St. Stephen, Deacon & Martyr We are a Stewardship Parish Come Join Us on Ash Wednesday Services are at 7am, 3:30pm, 5pm (English) Children orientated homily at the 3:30 and 5pm Services Masses at 8am, Noon, 6:30pm (English) 7:30pm (Polish) Ashes will be distributed at all Services and Masses 6th Sunday in Ordinary Time February 15, 2015 Our Parish Mission Liturgy Schedule A Catholic community of faith striving to witness to the Gospel. Our Baptism and Confirmation calls us to bring Christ’s Love to our families, our work places and our community. Grateful for God’s gifts, we seek to nurture those gifts and to give back to the Lord by sharing our time, talent and material treasure. In all of our parish activities we seek to develop a personal relationship with the Lord who directs our lives and a vision that sees the world with the eyes of Christ and that leads to a commitment to justice. We seek a sense of unity in Christ that leads us to be an open and welcoming people and a sense of joy in being graced by the gifts of God’s Love. Monday—Saturday: 8am Mass of Anticipation: 5pm Sunday: 7am, 8:30am, 10am, 11:30am, 6:15pm; 1pm (Polish) Reconciliation: Saturdays, 8:45-9:30am St. Stephen, Deacon and Martyr Catholic Church 17500 South 84th Avenue, Tinley Park, IL 60487 708-342-2400 www.ststephentinley.com Twitter @ststephentinley Stewardship Monthly Give Central Collection Regular $11,447.00 Sharing $172.00 Building Fund $1.00 Parish Center $260.00 SVDP $673.00 Holy Mother $35.00 Christmas $100.00 Easter $100.00 Collections For 02-01-2015 Regular $15,185.00 Kids $56.11 Sharing $139.00 CJB $162.00 Christmas $85.00 Christmas-YTD $110,315.15 Electronic $5,194.50 Parish Center $20.00 Collections For 02-08-2015 Regular $25,287.00 Kids $90.31 Sharing $116.00 CJB $15.00 Good Friday $5.00 ~ O UR CHURCH ~ Parish Office 17500 South 84th Avenue Tinley Park, IL 60487 Office Hours: 8:30am-8:30pm Mon-Th; 8:30am-7pm Fri; 9am-5pm Sat Office Closed: 12:30-1pm Mon-Fri Office Phone: 708.342.2400 Office Fax 708.342.1545 Religious Ed. Phone: 708.342.1544 Website: www.ststephentinley.com email: [email protected] @ststephentinley Thank you for your continued Stewardship in support of St. Stephen. Please visit our website to find other opportunities for generosity through planned giving by remembering St. TIME, TALENT & TREASURE Stephen in your will or living trust. In addition to printing the collection, we are printing the Sunday and Holy Day collections from the previous month and for the fiscal year to date as well as budgeted amount needed for us to meet both our expenses & mortgage payments. Mortgage payments are $41,500 per month (interest and principal). The Archdiocese loaned us the money to start our parish and build our facilities on the basis of a commitment to Stewardship by the parish. We thank everyone whose support enables us to do the work of our parish. Actual Budget Last Month January Year-to-Date July 1—January 31 $121,569 $121,500 $871,308 $850,600 BAPTISMS are celebrated every Sunday at 3pm in English and 1pm in Polish. Please contact Deacon Ken in the parish office for the necessary preparations. SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION is available on Saturdays, from 8:45—9:30am in the church or by appointment. FUNERALS can be arranged with the parish office. MARRIAGES St. Stephen Parish welcomes the celebration of the weddings of both registered parishioners and the children of registered parishioners. Information is available from one of the priests or deacons. PASTORAL CARE OF THE SICK can be arranged for the sick, elderly and handicapped desiring Communion by calling the parish office. BULLETIN ARTICLE DEADLINE Articles are to be in the parish office noon on Friday for the following week’s bulletin. E-mail: [email protected] REGISTRATION OF NEW PARISHIONERS is held on the 2nd & 4th Sundays every month after 10am Mass. New parishioners unable to register at Sunday registration, may register at the parish office on Mondays at 2pm, Tuesdays at 11am, Wednesdays at 8:30am or Thursdays at 6:45pm. Please phone 708.342.2400 to make an appointment. We warmly welcome new parishioners and cordially invite you to join us on our life-long journey to the Lord. ~ O UR STAFF ~ ~ O UR Rev. James Finno, Pastor Rev. Grzegorz Warmuz, Associate Pastor William Engler, Deacon Chuck McFarland, Deacon William Schultz, Deacon Joseph Stalcup, Deacon Pete Van Merkestyn, Deacon Kenneth Zawadzki, Deacon Karen Opyd, Administrative Assistant to Pastor Mary Jeanne Pazin, Director of Religious Education Leslie Krauledis, Assoc. Director of Religious EducationTammy Burns, Admin. Assistant for Religious Education Mark Gorka, Music Minister Karen Dillon, Youth Minister Dave Prete, Maintenance Director SCHOOL Cardinal Joseph Bernardin Catholic School 9300 167th Street Orland Hills, IL 60487 Phone 708.403.6525 Fax 708.403.8621 Ms. Mary Iannucilli, Principal ~ From Our Pastor Dear People of St. Stephen, “Return to me with your whole heart, says the Lord.” This line from the first reading of the Ash Wednesday liturgy expresses the spirit of Lent. Lent is a season of renewal. The Lord’s call in Lent is meant for each of us, no matter where we are on our faith journey. Whether our need is to renew a faith that has grown dormant in our lives or simply to deepen our faith, Lent calls us to renew and strengthen our relationship with Christ. Through the traditional Lenten activities of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving, our church calls us to deepen our awareness of the presence of Christ in our lives and to grow as the Lord’s disciples. Our parish Lenten theme this year – Lord Jesus, walk with us in our suffering and transform our lives – reminds us that Christ walks with us at every stage of our lives and especially in our times of suffering. The Cross of Jesus is the Lord’s ultimate expression of compassion for us. Jesus shares even our suffering and dying and also leads us to new life by giving us to share in His resurrection. In our struggles, we are joined to Christ’s sufferings and find hope and strength in His promise of life. This Lent we invite our parishioners to write a suffering that they or others are bearing on one of the paper crosses on the tables in the narthex – a suffering that the person wants to pray for and wants our community to pray for during Lent. We will place the crosses on wooden crosses at the back of the sanctuary, underneath the large crucifix. The symbols remind us that what is on the crosses is the passion of Jesus in our present world and remind us that we are not alone as we deal with difficult times in our lives. As a community of prayer during Lent, we join in praying for all those whose sufferings and struggles are represented on our crosses. Renewing our relationship with Christ during Lent also opens us to the healing, merciful love that Jesus brings to us. This Lent, on Friday, February 27, and Saturday, February 28, our Archdiocese is joining together in a special effort to make the merciful love of Christ available through the Sacrament of Reconciliation. All our parishes will be offering special times for the sacrament between noon on Friday the 27th and noon on Saturday the 28th. Twenty-four parishes in all parts of the Archdiocese will be open for 24 hours to offer the sacrament during that time. The closest parish to us that will offer the sacrament for 24 straight hours is St. Christina in Chicago. We will offer expanded hours for the sacrament on those days – from 3:30 to 4:30pm and from 5:30 to 6:30pm on Friday the 27th and from 8:45 to 9:45am on Saturday the 28th. More information on this effort is elsewhere in the bulletin. As you prepare for Lent, I encourage you to keep two principles in mind. First, growth happens when we plan. Second, growth results from changing our habits. The Church proposes three traditional activities for our spiritual growth during Lent: prayer, fasting, and almsgiving. Prayer is that time we give to building our relationship with the Lord. Taking some special time to strengthen our relationship with Christ through prayer and reflection is, for me, the key to Lenten spiritual growth. A number of suggestions for Lenten prayer and reflection are elsewhere in the bulletin. Fasting is giving up something to acknowledge that Jesus is Lord and that nothing is more important than God. Fasting is meant to discipline us to focus our values. We give up something to affirm that God is at the center of our lives. Almsgiving – sharing our blessings – recognizes that all we have is God’s gift to us and that we want to use our gifts as the Lord would want us to use them. Almsgiving is a concrete expression of turning away from selfishness and turning toward self-giving. Suggestions for Lenten fasting and almsgiving are elsewhere in the bulletin. The goal of all our Lenten activities is to renew our relationship with Christ and to grow in living the lifestyle of the followers of Jesus. Lent is a more focused time for spiritual growth. For Lent to have a lasting impact on our lives, it needs to be a time when we build habits of prayer and Christian living that carry over into our lives after the season ends. Giving up something or doing something for Lent is an excellent discipline for spiritual growth. But keeping in mind the goal of all our Lenten activities – our growth as Christians – will lead to lasting spiritual growth. One good approach to Lent is to identify a habit that you would like to develop, a habit that would enhance your spiritual life, and then take a small step or two during Lent to develop that habit. Growth occurs in small steps and comes about when habits change. In these few days before Ash Wednesday, I invite you to make a plan for your observance of Lent and then commit yourself to follow that plan and to seek to grow as a disciple of Jesus during this special season. May God bless you and your loved ones. Fr. Jay Spiritual Life Lent “Growing as Christ’s Disciples” Some ideas for growing in your Spiritual Life “The Little Black Book” Lent begins on Ash Wednesday, February 18th. Once again we have the Little Black Books available. This book will help us to walk through the 50 days of Lent by reading the scriptures along with explanations, reflections, quotes and other information. All Catholics are asked to devote more time to prayer during Lent and the Little Black Book can be used daily to help us spend time with the Lord. Don’t Give Up Chocolate This Lent… instead, Matthew Kelly says have your best Lent ever. He invites us to join him on a transforming journey this Lent through his BestLentEver email program. When you sign up for this program, Matthew Kelly will each day email you simple yet powerful messages that explores the genius of Catholicism and will inspire you to become “the best version of yourself.” Lent is not just about giving up things. Lent is about doing something. Kelly’s the BestLentEver email program is simple and free. Our commitment to the spiritual growth is all that is required. To learn more about this program or to sign up for it, go to BestLentEver.com. “The Little Black Book” is available in the narthex. Please take one and use it to pray daily during Lent. A donation of $1.00 is requested to cover the cost of “The Little Black Book” which is based on the writings of Bishop Ken Untener of the Diocese of Saginaw, Michigan. The Gift of the Kingdom Kingdom Retreat 2015 Saturday, March 21 and Sunday, March 22 The Kingdom Retreat is a great way for the adults of our community to renew and strengthen their relationship with God. It also allows you to reflect on your life priorities. You can get to know some fellow St. Stephen members. This retreat gives you time to pray, worship and participate in group activities. The registration fee is $10. There is no set cost for the retreat, but a free-will donation will be asked at the end of the retreat. There are sign up forms in the narthex and in the parish office. Please return the sign up form to the parish office and mark your envelope “Kingdom Retreat”. Over the years the Kingdom Retreat has been a renewing weekend for many parishioners of all ages. It is a special time to reflect, pray and spend time with the Lord. If you have any questions about the Kingdom retreat, please call Fr. Jay or Karen Opyd in the parish office. You arrive at 7:45am on Saturday; the retreat ends mid-afternoon on Sunday. This is not an overnight retreat. Everyone goes home Saturday evening and returns on Sunday morning at 7:30am. Mass is celebrated on Sunday at 1pm with a family dinner following. The Eucharist is the center of our lives as Catholics. Understanding the Eucharist and receiving the strength of the Eucharist is a foundation for witnessing to our faith and living it out in these challenging times. The book “Bread of Life” by Fr. Louis J. Cameli, a priest of the Archdiocese of Chicago, has been chosen for our next book discussion. Fr. Cameli explores the meaning of the Eucharist in modern day life and helps readers to see the Eucharist from a contemporary and pastoral perspective. The book will be on sale in the narthex the weekend of February 7th and 8th for $12. Small group sharing of the questions at the back of each chapter will be held on Thursday evenings at 7pm beginning February 19th and Saturday mornings at 8:45am beginning February 21st. If you would like to start a small group in your own home please contact Barbara Black at [email protected] or 708.466.9962. We look forward to having you join us. We receive the Body of Christ, We are the Body of Christ, We are becoming the Body of Christ. Spiritual Life Some Suggestions for Lent Embrace the Disciplines of Lent Prayer: Share in one of the spiritual renew programs on the opposite page Read Scripture Daily. Pray the Rosary, individually or as a family. Attend Daily Mass...8am, Monday thru Saturday; also, at 7pm on Thursday (English); 8:15pm Friday (Polish). Attend the Stations of the Cross...8:45am every Tuesday in the Daily Chapel and 6:30pm every Friday in Church (English); 7:30pm every Friday in Church (Polish). Fasting: Fast one day a week according to the traditional Catholic Fasting day. Eat one full meal and two smaller meals, enough to overcome some sin. Perhaps fast one day a week for peace, an end to violence in our society and for the safe return home of all the men and women in our armed forces. Give up something you enjoy throughout Lent. Fast from candy or sweets or wine or whatever you choose. Perhaps do this as a family. What you save by fasting could be given to the needy, perhaps to our St. Vincent DePaul Society or to the “Rice Bowl” program to feed the hungry throughout the world. Try to fast from some bad habit that detracts from God’s presence among us; for example, fast from putdowns of others or from bad language. Perhaps fast on Friday and join us for the Stations of the Cross in the evening. Almsgiving: Try to give of yourself in someway each day to someone who is need. This could be by donating to a charity or by taking time to assist someone with a word of encouragement or by helping with a task. Give up a particular food, e.g., dessert, and donate perhaps to our St. Vincent DePaul Society or to the “Rice Bowl” program or to another group that assists the needy. Try to do an act of kindness each day for someone in your family or someone close to you. Almsgiving (continued): Parish Service Trip to “Feed my Starving Children Did you know that over 6,200 children die each day from starvation? We will be hand-packing meals to send to malnourished children in 70 countries around the world. Adults and teens are welcome to sign up. Children 6 and up can come with a parent. You will carpool in groups to the Feed My Starving children locations. Departure from St. Stephen is approximately 90 minutes prior to the event: Monday, March 2, 2:30-4:30pm at the Aurora location (District 210, Kirby District 140, Summit Hill 161 have no school that day). Friday, March 6, 12-2pm at the Schaumburg location (Andrew HS has no school that day). You must sign up no later than February 22 with Karen Dillon our Youth Minister at 708-342-2400 ext. 149 or [email protected]. Those who cannot attend but who want to support the project can donate funds. Checks should be made payable to FMSC and can be dropped off at the parish office to Karen Dillon’s attention. Credit card payments can be made by filling out a form in the parish office. $33 feeds 5 children for a month! $180 feeds 1 child for a year! MATTHEW KELLY Discussion on “The Four Signs of a Dynamic Catholic” today at 4:30pm in the Large Meeting Room. Light supper at 4:30pm...discussion will end in enough time to attend the 6:15pm Mass. Please call the parish office if you will be attending. Living every day with PASSION AND PURPOSE Are you thriving or just surviving? Are you ready for more energy? A deeper sense of purpose? More joy? A clearer understanding of God’s plan for your life? Join us for one of our Passion and Purpose Live events. It’s not your typical church event! It has been a life-changing event for tens of thousands of people. Living Every Day with Passion and Purpose Live is presented by internationally acclaimed speaker and author Matthew Kelly and the incredibly talented musician Eliot Morris. Matthew Kelly’s presentation will be at St. Stephen Church on Saturday, May 2, 2015, at 7pm. Tickets are $39. Make checks payable to “Dynamic Catholic.” All proceeds go to support the work of Dynamic Catholic. Tickets are available in the parish office. Spiritual Life Lenten Calendar 2015 Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday Be merciful, O Lord. As I am reconciled and return to the Lord with a sincere and willing heart, let me accept His mercy and forgiveness, allow Him to renew His Spirit in me, and humbly use His grace to reach out to others. February 18 February 19 February 20 February 21 Ash Wednesday Reflection For the Day Be merciful, O Lord. Open your heart to Jesus' teachings during Lent. Fast today. Use the Little Attend a Mass or Black Book prayer service to of Lenten receive ashes. reflections. Suggested Activity Festival of Forgiveness Pope Francis has described his vision of the church as a field hospital in the middle of a terribly wounded world. The Church herself is populated by wounded and sinful members, but by God’s grace she still serves as an instrument of healing and forgiving mercy. During Lent 2015, the Church in the Archdiocese of Chicago wants to bring the medicine of mercy not only to the Catholic faithful but also to anyone who stands in need of healing and forgiveness. From noon Friday, February 27 to noon Saturday, February 28, the Church in Chicago will offer special opportunities for the celebration of the Sacrament of Penance and for prayers of healing. The Catholic Faithful, especially those who have been away from the sacraments, are urgently invited to come and share in God’s mercy. That second weekend of Lent, Paul’s letter to the Romans will be read at every Mass. And we, the Church, will proclaim and embrace his words: “If God is for us, who can be against us?” (Romans 8:11) The Sacrament of Reconciliation will be offered here at St. Stephen from 3:30 to 4:30pm and from 5:30 to 6:30pm on Friday the 27th and from 8:45 to 9:45am on Saturday the 28th. The closest parish offering the Sacrament for 24 hours is St. Christina at 11005 South Homan Avenue in Chicago. Remember our loved ones who have gone before us. Attend The Stations of the Cross every Friday during Lent. Pray for the Lord's help in making the right choices in life. Visit a shut-in or someone in a nursing home. Lenten Intention Cross Lord Jesus, walk with us in our suffering and transform our lives. In our struggles we are joined to Christ in our sufferings and find hope and strength in His promise of life. We invite you to write the suffering that you or others are bearing on a paper Cross available in the narthex - the suffering that each of us wants to pray for during Lent. We invite you to place the cross in the basket marked "intentions". The crosses will be brought to the altar and placed on one of the crosses in the sanctuary to remind us that we are not alone in our suffering and are joined with the Lord who suffered for us. Tater-Dipped Eggplant ¼ cup butter or margarine 1 medium eggplant, peeled and cut into ¾ inch strips 1 egg, slightly beaten 1 teaspoon salt 1/8 teaspoon pepper 1 cup instant mashed potato flakes Oven 450 4 servings Melt butter in shallow baking dish in pre-heated oven. Combine egg, salt and pepper. Dip eggplant Into egg mixture, then potato flakes. Place in baking dish with butter. Bake for 15 to 20 minutes until tender, turning after 10 minutes. Tips: 1. Eggplant may be prepared as directed and fried in skillet over medium heat for about 10 minutes until tender and brown. 2. To reheat: Uncovered, at 375 for 5 – 7 minutes. Spiritual Life Lenten Small Groups For Adults The Gift of the Kingdom St. Stephen is having Lenten small group faith sharing! Some reflections from past participants Want to have a good Lent this year? One of our current team members, Joe Hoffman says, “Need a change? Twenty years ago, my wife Joan came back from a Kingdom Weekend and my life has never been the same since. Do you need a change of some kind? Join us on Saturday, March 21 & Sunday March 22 and experience your change. Looking forward to seeing you in the Kingdom ! Come and follow a simple format for faith sharing during the time your child/children attend religious education. This is open to all members of the parish; you do not have to have children enrolled in religious education in order to part of the small group faith sharing. All parish adults are invited! Also, if you would like to facilitate a group at one of these times, please contact the parish office at 708-342-2400. Monday, February 23, March 9, March 23 Tuesday, February 24, March 10, March 24 Wednesday, February 25, March 11, March 25 4:30-5:15pm and 6:16-7pm These groups will meet in church for one hour. Chairs will be set up on the west side of the church in the St. Jude area. A format with readings and prayers will be provided for all participants and it is FREE, no charge for materials! My personal story is that I kept putting off going to the Kingdom each year because I thought I was always too busy to give up an entire weekend. And was I ever wrong ! In 2012, at the last minute I decided it was time to attend. And that was the best decision of my life. I actually think it was the Holy Spirit who nudged me to make the decision. I was definitely spiritually renewed, Exhilarated and reawakened to Christ in my life. Another benefit was the wonderful people I met who are dear friends to this day. I want to personally invite each of you to make this the year you experience that “Kingdom Spirit”. (Barbara Black—Kingdom Weekend Lay Leader) Thank You A Thank You from PADS Ministry Thank You for Comedy Night The success of PADS Ministry to the Homeless requires many different things: volunteers who are willing to shop for supplies, volunteers who are willing to prepare the meals we serve and volunteers who are willing to serve at the shelter. The generosity of donors to fund PADS Ministry is also needed. On Super Bowl Sunday, our youth group held their annual "Souper Bowl" collection to raise funds for PADS Ministry. Thru the efforts of our teens and thru your generosity, almost $2,500 was collected. Thank you to our teen group and to those who helped fill their kettles. Also, thank you to Moms and Tots, who provided the dinner meal for our guests on Friday, February 06. Thank you to Comedy Night committee members Bill Brady, Pam Franckowiak, Sharon Grill, Nancy Jaskierski, Rick and Kay Piatchek, Toni Rafferty, and Nanette Young for all their efforts to enable us to have a very enjoyable and successful Comedy Night last Saturday. A good dinner and an evening filled with laughter warm the spirits of over 250 guests – a great break from the dreariness of winter. In addition, the event raised about $4000 each for both St. Stephen and Cardinal Bernardin School. Thanks also to all the volunteers who helped our committee members both of the preparations and at the event. We look forward to the fifth annual Comedy Night next winter. THANK YOU—To the people of St. Stephen, please accept our sincere thanks for your prayers for our grandson, Kevin Renderman. Over 4 years ago Kevin was diagnosed with a brain tumor. During this entire time he put up a great fight. He went home to Our Lord last week. Again, thank you for all your support and prayers. (Harry and Gloria Renderrman) Human Concerns Donating to St. Vincent de Paul has become easier through our new ONLINE GIVING. Go to www.ststephentinley.com and click on the ONLINE GIVING logo to the left of the screen to register and make your donation. Thank you from our St. Vincent de Paul Society. Confidentiality and Compassion are cornerstones of our SVdP ministry. Annual Friends of the Poor Benefit. Raffle and event tickets are on sale for the Society of St. Vincent de Paul Chicago’s 7th Annual Friends of the Poor® Benefit. The benefit will be held at Drury Lane in Oakbrook Terrace on Sunday, April 19. This year’s lucky raffle winner will drive off in a brand new 2015 Chrysler 200 Limited Sedan! Net proceeds from the raffle and event will be distributed evenly among our SVdP Districts in Cook and Lake counties to grow our impact on those who come to us for help. But first, we desperately need your help in order for us to meet our fundraising goal of $100,000. Please consider buying at least one raffle ticket for $25. You may never know their names, but your contribution will help provide food, assistance with electricity and heat, and much-needed clothing and shoes for families in need. And remember, you may win a new car! You can purchase raffle and event tickets right now at svdpbenefit.org. St. Stephen’s Respect Life Ministry St. Stephen’s Respect Life Ministry gathers for prayer and planning on the 3rd Thursday each month in room 125 of the parish office. The next meeting is this Thursday at 7:00pm.The Respect Life Ministry focus is upon dignity of life issues. Our goal is to make concerns known, educate our faith community on the particulars, and provide support and assistance for Catholic life concerns through prayer and action. If you have any questions please contact Deacon Bill Schultz at the parish office. Parish Life SENIORS YOUNG @ HEART The doctor said to rid yourself of that winter cabin fever, show up at our next meeting on Monday, Feb. 23rd at 10:AM. Since we had so much fun at our last Trivia Event we decided to try it again so put on your thinking cap. Refreshments are to be provided by the Board. COUNSELOR AVAILABLE Michele L. Nowak, LCPC, is available to provide counseling to individuals and couples right here at St. Stephen parish! Michele is an experienced professional counselor who has worked with all age groups and issues. She is a staff member of The Hollbrook Counseling Center of Catholic Charities. Blue Cross / Blue Shield accepted. Those without insurance are eligible for sliding scale fees based on income & number of dependents. Appointments can be made by calling (312) 655-7725. The first session is free for all who are members of St. Stephen. WOMEN’S SOCIAL CLUB Save the date of February 19, 2015, at 10:00 A.M., in Rooms 125/126. Ladies, come and find out the how man’s best friend can be of great help to all of us. Since most people like dogs, learn how service dogs and therapy dogs can benefit humanity. Please consider joining us and bring a friend or two. Military Corner Please pray for our Military men and women on a daily basis for their safe return. Capt. Anthony J. Cesaro Major Vincent Cesaro 1st Lt. Michael Chimienti Lt. Amanda Griffith Cpl. Evan Grober Capt. Michael Gryczka Sgt. Joseph Malone Capt. Christopher Mazurek Sgt. Dominic Messina Tsgt. Laura Langley Ssgt. Carl Langley PFC Matthew O'Boyle Tsgt. Stephen Vlaming LCDR Marilyn Walsh Major Thomas Walsh Youth Education and Formation TGIF TEENS, ADULTS, & KIDS 4TH GRADE AND UP WANTED TO DRESS IN COSTUME FOR GOOD FRIDAY, LIVING STATIONS OF THE CROSS PRODUCTION - no speaking required! Learn more about Jesus' sacrifice for our sins. Please text Karen Dillon 708-560-4659 for more details. Come to one of our practices on Sundays, 4:30-6:00pm to get fitted for your costume. SERVICE & RETREAT OPPORTUNITY FOR TEENS 8TH GRADE & HIGH SCHOOL Sat., 2/28 @ 9am-10:30pm - Youth Ministers Service Retreat held at St. Christina Parish. The cost is $15 donation which will go to Catholic Relief Services. Lunch & dinner provided. Bring a friend! To sign up or for more information contact For more information, please contact Youth Minister Karen Dillon. OPEN GYM WITH ST. ELIZABETH SETON on Sunday, 2/15 and 3/15 @ SETON 7:00PM (our volleyball team will also be playing there these days.) LOTS OF SERVICE OPPORTUNITIES! You must sign up in advance! Spots are limited so don't delay! Trip to Feed My Starving Children...see article under Spiritual Life. Catholic Charities Meal Program @ St. Blasé Church, Summit, IL - Wednesday, 3/11, 4:307:30pm. We will car pool with adult driver, set up, serve, and clean up dinner. Sign up by 3/1. Easter Egg Stuffing...Friday, March 20th @ 6:308:00pm in the church office. Please bring a bag or two of candy that will fit in plastic eggs. Church Easter Egg Hunt and Visit with the Easter Bunny - Saturday, 3/28 @ 11:30-2:30. ADULTS & TEENS WANTED FOR MISSION TRIP 2015 to HARLAN, KY Join us July 5-11 as we travel to one of the poorest areas of our nation. We will be working with a group from Our Lady of the Woods church on building a house and other service projects. Interested people should contact Karen Dillon as soon as possible for more information or to sign up. Places are limited to 25 persons, so don't delay. Pastoral Ministries Contact Deacon Ken Zawadzki Pastoral Ministry Director 708-342-2400, Ext. 146 [email protected] Other Happenings An Invitation from PADS St. Lawrence O'Toole and St. Stephen PADS Ministries invite all who have supported PADS Ministry and their families to a Spaghetti Dinner celebrating 25 Years of PADS Ministry at St. Lawrence O'Toole Church. This invitation is extended to all who have ever given of their time, talent or treasure to benefit PADS Ministry. This includes all who have volunteered as cooks, all who have served as on site volunteers, all who have donated financially to PADS Ministry and all who have benefited PADS in any other way. The dinner will be held at 6:30 PM on Saturday, March 07 and will take place at St. Lawrence O'Toole Hall 4101 St. Lawrence Avenue Matteson. (The hall is their church basement, which is also the site of PADS.) RSVP to Deacon Chuck McFarland at Cell 630 564 4468. Email [email protected]. Andrew High School Andrew Music Parents 28th Annual Arts & Crafts Show at Victor J. Andrew High School located at 9001 S. 171st St. Tinley Park on Sat. 2/28 and Sun. 3/1 from 9am-4pm. Admission is $3 and Children under 13 are free. The Parish and RE Offices are closed February 16 for Presidents’ Day! Stewardship Stewardship Renewal Weekend Our Stewardship Renewal Celebration will take place on February 14th and 15th. We will celebrate our Stewardship at all of the weekend Masses by inviting all parishioners to take part in our Winter Ministry Fair. Following every Mass we will have a ministry sign-up. Our parishioners will have the opportunity to ask questions about our ministries and organizations and then join them if they wish. At tables in the narthex, we will have ministry representatives, table displays and booklets that explain what each ministry does. During this renewal weekend we can reflect on the gifts God has given us and how we can share them with our church, our families and our community. Let us all pray that we will make Stewardship a way of life acknowledging that God is the source of all we have and all we are. By generously sharing our time, talent and treasure we will be responding to God’s call of sharing our gifts with those around us. Stewardship Sign-Up Weekends provide a great opportunity for us to get to meet new members, share our faith with others and be good stewards for the Lord. Our parish ministries need you to share your gifts and enhance their work. Won’t you consider joining a ministry and becoming more involved in our parish community? “Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us exercise them.” Romans 12:6 You Are Invited! God has given each of us many gifts and asks us to share them with those around us. This weekend members of many of our parish ministries are in the narthex inviting our parishioners to share some of their time and talent serving God’s people in our parish ministries. Think about what you like to do, what you are good at and match those talents with an appropriate ministry. You are invited to share your time and talent! This is a great way to show love and care for God’s people. My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. John 15:12. Parish Center METAL RE-CYCLING Next weekend February 21 & 22, will be our monthly recycling drive on our winter hours February 21th from 4:30pm to 6:15 pm and Sunday February 22nd from 9am to 12:30pm. Our drives are on the third weekend of each month. Please place empty metal cans into sealed plastic garbage bags. The donations can be dropped off by the truck or van located by the garages in the back of the parking lot. An attendant will be available to assist you. Thank you for your generous recycling donations. To date we have collected over $5,000 toward the down payment on the parish center. If your having a party, (remember Super Bowl) family gatherings house cleaning, moving or remodeling or just getting rid of things you no longer use, please bring them to our collection. If you have items that are too large to bring (i.e. washing machines, dryers, stoves, etc.), please contact: Andy Deluca (708-606-3755) or Bill Beavan at (708-403-2073) to arrange for pickup. The 2015 Annual Catholic Appeal “Entrusted with Responsibility” Today we will have another opportunity to respond to the Annual Catholic Appeal. The Annual Catholic Appeal supports many important works of our Church, including support for parishes, religious education programs, and schools in economically challenged communities; recruitment, education, and formation for deacons and lay ministers as well as ongoing formation for priests; Catholic Relief Services that provides aid for the poor in foreign lands, especially in those places hit by natural disasters; and support for ministries that promote the dignity of each human life and provide comfort, care, and counseling to people in need. As you consider your support for the work of our Church done through people’s generosity to the Annual Catholic Appeal, please reflect on God’s gifts to you and on the responsibility we all have that comes with these gifts. Your gifts to our parish and to the wider Church ministries should be given in gratitude for the continuing gifts that God gives you. Each gift is important and makes a difference to the important work of our Church. Gifts to the Annual Catholic Appeal can be given over a period of five months. When our parish reaches our goal of $68,147 in donations to the Appeal, 100% of the additional funds will be returned to us for our parish’s needs. If you received your Catholic Appeal form in the mail, you can bring it to Mass or mail it back if you haven’t done so. Polish Ministry Informacje Dotyczące Duszpasterstwa w Parafii Sw. Śzczepana W ciago calego roku Msza Św. w niedziele w języku polskim jest o godz. 1PM -Pierwszy piątek miesiąca: Spowiedz of 7-8pm Msza o 8pm -Pierwsza sobota miesiąca: od godz. 7pm-9:30pm -Spowiedz w kazdą sobote of godz. 8:45-9:30am -Po bliższe imformajce proszę dzwonić do biura parafialnego pod numer 1(708) 342- 2400 wew 137 Nie być odsuniętym Ciężko nam w życiu zapracować na akceptację. A przecież chcemy być czy to w danej grupie, czy to wśród tych, którzy przynajmniej tak samo myślą. Co stoi na przeszkodzie? Dzisiejsze pierwsze czytanie traktuje o chorobie, jaką jest trąd. Wszyscy chorzy musieli bezwzględnie przestrzegać przepisów określających, co mają robić. „Trędowaty, który podlega tej chorobie, będzie miał rozerwane szaty, włosy w nieładzie, brodę zasłoniętą i będzie wołać: "Nieczysty, nieczysty!" (Kpł 13,45). A zatem byli izolowani od reszty społeczeństwa. Mogłoby się wydawać, że to już zamierzchła przeszłość. A jednak nie. W dzisiejszych czasach coraz częściej mamy do czynienia z inną odmianą tej choroby: z trądem społecznym. Jest to choroba bezobjawowa, lecz dotkliwa dla porażonych. Chorzy, tak jak w przypadku prawdziwych trędowatych, zostają izolowani od reszty, a dodatkowo są traktowani jako zło niechciane, niepotrzebne i zbyteczne. Mimo, że mają czasami do przekazania wiele dobrych wiadomości, rad czy informacji, to nie widzi się ich, nie czyta, depcze się ich godność, a nawet zabija psychicznymi sztyletami. Ci, którzy „chorują”, w większości są ludźmi wrażliwymi, bogatymi wewnętrznie, ale dla innych niemodnymi, wręcz dewotami, są skazani na niezrozumienie, na wyśmiewanie. Izolowani, w dalszym ciągu tworzą, myślą, pracują (np. wolontariat), pragną być pomocni i potrzebni. I za to właśnie są wyśmiewani. Dlatego też słuchając czytań i Ewangelii, oczyma wyobraźni rozejrzyjmy się wokół siebie. Czy obok, niedaleko, są tacy, którzy przez nas lub przez grupę zostali odsunięci jak trędowaci? A może nam nie odpowiada to, że są inni? Jako chrześcijanie mamy miłować się wzajemnie, a to oznacza znalezienie zrozumienia dla tych, których nazywamy odmieńcami. Święty Paweł w swym liście do Koryntian, mówi: „Nie bądźcie zgorszeniem ani dla Żydów, ani dla Greków, ani dla Kościoła Bożego.” (1 Kor 10,32). Ale my możemy to zawołanie odczytać jako wezwanie do akceptacji ludzi, których z różnych powodów odrzucamy. Chrystus doskonale rozumiał dolegliwości chorobowe, jak również znał status odrzuconego, nierozumianego, bowiem sam niejednokrotnie tego doświadczał. Ale jako Syn Boży mógł pomóc potrzebującym pomocy. Proszącemu o uzdrowienie okazał miłosierdzie, wypowiadając trzy słowa: «Chcę, bądź oczyszczony!». (Mk 1,41b). Wnioski? Nie odsuwajmy od siebie kogoś, kto według naszych norm jest troszeczkę inny, okażmy mu, jak Chrystus, miłosierdzie, mówiąc – Bracie, chodź z nami, bądź z nami. Jezu Chryste, pogłębiaj nieustannie naszą miłość do bliźnich, naucz nas dawać ludziom miłość tak, jak Ty dajesz swą Miłość każdemu z nas. “To Teach Who Christ Is” Report Progress on the Archdiocesan “To Teach Who Christ Is” drive as of January 31,2015 is as follows: Amount Pledged: $ 794,194 Amount Collected: $ 512,968 60% of the funds from the parish remain in the parish and are designated toward saving for a parish center. 40% of the funds go toward the educational mission of the Archdiocese, with the main focus on a scholarship fund for Catholic schools in poorer areas. Additional donations for the Parish Center: $ 73,109 Parish Calendar Sun 02-15 Narthex Stewardship Renewal after all Masses | Annual Catholic Appeal Baby Nursing #153 | Narthex...SCRIP Program 10:00 AM 4th Grade Mass Church | 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM Babysitting #158 10:00 AM Growing with God #162/163/164/165/166/167 | 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM RCIA #125 3:00 PM - 4:00 PM Baptism | 4:30 PM - 6:00 PM Book Discussion 4 Signs of a Dynamic Catholic LMR 4:30 PM - 6:00 PM Living Stations Practice Church Mon 02-16 No RE | Parish & RE Offices closed |Presidents' Day Tues 02-17 No RE | 8:45 AM Conedy Night Wrap Up #125/126 6:30 PM Catechist Mtg All Grades LMR Wed 02-18 Ash Wednesday Ash Wednesday Masses 8am, Noon, 6:30pm (English) 7:30pm (Polish); Services 7am, 3:30pm, 5pm (English) No RE | 9:30 AM - 11:30 AM Moms & Tots #158 Thurs 02-19 8:30 AM - 6:30 PM Adoration of Blessed Sac Daily Chapel with Rosary @ 8:30am 10:00 AM - 11:30 AM St. Stephen Women's Social Club #125/126 4:30 PM - 5:30 PM Children's Choir Church 6:30 PM - 7:00 PM Benediction Daily Chapel followed by Divine Mercy Prayers 7:00 PM Bread of Life #126 | 7:00 PM - 8:30 PM CJBS Dev. Comm. #125 7:00 PM Mass (English) Daily Chapel | 7:00 PM Parish Trans. All Parishes LMR #162-166 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM Praise Band Church | 7:00 PM Respect Life #154 |7:30 PM Rosary Daily Chapel Fri 02-20 8:45 AM - 10:00 AM Scripture Study #126 Sat 02-21 Sun 02-22 2/22 Lector 5:30 PM - 9:00 PM Confirmation Retreat Education Wing, Church, Narthex 6:30 PM Stations of the Cross (English) Church | 7:30 PM Stations of the Cross (Polish) Church 8:15 PM Mass (Polish) Church Baby Nursing #153 | Narthex...SCRIP Program 8:30 AM Bible Scripture Study#154 | 8:45 AM Bread of Life #155 12:30 PM - 4:00 PM Confirmation Retreat Education Wing, Church, Narthex 4:30 PM - 6:15 PM Can Do Metal Collection Parking Lot Baby Nursing #153 | Narthex...SCRIP Program 7:30 AM - 1:00 PM Can Collection Parking Lot | 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM Babysitting #158 10:00 AM Children's Liturgy of the Word #154,#155,#156 |11:00 AM - 11:30 AM Parish Regis.Welcoming LMR \ #156 11:00 AM - 12:00 PM RCIA #125 | 2:00 PM - 3:00 PM Lamentations (Polish) Church 3:00 PM - 4:00 PM Baptism | 4:30 PM - 6:00 PM Living Stations Practice Church 5:00 PM Daley,Bern Burke,Bill Eucharistic Bulvan,Christine Przybylski,Dianne Jakocko,Donna Czerwinski,John Czerwinski,Joanne Vallejo,Ruben Vallejo,Judi Bibzak,Ray Bibzak,Joyce Smith,Patrick Genardo,Patricia Baste,Choleen Altar Meagher,Amanda Meagher,Katelyn Kane,Caitlin Celebrant Fr Greg Deacons Dcn Ken Greeters Mary Tafoya Joan Beck Jean Coughlin Peg Schmidt 7:00 AM 8:30 AM 10:00 AM Dressel,Allan Gorcowski,Barbara Hilbert,Mary Beth Beaudin,Greg Berchman,Cheryl Reidy,Brian Page,Bob Albee,Eamon Kapala,Joan Dressel,Judy Bogumil,Sue Lestarczyk,Mary Belling,Robert Heniff,Pat Henzl,Jim Lucas,June Heniff,Jack Henzl,Peggy Rice,Edward Lenhart,Robert Dobersztyn,Joe Rice,Connie Benkowski,Lisa Rowe,Lawrence Erzinger,Ruth Slechter,Ed Trump,Rick Anderson,Mary Kay Gorcowski,Kimberly Anderson,Shirley Deanching,Minerva Knauf,Judy Farley,Bill Meteisis,Pam Farley,Kay Orawiec,Claire Dometita,Levie Piatchek,Kay Gatto, Mike Conover,Dominic Leavy,Sera Conover,John Hughes,Danny Matkovich,Vincent Hughes,Bella Fr Jay Fr Jay Fr Greg Dcn Pete/Fr Jay Dcn Pete/Fr Jay Dcn Bill S. Jeanne Upreti Chris Losey Mary Berger Mark Losey Flo Simosky Adam Shaal Helen Klimek Erin Shaal 11:30 AM Dwyer,Suzanne Kelsey,Kevin Dillon,Karen Burke,Linda Kolloway,Rita Romano,Rose Bialas,Mary Rutkowski,Kathy Barnes,Geraldine Brady,Bette Brady,William Robison,Anne Novotny,Deborah Witry,Bernard Tesher,Sarah Tesher,Kevin Cunico,Nicholas Fr Tim Guthridge Dcn Bill S. Judy Kluchins Charlene Mueller Theresa Buckley Terri Buckley 1PM Luczak,Longin Wilk,Kazimierz Kita,Barbara Sierakowski,Maria Boblak,Andrej Kwiatkowski,S. Fr Greg Sun 2-15 Team #1 Sun 2-22 Team #2 Mass Intentions 2/15 7:00am 8:30am 10:00am 11:30am 1:00pm 6:15pm 2/16 8:00am 2/17 8:00am 2/18 8:00am 12:00pm 6:30pm 2/19 8:00am 7:00pm 2/20 8:00am 2/21 8:00am 5:00pm 2/22 7:00am 8:30am 10:00am 11:30am 1:00pm 6:15pm Sunday For the People Dorothy Grosser req.by Karen Opyd Thomas Rogan req.by The Family Stanley Mitus req.by Thomas Mitus Ellen Adams req.by Dick & Elaine Lindenmeyer Josephne Bauer req.by Pauline Cotrano Peter Aldeza req.by The Family Jim Russell req.by The Weber Family Za Dusze W. Czyscu Cierpiace Krystna Sonner req.by Ray Lipinski Michele L. Turrise req.by The Deluca Family Mario Miglio req.by The DeCicco Family Monday Virginia Grobarcik req.by Senior Young @ Hearts Ed Kern req.by Emily Johnson Tuesday Vincent Niceforo req.by Sandra Peterson Frank Wojtkowski,Jr. req.by Lottie Fornek Wednesday - Ash Wednesday Christine Brenza req.by Adult Altar Servers Thomas Corridon req.by Mike & Mary Moran Grace Gary req.by Marie Mrozowski Delphine Dermody req.by Bob Belling Kevin O'Donnell req.by Jim O'Donnell Lottie Fornek req.by Marilyn Dwyer Thursday Purgatorial Society Adolfo Sumera req.by Connie Sumera Raymond Norbot req.by The Family James Southland req.by Robert & Marge Foley Friday Donna Depeder req.by Senior Young @ Heart Michael Lynch req.by Ed & Marion Haberkorn Christine Brenza req.by Peg & Jim Kenzl Saturday Regina Janiak req.by Senior Altar Servers Edward Sprinkle req.by The Rizzo Family Dorothy Lipinski req.by Dore Josephine Bauer req.by Bob & Nancy Belling Robert Davis req.by Mom & Dad Julia Wegner req.by Ted Wegner Dennis & Walter Franckowiak req.by Pam Franckowiak & Family Int. of Robert & Margaret Hiemer 25th Wedding Anniversary Sunday For the People Lottie Fornek req.by Karen Opyd Int of Adam Sullinger Family req.by Jim & Sharon Murphy Joan Mustafa req.by The Wurster Family John & Stella Engel & Stanley Mikos req.by Tom & Gladys Mikos Ed Mulhull req.by Dick & Elaine Lindenmeyer Anthony Arvia req.by Barb, Ed & Alex Bara Doug Adams req.by Dcn Pete & Jan Van Merkestyn Za Dusze W. Czyscu Cierpiace Benedicto Deanching req.by The Deanching Family Mary O'Donnell req.by Jim O'Donnell Pray for Our Sick Albert Agresti Kristen Baldyga Julie Barth Arlene Beavan Sue Bogumel Augustina Braccolino Frank Braccolino Kathie Brosius Tammy Burns Ed Burns Matt Creen John Czerniak Ken Delorto Janice Dorff Joe Dorff John Drahos Cardinal George Caroline Grady Fran Grousnick Joe Hoffman Sylvia Koch Lillian Kurzawski Debra Lanz Ed Owen Nathan Parry Carmen Pignatiello Anna Plecki Marek Rudzki Betty Ruzich Terry Ryan Mary Lou Schoettler Nicole Siedschlag Rachel Swallow Joseph Tierney Alex Udaykee Jane Van Duch MaryBeth Vasquez Paul Wagner Linda Wasag Kelly Weiss And for all for whom our parish is asked to pray To help keep the list of names read at Mass and placed in the bulletin accurate and current, we will keep the name of a non-parishioner who is an immediate family member of our parishioner on the list at Mass for two weeks and in the bulletin for two weeks. For a parishioner, we will keep the name on the list at Mass for four weeks and in the bulletin for 60 days. We ask that an immediate family member call after 4 weeks if you wish to have the name continued to be read at Mass. Pray for Our Deceased None Weekly Readings Sun Mon Tues Wed Thur Fri Sat Lv 13:1-2. 44-46/1 Cor 10:31—11:1 Gn 4:1-15, 25/Mk 8:11-13 Gn 6:5-8; 7:1-5, 10/Mk 8:14-21 Jl 2:12-18/2 Cor 5:20—6:2 Dt 30:15-20/Lk 9:22-25 Is 58:1-9a/Mt 9:14-15 Is 58:9b-14/Lk 5:27-32 Welcome to Our Newly Baptized Brady Richard Cronin Kylie Grace Cronin Nicholas Victor Jolly Juliana Rose Lasocki Ayden Charles Osborn Cleire Marie Wydajewski AN OFFER FROM NANCY’S PIZZA Nancy’s Pizza at 171st Street and 80th Avenue (in the Family Dollar Plaza) is making an offer to St. Stephen Parishioners. On any Monday through Wednesday, present this coupon and 20% of the pre-tax amount (10% if a discount coupon is used) will be donated to the St. Stephen Parish Center Fund. You can enjoy a pizza and support our parish. Nancy’s Pizza’s number is 708-614-6100. Nancy’s Pizza and St. Stephen Pizza Coupon 20% of the pre-tax amount (10% if a discount coupon is used) to be donated to the St. Stephen Parish Center Fund on Mondays, Tuesdays and Wednesdays! Phone:_______________________________________ E a r n $$$$ f or S t. S te p h e n ’s Pa r i s h! !! Have lunch or dinner at Gatto's on the 2 or 4 Wednesday of the month and help in raising funds for St. Stephen’s parish. The parish will receive 15% of the before tax cost of your meal. Please present this coupon to your server or ask your server to write St. Stephen's Men's Club on your bill. This applies to Dine-in or Carryout!! nd th Gatto’s Restaurant & Bar Present this coupon to your server St. Stephen’s Men’s Club Dine-In or Carryout 2nd & 4th Wednesdays of the month 15% Donation (before Tax) AN OFFER FROM tony’s villa rosa PIZZA & catering Tony’s Villa Rosa Pizza & Catering at 7717 St. Francis Road is making an offer to St. Stephen Parishioners. Present this coupon and 15% of the pre-tax amount (on pick-up or delivery) of pizzas and catering, will be donated to the St. Stephen Parish Center Fund. You can enjoy delicious Italian food and support our parish at the same time. Tony’s Villa Rosa Pizza & Catering’s number is 815-464-6700 or you can go to their website at www.villarosacatering.com. They will deliver up to 159th Street. Tony’s Villa Rosa Pizza & Catering and St. Stephen Coupon 15% of the pre-tax amount (on pick-up or delivery) of pizzas and catering will be donated to the St. Stephen Parish Center Phone:_______________________________________
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