a pagan and her sense of hospitality towards others surpasses ordinary standards. She is a product of her family and home but she has gathered within her all of the positive attributes that the family of Avraham possessed while rejecting all of the negative traits and beliefs that the environment of her society impressed upon the rest of the family. Eliezer is searching for a diamond in the rough. These are very rare. page 36 e Chayei Sara 5775 We are told of the "tests" and complications that Eliezer demands and encounters in his search for the proper mate for Yitzchak. He is looking for the benefits that stem from Avraham's family without having the liabilities that usually accompany them. He searches for extraordinary kindness and concern, modesty of behavior and loyalty to family even when that family's beliefs are no longer hers. It is this remarkable combination of characteristics that mark Rivka as being the special matriarch of Israel that she becomes. When she will look for the proper mate for Yaakov she will also send him back to her family in Aram, in spite of her knowledge of the trickery of her brother Lavan. There too she hopes that he will find diamonds in the rough - women who will build the house of Israel and mother the Jewish people for all eternity. Yaakov will also have to find the mates that possess all of the positive attributes of the family of Avraham and do not carry with them the burden of the negative traits of the society of Aram. This effort will cost Yaakov many years of his life, physical privation and mental anguish, but eventually the goal of creating a nation from a few individuals is achieved because of his wives and their characteristics. Eliezer's search for Rivka becomes the paradigm and model for creating the proper Jewish family and necessary home environment. OU Israel Center TT 1111 The search for diamonds is much easier today in the Jewish world than it was for Eliezer. My grandsons may have given their prospective mates diamonds as an engagement gift but I am certain that the women themselves who are involved are the true diamonds in the matter. Y¨½ a§ d´¨ © `e§ Let's revisit the topic and the word that started this Towards Better Davening and Torah Reading column... many years ago. The seeds were sown many years earlier, when I first came on Aliya in September '81. Sometime back then I received a reality check that I had been mispronouncing (misaccenting is a better term) words in the Sh'ma in such a way that the meaning of the word is changed and the validity of the fulfillment of the mitzva to recite Sh'ma twice a day was seriously challenged. Strongly enough put? Syllables in uppercase are accented; the ones in lowercase are not. Test yourself. Say the beginning of Sh'ma out loud. After the Sh'ma and Baruch Sheim lines, what's the next word? If you say v'a-HAV-ta, you have the same problem I had. v'a-HAV-ta means 'and you loved. Past tense. Wrong! v'a-hav-TA means and you will/shall love. That's the way to accent it. cont. p.40 page 37 e Chayei Sara 5775 TtRiDdLeS Prizes for best solutions - Noam CDs or... Jerusalem (3 stores) •15 Malchei Yisrael in Geula •Rechov Lunz right off Ben Yehuda Midrachov in the center of town •Kanfei Nesharim 64 9 FUN PLACES TO SHOP Ramat Beit Shemesh Stop by often; new items all the time •RBS Alef Shopping Center Bnei Braq •Rabbi Akiva Street Ra'anana •R' Achuza 110 Rishon L'Tziyon •Kenyon HaB'eir Efrat Dekel Shopping Center Beitar Ilit Giva Bet, 6 HaRan, Kikar Ha'Ir Previous (VAYEIRA) TTriddles: [1] To whom, besides Avraham VAYEIRA EILAV HASHEM, and G-d appeared to him. The opening words in Parshat VAYEIRA, the him being Avraham. That phrase as is occurs only twice more in Tanach, and both times, the him is Yitzchak - both times in Parshat Toldot. If we expand the search to include all VAYEIRA EILAV, we find only two more times. Once, in Vayigash, when Yosef appears before Yaakov after 22 years of separation and of Yaakov not knowing if Yosef was alive or dead. The other time is in the Book of Shoftim when a MAL'ACH HASHEM appears to GID'ON. [2] Several are called this in NACH, including who in the haftara? Only one in the Torah - who? ISH HA-ELOKIM, Man of G-d. In the haftara of Vayeira - from Melachim bet, it refers to ELISHA. Several others are called that throughout Tanach. In the Torah, only Moshe Rabeinu is called ISH HA-ELOKIM, at the beginning of the last sedra, V'ZOT HAB'RACHA. [3] [4] [5] Binary TTriddles There are only 8 four-digit numbers (out of 9000 in our decimal number system) that also look like binary numbers. 1000, 1001, 1010, 1011, 1100, 1101, 1110, and this week's TT number 1111. These binary (base two) numbers correspond to 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, and 15 respectively. These three TTriddles all focus on the number 14 (base 10), which is equivalent to 1110 base two. You can be forewarned about 1111 among this week's TTriddles. And that will be it on Binary TTriddles until TT 10,000, a little over 185 years from now. [3] MADA, AHAVA, Z'MANIM... SHOFTIM These are the books in MISHNEH TORAH of the Rambam, also known as YAD HACHAZAKA, YAD being YUD-DALET, 14. The full list of the 14 books in the Rambam's Mishneh Torah: MADA, AHAVA, Z'MANIM, NASHIM, K'DUSHA, HAFLA'A, Z'RA'IM, AVODA, HAKORBANOT, TAHARA, N'ZIKIN, KINYAN, MISH- My Shteiblech is a portal of information using Social Media, set up and managed by Benjy Singer ... info on learning, cultural and social programmes and activities in Jerusalem and Tel Aviv... for English speakers. Some Ivrit, too. Sign up for our Newsletter eepurl.com/CcIAH Facebook details upon sign-up Twitter: @myshteiblech OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 38 e Chayei Sara 5775 PATIM, SHOF'TIM University, located in Be'er Sheva. [4] Sonnet, stone, fortnight, Moonlight sonata The placename Be'er Sheva occurs 33 times in Tanach, 10 of those occurrences are in the Torah, all in B'reishit - 6 times in Vayeira (hence the appropriateness of these two pictograms in the ParshaPix of Vayeira), twice in Toldot, once each in Vayeitzei and Vayigash. A sonnet is a 14-line poem, usually having a specific rhyming scheme and structure. A stone is a British unit of weight equal to 14 pounds. It is often used as a unit for human body weight. A fortnight is a two-week period, i.e. 14 days. It comes from some contraction of fourteen and night. Moonlight sonata is the common name of Beethoven's piano sonata #14. [5] Mazal Tov - you can ride an elevator alone! Israeli elevators usually carry a list of rules including no smoking and that children under 14 years of age cannot ride the elevator unaccompanied by an adult. So Israeli girls have their Bat Mitzva at 12, boys have their Bar Mitzva at 13, and both boys and girls take their next step to adulthood at 14 when they won't get arrested for riding the elevator on their own. (Just kidding about the arresting.) [8] The Front Page TTriddle 30? - this drew more comments and questions than any other thing that has appeared in that position on the front page. From Pesach to Rosh HaShana, that spot is used to announce the perek of the week from Pirkei Avot. Different other things have occupied that space, and lately, it has been a TTriddle related to the issue number. SH'LOSHIM SHEKEL = 300+30+ 300+10+40 (680) + 300+100+30 (430) = 1110. No guarantee that it will always be a gimatriya for the issue number, so if that doesn't work, try something else. [8] Old Business SAFE HARBOR Counseling service Last week, we explained a TTriddle from the Lech L'cha issue, in which Avraham was compared to a royal flush (in poker), which beats 4 kings, just as Avraham had. We received an email from a poker-maven that we described the royal flush incorrectly. With deepfelt contrition we hereby set the record straight. A royal flush is A-K-Q-K-10 of a single suit. Thank you AD for your invaluable poker expertise. In person • phone • Skype • Individuals/Couples/Families 054-882-9117 • [email protected] KO T'VORACHU ET BNEI YISRAEL... [6] Unexplaineds in the ParshaPix Two logos, one of the city of Be'er Sheva and one of Ben Gurion Rabbi Elan Adler's OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 39 e Chayei Sara 5775 Towards Better Davening... cont. from p.37 TIYULIM We're going places! Travel Desk (02) 560-9110 [email protected] The grammatical issue here is the VAV HAHIPUCH, the VAV that switches tense of the verb it prefixes. There are two types. Leave the fguture to past VAV. This one flips the tense from past to future (or the sister tense, command). In most words, the VAV causes a switch in accent from MIL'EIL to MILRA (moves the accent to the last syllable). Besides v'a-hav-TA, there are 6 other words (at least) for which not moving the accent will change the meaning: Y ¨ x§A© c¦ e§ .Y¨ x§n© `¨ e§ ,Y¨ l§ k© `¨ e§ ,Y¨ t§ q© `¨ e§ ,(twice) iY¦ z¨ © pe§ There are several other words in Sh'ma that get the accept shifted, but mistakes are less crucial. ONE MORE TOUR: Wednesday November 19th 10:00am to 1:00pm Hosted by Shulamit & Yehoshua Neaman OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 40 e Chayei Sara 5775 OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 41 e Chayei Sara 5775 OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 42 e Chayei Sara 5775 OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 43 e Chayei Sara 5775 OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 44 e Chayei Sara 5775 CHIZUK ! IDUD Divrei Torah from the weekly sedra with a focus on living in Eretz Yisrael Chizuk for Olim & Idud for not-yet-Olim Our Parsha begins with a lengthy description of Avraham's efforts in his attempt to secure the ideal burial plot for his wife Sarah. Surprisingly, the Torah chooses to repeat at length the petty, seemingly insignificant, details of Avraham's negotiations with Efron the Hittite – why is this necessary? Ibn Ezra (B'reishit 23:19) postulates that the lengthy give and take is presented in order to showcase the special status of Eretz Yisrael for both the living and the dead (see Ha'emek Davar for a similar point). Interestingly, this is not the first instance where this lesson is to be found, as the importance of burial in Eretz Yisrael can already be inferred from the verses describing the very creation of man. In B'reishit 2:7 we read that man was created AFAR MIN HA'ADAMA - from the dust of the earth. In answer to the question as to where this dust originated, Rashi writes that the dust was taken from the four corners of the universe, adding that as a result of this: “wherever Man dies - the earth will receive him”. Rashi then brings a second possibility explaining that the dust for the creation of man originated from the site of the Mizbeach - the Altar on the Temple Mount. This would seem to suggest that burial in Israel, and moreover in Jerusalem, is preferable OU Israel Center TT 1111 as thus Man is seen as returning to his origin and his sins are forgiven (see Bavli Ketubot 111a, and Maharsha "K'ilu Kavur Tachat HaMizbei'ach"). This lesson is brought down by the Rambam in his Hilchot Melachim (5:11): "The Sages commented: 'Whoever dwells in Eretz Yisrael will have his sins forgiven… Even one who walks four cubits there will merit the world to come and one who is buried there receives atonement as if the place in which he is buried is an altar of atonement, as D'varim 32:43 states: 'His land will atone for His people'". The importance of burial in Eretz Yisrael is such that the rabbis even allowed one to exhume remains for the purpose of reburial in Eretz Yisrael (Yoreh Dei'ah 363:1). A famous such case was that of the Chida, Rabbi Chayim Yosef David Azulai, whose remains were brought to Jerusalem for reburial in 1960, approximately 150 years after he was first buried in Leghorn Italy. The public reburial of this illustrious Shadar (shaliach derabanan), or emissary, of the Jewish community of Hebron, which was to commemorate the 150th anniversary of his death, was brought about by the efforts of none other than Israel's Chief Rabbi at the time, Harav Yitzchak Nissim. Mazal Tov to Naftali (Neil) & Carol Scher on the engagement of Eitan to Eden Shitreet page 45 e Chayei Sara 5775 Lest this lead one to wrongly conclude that burial in the holy land is the ultimate act of religious devotion and atonement, we must return to the Rambam once again. The Rambam proceeds to clarify the relative importance of life in the Holy Land as opposed to burial within its sanctified borders: "There is no comparison", writes the Rambam, "between the merit of a person who lives in Eretz Yisrael and ultimately, is buried there, and one whose body is brought there after his death. Nevertheless, great Sages would bring their dead there. Take an example, from our Patriarch Yaakov, and Yosef the righteous". Yet can there not be fully justifiable reasons for one to remain abroad? Anticipating the seemingly legitimate spiritual calculations which might lead one to this conclusion, the Rambam continues on in the next Halacha (Hilchot Melachim 5:12) to set the record straight and remove any possible confusion: "At all times", he writes, "a person should dwell in Eretz Yisrael even in a city whose population is primarily gentile, rather than dwell in the Diaspora, even in a city whose population is primarily Jewish. This applies because whoever leaves Eretz Yisrael for the Diaspora is considered as if he worships idols…" Avraham Avinu gladly suffered the ignobility of dealing with the insignificant inhabitants of Hebron OU Israel Center TT 1111 Parsha Points to Ponder Suggested answers 1) The Ktav Sofer teaches that with these words Avraham was emphasizing that he was burying Sarah physically but she remains alive spiritually. He was burying that which was BEFORE ME, the body, but that which he could not see remained alive. 2) The Netziv answers that letters missing from a word always connote weakness in the power of whatever that word connotes. In this case it teaches that while these people worked for Avraham he did not treat them as such and acted towards them with respect. 3) The Alshich explains that they initially told him to take Rivka because they saw Eliezer had money and gifts and they assumed they would receive them in exchange for Rivka. However, when they saw that Eliezer gave all the expensive items to Rivka and gave just fruits to the family (24:53), they regretted what they had said and decided that they should ask Rivka what she wanted to do. who related to him - the true owner of the land - as a lowly foreigner. How much more so must we feel committed to our homeland in an era when Eretz Yisrael has been blessed to serve as the national home for millions of committed Jews. Rabbi Yerachmiel Roness, Ramat Shiloh, Beit Shemesh page 46 e Chayei Sara 5775 Rabbi Kahana's articles www.nachmankahana.com Cafe and in-house catering are under the supervision of u-Israel Mehadrin The CAFÉ Pareve & Meat menu Also: Schocketino Catering at your service Servicing the entire country Call 052-855-1538 OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 47 e Chayei Sara 5775 for Fertility and Gynecology in Accordance with Halacha Men Are Half the Story At the recent Annual Meeting of the American Society for Reproductive Medicine there were a number of interesting presentations regarding male fertility. While much interest has always been shown and investment is being made in studying and treating female infertility, recently there has been a lot of interesting research into male fertility. Traditionally the claim is that of 100% of cases of infertility 40% are a result of female factor infertility, 40% are a result of male infertility and the remaining 20% are unexplained, which means that we do not really know the reason why. We can assume that of this 20% some of them are also related to the male partner and therefore it is fair to say that half of the cases of fertility are male factor. A group in Montreal presented a paper at the ASRM meeting in which they looked at pregnancy rates for older women undergoing fertility treatment. All the women in the study were over 40 years old and underwent a number of in-vitro fertilizations and their pregnancy rates were recorded. The group then looked at their husband's or male partner's age. They found that there was a direct correlation between an increase in male age and a decrease in pregnancy rates. In fact, when the male partner was over 43.5 there were no pregnancies, but when the men were younger even if the wife was older then there were pregnancies. This appears to be quite revolutionary and was even picked up by the popular press. We know that women have a "biological clock" and that their fertility decreases with age. In fact there have been almost no reports of successful in-vitro fertilization treatments for women over 44 years of age. But now we are starting to realize that there is also a male "biological clock" as well and that older men are less likely to father children, especially when their wives are older. We are also witness to a continued decrease in sperm quality over the decades. In comparison to semen analyses from 20 or 30 years ago, we see that there is a gradual but steady decrease in sperm quality. Many things have been blamed for this demise, from diet to fashion, but the reality is that there is a decrease. All of this research puts a greater spotlight on male infertility and shows the other half of the picture of fertility. More research needs to concentrate on male fertility, causes and treatment. More on this next week. Rabbi Gideon Weitzman The Puah Institute is based in Jerusalem and helps couples from all over the world who are experiencing fertility problems. Puah offers free counseling in five languages, halachic supervision, and educational programs. Offices in Jerusalem, New York, Los Angeles, Paris. Contact: (02) 651-5050 (Isr) • 718-336-0603 (US) • www.puahonline.org OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 48 e Chayei Sara 5775 www.gabairealestate.com OLD KATAMON For sale in the best part of the neighborhood on a quiet tree-lined street, Old Arab style building, high ceilings, exit to garden and a large balcony, plenty of light, over 110m, spacious and full of potential THE SHIDUCH Avraham gave Eliezer a difficult mission to accomplish. To find a wife for Yitzchak from his native land with the right moral, ethical and modesty qualifications. Then he had to convince the girl to leave her home and her family to wed Yitzchak, and also convince her family to let her go. For that reason although Avraham trusted Eliezer with his whole household, he made Eliezer swear to do this particular job. According to the Shem MiShmuel, this was because Avraham wanted Eliezer to persist even though the mission might have looked impossible. If Eliezer took an oath, he would set his mind to the mission and the Shem MiShmuel explains that human beings are much more able to succeed when they are determined to persevere. Many people these days think that finding a shiduch is next to impossible. They talk about the "shiduch crisis". I'm no expert on the topic, but maybe one reason could be that people are not looking for the right things. What was Eliezer sent to look for? While there's nothing wrong with finding a " Rothschild", making that a criteria might not be following in the path of Avraham Avinu. According to Malbim, Eliezer was not on the look OU Israel Center TT 1111 TALBIEH - for rent, Washington St., around the corner from King David St., and Mamilla, a large one bedroom apartment in excellent move in condition, newly renovated, totally vacant, very accessible NEXT TO THE WALDORF ASTORIA Excellent opportunity because this property is not yet on the market! 280m on one level, brand new building with only 9 tenants, private parking, storage, huge balconies, option to design interior space CITY CENTER - DEAL OF THE YEAR!!! 100m, 3 bedrooms, 2 full bathrooms, second floor with Shab. elevator, 2 sukka balconies, well maintained building, must sell. Asking $625,000. Great as residence or investment, walking distance to everywhere in J'lem! NEW RECHAVIA bordering Shaarei Chesed (not Wolfson) 75m, 2 bedroom apartment, first floor, renovated beautifully, priced to sell! EFRAT Incredible Private freestanding house! One of the most beautiful homes in Efrat, excellent location. Lot of 1 dunam! Only 20 minutes from Jerusalem. A terrific family home with a huge garden, large American kitchen, spacious bedrooms, garage and more! RECHAVIA Ground floor, 50m, one bedroom, nice living area, rented out for 4300NIS right near all of the coffee shops and restaurants Azza st. has to offer. A terrific investment with a sold R.O.I Yaniv Gabbay Elia Gabai 052-614-1442 052-862-9208 [email protected] • [email protected] page 49 e Chayei Sara 5775 out for a "wealthy girl" but for a girl of modest means who would go to draw water by herself at the well and not have the servants do it. He was looking for a hard worker like Rivka who didn't waste her time with petty gossip like the other girls, she didn't dawdle but "filled her jug, and immediately went up again" (23:16). He wanted someone from his native land who would have the same character traits of chesed like Avraham had - which Rivka demonstrated when giving water to the camels. This is the message - what is important is the inner goodness of the person, their uprightness in morals, ethics and modesty. Maybe the "shiduch crisis" is because people are too concerned with the externals and looking at the differences between people (Sefardi, Ashkenazi, Mizrachi, Chareidi…) rather than at what is similar between people having common values (e.g. keeping Torah and mitzvot, belief in God, doing chesed). Recently I read an East African folk tale to my grandchildren that I really liked. I've been looking for an opportunity to share it and think it is related to finding shiduchim, so here goes. It's called Sister Hen's Cool Drink. In the story Hen goes to the creek to get a drink. While she is drinking, Crocodile comes along and tells her to stop drinking from his creek or he will eat her up. Hen runs away as fast as she could, but Crocodile catches up with her and grabs her tail. Hen says, "Please don't eat me, brother!" When Hen called crocodile OU Israel Center TT 1111 "brother" he was so surprised that it made his jaw drop open, and Hen was able to escape. But Crocodile kept wondering why did Hen call him "brother". He did not have feet like Hen, and Hen didn't have teeth like Crocodile. He is big and Hen is little. He is green and hen is black. They were different, how could he be her brother? He was still pondering this question when Hen came to the creek again to get a drink of water. Crocodile confronted Hen and asked her, "You called me brother, but how could I be your brother? We are very different from each other." Hen answered matter-of-factly, "Because you come from an egg and I come from an egg. So we must be family." Crocodile liked that answer and so didn't eat Hen. I also liked that answer. It is an answer that concentrates on the similarities between things as opposed to the differences. Eliezer prayed to God for help with his mission, he designed a test of character, acted on it, and was answered by God. May we all be able to help those around us find their bashert, through our prayers, actions and the messages our society gives relating what is important when looking for a shiduch. Since Eliezer learned about Rivka's good character watching her at the well with the water, this week's recipe has to do with water. page 50 e Chayei Sara 5775 HOT WATER SPONGE CAKE 2 eggs, separated ½ cup very hot water (not boiling) 1 tsp vanilla extract ¾ cup sugar pinch of salt 1 cup flour 1½ tsp baking powder Beat the egg yolks, slowly adding the hot water and vanilla, until smooth and pale yellow. Continue to beat, gradually adding ½ cup of sugar. Set aside. In another bowl, add the salt to the egg whites and beat till they form stiff peaks. Continue to beat, gradually adding the remaining ¼ cup of sugar. Whisk in ¼ of the egg whites to the yolk mixture. Mix the flour and baking powder and add a bit at a time, mixing well after each addition. Gently fold in the rest of the egg whites. Pour the mixture into a bundt pan and bake at 160°C. for 25 to 30 minutes until a toothpick inserted in the middle comes out clean. Cool. Serve as is or top with your favorite fruit puree, whipped cream, or chocolate sauce. KATAMONIM CLOSE TO MOSHAVA Nice 3 rms, 3rd fl, renovated, spacious, pleasant, quiet, 1,450,000NIS NACHLA'OT Large 3 rooms , renovated, succah balcony, quiet, 1,780,000NIS ARNONA Charming 3.5 room apartment with 20m succah balcony off living room, 2nd floor, 3 exposures, storage and parking, Exclusive, 1,900,000NIS MEKOR HAYIM CLOSE TO EMEK REFA'IM 4.5 rooms, first floor, large balcony, renovated, 2 entrances, bright, parking, good deal! Exclusive, 2,250,000NIS REHAVIA - Abarvanel St. Nice 3 rooms, first floor, 2 balconies with succah, good shape, quiet, Rare! 2,450,000NIS GREAT DEAL IN RECHAVIA 4 spacious rooms, Shabbat elevator, balcony with panoramic view, private parking, storage room. 2,850,000NIS OLD KATAMON - UNIQUE! Beautiful new penthouse, 810m, private elevator, 45m terrace, luxury, quiet, charming location. Sexual Addiction Therapy International Expert Brad Salzman LCSW Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist Assessment - Treatment - Recovery Discrete and Confidential www.bradsalzman.com 058-400-8413 Rechavia - adjacent to Shaarei Chessed Luxury 3.5 room Apartment New Building, Long Term Rental by Benjy Caplan = xiW ¦ n§ gª First floor, unfurnished, 2 bedrooms (1 master), large livingroom and study 2 balconies - 1 for Sukkah Sarah was quite age-defying 'til Yitzhak came quite close to dying But she got the blues When she heard the news So Abraham did some cave buying. OU Israel Center TT 1111 Bright, wide view - Quiet neighborhood Access with no stairs Call (02) 625-1551 page 51 e Chayei Sara 5775 Upper-left: 400 silver pieces that Avraham handed over to... • EFRON (pencil = IPARON, heteronym of EFRON) • Pencil sharpener is a M'CHADEID, to sharpen = L'CHADEID, one of Yishmael's sons, CHADAD • V'LIVKOTAH is written with a small KAF - a small kaf (spoon) • G-d blessed Avraham BAKOL. One opinion is that this blessing included a precious gem that had miraculous curative powers • Speech-bubble with a chain in it, standing for VAYOMAR, and he (Eliezer) said, which is read with the SHALSHELET (chain) note • BARUCH HASHEM was said by Eliezer (Others in Chumash who said B"H are No'ach and Yitro. Lavan got close, with B'RUCH HASHEM. So did Avimelech to Yitzchak) • One of the gold rings Eliezer gave to Rivka • The Xed out turkey platter is Eliezer's refusal to eat before he had completed "business" • Good thing, too, because Lavan had poisoned the food (poison symbol) • CHUPA is for Yitzchak's marriage to Rivka (also Avraham's to Ketura) • Gift for Rivka and her family, as well as the gifts Avraham gave to the children of Ketura - and play-on-words, gift is a MINCHA, the davening of which is attributed to Yitzchak, end of the sedra • The word TEREM appears eight times in the Torah, twice in Chayei Sara. That's the logo of Terem • Above the Terem logo is the logo of MASA, an Israeli non-profit organization that enables thousands of Jewish youth to spend a semester or a year in Israel in any of over 160 programs, helping them build a life-long relationship with Israel and a firm commitOU Israel Center TT 1111 ment to Jewish life. MASA is also one of the sons of Yishmael. Different spelling, but very close in sound • NEVIOT water is for the sound-alike of the first born of Yishma'el • Another son of Yishmael was KEIDAR, spelled the same and sounding similar to KADAR, which is a potter - Harry Potter • The army insignia (near the Terem logo) is a chevron. Pronounce the CH as in Chanuka Chevron • There are two dots forming a SH'VA - this is a sound-alike for a grandson of Avraham's via Ketura • L and a kite. Kite is also a raptor (preditory bird) in the same biological family as eagles and hawks. Kite in Hebrew is probably the DA'A, listed as a non-kosher bird. ELDA'A was a son of MIDYAN, born to KETURA from Avraham • The animals are mentioned in the haftara - In modern Hebrew, a M'RI is a buffalo (bison? or maybe water buffalo). Likely that the haftara is referring to a different member of the bovine family or a description of a bull or cow • The question-marked chair is from the haftara - who will sit on David's throne after his death? • The arrow is from CHAVILA to SHOR • The badge is Agent 99's of Control. She was a SOCHENET, a term describing Avishag in the haftara • Top-right is Charlie the tuna - he stands for Y'TUR NAFISH whose name sounds like "your tuna fish" • Lower-right is Me'arat HaMachpeila • Above it are the 400 shekels that Avraham paid to Efron for the field and the cave and surroundings • Water with an eye is EIN HAMAYIM • L'TUSHIM (markers) • Logo of Laline - sounds like LALIN, (place) to sleep • Lauren Bacall = BAKOL • Willie's number 24 is for KAD, pitcher (he wasn't, he was CF) mentioned repeatedly in the sedra • upper-right, rectangle filled with white for LAVAN • to the right of Harry Potter is a can of TAB, but it's mirror image and reads BAT. Then there is a picture of a bat (the only flying mammal, followed by 5 baseball bats. All toghether we get BAT-SHEVA, from the haftara. page 52 e Chayei Sara 5775 SALES Caregiver - Companion for elderly or ill women Dedicated, Responsible, Experienced Excellent references (02) 532-6111 • 052-286-8202 Kosher B&B Zimmer in Rosh Pina Folberg Family 054-472-2351 • (04) 680-0065 RENTALS [email protected] www.roshpina-b-and-b.com Songs of Ascent Each side in Backgammon Sell Your Airline and Hotel Miles Top rates paid, prompt service, and payment available in dollars or shekel. Don't let your miles go to waste! [email protected] OU Israel Center TT 1111 • UNIQUE PROPERTY (in Greek colony) Over 200m. A lot of character, high ceilings, large private garden, beautiful building, private parking & storage • RECHAVIA (Metudela) 3 rooms, 70m, 2nd floor, spacious, balcony, needs slight renovations, immediate, excellent investment 1,900,000NIS • BAKA (Dan Street) Upper Cottage, 6 rooms, 130m, large terraces, quiet area, parking, storage - 3,290,000NIS • YOUNG ARNONA (Israel Eldad) Beautiful penthouse, 5 rooms, terrace, 40m, 4th floor, elevator, bright and quiet, parking - 3,500,000NIS • HEART OF REHAVIA (Ramban) rear & quiet, 4.5 rooms, 110m spacious, 1st fl, balconies, excellent directions, needs renovation, easily becomes 5 rms 3,500,000NIS • HASHAYAROT St. (quiet & green) 4 rooms, 2nd fl, bright & quiet, new kitchen, balconies, immediate 1,850,000NIS • NEW ON MARKET Adjacent to the President house! 4 rms, spacious, bright, comfortable, good directions, high ceilings, sukkah balcony, option for elevator, view - 2,950,000NIS • TALBIYEH! In front of the Inbal Hotel, 3-rm apt, spacious, fully furnished, view all of Old City, full of light and sun, in excellent condition, immediate, long term. 6500NIS • Lots of Character! KATAMON (Yordei Hasira) 3.5 rooms, exit to roof, bright and quiet, immediate. long-term 5600NIS Yitzchak Kowalsky 054-766-0338 [email protected] page 53 e Chayei Sara 5775 RE/MAX Vision "Our vision... fulfilling your dream" Buying or selling? • Free Market analysis Our professional team of 26 agents are ready to help you! (02) 673-1661 • www.remax-capital.com Exclusive listings with RE/MAX Vision... Jerusalem Heights Luxurious Vacation Apartment, renovated 2 room, a/c and heating. Swimming pool, jacuzzi, sauna, exercise room, 24 hour Security/doorman, 3 Shab. elevators, only1,470,000NIS Raphi Bloch 054-200-7250 Susan Lerner 052-690-5645 Immediate! Great investment opportunity in Katamon - 2 apartments: 3 and 4 room (can be combined), recently improved, each with 2 terraces with spectacular view, well lit. Great location- close to Malcha and Begin Highway. 1,700,000NIS • Effie King 050-529-0775 German Colony - Yehoshua Bin Nun Beautifully renovated 2 level penthouse, 6 rooms - 220 m with 2 Succah balconies. Private parking. Situated in a small building with only 3 properties. Breathtaking views. Close to Emek Refaim with its coffee shops, public transport and shuls. Susan Lerner: 052-690-5645 Rental on Hapalmach in Old Katamon - 140m, 1st floor (with 3 steps), 2 balconies, totally renovated, central a/c, (access to private parking), Available immediately! Asking Price 10,900NIS, Felicia Mizrahi 054-240-4082 Nachlaot, special , historic ground floor duplex on quiet , pastoral street in Mazkeret Moshe neighborhood, Original 1870 Ottoman living room with domed arches , 3 bedrooms, 2.5 bathrooms, under floor heating, storage. Best location in Nachlaot . Close to shuk, playgrounds, city center. Perfect for family or as an investment. 2,700,000 NIS Orna Even Parker 054-621-6069 Top of Armon Hanatziv 1. Large 4 rms, with spectacular view, great location, only 1,250,000NIS 2. Spacious 5 rms, private entrance, large sukkah balcony, option to make rental unit, private storage, only 1,750,000NIS 3. Amazing spacious 5-rm duplex, completely renovated, 4 amazing balconies with breathtaking views, private entrance, only 2,200,000NIS Lynn Lifshitz 050-688-3988 Amazing Historic Rechavia Garden Home- all ground floor apt, 154m, (140m, in Tabu) ground floor of two, 3 private entrances, A/C., 7 rooms, 5 baths, partly renovated, 200m garden, storage, service balcony, handicap accessible, 4 air flow directions, divided into 2 apartments, smaller apartment - 3 rooms currently rented for 4500NIS 6,500,000 NIS • Rutly Peli 052-837-3894 OU Israel Center TT 1111 Unique property in Old Arnona Beitar Street, 100m, 3 spacious rooms, 1st floor, in very good condition, storage, private parking • 2,580,000nis Orli Raz- 050-724-3735 page 54 e Chayei Sara 5775 Old Katamon • Wonderful Investment opportunity on garden apartment on Halamed Hey St., Cute apartment with garden (in use), 3.5 rooms with pvt entrance on ground level. Felicia Mizrachi 054-240-4082 Large family garden Home in the Heart of Old Katamon 6 spacious bedrooms, large eat in kitchen, pastoral sukkah garden (72m in tabu) off dining room, elevator bldg, underground parking garage, handicap accessible, priced to sell Felicia 054-240-4082 B'nei Betera in San Simon - Spacious, 100m, well lit, 4 room / 2 full bath apartment, first floor near Old katamon, enclosed balcony (option for succa), close to shopping, parks, transportation, Shuls, 10 min to shteiblach and park San Simon. Registered parking in Tabu 2,380,000NIS • Eli Clevs 052-549-7391 French Hill Rooftop apartment! (amazing investment) 3 room, elevator, amazing views, service balcony, sunny, great air flow, 62m. Close to the light rail ,buses and shopping center, two minutes from intercity highways, walk to Hebrew University and Hadassah. Easily rentable! ONLY - 1,190,000 NIS Nelly 052-476-4356 In Arnona Hatzeira - Primo Levy St. community building designed for modern religious age 55+ with in-house synagogue. 3-room, beautiful, well lit, high standard building and maintenance, 2 shabbat elevators, underground parking, balcony. 1,780,000NIS • Orli Raz 050-724-3735 A Pearl in The French Hill! 143m, spacious 5 room terraced home, private entrance, renovated Jacuzzi bathroom, 2 sukka balconies ,small garden overlooking Judean Hills, renovated kitchen, lots of sunlight, (South East) private storage Close to the light rail, public transportation, shopping center • 2,280,000NIS Nelly: 052-476-4356 Mishkenot Ha'uma near Nachla'ot - New Construction, ground floor apartment 1.5 bedrooms (88m), huge living room with 4 meter ceilings, balcony, handicapped access, private parking,storage. High standard, smart home system, underfloor heating and central a/c 5 minute walk to Nachlaot, the shuk, Romema, 10 min to Shaarei Hesed 2,180,000NIS • Orna Even Parker 054-6216069 Better Health for a Better Life - Let me help Gentle Chiropractic Care with Dr. Karen Goldsmith - Licensed & Boarded 18 years of experience helping people with Headaches, Backaches, Carpal Tunnel, Pregnancy Issues, Chronic Pain, & much more On Emek Refaim and in GEULA, Jerusalem 052-848-6902 OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 56 e Chayei Sara 5775 Eiferman Properties Ltd Real Estate & Investment Agency When we search for interesting gimatriya matches, we sometimes succeed in finding something that we can say something about... but more often, the search does not turn up sanything exciting. And sometimes - like now - we find something that's nice and present it to you to decide what to say about it... or not. Let us know if you came up with something meaningful. Here are the raw materials: d¨pW¨ mix¬¦U§ r¤ e§ d²¨pW¨ d¬¨`n¥ dx½¨U¨ i´¥Ig© ÆEid«¦§ Ie© :dx«¨U¨ i¬¥Ig© ip¥ W§ mi®p¦ W¨ ra´¤ © We§ First pasuk in the sedra - we're sure you recognized it right away. Look what it matches: :'d i¦p`£ E`®¨ xiY¦ i¦WC¨w§ nE ¦ ExŸn½ W§ Y¦ i´©zŸzA§ WÎz © `¤ This pasuk occurs twice. Go for it. Say something nice about the summary of Sara's life matching the pasuk that touches upon the Sanctity of Time and Space. Creative Writing Dr. June Leavitt is offering an 8-week course on Wednesdays 6:30-8:00pm at the Israel Center. For more information see www.juneleavitt.com or write [email protected] or call (02) 996-3048 PRESALE: Exclusive to Eiferman clients In Arnona - 20 apartments of 2, 3 & 4 bedrooms PRICES start at 1,650,000NIS VILLAS, BUILDINGS & LOTS OLD KATAMON Free standing 200m villa on a 640m lot with building rights to 600m. Currently 2 apts. Located close to the 'Sheiblich' and Yakar shuls GERMAN COLONY Near Emek Refaim, a lot with an existing building to build a total of 476m. $1,700,000 PROPERTIES WOLFSON: Beautiful, spacious 4 bedrooms, 3 bathrooms. View, Shabbat Elevator REHAVIA 86m, 2-bedroom Garden Apartment, 4 exposures,2,750,000NIS OLD KATAMON Garden Apt, 90m, 2 Bedrooms, private entrance, private 120m Garden. $850,000 MEKOR CHAIM Lovely, 2-bedroom apartment with parking and storage room. Near Old Katamon, Baka, and Emek Refaim. 1,595,000NIS HAR NOF Penthouses and Beautiful 9-bedroom Villa RENTALS: RECHAVIA - 3 bedrooms, un/furnished, immediate OLD KATAMON Duplex, 4 bedrooms, pvt. entrance & parking, Succah INVESTMENTS - COMMERCIAL/ RESIDENTIAL In major coastal cities and new towns, opportunities to invest in new high-tech and residential areas. Prices start at NIS 320,000! To see a much larger selections of properties, please check out our website www.eifermanrealty.com Still didn’t find what you want? Call or send an email We are here to help you with your search THINKING OF SELLING? FREE APPRAISAL EIFERMAN PROPERTIES (02) 651-4030 Located Inbal Hotel Lobby with Boubli Agency Our pre-Chanuka Shabbat Parshat Vayeishev • December 12-13 People are already signing up for it. You can too - 560-9125 Details to follow OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 57 e Chayei Sara 5775 The Avrom Silver Jerusalem College for Adults, OU Israel's Project YEDID, L'Ayla are the educational components of the Seymour J. Abrams Orthodox Union Jerusalem World Center and include the classes & lectures of the OU Israel Center Rabbi Sholom Gold, Dean • Phil Chernofsky, Educational director Mrs. Rivka Segal, Director of Yedid and L'Ayla 1111 WED Nov 12 THU Nov 13 "Regular" classes & lectures - 25å members, 30å non-mem, 5å maintenance fee for life members. Special rates for mornings with two or more shiurim: 40å members, 50å non-mem. 10å life members. No one will be turned away for inability to pay • Yearly membership 360å couple, 275å single. Life membership, call us • Programs of the Center are partially funded by the Jewish Agency for Israel and the Department of Tarbut Toranit, Misrad HaChinuch 9:00am 9:30am 9:45am 10:45am 11:00am 12:30pm 12:30pm 4:30pm 6:00pm 7:00pm 7:30pm Video shiur Drama for women - see page 56 Chayei Sara - Reuven Wolfeld no charge Rabbi Yosef Wolicki on the Parsha Tai-Chi-Kung exercise (054-547-1234) VIDEO: "RESCUE IN SCANDINAVIA" (1 hour) Shakespeare workshop (until 2:00pm) Positive Aging - Leah Abramowitz The "Old-New Land" with Gabriella Licsko Financial Workshop (580-7013) Rabbi Chaim Eisen on Parsha 9:00am 9:45am 9:45am 10:15am R' Yair Kahn on Parshat HaShavua Dr. Tova Goldfine - Fitting Fitness In • 052 420 1201 Dr. Haim Abramson NEW shiur: Rabbi Poupko's Parsha Perspectives “Avraham’s Arlington & David’s Dance” Financial Workshop (580-7013) 7:00pm Shabbat Parshat Chayei Sara - shiur at 3:00pm Sun-Thu in the Ganchrow Beis Medrash (first floor) 10:00am Su/Tu/Th - Rabbi Jeff Bienenfeld's shiur in tribute to Rabbi I. Fred Hollander l"f RCA Daf Yomi by Rotation in tribute to Rabbi Yitzchak Botwinick l"f 1:20pm Sun-Thu Mincha in the Wolinetz Family Shul 10:00am Sun-Thu Rabbi Hillel Ruvel - Gemara 5:30pm Sun-Thu Maariv in the Beit Medrash one floor up 4:30pm Su/M/W/Th OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 58 e Chayei Sara 5775 Yom Rishon • 23 Marcheshvan • SUN November 16th L'Ayla programs: 10am - Mrs. Aviva Heymann - The Parameters of Chesed 11:10am - Rabbi Yitzchak Breitowitz 12:00pm KUZARI with Rabbi Chaim Eisen 12:00pm 10å Easy Hebrew vocabulary and speaking with Haya Graus 2:00pm Rabbi Ephraim Sprecher RabbiSprecher.com 8:00pm no charge Rabbi Mordechai Machlis Thoughts of Optimism in the Book of Kohelet Rivka fell for Yitzchak - Love at first sight? Yom Sheini • 24 Marcheshvan • MON November 17th N'shei Library 10:00am to noon 9:30am Mommy & Baby Music Classes with Jackie • 054-533-9305 9:15am Starting NOW - The Book of Yechezkeil Mrs. Pearl Borow 10:30am Rabbi Zev Leff's Shiur 11:30am Fit Forever: Look & Feel your Best! 12:30pm no charge VIDEO: Mrs. Pearl Borow - "Discovering the Woman of Valor" Exercise for women of all ages • Sura Faecher 050-415-3239 2:00pm 3:00pm Programs for children ages 2-5 Jewish Women in Tanach & Beyond - Pearl Borow Mishna, Mitzvot, & more - Phil Chernofsky 3:00pm - MUSIC TIME with JACKIE 4:00pm - DRAMA with Chaya Leeder OU Israel Center TT 1111 25NIS per child per program page 59 e Chayei Sara 5775 5:20pm Pri Chadash Women's Writing Workshop Contact: Ruth Fogelman (628-7359) and Judy Caspi (054-569-0410) 6:30pm 8:00pm Emotions Anonymous 12-step program meeting weekly at the Israel Center • Call Faigy (02) 571-0632 for details Rabbi Avrum Kowalsky on Sefer Melachim Yom Sh'lishi • 25 Marcheshvan • TUE November 18th Gemach - Free Loan Society providing interest-free loans for people in financial distress (living in the J'lem area). Interviews at the Center • Bring ID Hours: 10-12 and 19-20:15 9:00am 9:15am Rabbi Aharon Adler In the Beginning - The Rav on B'reishit Mrs. Shira Smiles - Torah Tapestries - Insights into the weekly parsha Shiur is sponsored in memory of Beatrice Brezniack, Pesha Rivka Bas Henoch a"h by her daughter, Linda Marcus 10:15am Rabbi Sholom Gold on Parsha 11:30am Women's T'hilim Group for Shiduchim and Sick people OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 60 e Chayei Sara 5775 VIDEO: Gentlemen's Agreement - A film classic, considered by 12:30pm many critics and viewers to be one of the best movies ever made. Gregory Peck as a no charge Christian journalist wishing to report on anti-Semitism. He assumes the identity of a Jew in order to experience the prejudice and hatred firsthand. He is shocked and 2hrs horrified by what he discovers. Nominated for eight Academy Awards and winner of three including Best Picture. An excellent and important film. Kibbutz Galuyot Energizes the Medina: Indoctrinating the Immigrants 1:45pm Dr. Deborah Polster TUE, Nov 18th - RCA - 2:15pm, we will honor the memory of Chaverim who passed away during 2013 & 2014: Rabbi Mallen Galinsky, Rabbi Abraham Halbfinger, Rabbi Elihu Marcus, Rabbi Norman Strizower, Rabbi Stanley Wagner, Rabbi Abraham Zuroff 3:00pm - Guest Speaker: Dr. Ephraim Zuroff, Director of the Simon Weisenthal Office in Israel. Speaking on "My life as a Nazi Hunter: Successes , Failures, & Obserevations" Mincha will follow Verna Black Gartner / D'vora Zippor / Knitting plus Rabbi Yonatan Kolatch for Toldot Workshop for new couples and new parents - see page 30 Rabbi Dr. Joseph C. Klausner/Yedidyahu 3:00pm 7:00pm 7:00pm 7:00pm The Case for the ORTHODOX UNION and the CHEIF RABBINATE of Israel. NEW DAY SHIUR in Sefer MELACHIM/ Kings - Conventionalism or Conformity? & TIME In memory of Rabbanit SharonBar Chaim OBM and Dalya Lemkus HY"D 7:30/8:30pm Rabbi Yitzchak Breitowitz • Contemporary Halachic Issues The Halachic Issues dealing with Elderly Parents Rabbi Shmuel Hershler • The Book of Shmuel Bet Yom R'vi'i • 26 Marcheshvan • WED November 19th 9:00am Wednesday the Rabbi gave his Drasha Shiur by Rabbi Baruch Taub 9:30am Drama for women - see page 56 9:45am Toldot with Reuven Wolfeld no charge 10:45am Rabbi Yosef Wolicki on the Parsha 12:30 to 2:00pm Shakespeare workshop OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 61 e Chayei Sara 5775 12:30pm no charge VIDEO: Rabbi Zev Leff - "The Accounting After Death" Israel Ulpan: The "Old-New Land" and country from scratch Forefathers of the State of Israel. The builders of the old-new Land. The "old" Jew and The "new" Jew in early Zionist ethos. 6:00pm Interactive lecture series with Gabriella Licsko Rabbi Chaim Eisen A Different Parsha Shiur 7:30pm Yom Chamishi • 27 Marcheshvan • WED November 20th R' Yair Kahn on Parshat HaShavua XXX Rabbi Ari Kahn (brother) resumes IY"H Nov 27th 9:00am Dr Tova Goldfine, Chiropractor and Rehabilitation Specialist Fitting Fitness In ....Movement Throughout Your Day www.chirodivine.com 052 420 1201 10:15am Dr. Haim Abramson - Midrash on Parsha 10:15am Rabbi Poupko's Parsha Perspectives The Book , the Sword & the Scythe UPCOMINGS How to become The World’s Greatest Fundraiser! The Ten Commandments of Fundraising Fundraising Seminar whether you are just getting started or want to raise more money Wednesday night, Nov 26 7pm -10:30pm (refreshments will be served) Only 300NIS Rabbi The series will be given by fundraising coach/trainer Josh Boretsky (25 years experience) Contact: 052-713-4499 Thursday, November 27th • 8:00pm (no charge) The Joy Club - Rabbi Zelig Pliskin OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 62 e Chayei Sara 5775 OU Israel Center TT 1111 page 63 e Chayei Sara 5775
© Copyright 2024